Belief is the most important element
of success in attracting women. And
yet, it is the one thing that eludes most
men.
If you do not believe that you have
what it takes to attract a woman,
you will not attract her.
It reminds me a bit of a scene from
The Empire Strikes Back where Luke
is trying to use "The Force" to lift
his "X-Wing" fighter craft out of the mud
on the swamp planet of Dagobah.
He tries, the spacecraft begins to
rumble a bit in the mud, but he
fails to lift it.
Then, little old frail-looking Yoda,
raises his hand and channels "The Force",
and calmly levitates the entire ship
smoothly out of the mud, landing it
softly where it belongs.
Luke weakly utters, "I can't believe it,"
and Yoda knowingly responds, slowly,
one word at a time, with, "That is why
you fail."
This is true in real life.
Self-perception is everything.
In his book, Psycho-Cybernetics, Dr. Maxwell
Maltz, a plastic surgeon, reveals how deeply the
self-concept affects one's perception of reality.
He told a female patient of his that
the cosmetic surgery she requested
alone won't change her self-image.
Yet, she was obsessed with the surgery,
sure to herself that this was the solution
to her self-concept.
She insisted on the surgery, and
after she healed, she looked at
her face.
The surgery went perfectly.
She even acknowledged that it was perfect.
But she didn't feel one drop better about herself.
She looked in the mirror and perceived that
somehow, she was undesirable even though
on a logical level she knew that was not true,
but yet she was convinced she did not look
desirable somehow.
We don't always believe what we see.
Instead, we see what we believe.
And this applies to just about everything,
including how we see our ability to win,
to attract, to do just about anything.
We don't believe what we see nearly as
much as we see what we believe.
So, if a guy does not believe he has
"what it takes" to attract a gorgeous
woman, then even if that woman falls
into his proverbial lap, he will do
the things to chase her away as a
result of his lack of self-belief.
When it comes to attracting women,
it's not about a man's looks, but it
is definitely about his self-concept.
Women aren't attracted to pretty boys
in the same way that men are attracted
to gorgeous women. It doesn't work the
same way.
But women CAN'T HELP but feel animal
attraction for men with the insane
confidence, confidence that is almost
too-confident.
This is where I come in. I don't only
show you "what to do" to meet women.
And I don't only show you by live example
and by demonstration.
Rather, I also go in DEEP into your core beliefs
to cause the kind of fundamental and lasting
changes required for long-term success
with women, so that you not only get
the woman you want, but you get to
keep her as well.
To find the perfect program to skyrocket
your success with women, whether that
is a bootcamp, a private consultation, or
one of my home study programs, go here
now:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php
Till next time,
Michael Marks
Sunday, July 13, 2014
Thursday, July 3, 2014
Mature Men And Attracting Women
Some things are so obvious and yet so few see it even though it is staring them in the face.
So, a lot of people have heard how many women often prefer "older men". Well, there are a few reasons for this, but the biggest reason of all is that women want, and are attracted to, men with maturity.
What's just so pathetically sad is how immature so many people are today. This includes men and women, and it has to do with many factors. For one thing, people have the luxury of being immature today, whereas not long ago people were forced to mature fast due to necessity.
Getting a job early, getting married early, having kids early, having to be in the army and face life or death situations every day, all these things don't necessarily make one mature, but they sure force one to learn the importance of responsibility very quickly.
But for today, let me just get to one major aspect of maturity that women appreciate, and that is a man who knows what he wants enough to focus on that one thing, and that definitely includes her. No, absolutely this does not mean desperation, it does not mean being needy. It means not wasting a woman's time if you are not interested, and it also means being prepared to go the distance for real if you are interested.
The problem is, immaturity is so prevalent that people want to be in two places at one time. They want to be a pick-up artist or they want to have a dozen women going on at the same time, while also wanting to have a woman truly be faithful and dedicated and exclusive and loving and supportive.
And this kind of insane, upside-down, lack of logic, is eaten up and worshiped by millions of men because millions of men have been brought up in a world of immaturity. Part of this problem is that people sell all kinds of snake oil out there, knowing full well that there will always be people who want the "easy way out" when it in fact does not exist.
Whether its a b.s. exercise plan that doesn't focus on the right diet, or whether it's a diet plan that doesn't focus on the long-term, or whether it is a bit of dating advice that doesn't factor in the full truth because the full truth means putting in some work, there will always be people who will do ANYTHING to continue the fiction of not having to work hard, rather than actually pay the piper.
They will even fork over a lot of money for "snake oil" rather than do the real work required, whether it is internal work on themselves they need to do, or whether it is something else they must do to improve themselves.
There will always be people who will continue the self-delusion of believing in a world where you don't have to pay the piper. It is a fictitious world, it doesn't exist.
And yet, you can get far, so far in this world, but you have to pay the price. You can't be in two opposite places at the same time. You have to be focused.
When a woman meets a man who is mature, who understands all this, she usually becomes very interested.
She knows he is for real. He is a man who is progressing. He is a man who means what he says, and keeps to his word, including the word he has given to himself about improving his own life for his own happiness.
In fact, even immature women respond powerfully to mature men.
Mature men know the real score, they don't fool themselves, and they are also mature enough to know that it is always worth it to "pay the piper", to put in the effort, to make the decision of what they really want, because the other choice is just going to result in the eventual bursting of their "brainwashed" bubble.
Maturity is the ultimate power, and as Henry Kissinger said, power is the ultimate aphrodisiac. If you have maturity, it is the ultimate power because it means you are a man who can stay strong in the face of reality instead of sinking into the land of self-delusion and the fictitious land of "No Effort". Reality is the only choice, but yet is the choice most avoided.
Maturity is also seeing the big picture when it comes to going for the woman that you want, rather than trying to score points with others by going for or being with the woman they think you should want. It takes strength to do the right thing, but again, doing anything else ultimately will cause you more pain.
So, maturity is not about being a pessimist. It's about seeing reality accurately, and then following that up with the right actions even though the right actions are not always easy. It's often easier, in the short term, to delude one's self. Of course, reality ultimately crashes down and ruins the delusion. The fantasy of the delusion ultimately costs much, much, much more than the cost of the effort involved in having full maturity.
One of the most immature things for a man to do when it comes to interacting with a woman is to just treat her like she is no more than just DNA that happens to make her a woman. Doing this denies her the great pleasure of having her REAL self confirmed and valued.
We live in a world where we are constantly pressured to "act" rather than to be real. The most important thing to any human being is being understood by others in terms of his or her own self-perceived identity.
Again, this gets back to the power or seeing reality. So, the more you can PERSONALIZE a conversation with a woman you just met, the more POWERFUL it is going to be. It's all about getting to her core, to seeing who she REALLY is, in a genuine and caring way. Toss a little flair into it as well, and you're golden.
For example, if she works in the cologne or perfume department, or if she’s a woman shopping there, you can speak to her about how interesting it must be to capture the essence of things through only an aroma or scent.
And you can talk to her and ask her, if there was a perfume or cologne called MONEY, would it smell EVIL? POWERFUL? GOOD?
And then, then you go for the biggie: Ask her, what does she feel are the scents that would represent who she is in terms of her identity.
Of course, all this could eventually flow back to you as well, as she asks you about yourself. You could speak about which scents best represent you, and you could actually combine humor with intrigue here as well.
It's all about two human beings connecting on the most powerful level, in a mature way.
If you are a mature man, I suggest you either book a consultation or bootcamp with me immediately, because I will give you the absolute best, no-gimmicks, no b.s. coaching there is, to get you a fantastic woman as fast as possible- and I'm talking days or weeks, not years, IF you are prepared to put in the effort.
And of course, if you can't book a consultation or bootcamp with me immediately, then definitely take advantage of my home-study programs, each of which has undergone extreme scrutiny to make sure it meets my supreme standards of no-gimmicks and no-nonsense when it comes to advice on attracting quality women.
Full details at:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php
Till next time,
Michael marks
So, a lot of people have heard how many women often prefer "older men". Well, there are a few reasons for this, but the biggest reason of all is that women want, and are attracted to, men with maturity.
What's just so pathetically sad is how immature so many people are today. This includes men and women, and it has to do with many factors. For one thing, people have the luxury of being immature today, whereas not long ago people were forced to mature fast due to necessity.
Getting a job early, getting married early, having kids early, having to be in the army and face life or death situations every day, all these things don't necessarily make one mature, but they sure force one to learn the importance of responsibility very quickly.
But for today, let me just get to one major aspect of maturity that women appreciate, and that is a man who knows what he wants enough to focus on that one thing, and that definitely includes her. No, absolutely this does not mean desperation, it does not mean being needy. It means not wasting a woman's time if you are not interested, and it also means being prepared to go the distance for real if you are interested.
The problem is, immaturity is so prevalent that people want to be in two places at one time. They want to be a pick-up artist or they want to have a dozen women going on at the same time, while also wanting to have a woman truly be faithful and dedicated and exclusive and loving and supportive.
And this kind of insane, upside-down, lack of logic, is eaten up and worshiped by millions of men because millions of men have been brought up in a world of immaturity. Part of this problem is that people sell all kinds of snake oil out there, knowing full well that there will always be people who want the "easy way out" when it in fact does not exist.
Whether its a b.s. exercise plan that doesn't focus on the right diet, or whether it's a diet plan that doesn't focus on the long-term, or whether it is a bit of dating advice that doesn't factor in the full truth because the full truth means putting in some work, there will always be people who will do ANYTHING to continue the fiction of not having to work hard, rather than actually pay the piper.
They will even fork over a lot of money for "snake oil" rather than do the real work required, whether it is internal work on themselves they need to do, or whether it is something else they must do to improve themselves.
There will always be people who will continue the self-delusion of believing in a world where you don't have to pay the piper. It is a fictitious world, it doesn't exist.
And yet, you can get far, so far in this world, but you have to pay the price. You can't be in two opposite places at the same time. You have to be focused.
When a woman meets a man who is mature, who understands all this, she usually becomes very interested.
She knows he is for real. He is a man who is progressing. He is a man who means what he says, and keeps to his word, including the word he has given to himself about improving his own life for his own happiness.
In fact, even immature women respond powerfully to mature men.
Mature men know the real score, they don't fool themselves, and they are also mature enough to know that it is always worth it to "pay the piper", to put in the effort, to make the decision of what they really want, because the other choice is just going to result in the eventual bursting of their "brainwashed" bubble.
Maturity is the ultimate power, and as Henry Kissinger said, power is the ultimate aphrodisiac. If you have maturity, it is the ultimate power because it means you are a man who can stay strong in the face of reality instead of sinking into the land of self-delusion and the fictitious land of "No Effort". Reality is the only choice, but yet is the choice most avoided.
Maturity is also seeing the big picture when it comes to going for the woman that you want, rather than trying to score points with others by going for or being with the woman they think you should want. It takes strength to do the right thing, but again, doing anything else ultimately will cause you more pain.
So, maturity is not about being a pessimist. It's about seeing reality accurately, and then following that up with the right actions even though the right actions are not always easy. It's often easier, in the short term, to delude one's self. Of course, reality ultimately crashes down and ruins the delusion. The fantasy of the delusion ultimately costs much, much, much more than the cost of the effort involved in having full maturity.
One of the most immature things for a man to do when it comes to interacting with a woman is to just treat her like she is no more than just DNA that happens to make her a woman. Doing this denies her the great pleasure of having her REAL self confirmed and valued.
We live in a world where we are constantly pressured to "act" rather than to be real. The most important thing to any human being is being understood by others in terms of his or her own self-perceived identity.
Again, this gets back to the power or seeing reality. So, the more you can PERSONALIZE a conversation with a woman you just met, the more POWERFUL it is going to be. It's all about getting to her core, to seeing who she REALLY is, in a genuine and caring way. Toss a little flair into it as well, and you're golden.
For example, if she works in the cologne or perfume department, or if she’s a woman shopping there, you can speak to her about how interesting it must be to capture the essence of things through only an aroma or scent.
And you can talk to her and ask her, if there was a perfume or cologne called MONEY, would it smell EVIL? POWERFUL? GOOD?
And then, then you go for the biggie: Ask her, what does she feel are the scents that would represent who she is in terms of her identity.
Of course, all this could eventually flow back to you as well, as she asks you about yourself. You could speak about which scents best represent you, and you could actually combine humor with intrigue here as well.
It's all about two human beings connecting on the most powerful level, in a mature way.
If you are a mature man, I suggest you either book a consultation or bootcamp with me immediately, because I will give you the absolute best, no-gimmicks, no b.s. coaching there is, to get you a fantastic woman as fast as possible- and I'm talking days or weeks, not years, IF you are prepared to put in the effort.
And of course, if you can't book a consultation or bootcamp with me immediately, then definitely take advantage of my home-study programs, each of which has undergone extreme scrutiny to make sure it meets my supreme standards of no-gimmicks and no-nonsense when it comes to advice on attracting quality women.
Full details at:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php
Till next time,
Michael marks
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