EXPRESS Route To The Woman You Want

During this time of year, a lot of men are looking forward to enjoying the holidays, having time off, and being with friends. But we all know that being with an awesome woman makes the whole thing BETTER.   

And because of that, this can also be a very TOUGH time of year as well, because if things are NOT going that great in the "meeting women/dating/relationship" part, the contrast between the ideal expectations, the surrounding environment, and one’s actual reality feels HORRIBLE. 

I want to CHANGE all that, and I KNOW I CAN.

If you want to the EXPRESS ROUTE to success in getting the kind of woman you really WANT, a bootcamp with me or a personal consultation with me is the way to go, because it allows me to FOCUS on your EXACT NEEDS, your EXACT SITUATION, and give you a CUSTOMIZED response that WORKS BEST for YOU.  

This is about SPEED in getting you RESULTS.
 

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No two guys are exactly the same, they have different strengths and weaknesses, different goals, different challenges, and in a consultation with me, I take EVERYTHING into account and give you the absolute BEST solutions so that you get yourself the kind of woman you WANT.

I’ve been helping guys get QUALITY WOMEN for over 13 YEARS, solving just about EVERY PROBLEM YOU CAN IMAGINE, and I will help YOU get the kind of woman you want as well.  

Is it an “inner game” issue? I will make your inner game ROCK SOLID.

Is it about the initial approach? How to get a woman warmed up, giggly, in those first few seconds? I’ve GOT YOU COVERED there too.

Is it about how to build up the connection so that it’s DEEPER than she’s ever had with any other guy in her LIFE? I’ve got you covered there too.

Is it a relationship issue? I’ve helped HUNDREDS of men recover from screw-ups in the relationship where they almost LOST the woman, but got her BACK thanks to the consultations they took from me.

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A private consultation can be in person, but it is usually over the phone, since it is the fastest way for most people around the world to get in touch with me. Over the phone, we will discuss the details of your situation, and I will give you absolute BEST solutions.

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I look forward to giving you the SOLUTIONS and ANSWERS to GET YOU THE KIND OF WOMAN YOU WANT, FAST. 

How fast? You can take what you learn from me and start meeting and attracting the right women IMMEDIATELY.

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Michael Marks

The Most Important Quality To Find In A Woman These Days

I want to address a really important question today regarding whether or not you can trust a woman with other men who she claims are "PLATONIC" friends. 

First of all, if the woman is attractive, then let's just call a spade a spade and not engage in this insane politically-correct culture that pretends there is no such thing as instinctive male sexual drive. 

If she is attractive, then most men WILL feel sexually attracted to her, and it WILL cloud the minds of most men.  So there is no such thing as a purely platonic friendship, certainly, when the woman is attractive- the guy DOES feel chemistry for her, but this does not mean he can't be in control of himself, of course.  But it's not PLATONIC. 

The real question here, though, is, can you trust your girlfriend or wife?

The answer to this question really boils down to ONE thing- how RESPONSIBLE of a person is she in general? And in particular, how responsible of a person is she regarding the RELATIONSHIP?

And today, more than ever, unfortunately, many, many women have SHIRKED off responsibility for their behaviors, especially in terms of how to treat other men, due to the influence of third-wave feminism.

I first started to notice this about 15 years ago in nightclubs and college campus pub-nights. Even though I never drank myself, I would notice almost IMMEDIATELY as soon as a conversation was going well with a woman I was chatting up, she would start DRINKING more. 

 














I didn’t realize why this was, as I was still pretty clueless about some things back then, but eventually I learned that what was happening was that many women are extremely promiscuous, but at the same time they don’t want to PERCEIVE THEMSELVES as promiscuous.  

So, by getting THEMSELVES drunk, they are in effect getting RID of their ABILITY to make decisions, and also offering themselves a RATIONALIZATION for whatever happens later, so the next morning they can always feel like it wasn’t really them who did whatever it was they did.

This is just one reason why I am not a fan of picking up women in clubs or pubs or anywhere else where they may be drunk. But my main point here is how this is an example of SHIRKING responsibility.

Similarly, over the years, being in this field, I have heard all kinds of INSANE things, such as women saying things like if they cheated while on vacation, “It doesn’t count”, or that sleeping with ten guys while on vacation “doesn’t count”.

Also, the ENDLESS TIDAL WAVE of blaming MEN for everything - for example, when a woman says that she dated TEN ABUSIVE MEN in a row, you have to wonder why she couldn’t find anyone ELSE.  Was there perhaps something about those guys- were those guys cool, wealthy, powerful, or some other attractive trait, that these women have to take some responsibility for fully KNOWING what they were getting into but thinking it was worth it?

GROSSLY exaggerated claims of abuse, such as that one in four women on college campuses in the US are victims of rape, which went UNCONTESTED FOR YEARS, have recently been PROVEN as TOTALLY FALSE to the MIND-BOGGLING degree of CLARITY that NO ONE, not even THE MOST EXTREME FEMINISTS, can ARGUE with the recent REFUTATIONS to those claims.

It’s also interesting that some of the most famous feminists who claimed they just wanted equality between men and women, who claimed that the PERFECT relationship between men and women were ones where the men and women were EQUAL in status and power, ended up marrying men who were INFINITELY MORE FINANCIALLY POWERFUL than them, such as Jane Fonda who married Ted Turner.

 









So with their MOUTHS they SAY things, but they aren’t being RESPONSIBLE about those things.

So, it is in THIS light, in THIS context, that I tend to be very SKEPTICAL about some women who say they are hanging out with some guy who is "just a friend".

It’s NOT because it is IMPOSSIBLE for men and women to be friends.

It is because we are living in a time when women are told they don’t have to be RESPONSIBLE for their behaviors- they can just blame anything that happens on the guy.

So if the woman was in a relationship, and hanging out with some guy for coffee or a dinner or whatever, and that guy started making moves on her, what kind of CULTURE do we live in? 

We live in one where it is EASY for the woman to start SHIRKING responsibility, to start BLAMING her boyfriend for not being good enough, for being too good or too nice, for being WHATEVER excuse she wants in order to cheat and not have to take RESPONSIBILITY FOR IT.

It is WRONG for any man to abuse a woman, and we live in a society in the western world that KNOWS this, and AGREES with it, and it is ILLEGAL.

However, if a woman hits a man, if a woman is verbally abusive to a man, if a woman cheats on a man, what we tend to hear are ENDLESS excuses, endless rationalizations, endless SYMPATHY and EMPATHY for the woman.

For example, when Arnold Schwarzenegger was found to have cheated on his wife with the maid, which was wrong to do to his wife, the INSTINCT of most people was to hate on him, but what is so BIZARRE is that NO ONE mentioned the MAID HERSELF!!!!   

Somehow, she got off as PERFECTLY INNOCENT, as if she was FORCED to do all this.  

It is as if the culture was saying, "There IS NOOOOOOOOO WAYYYYYYYYY that she was anything other than TOTALLY INNOCENT, and there is NOOOOOOOOO WAYYY that she was trying to BENEFIT from being with one of the most successful men in Hollywood and American politics, EVER. Nooooooooooooo, it’s only ARNIE who is the absolute villain here."

Do you see what I am getting at?

A society where WOMEN are simply NOT held to the same degree of RESPONSIBILITY for their BEHAVIORS as men are, all thanks to third-wave feminism.

Also, it is interesting how many women end up with BAD BOYS, women who have all the choices in the world. For example, Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee. And just about EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THE KARDASHIANS.  And if you have enough experience dating, you’ve probably seen plenty of this as well in your own environment.

So, men are supposed to behave NICE to women, when being overly nice does not work, but when women are mistreated by bad boys, it’s not the WOMEN who are told by feminism to learn a lesson, nope- it’s the EVIL MEN who must change, when in reality most of the guys who are super-sensitive and nice to women end up getting taken advantage of.

So, in a society like THIS, yes I believe you have to be damn careful in your screening process with women, and in not being naïve. We are living in a culture where women simply aren’t put to the same level of MORAL RESPONSIBILITY towards the SAFEGUARDING of a relationship as MEN are. 

I have been saying FOR MANY YEARS that OF COURSE I believe in fairness, and women being treated right, and women being astronauts, doctors, or whatever they want is awesome.  

What I have a problem with is a MORAL DECAY that results from third-wave feminism preaching a DOUBLE STANDARD, and most of all, preaching LIES.


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And what this means is that if you want a long-term relationship with a woman, you must screen for a woman who is AWARE of this VERY issue, and who is RUTHLESS in her vigor to SAFEGUARD the integrity of the relationship by actually being RESPONSIBLE in her actions and decision-making.

Once you are with a woman like that, then not only CAN you let her do what she wants, but you in fact SHOULD trust her, as when trust is earned, and trust is then given as a result, she will feel no desire or need to RUIN it, and in fact will cherish what she has with you.

Now, there ARE some great women today, who have great senses of responsibility, and honestly, to me, a woman like this is a TRUE "Wonder Woman"- because it takes incredible STRENGTH to STAND UP to the SOCIAL PRESSURE of a society gone MAD. 

There is an old quote: "A woman of valor, who can find?" What is interesting here is that the word VALOR denotes noble character, but it especially notes COURAGE as well.  It takes COURAGE for a woman to STAND UP up for good values when society's values are corroding into chaos all around her. 


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If you would like to learn more about success with women and relationships, or if you have a specific issue that you need solved, you can now arrange a personal consultation with me.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Creating The Flirty Vibe With Women

One of the big things in making an approach
WORK when you are trying to attract a woman
is to switch the vibe of the interaction
from PROPER SOCIAL CONVENTION to a more
FLIRTY, playful, naughty, and sexual vibe.

Now, don't get me wrong- the FIRST skill
is to simply learn how to approach in a smooth
way, where the very act of STARTING the
conversation with a woman who is a total
stranger, does not seem weird.

I have written several posts about that
topic but today I want to focus on
CREATING THE VIBE.

Formal, proper, official social convention
is not a bad thing- for when you are just
going about your everyday business, but
when you are trying to attract a woman
you have to help her get OUT of that
formal, official, non-sexual, non-flirty
state of mind, or it's too easy for her
to simply not even SEE you in the context
of being a man she is sexually interested in.

One of the BEST ways to accomplish the
transition from formal to sexual is to
FIRST go into playful in a very specific
way-the way of displaying more PRIMAL
behavior but in a measured, playful way.

To be more specific, I'm talking about
displaying more SELFISH behavior, ironically,
but again, in a playful way.

The reason this works, is because sex is
actually not all about politeness, it is
about MUTUAL PLEASURE, and it is about
having fun, and taking, and it is primal,
carnal, and selfish to an extent.

This applies to both men and women.
It's not a polite thing, it's a PRIMAL thing.

So, it HELPS a woman enter that state of
mind if YOU lead the way first.  If YOU
show some more indulgence in FUN and in
breaking social convention, and in doing
what you WANT, it helps HER feel comfortable
about letting her guard down as well.

So, for example, let's say you are texting
a woman, and she is in a library, and she
texts you back saying she is going to call
you in ten minutes because she doesn't want
to disturb others in the library, you
might playfully write back that being banned
from the library is a small price to pay
for the pleasure of being with you.

She will know you're joking, but at the same
time you are displaying SELFISH behavior,
you are clearly putting your needs first,
all of which shows you are 'a male animal'
plus you are being sexual, and you are showing
confidence, which helps make her feel comfortable
being a female sexual animal.

I'm one of the most polite people on the planet,
and I also understand that there is a time for
it and a time to put it away or to temper it,
when you are trying to transition things to
a more sexual level with a woman.

The sex drive is not a modern development,
it is the oldest part of our brains, it is
PRIMAL. It is not triggered by appealing to
logic and the more modern developments of
the brain. 

It is triggered by appealing the OLDEST
and most PRIMITIVE part of the mind.

So in one move, you are doing all the right
things- and you are helping her to feel more
comfortable abandoning social convention rules
to be all prim and proper and to indulge in
some selfish pleasure.

This is part of the reason "bad boys"
do well with women- it's because women
are brought up with competing ideologies,
on one hand, they watch Disney movies where
they are all innocent, and on the other hand
they have all the same primal drives that men
do (albeit in a different manifestation but
with equal intensity to men's drives) and
bad boys help women feel free to be as
'bad' as they want in a sexual way.

Of course, there is nothing 'bad' about
the sex drive anyway, but because of social
conditioning, there will always be this
benefit to those men who understand how to
pour on a little bad-boy behavior into their
communication.  There is no need to go overboard
and be a jerk or get arrested.

The trick to doing all this correctly is
to calibrate properly.  Go too far, and you
will freak her out, do too little and you
don't make an impact. A good rule of thumb
is push the envelope just a bit. 

And also, remember that this is not just about
being selfish, it's also about pouring on the
PARTY vibe- the emotional state that is all about
having fun, letting go, and not thinking too much.

This used to be the hardest thing for me to do,
to let go of thinking and just have fun, and to
just enjoy the moment- the irony is that attracting
women has to do with actually LETING GO of so many
things that stop us, as opposed to having to learn
SPECIAL TACTICS.

In other words, we are already equipped with the
know-how on how to approach women and attract
women, we've just repressed these instincts through
social conditioning.

If you want to learn the skills of how to approach
women anywhere and how to attract them, I seriously
suggest you take my live bootcamp program because
in bootcamp, you will SEE exactly what it all looks
like, sounds like, feels like, IN PERSON.

The benefit of bootcamp with me is that I have spent
over ten years learning how to CALIBRATE the various
elements of a successful interaction, and I can SHOW
you this by demonstration on real women, and plus
my experience will also allow me to remove any
issues in your approaches since I will see exactly
where you may be going off track and I can teach
you exactly what to do to fix the issue.

Learning these skills is like learning how to drive.
There are MANY aspects to a successful interaction,
just like there are many aspects to driving.

When you first learn to drive, it all seems overwhelming-
checking surounding traffic, the guages, your mirrors,
how much pressure to apply to the accelerator and the
brake, how to park, etc., but then after a while, it
all seems instinctive.

It's similar with attracting and approaching women.

You have to know how to guage the situation, how
much dominance, humor, sexuality, rapport, etc,
to pour on, and when to ease up. You have to
develop the ability to react quickly, because
so often when approaching a woman who is a
stranger, you only get one chance to do it right,
and so when a challenge in the conversation comes
up, you need to solve it immediately.

I can teach you these skills, and how to get great
at these skills.

And make no mistake about it- without learning
these skills, you are at a SERIOUS disadvantage
when it comes to meeting and attracting women-
you are forced to rely on OTHER people to hopefully
introduce you to some women, which almost NEVER
works out, or you are forced to rely on online dating,
which has really become worse than it used to be,
and where all you have to represent yourself is
an online profile instead of your REAL, live, self.

These days, if you are a man, you MUST learn
these skills to have a real sense of CHOICE
when it comes to women.

With these skills, you can meet and attract
more women in one day than most men
will attract in their entire LIVES. This might
sound crazy, but it is the absolute truth,
and it's one of those things that you want
to learn as EARLY in your life as you can.

Personally, I wish I had learned these skills
when I was in high school, but I sure am glad that
I learned them, and it's NEVER TOO LATE to
learn these skills, it's just better to learn them
as soon as possible.
 
My bootcamp program is at:

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Using Tonality to Attract Women, And An Important New Film About Dating And Finding A Quality Woman In Today's Society

Today is an extremely important newsletter.
The first part deals with one of the most
POWERFUL things you can do to INSTANTLY
skyrocket your attractive presence to women,
and the second part of this newsletter deals
with an important project I’ve been working
on regarding meeting, attracting, and keeping
the kind of woman who would make for a loyal,
loving, and supportive girlfriend or wife.

PART ONE: VOCAL FREQUENCY

Several years ago, I was invited to speak to
a group of hundreds of men who had come
from all over the world and who had taken
an entire week out of their lives to spend
from morning to late at night IMMERSED
in learning how to truly improve themselves
when it comes to meeting, attracting, and
keeping the kind of woman that is beautiful
inside and out.

I could have started with any one of hundreds
of different strategies, but I decided to give
the men the biggest bang for their buck, so
to speak, by focusing on one thing that will
give MASSIVE and IMMEDIATE results
without having to spend a TON of time learning
how to do it properly.

It was about using your VOICE effectively.
I gave a simple exercise for the group:

Say the following sentence, each time
DIFFERENTLY, to emphasize different
emotions in your voice.

That simple sentence was:

THE APPLE IS RED.

A had volunteers come up and demonstrate this
in front of the entire group.

One time, the goal was to say the sentence in
a way that conveyed SENSUALITY.

So, when uttered to convey SENSUALITY,
the sentence was delivered SLOWLY, almost
OOOZING out of the lips, and it was BREATHY,
you could HEAR THE BREATH, the breathing,

“The-hhhhhhhhhh ahhhhhplehhhhhh isssssssssssss
rhhhhhhhhhhhhhhheeeeeed”.

Another time, the sentence had to be delivered
conveying an UPBEAT tonality.

The APPLE is RED!

Another time, the sentence had to be delivered
conveying pure CONFIDENCE.

The APPLE is RED.

This exercise continued in this fashion, with the
volunteers and the GROUP practicing in real time,
the whole exercise being done in just a few MINUTES.

Then, for the next step, the goal was to COMBINE
emotions that had to be conveyed in the tonality.

The goal was to say the sentence in a way that was
BREATHY-SENSUAL, CONFIDENT, AND DOMINANT.

Suddenly, the sentence didn’t FEEL like
“The apple is red”. It may have been those WORDS,
but it FELT like it was the kind of thing that belonged
in the BEDROOM.

The truth is, if you approach a woman and use this
strategy, you could ask for something as banal as
THE TIME and it will have a MASSIVE POSITIVE
EFFECT, but if you also COMBINE this with actually
ALSO understanding the OTHER things I also teach
you, you will be UNSTOPPABLE.

One of the coolest things about being in this field,
is that I have gotten to know some amazing people,
and thanks to one of those people, I can now also
BACK THIS UP with some SERIOUS research-
in other words, I had observed this from my OWN
years of actually doing this in person, but there
now exists TONS of evidence for what I have
been teaching as well. Thanks to a very cool guy
I know, you can now see the EVIDENCE for
yourselves, you can check out the articles

if you like. 

One is titled Charismatic Speakers Manipulate

Their Vocal Frequency, by Melissa Hogenboom,

Science reporter, BBC News, which in itself

references earlier research,  and that article

was called Voice Pitch Influences Voting Behavior,

by Cara C. Tigue, Diana J. Borak, Jillian J.M. O'Connor,
Charles Schandl, David R. Feinberg, Department of Psychology,
Neuroscience, and Behaviour, McMaster University.

Why do I mention these details?

Because I think it’s important to have

BOATLOADS of SOLID EVIDENCE,

rather than "fluff" and other b.s. that does 

not employ the scientific method.

The take-away for you, when it comes to
approaching women, is to learn to USE your
voice in different ways, and this does not mean
to try to act like you sound like Darth Vader
in order to sound masculine, it means that you
are able to CONVEY the different emotions
in your voice.

There is a TIME to sound GENTLE.
There is a TIME to sound DOMINANT.
There is a TIME to sound UPBEAT.
There is a TIME to sound SENSUAL.

And very often, there is a time to COMBINE
these emotions in your voice.

In general, if you are a beginner and learning these skills,
and you want to drive with “automatic transmission”
rather than on “standard”, I suggest you usually keep the
SENSUALITY and the DOMINANCE higher in your
initial approaches, since most men tend to open their
conversations with women with too LITTLE of those.

And you can practice with a simple sentence:
“THE APPLE IS RED.”

Do not take the simplicity of this exercise to mean
it is not SUPREMELY POWERFUL.

My goal is to help you and to try to make the process
something you can PUT INTO ACTION rather than
it just being some insanely difficult theory to comprehend.

The EVIDENCE backs up everything I am telling you.
Your TONALITY should be thought of as more important
than your CLOTHING.

You probably think that walking around in your
pajamas when you want to meet a woman might
not be the best idea at the bookstore or club or
wherever. And that’s because you don’t want
to give the wrong impression, right?

Well, your TONALITY actually DRESSES YOU
UP in a woman’s mind. The question is, what
“outfit”, so to speak, are you WEARING?

What is your tonality saying about you?
What do you want to be saying?

Remember, your tonality reveals your STATE
OF MIND. It tells a woman how you FEEL
in that moment. It tells a woman what you think
about yourself in that moment. And all she knows
about you at that moment is what you are presenting
IN THAT MOMENT.

Use this strategy NOW, use it the very next time you
see a woman you’d like to meet.

By the way, if you STILL don’t believe how powerful
this strategy is, just notice how the one thing that just
about ALL leading men have is the ability to stand out
VOCALLY.

PART II: THE IMPORTANCE OF BALANCE,

AND A FILM TO GET PEOPLE TALKING 

As you may know, Get A Great Girl is truly about
getting a quality woman, the kind of woman that
can be a truly awesome life-long partner.

You may wonder why I haven’t gone the path
of the mainstream, which sells the fantasy of
endless women.

It’s because I already know that is not the path
to INNER BALANCE.

The key to everything is BALANCE, and in
fact, if anything, we need to err on the side of
being a little STRONGER and tougher on ourselves
than babying ourselves, because we are living in
a society that encourages the EASY WAY OUT.

What do I mean by this?
What I mean is that we are bombarded by messages
that sell things, that all say HAVE MORE FUN,
DO LESS WORK, GET MORE WOMEN,
EAT MORE SUGAR, SALT, AND FAT,
GET RICH QUICK, DO LESS AND GET MORE.

The human being did not evolve to actually
THRIVE in an environment of TOO MUCH
of the “good stuff”.

Sugar, salt, fat. These are good things, in small
quantities. There was a time when these things
were HARD to get, and when calories were
hard to get, so it was GOOD that we really
LIKED these kinds of things, since it MOTIVATED
us to do what we had to do, to GET these things,
and we tended to only get these things in small
quantities, even with great effort.

There was BALANCE.

Similarly, when it comes to our desire for women,
it was never exactly easy for a multitude of reasons.

And yet, we are now bombarded with so much
stimulation, that the average adult male is probably
exposed to THOUSANDS of images of women
who are attractive every day.

That is far more than most men saw in an entire
LIFETIME just a few decades ago.

For a moment, think of ANCIENT SPARTA.

Life was tough, on PURPOSE.

And the result was the creation of WARRIORS.

They purposely designed their life to avoid becoming
"SOFT" and WEAK.

You can bet they avoided excess indulgences in
anything.

The result was greater STRENGTH- of mind, of
body, of EVERYTHING.

And you can bet that THAT kind of man was far more
VISCERALLY appealing to a woman than a man who
was all needy and weak for ANYTHING- including
needy and over-indulgent when it came to women.



Now, I’m not saying at all that we need to go to
SPARTAN lengths, but we do need to exert a HERCULEAN
effort to PUT balance into our lives in many areas,
INCLUDING the area of having a girlfriend and
meeting women, etc.

There have been so many things that have thrown
the balance off. From the invention of the pill
that suddenly made it possible for women to not
have to deal with the natural consequences of sex,
which therefore meant not having to be as careful
about choosing the right partner, to technological
innovations that have made the actually PHYSICAL
need for men’s strength not as necessary as before-
still necessary for many things, but not as many things
as before.

Plus, there are tons of other things that have changed
as well, the natural division of labor between men
and women, the raising of children, and of course
the fact that men are bombarded by "false triggers"
of stimulation in a society that uses the sexual to
sell just about EVERYTHING. 

The rise of feminism without an equal rise in women
understanding men, and without men even understanding
what all this means for them and for women.

And I’m not here to say all of of these things, like
technology, are BAD.

But, make no mistake about it, there is DEFINITELY
AN IMBALANCE going on.

And very few men or women truly understand it
or know what to do about it. All they do is just
stand back and watch how relationships and families
struggle with it all, and nobody has the answers.

Now, I’m not going to be so arrogant to pretend
I have all the answers, but I can tell you that there
IS a better way than the way most men and women
go about the process of finding each other, dating,
and relationships.

For over a decade, I’ve devoted myself to helping
men meet women, especially to meet women who
are loyal, faithful, loving, supportive, and who could
be great girlfriends or wives.

In the past year, I’ve been working on another angle.
Sometimes FACTS are not enough.

Sometimes, to get people moving, they need to get
EMOTIONAL.

Does this sound familiar?
If it does, it’s because you’ve learned from me
that it’s not enough to explain to a woman why
you are the right one for her, you must instead
get her FEELING that emotionally, not academically.

Before I entered this field, I had spent many years
writing, including writing stories where the good
guy gets the girl in the end, and then when I realized
how reality ACTUALLY works, I couldn’t write
that stuff anymore.

Being a good guy in itself is not enough, not even
for the "nicest" woman, and yet nobody taught
me this, and no one else I knew had been taught
this either.

Well, after ten years of helping men, I’ve written and
filmed a movie that is all about the situation for men when
it comes to their struggle to get a great woman.

It’s almost ready, and this is where you come in.

Let me know if you are interested in the promotion
of this film. At the heart of this film, is the importance
of a GENUINE COMMITMENT between a man
and a woman, something that is becoming ever more
scarce in today's "Tinder-Dating" society.

This film is all about the struggle that wise men
have had to face; this is a story that no one
wants to tell because it isn't politically correct
to portray men as anything other than buffoons
or sex-crazed violent demons. Men are so often
portrayed as either rapists, bad guys, or nerds,
when in reality there are a lot of men of solid character
and inner strength who simply won't lower their
moral standards just to get physical with women.

This film is not something I am doing for money.
It is part of the MISSION that I have been on
for over TEN YEARS.

The MISSION to bring back some sanity into
the world of dating and relationships between
men and women.

I want to get people talking- men, women,
EVERYONE. This needs to become an issue
we actually discuss, instead of just distracting
ourselves with other things.

If you are reading this right now, this may be the
moment in several years from now where you
reflect back and remember that this is where you
became part of something that helped change
the world in a positive way.

So it’s really simple- let me know if you’d
like to join this mission, a mission to bring
back MEANING into the connection between
men and women.

You can contact me at my email listed in the
‘from’ section of this email, and if you have
any questions about how I can help you meet
the woman of your dreams, you can email
me as well, or you can visit my website at:

http://www.on2url.com/lnk?/0o54Sk/S1o%3D

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Do You Have An Urgent Question About Attraction and Women?

I just took a look at my inbox, and I have
a LOT of emails asking questions all about
attracting women, ranging from relationship
questions to questions on how to keep
the conversation going with women who
are total strangers, etc.

To be blunt, it would be more than a full-time
job just to answer all these questions. 

At the same time, I WANT to answer all these
questions properly, as I know that the answers
would save the “askers” of these questions
infinite time and energy.

One way to get these questions answered is
to get the appropriate programs or books from
me.

Yet, sometimes, there is a very SPECIFIC question
a guy has, where he wants a DIRECT answer to
his specific situation and question.

So, if you want an IMMEDIATE, DIRECT
answer to an URGENT dating, attraction,
or relationship question, I can provide you
with the answer to your question or the
answer to your questions.

I can do this for you through my direct,
live, in-person consultation service, or
through my telephone consultation service,
or, if you prefer, my email consultation
service.

The biggest thing that makes me different from
the PUAs and dating coaches out there is that
my focus has always been about not just getting
some woman for getting physical, but rather
about finding, getting, and KEEPING the kind
of woman you really WANT for a long-term
relationship.

If a guy JUST wants to get physical, then all he
has to do is keep approaching women till he finds
a woman who is NOT looking for a relationship.

It’s not hard.  There are TONS of women who
are NOT relationship material, and who are just
looking to have physical connections with men.

On the OTHER HAND, finding, attracting, and
KEEPING the kind of woman you want for a
FULL BLOWN RELATIONSHIP takes
FAR MORE WISDOM.

Allow me to provide you with the experience
and insight to keep you on the RIGHT TRACK
in this regard.  From FINDING the right woman,
to ATTRACTING her, to KEEPING her, to
SAVING your relationship if it is at ALL
possible.

If you want DIRECT and PERSONAL answers
regarding ANY situation you have with women,
then you can arrange a personal consultation with
me by emailing me your question and letting me
know whether you prefer a consultation in person,
or via telephone or email.

Now, let me advise you right away that I am taking
my personal time out of my own schedule to focus
everything I have, all my experience, all my insight,
all my energy, on YOU and nobody else.

That means I am giving up my time to do ANYTHING
ELSE during that time, and I do have many commitments.

Every last bit of my power is being focused on YOU
during that time, and I have to charge for that time.

So, I suggest you ONLY use this service if you
SERIOUSLY need an answer, and if you REALIZE
the value of having this part of your life called
“women, dating and relationships” SOLVED.

The greatest single force that holds back men
from being all they can be in this life, is
NOT having this area of their lives solved.

On the other hand, when this area of your life
with women is running SMOOTHLY, you TAKE OFF
and succeed in EVERY OTHER AREA OF YOUR LIFE
as well. 

To arrange a consultation with me, go here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Want Women To Treat You Well? Read This NOW.

If you are ready for the truth, you are about to get a BOAT LOAD of it regarding women, dating, and relationships.

ONE: A Bit Of FEAR Is Required

What I mean by this, is that in ANY situation where
someone VALUES something, there is a bit of
FEAR regarding losing that thing.

Anyone who tells you otherwise is full of crap.

Even great martial artists have SOME fear in them,
but they learn to HARNESS their fear and use it
to their advantage.

A bit of FEAR regarding being IMMORAL is a
DRIVING force for EXCELLENCE and prevents
CORRUPTION as well. (In ALL areas of life,
not just in dating.)

Similarly, if a woman has ZERO FEAR of losing you,
if she feels SOOOOOOOO at ease around you that she
feels NOTHING could possibly be bad about LOSING
you, she is going to be a HORRIBLE GIRLFRIEND
OR WIFE.

There NEEDS to be a bit of fear to keep the human
traits of WEAKNESS, LAZINESS, and COMPLACENCY
at bay.

Usually, the greatest performers in their respective fields
feel the same way.  I believe Steven Spielberg has mentioned
that he STILL feels a bit of fear every time he gets on set
to direct a movie. He also feels that this is a GOOD sign
that the movie will turn out right.

Great fighters often will tell you that it is not true that they
have NO FEAR, it is just that they have learned to USE
their fears.

Similarly, a QUALITY WOMAN is the kind of woman
who APPRECIATES a GOOD MAN so much, that she
has just a BIT of FEAR inside her regarding wanting to
NOT SCREW THINGS UP WITH THIS GOOD MAN,
which makes her VERY ALERT TO BEHAVING PROPERLY.

Now how many attractive women like this are there out there?    

They do exist, and you ABSOLUTELY CAN find them with
persistence and know-how, but the answer to the question is
that these kinds of women are VERY RARE. 

This is because things like morality, family, long-term thinking,
dedication, and sensitivity are not as popular as promiscuity,
selfishness, and thinking only about the short-term.

There are very few men and women who really CARE
ABOUT THIS STUFF.

So, as SOON as you detect a woman is a little TOO
CONFIDENT around you, I suggest you get the heck
OUT of that situation. (Obviously if you are married
or have kids with this woman or if you have been
together for a long time, I would suggest you try
to fix the situation first.)

I don’t mean to say that a woman should be shivering
around you in fear.

What I DO mean is, that the same way YOU would
not want to screw things up with a great woman,
so too SHE should show some signs of this caution
as well.

Here’s something else I need to tell you:

THE MOMENT YOU START PAYING ATTENTION
TO THIS STUFF, AND TRYING TO PUSH THE
WRONG WOMEN AWAY, THESE SAME WRONG
WOMEN WILL TRY HARD TO WIN YOU BACK
BUT YOU SHOULD IGNORE IT.

The REAL TRUTH is that most people, both men and
women, KNOW when they are mistreating someone,
but CORRUPTION sets in when there is too much
power, and those who are corrupted will try to
PUSH THEIR LUCK AS FAR AS THEY CAN.

So, with women who are spoiled, they will PUSH
THEIR LUCK AS FAR AS THEY CAN, and
when YOU call them on their CRAPPY BEHAVIOR,
especially if you do this with TOTAL CONFIDENCE
and with TOTALLY BEING PREPARED TO WALK
AWAY, they will SUDDENLY FEEL A VACUUM
IN THEIR LIFE-FORCE.

Suddenly, such a woman, for the first time in her LIFE,
is being told in no uncertain terms that she is behaving
in a WRONG WAY, by a man who has NO FEAR in leaving her.

This is FRIGHTENING for a spoiled woman, and
it also TEMPORARILY sets her BACK ON THE
PATH OF DECENCY.

She will then TRY TO APOLOGIZE OR GET
YOU BACK IN SOME OTHER WAY.

To all this, I say SCREW IT, DON’T GO THERE,
AND GET THE HECK AWAY, unless she did something
SUPER MINOR that cannot be considered an insult,
and even then, you should still call her on it.

So many men, they take my materials, they use them
only a DROP, and they see how women IMPROVE,
but they don’t take my FULL ADVICE, which is
to F-ING FORGET THESE WOMEN and move
on IMMEDIATELY to BETTER WOMEN.

When I talk about BEING THE MAN and not
taking B.S. from women, I really MEAN IT,
it is not some TEMPORARY TACTIC just
to get a woman into bed.  If you use it as a
TACTIC and are somehow willing to sleep
with a woman  just because calling her on
her b.s. was enough to get her to have sex
with you, you still haven’t learned the
BIGGER LESSON, which is that this is
not about tricks to get women into bed,
it’s about STAYING AWAY FROM THE
WRONG WOMEN, and MAKING YOUR
MIND STRONG to not get involved with
the WRONG women.

Just because you CAN get a woman who is
attractive into bed does not mean you SHOULD.
You will lose your CONVICTION AND DEEP
SEATED BELIEF in the VALUE of only being
with quality, trustworthy, decent women if you
allow yourself to also be in the circle of corrupt
women.

And then, when you lose your INNER GAME
In this sense, you lose EVERYTHING, including
your ability to even get the selfish and corrupt
women.

So, to get back to the main point, you WANT
a woman who indeed has just a bit of fear
around you in the sense that she does not
want to SCREW THINGS UP.

She does not and should not feel this fear
ALL THE TIME, and it should not be
overwhelming, but she MUST have some
of this fear, or the relationship WILL be
headed for DESTRUCTION.

Now, even a good woman is human, and she might
do something super MINOR, and in those situations,
you should just call her on her behavior, tell
her it was wrong, and she should immediately
improve permanently on that issue.  If she
does not, then she is not a quality woman
and you should leave her.

Next:  

TWO: FAITHFULNESS IS ABOUT MAKING
THE CHOICE

There are endless debates about whether it is
possible or natural for a man and woman to
be faithful to each other for life.

The truth is, on one hand, it is NOT natural.
We will always feel SOME attraction to
gorgeous members of the opposite sex,
no matter how much we love and are
attracted to the person we are with.

On the other hand, it IS natural, in the same
sense that human beings have succeeded in
doing all kinds of challenging things.

So, for example, plumbing and toilets are NOT
natural. Should we, therefore, crap on the floor?

Instead, human beings make the CHOICE to
elevate themselves, through philosophy, through
science, through spirituality, and through discipline,
to IMPROVE THEIR LIVES.

Going to the MOON is not natural, but most
people would argue that human beings exploring
space is something that human civilization
SHOULD do.

And to really focus in on the issue of faithfulness,
there really is one key question, which is HOW
to do it, right?

And the answer to the HOW is simple:

One makes the CHOICE.

If you want to become a DOCTOR, you are
going to have to do a lot of studying.  More
studying than might feel “natural”.

But if one makes the CHOICE to become a
doctor, they ACCEPT all the studying they
will have to do, and suddenly it no longer feels
like a BURDEN, but rather a way of LIFE
that is meaningful.

It is the same thing with FAITHFULNESS
and monogamy.

I’m not telling anyone they shouldn’t date
more than one woman, and I’m not telling
any woman they shouldn’t date more than
one man.

What I AM saying is that if you are already
the kind of man who knows HE can be faithful
to one woman, you need to meet a woman who
already has made the CONSCIOUS CHOICE
to live a life of faithfulness.

If she has never thought about these things,
you should NOT date her.  You CANNOT
make someone faithful or feel that fidelity
is right for them. 

Instead, THEY MUST MAKE THAT CHOICE
LONG BEFORE THEY EVEN MET YOU.

It has to be the way they APPROACH the
whole CONCEPT. 

A woman should make it clear to you
through conversation and through actions
that she has already made that choice.

This concept goes back to the concept of
EXISTENTIALISM, which in a nutshell
means that an individual can DEFINE his
own reality by CHOOSING what meaning
he gives to his own reality or situation.

Faithfulness can be looked at as a burden,
or it can be looked at as a special act of love,
a joyful form of giving, a reflection of  one’s
character, and a constantly growing bond
between a man and a woman.

But you can’t go around trying to TEACH
a woman any of this. She must already BE
that woman.

If you have any questions, I do have a personal
consultation service, and I do have the most
powerful programs on the planet for helping
you meet and attract a quality woman.

Consultations are at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

A catalogue with all my special programs for
meeting and attracting quality women is at: 

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks