woman walking on the sidewalk
beside you, even if she is with her
You're going to learn all that and
much more today, you'll even see
how one man got a woman so
attracted that she wrote her phone
number on his arm with her lipstick!
The following is just part of a massive
letter I received, so to save you time,
I'm going to "fast forward" straight to
the heart of the letter:
***LETTER FROM A READER***
"...So I was really looking forward to your
new program, Warrior Within – as it
came out at the perfect time of me being
newly single again: And man, you
did not disappoint.
Within the first 15-20 minutes of the very
first DVD, I already got what I like to call a
“coolness” transfusion injected into my
system on what feels like a cellular level!
It was when you were explaining how
“who we are” is a total artificial
construct, and that in fact, we are
“asleep at the switch” when we are
thinking that our limits with women are
“who we really are”, and that we can’t be
whatever we WANT, on the deepest level.
I started to ask myself what were the
limitations that I was imposing on myself
as a result of thinking that, “This is simply
who I am!”. I realized that you hit the nail
on the head!!
For example, so far in the past, I’ve
still had to “pump myself up” to get into
state in order to make my successful
approaches with women, because it
wasn’t who I felt I “really was”, so
I needed to “pump” myself up to
“reach” that level that was not my
“normal, real” self.
So last night, which was Saturday night,
I was walking along the sidewalk downtown,
in middle of all the fun cafes, lounges, etc,
letting the evening take me where it may,
when three girls, dressed to the nines
clearly for a night on the town, were
walking the opposite direction,
My heart set sail, Michael, at the sight
of one of them in particular, a woman who
looked like an exotic bond girl, she had
dark black hair and a slender, curvy shape,
and this tasteful shimmering jade skirt
that could not hide her gorgeous derriere.
Of course, the first thing that then went
through my mind was the fact that every
guy in a three block radius was looking
as well, and then I realized that allllllll
of these guys were not approaching
because they allllllllllll thought “it’s not
who they are” which of course as you
put it is total b.s.!!!
So then I simply thought of someone who
I thought *would* be perfectly at home
approaching her, and I thought of this
guy I used to know really well when I was
in the Reserves, who was not only a super
cool guy and would do this kind of thing,
but also I could trust this guy with my life.
So I took on the role of being him, I
“threw out” myself for the time being,
and walked into an identity I had never
allowed for myself, but because I was
just “pretending” to be this role, somehow
I gave myself permission to suddenly
Michael, what happened next was the
most exhilarating experience I have
ever had: Something came over me
that I had never felt before, a sense
of permission, entitlement, and power:
I stopped walking, and looked directly
at the girl I was interested in the most,
as she got within about 10 feet.
And I just said: “STOP.”
I put out my hand and said, “You.”
And the crazy thing, Michael, is that
inside of me, I knew they were going
to listen to every word I had to say,
because somehow through sheer
force of WILL, I was exuding a sense
of command and leadership – and
all wrapped up in a sense of fun.
I walked right up to the one that caught
my eye, and with an unwavering look,
looked straight into her blue eyes and
said, with COMMAND, “Where do you
think you’re going? I’m here.”
Then, her friends started to giggle but
she did not even look at them, and now
I know why- it was because I focused
and zeroed in on her exactly as you
said, as if the only two people who
existed in the universe at that moment
was me and her, and that’s it.
I was giving her my total focus, and all
the infinite vibes of power and sexuality.
She didn’t even giggle, she responded
very matter of factly, as if this was
the most normal thing in the world,
with what sounded like a Slavic accent,
“We are celebrating her (pointing to her
blonde friend) birthday! You’re late!”
For a split second, I couldn’t believe that
this insanity was working. It was like the
rules of the universe were up to me, and
I had no idea of exactly what the limits
and rules of this universe were!!!
And then I realized that the rules
are all up to me, and that I better
figure them out quick, as just like
you said, if your conviction is not
iron-clad, others will put their
beliefs in place of yours and create
your reality for you instead.
The best way to describe the feeling
was like the situation in that movie
Inception, where the ground bends
upward into the sky, and buildings are
hanging upside down, and all of reality
becomes freaky and unnerving, and also
cool as hell.
So I went WITH it, exactly as you also
explain in Warrior, and I told her “Of
course I’m late, I was busy preparing
and bringing the best present!”
“You brought a present????”
“Of course, the best present – I brought
And I made a gesture with my arms out,
palms facing up, presenting myself for
exactly who I am.
She went wide eyed and smiled, and I
could hardly stop myself from gazing at
her gorgeous smile and her lips, damn!
At this point, one of her friends said,
“She’s an awesome girl” as if she needed
help being “endorsed”!!!!!!!!!!
I swear to God man, to have women
trying to prove and endorse to you a
girl that already is a knockout, is kind
Now, I know that obviously I had no
clue about what kind of person she is,
but as an initial encounter, as you
explain, it’s all up to you at this stage.
And man, I never understood before
last night that this is a fantastic
positive thing- I used to think this was
a negative thing because it meant that
as men we had to do all the work- but
now I realize it means that as men we
get to create our reality and make that
Knowing the cardinal rule you explained
long ago, to always add to the vibe,
and especially in a fun place and time
like Saturday night, to make it more
upbeat, so I played with her friends
as well, telling them that I would
be willing to share myself with them
because it was a birthday, and gave
them all a group hug!
Of course, this gave me bonus points
because it meant I had approval of
the entire group, and the honest truth
is that I DID enjoy their friendliness,
it was not a “move” to manipulate them!
We ended up chatting on the sidewalk
for about ten minutes, talking about
the best places to celebrate, and then
I told the girl I was interested in that
I was interested in learning more about
her, to which she joked:
“What parts of me do you want to learn
And I knew this was a playful test,
where most guys would melt and either
get tongue-tied, or embarrassed.
I made sure to not sell my soul, and to
be honest about my thoughts.
So I said to her:
"I prefer to go from the inside out,
if I like you inside, then I’ll REALLY
like your outsides."
The crazy thing, Mike, is that this actually
had an awesome double meaning that was
sexual but also deep and non-superficial
as well! A shining example of what you
said about the power of brutal self
honesty and not “censoring” your own
thoughts but rather letting them fly
in the moment.
Her jaw dropped, and I stroked her
shoulder with my hand, looked
deep into her eyes, and said,
“what’s your number?”
She asked for my cell phone, which
I was not carrying. So she pulled out
her lipstick, grabbed my arm, and wrote
her number on the inside of my forearm,
and then one of her friends told me that I
better call her!!!!!
I hugged her and gave her a light kiss
on the neck ( I know this would not be
appropriate during daytime normal
approaches, but this environment
was more energy) and bid her friends
I texted her once later that evening,
telling her we should meet up the
next day. She replied within 15 minutes
and now I’m looking at a date with this
gorgeous creature tomorrow!
I can’t wait to put all the things into
action tomorrow that I learned from
Warrior Within about creating a powerful
and authentic connection!
Another thing I really love about your
programs is that they don't require
pick up lines, and it has nothing to
do with trying to play manipulative
mind games on women- it's about
generating so much attractive power
that a woman simply is drawn to you
no matter what.
Anyway, man, I’m going on and on.
All I want to say is one gigantic
And allow me to say to your readers, that
any guy who doesn’t get this program has
no clue what he’s missing. Now I understand
what the guys on your site are talking about!
Man, thank YOU for that incredibly detailed
account of what happened, and of course
thank you for the props on Warrior Within.
One of the things I really appreciate
is when guys actually explain HOW they
are using the materials. Obviously, I
appreciate positive words, but explaining
how you are using the materials is even
more helpful to other guys.
There were so many things you did right,
that I believe reading your letter twice is
excellent advice – it’s JAMMED with great
applications of the concepts you learned.
What I really loved was the way you kept
BUILDING on each thing you did, and how
a lot of this ends up happening when you
START THINGS RIGHT to begin with.
So for example, by going in STRONG and
COMMANDING, you then have a way more
As a guy who LOVES great films myself,
I totally know what you mean with the
example you gave from Inception regarding
creating the dominating reality from your
In the same way that in dreams buildings can
hang upside down and the land can bend upward
defying gravity, you can also DEFY EVERYTHING
that men have been brainwashed to believe are
their "limits" with women.
