Today, I just want to focus on ONE absolutely OVERWHELMINGLY important aspect of attracting women that most guys STILL DO NOT KNOW-and this is even in a digital age when information is supposedly informing people better.
STILL TO THIS DAY, what I am about to show you is something that MOST MEN STILL DON’T KNOW ABOUT AND WILL NEVER KNOW THEIR ENTIRE LIVES.
And just this ONE thing would make the most MASSIVE difference to SKYROCKETING their success with women. What I am talking about is this:
MASTERING THE OPPOSING FORCES THAT IGNITE ATTRACTION IN WOMEN
This is a topic I cover in more detail in my new book, and it’s one that most men NEVER even REALIZE, much less ever MASTER. The hardest part of understanding how to attract women is that success is a combination of so many OPPOSING forces that must be carefully balanced all at once.
One on hand, there is the force, for example, of a woman’s BURNING desire to completely LET GO of all her sexual inhibitions and all her fears of danger from being with the wrong man or men, this desire to just GO WILD sexually.
This includes her most TABOO desires, and her most TORRID and SHOCKING fantasies, and her feeling TOTAL FREEDOM TO NOT BE JUDGED for having these fantasies. The freedom to let her MIND go into TOTAL “SLUT-LAND”.
Men have been misinformed about women, on both conscious and unconscious levels, regarding female sexuality. For the longest time, men were told that women only had sex for the pleasure of men, that women had no real carnal desires of their own.
Then, on the other end of the spectrum, came certain pick up artists who liked to pretend that women were just interested in being promiscuous, and that is not true either.
But make no mistake about it, women are just as intensely sexual as men, in their own ways.
On the OTHER hand, in addition to a woman's intense sexuality, there are her own internal opposing forces she must deal with, including her desire to avoid any possible NEGATIVE FALLOUT from all of this, such as getting hurt emotionally or physically.
It includes not wanting to be perceived as promiscuous by others and even by HERSELF. Yes, she also has a desire to retain a certain self-image in her own mind that she is NOT promiscuous, vulgar, or “dirty”.
If you learn to master BOTH sides, you put yourself into a category where you have NO COMPETITION from other men.
And it can be SUPER-EASY to actually DO this as a man. It’s just one of many VITAL things I explain in my book The No-Bullshit Book On Success With Women Today at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/no-bullshit-book-on-women.html
Now, I’ve noticed over the past few days that a lot of people out there have been making “Black Friday” sales.
I’m not doing that, for one very important reason that I’ve become aware of.
If you’re looking for ENTERTAINMENT, like a big-screen TV, some music, or a sofa or something like that, I GET IT, I understand. Those things can be pretty costly, and they are also not VITAL for your quality of life. So a SALE makes sense.
But when it comes to a MAN getting a WOMAN, especially a GOOD woman, a woman who will treat her man right, a woman who that man also finds ATTRACTIVE and DESIRABLE, and especially in OUR SOCIETY TODAY, this goes way beyond ENTERTAINMENT.
This isn’t the SAME thing as getting a stereo, TV, or sofa.
And frankly, my programs don’t even cost that much, ESPECIALLY considering they help you with the most important thing that affects your OVERALL experience in this world- and make no mistake it, being with the right woman absolutely gives your life more ENERGY, more FUN, more MEANING.
How much is it WORTH to you, to CHANGE YOUR LIFE? To STOP the SUFFERING? To get what you WANT in a woman? For getting the woman you WANT?
Frankly, if it’s not WORTH a few bucks to you, then there is NOT ENOUGH DRIVE IN YOU to get the girl in the first place, and NO PROGRAM on EARTH will help you.
I’ve taken this subject seriously, devoted YEARS of my life to finding out what WORKS to attract women, and ALSO how to detect, find, and attract the BEST women on the PLANET.
So, here are just a few of my TOP recommendations:
First, get my LATEST book, this is absolutely CRUCIAL.
It’s called The No-Bullshit Book On Success With Women Today- download it IMMEDIATELY at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/no-bullshit-book-on-women.html
I also suggest you get my program on unleashing the FUN side of your personality, because being a guy who MAKES LIFE FUN is INFINITELY important to attracting women as well.
The key is to make it a part of your REAL personality instead of trying to be a ‘clown’ for women.
This program is called The Skill of Confident Humor, and you should download it NOW at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/confident-humor.html
And of course, the ULTIMATE step is taking my LIVE BOOTCAMP where I show you and teach you on real women EVERYWHERE, and where YOU LEARN “hands-on” as I coach you through all the skills you need to be able to attract women AT WILL.
BOOTCAMP is at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html
My materials are being used by men in over 30 countries, and on every continent, and men from all over the world have taken my LIVE BOOTCAMP program, going on to get the girlfriends and wives of their choices after gaining the skills they learned from me.
I look forward to hearing about YOUR success next.
Till next time,
Michael Marks
Saturday, November 28, 2015
Wednesday, November 25, 2015
How To Show CONFIDENCE To Women
I have some MAJOR points on how to IMMEDIATELY skyrocket
your success with women that I want to share with you today, especially regarding how to show CONFIDENCE to women, which is of PARAMOUNT importance.
First of all, by the way, if you haven’t yet downloaded my
brand-spanking new “mini-book” on how to be successful with women today, then
DO THAT NOW- DO IT IMMEDIATELY.
This book CUTS PAST ALL THE BULLSHIT, and gets straight to
what you actually need to DO and KNOW to start getting IMMEDIATE SUCCESS with
women.
Don’t be insane, download this book NOW, at:
Next, I want to REMIND you of something that is
EARTH-SHATTERINGLY important when it comes to women, and that is the following:
YOU MUST MAKE THE MOST POWERFUL FIRST IMPRESSION POSSIBLE
IMMEDIATELY THROUGH YOUR BODY LANGUAGE AND TONALITY.
When it comes to feeling attraction for you, WOMEN
INTERPRET EVERYTHING YOU DO THROUGH A FILTER THAT IS VERY DIFFERENT THAN WHAT
YOU THINK IT IS.
Their interpretation of your behaviors will either IGNITE
their attraction or EXTINGUISH it.
And, this is of even more SUPREME importance in making a
FIRST IMPRESSION.
So let me be SPECIFIC.
When you are talking to a woman, or meeting her for the
first time, or on the first date, she is actually being MASSIVELY INFLUENCED by
the things you are DOING, often subconsciously, such as:
- Making fidgety movements.
- Touching your face.
- Squinting.
- Speaking too fast.
- Not speaking clearly.
- Speaking in too quiet a voice tone, almost being inaudible.
- Eyes darting around rather than looking at her straight in the eyes.
- And so on and so forth.
Notice how all this so far has NOTHING to do with even the
actual WORDS you are SAYING.
And what REALLY used to drive me NUTS, to the point of my
blood boiling, is how the GOOD GUYS, who so often CARE ABOUT WOMEN, who are NOT
the rapists, who are NOT the abusers, who are the ones who actually LOVE women,
and would not harm a FLY---
---Well, it’s THOSE GOOD GUYS who get SHAFTED, because
since they CARE SO MUCH, they tend to EXHIBIT the signs of being nervous
through behaviors like the ones I listed ABOVE.
And there is NO MERCY in this world when it comes to this
stuff.
Most of the time, you only get ONE chance with a new woman who is a stranger, and FIRST impressions are the MOST powerful anyway.
The good guys get EATEN ALIVE and THROWN TO THE DOGS, while
the most ABUSIVE MEN who are SUPER SELFISH and couldn’t give a RAT’S ASS ABOUT
ANYONE, well they end up coming across as SUPER CONFIDENT, and of course this
ATTRACTS women- initially. (In the end, no relationship can last when someone doesn't care about the other.)
It all works on a very PRIMAL level.
THIS is why I get so pissed off at things like third wave
feminism that have spent generations trying to BRAINWASH men into becoming MORE
AND MORE SENSITIVE, LESS POWERFUL EMOTIONALLY, LESS POWERFUL FINANCIALLY, LESS
POWERFUL ACADEMICALLY, LESS POWERFUL IN EVERY WAY....
...While at the SAME time
INCREASING WOMEN’S POWER to the point of having a society where women are
dominating the men, and then the women COMPLAINING that there are no men around
who are interesting to them except the jerks.
Do you feel me here?
I am SWEARING to you that this is no joke, and that women
ARE attracted, and ONLY attracted, on that primal level, to men who behave like
PRIMAL MEN.
So, the FIRST THING you can do this SECOND is to start
PAYING ATTENTION to your body language and STOP any of the behaviors mentioned
above.
You WILL ABSOLUTELY notice an IMMEDIATE and MASSIVE
improvement in your interactions with women, and THIS is the reason why.
And please, don’t BOTHER ASKING women about this, because
if they have to tell you, then they won’t feel attracted to you. They want a
man who already KNOWS all this.
Now, here’s something to REMEMBER.
As SIMPLE as this sounds, as SIMPLE as the above advice is,
to, for example, NOT make fidgety movements, to NOT touch your face or dart
your eyes, or any of the other examples of wrong behavior, the fact is, MOST
GUYS will ABSOLUTELY STILL engage in some of those wrong behaviors.
This is because it is UNCONSCIOUS.
And it all stems from one thing- PLACING TOO MUCH WEIGHT ON
THE WOMAN’S IMPORTANCE RATHER THAN YOUR OWN.
And guys try ALL KINDS OF THINGS to escape this problem,
but usually what happens is OVERCOMPENSATION, so they will act MEAN or act
COLD, and that is NOT effective either, and actually shows the SAME problem,
because it STILL stems from placing too much importance on the woman on an
instinctive level inside you.
So you have to be RUTHLESS with yourself.
WATCH your voice tonality.
MONITOR yourself for how your voice pitch is rising out of
nervousness.
STOP yourself from making the fidgety movements.
And the greatest thing about all this is that it will end
up CHANGING THE WAY YOU FEEL as well.
The body and mind are INTER-CONNECTED, so changing the way
you use your body and voice tone actually CHANGES the way you FEEL, to the
point that you STOP placing more importance on HER value and you actually
genuinely DO feel more important, more valuable, more worthy, than HER.
And lest this sound “mean” against women, allow me to
remind you it is NOT, because actually, the IRONY is that women DESIRE men who
are confident and FUN so much that MANY, MANY, MANY WOMEN would rather, and I
am not exaggerating here, they would RATHER have a man who is TRULY CONFIDENT
and who MIGHT cheat on them than have a man who is SO CAREFUL AND NICE and would absolutely NEVER
cheat on them.
You MUST remember this, because in our FEMINIST culture
that BOMBARDS you with bullshit advice and bullshit propaganda about how all
they want is a NICE MAN who gives THEM the power, it then becomes IMPOSSIBLE
for most men to EVER exude the confidence and power that women actually FIND
ATTRACTIVE IN MEN.
Now, what you have just read here, as IMPORTANT AND
POWERFUL as it is, is just SCRATCHING THE SURFACE of an entire UNIVERSE of
important truth that you must know if you want to be successful with women.
If you want MAXIMUM success with women, including how to
find and attract the kind of woman that won’t BULLSHIT you with feminist
nonsense, then you MUST get my LATEST book NOW.
It’s at:
And to learn how to approach and attract women IN PERSON
from me, as I coach you in real life on women in all sorts of venues from cafes
to supermarkets and everywhere else, go HERE:
Till next time,
Michael Marks
Sunday, November 22, 2015
The Truth About Success With Women: HIDING IN PLAIN SIGHT
Get ready for one of the most
important newsletters I have EVER written on the topic of how to be successful
when it comes to getting the kind of woman you want.
Keep in mind that this is an
important statement coming from me, because I actually DELIVER the most
precious thing there is in the world today: TRUTH.
Yes, TRUTH.
A lot of people believe in
conspiracy theories, and maybe there IS such a thing regarding some things in
life and in human history, but one thing is for SURE- and that is that MOST
THINGS are NOT hidden AT ALL.
They only SEEM
hidden because MOST PEOPLE put NO EFFORT whatsoever into training their mind to
ASSESS the truth of things.
They put NO EXHAUSTIVE
RESEARCH into the things they allow to pass as TRUTH into their minds.
And this is usually not even
happening consciously, they simply have an EMOTIONAL reaction to one thing, or
a bunch of things, and then THAT becomes some sort of FINAL WORD, final TRUTH,
end of story on that topic, that is, until some OTHER thing gets them
emotional, and then THAT is the bigger truth.
And people are
PLAYED all the time by this, and USED by others as a result of this. By many companies,
governments, and people around them.
Meanwhile, the HONEST people,
politicians, companies, they DON’T manipulate people, so they DON’T get their
money and their support, and they are NOT believed, even though THEY are the
ones saying the TRUTH.
Here’s something else too:
Life is COMPLICATED, but that is not a reason to turn LIES into truth.
So, for example, maybe you
have heard of the BIG CONSPIRACY OF THE PHARMACEUTICAL COMPANIES, right?
But then again, let’s say
someone had Hepatitis B, and then was CURED as a result of medication produced
by the pharmaceutical companies. This is what happened, by the way, to Pamela
Anderson, now cured.
Or drugs that fight cancer, or
genuinely help with issues such as depression, or a host of other diseases.
And so on and so forth.
I’m not saying
there AREN'T cases of CORRUPTION, I’m just saying that TRUTH requires the
ability to see NUANCES, something most people HATE since it takes ENERGY AND
EFFORT.
BUT TRUTH IS THE
ONLY WAY TO SOLVE ANYTHING, INCLUDING THE ISSUE REGARDING HOW MOST
FEMINIST-TAINTED WOMEN ARE TODAY.
So, the TRUTH is, there is NO
conspiracy regarding the BIG issues that affect most people’s lives, ranging
all the way from things like OBESITY, to ECONOMIC DISASTER, to TERRORISM, to
the INSANITY going on today between GENDERS, and the DESTRUCTION of the FAMILY
UNIT.
All these things,
could be seen from a MILLION MILES AWAY, the signs for all these issues were
FLASHING RED FOR DECADES IN EVERYONE’S FACES, but people NEVER SAW THESE
BLARING RED SIRENS AND THE FLASHING WARNING LIGHTS THAT WERE SO BRIGHT THEY
WERE VIRTUALLY BLINDING.
So, for example, RIGHT on the
LABEL of most food products is a list of INGREDIENTS, and when the number one
ingredients on EVERYTHING usually are SUGAR or SALT or FAT or CHEMICALS, people
KNOW that CAN’T be a good thing, but they RATIONALIZE IT ALL because they
haven’t been trained to THINK CRITICALLY ABOUT EVERYTHING.
So they figure, “Well,
everyone ELSE does it, so it must be good, and CHANGING requires too much
EFFORT.”
Similarly,
the ECONOMIC MELTDOWN that happened in 2008 around the WORLD- that TOO had TONS
AND TONS AND TONS of warnings!! There were other examples on a smaller scale in
other countries where similar dynamics played out with DISASTROUS RESULTS.
And there WERE warnings, by
TONS OF WELL-INFORMED economists, and even IDIOTS could see this if they just
LOOKED at even the most BASIC problems going on- lending money to people who
can’t pay it back???????????????????
But people ignored it, for
many reasons, most of all because in the SHORT TERM, it felt great, everyone
getting loans, houses, the banks happy to get tons of interest, everyone just
going, “YAYYYY! LAH DEE DAH!”
And
then, even AFTER the entire meltdown, almost NO ONE having to be ACCOUNTABLE
for ANY OF IT, means it can EASILY HAPPEN AGAIN!!!!!!
No one talks about
it though, because “KEEPING THE KARDASHIANS” IS MORE IMPORTANT, and I don’t
mean that show literally, I mean the basic idea of preferring to focus on less
important things that don’t require an appreciation for truth, since it takes
effort, even if it means self-destruction.
And by the way, this
is the reason you are constantly BOMBARDED by emotionally compelling but mostly
STUPID content on the web, on TV, on the radio, etc.
To get your attention, many companies and anyone else trying to use you, know that NUDITY, CELEBRITIES, VIOLENCE, etc., will GRAB your attention, whereas DEEP MEANINGFUL AND LIFE-CHANGING INFORMATION will actually be REJECTED BY MOST PEOPLE!
To get your attention, many companies and anyone else trying to use you, know that NUDITY, CELEBRITIES, VIOLENCE, etc., will GRAB your attention, whereas DEEP MEANINGFUL AND LIFE-CHANGING INFORMATION will actually be REJECTED BY MOST PEOPLE!
WHY YOU ARE BOMBARDED BY BULLSHIT
And to sell their stuff, they
resort to BULLSHIT, since it WORKS.
So people stay IGNORANT about
the most important things- they are too busy having their minds focused on
emotional stuff that isn’t even attached to some kind of quality information
but rather usually just selling more bullshit.
And things like terrorism that
went MOSTLY IGNORED for DECADES by most of the world. There were DECADES that
were available to solve this issue EASILY, but all that time it was LARGELY
IGNORED.
It’s not a SECRET that oil companies BOUGHT out promising developments and patents for technology for
alternative sources of energy for cars. And then rather than USE this technology, they made sure to do NOTHING with that technology.
There is a powerful documentary on this, called Who
Killed the Electric Car?
But
how many people actually saw the film? And how many people discussed it? The
answer is, relatively speaking, VERY FEW.
But the film TRIED to be
heard, it WAS out there, it DID get basic publicity.
Not enough people gave a damn.
Can you imagine the DIFFERENT
world we would live in if terrorists were cut off from the places that support
them through the sale of OIL?
The
truth is not HIDING, it’s in PLAIN SIGHT.
Even in WWII, most countries
IGNORED Hitler till he invaded their
own space.
And on that topic, for one
second here, a lot of people who are against religion like to say how religion
starts so many wars, to which a lot of atheists reply with things like this:
“Well,
how about the Nazis? They weren’t religious! And how about Stalin, who murdered
millions of his OWN people, he wasn’t religious, in fact he abhorred religion!”
Well, guess what? The REAL
issue is simply TRUTH versus LIES, and TRUTH versus LACK of TRUTH/DISTORTION OF TRUTH/ABSENCE OF TRUTH.
So, just like religion
requires one to accept things WITHOUT proof, WITHOUT evidence, so too Hitler
and Stalin SHUT DOWN things like the ability to freely exchange ideas and DEBATE
ideas.
The real enemy is thinking
without EVIDENCE, without PROOF, and the real enemy is any type of system that
tries to SHUT DOWN logic, healthy analysis of ideas, civilized debate, and the
free exchange of ideas.
That’s why the first step in
dictatorships is to DESTROY all competing ideas, even if they are LOGICAL,
hence the famous BOOK BURNINGS by the Nazis- which is an effort to destroy
competing ideas, regardless of how logical and worthy they may be.
The bottom line is a war on
TRUTH, on LOGIC, on EVIDENCE, or a system of government or a way of life that
REFUSES to undergo OBJECTIVE EVALUATION and the test of EVIDENCE.
That’s what all
forms of EVIL have in common- they REFUSE to allow LOGIC AND TRUTH AND
EVIDENCE.
A quote from Carl Sagan, which
was brought to my attention by a friend, comes to mind: If it can be
destroyed by the truth, it deserves to be destroyed by the truth.
Even the United States in WWII,
it got involved when? After PEARL HARBOR.
This is, unfortunately, human
nature, which is why it is so important to CORRECT this aspect of human nature.
Human nature seeks the path of least resistance, least effort, and tends to
DISTORT things in a way to RATIONALIZE the lazy path as the RIGHT path.
And Europe did the same thing
AFTER WWII, as well, basically IGNORING issues that were HEATING UP SLOWLY in
their own midst. Economic issues. Security issues.
And Greece with its economic
crash.
And the USA with its DEFICIT.
THE FROG IN THE POT
This is the old myth of the
frog in the pot of water.
The
water SLOWLY HEATS UP, so slowly that the FROG never even NOTICES how BAD it
is, until it is TOO LATE, at which point, the frog is now BOILED ALIVE in the
water.
The story is a myth, but the POINT is ABSOLUTELY TRUE.
The DESTRUCTION of society does not REQUIRE a conspiracy theory, it just requires a LACK OF PAYING ATTENTION.
The DESTRUCTION of society does not REQUIRE a conspiracy theory, it just requires a LACK OF PAYING ATTENTION.
And since people
tend to NEVER PAY ATTENTION to ALL THE WARNING SIGNALS, by the time the
DISASTER HITS, by the time they wake up, it is usually WAY TOO LATE.
There is a great line in the
movie Watchmen, which comes from the original comic series, where a
character is accused of “hiding in the shadows”. He responds that he is not hiding
in the shadows, to which the original character retorts that he is doing
something worse- he is “HIDING IN PLAIN SIGHT”.
And that is the issue of our time- the real problems are not hiding
in the shadows. They are HIDING IN PLAIN SIGHT.
HOW THIS ALL PLAYS OUT WITH FEMINISM, ATTRACTION, DATING AND
RELATIONSHIPS
Okay, so now that you can see
the FRAMEWORK FOR HOW DISASTERS HAPPEN, allow me to
introduce to you again the FRAMEWORK for the
DISASTER that has HIT VIRTUALLY ALL MEN in ANY
COUNTRY where FEMINISM took off and was left to go wild without CONTROL.
So the TRUTH is, of course,
that ALL HUMANS who agree to live with each other in harmony should be afforded
respect, dignity, justice, and all the other good things.
There is no need for something
called FEMINISM, there should JUST be HUMANISM.
But anyway, to make a long story short, what happened over DECADES was the TIDAL WAVE OF ENDLESS FEMINIST PROPAGANDA IN THE WESTERN WORLD THAT WENT UNQUESTIONED.
But anyway, to make a long story short, what happened over DECADES was the TIDAL WAVE OF ENDLESS FEMINIST PROPAGANDA IN THE WESTERN WORLD THAT WENT UNQUESTIONED.
Propaganda that has been PROVEN FALSE AGAIN AND AGAIN.
Propaganda that
constantly portrayed MEN as being EVIL toward women, and as MEN being evil in
general, while CONTRASTINGLY portraying WOMEN as victims, as MORE NOBLE, MORE
VIRTUOUS, more EVERYTHING that is GOOD.
Now,
like anything else, it takes TIME to change MILLIONS of people’s psyche’s and
attitudes towards something or someone or some people.
So, in the 1960’s, feminism
EXISTED, but the fact is, most men DIDN’T BUY INTO IT. Now, I’m not saying that
things were all PERFECT, as they weren’t, but the picture we get today is so
distorted, we tend to think that women must have been treated like GARBAGE back
then, they must have been CONSTANTLY RAPED and that women were leading these
horrible lives.
The
problem is that feminism wasn’t being HONEST. It was PRESSURING women to be
like men, under the false assumption that women WANTED to be like men.
I say, let a woman DO what she REALLY feels. If a woman wants to do the same things as a man, that’s fine, but why FORCE her?
I say, let a woman DO what she REALLY feels. If a woman wants to do the same things as a man, that’s fine, but why FORCE her?
Why also create
PROPAGANDA to DEMONIZE men?
I am referring to BULLSHIT
statistics that have been PROVEN false, on so many issues, including RAPE. YES,
rape. Bullshit studies by some women’s advocacy groups that tried to pretend
that ONE IN FOUR women on university campuses is a victim of RAPE have been
proven TOTALLY FALSE.
And OTHER
propaganda, such as false stats regarding VIOLENCE TOWARD WOMEN BY MEN.
Just this week, a WOMAN HERSELF complained of the BRAINWASHING that her SONS are exposed to in school.
Here is a direct quote from the article- the color emphasis is mine:
( http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2015/11/19/men-are-not-monsters.html )
"Last week three of my four boys were herded into school-sponsored assemblies and asked to stand, raise their hands and pledge to never, ever hurt a woman. While their female classmates remained seated, my boys faced intense pressure to say:
I promise
To never ever
Hit, hurt, or otherwise harm
A woman, girl, or child.
I understand
That I am bigger and stronger
Than many women, girls, and children.
Therefore it is my DUTY
To NEVER HARM them,
Protect, Respect, Honor, and Love them
No matter what.
Aghast, my 17-year-old son walked out. Less than two hours later, he went to choir practice, where he and his classmates practiced a parody of "Cell Block Tango" from the musical "Chicago" that features the “six merry murderesses of Cook County Jail” singing about killing their lovers. Here's one verse:
Hah! He had it coming
He had it coming
He took a flower
In its prime
And then he used it
And he abused it
It was a murder
But not a crime!
Ironic, eh?"
Just this week, a WOMAN HERSELF complained of the BRAINWASHING that her SONS are exposed to in school.
Here is a direct quote from the article- the color emphasis is mine:
( http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2015/11/19/men-are-not-monsters.html )
"Last week three of my four boys were herded into school-sponsored assemblies and asked to stand, raise their hands and pledge to never, ever hurt a woman. While their female classmates remained seated, my boys faced intense pressure to say:
I promise
To never ever
Hit, hurt, or otherwise harm
A woman, girl, or child.
I understand
That I am bigger and stronger
Than many women, girls, and children.
Therefore it is my DUTY
To NEVER HARM them,
Protect, Respect, Honor, and Love them
No matter what.
Aghast, my 17-year-old son walked out. Less than two hours later, he went to choir practice, where he and his classmates practiced a parody of "Cell Block Tango" from the musical "Chicago" that features the “six merry murderesses of Cook County Jail” singing about killing their lovers. Here's one verse:
Hah! He had it coming
He had it coming
He took a flower
In its prime
And then he used it
And he abused it
It was a murder
But not a crime!
Ironic, eh?"
Meanwhile,
in our culture, we are HIDING THE VERY REAL stats that in actual RELATIONSHIPS between men and women,
it’s usually WOMEN who are more likely to be assaulting the MEN!!!!
All this crazy
SHIT, over DECADES, created a PERCEPTION in MEN that as men we must all BEND
OVER BACKWARDS TO STRIVE TO FIGHT AGAINST OUR DEMONIC NATURE TO BE ABUSIVE TO WOMEN.
And this starts in CHILDHOOOD.
I remember in my OWN
childhood, that on TV, all the daytime talk shows featured discussions of men
abusing women and how evil men are. And I would hear CONSTANTLY from girls how
guy are jerks, and how women just wanted a nice guy.
I REALLY DID HEAR THIS, AND
SEE WOMEN CONSTANTLY TALK THIS WAY.
And
so did HUNDREDS OF MILLIONS OF OTHER MEN AROUND THE WORLD!
Meanwhile WOMEN are told to show NO RESPECT FOR MEN, to rather DO
THE OPPOSITE and constantly PUSH FOR MORE FREEDOM, MORE CAREER, MORE
INDEPENDENCE, MORE SEX OPTIONS WITH MORE PARTNERS, MORE DRINKING, MORE
DRUNKENNESS, MORE PROMISCUITY, MORE MONEY, MORE RIGHTS, because anything less
than pushing for TOTAL SELFISHNESS FOR WOMEN is somehow an EVIL of men!
Plus,
men were told to NEVER DARE question women on anything, lest they be considered
INSENSITIVE and CHAUVINIST PIGS!
So if women believe
in superstition like astrology far more than men do, DON’T say a thing about
it, lest you be considered a woman-hater. Don’t encourage women to use critical
thinking, logic, and exhaustive evidence- that would be evil.
And in our climate of
feminism, women are PUSHED to do the OPPOSITE of whatever women have done for
MILLIONS OF YEARS, because somehow (according to feminists) men have for MILLIONS OF YEARS BEEN OBSESSED
WITH NOTHING OTHER THAN HOW TO SPEND ALL DAY AND ALL NIGHT ABUSING WOMEN.
The EXACT CAUSE of the problem
regarding how women treat men today is not some CONSPIRACY, it’s not some
MYSTERY, it’s RIGHT OUT IN THE OPEN.
It’s not “hiding in the shadows”.
It’s not “hiding in the shadows”.
It’s “hiding” in
PLAIN SIGHT, for anyone who so much as just opens their eyes to the TINIEST
degree!
As if women were SOOOOOOOOOO
STUPID for ALLLLLLLLLLL OF HUMAN HISTORY.
First of all, it
simply is not true. And even if men WERE
trying to do that, it is a simple fact of EVOLUTION that women would ADAPT and
actually find new ways to THRIVE.
And in fact, evolution did
exactly that, for other reasons of survival advantage, which is why women have
concealed ovulation, but now I digress, but for more on that please read the book The Red
Queen by Matt Ridley.
So we really have a society
where women are being FORCED to abandon what has worked for MILLIONS of years,
and then we WONDER why maybe there is a problem?
And even more importantly, in
an environment where MEN are brainwashed from childhood to think women have
been so abused, that they need and want men to be EXTRA-SENSITIVE and CARING,
while women ACTUALLY are being taught to be more AGGRESSIVE than ever, and to
SEEK POWER more than ever, and to MANIPULATE MEN more than ever….
...Is it any WONDER that nice guys get DEMOLISHED AND DESTROYED BY
WOMEN THESE DAYS when it comes to actual SEXUAL ATTRACTION and not just getting
taken for a ride by doing FAVORS for women?
Also, women not only
are NOT these fragile creatures who NEED a “super-sensitive” guy, they also
aren’t particularly ATTRACTED to him either. And they never WERE, throughout
ALL OF HUMAN HISTORY.
Yes, they DO
appreciate sensitivity if you ALSO have the most IMPORTANT traits of a man.
Just like YOU appreciate a woman who treats you right, BUT you first want to
feel ATTRACTED to her, and THEN you care about the fact she treats you RIGHT.
So it’s not the FOUNDATION of
attraction, it’s what helps KEEP the relationship going if you ALSO have
triggered the attraction.
Can it just be a COINCIDENCE that, for all the bullshit FEMINIST TALK about wanting a man to be
super-nice, and for just wanting equality, that actually women DESIRE AND CRAVE A MAN WHO IS BURSTING AT THE SEEMS WITH POWER ON EVERY LEVEL, AND
THE MORE POWER, THE BETTER, JUST LIKE THEY HAVE THROUGHOUT HUMAN
HISTORY????????
THE SOLUTION FOR YOU TO ATTRACT WOMEN
Now, the ANSWER to how to
attract and approach women isn’t JUST about being MORE (RATHER THAN LESS) OF THE MAN YOU WERE GENETICALLY PROGRAMMED TO
BE OVER THE COURSE OF MILLIONS OF YEARS OF EVOLUTION…
…It’s ALSO about how to COMMUNICATE that you ARE this man in a way
that doesn’t get you ARRESTED in our modern society.
This is where I come in.
I
have spent over FIFTEEN YEARS devoted to the TRUTH in this field. And the TRUTH
requires an appreciation for FINE NUANCES.
This becomes ESPECIALLY important
if you actually want a great girlfriend long-term,
because a woman’s personality doesn’t matter that much if you ONLY are looking
for a one night stand with her, and also a woman who is
just looking for a one-night stand is NOT looking for the same things in a man
as a woman who genuinely IS looking for a real long-term relationship.
I care about TRUTH, and that’s
why I tend to WRITE a lot about it.
There are a lot of
VIDEOS out there that like to PUSH YOUR BUTTONS and get you emotional, but the
truth is that the WRITTEN WORD usually allows for far more DETAILED truth,
because it isn’t depending on bells and whistles and nudity and other visual
stimuli to distract you and grab your attention in the wrong way.
Of course, there too you have
to be careful, because one can also engage in endless bullshit in writing as
well- it’s just that if one wants to go the route of fooling someone, they may
as well use video since it allows more effective ways of fooling someone
through the power of pictures and audio.
Now,
on the topic of TRUTH, allow me to clear up some important misconceptions about
how to attract women and about getting a great long-term girlfriend.
NUMBER ONE: LOOKS VS. SKILLS
A lot of guys think that they
can’t succeed at approaching and attracting women because, in their mind, it’s
all about a guy’s looks.
Well, the truth is that
although having looks helps, it is NOT everything AT ALL, and the reason for
this is because in the REAL WORLD, a woman makes her decision on the OVERALL impact a man makes on her.
What I mean is she gets
approached by some guys, and meets some other guys, but it’s not like she gets
this endless flow of guys who are perfect in every way, AT ALL.
So, in the end, it
all boils down to the OVERALL impact you make.
When you approach her, are you able to convey personality? Or do you
come across like most other guys who just act like robots?
Here’s another thing to
remember- the guys who have it too easy with women initially usually end up not
learning how to approach women, they just rely on women who come their way, so
they end up NOT APPROACHING women, thereby cutting DOWN on amount of men who
actually DO approach women.
And this brings me to the
SECOND point:
NUMBER TWO: FUN VS. EVERYTHING ELSE
The great EQUALIZER to
whatever a guy may think he DOESN’T have to offer women, is this: MAKING LIFE FUN.
THIS is one of the reasons so
many, many, MANY guys who do well with women seem to know how to get women
LAUGHING.
And, ironically,
enough, this laughing has very LITTLE to do with what most guys THINK it has to
do with- it’s NOT ABOUT being a jester, or a clown, but rather about exuding a
sense of humor that conveys CONFIDENCE.
Being around a
PERSON like that makes HER feel girly, makes HER feel happy, makes her GIGGLY
in that womanly way.
So the more you can bring FUN
into your conversation with her, and into your interaction with her, the
BETTER.
In the end, life is
just a bunch of MOMENTS. And the more moments you make FUN with her, the more
she keeps associating you with GOOD TIMES, and in the brain, all sex really
boils down to is the SAME chemical- it’s GOOD TIMES.
Again, this is why you almost
NEVER see guys who are GOOD with women who don’t understand how to also MAKE
THE MOMENT FUN.
And again, this is where I
come in, because I can show you how to still be DOMINANT in a way that also is
FUN, and that combo is the ULTIMATE.
NUMBER THREE: QUANTITY VS QUALITY
A lot of the pick-up artists
who just want to sound impressive but are actually spreading bullshit like to
say that people who CAN attract the opposite gender always want to be
PROMISCUOUS as well above all else.
They will say
things like you should NOT care whether a woman has slept with 50 guys or not,
and the will say the ONLY reason a guy is not comfortable with that is because
HE doesn’t know how to get the same amount of women as she can get men.
THIS IS BULLSHIT.
But it sure SOUNDS
interesting, and is a great way to entire clients to take bootcamps that focus
on speed rather than on quality of woman, because it’s easier to find
promiscuous women who will get physical faster than it is to show some kind of
evidence of results with any other type of women.
The
TRUTH is that actually, both men and women, when they KNOW they can get
quality, tend to actually go for the highest QUALITY they can get in their
mind, rather than quantity.
So, for example, let’s take
someone like Jessica Simpson. She
ends up actually NOT being promiscuous but rather getting MARRIED at an early
age. The first marriage didn’t work out, but she certainly didn’t live a
promiscuous life.
Same thing with Britney Spears.
Same thing with supermodel Cindy Crawford.
Sports-Illustrated supermodel Irina Shayk had her choice to be with MILLIONS
of guys just BEGGING to sleep with her, but chose to be in a long-term
relationship with some superstar soccer player, and then in a long-term
relationship with an actor.
And even the MEN,
who it could be argued biologically are MORE polygamous than women, tend to end
up choosing to find quality rather than quantity when they truly have choice.
Take a guy like Justin
Timberlake, or a Brad Pitt- they could easily be living
promiscuous lives, but never really did.
It turns out that actually when you REALLY have ultimate choice,
you DON’T go for the quantity; you go for the quality.
Plus, the truth also is that
men actually find the idea of actually being in a relationship with a woman who
has slept with 50 guys to actually be REPULSIVE
on a very primal level, and possibly for very good evolutionary reasons-
because it shows she is a bad choice to
invest DNA in when she may not end up giving birth to his child, but rather to someone else’s.
And never mind that on TOP of all this, is the very REAL issue of
STDs.
So, once again, TOTAL BULLSHIT
gets spread, but the TRUTH is out there if you just open your eyes.
It’s not hiding in the
SHADOWS.
The
truth is hiding in PLAIN SIGHT.
So now is time for you to make a choice.
Do
you want SUCCESS in getting yourself a great girlfriend?
Or do you want to
WASTE your time, and have your EMOTIONS and attention hijacked by the endless
ATTENTION grabbers on TV, on the internet, and everywhere else, whether they
are governments, companies, or anyone else trying to MANIPULATE you?
And remember, TIME
is the most VALUABLE commodity.
It’s
actually one of the reasons I made my NEW book so EFFICIENT- it contains ONLY
gold, NO FILLER AT ALL.
The book is called: The No-Bullshit Book on Success with Women Today.
And it is designed
so you can read the whole thing IMMEDIATELY, and there is no way you can end up
NOT reading it. You WILL finish this
book, and you WILL USE IT, and it will PRODUCE RESULTS- ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS USE
WHAT YOU READ IN IT!
This newsletter, as powerful
as it is, just scratches the surface of what I SOLVE for you in the book- including the very nitty-gritty HOW TO on finding a QUALITY woman that is UNTAINTED by feminism, and how to most EFFECTIVELY approach her, and how to
most efficiently attract her, and how to KEEP
a relationship THRIVING LONG-TERM.
Order
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Once you’ve got the book, the next step is BOOTCAMP where you will learn from me how to most efficiently put it all into ACTION, right before your very own eyes.
You will be doing
all this in the real world, on women in all kinds of everyday places like coffee
shops, bookstores, supermarkets, and more.
Contact
me by email to request any details about bootcamp.
My
email is michaelmarks@getagreatgirl.com
And if you have any urgent dating or relationship issues that you
need addressed IMMEDIATELY, you can also arrange a live phone consultation with
me as well.
My
email is michaelmarks@getagreatgirl.com
Till
next time,
Michael
Marks
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