I need to make something clear about the power
of saying "NO" to a woman and what this has
to do with how to attract a quality girlfriend.
We all know that YES is a great word, it's
a positive thing, and we should be positive, etc.
However, in a world that kisses up to the
superficial, and in a world that kisses up to
beautiful women JUST because they are
beautiful, it's crucial to understand that
saying NO is not only important for your
own self-respect, but it's also an integral
part of attraction.
HOWEVER, this has nothing to do with being
a hard-ass or being "hard to get" or playing
games like the dating gurus and pick up artists
preach with acting arrogant and giving subtle
back-handed compliments that are disguised
as jokes but really are subtle insults designed
to lower a woman's self-esteem.
In fact, the ONLY way that saying NO works,
is when you are actually DEFENDING and saying
YES to your MORALS AND VALUES.
So you must say NO to a woman when she
is going against your moral code or if you
sense that your dignity is not being respected,
but this has NOTHING to do with the
"I'm playing hard to get" game.
And so it's kind of vomit-inducing to hear
pick up artist and typical dating gurus give
advice to men telling them to say NO to
women, when it has no counterbalancing
force of what actual GOOD things are
being defended and being said YES to.
It's just another 'TRICK' style mentality
designed to get "all the penthouse babes"
which of course is 100% superficial based,
and of course is inconsistent with real
confidence, as it's not GENUINELY
flowing from one's real beliefs about
what they say "YES" vs "NO" to,
it's still "playing the game" and a
quality woman who is truly faithful
and beautiful both on the outside and
in and who is intelligent and looking
for a real man for her long term future,
she will SEE THROUGH THE GAMES
IN AN INSTANT and also be REPULSED
To get a quality girlfriend the REAL way,
the ONLY way that works, maybe it makes
sense to go to someone who focuses on
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