If You Want To Attract A Truly Good Woman, Then You Must Absolutely Know This

When you know what you want in life,

it makes all the difference for actually 

GETTING what you want- not because

of hocus-pocus reasons, but because you

FOCUS all your EFFORTS on THAT

THING.

And this is the KEY to getting yourself a

GREAT GIRL – the kind of woman that

you are massively attracted to, and who is

going to treat you RIGHT.

And this is where, more than EVER, I have

a very DIFFERENT message to tell you than

the typical pick up artist or “attract women”

advice.

You see, for whatever reason, be it that

they themselves GAVE UP ON FINDING

QUALITY WOMEN, or that they simply

were not INTERESTED in quality women

and were instead just interested in promiscuity,

or possibly they feel that the men who are their

customers are only interested in the superficial

themselves, the bottom line is this:

Most of the popular pick up artist advice

draws its strength from one MAIN source,

and that source is the typical “modern young

woman” who is, for various reasons (including

devious efforts by certain feminists) extremely

LIGHT-HEADED when it comes to thinking

about relationships, family, fidelity, and honor,

and is, instead, quite SERIOUS only about things

such as being promiscuous, and emphasizing

“independence” to the degree that ALL ELSE,

even family, husband, children, are all DISTANT

SECOND thoughts.

In the story of Superman, the main source of his

powers is Earth’s YELLOW SUN. He would not have

his powers under a RED SUN.

Similarly, the power source behind most pick

up artist advice is the fact that so many women

today ARE promiscuous and DON’T want to

think deeply about important things.

Thoughts of ethics, family, virtue, these thoughts

are not on their mind - these thoughts are a whole

GALAXY away from their over-riding thoughts

of  money and sex, and selfishness, traveling, fancy

purses, etc.

If more women DID care about fidelity, family, and the

sacred bond between man and woman, the pick up artist

advice would FAIL. It would turn the “yellow sun” RED.

So pick up artist advice basically DOES AWAY

WITH ALL CONCERN in the conversation regarding

morals, ethics, fidelity, long-term thinking- these things

are actually worse than a red sun, they are like
KRYPTONITE to your attraction power for these
kinds of women.

The red sun just neutralizes Superman's power, but this 

kind of talk will DESTROY your chances with most of 

today's women.

Rather than focus on the big picture, and rather than

focus on fidelity and commitment and the meaning

of a vow, and the meaning of honor,  the focus is all

on the MOMENT, with a thin layering of connection-

more of a VENEER of connection sprinkled into the

conversation- and this is because even the “modern

woman” still wants to feel SOME level of connection

with the boatloads of men she is sleeping with –

in order not to feel “cheap” and so she can sort of

face herself in the mirror in the morning (with one

eye closed and not really thinking too much).

Let me also make it clear that promiscuity is not

the only problem, as it all falls under the general

category of “ME ME ME”- of course this changes

when the women start to get much older and start

to realize that actually the good men won’t have

anything to do with them, and the purely superficial
men aren’t interested in them anymore.

But back to the POWER SOURCE for all the

pick up artist methods – it WORKS because

it DESTROYS all sense of morals and the

meaningful with regards to commitment and

vows. Talking about these kinds of morals is

“kryptonite” for any man trying to attract these

women, because it brings up something very

SCARY for them- the thought that they might

have a rude awakening when they want to settle

down and want to find a good man.

  

I know this, because there was a time in my life,

before all this pick up artist stuff exploded, where

I was so disillusioned with women, that I TRULY

BELIEVED THAT WOMEN WANTED A JERK.

So I would approach women and STRIP my conversation

of all NICETIES, I was super-direct, I never did favors,

never gave compliments, teased them like crazy, and

they would all seem to think this was TOTALLY NORMAL.

And when I would suggest that they give me their number,

MOST of them DID. And I would BREAK THINGS off

with them for the most INSANELY SMALL reason,

and it only made them CHASE HARDER, it was actually

the WORST way to try to end a relationship.  The best

way to end relationships with women, I thought, because

it worked so well, was to actually start acting NICE to them.

That was a great way to get them bored with me.

Now, there are some good things about this, which

is the basic idea that NO woman is doing you a

FAVOR for going out with you, it’s a MUTUAL

benefit, and women know this, and they are more

attracted to a man who doesn’t feel BENEATH

a woman, they want a man who feels he is totally

WORTH that woman, if not MORE THAN HER.

So the basic attitude of I HAVE VALUE, and not

kissing up, and acting far more MANLY than the lying

feminists would suggest women want, all that is GOOD

STUFF. It’s attractive.  

But the problem is that attitude taken TOO FAR-

A.K.A. TYPICAL PICK UP ARTIST ADVICE-

ALSO KILLS THE OPPORTUNITY FOR YOU

TO ACTUALLY ATTRACT THE KIND OF WOMEN

WHO TRULY DO STILL BELIEVE IN THINGS

like fidelity, not sleeping around, and who believe

there is something special about a man and a woman

making a commitment to each other- a commitment

that goes beyond just the physical, of course, but that

also includes the physical, and that this part reflects

a much deeper sense of honoring each other, and

that this extends to a commitment to their raising

a family together as well.

Fidelity, honor, love, commitment. These things

are not a joke.  They resonate in men and women

on a PRIMAL level, and when people say they

are old fashioned, they indeed are as OLD as

humanity itself and as ETERNAL and as important.

Far more important to the well-being of humanity

than what feminists would have us believe- feminists

would have us believe that men don’t really CARE

about these things, and that women should try to

act like the most promiscuous men, and that women

should push off commitment as long as possible, and

that men are somehow always the bad guys no matter

what.

BUT.

There ARE some women out there who for some

reason are just DIFFERENT.  They RESISTED

and CONTINUE TO RESIST these forces.

They still want a man to act like a MAN.

They just also want a man who has HONOR.

A man who will treat his bond with a woman

as sacred.

In other words, they want the kind of man that

women have wanted for MILLENNIA.

Perhaps these rare women who still have good

values, who still cherish their femininity, who still

cherish the concept of a man and woman committing

to each other by choice, well perhaps these women

were TAUGHT differently by their parents compared

to most others.

Perhaps these women are CRITICAL THINKERS who

think outside the box and will not do stupid things no

mater HOW MANY other people say it’s cool.

Regardless of HOW it is that these fantastic women

still exist, the fact remains that they DO exist.

And yet, many men would like to believe that no such

women exist, because then it provides a great excuse

for NOT taking action. It’s so much easier to just

complain. It’s so much easier for a person to just

give excuses for why they are doing something

negative or why they are not doing something positive.

Again, the fact is: GOOD WOMEN STILL EXIST.

And, these women are BOMBARDED by the WRONG

MEN ALL THE TIME.

Including, you guessed it- the guys brainwashed by

typical “how to get women” advice, that relies on

some tactic that is EXTERNAL to a man’s TRUE

personality or values or beliefs. Basically, men are

told to GIVE IN TO THE WAYS OF MOST WOMEN

TODAY, and to CATER TO THAT DISTORTION.

But it’s not just THESE men these women are

bombarded by- they are also bombarded by the

men who WORSHIP them just because they are

beautiful. These are men who have never been

taught that just because you FEEL attraction to

a woman DOES NOT MAKE HER the right

woman,  your soul-mate, or anything else.

Seriously, this might sound obvious to you

if you’ve known it for years, or if you learned

it from me years ago, but the bottom line is there

are still tons of men out there who DO in fact

see a beautiful woman, and their first instinct

is to kiss up, open doors for them, offer favors,

give compliments, etc.

And a woman who is looking for a man who is

about more than JUST the superficial finds it

disturbing that the only men she meets are men

who worship beauty and not character at all,

or the men she meets are men who ONLY care

about the physical.

In both cases, it’s not what she is looking for,

and the worst part of all this is that there are

some good men out there who are being led

astray by the wrong advice.

So if you ARE looking for a great woman, a

woman who is just as beautiful in her character

as she is physically, a woman who doesn’t sleep

around, a woman who is wise, you absolutely

SHOULD RESONATE that message to her-

you MUST make it clear that you are a man on

the SAME wavelength, EVEN IF IT MEANS

LOSING EVERY OTHER WOMAN because

those other women are BRAINWASHED to

NOT APPRECIATE the right values in men.

This should really be NO SACRIFICE

in your mind at all. The reason is because

WHY ON EARTH would you be bothered

by “losing” the WRONG WOMEN??????

If you feel it IS a sacrifice, then clearly you are

not serious about finding the right woman.

Some men are so desperate, or so brainwashed, or

so weak, that they just can’t say no to any possibility

to any attractive woman.

Now, how MEANINGFUL is it to a QUALITY

woman when such a man promises to love her?

It’s MEANINGLESS.
HE WOULD LOVE ANY ATTRACTIVE WOMAN.

He would do anything for any attractive woman.

It also suggests that since he is so weak, that if

he DID have her, he might very well be tempted

and CHEAT on her if ANOTHER woman gave

him the opportunity.

There is ONE constant when it comes to attracting

ANY woman- and that is believing in yourself with

ZERO APOLOGY for being who you are.

But what makes it REALLY TRAGIC is when

a guy who is a good guy is so DESPERATE that

he has LOST BELIEF IN GOOD WOMEN that he

ends up sending out the message through his words

and his mannerisms, that he is playing “how to get

women game” even though he REALLY just wants

to get ONE GREAT WOMAN.

You need to learn the power of saying NO

to the wrong women.

It’s very EMPOWERING.

Get out there and meet women.

Start saying NO to the wrong ones.

This will help develop your conviction in

your beliefs regarding quality women.

Don’t try to get “all” the women- or you are

going to be sending off the wrong signals to

the BEST women that would be true CONTENDERS

for being THE woman in your life.

Most pick up artist advice incorporates a degree

of cheapening the sacred element of sexuality
(and this does not mean that sex between a man
and woman can't be wild, it means that it's special
when it isn't something handed out like advertising
flyers to everyone) in order to try to appeal to the
sexual, which is a BASE LEVEL impulse of most
human beings.

Unfortunately, a lot of women in our society actually

RESPOND to this, which is the same reason we have

SKYROCKETING levels of broken relationships,

affairs, infidelity, disappointment and anxiety,

maladjusted children, and a basis sense of men and

women at war with each other when it should be men

and women in harmony with each other and honoring

each other. 

The worst war of all is the war that takes place in your

own most intimate and precious relationships.   

It’s time to STOP THE INSANITY.

Don’t allow crapola into your life.

First of all, this is the way to be for your own dignity.

Second of all, it is THIS kind of man that a great

woman with great values SEEKS.   

If anything, you should have MORE conviction

in YOUR morals, your values, than MOST MEN

out there approaching women, if you are a man who

REJECTS the majority of pick up artist style advice-

in other words if you want a QUALITY WOMAN

with the right values, that is something to be PROUD

of, not apologetic about.

By the way, on the topic of quality women,

try to observe a woman’s behaviors even before

you approach her. Is she reading a book? Or is

she texting  obsessively? Can you tell what she

is reading? Is it meaningful, or is it vapid?

In general, be WEARY of any traits that suggest she

is a woman who is INVITING ATTENTION,

especially from men.

Just BEING an attractive woman, or any woman, is pretty

much enough to GUARANTEE attention anyway, so a

woman who is actually putting in EXTRA EFFORT to

DRAW MORE ATTENTION, especially if she is attractive,

is giving you a CUE to her level of DANGER as a girlfriend,

wife, etc.

On the other hand, this does not mean to show

DISRESPECT when you approach a woman.

Unless you have strong EVIDENCE to believe otherwise,

you have to leave room for the POSSIBILITY that this

woman in front of you MIGHT be a great woman.

And that means, if you are genuinely looking for

a woman with the right values, that you DO bring

up the topic of morals, fidelity, etc, at some point

in the conversation. You shouldn’t DWELL on

it unless she ALSO decides to go into it deeper,

but YES you SHOULD bring it up.

When it comes to finding women with morals,

go after what you want without apology- if

you don’t SHOW that you AUTHENTICALLY

believe in these morals, then how on earth can

you expect to get the woman that AUTHENTICALLY

believes in them?

If you try to go with the typical pick up artist advice,

and then you ALSO try to throw in some talk of morals,

she’ll think you are either full of it, or that you are weak,

or that you are confused, since you are acting in a

NAMBY PAMBY way regarding these morals.

Remember, a quality woman is investing her SOUL

in the right man, so the LAST THING SHE WANTS

is some screwball in her life who thinks that morals

are not important.

BE CONSISTENT WITH IT- and what I mean is

that if you really understand the reality of a quality woman
with morals, you should NOT expect such a woman to do

CARTWHEELS immediately just because you approached
her in person, or online, or anywhere else.

In fact, it is so RARE for a woman of modesty (and I

mean in her behaviors, not just her clothing, because I

have seen women who dressed modestly who had more

partners than math has numbers) that when she meets

a man on her wavelength, she might not BELIEVE it

or she might start to TREMBLE or get scared because

for the FIRST TIME IN HER LIFE, it’s actually

HAPPENING FOR REAL that she is meeting a

man that is actually her counterpart.

So you have to be cool and realize she might need some

time to soak it all in.  Don’t rush her. Persist, but don’t

apply too much pressure.

There IS a way to be persistent without acting desperate.

For example, let’s say a woman says she is not comfortable

giving you her number, this does NOT mean she is trying

to play some hard-to-get-game.  She may very well be

WEARY of a lot of men out there, ranging from desperate

men who will call her 99 times a day even though she never

said she was interested, to men who are only interested in

the physical.

So you don’t want to DROP such a woman.

And the way you don’t drop her, but at the same time

still don’t show desperation, is to tell her in a masculine

tonality, calm tonality, that you are cool no matter what

happens, even if things don’t work, that you like her, but

that you are man of maturity and experience and you can

move on from her if it doesn’t work out. 

And MEAN it.

Developing yourself internally to be able to

walk away from a woman, without feeling

BITTER, is one of the most powerful things

you can do for yourself.

By the way, the ability to do this comes from

BELIEVING IN YOURSELF, and from

ACCEPTING YOURSELF, which are easy

things to say but so few people really do.

You must realize that no woman is the sum total

of your IDENTITY. You can’t have this attitude

just a tactic to attract women, but it IS attractive

to a woman when she knows you are so strong

as a man that you don’t lose your strength just

because you didn’t get some woman. 

A woman wants to know she is with a man who

is so strong and so confident emotionally, that

he would have STILL been at peace, strong,

and confident, and never be needy for a woman,

even had he NOT met her. And she wants to

know that your moral convictions would not

be sacrificed out of desperation just to get the

approval of some woman. 

So, back to the part above where you are letting

her know you are cool no matter what happens,  

by doing that you are showing that you are persistent,

that you don’t up when something seems right, and

you are encouraging her to give you her phone number,

yet you are also showing that you are not needy for her.

This is also where social intelligence comes in:

If a woman tells you she has had a stalker, it

makes sense that you don’t push too hard too fast.

Assess the evidence- how much effort is she putting

into the conversation? Is she showing you signs of

genuine interest? Yes? Then it’s probably worth it

to have some more patience. 

Also, here’s another important tip- treat EACH

approach, each woman, as an INDIVIDUAL.

Do NOT try to sort all women into COOKIE

CUTTER categories, because this is not some

kind of MASS MARKETING PRODUCT you

are trying to sell, it is YOU connecting to HER,

and it is all about the MOST INTIMATE CONNECTION.

You MUST listen to hear for all the nuances of her

personality, her values, her passions, her SOUL.

THIS is the kind of COMMITMENT that will

PAY OFF when you meet the RIGHT woman.

Sure, you can take the COOKIE CUTTER approach

to women, and you will get SOME results, but you

will not get the kind of woman that truly ignites

your soul, and I assure you that cookie cutter

shortcut attitude will not ignite HER soul, either.

I believe that when done right, the connection

between a man and a woman is by FAR the

most POWERFUL driving force in human nature.

So, if you are reading this right now, and would like

to learn how to go about the process of approaching

women so that you don’t BLOW IT with the kind of

woman who is worth more than all the others combined,

you may want to learn from me, because I actually care

about this as much as you do.

In fact, it’s all I’ve been focused on for over twelve YEARS.

There are all kinds of SEMINARS out there on relationships.

Some of them are even made by guys who simultaneously
promote the most superficial connections.

 

And guess what? When things are WRONG,

they are usually wrong from the BEGINNING.       

The whole FOUNDATION is screwed up.

So the answer to screwed up relationships is not some

SEMINAR BAND-AID for couples.   

When there is a REAL problem, the answer is 

a total RE-HAUL from the ground up.

Meet the RIGHT woman in the FIRST place,

and BE the right kind of MAN IN THE FIRST PLACE.

The right man and the right woman understand what men
and women used to know for thousands of years until
 modern so-called "experts" ranging from feminists to
others belonging to various warped ways of thinking took
over the discussion.

Meet the RIGHT woman in the FIRST place.
Be the RIGHT man.
That way, you have a solid foundation where you

GROW TOGETHER instead of grow APART.

The right foundation with a woman begins with

the very first MOMENT you approach her.

Perhaps you would like to learn through BOOTCAMP.

This is where I show you how to do everything in real

life, on women EVERYWHERE, from supermarkets to

public transit to coffee shops to bookstores and just

about everywhere else as well.

This all takes place in real places, on real women.

This isn’t actors or acting, this is the real thing.

This program is VERY different from typical

BOOTCAMP programs. It’s not about lowering

yourself to common standards, it’s about finding

and attracting the women that would make for

a truly great girlfriend or even “the one”.

Bootcamp is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

For a full catalog of all my home-study programs,

each one of which has gone through a painstaking

process to ensure you are getting only the BEST

advice, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

You will find programs on every aspect of attraction

and dating, from how to approach, to how to get over

approach anxiety, and much, much more.  

For am exclusive, personal consultation with me

on any matter related to attraction or dating, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Using Tonality to Attract Women, And An Important New Film About Dating And Finding A Quality Woman In Today's Society

Today is an extremely important newsletter.
The first part deals with one of the most
POWERFUL things you can do to INSTANTLY
skyrocket your attractive presence to women,
and the second part of this newsletter deals
with an important project I’ve been working
on regarding meeting, attracting, and keeping
the kind of woman who would make for a loyal,
loving, and supportive girlfriend or wife.

PART ONE: VOCAL FREQUENCY

Several years ago, I was invited to speak to
a group of hundreds of men who had come
from all over the world and who had taken
an entire week out of their lives to spend
from morning to late at night IMMERSED
in learning how to truly improve themselves
when it comes to meeting, attracting, and
keeping the kind of woman that is beautiful
inside and out.

I could have started with any one of hundreds
of different strategies, but I decided to give
the men the biggest bang for their buck, so
to speak, by focusing on one thing that will
give MASSIVE and IMMEDIATE results
without having to spend a TON of time learning
how to do it properly.

It was about using your VOICE effectively.
I gave a simple exercise for the group:

Say the following sentence, each time
DIFFERENTLY, to emphasize different
emotions in your voice.

That simple sentence was:

THE APPLE IS RED.

A had volunteers come up and demonstrate this
in front of the entire group.

One time, the goal was to say the sentence in
a way that conveyed SENSUALITY.

So, when uttered to convey SENSUALITY,
the sentence was delivered SLOWLY, almost
OOOZING out of the lips, and it was BREATHY,
you could HEAR THE BREATH, the breathing,

“The-hhhhhhhhhh ahhhhhplehhhhhh isssssssssssss
rhhhhhhhhhhhhhhheeeeeed”.

Another time, the sentence had to be delivered
conveying an UPBEAT tonality.

The APPLE is RED!

Another time, the sentence had to be delivered
conveying pure CONFIDENCE.

The APPLE is RED.

This exercise continued in this fashion, with the
volunteers and the GROUP practicing in real time,
the whole exercise being done in just a few MINUTES.

Then, for the next step, the goal was to COMBINE
emotions that had to be conveyed in the tonality.

The goal was to say the sentence in a way that was
BREATHY-SENSUAL, CONFIDENT, AND DOMINANT.

Suddenly, the sentence didn’t FEEL like
“The apple is red”. It may have been those WORDS,
but it FELT like it was the kind of thing that belonged
in the BEDROOM.

The truth is, if you approach a woman and use this
strategy, you could ask for something as banal as
THE TIME and it will have a MASSIVE POSITIVE
EFFECT, but if you also COMBINE this with actually
ALSO understanding the OTHER things I also teach
you, you will be UNSTOPPABLE.

One of the coolest things about being in this field,
is that I have gotten to know some amazing people,
and thanks to one of those people, I can now also
BACK THIS UP with some SERIOUS research-
in other words, I had observed this from my OWN
years of actually doing this in person, but there
now exists TONS of evidence for what I have
been teaching as well. Thanks to a very cool guy
I know, you can now see the EVIDENCE for
yourselves, you can check out the articles

if you like. 

One is titled Charismatic Speakers Manipulate

Their Vocal Frequency, by Melissa Hogenboom,

Science reporter, BBC News, which in itself

references earlier research,  and that article

was called Voice Pitch Influences Voting Behavior,

by Cara C. Tigue, Diana J. Borak, Jillian J.M. O'Connor,
Charles Schandl, David R. Feinberg, Department of Psychology,
Neuroscience, and Behaviour, McMaster University.

Why do I mention these details?

Because I think it’s important to have

BOATLOADS of SOLID EVIDENCE,

rather than "fluff" and other b.s. that does 

not employ the scientific method.

The take-away for you, when it comes to
approaching women, is to learn to USE your
voice in different ways, and this does not mean
to try to act like you sound like Darth Vader
in order to sound masculine, it means that you
are able to CONVEY the different emotions
in your voice.

There is a TIME to sound GENTLE.
There is a TIME to sound DOMINANT.
There is a TIME to sound UPBEAT.
There is a TIME to sound SENSUAL.

And very often, there is a time to COMBINE
these emotions in your voice.

In general, if you are a beginner and learning these skills,
and you want to drive with “automatic transmission”
rather than on “standard”, I suggest you usually keep the
SENSUALITY and the DOMINANCE higher in your
initial approaches, since most men tend to open their
conversations with women with too LITTLE of those.

And you can practice with a simple sentence:
“THE APPLE IS RED.”

Do not take the simplicity of this exercise to mean
it is not SUPREMELY POWERFUL.

My goal is to help you and to try to make the process
something you can PUT INTO ACTION rather than
it just being some insanely difficult theory to comprehend.

The EVIDENCE backs up everything I am telling you.
Your TONALITY should be thought of as more important
than your CLOTHING.

You probably think that walking around in your
pajamas when you want to meet a woman might
not be the best idea at the bookstore or club or
wherever. And that’s because you don’t want
to give the wrong impression, right?

Well, your TONALITY actually DRESSES YOU
UP in a woman’s mind. The question is, what
“outfit”, so to speak, are you WEARING?

What is your tonality saying about you?
What do you want to be saying?

Remember, your tonality reveals your STATE
OF MIND. It tells a woman how you FEEL
in that moment. It tells a woman what you think
about yourself in that moment. And all she knows
about you at that moment is what you are presenting
IN THAT MOMENT.

Use this strategy NOW, use it the very next time you
see a woman you’d like to meet.

By the way, if you STILL don’t believe how powerful
this strategy is, just notice how the one thing that just
about ALL leading men have is the ability to stand out
VOCALLY.

PART II: THE IMPORTANCE OF BALANCE,

AND A FILM TO GET PEOPLE TALKING 

As you may know, Get A Great Girl is truly about
getting a quality woman, the kind of woman that
can be a truly awesome life-long partner.

You may wonder why I haven’t gone the path
of the mainstream, which sells the fantasy of
endless women.

It’s because I already know that is not the path
to INNER BALANCE.

The key to everything is BALANCE, and in
fact, if anything, we need to err on the side of
being a little STRONGER and tougher on ourselves
than babying ourselves, because we are living in
a society that encourages the EASY WAY OUT.

What do I mean by this?
What I mean is that we are bombarded by messages
that sell things, that all say HAVE MORE FUN,
DO LESS WORK, GET MORE WOMEN,
EAT MORE SUGAR, SALT, AND FAT,
GET RICH QUICK, DO LESS AND GET MORE.

The human being did not evolve to actually
THRIVE in an environment of TOO MUCH
of the “good stuff”.

Sugar, salt, fat. These are good things, in small
quantities. There was a time when these things
were HARD to get, and when calories were
hard to get, so it was GOOD that we really
LIKED these kinds of things, since it MOTIVATED
us to do what we had to do, to GET these things,
and we tended to only get these things in small
quantities, even with great effort.

There was BALANCE.

Similarly, when it comes to our desire for women,
it was never exactly easy for a multitude of reasons.

And yet, we are now bombarded with so much
stimulation, that the average adult male is probably
exposed to THOUSANDS of images of women
who are attractive every day.

That is far more than most men saw in an entire
LIFETIME just a few decades ago.

For a moment, think of ANCIENT SPARTA.

Life was tough, on PURPOSE.

And the result was the creation of WARRIORS.

They purposely designed their life to avoid becoming
"SOFT" and WEAK.

You can bet they avoided excess indulgences in
anything.

The result was greater STRENGTH- of mind, of
body, of EVERYTHING.

And you can bet that THAT kind of man was far more
VISCERALLY appealing to a woman than a man who
was all needy and weak for ANYTHING- including
needy and over-indulgent when it came to women.



Now, I’m not saying at all that we need to go to
SPARTAN lengths, but we do need to exert a HERCULEAN
effort to PUT balance into our lives in many areas,
INCLUDING the area of having a girlfriend and
meeting women, etc.

There have been so many things that have thrown
the balance off. From the invention of the pill
that suddenly made it possible for women to not
have to deal with the natural consequences of sex,
which therefore meant not having to be as careful
about choosing the right partner, to technological
innovations that have made the actually PHYSICAL
need for men’s strength not as necessary as before-
still necessary for many things, but not as many things
as before.

Plus, there are tons of other things that have changed
as well, the natural division of labor between men
and women, the raising of children, and of course
the fact that men are bombarded by "false triggers"
of stimulation in a society that uses the sexual to
sell just about EVERYTHING. 

The rise of feminism without an equal rise in women
understanding men, and without men even understanding
what all this means for them and for women.

And I’m not here to say all of of these things, like
technology, are BAD.

But, make no mistake about it, there is DEFINITELY
AN IMBALANCE going on.

And very few men or women truly understand it
or know what to do about it. All they do is just
stand back and watch how relationships and families
struggle with it all, and nobody has the answers.

Now, I’m not going to be so arrogant to pretend
I have all the answers, but I can tell you that there
IS a better way than the way most men and women
go about the process of finding each other, dating,
and relationships.

For over a decade, I’ve devoted myself to helping
men meet women, especially to meet women who
are loyal, faithful, loving, supportive, and who could
be great girlfriends or wives.

In the past year, I’ve been working on another angle.
Sometimes FACTS are not enough.

Sometimes, to get people moving, they need to get
EMOTIONAL.

Does this sound familiar?
If it does, it’s because you’ve learned from me
that it’s not enough to explain to a woman why
you are the right one for her, you must instead
get her FEELING that emotionally, not academically.

Before I entered this field, I had spent many years
writing, including writing stories where the good
guy gets the girl in the end, and then when I realized
how reality ACTUALLY works, I couldn’t write
that stuff anymore.

Being a good guy in itself is not enough, not even
for the "nicest" woman, and yet nobody taught
me this, and no one else I knew had been taught
this either.

Well, after ten years of helping men, I’ve written and
filmed a movie that is all about the situation for men when
it comes to their struggle to get a great woman.

It’s almost ready, and this is where you come in.

Let me know if you are interested in the promotion
of this film. At the heart of this film, is the importance
of a GENUINE COMMITMENT between a man
and a woman, something that is becoming ever more
scarce in today's "Tinder-Dating" society.

This film is all about the struggle that wise men
have had to face; this is a story that no one
wants to tell because it isn't politically correct
to portray men as anything other than buffoons
or sex-crazed violent demons. Men are so often
portrayed as either rapists, bad guys, or nerds,
when in reality there are a lot of men of solid character
and inner strength who simply won't lower their
moral standards just to get physical with women.

This film is not something I am doing for money.
It is part of the MISSION that I have been on
for over TEN YEARS.

The MISSION to bring back some sanity into
the world of dating and relationships between
men and women.

I want to get people talking- men, women,
EVERYONE. This needs to become an issue
we actually discuss, instead of just distracting
ourselves with other things.

If you are reading this right now, this may be the
moment in several years from now where you
reflect back and remember that this is where you
became part of something that helped change
the world in a positive way.

So it’s really simple- let me know if you’d
like to join this mission, a mission to bring
back MEANING into the connection between
men and women.

You can contact me at my email listed in the
‘from’ section of this email, and if you have
any questions about how I can help you meet
the woman of your dreams, you can email
me as well, or you can visit my website at:

http://www.on2url.com/lnk?/0o54Sk/S1o%3D

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Navigating the High Seas of Truth vs. Lies When It Comes To Attracting Women

What you are about to read may be
the most important newsletter on
the topic of attracting women that
you will ever read, ESPECIALLY
if you happen to already be reading
a lot about this topic from various
sources.

There are all kinds of people out there,
some people are honest and some people
are not, and some people are misguided
even though they think they are being
helpful. All this applies to both men and
women, and it certainly applies to the world
of dating advice.

When I finally started to uncover the truth
about women, I also started to uncover the
truth about dating advice and I learned a
whole lot about the human race.

So, the first thing I want to let you know
about are some of the most destructive
LIES that some men believe about women
and about attraction.

It's important to know these so that you
don't get led down the wrong path and
so that you don't end up with a woman
who brings you misery, but rather you
end up with a woman who enhances
your life.

Number 1: That All Women Are Promiscuous    

Now, although promiscuity amongst women is
probably increasing these days, partially because
the IDEA of it is being FORCE-FED to women by
many of the female celebrities, that ironically
enough, THEMSELVES aren’t actually that
promiscuous at all.

So, for example, the singer Nelly Furtado,
who wrote the song “Promiscuous Girl”,
which seems to celebrate the whole idea,
isn’t actually HERSELF that way at all.

Similarly, MOST other female celebrities
just engage in the ATTENTION-GRABBING
tactics to increase their fame, but aren’t actually
INTERESTED in being promiscuous for REAL.

Whether it’s because they don’t want to get
STIs or STDs or just because they would rather
find something more meaningful, or whether
it’s just because they are too busy actually
focusing their energies on improving their
lives and careers, they JUST DON’T ACTUALLY
LIVE THOSE KIND OF LIVES for the most part.

Now, you might be asking why I think it’s
so important to know this.

The reason is because it’s easy to get a
DISTORTED perception of reality when
you are under STRESS, including the
stress of trying to attract women, or get a
girlfriend, date, etc.

And if you hang out in circles where all
the women are promiscuous, you can
begin to think ALL women EVERYWHERE
are promiscuous.

PLUS, there are a lot of so called dating experts
out there who will try to INDOCTRINATE
their students with the idea that picking up
women at nightclubs and taking them home
the same night is the BEST way to attract
women, and that ANY GUY WHO DOESN’T
THINK THAT ALL WOMEN WILL SLEEP
WITH A GUY THE FIRST NIGHT THEY
MEET HIM IS A FOOL LIVING IN A
DREAMWORLD.

The reason it’s so important for certain so called
experts to have men believe this lie is to prevent
having men from criticizing the so called EXPERT:
In other words, the “expert” doesn’t want any guy
to bring up the fact that the women he is being
taught how to attract home the same night happen
to ALSO BE DRUNK and also be PROMISCUOUS.

But, if you can be made to believe that ALLLLLLL
women are out having non-stop promiscuous lives,
and that supposedly all these women are secretly
LAUGHING at any guy who even THINKS that
some non-promiscuous women exist, well then,
if you can be made to believe all THAT, then
you won’t criticize the “expert” for the fact that
he is showing you only how to attract promiscuous
women, right?

It’s no COINCIDENCE that these so called experts
are trying to say that all women are promiscuous,
and it’s no COINCIDENCE that these women are
often DRUNK, and it’s no COINCIDENCE that
it’s THESE women that are their examples of
“success stories”.

In fact, the so called experts also EXPLOIT the
very ANGER that some guys might FEEL if they
DO end up believing that all women are so promiscuous-
after all, if all women are so superficial and care so
LITTLE about any REAL relationship or any REAL
concepts of loyalty, family, fidelity, and logic, then
then you might as well go ALL OUT ON BECOMING
A PICK UP ARTIST since there is nothing else
in terms of actually having something more special
with any woman.

It’s all “good for business” as the saying goes.
Many of these so called experts don’t care about
ANYONE, not the male clients, and the not the
women either. The only thing that really warms
their hearts is the sight of another program sold.

So where does that leave me?
Don’t I want to sell some stuff too?
To be honest with you, OF COURSE.

But I also accept the REALITY that truth is
a HARD-SELL.  People don’t like truth.

This is why natural bodybuilding contests
won’t ever make any money.  People don’t
care about truth, they just want to get
INSTANT ENTERTAINMENT.

So, PACK on the STEROIDS for a
CIRCUS SHOW!

I’m not even against guys who DO take
steroids if that is what they want personally,
my point is that the REGULAR TRUTH
doesn’t tend to get people’s attention, but
things that DON’T REPRESENT TRUTH
and that are “FAR OUT” DO GET ATTENTION.

People are desensitized to so much stimulation,
so they only respond to stimulation that is
FAR OUT TO THE EXTREME, regardless
of whether it represents truth or not.
 
It’s the same thing with many infomercials
for exercise equipment. Most people are too
WEAK, EMOTIONALLY, not physically,
to ACCEPT the idea that maybe they should
exercise some DISCIPLINE over their DIET,
and that they need to actually BREAK A
SWEAT while doing a workout.

So instead, there’s a new magic piece
of equipment that will replace a sensible diet
and good old-fashioned exercise, and somehow
it will the be okay to eat ten pizzas a day, guzzle
down 12 beers, etc. as long as you do the special
magical “snap your fingers” workout which only
lasts 15 seconds a day.

This concept of PROMISCUITY is indeed
HUGE. It strikes the very CORE of what
men WANT and DON’T WANT in a woman.

Men are HARD-WIRED to want a woman
that indeed is going to be faithful.

It goes right back to a PRIMAL force
in men that wants to ensure paternity
and ensure that the woman's child
is his, and not some other man's.

We EVOLVED to feel a certain way about
promiscuous women and to DENY IT
is as IGNORANT as to deny that we are
PHYSICALLY attracted to women with
certain waist-to-hip ratios, etc. 

And that introduces us to the NEXT LIE
spread by many so called experts, which is:

Number 2: That Promiscuity Has Nothing 
To Do With Fidelity and Loyalty.
 
Of course, these so called experts don’t
want you to think that there is ANY 
connection between promiscuity and
a woman’s faithfulness.

Again, this is so you don’t criticize their
programs, which focus on how to get 
women into bed as fast as possible rather
than anything else.

Meanwhile, the ACTUAL EVIDENCE AND
ALL THE POLLS AND STATISTICS ALL
POINT TO ONE ABSOLUTELY CLEAR
CONCLUSION: That indeed a woman's
promiscuity is a super STRONG indication
that she will be unfaithful to you. 

Again, although it is scientifically POSSIBLE
for a woman (or a man) to be, or have been,
promiscuous and ALSO be faithful NOW,
it’s just usually NOT the case.

But TRUTH often is NOT a major player in
the land of dating advice and business. What
is often the case is the APPEARANCE of
truth rather than ACTUAL TRUTH.
But ask yourself a simple question:
If a woman had so many partners before
me, what changed in HER just because she
met ME?

As important as self-esteem is, it’s important
to also realize that CHANGING ONE’S
SELF is the HARDEST WORK THERE IS.

So why on EARTH should you believe that
a woman magically changed overnight the
moment she met YOU?  Even if she loves
you, it still has nothing to do with her ability
to change this aspect of herself, and it’s usually
a reflection of other aspects of herself as well.

Here’s another LIE that ends up leading men
ASTRAY when it comes to attracting the
right women:

Number Three: Nothing Matters But Confidence
Or “Pick Up Tactics”

Hey, the truth is, I’m all FOR having
EMPOWERING BELIEFS.

And there really are BILLIONS of women
on the planet, so it’s a LOGICAL TRUTH
that in fact no matter who you are, you can
indeed get yourself the kind of woman you
want.

This is a very different thing, though, than
telling men that women care about NOTHING
except your confidence and your pick up tactics.

Since day one, I have never AVOIDED mentioning
the superficial.  In my very first book, called
The Dating Wizard, I make it clear that working
out is important. By the way, it also helps increase
confidence and boosts testosterone, which
allows you to also get in touch with your
aggressive/dominant side when it is necessary,
(this is a whole topic in itself, and is mostly
overdone and abused by most men) and this
is also attractive to women.

I have never advocated the immature belief
that as a guy, you should just try to go for the
EXTREME WHEN IT COMES TO THE
SUPERFICIAL ASPECTS of women while
also developing NONE of the superficial
aspects of yourself.

Rather, I believe, it is MOST effective and
wise to know what you actually NEED
IN TERMS OF THE SUPERFICIAL
in a woman, to get TRULY TURNED ON,
and to then focus the REST of your energy
on making sure she has the RIGHT
CHARACTER TRAITS.

Sprint used to have the saying
“The Most For The Least”, and
I believe it is wise to simply make
a BINARY decision when it comes to
LOOKS in a woman, i.e. ARE YOU
SERIOUSLY ATTRACTED, OR NOT?

Once you know the kind of or level of looks
in a woman that flips the switch internally in
you, why waste energy on any MORE?

The REST of your energy should go into
finding women that match at least that
level of looks and who also have the
AWESOME CHARACTER TRAITS.

There are ALL KINDS of different personality
traits out there in women, just like there are
in men.  There are UNIVERSALLY ATTRACTIVE
things you can do to attract women, yet you must
also make sure to get the RIGHT WOMAN,
who values honesty, truth, kindness, wisdom,
hard work, sharing, etc. 

You must use the skills I teach you for
DETECTING a woman’s character as
quickly as possible so you don’t waste
precious time and energy on the wrong
women.

Too many men are trying to freaking
impress other people or prove a point
to themselves when it comes to women,
and that road never ends if you take that
road, because it all stems from things that
no woman can ever solve.

So, in a way, I suggest going for the
LEAST, but the least that makes you
ECSTATICALLY HAPPY, and
MASSIVELY TURNED ON, and
I suggest you ALSO do the MOST
you can to ALSO become confident,
charismatic, witty, understanding,
empathetic, inspiring, a leader, etc.

This way, you are GIVING MASSIVE
VALUE BACK TO THE WOMAN YOU
MEET, which ensures she is going to treat
you like a KING.

You definitely want a woman to feel
HAPPY AS HELL TO BE WITH YOU.

It’s not enough that YOU want to be
with her, she MUST BE CRAZY
IN LOVE WITH YOU.

Now, I have some more good news for you.

This Monday is Thanksgiving over here,
and I want to give YOU a special opportunity
to make the woman you want be absolutely
GA-GA over  you.
  
This is my Thanksgiving Ultra Offer,
and it includes:

1. My entire ATTRACTION MASTERY PROGRAM.

This program is a WORKHORSE. It was designed
originally as the FOLLOW-UP program to my
original DATING WIZARD book. 

The DATING WIZARD gives you the FOUNDATION,
and my ATTRACTION MASTERY PROGRAM builds
upon this knowledge and goes IN-DEPTH to take
you to the NEXT LEVEL.

Whether it is how to use your voice with women,
how to deal with other guys hitting on the woman
you are with, how to approach women and exactly
what to do every step of the way from the very
first words out of your mouth, to how to dress
in a way that says all the right subtle messages
about who you are, to how to get her thinking of
you in a PHYSICAL way and not as just a "friend',
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This program is INDISPENSABLE; it belongs in
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with women.

This program normally sells for $300.

But if you order within the next 24 hours,
(before Saturday night), you can get this
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And yet, the awesomeness doesn’t stop there.

If you order within the next 24 hours,
I will ALSO include my LATEST audio
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This program contains my LATEST insights,
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So you can get BOTH programs together,
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And, what is fantastic about both programs
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Get this program now and start using
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This offer WILL EXPIRE on Saturday night,
October 11, 2014, just before midnight, so that
means you have one full day to take advantage
of this offer.

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of this special offer:

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Allow me to also make something else super-clear: My coaching WORKS to help men meet and attract QUALITY WOMEN.

And I’m not saying that marriage is the
only definition of a serious relationship,
but several men who have taken my programs
ended up meeting the woman they married
just DAYS after completing my programs,
including my bootcamp programs and my
live phone coaching and home-study
programs.

This is not a joke, it’s a FACT.
In fact, sometimes the guys want to invite
me to their weddings because they feel that
without my coaching it would have never
happened, but they also don’t know how
to invite me to the wedding without
explaining who I am, which is totally
cool by me.  I like being a secret that
does positive things for people.

You don't have to want to get married to
benefit from these programs.  These programs
are about how to attract a quality woman that
will treat you right, who is a woman you also feel
tremendous chemistry for, and who is a woman
that will feel tremendous chemistry for you as well.

Take this special opportunity now, before
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This special offer is at:

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Getting A Woman Of VALOR

If you’ve been following my work
for any amount of time, you know
that I am obsessed with truth and
accuracy.  I describe the specifics
of what you need to know with
almost surgical-like precision.

Now, if a guy just wants to “get physical”
with some kind of woman, and does not
care about whether this woman is going
to be a faithful woman who is going to
cheat on him or not, then obviously it’s
not that important that a guy be as careful
to do things RIGHT.

In fact, the WRONG kind of women will
be ATTRACTED to behavior that echoes
“SODOM AND GOMORRAH” type values
wrapped in a veneer of ethics.

What I mean by this is, appealing to the
base desires, but wrapping it up by also
paying lip service to things like showing
that you respect her, that it’s important
that she respects you, etc.

LIP SERVICE instead of the real thing.
You see, even men and women who
don’t have ethics, they still want to feel
good about themselves, so this is why
they like to pay lip service in their conversations
to things like “I don’t do one night stands”
or “I’m looking for something meaningful”
or “I’m looking for an authentic connection”
but then at the same time there are inconsistencies
in their conversation/behavior, etc. 

Everyone wants to feel good about themselves,
including the people who are fooling themselves.

But, when a man wants to get a truly
rare catch, the kind of woman that is
going to be faithful and respect him,
the kind of woman that is BRAVE
enough to defy the screwed-up morals
of society, the kind of woman that is
truly a WOMAN OF VALOR, then
ALL THE THINGS I TEACH become
SUPER IMPORTANT.

For example, being able to DETECT
immediately whether a woman is a
potential candidate for being a faithful
woman is IMPORTANT.

And, if she IS such a woman, then it becomes
of PARAMOUNT significance that you
set up the initial interaction on a SOLID
FOUNDATION that includes “proof of
ethics”.

Now, it can’t be limited to ONLY this
“good stuff”, because there have to also
be components of  ATTRACTION and
sexuality, but there must ALSO be an
exchange of “proof of ethics” between
each other.

“Proof of ethics” is not a simple thing to
see or convey.  It has to do with a lot more
than what you or she says.  It has to do with
the CONGRUENCY in which you both show
RESPECT, and even the SLIGHTEST shift
OFF of that congruency, the slightest
INCONSISTENCY can tell you a LOT about
someone.

So, for example, if a woman tells you how hard
it is to find a good guy, and how hard she has
been trying to find a good man, but you notice
that she displays signs of promiscuity, then you
have to ask yourself just how careful she is
with screening the men she is with.

If a woman tells you how important respect is,
but she doesn’t actually SHOW it to you, or to
anyone else around her who is innocent, you
already know she is OUT of the running.  

In this world, there is a LOT of FAKING
going on.  There is a lot of CHEATING
going on.  And, by the way, the cheating
and other blights of character are not limited
to any economic class, any religion, race, or
gender. It is a HUMAN flaw, and so the ONLY
solution is to inspect the INDIVIDUAL.

Finding and attracting the RIGHT kind of
woman is a BIG DEAL.  It is a very big
deal. 

The right woman becomes not only a great
source of PASSION in your life, but also
becomes a PARTNER in your life.

But the wrong woman will cost you your
energy, your finances, your emotions, and
your HEALTH.

And if you have children, it can be really
messy as well if you have to split up.

Now, on the OTHER HAND, let’s say you
meet a truly fantastic woman that you are
crazy about, and she treats you with total
respect, well then it becomes super important
that YOU don’t screw things up as a result
of MISREADING her or the situation.

It becomes ESSENTIAL that you are able
to SEPARATE distortion from fact.  This is
easier said than done, because the more we
get EMOTIONAL about something and the
more we value something, the harder it is
to see things as they REALLY ARE.

So this does not just mean when you really
don’t like a woman, it also means when you
really do like a woman as well.

If you don’t want to LOSE a great woman,
you MUST be able to see the full truth of
any situation you are in with her.

This is another area why my expertise comes in.
I can assess a situation for you so that you know
the TRUTH about her and whatever situation it
is regarding her that you are trying to figure out.

Sometimes this also includes seeing where you
may have made an error as well.

Quality women, just like quality men, are RARE.

A woman that knows better than to hang around
other men under the guise that they are all “friends”
is RARE.

A woman that knows that a man cares more about
being RESPECTED than just about anything else
in a relationship, is RARE.

A woman that has not been brainwashed by
horrifying female role models in the media
is RARE.

A woman that understands a man’s sexuality is RARE.

A woman that works hard together WITH you
for a shared future WITH you, is RARE.

A woman that respects truth, (just as a man that respects
truth)  is RARE.

So, when you DO meet such a woman, you
REALLY do NOT want to screw it up.

This is where I come in.  You can consult with me
directly in a private phone consultation or a private
in-person consultation.

I have made it my life’s work to help good men
and women meet each other, and to keep them
attracted and THRIVING together.

This is not “pick up artist” information.
This is about ensuring your success with the kind
of woman that will have an ENORMOUS positive
impact on your LIFE, and this is also about preventing
you from making a mistake and getting with the
wrong kind of woman who will DESTROY your life.

There is no single area of greater impact on
a man’s life than the type of woman he is with.

Let me help you SUCCEED in this area.
For full details on a consultation with me, go here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

If you’re not with a woman right now, and you want
to get my LATEST proven strategies for meeting and
attracting women in the first place, then DEFINITELY
go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/instant-attraction.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Why It Is Tough To Meet Good Women, And What To Do About It

Yesterday, there was an article in the Wall
Street Journal by Matthew Kaminski,
it said the following:

“Vladimir Putin sees a West made soft
by money, led by weak men and women,
unwilling to make sacrifices to defend
their so-called ideals.”

You might be wondering what the heck
this has to do with dating, relationships,
and quality women.

And the answer is, A LOT.

Let's compare our current generation to
a few generations back.

How much SACRIFICE was a couple prepared
to endure to make a relationship or marriage
work, compared to today?

To what degree was something like LOYALTY
and COMMITMENT celebrated compared to today?

These things are not existing in a vacuum
in a society that also celebrates selfishness
in ALL areas to no limit.      

It’s not a coincidence that these things are happening in the last several decades, when things like family, relationships, marriage, and love of country have become attacked by the forces of UNFETTERED greed, lust, and selfish individual desire.

I say “unfettered” because, the truth is,
SELFISHNESS to a degree, IS important,
it IS natural, we MUST take care of ourselves,
but not to the point of INSANITY.

Just to prove how far things have gone,
can you IMAGINE there existing
websites that actually PROMOTE
affairs, 50 years ago?

50 years ago, if a politician was caught in
a SCANDAL, or lying, it was a big deal.
NOW, we practically EXPECT IT and
what is even more, we tend to EXCUSE
it, as long as it doesn’t affect our
FINANCIAL lives. 

Who cares if a president  or prime minster
cheats on his wife?
Who cares if a president lies, or if he has
never served his country in battle?
DOES IT AFFECT MY MONEY?????
Who cares if a president’s wife has said
things like she has barely felt any love or
pride for her country, as long as it doesn’t
affect my WALLET, right?????????????

As a society, we make the mistake of thinking
that if something isn't TANGIBLE, that it
is not important.

So something like a president's or prime minister's
CHARACTER doesn't seem important to a lot of people,
all people want to know is will it give them more
money or less money.

The GREATEST IRONY OF ALL is that
we are simultaneously living in the most
politically correct time in history.

As my best friend has stated, the truth is that
POLITICAL CORRECTNESS has actually
become a way to get away with GREAT EVIL.

So, on the SURFACE, we are as a society
very POLITICALLY CORRECT. 

God forbid you should make a joke that might
possibly not kiss someone’s butt, even if it is
meant in a good way.  Don’t even admit you
enjoy a woman’s beauty, that is a big sin.

And the kind of politically incorrect
entertainment that is on, like Family Guy,
is not designed to ELEVATE us, it is
designed to just shock us, meanwhile,
a few decades ago, a politically incorrect
show like ALL IN THE FAMILY was designed
to make us think and to elevate us morally.

Overall though, today, we are very
politically correct on the SURFACE.

Meanwhile, please go on and secretly
have affairs, cheat people in business,
BE LENIENT ON corporate fraud, and lie
through your teeth, all in the name of making
more money or having more sex.

Yes, in a few ways we have made progress, and
it is true that things like women getting the vote
and fighting against various forms of discrimination
have been MASSIVELY IMPORTANT things.  We've
also improved in terms of MEDICINE. 

I like to keep things honest.

Aside from those admittedly HUGE things, however,
we have LOST a ton of SOUL-SUSTAINING things
as well, and it mostly stems from celebrating GREED
and LUST and not having enough of a celebration of
things like DISCIPLINE and LOYALTY.

So it’s no surprise that relationships are suffering
as well, as hundreds of millions of people have
become brainwashed by the new ideals.

It used to be, that the Western world celebrated
FREEDOM, but also celebrated the RESPONSIBLE
USE of FREEDOM. 

It is for these reasons why it has become ever
more important to be SELECTIVE when   
it comes to the women you allow into your life.

One of the most bizarre things is that the
pick up artists PRETEND to show they are
screening women, because they know it
makes it SEEM like they are having high
standards, which is attractive, but I actually
MEAN IT, it’s not a game, you must really
HAVE these high standards if you actually
want to meet a woman of quality.

A woman that is not brainwashed by the b.s.

It is also an interesting irony that some of the
greatest women I have met come from countries
where they had so little freedom, that when they
DID come to the west, they APPRECIATED
the freedom so much that they CHERISHED
IT and used it WISELY. 

It wasn’t an opportunity to go out and have affairs
or screw people over in business, it was an opportunity
to reach one’s full potential, get educated, be creative,
have a family, and enjoy life.

Getting a great woman today is truly a challenge.
It’s also real hard for those women to meet
a great guy.

You must be RUTHLESS AND HARD in your SCREENING
when it comes to dating women.

First of all, BEING THIS WAY is in ITSELF
attractive to a quality woman. She is
ATTRACTED to the fact you are STRONG
enough to RESIST women who do NOT
meet your standards.

In fact, SOME women actually ACT BADLY
JUST TO SEE IF YOU WILL NOT TAKE THEIR B.S.
I personally don't suggest you date those
women, but those women do exist.

Second of all, you must be this way in order
to be in the RIGHT FRAME OF MIND to preserve
your character.

It is a slippery slope, once you start to
ACCEPT the wrong ideals, the wrong values,
the wrong behavior from a woman, you start
to DOUBT YOUR OWN MORAL CODE, you start to
go against your own cherished values, you
start to experience INNER CONFLICT, you
become SOFT AND WEAK, and guess what?

This repulses ALL WOMEN!

Be tough, be strong, be RUTHLESS about your
values, defend them to the last breath.

And you will see just how far women will go
to get you, and of course, you will also now
have to be doubly strong, as this very action will
often make so many women attracted to you,
that you will have to SHUN the attention
of the wrong women and ONLY allow in the
right ones.
 
If you are serious about getting a quality woman,
you should probably sign up for my new monthly
audio program, called The Quality Man. It is
all about how to find and attract those rare
quality women that still exist.

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/thequalityman.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Biggest Secret To Understanding And Succeeding With Women Today

If you are a man who has ever wondered
WHY things are the way they are when
it comes to dating and attracting women
today, then I believe this newsletter may
be the most important thing you have
ever read on the topic.

Knowing this “WHY” element is a HUGE
part of being able to do the “WHAT” element
in order to GET the kind of woman you want.

So here we go:

One of the BIGGEST shocks I had when I
started out approaching women for the purpose
of dating them is that almost EVERY SINGLE
WOMAN I would meet, would do at least
SOMETHING very early on that I found
downright DISRESPECTFUL.

I didn’t even know at the time that this is
something that just about EVERY MAN
goes through with women.

So let me give you some examples of things
I am talking about, because I want it to be
really clear. Also, all these women that
I am mentioning were not some kinds of
EXTREME CASES, these were typical
attractive women, with normal jobs
ranging from teachers to lawyers to
secretaries to entrepreneurs to computer
programmers to waitresses etc, etc, etc.

And  in GENERAL, these women were
NOT malicious, not mean-spirited, and
in fact in GENERAL were very warm,
sensitive, and giving people.

On one first date, a particular woman would
start talking about some male celebrity from
TV and ESPECIALLY TRY TO KEEP HINTING
TO ME that she found him very attractive.

This might sound like nothing, but this was
coming from a woman who was EXTREMELY
insecure and actually thought I was possibly
more interested (I wasn’t at all) in other women
crossing the street when we were in the car
stopped at a light at the intersection.

So I say this to make it clear that anyone who
was so insecure about those things would clearly
understand NOT to “press someone’s buttons”
by trying to stir a little jealousy.

Again, I want to make it CLEAR that OTHERWISE,
this woman actually was a VERY SENSITIVE
woman who was thoughtful and caring and
nurturing.

Another woman, early on the very first conversation,
tried to imply she was only interested in men with
certain Titanic-sized anatomical proportions. 

As crazy as this sounds, this woman also turned
out to be a very NON-SUPERFICIAL person
who was extremely WARM and GIVING.

Another two women, who kept on telling me how
IMPOSSIBLE it was to find a loyal guy, shared
a particular thing in common: Right after being
physically intimate (I try to speak with class here)
they started talking about how HOT certain
celebrities were, both MALE and FEMALE.

And both of these women would have been
SEVERELY HURT had I started speaking
about how hot I thought Megan Fox was
or something like that, especially RIGHT
AFTER DOING THE DEED WITH THEM!

I could go on and on with the REAL REPORTS
from OTHER guys who have told me their own
stories. One guy told me how a woman he was
out with, on a first date, everything was going
GREAT, and then she suddenly called him a
NEANDERTHAL, and not in a “cute” or “nice”
way, because he was TALL.

To me, that is really insane, because if
anything, being TALL is supposed to give
a guy an ADVANTAGE, not a DISADVANTAGE,
with women, right?

And no matter HOW PERFECT a guy was,
in terms of his job, his income, his looks,
his age, his background, NO MATTER
WHAT, I would hear from guys how women
would FIND SOMETHING TO TRY TO GET
UNDER THESE GUYS’ SKINS.

So what the F is going on, right?

We all know that as MEN, we do NOT
act this way toward WOMEN we WANT!

This is the kind of stuff that really makes
a lot of men REALLLLLY ANGRY.

So let me explain to you what is going on,
because it is ONE FREAKY, MASSIVE,
SOUL-SEARING REVELATION.

It’s because women want to PRESERVE
their sense of DIGNITY AND POWER
when they FEEL they are going to actually
be getting VERY VULNERABLE and
VERY NAKED and VERY PHYSICAL
with you VERY SOON.

You see, because we are living in an age
of INSANITY (more on this later below)
where LOVE, DEDICATION, FIDELITY,
LOYALTY, COMMITMENT, TEMPERANCE
IN SEXUALITY, and FAMILY VALUES are
often considered UNCOOL (for men and for women)
and a form of IMPRISONMENT, most women
FEEL they can’t be COOL and immediately also
show a high value for LOVE, LOYALTY, AND
OLD-SCHOOL TRADITIONAL VALUES.

They are afraid if they do that, then that is
the same as saying all they want is to be
barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen and
to never have the vote again.

So, because women feel like they are going
to be SURRENDERING everything they have
physically to you, this is their way to RECLAIM
some balance, some power, some dignity.

If a woman REALLY is not interested in you,
she would just GO AWAY, or ignore you,
she would not put in the EFFORT to
ENGAGE you on any level whatsoever.

When you really want to make someone go
away, you IGNORE them, right?

But it's precisely because a woman feels
she is going to get VERY INVOLVED with you
that she DOES this stuff!!!!!

Of course, there should be NO NEED to have to
do this between two people who GENUINELY
love and respect each other, right?

BUT THAT IS THE WHOLE PROBLEM.
LOVE AND RESPECT and BALANCE
AND TEMPERENCE are NOT COOL
ANYMORE.

Everything is on HIGH GEAR, ULTRA
MODE, ALL THE TIME.

It’s part of our culture.
FAST food.
FAST SERVICE.

LOTS OF SUGAR IN EVERYTHING.
LOTS OF FAT.
LOTS OF SALT.
LOTS OF NUDITY.

LOTS OF PROMISES FOR HOW TO
GET RICH QUICK.

LOTS OF NIGHTCLUBS AND ONLINE
DATING SITES WHERE WOMEN AND
MEN CAN FIND AN INSTANT ONE-NIGHT
STAND.

LOTS OF ADS IN YOUR FACE,
AND IN YOUR EARS, EVERYWHERE.

People have become lazy since they are
bombarded in our culture with messages
GLORIFYING PERSONAL INDULGENCE
WITHOUT ANY LIMITS WHATSOEVER.

Of course, in the same way that too much salt,
sugar, and fat are DESTROYERS, so too is
having an imbalance when it comes to sex,
love, and romance. It has to be a BALANCE
between them, it can’t be too much of one.

So, there are two things to TAKE from all this.

One thing is that, if a woman you’ve just met
or approached or recently started dating suddenly
starts to try to get on your nerves and under your SKIN,
to “push your buttons” so to speak, you should realize
that VERY OFTEN this means she actually is VERY
INTERESTED IN GETTING PHYSICAL WITH YOU.

Therefore, you should not be pissed off, or
angry, or upset in any way.  In fact, you
might even want to calmly look at her
lovingly and tell her the truth with
these words:

"You love me."  

At that point, when you say those words
in a calm, loving, confident way, she is
extremely likely to MELT before you.

The second thing to take from all this is that
JUST BECAUSE SHE IS ATTRACTED TO YOU,
DOES NOT MEAN YOU SHOULD GO FOR IT!!!

And THIS is where I take a VERY DIFFERENT
APPROACH than the pick up artist community.

You see, I am not interested in teaching guys
just how to get physical with women, as
that is like teaching people how to find
food in a BUFFET.  Our current society is
a BUFFET when it comes to that stuff.

There is no PROBLEM finding the physical.

The real goal is how to find a QUALITY
woman that is the TOTAL PACKAGE,
a woman that you are attracted to, a woman
that is kind, intelligent, and that will
ENRICH YOUR LIFE, and that will be a
great partner and possibly a great mother
as well.

And even though all these women who
DEEP DOWN don’t really mean to be
nasty when they try to get under your
skin before they get naked with you,
the fact is these kinds of women STILL
DON’T GET IT. 

The fact is, a woman should be STRONG
ENOUGH to RESIST the crazy culture
that we live in, and to VOICE her REAL
THOUGHTS and TO LIVE THE WAY
SHE REALLY BELIEVES.

So if a woman feels she WANTS genuine
love, if a woman WANTS deep respect,
if a woman wants a man who REALLY
cares for her, she should not be afraid to
VOICE THAT, to CHAT ABOUT THAT,
and to put in the work to SEE what you are
like, and BE CAREFUL about who she
dates.

If a woman is TOO WEAK to do the right
things, that the ONLY WAY she can live her
life is by jumping into bed with you before
she really knows you well, but also making
sure to INSULT you first, she is going to be
a woman who has a very big ISSUE in her life
with you whenever it comes to this particular
issue of TREATING YOU AS A MAN WITH
RESPECT.

She may treat you very WELL in just about
EVERY SINGLE AREA, but when it comes
to a very subtle but important area of you
being her MAN, in the greatest sense of
that word, she will falter.

This is why you must TRULY be "THE MAN"
and INSIST on 100% total and absolute RESPECT.
(I'm not saying to be a tyrant or ask for perfection,
but in the general sense of TOTAL RESPECT
for you as HER MAN, yes, you must NOT
compromise on this issue.)    

Because deep down, she has ISSUES
regarding being PROUD to LOVE and
RESPECT AND BE TOTALLY LOYAL
to her man, and what will then happen is
a NEVER-ENDING SERIES OF PROBLEMS
whenever this issue rears its head.

So, for example, because she is not
COMFORTABLE with TRADITIONAL VALUES,
she may very well feel it’s “okay” to flirt with
some other guy at work. She may feel it’s “okay”
to go for “drinks” with some guy who claims
he is just a friend, since, after all, as a “modern
INDEPENDENT WOMAN who is not barefoot
and pregnant” she can “DO WHATEVER SHE
LIKES, she can INDULGE TO NO LIMITS
on whatever she wants to do, since she is
the one in control”, right?

For the pick up artist community that just
wants to get physical, they don’t care about
these things.

But for the men who actually want women
as life-long partners, for the men who have
real love for women, for the men who want
to raise families, such women are going to be
DISASTERS.

The fact that these women may still be
sensitive, caring people in all the OTHER
respects does not help you when she is
off CHEATING with another guy.

But again, to the pick up artist community,
there is no such thing as cheating, there 
is only sex or no sex, that’s it.

This is why I created get a GREAT girl.
It’s about getting the RIGHT woman.

This is why, for example, in my program
WARRIOR WITHIN, I discuss, amongst
MANY, MANY, MANY VITAL THINGS,
I discuss how to DETECT a woman’s values
and her character IMMEDIATELY, so that
you can SCREEN OUT the wrong women
right away and so that you can detect the
RIGHT WOMEN as well.

By the way, it’s an interesting irony that
even the most DIE-HARD pick up artists
seem to “see the light” and eventually end
up not only giving up the whole pick up
artist thing but actually going in the opposite
direction to an EXTREME and talking about
TRUE LOVE and then having children, etc.

I don’t do that.
I don’t believe in TRUE LOVE in the
stereotypical sense.

I believe in a shared PROMISE and a shared
PASSION.

A man and woman who have PASSION
physically for each other, and who SHARE
DEEP CORE VALUES, including of course
the FAMILY VALUES, as nature really
brought men and women together to mate,
and to feel strongly enough about each other
to stick around together to raise the kids,
at least for a little while, and after that,
as human beings we can use our creativity
to maintain the passion. (I get into that
as well as many other important topics in
my book “Get A Great Girl” on my site.)

Now here is the thing:
Life is not perfect.
Human beings are not perfect.
There is no ABSOLUTE perfection.

So you have to use a bit of DISCRETION
in how much of a PURIST you want to be
when applying these principles.

This is also something I incorporate into
my programs and materials, which is
the reason I have so many different
materials, to cover ALL the possibilities
and ALL the strategies.  

So, for example, a woman might be
scoring a 90 percent with you and
just be engaging in a TOUCH of the
problems discussed, and she might
be a woman who can be REDEEMED
with a bit of an education from you.

But I can tell you that if you are finding
yourself having to TEACH A WOMAN all the
time how to behave, she is the WRONG WOMAN,
and also to be honest with you, if you ARE
going to try to show a woman how to behave,
that TOO is an art, because you can’t just
criticize someone, as it comes across as
mean and it also comes across as insecure,
which are both very counter-productive, so
you have to be very gentle, very humble,
very loving, and yet at the same time
you have to be CLEAR.

Now, get ready for THIS:

There ARE a FEW women around who DO
understand alllllllllllllllllllllllll
this stuff that I have written here.

They are RARE, damnnnnnnnnn rare, but
they are not so rare that you will not still
find them no matter where you are, IF
you look hard enough.

And the good news is this: Since there are
so FEW men who UNDERSTAND all this,
you will have NO COMPETITION AT ALL.

In fact, the MORE that the pick up artist
and sex-obsessed culture GROWS, the
MORE PRECIOUS you become to those
super-quality women that are around.

The REAL “underground society” today
is not that society comprised of the
sex-obsessed zombies, but rather is
comprised of those wise men and women
who see our culture for the insanity that
it has morphed into over the past few decades.

(The reasons for this are something I would
gladly discuss another time, but it has
a lot to do with the human tendency
to need more and more stimulation to
get the same emotional effect, so the
solution is to actually get LESS
of the “over-saturation” style stimulation,
which ultimately forces the emotions to
get more sensitive, stronger, and 
require LESS of a “hit” to get stimulated.)  

And if you are reading this right now and
you are serious about getting a QUALITY
woman, then I suggest you get my most
advanced program geared ESPECIALLY
for this goal. 

It’s called WARRIOR WITHIN, because
it’s all about what is INSIDE of you as
opposed to you putting on some ACT.

It contains 8 DVDs and is the LIVE FOOTAGE
of my SEMINAR on this topic where men came
from several different COUNTRIES to attend.
      
It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

If you would like a private consultation
with me, it would be my pleasure to serve
you and give you the very best of all my
experience in this field.

For a consultation, please email me directly at
michaelmarks@getagreatgirl.com

Similarly, if you would like me to
speak with your organization, just
let me know. 

If you are new here, welcome aboard, and
you can find out about ALL my programs
by going here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks