An Important Message For Your Success In The New Year

Around this time of year, a lot of people make
New Year’s resolutions, and I thought I would
share with you some really important insights
on the truth about success, not only with women
but regarding just about EVERYTHING.

This way, you can take these insights and apply
them to your own life and make the very best not
only of any new resolutions but also for all your
goals.

PART ONE: ABOUT CONFIDENCE

One of the most insane things is that although we
hear that CONFIDENCE is essential for success
with women, it is also essential for success in just
about ANY goal.  This is why learning the skills
for success with women also help you with so
much else in life.

The problem though is that just TELLING someone
that confidence is the secret is not enough, because
some people are BORN with more confidence than
others.  But the good news is that confidence is similar
to building MUSCLE, in that if you work on it, you
can CULTIVATE it, you can make it grow.

In fact, confidence can be grown to HUGE proportions,
a trillion times bigger than any muscle!

Whatever it is you lack confidence in, the trick is to
START doing it, WITHOUT putting pressure on yourself,
even if you do it WITHOUT confidence.

Most people never get confident at anything because they
never do it often enough to get over the fear, and also they
do whatever that thing is that they lack confidence in, in
an environment of PRESSURE.

So, for example, if you want to approach women with
CONFIDENCE, then take off the PRESSURE by not
making the GOAL that she must be ecstatic from your
approach, but rather your GOAL is simply that YOU
did not give into your fear, that YOU went up and said
‘Hello, how are you doing?’ or some other casual
conversation opener. 

You can even make the goal just to say HI.

TAKE OFF THE PRESSURE AT FIRST.

Then, once you do the goal WITHOUT pressure,
you can then SLOWLY start to add more pressure,
for example, try keeping the  conversation going
for two minutes, three minutes, four minutes, try
adding minutes to the conversation, try adding humor,
take ONE more step each day to add a BIT to the
pressure, just like adding a BIT of weight when you
are lifting weights.

But getting back to CONFIDENCE again, this way,
you will be improving your SKILL as well, which
of course will help you build even MORE confidence,
but also you will be getting DESENSITIZED to the
fear, simply because you have been doing the
thing (approaching women, talking to women) that
you fear so many times. 

Also, regarding CONFIDENCE, the reason it is so
important is because if you BELIEVE you can succeed,
then you are not going to SABOTAGE your success,
and again this applies to ALL goals.

But if you believe that really you DON’T have
what it takes to succeed, in other words if you lack
confidence, then you will not really give ALL YOU
HAVE toward achieving your goal.  You will waste
time, you will procrastinate, you will move slowly,
you will have other things to do that feel more important,
you will feel a lack of energy, etc, etc.

All that crap comes from the ROOT cause, which is
FEAR that really you won’t succeed.  Fear is such a
devil because it works subconsciously as well, and
does things like making you THINK you are tired
when you aren’t. (This doesn’t mean you don’t need
rest, it just means that when you lack confidence,
there is a general lack of energy for achieving the
goal.)

PART TWO: ABOUT TIME

The NEXT related idea regarding success I want
to share with you is about using TIME wisely.

The real truth is that TIME is more precious than
MONEY.  Even BILLIONAIRES would love to
have more TIME, and would happily spend like
crazy to get MORE time.  In fact, one of the biggest
reasons people WANT money is to save them time,
but it can’t CREATE time, it can just save it.

This idea is absolutely inextricably bound with success.
Not only must you have confidence for your goal, but
you must have TIME LIMITS for ALL your goals, and
ALL your tasks, even the MENIAL ones. 

I used to think this was a non-fun way to live life, but
the PROBLEM is time is SO PRECIOUS, that  there
is simply NO TIME for WASTING TIME.

So I learned from a man smarter than myself to use
a TIMER for EVERYTHING I do, big or small,
exciting or mundane.

Set the amount of time you think something SHOULD
take, and then set the timer and start working on it.

You’d be AMAZED at much time you will save
and you will realize how much time you were
wasting before. 

Again, time is so precious, and GOALS TAKE TIME.
So if you WASTE TIME, not only regarding your big
goal, but if you waste time on being inefficient on all
the small goals and tasks you must do everyday, you
will NOT achieve your biggest goals simply because
you won’t have enough TIME.

Now, you have to also stay calm during all this. And
the fact is, if you do this, you will be more calm because
you will realize how you are not wasting time.  I just
want to mention to stay calm, because I don’t want
you to burn out with stress.

PART THREE: ABOUT ENVISIONING YOUR GOALS

A lot of people mention the idea of PICTURING your goal
in your head.

Arnold Schwarzenegger has spoken a great deal about
how he could SEE himself as successful in his various
endeavors from bodybuilding to acting to politics, and
how he took his confidence from one thing, e.g. bodybuilding,
to another, e.g. acting.

In the book and film The Secret, there is a great deal
of focus on practicing EXPERIENCING THE FEELINGS
OF GRATITUDE YOU WOULD HAVE IF YOU ALREADY
HAD ACHIEVED YOUR GOALS.

So the important element in common is not just WANTING
Or WISHING to be successful, but actually SEEING
AND EXPERIENCING that success as if you ALREADY
HAVE IT.

You are ALREADY THERE in your mind, and LOVING IT.

In my opinion, this is not HOCUS-POCUS superstition.

Rather, the power of this is that it CHANGES you on a
deep level, subconsciously you STOP sabotaging yourself,
plus you are in such a positive state that OF COURSE you
keep on doing all the things that bring success, and ALSO
you start to BECOME like that version of yourself that you
want to BE, which ALSO helps ATTRACT people that
are on a SIMILAR wavelength that can HELP  you get to
that goal.

I can tell you that in my own life, every person I met that
was instrumental in making huge positive changes in my        
life was the result of me focusing on BEING and FEELING
the way I wanted to be in my GOAL version of myself and
my GOAL version of reality.  

It NEVER CAME from any “official” request, it
never came from “forcing” myself, it came from
me truly behaving the way I would if I was
“already there experiencing the joy of having
the goal”. 

And the crazy thing about all this is that this is actually
the EASIER way to live, because it is what your MIND
REALLLY WANTS anyway!   

And if you are reading this right now, and would like
to learn MORE about making this your best year EVER,
with women, with relationships, and with ALL of your
goals, then I suggest you download my eBook, called
Way to Win, immediately.

This book is a POWERFUL resource on how to get into
the RIGHT mindset for success, as well as how to
actually GO about achieving your goals, and also
it contains extremely inspiring TRUE stories,
all of which are consistent with the principles
of success outlined in the book.  

Download this book and use it immediately for your
success in ALL your goals, by going here NOW:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/win.html

And for ALL my important programs on success
with women, go here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php 

Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To Attract A Woman INSTANTLY

When you see a woman  you would like
to approach, the moment of opportunity
is often just a few seconds, so it is
CRUCIAL to learn how to attract a
woman INSTANTLY.

What you're about to read is
pure GOLD, so make sure you're
ready to fully digest this one.

The one thing everyone wants more of
is this thing known as “feeling good”.
The other thing that is pretty
INFINITE is the human want for
sexual things.

No one gets enough of those two things,
and anyone that can GIVE IT rules the world.

They really both fall under the
basic category of "feeling good",
they both boil down to the release
of endorphins into the bloodstream.

It’s the reason the ENTERTAINMENT
industry is a billion dollar industry.

And obviously, things like COCAINE.
It's all about FEELING AWESOME.

People will do anything to feel
awesome, unfortunately some people
even resort to drugs that will
DESTROY them.

Ask someone if they remember five
things they learned in college and
they’ll usually STRUGGLE and FAIL
to give you an INSTANT answer, but
ask them the last name of a singer
name Britney, and you’ll get INSTANT
answers.

Same thing if you ask the name of
the band called The Rolling ______ .

Now, when it comes to attracting a woman,
most guys tend to approach women and
they try to IMPRESS her by listing cool
things about themselves, or by sounding
important, etc.

None of this really fires off the FEELING
GOOD chemicals in her system, none of this
fires off ENDORPHINS. 

And this is especially true when a woman
is particularly attractive and has seen it
all before.

The worst sin is feeling needy, that actual
FEELING of insecurity and neediness is
a huge problem in itself, because it
makes it impossible for you to give
off the right vibes.

Neediness and insecurity are the
ANTI-ENDORPHINS. They SUCK OUT
the fun vibes from surrounding
human beings.  They REPEL women.

So if you are feeling needy, the first thing
I must tell you is to SMACK YOURSELF
SILLY and not BEHAVE that way at least
when you are approaching and chatting up
a woman.

If you are feeling needy, at least don’t
ACT upon that neediness. 

This is the difference between a compliment
you give to a woman that comes from your
confidence and the kind of compliment
you give to a woman that comes from
feeling like “oh my god I better give her
a compliment and let her know my entire
emotions are at risk on whether she likes
me or not”.

So, for example, a compliment given
from CONFIDENCE might take the
following form:

Let’s say you’re at a supermarket, and
there’s a striking woman checking out
the cookies section.  So you roll up
to her, and you give her this serious
look, instead of this big toothy smile
that would look  like you’re a puddle
of wuss, that is totally needy for her.

So you give her this look, fake serious,
(which will make the humor have more
impact coming up, and this is important
because you don’t want to let on that
a joke is coming or you ruin the whole
thing) and you say:

“What do you think you’re doing?” 

Say it almost accusingly, as if she’s in
TROUBLE for something.

Don’t go psycho, just say it with a bit
of a “you’re in trouble” kind of vibe
to your voice. 

Then, she’ll say something like
“What do you mean?” and she’ll be
all serious.

Then you can say, “Well, you shouldn’t
be here.  There are no attractive women
in this area.  Not for at least 40 miles,
you shouldn’t be here, it’s not allowed.”

Now, remember, you say this all with
a mock serious face, which has way
more impact, because it takes her a
sec for her to get it, she won’t see
it coming. 

Now, when she smiles, don’t start
smiling and laughing, that will ruin it.
KEEP ON ACTING TOTALLY
STRAIGHT FORWARD.

“Yeah, it’s dangerous in fact, you
shouldn’t even be here. Seriously.”

Now, at this point, and it’s just a
beginning, you’re at least showing:

A SENSE OF FUN

GUTS

AND YOU’RE NOT ALL SMILY
TOOTHY KISSING UP IN TERMS
OF YOUR EXPRESSION ON YOUR
FACE AND TONALITY OF VOICE

This is a huge thing, by the way,
because by having the serious
expression and tonality, you
can get away with giving a
HUGE compliment that basically
is saying she is very attractive,
without at all seeming like you’re
week in the knees for her and
all needy.

But it’s not over yet, there’s more.
This is just an OPENING here.

You must COOK this INTERACTION till it’s
really heated UP.

So for example, at this point, you
could say “Hi, I’m Joe (or whatever your name is)
and extend your hand, and she will likely
do the same and tell you her name.

Give a firm handshake and solid
eye contact as you do this.

Then, time for some more fun:

For example, now that you’re both
in front of the cookies, you can say:

“You can tell a lot about a person
from what kind of junk food they
like. In your case, you love chocolate
cookies, and chocolate is sinful,
so you’re the kind of person that
really is going to enjoy life and
the kind of people that are definitely
going to party in hell, that’s my
type for sure.”

There are subtle undertones to all this.
The idea of being naughty and having
fun and being sinful, is giving her
permission to relax, and yet it’s
all being done in such an INNOCENT
way here, after all, we’re talking
COOKIES here!

Something like this is guaranteed to
get her responding, and agreeing, and
you want to be building a YES ladder
as soon as possible, the more things
she is truly saying YES to the better.

Now, I give this example on purpose
because you don’t have to be a party
animal to do this, you don’t have to
hang out at nightclubs, you don’t
have to even go outside your normal
environment, EVERYONE needs
to go basic shopping.

You can turn up the ante even more,
so for example, as you and her are
chatting, and reaching the checkout
aisle, you can tell the clerk that
this woman has been STALKING you
the entire time, and thank God that
now finally someone is here to see it,
to save you from the harassment
of this woman.

She’s going to smile at this, plus she’s
going to love the fact you are so not
needy for her, so confident, that you
are FOR SURE not going to be like
all the other guys she has met that
were so needy for her, that had no
MASCULINITY left, they gave
all their ‘mojo’ away to her, 
while YOU have it in SPADES.

Now, remember, this is all coming from
a place of CONFIDENCE, not maliciousness,
and not insecurity, there is a fine yet supremely
important difference between these things.

There are endless things you can
playfully tease her on as well, even
at the checkout counter.  For example,
let’s say you need bags and she has
her own environmentally friendly bag.

So you can pretend you are the evil
corporate guy and she is the hippie
saving the world, and that you’re
far too evil for a girl like her, (which
is again the opposite of most guys
trying to convince her of why they
are the right guy for her, out of neediness).

Then, let’s say she ends up needing one
extra bag so she needs an actual plastic
bag and has to buy one, (which is pretty
common because often we don’t perfectly
estimate how much stuff we’re going
to have), so then you can playfully
comment that you are already having
an evil influence on her, turning her
to your evil ways.

So, during this interaction she has had with
you, she has seen that you are gutsy, you
are funny, you are not afraid to give a
compliment, you are spontaneous, you
are social, and that you understand
the magical thing called “sexual tension”
and how to create it.

Most men have no clue what this even
is, and why women want it so badly.

And you will have done this all in
a very BRIEF amount of time, which
is all the more cool.

At THIS point, you can do whatever
you want, you can chat with her some
more, you can take her number, the
point is that you have TRIGGERED
HER EMOTIONS and shown that
you are a man in the right way.

And this is just the tip of the iceberg.
This material runs DEEP. It's about
the most PRIMAL elements of how women
respond to men that GIVE OFF THE
"SURVIVAL" VIBES. 

The things I described above are
MANIFESTATIONS of the traits of
MEN WHO SURVIVE, and therefore
ignite ATTRACTION in her on
a primal, sexual, level.

If you’d like to get my most
ADVANCED training on igniting a
woman's attraction for you, I
seriously suggest you get my
WARRIOR WITHIN program at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

This program is about DEEP INTERNAL
TRANSFORMATION, so that you learn to
attract quality women in a way that LASTS.

And if haven’t yet downloaded my "Attraction Accelerators"
program, then do that IMMEDIATELY, at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/attraction-accelerators.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To Talk To Women To ATTRACT Them

There are some really important points
I need to share with you regarding how
to talk to women to attract them,  and
about getting physically intimate, and
in general what to know in order to
skyrocket women’s attraction to you.

The first thing gets right to the HEART of
attraction, which is that women are attracted
to men who are INSANELY confident,
ESPECIALLY about their ability to attract
women.

If only men could understand just how true this is,
it would CHANGE their entire PERCEPTION
of what women respond to in men.

Instead, most men keep on trying to attract
women by thinking about the things that
MEN tend to respond to the most, which is
LOOKS and YOUTH.

So men end up counting themselves OUT
of the race, or thinking that most women are
“out of their league”.  These disempowering
BELIEFS then end up creating the worst results,
and the bad results of course only CEMENT
these negative beliefs further.

Let me give you a PRIME example, which
comes from REAL LIFE.  
 
A man approaches a random beautiful woman
at a bar, online, at a party, a café, a bookstore,
or anywhere else.

The woman does not ignore him, but instead
says: "I believe I am out of your  age range."

So of course, if a man BELIEVES that women
are the same as men, he will take this at face
value, and QUIT.  He might even tell himself
that he will never do this kind of thing again.

He might take it as “proof” that women are
a certain way, etc, etc. etc.

HOWEVER, a comment such as that should
REALLY be interpreted VERY DIFFERENTLY.

The BETTER way to respond is to respond from
a place of INSANELY POWERFUL AND DEEP
CONFIDENCE.

For example:
"I don't believe it at all... The good thing is that
you know I'm experienced enough to handle you :)"

Within a fraction of a SECOND, her response to
THAT was:

“Ha I normally date older men anyways.”

By the way, that is from a REAL conversation
that ultimately led to a full-length conversation,
and ended up as a lot more than just a conversation
or a date.

And I can quote you hundreds more, not only
from my own experiences, but from the experiences
of hundreds of former clients and customers who
have used and applied my materials.

One of the funniest things is that I usually don’t
get invited to the actual weddings or even the
parties these guys make with their new girlfriends
or wives, because it would be a bit awkward
explaining who I am, e.g. “Ummmm this is the
guy that...”  But I do get thank-you notes : )

Within a fraction of a SECOND, what on the
SURFACE seemed to be a woman that was
trying to PUSH AWAY a certain kind of man
(in this case, older) turns into a woman actually
saying she PREFERS such men.

But the REAL point here is not age, the REAL
POINT is CONFIDENCE.

There’s just a certain way that women are
HARDWIRED that responds to men that
are CONFIDENT.

From Gloria Steinem to Jane Fonda, some of the
biggest FEMINISTS in the world who preached
how they would love a world where men tried
to act just like women, in REALITY these same
women ONLY fell in love with men who radiated
CONFIDENCE, POWER and CHARISMA.  

It’s NOT politically correct to say the TRUTH,
but the truth doesn’t care about political correctness.

By the way, regarding that conversation I was
quoting, I have seen so many relationships
and even MARRIAGES come about from
situations where the woman at first put up
a CLEAR SIGN OF TRYING TO PUSH
THE GUY AWAY.

Now, please don’t get me wrong.
If a woman REALLY says something like
GO AWAY, then GO AWAY.

What I am saying is that women are often
conditioned to NOT MAKE THEMSELVES
SO EASY, and ALSO they are conditioned to
try to see which men REALLY KNOW WHAT
THEY WANT and which men REALLY BELIEVE
THEY ARE THE REAL DEAL.

If you REALLY BELIEVE YOU ARE THE
REAL DEAL, THAT YOU ARE THE MAN,
THAT YOU HAVE THE VALUE, then you
won’t be DISCOURAGED by a remark that
doesn’t seem to initially show a woman doing
cartwheels of joy for your approach.

So whether you think you are too tall, too short,
or lacking money, fame, intelligence, looks,
prestige, connection, or ANYTHING ELSE,
guess what?  THAT INSECURE THINKING
is the REAL enemy.          

By the way, and this might seem a bit random,
I need to say something else here that it seems
no one else is saying.  I think the pick up artist
crowd does not want to get into this because it
might discourage some people from promiscuity,
but in my case, I don’t encourage promiscuity
anyway, I encourage finding the right woman,
i.e. A GREAT GIRL, hence the name of my
site, www.getagreatgirl.com

So what I need to say is that condoms are not
a perfect protection against all STIs and STDs.
I do not want to start a PANIC, and condoms
are GREAT compared to NOT  using them,
but condoms are so damn far from a total
protection package against ALL the STI’s
and STD’s out there that it’s not funny.

Condoms are a powerful protection against
the “big” stuff, but not everything.

The REASON that we don’t hear more about
this from the medical establishment is most
likely because they know that unfortunately
MOST PEOPLE ARE SO DAMN LAZY
that if doctors were to make a global campaign
teaching that condoms are not perfect and
don’t protect against everything, then a whole
LOT OF LAZY PEOPLE will say “OH
WELL IN THAT CASE, THERE’S NO
POINT IN USING THEM AT ALL!”

And THAT would be REALLY bad.
So, because so many people are ignorant and
lazy, that is likely why you don’t hear a lot
about all the DETAILS on the truth about
condoms.

I had to share this with you, because if you
are a customer or are on my list, you are
not the typical guy out there, you are more
interested in knowing the full story, the full
details, the big picture, and you are not
into promiscuity and one night stands. 

In other words, you might appreciate it.
Also, my material is INSANELY powerful,
and you will probably end up with a
woman very QUICKLY if you use what
I am teaching you, and I want you
to be prepared.

There is nothing wrong with asking a woman
to get TESTED before you get to that level
of physical intimacy.  You can both get
tested together, and it will be a bonding
experience. 

Don't be foolish, just because everyone else
out there is acting stupid.

In my Attraction Mastery Program, one
of the first things I mention is
speaking to a doctor about the
proper use of a condom.  

A lot of the pick up artist material out there
is all about finding some woman who will
agree to get physical FAST, so of course
these kind of women are more likely to
be promiscuous, short term thrill-seeking,
not thinking about long-term consequences,
etc.

This brings me back to my next point, which
is the REASON I focus so much on getting
yourself a QUALITY girlfriend, one GREAT
woman.

The WRONG woman will DESTROY you.

The RIGHT woman will IGNITE your soul,
will fill you with inspiration and motivation,
and make you a BETTER man.

What I am about to share with you is not made-up,
it is a real scientific study.   

Both groups of men seemed to be of average
artistic ability.  In other words, they were NOT
artists.

The first group consisted of several men, where
each man was asked to go into a room by himself,
and try to draw something.

The second group consisted of men who were
asked to do the SAME thing, but were FIRST
exposed to a beautiful woman who casually
and MILDLY flirted with them. 

Then, after the artwork was done, the artwork
was put up on a wall.  A professional was called
in to look at all the artwork, and INSTANTLY
he could tell which works seemed INSPIRED
and of IMPROVED quality, the works which
were full of life.

You guessed it, ALL THE WORKS done by
the men who had the beautiful woman flirt
with them showed SUPERIOR works than
the men who had no such inspiration.

The trick is to be with a woman who doesn’t
end up causing you MORE PROBLEMS than
its worth.  The trick is to be with a woman
that is not only attractive on the outside, but
who also is beautiful on the INSIDE.

And that is why I have spent over ten years
focused on teaching men all about getting
and keeping a QUALITY WOMAN.

If you haven’t yet downloaded my program,
called Attraction Accelerators, then definitely
do that IMMEDIATELY.

This program is absolutely vital for skyrocketing
your success when you approach women that
you want to attract.

It’s at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/attraction-accelerators.html

I also suggest you check out ALL my programs
for getting the woman of your dreams, by going
here now:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

My programs cover ALL the important aspects
of both ATTRACTING and KEEPING a fantastic
quality woman.

If you would like a personal consultation, I may
still be able to schedule one with you, but I am
extremely busy, and so I ask that you let me know
by email a few possible days or times that could
work for you.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To Get A Woman To Keep Thinking Of You Long After The Initial Chat

One of the big things in attracting a woman
who is a total stranger is not just the initial
chat, but getting her to STAY attracted and
still be thinking of you in a positive way
long after the initial chat.

So let me get straight to TWO massive
concepts that are RIDICULOUSLY
important for success with women.

The first has to do with FAKE versus
REAL confidence.

While on one hand, you can try to FAKE
confidence, and “faking it till you make it”
is better than doing nothing, the problem
is if you are not prepared to LIVE the
lifestyle of confidence, you will end up
a NERVOUS WRECK if you DO get
the woman and you start to worry that
she will detect that it was all an act.

So what I mean is, you must start to take
the behaviors that the confident version
of yourself would take in ALL ASPECTS
OF YOUR LIFE, day in and day out, on
a regular basis.

This way, you will actually LIVE the
actions of confident decisions and you
will OOZE with the VIBES of confidence
when interacting with women as well.

Women really DO MASSIVELY RESPOND
to confidence, because CONFIDENCE always
breeds SUCCESS.  And by “confidence” I
don’t mean that you are always FEELING
confident, but that you are at least never
giving into INSECURITY.

So now, let me give one of the all-time classic
examples of a CONFIDENT response.  It comes
from The Empire Strikes Back, when Han Solo
replies to Princess Leia when they are captured,
she tells him that she loves him, just moments
before the enemy is going to freeze him in
carbonite for God knows how long, maybe forever.

Han’s response is not “Yes, I love you too.”
His response to her loving words, in the
middle of this horrible situation, is:

“I know.”

He KNOWS.

Rather than get all teared up, rather than panic,
and rather than get all emotional and awe-struck
that she has told him she loves him, he instead
shows INSANE CONFIDENCE and also shows
a SENSE OF HUMOR as well, he shows that
he KNOWS she loves him and that she has
loved him all along.

Now let me share something about this, there
is A REASON this quote from this movie has
been loved and cherished and quoted by so many
fans and even non-fans over the years.

And it’s because this CHARACTER is actually
teaching a GREAT LESSON about how to
attract women.   

It’s not ONLY THE CONFIDENCE.

It’s ALSO the HUMOR.

I have studied some of the actual research on how
humor affects the brain, and one of the things it
does is actually help store things into the LONG
TERM MEMORY.

So, when you meet a woman for the FIRST TIME,
and you demonstrate CONFIDENCE in a way that
ALSO gets her LAUGHING, you are ATTRACTING
her in a way that she will REMEMBER YOU long
after the initial “pick up” is over.

Can you think of how important this is when approaching
a woman who is a total STRANGER somewhere?

If you can get her laughing AND seeing that you
are confident, you not only attract her but you help
her remember the conversation and think about you
in a good way long after the initial conversation is
OVER.

This is a HUGE thing, because so often, even a
GOOD initial conversation is often FORGOTTEN
later in the day, and it loses steam by the time that
woman has come home and reflects on it, if she
even reflects on it at all.

But if you got her laughing, and seeing you were
confident, she will likely think about the conversation
she had with you, and EVEN IF SHE DOESN’T
REMEMBER THE DETAILS SHE WILL REMEMBER
HOW SHE FELT, THAT SHE FELT GOOOOOOOD.

People don’t remember details so well, but they
ALWAYS REMEMBER HOW YOU MADE
THEM FEEL.

So show masculinity, show confidence, and get her
LAUGHING, and you are going to become a
POWERHOUSE of attraction with women.

Regarding CONFIDENCE with women, I have
a FANTASTIC program called WARRIOR
WITHIN, and it’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

Regarding HUMOR, I have a very special interview
I did with a man who used to suck with women, then
became so good that he was one of the subjects of
a New York Times best-selling book regarding
attracting women.  His entire approach to women
consists of comedy, but in a way where he does
NOT memorize jokes or anything like that.

This is not some gimmick about some kind of
joke to tell women, it’s about UNLEASHING
humor.

I seriously suggest you check it out at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/confident-humor.html

Also, I have an insanely powerful free video that
is crammed with GOLDEN tips for skyrocketing
your attraction with women, and if you haven’t
checked it out yet, then definitely do that now.

It’s at:

http://youtu.be/x1qMxC2r0Pc

I have poured my absolute blood, sweat, and
tears into ALL of my programs, and they are
all designed to help you with every aspect
of being successful with women.

You can check out ALL my programs by going
here:

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Detecting And Attracting A Quality Woman

Today I want to share with you a TON of absolutely
VITAL insights on attracting a quality woman that
has it going on both on the OUTSIDE and on the INSIDE.

Most men fall for the "HALO effect" from beautiful
women and this makes it impossible for most men
to see if a woman REALLY is a great person or not.

The first half of this newsletter is about how to
DETECT a woman's character so you can know
if she is worth pursuing, and the second half focuses
on how to ATTRACT women in the most powerful way.

HOW TO DETECT A WOMAN'S CHARACTER:

1. See if she speaks negatively about many other
people, including all her ex boyfriends.

If she only has bad things to say about everyone
else, chances are she won't think fondly of you
after a while either.

On the other hand, if she tends to focus on the
positive about people, she will probably be a
much better girlfriend for you as well.

2.Be on the lookout to see how she treats others.

For example, if you two are out at a cafe, restaurant,
or coffee shop, how does she treat the employees,
waiters and waitresses? Is she abusive or is she
sensitive? Kindness is free, so there is no excuse
to be a miser with it.

3. Ask her what are her top values in life,
and ask her to be specific.

If she focuses on things that are purely
superficial, like fame and wealth, chances
are she won't stick it out through the
rough patches in life with anyone when
she is in a relationship with them.

On the flip side, if she values loyalty,
honesty, trust, and health, chances are
she will appreciate a good man who treats
her well.

4. Behave in a casual relaxed manner.

This is important, because in order to
get a woman to reveal her character, it's
essential that you don't make her feel judged
for being herself.

So try to be as relaxed as possible when
interacting with a woman. Asking her about
her values must be done in a way where she
does not feel like there is a right or
wrong answer. 

Don't come across as being too serious, or
she will only present to you her "formal"
self which is more of an act, rather than
who she really is naturally.

5. Make note if she is the kind of person who is
able to apologize and own up to making a mistake.

If she is not able to do this, she will be a
horrible person to have a relationship with, for
her ego is so big that she can't admit her
mistakes or learn from them.

6. Pay particular attention to how she behaves
when she is under stress.

If she is still behaving in a way that is
kind and honest and sensitive, she is proving
to be an amazing woman.

However, if she becomes spiteful, hateful,
or abusive, this is an indicator of how she
will be in the future when under any type
of stress. And life definitely will have its
stressful moments, so you can be sure such
a woman will behave badly again in the future.

7.  Listen very carefully when she speaks,
because most people give away their personalities
very quickly without realizing it.

This is because most people don't consciously
try to behave badly, so they all think they are
great even if in fact they are abusive or cruel.

8. Take note of how hard she is trying to
UNDERSTAND you. 

One of the greatest signs of a woman's personality is
if she makes great efforts to accomplish this goal.

If she makes a consistent effort to try to understand
you and to make you feel respected, this is definitely
a reason to continue dating her.

WARNING: It's ESSENTIAL to pick up **ON** what a woman is saying rather than just being focused on "picking up" women, if you want to actually get a woman that is the right match for you as a great long-term girlfriend.

Okay, so now you know some vital tips on how to
DETECT a quality woman.  It's ALSO important to know
how to ATTRACT her!

Most guys try too hard to "prove" themselves to a woman,
and all this ends up doing is make a woman feel PRESSURE
to have to like the guy.

When a woman feels PRESSURE, she puts up her natural wall
of resistance.

This is human nature.

But you can't block or resist what ISN'T there.

ATTRACTION TIP #1:
By eradicating the neediness from yourself,
you remove the PRESSURE on a woman.

When a woman senses this lack of pressure,
it's like a HUGE weight is lifted off her
shoulders,since she can immediately RELAX
with you. You are not trying to GET anything
from her, you are not trying to GET her to
DO anything, or BECOME anything.

So, now that she is free from worrying
about a needy guy, now she is worried
that YOU might not be interested in
HER. She worries about this, because
she is now interested in YOU.

This is the REAL definition of cool.
MINIMUM "GAME", because it's
all INTERNALIZED.

ATTRACTION TIP #2:
When it comes to getting more "touchy feely",
CLUBS ARE DIFFERENT!

