Showing posts with label getting a great girlfriend. Show all posts
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Monday, December 22, 2014

If You Want To Attract A Truly Good Woman, Then You Must Absolutely Know This


When you know what you want in life,
it makes all the difference for actually 
GETTING what you want- not because
of hocus-pocus reasons, but because you
FOCUS all your EFFORTS on THAT
THING.

And this is the KEY to getting yourself a
GREAT GIRL – the kind of woman that
you are massively attracted to, and who is
going to treat you RIGHT.

And this is where, more than EVER, I have
a very DIFFERENT message to tell you than
the typical pick up artist or “attract women”
advice.

You see, for whatever reason, be it that
they themselves GAVE UP ON FINDING
QUALITY WOMEN, or that they simply
were not INTERESTED in quality women
and were instead just interested in promiscuity,
or possibly they feel that the men who are their
customers are only interested in the superficial
themselves, the bottom line is this:

Most of the popular pick up artist advice
draws its strength from one MAIN source,
and that source is the typical “modern young
woman” who is, for various reasons (including
devious efforts by certain feminists) extremely
LIGHT-HEADED when it comes to thinking
about relationships, family, fidelity, and honor,
and is, instead, quite SERIOUS only about things
such as being promiscuous, and emphasizing
“independence” to the degree that ALL ELSE,
even family, husband, children, are all DISTANT
SECOND thoughts.

In the story of Superman, the main source of his
powers is Earth’s YELLOW SUN. He would not have
his powers under a RED SUN.

Similarly, the power source behind most pick
up artist advice is the fact that so many women
today ARE promiscuous and DON’T want to
think deeply about important things.

Thoughts of ethics, family, virtue, these thoughts
are not on their mind - these thoughts are a whole
GALAXY away from their over-riding thoughts
of  money and sex, and selfishness, traveling, fancy
purses, etc.

If more women DID care about fidelity, family, and the
sacred bond between man and woman, the pick up artist
advice would FAIL. It would turn the “yellow sun” RED.

So pick up artist advice basically DOES AWAY
WITH ALL CONCERN in the conversation regarding
morals, ethics, fidelity, long-term thinking- these things
are actually worse than a red sun, they are like
KRYPTONITE to your attraction power for these
kinds of women.















The red sun just neutralizes Superman's power, but this 
kind of talk will DESTROY your chances with most of 
today's women.

Rather than focus on the big picture, and rather than
focus on fidelity and commitment and the meaning
of a vow, and the meaning of honor,  the focus is all
on the MOMENT, with a thin layering of connection-
more of a VENEER of connection sprinkled into the
conversation- and this is because even the “modern
woman” still wants to feel SOME level of connection
with the boatloads of men she is sleeping with –
in order not to feel “cheap” and so she can sort of
face herself in the mirror in the morning (with one
eye closed and not really thinking too much).

Let me also make it clear that promiscuity is not
the only problem, as it all falls under the general
category of “ME ME ME”- of course this changes
when the women start to get much older and start
to realize that actually the good men won’t have
anything to do with them, and the purely superficial
men aren’t interested in them anymore.

But back to the POWER SOURCE for all the
pick up artist methods – it WORKS because
it DESTROYS all sense of morals and the
meaningful with regards to commitment and
vows. Talking about these kinds of morals is
“kryptonite” for any man trying to attract these
women, because it brings up something very
SCARY for them- the thought that they might
have a rude awakening when they want to settle
down and want to find a good man.

  

I know this, because there was a time in my life,
before all this pick up artist stuff exploded, where
I was so disillusioned with women, that I TRULY
BELIEVED THAT WOMEN WANTED A JERK.

So I would approach women and STRIP my conversation
of all NICETIES, I was super-direct, I never did favors,
never gave compliments, teased them like crazy, and
they would all seem to think this was TOTALLY NORMAL.

And when I would suggest that they give me their number,
MOST of them DID. And I would BREAK THINGS off
with them for the most INSANELY SMALL reason,
and it only made them CHASE HARDER, it was actually
the WORST way to try to end a relationship.  The best
way to end relationships with women, I thought, because
it worked so well, was to actually start acting NICE to them.

That was a great way to get them bored with me.

Now, there are some good things about this, which
is the basic idea that NO woman is doing you a
FAVOR for going out with you, it’s a MUTUAL
benefit, and women know this, and they are more
attracted to a man who doesn’t feel BENEATH
a woman, they want a man who feels he is totally
WORTH that woman, if not MORE THAN HER.

So the basic attitude of I HAVE VALUE, and not
kissing up, and acting far more MANLY than the lying
feminists would suggest women want, all that is GOOD
STUFF. It’s attractive.  

But the problem is that attitude taken TOO FAR-
A.K.A. TYPICAL PICK UP ARTIST ADVICE-
ALSO KILLS THE OPPORTUNITY FOR YOU
TO ACTUALLY ATTRACT THE KIND OF WOMEN
WHO TRULY DO STILL BELIEVE IN THINGS
like fidelity, not sleeping around, and who believe
there is something special about a man and a woman
making a commitment to each other- a commitment
that goes beyond just the physical, of course, but that
also includes the physical, and that this part reflects
a much deeper sense of honoring each other, and
that this extends to a commitment to their raising
a family together as well.

Fidelity, honor, love, commitment. These things
are not a joke.  They resonate in men and women
on a PRIMAL level, and when people say they
are old fashioned, they indeed are as OLD as
humanity itself and as ETERNAL and as important.

Far more important to the well-being of humanity
than what feminists would have us believe- feminists
would have us believe that men don’t really CARE
about these things, and that women should try to
act like the most promiscuous men, and that women
should push off commitment as long as possible, and
that men are somehow always the bad guys no matter
what.

BUT.
There ARE some women out there who for some
reason are just DIFFERENT.  They RESISTED
and CONTINUE TO RESIST these forces.

They still want a man to act like a MAN.
They just also want a man who has HONOR.
A man who will treat his bond with a woman
as sacred.

In other words, they want the kind of man that
women have wanted for MILLENNIA.

Perhaps these rare women who still have good
values, who still cherish their femininity, who still
cherish the concept of a man and woman committing
to each other by choice, well perhaps these women
were TAUGHT differently by their parents compared
to most others.

Perhaps these women are CRITICAL THINKERS who
think outside the box and will not do stupid things no
mater HOW MANY other people say it’s cool.

Regardless of HOW it is that these fantastic women
still exist, the fact remains that they DO exist.

And yet, many men would like to believe that no such
women exist, because then it provides a great excuse
for NOT taking action. It’s so much easier to just
complain. It’s so much easier for a person to just
give excuses for why they are doing something
negative or why they are not doing something positive.

Again, the fact is: GOOD WOMEN STILL EXIST.

And, these women are BOMBARDED by the WRONG
MEN ALL THE TIME.

Including, you guessed it- the guys brainwashed by
typical “how to get women” advice, that relies on
some tactic that is EXTERNAL to a man’s TRUE
personality or values or beliefs. Basically, men are
told to GIVE IN TO THE WAYS OF MOST WOMEN
TODAY, and to CATER TO THAT DISTORTION.
But it’s not just THESE men these women are
bombarded by- they are also bombarded by the
men who WORSHIP them just because they are
beautiful. These are men who have never been
taught that just because you FEEL attraction to
a woman DOES NOT MAKE HER the right
woman,  your soul-mate, or anything else.

Seriously, this might sound obvious to you
if you’ve known it for years, or if you learned
it from me years ago, but the bottom line is there
are still tons of men out there who DO in fact
see a beautiful woman, and their first instinct
is to kiss up, open doors for them, offer favors,
give compliments, etc.

And a woman who is looking for a man who is
about more than JUST the superficial finds it
disturbing that the only men she meets are men
who worship beauty and not character at all,
or the men she meets are men who ONLY care
about the physical.

In both cases, it’s not what she is looking for,
and the worst part of all this is that there are
some good men out there who are being led
astray by the wrong advice.

So if you ARE looking for a great woman, a
woman who is just as beautiful in her character
as she is physically, a woman who doesn’t sleep
around, a woman who is wise, you absolutely
SHOULD RESONATE that message to her-
you MUST make it clear that you are a man on
the SAME wavelength, EVEN IF IT MEANS
LOSING EVERY OTHER WOMAN because
those other women are BRAINWASHED to
NOT APPRECIATE the right values in men.

This should really be NO SACRIFICE
in your mind at all. The reason is because
WHY ON EARTH would you be bothered
by “losing” the WRONG WOMEN??????

If you feel it IS a sacrifice, then clearly you are
not serious about finding the right woman.

Some men are so desperate, or so brainwashed, or
so weak, that they just can’t say no to any possibility
to any attractive woman.

Now, how MEANINGFUL is it to a QUALITY
woman when such a man promises to love her?

It’s MEANINGLESS.
HE WOULD LOVE ANY ATTRACTIVE WOMAN.

He would do anything for any attractive woman.

It also suggests that since he is so weak, that if
he DID have her, he might very well be tempted
and CHEAT on her if ANOTHER woman gave
him the opportunity.

There is ONE constant when it comes to attracting
ANY woman- and that is believing in yourself with
ZERO APOLOGY for being who you are.

But what makes it REALLY TRAGIC is when
a guy who is a good guy is so DESPERATE that
he has LOST BELIEF IN GOOD WOMEN that he
ends up sending out the message through his words
and his mannerisms, that he is playing “how to get
women game” even though he REALLY just wants
to get ONE GREAT WOMAN.

You need to learn the power of saying NO
to the wrong women.
It’s very EMPOWERING.

Get out there and meet women.
Start saying NO to the wrong ones.
This will help develop your conviction in
your beliefs regarding quality women.

Don’t try to get “all” the women- or you are
going to be sending off the wrong signals to
the BEST women that would be true CONTENDERS
for being THE woman in your life.

Most pick up artist advice incorporates a degree
of cheapening the sacred element of sexuality
(and this does not mean that sex between a man
and woman can't be wild, it means that it's special
when it isn't something handed out like advertising
flyers to everyone) in order to try to appeal to the
sexual, which is a BASE LEVEL impulse of most
human beings.

Unfortunately, a lot of women in our society actually
RESPOND to this, which is the same reason we have
SKYROCKETING levels of broken relationships,
affairs, infidelity, disappointment and anxiety,
maladjusted children, and a basis sense of men and
women at war with each other when it should be men
and women in harmony with each other and honoring
each other. 

The worst war of all is the war that takes place in your
own most intimate and precious relationships.   

It’s time to STOP THE INSANITY.

Don’t allow crapola into your life.
First of all, this is the way to be for your own dignity.
Second of all, it is THIS kind of man that a great
woman with great values SEEKS.   

If anything, you should have MORE conviction
in YOUR morals, your values, than MOST MEN
out there approaching women, if you are a man who
REJECTS the majority of pick up artist style advice-
in other words if you want a QUALITY WOMAN
with the right values, that is something to be PROUD
of, not apologetic about.

By the way, on the topic of quality women,
try to observe a woman’s behaviors even before
you approach her. Is she reading a book? Or is
she texting  obsessively? Can you tell what she
is reading? Is it meaningful, or is it vapid?

In general, be WEARY of any traits that suggest she
is a woman who is INVITING ATTENTION,
especially from men.

Just BEING an attractive woman, or any woman, is pretty
much enough to GUARANTEE attention anyway, so a
woman who is actually putting in EXTRA EFFORT to
DRAW MORE ATTENTION, especially if she is attractive,
is giving you a CUE to her level of DANGER as a girlfriend,
wife, etc.

On the other hand, this does not mean to show
DISRESPECT when you approach a woman.

Unless you have strong EVIDENCE to believe otherwise,
you have to leave room for the POSSIBILITY that this
woman in front of you MIGHT be a great woman.

And that means, if you are genuinely looking for
a woman with the right values, that you DO bring
up the topic of morals, fidelity, etc, at some point
in the conversation. You shouldn’t DWELL on
it unless she ALSO decides to go into it deeper,
but YES you SHOULD bring it up.

When it comes to finding women with morals,
go after what you want without apology- if
you don’t SHOW that you AUTHENTICALLY
believe in these morals, then how on earth can
you expect to get the woman that AUTHENTICALLY
believes in them?

If you try to go with the typical pick up artist advice,
and then you ALSO try to throw in some talk of morals,
she’ll think you are either full of it, or that you are weak,
or that you are confused, since you are acting in a
NAMBY PAMBY way regarding these morals.

Remember, a quality woman is investing her SOUL
in the right man, so the LAST THING SHE WANTS
is some screwball in her life who thinks that morals
are not important.

BE CONSISTENT WITH IT- and what I mean is
that if you really understand the reality of a quality woman
with morals, you should NOT expect such a woman to do
CARTWHEELS immediately just because you approached
her in person, or online, or anywhere else.

In fact, it is so RARE for a woman of modesty (and I
mean in her behaviors, not just her clothing, because I
have seen women who dressed modestly who had more
partners than math has numbers) that when she meets
a man on her wavelength, she might not BELIEVE it
or she might start to TREMBLE or get scared because
for the FIRST TIME IN HER LIFE, it’s actually
HAPPENING FOR REAL that she is meeting a
man that is actually her counterpart.

So you have to be cool and realize she might need some
time to soak it all in.  Don’t rush her. Persist, but don’t
apply too much pressure.

There IS a way to be persistent without acting desperate.
For example, let’s say a woman says she is not comfortable
giving you her number, this does NOT mean she is trying
to play some hard-to-get-game.  She may very well be
WEARY of a lot of men out there, ranging from desperate
men who will call her 99 times a day even though she never
said she was interested, to men who are only interested in
the physical.

So you don’t want to DROP such a woman.
And the way you don’t drop her, but at the same time
still don’t show desperation, is to tell her in a masculine
tonality, calm tonality, that you are cool no matter what
happens, even if things don’t work, that you like her, but
that you are man of maturity and experience and you can
move on from her if it doesn’t work out. 

And MEAN it.
Developing yourself internally to be able to
walk away from a woman, without feeling
BITTER, is one of the most powerful things
you can do for yourself.

By the way, the ability to do this comes from
BELIEVING IN YOURSELF, and from
ACCEPTING YOURSELF, which are easy
things to say but so few people really do.

You must realize that no woman is the sum total
of your IDENTITY. You can’t have this attitude
just a tactic to attract women, but it IS attractive
to a woman when she knows you are so strong
as a man that you don’t lose your strength just
because you didn’t get some woman. 

A woman wants to know she is with a man who
is so strong and so confident emotionally, that
he would have STILL been at peace, strong,
and confident, and never be needy for a woman,
even had he NOT met her. And she wants to
know that your moral convictions would not
be sacrificed out of desperation just to get the
approval of some woman. 

So, back to the part above where you are letting
her know you are cool no matter what happens,  
by doing that you are showing that you are persistent,
that you don’t up when something seems right, and
you are encouraging her to give you her phone number,
yet you are also showing that you are not needy for her.

This is also where social intelligence comes in:
If a woman tells you she has had a stalker, it
makes sense that you don’t push too hard too fast.
Assess the evidence- how much effort is she putting
into the conversation? Is she showing you signs of
genuine interest? Yes? Then it’s probably worth it
to have some more patience. 

Also, here’s another important tip- treat EACH
approach, each woman, as an INDIVIDUAL.

Do NOT try to sort all women into COOKIE
CUTTER categories, because this is not some
kind of MASS MARKETING PRODUCT you
are trying to sell, it is YOU connecting to HER,
and it is all about the MOST INTIMATE CONNECTION.

You MUST listen to hear for all the nuances of her
personality, her values, her passions, her SOUL.

THIS is the kind of COMMITMENT that will
PAY OFF when you meet the RIGHT woman.

Sure, you can take the COOKIE CUTTER approach
to women, and you will get SOME results, but you
will not get the kind of woman that truly ignites
your soul, and I assure you that cookie cutter
shortcut attitude will not ignite HER soul, either.

I believe that when done right, the connection
between a man and a woman is by FAR the
most POWERFUL driving force in human nature.

So, if you are reading this right now, and would like
to learn how to go about the process of approaching
women so that you don’t BLOW IT with the kind of
woman who is worth more than all the others combined,
you may want to learn from me, because I actually care
about this as much as you do.

In fact, it’s all I’ve been focused on for over twelve YEARS.

There are all kinds of SEMINARS out there on relationships.
Some of them are even made by guys who simultaneously
promote the most superficial connections.
 
And guess what? When things are WRONG,
they are usually wrong from the BEGINNING.       

The whole FOUNDATION is screwed up.
So the answer to screwed up relationships is not some
SEMINAR BAND-AID for couples.   

When there is a REAL problem, the answer is 
a total RE-HAUL from the ground up.

Meet the RIGHT woman in the FIRST place,
and BE the right kind of MAN IN THE FIRST PLACE.

The right man and the right woman understand what men
and women used to know for thousands of years until
 modern so-called "experts" ranging from feminists to
others belonging to various warped ways of thinking took
over the discussion.

Meet the RIGHT woman in the FIRST place.
Be the RIGHT man.
That way, you have a solid foundation where you
GROW TOGETHER instead of grow APART.

The right foundation with a woman begins with
the very first MOMENT you approach her.

Perhaps you would like to learn through BOOTCAMP.

This is where I show you how to do everything in real
life, on women EVERYWHERE, from supermarkets to
public transit to coffee shops to bookstores and just
about everywhere else as well.

This all takes place in real places, on real women.
This isn’t actors or acting, this is the real thing.

This program is VERY different from typical
BOOTCAMP programs. It’s not about lowering
yourself to common standards, it’s about finding
and attracting the women that would make for
a truly great girlfriend or even “the one”.

Bootcamp is at:


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each one of which has gone through a painstaking
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advice, go here:


You will find programs on every aspect of attraction
and dating, from how to approach, to how to get over
approach anxiety, and much, much more.  

For am exclusive, personal consultation with me
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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

How To Keep On Getting The Best Advice For Getting A Great Girlfriend

Before we start today, I need to mention something.
For about ten years now, I’ve been giving it my all
when it comes to teaching men how to attract and
keep a fantastic woman.

Today I’m going to ask if you can do one small thing
for me, that will only take you a few seconds, and it
will help assure the CONTINUED high quality that
you have been receiving since day one from me.

Here’s the situation:

Around ten years ago, I started teaching men how
to approach women, for real, live, on actual women,
and not just in books.

This was long before the book “The Game” came out.

At one point, I was part of the original
hard-core group of 'pick up artists'.

This was even before there were were
so many supposed "dating gurus".

The thing is, I eventually SEPARATED from
this group, which was really the ONLY
group that spoke AT ALL about how to
approach women in public, etc. (This was
before the "dating guru" phenomenon.)

I didn't WANT to separate, I wanted to
teach them what I had learned, the same
way I had learned some things from them.

The reason I separated, was because I noticed that
there was a strong BITTER attitude against women
in the majority of this crowd.  This was not just an
attitude, it was the root of many of the WRONG
teachings about attracting a great girlfriend, and these
wrong teachings were being spread like wildfire. 

Oh sure they "loved women" as long as the
word "love" was limited to sex.

The majority of them put ALL women into the
same basket. It said ALL women are gold-diggers,
that ALL women would cheat on a guy at the drop
of a hat, that ALL women would cheat on a “good
guy” in order to be with “a player”, etc, etc, etc.

They also said that the player games were REQUIRED
in order to attract women.

This attitude DESTROYED all my relationships.

Most of the men on these pick up artist boards
never spoke about real monogamous relationships,
because they were afraid of being called "weak"
or "uncool" even though I suspect that the majority
of the men on these "pick up artist" boards were
indeed trying to get help for getting a great girlfriend.

I know for sure one thing: That it was the only reason
I ever came to that site.  Don't get me wrong, it's
FUN to play around for a while, but once you
meet a great woman who has it all, the "playing
around" isn't as much fun as having something
stronger with a woman, where you feel a
greater connection.

At first, I thought that the fact my relationships kept
getting destroyed was just further proof that women
indeed NEEDED to be ‘gamed’ in order to be attracted.

After all, the more DOMINANT, LESS NEEDY,
and more SEXUAL I behaved, the BETTER it
seemed I did with women, and when I would
go into “nice guy” mode, I always seemed to
LOSE the woman!

It took a LONG TIME for me to see exactly what
was going on, and what I was doing RIGHT and
what was actually HARMING my results.

And I promise you, what I realized was something
that absolutely NO ONE else was speaking about,
or even would ACKNOWLEDGE.

It was a combination of realizing that there are
SEPARATE things here:

1. The skill of how to approach a woman who is
a stranger, in ANY place, whether it’s a bookstore
or a supermarket.

This is a SKILL because if you do it wrong, you
end up CREEPING OUT a woman, or you simply
don’t know what to say and the conversation goes
nowhere.

2. There is also something else, which is the
DEVELOPMENT of behavioral TRAITS that are
attractive from the FIRST MOMENT you interact
with a woman.

These include things like confidence, wit,
and that sense of masculine dominance,
tempered with good taste of course,
i.e. you don’t drag a woman by the hair
to your cave right upon meeting her.

3. The skill of how to TRANSITION to SEX.

This includes all the smooth transitions from
first call to first date to first kiss, to
making out, to sex.

Definitely, important stuff!

4. The DETECTION of the RIGHT kind of woman.

Just because you can GET a girl to get naked
with you, does not mean she will be a great
girlfriend.

There are plenty of reasons why a lot of
women will sleep with a guy but not be
GOOD TO HIM long term.

This is HUUUUUUUUUUUGE! And was totally
IGNORED or MOCKED when I mentioned it.

After all, since they believed all women
were the exact same personality with the
exact same values, there was "no such thing
as a faithful woman".

And believe me, I was tempted to believe
that myself, because MAN did I meet a
lot of the WRONG women!

It took a HUGE step for me to explore
BEYOND the pick up artist world on my
own to find out the TRUTH about women. 


5. The BUILDING OF A DEEPER CONNECTION


This is required for attracting a higher quality
woman that doesn’t sleep with hundreds of guys
and who takes a relationship seriously.


6. The COMMUNICATION SKILLS and behavioral
traits that make for a SUCCESSFUL LONG TERM
RELATIONSHIP.

A lot of men allow themselves to LOSE their
cool vibe when they get into a relationship,
and become the WRONG version of "nice".

It's important to learn how to KEEP being
"The Man" even in a relationship.

So, those 6 areas above are all SEPARATE.

And yet, the pick up artist community was
basically all focused on ONE thing:
GETTING SEX.

The FOCUS on that goal is not a BAD thing.

However, if you FORGET the other FIVE things,
then yes it is a HUGE mistake, unless you
really don’t CARE about what kind of person
she is at ALL.

Also, the focus on the physical actually cancels
OUT a lot of the women who “aren’t getting
with the program" i.e. aren’t willing to go to
bed that fast!  

When it comes to getting a quality woman as a
girlfriend, the focus on SEX at all costs actually
REPELS her.

When it comes to getting a quality girlfriend,
the INITIAL confidence that a man shows
IS attractive, but if he can’t connect on a
deep level, and if he thinks he needs to play
games to keep her attracted, he will LOSE
her.

When the pick up artists went to the media, they
told the media all they teach is "confidence” and
they skip all the stuff they taught about harming
a woman’s self-esteem, and about aggressively
pursuing sex or playing other games just to get
physical.

The bottom line is this:
Back in 2001-2003, I tried to EXPLAIN to the
pick up artist community that NOT all women
are the same.

That NOT all women will cheat on a guy at the
drop of a hat.

That yes, the SKILLS of how to approach a
woman ARE valuable, but that there are
OTHER THINGS THAT MUST BE LEARNED
AS WELL,(as listed above) and that in fact the
polluted attitude that was being preached would
RUIN results for many men if they were trying to
find a real RELATIONSHIP.

I also tried to get into the OTHER
areas that are so important to know
if you want success in actually getting
a great girlfriend!

I can also tell you that the VAST and
OVERWHELMING response to my message
was: "NOOOOOOOOOO! ALLLLLLL WOMEN
WILL CHEAT! ALL WOMEN MUST BE
GAMED OR SOME PLAYER WILL STEAL
HER FROM YOU!"

Also, another message I got a lot from those
guys was:"YUCK! RELATIONSHIP? THAT’S
FOR LOSERS! JUST KEEP SCREWING
AS MANY WOMEN AS POSSIBLE!
WOMEN RESPECT THAT KIND OF MAN!
WOMEN DEEP DOWN ADMIRE THAT
KIND OF MAN, AND THEY WILL WANT
YOU MORE!"

So, it’s not like no one had a CHANCE to
join me back then.

I was SCREAMING my messages out on the
most POPULAR pick up artist board, a board
that saw every single major pick up artist.

This goes WAYYYY beyond the stupidity
of relying on pick up lines, which, by now
have been proven OBSOLETE, and which
I said LONG AGO, that pick up lines were
NOT required and that in fact pick up lines
would limit a man’s thinking and his ability
to ADAPT to any situation.

It wasn’t just PICK UP LINES that I was against.

I was FOR many POSITIVE developments, (as listed above)
but virtually NONE of these "experts" supported my
message, and in fact they OUTRIGHT REJECTED IT.

Not a single major “dating guru” at the time or pick up artist
at the time supported my message.

And I was giving it away for FREE!
I only needed to start charging when teaching took up
all my TIME, and if I didn't charge, I wouldn't be
ABLE to teach!

So why am I bringing this up?

It’s because not a SINGLE dating guru or
pick up artist has given one DROP of credit
to me for basically changing the GLOBAL
LANDSCAPE when it comes to dating advice
for men.

Today, you will be hard-pressed to find even
a SINGLE pick-up artist or dating guru who
FULLY supports the OLD “The Game” approach
to approaching and attracting women.

Again, I invited everyone to be PART of it.
I got REJECTED by this crowd for what I
had to say.

The irony is that it was only when I used MY
approach to women, that I could actually get
CONSISTENT results for myself and for
the guys I was teaching!  Guys were calling
me and emailing me telling me how they
were in the first fantastic relationship of their
LIVES, after trying EVERYTHING else!

Meanwhile, guys using the pick up artist stuff
were wondering why all these women kept
acting WEIRD and nasty around them.

They never put two and two together, that maybe
the pick up artist tactics were actually HARMING
their results with women!

Again, for a drunk woman at a bar who is LOOKING for a one night stand, then maybe acting like an arrogant and sex-focused person is a good strategy. 

I'm not INTERESTED in one night stands, for many reasons, never mind how important it is to also avoid STDs as well.

Today, after changing the PLANET when it
comes to advice on getting a girlfriend, and
on advice when it comes to approaching
women, my materials have truly changed
the ENTIRE GAME to the point it is no
longer a GAME and instead is truly about
a situation where both you AND a woman gain,
and there is no PAIN caused to innocents.

It would be cool if some of these guys could give
CREDIT to me, since after all, they are using my
teachings, then selling poor imitations of it.

The imitations also, by the way, lack the proper
context for full meaning, since they are copying
my teachings without actually UNDERSTANDING
them, so what comes out is a warped version of the
original, (kind of like how Dr. Frankenstein tried to
copy a real human being but created a monster)- and
all the while, these guys pretend they never even
HEARD of me.

The simple proof for how I know it's not their
material is this:

If they really decided that they were going
to change, all on their own, then where
were they for all those YEARS?

I'm speaking all the way back from 2001 (my
message posts on pick up artist boards), 2002,
2003, 2004, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2008 (at which
point in 2008 the imitating of me just started to
get strong), 2009 (when it was hard-core copying
of me), 2010 (when it started to get a bit less
because people found out about my site and how
it has been around for years.)

So here’s the thing: The more people that hear
about ‘Get A Great Girl’, the less likely that
these guys will be MOTIVATED to continue
to pretend that they never heard of me.

I’m asking if you can this one thing:

Let ONE person who you think can benefit 
from my programs know about the site.

The site is at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com

You can use any tool you like to get the word
out: You can use Twitter, Facebook, YouTube,
or even just send someone an email.

EVERY. ACTION. HELPS.

That’s all.

And I’ll speak with you again soon.

Till next time,

Michael Marks