This is because ATTRACTION IS NOT "TANGIBLE"-
it happens all in her MIND, no different than a DREAM:
reality, you can then CREATE the reality you
When you START with COMMAND of your
When you START with COMMAND of your
wish to have AROUND you, and because
your CONVICTION is so strong in it,
everyone else around you INSTINCTIVELY
gets swooped up into your reality.
This then makes a woman WANT to give
YOU conversational feedback that has
“spunk” and “fun” to it, like when she said
to you in a playful way that you were “late”
for the celebration- as if of COURSE you
WERE supposed to be there with her!!!
And then you followed the principle of
GOING with it perfectly by not saying
something like “I’m not late”:
Instead, you said that indeed of COURSE
you were late, because you were preparing
a great present!
And then for you to add the POWER touch
was icing on the cake, when made it clear
that this present was actually YOU.
This is exactly the kind of thing I’m talking about.
The truth that is not even a secret is that
a woman WANTS to BELONG to
her man, but the keyword here is MAN.
Be that man, and she WANTS to be YOURS.
I also love the way you initially REALIZED
how YOU were the one limiting yourself
because of your beliefs of “who you are”
and how you allowed your REAL identity
to shine by pretending it’s someone else
who you DID give permission to be that
cool! That person is actually YOU!
Your letter has tons and tons of valuable
applications for attracting a woman in the
most powerful way, thanks for sending it in.
I just finished your Dating Wizard book!
I must tell you thanks for sharing your
knowledge with me.
I MUST SAY IM PISSED THE F*** OFF
AT ALL THE TIME(MONEY) IVE WASTED!!
But I know now what to do and how to
handle my new encounters! Man it’s crazy
how the media warps your brain to make
you think that you must act like the NICE GUY!
I feel a whole lot better after reading your
book. I have hope now and knowledge!
I just have a couple of questions I need
1. I’m 27 and a virgin(it is what it is) if things
get sexual how do I show that im still the MAN
and not look like a total noob?
2.If another man tries to challenge my
masculinity (in front of other women) by
let’s say, trying to make me look like a punk
so he looks like the alpha male.
3.What would be the best way to handle it?
4.What made me pull the trigger to buy
your great book was that I have a speed
dating event at this comic book convention
I’m going to this Friday. What section of
the book should I read again to better my
chances, and any tips you can give me?
And thank you Michael for helping and
showing me the way. I JUST WISH YOU
MADE THIS BOOK WHEN I WAS IN
New York, NY
Thanks for the props on the book.
If things get sexual, you do not have
to say you are a virgin (even though
there's nothing wrong with it), and
also remember that FOREPLAY is a
huge part of making the sexual stuff
as powerful as possible, so that she
can be so insanely lustful for you
that you can't go wrong by the time
it comes for actual “deed”.
Also, I always like to remind people,
make sure to wear a condom properly.
Regarding if another guy tries to "tool'
you by challenging your masculinity or
anything like that, in my Attraction Mastery
Program on CD, I go into a full explanation
of the best way to handle it, but for now one
quick suggestion is to simply AGREE with
whatever the guy says:
This is a bit like “aikido” where you use
his force against him, because you aren’t
trying to counter him, and the more he
says things, the more he looks like he is
desperate for your attention, which
is the ultimate sign of being BENEATH
someone else, and is proof that he is
less cool than you.
Sometimes, you could even EXAGGERATE it,
so if he says you're a punk, you could say,
"Yeah, man, I'm a total punk, for sure, yeah".
..If he says you're a loser you say "I'm THE
BIGGEST LOSER, didn’t you see the show?"
This really drains the guy of any fuel and
also takes the guy by surprise so he is now
unsure of what the heck is going on!!!
In my Warrior Within program, you’ll learn
how to give off the vibes so that guys won’t
even think about doing this in the first place.
For the Speed Dating, the best thing to do
is get into CONVO with her and use “The Man's
Sense of Humor” as explained in the book, as
well as give her ONE meaningful compliment
but only if you can truly find something really
worth giving her a compliment for:
The reason for this is because there is so
little time in speed dating so you want to
show both sides of yourself-the challenging
fun side and the warm side.
Don't compliment her on her looks in a speed
dating event- it's too obvious and you need
the time to show other things about your
***PAUL WRITES BACK!***
Well after reading your DATING WIZARD
I decided to try out the knowledge I’ve
I had a speed dating convention to go to
last Saturday but when I went to show up
the vendor told me they didn’t have a slot
I felt cheated because I found so much
useful knowledge in your book and the
event was tailor-made to meet women!
So as I’m going home I decide to take in
the scene (Times Square NY) and as I’m
sitting down chilling, two girls sit down
Now I wasn’t even looking to start any convo
but I saw one of the girls eat a can of Pringles.
She was digging for crumbs from the can, so
I looked at her and motioned (in a joking way)
just tilt the can down your mouth so you can
get the crumbs! She laughed! So she finally
finished the can, then started reading the
nutrition facts label.
So I TEASED her and said you don’t read that
after you eat something! She really started
laughing then her friend jumped in on the fun
and asked where I was from.
I told them I was from around the area. In
turn they told me they where from Germany
and they work as nannys in Connecticut.
The convo went towards work and soon it
really became very friendly. After awhile I
noticed it was getting late and I had to go.
I didn’t ask for their emails because they
lived pretty far away. So I gave them both
a gentlemen kiss on the cheek and told them
goodbye nice meeting you.
As I was walking, it dawned on me that I
should have asked for the emails anyway
because even though we lived in different
states we could have setup something.
Who knows! I knew I messed up right there!
I know most of your write backs end with the
guys either getting the female, but I kind of
feel good about myself. I usually just sit there
and HOPE they notice me!
I knew your knowledge worked, but I thought
it was going to be hard for me to execute!
Well I know it’s in my best interest to
get the Actions For Attraction CD Set.
I need more knowledge and examples because
I’m so inexperienced in this realm.
I would like it if you critique my experience,
don’t hold nothing back!
I just got one question - the Actions For Attraction
CDs i see you have a box set and a monthly package.
Does the box set have less content than the monthly?
Also, I see you have a new program, Warrior Within,
do you suggest this for me instead?
Thanks for your follow up letter and showing
how FAST you can put the materials into action!
You don’t have to wait around forever to get
RESULTS from this, you can start putting it
all into action RIGHT AWAY!
To answer your question, Actions For
Attraction is a monthly CD with my
latest new insights on getting a great
girl, and the Actions For Attraction SET
is a collection of six super-powerful
CDs that were released since the
beginning of this monthly series.
And of course, as you realize now,
always go for the contact info –
you can always NOT follow up if
you prefer not to!
Regarding Warrior Within, I absolutely
do suggest this program IMMEDIATELY.
It's that important.
After that, I would then get Actions
For Attraction, as Actions is designed
to give you the EDGE and the advantage
over other men with women, but WARRIOR
WITHIN is designed to MAKE YOU
THE VERY THING THAT WOMEN
ARE MOST ATTRACTED TO!
It will CHANGE YOU ON THE DEEPEST
LEVELS, a level where women will sense it,
and feel massive attraction toward you before
you even speak a WORD.
And, of course, Warrior Within will also make
ALL MY OTHER PROGRAMS that much
MORE effective for you, because you will see
these programs, including my books, through
an even more powerful "filter" than ever before,
as if you are seeing them for the very FIRST time.
This is because of all the NEW perspectives,
insights, and strategies that you will learn in
Warrior Within for attracting women.
I'm really looking forward to studying
Warrior Within! In the mean time, I'm
still learning new things from your
Attraction Mastery Program every time
I listen to it.
Also, I've been in an exclusive relationship
for over 1.5 years now, that started shortly
after reading your second book, “Get A
She is really cool and funny never played
a single game, and it couldn't have worked
out the way it did without reading your
book and weaning myself of some of the
crap that is out there.
In the past I repelled some really cool girls
that sensed that I'm naturally an awesome
guy, but got confused by the opposing
messages I subconsciously communicated
It's also helped me tremendously in other
social relationships: Your materials clearly
show how to make other people feel good,
and make them feel good about themselves.
But in the first place, they show you how
to make yourself feel good, the place where
it all starts and where true abundance is
created. The Ari Kizel interview and the
Barry Kirkey interview (in Actions
For Attraction) are simply fantastic
(almost as good as "George Carlin on
And the depth of information in your programs
is just staggering. One day I hope to interview
you regarding some of the processes behind
the creation of your programs and your
discoveries, but that's for a later day.
Looking forward to this new level, and
we'll keep in touch.
Will, The Netherlands
P.S. The people that attended your seminar
look really mature and smart, it makes
Thanks for the kind words, and it’s always
awesome to hear from guys that are with
a great girl, as to me, this is ultimately
what it’s all about.
And your letter is yet ANOTHER part of
the clearing up the confusion for all
good men out there who have been
brainwashed and who have actually
unfortunately chased away the RIGHT
women and attracted the WRONG
women from following the wrong
Hello Michael. I think that I am
in deep trouble with my girlfriend.
The relationship goes for almost
3 years. It is a long distance
relationship. But for the past
6 months, I've been such a jerk
(that was before I found out
I stopped text messages, calls,
and less dates. And I did lots
of things that hurt her feelings.
I can list down all of them,
but to save your time, I’ll
make it short:
1-When we had a date, I usually
ended up being selfish and everything
was planned according to my plan.
I never asked what she wants to
buy or things she want to do
together when we hang out.
2-I was tested by her and I didn’t
even have a clue about it!!
And guess what? I failed.
There was one time she asked,‘’Do
I take this relationship seriously?’’
and I answered, ’I’m not serious
nor being playful’’.
I’m so screwed..it shows her how
unconfident I am and that is so
3-When I have money problems, I
overcompensate it by telling her
all the time that I can’t afford
this and that. Being cheap is
also my weakness.
I let her spend a lot of her
money rather than using up my own.
At the end of this relationship,
she told me that she felt being
used by her own boyfriend.
4-I delayed her birthday gifts
several times, even forget to
wish her on the day.
She’s such a great girl. But I think
she can’t take it anymore and that
she's finding someone else while
still having me as her boyfriend.
I feel betrayed and disappointed
because she never told me about all
those things that hurt her (I swear
I didn’t know and I didn’t realize
that I constantly hurt her until it
is almost too late).
When I knew she have someone else
as her boyfriend, it’s like there’s
no second chance for me to redeem
But most of all, I think all of my
actions backfired. It all come back
to me. All actions that I took lead
her to go further from me and she
doesn’t think twice to find someone
else who’s ready to love her.
After using your newsletters, there
are so much lessons that I’ve learnt.
I was being selfish, not a good
listener, not consistent in showing
that I love her and overcompensating
And like you said, a girl won’t test
you unless you make them want to.
All of your materials are proven to
be VERY TRUE.
Michael, I need your advice about this
going-to-end-relationship. She was a
great girl and it’s hard for me to
go through a breakup.
Is there anything I could do/think
before meeting her up again and
facing her? Any actions or advice?
I understand if you don’t want to
help me out. But, please…I am lost
and I just don’t know what to do.
I need your guidance.
First of all, I'm sorry it's taken
so long to get back to you, as there
are so many emails it's hard to reply
to all of them right away, even if
I were to spend all day on emails.
It sounds like you were really
were led astray, as I myself was,
and it's heart-breaking to hear how
good guys INTENTIONALLY
to act like jerks because they think
it's the being a jerk part that is
attractive to a woman.
The best thing to do now is simply
to be one trillion percent honest
with her, and then allow her the
space she needs to process it all.
The reality is that most likely she
will be so pissed off she will be very
angry and try to get some form of even
with you, so you might want to just
move on and forget about it as hard
as that sounds.
If you do try to make it work with her,
be prepared for a flood of backlash
for a while, where you must stay calm
throughout it all, and if she doesn't get
over it, then you have to move on.
And definitely for the next woman
you meet, I suggest you start with
the "Get A Great Girl" book.
And if you're reading this right now
and want to be able to go RIGHT UP
to a woman and attract her in the most
powerful way INSTANTLY, then I suggest
you take advantage of my WARRIOR WITHIN
DVD Training Program NOW.
It's LOADED with TONS of powerful strategies
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and for building the kind of supreme connection
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in a lifetime- and that will be with YOU.
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