The Closest Thing To MAGIC For Attracting Women

Are you ready for the closest thing to MAGIC for attracting women? Something MASSIVELY HELPFUL and MASSIVELY EASY when it comes to knowing HOW to approach and attract women ANYWHERE?

Now, what you are about to read is SIMPLE, and EXTREMELY EFFECTIVE, yet don’t mistake that for thinking it was EASY to discover this. It  took YEARS, and you are getting it NOW, handed to you on a “silver platter” so to speak. 

 

I do this because I have a passion for this field, and because I want
good guys to succeed with women, and what you are about to read is
ESPECIALLY helpful for guys that are already the kind of people who
CARE about others.

Believe it or not, having EMPATHY is a GREAT thing, and caring about
a woman is also a great thing,  when it is PART of the following
‘MAGICAL FORMULA’:

Here it is:
It involves TWO behaviors, and you must COMBINE them:

ONE:
FIRST OF ALL, you must get yourself into the most OPTIMISTIC, UPBEAT, POSITIVE, EMPOWERED, and SEXUAL state of mind.

So the first part is all about that STATE OF MIND.
But then, the second part is this:

TWO:
DO NOT SMILE WHILE YOU ARE DOING ALL THIS. 
(Or at least, try to keep it to a minimum.)

And that is the magical combo. 

You see, you hear a lot of guys talking about being positive, and yes being positive is great, but when talking to a woman who you find to be GORGEOUS, and you are also SMILING as you approach her, it’s too EASY to just LOSE IT internally, to start feeling SO good and SO excited, that you just are getting too ahead of yourself in your mind and not being present in the moment.

Without going into ALL of the details of the reasons why, this smiling changes your state of mind from dominant and masculine and feeling aroused as a man, to feeling a little too much like a KID who just found himself for the first time in a candy store, and it happens to also be the biggest and best candy shop of all time.

But you can't act like a kid here. This is real life; it's not a cartoon.

The smiling can not only make you lose your cool internally in terms of your own state of mind, but the look can also come across as immature. 

After all, to the woman, you are still a stranger, so why are you smiling THAT much? It’s not like you have both made love yet or something. Also, it can come across as pretentious, as if you expect her to be so easy that of course this is going to result in getting physical before you’ve even both had a chance to vibe together at all.

And then, on top of ALL these reasons, is also the plain old fact
that women actually rate a man as looking more attractive when he is
not smiling than when he is.

And YET, do NOT make the mistake of thinking that women WANT a guy who is UPSET or who is BITTER- NOTHING COULD BE FURTHER FROM THE TRUTH!

Women DEFINITELY do respond better to you being in the "good vibes" state of mind.

Internally, you should be EXPLODING with good vibes, like the SUN’S RAYS, you should be feeling AWESOME, and you should take on the most OPTIMISTIC AND POSITIVE OUTLOOK ON EVERYTHING, INCLUDING ON HER PERSONALITY, ON THE WORLD, ON EVERYTHING, INCLUDING ON YOURSELF.

Just don’t go SMILING about it at this point in the interaction- save
that for AFTER the lovemaking if you want, which ironically, you will
probably be so much calmer then that your smile will be a much more
relaxed one anyway.

Please do not make the mistake of thinking that you can do just one
and not the other. If you just do the “NOT SMILING” part, it’s too
easy to start thinking negatively and to come across as unsociable
and miserable-and if you just do the optimism/positivity/sexual state
stuff, then you can easily come across as way too “over the top” and
it will seem immature and pretentious.

That’s IT for today, I don’t want to OVER-COMPLICATE things. 

This is all about those initial moments when it comes to you walking up to women who are total strangers, and especially in places that are not nightclubs (in nightclubs you can do any playful thing and it will work), and how to GET her initial interest in the first place without
getting BLOWN OUT where she finds some excuse to leave.

You want to GET the knock-out (that's a term for a hottie), not get blown out (that's a term for getting shut down) by the knock-out. 

That combo is pure MAGIC. It allows you to say virtually ANYTHING and it WILL WORK.  You can make the most trivial comment or observation, and it WILL WORK.

The reason it WORKS is because human beings are MASSIVELY affected by the STATES OF MIND of those around them. 

The way we feel generally DOES show in our body language, tonality, and facial expressions whether we like that fact or not. 

So, the more POSITIVE your emotional state, the BETTER you make everyone around you feel- unless that person is truly miserable, in which case misery tends to want company- but most women are not like that, and sometimes even people who feel down want to be uplifted. 

It's impossible for a woman to dislike you if you are truly bringing her to a better state of mind. If your interaction leaves her smiling, you know you are in a good place with her.

And the most effective way to change someone’s state is to LEAD BY
EXAMPLE.  So that’s why this has nothing to do with kissing up to a
woman, but rather with YOU BEING IN AN AMAZING STATE.

That state of mind then makes the woman feel calmer around you, better around you, more positive around you, safer around you, happier around you, and yes, more AROUSED around you, since arousal is actually a state of mind that most humans have access to feeling year round, unlike many animals and other species.

And this is where you also feeling turned ON helps too, because again, you end up  manifesting this state of mind to her through your tonality, facial expressions, body language, etc., all without you even trying, it will happen instinctively when you are already in this state of mind.

States of mind are CATCHY- so she will also feel more AROUSED as well because of YOUR state. 

Now, what you’ve just read here is ALREADY MORE VALUABLE than what most other guys get in ENTIRE BOOT CAMPS by other companies. 

So you might ask, why do I give away such INSANELY POWERFUL CONTENT for free?

The answer is because as AMAZING as this stuff is, I have MORE, a LOT more, of PURE GOLD for you.

The reason I have so much PURE GOLD for you when it comes to success with women is because I spend my time focused on WHAT MATTERS- which is constantly discovering and developing BETTER AND BETTER WAYS on how HOW TO ATTRACT WOMEN, and on how to TRAIN MEN so they can LEARN as effectively as possible.

I do NOT SPEND my time on marketing gimmicks, deceptive and fraudulent pick-up videos and endless other B.S. 

Instead I agreed to have my work with men followed by a journalist from the largest newspaper in the country in a process that lasted several WEEKS.  She wrote about the results of ALL THE MEN that I coached, and the response was a MASSIVE SUCCESS from the overwhelming majority of the men. Clips from the featured article are on my website.

And because of that FOCUS on what truly MATTERS, men travel from all over the WORLD to my boot camp program.

In my boot camp program, YOU are my ONLY focus. The program is EXCLUSIVE AND PRIVATE.  That means NO OTHER STUDENTS except YOU. 

That allows me to truly CUSTOMIZE your training- and make no mistake about it, I don’t throw around that word “customize” lightly. 

What “customize” means is that I create a PERSONALIZED boot camp that takes into account YOUR PERSONALITY and YOUR NEEDS- so this way, you are not wasting time on learning things that aren’t RELEVANT for you.

You are ONLY learning the specific elements that MATTER for you-which means you actually have LESS to learn before you start GETTING SUCCESS when you approach  women ANYWHERE, doing whatever they may be doing. 

And you will get to see that success right before your eyes.

This is a MASSIVE PLUS of customized coaching.  You start getting SUCCESS much earlier in the boot camp, which means I can then take you to the NEXT levels up EARLIER in the boot camp, and that means you graduate boot camp LIGHT YEARS AHEAD in terms of your skill with women compared to where you would be in any other boot camp.

Keep in mind, I have been helping men in this way for well over TEN YEARS.  

Plus, it’s a personal passion of mine as well.  And through all that time, I never wasted time on the various gimmicks and sleaze-bag marketing tactics that unfortunately give this field a bit of bad name - when learning how to be successful with women SHOULD be a part of EVERY man’s education, especially in TODAY’S society.

My boot camp program is also completely PRIVATE so you get the added benefit of it being totally discrete.

To me, training you to learn these skills is a sacred trust, and it is a responsibility that I take with an enormous respect. Allow me to be your coach in this important area of every man’s life, and you will not be disappointed.    

To contact me about boot camp, send me an email at: michaelmarks@getagreatgirl.com

To find out more about boot camp, go here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

And if you have any approaching women, dating, or relationship questions that you would like SOLVED or ANSWERED, you can also arrange a private consultation with me in person or over the phone.  

For this consultation service, go here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

I look forward to hearing from you and helping you achieve all your goals in this important part of life.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Abundance And Attracting A Knock-Out

Have you ever wondered why so many
women who are stunning and absolute
“knockouts” are with guys that don’t
seem “nice” to women?

It’s not because these women sit up at
night praying to meet a jerk.

And it’s not because these women enjoy
being mistreated.

It’s because, ironically enough, so called
“jerks” are actually GIVING HER a lot more
than most guys.

In fact, what these so called “jerk” guys
are giving is so powerful, and so rare, that
NOTHING else most other guys give can
EVER compare.

So what is this powerful thing these “jerks”
are giving these women?

It is a feeling of ABUNDANCE.

And the crazy thing is, there is NO WAY
to GIVE this feeling to a woman unless
it’s OOZING out of your OWN pores to the
point that you can’t HELP but give it away!

You have INFINITE AMOUNTS of it and so
you don’t even THINK of it as “giving” and
you don’t CARE about “getting back” this
feeling from her because you are already
BURSTING with it!

What do I mean by “abundance?”

What I mean is this:

YOUR SENSE OF EMPOWERMENT AND FUN
IS INDEPENDENT OF WOMEN’S APPROVAL

This means you don’t NEED her or any
woman to VALIDATE you in order for
you to feel COMPLETE and POWERFUL.

And yet, what do MOST guys feel,
ESPECIALLY when they approach a
woman that the really like?

All of a sudden, the guys are depending
for dear life that the woman should LIKE
them.

It’s not because of these guys “care” so
much about her, it’s because THEY WANT
TO BE WANTED BY HER.

And on TOP of this, suddenly there is
this feeling of being DRAINED of their
SENSE OF BEING EMPOWERED AND
DESIRABLE.

Most guys suddenly then feel even LESS
confident, LESS empowered, and they
WANT AND NEED her validation in order
to feel good and satisfied, or even to
just feel the way they felt BEFORE
they came in contact with her!

It’s the complete OPPOSITE of abundance.
It’s a feeling of LACKING.

To a woman, she ends up feeling DRAINED
by these “vibes of weakness”, as if SHE
must GIVE herself in order for these guys
to feel worth.

So all the free dinners offered to her, and
all the favors, and all the compliments,
all this does not come CLOSE to GIVING
when the OVERALL vibes being given
off are:

“I’M NOT WORTHY OF YOU, IN FACT
I NEED YOU TO LIKE ME IN ORDER
SO THAT I MAY FEEL WORTHY MYSELF!”

This then makes all the “nice” behavior
just seem like a TRICK to disguise what
is a BAD offer:

“Take me, because even though I’m not
of value, I give you nice behavior to
make you forget that I’m not of value”.

The reality is that it’s not that you can’t
be nice to a woman, that’s not the problem,
it’s that this NICE BEHAVIOR usually comes
from the WRONG PLACE internally.

Meanwhile, the “jerk” has done his homework
in life, or he’s just learned the lesson in life,
to work on HIMSELF internally to create the
most POWERFUL sense of SELF,
BEFORE LOOKING TO ANYONE ELSE
TO GIVE THIS FEELING TO HIM.

There is no “leak” in his steel safe
of self-esteem, there is no way
any woman can DRAIN this reservoir
of empowerment and emotional
independence.

Also, she is not required in order
for him to keep the reservoir
of his power at ‘full tank’. 

And that’s why he has no need to
‘kiss up’.  In fact, he actually has
no DESIRE to kiss up. 

He just has a desire to PLAY.

When you’re feeling playful, you
don’t feel like being aloof or cold,
or trying to trick a woman. 

Guys who REALLY understand this
are extremely rare.

And of course, you can imagine
just how POWERFUL it is for
a woman when a guy like THIS
decides to actually be WARM
with her:

It's CLEAR to a woman that it's
coming from a place of infinite
abundance, and not from a place
of needing to control her or
take from her. 

THAT'S why she melts for such
a man.

Remember, a woman “in demand” has
zero need for free dinners or favors,
and even if she DID, these wouldn’t
result in ATTRACTION.

And she's not "scared into submission"
by the malicious teasing or "hard to get"
obnoxious games/behavior of many men.

She's WAY too confident to be fooled
by that kind of behavior, and she
doesn't see the obnoxious behavior
as a sign of value or of guts, but
rather as a sign of over-compensation
and insecurity. 

What DOES ignite attraction is this
deep-rooted sense of ABUNDANCE.

The feeling of inner abundance has a very
PRIMAL effect on women.

On the deepest level, it says “I am
THE MAN who will SURVIVE AND
THRIVE and will help you REPRODUCE
THE SAME KIND OF WINNERS.”

In the same way that we as men are
affected by her first on a primal
ATTRACTION level, so too she is
affected by what appeals to HER
primal emotions.

This sense of abundance is the
KEY to appealing to all her primal
emotions.

Let me give you an example:

If you are ALREADY feeling COMPLETE
and empowered and feeling UPBEAT
and feeling that in fact you have TOO
MUCH of these great emotions in you,
well then you feel that you need to
EXPRESS IT AND GET IT OUT!

That means when you see a woman that
strikes your fancy, the first impulse
is not “How do I make sure that I WIN?”
but rather “LET’S HAVE ADULT FUN!”

By adult fun, I mean the entire joy
of flirting, building a connection, and
getting physical and intimate with
a woman.  ALL OF THIS IS VIEWED
AS PART OF THE PROCESS AND FUN.

This is because you actually ENJOY
the process of the INTERACTION
itself, and you are not so focused
on how to make sure you don't 'lose'.

Rather, you are approaching her to
SHARE the vibes you already have
within you that are SCREAMING
to get out anyway.

These vibes are a combination of
feeling playful, feeling aroused,
feeling empowered, masculine,
and dominant.

Now, a lot of guys try to FAKE these
vibes by acting “hard to get” and
playing games on women.

However, this ends up coming across
as insecure, bitter, and jaded.

It chases the best kind of women away,
the kind that are not only attractive
but also have heart and soul as well.

I remember when I originally used to
see certain guys being so CAVALIER
and CASUAL with women, joking around
with women, even in high school:

I remember how this one guy who looked
like Pee-Wee Herman and spoke in the
same voice as well.

His pitch was Pee Wee Herman, but not
his TONALITY- his pitch was high but
his tone revealed empowerment.

He was smiling as he told this girl who
was one of the most attractive of
all the girls in the school, “Hey, how come
you don’t have the grouchy face today
like usual?”

I remember thinking that she was going
to chew him up and spit him out, but
instead, she MELTED and became warm
and was all over him.

Then I found out later that he ALREADY
had a pretty damn attractive girlfriend!

This was one of my first lessons that
only became clear to me years LATER.

His comments weren’t coming from being
BITTER, they were coming from ABUNDANCE.

He was GENUINELY being playful and didn’t
NEED her to be “into him”, he just was
being a MAN.

He felt the natural attraction for her
beauty, he wasn’t trying to get her
to be his girlfriend, he was NATURALLY
exuding his masculinity more than a lot
of the JOCKS in school ever could!

On the surface, he may have looked like
the LAST thing who’d have more choice
with girls than the school jocks.

However, once any woman INTERACTED with
him, they got sucked into the vortex of
his infinite and deeply ingrained sense
of ABUNDANCE and the fact that he was
ASLO a genuinely GOOD GUY, who actually
CARED about people.

THIS combo of 'abundance', mixed with being
genuinely caring, is a CRUCIAL KEY to unlocking
all the OTHER awesome behaviors that attract
the most incredible women.

It's because when you know that you can
do NO WRONG, it’s EASY to be funny, to
be playful, to be DARING, to be sexual,
to be dominant, AND to be GENIUNELY
giving from an emotional place.

There is NO DOWN SIDE, so there
is NO EMOTONAL RISK, since you are
ALREADY having TOO MUCH good stuff
going on internally – you are doing
this interaction for the JOY of it.

It's NOT for NEEDING her “reciprocation”.

In bootcamps, one of the amazing things
is that guys come in expecting it to be all
PAIN, but end up having a GREAT TIME.

Of course this leads to even BETTER
results with the girls they meet in
bootcamp. 
 
Allow me to go one step FURTHER and
make it even CLEARER how important
it is to be this way:

Recent studies have actually PROVEN that
women, and not JUST the attractive ones,
are VERY confident.

Imagine how much MORE confident the
really ATTRACTIVE ones are!

It is true that women have “issues”
in some areas of their lives, such
as their perception of their own bodies.

And even though in the corporate world,
men outnumber women when it comes to top
positions, it is a TERRIBLE MISTAKE TO
THINK THIS MEANS THAT WOMEN ARE SOMEHOW
LESS CONFIDENT.

Men tend to think that because of those
issues, that women have LESS confidence
than men, and this results in men being
NAMBY PAMBY AND WEAK AROUND WOMEN.

Meanwhile, today’s generation of women
are VERY confident, including SEXUALLY
very confident.

They just sometimes put on a SHOW that
they aren’t, in public, to prevent being
labeled as being “cheap”.

Now, imagine the DISASTER of coming
across as UNSURE, as WEAK, or as NEEDY,
with a woman who is even MORE confident
than your average woman because she
already GETS so much attention!

You MUST change your view of women,
AND you must CHANGE your internal
sense of what you NEED in order to
feel EMPOWERED. 

You must DESTROY the parts of you
that think you need a woman’s APPROVAL
in order to be  EMPOWERED, UPBEAT,
AND COMPLETE.

I know, it’s ironic, because when you
become THAT, you suddenly have all
the CHOICE in the world with women.

But it makes sense, because only THEN
do you become a true GIVER in the most
powerful sense of the word- GIVING THE
EMOTION OF ABUNDANCE.

When you interact with a woman from
THIS place internally, she knows you
don’t NEED her, and that you are only
interacting with her because you ENJOY
it. 

She knows you won’t be CONTROLLING
or JEALOUS because you can only feel
those negative emotions when you
NEED her too much.

The irony is, that she will usually then
suddenly become jealous around YOU,
and start to feel insecure if other women
are giving YOU attention.

I think you can probably see how getting
these areas of your “game” developed to
the MAX is ABSOLUTELY CRITICAL for getting
the kind of women that most men will NEVER
have.  

And if you want to meet and attract a
FANTASTIC woman, and have more choice than
most men will EVER have in getting the
kind of woman YOU want, then I suggest you
go HERE immediately:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

This program is ESPECIALLY for men who are looking
to find and keep a fantastic woman to be their
girlfriend for a long term relationship.

Now, if you're just getting 'back into the scene'
of dating, or if you are just STARTING out when it
comes to dating, then you should get experience
dating several DIFFERENT women BEFORE getting
into a long term relationship- and for the best
program on getting this experience with women,
I suggest you get my ATTRACTION MASTERY PROGRAM.

It's at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

This program is all about mastering ATTRACTION
so that you have CHOICE with women.

To find out about ALL my programs for skyrocketing
your success with women, go here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time, BE THE MAN.

Michael Marks