Getting A Woman Of VALOR

If you’ve been following my work
for any amount of time, you know
that I am obsessed with truth and
accuracy.  I describe the specifics
of what you need to know with
almost surgical-like precision.

Now, if a guy just wants to “get physical”
with some kind of woman, and does not
care about whether this woman is going
to be a faithful woman who is going to
cheat on him or not, then obviously it’s
not that important that a guy be as careful
to do things RIGHT.

In fact, the WRONG kind of women will
be ATTRACTED to behavior that echoes
“SODOM AND GOMORRAH” type values
wrapped in a veneer of ethics.

What I mean by this is, appealing to the
base desires, but wrapping it up by also
paying lip service to things like showing
that you respect her, that it’s important
that she respects you, etc.

LIP SERVICE instead of the real thing.
You see, even men and women who
don’t have ethics, they still want to feel
good about themselves, so this is why
they like to pay lip service in their conversations
to things like “I don’t do one night stands”
or “I’m looking for something meaningful”
or “I’m looking for an authentic connection”
but then at the same time there are inconsistencies
in their conversation/behavior, etc. 

Everyone wants to feel good about themselves,
including the people who are fooling themselves.

But, when a man wants to get a truly
rare catch, the kind of woman that is
going to be faithful and respect him,
the kind of woman that is BRAVE
enough to defy the screwed-up morals
of society, the kind of woman that is
truly a WOMAN OF VALOR, then
ALL THE THINGS I TEACH become
SUPER IMPORTANT.

For example, being able to DETECT
immediately whether a woman is a
potential candidate for being a faithful
woman is IMPORTANT.

And, if she IS such a woman, then it becomes
of PARAMOUNT significance that you
set up the initial interaction on a SOLID
FOUNDATION that includes “proof of
ethics”.

Now, it can’t be limited to ONLY this
“good stuff”, because there have to also
be components of  ATTRACTION and
sexuality, but there must ALSO be an
exchange of “proof of ethics” between
each other.

“Proof of ethics” is not a simple thing to
see or convey.  It has to do with a lot more
than what you or she says.  It has to do with
the CONGRUENCY in which you both show
RESPECT, and even the SLIGHTEST shift
OFF of that congruency, the slightest
INCONSISTENCY can tell you a LOT about
someone.

So, for example, if a woman tells you how hard
it is to find a good guy, and how hard she has
been trying to find a good man, but you notice
that she displays signs of promiscuity, then you
have to ask yourself just how careful she is
with screening the men she is with.

If a woman tells you how important respect is,
but she doesn’t actually SHOW it to you, or to
anyone else around her who is innocent, you
already know she is OUT of the running.  

In this world, there is a LOT of FAKING
going on.  There is a lot of CHEATING
going on.  And, by the way, the cheating
and other blights of character are not limited
to any economic class, any religion, race, or
gender. It is a HUMAN flaw, and so the ONLY
solution is to inspect the INDIVIDUAL.

Finding and attracting the RIGHT kind of
woman is a BIG DEAL.  It is a very big
deal. 

The right woman becomes not only a great
source of PASSION in your life, but also
becomes a PARTNER in your life.

But the wrong woman will cost you your
energy, your finances, your emotions, and
your HEALTH.

And if you have children, it can be really
messy as well if you have to split up.

Now, on the OTHER HAND, let’s say you
meet a truly fantastic woman that you are
crazy about, and she treats you with total
respect, well then it becomes super important
that YOU don’t screw things up as a result
of MISREADING her or the situation.

It becomes ESSENTIAL that you are able
to SEPARATE distortion from fact.  This is
easier said than done, because the more we
get EMOTIONAL about something and the
more we value something, the harder it is
to see things as they REALLY ARE.

So this does not just mean when you really
don’t like a woman, it also means when you
really do like a woman as well.

If you don’t want to LOSE a great woman,
you MUST be able to see the full truth of
any situation you are in with her.

This is another area why my expertise comes in.
I can assess a situation for you so that you know
the TRUTH about her and whatever situation it
is regarding her that you are trying to figure out.

Sometimes this also includes seeing where you
may have made an error as well.

Quality women, just like quality men, are RARE.

A woman that knows better than to hang around
other men under the guise that they are all “friends”
is RARE.

A woman that knows that a man cares more about
being RESPECTED than just about anything else
in a relationship, is RARE.

A woman that has not been brainwashed by
horrifying female role models in the media
is RARE.

A woman that understands a man’s sexuality is RARE.

A woman that works hard together WITH you
for a shared future WITH you, is RARE.

A woman that respects truth, (just as a man that respects
truth)  is RARE.

So, when you DO meet such a woman, you
REALLY do NOT want to screw it up.

This is where I come in.  You can consult with me
directly in a private phone consultation or a private
in-person consultation.

I have made it my life’s work to help good men
and women meet each other, and to keep them
attracted and THRIVING together.

This is not “pick up artist” information.
This is about ensuring your success with the kind
of woman that will have an ENORMOUS positive
impact on your LIFE, and this is also about preventing
you from making a mistake and getting with the
wrong kind of woman who will DESTROY your life.

There is no single area of greater impact on
a man’s life than the type of woman he is with.

Let me help you SUCCEED in this area.
For full details on a consultation with me, go here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

If you’re not with a woman right now, and you want
to get my LATEST proven strategies for meeting and
attracting women in the first place, then DEFINITELY
go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/instant-attraction.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Getting The RIGHT Woman In A Crazy World

If you are looking for a great long-term
girlfriend or possibly wife, you NEED
to read this newsletter.

Ever since feminism started, there has
been a gradual EROSION of morality
amongst the masses of women. 

Now, don’t get me wrong. I DO believe
ABSOLUTELY that women should be
treated with FULL RESPECT, and be
given things like the vote, and all that.

To think otherwise, is immoral, or plain
ludicrous to think that women are not 
deserving of all the respect that men
deserve.

HOWEVER, the problem is that feminism did not really preach EQUALITY only, what ENDED UP HAPPENING is that in addition to honest good things like equality, it ALSO ended up becoming ABUSED- it ended up misguided and it celebrated the idea of women emulating the very WORST characteristics of men, as opposed to the very BEST.

So, for example, promiscuity amongst women
is often CELEBRATED by women as a form
of “empowerment” and “equality”, as if all
MEN were like this and somehow women
were “evening the score”.

Otherwise, how do you explain the CELEBRATION
of people like Kim Kardashian who grew to fame
as the result of a SEX-TAPE?

Of course, many men are to blame for all this
as well, but it takes two to tango.

What REALLY PROVES HOW EVIL AND INSANE all this is, is that even when there are GLOBAL repurcussions, that have nothing to do with the MORAL, but simply to do with LIFE and SAVING life, STILLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL the feminists refuse to budge.  So even with AIDS, and even with things like HPV that is NOT EVEN DETECTABLE, STILLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL you won't find the feminists telling women to possibly be less promiscuous.  The feminists would much rather see men and women DIE than POSSIBLY admit that just MAYBE the feminists f-ed up.     

Here’s where things get REALLY screwed-up:
In nature, without the tempering forces of
culture and morals, man is designed to want
to mate with as many females as possible.

The MALE strategy is actually QUANTITY
over QUALITY, to be honest.

Of course, quality matters too, and men have
evolved to a DEGREE to be turned OFF by
women who exhibit either behavioral traits
that show they would be bad mothers, or
physical traits that imply they would bear
unhealthy children.

But still, the desire for QUANTITY of women is
a HUGE part of the PRIMAL male desire.

Now, science, history, and the study of evolution
has proven that women are not as sugar and spice as
Disney films would have us believe, and the truth
is that women are far from naturally monogamous,
but they are still NOT as primal driven for
QUANTITY as men are. 

For women, the emphasis is STILL greater on
LESS QUANTITY and GREATER QUALITY.

All this makes sense, again, from an evolutionary
point of view.  For millions of years, there was
no way for a man to know if the children born
to the woman he mated with were actually HIS
children or someone ELSE’S, so he was best
off by mating with TONS of women.

All this by the way is all subconscious, men
of course did not actively THINK about any
of these reasons. Evolution does not work
that way, it just eliminates that which does
not work from the gene pool.

But for women, although it's important that a man is faithful, the BIGGER thing to them is that the man does not ABANDON the woman and the child, because for nine months she will CARRY a child, and she will need HELP raising the child that came literally from her body.

These evolutionary differences between men and women have created differences in what is MOST important to each gender regarding their SEXUAL MATE.  So although men and women may be very similar in things that have NOTHING to do with sexual mating  (i.e. for example, enjoying things that taste SWEET), WE ARE DIFFERENT in what is OF PARAMOUNT IMPORTANCE in a partner.

And before feminism, men and women UNDERSTOOD these differences because it was OBVIOUS and there was no politically correct bullshit telling women lies.

So why do I bring all this up?
It is because TODAY, men are being TOLD
that they must be FAITHFUL to a woman,
and stick to the QUALITY strategy rather
than the QUANTITY strategy they are
BORN to want to follow, and meanwhile
there is LESS INCENTIVE than ever to do so!

At least, before feminism, men were getting
a greater REWARD for being loyal and
faithful to one woman, they were getting
a woman who was not sleeping with
the entire planet of men, and they were
getting great RESPECT and FIDELITY
AND LOYALTY from women.

So, a man’s PRIMAL need to ensure his
child was indeed his own was being
ADDRESSED.

Today, however, a woman who is TRULY
not hanging out with men all the time,
a woman who is truly prepared to GIVE
HERSELF OVER TO ONE MAN, is
a RARITY.

Instead, what we get are INFINITE women
who want to have “back ups” of many men
while they are in relationships.  So a typical
young woman (in other words, a woman who
is fertile and can produce children) will
NEVER give herself over FULLY to one man,
instead she keeps a few ‘MALE FRIENDS’
around, which she always claims are just
friends, but usually she knows full well
that if she attractive, these men want much
more than friendship.

And we get women who are hitting the club
circuit well into their 30’s, sometimes 40’s,
even as they are on the last vestiges of fertility,
and they are drinking and getting drunk and
being promiscuous, and they WONDER
why the GOOD MEN don’t want to
get SERIOUS with them.

And the most evil part of it all, is that the
FEW GOOD WOMEN who do exist
have to constantly DEFEND themselves
against the majority of women they know,
who all seem to think that the good woman
is “crazy” or nuts for wanting to truly
give herself over to a real man who won’t
take any b.s.

So I would not tell you all this if I didn’t think
there was any GOOD NEWS that I could offer
you.

The GOOD NEWS is that indeed there ARE
some good women still left on this planet.

But I can tell you one thing: They are the
EXCEPTIONS rather than the RULE.

They often come from backgrounds where
feminism did NOT take off very well.

And it’s just so tragic that good men who
FOUGHT for women to have equal rights,
were ultimately rewarded with a society
where women make MOCKERIES of
good men who are truly loyal.

As the world GLOBALIZES and becomes
a smaller planet, cultures are colliding and
crashing, but what is also happening is that
men are LEARNING from other men, and
the men who grew up with feminism are
seeing that indeed there IS another way
to live, a way where things are compatible
with the way men and women are REALLY
hardwired to think and feel.

One of the insane things about feminism is that
it has told women LIES about what most men
REALLY want besides feeling attracted.

Aside from feeling attracted to a woman,
most men want NOTHING other than
LOYALTY, WISDOM, and GOOD CHARACTER
in a woman.  We don’t care about all
the rest. We aren’t impressed because
a woman has a trillion degrees. There’s a big
difference between wisdom and having
degrees. We aren’t impressed that a woman
travelled all over the world.  And we
don’t think that pseudo-science is the
same thing as science.  

What you MUST do, if you truly want a
GREAT woman for a great relationship,
is search for the women who have not
been brainwashed by extreme feminism.

AND you must be STRONG, and not
APOLOGETIC for your beliefs.

The RIGHT woman will WANT YOU even
MORE for these strong beliefs.

And you must be prepared to LOSE a lot
of the WRONG women who like to preach
that screwing every guy in town, and never
giving loyalty to a good man, and having
tons of “platonic male friends”  is the way to
live and to be “equal” to men.

Most women really don’t even REALIZE
how PRIMAL of a desire/need it is in men
to make sure their woman is not getting
“too close” figuratively speaking, with other
men. So women think that men are like
women, and WOMEN tend to feel a greater
need to know NOT that a man is not screwing
other women, but that he is not feeling
EMOTIONS for other women. 

Women are bigger on wanting the
EMOTIONAL closeness, but MEN
are bigger on wanting to ensure there
is PHYSICAL exclusivity.

And men also KNOW that women are
very emotional,  and that having guys
around them who pretend to just be
friends, is something that can be
exploited by those men to indeed
push the right emotional buttons
and indeed have physical relations
with those women. 

All this was SUPER OBVIOUS to women
before feminism came along. No man in his
right mind would marry any woman who
gave off any indications of being CONFUSED
about these things.

Don’t even argue with the wrong women. Don’t
waste your time on them.

There ARE a few good women left.
THOSE are the ones men must search for,
if they are looking for happiness and
a successful relationship long-term.

If you are serious about getting the RIGHT
woman, go HERE now:
  
http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html 

 Till next time,

Michael Marks

Actions For Getting The RIGHT Woman

This is going to be one of the most important

articles I have ever written on getting the

RIGHT woman. The article is comprised of 

two very DIFFERENT yet VITAL aspects to 

getting a quality woman. 

The first part deals with how to properly

SCREEN a woman for the right values for

a great long-term relationship.  The second

part deals with how to actually best approach

a woman who is a total stranger no matter

WHERE you see her or find her.

So, let’s get to the SCREENING part first,

because it is the only way to prevent wasting

years of your life on the wrong women who

will bring you misery, heartache, and who

may even drain you financially.

Now, remember, this is all about getting a

GREAT woman, a woman who is the kind

of woman who you can TRUST, who will

be there through hell and high water, who

will truly last the test of time, a woman who

is strong in her noble convictions and who

is a positive person and who is also wise and

not naïve.

And to find THIS kind of woman, you need to realize one thing: THE MAJORITY OF WOMEN ARE NOT GOING TO BE THE RIGHT ONES!

If you don’t believe me, just check out the

dating profiles of ANY random sampling

of 10, 20, 100, or even a THOUSAND

profiles of women on any internet dating

site.

I don’t even emphasize internet dating, I prefer

to approach women in real life, but still to just

get an idea of what is going on in the minds

of most women (and trust me, many men are

misguided as well) all you have to do is

see what women say about THEMSELVES

in their dating profiles.

They say things like “I like travelling and going out to

great restaurants. I LOVE funny movies and I have a

great sense of humor.  I am a wonderful/nice/great

person.”

And of course, if you look at what women are LOOKING

for in a guy, you will see SIMILAR things, such as
“I’m looking for a guy who likes to travel, who enjoys

going out to restaurants, and who has a great sense of

humor.”

These things are so ARBITRARY and not truly VITAL

to relationships, these women may as well say that what

they are really looking for a guy in a relationship is for him

to be able to stand on one foot while reciting the national

anthem backwards and wearing a polka-dot tutu. 

WHAT THE *----* ??????????????????????

Remember, this is what women think is IMPORTANT

to tell men.  Women think THIS is what makes a woman

a great woman to date, to get into a relationship with,

to possibly consider as great girlfriend material, and

possibly WIFE material.

The freaking truth, though, is that if you are in a

RELATIONSHIP with someone, then aside from

physical chemistry,  the BIGGEST thing that matters

is how this person TREATS YOU EVERY SINGLE

TIME YOU INTERACT WITH THEM!!!!!!!!!!!

After all, a relationship is not a one-night stand. It is

a RELATIONSHIP.  That means you RELATE to

each other, you CONNECT on a regular basis.

If you get into a SERIOUS relationship, you might

even be moving in together. And of course, if you

get married you will interact a LOT with each other.

That is, if BOTH PEOPLE in the relationship KNOW

how to do relationships RIGHT.  The truth is, most

relationships are headed toward DISINTEGRATION

because one or both parties are IGNORANT of how

to do relationships right, and most relationships will

end and ironically they will not be relating to each

other for very long.

So, back to the main point, which I need to repeat:

The BIGGEST thing that matters in relationships is how this person TREATS YOU EVERY SINGLE TIME YOU INTERACT WITH THEM!!!!!!!!!!!

Instead of women looking for arbitrary qualities in men, 

and instead of women trying to impress men by listing

the arbitrary qualities the women have, qualities that 

have nothing to do with relationships, women SHOULD 

be describing what DOES matter. (Men, of course, should

also be focusing on what DOES matter.)

A woman should go on to GREAT lengths to describe

the level of DEDICATION that she will give to the right 

MAN in her life.

Women should describe in PAINSTAKING DETAIL

just how LOYAL they will be.

They should pour their heart out and write for DAYS

about their ability to LISTEN and to make you feel

UNDERSTOOD.

They should write POETRY on how intense their

love for you and your future family will be, and on

how that will be their greatest priority.

WHO GIVES A FLYING F--- ABOUT THE FACT THEY LIKE TO EAT IN RESTAURANTS AND TRAVEL?

Doesn’t EVERYBODY like these things?

It all boils down to one thing: Selfishness, which ironically, ROBS them of the joy of having ANY long-lasting love in their lives, thereby keeping their lives empty, thereby reinforcing MORE of the need for temporary distractions.

Don’t get me wrong.  I think a sense of humor is great. Restaurants, and travelling, all cool stuff. You just don’t need a RELATIONSHIP for that stuff.   

What these women are saying, in effect, is that they 

think THEY are the only things that are really important, 

and also they are even saying that the MAIN thing in a guy

is his ability to participate in these NON-PARTICULARLY

RELATIONSHIP TYPE activities, such as traveling,

going out to dinner, and joking around. 

But alas, the story does not end there. All you need to do is check out the dating profiles of women who have BABIES or small KIDS at home and who were also previously married and are now divorced.

What do you know? For some odd reason,

the profiles of THESE women tend to

(not always, but MOST of the time) be

VERY DIFFERENT.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

You will notice that these women seem to understand the importance of things like COMMITMENT, LOYALTY, and suddenly they are not so concerned about whether you are into travelling and restaurants and could really care less if you happen to be particularly funny or not.

You will suddenly see terms like KINDNESS

appearing with greater frequency.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

How INTERESTING.

So, basically, once women have been through the ringer, they find out that choosing a man based on STUPID REASONS  does not work well, and they suddenly start to choose men based on criteria relevant to EVERY SINGLE DAY OF EVERY SINGLE RELATIONSHIP!!!!

So, what I am SAYING here is that you need to STOP following the MASSES.  You need to REALIZE what to look for in a woman.

And once you really KNOW what you are looking

for, it becomes EASIER to know if a woman is

right or not.  She will tell you ALL YOU NEED

TO KNOW ABOUT HER in just a few MINUTES,

because most women think they are actually on the

RIGHT path, so they feel they have nothing to hide!

So just let a woman wax on to you how she is really

into concerts, into restaurants, into traveling, and

if she never gets into how she is going to treat the

MAN in her life, then FORGET HER.

People tend to SPEAK about what is on their MINDS.

So if a woman isn’t REALLY looking for a man for

all the RIGHT reasons, you will KNOW from the

way she is talking and what she is talking about.

If a woman IS in the right head-space for a relationship,

if she DOES know what is important, if she really

CARES about the right things in a relationship,

if she really WANTS  to give and to get the right

dedication, kindness, loyalty, and wisdom, then

she will MAKE IT CLEAR through her words

AND her actions.

If she IS NOT DOING THIS, then DUMP HER,

AND DUMP HER FAST.

Your life is precious, you don’t get ONE second

back of it, EVER.  Don’t WASTE it on the

wrong women. 

And if you happen to be WEALTHY, this is

even MORE important for you, as some women

will try harder to figure out what it is YOU care

about in order to try to make it seem like they

would be a good match for you when they really

are NOT. 

You have to be careful not to FOOL yourself into

thinking this woman is SINCERELY dedicated

if she is NOT.  ACTIONS speak louder than words,

and CONSISTENCY is key. See if she is REALLY

consistent in her words and actions over the span

of TIME.  And try to HIDE THE FACT that you

have wealth.  Don’t act like a beggar, but don’t

try to get women through flaunting your wealth,

or you are REALLY going to make your life

difficult because you are going to invite the

greatest actresses of all time into your life and

I don’t mean that in a good way.

Don’t let wishful thinking fool you.

Remember, this company is called Get A GREAT Girl.

It isn’t called GET ALL THE GIRLS.

You are going to have to SCREEN like crazy.

Now, I want to make it CLEAR that I

am not telling guys to be so negative that

they don’t take POSITIVE action, as you

MUST get out there and in fact you may

have to meet even MORE women than

guys who are just looking for one-night

stands because you are looking for the

RIGHT traits that are harder to find. 

And I’d like to give you a GREAT method for how to approach women without relying on pick-up lines or anything else artificial.

Here’s what you do:

You FOCUS your attention on the woman you

are about to chat up. You OBSERVE her with

SHERLOCK HOLMES level observation skills.

I mean this figuratively, to say that you really

focus on observing her to your best ability,

and then you SAY something about what

you have observed.

The key is to try to find something that is not too easy for EVERYONE to see right away.  So if she is wearing a bright red hat, that’s a little too obvious to comment on, but even THAT is okay for STARTING the conversation.

Then, you wait to see if she RESPONDS with anything as a reply to you.      

The greater your INITIAL observation, the

greater the chance she WILL respond, and

not only will she respond, but she will respond

with a great deal of CONTENT as her reply.

You then OBSERVE AND LISTEN TO HER REPLY super-keenly, and you focus on what you can DEDUCE from what she is saying, ESPECIALLY if you can deduce something about HER, thereby setting things up for her NEXT RICH REPLY to you, setting up a fantastic cycle for you.

Now, if you do this RIGHT, she will actually START TO OBSERVE THINGS ABOUT YOU.

Women are BETTER at this stuff than most

men, so they will APPRECIATE what you

are doing and do the same back for you,

giving HER a chance to also learn about you.

So for example, even if you remarked on her choice of magazine she is reading, and you said, “I can see you enjoy photography”, (or architecture, or poetry, or WHATEVER the magazine is about, i.e. fashion) she might say back to you something like, “Yeah, I’m thinking of getting a new camera”, to which you might reply, “So you already have a camera, but your skill has taken you to a higher level of camera”, etc, etc.

It’s about LISTENING, and it’s about FOCUS.

Women are GREAT at sizing up your 

communication skills, and this will

make a GREAT impression, plus of course

it actually DOES allow you to create a

smooth flowing conversation.

After a few minutes of this, you are already

way past the stranger barrier, and just go

into “normal” conversation, so long as you

keep it chilled out, interesting and positive.

So, as you can see, I care about BOTH ends of the SPECTRUM: I care about making sure you know how to SCREEN for the RIGHT woman, and I also care about making sure you get the SKILL to actually MEET these women and make the best impression in the first place.    

I suggest you take a BOOTCAMP with me where

you will get the skills to meet LOTS of women and

make the best impressions immediately, and where

you will also learn how to SCREEN women quickly.

Bootcamp is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

I also have an entire ARMY of programs at your

disposal, and each and EVERY single one of them

is IMPORTANT.  I’m not here to make you panic,

BUT I can promise you these programs contain

PURE GOLD for getting SUCCESS with women.

If there are any of these programs that you don’t

own yet, this is the time to get them. Every second

you waste is a second that never comes back.

I personally wish I had learned all these things that

I now teach when I was back in HIGH SCHOOL,

but I’m still super thankful that I finally learned

them years later. 

Get these skills and vital insights NOW by getting

these programs IMMEDIATELY. 

They’re at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Urgent Point On Getting The Right Woman And On Taking The Right Actions

Today is a bit unusual, as it's
bootcamp day, and normally
bootcamps begin on Friday,
so that means there's very little
time to write today- but there
was something on my mind that
I really wantedto share with you
that is crucial for getting the right
woman in your life.

And I really do mean getting the
RIGHT woman, not just how to
get a girlfriend, but how to get
a GREAT girlfriend.

There is something about the human
brain, and the way it works, that
is kind of FREAKY:

The more you do something, the more you
BELIEVE in what it is you are doing.

It does not MATTER what the heck it is
that you are doing.

Whether it is buying lottery tickets,
writing letters to Santa (which is why
it not only hurts the first time a kid
realizes the truth, but at first there
is going to be denial of reality),
eating potato chips, or spending energy
on the wrong woman.

The more you do something, the more
you will feel you MUST continue doing
that thing, and you will rationalize
it any way you must, in order to
feel that indeed you are doing the
right thing.

This is a HUGE thing to realize.

Even giant companies like COKE make
the mistake of underestimating how
powerful this is.

After giving people the message that
Coke is the original cola, and that
it is "it", and having people enjoy
the feeling of being part of a
tradition that they have been doing
non-stop for GENERATIONS, suddenly
they told people NOPE, no more
of that, now you must drink NEW COKE.

You see, in the taste tests, people
LIKED New Coke more than old Coke.

But those taste tests were blind taste tests
where the people had no clue that this was
actually going to be the beginning of the
END of the good old Coke they always knew.

In the 'clinical' world of the physical
scientists, it all made sense.

It TASTED better, that's what the taste buds
said when they didn't know about anything else.

But in the world of PSYCHOLOGY, we know
that it is the BRAIN that ultimately
affects ALL the physical senses.

And in people's MINDS, in the real world,
people couldn't give a rat's ass about
BETTER TASTING COKE.

They wanted to do what they had been
doing since they were BORN, and since
their parents were born, and their
GRANDPARENTS were born:

DRINK THE SAME COKE THEY HAVE ALWAYS
BEEN DRINKING SINCE THEY CAME OUT
OF THEIR MOTHER'S WOMB!

And of course, COKE itself fell for the
"momentum" disaster of KEEP ON DOING THE
SAME THING even when it doesn't make sense.

So, when Coke brought back CLASSIC Coke,
and everyone cheered "HURRAY!", the people
at Coke WERE STILL ADDICTED TO THEIR
BEHAVIOR OF THE PAST, they KEPT ON
TRYING TO PUSH NEW COKE in ADDITION
to the old Coke.

But NO ONE WANTED NEW COKE!!!

So, only when it became AS BRIGHT AND CLEAR
AS A SUPERNOVA, did Coke decide to get RID
of "New Coke".

By the way, I love the taste of Coke,
and I love the "vibe" of Coke, even
though I rarely drink soft drinks.

Hmmm, maybe I'm just a sucker for the
same thing!

Do you see my point?

THIS IS HOW POWERFUL THE MIND'S DESIRE TO
DO THE SAME OLD THING IS!

It OVER-RIDES all logic!
It over-rides even OTHER emotions and
physical sensations!!!

It DISTORTS perception!

It causes PAIN!

And people KEEP ON DOING IT!!!

The worst tragedy against yourself is to
not even REALIZE what you are doing or
what is happening to you.

So I am here to SCREAM IT OUT LOUD
to wake you UP:

If you don't CHANGE the path you are on,
you will ONLY GAIN MORE AND MORE MOMENTUM
TO STAY IN THE WRONG DIRECTION AND YOU
ARE GOING TO EVEN BELIEVE IT'S THE RIGHT
DIRECTION, SIMPLY BECAUSE YOU'VE BEEN
DOING IT FOR SO LONG.

There are many reasons for this, and
unfortunately there is no time right
now for me to explain it all in a
newsletter, but the point is this:

If you are currently taking the WRONG
actions to get the right woman in your
life, chances are you are going to
not only CONTINUE taking the wrong
actions, but to think that what you
are doing is in fact the RIGHT way
to go about it.

One of the most common, classic tragedies
of this situation is when a guy is pursuing
ONE woman who is not responding to his
interest in her, and he continues to pour
MORE into trying to get her.

The more energy and time he spends on
trying to get her, the more he feels
that this effort is WORTH it, that
ultimately there will be a big payoff
for all his efforts.

It has to do with many things, including
our own egos and the fact we want to
feel that we are not wasting our time.

But it also has to do with other complex
mechanisms of the human brain. Notice
how even some SUPER INTELLIGENT
people have joined crazy cults that thought
aliens were coming to take them to
another planet, etc, etc, etc.

These people were NOT crazy, and in
many ways ALL people do 'crazy' things
all the time, they just aren't aware
of how crazy it is.

And this irrational effect is even
STRONGER when it comes to getting
a woman, because on top of all the
REGULAR irrational forces that plague
the human mind, there is now also the
force of the HALO EFFECT as well,
which in brief means that the beauty
of a woman ends up making a guy
feel that she is somehow more noble
or virtuous or worthy than she
actually IS.

I'm not saying that there aren't worthy
beautiful women out there, there absolutely
ARE- that's part of the whole reason for
Get A Great Girl in the first place.

What I'm saying is that the beauty ends
up making a lot of the WRONG women seem
like the RIGHT ones.

If you don't STOP yourself, you just
dig yourself deeper and deeper into
a toxic emotional situation that ends
up taking over your entire life.

This is why almost every single man I have
ever spoken to, before he learns what is
happening to him and becomes aware, ALWAYS
has 'this one girl who is really special'
who he is really focused on getting, but
yet he can't give me ONE good reason why
SHE is more special than any of about a
MILLION other women.

He will say she is very intelligent, very nice,
very good, etc, etc, but when I ask for the
EVIDENCE for these things compared to how
plenty of other women are in respect to her,
she is actually NOT so special at all.

Worst of all, this focus on ONE woman
also starts to make him needy, which
ruins his charisma and ruins all the
attractive behavior he could show her.

This makes her even LESS interested, which
of course now makes her seem even MORE
OF A CHALLENGE, and more scarce, and
more precious, and more desirable,
so he gets even MORE obsessed with her,
and this negative cycle just keeps
digging a deeper and deeper hole
into an endless abyss of desperation,
misery and loneliness.

And it does NOT have to be this way at ALL.

There IS a choice!!!!

I'm telling you right here, right now, that
indeed your MIND is unintentionally playing
a 'dirty trick' on you if you are going
through ANYTHING like this.

You can CHANGE IT ALL by taking a NEW
behavior, a step in the RIGHT direction,
which will then make you want to take
another step in the right direction,
and start a whole PRODUCTIVE CHAIN OF
EVENTS TO QUICKLY GETTING YOURSELF
A GREAT GIRL.

I suggest you get my 'Warrior Within' program
on DVD immediately. It will FREE YOUR MIND
on all the areas that it is currently holding
you back on when it comes to your success
with women.

This program is not some 'hocus-pocus',
as you know I am not a fan of 'airy-fairy'
stuff, only CONCRETE STRATEGIES
THAT WORK FOR DEEP CHANGE
AND ACTUAL RESULTS WITH
GETTING THE KIND OF WOMAN
YOU WANT.

You don't have to be the TITANIC.
You CAN turn your ship around by taking ACTION
in the RIGHT direction NOW by getting and
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In Bootcamp, there is no way to come and NOT
grow MASSIVELY in your skills with women, it's
simply impossible to leave bootcamp the same
man you were before you came in, because
I am going to IMMERSE YOU in an experience
that FORCES you to change and to learn.

And you're going to thank me for it, in spades.

Bootcamp is at:

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If you don't take action to change your life,
no one else will do it for you. Chances are,
they themselves are wrapped up in irrational
forces that they don't even realize, and
the truth is that very few people will EVER
'wake up' to what is REALLY happening so that
they can get the results they really WANT.

You, however, are now AWAKE.
You have a choice.

So let me ask you, what is holding you back
right now? Is it MONEY? Are you still not
a TRILLION per cent sure that my programs
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I look forward to hearing from you soon,
and I look even more forward to hearing
your success story.

Cheers for now...

Sincerely,

Michael Marks

Getting The Right Woman/The Attraction PARADOX

Getting the RIGHT woman is very different
than just getting any woman. It's also
more important than most men realize.

The wrong woman will ruin you faster than
anything else on earth.

Yet, ironically, in order to be READY to get  a great
woman, the first thing is to give yourself and your
emotions a FRESH start- you can't let the
baggage of the negative experiences pull down
your personality, your vibe, your passion.


Let us start, in the words of Linkin Park,
by creating a "NEW DIVIDE", and then
begin with new crucial info.



When I first started wanting to date
girls, one of the greatest challenges to
me was sorting out all the OPPOSITE
messages I got in terms of what it is that
women really want.

So for example, I would hear women
say things like “he’s so immature” in
a negative way, and then I would think
the answer is to be very SERIOUS and
mature.

But then I would see the same girl cracking
UP LIKE CRAZY to the outrageous antics
of some of the guys in school, like this guy
who actually flashed this girl at school,
and the guy wasn’t particularly great looking
either. And she thought it was hilarious.

So it all seemed really confusing.
There were the guys who were arrogant
who girls said they didn’t like, but constantly
talked about, so it seemed like in reality they
did like these guys.

And there were even some “nice” guys who
seemed to do alright with women as well,
contrary to popular belief.

And then you have dating gurus and pick up
artists who SWEAR by their methods, which
range from strategically lowering a woman's
high self-esteem, to “experts” who say it’s
all about speaking to her “natural woman”,
to “experts” who insist the answer is to
use tantric yoga and sing mantras together.

So are you ready for the real truth?

EFFECTIVE ATTRACTION is a BLEND of:

I. MATURITY

II. "ROCK STAR PASSION"

III. "THE GIFT OF SELF ESTEEM"

And all the above must be in the right
AMOUNTS, at the right TIME.

These things used in the wrong amounts
and at the wrong time will DESTROY
attraction, and that is the paradox.

Let’s get into how to do it RIGHT:

I. MATURITY

Maturity indeed IS attractive, when it’s NOT
THROWN IN HER FACE all the time.

So, for example, it’s mature to get an education
if you can, it’s mature to get some kind of job,
it’s mature to not make fun of the helpless,
it’s mature to go up to her and chat rather
than whistle cat-calls, etc.

It’s NOT mature to go on and on about SERIOUS things,
in a conversation with a woman you just met.

In fact, this is often a sign of insecurity, as
my best friend pointed out, that some people
will talk about negative things even if they
know it bothers you, just to make themselves
seem important, because bad news tends to
catch people's attention.

(By the way, I'm not saying EVERYONE
who says negative things is trying to
feel important, I'm just talking about
people who almost seem like they
want YOU to worry, when they
themselves aren't really all that
worried about it.)

It’s NOT mature to talk about yourself too much,
unless she asks. It’s NOT mature to show off your
accomplishments, as this also shows insecurity.

If you were to start a conversation with a woman
with something light, perhaps even funny, as
I suggest with my “disarm and charm” approach,
a woman will laugh and open up and NOT think
that you are immature, she will just understand
that you have well-honed social skills in this area.

Maturity is that silent thing that’s THERE behind the
scenes, and comes up when REQUIRED.

So for example, let’s say everyone in some social
gathering has turned the conversation into a gossip-fest,
so you tactfully say you have to use the restroom and
leave. 

You just might come back to find that the
best quality woman has also excused herself
and has found a kindred spirit in you.

Let’s say a woman is with you and she’s making fun
of someone who is helpless, you tactfully let her know
that you’re not fond of that kind of humor.

For example,you might say:

“Do you think maybe that woman has some kind
of problem that’s causing her be in that
situation”?

This will often show a woman that the way to
impress you is not by stepping on other people,
but by showing compassion and integrity.

If you’re at a party and every guy is slobbering over
some woman, if you’re mature and you’re
attracted to her, you realize that every guy
has already tried every pick up tactic in the
book on her, and your best bet is to just
walk up to her and say hi, and see what
her personality is like from the way she
chats with you.

Remember, starting a chat is very easy,
it can be as simple as asking her what she
thought of a recent popular event, i.e.
a certain really close soccer/football game,
or even a certain popular new comedy movie.

Maturity means you realize that she already
knows you are trying to chat her up, and that’s
OKAY, there’s nothing to be ashamed of,
and she will be ATTRACTED to this mentality.

II: ROCK STAR PASSION

Now, the thing is, sometimes, guys who are mature,
they forget about the importance of what I like to
call ROCK STAR PASSION.

You don’t have to be a rock star to have “rock star passion”.

By rock star passion, I mean the UNBRIDLED PASSION
for things in your life that brings CHARISMATIC ENERGY
to your overall demeanor in everything you do.

When you are doing things that you LOVE in your life,
it makes you a different person to be around, it changes
your entire “VIBE”.

It makes you feel a natural high, so that you are
instinctively making comments that are FUNNIER,
WITTIER, and that have more spark to them, all
because your INTERNAL STATE is feeling so
CHARGED. You can’t fake this, but you CAN
start this MOMENT thinking about what you
would ENJOY doing and how you can take
the FIRST STEPS RIGHT NOW toward
making that a reality.

I know it’s not easy for everyone, especially if you’re
“locked” into a job that takes endless hours that you are
bored of, but if that’s the case, you need to gradually
and SERIOUSLY change your situation to get into
something that either allows you more free time to
do what you DO love, or the career itself is something
you find challenging and satisfying, or both.

Now, sometimes you have the guys who are
PURE ROCK STAR PASSION with zero
maturity, and EVERYTHING is about
the party, the fun, the drinking, and the
INTENSITY and the SENSUALITY,
with zero thought of the long term or
the maturity of anything.

That might get a guy some mileage
in a wild club where everyone is drunk,
but it won't get a great girlfriend that
lasts.  It may very well attract the
kind of woman who will end up
being a nightmare- because she
is attracted only to this dimension
of the human personality.

So again, it’s about maturity AND rock star
passion. If you have no goals that really
ENERGIZE you and fill you with zest
for life, it’s time to get some new goals.

Before moving on to the next part of this
newsletter, WRITE DOWN THE FIRST
STEP YOU WILL TAKE AND SEE
IF YOU CAN TAKE THAT STEP NOW.

III: GIVE HER THE GIFT OF SELF-ESTEEM

In many ways, this is really the most important
one of all. In my Attraction Mastery Program,
I explain that “If you can give a woman the
gift of self-esteem, she will be yours forever.”

It’s true.
And guess what?
You don't do this by approaching her out of the
blue with a big smile.

You also don't do this by trying to insult her
in some attempt to lower her self esteem
as a form of control.

In fact, one of the greatest ironies to me is that
I see tons of guys trying to learn how to “razz”
women who are attractive, by saying things like
“did you brush your teeth today?” to negate these
women’s self-esteem in the hope that this
will make the woman feel “lower down
on the totem pole” and thus feel more on
an equal level to the guy.

The problem with this, is that all this achieves
is pissing off the woman, which some guys
interpret as, “Hey I got her attention!!! Wow!!!”

This kind of thing only sews the seeds for
the guy’s own destruction, especially if he
did it on purpose, because if he did it on
purpose, it means he truly did not feel
secure enough to talk to the woman
WITHOUT using this warped stuff.

This lack of feeling secure enough will
then be poor insulation against the
EXPLODING FIRE BLOWBACK
that the woman will subtly unleash back
on the guy, and because she’s most likely
very attractive, she can see the insult
from a mile away, and thus she won’t
be hurt much by it, but it will piss
her off just enough for her to carefully
orchestrate her revenge in a way that
will hurt most.

Whereas if the guy really does talk in
insensitive ways, he’s used to all sorts
of negative reactions and doesn’t care.

He doesn’t get very far with women and
doesn’t want to, and doesn’t have very close
relationships with anybody.

Also, allowing the manipulative mentality
into your repertoire is destructive for your
mindset with this woman, as it means from
the beginning, you were having to rely on
making her feel bad rather than on making
her simply feel you are amazing.

Sooner or later, if you make a woman feel
a lack of validation, she will just go elsewhere
to get that validation.  So it's really a no-win
situation when you try to lower a woman's
sense of self-esteem. 

If a woman is truly stuck up, all it means is
she's so insecure (and believe it or not
sometimes a woman who is very beautiful
can still be very insecure) that she feels the
need to be stand-offish, and I suggest you
move on to another woman who is more
fun to be with.

Now, all this does NOT mean that you should
kiss up to women either. It just means you
should restrain yourself from jumping to the
HALO effect and worshiping a woman and
thinking she is so great on the inside just
because she looks great on the outside.

She MIGHT be great on the inside, but that’s
for you to find out. Your job is to be secure
enough in yourself and in your personality,
your personal accomplishments, to go up
and talk to her and find out what she’s
about and enjoy the conversation.

The gift of self-esteem is far more PRECIOUS
today than it has EVER been.

Abraham Maslow, the famous psychologist,
discovered that once people have the basic
needs met of survival and shelter, after that
the thing that people REALLY want is
PRESTIGE/HONOR/RESPECT, etc.

In other words, STATUS.

A long time ago, people were born rich or
poor, and they STAYED that way.

Now, in one way that sucked, but on the other
hand, most people didn’t feel this need to
get STATUS in order to feel complete.

They KNEW they weren’t going to get status.
And a lot of people also KNEW that the ruling class
weren’t particularly DESERVING of it, so amongst
all the poor people there was a certain feeling of
“we’re all equal, and we all have equal status”.

People didn't feel it's their own FAULT
for not having "socially high status".

That was in a time when it was a big deal to have
a LOAF OF BREAD ON THE TABLE.

But NOW, people have MORE THAN EVER,
yet also feel more "ripped off" and more of a
"loser" than ever because they feel they are
not getting the status they EXPECTED
they would get.

When people feel they LACK ADEQUATE STATUS,
they realllllly realllllly are unhappy.

And this hits the self-esteem HARD.

It’s also interesting that people don’t feel jealous
of the guy who is WAYYY up the “status totem pole”,
so most guys don’t feel jealousy for Bill Gates,
because the mind sees that as being so far out of
their own leagues, it’s not worth the bother of
worrying about it. But the guy who has a slightly
bigger house, who went on a slightly fancier
vacation, or who has some other sort of bullpoo
arbitrary thing that really makes no difference
to life, THAT drives a lot of people, including
a lot of women, CRAZY.

Now, on one hand, it seems MEN are the worst
culprits of this, in the sense they start WARS
for this crazy shit, but women do it in another
way…they tend to seek ENDLESS OTHER
INDICATORS OF STATUS to make them
feel “worthy”.

So I’ll give you a little hint- the best women
I’ve ever met were spiritual but not religious.
They were more readily able to detach their
sense of self-esteem from endless status
symbols than other women, and these
women also tended to be more fun
in general.

This does not mean it’s as simple as going
to a yoga class to meet one of these women,
as today, going to yoga has become unfortunately
for many women a STATUS SYMBOL ITSELF!

But it’s definitely not the worst place to go
to meet women.

So, getting back to the main point, you
want to not HARM a woman’s self-esteem,
you want to STRENGTHEN it, you want
to help her find it, reinforce it, make it
indestructible.

There is never a problem on this planet that
comes from a person who truly feels a sense of
self-esteem. This is a gift that comes back to
you as well, of course, as the more esteem
a person feels, the less drama and problems
they will be attracted to or start.

And of course, the first step in giving
a woman the gift of self-esteem is
giving it to yourself. You have to know
something for real, for yourself, before
you can give it or teach it.

Also, I suggest you don’t go for women
who are a long way from feeling self-esteem
already, as you can’t change someone, but
you can ENHANCE a woman’s sense of
self-esteem by giving her even MORE of
it.

Self-esteem is INFINITE, you can never
have too much, and you can never give
her too much either. Just make sure
this woman is worthy of such a great
form of giving from you.

The first step I suggest you take with a
woman who is worried about not being
enough (and I assure you, she probably
feels she is not enough, whether she is
not the actress she wished she would be,
the singer she wished she would be, the
doctor, the denstist, the lawyer, the
teacher, the mother, the daughter,
the friend, it goes on forever) is ask her
what would happen if she IMAGINED that
she WAS enough even WITHOUT all those
things? Just to IMAGINE it. She doesn’t
have to change anything, just ask her to
IMAGINE HERSELF FEELING ENOUGH
EVEN WITHOUT ALL THOSE THINGS
SHE THINKS SHE MUST BE.

This is just a very precursory step, the
beginning of the beginning, but it’s a step.

And of course, if you haven't done this
on yourself, do it for yourself as well.

Also, I suggest you help her find all the
GENUINELY amazing things she HAS
done and does, that she doesn’t even
give herself any credit for.

In a world that is suffering from lower
self-esteem than EVER because of the
endless “status race”, it is even MORE
EMOTIONALLY OVERWHELMING
IN A COOL WAY WHEN YOU DO
FEEL SELF-ESTEEM, she will see
and feel this esteem even STRONGER
than she normally would because of
the CLEAR MASSIVE CONTRAST.

Now, this newsletter has just touched
the broad strokes, I would love to get
into the FULL GLORY OF THE DETAILS
in terms of how to best DO all of this!

And if you're reading this now, I suggest
you get my Attraction Mastery Program
IMMEDIATELY.

This program is the most comprehensive
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It will show you the deepest levels of how to
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It will also show you how to use something
called REFRAMING to keep your social
status at the ABSOLUTE top.

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

I also seriously suggest you sign up for my
BOOTCAMP program. I am still in love
with this field, because there are INFINITE
levels of learning, and I never stop enjoying
the process of taking this field FURTHER.

Rather than pump out marketing all day long,
I prefer to actually DISCOVER more and more
about how attraction and connection works,
because ultimately it is actually the most powerful
driving force for all of humanity.

So, when you take a bootcamp with me, you are
learning from someone who really LOVES this
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also proven his credentials in person, and who has
had all this verified by tons of observers, including
by several major national newspapers.
    
Find out more about my bootcamp by going here:

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Be cool,

Michael Marks