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Tuesday, July 3, 2018
Monday, February 29, 2016
The Power Of MEANING For Success With A Truly Good Woman
Today I want
to talk about meaning, and how it
relates to pick
up, dating, and relationships.
A sense of
meaning is the most important thing
is the most
important factor in one experiencing
the highest
degree of happiness.
This has not
only been proven by experts in the
field of
positive psychology such as Martin Seligman,
but you can
probably attest to this in your own
experiences
in life.
Think back
to specific experiences in your own life.
Were you
happiest when you just did things like
have a meal
packed with sugar, salt, or fat?
Even sex
itself, as high as it ranks, is not the MOST
powerful emotion,
at least not unless it is combined
with a sense
of meaning.
In fact,
PLEASURE itself is not necessarily thing that
actually gives
the most happiness.
People will
go through UNIMAGINABLE SWEAT,
PAIN, AND
EFFORT to accomplish actions that
are tied to
a sense of MEANING for them.
It can be a
million different things depending on the
individual.
However,
perhaps something like completing a
marathon that
you trained all year for, or seeing
the work you
put into helping a community of
kids learn
how to read, or some kind of other
really
CHALLENGING activity that combined
YOUR skills
with helping others; usually it is
THESE KINDS
OF THINGS THAT give the most
deep sense
of meaning and happiness.
Now, no man
and no woman, no matter how
sexy they
find each other, can find happiness
in just
being with each other.
It has to be
part of a larger picture.
And don’t
get me wrong for one second-
sex and the entire
physical and erotic side
of the
man-woman connection is MASSIVELY
important to
understand and to be comfortable
with. More
on this in the future.
It’s just
that most men and women are not
even AWARE
of how POWERFUL a sense of
meaning in
life is, and how closely linked it is
to a sense
of happiness.
Many women
try to find this sense of meaning
through their
career, and some of them do succeed
in finding
this because of the nature of the work
they do,
since it connects their skills to helping
others in a
massive way.
But many
women do not. And, more importantly,
most women
when they meet men who try to
pick them up
end up finding the conversations
lack any
real significance on a deep level.
That is perfectly
fine when you are dealing with
women who
are promiscuous and just looking
to get drunk
and jump into the sack.
But it is
not enough for a woman who is actually
looking for
a man for a real relationship. Nor should
it be enough
for a man looking for a woman for
a real
relationship.
And the time
to show your ability to appreciate
meaning, to
FIND meaning, and to CREATE meaning,
is in the
very first interaction you have with the
woman you
approach.
Look for all
the possibilities in the environment,
in the
situation, in the things she is saying and
doing, that
can lead to a POWERFUL perspective
that is
MEANINGFUL.
For example,
let’s say you are on the commuter
train and
she is sitting next to you. And the train
is just
waiting there for some technical mechanical
issue.
You might
strike up a conversation on how lucky
we are to
have these kinds of problems, and how
precious
time is, and how you are going to do some
meditation
in that moment because it is such a great
opportunity
for that.
This might
lead to her agreeing, laughing, or perhaps
sharing a
story with you about places she’s been
where there
was no train or commuter travel,
and that
might lead to you asking about the culture
there, and
how people find as much happiness or
even more
over there with even less material
things
around them.
Do you see
what I am getting at?
A sense of
MEANING.
Now, NONE of
this means that you can’t or shouldn’t
ALSO be able
to flirt, be playful, and all the rest of that
good stuff.
That other
stuff should ALWAYS be there.
But it’s not
ENOUGH to attract the kind of woman
who
appreciates MEANING in her life.
And the best
kind of women are the ones that have a
VERY RICH SENSE
OF MEANING in their lives.
The reason
this is so good is because it means they are
HAPPY ON A
DEEP LEVEL, a level much greater than
superficial laughter
or superficial temporary pleasure.
And the
happier and more at peace they are, the more
THEY CAN
BRING TO THE TABLE WHEN IT COMES TO
BEING WITH
YOU, as opposed to being miserable,
unpredictable
with their temper, or BORED with life
and looking
for novelty of the sexual sort with many
partners just
to distract themselves from the emotional
emptiness of
their lives.
And of
course, they are looking for this quality in you
as well.
Now, in my
bootcamps, I go DEEP with the guys I teach,
including in
developing these skills as well.
These are
the kinds of interactions that you won’t
find happening
with the drunken women videos
on the
internet, because for drunken women
who are
promiscuous, it’s all NOT necessary and
may even be “too
heavy” for them.
There is
nobody else on the planet who has made it
their PRIMARY
FOCUS to help men get GREAT girlfriends.
And I have
been doing this for THIRTEEN YEARS.
I’ve helped
guys in many cities in many countries
around the
WORLD. A lot of these men ended
up meeting
the women of their DREAMS just
DAYS OR EVEN
HOURS after completing my program,
and I’ve heard
from them about their amazing marriages
and children
that followed.
When you
learn new things, when you know what
you are
doing, things change RAPIDLY for you.
The largest
newspaper in Canada followed my work for
several WEEKS, in helping men meet and attract women
for the exclusive purpose not just of “hooking up” but
rather for getting a great relationship.
It was even called “The Get A Relationship Challenge”.
several WEEKS, in helping men meet and attract women
for the exclusive purpose not just of “hooking up” but
rather for getting a great relationship.
It was even called “The Get A Relationship Challenge”.
And the success these men achieved was REAL,
and documented in detail by the paper.
This “stuff”
that I teach is REAL.
And it’s
about so much more than “getting laid”.
It’s about
getting a great girl.
To find out
about my bootcamps, go here:
To find out
about my home-study books and programs, go here:
To find out
about PRIVATE CONSULTATIONS with me
on ANY
matter regarding attraction, dating, or relationships,
go here:
Till next
time,
Michael
Marks
Sunday, December 27, 2015
Turning Any “Obstacles” Into MAGNETS For Attracting Women
Have you ever wanted to approach a woman, or take positive action with women but then didn’t because you felt there was a reason you were going to fail?
Do you ever feel there's some kind of obstacle you have standing in
your way of success with women?
Most men DEFINITELY feel this, and I know I went through this for YEARS.
If you've ever felt this, I suggest you IMMEDIATELY check out the new video I made below that delves into the TRUTH about how obstacles can be used to actually SKYROCKET your success with women.
In this video, I also solve another very common problem, which is getting caught up on ONE woman when she isn’t even doing anything to warrant your interest.
Watch the full video right right here NOW:
Most men DEFINITELY feel this, and I know I went through this for YEARS.
If you've ever felt this, I suggest you IMMEDIATELY check out the new video I made below that delves into the TRUTH about how obstacles can be used to actually SKYROCKET your success with women.
In this video, I also solve another very common problem, which is getting caught up on ONE woman when she isn’t even doing anything to warrant your interest.
Watch the full video right right here NOW:
And if you haven't yet downloaded my important new book, The Energy Of Attraction: The Newest Strategies for Attracting Women Through Your Behaviors, do that by going to the link below IMMEDIATELY.
Click Here To Download The Energy Of Attraction Book Now!
Till next time,
Michael Marks
Sunday, July 26, 2015
The New FORUM! New VIDEOS! Meeting The Right Woman Vs. Being A Player. Conquering Approach Anxiety & Fear Of Rejection! How To Approach Women - GOLDEN TIPS for MASSIVE SUCCESS!
There is a LOT of AWESOME stuff I have for you today for SKYROCKETING your success in getting a truly AMAZING woman.
First of all, allow me to just mention why it IS so important, if you are the kind of man that wants to truly make the MOST of himself, to actually get the RIGHT woman as opposed to just sleeping around with lots of women.
It has to do with properly harnessing this TIDAL WAVE of energy that comes from our attraction to women:
Being with the right woman MATTERS.
As you may already know, this is very different than just trying to get into bed with women. There are those who will try to tell you that it’s all the same thing, but nothing can be further from the truth.
A promiscuous woman is looking for a man who will keep things as light as possible without deep connections or thoughts about the future.
A woman who is looking to truly give of herself to a man, and to work hard with him to make a future together, is looking for a man who is ready for that journey on every level.
Of course, you still have to approach women in order to meet the right woman, and sometimes you might feel overwhelmed with "approach anxiety" and/or "fear of rejection", so here is an important video that should help you get some empowering perspective on the situation. (Definitely also get my "Obliterating Approach Anxiety" program if you want more solutions for this issue.)
Once you conquer approach anxiety and the fear of rejection, you can start to truly take your results to the next level by being able to actually focus on what you are doing in the approach itself.
Here are some PURE GOLD tips on how to approach women SUCCESSFULLY:
And now, things get EVEN BETTER: Through my new online FORUM, you can gain personal access every DAY to my coaching as well as the chance to network with men around the WORLD who share this common goal of self-development in finding and attracting the RIGHT kind of women instead of just “hooking up” with women.
Direct Answers From Me For All Your Questions
Through the Forum, you will receive my latest insights, you will be able to ask any question you want on these topics as well as other related topics of self-improvement such as fitness and health, and get your questions answered by me, plus you will receive the insights and experience of other men around the world who have been in the same situations you have experienced.
Maybe you have a question about what to do in a situation with a woman you've already met. Perhaps you have a question about how to approach women in certain environments. Maybe you've been doing amazing with a particular woman and something major is coming up and you don't want to mess up.
No matter what your question is, chances are I've dealt with it over the years and can help in the blink of an eye. Plus, you get the benefit of the combined experience of all the men on the Forum as well, some of whom are incredible students who are amazing with fantastic insights as well.
Staying MOTIVATED On Your Journey To Success
In addition to the immensely helpful CONTENT on the Forum, and in addition to getting your questions answered, the Forum is also a place that will keep you MOTIVATED on your journey to success with women. Success is never about just one action, but rather about taking continued, ongoing ACTION- and in order to KEEP on taking action, it helps infinitely to have a source of MOTIVATION along your journey.
The FORUM will give you that motivation as well. You'll get encouragement, you'll be inspired by others, and as you grow in skill and success you will get the satisfaction of inspiring others as well.
Special Offers Only Available To Forum Members
Plus, members of the Forum are eligible for special offers on my programs, including my live-bootcamps, personal phone consultations, and my digital home-study programs.
Membership Is Only For Those Genuine And Serious
The Forum is only for men who are serious about getting the right women in their lives, and members of the Forum will be expected to show the highest level of respect for fellow members and for the principles of logic and evidence. Any rude behavior or irrational discussions will result in termination of membership.
Also, the Forum is a positive place, and not a place for hate against anyone.
In other words, it's a classy place.
There is no other Forum like this, for this purpose, on the planet.
Personally, I think that the value of this Forum is INFINITE, as being with an amazing woman gives you the energy, passion, and courage to truly get the MOST out of life.
I’m spending my time and my energy giving personal attention to everyone on the Forum, and my standard consultation rate in person is $1000 per hour. And yet, if you join the Forum NOW (as it may eventually reach a point where I can’t handle the traffic and won’t be able to accept any more new members) you can get this personal access for $9.97 a month. That’s about 33 cents a day.
If meeting the most amazing woman is not worth the cost of a breath mint to a guy, then perhaps he isn’t truly ready yet to meet and attract that woman.
How It All Works
Just click here, and you will be taken to the order and membership payment page. Once you have signed up and completed payment, you will then receive an email within 12 hours with all the details you need for accessing and using the Forum, including your username and password.
To gain membership and access all the features of the Forum, you will be charged $9.97 monthly, and if you are not MORE than satisfied with the experience, you can cancel your membership anytime and you will not be charged again. A simple email letting me know, and it’s done, no hassle, and no questions asked.
The Forum allows you to not only interact with me, but with all the other members as well. You can text, you can chat, you can use audio. Whatever you find easiest and most comfortable.
The Forum is complete with all the "bells and whistles", allowing you to do all this and to easily incorporate and link videos and social media. You will have a top-tier experience with the best technology.
HAVING THE ULTIMATE SUPPORT NETWORK AS YOUR TEAM FOR SUCCESS
Success with women, as it is in every other area of life, comes faster when you have the right TEAM supporting you and that has the same mutual goal as you. There is no more effective way to be a part of that team than by joining my FORUM dedicated to mastering this important part of life known as "getting the right woman".
I look forward to seeing you there. Join the Forum NOW by going HERE immediately:
*YES, I WANT ALL THE MASSIVE ADVANTAGES OF FORUM MEMBERSHIP!
*No, I don't want to get all the massive benefits of Forum membership.
Sincerely,
Michael Marks
First of all, allow me to just mention why it IS so important, if you are the kind of man that wants to truly make the MOST of himself, to actually get the RIGHT woman as opposed to just sleeping around with lots of women.
It has to do with properly harnessing this TIDAL WAVE of energy that comes from our attraction to women:
Being with the right woman MATTERS.
As you may already know, this is very different than just trying to get into bed with women. There are those who will try to tell you that it’s all the same thing, but nothing can be further from the truth.
A promiscuous woman is looking for a man who will keep things as light as possible without deep connections or thoughts about the future.
A woman who is looking to truly give of herself to a man, and to work hard with him to make a future together, is looking for a man who is ready for that journey on every level.
Of course, you still have to approach women in order to meet the right woman, and sometimes you might feel overwhelmed with "approach anxiety" and/or "fear of rejection", so here is an important video that should help you get some empowering perspective on the situation. (Definitely also get my "Obliterating Approach Anxiety" program if you want more solutions for this issue.)
Once you conquer approach anxiety and the fear of rejection, you can start to truly take your results to the next level by being able to actually focus on what you are doing in the approach itself.
Here are some PURE GOLD tips on how to approach women SUCCESSFULLY:
And now, things get EVEN BETTER: Through my new online FORUM, you can gain personal access every DAY to my coaching as well as the chance to network with men around the WORLD who share this common goal of self-development in finding and attracting the RIGHT kind of women instead of just “hooking up” with women.
Direct Answers From Me For All Your Questions
Through the Forum, you will receive my latest insights, you will be able to ask any question you want on these topics as well as other related topics of self-improvement such as fitness and health, and get your questions answered by me, plus you will receive the insights and experience of other men around the world who have been in the same situations you have experienced.
Maybe you have a question about what to do in a situation with a woman you've already met. Perhaps you have a question about how to approach women in certain environments. Maybe you've been doing amazing with a particular woman and something major is coming up and you don't want to mess up.
No matter what your question is, chances are I've dealt with it over the years and can help in the blink of an eye. Plus, you get the benefit of the combined experience of all the men on the Forum as well, some of whom are incredible students who are amazing with fantastic insights as well.
Staying MOTIVATED On Your Journey To Success
In addition to the immensely helpful CONTENT on the Forum, and in addition to getting your questions answered, the Forum is also a place that will keep you MOTIVATED on your journey to success with women. Success is never about just one action, but rather about taking continued, ongoing ACTION- and in order to KEEP on taking action, it helps infinitely to have a source of MOTIVATION along your journey.
The FORUM will give you that motivation as well. You'll get encouragement, you'll be inspired by others, and as you grow in skill and success you will get the satisfaction of inspiring others as well.
Special Offers Only Available To Forum Members
Plus, members of the Forum are eligible for special offers on my programs, including my live-bootcamps, personal phone consultations, and my digital home-study programs.
Membership Is Only For Those Genuine And Serious
The Forum is only for men who are serious about getting the right women in their lives, and members of the Forum will be expected to show the highest level of respect for fellow members and for the principles of logic and evidence. Any rude behavior or irrational discussions will result in termination of membership.
Also, the Forum is a positive place, and not a place for hate against anyone.
In other words, it's a classy place.
There is no other Forum like this, for this purpose, on the planet.
Personally, I think that the value of this Forum is INFINITE, as being with an amazing woman gives you the energy, passion, and courage to truly get the MOST out of life.
I’m spending my time and my energy giving personal attention to everyone on the Forum, and my standard consultation rate in person is $1000 per hour. And yet, if you join the Forum NOW (as it may eventually reach a point where I can’t handle the traffic and won’t be able to accept any more new members) you can get this personal access for $9.97 a month. That’s about 33 cents a day.
If meeting the most amazing woman is not worth the cost of a breath mint to a guy, then perhaps he isn’t truly ready yet to meet and attract that woman.
How It All Works
Just click here, and you will be taken to the order and membership payment page. Once you have signed up and completed payment, you will then receive an email within 12 hours with all the details you need for accessing and using the Forum, including your username and password.
To gain membership and access all the features of the Forum, you will be charged $9.97 monthly, and if you are not MORE than satisfied with the experience, you can cancel your membership anytime and you will not be charged again. A simple email letting me know, and it’s done, no hassle, and no questions asked.
The Forum allows you to not only interact with me, but with all the other members as well. You can text, you can chat, you can use audio. Whatever you find easiest and most comfortable.
The Forum is complete with all the "bells and whistles", allowing you to do all this and to easily incorporate and link videos and social media. You will have a top-tier experience with the best technology.
HAVING THE ULTIMATE SUPPORT NETWORK AS YOUR TEAM FOR SUCCESS
Success with women, as it is in every other area of life, comes faster when you have the right TEAM supporting you and that has the same mutual goal as you. There is no more effective way to be a part of that team than by joining my FORUM dedicated to mastering this important part of life known as "getting the right woman".
I look forward to seeing you there. Join the Forum NOW by going HERE immediately:
*YES, I WANT ALL THE MASSIVE ADVANTAGES OF FORUM MEMBERSHIP!
*No, I don't want to get all the massive benefits of Forum membership.
Sincerely,
Michael Marks
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