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Sunday, February 16, 2014

How To Attract The ULTRA HOT Ones

You know how people tell you that success
with women is just about "CONFIDENCE"?


The fact of the matter is, just hearing the words
"be confident" doesn’t help a guy when a gorgeous,
mouth-watering, smoking-hot woman is right in
front of him... 

Just telling a guy to “be confident” doesn’t help
EXPLAIN how to actually get a gorgeous woman
from being a total stranger to being in your bed
“begging you for more” and screaming your name
out in ecstasy.

And just telling a man to “be confident” doesn’t
explain how to actually make a woman want
to be the greatest girlfriend in the world to you.


That's why I created my latest program, "Attracting The Ultra-Hotties: Raising Your Game On Attraction, Humor, Screening, And Deep Connections."
 
Attracting Women Is About A Lot MORE Than Just Having Confidence

Plus, even if a man DOES have confidence, there
is MORE to attracting a woman than just being
CONFIDENT.  Mastering the conversation skills,
the skills of humor, of style, of HOW to physically
escalate, and of HOW to build a deep connection
all require SPECIFIC knowledge, training, and
insights.

These areas of success with women involve a lot
more than JUST “being confident”.

There is KNOW-HOW and there is IGNORANCE.

When the moment of truth arises, and that gorgeous
woman is right in front of you, just thinking "be confident"
is not enough. 



Plus, even learning just how to truly UNLEASH the
FULL extreme of one’s confidence is ALSO a
skill in itself.

The ULTIMATE level of success with women comes
when you learn how to COMBINE all these different
skills.

A Real-Life Example Of A COMBINATION Of Attractive Skills

In just a few moments, I’m going to give you a REAL LIFE example of how to COMBINE confidence, wit, humor, and social intelligence when interacting with a bona fide HOTTIE.

This comes from a real life example where SNOOP
DOGG
was teasing a beautiful woman who is an
actress and a comedian. Her name is Whitney
Cummings. By the way, I have no idea if Snoop
himself wrote what he said or if he had a writer,
but there is no denying that he delivered it perfectly.

Now, keep in mind, when it comes to interacting
with women, everything is about ADJUSTING to
the SITUATION and to the WOMAN you are with.

Why You Must "Raise The Bar" With The Hotties

So, in general, when dealing with women who are
SUPER HOT, and who are CONFIDENT, you
MUST RAISE THE BAR in terms of IMPACT.

Although it is true that for the really gorgeous women,
most men won’t even approach them,  the fact also
is that these women, over the course of their lives,
have had just about EVERY TYPE OF "PICK UP"
attempt thrown their way.

They are DESENSITIZED to most approaches.
They have seen so many pathetic attempts at
FAKING confidence, that to really convey
confidence to a woman you have to go
BEYOND what you think is confidence.

So, right now, IMAGINE what a confident and
playful statement to a woman might be.

I’m here to tell you that if you are like most guys,
what you just imagined is NOT enough.

You have to take it UP by a THOUSAND notches.

Try to IMAGINE what MASSIVE CONFIDENCE
these super hot women feel in terms of their LOOKS.

If you can really imagine this, you will start to realize
that what is perceived as a PLAYFUL TEASE for these
women might NOT be fun for a less confident woman.

If you’re THE HULK, you need a little more of a
challenge than if you’re a "mere mortal" and 
these SUPER HOTTIES are like HULKS when
it comes to their CONFIDENCE.

And the TRUTH is, that just TELLING A MAN
TO BE CONFIDENT, is not enough, because
most men have no CLUE what this level of
BALLS and CONFIDENCE actually is supposed
to SOUND LIKE and how to MANIFEST that
confidence through WORDS and through tonality.

The reason why it’s so tough to even FATHOM
how much CONFIDENCE these women have
is because unless a man EXPERIENCES what
life is like for these women, it’s very difficult to
just IMAGINE it.

That’s why I’m going to give you a real example.

I’m going to give you an idea of just HOW
confident these ULTRA HOTTIES really are,
and what kind of EQUAL CONFIDENCE you
must exert in order to be on the SAME emotional
WAVELENGTH that they are on.

            Here Is The Detailed Example:

So here we go, this is a playful TEASE that
Snoop Dogg said to this gorgeous actress who
is ALSO a comedian:

“Whitney Cummings, look at your fine little skinny
ass sitting up there.  I’ve rolled blunts fatter than you!
But you’ve been passed around a little bit more.”

Now, I must explain also that the EMPHASIS
ON THE RIGHT WORDS
is of PARAMOUNT
significance if you are going to make the most
IMPACT.
 

      The Analysis Part I: It's SEXUAL
 

Before I even say one more word, let's point out
the fact that this is SEXUAL humor, used in a
brilliant way.  


If you can get a woman feeling COMFORTABLE 
about sexual things to the point she is actually
LAUGHING  about something DIRECTLY 
sexual regarding HERSELF, you are ALREADY 
well on the way to success.

Compare THAT to a guy who spends three
dates with a woman and is still trying to just
get the KISS!!!!!

So that's the first thing immediately to keep
in mind, which is using humor to break the
SEXUAL barrier ASAP.

This is a great way to ensure you stay OUT
of the "friends zone" and that you stay on her
mind in a very explicit, sexual, and enjoyable
way that she can't help but keep thinking about.


By the way, she was laughing her HEAD OFF
at all this, and clearly ENJOYED IT LIKE CRAZY.

And I'm not saying that every guy has to do the
SAME thing, or use the SAME kind of jokes; it
is important to be congruent to yourself, but
it is ALSO important to understand just how
INSANELY confident most attractive women
really ARE about all this stuff.

The PRINCIPLE here is RAISING THE BAR
in terms of CHALLENGING and CONFIDENT
humor when interacting with women who are
ULTRA CONFIDENT with men, and who are
DESENSITIZED to the style of most men's 
approaches. 
  
  The Analysis Part II: The PAUSE
 
In the tease above, the emphasis was:

“Whitney Cummings.
(PAUSE).

By taking a PAUSE, he shows he is not in a RUSH
to just get the words over with.

He shows he KNOWS he has VALUE to his words.
He wants to make sure everyone is LISTENING.

Instead of saying verbally "I'm confident", he is
actually SHOWING it through his BEHAVIOR.

Plus, by taking a PAUSE after saying her name, he
builds up ANTICIPATION.

He gets her MORE EMOTIONALLY INVOLVED
in his statement.

This is what she’s wondering:
"What the HECK is he going to say about me?"

And getting her more involved takes MORE CONFIDENCE because it shows he feels that his message is going to totally WORK on her.

So just in that one move, he has shown confidence,
AND he has increased her emotional involvement
by building anticipation.
  
 
                The Analysis Part III:  

Adjusting The Tease For The Specific Woman, And COMBINING Emotions For Greater Impact

“Look at your fine little skinny ass up there”.

The bottom line is that being SLIM is something
that is more POSITIVE than negative, so this isn’t
mean.

It’s VERY IMPORTANT that your teases to a woman
are never MEAN-SPIRITED, otherwise you just come
across as a guy who is bitter and who is NOT cool
and who is not already “in demand” by women.

Yet, at the same time, he is STILL TEASING her
on being SUPER slim, as if to say she’s TOO slim,
by saying:

“I’ve rolled BLUNTS fatter than you!”

Upon hearing this, she is simultaneously SHOCKED
at the guts it takes to say this and she is also LAUGHING hysterically at the HUMOR at the SAME time.

COMBINING emotions makes for GREATER
EMOTIONAL IMPACT!


It’s not just true with humor, but actually is true
for ALL emotions.  This is why great movies, by
the way, are very COMPLEX.  The situation the
hero is in is often a COMBINATION of emotions,
including being exciting, dangerous, humorous,
passionate, intriguing, romantic, etc.

Music does this as well, i.e. the song lyrics
“I’ll KISS you when it’s DANGEROUS”, the
love, the lust, the danger, when mixed together,
makes each of those separate emotions feel even
MORE powerful than each emotion would feel
on its own. 

Back to our example with Snoop, this is a great
example of combining shock from experiencing
this comment that takes GUTS to say, yet it is
also FUNNY as heck.

And of course, it’s obvious from her reaction that
she is this combination of IMPRESSED and she
LIKES it.

Remember, for the most part of her LIFE, she only
meets men that BORE HER TO SLEEP.

                      The Analysis Part IV:
The Humor Has It's Own LOGIC, Plus The
Humor Creates A Powerful IMAGE In Her Mind


But Snoop isn’t finished, he’s just warming up
with that one.

He goes on to FURTHER floor her with:

“BUT YOU’VE BEEN PASSED AROUND
A LITTLE BIT MORE!”  


This is the kind of thing that you can ONLY
get away with because it’s a COMBINATION
of being CLEARLY UNTRUE (so it’s not mean)
yet also insanely FUNNY because it’s such an easy
INSTINCT to THINK that she is that type because
of the fact she is not only super hot but also a
comedian who jokes about sex all the time.

Plus, the obvious connection to a blunt that is
“passed around” is a potential for humor that is
BEGGING to be expressed.  It also creates a
VISUAL of her being just an object like a blunt,
and the joke is that she is viewed and used in a
similar way for similar purposes of sheer pleasure,
which, in a crazy way, is STILL to some extent
an actual COMPLIMENT, because it means she
is DESIRABLE. 

This is POWERFUL stuff all crammed into a
BRIEF couple of sentences of humor!


Again, she was laughing so hard, her sides were
splitting from laughter.

                    The Analysis Part V: 
The Humor Is UNPREDICTABLE, And Yet It
All Makes PERFECT SENSE In Its Own Way


Then, he goes for the close with:

“But right now, things are popping for Whitney y’all.
Everybody in HOLLYWOOD is talking about her,
and they’re all saying the same thing:

I think that b*&^% gave me HERPES!”


And to this, he has delivered the KNOCKOUT,
she is almost hysterical with laughter, not in
SPITE
of, but BECAUSE of the fact he is busting
on her BIG time.

Again, NOT ONLY does this take GUTS to say,
but it also takes SKILL to come up with this.

First, Snoop takes the comment in one direction,
saying all these NICE things about her, i.e. that
she’s popular, that everyone is talking about her,
and THEN he says something that we DON’T
expect. It’s the complete OPPOSITE direction
when he says that the thing they’re all saying is:

“I think that b*&^% gave me HERPES!”

To be specific, the reason
this works so well,
is because it
MIXES five things together:

                                ONE:
                           The Truth


He says the truth, that she is super popular.
So we find ourselves believing and our
minds ACCEPTING what he says.

                                  TWO:
         He Says What Is NOT Predictable


When he says, "I think that b*&^% gave me HERPES!"
there is no way for her to see that comment coming,
so it takes her by surprise.

Most women are totally DESENSITIZED by all the
things that most men say to them again and again
a billion times a day.

The key is to say something women are NOT expecting,
that is still PLAYFUL and not MEAN, but is also
CHALLENGING at the same time.  

                                   THREE:
The “Twist” At The End Is Not Just A Surprise,
It’s Actually The PERFECT Conclusion To The
PREVIOUS Line He Said To Her!  


The best 'twist' with humor almost always obeys the
following rule:

It's not only a "surprise", but it's a surprise which makes
PERFECT SENSE from the humor perspective.

So the humor doesn't feel forced, it feels like a perfect fit.

It's the PERFECT Conclusion To The PREVIOUS
Line That Was Said, Even Though It Was NOT
What She Expected!  


His final line, even though at first it seems to go
completely in the OPPOSITE direction to what he
said before, ends up still being PERFECTLY
CONSISTENT with what he first said before.

In other words, everyone IS talking about her,
her name IS popping up all over Hollywood,
it’s just NOT in a GOOD WAY!

                            FOUR:
      He Creates A Powerful Visual


It’s also FUNNY because theoretically
this is the kind of thing that CAN happen in
real life, but more importantly the VISUAL
of all these guys who got SCREWED by her
and are now paying for it, but who at least
are also all finding comfort in sharing
their misery with each other.

You can picture a bunch of guys at a bar all
sharing their misery about her.

                             FIVE: 
It’s Never MEAN, Because It Is Perfectly
Customized For A Woman Of HER Looks
And HER Wit, And HER Confidence  


We also realize that this whole story
is actually NOT the truth, that she did not
give anyone herpes or anything, which makes
the whole thing FUNNY and not MEAN.

It’s OBVIOUS that it is a JOKE, but it’s
a joke that still takes GUTS.

Plus, most importantly, she is a woman who
is HOT and WITTY and who is likely to
ENJOY this kind of communication.

                            SIX:
      It Takes INTELLIGENT Risks


Saying this tease STILL required an
element of RISK, it still took GUTS, and
COURAGEOUS jokes are always funnier
than jokes that take ZERO risks, jokes that
are totally purely safe and anti-septic.

Part of what MAKES a woman react so strongly
to the joke is that it TOOK courage and balls
to say it.  Just remember that it’s not ONLY
about the guts, it’s ALSO about the WIT
and everything else I explained above.

The key with humor is to take INTELLIGENT
risks and to use STRATEGY as outlined above.
 
By the way, this is just 1% of what you will learn
in this program that is JAM-PACKED with pure
gold on attracting women. In fact, it’s only one
small part of ONE section on HUMOR.

This program ALSO goes into TONS of OTHER vital skills for ensuring success in getting the most fantastic women, skills that have nothing to do with humor, as you will see below.
 
Here Is ANOTHER Sample On Mastering Humor From The Program:

Before going on, allow me to give ONE more example and analysis regarding HUMOR with women:

At the same event, Seth MacFarlane also demonstrated
super wit, teasing Whitney as well with the following
comment:

“She’s got the body of a crack whore, BUT
she’s got the razor sharp wit of a crack whore.”


So, again, he FIRST says something that is mostly a
compliment, as being SLIM is mostly a COMPLIMENT
in our society, especially with women, and he also
uses the PAUSE to build anticipation when he says
the word “BUT”.

So again, we have the confidence and the use of
anticipation.

The next thing, after his pause, is PERFECT calibration
considering she IS INDEED VERY ATTRACTIVE:

“But she’s got the razor sharp WIT of a crack whore!”

So it’s PERFECT symmetry, it’s consistent, it’s NOT WHAT WE EXPECT, so we DON’T SEE IT COMING which is what makes it more powerful as a SURPRISE.

And yet, even though it’s a SURPRISE, we
TOTALLY UNDERSTAND THE HUMOR.

And, because she is in fact CONFIDENT about her
looks and is sharp and witty herself, like most
hot women, there is no big dumb risk of the
comments HURTING her feelings, because
she KNOWS those things said about her are
NOT TRUE!!!

These particular skills with attracting women
include SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE, so that you
can quickly UNDERSTAND what level of confidence
and self-esteem a woman is at so that you can make
things EXCITING and challenging for her without
HURTING her feelings.

In this special, jam-packed 1-hour audio program, I go into this topic FAR MORE with greater detail and explanation and more examples of how to actually MASTER these skills that make women for you.

Just this part of the program ALONE is worth
ten times the cost of the ENTIRE program.

But there’s MORE, and I mean WAY MORE
to this program as well, as you will see below...


Like ALL my programs, this program is PURE content.
Absolutely no “filler”.
Absolutely no gimmicks.

This audio program is over one hour long, and is PACKED with hard-hitting, CONCRETE STRATEGIES that you can put to use EASILY and IMMEDIATELY to attract women
you see ANYWHERE.

Instead of just having a vague idea of "be confident", you will actually learn the SKILLS to get her MELTING for you.

This program is NOT a rehash of my other programs, it contains TONS and TONS of ALL-NEW material. 

Here are just SOME of the OTHER crucial strategies, insights, and concepts for attracting fantastic women that you will learn from this important audio program: 

The EFFECTIVE Way To "Make Something Happen" 

Most men are trying to “make something happen”
when they see a woman they want to meet. Ironically,
this is the WORST strategy to take, because it puts
far too much pressure on yourself and ruins your
vibe.

I’ll show you a FAR MORE POWERFUL alternative
that allows you to succeed with something as CASUAL
as, “How are you doing?”

At the same time, this program will show you
MORE SOPHISTICATED ways of capturing
a woman’s interest, but by having this super
easy “back-up” plan in your mind, you will
NEVER miss out another opportunity to
meet any woman you see.

New Strategies For Humor That Swallow Women Up Into Your World And Keep Them Chasing You


I’ll also show you TONS of new powerful insights
for using HUMOR with women in a way that
SWALLOWS WOMEN UP into your “vibe” and
makes them want to STAY in your presence.

What you’ve read about humor in this column
barely scratches the SURFACE of what you
will learn in the actual PROGRAM itself.

What’s especially great about this style of humor
is that you are not only getting a woman laughing,
but you are also simultaneously SHOWING your
POWER, your WIT, and your absolute TOTAL
confidence.

Remember, in this program, I don’t “tell you” to be
confident or intriguing or humorous or witty or
anything else. Instead, I actually
SHOW YOU
HOW TO CONVEY ALL THESE TRAITS
TO WOMEN.


I need to repeat something: When humor is used
PROPERLY with women, it’s not just effective
for rapport and for starting conversations. It
ALSO is actually massively effective for
ATTRACTING a woman in the most powerful
and primal way, because it SHOWS POWER,
WIT, INTELLIGENCE,
and much MORE.

How To Avoid "Messing Up" When It Comes To Humor
 

I’ll also show you how to AVOID the mistakes
that most men make when it comes to humor,
because there’s nothing worse than a guy who
is TRYING to be funny but is just coming across
as LAME.    

    How To Use Humor To "Neutralize" Jerks  

Plus, I’ll even show you how to use HUMOR to
effectively NEUTRALIZE anyone who ever tries
to be NASTY to you with a MEAN joke.

This one strategy ALONE is something that is
worth the entire cost of this program, and it
also will convey  your own power and social
intelligence, AND it will simultaneously
attract women as they see you so smoothly
handle jerks in this strategic way.

New, Ultra-Effective Strategies On Quickly SCREENING Women Properly And On Detecting A Woman's Values And Personality

 One of the BIGGEST things that I also focus
on here at “Get A Great Girl” is how to actually
"SCREEN" women for quality, by learning how
to detect a woman's values and personality traits
as quickly as possible so you don’t waste time
on the wrong women.
 

Well, in this program, you’re going to learn
my most powerful new strategies for "screening"

women and for detecting a woman’s character, 
personality, and values, and how to do this QUICKLY.
 
Conversation Topics That Are "Ultra-Juicy And Addictive To Women" 

In this program, you are ALSO going to get a
some of my favorite “ULTRA-JUICY” topics that
you can use for opening up conversations with
women.

WARNING: These “ultra-juicy” topics are so
COMPELLING to women that you may find women
WON’T STOP TALKING once you get them started
on these topics!

       Building A Deep Connection With A Woman

These topics are not only the perfect “chick bait”
but they also will allow you the perfect chance to use
these SAME topics to actually BUILD a deep connection!

These topics work GREAT as playful conversation
STARTERS and yet their very nature ALSO is extremely
conducive for leading into more meaningful conversation
that allows you to build a DEEP CONNECTION with
any woman.  

Determine If A Woman Is Likely To Be FAITHFUL Or If She Is The Kind Who Will Likely BETRAY


Included in these conversations are particular topics
that will also allow you to secretly discover very
QUICKLY if she is the kind of woman who will
be LOYAL or who is likely to BETRAY and be
UNFAITHFUL.

Key New Insights On How To KEEP A Woman Loyal

Plus, in this program, you will ALSO learn valuable
strategies and insights on how to KEEP a woman
loyal to you. Personally, I think this information
is PRICELESS if you plan on getting into a
relationship or getting a serious girlfriend.

The Top Ten Traits That Women Who Are Gorgeous Inside And Out Seek In A Man

PLUS, this program will ALSO reveal to you
the TOP TEN TRAITS that a quality woman
is subconsciously looking for in a man.

In this program, I not only REVEAL these
traits, but I also show you examples of how
you can easily CONVEY to women that
you HAVE all these traits.

How To Get A Woman Who Is Even A Total Stranger Hugging You Within MOMENTS Of Meeting Her!

PLUS, I’ll also show you a NEW way to
get a woman HAPPILY HUGGING you
within MOMENTS of meeting you, and
NONE of this is some kind of “trick”
and NONE of this is some kind of lie
or deception that you tell her.

She will WANT to do this and she will
ENJOY it.

How To Make A Woman Feel Closer To You In MINUTES, Than Any Other Man She Has Ever Known In Her Life


PLUS, in this program you will also learn a
powerful secret to making a woman feel
that you not only understood her better
than any other man, but this same secret
will also make a woman feel a stronger
connection to YOU in just MINUTES
than to men she may have known her
entire LIFE.

This program is INSANELY PACKED WITH
PURE GOLD
on absolutely ENSURING
your
success with women that most men can only

DREAM about. 

You are going to use what you learn in this
program in just about EVERY situation where
you want to attract a quality woman.

I know I could charge ten times the price I
have decided to charge for this program,
but I figure that this way, EVERY MAN
can get his hands on this program and
BENEFIT from it.

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sure you are ARMED FOR SUCCESS the next
time you see gorgeous women ANYWHERE.

And to make this a TOTAL "no brainer", to make it
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Attracting The Ultra Hotties

Your Friend,

Michael Marks

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Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Actions For Getting The RIGHT Woman

This is going to be one of the most important
articles I have ever written on getting the
RIGHT woman. The article is comprised of 
two very DIFFERENT yet VITAL aspects to 
getting a quality woman. 

The first part deals with how to properly
SCREEN a woman for the right values for
a great long-term relationship.  The second
part deals with how to actually best approach
a woman who is a total stranger no matter
WHERE you see her or find her.

So, let’s get to the SCREENING part first,
because it is the only way to prevent wasting
years of your life on the wrong women who
will bring you misery, heartache, and who
may even drain you financially.

Now, remember, this is all about getting a
GREAT woman, a woman who is the kind
of woman who you can TRUST, who will
be there through hell and high water, who
will truly last the test of time, a woman who
is strong in her noble convictions and who
is a positive person and who is also wise and
not naïve.

And to find THIS kind of woman, you need to realize one thing: THE MAJORITY OF WOMEN ARE NOT GOING TO BE THE RIGHT ONES!

If you don’t believe me, just check out the
dating profiles of ANY random sampling
of 10, 20, 100, or even a THOUSAND
profiles of women on any internet dating
site.

I don’t even emphasize internet dating, I prefer
to approach women in real life, but still to just
get an idea of what is going on in the minds
of most women (and trust me, many men are
misguided as well) all you have to do is
see what women say about THEMSELVES
in their dating profiles.

They say things like “I like travelling and going out to
great restaurants. I LOVE funny movies and I have a
great sense of humor.  I am a wonderful/nice/great
person.”

And of course, if you look at what women are LOOKING
for in a guy, you will see SIMILAR things, such as
“I’m looking for a guy who likes to travel, who enjoys
going out to restaurants, and who has a great sense of
humor.”

These things are so ARBITRARY and not truly VITAL
to relationships, these women may as well say that what
they are really looking for a guy in a relationship is for him
to be able to stand on one foot while reciting the national
anthem backwards and wearing a polka-dot tutu. 

WHAT THE *----* ??????????????????????

Remember, this is what women think is IMPORTANT
to tell men.  Women think THIS is what makes a woman
a great woman to date, to get into a relationship with,
to possibly consider as great girlfriend material, and
possibly WIFE material.

The freaking truth, though, is that if you are in a
RELATIONSHIP with someone, then aside from
physical chemistry,  the BIGGEST thing that matters
is how this person TREATS YOU EVERY SINGLE
TIME YOU INTERACT WITH THEM!!!!!!!!!!!

After all, a relationship is not a one-night stand. It is
a RELATIONSHIP.  That means you RELATE to
each other, you CONNECT on a regular basis.

If you get into a SERIOUS relationship, you might
even be moving in together. And of course, if you
get married you will interact a LOT with each other.

That is, if BOTH PEOPLE in the relationship KNOW
how to do relationships RIGHT.  The truth is, most
relationships are headed toward DISINTEGRATION
because one or both parties are IGNORANT of how
to do relationships right, and most relationships will
end and ironically they will not be relating to each
other for very long.

So, back to the main point, which I need to repeat:
The BIGGEST thing that matters in relationships is how this person TREATS YOU EVERY SINGLE TIME YOU INTERACT WITH THEM!!!!!!!!!!!

Instead of women looking for arbitrary qualities in men, 
and instead of women trying to impress men by listing
the arbitrary qualities the women have, qualities that 
have nothing to do with relationships, women SHOULD 
be describing what DOES matter. (Men, of course, should
also be focusing on what DOES matter.)

A woman should go on to GREAT lengths to describe
the level of DEDICATION that she will give to the right 
MAN in her life.

Women should describe in PAINSTAKING DETAIL
just how LOYAL they will be.

They should pour their heart out and write for DAYS
about their ability to LISTEN and to make you feel
UNDERSTOOD.

They should write POETRY on how intense their
love for you and your future family will be, and on
how that will be their greatest priority.

WHO GIVES A FLYING F--- ABOUT THE FACT THEY LIKE TO EAT IN RESTAURANTS AND TRAVEL?

Doesn’t EVERYBODY like these things?

It all boils down to one thing: Selfishness, which ironically, ROBS them of the joy of having ANY long-lasting love in their lives, thereby keeping their lives empty, thereby reinforcing MORE of the need for temporary distractions.

Don’t get me wrong.  I think a sense of humor is great. Restaurants, and travelling, all cool stuff. You just don’t need a RELATIONSHIP for that stuff.   

What these women are saying, in effect, is that they 
think THEY are the only things that are really important, 
and also they are even saying that the MAIN thing in a guy
is his ability to participate in these NON-PARTICULARLY
RELATIONSHIP TYPE activities, such as traveling,
going out to dinner, and joking around. 

But alas, the story does not end there. All you need to do is check out the dating profiles of women who have BABIES or small KIDS at home and who were also previously married and are now divorced.

What do you know? For some odd reason,
the profiles of THESE women tend to
(not always, but MOST of the time) be
VERY DIFFERENT.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

You will notice that these women seem to understand the importance of things like COMMITMENT, LOYALTY, and suddenly they are not so concerned about whether you are into travelling and restaurants and could really care less if you happen to be particularly funny or not.

You will suddenly see terms like KINDNESS
appearing with greater frequency.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.
How INTERESTING.

So, basically, once women have been through the ringer, they find out that choosing a man based on STUPID REASONS  does not work well, and they suddenly start to choose men based on criteria relevant to EVERY SINGLE DAY OF EVERY SINGLE RELATIONSHIP!!!!

So, what I am SAYING here is that you need to STOP following the MASSES.  You need to REALIZE what to look for in a woman.

And once you really KNOW what you are looking
for, it becomes EASIER to know if a woman is
right or not.  She will tell you ALL YOU NEED
TO KNOW ABOUT HER in just a few MINUTES,
because most women think they are actually on the
RIGHT path, so they feel they have nothing to hide!

So just let a woman wax on to you how she is really
into concerts, into restaurants, into traveling, and
if she never gets into how she is going to treat the
MAN in her life, then FORGET HER.

People tend to SPEAK about what is on their MINDS.
So if a woman isn’t REALLY looking for a man for
all the RIGHT reasons, you will KNOW from the
way she is talking and what she is talking about.

If a woman IS in the right head-space for a relationship,
if she DOES know what is important, if she really
CARES about the right things in a relationship,
if she really WANTS  to give and to get the right
dedication, kindness, loyalty, and wisdom, then
she will MAKE IT CLEAR through her words
AND her actions.

If she IS NOT DOING THIS, then DUMP HER,
AND DUMP HER FAST.

Your life is precious, you don’t get ONE second
back of it, EVER.  Don’t WASTE it on the
wrong women. 

And if you happen to be WEALTHY, this is
even MORE important for you, as some women
will try harder to figure out what it is YOU care
about in order to try to make it seem like they
would be a good match for you when they really
are NOT. 

You have to be careful not to FOOL yourself into
thinking this woman is SINCERELY dedicated
if she is NOT.  ACTIONS speak louder than words,
and CONSISTENCY is key. See if she is REALLY
consistent in her words and actions over the span
of TIME.  And try to HIDE THE FACT that you
have wealth.  Don’t act like a beggar, but don’t
try to get women through flaunting your wealth,
or you are REALLY going to make your life
difficult because you are going to invite the
greatest actresses of all time into your life and
I don’t mean that in a good way.

Don’t let wishful thinking fool you.

Remember, this company is called Get A GREAT Girl.
It isn’t called GET ALL THE GIRLS.
You are going to have to SCREEN like crazy.

Now, I want to make it CLEAR that I
am not telling guys to be so negative that
they don’t take POSITIVE action, as you
MUST get out there and in fact you may
have to meet even MORE women than
guys who are just looking for one-night
stands because you are looking for the
RIGHT traits that are harder to find. 

And I’d like to give you a GREAT method for how to approach women without relying on pick-up lines or anything else artificial.

Here’s what you do:

You FOCUS your attention on the woman you
are about to chat up. You OBSERVE her with
SHERLOCK HOLMES level observation skills.

I mean this figuratively, to say that you really
focus on observing her to your best ability,
and then you SAY something about what
you have observed.

The key is to try to find something that is not too easy for EVERYONE to see right away.  So if she is wearing a bright red hat, that’s a little too obvious to comment on, but even THAT is okay for STARTING the conversation.

Then, you wait to see if she RESPONDS with anything as a reply to you.      

The greater your INITIAL observation, the
greater the chance she WILL respond, and
not only will she respond, but she will respond
with a great deal of CONTENT as her reply.

You then OBSERVE AND LISTEN TO HER REPLY super-keenly, and you focus on what you can DEDUCE from what she is saying, ESPECIALLY if you can deduce something about HER, thereby setting things up for her NEXT RICH REPLY to you, setting up a fantastic cycle for you.

Now, if you do this RIGHT, she will actually START TO OBSERVE THINGS ABOUT YOU.

Women are BETTER at this stuff than most
men, so they will APPRECIATE what you
are doing and do the same back for you,
giving HER a chance to also learn about you.

So for example, even if you remarked on her choice of magazine she is reading, and you said, “I can see you enjoy photography”, (or architecture, or poetry, or WHATEVER the magazine is about, i.e. fashion) she might say back to you something like, “Yeah, I’m thinking of getting a new camera”, to which you might reply, “So you already have a camera, but your skill has taken you to a higher level of camera”, etc, etc.

It’s about LISTENING, and it’s about FOCUS.

Women are GREAT at sizing up your 
communication skills, and this will
make a GREAT impression, plus of course
it actually DOES allow you to create a
smooth flowing conversation.

After a few minutes of this, you are already
way past the stranger barrier, and just go
into “normal” conversation, so long as you
keep it chilled out, interesting and positive.

So, as you can see, I care about BOTH ends of the SPECTRUM: I care about making sure you know how to SCREEN for the RIGHT woman, and I also care about making sure you get the SKILL to actually MEET these women and make the best impression in the first place.    

I suggest you take a BOOTCAMP with me where
you will get the skills to meet LOTS of women and
make the best impressions immediately, and where
you will also learn how to SCREEN women quickly.

Bootcamp is at:


I also have an entire ARMY of programs at your
disposal, and each and EVERY single one of them
is IMPORTANT.  I’m not here to make you panic,
BUT I can promise you these programs contain
PURE GOLD for getting SUCCESS with women.

If there are any of these programs that you don’t
own yet, this is the time to get them. Every second
you waste is a second that never comes back.

I personally wish I had learned all these things that
I now teach when I was back in HIGH SCHOOL,
but I’m still super thankful that I finally learned
them years later. 

Get these skills and vital insights NOW by getting
these programs IMMEDIATELY. 

They’re at:


Till next time,

Michael Marks

Wednesday, April 24, 2013

Attracting A Truly Great Woman

If you are looking to meet and attract a truly
great woman who is not only beautiful
but who would also be the kind of woman
who would make for a fantastic girlfriend,
wife, mother, and life-long supporter, this
is a particularly important newsletter for you.

ONE: POPULARITY DOES NOT EQUAL GOOD

The first thing I need to make absolutely
clear is that the POPULARITY of something
is not always a great indicator of that thing’s
value.   

TWO:
WHEN DEEP DOWN, YOU REALLY ARE PUTTING THE
WOMAN ON A PEDESTAL, YOU END UP SHOWING IT


So, the POPULAR ADVICE for men when it
comes to dating usually boils down to do
ANYTHING to try to get the woman, especially
to get her into bed.   

There are many problems with this approach.
First of all, it puts your MIND in the WRONG
place psychologically.  It puts ALL the value
on HER and none of it on your SELF.

So, even if the tactic involves PRETENDING
that you are high value, the fact is, that underneath
this charade, this game, this tactic, you would
actually feel INFERIOR worth to the woman
you are trying to attract, because, after all,
your mindset is all about how to get the woman
at all costs.

Ironically, this type of approach often ends up
REPELLING women, because women can
SENSE that lack of confidence even if the
guy is VERBALLY saying cocky remarks
or acting “hard to get” on the surface.

THREE: WOMEN ARE USUALLY BETTER AT
READING BODY LANGUAGE THAN MEN


Women are better than men at reading body
language, and this may be because they have
more practice socializing in complex ways
at an earlier age than men, whereas boys
don’t tend to engage as much in those types
of behaviors as they do in things like sports
or other stereotypically “male” actions.

So, if a guy is FAKING his emotions, women
can SENSE it.

FOUR:
SCREENING IS ABSOLUTELY ESSENTIAL
IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A WOMAN WITH
GREAT VALUES.


Also, if a guy is trying to get a QUALITY
woman, then it becomes even MORE important
to SCREEN a woman for the right values and
behaviors.

Now, there are some pick up artists that try to
PRETEND they are screening a woman, in order
to SEEM  as if they are NOT desperate for the
woman, but the TRUTH is, this is just a tactic,
they don’t REALLY care about screening, they
just want to get her into bed.

And again, the irony is that FAKING does not
work that well anyway EVEN FOR GUYS THAT
ARE ONLY CONCERNED WITH THE SUPERFICIAL.  
 
It is for THIS reason that guys who are only
concerned with the superficial would do much
better to be a lot more DIRECT while still showing
some class, as there are some women out there who
are looking for similar promiscuous adventures and
those women will be happy to meet a guy who is
honest and still showing some class.

But if you are looking for something a lot deeper
and a lot more long-term, if you are looking for
the kind of woman to be a true partner in the
deepest sense of the word, SCREENING becomes
INSANELY IMPORTANT.

It is important, first of all, so that you don’t waste
PRECIOUS TIME on the wrong women. 

You can EASILY screen out women in just a
brief conversation.  You can be on the lookout
for how she spends her time, including her free
time, you can be on the lookout for what kinds
of things she likes to talk about.

FIVE: GET HER COMFORTABLE TO REVEAL HERSELF,
BY NOT COMING ACROSS AS JUDGMENTAL.


What is on a person’s MIND will often come
out in their CHATTING, if you just let them
feel COMFORTABLE with you.

This is why it is so important that you do NOT
tell a woman right away exactly what you are
looking for OR what you value or hate. 

Instead, just have a casual but interesting chat
that gets her emotionally pumped. When people
are emotional they tend to talk more because
they are FEELING the DESIRE to express themselves.

SIX: GET HER EMOTIONAL IN A POSITIVE WAY

So don’t bore a woman to sleep.  Talk about
things that are INTRIGUING or INSPIRING. 
Or find something about her so that you can
give her a truly HONEST compliment on
besides her looks. 

SEVEN:

STOP COMPROMISING YOUR INSISTENCE ON GREAT VALUES

There’s ANOTHER really important step to
getting a quality woman, and that is to stop
COMPROMISING with yourself on what
you define as GREAT VALUES in a woman.

I swear to it, I personally think that good guys
are living in the WORST TIME IN HISTORY
for finding quality women who are STELLAR
in the traits that are important for relationships,
for marriage, and for raising a family.

I also think that it’s probably pretty hard for
the few quality women who DO exist to find
the RIGHT men who have great values as well,
but since I’m not a woman, I can’t tell you for
sure what it’s like to be a woman who is truly
loyal and faithful and who is looking for a man
who is loyal and faithful.

I don’t think that anyone should be FORCED to
live a lifestyle in which they don’t believe. 
Family life is not for everyone.  Marriage is not
for everyone.  Relationships are not for everyone.
And in today’s current society, this is DOUBLY
true.

However, when in the RIGHT relationship, MOST
people tend to report being happier than when they
were single, and most single people are also still
trying to find someone.

EIGHT: THE BIG PICTURE

On a larger scale, a strong RELATIONSHIP is the
bedrock of a strong marriage.  A strong marriage
is a great FOUNDATION for bringing up children
in the right atmosphere. Well-adjusted CHILDREN
grow up into well-adjusted ADULTS.  Well adjusted
ADULTS create a HEALTHY SOCIETY.  A healthy
SOCIETY means a healthy COUNTRY.  A healthy
country can POSITIVELY affect the WORLD as
well. 

And the OPPOSITE is true as well.  A screwed-up
perception of how men and women should behave
will screw up EVERYTHING else.

NINE
: SOME ELEMENTS OF THE PAST WERE WISER THAN THE PRESENT
 

Now, there were many things WRONG with society
back in 1950.  I won’t get into them here, as I’m sure
you can figure them out on your own.  But there were
SOME things that were definitely RIGHT.

And one of those things was the GENERAL VIEW
toward relationships. When a man courted a woman,
it MEANT something greater than just how to get
her into bed.  It reflected his desire to COMMIT to
her, to start a FAMILY with her.  It was not just
about the short-term physical.

And women, in general, were looking at men from
a more MATURE perspective.  Just like men, they
were also thinking about the long-term potential,
whether a man would be hard-working or lazy,
and whether he would be a good father, etc.

Not only this, but women were doing this when
they turned 18!  Women were not waiting till they
were twice that age to start thinking about the
important traits in a man. (And many women
today NEVER seem to think about it.) 

FAST FORWARD TO 2013, and you have the
following scenario that takes place amongst
SOME women who are SUPPOSED to be
ready for a life-long mature COMMITTMENT
and deep-seated love and RESPECT for their
man:

BACHELORETTE PARTIES WITH MEN
STRIPPING AND SHAKING THEIR
YOU-KNOW-WHATS

And I'm not a hypocrite, I don't think that men
who are seriously in love with their future
wives, men who view marriage as sacred,
would think it is appropriate to be holding
stripper bachelor parties either.

Part of the problem is that many women have
abandoned their once PROUD role in society
as protectors of family values.  It used to be that
most women would SHUN the kinds of values that
degrade the deepest levels of connection between
men and women.

Today, however, some misguided women feel they have
made "progress" and gained "equality" by trying to
duplicate the behaviors of the most promiscuous men.     

In 1950, you had women in their PRIME
thinking CAREFULLY about how to find and get
a man who would be a great husband and father,
and you had women who VALUED their chastity,
who felt it was something SACRED to give to
a man...

But TODAY you have many women who are WAY PAST
THEIR PRIME, who STILL can’t put it together in
their heads that a man who is the kind of man who
has good values, who would be a good father, who
would be loyal, and a man who is STRONG enough
and SMART enough to be a great leader, would never
be STUPID enough to marry such a woman.

TEN: THIS IS WHERE I COME IN

Again, THIS is the reason GET A GREAT GIRL
was born.  GET A GREAT GIRL would not be
NEEDED in 1950.  Everything I write about was
OBVIOUS back then.

So let me bring this full circle:
If you want a GREAT QUALITY WOMAN, you
better FORGET the popular advice.

If you want to get that RARE kind of woman, you
HAVE to stand APART from the masses.

And again, I do not believe in violence, and I
do not believe in preaching.  Do not try to
CONVINCE any woman who is messed up
on how to be a better woman. 

There are some wise women around.  These women
have a lot of courage to stand up for good values.

And these women standing up for good values aren't
just 90 year-old grannies.  These women standing up
for eternal values include women who are intelligent
and attractive university students who are right in the
THICK of this social pressure, and yet they are
RESISTING it COMPLETELY.

ELEVEN: YOU MUST BE THE MAN AND STAY ON COURSE

I PROMISE YOU that there ARE still some
decent women around. But man oh MAN are
you going to have to be the MAN if you
are going to go after a quality woman.

You are going to meet a lot of the WRONG women
along the way.

What is even CRAZIER, is that with the CERTAINTY
and CONFIDENCE in the eternal and powerful values
that you possess, you will find a lot of these WRONG
women actually PURSUING you.

Resisting the urge to give in to the SHORT TERM
pleasure is part of the SEPARATING the men from
the boys, so to speak.  The weak men will give into
these wrong women because the desire for the physical
with them while STILL not having found the RIGHT
woman will be very strong. 

But giving in may very well make you LOSE some
of your CERTAINTY, some of your sense of DIRECTION,
some of your CONFIDENCE in your own values.

You are what you THINK AND DO.
So if you give into the wrong women, you will start to
RATIONALIZE and JUSTIFY to yourself all kinds of
nonsense, such as why you need to stay with this wrong
woman.

Meanwhile, the RIGHT WOMAN is out there waiting
as you spend all that time and energy and waste it
on the WRONG woman.  Wasting that time and
energy is something you should not do, because
meeting the RIGHT WOMAN may take a lot of energy
and time, but it is probably the MOST IMPORTANT
THINK YOU CAN DO IN YOUR LIFE besides taking
care of your health and in fact the wrong woman will
harm your health and the right woman will improve it.

TWELVE: TAKING ACTION

Now, let me get down to the NITTY-GRITTY.
I HATE b.s.
I LOVE truth.

And the TRUTH is, that unless you have some special
connection to all the right women, you are going to have
to APPROACH WOMEN and chat with them and get
a sense of who they are.

I repeat:
YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE TO APPROACH WOMEN.

You cannot expect miracles in the sense of you just
sitting at home or expecting women to just appear
out of thin air.  Also, women don’t tend to do the
approaching. This is because most women are
culturally conditioned to be less "pro-active" than
men when it comes to the INITIAL approach.

Women are told that being too assertive in the
initial approach will make them seem less
feminine. 

If a woman is interested in a man who is a total
stranger,  usually the most she feels she can do
is INDIRECTLY make herself more available,
i.e. hanging around a certain area for longer than
usual, etc.

And you can’t give yourself excuses, as excuses
won’t help.  If there are no women in one place,
go to another place where there are women.
Keep trying new places till you find places
where you can meet plenty of women. 
   
You must SOLDIER on, approaching woman
after woman even in situations that feel awkward. 

You have no idea how strong this makes you,
because what happens is that when an EASIER
approach situation comes later, you will JUMP
on it because you will have already had experience
doing so many approaches that were harder from
before.

THIRTEEN: THE INSTANT-DATE

ANOTHER super-important  point is this:
GO FOR THE INSTANT DATE IF POSSIBLE

Getting a phone number is all good and fine, but
if you can, GO FOR THE INSTANT DATE.

What I mean by this is to actually take the
approach as far as possible.  If the chat is
going well, then after a few minutes suggest
that you go for a coffee right then and there,
especially if there is a coffee house nearby.

You have to remember that the woman is a
total stranger, and the more you get a chance
to connect with her, the LESS CHANCE that
later she will wonder just what the heck happened
earlier that day that made her give her number
to a total stranger. 

Sometimes a guy will have a great interaction with
a woman,  and the woman will happily give him
her real number, but then later on she will forget
some of the details and she will wonder how on
earth she gave her number to a total stranger.

However, if she has a really LONG chat with you,
she gets a much better perspective of who you are,
and this makes her feel that it is not weird for her
to meet up with you again.

This does NOT mean that getting a woman’s
phone number is not enough.  Many times, it
IS enough, because you can chat on the phone.

I’m just saying that it is even BETTER to try to
get the INSTANT DATE with her in that very
FIRST interaction you have with her.

The right woman IS out there, she is hoping to meet you.
She is NOT a typical woman from today’s society.
She is NOT impressed by the screwed up morals.
She has the ability to THINK CRITICALLY.
       
If you want to attract a woman who is able to
RISE ABOVE THE CRAPOLA VALUES, you
must show that you are the kind of MAN who is
RARE and who is ABOVE the stupidity that is
unfortunately so often POPULAR. 

If you are REALLY SERIOUS about mastering the
skills on how to approach women MOST EFFECTIVELY
then take a bootcamp with me.  Bootcamp is totally
private, one on one, and takes place completely in the
real world.  There are no simulators, just real women
in all types of places, and me beside you as your
most powerful coach who has trained in these skills
for over ten YEARS.

Bootcamp is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

If you are looking for a woman for a serious relationship
who will treat you RIGHT and be LOYAL to you long-term,
you MUST BE PREPARED on how to go about doing all this.

If you JUST want the physical, this is the EASY part.
There are tons of promiscuous women who are not looking
to commit, every weekend at the clubs, bars, lounges, etc.

But if you want a quality woman who would make for
a great wife, mother, and partner for life, you
NEED TO BE INFORMED.

I seriously suggest you take a MASSIVE action for yourself
to SOLVE the problem by getting my intensive home study
program that is all about getting a QUALITY woman,
by going HERE:

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Till next time,    
               
Michael Marks  
            

Thursday, July 12, 2012

To Attract Women Who Are The ULTRA-HOTTIES, You Have To Raise Your "Game" On Every Level. Here's How To Do It:

You know how people tell you that success
with women is just about "CONFIDENCE"?


The fact of the matter is, just hearing the words
"be confident" doesn’t help a guy when a gorgeous,
mouth-watering, smoking-hot woman is right in
front of him... 

Just telling a guy to “be confident” doesn’t help
EXPLAIN how to actually get a gorgeous woman
from being a total stranger to being in your bed
“begging you for more” and screaming your name
out in ecstasy.

And just telling a man to “be confident” doesn’t
explain how to actually make a woman want
to be the greatest girlfriend in the world to you.


That's why I created my latest program, "Attracting The Ultra-Hotties: Raising Your Game On Attraction, Humor, Screening, And Deep Connections."
 
Attracting Women Is About A Lot MORE Than Just Having Confidence

Plus, even if a man DOES have confidence, there
is MORE to attracting a woman than just being
CONFIDENT.  Mastering the conversation skills,
the skills of humor, of style, of HOW to physically
escalate, and of HOW to build a deep connection
all require SPECIFIC knowledge, training, and
insights.

These areas of success with women involve a lot
more than JUST “being confident”.

There is KNOW-HOW and there is IGNORANCE.

When the moment of truth arises, and that gorgeous
woman is right in front of you, just thinking "be confident"
is not enough. 



Plus, even learning just how to truly UNLEASH the
FULL extreme of one’s confidence is ALSO a
skill in itself.

The ULTIMATE level of success with women comes
when you learn how to COMBINE all these different
skills.

A Real-Life Example Of A COMBINATION Of Attractive Skills

In just a few moments, I’m going to give you a REAL LIFE example of how to COMBINE confidence, wit, humor, and social intelligence when interacting with a bona fide HOTTIE.

This comes from a real life example where SNOOP
DOGG
was teasing a beautiful woman who is an
actress and a comedian. Her name is Whitney
Cummings. By the way, I have no idea if Snoop
himself wrote what he said or if he had a writer,
but there is no denying that he delivered it perfectly.

Now, keep in mind, when it comes to interacting
with women, everything is about ADJUSTING to
the SITUATION and to the WOMAN you are with.

Why You Must "Raise The Bar" With The Hotties

So, in general, when dealing with women who are
SUPER HOT, and who are CONFIDENT, you
MUST RAISE THE BAR in terms of IMPACT.

Although it is true that for the really gorgeous women,
most men won’t even approach them,  the fact also
is that these women, over the course of their lives,
have had just about EVERY TYPE OF "PICK UP"
attempt thrown their way.

They are DESENSITIZED to most approaches.
They have seen so many pathetic attempts at
FAKING confidence, that to really convey
confidence to a woman you have to go
BEYOND what you think is confidence.

So, right now, IMAGINE what a confident and
playful statement to a woman might be.

I’m here to tell you that if you are like most guys,
what you just imagined is NOT enough.

You have to take it UP by a THOUSAND notches.

Try to IMAGINE what MASSIVE CONFIDENCE
these super hot women feel in terms of their LOOKS.

If you can really imagine this, you will start to realize
that what is perceived as a PLAYFUL TEASE for these
women might NOT be fun for a less confident woman.

If you’re THE HULK, you need a little more of a
challenge than if you’re a "mere mortal" and 
these SUPER HOTTIES are like HULKS when
it comes to their CONFIDENCE.

And the TRUTH is, that just TELLING A MAN
TO BE CONFIDENT, is not enough, because
most men have no CLUE what this level of
BALLS and CONFIDENCE actually is supposed
to SOUND LIKE and how to MANIFEST that
confidence through WORDS and through tonality.

The reason why it’s so tough to even FATHOM
how much CONFIDENCE these women have
is because unless a man EXPERIENCES what
life is like for these women, it’s very difficult to
just IMAGINE it.

That’s why I’m going to give you a real example.

I’m going to give you an idea of just HOW
confident these ULTRA HOTTIES really are,
and what kind of EQUAL CONFIDENCE you
must exert in order to be on the SAME emotional
WAVELENGTH that they are on.

            Here Is The Detailed Example:

So here we go, this is a playful TEASE that
Snoop Dogg said to this gorgeous actress who
is ALSO a comedian:

“Whitney Cummings, look at your fine little skinny
ass sitting up there.  I’ve rolled blunts fatter than you!
But you’ve been passed around a little bit more.”

Now, I must explain also that the EMPHASIS
ON THE RIGHT WORDS
is of PARAMOUNT
significance if you are going to make the most
IMPACT.
 

      The Analysis Part I: It's SEXUAL
 

Before I even say one more word, let's point out
the fact that this is SEXUAL humor, used in a
brilliant way.  


If you can get a woman feeling COMFORTABLE 
about sexual things to the point she is actually
LAUGHING  about something DIRECTLY 
sexual regarding HERSELF, you are ALREADY 
well on the way to success.

Compare THAT to a guy who spends three
dates with a woman and is still trying to just
get the KISS!!!!!

So that's the first thing immediately to keep
in mind, which is using humor to break the
SEXUAL barrier ASAP.

This is a great way to ensure you stay OUT
of the "friends zone" and that you stay on her
mind in a very explicit, sexual, and enjoyable
way that she can't help but keep thinking about.

 
The Analysis Part II: The PAUSE
 
In the tease above, the emphasis was:

“Whitney Cummings.
(PAUSE).

By taking a PAUSE, he shows he is not in a RUSH
to just get the words over with.

He shows he KNOWS he has VALUE to his words.
He wants to make sure everyone is LISTENING.

Instead of saying verbally "I'm confident", he is
actually SHOWING it through his BEHAVIOR.

Plus, by taking a PAUSE after saying her name, he
builds up ANTICIPATION.

He gets her MORE EMOTIONALLY INVOLVED
in his statement.

This is what she’s wondering:
"What the HECK is he going to say about me?"

And getting her more involved takes MORE CONFIDENCE because it shows he feels that his message is going to totally WORK on her.

So just in that one move, he has shown confidence,
AND he has increased her emotional involvement
by building anticipation.
  
 
                The Analysis Part III:  

Adjusting The Tease For The Specific Woman, And COMBINING Emotions For Greater Impact

“Look at your fine little skinny ass up there”.

The bottom line is that being SLIM is something
that is more POSITIVE than negative, so this isn’t
mean.

It’s VERY IMPORTANT that your teases to a woman
are never MEAN-SPIRITED, otherwise you just come
across as a guy who is bitter and who is NOT cool
and who is not already “in demand” by women.

Yet, at the same time, he is STILL TEASING her
on being SUPER slim, as if to say she’s TOO slim,
by saying:

“I’ve rolled BLUNTS fatter than you!”

Upon hearing this, she is simultaneously SHOCKED
at the guts it takes to say this and she is also LAUGHING hysterically at the HUMOR at the SAME time.

COMBINING emotions makes for GREATER
EMOTIONAL IMPACT!


It’s not just true with humor, but actually is true
for ALL emotions.  This is why great movies, by
the way, are very COMPLEX.  The situation the
hero is in is often a COMBINATION of emotions,
including being exciting, dangerous, humorous,
passionate, intriguing, romantic, etc.

Music does this as well, i.e. the song lyrics
“I’ll KISS you when it’s DANGEROUS”, the
love, the lust, the danger, when mixed together,
makes each of those separate emotions feel even
MORE powerful than each emotion would feel
on its own. 

Back to our example with Snoop, this is a great
example of combining shock from experiencing
this comment that takes GUTS to say, yet it is
also FUNNY as heck.

And of course, it’s obvious from her reaction that
she is this combination of IMPRESSED and she
LIKES it.

Remember, for the most part of her LIFE, she only
meets men that BORE HER TO SLEEP.

                      The Analysis Part IV:
The Humor Has It's Own LOGIC, Plus The
Humor Creates A Powerful IMAGE In Her Mind


But Snoop isn’t finished, he’s just warming up
with that one.

He goes on to FURTHER floor her with:

“BUT YOU’VE BEEN PASSED AROUND
A LITTLE BIT MORE!”  


This is the kind of thing that you can ONLY
get away with because it’s a COMBINATION
of being CLEARLY UNTRUE (so it’s not mean)
yet also insanely FUNNY because it’s such an easy
INSTINCT to THINK that she is that type because
of the fact she is not only super hot but also a
comedian who jokes about sex all the time.

Plus, the obvious connection to a blunt that is
“passed around” is a potential for humor that is
BEGGING to be expressed.  It also creates a
VISUAL of her being just an object like a blunt,
and the joke is that she is viewed and used in a
similar way for similar purposes of sheer pleasure,
which, in a crazy way, is STILL to some extent
an actual COMPLIMENT, because it means she
is DESIRABLE. 

This is POWERFUL stuff all crammed into a
BRIEF couple of sentences of humor!

                    The Analysis Part V: 
The Humor Is UNPREDICTABLE, And Yet It
All Makes PERFECT SENSE In Its Own Way


Then, he goes for the close with:

“But right now, things are popping for Whitney y’all.
Everybody in HOLLYWOOD is talking about her,
and they’re all saying the same thing:

I think that b*&^% gave me HERPES!”


And to this, he has delivered the KNOCKOUT,
she is almost hysterical with laughter, not in
SPITE
of, but BECAUSE of the fact he is busting
on her BIG time.

Again, NOT ONLY does this take GUTS to say,
but it also takes SKILL to come up with this.

First, Snoop takes the comment in one direction,
saying all these NICE things about her, i.e. that
she’s popular, that everyone is talking about her,
and THEN he says something that we DON’T
expect. It’s the complete OPPOSITE direction
when he says that the thing they’re all saying is:

“I think that b*&^% gave me HERPES!”

To be specific, the reason
this works so well,
is because it
MIXES five things together:

                                ONE:
                           The Truth


He says the truth, that she is super popular.
So we find ourselves believing and our
minds ACCEPTING what he says.

                                  TWO:
         He Says What Is NOT Predictable


When he says, "I think that b*&^% gave me HERPES!"
there is no way for her to see that comment coming,
so it takes her by surprise.

Most women are totally DESENSITIZED by all the
things that most men say to them again and again
a billion times a day.

The key is to say something women are NOT expecting,
that is still PLAYFUL and not MEAN, but is also
CHALLENGING at the same time.  

                                   THREE:
The “Twist” At The End Is Not Just A Surprise,
It’s Actually The PERFECT Conclusion To The
PREVIOUS Line He Said To Her!  


The best 'twist' with humor almost always obeys the
following rule:

It's not only a "surprise", but it's a surprise which makes
PERFECT SENSE from the humor perspective.

So the humor doesn't feel forced, it feels like a perfect fit.

It's the PERFECT Conclusion To The PREVIOUS
Line That Was Said, Even Though It Was NOT
What She Expected!  


His final line, even though at first it seems to go
completely in the OPPOSITE direction to what he
said before, ends up still being PERFECTLY
CONSISTENT with what he first said before.

In other words, everyone IS talking about her,
her name IS popping up all over Hollywood,
it’s just NOT in a GOOD WAY!

                            FOUR:
      He Creates A Powerful Visual


It’s also FUNNY because theoretically
this is the kind of thing that CAN happen in
real life, but more importantly the VISUAL
of all these guys who got SCREWED by her
and are now paying for it, but who at least
are also all finding comfort in sharing
their misery with each other.

You can picture a bunch of guys at a bar all
sharing their misery about her.

                             FIVE: 
It’s Never MEAN, Because It Is Perfectly
Customized For A Woman Of HER Looks
And HER Wit, And HER Confidence  


We also realize that this whole story
is actually NOT the truth, that she did not
give anyone herpes or anything, which makes
the whole thing FUNNY and not MEAN.

It’s OBVIOUS that it is a JOKE, but it’s
a joke that still takes GUTS.

Plus, most importantly, she is a woman who
is HOT and WITTY and who is likely to
ENJOY this kind of communication.

                            SIX:
      It Takes INTELLIGENT Risks


Saying this tease STILL required an
element of RISK, it still took GUTS, and
COURAGEOUS jokes are always funnier
than jokes that take ZERO risks, jokes that
are totally purely safe and anti-septic.

Part of what MAKES a woman react so strongly
to the joke is that it TOOK courage and balls
to say it.  Just remember that it’s not ONLY
about the guts, it’s ALSO about the WIT
and everything else I explained above.

The key with humor is to take INTELLIGENT
risks and to use STRATEGY as outlined above.
 
By the way, this is just 1% of what you will learn
in this program that is JAM-PACKED with pure
gold on attracting women. In fact, it’s only one
small part of ONE section on HUMOR.

This program ALSO goes into TONS of OTHER vital skills for ensuring success in getting the most fantastic women, skills that have nothing to do with humor, as you will see below.
 
Here Is ANOTHER Sample On Mastering Humor From The Program:

Before going on, allow me to give ONE more example and analysis regarding HUMOR with women:

At the same event, Seth MacFarlane also demonstrated
super wit, teasing Whitney as well with the following
comment:

“She’s got the body of a crack whore, BUT
she’s got the razor sharp wit of a crack whore.”


So, again, he FIRST says something that is mostly a
compliment, as being SLIM is mostly a COMPLIMENT
in our society, especially with women, and he also
uses the PAUSE to build anticipation when he says
the word “BUT”.

So again, we have the confidence and the use of
anticipation.

The next thing, after his pause, is PERFECT calibration
considering she IS INDEED VERY ATTRACTIVE:

“But she’s got the razor sharp WIT of a crack whore!”

So it’s PERFECT symmetry, it’s consistent, it’s NOT WHAT WE EXPECT, so we DON’T SEE IT COMING which is what makes it more powerful as a SURPRISE.

And yet, even though it’s a SURPRISE, we
TOTALLY UNDERSTAND THE HUMOR.

And, because she is in fact CONFIDENT about her
looks and is sharp and witty herself, like most
hot women, there is no big dumb risk of the
comments HURTING her feelings, because
she KNOWS those things said about her are
NOT TRUE!!!

These particular skills with attracting women
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New Strategies For Humor That Swallow Women Up Into Your World And Keep Them Chasing You


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for using HUMOR with women in a way that
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What you’ve read about humor in this column
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How To Avoid "Messing Up" When It Comes To Humor
 

I’ll also show you how to AVOID the mistakes
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because there’s nothing worse than a guy who
is TRYING to be funny but is just coming across
as LAME.    

    How To Use Humor To "Neutralize" Jerks  

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