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What I'm going to do here is just PRESENT the videos first, and then you can read the commentary below.
These videos cover absolutely VITAL aspects of how to attract and DEEPLY CONNECT to a HIGH QUALITY WOMAN, even if you just met her as a TOTAL STRANGER, ANYWHERE.
An Important Message About Detecting TRUTH When It Comes To ANY Kind Of Advice
There are many cool experiences in this world, whether it’s
riding a roller-coaster, achieving a goal that was really challenging, seeing a
great movie, etc.
But of all the different experiences, being with a woman
you love and who you are attracted to, who loves you back, and who is massively
attracted to you, is one of the greatest feelings, if not THE greatest feeling, in the WORLD.
It enhances your experience of all the other parts of your
life as well.
It’s a feeling that LASTS
far beyond just the moments of physical intimacy.
You feel more energy, more motivation, and sense of
connection.And knowing that you can actually
TRUST her is truly one of the greatest feelings on earth.
Getting this kind of woman is NOT the same thing as just
picking up women, and is definitely not the same thing as getting a woman into
bed within hours of meeting her.
Much of the pick-up artist community likes to ridicule any
man who actually prefers to be in a relationship as opposed to going on an
endless circle of pick-ups with promiscuous women, which truly speaks volumes
about the lack of understanding of what it takes to TRULY connect with a woman.
You see, when it comes to a woman who is looking for a REAL
relationship, one where she invests her emotions and trust in a man, one where
she is looking for a responsible partner because she is going to be trustworthy
and responsible herself, you can sure as heck bet that a connection is not only
important to her, but is of PARAMOUNT importance.
This connection has to be DEEP, and it can’t just be a
gimmick or an act. It’s almost like expecting to get a position with the world’s
top football or baseball or basketball team by FAKING your qualifications and
your commitment to being a professional.
A world class team simply will BOOT OUT those candidates
that aren’t qualified, and that aren’t truly committed. They will SCREEN THEM
OUT, and they will do it FAST.
This should be obvious, but in a world where almost
everything is commercialized, this is not so easy to see anymore. Whether this
is in the field of dating advice, exercise, nutrition, medicine, or just about
ANY OTHER TOPIC, there is a GLUT of information out there- but it’s information
that is usually BIASED and ENGINEERED to serve the purpose of some company
rather than the actual individual receiving the advice.
Remember a little while ago, there was some “official study”
that chocolate was super-healthy, and that people really SHOULD eat chocolate
if they wanted to be healthy?
Suddenly, if you were NOT eating chocolate, you were living
a very DANGEROUS lifestyle.
And how about that “official study” that said that it was
PROVEN that people who DRINK alcohol have LONGER life-spans and HEALTHIER
lives????
And it wasn’t even just one drink a day, it was MORE than
that that was supposedly OFFICIAL medical advice based on some study!!!
Turns out, much like CIGARETTE companies used to actually
suggest that SMOKING was HEALTHY and GOOD for people who had COUGHS, so too
other companies provide the funding for studies that will be designed to come
up with the pre-desired outcome- to somehow end up suggesting that people
should be buying more of their stuff, alcohol, cigarettes, chocolate, etc.
And never mind that stuff- just turn on the TV and you are
BOMBARDED with ads for pharmaceuticals, telling you that you should GO ASK YOUR
DOCTOR to PRESCRIBE you stuff, even if you never were told a WORD about it from
anyone, including your doctor!!!!
So, we are living in an age where there is INFINITELY more
information than anyone else in history has EVER had access to- the only
problem is that the information is 99% BULLSHIT- and finding the 1% that is NOT
bullshit is realllly tough.
Because, why would many companies, especially unregulated companies, sell the most HELPFUL THINGS, when
OTHER things sell SO MUCH MORE?
We are living in a time when people REFUSE to THINK much
when it comes to anything other than those things they are forced to think
about.
This is also why we get political correctness instead of
truth. It’s EASIER to just plug in to what EVERYONE ELSE IS DOING instead of
actually THINKING for one’s self.
So, for example, if all around you, you are being bombarded
with a feminist message that tells you women LOVE it when you kiss up to them, then you will keep on kissing up to women.
Even if with your own eyes you see that it doesn’t work,
your mind would rather NOT think, and just accept the popular message.
By the way, there are also a lot of people who spew
politically incorrect things, who are ALSO full of it, but because there is a
certain BACKLASH to political correctness, there are actually SOME people who
are too asleep to question this either, and who just believe ANYTHING as long
as it is politically INCORRECT!
All because there actually IS some degree of popularity to
the new “politically incorrect” trend as well.
Again, REFUSING TO THINK.
Reverting to whatever is socially POPULAR rather than
think.
Also, people don’t want the truth- they WANT to hear a
message that tells them how to get EVERYTHING without having to DO much at
all!!!!They want this so badly, that
they WILL skip over any guy who TELLS the truth because they would RATHER
BELIEVE the seductive LIE that tells them they can do nothing and get everything.
The truth is you CAN’T have EVERYTHING.
You have to make CHOICES.
You can’t be in TWO different places at the same time.
You have to decide what things really are the PRIORITIES
for yourself.
And let me tell you another TRUTH:
Getting a GREAT girlfriend is NOT the same thing as getting
a woman quickly into bed.
Also, getting a woman at a club, where there is loud music
and alcohol, and a huge amount of promiscuous women, doesn’t mean the same
thing as getting a great girlfriend.
Plus, at a club, you can actually have HORRIBLE social
skills, and be almost obnoxious, and a woman may not be able to notice because
a club is not a place where a person can really size up someone’s social skills
too well, and certainly not a place where can create the kind of connection
necessary for attracting a high-quality woman.
Here’s some more truth- there is this huge commercial game
going on now in this field, that all likes to pretend that the real big deal is
the difference between meeting women during the day versus meeting them at
night- when the REAL difference is simply meeting the kind of woman who is
looking for a genuine serious relationship, and meeting the kind of woman who
is just looking to “have fun”.
And allllll this is something I’ve known for many, many
years, and is the reason I created “Get A GREAT Girl”- because getting a great
girlfriend is a very different thing than just getting some short-lived
attention from a woman who is not investing any substantial effort, emotion, or
thought in you.
Does this mean that there is NO overlap at ALL between some
of the typical skills in pick-up and in getting a great girlfriend?
No- there is the obvious need to have some confidence and
comfort in approaching a woman who is a total stranger- something which
third-wave feminism has made a lot of men feel is IMPOSSIBLE, and there is a
need to exude some personality to give the woman some idea of who you are, but
that’s about it, after that the two goals begin to DIVERGE massively.
For example, how much physical contact to initiate early on
in the interaction- for a woman looking to get physical right away, if you don’t
do this, she will figure you are not looking for the same thing, but for a
woman who is looking for something more substantial, this touchy feely tasty
stuff too early is REPULSIVE because ANYONE can do that, the challenge is for
her to find a guy she connects with on BOTH levels- the physical AND the
emotional in other senses as well.
This is why, for attracting a high quality woman, it is so
important to develop a powerful CONNECTION with her, and in the new video today
I explain HOW TO DO THIS, even with a woman who you just met who is a total
stranger, and I explain how to KEEP the conversation going naturally as well.
In fact, connection is so important that most of the problems
that you hear about, in terms of questions from guys like, “How do improve my
PHONE game?” or “How do I improve my TEXT game” or “What should I do on the
FIRST date?”--- ALL these questions actually reflect one MAJOR problem---a POOR
connection was made to begin with.
The REAL answer to all these questions is CREATE A SUPER-STRONG CONNECTION in the FIRST place, and then you won’t need to have any kind
of gimmicks later on to fix the lack of connection!
If a woman met you as a stranger, but you were able to
connect powerfully with her, she WANTS to meet up with you, even long AFTER the
initial approach is over—because she keeps on FEELING and REMEMBERING that
connection!
Connection is what really allows her to REMEMBER you, because
no matter how FUNNY or COOL a guy acts, those momentary emotions FADE within
minutes of the approach being over (the HUMOR is a good tool for getting rid of
what would otherwise seem and feel a like an awkward thing as a stranger
approaching a woman- but the humor itself is not what creates the lasting connection
that allows her to remember and think about you).
Being with a great woman IS a truly life-changing and
life-enhancing GIFT for any man, and I
have spent many, many YEARS devoted to helping men GET great women.
I could easily go mainstream commercial and SELL out-I know
full well how to make videos and how to tell men only what they want to hear.
But I refuse.
I know there are some men out there who ALSO REFUSE to
listen to nonsense, and who can SEE the nonsense.
My company won’t ever be the BIGGEST, because the masses WANT bullshit, but I do promise to
always give you the BEST.
And only SOME men can appreciate the difference between bullshit and the best.
The men who take my programs and courses are some of the
highest achievers in their respective fields, and in general they are men who
hate bullshit.
This is why men from ALL OVER THE WORLD come to take my Bootcamp
program in person.
And I get messages from men who have TRULY met and attracted fantastic
women- great girlfriends, and sometimes even girlfriends that turned into great
wives with whom they have started families.
In a society where the family unit is under attack and
being destroyed, that’s something I’m pretty proud of.
(And
of course, I'm sure the other companies will tell you how their
programs on getting women into bed in the blink of an eye ALSO result in
great girlfriends, relationships, and wives--- they know that people
want to believe they can be in two different places at the same time and
that logic means nothing for 99% of people.
It's the same way the cigarette companies told people that cigarettes are great for people who have coughs, and even managed to get a couple of doctors to say this as well!)
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The first thing to keep in mind is that a woman who is seriously looking for a real relationship, and who is a wise woman, understands just how much is at stake emotionally in a committed and exclusive relationship.
That means she is investing A LOT of her emotions, time, and energy, and of course she is hoping it will be amazing and worth it.
When there is a LOT at stake with another person, people need to develop a CONNECTION to that person first before proceeding, and that connection takes TIME.
This applies to ALL human relationships, and it's ALL THE MORE TRUE when it comes to the most INTIMATE relationship of them all.
This is TOTALLY DIFFERENT than the low-level connection of, "Hey we both are human and have a sex drive-let's mate!" level of connection that is sufficient for many women (and men) who are promiscuous, inebriated, and/or high on pot.
This kind of deeper level connection is simply NOT WORTH THE TIME or ENERGY of those who are obsessed with promiscuity and getting physical fast.
And to a man who has no idea about the differences between women (a distinction that most PUAs try to pretend DOES NOT EXIST--that all women are exactly the same, that all women are promiscuous, etc.) it doesn't look as flashy as a YOUTUBE video with some guy making out with a woman really quickly, or getting her into bed quickly, etc. (Even if the video is fake!) But make no mistake about it- if you want a great girlfriend for a real relationship, CONNECTION is vital. This is just one of the many things I teach, in person and through my programs. Now, don't get me wrong- you ALSO have to be a cool guy, which is a topic that I address in this video right here, along with a TON of other ABSOLUTELY ESSENTIAL ADVICE if you want success in approaching and attracting and keeping a GREAT girlfriend:
In addition to the important video above, I want to go further into the whole concept of women TESTING men, and how these tests are all about women wanting to make sure you ARE indeed emotionally secure.
You'll learn how to pass these tests, and why it's so important that you do, and why women will SKYROCKET their attraction for you if you pass these tests.
Finally, I want to give you yet ANOTHER video on the importance of something known as sex-transmutation, a concept coined by Napoleon Hill.
This is a VITAL concept for men to understand, and it also is EXTREMELY relevant for any guys who have been misled to believe that somehow the speed at which a woman has sex with a man is indicative of her attraction to him, or that the more women a guy gets into bed, the more "skilled" he is at attracting women.
You will learn how chasing women wildly is destructive to you achieving your full potential in ALL areas of your life- which could actually HINDER your success with ALL women, and is yet ANOTHER reason why you should focus on getting a GREAT woman instead of falling into the trap that most men fall into.
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There are a TON of things I want to share with you that truly
are CRUCIAL for your success if you want to meet a great woman and KEEP a great
woman attracted to you.
Let's start with an important video, then I want to break down everything into mini-points to
give even more in-depth understanding.
1. REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE
First of all, everything you read or see on my videos is
all based on REAL life experience and the experience of thousands of clients
over the years, including what I have witnessed in my clients in live
bootcamps.
So for example, in a recent bootcamp, I took a client that
was very successful in every other area of his life, including financially, but
previous to bootcamp he just wasn’t getting the kinds of results he wanted when
it came to women.
Literally, within minutes of my training, he was not only
approaching women of incredible beauty, in all sorts of places like food
courts, pharmacies, coffee shops, and bookstore, but really engaging these
women, getting their phone numbers, and then having these same women texting
him back the same day and the next day INSISTING on meeting up as soon as
possible!
And in NONE of these cases, did he try to “make out” with
these women within minutes of meeting them.
The reason I bring this up, is that if you watch YOUTUBE these days, you
might think that the strength of a man’s ability to attract women is tested by
how fast he can get a woman to make out with him!
So this brings me to an important second point:
2. NOT ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME
A lot of advice out there is simply based on
GREED.And so GREED is more important
than TRUTH.
If the pick-up artists tell
you the TRUTH, which is that NOT ALLLLLLLLLLLLLL WOMEN are promiscuous, and
that a promiscuous woman is more likely to be unfaithful, then you will probably
NOT WANT to get such a woman, and you will instead want to get a great
girlfriend.
But getting a great girlfriend is one of those things that
is not as easy to SHOW on video; it doesn't happen in a moment. And to a "newbie", watching some
guy make out with a woman he just met seconds ago seems like magic.
So what the pick-up artist industry does is try to get
footage of dramatic video- so they wait to find women who ARE quick to make out
with guys, whether this is at a club where women are drunk, or whether it is
simply women who are a little easier (so to speak), THAT is the kind of footage
they capture and THAT is what they want men to see, because it grabs the attention of newbies.
And hey, we were all newbies at one point, it's just sad to see newbies exploited.
So it’s important to the pick-up artist movement to have you
believe that allllllllllll women are promiscuous and also not to be trusted, so
that you believe you may as well just get straight to the making out and the
physical part as fast as possible- which is something they CAN sell, since there is no shortage of promiscuous women.
"After all”, the LIE states, “all women are the same anyway”, and the lie continues with “any woman that you are NOT
making out with IMMEDIATELY is either NOT attracted to you, OR you lack "game" and she is actually just
looking for some OTHER guy to get physical with, some OTHER guy that has some
superior "game" and superior understanding of how to get her to get physical faster”---these are the lies that are taught.
That kind of thinking and teaching is DANGEROUS.It causes men to SABOTAGE their interactions
with the very BEST kinds of women that indeed ARE trustworthy and faithful and
more careful and that are NOT going to sleep with a guy that fast.
If you push
that fast for the physical with the kinds of women to whom getting physical
MEANS something more than just the casual physical component, you will RUIN
that woman’s interest in you.
And AGAIN, let me state that it INDEED is a MASSIVE part of
the pick-up artist industry campaign to have you believe that
allllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll women are the same and that virtually noooooooooooooooooooooooooo good women for relationships exist.
Plus, they MOCK you for even WANTING to be with a non-promiscuous woman, calling you BORING.
So you see, this is just ONE of the reasons I never IMITATED the pick-up artists in this way with videos of “make-outs”
EVEN THOUGH IT MEANT losing out on financially from those opportunities.
I could have so easily cashed in on the novelty of this, because due to
many people’s IGNORANCE, they actually THINK it is some kind of major
accomplishment to make out with a woman in minutes, because they don’t realize
that some women make out with HUNDREDS of guys a YEAR, and THOUSANDS of men in
their lives, and that some women go through very promiscuous periods in their lives.
And I have to REPEAT- the pick-up artists will scream and
shout and try to make you feel like an IDIOT if you even SUGGEST that maybe
there are quite a few normal women out there who are very much in touch with
their sexual side but who don’t feel a need to lead promiscuous or unfaithful lives.
The screaming and shouting and talking down to you for even having another opinion, never mind actual FACTS that are even STRONGER than opinions, is all part of BULLYING you into their cult, with
them as the leaders.
By the way, regarding promiscuity and being unfaithful,
although the two don’t HAVE to be linked, the truth is that promiscuity is
usually a very GOOD indicator that a person will not be faithful even in a
relationship.
It is also true that someone can have only one partner in
their life and still be unfaithful, but the pick-up artists like to say that a
woman’s level of promiscuity has NO BEARING on a woman’s level of faithfulness,
and this is simply untrue, and it applies to both men and women. The statistics
back me up on this all the way.
So to sum up, if a woman is making out with you so fast, it’s
not a GOOD sign, it’s a BAD sign in terms of her relationship potential.
I’ve known this for many years, and I’ve been congruent to
it rather than sell-out for the easy attention and business it would have given
me.
3. IT IS TOUGHER TODAY TO MEET A WOMAN WHO HAS THE RIGHT VALUES
It’s important to me to stick to TRUTH.So I’m not an idiot and not about to say that
it’s all EASY either when it comes to meeting and attracting and keeping the
right woman.
One of the big things to realize is that indeed third-wave
feminism really HAS played a significant role in corroding the character and values of many women, and at the
same time has also brainwashed quite a few MEN into believing it all.
The
reason why, is that in third-wave feminism, women are taught that men are
terrible and that men should kiss up to women, and that promiscuity is great,
and that women are spiritually more enlightened, kinder, and that the world
would be a better place if it was just women controlling everything.
There have been endless lies and fabrications, spread by
sources that people used to TRUST.
For example, many UNIVERSITIES have
departments of what are called “Gender Studies” that really boil down to
endless babble about how all men are evil, and these “Gender Studies” departments
within the universities have NO SYSTEM of validating or proving their theories,
no verification methods, no way to have anyone criticize them, and basically they have NO
RESISTANCE to what they say, no matter HOW FALSE it is!
So for example, these organizations fed other women’s
advocacy organizations over the years, and spread LIES about things such
as the rates of rape on university campuses. The lies went so far as to create
the perception that there is an EPIDEMIC of rape on university campuses. And
everyone BELIEVED it.
And then, when the GOVERNMENT investigated to make their OWN
analysis of the situation, using ACCURATE METHODS of analysis, they found the
numbers used by the women’s advocacy groups were GROSSLY EXAGGERATED.
So, for example, the women’s advocacy groups were asking
women questions like THIS:
“Have you ever had sex with a man that lied to you?” And
if the answer was “yes”, well then THAT was considered RAPE.
Meanwhile, when MEN are victims of female abuse, they are IGNORED or MARGINALIZED in our society- including when
women physically attack men and when women emotionally abuse men.
Also, male issues in general are IGNORED OR MARGINALIZED. For example, men are far higher on the numbers when it comes to suicide, homelessness,
dying earlier than women, dying from diseases, and dying in wars, just to name a few issues-but these male issues are IGNORED OR MARGINALIZED.
How about the fact that men are actually NOT represented equally in
universities and that there are far more women in university than men? That TOO is IGNORED or MARGINALIZED.
And regarding income, there really is almost NO gap at all
between men and women, especially when you factor in that there are certain
jobs that women truly don’t WANT to do that pay a lot that are the jobs that
men tend to go into, including many dangerous jobs.
Also, there is a TINY
percentage of men that are at the top of the financial earners, but this tiny
percentage of men does not represent men at all. PLUS, there are also more men at the LOWEST levels of poverty and failure as well, possibly because men are more obsessed with projects and will stick with something longer rather than giving it up for more security.
Meanwhile, men are supposed to pander up to women, pay for
the dates, for the dinners, and pretend that women are just interested in a man’s
loyalty when in fact most women are not so angelic.
But men keep getting POUNDED with this LIE that that men are all rapists and evil, while women are these angelic creatures who only want
to save the planet and who have no selfish aspects to themselves.
So you have men who are handing over ALL THEIR POWER,
emotionally and financially to women, and a woman can punch an innocent man in
the face and NOTHING happens to her.
So OF COURSE, when this goes on for YEARS AND YEARS, this
leads to CORRUPTION of many, many women.
It’s no different than the way the ECONOMIC MELTDOWN of 2008
happened, in the sense that it really didn’t happen overnight.
For YEARS AND
YEARS, the people at the top were TRUSTED even though ANYONE WHO HAD THEIR EYES
OPEN COULD SEE what was going on- INSANE AMOUNTS OF MONEY were being lent out
to people who couldn’t pay it back, and the reason this happened is that the
people making the loans knew that NOTHING WOULD HAPPEN TO THEM if things didn’t
work out- in fact, in many cases, they made money off the fact they KNEW that
things wouldn’t work out.
But since almost everyone figured “well, they must KNOW what they
are doing, after all, they are at the TOP”, so no one really questioned it, and
the few who DID, including FBI agents who tried to WARN of the coming economic
disaster because they SAW what was going on, were IGNORED.
It took an economic MELTDOWN for people to find out what was
really going on. But EVEN AFTER THE MELTDOWN, NOTHING REALLY HAPPENED TO THOSE
RESPONSIBLE!!! AND, MANY OF THEM ARE EVEN STILL WORKING AT THEIR OLD JOBS!!!
This is very similar to how so many men are getting ABUSED today by certain women, and the evidence is everywhere, BUT still nothing is
happening!!!!!!!
The brainwashing goes sooooooooooooooooooooo deep, that
STILL most men won’t wake up --- so if most MEN won’t wake up, then how can we
expect most WOMEN to wake up??????
And then on top of this, also, is the fact that there are
TONS of men as well who are only too happy to just live vapid, promiscuous lives as
well, in the current overly liberal, “if it feels good, do it” culture that we
live in, such as is witnessed by the spread of the pick up artist movement, Kim Kardashian becoming gazillionaire basically due to her making a sex tape, etc. etc.
Sooooooooo, as you can see, I’m not DOROTHY FROM THE WIZARD
OF OZ, I’m not naïve, I don’t have some fake concept of how perfect all women
are.
I know the realities.
And I know that even IN ALL THIS MESS, there are still some AMAZING WOMEN, and it’s NOT
IMPOSSIBLE AT ALL to get them.
Remember, it's not exactly WISE for a woman to live a vapid lifestyle, so in many ways a good woman is also a SMART woman, who is doing what is good for her as well, in the long-term. So it's not like a good woman is having to be a MARTYR for all this.
This should be something you consider the next time you start to feel overwhelmed with negativity about all women.
Almost every single time I meet or hear about a guy who
truly thinks it’s impossible, I can usually find out EXACTLY WHAT IT IS that he
can do to CHANGE his results and to help him actually meet a GOOD WOMAN who
will treat him RIGHT, and not just in the short-term, but in the LONG-TERM as well.
This brings me to point number 4:
4. BEING A MAN
The irony is that all the things that women’s advocacy groups
are BASHING men for, are actually the things women are ATTRACTED to in men.
There IS such a thing as MASCULINE, and there IS such a
thing as FEMININE.
The masculine and the feminine are not just social constructs, they are
HARDWIRED into the way men and women FEEL.
Are there some exceptions to this rule? Yes, but they are
NEGLIGIBLE, and yet the feminists would have you believe they are the majority.
If you listen to the popular message, you would think women
want men to EMULATE THE FEMININE characteristics.
But the truth is, they are ATTRACTED to men that show male
behavior- they want a man who will be dominant and confident. No, they don’t want to be raped, for anyone who
may possibly think that. (Women's fantasies, however, are a separate matter.)
Women certainly don't fantasize about men acting feminine.
By the way, on this topic, I need to mention that just because
politically correct is wrong, does not mean that just because someone is
politically INCORRECT makes them RIGHT.
For example, the whole pick up artist movement is
politically INCORRECT, but that doesn’t make them RIGHT.
There are a lot of people out there who want to take
advantage of the fact that some people are finally realizing that political
correctness is wrong, but they fail to realize that just because someone is politically INCORRECT does not make that person RIGHT.
Saying "all women just want a nice guy" is politically correct
but wrong. Saying "all women are promiscuous" is politically incorrect
and ALSO wrong.
5. SCREENING
Time flies. There is no time to spend dating each woman you
meet for weeks or months in order to find out if she is the right kind of
person for you to be dating, if you are looking for a real relationship long
term.
So you have to be HONEST, and yet not needy, when it comes
to stating your intentions. Make it clear to women what you are looking for and
what you are not looking for.
Don’t try to win over all the women- if you aren’t clear,
then you may end up attracting a woman who is not really interested in the
long-term responsibilities of a relationship or even a marriage and children,
because she figured you were just paying lip-service to those things.
But if you make it clear who you are and what you are about,
the wrong women will know not to waste your precious time, and the right women
will be glad to have found you.
The trick is, though, to first become a very confident man
so that the kinds of things you are looking for are not the result of
insecurities, which are universally repulsive to women no matter who they are.
To learn more about this, as well as where to even be
looking to find the right women, and how to go about the screening process in
the most EFFICIENT ways, contact me at:
If you’ve done your job in screening, one of the things you
need to look for is a woman who is constantly seeking opportunities to RESPECT
you, and you should be doing the same for HER.
Relationships THRIVE when there is MUTUAL RESPECT AND MUTUAL
KINDNESS.
In my video, I briefly explain how, for example, if a woman
tells you something good that happened to her, there are 4 ways to respond- and
only ONE way is the RIGHT WAY- it is called ACTIVE-CONSTRUCTIVE.
In the active-constructive model, you don’t
just acknowledge it, but you become active in learning more about what happened
to her, and you try to learn more about it and sincerely try to respect and validate
her regarding it.
As opposed to just giving it a fleeting moment of your
attention, ignoring it, or worst of all, negating her experience. Now you know
why I’m not a big fan of “SLAMMING A WOMAN’S SELF ESTEEM” which used to be a popular
method that pick up artists liked to use for attracting a woman who thought she
was too good for a guy.
If a woman feels that way, she is simply an UNWISE CHOICE OF
A WOMAN TO CONTINUE TO PURSUE, and the guy should move on to a different woman.
He can work on improving himself, sure, but if the only way to get a woman is
to slam her self-esteem, it can only be trouble in the future with her, and it
sets up a toxic environment for any relationship.
Now, what I’ve written on this topic here is just scratching
the surface of “active-constructive” interactions with a woman, but it’s an
important first step, and to learn more on how to do this, contact me by email.
As you can see by now, I am TRULY dedicated to helping men
GET great women for great relationships. I don’t pander to anyone, I serve only
the TRUTH.
There ARE good women out there, GREAT women in fact. It
would be my honor to help you GET a great woman in your life.
Every man is
different, and my customized approach allows you to get the very best solutions
in the fastest and most efficient way. Contact me today to find out how I can
help you get this important part of life handled. Just email me at:
