If You Want To Attract A Truly Good Woman, Then You Must Absolutely Know This

When you know what you want in life,

it makes all the difference for actually 

GETTING what you want- not because

of hocus-pocus reasons, but because you

FOCUS all your EFFORTS on THAT

THING.

And this is the KEY to getting yourself a

GREAT GIRL – the kind of woman that

you are massively attracted to, and who is

going to treat you RIGHT.

And this is where, more than EVER, I have

a very DIFFERENT message to tell you than

the typical pick up artist or “attract women”

advice.

You see, for whatever reason, be it that

they themselves GAVE UP ON FINDING

QUALITY WOMEN, or that they simply

were not INTERESTED in quality women

and were instead just interested in promiscuity,

or possibly they feel that the men who are their

customers are only interested in the superficial

themselves, the bottom line is this:

Most of the popular pick up artist advice

draws its strength from one MAIN source,

and that source is the typical “modern young

woman” who is, for various reasons (including

devious efforts by certain feminists) extremely

LIGHT-HEADED when it comes to thinking

about relationships, family, fidelity, and honor,

and is, instead, quite SERIOUS only about things

such as being promiscuous, and emphasizing

“independence” to the degree that ALL ELSE,

even family, husband, children, are all DISTANT

SECOND thoughts.

In the story of Superman, the main source of his

powers is Earth’s YELLOW SUN. He would not have

his powers under a RED SUN.

Similarly, the power source behind most pick

up artist advice is the fact that so many women

today ARE promiscuous and DON’T want to

think deeply about important things.

Thoughts of ethics, family, virtue, these thoughts

are not on their mind - these thoughts are a whole

GALAXY away from their over-riding thoughts

of  money and sex, and selfishness, traveling, fancy

purses, etc.

If more women DID care about fidelity, family, and the

sacred bond between man and woman, the pick up artist

advice would FAIL. It would turn the “yellow sun” RED.

So pick up artist advice basically DOES AWAY

WITH ALL CONCERN in the conversation regarding

morals, ethics, fidelity, long-term thinking- these things

are actually worse than a red sun, they are like
KRYPTONITE to your attraction power for these
kinds of women.

The red sun just neutralizes Superman's power, but this 

kind of talk will DESTROY your chances with most of 

today's women.

Rather than focus on the big picture, and rather than

focus on fidelity and commitment and the meaning

of a vow, and the meaning of honor,  the focus is all

on the MOMENT, with a thin layering of connection-

more of a VENEER of connection sprinkled into the

conversation- and this is because even the “modern

woman” still wants to feel SOME level of connection

with the boatloads of men she is sleeping with –

in order not to feel “cheap” and so she can sort of

face herself in the mirror in the morning (with one

eye closed and not really thinking too much).

Let me also make it clear that promiscuity is not

the only problem, as it all falls under the general

category of “ME ME ME”- of course this changes

when the women start to get much older and start

to realize that actually the good men won’t have

anything to do with them, and the purely superficial
men aren’t interested in them anymore.

But back to the POWER SOURCE for all the

pick up artist methods – it WORKS because

it DESTROYS all sense of morals and the

meaningful with regards to commitment and

vows. Talking about these kinds of morals is

“kryptonite” for any man trying to attract these

women, because it brings up something very

SCARY for them- the thought that they might

have a rude awakening when they want to settle

down and want to find a good man.

  

I know this, because there was a time in my life,

before all this pick up artist stuff exploded, where

I was so disillusioned with women, that I TRULY

BELIEVED THAT WOMEN WANTED A JERK.

So I would approach women and STRIP my conversation

of all NICETIES, I was super-direct, I never did favors,

never gave compliments, teased them like crazy, and

they would all seem to think this was TOTALLY NORMAL.

And when I would suggest that they give me their number,

MOST of them DID. And I would BREAK THINGS off

with them for the most INSANELY SMALL reason,

and it only made them CHASE HARDER, it was actually

the WORST way to try to end a relationship.  The best

way to end relationships with women, I thought, because

it worked so well, was to actually start acting NICE to them.

That was a great way to get them bored with me.

Now, there are some good things about this, which

is the basic idea that NO woman is doing you a

FAVOR for going out with you, it’s a MUTUAL

benefit, and women know this, and they are more

attracted to a man who doesn’t feel BENEATH

a woman, they want a man who feels he is totally

WORTH that woman, if not MORE THAN HER.

So the basic attitude of I HAVE VALUE, and not

kissing up, and acting far more MANLY than the lying

feminists would suggest women want, all that is GOOD

STUFF. It’s attractive.  

But the problem is that attitude taken TOO FAR-

A.K.A. TYPICAL PICK UP ARTIST ADVICE-

ALSO KILLS THE OPPORTUNITY FOR YOU

TO ACTUALLY ATTRACT THE KIND OF WOMEN

WHO TRULY DO STILL BELIEVE IN THINGS

like fidelity, not sleeping around, and who believe

there is something special about a man and a woman

making a commitment to each other- a commitment

that goes beyond just the physical, of course, but that

also includes the physical, and that this part reflects

a much deeper sense of honoring each other, and

that this extends to a commitment to their raising

a family together as well.

Fidelity, honor, love, commitment. These things

are not a joke.  They resonate in men and women

on a PRIMAL level, and when people say they

are old fashioned, they indeed are as OLD as

humanity itself and as ETERNAL and as important.

Far more important to the well-being of humanity

than what feminists would have us believe- feminists

would have us believe that men don’t really CARE

about these things, and that women should try to

act like the most promiscuous men, and that women

should push off commitment as long as possible, and

that men are somehow always the bad guys no matter

what.

BUT.

There ARE some women out there who for some

reason are just DIFFERENT.  They RESISTED

and CONTINUE TO RESIST these forces.

They still want a man to act like a MAN.

They just also want a man who has HONOR.

A man who will treat his bond with a woman

as sacred.

In other words, they want the kind of man that

women have wanted for MILLENNIA.

Perhaps these rare women who still have good

values, who still cherish their femininity, who still

cherish the concept of a man and woman committing

to each other by choice, well perhaps these women

were TAUGHT differently by their parents compared

to most others.

Perhaps these women are CRITICAL THINKERS who

think outside the box and will not do stupid things no

mater HOW MANY other people say it’s cool.

Regardless of HOW it is that these fantastic women

still exist, the fact remains that they DO exist.

And yet, many men would like to believe that no such

women exist, because then it provides a great excuse

for NOT taking action. It’s so much easier to just

complain. It’s so much easier for a person to just

give excuses for why they are doing something

negative or why they are not doing something positive.

Again, the fact is: GOOD WOMEN STILL EXIST.

And, these women are BOMBARDED by the WRONG

MEN ALL THE TIME.

Including, you guessed it- the guys brainwashed by

typical “how to get women” advice, that relies on

some tactic that is EXTERNAL to a man’s TRUE

personality or values or beliefs. Basically, men are

told to GIVE IN TO THE WAYS OF MOST WOMEN

TODAY, and to CATER TO THAT DISTORTION.

But it’s not just THESE men these women are

bombarded by- they are also bombarded by the

men who WORSHIP them just because they are

beautiful. These are men who have never been

taught that just because you FEEL attraction to

a woman DOES NOT MAKE HER the right

woman,  your soul-mate, or anything else.

Seriously, this might sound obvious to you

if you’ve known it for years, or if you learned

it from me years ago, but the bottom line is there

are still tons of men out there who DO in fact

see a beautiful woman, and their first instinct

is to kiss up, open doors for them, offer favors,

give compliments, etc.

And a woman who is looking for a man who is

about more than JUST the superficial finds it

disturbing that the only men she meets are men

who worship beauty and not character at all,

or the men she meets are men who ONLY care

about the physical.

In both cases, it’s not what she is looking for,

and the worst part of all this is that there are

some good men out there who are being led

astray by the wrong advice.

So if you ARE looking for a great woman, a

woman who is just as beautiful in her character

as she is physically, a woman who doesn’t sleep

around, a woman who is wise, you absolutely

SHOULD RESONATE that message to her-

you MUST make it clear that you are a man on

the SAME wavelength, EVEN IF IT MEANS

LOSING EVERY OTHER WOMAN because

those other women are BRAINWASHED to

NOT APPRECIATE the right values in men.

This should really be NO SACRIFICE

in your mind at all. The reason is because

WHY ON EARTH would you be bothered

by “losing” the WRONG WOMEN??????

If you feel it IS a sacrifice, then clearly you are

not serious about finding the right woman.

Some men are so desperate, or so brainwashed, or

so weak, that they just can’t say no to any possibility

to any attractive woman.

Now, how MEANINGFUL is it to a QUALITY

woman when such a man promises to love her?

It’s MEANINGLESS.
HE WOULD LOVE ANY ATTRACTIVE WOMAN.

He would do anything for any attractive woman.

It also suggests that since he is so weak, that if

he DID have her, he might very well be tempted

and CHEAT on her if ANOTHER woman gave

him the opportunity.

There is ONE constant when it comes to attracting

ANY woman- and that is believing in yourself with

ZERO APOLOGY for being who you are.

But what makes it REALLY TRAGIC is when

a guy who is a good guy is so DESPERATE that

he has LOST BELIEF IN GOOD WOMEN that he

ends up sending out the message through his words

and his mannerisms, that he is playing “how to get

women game” even though he REALLY just wants

to get ONE GREAT WOMAN.

You need to learn the power of saying NO

to the wrong women.

It’s very EMPOWERING.

Get out there and meet women.

Start saying NO to the wrong ones.

This will help develop your conviction in

your beliefs regarding quality women.

Don’t try to get “all” the women- or you are

going to be sending off the wrong signals to

the BEST women that would be true CONTENDERS

for being THE woman in your life.

Most pick up artist advice incorporates a degree

of cheapening the sacred element of sexuality
(and this does not mean that sex between a man
and woman can't be wild, it means that it's special
when it isn't something handed out like advertising
flyers to everyone) in order to try to appeal to the
sexual, which is a BASE LEVEL impulse of most
human beings.

Unfortunately, a lot of women in our society actually

RESPOND to this, which is the same reason we have

SKYROCKETING levels of broken relationships,

affairs, infidelity, disappointment and anxiety,

maladjusted children, and a basis sense of men and

women at war with each other when it should be men

and women in harmony with each other and honoring

each other. 

The worst war of all is the war that takes place in your

own most intimate and precious relationships.   

It’s time to STOP THE INSANITY.

Don’t allow crapola into your life.

First of all, this is the way to be for your own dignity.

Second of all, it is THIS kind of man that a great

woman with great values SEEKS.   

If anything, you should have MORE conviction

in YOUR morals, your values, than MOST MEN

out there approaching women, if you are a man who

REJECTS the majority of pick up artist style advice-

in other words if you want a QUALITY WOMAN

with the right values, that is something to be PROUD

of, not apologetic about.

By the way, on the topic of quality women,

try to observe a woman’s behaviors even before

you approach her. Is she reading a book? Or is

she texting  obsessively? Can you tell what she

is reading? Is it meaningful, or is it vapid?

In general, be WEARY of any traits that suggest she

is a woman who is INVITING ATTENTION,

especially from men.

Just BEING an attractive woman, or any woman, is pretty

much enough to GUARANTEE attention anyway, so a

woman who is actually putting in EXTRA EFFORT to

DRAW MORE ATTENTION, especially if she is attractive,

is giving you a CUE to her level of DANGER as a girlfriend,

wife, etc.

On the other hand, this does not mean to show

DISRESPECT when you approach a woman.

Unless you have strong EVIDENCE to believe otherwise,

you have to leave room for the POSSIBILITY that this

woman in front of you MIGHT be a great woman.

And that means, if you are genuinely looking for

a woman with the right values, that you DO bring

up the topic of morals, fidelity, etc, at some point

in the conversation. You shouldn’t DWELL on

it unless she ALSO decides to go into it deeper,

but YES you SHOULD bring it up.

When it comes to finding women with morals,

go after what you want without apology- if

you don’t SHOW that you AUTHENTICALLY

believe in these morals, then how on earth can

you expect to get the woman that AUTHENTICALLY

believes in them?

If you try to go with the typical pick up artist advice,

and then you ALSO try to throw in some talk of morals,

she’ll think you are either full of it, or that you are weak,

or that you are confused, since you are acting in a

NAMBY PAMBY way regarding these morals.

Remember, a quality woman is investing her SOUL

in the right man, so the LAST THING SHE WANTS

is some screwball in her life who thinks that morals

are not important.

BE CONSISTENT WITH IT- and what I mean is

that if you really understand the reality of a quality woman
with morals, you should NOT expect such a woman to do

CARTWHEELS immediately just because you approached
her in person, or online, or anywhere else.

In fact, it is so RARE for a woman of modesty (and I

mean in her behaviors, not just her clothing, because I

have seen women who dressed modestly who had more

partners than math has numbers) that when she meets

a man on her wavelength, she might not BELIEVE it

or she might start to TREMBLE or get scared because

for the FIRST TIME IN HER LIFE, it’s actually

HAPPENING FOR REAL that she is meeting a

man that is actually her counterpart.

So you have to be cool and realize she might need some

time to soak it all in.  Don’t rush her. Persist, but don’t

apply too much pressure.

There IS a way to be persistent without acting desperate.

For example, let’s say a woman says she is not comfortable

giving you her number, this does NOT mean she is trying

to play some hard-to-get-game.  She may very well be

WEARY of a lot of men out there, ranging from desperate

men who will call her 99 times a day even though she never

said she was interested, to men who are only interested in

the physical.

So you don’t want to DROP such a woman.

And the way you don’t drop her, but at the same time

still don’t show desperation, is to tell her in a masculine

tonality, calm tonality, that you are cool no matter what

happens, even if things don’t work, that you like her, but

that you are man of maturity and experience and you can

move on from her if it doesn’t work out. 

And MEAN it.

Developing yourself internally to be able to

walk away from a woman, without feeling

BITTER, is one of the most powerful things

you can do for yourself.

By the way, the ability to do this comes from

BELIEVING IN YOURSELF, and from

ACCEPTING YOURSELF, which are easy

things to say but so few people really do.

You must realize that no woman is the sum total

of your IDENTITY. You can’t have this attitude

just a tactic to attract women, but it IS attractive

to a woman when she knows you are so strong

as a man that you don’t lose your strength just

because you didn’t get some woman. 

A woman wants to know she is with a man who

is so strong and so confident emotionally, that

he would have STILL been at peace, strong,

and confident, and never be needy for a woman,

even had he NOT met her. And she wants to

know that your moral convictions would not

be sacrificed out of desperation just to get the

approval of some woman. 

So, back to the part above where you are letting

her know you are cool no matter what happens,  

by doing that you are showing that you are persistent,

that you don’t up when something seems right, and

you are encouraging her to give you her phone number,

yet you are also showing that you are not needy for her.

This is also where social intelligence comes in:

If a woman tells you she has had a stalker, it

makes sense that you don’t push too hard too fast.

Assess the evidence- how much effort is she putting

into the conversation? Is she showing you signs of

genuine interest? Yes? Then it’s probably worth it

to have some more patience. 

Also, here’s another important tip- treat EACH

approach, each woman, as an INDIVIDUAL.

Do NOT try to sort all women into COOKIE

CUTTER categories, because this is not some

kind of MASS MARKETING PRODUCT you

are trying to sell, it is YOU connecting to HER,

and it is all about the MOST INTIMATE CONNECTION.

You MUST listen to hear for all the nuances of her

personality, her values, her passions, her SOUL.

THIS is the kind of COMMITMENT that will

PAY OFF when you meet the RIGHT woman.

Sure, you can take the COOKIE CUTTER approach

to women, and you will get SOME results, but you

will not get the kind of woman that truly ignites

your soul, and I assure you that cookie cutter

shortcut attitude will not ignite HER soul, either.

I believe that when done right, the connection

between a man and a woman is by FAR the

most POWERFUL driving force in human nature.

So, if you are reading this right now, and would like

to learn how to go about the process of approaching

women so that you don’t BLOW IT with the kind of

woman who is worth more than all the others combined,

you may want to learn from me, because I actually care

about this as much as you do.

In fact, it’s all I’ve been focused on for over twelve YEARS.

There are all kinds of SEMINARS out there on relationships.

Some of them are even made by guys who simultaneously
promote the most superficial connections.

 

And guess what? When things are WRONG,

they are usually wrong from the BEGINNING.       

The whole FOUNDATION is screwed up.

So the answer to screwed up relationships is not some

SEMINAR BAND-AID for couples.   

When there is a REAL problem, the answer is 

a total RE-HAUL from the ground up.

Meet the RIGHT woman in the FIRST place,

and BE the right kind of MAN IN THE FIRST PLACE.

The right man and the right woman understand what men
and women used to know for thousands of years until
 modern so-called "experts" ranging from feminists to
others belonging to various warped ways of thinking took
over the discussion.

Meet the RIGHT woman in the FIRST place.
Be the RIGHT man.
That way, you have a solid foundation where you

GROW TOGETHER instead of grow APART.

The right foundation with a woman begins with

the very first MOMENT you approach her.

Perhaps you would like to learn through BOOTCAMP.

This is where I show you how to do everything in real

life, on women EVERYWHERE, from supermarkets to

public transit to coffee shops to bookstores and just

about everywhere else as well.

This all takes place in real places, on real women.

This isn’t actors or acting, this is the real thing.

This program is VERY different from typical

BOOTCAMP programs. It’s not about lowering

yourself to common standards, it’s about finding

and attracting the women that would make for

a truly great girlfriend or even “the one”.

Bootcamp is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

For a full catalog of all my home-study programs,

each one of which has gone through a painstaking

process to ensure you are getting only the BEST

advice, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

You will find programs on every aspect of attraction

and dating, from how to approach, to how to get over

approach anxiety, and much, much more.  

For am exclusive, personal consultation with me

on any matter related to attraction or dating, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Biggest Secret To Understanding And Succeeding With Women Today

If you are a man who has ever wondered
WHY things are the way they are when
it comes to dating and attracting women
today, then I believe this newsletter may
be the most important thing you have
ever read on the topic.

Knowing this “WHY” element is a HUGE
part of being able to do the “WHAT” element
in order to GET the kind of woman you want.

So here we go:

One of the BIGGEST shocks I had when I
started out approaching women for the purpose
of dating them is that almost EVERY SINGLE
WOMAN I would meet, would do at least
SOMETHING very early on that I found
downright DISRESPECTFUL.

I didn’t even know at the time that this is
something that just about EVERY MAN
goes through with women.

So let me give you some examples of things
I am talking about, because I want it to be
really clear. Also, all these women that
I am mentioning were not some kinds of
EXTREME CASES, these were typical
attractive women, with normal jobs
ranging from teachers to lawyers to
secretaries to entrepreneurs to computer
programmers to waitresses etc, etc, etc.

And  in GENERAL, these women were
NOT malicious, not mean-spirited, and
in fact in GENERAL were very warm,
sensitive, and giving people.

On one first date, a particular woman would
start talking about some male celebrity from
TV and ESPECIALLY TRY TO KEEP HINTING
TO ME that she found him very attractive.

This might sound like nothing, but this was
coming from a woman who was EXTREMELY
insecure and actually thought I was possibly
more interested (I wasn’t at all) in other women
crossing the street when we were in the car
stopped at a light at the intersection.

So I say this to make it clear that anyone who
was so insecure about those things would clearly
understand NOT to “press someone’s buttons”
by trying to stir a little jealousy.

Again, I want to make it CLEAR that OTHERWISE,
this woman actually was a VERY SENSITIVE
woman who was thoughtful and caring and
nurturing.

Another woman, early on the very first conversation,
tried to imply she was only interested in men with
certain Titanic-sized anatomical proportions. 

As crazy as this sounds, this woman also turned
out to be a very NON-SUPERFICIAL person
who was extremely WARM and GIVING.

Another two women, who kept on telling me how
IMPOSSIBLE it was to find a loyal guy, shared
a particular thing in common: Right after being
physically intimate (I try to speak with class here)
they started talking about how HOT certain
celebrities were, both MALE and FEMALE.

And both of these women would have been
SEVERELY HURT had I started speaking
about how hot I thought Megan Fox was
or something like that, especially RIGHT
AFTER DOING THE DEED WITH THEM!

I could go on and on with the REAL REPORTS
from OTHER guys who have told me their own
stories. One guy told me how a woman he was
out with, on a first date, everything was going
GREAT, and then she suddenly called him a
NEANDERTHAL, and not in a “cute” or “nice”
way, because he was TALL.

To me, that is really insane, because if
anything, being TALL is supposed to give
a guy an ADVANTAGE, not a DISADVANTAGE,
with women, right?

And no matter HOW PERFECT a guy was,
in terms of his job, his income, his looks,
his age, his background, NO MATTER
WHAT, I would hear from guys how women
would FIND SOMETHING TO TRY TO GET
UNDER THESE GUYS’ SKINS.

So what the F is going on, right?

We all know that as MEN, we do NOT
act this way toward WOMEN we WANT!

This is the kind of stuff that really makes
a lot of men REALLLLLY ANGRY.

So let me explain to you what is going on,
because it is ONE FREAKY, MASSIVE,
SOUL-SEARING REVELATION.

It’s because women want to PRESERVE
their sense of DIGNITY AND POWER
when they FEEL they are going to actually
be getting VERY VULNERABLE and
VERY NAKED and VERY PHYSICAL
with you VERY SOON.

You see, because we are living in an age
of INSANITY (more on this later below)
where LOVE, DEDICATION, FIDELITY,
LOYALTY, COMMITMENT, TEMPERANCE
IN SEXUALITY, and FAMILY VALUES are
often considered UNCOOL (for men and for women)
and a form of IMPRISONMENT, most women
FEEL they can’t be COOL and immediately also
show a high value for LOVE, LOYALTY, AND
OLD-SCHOOL TRADITIONAL VALUES.

They are afraid if they do that, then that is
the same as saying all they want is to be
barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen and
to never have the vote again.

So, because women feel like they are going
to be SURRENDERING everything they have
physically to you, this is their way to RECLAIM
some balance, some power, some dignity.

If a woman REALLY is not interested in you,
she would just GO AWAY, or ignore you,
she would not put in the EFFORT to
ENGAGE you on any level whatsoever.

When you really want to make someone go
away, you IGNORE them, right?

But it's precisely because a woman feels
she is going to get VERY INVOLVED with you
that she DOES this stuff!!!!!

Of course, there should be NO NEED to have to
do this between two people who GENUINELY
love and respect each other, right?

BUT THAT IS THE WHOLE PROBLEM.
LOVE AND RESPECT and BALANCE
AND TEMPERENCE are NOT COOL
ANYMORE.

Everything is on HIGH GEAR, ULTRA
MODE, ALL THE TIME.

It’s part of our culture.
FAST food.
FAST SERVICE.

LOTS OF SUGAR IN EVERYTHING.
LOTS OF FAT.
LOTS OF SALT.
LOTS OF NUDITY.

LOTS OF PROMISES FOR HOW TO
GET RICH QUICK.

LOTS OF NIGHTCLUBS AND ONLINE
DATING SITES WHERE WOMEN AND
MEN CAN FIND AN INSTANT ONE-NIGHT
STAND.

LOTS OF ADS IN YOUR FACE,
AND IN YOUR EARS, EVERYWHERE.

People have become lazy since they are
bombarded in our culture with messages
GLORIFYING PERSONAL INDULGENCE
WITHOUT ANY LIMITS WHATSOEVER.

Of course, in the same way that too much salt,
sugar, and fat are DESTROYERS, so too is
having an imbalance when it comes to sex,
love, and romance. It has to be a BALANCE
between them, it can’t be too much of one.

So, there are two things to TAKE from all this.

One thing is that, if a woman you’ve just met
or approached or recently started dating suddenly
starts to try to get on your nerves and under your SKIN,
to “push your buttons” so to speak, you should realize
that VERY OFTEN this means she actually is VERY
INTERESTED IN GETTING PHYSICAL WITH YOU.

Therefore, you should not be pissed off, or
angry, or upset in any way.  In fact, you
might even want to calmly look at her
lovingly and tell her the truth with
these words:

"You love me."  

At that point, when you say those words
in a calm, loving, confident way, she is
extremely likely to MELT before you.

The second thing to take from all this is that
JUST BECAUSE SHE IS ATTRACTED TO YOU,
DOES NOT MEAN YOU SHOULD GO FOR IT!!!

And THIS is where I take a VERY DIFFERENT
APPROACH than the pick up artist community.

You see, I am not interested in teaching guys
just how to get physical with women, as
that is like teaching people how to find
food in a BUFFET.  Our current society is
a BUFFET when it comes to that stuff.

There is no PROBLEM finding the physical.

The real goal is how to find a QUALITY
woman that is the TOTAL PACKAGE,
a woman that you are attracted to, a woman
that is kind, intelligent, and that will
ENRICH YOUR LIFE, and that will be a
great partner and possibly a great mother
as well.

And even though all these women who
DEEP DOWN don’t really mean to be
nasty when they try to get under your
skin before they get naked with you,
the fact is these kinds of women STILL
DON’T GET IT. 

The fact is, a woman should be STRONG
ENOUGH to RESIST the crazy culture
that we live in, and to VOICE her REAL
THOUGHTS and TO LIVE THE WAY
SHE REALLY BELIEVES.

So if a woman feels she WANTS genuine
love, if a woman WANTS deep respect,
if a woman wants a man who REALLY
cares for her, she should not be afraid to
VOICE THAT, to CHAT ABOUT THAT,
and to put in the work to SEE what you are
like, and BE CAREFUL about who she
dates.

If a woman is TOO WEAK to do the right
things, that the ONLY WAY she can live her
life is by jumping into bed with you before
she really knows you well, but also making
sure to INSULT you first, she is going to be
a woman who has a very big ISSUE in her life
with you whenever it comes to this particular
issue of TREATING YOU AS A MAN WITH
RESPECT.

She may treat you very WELL in just about
EVERY SINGLE AREA, but when it comes
to a very subtle but important area of you
being her MAN, in the greatest sense of
that word, she will falter.

This is why you must TRULY be "THE MAN"
and INSIST on 100% total and absolute RESPECT.
(I'm not saying to be a tyrant or ask for perfection,
but in the general sense of TOTAL RESPECT
for you as HER MAN, yes, you must NOT
compromise on this issue.)    

Because deep down, she has ISSUES
regarding being PROUD to LOVE and
RESPECT AND BE TOTALLY LOYAL
to her man, and what will then happen is
a NEVER-ENDING SERIES OF PROBLEMS
whenever this issue rears its head.

So, for example, because she is not
COMFORTABLE with TRADITIONAL VALUES,
she may very well feel it’s “okay” to flirt with
some other guy at work. She may feel it’s “okay”
to go for “drinks” with some guy who claims
he is just a friend, since, after all, as a “modern
INDEPENDENT WOMAN who is not barefoot
and pregnant” she can “DO WHATEVER SHE
LIKES, she can INDULGE TO NO LIMITS
on whatever she wants to do, since she is
the one in control”, right?

For the pick up artist community that just
wants to get physical, they don’t care about
these things.

But for the men who actually want women
as life-long partners, for the men who have
real love for women, for the men who want
to raise families, such women are going to be
DISASTERS.

The fact that these women may still be
sensitive, caring people in all the OTHER
respects does not help you when she is
off CHEATING with another guy.

But again, to the pick up artist community,
there is no such thing as cheating, there 
is only sex or no sex, that’s it.

This is why I created get a GREAT girl.
It’s about getting the RIGHT woman.

This is why, for example, in my program
WARRIOR WITHIN, I discuss, amongst
MANY, MANY, MANY VITAL THINGS,
I discuss how to DETECT a woman’s values
and her character IMMEDIATELY, so that
you can SCREEN OUT the wrong women
right away and so that you can detect the
RIGHT WOMEN as well.

By the way, it’s an interesting irony that
even the most DIE-HARD pick up artists
seem to “see the light” and eventually end
up not only giving up the whole pick up
artist thing but actually going in the opposite
direction to an EXTREME and talking about
TRUE LOVE and then having children, etc.

I don’t do that.
I don’t believe in TRUE LOVE in the
stereotypical sense.

I believe in a shared PROMISE and a shared
PASSION.

A man and woman who have PASSION
physically for each other, and who SHARE
DEEP CORE VALUES, including of course
the FAMILY VALUES, as nature really
brought men and women together to mate,
and to feel strongly enough about each other
to stick around together to raise the kids,
at least for a little while, and after that,
as human beings we can use our creativity
to maintain the passion. (I get into that
as well as many other important topics in
my book “Get A Great Girl” on my site.)

Now here is the thing:
Life is not perfect.
Human beings are not perfect.
There is no ABSOLUTE perfection.

So you have to use a bit of DISCRETION
in how much of a PURIST you want to be
when applying these principles.

This is also something I incorporate into
my programs and materials, which is
the reason I have so many different
materials, to cover ALL the possibilities
and ALL the strategies.  

So, for example, a woman might be
scoring a 90 percent with you and
just be engaging in a TOUCH of the
problems discussed, and she might
be a woman who can be REDEEMED
with a bit of an education from you.

But I can tell you that if you are finding
yourself having to TEACH A WOMAN all the
time how to behave, she is the WRONG WOMAN,
and also to be honest with you, if you ARE
going to try to show a woman how to behave,
that TOO is an art, because you can’t just
criticize someone, as it comes across as
mean and it also comes across as insecure,
which are both very counter-productive, so
you have to be very gentle, very humble,
very loving, and yet at the same time
you have to be CLEAR.

Now, get ready for THIS:

There ARE a FEW women around who DO
understand alllllllllllllllllllllllll
this stuff that I have written here.

They are RARE, damnnnnnnnnn rare, but
they are not so rare that you will not still
find them no matter where you are, IF
you look hard enough.

And the good news is this: Since there are
so FEW men who UNDERSTAND all this,
you will have NO COMPETITION AT ALL.

In fact, the MORE that the pick up artist
and sex-obsessed culture GROWS, the
MORE PRECIOUS you become to those
super-quality women that are around.

The REAL “underground society” today
is not that society comprised of the
sex-obsessed zombies, but rather is
comprised of those wise men and women
who see our culture for the insanity that
it has morphed into over the past few decades.

(The reasons for this are something I would
gladly discuss another time, but it has
a lot to do with the human tendency
to need more and more stimulation to
get the same emotional effect, so the
solution is to actually get LESS
of the “over-saturation” style stimulation,
which ultimately forces the emotions to
get more sensitive, stronger, and 
require LESS of a “hit” to get stimulated.)  

And if you are reading this right now and
you are serious about getting a QUALITY
woman, then I suggest you get my most
advanced program geared ESPECIALLY
for this goal. 

It’s called WARRIOR WITHIN, because
it’s all about what is INSIDE of you as
opposed to you putting on some ACT.

It contains 8 DVDs and is the LIVE FOOTAGE
of my SEMINAR on this topic where men came
from several different COUNTRIES to attend.
      
It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

If you would like a private consultation
with me, it would be my pleasure to serve
you and give you the very best of all my
experience in this field.

For a consultation, please email me directly at
michaelmarks@getagreatgirl.com

Similarly, if you would like me to
speak with your organization, just
let me know. 

If you are new here, welcome aboard, and
you can find out about ALL my programs
by going here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Getting The RIGHT Woman In A Crazy World

If you are looking for a great long-term
girlfriend or possibly wife, you NEED
to read this newsletter.

Ever since feminism started, there has
been a gradual EROSION of morality
amongst the masses of women. 

Now, don’t get me wrong. I DO believe
ABSOLUTELY that women should be
treated with FULL RESPECT, and be
given things like the vote, and all that.

To think otherwise, is immoral, or plain
ludicrous to think that women are not 
deserving of all the respect that men
deserve.

HOWEVER, the problem is that feminism did not really preach EQUALITY only, what ENDED UP HAPPENING is that in addition to honest good things like equality, it ALSO ended up becoming ABUSED- it ended up misguided and it celebrated the idea of women emulating the very WORST characteristics of men, as opposed to the very BEST.

So, for example, promiscuity amongst women
is often CELEBRATED by women as a form
of “empowerment” and “equality”, as if all
MEN were like this and somehow women
were “evening the score”.

Otherwise, how do you explain the CELEBRATION
of people like Kim Kardashian who grew to fame
as the result of a SEX-TAPE?

Of course, many men are to blame for all this
as well, but it takes two to tango.

What REALLY PROVES HOW EVIL AND INSANE all this is, is that even when there are GLOBAL repurcussions, that have nothing to do with the MORAL, but simply to do with LIFE and SAVING life, STILLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL the feminists refuse to budge.  So even with AIDS, and even with things like HPV that is NOT EVEN DETECTABLE, STILLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL you won't find the feminists telling women to possibly be less promiscuous.  The feminists would much rather see men and women DIE than POSSIBLY admit that just MAYBE the feminists f-ed up.     

Here’s where things get REALLY screwed-up:
In nature, without the tempering forces of
culture and morals, man is designed to want
to mate with as many females as possible.

The MALE strategy is actually QUANTITY
over QUALITY, to be honest.

Of course, quality matters too, and men have
evolved to a DEGREE to be turned OFF by
women who exhibit either behavioral traits
that show they would be bad mothers, or
physical traits that imply they would bear
unhealthy children.

But still, the desire for QUANTITY of women is
a HUGE part of the PRIMAL male desire.

Now, science, history, and the study of evolution
has proven that women are not as sugar and spice as
Disney films would have us believe, and the truth
is that women are far from naturally monogamous,
but they are still NOT as primal driven for
QUANTITY as men are. 

For women, the emphasis is STILL greater on
LESS QUANTITY and GREATER QUALITY.

All this makes sense, again, from an evolutionary
point of view.  For millions of years, there was
no way for a man to know if the children born
to the woman he mated with were actually HIS
children or someone ELSE’S, so he was best
off by mating with TONS of women.

All this by the way is all subconscious, men
of course did not actively THINK about any
of these reasons. Evolution does not work
that way, it just eliminates that which does
not work from the gene pool.

But for women, although it's important that a man is faithful, the BIGGER thing to them is that the man does not ABANDON the woman and the child, because for nine months she will CARRY a child, and she will need HELP raising the child that came literally from her body.

These evolutionary differences between men and women have created differences in what is MOST important to each gender regarding their SEXUAL MATE.  So although men and women may be very similar in things that have NOTHING to do with sexual mating  (i.e. for example, enjoying things that taste SWEET), WE ARE DIFFERENT in what is OF PARAMOUNT IMPORTANCE in a partner.

And before feminism, men and women UNDERSTOOD these differences because it was OBVIOUS and there was no politically correct bullshit telling women lies.

So why do I bring all this up?
It is because TODAY, men are being TOLD
that they must be FAITHFUL to a woman,
and stick to the QUALITY strategy rather
than the QUANTITY strategy they are
BORN to want to follow, and meanwhile
there is LESS INCENTIVE than ever to do so!

At least, before feminism, men were getting
a greater REWARD for being loyal and
faithful to one woman, they were getting
a woman who was not sleeping with
the entire planet of men, and they were
getting great RESPECT and FIDELITY
AND LOYALTY from women.

So, a man’s PRIMAL need to ensure his
child was indeed his own was being
ADDRESSED.

Today, however, a woman who is TRULY
not hanging out with men all the time,
a woman who is truly prepared to GIVE
HERSELF OVER TO ONE MAN, is
a RARITY.

Instead, what we get are INFINITE women
who want to have “back ups” of many men
while they are in relationships.  So a typical
young woman (in other words, a woman who
is fertile and can produce children) will
NEVER give herself over FULLY to one man,
instead she keeps a few ‘MALE FRIENDS’
around, which she always claims are just
friends, but usually she knows full well
that if she attractive, these men want much
more than friendship.

And we get women who are hitting the club
circuit well into their 30’s, sometimes 40’s,
even as they are on the last vestiges of fertility,
and they are drinking and getting drunk and
being promiscuous, and they WONDER
why the GOOD MEN don’t want to
get SERIOUS with them.

And the most evil part of it all, is that the
FEW GOOD WOMEN who do exist
have to constantly DEFEND themselves
against the majority of women they know,
who all seem to think that the good woman
is “crazy” or nuts for wanting to truly
give herself over to a real man who won’t
take any b.s.

So I would not tell you all this if I didn’t think
there was any GOOD NEWS that I could offer
you.

The GOOD NEWS is that indeed there ARE
some good women still left on this planet.

But I can tell you one thing: They are the
EXCEPTIONS rather than the RULE.

They often come from backgrounds where
feminism did NOT take off very well.

And it’s just so tragic that good men who
FOUGHT for women to have equal rights,
were ultimately rewarded with a society
where women make MOCKERIES of
good men who are truly loyal.

As the world GLOBALIZES and becomes
a smaller planet, cultures are colliding and
crashing, but what is also happening is that
men are LEARNING from other men, and
the men who grew up with feminism are
seeing that indeed there IS another way
to live, a way where things are compatible
with the way men and women are REALLY
hardwired to think and feel.

One of the insane things about feminism is that
it has told women LIES about what most men
REALLY want besides feeling attracted.

Aside from feeling attracted to a woman,
most men want NOTHING other than
LOYALTY, WISDOM, and GOOD CHARACTER
in a woman.  We don’t care about all
the rest. We aren’t impressed because
a woman has a trillion degrees. There’s a big
difference between wisdom and having
degrees. We aren’t impressed that a woman
travelled all over the world.  And we
don’t think that pseudo-science is the
same thing as science.  

What you MUST do, if you truly want a
GREAT woman for a great relationship,
is search for the women who have not
been brainwashed by extreme feminism.

AND you must be STRONG, and not
APOLOGETIC for your beliefs.

The RIGHT woman will WANT YOU even
MORE for these strong beliefs.

And you must be prepared to LOSE a lot
of the WRONG women who like to preach
that screwing every guy in town, and never
giving loyalty to a good man, and having
tons of “platonic male friends”  is the way to
live and to be “equal” to men.

Most women really don’t even REALIZE
how PRIMAL of a desire/need it is in men
to make sure their woman is not getting
“too close” figuratively speaking, with other
men. So women think that men are like
women, and WOMEN tend to feel a greater
need to know NOT that a man is not screwing
other women, but that he is not feeling
EMOTIONS for other women. 

Women are bigger on wanting the
EMOTIONAL closeness, but MEN
are bigger on wanting to ensure there
is PHYSICAL exclusivity.

And men also KNOW that women are
very emotional,  and that having guys
around them who pretend to just be
friends, is something that can be
exploited by those men to indeed
push the right emotional buttons
and indeed have physical relations
with those women. 

All this was SUPER OBVIOUS to women
before feminism came along. No man in his
right mind would marry any woman who
gave off any indications of being CONFUSED
about these things.

Don’t even argue with the wrong women. Don’t
waste your time on them.

There ARE a few good women left.
THOSE are the ones men must search for,
if they are looking for happiness and
a successful relationship long-term.

If you are serious about getting the RIGHT
woman, go HERE now:
  
http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html 

 Till next time,

Michael Marks

Want Women To Treat You Well? Read This NOW.

If you are ready for the truth, you are about to get a BOAT LOAD of it regarding women, dating, and relationships.

ONE: A Bit Of FEAR Is Required

What I mean by this, is that in ANY situation where
someone VALUES something, there is a bit of
FEAR regarding losing that thing.

Anyone who tells you otherwise is full of crap.

Even great martial artists have SOME fear in them,
but they learn to HARNESS their fear and use it
to their advantage.

A bit of FEAR regarding being IMMORAL is a
DRIVING force for EXCELLENCE and prevents
CORRUPTION as well. (In ALL areas of life,
not just in dating.)

Similarly, if a woman has ZERO FEAR of losing you,
if she feels SOOOOOOOO at ease around you that she
feels NOTHING could possibly be bad about LOSING
you, she is going to be a HORRIBLE GIRLFRIEND
OR WIFE.

There NEEDS to be a bit of fear to keep the human
traits of WEAKNESS, LAZINESS, and COMPLACENCY
at bay.

Usually, the greatest performers in their respective fields
feel the same way.  I believe Steven Spielberg has mentioned
that he STILL feels a bit of fear every time he gets on set
to direct a movie. He also feels that this is a GOOD sign
that the movie will turn out right.

Great fighters often will tell you that it is not true that they
have NO FEAR, it is just that they have learned to USE
their fears.

Similarly, a QUALITY WOMAN is the kind of woman
who APPRECIATES a GOOD MAN so much, that she
has just a BIT of FEAR inside her regarding wanting to
NOT SCREW THINGS UP WITH THIS GOOD MAN,
which makes her VERY ALERT TO BEHAVING PROPERLY.

Now how many attractive women like this are there out there?    

They do exist, and you ABSOLUTELY CAN find them with
persistence and know-how, but the answer to the question is
that these kinds of women are VERY RARE. 

This is because things like morality, family, long-term thinking,
dedication, and sensitivity are not as popular as promiscuity,
selfishness, and thinking only about the short-term.

There are very few men and women who really CARE
ABOUT THIS STUFF.

So, as SOON as you detect a woman is a little TOO
CONFIDENT around you, I suggest you get the heck
OUT of that situation. (Obviously if you are married
or have kids with this woman or if you have been
together for a long time, I would suggest you try
to fix the situation first.)

I don’t mean to say that a woman should be shivering
around you in fear.

What I DO mean is, that the same way YOU would
not want to screw things up with a great woman,
so too SHE should show some signs of this caution
as well.

Here’s something else I need to tell you:

THE MOMENT YOU START PAYING ATTENTION
TO THIS STUFF, AND TRYING TO PUSH THE
WRONG WOMEN AWAY, THESE SAME WRONG
WOMEN WILL TRY HARD TO WIN YOU BACK
BUT YOU SHOULD IGNORE IT.

The REAL TRUTH is that most people, both men and
women, KNOW when they are mistreating someone,
but CORRUPTION sets in when there is too much
power, and those who are corrupted will try to
PUSH THEIR LUCK AS FAR AS THEY CAN.

So, with women who are spoiled, they will PUSH
THEIR LUCK AS FAR AS THEY CAN, and
when YOU call them on their CRAPPY BEHAVIOR,
especially if you do this with TOTAL CONFIDENCE
and with TOTALLY BEING PREPARED TO WALK
AWAY, they will SUDDENLY FEEL A VACUUM
IN THEIR LIFE-FORCE.

Suddenly, such a woman, for the first time in her LIFE,
is being told in no uncertain terms that she is behaving
in a WRONG WAY, by a man who has NO FEAR in leaving her.

This is FRIGHTENING for a spoiled woman, and
it also TEMPORARILY sets her BACK ON THE
PATH OF DECENCY.

She will then TRY TO APOLOGIZE OR GET
YOU BACK IN SOME OTHER WAY.

To all this, I say SCREW IT, DON’T GO THERE,
AND GET THE HECK AWAY, unless she did something
SUPER MINOR that cannot be considered an insult,
and even then, you should still call her on it.

So many men, they take my materials, they use them
only a DROP, and they see how women IMPROVE,
but they don’t take my FULL ADVICE, which is
to F-ING FORGET THESE WOMEN and move
on IMMEDIATELY to BETTER WOMEN.

When I talk about BEING THE MAN and not
taking B.S. from women, I really MEAN IT,
it is not some TEMPORARY TACTIC just
to get a woman into bed.  If you use it as a
TACTIC and are somehow willing to sleep
with a woman  just because calling her on
her b.s. was enough to get her to have sex
with you, you still haven’t learned the
BIGGER LESSON, which is that this is
not about tricks to get women into bed,
it’s about STAYING AWAY FROM THE
WRONG WOMEN, and MAKING YOUR
MIND STRONG to not get involved with
the WRONG women.

Just because you CAN get a woman who is
attractive into bed does not mean you SHOULD.
You will lose your CONVICTION AND DEEP
SEATED BELIEF in the VALUE of only being
with quality, trustworthy, decent women if you
allow yourself to also be in the circle of corrupt
women.

And then, when you lose your INNER GAME
In this sense, you lose EVERYTHING, including
your ability to even get the selfish and corrupt
women.

So, to get back to the main point, you WANT
a woman who indeed has just a bit of fear
around you in the sense that she does not
want to SCREW THINGS UP.

She does not and should not feel this fear
ALL THE TIME, and it should not be
overwhelming, but she MUST have some
of this fear, or the relationship WILL be
headed for DESTRUCTION.

Now, even a good woman is human, and she might
do something super MINOR, and in those situations,
you should just call her on her behavior, tell
her it was wrong, and she should immediately
improve permanently on that issue.  If she
does not, then she is not a quality woman
and you should leave her.

Next:  

TWO: FAITHFULNESS IS ABOUT MAKING
THE CHOICE

There are endless debates about whether it is
possible or natural for a man and woman to
be faithful to each other for life.

The truth is, on one hand, it is NOT natural.
We will always feel SOME attraction to
gorgeous members of the opposite sex,
no matter how much we love and are
attracted to the person we are with.

On the other hand, it IS natural, in the same
sense that human beings have succeeded in
doing all kinds of challenging things.

So, for example, plumbing and toilets are NOT
natural. Should we, therefore, crap on the floor?

Instead, human beings make the CHOICE to
elevate themselves, through philosophy, through
science, through spirituality, and through discipline,
to IMPROVE THEIR LIVES.

Going to the MOON is not natural, but most
people would argue that human beings exploring
space is something that human civilization
SHOULD do.

And to really focus in on the issue of faithfulness,
there really is one key question, which is HOW
to do it, right?

And the answer to the HOW is simple:

One makes the CHOICE.

If you want to become a DOCTOR, you are
going to have to do a lot of studying.  More
studying than might feel “natural”.

But if one makes the CHOICE to become a
doctor, they ACCEPT all the studying they
will have to do, and suddenly it no longer feels
like a BURDEN, but rather a way of LIFE
that is meaningful.

It is the same thing with FAITHFULNESS
and monogamy.

I’m not telling anyone they shouldn’t date
more than one woman, and I’m not telling
any woman they shouldn’t date more than
one man.

What I AM saying is that if you are already
the kind of man who knows HE can be faithful
to one woman, you need to meet a woman who
already has made the CONSCIOUS CHOICE
to live a life of faithfulness.

If she has never thought about these things,
you should NOT date her.  You CANNOT
make someone faithful or feel that fidelity
is right for them. 

Instead, THEY MUST MAKE THAT CHOICE
LONG BEFORE THEY EVEN MET YOU.

It has to be the way they APPROACH the
whole CONCEPT. 

A woman should make it clear to you
through conversation and through actions
that she has already made that choice.

This concept goes back to the concept of
EXISTENTIALISM, which in a nutshell
means that an individual can DEFINE his
own reality by CHOOSING what meaning
he gives to his own reality or situation.

Faithfulness can be looked at as a burden,
or it can be looked at as a special act of love,
a joyful form of giving, a reflection of  one’s
character, and a constantly growing bond
between a man and a woman.

But you can’t go around trying to TEACH
a woman any of this. She must already BE
that woman.

If you have any questions, I do have a personal
consultation service, and I do have the most
powerful programs on the planet for helping
you meet and attract a quality woman.

Consultations are at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

A catalogue with all my special programs for
meeting and attracting quality women is at: 

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks 

To Attract A Woman, Create MEANING In Her Life

Today's newsletter goes DEEP, this is not
KOOL-AID drink here, this is ADVANCED
FUEL FOR SUCCESS WITH WOMEN.

One of the coolest things to me is the fact
that a man CAN attract virtually any woman 
by the power of his PERSONALITY.

This personality is really a combination of
PSYCHOLOGICAL SKILLS at a supremely
high level, and these skills have nothing to
do with controlling HER, they have to do
with accessing parts of your mind you
mat not even realize you HAVE.

Three fundamental components of
these skills involve:

1. Creating MEANING in her life.

2. Creating HUMOR through emotional
RISK, VULNERABILITY, and TRUTH.     

3. Social INTELLIGENCE.
 NUMBER 1:
CREATE MEANING IN HER LIFE

Help give a woman MEANING in her life,
and she will be yours forever.  Especially
if this meaning is linked to improving her
self-esteem on a very deep level.

Of course, step one in this is practicing
what you preach.

We are currently living in a time where there
is almost ZERO pressure on anyone to have
ANY values whatsoever.

I don’t think it’s a coincidence that more
people are depressed and find their lives
meaningless, ESPECIALLY attractive
women, than ever before, during a time
when there is very very VERY little
moral code being enforced socially.

So, because there is no moral code to live BY,
there is very little for people to life FOR.

Let me be specific:
In previous generations, there was a value
on various different things, for example,
things like FAMILY, things like LOYALTY,
things like FIDELITY, things like EXPERIENCE,
things like INTELLIGENCE.

These were actually promoted.
Today, however the OBSESSION is with YOUTH.

Companies/marketers know that if they can get the
KIDS, they can have them for LIFE, and milk them
financially for LIFE.

I remember being a teenager myself and how
just about any movie with hotties and/or
violence was totally captivating.

This is because as teens, we are totally
experiencing a massive INFLUX of hormonal
chemicals, and feeling it for the FIRST TIME
as well, which means that our emotions at that
time can be TRIGGERED at full BLAST very
easily by things that appeal to RAGE and LUST.

It takes EXPERIENCE and time to gain perspective
and balance and to NOT be so easily manipulated
by EMOTIONS, especially emotions linked to violence
and to the most basic sexual things.

So for example, the vast majority of the movies
that come out are focused on youth, to get the
youth audience, they are also focused on
violence and sex in the most non-creative,
non-artistic, and primitive ways, because
to a bunch of teenagers whose hormones
just kicked in, this appeals to them, it’s
all a new thing to them.

And I'm not "judging" teens here, as I know what
this is like from personal experience.

But while in the past this was just one part
of what was available in our culture, now it’s
virtually EVERYTHING.

In the 1950’s, Superman was played by
an actor in his 40’s.  Today, Superman
is played by an actor in his 20s.

In the 1950’s, sure, a woman’s beauty was
attractive, but today it’s her YOUTH that is
the main thing.  In fact, I would say that if
you took a sample of the women who were
in billboards, movies, tv shows in the 50’s
and 60’s, and 70’s, they were on average
MORE beautiful than the women being
celebrated today, but they weren’t as
young in general.

In even the recent past, Cindy Crawford and Madonna
were hitting their prime only PAST the age of 25, while
today it’s gone nuts with child celebrities being EVERYWHERE.  

And the obsession with the sexual,
as soon as most female celebrities
get any fame whatsoever, it’s BOOM
straight to the maximum graphic
display immediately.

It’s not just movies, it’s almost everything that is
being advertised- and that totals BILLIONS of
dollars a year, billions worth of MESSAGES
being bombarded everywhere telling us it’s
only about youth.

So of course women are uptight and nervous,
especially the ones who think they have a chance,
i.e. the attractive ones, because other ones have
to let go of this illusion fantasy and are probably
happier for it, learning the lesson early that
self-esteem is not about being under 20 years old.

This obsession with youth stems from
marketing efforts by companies,  and on a
smaller level, there is nothing that is
considered TABOO now- so there are
companies that sell dating sites on cheating
on your spouse with other cheating people,
companies will do whatever they need to
do to SELL, period, regardless of the
moral questions involved, in fact they
will turn things around and try to make
it seem like a morally good thing.

It’s not a coincidence that more women than
ever are on PROZAC.  It’s not a coincidence
that relationships are disintegrating while the
obsession with material and youth is on the
rise.  People are chasing after what they
hope will bring them MEANING, but
they ain’t getting it no matter how high
they climb.

If you want to attract a woman on the deepest level,
then you need to have a STRONGER SENSE OF 
MEANING than most people have.  And this means
a stronger  sense of VALUES than most of our
society has. 

This requires taking  a RISK, it means that
you have to NOT be afraid of going
AGAINST social convention in this
respect and in fact you should be
PROUD of it.

This is part of what I mean by the difference
between a GREAT MAN and a “nice guy”:
“Nice guy” seems to have a weak connotation
to it, while a great man does everything in
his life out of genuine CONVICTION, he doesn’t
do things out of PRESSURE to “fit in”.

Next time, you’re chatting to a woman,
see if you can make a comment or lend
a perspective that ILLUSTRATES that
in fact you HAVE MEANING in your
life and that it shows through the things
you say.

If you’re in a bookstore and a woman
is reading VOGUE in the magazine
section or whatever, maybe TELL
her, with a sense of HUMOR,  “I hope
you don’t take those articles seriously.
They’re just trying to make women
insecure, in fact there’s a big conspiracy
where the men’s and women’s magazines
just share the same articles but change
the titles so they can sell them to each
audience!”

And when you say this, COMMIT to it
with your voice tonality, don’t say it
with a namby-pamby attitude.

Make it REAL. 

This is TRUTH mixed with HUMOR
mixed with a sense of VALUES,
particularly the value of SELF-ESTEEM!

NUMBER 2:
HUMOR IS RISK, VULNERABILITY, TRUTH

The reality is that humor makes a woman
FEEL good, and women are often MORE
affected by FEELINGS when it comes to
most things than men are.  Men DO
get emotional about CERTAIN things,
but not as MANY things as women
do, in general.  So humor is VERY
POWERFUL with women.

The irony of making humor work is that
you have to say the very things that most
people would NOT say, and the things
you say have to have TRUTH behind
them, AND the things have to be said
in a way that is not mean-spirited.

Most guys don’t want to take the
emotional RISK that there won’t
be a laugh, they’re too afraid of
their own ego.

But as Robin Williams says, this is
COMEDY, this isn’t about you having
to jump off a building, it’s about TALKING,
the worst thing is that they don’t LAUGH,
so what??????

You can actually learn to get an
adrenaline RUSH from this risk,
and get ADDICTED to it in a
good way, which will make you
VERY FUNNY VERY FAST.

And again, there has to be truth to it.
Like when Robin Williams talks about
how UNREALISTIC beer commercials
are and how people “get sucked into
drinking beer by believing it’s a healthy
thing! All these beer commercials
usually show BIG MEN, MANLY MEN,
doing manly things! ‘You’ve just killed
a small animal, it’s time for light beer!
Why not have a REALISTIC beer commercial
show a REALISTIC thing about beer? –
It’s 5 o’clock in the morning, you’ve just
pissed on a dumpster- IT’S MILLER TIME!’

Or when Dave Chappelle makes the comment,
“Chivalry  is dead. And women killed it!”
This is FUNNY,  because it takes guts
to say, and it is TRUE in many ways
because FEMINISM tried to make
women and men the SAME, thereby
destroying things like chivalry.

So you have to take the comedy RISK,
and you also have to be VULNERABLE,
you can’t be afraid to BRING OUT WHO
YOU REALLY ARE.

Yes, the irony is that being courageous enough
to bring out the perspectives that you see, that
other people won’t say, INCLUDING THE
THINGS THAT MAKE YOU VULNERABLE,
are actually very often the things that everyone
has on their mind but are just afraid to say,
and so now you have her RESPECT as well,
and she sees all this as STRENGTH.

So you are revealing your identity, you are
being strong, you are being vulnerable, you     
are being honest, and you are being FUNNY
all at once.  No wonder humor is such a
powerful drug when used right.
 
NUMBER 3:
SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE

This is a HUGELY important concept you
want to put into action when socializing
or interacting with any woman.

The other day I happened to see something
on television.  Talk show host Jimmy Fallon
had a certain guest on, she was talking about
one of her many luxurious homes, and how
she was enjoying FISHING from the very
backyard of one of her homes, how it connects
right to a POND, etc, etc.

Now, I know everyone knows these people
are wealthy, but really, do people WANT to
know about all of her homes?  Do people
want to hear HER talking about her luxury
life? The answer is NO, it’s not cool to talk
about this and no one is interested really in this-
and Jimmy Fallon KNOWS that this is
not making the audience feel better, so
what does he do?

He says how he just went ICE FISHING
and froze his butt off, and how he didn’t
even  make the hole himself and how
he and his friend just froze out in the
cold trying to catch a fish but ended
up getting NOTHING.

Ahhh, now the audience LAUGHS and
feels GREAT.  It’s winter now and they
are all freezing their butt off too.

And do they think that Jimmy Fallon is a
loser for this? 

If anything, they like him even more from
all this, and it’s obvious from the audience
response. 

When chatting up a woman, don’t kiss up
to her, but definitely think about HER emotions,
and realize that showing off is basically
NEVER the right thing to do, and I’m not
just talking morally, it’s actually NOT cool.

It makes you seem needy and insecure.

By the way, I’m sure the guest didn’t
intend anything negative at all, and that in reality
she IS a cool person who was just nervous at
the moment.  Just like a lot of guys who are
decent guys UNINTENTIONALLY sabotage
their results with women.  And I used to be
the KING of these mistakes, thinking to
myself  “I really want to impress this woman,
so I’ll tell her the most impressive things
about myself possible”.  I cringe to think
about the mistakes I made even if they
were years ago.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks  

Why You Do NOT Want A Weak Woman

Here at "Get A Great Girl", the ultimate goal
is always getting a woman of superior quality,
and that means not only her looks, but also
her CHARACTER.

So allow me to share a super-important point
with you:

A lot of men are attracted to women who
they can feel "manly" around.

And that's understandable, I'm attracted
to feminine women, and the more feminine
a woman is, the more masculine the guy
who is with her will feel.

And vice versa, the more masculine you
behave, the more you make her feel
FEMININE.

HOWEVER, it is so FRIGGEN absolutely IMPORTANT
that your DOMINANCE and your MASCULINITY is
NOT the product of her LACK of confidence,
her LACK of self-esteem, or her LACK of
intelligence, etc, etc.

Instead, you should be SO MASSIVELY empowered,
confident, playful, flirty, and MASCULINE,
that even a woman who is the most ULTRA confident,
who is SUPER gorgeous and knows she can get any
guy, and who may also even be a CEO of the biggest
company on EARTH, she would feel TOTALLY FEMININE
and girly in YOUR presence.

As you might guess, I have a thing for women
who are not just sexy, but who are also
MASSIVELY strong in their INTEGRITY and
self-esteem and confidence.

Let me tell you WHY:

A woman who just MELTS at your feet too EASILY
before even really KNOWING who you are, a woman
who just gives you compliments because she is
afraid you will leave her, etc, etc, is ALSO
a woman who will be TOO WEAK to do THE RIGHT
THING when confronted by all sorts of OTHER
situations that come up in life and in
relationships.

And let me cut to the chase here, which is
regarding CHEATING.

Most of the time, cheating does NOT just
happen out of the blue, it is NOT like
a woman is OVERWHELMED in a moment of
lust for some guy.

The REAL truth is that things like cheating
and disloyalty are the product of WEAKNESS.

A woman who is STRONG and who has CONFIDENCE
won't CHEAT on a guy.  She will rather break
up with him if it's not working, or she will
try to DO something to MEND the relationship
if it makes sense to do so instead of breaking up.

Don't be fooled into thinking a woman is great
just because she is SO FAST in wanting to get
into a relationship with you. Don't be fooled
into thinking a woman looks up to you so much
just because she seems to treat you like a
God before you have even EARNED it from her.

The same quickness to worship you before she
has truly gotten to know you, is the SAME
quickness she can be manipulated into giving
the SAME attention to some pathetic guy who
PREYS on weak women or who can ONLY deal
with weak women because his OWN confidence
is so low. 

A STRONG woman will POINT out problems BEFORE
they become OVERWHELMING, she is not afraid
to be ASSERTIVE to do the right things, such
as ASKING you what you mean by something rather
than feeling too afraid to ASK because she is
afraid of how the question might be received
by you.

This is yet ANOTHER reason why I LOVE it when
women do certain types of TESTS. 

Women sometimes test men in a POSITIVE way,
to determine how much you really are serious
about pursuing them, or to determine what
YOUR character is like.

As long as a woman is not ABUSIVE in these
tests, I LOVE the tests, because it shows
me that the woman may also be strong enough to
handle the REALITIES of relationships, PLUS
any test a woman throws at me is actually
an opportunity for ME to TEST her by the
way SHE responds to MY response.

So if a woman asks me, "Do you approach all
the girls in the bookstore?" I might tell her
congratulations for having STANDARDS and not
just going for any guy who throws an opening
comment to her to start a conversation.

Then I might tell her something like,"Now
that we have that established, let's raise
the standards even HIGHER. What are YOU
about? What's your story? I want to make
sure I'm talking to the right person as
well."

If she GETS this and smiles, it means she
UNDERSTANDS and appreciates the point about
having STANDARDS of character.

If she gets all uppity, it means SHE has
no sense of humor or worse that she actually
DOESN'T understand the whole point of having
high standards of character.

So next time you're out approaching women,
EMBRACE whatever they send your way, and
use it as a PRIME opportunity to show
YOUR true colors and to test THEM to
find out what THEY are all about.

Strong virtuous men, with strong virtuous,
sexy women, is what it's ALL about. And
then LATER when she treats you like a God,
and you are her MAN, you can know that it's
for REAL.

And if you want to learn MORE about getting
a truly GREAT girlfriend, I suggest you
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Till next time,

Michael Marks