At clubs, you can REALLY escalate the
physical contact. And if you are new at
this, it can seem strange. But you can
grow in this area as well, as a recent
reader wrote in. It was a long letter,
so let me get straight to the part on
contact:

LETTER:

..."After a couple of months, I was starting
to really get this stuff. The matrix was opening,
and I really began to understand what is going on.

However, I was becoming discouraged because
I wasn't getting desired results. One night, I was
flirting with a girl, lol, she came up to me and
licked my ear. Shortly after, it hit me. I wasn't
comfortable with being a sexual person. So the
next week, I flirted and made physical contact
with girls everyday. And to my surprise, they
loved it, and so did I (mind you it's not like I
grabbed their ***** or ***).

I actually really believed girls don't like when
guys flirt with them and gently touch them on
the arm, back, waist, or hands. Boy was I
wrong. They are really, really, really receptive
to it. Man that stuff is so addicting.

Zack O.

MY COMMENTS:

Really, that says it all.
You grow internally, from doing it, taking
little steps everyday till it's not only easy,
it's ADDICTIVE in a good way!

And it's not about being some kind of
alpha "mean guy", it's about being
COMFORTABLE with this stuff,
and that makes the girl comfortable
too, so she can enjoy it and you
can too.

And now, on to our final letter:

NEXT LETTER:

First of all, let me say that everything that
you've written about women and dating has
been thought provoking, encouraging and
very motivating. I've been to a lot of similar
websites but few offers anything as good as
yours. Needless to say, you articles are a
gem in the art of dating and seduction. I'm
from ******* and would like to purchase
your e-book. How can I do that?

I came across a profile of a woman on a
dating website and here's how she describes
her ideal match:-

"i had a dream. i met a guy -avg height, avg
build. his face was disfigured and disturbing.
the part of the nose that connects the two
nostrils was burned and misshapen. about .5 cm
of the outside corners of both eyes were puffy,
slanted and looked as though they were welded
together. not only was he "not attractive," he was
viscerally frightening.

we exchanged words - and though i don't
remember the content of our conversation,
i remember he exuded this confidence. a
kind of confidence that is memorable and
comforting.

he was assertive, unassuming, witty, sardonic,
genuine, and he held this conversation and my
interest as if unaware of his deformity. he held
no feelings of inadequacy, and i knew we'd never
waste our energy fighting over petty squabbles.

he'd never misinterpret my words or actions as
a slight against him - and never harbor resentment.
he was too classy. he was chill, calm-and incredibly
keen. he got all my jokes. AND bantered back. "

What are your thoughts on this?

MY COMMENTS:

Yes, it's quite cool when we get to the
SUBCONSCIOUS, that part that doesn't
lie or get bogged down with logic.

Now, in any dream there will sometimes be
one of the elements that might not be applicable
to real life, the fact is, dreams tell us a LOT
about what is going on in someone's mind.

And the cool thing here, is this woman is
verifying every single component of
what she is attracted to, and every component
gets back to this idea of MINIMUM
GAME, of NATURAL attraction.

So let's get to it:

This guy has the inner behaviors and beliefs of
security, confidence, and warmth, and embodies
the personality of attraction.

I also think that the "viscerally frightening"
might very well be a turn on in the sense of it
highlights his CHARACTER since the focus
is OFF his looks.

Also, a little of  "Beauty and the Beast" type thing
going on here.

Also, you can see that the words of the conversation
aren't the main thing, as she can't remember the
words but rather remembers the VIBE, i.e. that
"he exuded this confidence. a kind of confidence
that is memorable and COMFORTING."

ATTRACTION TIP #3:
Your MOOD Is KEY To Setting The Right VIBE.

Also, in her description of this man, it is clear
that he will be masculine and LEAD the way
because "he was assertive" and he was NOT a jerk,
as he was "unassuming", and "genuine".

ATTRACTION TIP #4:
Be Assertive, Masculine, And Lead The Way

He's also got "wit", and since sexual attraction
is the subtext of her message, it's not a leap
of faith to say that what she probably also
means is that he "gets it" when it comes to
sexual flirtation, teasing, etc. And of course,
that he's a witty guy in general doesn't hurt.

ATTRACTION TIP #5:
Flirt Using WIT With Women.

He has witty remarks, often with sexual undertones.
Also HE himself is so in his own reality and
confident, it is as if he is not even aware of his
deformity. This is particularly attractive, by
the way, because it shows a purity of
emotion/thought, i.e. that somehow the world
has NOT polluted his mind with insecurities and
by association has therefore not polluted his
mind with other absurd negativities that most
people are burdened with.

And in fact, I too by the way love it when
a girl is comfortable with her "flaws" and in
fact I find it a turn-on if she finds herself
sexy, including her "flaws".

ATTRACTION TIP #5:
High self-esteem is HOT.

He has "no feelings of inadequacy", which
means he is secure and will not take things
that she says the wrong way, "i knew we'd
never waste our energy fighting over petty
squabbles. he'd never misinterpret my words
or actions as a slight against him - and
never harbor resentment."

All because she senses he is SECURE, and
so too in reality most women will often test
a guy to see if he is the kind of guy that can
handle life with her, to see if he is the insecure
type, to see if he is the kind of guy that will
explode over trivial things, etc.

And his sense of confident witty humor is
sooo important, as she says, "and he got all
my jokes. AND bantered back.", meaning
he could ping that energy back to her when
she ponged it, like ping pong, the energy
and fun going back and forth.

What she meant by "assertive", is the
confidence in every aspect, ESPECIALLY
considering that he was "viscerally frightening",
but still had SO MUCH confidence, this is
especially admirable and inspiring and attractive.

And also, I'm sure that the assertiveness
in her mind, at least subconsciously, also
included being assertive in bed, for SURE.

ATTRACTION TIP #6:
Be Assertive In Bed .

This then gives women the permission to
ALLOW THEMSELVES to be ultra sexual,
since they can feel okay about it since
the guy is so assertive. Otherwise, if the
woman has to be the assertive one, she
feels "guilty" about it because of culture
and the anti-slut defense shield etc, etc.

If you are reading this right now, you can
probably see just how deep attraction
goes when it is done RIGHT.

And you can now get the most powerful
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Since day one, I have constantly sought to
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without manipulation, and without turning you
into a 'court jester' or 'entertainer'. It has
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As a result of this development, and as a result
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Quite simply, it's the most advanced resource
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My programs are designed for mature men who aren't
interested in gimmicks, or in having a bunch of
one-night stands with trashy girls.

The programs I offer are made for giving you
the most options when it comes to meeting and
attracting the highest quality women, ultimately
for great relationships. 

Also, these programs GROW in power over time, because
as you get wiser with life, you start to appreciate
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These programs don't become outdated, they just
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Till next time,

Michael Marks

The JERK Factor (An Absolute MUST)

A long time ago, I used to think the reason
JERKS did well with women was because
women were crazy.

Then, I thought women were hardwired
to be attracted to jerks.

Then, I thought it was just that some of
these guys had everything ELSE going
for them, so that they could get AWAY
with being jerks and still have women
attracted.

Fast forward ten years of REAL WORLD
testing, and I can tell you the TRUTH:

The part of being a JERK that is attractive
actually has nothing to do with being a jerk.
It’s just that good guys tend to THINK that
a lot of behaviors that are attractive must
be “jerky” when they aren’t.

Let me give you some specific examples:

1. DATING ONLINE

Most guys, when creating a profile, will try
to “convince” a woman reading the profile
that they are good guys, who will be fun,
interesting, and who will treat a woman well.

The PROBLEM with all this, is that ninety-nine
percent of the time, women get the SAME kind
of message from ALL guys.

PLUS, when women read the messages and the
profile descriptions, women feel that the vast majority
of all these guys are so focused on trying to impress
the women, that it’s obvious to the women that the
guys probably will accept ANY behavior from
any attractive woman and be grateful for any attention.

All this is NOT flattering.
It just makes a woman feel SORRY/SYMPATHY,
not feel ATTRACTION, because the message
being sent on a primal unconscious level is
“I am not on the same level of value as you.”

The woman can ALREADY predict the future of
what will happen if she gives the SLIGHTEST
indication of interest to the guy:

The guy will write back a huge long email,
and offer to take her somewhere really nice,
and probably give her all kinds of compliments
even though he has no clue who she really is,
but the guy will READ INTO any little thing
about her description and see it through
ROSE-colored glasses, he will fall BIG TIME
for the HALO effect.

The halo effect, in this example, is the tendency
of a man to think that an attractive woman is
more intelligent, more noble, more admirable,
than another woman who is not as attractive.

Yes, the MIND is hardwired this way, and
most guys are SLAVES to their MIND, they
don’t learn to control their MIND, so their
MIND controls THEM. And when it comes
to the area of attraction and women, this
is TOTALLY true.

On the OTHER hand, let’s take the OPPOSITE
example, okay?

Imagine a guy creates a profile, where his first
line is “I’m a total JERK. I always treat myself
first and love myself more than anyone else.
Pretty much, I’m the guy you’re mother warned
you about. The problem is, even though you’ve
been warned, you’ll end up falling in love with
me, then hating me because all I’m good at is
sex. Then, you’ll keep coming back to me
because all I’m good at is sex and I’m horrible
at listening to your problems.

Which leads to more fights and even more intense
mind-blowing make up sex. Oh man, leave me alone
already, I can already feel you harassing me with
love-hate mail. The story of my life…”

Now, I know that a million guys are about to
cut and paste this since that’s the easiest thing
to do, and yup, they will get better results
than they have been getting all their life.

But as everyone copies this, it will wear a
little thin, so the key is to understand the
PRINCIPLE at work here AND create your own.

2. READING BETWEEN THE LINES

What is ACTUALLY happening in the above example
can only be seen through READING BETWEEN THE LINES.

To a guy who is UNAWARE of the reality
of his FULL POTENTIAL AND POWER, and to
a guy who is unaware of the REALITY of
an attractive woman, the above profile
sounds like that of a JERK.

But in REALITY, here's what it’s actually saying:

“Hey there, I’m not like those other needy
desperate guys who are going to ask you
to marry them the first second you reply
to them. I’m quite a catch myself, and
not in a hurry to get chained down to
the WRONG WOMAN, so you can feel
free to NOT be under any PRESSURE
to be with me.

If you decide to be with ME, it will be by 
your CHOICE, not by FORCE, pressure,
guilt, or any other pathetic attempt to 
get you.

I’m also a really FUN and PLAYFUL guy 
as you can tell from my sense of humor.

In addition, I’m not uncomfortable about
sex and about enjoying it in tons of creative
and passionate ways.

Plus, I already have experience with women,
and the truth is, they are so addicted to me,
the only reason they hate me is because they
can’t get ENOUGH of me, and enough
control of me, they wish they could totally
control me because they want me so badly.

PLUS, the fact is, that EVERY GUY you've
ever really loved was the SAME like me,
so you can already FEEL that I am going
to give you the SAME awesome emotions
except even BETTER since I'm even MORE
of all the things that made you WILD about
any man in the past!"

That is what the message is REALLY saying
"between the lines"!

And communication is always more powerful
when done INDIRECTLY rather than SAYING
it directly.

That's why you must learn to communicate
in a way where your message is in between
the lines.

"In between the lines" is INDIRECT.
When you just try to say important things
directly, it doesn't work because EVERYONE
TRIES the same direct thing, so the mind
gets DESENSITIZED to it.

It's too easy, everyone does the direct thing
about saying they are all great catches.

It doesn't make a woman FEEL anything,
other than that the guy might be just
telling a lie to impress her.

Anyone can SAY they are great, right?
It's much better to INFER it indirectly.

So, for example, you don’t SAY to a woman
that you are funny, if you are funny.

Instead, you GET her laughing.

You don’t SAY you are confident, you instead
SHOW it through your ACTIONS and through
your LANGUAGE.

NOTHING jerky going on actually, see?

Tons of OTHER cool and attractive things going
on here, but no “jerkiness”.

Now, guess what? Online dating can be great,
but it is just one route to success, because
as you will see:

3. REAL LIFE GIVES YOU MAXIMUM ATTRACTION POWER

ONLINE DATING is just barely scratching the
SURFACE of what you can do when you are
approaching women in REAL LIFE.

You are not limited to just using a KEYBOARD,
but rather you can access the power of your
FULL HUMAN POTENTIAL since all of your physical
self is actually there.

Your verbal skills, your body language, tonality,
sense of style and fashion, humor, wit, confidence,
all this comes together with GREATER impact
when approaching a woman in PERSON.

This is one of the reasons I LOVE teaching guys
in REAL LIFE how to attract women through
“cold approaches” LIVE, in real time on actual
women whether the women are in coffee shops,
bookstores, lounges, anywhere!

4. “JERK FACTOR” IN DEALING WITH REAL JERKS

So let’s say you are chatting to a woman somewhere,
and some loser/jerk who has nothing better to do
tries to interfere in your chat, because he wants
to try to get this woman now that he sees YOU
doing it, because he didn’t have the guts to do it
before he saw YOU do it.

Most of these types of guys are guys who have
no girlfriends and couldn’t get one if they tried
because they are so negative minded, but they
just can’t stand to see someone ELSE get any
results with women, so THEN they suddenly
get motivated.

Well, a lot of guys would actually GIVE the
JERK way too much credit by even
ACKNOWLEDGING his presence.

So let’s say the jerk comes into your conversation
with the woman and makes a remark to her like:
“Hey, wanna have some REAL fun?”

A lot of guys would be thrown for a loop here.
They would say something to the guy like,
“What?”, or they might say, ‘Who are you?”,
or even, “Who the heck are you?”

The very ACT of RESPONDING at all is
a kind of CONDITIONED response, but
it doesn’t mean the jerk DESERVES that
response.

JUST IGNORE HIM COMPLETELY.

If you TOTALLY cut him out of your reality,
the woman you are with will VERY OFTEN
totally cut him out too, since it’s obvious
he had LESS guts than you, and is an energy
vampire that sucks off of other people.

NOTHING JERKY with totally IGNORING
him, but a lot of guys WOULD give him
SOME attention, because they feel that
they are SUPPOSED to say SOMETHING.

SAYS WHO?
The “nice guy” federation?

And if the jerk KEEPS on trying to chat
to her, or to try to talk to you to distract
you from her or to ruin your vibe with her,
just PULL THE GIRL AWAY with you,
take her by the hand and MOVE.

If the guy REALLY keeps up at it, then
HE is lowering his own value as he is
showing that he CLEARLY sees YOU
as having the ability to get what HE wants.

Meanwhile, he HASN’T got what he wants.
The woman SEES all this, and registers it
DEEP in her unconscious, as this jerk behaving
in a way that is clearly conveying he is of low
intrinsic value and thus UNATTRACTIVE.

And so often, these jerks will have ONE
thing going for them, be it bodybuilding,
or wealth, or high marks in academics, or
some fancy car or prestigious job, or some
kind of connection to someone, WHATEVER.

It doesn’t matter, what matters is that it is always
OBVIOUS that they are relying on that ONE
thing for their sense of ego and confidence.

And then, it ALWAYS COMES UP when
they chat to a woman.

So you will notice the guy trying to wear
an extra tight shirt to show his muscles,
or he will drop into the chat that he is
from some high university, or he will
mention some prestigious club he is
part of, etc.

AWESOME!
This sets him up for total destruction.

All you need to do is prick that BALLOON
of FALSE CONFIDENCE and he will quickly
leave with his tail between his legs.

How do you do this?
By EXAGGERATING whatever the heck
he is using to try to “qualify” himself.

If he’s trying to use his muscular SIZE, then
GUSH at this. Tell him to flex for you. Tell
him you think it’s so unfair that most bodybuilders
work so hard and don’t get paid enough.

By GIVING HIM SO MUCH of what he
WISHES he could get, i.e. VALIDATION,
it FLOODS his circuits and he isn’t sure
what the heck is going on.

It also makes him realize that maybe EVERYONE
is on to him, that he is actually MASSIVELY LACKING
CONFIDENCE if he doesn't have his one magic thing,
in this case, his muscles.

If a guy is using his academic intelligence to
try to show off to the girl, VALIDATE his
sense of academic intelligence, tell him you
SUCKED at school and wished you could be
like him.

Remember, the reason these guys ARE jerks
in the first place, is they still haven’t learned
that it’s their INSECURITY that is screwing
them up!

Provide them a HIT of validation on the
ONE THING they use to prop themselves
up, and they simultaneously get their circuits
FRIED with overload, but they ALSO then
wonder if maybe you’re screwing with them,
and it makes them REALIZE for a sec that
maybe EVERYONE is onto their insecurity.

Of course, the best thing is to just IGNORE
AND LEAVE with the girl, but if you have
to, you do the above.

Is that kind of response to a jerk somehow
jerky itself? Not really. It’s just you
TARGETING the issue DIRECTLY.

What you have read here is a glimpse into
the REAL WORLD of attracting women.

It’s NOT about being a jerk.
It’s about expanding your power in every way,
yet WITHOUT you being unfair to ANYONE.
It’s about learning the truth of how things work.

It’s about gaining insights into women.

And it’s about making your MIND SERVE
YOU, rather than YOU serving your MIND.

Becoming this kind of man is overwhelmingly
seductive to a woman, she can't HELP but
be attracted. It digs too deep into her
carnal sense of you being all MAN, all
"CAVE-MAN survival of the fittest",
all PRIMAL.

Her response to this kind of man is not
LOGICAL. She doesn't THINK about it.
She just FEELS it, and she feels it
DESPERATELY with ferocious intensity.

It's VISCERAL, she will feel a NEED,
not just a "want" to be with you,
but a deeply obsessive NEED.

And if you're reading this right now,
you can clearly see that attracting
women has so MUCH to do with where
you are coming from on a deep INTERNAL
level, from the way you are THINKING
to the way you are FEELING when it
comes to all these situations, from
approaching women to escalating things
to a physical level.

All this goes very, very, VERY deep.

I have created an INFINITELY POWERFUL
program on DEEP LEVEL INTERNAL CHANGE
regarding all these essential areas for
attracting women.

Mastering this deep level of attraction
allows you to experience a whole other
UNIVERSE of unlimited CHOICE when it
comes to women.

The program is called "Warrior Within",
and I seriously suggest you get your
hands on it immediately.

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

Women can tell the difference between
a guy who is just doing an "act" and
a man who is the "real thing".

This program is all about deep, real
transformation, and it will SKYROCKET
your results with women.

Again, it's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Perfect Solution For How To Approach Women

I'm about to give you the PERFECT SOLUTION for
how to approach women in a way that attracts them. 

When you approach women, you need to first
WARM WOMEN UP with the RIGHT kind
of conversation that gets things going in the
proper direction.

When it comes to attracting a woman who is a
total stranger, especially when you are approaching
her in a place that is not a dance club where alcohol
and other factors are at play, you MUST FIRST
develop a powerful CONNECTION with her.

It’s ESSENTIAL that you don’t "put the cart before
the horse" so to speak. 

SKIPPING the first stage and trying to get physical
IMMEDIATELY (even just verbalizing your desire
to take things to a physical level) almost always fails,
especially when approaching women in everyday
places like coffee shops, bookstores, public transit,
or just about anywhere else.

So here’s what I mean by the RIGHT type of conversation:
The right kind of conversation taps on topics that are directly
MEANINGFUL to a woman, and are also INTRIGUING to
her, and are often ALSO FUNNY at the same time.  Overall,
the TONE should be UPBEAT, it should take her to a place
that is emotionally BETTER than where she was BEFORE
she met you.

And one of the BIG topics that you can incorporate into
almost ANY "approach women" situation is the topic of
HUMAN COMMUNICATION and CONNECTION.

Think about it: When you approach a woman who is a
total stranger, the ONLY way to bridge that gap is by
helping her "feel out your personality".  Otherwise,
you are letting her view you as a blank VOID, since
you are a stranger to her.

The way to help her ‘feel out your personality’ is to
CONNECT to her using the sharpest human communication
skills you have, and I have found that actually using the
TOPIC of human communication as a theme in your chat
with her, ends up SUBCONSCIOUSLY MOTIVATING
HER to use HER communication skills with YOU, so that
she can get to know YOU better! 

As human beings, we are ALL social creatures.  We may
not all be "party animals" but we all need some connection
to others.  No man, and no woman, is an island.  So chances
are STRONG that this topic will RESONATE with most
women you meet.

Keep in mind  that most women are even more social than men, and you then realize that this topic becomes even MORE effective with women.

Now, before I go further, let me give you two powerful
points regarding human communication that you might
use in a chat with a woman:

1. For all the technological communication tools we
have today, overall as a society we actually have
FEWER truly MEANINGFUL connections than
our parents’ generation, partially as a RESULT
of all these technological devices.  

2. Study after study keeps on showing us that
meaningful connections with others, i.e. our
relationships with others, are the single greatest
factor in determining our overall sense of happiness.

This is all VERY RELEVANT to "picking up women" and
I’ll get more into all of this in a second.   

I want to make it really clear that what I am about to describe
does NOT have to be a DIFFICULT task to accomplish, in
fact I will show you right now a PERFECT way to do this
EVERY time. 

The magic words to remember are these:

EVERY situation where you see a woman somewhere,
no matter WHERE, and no matter WHEN, always has
the PERFECT solution already BUILT IN to that situation,
so that you NEVER have to resort to cheesy pick-up lines
that sound to her like you use them on every woman, and
which would not make her feel special at all.

Pick-up lines actually cause women to put up their
GUARDS because women then feel you are not being real
with them, they feel you are just putting on an ACT.

They then wonder what you are HIDING if you have to
use some ACT.  This is what causes the negative reaction
of most women to pick up lines- it’s because they make
women SUSPICIOUS of what the guy REALLY is about,
since he is clearly putting on some act that hides his identity.   

So here’s an EXAMPLE of the "HOW-TO" on applying
this concept of "every situation has the solution built 
into it" while incorporating the TOPIC of "HUMAN CONNECTION".

Let’s say you are at a STARBUCKS and you see a woman
there you’d love to chat up.  You might notice a million
different things, from the book she is holding in her
hand, to the particular drink she orders, that you might
have an intriguing comment on, but let’s say you CAN’T
think of anything to say to her- here’s an example of
INCORPORATING THE ELEMENT OF HUMAN
CONNECTION:

You might speak about the very FACT that Starbucks
itself was really based on the PREMISE that going for
a coffee should NOT just be something you RUSH
but rather should something you savor and enjoy as
a great experience WITH OTHER PEOPLE around. 

It’s the HUMAN element, NOT the coffee, as
coffee has been around for a lot longer than
Starbucks has.  Even coffee shops used to
be something that didn’t really CELEBRATE
the coffee experience, it wasn’t supposed to
be some CLASSY social experience till
STARBUCKS came along.

And you can actually APPROACH a woman
in a Starbucks, or even ANYWHERE, any
woman having a coffee, but especially this
would work well in a Starbucks, by mentioning
something like this:

"Hi there, I just had this thought, and I’m curious
what you think.  Did you know that the whole idea
of Starbucks is that it was instead of people rushing
in and out of donut and coffee shops, the idea was
that people would really RELISH the coffee experience,
and that it would be a COMMUNITY type of place
where you actually take your time with it.

In fact, that’s why every Starbucks has the community
wall inside of it, with postings about events in the
community. The idea is to have people socializing
and being a GROUP, it’s the SOCIAL element.

But here’s the part that really makes me WONDER:
Have you EVER seen anyone at a Starbucks actually
CHAT to anyone they didn’t already KNOW?"

NOW THIS is a COOL conversation starter, and you’ve
actually shown how YOU are aware of the human
dynamics of communication, and how YOU are
actually DIFFERENT from others, and also if she
CHATS TO YOU RIGHT NOW, she is PROVING
herself to be DIFFERENT from most people as well,
in a POSITIVE way, which now gives you something
that you can REWARD her for with a GENUINE
compliment!

No matter WHAT SHE SAYS back to you, chances are
she’s going to provide you with a lot MORE to speak about
than if you just say "hi" to her, or just told her she was
beautiful, although that is also a lot better than doing
nothing.

She might respond with something like this:

"That’s fascinating, I never thought about that before!
But it makes sense. Usually I’m just thinking I need
my caffeine fix!"

And now, with that kind of playful humor that SHE
is giving you, you are off to the right kind of BANTER.

You can playfully tease her for being addicted to a drug
called caffeine, and then you can actually give her a
COMPLIMENT that she is one of the few human
beings that has social skills enough to actually use
Starbucks for what is was originally designed for!

Once you are on this topic, you can take it much FURTHER,
even if you, for example, CONSCIOUSLY bring up MORE
of the topic of human communication in a way that involves
HER.

You could tell her that one of the most important elements
to human communication is confirming feedback, meaning
validation,  this can be SIMPLE in the sense of someone
saying HELLO to you after you have said HELLO to them.

 And then you can PLAYFULLY say to her, "Hello!" and
she will GET THE JOKE, that it’s HER role to now
say HELLO back to you, and she will say, "Hello", and
now you can PLAYFULLY tell her that she is GOOD at
this communication stuff.

By being PLAYFUL about this, you are actually getting
away with PERFECT HUMAN COMMUNICATION
and CONFIRMING FEEDBACK, and setting up a
great foundation for her to get to KNOW you, all
the while she is ENJOYING this because it’s a bit
playful and not totally serious.

You can even take it a step FURTHER by letting her
know that receiving VALIDATION from others
through confirming feedback is really an essential
part of having a healthy psyche, and you can then
smile at her and give her a MEANINGFUL
compliment and even TELL her that you just
gave her a GENUINE confirming feedback,
and you can even playfully suggest that she
should give the same to you, and tell her that
means she should say something nice about you!

REMEMBER that what makes all this work is
the playful element MIXED with the fact that
this is ALSO true HUMAN COMMUNICATON
being done in the RIGHT WAY.

Now, human communication and validation
is a DEEP topic, that affects EVERYTHING
about our emotions, including the emotion
of SEX, but for now, I just want to mention
ONE more thing, which is that you can
even talk about how TRUST is the bedrock
of any real meaningful social connection,
to which she will surely AGREE.

At this point, going for her NUMBER is going
to be the EASIEST thing on Earth, because you
have conveyed TONS of cool things about yourself,
and you have gotten her smiling, you have intrigued
her, you have made her feel better about herself,
you have shown yourself to be different from
every other guy she’s met, it’s just CRAZY
how much good stuff you have going for yourself
at this point.

And by the way, this TOPIC is NOT limited
to STARBUCKS AT ALL!!!!! 

The concept of COMMUNICATION flows like
CRAZY into just about EVERYTHING TODAY.

So, for example, you can use a similar approach
for anytime you see a woman on a LAPTOP anywhere,
or using an iPhone or iPad anywhere, or using the
INTERNET anywhere.

Here’s the basics of this idea in a nutshell:

Today, there is MORE technology than ever, all
designed to make it EASIER for an individual to
COMMUNICATE with others.  Everyone has
some kind of cell-phone or I-Phone or I-Pad,
there is SKYPE, there is TWITTER, there was
MY SPACE, there is FACEBOOK, they are ALL
about socializing, they are even called "SOCIAL MEDIA"!

And yet, because of these things, people are LOCKED
into a very ARTIFICIAL form of COMMUNICATION.

The very idea of having a special and INTIMATE
and private identity that connects on a deep level
to someone else is WEAKENED by these things.

There is less privacy.
There is also so much time spent on tech forms
of communication, that many people don’t meet
in PERSON as much, they just communicate by
technology instead of face-to-face.

PLUS, a lot of people use Facebook in a way that does
NOT represent their REAL selves, because they are
afraid that their real selves are not cool, so they 
instead do all sorts of things to try to seem more
cool by creating an identity that is not really true
to themselves.

THIS is a topic that is NOT supposed to be said as
a rant, and I fully see the value in these technologies for OTHER purposes, I'm just try to make it clear here so you can get the "talking points" that you would bring up in the conversation opener. 

These topics are INTERESTING and RELEVANT
and they ESPECIALLY relate to HUMAN
COMMUNICATION- which is what you are
using when chatting to a woman who is a
total stranger.

So you can use these topics as a conversation
opener, asking her for HER thoughts on these      
ideas, and then later in the chat you can playfully
CONGRATULATE her for being so good at
REAL communication face-to-face with you!

You would open the conversation with the most
relevant item, i.e. if she was using an I-Phone,
Facebook, a laptop, etc, etc.

We are LIVING in a very UNIQUE time when it
comes to the very way most people even PERCEIVE
HUMAN COMMUNICATION, and it makes sense
to TAP this topic when talking to a woman who you
want to actually have INTIMATE communication with.

It’s something that is meaningful to her, and probably
she does NOT get enough of a MEANINGFUL connection
in her own life, even though she may very well spend
TONS of time on social media.  YOU will be the man
who stands out as the man who IS able to connect
with her on the most powerful level.

And THEN you can proceed to stage two, of getting
PHYSICAL, because then SHE WILL BE INTERESTED
in getting physical with YOU.

I’m sure that you can tell from reading this newsletter
that I’m only interested in giving you the ABSOLUTE
MOST POWERFUL INSIGHTS AND STRATEGIES
for approaching and attracting women ANYWHERE
you find them.

And yet, this newsletter is barely scratching the SURFACE
of what you will learn in my programs for approaching
and attracting the most gorgeous women ANYWHERE.

The greatest thing about what you will learn in my programs
is that almost every attraction strategy you will learn from me,
as powerful as it is ALONE, becomes even MORE POWERFUL
when combined TOGETHER with the other attraction strategies
that I show you.

What this means, for example, is that everything you have read
in this newsletter becomes EVEN MORE POWERFUL  when
you combine it with what you will learn in my programs. 

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

What Most Men Don't Know About Attracting Women

There are a TON of super-important ALERTS
that I need to let you know about when it comes
to attracting women and also when it comes to
making the most of your life as a man.

It’s been a while, because I’ve been really busy,
and rather than giving advice, I’ve been busy
following my own advice and practicing what
I preach. 

So here we go.  The following points are ALL
equally vital, and are in no particular order:

ONE: THE TRUTH ABOUT INSECURITY

One of the greatest misunderstandings that men
have when it comes to attracting women is regarding
their ideas of confidence, and why confident men
attract women.

So let me focus on one of the big reasons that tends to
NEVER get publicity, but is in reality probably the
BIGGEST reason why confidence is important.

Insecurity is destructive because it actually makes a
guy come across as THREATENING.

In the same way a dog sniffs fear and starts BARKING,
so too human beings can sense (not with their noses,
but with all the other human senses, including the
ability to observe body language including tonality)
fear in others.

When someone around us is feeling NEGATIVE, it
makes the people around that person feel UNEASY,
and feel THREATENED.

Now, considering that a woman ALREADY is somewhat
cautious before allowing a man who is a TOTAL STRANGER
into her life, it sure doesn’t help when this total stranger is
DOING THINGS that make the woman actually FEEL MORE
UNEASY AND FEEL THREATENED.

So many guys think that they come across as a “nice guy”
and come across as “weak” if they don’t show confidence,
but the irony is that they may not EVEN being coming
across as “weak” or “nice” but rather as DOWNRIGHT
CREEPY.

And what hurts me most is that I know how some of the
NICEST and BEST guys end up doing this, giving off
the very OPPOSITE message of who they are, and thereby
letting the JERKS win with women, the jerks who don’t
SEEM like jerks initially to the untrained eye!!!!!!!!

Remember, my specialty is meeting women in completely
NORMAL places that are not associated with “pick-up”.
I like these kinds of places because the attractive women in
night clubs and other pick-up joints tend to not make for
good long-term girlfriends, as they are usually just seeking
adventure and partying and novelty, and not the long term
building of a relationship.

So, in these NORMAL places, such as bookstores, coffee shops,
supermarkets, and just about anywhere else that is not specially
designed for “picking up”, it REALLY COMES ACROSS AS
DESTRUCTIVE if you are not exuding confidence.

You don’t have to be a millionaire. You don’t have to be
male model. But when you approach a woman who is
in a regular place that is not a nightclub or some other
pick-up joint, it becomes VERY IMPORTANT that you
give off the right VIBE that says you are VERY CALM
and VERY RELAXED and NOT NEEDY FOR IMMEDIATE
SEX AT ALL.

It is of PARAMOUNT importance to understand a woman’s
perspective about all this “pick up” stuff.

There was a study done on a university campus where one
average looking young  woman (not super attractive, not ugly,
not dressed with revealing clothing, just dressed normal)
approached about 100 men, propositioning them for instant
sex right then and there in a room not far away on campus.

The VAST MAJORITY of the men ALL SAID YES.
In fact, the one man who said no, APOLOGIZED, saying
he was married, and one other man wanted to do it, but
he wanted to request it for later.

That’s the basic sum total of the study.

They then reversed the study, where a man on campus
went up to about 100 women, propositioning them for
sex on campus right then, right on campus in a room
not far away. 

And guess what?
NOT ONE WOMAN GAVE HIM A YES.

From alllllllll those women, he got ONE phone number.
That’s it.

This should go to PROVE to you that women and men
do NOT react the same to a proposition that CLEARLY
entails an immediate physical intimate element as part
of it.

In fact, to go even FURTHER, they REPEATED the study
with the man propositioning the women.  They thought
that maybe the man was “not good looking enough”, so
they went and got some “good looking guy” to do the
SAME experiment, and even THEN, STILL, the vast
majority of the women STILL rejected the guy!!!!!!

So, I am NOT saying that having GOOD LOOKS DOESN'T HELP.
GOOD LOOKS DO HELP, but they are FAR from the whole
picture when it comes to attracting women.

And, as indicated above, even a guy with MODEL
level looks STILL can't get a woman to sleep
with him if he point blank proposes such a
thing to a woman!

IT'S JUST NOT THE SAME THING FOR MEN AND WOMEN.

So let me save you from having to spend ten years
reading all the studies.  When a man sees a woman who
is HOT, that is ALL HE NEEDS TO KNOW to already
go into SUPER-PURSUIT mode on a genetic level.

I’m not saying he wants to MARRY her, but he is already
going FULL BLAST in terms of desire.

On the other hand, when it comes to what a WOMAN
thinks when a man approaches her, it actually is FAR
more complicated.  What a man who wants to succeed
with her should convey are the following things:

ONE. Convey SAFETY. 

This is one of the reasons I suggest that you do NOT
start the conversation with too much flirtation at all.

I prefer giving a voice that is DEAD SERIOUS.

Remember, a woman has been told since the day she
was born that men are not to be trusted, that men
only want to get physical, that men are the evil
of this earth.

Soooo, rather than playing it up all happy and fun,
in a place that is NOT A PARTY ZONE, (e.g.
that is NOT  a club or disco or popular social
hangout) you actually show that you are NOT
pushing for something that is not being offered.

You therefore ALLOW for her to NOT be perceived
as “cheap” or “low morals” or “low class” if she
talks to you, since OBVIOUSLY from your tonality
you are NOT flirting.

Getting too fast into the flirting actually triggers
her alarms.

This DEAD SERIOUS tonality for the first opening
part of the conversation also does something ELSE
very positive:

TWO: IT SHOWS STATUS

Now, it IS true that SOME women are far, FARRR
LESS into status than other women are.

Often,  the women who are LESS into a man's "status" are
MORE into having raw carnal pleasure with him, but
this is not always the case.  So, yes, it is true, there
are some women who don't care that much about
a man's STATUS.

But all women care about it to at least a SMALL degree.
And when you are starting with a woman who is a total
stranger, you want every honest advantage you can get.

Whether it’s being captain of the football team or
head of the music club, or even just manager
of the store, women LIKE men with status.

Women don’t want to be with a guy who seems to
be on the BOTTOM of the totem pole.  It reeks
of laziness, lack of work ethic, lack of ambition,
lack of zest for life, etc.

In HER mind, if a guy is getting flirty too fast, it
SEEMS to be the actions of a guy who CAN’T GET
WOMEN EASILY so he must RESORT to desperately
hitting on women he finds ANYWHERE.

And THAT reeks of LOW STATUS.

So you DON’T want to go flirty too fast.
And this means not showing such happy vibes in your
voice at the beginning of the conversation, because
chances are, you wouldn’t be that happy talking
about whatever it is, from the produce in the supermarket,
to the magazines at the rack at the bookstore, etc, etc,
if she was NOT a really major knockout to you.

It is HER who is giving you that energy and making
you flirty, and yet you should NOT show it, as it
will come across as desperate and of low status and of
creepiness and possibly danger.

THREE: CREATE A SENSE OF FAMILIARITY

The truth is, we all feel better when there is
something FAMILIAR to the NEW.

Yes, we all like something new if it is good,
but we don’t want it to be so new that it is
something we can’t CONNECT to or relate
to at all.

We like new flavors of ice cream, but
PICKLED ONION ICE CREAM is a little
TOO unfamiliar.

This is where your conversation must create
CONNECTION so you and her can RELATE
to each other on at least some things with which
she is FAMILIAR to.

To achieve this, I prefer to do a bit of   Sherlock
Holmes style detective work on a woman.  I
will notice something she is reading, doing,
or wearing, that may reflect deeply on her
personality, and then I will ask her about that
thing.

If she is reading a book on military history,
I know she is going to be unlike most women,
and I can ask her about that and definitely have
a great conversation. 

If she is in line buying a protein powder, I know
I can talk about working out and how important
nutrition is, and the emotional high you experience 
from a great workout.

There are always TONS of things to speak about
if you train your mind to see them.

THEN, when she speaks and talks about something
that I’ve prompted her to speak about, she then
reveals MORE about herself, allowing me to have
MORE to connect with to her.

And I do not lie, I use things from my own experiences
that in fact DO connect to what she is saying, and so
should you.  If you can’t find ANY connection, then
let her go and try again on another woman.

You MUST connect.  This way, she can establish
you in her mind with something POSITIVE and
FAMILIAR.

I’ve even had fun with women in the cereal section of
the supermarket and pretended what it would be like
to be a kid again and yet have the power to get ANY
CEREAL YOU LIKED.  So this connects familiar
pleasant childhood fantasies with you in real life.

OR, you can take it up a notch to a more adult level
by making an adult innuendo, but do this only after
the conversation has been going smoothly for at
least a few minutes, so that you aren’t starting
out with flirtation.  So for example, if she says
she really craves a certain cereal, you can wink
and say once you get to know me, you may crave
other things…  Use your judgment, it all depends
how well things are going at that point if you are
going to go the adult route.

But once again, if you think for one second that
CONNECTION is not important, you are wrong.

CONNECTION is so important on ALL human
levels. In fact, there was a recent big budget movie
featuring ROBOTS called PACIFIC RIM.

Great effects. But it didn’t do big box office.
Then, for all the haters out there who say they
dislike TRANSFORMERS, which is also about
robots, the fact is TRANSFORMERS has made
BILLIONS of dollars.

The difference between the two stories, is that
the ROBOTS have PERSONALITIES in
Transformers. Whether it’s kids or adults or
whether it’s men trying to get women, if you
DON’T SHOW PERSONALITY, there is
NO FEELING FOR A WOMAN TO LATCH
ONTO.

There has to be an emotional CONNECTION.

It is almost EVERYTHING, especially for getting
the wheels ROLLING in the right direction at the
outset of a conversation with a woman who is a
total stranger.  

FOUR: CONVEYING IT WILL BE PLEASURABLE

This is a strange one, because it doesn’t follow
male logic at all.

For a man, if a woman is attractive, he isn’t worried
about if she is not going to be good in bed.

At least not in the beginning. He is focused on
GETTING to that point, and he’ll worry later
if she was no good in bed.

But women are not the same.  Women are actually
subconsciously THINKING about whether you will
be GOOD in BED completely separate from all the
other things she is subconsciously thinking about
regarding whether or not she is attracted.

What’s also interesting here is that for women,
what makes a man good in bed can depend on many
things, and what may have turned on one woman like
wild may not work at all to turn on another woman,
and in fact if a woman knows you used a certain
move on another woman, that in itself might turn
her off.

So the best things you can do to convey that you
are good in bed is at some point in the conversation
having a PLAYFUL attitude about sex, and also
making it ABSOLUTELY CLEAR that you don’t
judge a woman on her freaky side. 

Don’t be afraid to work in some humor that incorporates
sex into the conversation, just don’t START the conversation
with it.

So, if at one point in the chat, the woman says to you,
“It’s late, I can’t believe I’ve spent so long talking
to you”, you might reply with, “Just imagine how long
things will go for when we aren’t talking”, said with
a mischievous grin.

Or you might say something like, “Yeah, foreplay can
sometimes go on and on, but sometimes you really have
to just get down to business”, again with a mischievous
smile, or you can even say “Yeah, well I was going to
just get your number, but I like to get to know a woman
first, know what I mean?”, which of course she will
appreciate.

Okay, so those are HUGE things on the actual pick-up.

There are a few more things I want to share with you,
about making the most of your life in general, which
of course also makes you a more attractive man to
women as well.

STRATEGIC PLANNING

You can achieve some MASSIVE things if you like. 
And all it requires is STRATEGIC PLANNING.

You don’t have to spend 12 hours a day on it to begin with.
NO ONE is able to start out spending 12 hours a day on the
thing they love.

But you CAN start spending a few MINUTES each day.
And these MINUTES are the DIFFERENCE between
those who stay MEDIOCRE and those who attain
AWESOME goals.

This is because the minutes gain MOMENTUM, in terms
of the quality of the improvements you make, which then
motivates you with the confidence, accomplishments, and
the fuel to spend MORE time each day on those goals.

NEVER underestimate the power of a few MINUTES a day.

This is true, by the way, when it comes to APPROACHING
women as well.

When I started off, it was just a few MINUTES in the morning
and at lunch.  I did this and had A BLAST of FUN approaching
women anywhere I saw them.  My heart felt like it was going
to EXPLODE from the pressure, but I LOOOOOVED doing it.

MEETING WOMEN IS THE MOST AWESOME THING.

And so too, ACHIEVING GREAT GOALS is an AWESOME
THING, AND YOU CAN START WITH JUST MINUTES A DAY.

Then, you can increase the amount of time as you start to
fall in love with your progress, you will suddenly find the
time and energy to spend MORE time on your goals without
sacrificing your job or anything like that.  You may even
IMPROVE at your job because of your sense of self-esteem
and because of what you are learning about your own
potential to perform.

SLEEP

I have to put this in here, because it’s so under-rated.
SLEEP is a big thing.

There’s very little money in sleep aside from selling beds
and sleeping pills, (which could be addictive and dangerous),
so you don’t hear about it a lot.

But the truth is, sleep is crucial for your mind and your body.
You are not getting further ahead by getting less sleep.

Go to bed early, and get up early.

There’s a great movie out there called Rush, a true story
about two race-car drivers, and the guy who keeps on winning
is the guy who is less showy, less flashy.  He talks about
winning the race, going home early to get to sleep and training
to win for the next race. He goes through enormous hell
and punishment in the movie, and his determination keeps
him sharp.

So forget about the late-night partying or late-night anything.

PHYSICAL WORK-OUTS

There is so much INSANITY spread on the internet
about this.

Keep it SIMPLE.

GET TO THE GYM.
Now before starting any new exercise or diet
program, consult with your doctor. So do that
first.

Okay, here we go:

Do 5 sets of 10 reps of the following exercises.
Start with a light weight for your first set, then
work your way up with more weight each set,
until you reach your fifth and heaviest set where
you could barely complete the final rep.

If any of these exercises bother your
back or joints, then you may use another
similar exercise as a replacement.

DAY ONE
Flat Bench Barbell Presses
Incline Dumbbell Presses
Dips (body weight)
Pec-Deck Machine

DAY TWO
Full Squats
Leg Curls

DAY THREE
Military Presses (Dumbbells)
Wide-Grip Chin-Ups
Bent-Over Rows
Shrugs
Lateral raises

DAY FOUR
Barbell Curls
Standing French Presses (Triceps)    
Leg raises and incline sit-ups
(Use body weight for leg raises
and incline sit-ups, 3 sets each
for as many reps as possible)

Every day, do cardiovascular activity as well.
That means, use one of the cardiovascular machines
like treadmills or cycles for at least 20 minutes.

After working out with weights for four days, take
one to two days off, and begin the cycle again.

DIET

You will need to eat at least 5 small meals a day.
Stick to lean protein for your proteins at every meal.
Lean chicken, turkey, egg whites, skim milk, lean cheeses.
Carbs such as whole grains, whole pastas, sweet potatoes,
plenty of salads, moderate on the fruits.

Get plenty of water, at least 8 glasses a day.
If you can afford organic, get organic, but also learn
about the politics of organics, as not all organics are
equal.   

And one last MASSIVE thing:  You hear plenty about how
too much sugar and fat is not a good thing, right?

But you barely EVER hear about how DESTRUCTIVE
too much SALT or sodium is. 

Most packaged foods are INSANELY high in salt.
A lot of places and products that like to
portray themselves as HEALTHY alternatives
because they have choices that are low in
fat are actually ENORMOUSLY HIGH in sodium.

In fact, just ONE SERVING of many processed foods
contains MORE SODIUM than any human being on earth
should consume in an entire DAY.

TOO MUCH SODIUM IS DANGEROUS.

Ask questions, read labels, and be selective.

Okay, so I’ve given you some MASSIVE pointers
in the right direction to get you STARTED on the
path to GREAT SUCCESS with women. 

If you would like to get all the details figured out
regarding ANYTHING mentioned in this newsletter, in
a way that is perfectly CUSTOMIZED for your
situation, then it makes sense that you should get
a PRIVATE CONSULTATION with me, either in person
or via a phone call or via email.

Private coaching allows me to apply all my years
of experience toward helping you in the most
EFFICIENT WAY.  I will find out what your
exact challenge is, and I will give you the
absolute best solution as well as how to go
about carrying out the solution.

To learn more about this service go here:
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I need to mention something else at this point.
The RIGHT WOMAN changes EVERYTHING in your life.

Stephen Hawking has written that he was at a
very low point in his life, when he started
to realize the extent of his physical condition
as a young man.  But meeting the right woman
actually CHANGED his entire outlook, and according
to his own words, GAVE HIM A REASON TO LIVE.

You don't have to even LIKE Stephen Hawking
to realize the effect that one good woman
can have on one man, and by extent, on
all of HUMANITY itself.

Man was MEANT to be with woman, but not with the
WRONG woman.

The wrong woman will DESTROY a man, but the RIGHT
WOMAN will set a man to LIFE, he will be EXPLODING
with energy and creativity and a sense of calm as well.

I have focused my mission to helping men get GREAT
women.  

I do this, in a world where there are so many LIES out
there.  In fact, the BIGGER the lie, sometimes the MORE
likely that lie is going to be BELIEVED.

Whether it’s how to get in shape, or how to get women,
there are going to be some OUTLANDISH theories
out there that sound absolutely ridiculous, but because
of the very RIDICULOUS nature of them, SOME
folks are going to assume that it MUST be true,
because, they think, “How can someone make up
a lie that is THAT outrageous???”

And the answer is because it WORKS to SUCK SOME
PEOPLE IN.

I also am not criticizing the victims of these schemes,
as I myself may have been a target of these schemers
at one time myself.

The world has a lot of sleazebags in it, and that includes
salespeople, it includes people in all professions and jobs,
and include a lot of men and a lot of women.

Most people are okay, but there are still a  LOT of
sleazebags with ZERO remorse for the lies and
pain they cause in giving advice that does not
help.

Some of these people who spread lies can't even be called
"sleazebags" because they do not even KNOW they are
spreading lies.

Some of these people actually BELIEVE in the lies they
are spreading, because they refuse to use a scientific
approach requiring EVIDENCE to assess the value or
lack of value of their advice.  

And while all this is going on, there are also SOME 
people out there who are AMAZINGLY helpful and
ethical as well.

I saw a study where people were told they were involved
in an experiment where everyone volunteered, and where
the people were supposed to hit a button that administered
an electric shock to a person in another room, a person
who was also a volunteer and who supposedly signed up
for this experiment.

The experiment was designed to see if people will stand
up to authority.  In reality, no electric shocks were
administered, but the participants did not know this.

When told by a person in charge, they were to turn a
knob that would give an electric shock to a person
in the other room.  

Most of the participants had no problem giving
ELECTRIC SHOCKS to others, EVEN when the people
in the other room could be heard SCREAMING from
the pain (the ones receiving the “shocks” were
actors pretending, but the people in the experiment
who were administering the “shocks” did NOT
know that in fact there was no electricity. The
people turning the knobs indeed believed that
they WERE giving a faceless stranger in another
room a series of electric shocks).

But there were SOME people who DID resist
AUTHORITY and REFUSED to administer
more “shocks” until they could see that the
person was okay in the other room.

So my point is this:

Just like there are differences amongst men, there
are also differences amongst women; SOME
women are made of better moral fiber than others.
You CAN detect a woman’s personality with the
skills I teach as well, which is something I get into
in my program called “Warrior Within”, which you
can check out by going HERE:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

This special program also goes into a TON of other
absolutely VITAL insights for getting and
keeping a woman of incredible quality.
 
Finally, I want to make it clear that there are
SOME things that women find UNIVERSALLY
attractive among men: These things include being
the kind of man who is a GO GETTER, who gets
things done, who is not afraid to calmly put a woman
in her place if she gets out of hand no matter how
beautiful she is, and it includes a man who knows
how to make things FUN and sensual when it comes
down to that side of things in the bedroom.

Also, women universally are attracted to men who know
how to handle themselves in any social environment,
and with my programs, your social skills will skyrocket
in ALL environments with ALL people, and of course,
you will also learn the best ways to approach and attract
women no matter WHERE you find them.

Many of my programs are less than 20 bucks!!!!
That is INSANE.  If cost is an issue, then definitely
start with those programs; you are going to get
ten times your investment in terms of results
with women from ANY of the programs that you
purchase from me.

Check out ALL my programs now at:

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You will notice one thing about my programs,
though.  And that is there is NO "get rich
quick" scheme or "how to get women without
actually putting in any effort."

In REAL LIFE, there are no short cuts.
There is no "great body" in 3 minutes of
workout a day with eating pizza and fries
and drinking lots of beer, NO MATTER WHAT
THE BIG MARKETING LIARS TELL YOU.
 
However, staying in IGNORANCE can lead
to NO RESULTS, EVER.

What I will show you is the KNOW-HOW.
THE ULTIMATE IN REAL-WORLD RESULTS.

When you come to my trainings, you are
NOT coming to some playground to just
pretend you are doing something.
  
You are coming to face reality and put
in the work that needs to be done to
CHANGE your reality.

And for the ultimate in training, I offer you
PERSONAL LIVE COACHING ONE ON ONE,
in person, or via phone or email.

Get the life you want, with the woman you want, NOW.

www.GetAGreatGirl.com

Till next time,

Michael Marks