How To Unleash The Attractive Personality Women CRAVE

One of the greatest sources of POWER you must draw from when you see a woman you’d like to approach, is the power of your INNER CHARM that has unfortunately been REPRESSED by environmental forces. 

What I mean is that, most guys actually ALREADY have tons of great aspects to their personality, but the problem is that they suddenly are unable to SHOW theses side of themselves at WILL, like for example when they suddenly see a woman they would like to approach.

Suddenly, what happens is that they freeze up and the right actions or words seem so hard to find, and even if a guy TELLS THEM some great line to say to a woman, it STILL feels too awkward and weird and in fact sometimes scary to actually do the approach. 

So it’s not ONLY a question of having guts and no fear, it’s also a question of having the ABILITY to actually tap into that fun side of your personality, or that super-social side of your personality, when you need to in the moment. 

This comes from social conditioning- we are slowly conditioned from childhood to CONFORM and to not rock the boat.  Also, as men we are taught that it’s not RIGHT to approach women. Women and some men promote the lie that all women are these victims and fragile creatures who are terrified of a man approaching them.  Plus, we also don’t want to look like fools and we don’t want to embarrass ourselves, etc. 

The SOLUTION to this requires more than just watching some other guy approach women successfully. This is helpful, but it’s not the full solution, because the fact is, SO MUCH of the success a guy has in attracting a woman is NOT about being this amazingly funny guy with genius funny comments, or about being the most cool guy with the most absolutely genius or super-witty things to say- it’s about a very SUBTLE THING instead.

So, YES, if you ARE super-funny, or super witty, or super interesting, that’s GREAT and that WILL help, but you don’t NEED to be those things. 

What you DO need is an incredibly strong sense of being COMFORTABLE letting your REAL personality OUT.

But instead of doing that, we repress ourselves for reasons described above.

The solution is to gradually keep pushing yourself to let a little MORE of your personality out with every approach you make, instead of passing your personality through the CENSORSHIP FILTERS OF FEAR, WORRY, NEED FOR APPROVAL, ETC.

These censorship filters are SELF imposed- the only one keeping these filters on is YOU, even though the original source for them were from places outside of yourself- but now you know that it is up to YOU to let go of them.

At first, this might seem scary. You might think that what you are about to say will sound stupid, or boring, or strange.

But as you keep on doing this, you will start to feel more and more COMFORTABLE, allowing more and more of your real personality to shine through, and women will DETECT that you are feeling COMFORTABLE, and because states are catchy, they too will feel comfortable around you, and of course since you are comfortable, you will not freeze up, and you will suddenly find you have so much more to say and that you are able to keep the conversation going.

And since your brain is not diverting all its energy into panic, it has all that extra energy to be way more interesting, funny, witty, and sexual. 

All of which HELP you massively to attract the woman in front of you.

And on this note, I want to bring to your attention a very special interview I did with a man who was featured in a New York Times best-selling book, I man I met in person several times and who we even together used to combine our skills in teaching men how to approach and attract women. 

His name is Barry. There are many positive traits of this man, but the ones I to focus on here are his sense of HUMOR and his sense of being AUTHENTIC no matter what- and of course it goes without saying his RESULTS with women. Barry and I got along so well we even taught at bootcamps together. 

These two things helped us bond immediately, as I myself hate the idea of putting on an ACT to attract a woman, and I hate the idea of faking.  

Also, what made Barry’s sense of humor so powerful to me was that NONE of the things he did were artificial to his personality- all his humor came from his own actual perception and feelings about things.

And one of the BIGGEST things I saw in Barry was how he learned to UNLEASH his personality by UNREPRESSING his thoughts, feelings, and perceptions- and this ALSO SKYROCKETED his sense of humor to the point that he was the equal of any professional comedian. 

Now, let me warn you, Barry goes WAY FARTHER in unrepressing himself than most guys will ever do in a THOUSAND lifetimes, but I think that sometimes when you want to learn how to do something, it HELPS to see somebody do it in a very MASSIVE WAY.

It illustrates the point CLEARLY, and it is also INSPIRING.

And I recorded a very special interview with Barry, where he not only speaks about his own development, but he is actually FUNNY to the level of making people ‘ROLL ON THE FLOOR LAUGHING’ – all WITHOUT putting on an ACT, without making up jokes or making up funny lines.  He is just UNLEASHING his personality.

The lessons from this are INFINITE- not only of course will it make you FUNNIER, and being able to get a woman laughing right away is a FANTASTIC way to get her to open up to you, but ALSO the same way unrepressing your personality allows you to be way more HUMOROUS with women, it ALSO allows you to feel comfortable being more SEXUAL with women, being more ASSERTIVE with women, being more DOMINANT with women, and all these things are MASSIVELY attractive to women.

So don’t just stand around watching guys approach women, but actually BECOME the kind of man that MAKES THE APPROACHES AND FEELS SUPER COMFORTABLE DOING THEM---and this interview is a FANTASTIC WAY TO HELP YOURSELF BECOME THAT KIND OF MAN. 

I’ve made this special interview program available as an INSTANT DOWNLOAD. 

That means you can be benefiting from it in MINUTES from now- and getting BETTER with women in the process.

Getting better with women isn’t about an ACT.

It’s about who you BECOME.

This is why just watching OTHER guys approaching women isn’t enough.

You need to learn how to do the INTERNAL work as well, to UNLEASH the attractive elements currently REPRESSED in you.

Get this program now at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/confident-humor.html

You and the amazing women you meet will be glad you did :)

Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Truth And Nothing But The Truth When It Comes To Success With Women

For over 12 years now, I've been motivated by learning the truth about women and attraction. The truth may not be what sells, but in the end, it's the only thing that's important and the only way to actually get where you want to go.

So, for example, when the best-selling book called The Game came out, millions of men believed it all and they all thought that the best way and only way to really meet and attract women was by using pick-up lines.  

Even before the book had come out, I was telling the author on a Forum website devoted to the topic of dating and attraction that actually pick-up lines were not necessary- and I was already proving how to do the entire "pick up" in a more natural and effective way. 

Well, it only took the seduction/pick up artist community about 6 YEARS to finally realize that what I was saying was true. And not just in night clubs, but in meeting women ANYWHERE.

In fact, that was the NEXT thing that I was light-years ahead of- the whole idea that you can't usually meet the best kinds of women in night-clubs, because an attractive woman who also has her act together in terms of her morals, behaviors, and attitudes is not likely to want to go to a nightclub very often.  

The reason is because she ALREADY gets too much attention from the wrong guys, and the last place she wants to go is a place where she is going to be BOMBARDED by a bunch of drunk or tipsy guys who just want to get physical- if she just wanted that, she could meet a guy like that ANY second of ANY day. 

But again, it took MANY YEARS for those brainwashed by the effects of "group think" in the pick-up artist world, to SEE and BELIEVE what I had been teaching for many YEARS.

And by the way, of course, none of these guys would dare to give me one DROP of credit for all this, of course, because that would mean possibly encouraging guys to actually THINK rather than just listen to whatever they (the gurus) said.

And so I was explaining that the best way to meet a great woman is when these women are simply out and about doing their thing- getting groceries, going to the coffee shop, at the library, etc. 

Now, you still have to SCREEN women because ALL women are out there doing their thing, so you have to find the right ones through screening, but if you focus on nightclubs, you have to realize that the women in nightclubs are AWARE of the fact that it's a place where people go to drink and where for the most part, men are paying to meet women and not the other way around. 

So you have to ask yourself what kind of attractive woman needs to go there regularly, unless she is either looking for attention or promiscuous.  

But just because a woman is out and about during the day or evening in a place that is not a club, does not mean she is great girlfriend material.

This is another FACT that the pick up artist community wants to HIDE from you, or maybe doesn't even KNOW- but it's DAMN IMPORTANT THAT YOU DO KNOW- and that you know how to screen.

Here's ANOTHER thing they don't tell you:
WOMEN AND MEN ARE NOT THE SAME SEXUALLY


There is a TON of evidence that female nature is different from male nature.

So, for example, there was the famous experiment where 100 MEN were approached by a woman on a university campus, who were offered by the woman a chance to sleep with her, and almost EVERY man said yes.

Then, when the same experiment was set up on campus where 100 WOMEN were approached by a man for sex, EVERY WOMAN said no.

Source for this, by the way is: http://www.elainehatfield.com/79.pdf

And recently in the whole "Ashley Madison" news story, it turned out that almost NO MEN were actually MEETING ANY WOMEN-because in reality there were BARELY ANY WOMEN ON THE SITE---something the site tried to keep a secret!

The whole site was driven by MEN who WANTED to meet women, and who THOUGHT there were tons of women on these sites, but in reality, there were almost NO women on these sites, and the website had to actually FABRICATE the IDEA that there WERE tons of women on the site, in order to keep sucking in the men who were, unfortunately, looking for an affair.

But the point here is a LARGER point- that FEMALE NATURE is not as IMMEDIATELY driven by the same kind of sexual desire as MALE nature.

And YET, pick up artist after pick up artist KEEPS ON TELLING MEN that SECRETLY allllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll the women out there really want to SLEEP with a PLAYER, and are just BURSTING AT THE SEEMS to have sex with some guy who knows the MAGIC SECRET.

The TRUTH is, it's only a certain PERCENTAGE of women that are like this, and although their are, in ABSOLUTE terms, quite a few of these women, in terms of their actual percentage of the population of women, they are SUPER LOW and DO NOT REPRESENT THE NATURE OF MOST WOMEN.

But the majority of the pick up artist community wants you to think ALL women secretly just want to be promiscuous or in general that they have the same nature as men- so that you will think that since all women are really promiscuous anyway, you might as well join them since there is no point looking for a GREAT GIRLFRIEND that is not going to cheat on you or disrespect you, etc.

And again, most men, who just want to meet a great woman, will actually SCREW THEMSELVES BADLY by having the wrong picture of women and of reality.

And it's a bit sad, what is going on. You see, at one time, the promiscuous men and women knew to hang out at night clubs to meet their own types.

But now, thanks to GREED and the commercialization of human needs like love, sex, and affection, pick up artists are branching out into what used to be normal places- like EVERYWHERE else, and so now the normal women out there have to learn the hard way that a lot of these guys approaching them are not normal guys just trying to meet women as girlfriends, but rather playing a game to just try to gather as many women as possible, and trying to manufacture a connection with them that is actually NOT authentic. 

Which means that any GOOD women out there should actually have their guard up even MORE- but most women won't because it hasn't reached the tipping point yet. 

Of course, most women, even ones not informed in the slightest, will still put two and two together and it won't take too long for them to see when a guy is behaving in a way that doesn't add up.

By the way, this is yet another reason I can't associate with the pick up artist movement, even though there IS a GOOD purpose for learning these skills, and is what I teach men. 

I've always taught these skills ALONG with a sense of RESPONSIBILITY. 

To quote the first issue ever of Spider-Man, which was actually called "Amazing Fantasy"- "with great power comes great responsibility"- an idea that actually came from Voltaire.

 So remember, getting a woman into bed quick isn't a sign of how cool you are, it's a sign that a woman was unusual and is the type who wants to get physical fast with guys.

The IRONY of this all is that I was the guy who wrote, way back in 2003 in my first book, how MASCULINITY and FEMININITY are crucial parts of BIOLOGY, they are not just some invention- and how important it is for men to BE masculine and for women to be feminine in order to attract the opposite gender. 

But the pick up artist community only wants to embrace the part of the message that they like- the fact that it's GOOD for you to BE masculine and embrace your masculinity---but they DON'T WANT TO ACCEPT THE COROLLARY(the consequence) OF THIS- which means ALSO accepting that they want FEMININE women.

And although there ARE definitely promiscuous women, it goes AGAINST most women's nature to be as promiscuous as men naturally want to be (which is why over thousands of years, there has been that trade off- a man will be willing to be faithful to a woman who is truly worthy of it)- and deep down, men don't even WANT women to be promiscuous, they aren't even as attracted to promiscuous women.

So, if you REALLLLLLY want to embrace my message of the importance of masculinity in men, you ALSO must embrace the truth of the importance and the nature of FEMININITY in women.

That means seeing the GLARING TRUTH that can be seen with ANYONE with OPEN EYES OR EARS that MOST women are simply NOT as promiscuous as men---

--And if the pick up artists keep showing you videos of guys getting physical or sleeping with women- those are women that don't represent the kinds of women most guys want- just like how commercials on TV SHOW YOU things that don't represent THE TRUTH, but at least there there is the FINE PRINT at the bottom of the screen with all the disclaimers about how everything you are seeing is actually NOT TRUE.   

And so THIS explains the SLOW TREND these days in the pick up artist community AWAY from the night clubs and toward what they call DAYGAME. 

Again, trying to copy me, but STILL bastardizing the ACTUAL PART THAT MATTERS---because it's NOT about whether you meet a woman during the DAY or NIGHT- that whole distinction is REALLY referring to nightclubs versus "normal" places like the coffee shop, but you can meet a GREAT woman at night just about anywhere- it has NOTHING AT ALL TO DO WITH DAYGAME VERSUS NIGHTGAME--this is just yet MORE MARKETING LEADING TO DESTRUCTION OF ACTUAL TRUTH.

So if you are reading this now, ask yourself: "How many more YEARS of my life am I going to WASTE following the DISTORTIONS OF TRUTH promoted by most dating advice experts?"  

The DISTINCTIONS between TRUTH and DISTORTION of TRUTH are sometimes HARD to see when you are in the "middle of the forest"--you can't see the forest because of all the trees. 
 
And SUBTLETIES matter- as you have seen from all the above. It's not enough to get dating advice that SORT OF tells you PART of what you need to know- MISSING JUST ONE DROP OF IMPORTANT TRUTH is like launching a SPACECRAFT with just a few parts missing, the fuel just slightly wrong, the trajectory just a bit off---it will result in a DISASTER.

And getting the RIGHT woman in your life is the single most important other human being that you will ever interact with IN your life- it MATTERS A WHOLE HECK OF A LOT.
 
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Till next time, 

Michael Marks

P.S. Because having a sense of humor is so useful, including when it comes to interacting with women and being in the right state of mind, I thought I would include this following image on the idea of having great power and great responsibility: