Creating A Powerful CONNECTION With A Woman, Detecting TRUTH, And MUCH More

TONS of absolutely MASSIVE gifts for you today to help you GET yourself an AMAZING high-quality woman. 

First of all, let me just mention that the Get A Great Girl FORUM is now OPEN for all men who want to join, and there will be NO CHARGE as long as you show the right attitude. 

The Forum UNITES the international Get A Great Girl community, and allows you to learn from others and to share your insights and experiences as well. 

It's at: http://forum.getagreatgirl.com/

PLUS- there are TWO super-important new videos today. 

What I'm going to do here is just PRESENT the videos first, and then you can read the commentary below. 

These videos cover absolutely VITAL aspects of how to attract and DEEPLY CONNECT to a HIGH QUALITY WOMAN, even if you just met her as a TOTAL STRANGER, ANYWHERE.



An Important Message About Detecting TRUTH When It Comes To ANY Kind Of Advice

There are many cool experiences in this world, whether it’s riding a roller-coaster, achieving a goal that was really challenging, seeing a great movie, etc. 

But of all the different experiences, being with a woman you love and who you are attracted to, who loves you back, and who is massively attracted to you, is one of the greatest feelings, if not THE greatest feeling, in the WORLD. 

It enhances your experience of all the other parts of your life as well.  

  
It’s a feeling that LASTS far beyond just the moments of physical intimacy. 

You feel more energy, more motivation, and sense of connection.  And knowing that you can actually TRUST her is truly one of the greatest feelings on earth. 

Getting this kind of woman is NOT the same thing as just picking up women, and is definitely not the same thing as getting a woman into bed within hours of meeting her. 

Much of the pick-up artist community likes to ridicule any man who actually prefers to be in a relationship as opposed to going on an endless circle of pick-ups with promiscuous women, which truly speaks volumes about the lack of understanding of what it takes to TRULY connect with a woman.

You see, when it comes to a woman who is looking for a REAL relationship, one where she invests her emotions and trust in a man, one where she is looking for a responsible partner because she is going to be trustworthy and responsible herself, you can sure as heck bet that a connection is not only important to her, but is of PARAMOUNT importance. 

This connection has to be DEEP, and it can’t just be a gimmick or an act. It’s almost like expecting to get a position with the world’s top football or baseball or basketball team by FAKING your qualifications and your commitment to being a professional. 

A world class team simply will BOOT OUT those candidates that aren’t qualified, and that aren’t truly committed. They will SCREEN THEM OUT, and they will do it FAST.

This should be obvious, but in a world where almost everything is commercialized, this is not so easy to see anymore. Whether this is in the field of dating advice, exercise, nutrition, medicine, or just about ANY OTHER TOPIC, there is a GLUT of information out there- but it’s information that is usually BIASED and ENGINEERED to serve the purpose of some company rather than the actual individual receiving the advice. 

Remember a little while ago, there was some “official study” that chocolate was super-healthy, and that people really SHOULD eat chocolate if they wanted to be healthy? 

Suddenly, if you were NOT eating chocolate, you were living a very DANGEROUS lifestyle.

And how about that “official study” that said that it was PROVEN that people who DRINK alcohol have LONGER life-spans and HEALTHIER lives????

And it wasn’t even just one drink a day, it was MORE than that that was supposedly OFFICIAL medical advice based on some study!!!

Turns out, much like CIGARETTE companies used to actually suggest that SMOKING was HEALTHY and GOOD for people who had COUGHS, so too other companies provide the funding for studies that will be designed to come up with the pre-desired outcome- to somehow end up suggesting that people should be buying more of their stuff, alcohol, cigarettes, chocolate, etc. 

And never mind that stuff- just turn on the TV and you are BOMBARDED with ads for pharmaceuticals, telling you that you should GO ASK YOUR DOCTOR to PRESCRIBE you stuff, even if you never were told a WORD about it from anyone, including your doctor!!!!

So, we are living in an age where there is INFINITELY more information than anyone else in history has EVER had access to- the only problem is that the information is 99% BULLSHIT- and finding the 1% that is NOT bullshit is realllly tough.

Because, why would many companies, especially unregulated companies, sell the most HELPFUL THINGS, when OTHER things sell SO MUCH MORE?

We are living in a time when people REFUSE to THINK much when it comes to anything other than those things they are forced to think about. 

This is also why we get political correctness instead of truth. It’s EASIER to just plug in to what EVERYONE ELSE IS DOING instead of actually THINKING for one’s self.

So, for example, if all around you, you are being bombarded with a feminist message that tells you women LOVE it when you kiss up to them, then you will keep on kissing up to women. 

Even if with your own eyes you see that it doesn’t work, your mind would rather NOT think, and just accept the popular message.

By the way, there are also a lot of people who spew politically incorrect things, who are ALSO full of it, but because there is a certain BACKLASH to political correctness, there are actually SOME people who are too asleep to question this either, and who just believe ANYTHING as long as it is politically INCORRECT!

All because there actually IS some degree of popularity to the new “politically incorrect” trend as well. 

Again, REFUSING TO THINK.

Reverting to whatever is socially POPULAR rather than think.

Also, people don’t want the truth- they WANT to hear a message that tells them how to get EVERYTHING without having to DO much at all!!!!  They want this so badly, that they WILL skip over any guy who TELLS the truth because they would RATHER BELIEVE the seductive LIE that tells them they can do nothing and get everything.

The truth is you CAN’T have EVERYTHING.

You have to make CHOICES.

You can’t be in TWO different places at the same time.

You have to decide what things really are the PRIORITIES for yourself.

And let me tell you another TRUTH:

Getting a GREAT girlfriend is NOT the same thing as getting a woman quickly into bed. 

Also, getting a woman at a club, where there is loud music and alcohol, and a huge amount of promiscuous women, doesn’t mean the same thing as getting a great girlfriend. 

Plus, at a club, you can actually have HORRIBLE social skills, and be almost obnoxious, and a woman may not be able to notice because a club is not a place where a person can really size up someone’s social skills too well, and certainly not a place where can create the kind of connection necessary for attracting a high-quality woman.

Here’s some more truth- there is this huge commercial game going on now in this field, that all likes to pretend that the real big deal is the difference between meeting women during the day versus meeting them at night- when the REAL difference is simply meeting the kind of woman who is looking for a genuine serious relationship, and meeting the kind of woman who is just looking to “have fun”.

And allllll this is something I’ve known for many, many years, and is the reason I created “Get A GREAT Girl”- because getting a great girlfriend is a very different thing than just getting some short-lived attention from a woman who is not investing any substantial effort, emotion, or thought in you.

Does this mean that there is NO overlap at ALL between some of the typical skills in pick-up and in getting a great girlfriend?

No- there is the obvious need to have some confidence and comfort in approaching a woman who is a total stranger- something which third-wave feminism has made a lot of men feel is IMPOSSIBLE, and there is a need to exude some personality to give the woman some idea of who you are, but that’s about it, after that the two goals begin to DIVERGE massively. 

For example, how much physical contact to initiate early on in the interaction- for a woman looking to get physical right away, if you don’t do this, she will figure you are not looking for the same thing, but for a woman who is looking for something more substantial, this touchy feely tasty stuff too early is REPULSIVE because ANYONE can do that, the challenge is for her to find a guy she connects with on BOTH levels- the physical AND the emotional in other senses as well.

This is why, for attracting a high quality woman, it is so important to develop a powerful CONNECTION with her, and in the new video today I explain HOW TO DO THIS, even with a woman who you just met who is a total stranger, and I explain how to KEEP the conversation going naturally as well.

In fact, connection is so important that most of the problems that you hear about, in terms of questions from guys like, “How do improve my PHONE game?” or “How do I improve my TEXT game” or “What should I do on the FIRST date?”--- ALL these questions actually reflect one MAJOR problem---a POOR connection was made to begin with. 

The REAL answer to all these questions is CREATE A SUPER-STRONG CONNECTION in the FIRST place, and then you won’t need to have any kind of gimmicks later on to fix the lack of connection!

If a woman met you as a stranger, but you were able to connect powerfully with her, she WANTS to meet up with you, even long AFTER the initial approach is over—because she keeps on FEELING and REMEMBERING that connection!  

Connection is what really allows her to REMEMBER you, because no matter how FUNNY or COOL a guy acts, those momentary emotions FADE within minutes of the approach being over (the HUMOR is a good tool for getting rid of what would otherwise seem and feel a like an awkward thing as a stranger approaching a woman- but the humor itself is not what creates the lasting connection that allows her to remember and think about you).

Being with a great woman IS a truly life-changing and life-enhancing GIFT for any man,  and I have spent many, many YEARS devoted to helping men GET great women. 

The fastest way for you to GET yourself a great woman and to get the SKILL to be able to meet, attract, and keep a great woman, is for you to take my BOOTCAMP program, where I will teach you EVERYTHING you need to know, in real time, on real women in all kinds of venues- from walking down the sidewalk, to the café, the bookstore, the coffee shop, transit, and EVERYWHERE else- and we will do this in BOTH the NIGHT and the DAY!!!

Bootcamp is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

With me, there are NO GIMMICKS. No NONSENSE. 

I could easily go mainstream commercial and SELL out-I know full well how to make videos and how to tell men only what they want to hear. 

But I refuse.

I know there are some men out there who ALSO REFUSE to listen to nonsense, and who can SEE the nonsense. 

My company won’t ever be the BIGGEST, because the masses WANT bullshit, but I do promise to always give you the BEST. 

And only SOME men can appreciate the difference between bullshit and the best.

The men who take my programs and courses are some of the highest achievers in their respective fields, and in general they are men who hate bullshit.

This is why men from ALL OVER THE WORLD come to take my Bootcamp program in person. 

And I get messages from men who have TRULY met and attracted fantastic women- great girlfriends, and sometimes even girlfriends that turned into great wives with whom they have started families.

In a society where the family unit is under attack and being destroyed, that’s something I’m pretty proud of.

(And of course, I'm sure the other companies will tell you how their programs on getting women into bed in the blink of an eye ALSO result in great girlfriends, relationships, and wives--- they know that people want to believe they can be in two different places at the same time and that logic means nothing for 99% of people. 

It's the same way the cigarette companies told people that cigarettes are great for people who have coughs, and even managed to get a couple of doctors to say this as well!)

If you can’t sign up for bootcamp immediately, then DEFINITELY take advantage of my OTHER programs- like my PHONE CONSULTATION service where I SOLVE any issues you are facing when it comes to meeting or attracting women.

Also, you MUST take advantage of my HOME STUDY programs, including instantly downloadable books and audio programs that will help you SOLVE problems like how to get over approach anxiety, how to start the conversation, how to get the woman attracted, how to develop a deep connection, how to get yourself to unleash your sense of confident humor, and much, much MORE.

Take advantage of these programs and get the woman of your DREAMS by going HERE NOW:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Difference At Get A Great Girl

In a sea of dating advice out there, I'd like to
make it clear what makes "Get A Great Girl"
different.

1. AN ORIGINAL

I've been doing this since 2003 officially, and
had been practicing for myself years before.

There are tons of media reports that can prove
all this. For example, the Globe and Mail feature
story on my teachings, way back in October 2003,
by journalist Claire Gagne.   

Then, there are also my actual posts on popular
"pick up artist" forums back then, where I tried
to explain how many of the pick up artist tactics
were destructive for meeting and keeping a
quality woman. 

This was YEARS before the book "The Game"
came out, a book that made being a pick up
artist a popular "fad" for a while.

At the time NO ONE else was around who was
actually PROVING IN PERSON in bootcamps
for men how they could meet and attract quality
women, all WITHOUT using destructive tactics.

Instead, things like arrogant behavior, insults
to women, memorized pick up lines, jealousy
tactics, and other sleazy strategies were
all the rage, even though of course these
destructive ideas would never work to get
a quality woman for a relationship.

Today, however, because of my work, it's
becoming VERY CLEAR that what I teach
is a NECESSITY if a man wants to get
a woman for a great relationship.

Get A Great Girl is the original source for how to
actually get a quality woman for a great relationship,
that INCLUDES the actual live training on how to
actually GET the woman in the FIRST place.

Get A Great Girl is not just "repackaged" pick
up artist advice. Rather, it is a fundamental shift
away from all destructive tactics.

A lot of folks are trying to imitate me and my programs.

However, one immediate DIFFERENCE from me
is that they are obsessed with sex more
than they are with trust. Without trust,
(and trust must be earned) there is NOTHING.

A quality woman looking for a great relationship
will stay FAR away from a man she feels she
cannot TRUST.

A man who is obsessed with sex is in itself a
"red flag" warning to any woman who is
looking for a real connection.

Tactics such as backhanded compliments
to lower a woman's self-esteem, as well as
the use of jealousy to try to get a woman to
do what you want, and many other negative
tactics, DESTROY trust, and you can never
get a great girlfriend and a great relationship
without being able to have mutual trust.

2: I FOCUS ON TRUTH, NOT HYPE.

Most of the dating advice out there
is willing to sacrifice truth in the
name of getting your attention.
So they will say ANYTHING.

It's very similar to those fad diets, where
you will hear "AVOID ALL CARBS AND EAT
ALL THE FAT YOU WANT!" or my favorite
of them all: "JUST EAST GRAPEFRUITS!"

The REAL truth of course, is never in the fads.

Sure, what they say may have 1% truth, but
it's also 99% a lie, just like it's true that only
eating grapefruits will help a person lose weight,
UNTIL they get so hungry that they end up eating
TONS OF THE WRONG FOODS.

And when it comes to the "attracting women"
field, the fads are even MORE extreme!

But here's the good news for you:

The information you learn from my programs will
give you the full detailed insights on attracting 
a quality woman, and it will ALSO ensure that
you have ZERO "competition" from other men!

This is because VERY FEW MEN WILL EVER
LEARN WHAT YOU LEARN HERE!

Most men WANT gimmicks because gimmicks seem
so EASY.

Most men simply will never find their way
here, they will instead be lured into the
false promise of "ease" given by the "fads".

3: YOU WILL LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT WOMEN 
    WHILE BUILDING TRUST INSTEAD OF 
    DESTROYING TRUST.

I'm not satisfied with giving you "the best"
strategies on the topic of meeting and
attracting quality women.

I insist on RAISING THE BAR.

It's what has made Get A Great Girl the LEADER
in the field of dating advice for men who are
serious about getting a great girlfriend.

In fact, I've revolutionized the ENTIRE field
of attraction advice.

What you will learn in my programs is the
“real thing”. 

It’s not about how to "knock a woman down a
few notches off her confidence".

It’s not about how to act "hard to get".

In particular, the "damage her confidence and
self-esteem" tactics spread by many "experts"
are counter-productive when trying to attract
a quality woman for a real relationship.

Those tactics will DESTROY a good woman's trust
in you, and certainly if continued will destroy the
possibility of a smooth relationship.

So, this is another area where Get A Great Girl
is very different.

In an EFFECTIVE interaction where you are chatting
with a woman, you are actually creating attraction
at the SAME time you are creating trust, from the
entire DEMEANOR you are using from the very get-go.

This is the superior way to attract quality women.

If you're just looking for a "one night stand" with a
woman who is looking for the same thing, then
deep levels of trust are not that important- but
if you ARE looking for a real girlfriend and a
fantastic relationship, then deep levels of trust
are MASSIVELY important.

And this brings me to the next point:

4. THE STRATEGIES YOU LEARN AT
GET A GREAT GIRL ARE DESIGNED
FOR GETTING A GREAT GIRLFRIEND!

If you want a woman who is the "total package"-
a woman that would make for a fun, TRUSTWORTHY,
and FAITHFUL girlfriend, then the material that
you will learn in my programs is of EXTREME
importance.

A woman who is looking for a real relationship is
putting a lot more on the line than just one evening
("one night stand") of her life.

She's putting her emotions, her time, and her TRUST
on the line, so she will not jump into bed so fast with
ANY guy, no matter who he is.

At Get A Great Girl, you're learning to master the
full picture of interaction with women, including
but also much more than just the initial words you
are going say to her.

5. EVIDENCE COUNTS, NOT OPINIONS.

My programs are a product of rigorous TESTING
in the real world.

Before any program gets made, I spend months
and often YEARS of real world testing and
research, to make sure the strategies you
learn are VERIFIED and proven to work. 

These programs are verified not only by my own
experiences, and not only by the experiences of
thousands of men who have gone through my
programs, (including live bootcamps where these
men prove it on real women) but these programs
are ALSO verified by internationally respected
reports in the field of psychology.

Meanwhile, EVIDENCE and proof count for just
about NOTHING with most of the dating advice
you see out there, the same way "Grapefruit Diets"
don't have any evidence to them either, but the
various wacky diets still keep on coming.

6. GET A GREAT GIRL PROGRAMS ARE LOADED
WITH TONS OF THE MOST EFFECTIVE NEW
CONCEPTS AND INSIGHTS.

Another cool thing here at Get A Great Girl,
is that clients who order all my programs are
astonished at how each program is jam-packed
with NEW CONCEPTS AND NEW MATERIAL
rather than rehashing the same things over and
over again.

You will keep on INCREASING in your success
with each of my programs.  That's because a
MASSIVE amount of time goes into making
sure each program is crammed with EFFECTIVE,
POWERFUL, NEW MATERIAL that you can
immediately use.

And, I haven't even mentioned ALL the ways
Get A Great Girl is different yet!
There's a lot MORE as well:

7. I MADE SURE NOT TO "THROW OUT
THE BABY WITH THE BATHWATER".

And at the same time, I haven't thrown out the
baby with the bathwater, as they say.

I ALSO believe that there are SOME principles
that are popular in the dating community that
ARE effective, if used properly, so what I've
done is TAKEN OUT the harmful strategies, and
KEPT the PRODUCTIVE ones, and even
IMPROVED them.

8. ADDING NEW MATERIAL AND CONCEPTS
COMPLETELY OUTSIDE THE "DATING GURU/
PICK UP ARTIST" WORLD - NEW MATERIAL
THAT IS ACTUALLY BACKED UP BY DIRECTLY
APPLICABLE RESEARCH INTO PSYCHOLOGY.

So, to make these programs as effective as
possible, I've gone BEYOND the typical
"attraction advice" feeding grounds that just
recycle the same material over and over again.

I have BROUGHT IN the very best psychological
research on how to create attraction, as backed
up by the most respected REAL WORLD research
in this area.

9. I VALUE MATURITY AND INTEGRITY

What this means, is that I don't go around filming
women without their permission. To me, there are
more important things than inflating my ego and
getting a "thumbs up" on YouTube.

I also know that mature men realize that if
"reality tv" is not real, then, perhaps many 
YouTube videos don’t indicate reality either.

Here's another element of the maturity and
integrity: I don't think any of this is FUNNY.

I think that if a man is coming to me for help, it's
something that I should take damn SERIOUSLY,
as serious as I took this issue for my OWN self
when I first needed to learn these skills.

I was never interested in being promiscuous. 
I knew great women were rare, and I wanted
one great woman, that's it.

You can also read up in the news reports section
of the site, what men who have taken my programs
have to say about them.  These reports are not
written by me on my site, but rather were directly
reported by these men to the newspaper journalists. 

So unless I have some magical way of controlling
every single journalist and every single report
and every single person who has ever taken any
of my programs, this simply is too strong a form
of evidence to be a lie.

Here's something else that is a sign of maturity
and integrity: When you really know what you
are doing, it stops being a big deal. 

I'm passionate about helping YOU.
That feels rewarding for me.

But I do NOT get all giggly and babyish about anyone's
"victory" in getting a woman's phone number or anything
else from her.

The whole "victory" attitude of that just smacks
of immaturity.  It's like the pathetic characters in
that movie "American Pie".

Acting like that is just not the way of a real MAN.

There's another thing that we all need to realize here:
We also owe a great deal of our success to the actual
women themselves.

It's wise to be humble and give good women some 
credit for being cool enough to appreciate us.

I think if we all strive to stay humble, we'll all
appreciate the humanity of each other.

I also don't think women are the only thing in life.
I just think that a great woman is an important part
of having that balance in life, and that a great woman
adds a lot of passion in your life.

10. GETTING MEN QUALITY WOMEN IS ALL I DO.

I don't give advice on how to get the
female "players" by becoming a male
"player".

I just do one thing- help men get great women
who would also make for great girlfriends and
fantastic relationships.        

So, at Get A Great Girl, you are going to get the
very BEST programs on the PLANET for meeting
and attracting a fantastic woman who would make
for a great girlfriend and an awesome relationship.

Plus, you'll also learn how to KEEP a fantastic
woman attracted to you LONG-TERM.

If you want to meet and attract a fantastic
woman who is "the total package", I suggest
you go here immediately:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

I also offer personal consultations, and live bootcamps.

For a personal consultation with me, go here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

For bootcamp with me, go here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Fast Food, Fast Women, And Bruce Lee

We're living in a time where everyone wants things FAST and when people tend to want instant pleasure and instant entertainment.

Hence, we get things like FAST FOOD and a lot of movies without stories but tons of SPECIAL EFFECTS.

These kinds of things tend to not really give you a LASTING feeling of contentment or enrichment.

And when it comes to how to get a great woman, again, most people just want to know about SPEED, not quality.

So, we get bombarded with YouTube videos of guys showing how they can be making out with women very quickly, without any mention of some of the rather important details.

Here are the important details that tend to get left out of most of the so called "demonstration videos":

1. THE WOMAN IS OFTEN DRUNK OR TIPSY 

If a woman is drunk or tipsy, it really is pretty ridiculous to equate her actions with being attracted, as she is behaving in a way that is in no way indicative of what she will think or do when she is sober.

2. THE WOMAN'S FACE IS HIDDEN FROM VIEW

This may be due to laws regarding invasion of privacy, but it also means we have no clue what the woman actually looks like.

3. JUST TALKING TO A WOMAN MEANS NOTHING

Almost anyone can just talk to a woman. The real key is to see how the woman reacts after 24 hours and she has had a chance to reflect on the situation.  Does she still want to hang out with the guy? We will never know, will we?

4. PUSHING TOO HARD TOO FAST FOR THE PHYSICAL IS COUNTER-PRODUCTIVE

A woman may, in the moment, be it from drunkenness, disorientation, or unfamiliarity (for example, if she is fresh off the boat or fresh off the plane as a new immigrant and unsure of the local customs) with the situation, perhaps she may go along with the initial phase of the conversation with a man, whether it includes a kiss, a coffee, etc.

But most women who are aware of the situation, and who are not drunk or promiscuous, simply will PULL AWAY from a guy that pushes for making out, getting physical, so fast.

This is because she is not desperate for getting physical, and is actually interested in making sure that she KNOWS about the guy she is going to get physical with.

What most pick up artists aren't telling you is that they themselves are simply the equivalent of a promiscuous woman, that's all there is to it. It's about promiscuous women meeting promiscuous men.

This does not help the guy who is actually looking to get a girlfriend, not a woman for whom he will be number 1 billion served a la McDonald's.

Also, what is so ironic is that some of the dating coaches out there have tried to use my emphasis on "qualifying a woman" before moving onto the next stage with her, but the truth is that this was not an artificial fake tactic that I invented, it was a GENUINE ACTION because I genuinely DO think it is important to make sure that a woman IS the right person for you before you jump into getting physical with her. especially if you are looking for a girlfriend.

Never mind the PLETHORA of viruses out there you can get from a woman by getting physical, as just that reason alone is enough to want to SLOW THINGS DOWN to get to know who you are dealing with.

Well, the irony is that pushing for the physical too fast is actually the OPPOSITE of qualifying a woman.  How much can a woman really think you care about STANDARDS if you were willing to slobber all over her within a few minutes of meeting her?

Of course, for promiscuous people, none of this matters.  There is hardly a need for qualification.

But in general, a woman really WANTS to know that indeed you DO have standards and that you DON'T just jump into bed with a woman just because you can.

5. FLASHY IS NOT EFFECTIVE

Bruce Lee used to say that the moves he would show in his films were not the same kinds of actions at all that he would use in real life.  The moves he used in the films were there to be flashy and get attention and look all impressive.

The REAL actions that would actually be most effective in real life are DIFFERENT, and they aren't as flashy. They aren't designed to be flashy, they are designed to be EFFECTIVE.

Well, when it comes to dating advice for men, MARKETING works better when it is FLASHY. So showing a guy making out with ten women at a time is going to be flashier than showing a guy having a really solid conversation with a woman, and then showing the next date, and then showing them three weeks later in a relationship, as that all takes time and it all doesn't seem so WEIRD AND WACKY, BUT IT IS THE THING THAT MOST MEN REALLY WANT.  

Larry Bird, one of the greatest basketball players ever, was not known for being flashy in his moves.  He just went up to the basket, did the layup, and got the ball in.  Over and over and over and over again. Flashy? No. Effective? Yes.

I know all the marketing tricks and plenty of ways to screw around with the truth. I could easily go that route, but I don't.

Learn the truth about success with women.

For starters, get my OBLITERATING APPROACH ANXIETY audio program.  This program has been painstakingly designed to RID YOU OF ALL FEARS REGARDING MAKING THE APPROACH.

There are absolutely NO GIMMICKS in this program, and make no mistake about it, this is definitely a PROGRAM with STEP BY STEP INSTRUCTIONS on what to do to RID YOURSELF OF ALL THE BARRIERS HOLDING YOU BACK FROM APPROACHING WOMEN.

It is based on the most meticulous research and it WILL work if you use it as directed.

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/approach-anxiety.html

It's also time to consider BOOTCAMP with me.  Bootcamp with me is about learning what is EFFECTIVE for you, and it is tailored especially for your needs, your personality, your situation. And it all happens in real life on real women.

Bootcamp is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Crucial Message On Attracting Truly Great Women

Whatever method you use to attract women will
have its own matrix. In other words, by its own design,
it will attract some women (those who match what you
are and what you project) and repel others (those who
don’t match what you are and what you project). 

Now, if you are looking for a woman of massively
high quality, for something of substance, long term,
what do you think is one of the most important factors
to her, and should be to you as well?

It’s trust.

Let’s face it, if someone is looking for a one night
stand, does a deep sense of trust really matter all that
much?  Why would it?  Aside from STD concerns, it
really is not an important factor at all.

A lot of advice out there typically pressures men to
push the envelope as far as they can when it comes to
being cocky, and using sexual humor, often in a vulgar
sense.

While I agree it’s important to feel good about sex
and your body and that a sense of humor is crucial, there
is a very fine line between being flirty and being crass,
vulgar, and lacking class. 

This is where it all boils down to what kind of woman
you are trying to attract and what type of relationship you
are trying to create. 

If you are in a nightclub or some other environment that
amounts to the same basic atmosphere, and if you truly are the
kind of guy that is looking for a one night stand, it
makes sense to be ultra physical in your approach.

It makes sense  to be touchy feely tasty, to make dirty
jokes that float between vulgar and rancid, etc., because
you are then establishing what you are looking for, and
there is a decent chance in such a place that she might
be a woman looking for the same thing.

However, this is an insane strategy if you are trying
to attract a woman who is looking for something more
meaningful. 

Whether you want to say that love is something you
value or not, the fact is, that nothing can compete with
the emotion of love, once you feel it for someone.

It’s liberating from all the negative emotions.  It
inspires you both to treat other in an amazing way.
It may have physical aspects to it like sex, but it also
transcends the physical.

When a woman loves you, she will go to the ENDS
OF THE EARTH for you, not just today, not just
tomorrow, but for her whole life.

The thing about love is that it’s different from
pure lust in the sense that it is a combination
of sex, love, romance, and wisdom as well.

That is why so few people get to experience it.

It takes using your full powers as a human being
instead of being lazy and just being a primate. 

There are great rewards for those who are willing
to put in the intelligence, the wisdom, and of
course, the heart.   

I wish that it was as obvious as it needs to be,
but it’s not, so I need to say here explicitly
and clearly that love is not based on vulgarity
or anything like that, and in fact such moves
are destructive to creating the foundation for
love. 

Love is about many things, but one of the biggest
foundations for love is one’s feeling that another person
can be trusted with one’s heart, fully.

Now, how willing would you be to share the deepest
recesses of your soul with a woman whose primary
mode of expression seemed to be crude, in your face,
and vulgar, even if it was somewhat funny?

Not much, right?

Well, it’s the same with a woman when it comes to
these things.  How much trust can she feel she can put
in you if you push too hard too fast for the physical?

What’s even worse is when men fake genuine interest. 
This kind of thing is damaging to the women who are
innocent and who are looking for something meaningful.   

The reality that most wannabe experts don’t want
you to know is that if you truly want to avoid
being cheated on, you better be damn careful about
what woman you allow into your life, (contrary to
what the "experts" say, the truth is that the
best women usually DON'T hang out at bars, dance
clubs, or lounges, so don't go looking there)
and you better make sure to become the kind of
fantastic man who is trustworthy as well.

Please, heed the following words, as these words
would have saved me years of agony: 

Immersing yourself in the wrong teachings will only
make you paranoid, insecure, and suspicious
without good reason, and will cause a great woman
to leave you. 

If you genuinely want to learn how to attract a
quality woman who will treat you right, then you
must become the kind of man who has mastered
the FULL SPECTRUM- it’s not just about attraction,
but rather also includes the ability to create a
truly deep CONNECTION as well. 

Sign up for a bootcamp with me TODAY,
and you will learn how to REALLY succeed
with approaching and attracting quality women.

And of course, if you haven’t already got my DVD
set that is all about mastering the most important
part of success with women, which is transforming
your INNER SELF to become the strongest it can
be, then definitely do that now. 

Women who are looking for a man they can truly
give themselves to need to feel that this man is
ROCK SOLID internally, in terms of his confidence,
his conviction in his good values, his ability to
resist temptation, his ability to stay calm, and much
more.

This program, called WARRIOR WITHIN, is
going to SKYROCKET your INNER SELF so
that quality women can’t help but gravitate toward
you in a way where they can’t get enough of you.

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To Stop A Woman & Attract Her On The Spot

There are some very eye-opening
letters that have come in recently,
so I thought I would share them
with you because they reveal a TON
about how to attract a woman, on
the deepest, most powerful level.

By the way, some of these letters were
even longer than they are here, and
editing them down was really tough
since there was so much powerful
content in every letter. In the end,
what you read here is at least 98%
of the content of the original letters.

Names were removed or changed to
protect the privacy of people.

LETTER FROM A READER:

Michael,

Your Warrior Within DVD program arrived
Friday, and I was anticipating great
things.  I’ve studied many “gurus”
before finally discovering your site
by accident – an accident that changed
my life.

Long before Warrior Within, about a year
ago, I bought your Attraction Mastery 
Program, and was so blown away that
I stayed up all night and through the
next morning listening to it all non-stop
while taking copious notes. 

That program changed me from
a guy who could barely look a pretty
girl straight in the eyes, to being
able to not only approach women, but
also actually get myself two knockout
fantastic girlfriends over the course
of last year!

(Not at the same time in the same room,
that’s not what I wanted!)

Both of these girls were great girls, but
as a guy with no experience with women
before these girls, I knew that it was not
the right decision, at least for me, to
make a lifetime commitment with either
of them at that point.  

And rather than hurt them, I stayed
honest and always told them that I
might not be able to make this a
lifetime thing.   And the cool thing is
your program helped me keep myself
honest and keep my self-esteem.

The great thing is that these girls were
cool with my honesty- in fact, they said
they had never met a guy that was this
open and honest and direct about his
intentions, and one of the girls actually
wanted to keep on seeing me - but I
felt that she was conflicted and I didn’t
want to hurt her over the long haul.    

As you teach, if you aren’t true to yourself
and your beliefs, you lose your charisma
because you no longer feel congruent to
your words and actions.

So I was really looking forward to your
new program, Warrior Within – as it
came out at the perfect time of me being
newly single again: And man, you
did not disappoint.

Within the first 15-20 minutes of the very
first DVD, I already got what I like to call a
“coolness” transfusion injected into my
system on what feels like a cellular level!    

It was when you were explaining how
“who we are” is a total artificial
construct, and that in fact, we are
“asleep at the switch” when we are
thinking that  our limits with women are
“who we really are”,  and that we can’t be
whatever we WANT, on the deepest level. 

I started to ask myself what were the
limitations that I was imposing on myself
as a result of thinking that, “This is simply
who I am!”.  I realized that  you hit the nail
on the head!!

For example, so far in the past, I’ve
still had to “pump myself up” to get into
state in order to make my successful
approaches with women, because it
wasn’t who I felt I “really was”, so
I needed to “pump” myself up to
“reach” that level that was not my
“normal, real” self.

So last night, which was Saturday night,
I was walking along the sidewalk downtown,
in middle of all the fun cafes, lounges, etc,
letting the evening take me where it may,
when three girls, dressed to the nines
clearly for a night on the town, were
walking the opposite direction,
toward me. 

My heart set sail, Michael, at the sight
of one of them in particular, a woman who
looked like an exotic bond girl, she had
dark black hair and a slender, curvy shape,
and this tasteful shimmering jade skirt
that could not hide her gorgeous derriere.

Of course, the first thing that then went
through my mind was the fact that every
guy in a three block radius was looking
as well, and then I realized that allllllll
of these guys were not approaching
because they allllllllllll thought “it’s not
who they are” which of course as you
put it is total b.s.!!!

So then I simply thought of someone who
I thought *would* be perfectly at home
approaching her, and I thought of this
guy I used to know really well when I was
in the Reserves, who was not only a super
cool guy and would do this kind of thing,
but also I could trust this guy with my life.

So I took on the role of being him, I
“threw out” myself for the time being,
and walked into an identity I had never
allowed for myself, but because I was
just “pretending” to be this role, somehow
I gave myself permission to suddenly
be free!

Michael, what happened next was the
most exhilarating experience I have
ever had:  Something came over me
that I had never felt before, a sense
of permission, entitlement, and power:

I stopped walking, and looked directly
at the girl I was interested in the most,
as she got within about 10 feet.

And I just said: “STOP.”

I put out my hand and said, “You.”

And the crazy thing, Michael, is that
inside of me, I knew they were going
to listen to every word I had to say,
because somehow through sheer
force of will, I was exuding a sense
of command and leadership – and
all wrapped up in a sense of fun.

I walked right up to the one that caught
my eye, and with an unwavering look,
looked straight into her blue eyes and
said, with command, “Where do you
think you’re going? I’m here.”   

Then, her friends started to giggle but
she did not even look at them, and now
I know why- it was because I focused
and zeroed in on her exactly as you
said, as if the only two people who
existed in the universe at that moment
was me and her, and that’s it. 

I was giving her my total focus, and all
the infinite vibes of power and sexuality.

She didn’t even giggle, she responded
very matter of factly, as if this was
the most normal thing in the world,
with what sounded like a Slavic accent,
“We are celebrating her birthday (
pointing to her blonde friend)!
You’re late!”

For a split second, I couldn’t believe that
this insanity was working.  It was like the
rules of the universe were up to me, and
I had no idea of exactly what the limits
and rules of this universe were!!! 

And then I realized that the rules
are all up to me, and that I better
figure them out quick, as just like
you said, if your conviction is not
iron-clad, others will put their
beliefs in place of yours and create
your reality for you instead.

The best way to describe the feeling
was like the situation in that movie
Inception, where the ground bends
upward into the sky, and buildings are
hanging upside down, and all of reality
becomes freaky and unnerving, and also
cool as hell.     

So I went WITH it, exactly as you also
explain in Warrior, and I told her “Of
course I’m late, I was busy preparing
and bringing the best present!” 

“You brought a present????”

“Of course, the best present – I brought
me!”

And I made a gesture with my arms out,
palms facing up, presenting myself for
exactly who I am.

She went wide eyed and smiled, and I
could hardly stop myself from gazing at
her gorgeous smile and her lips, damn!

At this point, one of her friends said,
“She’s an awesome girl” as if she needed
help being “endorsed”!!!!!!!!!!

I swear to God man, to have women
trying to prove and endorse to you a
girl that already is a knockout, is kind
of crazy.

Now, I know that obviously I had no
clue about what kind of person she is,
but as an initial encounter, as you
explain, it’s all up to you at this stage.

And man, I never understood before
last night that this is a fantastic
positive thing- I used to think this was
a negative thing because it meant that
as men we had to do all the work- but
now I realize it means that as men we
get to create our reality and make that
reality happen!

Knowing the cardinal rule you explained
long ago, to always add to the vibe,
and especially in a fun place and time
like Saturday night, to make it more
upbeat, so I played with her friends
as well, telling them that I would
be willing to share myself with them
because it was a birthday, and gave
them all a group hug! 

Of course, this gave me bonus points
because it meant I had approval of
the entire group, and the honest truth
is that I DID enjoy their friendliness,
it was not a “move” to manipulate them! 

We ended up chatting on the sidewalk
for about ten minutes, talking about
the best places to celebrate, and then
I told the girl I was interested in that
I was interested in learning more about
her, to which she joked:

“What parts of me do you want to learn
about?”

And I knew this was a playful test,
where most guys would melt and either
get tongue-tied, or embarrassed.

I made sure to not sell my soul, and to
be honest about my thoughts.

So I said to her:
I prefer to go from the inside out,
if I like you inside, then I’ll REALLY
like your outsides.

The crazy thing, Mike, is that this actually
had an awesome double meaning that was
sexual but also deep and non-superficial
as well!  A shining example of what you
said about the power of brutal self
honesty and not “censoring” your own
thoughts but rather letting them fly
in the moment.

Her jaw dropped, and I stroked her
shoulder with my hand, looked
deep into her eyes, and said,
“what’s your number?”

She asked for my cell phone, which
I was not carrying.  So she pulled out
her lipstick, grabbed my arm, and wrote
her number on the inside of my forearm,
and then one of her friends told me that I
better call her!!!!! 

I hugged her and gave her a light kiss
on the neck ( I know this would not be
appropriate during daytime normal
approaches, but this environment
was more energy) and bid her friends
farewell.

I texted her once later that evening,
telling her we should meet up the
next day.  She replied within 15 minutes
and now I’m looking at a date with this
gorgeous creature tomorrow!

I can’t wait to put all the things into
action tomorrow that I learned from
Warrior Within about creating a powerful
and authentic connection! 

Another thing I really love about your
programs is that they don't require
pick up lines, and it has nothing to
do with trying to play manipulative
mind games on women- it's about
generating so much attractive power
that a woman simply is drawn to you
no matter what.  

Anyway, man, I’m going on and on.
All I want to say is one gigantic
thank you.

And allow me to say to your readers, that
any guy who doesn’t get this program has
no clue what he’s missing. Now I understand
what the guys on your site are talking about!

Troy R.,
Miami, FL.

MY RESPONSE:

Man, thank YOU for that incredibly detailed
account of what happened, and of course
thank you for the props on Warrior Within.

One of the things I really appreciate
is when guys actually explain HOW they
are using the materials. Obviously, I
appreciate positive words, but explaining
how you are using the materials is even
more helpful to other guys.

There were so many things you did right,
that I believe reading your letter twice is
excellent advice – it’s JAMMED with great
applications of the concepts you learned. 

What I really loved was the way you kept
BUILDING on each thing you did, and how
a lot of this ends up happening when you
START THINGS RIGHT to begin with.

So for example, by going in STRONG and
COMMANDING, you then have a way more
ENERGIZED reception.

This then creates the opportunity for the
GIRL to give YOU some feedback that has
“spunk” and “fun” to it, like when she said
to you in a playful way that you were “late”
for the celebration- as if of COURSE you
WERE supposed to be there with her!!!

And then you followed the principle of
GOING with it perfectly by not saying
something like “I’m not late”:

Instead, you said that indeed of COURSE
you were late, because you were preparing
a great present!

And then for you to add the POWER touch
was icing on the cake, when made it clear
that this present was actually YOU.

This is exactly the kind of thing
I’m talking about.

The truth that is not even a secret
is that a woman WANTS to BELONG to
her man, but the keyword here is
MAN.  Be that man, and she WANTS
to be YOURS.

I also love the way you initially REALIZED
how YOU were the one limiting yourself
because of your beliefs of “who you are”
and how you allowed your REAL identity
to shine by pretending it’s someone else
who you DID give permission to be that
cool!  That person is actually YOU!

Your letter has tons and tons of valuable
applications for attracting a woman in the
most powerful way, thanks for sending it in.

NEXT LETTER:

Hey Michael,

I just finished your Dating Wizard book!
I must tell you thanks for sharing your
knowledge with me.

I MUST SAY IM PISSED THE F*** OFF
AT ALL THE TIME(MONEY) IVE WASTED!!

But I know now what to do and how to
handle my new encounters! Man it’s crazy
how the media warps your brain to make
you think that you must act like the NICE GUY!

I feel a whole lot better after reading your
book.  I have hope now and knowledge!
I just have a couple of questions I need
help with!

1. I’m 27 and a virgin(it is what it is) if things
get sexual how do I show that im still the MAN
and not look like a total noob?

2.If another man tries to challenge my
masculinity (in front of other women) by
let’s say, trying to make me look like a punk
so he looks like the alpha male.

What would be the best way to handle it?

3.What made me pull the trigger to buy
your great book was that I have a speed
dating event at this comic book convention
I’m going to this Friday.  What section of
the book should I read again to better my
chances, and any tips you can give me?

And thank you Michael for helping and
showing me the way. I JUST WISH YOU
MADE THIS BOOK WHEN I WAS IN
HIGH SCHOOL!

So thankful,

Paul K.
New York, NY

MY COMMENTS:

Thanks for the props on the book. 
If things get sexual, you do not have
to say you are a virgin (even though
there's nothing wrong with it), and
also remember that FOREPLAY is a
huge part of making the sexual stuff
as powerful as possible, so that she
can be so insanely lustful for you
that you can't go wrong by the time
it comes for actual “deed”.

Also, I always like to remind people,
make sure to wear a condom properly.  

Regarding if another guy tries to "tool'
you by challenging your masculinity or
anything like that, in my Attraction Mastery
Program, I go into a full explanation of
the best way to handle it, but for now one
quick suggestion is to simply AGREE with
whatever the guy says:

This is a bit like “aikido” where you use
his force against him, because you aren’t
trying to counter him, and the more he
says things, the more he looks like he is
trying HARD to get your attention, which
is the ultimate sign of being BENEATH
someone else, and is proof that he is
less cool than you.

Sometimes, you could even EXAGGERATE it,
so if he says you're a punk you could say,
"Yeah, man, I'm a total punk, for sure, yeah".
..If he says you're a loser you say "I'm THE
BIGGEST LOSER, didn’t  you see the show?"

This really drains the guy of any fuel and
also takes the guy by surprise so he is now
unsure of what the heck is going on!!! 

In my Warrior Within program, you’ll learn
how to give off the vibes so that guys won’t
even think about doing this in the first place.

For the Speed Dating, the best thing to do
is get into CONVO with her and use “The Man's
Sense of Humor” as explained in the book, as
well as give her ONE meaningful compliment
but only if you can truly find something really
worth giving her a compliment for:

The reason for this is because there is so
little time in speed dating so you want to
show both sides of yourself-the challenging
fun side and the warm side. 

Don't compliment her on her looks in a speed
dating event- it's too obvious and you need
the time to show other things about your
personality.

Best,

Michael  

PAUL WRITES BACK:

Well after reading your DATING WIZARD
I decided to try out the knowledge I’ve
learned.

I had a speed dating convention to go to
last Saturday but when I went to show up
the vendor told me they didn’t have a slot
for me!

I felt cheated because I found so much
useful knowledge in your book and the
event was tailor-made to meet women!

So as I’m going home I decide to take in
the scene (Times Square NY) and as I’m
sitting down chilling, two girls sit down
to relax.

Now I wasn’t even looking to start any convo
but I saw one of the girls eat a can of Pringles.

She was digging for crumbs from the can, so
I looked at her and motioned (in a joking way)
just tilt the can down your mouth so you can
get the crumbs! She laughed! So she finally
finished the can, then started reading the
nutrition facts label.

So I TEASED her and said you don’t read that
after you eat something! She really started
laughing then her friend jumped in on the fun
and asked where I was from. I told them I
was from around the area. In turn they told
me they where from Germany and they work
as nannys in Connecticut. 

The convo went towards work and soon it
really became very friendly. After awhile I
noticed it was getting late and I had to go.

I didn’t ask for their emails because they
lived pretty far away. So I gave them both
a gentlemen kiss on the cheek and told them
goodbye nice meeting you.

As I was walking, it dawned on me that I
should have asked for the emails anyway
because even though we lived in different
states we could have setup something.
Who knows! I knew I messed up right there!

I know most of your write backs end with the
guys either getting the female, but I kind of
feel good about myself. I usually just sit there
and HOPE they notice me!

I knew your knowledge worked, but I thought
it was going to be hard for me to execute!

Well I know it’s in my best interest to
get the Actions For Attraction CD Set. 
I need more knowledge and examples because
I’m so inexperienced in this realm.

I would like it if you critique my experience,
don’t hold nothing back!

I just got one question - the Actions For Attraction
CDs i see you have a box set and a monthly package.

Does the box set have less content than the monthly?

Also, I see you have a new program, Warrior Within,
do you suggest this for me instead?

MY COMMENTS:

Thanks for your follow up letter and showing
how FAST you can put the materials into action!
You don’t have to wait around forever to get
RESULTS from this, you can start putting it
all into action RIGHT AWAY!

To answer your question, I have made many of
these important Actions For Attraction programs
available now for instant download so you can
easily get them no matter where you are on
the planet. They are at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/mp3.html

And of course, as you realize now, 
always go for the contact info  –
you can always NOT follow up if
you prefer not to!

Regarding Warrior Within, I absolutely
do suggest this program IMMEDIATELY.

It's that important.

After that, I would then get the 'Actions'
programs, as they contain important strategies
for attracting women and approaching women that
you won't find in any of my other programs.

WARRIOR WITHIN includes important strategies
as well, but it goes even deeper than "strategy":
It is designed to CHANGE YOU ON THE DEEPEST LEVELS,
which will make ALL MY PROGRAMS that more effective
for you, plus Warrior Within will also serve as a
SUPREMELY powerful program all on its OWN as well. 

NEXT LETTER:  

Awesome dude!!

I'm really looking forward to studying
Warrior Within! In the mean time, I'm
still learning new things from your
Attraction Mastery Program every time
I listen to it.

Also, I've been in an exclusive relationship
for over 1.5 years now, that started shortly
after reading your second book, “Get A
Great Girl”.

She is really cool and funny never played
a single game, and it couldn't have worked
out the way it did without reading your
book and weaning myself of some of the
crap that is out there.

In the past I repelled some really cool girls
that sensed that I'm naturally an awesome
guy, but got confused by the opposing
messages I subconsciously communicated
to them.

It's also helped me tremendously in other
social relationships: Your materials clearly
show how to make other people feel good,
and make them feel good about themselves.

But in the first place, they show you how
to make yourself feel good, the place where
it all starts and where true abundance is
created.

And the depth of information in your programs
is just staggering. One day I hope to interview
you regarding some of the processes behind
the creation of your programs and your
discoveries, but that's for a later day.

Looking forward to this new level, and
we'll keep in touch.

Will, The Netherlands

P.S. The people that attended your seminar
look really mature and smart, it makes
sense hehe

MY COMMENTS:

Thanks for the kind words, and it’s always
awesome to hear from guys that are with
a great girl, as to me, this is ultimately
what it’s all about.

And your letter is yet ANOTHER part of
the clearing up the confusion for all
good men out there who have been
brainwashed and who have actually
unfortunately chased away the RIGHT
women and attracted the WRONG
women from following the wrong
advice.

Thanks again.

NEXT LETTER:

Hello Michael. I think that I am
in deep trouble with my girlfriend.

The relationship goes for almost
3 years. It is a long distance
relationship. But for the past
6 months, I've been such a jerk
(that was before I found out
your material).

I stopped text messages, calls,
and less dates. And I did lots
of things that hurt her feelings.

I can list down all of them,
but to save your time, I’ll
make it short:

1-When we had a date, I usually
ended up being selfish and everything
was planned according to my plan.

I never asked what she wants to
buy or things she want to do
together when we hang out.

2-I was tested by her and I didn’t
even have a clue about it!!

And guess what? I failed.

There was one time she asked,‘’Do
I take this relationship seriously?’’
and I answered, ’I’m not serious
nor being playful’’.

I’m so screwed..it shows her how
unconfident I am and that is so
uncool.

3-When I have money problems, I
overcompensate it by telling her
all the time that I can’t afford
this and that. Being cheap is
also my weakness.

I let her spend a lot of her
money rather than using up my own.

At the end of this relationship,
she told me that she felt being
used by her own boyfriend.

4-I delayed her birthday gifts
several times, even forget to
wish her on the day.

She’s such a great girl. But I think
she can’t take it anymore and that
she's finding someone else while
still having me as her boyfriend.

I feel betrayed and disappointed
because she never told me about all
those things that hurt her (I swear
I didn’t know and I didn’t realize
that I constantly hurt her until it
is almost too late).

When I knew she have someone else
as her boyfriend, it’s like there’s
no second chance for me to redeem
myself back.

But most of all, I think all of my
actions backfired. It all come back
to me. All actions that I took lead
her to go further from me and she
doesn’t think twice to find someone
else who’s ready to love her.

After using your newsletters, there
are so much lessons that I’ve learnt.

I was being selfish, not a good
listener, not consistent in showing
that I love her and overcompensating
my insecurities.

And like you said, a girl won’t test
you unless you make them want to.

All of your materials are proven to
be VERY TRUE.

Michael, I need your advice about this
going-to-end-relationship. She was a
great girl and it’s hard for me to
go through a breakup.

Is there anything I could do/think
before meeting her up again and
facing her? Any actions or advice?

I understand if you don’t want to
help me out. But, please…I am lost
and I just don’t know what to do.

I need your guidance.

MY REPLY:

First of all, I'm sorry it's taken
so long to get back to you, as there
are so many emails it's hard to reply
to all of them right away, even if
I were to spend all day on emails.

It sounds like you were really
were led astray, as I myself was,
and it's heart-breaking to hear how
good guys INTENTIONALLY FORCE THEMSELVES
to act like jerks because they think
it's the being a jerk part that is
attractive to a woman.

The best thing to do now is simply
to be one trillion percent honest
with her, and then allow her the
space she needs to process it all.

The reality is that most likely she
will be so pissed off she will be very
angry and try to get some form of even
with you, so you might want to just
move on and forget about it as hard
as that sounds.

If you do try to make it work with her,
be prepared for a flood of backlash
for a while, where you must stay calm
throughout it all, and if she doesn't get
over it, then you have to move on.

And definitely for the next woman
you meet, I suggest you start with
the "Get A Great Girl" book.

And if you're reading this right now
and want to be able to go RIGHT UP
to a woman and attract her in the most
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Be cool,

Michael Marks

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