Using Tonality to Attract Women, And An Important New Film About Dating And Finding A Quality Woman In Today's Society

Today is an extremely important newsletter.
The first part deals with one of the most
POWERFUL things you can do to INSTANTLY
skyrocket your attractive presence to women,
and the second part of this newsletter deals
with an important project I’ve been working
on regarding meeting, attracting, and keeping
the kind of woman who would make for a loyal,
loving, and supportive girlfriend or wife.

PART ONE: VOCAL FREQUENCY

Several years ago, I was invited to speak to
a group of hundreds of men who had come
from all over the world and who had taken
an entire week out of their lives to spend
from morning to late at night IMMERSED
in learning how to truly improve themselves
when it comes to meeting, attracting, and
keeping the kind of woman that is beautiful
inside and out.

I could have started with any one of hundreds
of different strategies, but I decided to give
the men the biggest bang for their buck, so
to speak, by focusing on one thing that will
give MASSIVE and IMMEDIATE results
without having to spend a TON of time learning
how to do it properly.

It was about using your VOICE effectively.
I gave a simple exercise for the group:

Say the following sentence, each time
DIFFERENTLY, to emphasize different
emotions in your voice.

That simple sentence was:

THE APPLE IS RED.

A had volunteers come up and demonstrate this
in front of the entire group.

One time, the goal was to say the sentence in
a way that conveyed SENSUALITY.

So, when uttered to convey SENSUALITY,
the sentence was delivered SLOWLY, almost
OOOZING out of the lips, and it was BREATHY,
you could HEAR THE BREATH, the breathing,

“The-hhhhhhhhhh ahhhhhplehhhhhh isssssssssssss
rhhhhhhhhhhhhhhheeeeeed”.

Another time, the sentence had to be delivered
conveying an UPBEAT tonality.

The APPLE is RED!

Another time, the sentence had to be delivered
conveying pure CONFIDENCE.

The APPLE is RED.

This exercise continued in this fashion, with the
volunteers and the GROUP practicing in real time,
the whole exercise being done in just a few MINUTES.

Then, for the next step, the goal was to COMBINE
emotions that had to be conveyed in the tonality.

The goal was to say the sentence in a way that was
BREATHY-SENSUAL, CONFIDENT, AND DOMINANT.

Suddenly, the sentence didn’t FEEL like
“The apple is red”. It may have been those WORDS,
but it FELT like it was the kind of thing that belonged
in the BEDROOM.

The truth is, if you approach a woman and use this
strategy, you could ask for something as banal as
THE TIME and it will have a MASSIVE POSITIVE
EFFECT, but if you also COMBINE this with actually
ALSO understanding the OTHER things I also teach
you, you will be UNSTOPPABLE.

One of the coolest things about being in this field,
is that I have gotten to know some amazing people,
and thanks to one of those people, I can now also
BACK THIS UP with some SERIOUS research-
in other words, I had observed this from my OWN
years of actually doing this in person, but there
now exists TONS of evidence for what I have
been teaching as well. Thanks to a very cool guy
I know, you can now see the EVIDENCE for
yourselves, you can check out the articles

if you like. 

One is titled Charismatic Speakers Manipulate

Their Vocal Frequency, by Melissa Hogenboom,

Science reporter, BBC News, which in itself

references earlier research,  and that article

was called Voice Pitch Influences Voting Behavior,

by Cara C. Tigue, Diana J. Borak, Jillian J.M. O'Connor,
Charles Schandl, David R. Feinberg, Department of Psychology,
Neuroscience, and Behaviour, McMaster University.

Why do I mention these details?

Because I think it’s important to have

BOATLOADS of SOLID EVIDENCE,

rather than "fluff" and other b.s. that does 

not employ the scientific method.

The take-away for you, when it comes to
approaching women, is to learn to USE your
voice in different ways, and this does not mean
to try to act like you sound like Darth Vader
in order to sound masculine, it means that you
are able to CONVEY the different emotions
in your voice.

There is a TIME to sound GENTLE.
There is a TIME to sound DOMINANT.
There is a TIME to sound UPBEAT.
There is a TIME to sound SENSUAL.

And very often, there is a time to COMBINE
these emotions in your voice.

In general, if you are a beginner and learning these skills,
and you want to drive with “automatic transmission”
rather than on “standard”, I suggest you usually keep the
SENSUALITY and the DOMINANCE higher in your
initial approaches, since most men tend to open their
conversations with women with too LITTLE of those.

And you can practice with a simple sentence:
“THE APPLE IS RED.”

Do not take the simplicity of this exercise to mean
it is not SUPREMELY POWERFUL.

My goal is to help you and to try to make the process
something you can PUT INTO ACTION rather than
it just being some insanely difficult theory to comprehend.

The EVIDENCE backs up everything I am telling you.
Your TONALITY should be thought of as more important
than your CLOTHING.

You probably think that walking around in your
pajamas when you want to meet a woman might
not be the best idea at the bookstore or club or
wherever. And that’s because you don’t want
to give the wrong impression, right?

Well, your TONALITY actually DRESSES YOU
UP in a woman’s mind. The question is, what
“outfit”, so to speak, are you WEARING?

What is your tonality saying about you?
What do you want to be saying?

Remember, your tonality reveals your STATE
OF MIND. It tells a woman how you FEEL
in that moment. It tells a woman what you think
about yourself in that moment. And all she knows
about you at that moment is what you are presenting
IN THAT MOMENT.

Use this strategy NOW, use it the very next time you
see a woman you’d like to meet.

By the way, if you STILL don’t believe how powerful
this strategy is, just notice how the one thing that just
about ALL leading men have is the ability to stand out
VOCALLY.

PART II: THE IMPORTANCE OF BALANCE,

AND A FILM TO GET PEOPLE TALKING 

As you may know, Get A Great Girl is truly about
getting a quality woman, the kind of woman that
can be a truly awesome life-long partner.

You may wonder why I haven’t gone the path
of the mainstream, which sells the fantasy of
endless women.

It’s because I already know that is not the path
to INNER BALANCE.

The key to everything is BALANCE, and in
fact, if anything, we need to err on the side of
being a little STRONGER and tougher on ourselves
than babying ourselves, because we are living in
a society that encourages the EASY WAY OUT.

What do I mean by this?
What I mean is that we are bombarded by messages
that sell things, that all say HAVE MORE FUN,
DO LESS WORK, GET MORE WOMEN,
EAT MORE SUGAR, SALT, AND FAT,
GET RICH QUICK, DO LESS AND GET MORE.

The human being did not evolve to actually
THRIVE in an environment of TOO MUCH
of the “good stuff”.

Sugar, salt, fat. These are good things, in small
quantities. There was a time when these things
were HARD to get, and when calories were
hard to get, so it was GOOD that we really
LIKED these kinds of things, since it MOTIVATED
us to do what we had to do, to GET these things,
and we tended to only get these things in small
quantities, even with great effort.

There was BALANCE.

Similarly, when it comes to our desire for women,
it was never exactly easy for a multitude of reasons.

And yet, we are now bombarded with so much
stimulation, that the average adult male is probably
exposed to THOUSANDS of images of women
who are attractive every day.

That is far more than most men saw in an entire
LIFETIME just a few decades ago.

For a moment, think of ANCIENT SPARTA.

Life was tough, on PURPOSE.

And the result was the creation of WARRIORS.

They purposely designed their life to avoid becoming
"SOFT" and WEAK.

You can bet they avoided excess indulgences in
anything.

The result was greater STRENGTH- of mind, of
body, of EVERYTHING.

And you can bet that THAT kind of man was far more
VISCERALLY appealing to a woman than a man who
was all needy and weak for ANYTHING- including
needy and over-indulgent when it came to women.



Now, I’m not saying at all that we need to go to
SPARTAN lengths, but we do need to exert a HERCULEAN
effort to PUT balance into our lives in many areas,
INCLUDING the area of having a girlfriend and
meeting women, etc.

There have been so many things that have thrown
the balance off. From the invention of the pill
that suddenly made it possible for women to not
have to deal with the natural consequences of sex,
which therefore meant not having to be as careful
about choosing the right partner, to technological
innovations that have made the actually PHYSICAL
need for men’s strength not as necessary as before-
still necessary for many things, but not as many things
as before.

Plus, there are tons of other things that have changed
as well, the natural division of labor between men
and women, the raising of children, and of course
the fact that men are bombarded by "false triggers"
of stimulation in a society that uses the sexual to
sell just about EVERYTHING. 

The rise of feminism without an equal rise in women
understanding men, and without men even understanding
what all this means for them and for women.

And I’m not here to say all of of these things, like
technology, are BAD.

But, make no mistake about it, there is DEFINITELY
AN IMBALANCE going on.

And very few men or women truly understand it
or know what to do about it. All they do is just
stand back and watch how relationships and families
struggle with it all, and nobody has the answers.

Now, I’m not going to be so arrogant to pretend
I have all the answers, but I can tell you that there
IS a better way than the way most men and women
go about the process of finding each other, dating,
and relationships.

For over a decade, I’ve devoted myself to helping
men meet women, especially to meet women who
are loyal, faithful, loving, supportive, and who could
be great girlfriends or wives.

In the past year, I’ve been working on another angle.
Sometimes FACTS are not enough.

Sometimes, to get people moving, they need to get
EMOTIONAL.

Does this sound familiar?
If it does, it’s because you’ve learned from me
that it’s not enough to explain to a woman why
you are the right one for her, you must instead
get her FEELING that emotionally, not academically.

Before I entered this field, I had spent many years
writing, including writing stories where the good
guy gets the girl in the end, and then when I realized
how reality ACTUALLY works, I couldn’t write
that stuff anymore.

Being a good guy in itself is not enough, not even
for the "nicest" woman, and yet nobody taught
me this, and no one else I knew had been taught
this either.

Well, after ten years of helping men, I’ve written and
filmed a movie that is all about the situation for men when
it comes to their struggle to get a great woman.

It’s almost ready, and this is where you come in.

Let me know if you are interested in the promotion
of this film. At the heart of this film, is the importance
of a GENUINE COMMITMENT between a man
and a woman, something that is becoming ever more
scarce in today's "Tinder-Dating" society.

This film is all about the struggle that wise men
have had to face; this is a story that no one
wants to tell because it isn't politically correct
to portray men as anything other than buffoons
or sex-crazed violent demons. Men are so often
portrayed as either rapists, bad guys, or nerds,
when in reality there are a lot of men of solid character
and inner strength who simply won't lower their
moral standards just to get physical with women.

This film is not something I am doing for money.
It is part of the MISSION that I have been on
for over TEN YEARS.

The MISSION to bring back some sanity into
the world of dating and relationships between
men and women.

I want to get people talking- men, women,
EVERYONE. This needs to become an issue
we actually discuss, instead of just distracting
ourselves with other things.

If you are reading this right now, this may be the
moment in several years from now where you
reflect back and remember that this is where you
became part of something that helped change
the world in a positive way.

So it’s really simple- let me know if you’d
like to join this mission, a mission to bring
back MEANING into the connection between
men and women.

You can contact me at my email listed in the
‘from’ section of this email, and if you have
any questions about how I can help you meet
the woman of your dreams, you can email
me as well, or you can visit my website at:

http://www.on2url.com/lnk?/0o54Sk/S1o%3D

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Abundance And Attracting A Knock-Out

Have you ever wondered why so many
women who are stunning and absolute
“knockouts” are with guys that don’t
seem “nice” to women?

It’s not because these women sit up at
night praying to meet a jerk.

And it’s not because these women enjoy
being mistreated.

It’s because, ironically enough, so called
“jerks” are actually GIVING HER a lot more
than most guys.

In fact, what these so called “jerk” guys
are giving is so powerful, and so rare, that
NOTHING else most other guys give can
EVER compare.

So what is this powerful thing these “jerks”
are giving these women?

It is a feeling of ABUNDANCE.

And the crazy thing is, there is NO WAY
to GIVE this feeling to a woman unless
it’s OOZING out of your OWN pores to the
point that you can’t HELP but give it away!

You have INFINITE AMOUNTS of it and so
you don’t even THINK of it as “giving” and
you don’t CARE about “getting back” this
feeling from her because you are already
BURSTING with it!

What do I mean by “abundance?”

What I mean is this:

YOUR SENSE OF EMPOWERMENT AND FUN
IS INDEPENDENT OF WOMEN’S APPROVAL

This means you don’t NEED her or any
woman to VALIDATE you in order for
you to feel COMPLETE and POWERFUL.

And yet, what do MOST guys feel,
ESPECIALLY when they approach a
woman that the really like?

All of a sudden, the guys are depending
for dear life that the woman should LIKE
them.

It’s not because of these guys “care” so
much about her, it’s because THEY WANT
TO BE WANTED BY HER.

And on TOP of this, suddenly there is
this feeling of being DRAINED of their
SENSE OF BEING EMPOWERED AND
DESIRABLE.

Most guys suddenly then feel even LESS
confident, LESS empowered, and they
WANT AND NEED her validation in order
to feel good and satisfied, or even to
just feel the way they felt BEFORE
they came in contact with her!

It’s the complete OPPOSITE of abundance.
It’s a feeling of LACKING.

To a woman, she ends up feeling DRAINED
by these “vibes of weakness”, as if SHE
must GIVE herself in order for these guys
to feel worth.

So all the free dinners offered to her, and
all the favors, and all the compliments,
all this does not come CLOSE to GIVING
when the OVERALL vibes being given
off are:

“I’M NOT WORTHY OF YOU, IN FACT
I NEED YOU TO LIKE ME IN ORDER
SO THAT I MAY FEEL WORTHY MYSELF!”

This then makes all the “nice” behavior
just seem like a TRICK to disguise what
is a BAD offer:

“Take me, because even though I’m not
of value, I give you nice behavior to
make you forget that I’m not of value”.

The reality is that it’s not that you can’t
be nice to a woman, that’s not the problem,
it’s that this NICE BEHAVIOR usually comes
from the WRONG PLACE internally.

Meanwhile, the “jerk” has done his homework
in life, or he’s just learned the lesson in life,
to work on HIMSELF internally to create the
most POWERFUL sense of SELF,
BEFORE LOOKING TO ANYONE ELSE
TO GIVE THIS FEELING TO HIM.

There is no “leak” in his steel safe
of self-esteem, there is no way
any woman can DRAIN this reservoir
of empowerment and emotional
independence.

Also, she is not required in order
for him to keep the reservoir
of his power at ‘full tank’. 

And that’s why he has no need to
‘kiss up’.  In fact, he actually has
no DESIRE to kiss up. 

He just has a desire to PLAY.

When you’re feeling playful, you
don’t feel like being aloof or cold,
or trying to trick a woman. 

Guys who REALLY understand this
are extremely rare.

And of course, you can imagine
just how POWERFUL it is for
a woman when a guy like THIS
decides to actually be WARM
with her:

It's CLEAR to a woman that it's
coming from a place of infinite
abundance, and not from a place
of needing to control her or
take from her. 

THAT'S why she melts for such
a man.

Remember, a woman “in demand” has
zero need for free dinners or favors,
and even if she DID, these wouldn’t
result in ATTRACTION.

And she's not "scared into submission"
by the malicious teasing or "hard to get"
obnoxious games/behavior of many men.

She's WAY too confident to be fooled
by that kind of behavior, and she
doesn't see the obnoxious behavior
as a sign of value or of guts, but
rather as a sign of over-compensation
and insecurity. 

What DOES ignite attraction is this
deep-rooted sense of ABUNDANCE.

The feeling of inner abundance has a very
PRIMAL effect on women.

On the deepest level, it says “I am
THE MAN who will SURVIVE AND
THRIVE and will help you REPRODUCE
THE SAME KIND OF WINNERS.”

In the same way that we as men are
affected by her first on a primal
ATTRACTION level, so too she is
affected by what appeals to HER
primal emotions.

This sense of abundance is the
KEY to appealing to all her primal
emotions.

Let me give you an example:

If you are ALREADY feeling COMPLETE
and empowered and feeling UPBEAT
and feeling that in fact you have TOO
MUCH of these great emotions in you,
well then you feel that you need to
EXPRESS IT AND GET IT OUT!

That means when you see a woman that
strikes your fancy, the first impulse
is not “How do I make sure that I WIN?”
but rather “LET’S HAVE ADULT FUN!”

By adult fun, I mean the entire joy
of flirting, building a connection, and
getting physical and intimate with
a woman.  ALL OF THIS IS VIEWED
AS PART OF THE PROCESS AND FUN.

This is because you actually ENJOY
the process of the INTERACTION
itself, and you are not so focused
on how to make sure you don't 'lose'.

Rather, you are approaching her to
SHARE the vibes you already have
within you that are SCREAMING
to get out anyway.

These vibes are a combination of
feeling playful, feeling aroused,
feeling empowered, masculine,
and dominant.

Now, a lot of guys try to FAKE these
vibes by acting “hard to get” and
playing games on women.

However, this ends up coming across
as insecure, bitter, and jaded.

It chases the best kind of women away,
the kind that are not only attractive
but also have heart and soul as well.

I remember when I originally used to
see certain guys being so CAVALIER
and CASUAL with women, joking around
with women, even in high school:

I remember how this one guy who looked
like Pee-Wee Herman and spoke in the
same voice as well.

His pitch was Pee Wee Herman, but not
his TONALITY- his pitch was high but
his tone revealed empowerment.

He was smiling as he told this girl who
was one of the most attractive of
all the girls in the school, “Hey, how come
you don’t have the grouchy face today
like usual?”

I remember thinking that she was going
to chew him up and spit him out, but
instead, she MELTED and became warm
and was all over him.

Then I found out later that he ALREADY
had a pretty damn attractive girlfriend!

This was one of my first lessons that
only became clear to me years LATER.

His comments weren’t coming from being
BITTER, they were coming from ABUNDANCE.

He was GENUINELY being playful and didn’t
NEED her to be “into him”, he just was
being a MAN.

He felt the natural attraction for her
beauty, he wasn’t trying to get her
to be his girlfriend, he was NATURALLY
exuding his masculinity more than a lot
of the JOCKS in school ever could!

On the surface, he may have looked like
the LAST thing who’d have more choice
with girls than the school jocks.

However, once any woman INTERACTED with
him, they got sucked into the vortex of
his infinite and deeply ingrained sense
of ABUNDANCE and the fact that he was
ASLO a genuinely GOOD GUY, who actually
CARED about people.

THIS combo of 'abundance', mixed with being
genuinely caring, is a CRUCIAL KEY to unlocking
all the OTHER awesome behaviors that attract
the most incredible women.

It's because when you know that you can
do NO WRONG, it’s EASY to be funny, to
be playful, to be DARING, to be sexual,
to be dominant, AND to be GENIUNELY
giving from an emotional place.

There is NO DOWN SIDE, so there
is NO EMOTONAL RISK, since you are
ALREADY having TOO MUCH good stuff
going on internally – you are doing
this interaction for the JOY of it.

It's NOT for NEEDING her “reciprocation”.

In bootcamps, one of the amazing things
is that guys come in expecting it to be all
PAIN, but end up having a GREAT TIME.

Of course this leads to even BETTER
results with the girls they meet in
bootcamp. 
 
Allow me to go one step FURTHER and
make it even CLEARER how important
it is to be this way:

Recent studies have actually PROVEN that
women, and not JUST the attractive ones,
are VERY confident.

Imagine how much MORE confident the
really ATTRACTIVE ones are!

It is true that women have “issues”
in some areas of their lives, such
as their perception of their own bodies.

And even though in the corporate world,
men outnumber women when it comes to top
positions, it is a TERRIBLE MISTAKE TO
THINK THIS MEANS THAT WOMEN ARE SOMEHOW
LESS CONFIDENT.

Men tend to think that because of those
issues, that women have LESS confidence
than men, and this results in men being
NAMBY PAMBY AND WEAK AROUND WOMEN.

Meanwhile, today’s generation of women
are VERY confident, including SEXUALLY
very confident.

They just sometimes put on a SHOW that
they aren’t, in public, to prevent being
labeled as being “cheap”.

Now, imagine the DISASTER of coming
across as UNSURE, as WEAK, or as NEEDY,
with a woman who is even MORE confident
than your average woman because she
already GETS so much attention!

You MUST change your view of women,
AND you must CHANGE your internal
sense of what you NEED in order to
feel EMPOWERED. 

You must DESTROY the parts of you
that think you need a woman’s APPROVAL
in order to be  EMPOWERED, UPBEAT,
AND COMPLETE.

I know, it’s ironic, because when you
become THAT, you suddenly have all
the CHOICE in the world with women.

But it makes sense, because only THEN
do you become a true GIVER in the most
powerful sense of the word- GIVING THE
EMOTION OF ABUNDANCE.

When you interact with a woman from
THIS place internally, she knows you
don’t NEED her, and that you are only
interacting with her because you ENJOY
it. 

She knows you won’t be CONTROLLING
or JEALOUS because you can only feel
those negative emotions when you
NEED her too much.

The irony is, that she will usually then
suddenly become jealous around YOU,
and start to feel insecure if other women
are giving YOU attention.

I think you can probably see how getting
these areas of your “game” developed to
the MAX is ABSOLUTELY CRITICAL for getting
the kind of women that most men will NEVER
have.  

And if you want to meet and attract a
FANTASTIC woman, and have more choice than
most men will EVER have in getting the
kind of woman YOU want, then I suggest you
go HERE immediately:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

This program is ESPECIALLY for men who are looking
to find and keep a fantastic woman to be their
girlfriend for a long term relationship.

Now, if you're just getting 'back into the scene'
of dating, or if you are just STARTING out when it
comes to dating, then you should get experience
dating several DIFFERENT women BEFORE getting
into a long term relationship- and for the best
program on getting this experience with women,
I suggest you get my ATTRACTION MASTERY PROGRAM.

It's at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

This program is all about mastering ATTRACTION
so that you have CHOICE with women.

To find out about ALL my programs for skyrocketing
your success with women, go here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time, BE THE MAN.

Michael Marks

How To Attract A Woman Using ONLY Your VOICE

Ever wonder if there's a way to
attract a woman BEYOND the words
that you say?

What if you didn't have to worry
about "what to say" and could STILL
attract her no matter WHAT you said?

Wouldn't that be AWESOME?

Well, I promise you, scientific research
backs up the fact that when you make
your voice more MASCULINE, you are
perceived as MORE attractive, to the
point that most women will even feel
that you might have too many OPTIONS
with women and might CHEAT on them!!

I've been speaking about the power
of using your voice for a while now,
just click here for a video link
where I explain this in greater
detail:



It's now even being backed up with more
evidence! Today, a cool friend and client
sent me an article from the newspaper
(www.TheRecord.com, dated Friday,
March 4, 2011, by Wade Hemsworth,
so it's NEW, not like some out of
date report!)

The article speaks about fidelity
and tone but the KEY point in this
article is that it ALSO CONFIRMS the
power of lowering your pitch when
chatting with women!

As demonstrated in the above video,
however, it's not just about speaking
with a lower pitch. Success in attracting
a woman is  also about the EMOTIONS
she detects in your tonality, including
upbeatness, dominance, and sensuality.

Now, I know that even after this,
you might still want more so that
you have an even GREATER EDGE by
gaining TOTAL MASTERY of the skill
of approaching, attracting, and
keeping a woman.

And there is no better program on EARTH
for that than this one:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

You can also check out these samples:






Here's what OTHER guys who experienced
this program are saying about it!



Once again, to get this program for the
ultimate edge in attracting the most
fantastic women, go here NOW:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

For always, BE THE MAN.

Till next time,

Michael Marks