There are a lot of people out there
who think the way to get a great
woman is to be "Mr. Cool" and that
you should try to act like a "player",
etc, and that you should play all kinds
of manipulative games to get a
woman to respect them, etc.
The irony is that this whole
perspective of manipulation is
actually what creates problems
in the first place.
And the even greater irony is
that they try to justify all this
in the name of 'evolution' that
somehow evolution backs up all
this selfish behavior.
Well, a cool guy on the Get A Great Girl
forum just put forth a fantastic comment.
It came up in a discussion of Slumdog
Millionaire the movie.
Here is his comment, and you
might want to check the forum
for all the other awesome
content that's there - it's
like a cool brotherhood
we've got going on, all
the men there have one
thing in common- great
values and integrity, and
the desire to improve
from deep within.
Here are his words:
"Actually, it was the poverty
of it all that kind of made me
wonder something.....
Materialism and social influence
really only started after civilization
started (eg, Mesopotamia onwards)
b/c you needed to be able to pass
on information for social trends
and influence to exist and be
passed on.
We tend to think that the "higher"
emotions such as love, and trust
and romance were likely more
developed in the context of
civilization and weren't so
paramount in the wild.
Mesopotamia started about 6000
years ago, but our hominid
lineage existed for about 2.5
million years. so over 99.9%
of human evolution took place
before any civilization started.
since the most accurate simulation
of life in the wild on modern earth
are places of poverty (where people
are forced to live as much like
animals more than anywhere else
just to survive), it's nice to
think that in such a basic state
of human living (by modern
western standards) ideals such
as love and trust can still
be predominant.
that's what this movie made me
ask...
so, my point........ since 99%
of the history of our species was
spent in the wild, like animals,
you wonder how much of our
interpersonal interactions even
back then were ruled by emotions
such as LOVE and TRUST, and not
simply by the DOG EAT DOG
mentality that the pickup artists
promote as the cornerstone of
evolution (because all they do is
preach evolution as the rationale
for their "principles").
that would mean that for our
species, even as basic animals
clinging to life, love and trust
may actually have been just as
important and as powerful as EAT,
SLEEP, BE SELFISH, and SCREW 20
WOMEN AT ONCE LIKE a RABBIT."
***MY COMMENTS***
Awesomely beautiful.
If all the people who were using
evolution as their basis for
justifying manipulative
or superficial or lowly
behavior, if they suddenly
saw the TRUTH about our
evolutionary heritage,
they would suddenly have
to be a lot more virtous
to be in tune with 'nature'!
And it's true.
The reality is that our human
nature can actually be FANTASTIC
and in fact in it's natural state
it's pretty damn good.
It's just the bad programming we
get from so many places that distorts
our thinking and our emotions.
That's why it's only in modern
times that we've become so
good at things like genocide
and feeling like life is terrible
because the pizza wasn't delivered
on time while at the same time we
totally dismiss the fact that
other people are starving
or going hungry or homeless
even in our own cities, never
mind only in lands far away.
Finding a great woman has a lot
to do with finding a woman who
is not a slave to the modern mess,
and with helping her to see this
fact as well by WE AS WELL as men
not being slaves to the modern
mess.
To learn more, visit the forum at:
http://forum.getagreatgirl.com
And to learn all the details on how
to get a great woman, go to:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Book.html
Till next time,
Michael
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