The FUTURE is often the ONLY place
to determine if something is true or not,
and this includes pick up artist style
advice on how to attract women
and especially when it comes to
how to get a quality girlfriend.
The great thing is that what was once
the FUTURE is now the PRESENT,
and we can see whether the pick up artist
stuff works to get a quality girlfriend or not.
The "future" that was talked about years ago
is now HERE.
One of the ways people sometimes
get fooled into believing things is
with a concept known as “social proof”.
Social proof is a concept, that states if a person
knows that OTHER people like something, then
he too will more likely feel that this thing is desirable,
based simply on the fact that others like it.
Maybe you've already heard of the phrase:
"Fifty million French men can't be wrong."
The same concept takes various forms, so for
example it could just be ONE person exuding
social proof on something, if that person is
deemed desirable or important.
This is why you see a lot of celebrity endorsements
for everything from soft drinks to where to go for college.
And it doesn't have to be a THING, it can be
a PERSON that people like, or that someone
important likes, and this now makes that
PERSON seem more desirable.
On one hand, this means for example that
if you walked into a room with two women
who were drop-dead gorgeous, and they
seemed really interested in you, it would
increase your attractiveness to all the
OTHER women in the room.
The two women on your arms are providing
you with “social proof”.
Now, this is not the method that I prefer
to use to get results for guys, because it’s
external to yourself, it’s short-lived, (as
social proof this way is very fragile
and you can't rely on others to provide
it for you, in fact these same girls
can turn and social proof someone
else) AND there are far more
powerful ways of creating attraction
that actually exude from YOU
and not from “social proof”.
This brings us what GENUINE confidence
really is all about.
When you truly exude confidence, it’s
as powerful as an exploding STAR, a
SUPERNOVA, if you will.
It draws in everything in it's path and it
clears everything that is blocking its path.
A woman, especially a woman of quality
who is thinking about the future, but in
truth ANY woman will MELT under a man
exuding this confidence, because it’s
HARDWIRED on a SURVIVAL level.
The reason it’s hardwired as part of survival
psychology in women and the reason it triggers
deep feelings of raw attraction in women is
because CONFIDENCE has very TANGIBLE
consequences that make the difference
between SURVIVAL and DESTRUCTION.
In fact, it also makes the difference between
THRIVING MASSIVE SUCCESS and begging
for scraps.
Now, I get into the deepest levels of this in
my Mastery Program, but for here let me
briefly say a few things about confidence:
I. IT’S THE FOUNDATION OF SOCIAL PROOF
If the whole WORLD thinks someone is great,
but when you meet that person, you see that
this person genuinely believes that he is NOT
great, then it DESTROYS all the social proof
instantly.
II. IT IMPLIES SOCIAL PROOF
The other cool thing is that infinite confidence
also IMPLIES that you are desirable to others
as well, because, “How on earth could you be
so confident otherwise?”
So you get IMPLIED social proof from all this.
Subtlety when it comes to this is far more
powerful than you trying to SAY “Hey I’m
desired by others” or even you trying to
“show” by having others do the work for you
by trying to make you look popular.
III. MOST IMPORTANTLY, IT MEANS POWER
The greatest COMMON trait that the most
successful men in the world, and I’m
talking about in EVERY sphere, in
arts, in science, in commerce, in sports,
in medicine, their greatest COMMON
trait is NOT having the highest intellectual
IQ. Now, they are smart, don’t get me
wrong, but the people who men who get
the farthest have a super strong
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE, and confidence
is right up there at the top of emotions
of emotional intelligence.
Otherwise, without this, the greatest genius
cannot reach even close to his potential,
the greatest athlete can’t be even close to
his best.
THE EMOTIONS of the MIND are where
being a WINNER is truly at.
Now, a quality woman doesn’t just FEEL
this AS MASSIVE DESIRE, she also KNOWS it,
so she has TWO engines driving her toward
such a man- BOTH THE PRIMAL "FEELING"
PART OF HER BRAIN AS WELL AS THE
"THINKING" PART.
But even a woman who is not a quality
woman, a woman with all sorts of issues,
she is ALSO attracted to this confidence
because it’s DEEP ROOTED IN HER PRIMAL
SENSE OF SURVIVAL, it’s not conscious
at ALL.
Now, are you ready for some IRONY?
The reality is that one of the SIGNS of
confidence is the ability to WITHSTAND
social proof.
But it takes TIME for this to be EVIDENT,
that in fact you could withstand it, because
at the time it's happening, the thing that is
being "socially proven" makes most people
brainwashed to even SEE beyond the
illusion.
This is part of where a quality woman is
a quality woman, and trust me, a quality
woman CAN indeed see through the
illusion in a nanosecond.
The book "The Game" and the pick up artists
managed to artificially engineer so much
“social proof” not among GIRLS but from
the SHEER NUMBER OF MEN FOLLOWING
THOSE ROUTINES AND THEIR ADVICE,
that many guys BELIEVED that for SURE
it had to all be great.
In fact, I used to be on a message board
that was all about how to attract women,
and at the TIME, my message was often
MOCKED.
Anything that smacked of "relationship
material" information was viewed as
the ENEMY OF ATTRACTION!
Now, suddenly, these same guys who
kept saying, "A woman won't feel attraction
unless you act arrogant and negate her
self-esteem and PUT HER DOWN
by the use of "cleverly disguised insults that
resemble jokes", are now trying to ALSO SAY
that "Ummm, the SECRET is that a woman
must be able to see you as RELATIONSHIP
MATERIAL!".
The complete incongruency of this is one
sure way to drive away ALL women,
the women who are not serious about
relationships and ALSO the women
who are promiscuous and just out
to get physical and NOT have a
relationship!
From back then when the advice you
read in my materials was once mocked,
to fast forward several years, and today
my most ARDENT readers are none
other than the pick up artists and dating
gurus themselves!
If imitation is the sincerest form of
flattery, I'm blushing.
But make no mistake about it, mixing
pick up artist advice and how to get
a quality girlfriend advice is a formula
for getting NOTHING.
TIME has proven that in fact the once
“popular” advice was actually NOT
very good and in fact will DESTROY
your chances with a quality woman.
Otherwise, the pick up artist craze would
still be on TV, it would still be making
major books, it would be everywhere,
but it's NOT.
On the OTHER hand:
Time has ALSO proven that the things
I teach actually WORK. (And yes, I’ve
proven it, not only have I been followed
by journalists, but the men I’ve worked
with have given their OWN details to these
journalists, and have had their success
stories printed, and these men were NOT
even my clients, it was the NEWSPAPER
that chose these men, so I had nothing to
do with having ANY sort of friendship or
connection with them – these men owed
me NOTHING. Just scroll to the bottom
of this url to see the photo:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Book.html )
Now, I could have easily “sold out” during
the pick up artist craze, as I had all the
connections to those channels, and could
have easily “cashed in” on it.
But when you have FULL CONFIDENCE
in the TRUTH AND POWER of what you
teach, you can withstand all this stuff
because you have true CONVICTION in
what you say.
This kind of conviction is what is crucial
to carry over into all your interactions
with women, including when you decide
to say NO to her if she is going against
your values.
Or when you say NO to her for other things.
Or when you say NO to things in your OWN
life that will just bring you down, no matter
how tempting it might be in the short term.
Yes is a great word, and I believe in positivity,
but I also believe that NO is a great word as
well, and can be even more positive than yes.
I often speak about having
GENUINE conviction in every
syllable of everything you
say to a woman, and the
importance of being congruent
and consistent, not just in your
words but in your ACTIONS.
Otherwise you set off her alarm bells
that say, "Sketchy guy!"
Time is the living proof for things, and
I knew eventually that fallacy of the
pick up artist and dating guru craze
would make itself massively apparent.
What you will learn from my materials
is not only the TRUTH on what attracts
a woman, but also the best way to GO
ABOUT BECOMING THIS KIND OF MAN
FOR REAL RATHER THAN ACTING.
Now, confidence is a HUGE part of all
this, but it’s definitely not ALL if you’re
looking to also KEEP a woman and if
you’re looking to also SUSTAIN your
own success and power as a man in
ALL aspects of your life, which of course
is all part of the big picture that makes
you attractive.
It’s critical that there is zero ARROGANCE
in your confidence, and it’s critical that
there is total RESPECT for a good woman
all at the same time that your confidence
is exploding through the roof.
It’s also crucial to understand the link
between sex, love, and dedication.
Tiger Woods had reached ZENITH levels
of performance, but unfortunately was
his own worst enemy by losing control
when it came to women. I’m not judging
him, by the way, as his dedication to
his sport is truly an inspiration to all
who pursue excellence.
I’m just saying what HAPPENS, with the
same accuracy of math and science,
when you don’t treat the entities of
sex and love and dedication with
infinite respect.
Sylvester Stallone, born with partially
paralyzed facial muscles and mocked
for his first name as being a cartoon
cat, and put down by his father as
having no real talent, and born in
Hell’s Kitchen, ended up not only
PERSONIFYING the action hero,
and embodying the icon of masculinity,
and REINVENTING the action hero
for an entire generation, but then brought
it back for ANOTHER generation
that had never even been ALIVE
during his first “prime”.
He also proved how WRONG everyone
was not only the first time around when
no studio wanted to put him in his own
film he wrote, called "Rocky" in case
anyone here has been living on another
solar system and never heard of it,
but he also made the COMEBACK
of his life just a couple of years ago.
Everyone thought he couldn't do it,
no studio wanted to invest in him,
he had almost ZERO SOCIAL PROOF
going at the time, but he had HIS
INTERNAL CONVICTION ON
AT FULL BLAST, which got the
attention of the QUALITY people
who are the decision makers.
Although his road from the begining was never
easy, along the way, even after success, he
AGAIN went through a massive challenge,
as he almost lost it all and lost his career,
and it seems hard to deny that losing control
with women and losing the RIGHT WOMAN
and then going for the WRONG woman played
a massive role in this part of his life where his
incredible career hit a low point.
Again, I am NOT judging and I truly
ADMIRE this man as one of the greatest
movie makers of all time, and it’s for this
reason that I have been so passionate
about understanding what is it that
causes failure and success, and it’s
mind-blowing that the very thing that
SKYROCKETS men’s success can also
be the thing that RUINS them- I’m talking
about women. The right one, you skyrocket,
the wrong one, you crash in an inferno
of destruction.
In my materials, I’m not interested
in FLUFF.
Only the very BEST information that’s critical
for your success in getting the right woman.
I’m also not interested in gross over-generalizations.
The truth is that success with women is about
the SUBTLETIES you display, a mixture of
burning confidence, dominance, and yet it’s
also about warmth, humor, and inspiration.
You will find what separates my material from
others is the painstaking attention to subtlety
and detail.
Anyone can just go through the GENERAL
idea of something, for example, anyone
can get the basics of a golf swing, but all
the tiny differences in angles, all the
SUBTLETIES are what make ALL the
difference between success and failure.
So I’m going to give you a quick rundown
of all my materials right here, and how they
fit in to your success with women:
1. The Dating Wizard E-Book
This is the very first book I wrote,
and it’s for every single guy out
there who is too “NICE” – and
trust me, I PERSONIFIED this,
which is why I understand how
HARD IT CAN BE to turn on the
“MAN” part of you when interacting
with women.
We are brainwashed from birth to believe
that all women are immaculate saints
who just want a “nice guy” and then we
get PUMMELED when we show this “nice”
stuff to women.
So this book is for solving that once and
for all. It’s at:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Wizard.html
2. The Mastery Program
This takes you into the FULL DEPTH level
beyond the Dating Wizard book, it will
show you in absolute detail how to unleash
the sexual, masculine, dominant part of
your personality, and will even give you
an exact play-by-play A-Z roadmap you can
follow as a blueprint for what to do from
meeting a woman to getting her isolated
and getting physical with her.
You can check it out here:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html
3. The Get A Great Girl E-Book
This book is an absolute MUST for getting
a quality girlfriend, it will show you the
secrets that will make ALL the difference
between a woman feeling you’re just
another guy who’s “okay”, and you being
the kind of man that she wants to be with
for life.
This book is absolutely required reading
in a world full of TOXIC brainwashing
regarding attraction, dating, and love.
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Book.html
4. Actions For Attraction CD Set
This CD Set will arm you with the most
advanced APPLICATIONS of my concepts.
So for example, you’ve probably heard
a million times that you need to have
CONFIDENCE when approaching women,
or even that you MUST approach women
to get good at it, but the question on
your lips is probably “YEAH, BUT I
JUST DON’T APPROACH BECAUSE
IT’S NERVE WRACKING!”
Well, just on this topic alone, you will
learn REVOLUTIONARY breakthrough
strategies that will OBLITERATE this
‘approach anxiety’ forever. I go into
full detail on HOW to do this, for over
an HOUR of detailed strategies and
how to apply them.
You’ll also learn how to break the ice
with women by getting them laughing
without you having to become a clown,
you’ll learn insights I got from a master
comedian who at one time was a 26
year old VIRGIN who had never even
KISSED a girl, and then became one
of the most successful men in the world
with women and even served as a guest
instructor at one of my real world bootcamps
where men approach women and attract
them in real life in real time.
You’ll hear the interview I conducted with him!
And you'll how to have the most effective chats
with women, making instant impact on women,
how to master all the crucial moments, and
much, MUCH more.
Having this information gives you an almost
UNFAIR advantage over other men when it comes
to meeting and attracting a quality girlfriend.
It’s at:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/ActionsForAttraction.html
Get the dating life you want by getting your
hands on my programs NOW.
Be cool,
Michael Marks
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