Sometimes The Best Costs More

There are a few things that I think you’d
like to know when it comes to getting the
best knowledge on self-improvement, on
attracting women, and on getting the kind
of quality woman that would make for
a fantastic girlfriend.

Honesty and integrity are hard things to find.
In fact, when it comes to really important  
things, most people agree that there should
be certain laws, a certain amount of
REGULATION.

So, for example, doctors are not allowed to
turn their practices into typical businesses
with things like “SALE WEEK, ALL
SERVICES 20% OFF!” or anything like
that.

The reason is because we want to prevent
a deterioration of services, where everything
becomes about who is the cheapest, or who
is the best at marketing or fooling people, and
it is no longer about who is truly serving
people’s needs the best.

If you remember the movie ROBOCOP,
the POLICE force became a business,
it was privatized into a corporate entity,
and we can see how dangerous that would
be as well.

CORRUPTION sets into any human endeavor
whenever it CAN.

There needs to be RULES in order to
keep corruption in check.

Everything in life has RULES.
Without it, there is total chaos
and corruption.

When it comes to the FINANCIAL
SYSTEM, we can now see how horrifying
of a mistake it was to allow so many of the
various players in that system to be
SELF-REGULATED, as it is kind of like
allowing DRACULA to be the one to
regulate the RED CROSS.

There was no REAL regulating power to
keep corruption in check.

The bottom line is, BUSINESS is not always
the same as HELPING PEOPLE.

Have you noticed that things don't tend to
LAST AS LONG as they used to, when it comes
to many, many things you purchase?

This is because companies figured out that
CHEAP is the way to go, since most people
won't KNOW how poor the quality is till
it's too late after they bought whatever
it is they bought.

A long time ago, things were made of the
highest quality, ironically, because there
was LESS competition so a GOOD company didn't
have to worry about a competitor creating a
CHEAPER but INFERIOR version, which ends
up creating a RACE TO THE BOTTOM to see
who can create the crappier product for
CHEAPER in order to win the customer
who was ignorant to how inferior it was.  

BUSINESS is about MAKING MONEY.

HELPING PEOPLE is about HELPING PEOPLE,
but being paid FAIRLY for it so that the person
providing the help is still motivated to help rather
than go starving because he or she is helping
people.

Okay, so when it comes to the DATING ADVICE
field, there is basically ZERO REGULATION.

So, all the most shady business practices that can apply
to any other business most definitely apply to the
dating advice field as well.  Strategies like half-truths,
misleading video footage, misleading articles,
manipulative tactics, and preying on those who are
IGNORANT runs rampant.

Trust me, if I cared only about making money I
would be engaging in all the same tactics that
you see out there, from misleading video footage
of pick-ups, to half-truths mixed with lots of
lies, to endless talk about how every day is
somehow the “last day” to get some product of
mine at some “low” price.

I don’t engage in that manipulative b.s.
My programs have pretty much stayed at the same
prices since day one. 

My personal coaching programs stayed at the same
price for a long time, but because my time is extremely
valuable and because of supply and demand, I have
had no choice but to raise the cost of my one-on-one
personal consultations or I would be doing nothing
but consultations, and I actually have other commitments
that I need to give my time toward as well. 

And I gave a long advance notice of this, possibly
a year or two ago, that my live programs would go up,
but that this was not some “sales” tactic or “scare” tactic.  
It was a genuine advance warning for anyone who wanted
To get the benefit of those services while they were still
at the same price.

It is important to also realize that I started helping men
in this field long before it became trendy.  My first book
came out in 2003, and I was being covered in the news
and media long before the vast, vast, vaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaast
majority of any dating coaches out there.  It was
also long before the book “The Game” was ever
even published.
 
What this should signify to you is that this field
is something that  I naturally gravitated toward
because it was my passion, it was not something
that I saw everyone else doing, and it was not that
I thought it would be some type of thing to mimic
for sh*ts and giggles.

The bottom line is this: I don’t engage in the
manipulative b.s.  because I don’t care for it,
I would rather focus on being the BEST.

But not everyone out there can appreciate the
difference between the best and the mediocre.   
It takes some KNOWLEDGE in the first place
to even be able to TELL.  

To a starving person, a Mickey Dee’s CHEESEBURGER
is just as good as a STEAK.

And I understand that most guys are so starving
when it comes to how to be successful with women,
they go for the CHEESEBURGER advice thinking
it is the greatest thing on earth.

So rather than selling a BILLION cheeseburgers,
I instead sell GRADE A STEAKS.

I don’t sell a billion cheeseburgers.
I don’t have 'over one billion served'.
I only sell the best, to people who can TELL
the difference.

And that’s just a small group of people, to be honest.
And for that reason, I need to charge more, because
I am only dealing with the BEST.

I don't sell a TON.
I sell the BEST quality.

A Rolls Royce will cost more than your average car,
but if you can afford it, you will see it is better.

My time is valuable, and there is nobody out there
offering the same quality of my live coaching
programs, including my personal consultations.

Many years of my life went into mastering this
knowledge, and getting the personal private
coaching from me indeed will cost you more
than getting the coaching from some guy
who is trying to imitate me.

If you can’t buy my live coaching programs right
now, you can always get my home study programs,
and if that is also beyond your reach at the moment,
you can always keep on reading my free newsletters,
which tend to contain more golden advice than all
the programs of all my competitors combined.

If you are ready for PERSONAL LIVE COACHING
directly from me to help you with whatever
challenge you are facing when it comes to
dating and relationships, go HERE:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

And if you are ready to get the best home-study programs
on the PLANET for attracting the best WOMEN on the
planet, go HERE immediately:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Want Women To Treat You Well? Read This NOW.

If you are ready for the truth, you are about to get a BOAT LOAD of it regarding women, dating, and relationships.

ONE: A Bit Of FEAR Is Required

What I mean by this, is that in ANY situation where
someone VALUES something, there is a bit of
FEAR regarding losing that thing.

Anyone who tells you otherwise is full of crap.

Even great martial artists have SOME fear in them,
but they learn to HARNESS their fear and use it
to their advantage.

A bit of FEAR regarding being IMMORAL is a
DRIVING force for EXCELLENCE and prevents
CORRUPTION as well. (In ALL areas of life,
not just in dating.)

Similarly, if a woman has ZERO FEAR of losing you,
if she feels SOOOOOOOO at ease around you that she
feels NOTHING could possibly be bad about LOSING
you, she is going to be a HORRIBLE GIRLFRIEND
OR WIFE.

There NEEDS to be a bit of fear to keep the human
traits of WEAKNESS, LAZINESS, and COMPLACENCY
at bay.

Usually, the greatest performers in their respective fields
feel the same way.  I believe Steven Spielberg has mentioned
that he STILL feels a bit of fear every time he gets on set
to direct a movie. He also feels that this is a GOOD sign
that the movie will turn out right.

Great fighters often will tell you that it is not true that they
have NO FEAR, it is just that they have learned to USE
their fears.

Similarly, a QUALITY WOMAN is the kind of woman
who APPRECIATES a GOOD MAN so much, that she
has just a BIT of FEAR inside her regarding wanting to
NOT SCREW THINGS UP WITH THIS GOOD MAN,
which makes her VERY ALERT TO BEHAVING PROPERLY.

Now how many attractive women like this are there out there?    

They do exist, and you ABSOLUTELY CAN find them with
persistence and know-how, but the answer to the question is
that these kinds of women are VERY RARE. 

This is because things like morality, family, long-term thinking,
dedication, and sensitivity are not as popular as promiscuity,
selfishness, and thinking only about the short-term.

There are very few men and women who really CARE
ABOUT THIS STUFF.

So, as SOON as you detect a woman is a little TOO
CONFIDENT around you, I suggest you get the heck
OUT of that situation. (Obviously if you are married
or have kids with this woman or if you have been
together for a long time, I would suggest you try
to fix the situation first.)

I don’t mean to say that a woman should be shivering
around you in fear.

What I DO mean is, that the same way YOU would
not want to screw things up with a great woman,
so too SHE should show some signs of this caution
as well.

Here’s something else I need to tell you:

THE MOMENT YOU START PAYING ATTENTION
TO THIS STUFF, AND TRYING TO PUSH THE
WRONG WOMEN AWAY, THESE SAME WRONG
WOMEN WILL TRY HARD TO WIN YOU BACK
BUT YOU SHOULD IGNORE IT.

The REAL TRUTH is that most people, both men and
women, KNOW when they are mistreating someone,
but CORRUPTION sets in when there is too much
power, and those who are corrupted will try to
PUSH THEIR LUCK AS FAR AS THEY CAN.

So, with women who are spoiled, they will PUSH
THEIR LUCK AS FAR AS THEY CAN, and
when YOU call them on their CRAPPY BEHAVIOR,
especially if you do this with TOTAL CONFIDENCE
and with TOTALLY BEING PREPARED TO WALK
AWAY, they will SUDDENLY FEEL A VACUUM
IN THEIR LIFE-FORCE.

Suddenly, such a woman, for the first time in her LIFE,
is being told in no uncertain terms that she is behaving
in a WRONG WAY, by a man who has NO FEAR in leaving her.

This is FRIGHTENING for a spoiled woman, and
it also TEMPORARILY sets her BACK ON THE
PATH OF DECENCY.

She will then TRY TO APOLOGIZE OR GET
YOU BACK IN SOME OTHER WAY.

To all this, I say SCREW IT, DON’T GO THERE,
AND GET THE HECK AWAY, unless she did something
SUPER MINOR that cannot be considered an insult,
and even then, you should still call her on it.

So many men, they take my materials, they use them
only a DROP, and they see how women IMPROVE,
but they don’t take my FULL ADVICE, which is
to F-ING FORGET THESE WOMEN and move
on IMMEDIATELY to BETTER WOMEN.

When I talk about BEING THE MAN and not
taking B.S. from women, I really MEAN IT,
it is not some TEMPORARY TACTIC just
to get a woman into bed.  If you use it as a
TACTIC and are somehow willing to sleep
with a woman  just because calling her on
her b.s. was enough to get her to have sex
with you, you still haven’t learned the
BIGGER LESSON, which is that this is
not about tricks to get women into bed,
it’s about STAYING AWAY FROM THE
WRONG WOMEN, and MAKING YOUR
MIND STRONG to not get involved with
the WRONG women.

Just because you CAN get a woman who is
attractive into bed does not mean you SHOULD.
You will lose your CONVICTION AND DEEP
SEATED BELIEF in the VALUE of only being
with quality, trustworthy, decent women if you
allow yourself to also be in the circle of corrupt
women.

And then, when you lose your INNER GAME
In this sense, you lose EVERYTHING, including
your ability to even get the selfish and corrupt
women.

So, to get back to the main point, you WANT
a woman who indeed has just a bit of fear
around you in the sense that she does not
want to SCREW THINGS UP.

She does not and should not feel this fear
ALL THE TIME, and it should not be
overwhelming, but she MUST have some
of this fear, or the relationship WILL be
headed for DESTRUCTION.

Now, even a good woman is human, and she might
do something super MINOR, and in those situations,
you should just call her on her behavior, tell
her it was wrong, and she should immediately
improve permanently on that issue.  If she
does not, then she is not a quality woman
and you should leave her.

Next:  

TWO: FAITHFULNESS IS ABOUT MAKING
THE CHOICE

There are endless debates about whether it is
possible or natural for a man and woman to
be faithful to each other for life.

The truth is, on one hand, it is NOT natural.
We will always feel SOME attraction to
gorgeous members of the opposite sex,
no matter how much we love and are
attracted to the person we are with.

On the other hand, it IS natural, in the same
sense that human beings have succeeded in
doing all kinds of challenging things.

So, for example, plumbing and toilets are NOT
natural. Should we, therefore, crap on the floor?

Instead, human beings make the CHOICE to
elevate themselves, through philosophy, through
science, through spirituality, and through discipline,
to IMPROVE THEIR LIVES.

Going to the MOON is not natural, but most
people would argue that human beings exploring
space is something that human civilization
SHOULD do.

And to really focus in on the issue of faithfulness,
there really is one key question, which is HOW
to do it, right?

And the answer to the HOW is simple:

One makes the CHOICE.

If you want to become a DOCTOR, you are
going to have to do a lot of studying.  More
studying than might feel “natural”.

But if one makes the CHOICE to become a
doctor, they ACCEPT all the studying they
will have to do, and suddenly it no longer feels
like a BURDEN, but rather a way of LIFE
that is meaningful.

It is the same thing with FAITHFULNESS
and monogamy.

I’m not telling anyone they shouldn’t date
more than one woman, and I’m not telling
any woman they shouldn’t date more than
one man.

What I AM saying is that if you are already
the kind of man who knows HE can be faithful
to one woman, you need to meet a woman who
already has made the CONSCIOUS CHOICE
to live a life of faithfulness.

If she has never thought about these things,
you should NOT date her.  You CANNOT
make someone faithful or feel that fidelity
is right for them. 

Instead, THEY MUST MAKE THAT CHOICE
LONG BEFORE THEY EVEN MET YOU.

It has to be the way they APPROACH the
whole CONCEPT. 

A woman should make it clear to you
through conversation and through actions
that she has already made that choice.

This concept goes back to the concept of
EXISTENTIALISM, which in a nutshell
means that an individual can DEFINE his
own reality by CHOOSING what meaning
he gives to his own reality or situation.

Faithfulness can be looked at as a burden,
or it can be looked at as a special act of love,
a joyful form of giving, a reflection of  one’s
character, and a constantly growing bond
between a man and a woman.

But you can’t go around trying to TEACH
a woman any of this. She must already BE
that woman.

If you have any questions, I do have a personal
consultation service, and I do have the most
powerful programs on the planet for helping
you meet and attract a quality woman.

Consultations are at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

A catalogue with all my special programs for
meeting and attracting quality women is at: 

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks