The Power Of MEANING For Success With A Truly Good Woman

Today I want to talk about meaning, and how it

relates to pick up, dating, and relationships.

A sense of meaning is the most important thing

is the most important factor in one experiencing

the highest degree of happiness.

This has not only been proven by experts in the

field of positive psychology such as Martin Seligman,

but you can probably attest to this in your own

experiences in life.

Think back to specific experiences in your own life.

Were you happiest when you just did things like

have a meal packed with sugar, salt, or fat?

Even sex itself, as high as it ranks, is not the MOST

powerful emotion, at least not unless it is combined

with a sense of meaning.

In fact, PLEASURE itself is not necessarily thing that

actually gives the most happiness.

People will go through UNIMAGINABLE SWEAT,

PAIN, AND EFFORT to accomplish actions that

are tied to a sense of MEANING for them.

It can be a million different things depending on the

individual.

However, perhaps something like completing a

marathon that you trained all year for,  or seeing

the work you put into helping a community of

kids learn how to read, or some kind of other

really CHALLENGING activity that combined

YOUR skills with helping  others; usually it is

THESE KINDS OF THINGS THAT give the most

deep sense of meaning and happiness.

Now, no man and no woman, no matter how

sexy they find each other, can find happiness

in just being with each other.

It has to be part of a larger picture.

And don’t get me wrong for one second-

sex and the entire physical and erotic side

of the man-woman connection is MASSIVELY

important to understand and to be comfortable

with. More on this in the future.

It’s just that most men and women are not

even AWARE of how POWERFUL a sense of

meaning in life is, and how closely linked it is

to a sense of happiness.

Many women try to find this sense of meaning

through their career, and some of them do succeed

in finding this because of the nature of the work

they do, since it connects their skills to helping

others in a massive way.

But many women do not. And, more importantly,

most women when they meet men who try to

pick them up end up finding the conversations

lack any real significance on a deep level.

That is perfectly fine when you are dealing with

women who are promiscuous and just looking

to get drunk and jump into the sack.

But it is not enough for a woman who is actually

looking for a man for a real relationship. Nor should

it be enough for a man looking for a woman for

a real relationship.

And the time to show your ability to appreciate

meaning, to FIND meaning, and to CREATE meaning,

is in the very first interaction you have with the

woman you approach.

Look for all the possibilities in the environment,

in the situation, in the things she is saying and

doing, that can lead to a POWERFUL perspective

that is MEANINGFUL.

For example, let’s say you are on the commuter

train and she is sitting next to you. And the train

is just waiting there for some technical mechanical

issue.

You might strike up a conversation on how lucky

we are to have these kinds of problems, and how

precious time is, and how you are going to do some

meditation in that moment because it is such a great

opportunity for that.

This might lead to her agreeing, laughing, or perhaps

sharing a story with you about places she’s been

where there was no train or commuter travel,

and that might lead to you asking about the culture

there, and how people find as much happiness or

even more over there with even less material

things around them.

Do you see what I am getting at?

A sense of MEANING.

Now, NONE of this means that you can’t or shouldn’t

ALSO be able to flirt, be playful, and all the rest of that

good stuff.

That other stuff should ALWAYS be there.

But it’s not ENOUGH to attract the kind of woman

who appreciates MEANING in her life.

And the best kind of women are the ones that have a

VERY RICH SENSE OF MEANING in their lives.

The reason this is so good is because it means they are

HAPPY ON A DEEP LEVEL, a level much greater than

superficial laughter or superficial temporary pleasure.

And the happier and more at peace they are, the more

THEY CAN BRING TO THE TABLE WHEN IT COMES TO

BEING WITH YOU, as opposed to being miserable,

unpredictable with their temper, or BORED with life

and looking for novelty of the sexual sort with many

partners just to distract themselves from the emotional

emptiness of their lives.

And of course, they are looking for this quality in you

as well.

Now, in my bootcamps, I go DEEP with the guys I teach,

including in developing these skills as well.

These are the kinds of interactions that you won’t

find happening with the drunken women videos

on the internet, because for drunken women

who are promiscuous, it’s all NOT necessary and

may even be “too heavy” for them.

There is nobody else on the planet who has made it

their PRIMARY FOCUS to help men get GREAT girlfriends.

And I have been doing this for THIRTEEN YEARS.

I’ve helped guys in many cities in many countries  

around the WORLD.  A lot of these men ended

up meeting the women of their DREAMS just

DAYS OR EVEN HOURS after completing my program,

and I’ve heard from them about their amazing marriages

and children that followed.

When you learn new things, when you know what

you are doing, things change RAPIDLY for you.

The largest newspaper in Canada followed my work for
several WEEKS, in helping men meet and attract women
for the exclusive purpose not just of “hooking up” but
rather for getting a great relationship.

It was even called “The Get A Relationship Challenge”. 

And the success these men achieved was REAL,
and documented in detail by the paper.

This “stuff” that I teach is REAL.

And it’s about so much more than “getting laid”.

It’s about getting a great girl.

To find out about my bootcamps, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

To find out about my home-study books and programs, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.html 

To find out about PRIVATE CONSULTATIONS with me

on ANY matter regarding attraction, dating, or relationships,

go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Most Important Quality To Find In A Woman These Days

I want to address a really important question today regarding whether or not you can trust a woman with other men who she claims are "PLATONIC" friends. 

First of all, if the woman is attractive, then let's just call a spade a spade and not engage in this insane politically-correct culture that pretends there is no such thing as instinctive male sexual drive. 

If she is attractive, then most men WILL feel sexually attracted to her, and it WILL cloud the minds of most men.  So there is no such thing as a purely platonic friendship, certainly, when the woman is attractive- the guy DOES feel chemistry for her, but this does not mean he can't be in control of himself, of course.  But it's not PLATONIC. 

The real question here, though, is, can you trust your girlfriend or wife?

The answer to this question really boils down to ONE thing- how RESPONSIBLE of a person is she in general? And in particular, how responsible of a person is she regarding the RELATIONSHIP?

And today, more than ever, unfortunately, many, many women have SHIRKED off responsibility for their behaviors, especially in terms of how to treat other men, due to the influence of third-wave feminism.

I first started to notice this about 15 years ago in nightclubs and college campus pub-nights. Even though I never drank myself, I would notice almost IMMEDIATELY as soon as a conversation was going well with a woman I was chatting up, she would start DRINKING more. 

 














I didn’t realize why this was, as I was still pretty clueless about some things back then, but eventually I learned that what was happening was that many women are extremely promiscuous, but at the same time they don’t want to PERCEIVE THEMSELVES as promiscuous.  

So, by getting THEMSELVES drunk, they are in effect getting RID of their ABILITY to make decisions, and also offering themselves a RATIONALIZATION for whatever happens later, so the next morning they can always feel like it wasn’t really them who did whatever it was they did.

This is just one reason why I am not a fan of picking up women in clubs or pubs or anywhere else where they may be drunk. But my main point here is how this is an example of SHIRKING responsibility.

Similarly, over the years, being in this field, I have heard all kinds of INSANE things, such as women saying things like if they cheated while on vacation, “It doesn’t count”, or that sleeping with ten guys while on vacation “doesn’t count”.

Also, the ENDLESS TIDAL WAVE of blaming MEN for everything - for example, when a woman says that she dated TEN ABUSIVE MEN in a row, you have to wonder why she couldn’t find anyone ELSE.  Was there perhaps something about those guys- were those guys cool, wealthy, powerful, or some other attractive trait, that these women have to take some responsibility for fully KNOWING what they were getting into but thinking it was worth it?

GROSSLY exaggerated claims of abuse, such as that one in four women on college campuses in the US are victims of rape, which went UNCONTESTED FOR YEARS, have recently been PROVEN as TOTALLY FALSE to the MIND-BOGGLING degree of CLARITY that NO ONE, not even THE MOST EXTREME FEMINISTS, can ARGUE with the recent REFUTATIONS to those claims.

It’s also interesting that some of the most famous feminists who claimed they just wanted equality between men and women, who claimed that the PERFECT relationship between men and women were ones where the men and women were EQUAL in status and power, ended up marrying men who were INFINITELY MORE FINANCIALLY POWERFUL than them, such as Jane Fonda who married Ted Turner.

 









So with their MOUTHS they SAY things, but they aren’t being RESPONSIBLE about those things.

So, it is in THIS light, in THIS context, that I tend to be very SKEPTICAL about some women who say they are hanging out with some guy who is "just a friend".

It’s NOT because it is IMPOSSIBLE for men and women to be friends.

It is because we are living in a time when women are told they don’t have to be RESPONSIBLE for their behaviors- they can just blame anything that happens on the guy.

So if the woman was in a relationship, and hanging out with some guy for coffee or a dinner or whatever, and that guy started making moves on her, what kind of CULTURE do we live in? 

We live in one where it is EASY for the woman to start SHIRKING responsibility, to start BLAMING her boyfriend for not being good enough, for being too good or too nice, for being WHATEVER excuse she wants in order to cheat and not have to take RESPONSIBILITY FOR IT.

It is WRONG for any man to abuse a woman, and we live in a society in the western world that KNOWS this, and AGREES with it, and it is ILLEGAL.

However, if a woman hits a man, if a woman is verbally abusive to a man, if a woman cheats on a man, what we tend to hear are ENDLESS excuses, endless rationalizations, endless SYMPATHY and EMPATHY for the woman.

For example, when Arnold Schwarzenegger was found to have cheated on his wife with the maid, which was wrong to do to his wife, the INSTINCT of most people was to hate on him, but what is so BIZARRE is that NO ONE mentioned the MAID HERSELF!!!!   

Somehow, she got off as PERFECTLY INNOCENT, as if she was FORCED to do all this.  

It is as if the culture was saying, "There IS NOOOOOOOOO WAYYYYYYYYY that she was anything other than TOTALLY INNOCENT, and there is NOOOOOOOOO WAYYY that she was trying to BENEFIT from being with one of the most successful men in Hollywood and American politics, EVER. Nooooooooooooo, it’s only ARNIE who is the absolute villain here."

Do you see what I am getting at?

A society where WOMEN are simply NOT held to the same degree of RESPONSIBILITY for their BEHAVIORS as men are, all thanks to third-wave feminism.

Also, it is interesting how many women end up with BAD BOYS, women who have all the choices in the world. For example, Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee. And just about EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THE KARDASHIANS.  And if you have enough experience dating, you’ve probably seen plenty of this as well in your own environment.

So, men are supposed to behave NICE to women, when being overly nice does not work, but when women are mistreated by bad boys, it’s not the WOMEN who are told by feminism to learn a lesson, nope- it’s the EVIL MEN who must change, when in reality most of the guys who are super-sensitive and nice to women end up getting taken advantage of.

So, in a society like THIS, yes I believe you have to be damn careful in your screening process with women, and in not being naïve. We are living in a culture where women simply aren’t put to the same level of MORAL RESPONSIBILITY towards the SAFEGUARDING of a relationship as MEN are. 

I have been saying FOR MANY YEARS that OF COURSE I believe in fairness, and women being treated right, and women being astronauts, doctors, or whatever they want is awesome.  

What I have a problem with is a MORAL DECAY that results from third-wave feminism preaching a DOUBLE STANDARD, and most of all, preaching LIES.


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And what this means is that if you want a long-term relationship with a woman, you must screen for a woman who is AWARE of this VERY issue, and who is RUTHLESS in her vigor to SAFEGUARD the integrity of the relationship by actually being RESPONSIBLE in her actions and decision-making.

Once you are with a woman like that, then not only CAN you let her do what she wants, but you in fact SHOULD trust her, as when trust is earned, and trust is then given as a result, she will feel no desire or need to RUIN it, and in fact will cherish what she has with you.

Now, there ARE some great women today, who have great senses of responsibility, and honestly, to me, a woman like this is a TRUE "Wonder Woman"- because it takes incredible STRENGTH to STAND UP to the SOCIAL PRESSURE of a society gone MAD. 

There is an old quote: "A woman of valor, who can find?" What is interesting here is that the word VALOR denotes noble character, but it especially notes COURAGE as well.  It takes COURAGE for a woman to STAND UP up for good values when society's values are corroding into chaos all around her. 


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If you would like to learn more about success with women and relationships, or if you have a specific issue that you need solved, you can now arrange a personal consultation with me.

Consultations are at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

And to find out about all my programs, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Using Tonality to Attract Women, And An Important New Film About Dating And Finding A Quality Woman In Today's Society

Today is an extremely important newsletter.
The first part deals with one of the most
POWERFUL things you can do to INSTANTLY
skyrocket your attractive presence to women,
and the second part of this newsletter deals
with an important project I’ve been working
on regarding meeting, attracting, and keeping
the kind of woman who would make for a loyal,
loving, and supportive girlfriend or wife.

PART ONE: VOCAL FREQUENCY

Several years ago, I was invited to speak to
a group of hundreds of men who had come
from all over the world and who had taken
an entire week out of their lives to spend
from morning to late at night IMMERSED
in learning how to truly improve themselves
when it comes to meeting, attracting, and
keeping the kind of woman that is beautiful
inside and out.

I could have started with any one of hundreds
of different strategies, but I decided to give
the men the biggest bang for their buck, so
to speak, by focusing on one thing that will
give MASSIVE and IMMEDIATE results
without having to spend a TON of time learning
how to do it properly.

It was about using your VOICE effectively.
I gave a simple exercise for the group:

Say the following sentence, each time
DIFFERENTLY, to emphasize different
emotions in your voice.

That simple sentence was:

THE APPLE IS RED.

A had volunteers come up and demonstrate this
in front of the entire group.

One time, the goal was to say the sentence in
a way that conveyed SENSUALITY.

So, when uttered to convey SENSUALITY,
the sentence was delivered SLOWLY, almost
OOOZING out of the lips, and it was BREATHY,
you could HEAR THE BREATH, the breathing,

“The-hhhhhhhhhh ahhhhhplehhhhhh isssssssssssss
rhhhhhhhhhhhhhhheeeeeed”.

Another time, the sentence had to be delivered
conveying an UPBEAT tonality.

The APPLE is RED!

Another time, the sentence had to be delivered
conveying pure CONFIDENCE.

The APPLE is RED.

This exercise continued in this fashion, with the
volunteers and the GROUP practicing in real time,
the whole exercise being done in just a few MINUTES.

Then, for the next step, the goal was to COMBINE
emotions that had to be conveyed in the tonality.

The goal was to say the sentence in a way that was
BREATHY-SENSUAL, CONFIDENT, AND DOMINANT.

Suddenly, the sentence didn’t FEEL like
“The apple is red”. It may have been those WORDS,
but it FELT like it was the kind of thing that belonged
in the BEDROOM.

The truth is, if you approach a woman and use this
strategy, you could ask for something as banal as
THE TIME and it will have a MASSIVE POSITIVE
EFFECT, but if you also COMBINE this with actually
ALSO understanding the OTHER things I also teach
you, you will be UNSTOPPABLE.

One of the coolest things about being in this field,
is that I have gotten to know some amazing people,
and thanks to one of those people, I can now also
BACK THIS UP with some SERIOUS research-
in other words, I had observed this from my OWN
years of actually doing this in person, but there
now exists TONS of evidence for what I have
been teaching as well. Thanks to a very cool guy
I know, you can now see the EVIDENCE for
yourselves, you can check out the articles

if you like. 

One is titled Charismatic Speakers Manipulate

Their Vocal Frequency, by Melissa Hogenboom,

Science reporter, BBC News, which in itself

references earlier research,  and that article

was called Voice Pitch Influences Voting Behavior,

by Cara C. Tigue, Diana J. Borak, Jillian J.M. O'Connor,
Charles Schandl, David R. Feinberg, Department of Psychology,
Neuroscience, and Behaviour, McMaster University.

Why do I mention these details?

Because I think it’s important to have

BOATLOADS of SOLID EVIDENCE,

rather than "fluff" and other b.s. that does 

not employ the scientific method.

The take-away for you, when it comes to
approaching women, is to learn to USE your
voice in different ways, and this does not mean
to try to act like you sound like Darth Vader
in order to sound masculine, it means that you
are able to CONVEY the different emotions
in your voice.

There is a TIME to sound GENTLE.
There is a TIME to sound DOMINANT.
There is a TIME to sound UPBEAT.
There is a TIME to sound SENSUAL.

And very often, there is a time to COMBINE
these emotions in your voice.

In general, if you are a beginner and learning these skills,
and you want to drive with “automatic transmission”
rather than on “standard”, I suggest you usually keep the
SENSUALITY and the DOMINANCE higher in your
initial approaches, since most men tend to open their
conversations with women with too LITTLE of those.

And you can practice with a simple sentence:
“THE APPLE IS RED.”

Do not take the simplicity of this exercise to mean
it is not SUPREMELY POWERFUL.

My goal is to help you and to try to make the process
something you can PUT INTO ACTION rather than
it just being some insanely difficult theory to comprehend.

The EVIDENCE backs up everything I am telling you.
Your TONALITY should be thought of as more important
than your CLOTHING.

You probably think that walking around in your
pajamas when you want to meet a woman might
not be the best idea at the bookstore or club or
wherever. And that’s because you don’t want
to give the wrong impression, right?

Well, your TONALITY actually DRESSES YOU
UP in a woman’s mind. The question is, what
“outfit”, so to speak, are you WEARING?

What is your tonality saying about you?
What do you want to be saying?

Remember, your tonality reveals your STATE
OF MIND. It tells a woman how you FEEL
in that moment. It tells a woman what you think
about yourself in that moment. And all she knows
about you at that moment is what you are presenting
IN THAT MOMENT.

Use this strategy NOW, use it the very next time you
see a woman you’d like to meet.

By the way, if you STILL don’t believe how powerful
this strategy is, just notice how the one thing that just
about ALL leading men have is the ability to stand out
VOCALLY.

PART II: THE IMPORTANCE OF BALANCE,

AND A FILM TO GET PEOPLE TALKING 

As you may know, Get A Great Girl is truly about
getting a quality woman, the kind of woman that
can be a truly awesome life-long partner.

You may wonder why I haven’t gone the path
of the mainstream, which sells the fantasy of
endless women.

It’s because I already know that is not the path
to INNER BALANCE.

The key to everything is BALANCE, and in
fact, if anything, we need to err on the side of
being a little STRONGER and tougher on ourselves
than babying ourselves, because we are living in
a society that encourages the EASY WAY OUT.

What do I mean by this?
What I mean is that we are bombarded by messages
that sell things, that all say HAVE MORE FUN,
DO LESS WORK, GET MORE WOMEN,
EAT MORE SUGAR, SALT, AND FAT,
GET RICH QUICK, DO LESS AND GET MORE.

The human being did not evolve to actually
THRIVE in an environment of TOO MUCH
of the “good stuff”.

Sugar, salt, fat. These are good things, in small
quantities. There was a time when these things
were HARD to get, and when calories were
hard to get, so it was GOOD that we really
LIKED these kinds of things, since it MOTIVATED
us to do what we had to do, to GET these things,
and we tended to only get these things in small
quantities, even with great effort.

There was BALANCE.

Similarly, when it comes to our desire for women,
it was never exactly easy for a multitude of reasons.

And yet, we are now bombarded with so much
stimulation, that the average adult male is probably
exposed to THOUSANDS of images of women
who are attractive every day.

That is far more than most men saw in an entire
LIFETIME just a few decades ago.

For a moment, think of ANCIENT SPARTA.

Life was tough, on PURPOSE.

And the result was the creation of WARRIORS.

They purposely designed their life to avoid becoming
"SOFT" and WEAK.

You can bet they avoided excess indulgences in
anything.

The result was greater STRENGTH- of mind, of
body, of EVERYTHING.

And you can bet that THAT kind of man was far more
VISCERALLY appealing to a woman than a man who
was all needy and weak for ANYTHING- including
needy and over-indulgent when it came to women.



Now, I’m not saying at all that we need to go to
SPARTAN lengths, but we do need to exert a HERCULEAN
effort to PUT balance into our lives in many areas,
INCLUDING the area of having a girlfriend and
meeting women, etc.

There have been so many things that have thrown
the balance off. From the invention of the pill
that suddenly made it possible for women to not
have to deal with the natural consequences of sex,
which therefore meant not having to be as careful
about choosing the right partner, to technological
innovations that have made the actually PHYSICAL
need for men’s strength not as necessary as before-
still necessary for many things, but not as many things
as before.

Plus, there are tons of other things that have changed
as well, the natural division of labor between men
and women, the raising of children, and of course
the fact that men are bombarded by "false triggers"
of stimulation in a society that uses the sexual to
sell just about EVERYTHING. 

The rise of feminism without an equal rise in women
understanding men, and without men even understanding
what all this means for them and for women.

And I’m not here to say all of of these things, like
technology, are BAD.

But, make no mistake about it, there is DEFINITELY
AN IMBALANCE going on.

And very few men or women truly understand it
or know what to do about it. All they do is just
stand back and watch how relationships and families
struggle with it all, and nobody has the answers.

Now, I’m not going to be so arrogant to pretend
I have all the answers, but I can tell you that there
IS a better way than the way most men and women
go about the process of finding each other, dating,
and relationships.

For over a decade, I’ve devoted myself to helping
men meet women, especially to meet women who
are loyal, faithful, loving, supportive, and who could
be great girlfriends or wives.

In the past year, I’ve been working on another angle.
Sometimes FACTS are not enough.

Sometimes, to get people moving, they need to get
EMOTIONAL.

Does this sound familiar?
If it does, it’s because you’ve learned from me
that it’s not enough to explain to a woman why
you are the right one for her, you must instead
get her FEELING that emotionally, not academically.

Before I entered this field, I had spent many years
writing, including writing stories where the good
guy gets the girl in the end, and then when I realized
how reality ACTUALLY works, I couldn’t write
that stuff anymore.

Being a good guy in itself is not enough, not even
for the "nicest" woman, and yet nobody taught
me this, and no one else I knew had been taught
this either.

Well, after ten years of helping men, I’ve written and
filmed a movie that is all about the situation for men when
it comes to their struggle to get a great woman.

It’s almost ready, and this is where you come in.

Let me know if you are interested in the promotion
of this film. At the heart of this film, is the importance
of a GENUINE COMMITMENT between a man
and a woman, something that is becoming ever more
scarce in today's "Tinder-Dating" society.

This film is all about the struggle that wise men
have had to face; this is a story that no one
wants to tell because it isn't politically correct
to portray men as anything other than buffoons
or sex-crazed violent demons. Men are so often
portrayed as either rapists, bad guys, or nerds,
when in reality there are a lot of men of solid character
and inner strength who simply won't lower their
moral standards just to get physical with women.

This film is not something I am doing for money.
It is part of the MISSION that I have been on
for over TEN YEARS.

The MISSION to bring back some sanity into
the world of dating and relationships between
men and women.

I want to get people talking- men, women,
EVERYONE. This needs to become an issue
we actually discuss, instead of just distracting
ourselves with other things.

If you are reading this right now, this may be the
moment in several years from now where you
reflect back and remember that this is where you
became part of something that helped change
the world in a positive way.

So it’s really simple- let me know if you’d
like to join this mission, a mission to bring
back MEANING into the connection between
men and women.

You can contact me at my email listed in the
‘from’ section of this email, and if you have
any questions about how I can help you meet
the woman of your dreams, you can email
me as well, or you can visit my website at:

http://www.on2url.com/lnk?/0o54Sk/S1o%3D

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Why It Is Tough To Meet Good Women, And What To Do About It

Yesterday, there was an article in the Wall
Street Journal by Matthew Kaminski,
it said the following:

“Vladimir Putin sees a West made soft
by money, led by weak men and women,
unwilling to make sacrifices to defend
their so-called ideals.”

You might be wondering what the heck
this has to do with dating, relationships,
and quality women.

And the answer is, A LOT.

Let's compare our current generation to
a few generations back.

How much SACRIFICE was a couple prepared
to endure to make a relationship or marriage
work, compared to today?

To what degree was something like LOYALTY
and COMMITMENT celebrated compared to today?

These things are not existing in a vacuum
in a society that also celebrates selfishness
in ALL areas to no limit.      

It’s not a coincidence that these things are happening in the last several decades, when things like family, relationships, marriage, and love of country have become attacked by the forces of UNFETTERED greed, lust, and selfish individual desire.

I say “unfettered” because, the truth is,
SELFISHNESS to a degree, IS important,
it IS natural, we MUST take care of ourselves,
but not to the point of INSANITY.

Just to prove how far things have gone,
can you IMAGINE there existing
websites that actually PROMOTE
affairs, 50 years ago?

50 years ago, if a politician was caught in
a SCANDAL, or lying, it was a big deal.
NOW, we practically EXPECT IT and
what is even more, we tend to EXCUSE
it, as long as it doesn’t affect our
FINANCIAL lives. 

Who cares if a president  or prime minster
cheats on his wife?
Who cares if a president lies, or if he has
never served his country in battle?
DOES IT AFFECT MY MONEY?????
Who cares if a president’s wife has said
things like she has barely felt any love or
pride for her country, as long as it doesn’t
affect my WALLET, right?????????????

As a society, we make the mistake of thinking
that if something isn't TANGIBLE, that it
is not important.

So something like a president's or prime minister's
CHARACTER doesn't seem important to a lot of people,
all people want to know is will it give them more
money or less money.

The GREATEST IRONY OF ALL is that
we are simultaneously living in the most
politically correct time in history.

As my best friend has stated, the truth is that
POLITICAL CORRECTNESS has actually
become a way to get away with GREAT EVIL.

So, on the SURFACE, we are as a society
very POLITICALLY CORRECT. 

God forbid you should make a joke that might
possibly not kiss someone’s butt, even if it is
meant in a good way.  Don’t even admit you
enjoy a woman’s beauty, that is a big sin.

And the kind of politically incorrect
entertainment that is on, like Family Guy,
is not designed to ELEVATE us, it is
designed to just shock us, meanwhile,
a few decades ago, a politically incorrect
show like ALL IN THE FAMILY was designed
to make us think and to elevate us morally.

Overall though, today, we are very
politically correct on the SURFACE.

Meanwhile, please go on and secretly
have affairs, cheat people in business,
BE LENIENT ON corporate fraud, and lie
through your teeth, all in the name of making
more money or having more sex.

Yes, in a few ways we have made progress, and
it is true that things like women getting the vote
and fighting against various forms of discrimination
have been MASSIVELY IMPORTANT things.  We've
also improved in terms of MEDICINE. 

I like to keep things honest.

Aside from those admittedly HUGE things, however,
we have LOST a ton of SOUL-SUSTAINING things
as well, and it mostly stems from celebrating GREED
and LUST and not having enough of a celebration of
things like DISCIPLINE and LOYALTY.

So it’s no surprise that relationships are suffering
as well, as hundreds of millions of people have
become brainwashed by the new ideals.

It used to be, that the Western world celebrated
FREEDOM, but also celebrated the RESPONSIBLE
USE of FREEDOM. 

It is for these reasons why it has become ever
more important to be SELECTIVE when   
it comes to the women you allow into your life.

One of the most bizarre things is that the
pick up artists PRETEND to show they are
screening women, because they know it
makes it SEEM like they are having high
standards, which is attractive, but I actually
MEAN IT, it’s not a game, you must really
HAVE these high standards if you actually
want to meet a woman of quality.

A woman that is not brainwashed by the b.s.

It is also an interesting irony that some of the
greatest women I have met come from countries
where they had so little freedom, that when they
DID come to the west, they APPRECIATED
the freedom so much that they CHERISHED
IT and used it WISELY. 

It wasn’t an opportunity to go out and have affairs
or screw people over in business, it was an opportunity
to reach one’s full potential, get educated, be creative,
have a family, and enjoy life.

Getting a great woman today is truly a challenge.
It’s also real hard for those women to meet
a great guy.

You must be RUTHLESS AND HARD in your SCREENING
when it comes to dating women.

First of all, BEING THIS WAY is in ITSELF
attractive to a quality woman. She is
ATTRACTED to the fact you are STRONG
enough to RESIST women who do NOT
meet your standards.

In fact, SOME women actually ACT BADLY
JUST TO SEE IF YOU WILL NOT TAKE THEIR B.S.
I personally don't suggest you date those
women, but those women do exist.

Second of all, you must be this way in order
to be in the RIGHT FRAME OF MIND to preserve
your character.

It is a slippery slope, once you start to
ACCEPT the wrong ideals, the wrong values,
the wrong behavior from a woman, you start
to DOUBT YOUR OWN MORAL CODE, you start to
go against your own cherished values, you
start to experience INNER CONFLICT, you
become SOFT AND WEAK, and guess what?

This repulses ALL WOMEN!

Be tough, be strong, be RUTHLESS about your
values, defend them to the last breath.

And you will see just how far women will go
to get you, and of course, you will also now
have to be doubly strong, as this very action will
often make so many women attracted to you,
that you will have to SHUN the attention
of the wrong women and ONLY allow in the
right ones.
 
If you are serious about getting a quality woman,
you should probably sign up for my new monthly
audio program, called The Quality Man. It is
all about how to find and attract those rare
quality women that still exist.

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/thequalityman.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Want Women To Treat You Well? Read This NOW.

If you are ready for the truth, you are about to get a BOAT LOAD of it regarding women, dating, and relationships.

ONE: A Bit Of FEAR Is Required

What I mean by this, is that in ANY situation where
someone VALUES something, there is a bit of
FEAR regarding losing that thing.

Anyone who tells you otherwise is full of crap.

Even great martial artists have SOME fear in them,
but they learn to HARNESS their fear and use it
to their advantage.

A bit of FEAR regarding being IMMORAL is a
DRIVING force for EXCELLENCE and prevents
CORRUPTION as well. (In ALL areas of life,
not just in dating.)

Similarly, if a woman has ZERO FEAR of losing you,
if she feels SOOOOOOOO at ease around you that she
feels NOTHING could possibly be bad about LOSING
you, she is going to be a HORRIBLE GIRLFRIEND
OR WIFE.

There NEEDS to be a bit of fear to keep the human
traits of WEAKNESS, LAZINESS, and COMPLACENCY
at bay.

Usually, the greatest performers in their respective fields
feel the same way.  I believe Steven Spielberg has mentioned
that he STILL feels a bit of fear every time he gets on set
to direct a movie. He also feels that this is a GOOD sign
that the movie will turn out right.

Great fighters often will tell you that it is not true that they
have NO FEAR, it is just that they have learned to USE
their fears.

Similarly, a QUALITY WOMAN is the kind of woman
who APPRECIATES a GOOD MAN so much, that she
has just a BIT of FEAR inside her regarding wanting to
NOT SCREW THINGS UP WITH THIS GOOD MAN,
which makes her VERY ALERT TO BEHAVING PROPERLY.

Now how many attractive women like this are there out there?    

They do exist, and you ABSOLUTELY CAN find them with
persistence and know-how, but the answer to the question is
that these kinds of women are VERY RARE. 

This is because things like morality, family, long-term thinking,
dedication, and sensitivity are not as popular as promiscuity,
selfishness, and thinking only about the short-term.

There are very few men and women who really CARE
ABOUT THIS STUFF.

So, as SOON as you detect a woman is a little TOO
CONFIDENT around you, I suggest you get the heck
OUT of that situation. (Obviously if you are married
or have kids with this woman or if you have been
together for a long time, I would suggest you try
to fix the situation first.)

I don’t mean to say that a woman should be shivering
around you in fear.

What I DO mean is, that the same way YOU would
not want to screw things up with a great woman,
so too SHE should show some signs of this caution
as well.

Here’s something else I need to tell you:

THE MOMENT YOU START PAYING ATTENTION
TO THIS STUFF, AND TRYING TO PUSH THE
WRONG WOMEN AWAY, THESE SAME WRONG
WOMEN WILL TRY HARD TO WIN YOU BACK
BUT YOU SHOULD IGNORE IT.

The REAL TRUTH is that most people, both men and
women, KNOW when they are mistreating someone,
but CORRUPTION sets in when there is too much
power, and those who are corrupted will try to
PUSH THEIR LUCK AS FAR AS THEY CAN.

So, with women who are spoiled, they will PUSH
THEIR LUCK AS FAR AS THEY CAN, and
when YOU call them on their CRAPPY BEHAVIOR,
especially if you do this with TOTAL CONFIDENCE
and with TOTALLY BEING PREPARED TO WALK
AWAY, they will SUDDENLY FEEL A VACUUM
IN THEIR LIFE-FORCE.

Suddenly, such a woman, for the first time in her LIFE,
is being told in no uncertain terms that she is behaving
in a WRONG WAY, by a man who has NO FEAR in leaving her.

This is FRIGHTENING for a spoiled woman, and
it also TEMPORARILY sets her BACK ON THE
PATH OF DECENCY.

She will then TRY TO APOLOGIZE OR GET
YOU BACK IN SOME OTHER WAY.

To all this, I say SCREW IT, DON’T GO THERE,
AND GET THE HECK AWAY, unless she did something
SUPER MINOR that cannot be considered an insult,
and even then, you should still call her on it.

So many men, they take my materials, they use them
only a DROP, and they see how women IMPROVE,
but they don’t take my FULL ADVICE, which is
to F-ING FORGET THESE WOMEN and move
on IMMEDIATELY to BETTER WOMEN.

When I talk about BEING THE MAN and not
taking B.S. from women, I really MEAN IT,
it is not some TEMPORARY TACTIC just
to get a woman into bed.  If you use it as a
TACTIC and are somehow willing to sleep
with a woman  just because calling her on
her b.s. was enough to get her to have sex
with you, you still haven’t learned the
BIGGER LESSON, which is that this is
not about tricks to get women into bed,
it’s about STAYING AWAY FROM THE
WRONG WOMEN, and MAKING YOUR
MIND STRONG to not get involved with
the WRONG women.

Just because you CAN get a woman who is
attractive into bed does not mean you SHOULD.
You will lose your CONVICTION AND DEEP
SEATED BELIEF in the VALUE of only being
with quality, trustworthy, decent women if you
allow yourself to also be in the circle of corrupt
women.

And then, when you lose your INNER GAME
In this sense, you lose EVERYTHING, including
your ability to even get the selfish and corrupt
women.

So, to get back to the main point, you WANT
a woman who indeed has just a bit of fear
around you in the sense that she does not
want to SCREW THINGS UP.

She does not and should not feel this fear
ALL THE TIME, and it should not be
overwhelming, but she MUST have some
of this fear, or the relationship WILL be
headed for DESTRUCTION.

Now, even a good woman is human, and she might
do something super MINOR, and in those situations,
you should just call her on her behavior, tell
her it was wrong, and she should immediately
improve permanently on that issue.  If she
does not, then she is not a quality woman
and you should leave her.

Next:  

TWO: FAITHFULNESS IS ABOUT MAKING
THE CHOICE

There are endless debates about whether it is
possible or natural for a man and woman to
be faithful to each other for life.

The truth is, on one hand, it is NOT natural.
We will always feel SOME attraction to
gorgeous members of the opposite sex,
no matter how much we love and are
attracted to the person we are with.

On the other hand, it IS natural, in the same
sense that human beings have succeeded in
doing all kinds of challenging things.

So, for example, plumbing and toilets are NOT
natural. Should we, therefore, crap on the floor?

Instead, human beings make the CHOICE to
elevate themselves, through philosophy, through
science, through spirituality, and through discipline,
to IMPROVE THEIR LIVES.

Going to the MOON is not natural, but most
people would argue that human beings exploring
space is something that human civilization
SHOULD do.

And to really focus in on the issue of faithfulness,
there really is one key question, which is HOW
to do it, right?

And the answer to the HOW is simple:

One makes the CHOICE.

If you want to become a DOCTOR, you are
going to have to do a lot of studying.  More
studying than might feel “natural”.

But if one makes the CHOICE to become a
doctor, they ACCEPT all the studying they
will have to do, and suddenly it no longer feels
like a BURDEN, but rather a way of LIFE
that is meaningful.

It is the same thing with FAITHFULNESS
and monogamy.

I’m not telling anyone they shouldn’t date
more than one woman, and I’m not telling
any woman they shouldn’t date more than
one man.

What I AM saying is that if you are already
the kind of man who knows HE can be faithful
to one woman, you need to meet a woman who
already has made the CONSCIOUS CHOICE
to live a life of faithfulness.

If she has never thought about these things,
you should NOT date her.  You CANNOT
make someone faithful or feel that fidelity
is right for them. 

Instead, THEY MUST MAKE THAT CHOICE
LONG BEFORE THEY EVEN MET YOU.

It has to be the way they APPROACH the
whole CONCEPT. 

A woman should make it clear to you
through conversation and through actions
that she has already made that choice.

This concept goes back to the concept of
EXISTENTIALISM, which in a nutshell
means that an individual can DEFINE his
own reality by CHOOSING what meaning
he gives to his own reality or situation.

Faithfulness can be looked at as a burden,
or it can be looked at as a special act of love,
a joyful form of giving, a reflection of  one’s
character, and a constantly growing bond
between a man and a woman.

But you can’t go around trying to TEACH
a woman any of this. She must already BE
that woman.

If you have any questions, I do have a personal
consultation service, and I do have the most
powerful programs on the planet for helping
you meet and attract a quality woman.

Consultations are at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

A catalogue with all my special programs for
meeting and attracting quality women is at: 

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks