More Than HALF Of Women Are Not Truly FAITHFUL, And What To DO About It

This is an EXTREMELY important video and newsletter if you want to attract a woman and make sure she is TRULY INTO YOU, and not thinking about some OTHER guy.

Let's start with the video itself:



I bet you have already heard all the feminist propaganda about how “all men are cheaters” and especially how “men just don’t want to commit”.

Well, it turns out that in a recent study that surveyed over 1000 women, that HALF of ALL women have ANOTHER “BACK UP” DUDE already in their mind when they are in a relationship!

And as if that was not enough, the numbers were HIGHER when it was a woman who was actually MARRIED!

So you would think that in a MARRIAGE, the commitment levels would be HIGHER, and that the idea of having a “back up” guy in mind would be OUT OF THE QUESTION.

But in reality the numbers of women who had a “plan B” guy were HIGHER in marriages.

Also, in some other statistics, for example in Mississippi, the numbers were up to 80% of women having BACK UP DUDES, i.e. “plan Bs” in mind!

And that’s not all, these “plan B” guys were often guys the women knew FOR YEARS, so it would be a SUPER SMOOTH transition to being with that guy!!!

These are the kinds of things that virtually ALL feminists just happen to never mention in their endless tirades and relentless male-bashing.

Now, just in case you might be thinking “Well, this isn’t the same thing as cheating”, the problem is that it is a COMPLETE UNDERMINING of the entire principle of being in an exclusive relationship.

Think of the difference between someone’s attitudes when they are given just ONE opportunity to WIN a prize, or SUCCEED at a game, or prevent being DESTROYED, versus having a million lives on a video game, or getting more chances to keep on playing, or having any kind of safety net so that screwing up means NOTHING.

Well, THAT is the difference in the MIND-SET between a woman who HAS a “plan B” in mind versus a woman who is giving EVERYTHING to her ONE AND ONLY “plan”- her ONE and ONLY man.

The woman with the “ONE AND ONLY” attitude toward her man will TREAT him BETTER, will not take him for granted, will appreciate him more, will put more EFFORT into saving the relationship when problems arise.

The woman with the “plan B” attitude will treat the guy like GARBAGE and be OFF at the first moment things get rough.

This brings to mind a quote from a play called The Skin of Our Teeth, by Thornton Wilder, which I included in a film I made about the issues facing men today in their search for a good woman:

“I didn't marry you because you were perfect. I didn't even marry you because I loved you. I married you because you gave me a promise. That promise made up for your faults. And the promise I gave you made up for mine. Two imperfect people got married and it was the promise that made the marriage. And when our children were growing up, it wasn't a house that protected them; and it wasn't our love that protected them--it was that promise.”

This level of DEDICATION simply cannot exist in an atmosphere tainted by “PLAN B”.

Also, this is yet ANOTHER reason why attractive women who insist they can have lots of platonic guy friends are just plain DISHONEST, and should be RED FLAG to any guy who is seriously looking for a good woman and wants to avoid the wrong women.

Men are hardwired to feel a certain way about attractive women, and in general it’s a pretty objective thing, it’s not a matter of opinion, and that feeling is not platonic.

It’s also interesting to note how just about ALL MEN already know this, but so many women continue to live in the dark or are fooling themselves on this issue.

Check out these two videos for confirmation of this fact:



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And all this brings me to my point about POWER LEAKAGES that I described in the first video at the top of the page.

It also has to do with being a REAL MAN today.

It’s not just about learning how to approach and attract a woman. 

It’s also about LAYING DOWN THE LAW right at the beginning in terms of what kind of relationship you will tolerate and what type you won’t.

If you start "jumping through hoops", like I explained in the video at the top of the page, she will IMMEDIATELY detect a POWER LEAKAGE and on a subconscious level she will lose respect for you AND lose attraction to you since she won’t see you as a MAN.

PLUS, on top of all this, she will then see that she can’t find LEADERSHIP in the relationship from you, so she will take her cues from FEMINISTS on how to treat men. 

This includes her having BACK UP PLANS and having other GUYS she claims are all “just friends” so she can plan, plan, plan, plan all day long for how she can be set for life with a million different guys in a million different ways if required (in her mind) and enjoy the power that comes from all of that.

The irony is that a lot of seduction experts and pick up advisers ONLY care about getting physical with a woman, and if JUMPING THROUGH HOOPS would work, they would be TOTALLY OKAY with that. 

But to me, I already know that we live in a HOOK-UP CULTURE, so getting PHYSICAL with women is NOT REALLY A BIG DEAL.

But getting a GREAT woman, a truly GREAT girlfriend, who is truly faithful and not having BACK UP PLANS in her mind when she is with you, well THAT is VERY important because without it, the entire FOUNDATION of a relationship, a family, a future, is WEAK.

Learn how to be the most POWERFUL man possible with women, and learn how to SCREEN women so that you only give your attention to the GREAT ONES.

You can learn this with me in BOOTCAMP, where you will be trained to do all this in person- you will be detecting, approaching, screening, and attracting QUALITY women for two full days of Bootcamp, with me as your personal coach.  I will guide you every step of the way, including providing demonstrations as well.

BOOTCAMP is at:
  
http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

If you haven’t yet downloaded my two new books, The Energy of Attraction and The No-Bullshit Book on Success with Women Today then do that IMMEDIATELY at: 

The Energy of Attraction
http://getagreatgirl.com/energyofattraction.html

and

The No-Bullshit Book on Success with Women Today
http://getagreatgirl.com/no-bullshit-book-on-women.html

Great women ABSOLUTELY DO STILL EXIST, but you have to have the KNOW-HOW to find them, meet them, and attract them.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To Attract The ULTRA HOT Ones

You know how people tell you that success
with women is just about "CONFIDENCE"?

The fact of the matter is, just hearing the words
"be confident" doesn’t help a guy when a gorgeous,
mouth-watering, smoking-hot woman is right in
front of him... 

Just telling a guy to “be confident” doesn’t help
EXPLAIN how to actually get a gorgeous woman
from being a total stranger to being in your bed
“begging you for more” and screaming your name
out in ecstasy.

And just telling a man to “be confident” doesn’t
explain how to actually make a woman want
to be the greatest girlfriend in the world to you.

That's why I created my latest program, "Attracting The Ultra-Hotties: Raising Your Game On Attraction, Humor, Screening, And Deep Connections."
 
Attracting Women Is About A Lot MORE Than Just Having Confidence

Plus, even if a man DOES have confidence, there
is MORE to attracting a woman than just being
CONFIDENT.  Mastering the conversation skills,
the skills of humor, of style, of HOW to physically
escalate, and of HOW to build a deep connection
all require SPECIFIC knowledge, training, and
insights.

These areas of success with women involve a lot
more than JUST “being confident”.

There is KNOW-HOW and there is IGNORANCE.

When the moment of truth arises, and that gorgeous
woman is right in front of you, just thinking "be confident"
is not enough. 



Plus, even learning just how to truly UNLEASH the
FULL extreme of one’s confidence is ALSO a
skill in itself.

The ULTIMATE level of success with women comes
when you learn how to COMBINE all these different
skills.

A Real-Life Example Of A COMBINATION Of Attractive Skills

In just a few moments, I’m going to give you a REAL LIFE example of how to COMBINE confidence, wit, humor, and social intelligence when interacting with a bona fide HOTTIE.

This comes from a real life example where SNOOP
DOGG was teasing a beautiful woman who is an
actress and a comedian. Her name is Whitney
Cummings. By the way, I have no idea if Snoop
himself wrote what he said or if he had a writer,
but there is no denying that he delivered it perfectly.

Now, keep in mind, when it comes to interacting
with women, everything is about ADJUSTING to
the SITUATION and to the WOMAN you are with.

Why You Must "Raise The Bar" With The Hotties

So, in general, when dealing with women who are
SUPER HOT, and who are CONFIDENT, you
MUST RAISE THE BAR in terms of IMPACT.

Although it is true that for the really gorgeous women,
most men won’t even approach them,  the fact also
is that these women, over the course of their lives,
have had just about EVERY TYPE OF "PICK UP"
attempt thrown their way.

They are DESENSITIZED to most approaches.
They have seen so many pathetic attempts at
FAKING confidence, that to really convey
confidence to a woman you have to go
BEYOND what you think is confidence.

So, right now, IMAGINE what a confident and
playful statement to a woman might be.

I’m here to tell you that if you are like most guys,
what you just imagined is NOT enough.

You have to take it UP by a THOUSAND notches.

Try to IMAGINE what MASSIVE CONFIDENCE
these super hot women feel in terms of their LOOKS.

If you can really imagine this, you will start to realize
that what is perceived as a PLAYFUL TEASE for these
women might NOT be fun for a less confident woman.

If you’re THE HULK, you need a little more of a
challenge than if you’re a "mere mortal" and 
these SUPER HOTTIES are like HULKS when
it comes to their CONFIDENCE.

And the TRUTH is, that just TELLING A MAN
TO BE CONFIDENT, is not enough, because
most men have no CLUE what this level of
BALLS and CONFIDENCE actually is supposed
to SOUND LIKE and how to MANIFEST that
confidence through WORDS and through tonality.

The reason why it’s so tough to even FATHOM
how much CONFIDENCE these women have
is because unless a man EXPERIENCES what
life is like for these women, it’s very difficult to
just IMAGINE it.

That’s why I’m going to give you a real example.

I’m going to give you an idea of just HOW
confident these ULTRA HOTTIES really are,
and what kind of EQUAL CONFIDENCE you
must exert in order to be on the SAME emotional
WAVELENGTH that they are on.

            Here Is The Detailed Example:

So here we go, this is a playful TEASE that
Snoop Dogg said to this gorgeous actress who
is ALSO a comedian:

“Whitney Cummings, look at your fine little skinny
ass sitting up there.  I’ve rolled blunts fatter than you!
But you’ve been passed around a little bit more.”

Now, I must explain also that the EMPHASIS
ON THE RIGHT WORDS is of PARAMOUNT
significance if you are going to make the most
IMPACT. 

      The Analysis Part I: It's SEXUAL
 
Before I even say one more word, let's point out
the fact that this is SEXUAL humor, used in a
brilliant way.  

If you can get a woman feeling COMFORTABLE 
about sexual things to the point she is actually
LAUGHING  about something DIRECTLY 
sexual regarding HERSELF, you are ALREADY 
well on the way to success.

Compare THAT to a guy who spends three
dates with a woman and is still trying to just
get the KISS!!!!!

So that's the first thing immediately to keep
in mind, which is using humor to break the
SEXUAL barrier ASAP.

This is a great way to ensure you stay OUT
of the "friends zone" and that you stay on her
mind in a very explicit, sexual, and enjoyable
way that she can't help but keep thinking about.

By the way, she was laughing her HEAD OFF
at all this, and clearly ENJOYED IT LIKE CRAZY.

And I'm not saying that every guy has to do the
SAME thing, or use the SAME kind of jokes; it
is important to be congruent to yourself, but
it is ALSO important to understand just how
INSANELY confident most attractive women
really ARE about all this stuff.

The PRINCIPLE here is RAISING THE BAR
in terms of CHALLENGING and CONFIDENT
humor when interacting with women who are
ULTRA CONFIDENT with men, and who are
DESENSITIZED to the style of most men's 
approaches. 
  
  The Analysis Part II: The PAUSE
 
In the tease above, the emphasis was:

“Whitney Cummings.
(PAUSE).

By taking a PAUSE, he shows he is not in a RUSH
to just get the words over with.

He shows he KNOWS he has VALUE to his words.
He wants to make sure everyone is LISTENING.

Instead of saying verbally "I'm confident", he is
actually SHOWING it through his BEHAVIOR.

Plus, by taking a PAUSE after saying her name, he
builds up ANTICIPATION.

He gets her MORE EMOTIONALLY INVOLVED
in his statement.

This is what she’s wondering:
"What the HECK is he going to say about me?"

And getting her more involved takes MORE CONFIDENCE because it shows he feels that his message is going to totally WORK on her.

So just in that one move, he has shown confidence,
AND he has increased her emotional involvement
by building anticipation.  
 
                The Analysis Part III:  
Adjusting The Tease For The Specific Woman, And COMBINING Emotions For Greater Impact

“Look at your fine little skinny ass up there”.

The bottom line is that being SLIM is something
that is more POSITIVE than negative, so this isn’t
mean.

It’s VERY IMPORTANT that your teases to a woman
are never MEAN-SPIRITED, otherwise you just come
across as a guy who is bitter and who is NOT cool
and who is not already “in demand” by women.

Yet, at the same time, he is STILL TEASING her
on being SUPER slim, as if to say she’s TOO slim,
by saying:

“I’ve rolled BLUNTS fatter than you!”

Upon hearing this, she is simultaneously SHOCKED
at the guts it takes to say this and she is also LAUGHING hysterically at the HUMOR at the SAME time.

COMBINING emotions makes for GREATER
EMOTIONAL IMPACT!

It’s not just true with humor, but actually is true
for ALL emotions.  This is why great movies, by
the way, are very COMPLEX.  The situation the
hero is in is often a COMBINATION of emotions,
including being exciting, dangerous, humorous,
passionate, intriguing, romantic, etc.

Music does this as well, i.e. the song lyrics
“I’ll KISS you when it’s DANGEROUS”, the
love, the lust, the danger, when mixed together,
makes each of those separate emotions feel even
MORE powerful than each emotion would feel
on its own. 

Back to our example with Snoop, this is a great
example of combining shock from experiencing
this comment that takes GUTS to say, yet it is
also FUNNY as heck.

And of course, it’s obvious from her reaction that
she is this combination of IMPRESSED and she
LIKES it.

Remember, for the most part of her LIFE, she only
meets men that BORE HER TO SLEEP.

                      The Analysis Part IV:
The Humor Has It's Own LOGIC, Plus The
Humor Creates A Powerful IMAGE In Her Mind

But Snoop isn’t finished, he’s just warming up
with that one.

He goes on to FURTHER floor her with:

“BUT YOU’VE BEEN PASSED AROUND
A LITTLE BIT MORE!”  

This is the kind of thing that you can ONLY
get away with because it’s a COMBINATION
of being CLEARLY UNTRUE (so it’s not mean)
yet also insanely FUNNY because it’s such an easy
INSTINCT to THINK that she is that type because
of the fact she is not only super hot but also a
comedian who jokes about sex all the time.

Plus, the obvious connection to a blunt that is
“passed around” is a potential for humor that is
BEGGING to be expressed.  It also creates a
VISUAL of her being just an object like a blunt,
and the joke is that she is viewed and used in a
similar way for similar purposes of sheer pleasure,
which, in a crazy way, is STILL to some extent
an actual COMPLIMENT, because it means she
is DESIRABLE. 

This is POWERFUL stuff all crammed into a
BRIEF couple of sentences of humor!

Again, she was laughing so hard, her sides were
splitting from laughter.

                    The Analysis Part V: 
The Humor Is UNPREDICTABLE, And Yet It
All Makes PERFECT SENSE In Its Own Way

Then, he goes for the close with:

“But right now, things are popping for Whitney y’all.
Everybody in HOLLYWOOD is talking about her,
and they’re all saying the same thing:

I think that b*&^% gave me HERPES!”

And to this, he has delivered the KNOCKOUT,
she is almost hysterical with laughter, not in
SPITE of, but BECAUSE of the fact he is busting
on her BIG time.

Again, NOT ONLY does this take GUTS to say,
but it also takes SKILL to come up with this.

First, Snoop takes the comment in one direction,
saying all these NICE things about her, i.e. that
she’s popular, that everyone is talking about her,
and THEN he says something that we DON’T
expect. It’s the complete OPPOSITE direction
when he says that the thing they’re all saying is:

“I think that b*&^% gave me HERPES!”

To be specific, the reason this works so well,
is because it MIXES five things together:

                                ONE:
                           The Truth

He says the truth, that she is super popular.
So we find ourselves believing and our
minds ACCEPTING what he says.

                                  TWO:
         He Says What Is NOT Predictable

When he says, "I think that b*&^% gave me HERPES!"
there is no way for her to see that comment coming,
so it takes her by surprise.

Most women are totally DESENSITIZED by all the
things that most men say to them again and again
a billion times a day.

The key is to say something women are NOT expecting,
that is still PLAYFUL and not MEAN, but is also
CHALLENGING at the same time.  

                                   THREE:
The “Twist” At The End Is Not Just A Surprise,
It’s Actually The PERFECT Conclusion To The
PREVIOUS Line He Said To Her!  

The best 'twist' with humor almost always obeys the
following rule:

It's not only a "surprise", but it's a surprise which makes
PERFECT SENSE from the humor perspective.

So the humor doesn't feel forced, it feels like a perfect fit.

It's the PERFECT Conclusion To The PREVIOUS
Line That Was Said, Even Though It Was NOT
What She Expected!  

His final line, even though at first it seems to go
completely in the OPPOSITE direction to what he
said before, ends up still being PERFECTLY
CONSISTENT with what he first said before.

In other words, everyone IS talking about her,
her name IS popping up all over Hollywood,
it’s just NOT in a GOOD WAY!

                            FOUR:
      He Creates A Powerful Visual

It’s also FUNNY because theoretically
this is the kind of thing that CAN happen in
real life, but more importantly the VISUAL
of all these guys who got SCREWED by her
and are now paying for it, but who at least
are also all finding comfort in sharing
their misery with each other.

You can picture a bunch of guys at a bar all
sharing their misery about her.

                             FIVE: 
It’s Never MEAN, Because It Is Perfectly
Customized For A Woman Of HER Looks
And HER Wit, And HER Confidence  

We also realize that this whole story
is actually NOT the truth, that she did not
give anyone herpes or anything, which makes
the whole thing FUNNY and not MEAN.

It’s OBVIOUS that it is a JOKE, but it’s
a joke that still takes GUTS.

Plus, most importantly, she is a woman who
is HOT and WITTY and who is likely to
ENJOY this kind of communication.

                            SIX:
      It Takes INTELLIGENT Risks

Saying this tease STILL required an
element of RISK, it still took GUTS, and
COURAGEOUS jokes are always funnier
than jokes that take ZERO risks, jokes that
are totally purely safe and anti-septic.

Part of what MAKES a woman react so strongly
to the joke is that it TOOK courage and balls
to say it.  Just remember that it’s not ONLY
about the guts, it’s ALSO about the WIT
and everything else I explained above.

The key with humor is to take INTELLIGENT
risks and to use STRATEGY as outlined above.
 
By the way, this is just 1% of what you will learn
in this program that is JAM-PACKED with pure
gold on attracting women. In fact, it’s only one
small part of ONE section on HUMOR.

This program ALSO goes into TONS of OTHER vital skills for ensuring success in getting the most fantastic women, skills that have nothing to do with humor, as you will see below.
 
Here Is ANOTHER Sample On Mastering Humor From The Program:

Before going on, allow me to give ONE more example and analysis regarding HUMOR with women:

At the same event, Seth MacFarlane also demonstrated
super wit, teasing Whitney as well with the following
comment:

“She’s got the body of a crack whore, BUT
she’s got the razor sharp wit of a crack whore.”

So, again, he FIRST says something that is mostly a
compliment, as being SLIM is mostly a COMPLIMENT
in our society, especially with women, and he also
uses the PAUSE to build anticipation when he says
the word “BUT”.

So again, we have the confidence and the use of
anticipation.

The next thing, after his pause, is PERFECT calibration
considering she IS INDEED VERY ATTRACTIVE:

“But she’s got the razor sharp WIT of a crack whore!”

So it’s PERFECT symmetry, it’s consistent, it’s NOT WHAT WE EXPECT, so we DON’T SEE IT COMING which is what makes it more powerful as a SURPRISE.

And yet, even though it’s a SURPRISE, we
TOTALLY UNDERSTAND THE HUMOR.

And, because she is in fact CONFIDENT about her
looks and is sharp and witty herself, like most
hot women, there is no big dumb risk of the
comments HURTING her feelings, because
she KNOWS those things said about her are
NOT TRUE!!!

These particular skills with attracting women
include SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE, so that you
can quickly UNDERSTAND what level of confidence
and self-esteem a woman is at so that you can make
things EXCITING and challenging for her without
HURTING her feelings.

In this special, jam-packed 1-hour audio program, I go into this topic FAR MORE with greater detail and explanation and more examples of how to actually MASTER these skills that make women for you.

Just this part of the program ALONE is worth
ten times the cost of the ENTIRE program.

But there’s MORE, and I mean WAY MORE
to this program as well, as you will see below...

Like ALL my programs, this program is PURE content.
Absolutely no “filler”.
Absolutely no gimmicks.

This audio program is over one hour long, and is PACKED with hard-hitting, CONCRETE STRATEGIES that you can put to use EASILY and IMMEDIATELY to attract women
you see ANYWHERE.

Instead of just having a vague idea of "be confident", you will actually learn the SKILLS to get her MELTING for you.

This program is NOT a rehash of my other programs, it contains TONS and TONS of ALL-NEW material. 

Here are just SOME of the OTHER crucial strategies, insights, and concepts for attracting fantastic women that you will learn from this important audio program: 

The EFFECTIVE Way To "Make Something Happen" 

Most men are trying to “make something happen”
when they see a woman they want to meet. Ironically,
this is the WORST strategy to take, because it puts
far too much pressure on yourself and ruins your
vibe.

I’ll show you a FAR MORE POWERFUL alternative
that allows you to succeed with something as CASUAL
as, “How are you doing?”

At the same time, this program will show you
MORE SOPHISTICATED ways of capturing
a woman’s interest, but by having this super
easy “back-up” plan in your mind, you will
NEVER miss out another opportunity to
meet any woman you see.

New Strategies For Humor That Swallow Women Up Into Your World And Keep Them Chasing You

I’ll also show you TONS of new powerful insights
for using HUMOR with women in a way that
SWALLOWS WOMEN UP into your “vibe” and
makes them want to STAY in your presence.

What you’ve read about humor in this column
barely scratches the SURFACE of what you
will learn in the actual PROGRAM itself.

What’s especially great about this style of humor
is that you are not only getting a woman laughing,
but you are also simultaneously SHOWING your
POWER, your WIT, and your absolute TOTAL
confidence.

Remember, in this program, I don’t “tell you” to be
confident or intriguing or humorous or witty or
anything else. Instead, I actually SHOW YOU
HOW TO CONVEY ALL THESE TRAITS
TO WOMEN.

I need to repeat something: When humor is used
PROPERLY with women, it’s not just effective
for rapport and for starting conversations. It
ALSO is actually massively effective for
ATTRACTING a woman in the most powerful
and primal way, because it SHOWS POWER,
WIT, INTELLIGENCE, and much MORE.

How To Avoid "Messing Up" When It Comes To Humor
 
I’ll also show you how to AVOID the mistakes
that most men make when it comes to humor,
because there’s nothing worse than a guy who
is TRYING to be funny but is just coming across
as LAME.    

    How To Use Humor To "Neutralize" Jerks  

Plus, I’ll even show you how to use HUMOR to
effectively NEUTRALIZE anyone who ever tries
to be NASTY to you with a MEAN joke.

This one strategy ALONE is something that is
worth the entire cost of this program, and it
also will convey  your own power and social
intelligence, AND it will simultaneously
attract women as they see you so smoothly
handle jerks in this strategic way.

New, Ultra-Effective Strategies On Quickly SCREENING Women Properly And On Detecting A Woman's Values And Personality

 One of the BIGGEST things that I also focus
on here at “Get A Great Girl” is how to actually
"SCREEN" women for quality, by learning how
to detect a woman's values and personality traits
as quickly as possible so you don’t waste time
on the wrong women.
 
Well, in this program, you’re going to learn
my most powerful new strategies for "screening"
women and for detecting a woman’s character, 
personality, and values, and how to do this QUICKLY.
 
Conversation Topics That Are "Ultra-Juicy And Addictive To Women" 

In this program, you are ALSO going to get a
some of my favorite “ULTRA-JUICY” topics that
you can use for opening up conversations with
women.

WARNING: These “ultra-juicy” topics are so
COMPELLING to women that you may find women
WON’T STOP TALKING once you get them started
on these topics!

       Building A Deep Connection With A Woman

These topics are not only the perfect “chick bait”
but they also will allow you the perfect chance to use
these SAME topics to actually BUILD a deep connection!

These topics work GREAT as playful conversation
STARTERS and yet their very nature ALSO is extremely
conducive for leading into more meaningful conversation
that allows you to build a DEEP CONNECTION with
any woman.  

Determine If A Woman Is Likely To Be FAITHFUL Or If She Is The Kind Who Will Likely BETRAY

Included in these conversations are particular topics
that will also allow you to secretly discover very
QUICKLY if she is the kind of woman who will
be LOYAL or who is likely to BETRAY and be
UNFAITHFUL.

Key New Insights On How To KEEP A Woman Loyal

Plus, in this program, you will ALSO learn valuable
strategies and insights on how to KEEP a woman
loyal to you. Personally, I think this information
is PRICELESS if you plan on getting into a
relationship or getting a serious girlfriend.

The Top Ten Traits That Women Who Are Gorgeous Inside And Out Seek In A Man

PLUS, this program will ALSO reveal to you
the TOP TEN TRAITS that a quality woman
is subconsciously looking for in a man.

In this program, I not only REVEAL these
traits, but I also show you examples of how
you can easily CONVEY to women that
you HAVE all these traits.

How To Get A Woman Who Is Even A Total Stranger Hugging You Within MOMENTS Of Meeting Her!

PLUS, I’ll also show you a NEW way to
get a woman HAPPILY HUGGING you
within MOMENTS of meeting you, and
NONE of this is some kind of “trick”
and NONE of this is some kind of lie
or deception that you tell her.

She will WANT to do this and she will
ENJOY it.

How To Make A Woman Feel Closer To You In MINUTES, Than Any Other Man She Has Ever Known In Her Life

PLUS, in this program you will also learn a
powerful secret to making a woman feel
that you not only understood her better
than any other man, but this same secret
will also make a woman feel a stronger
connection to YOU in just MINUTES
than to men she may have known her
entire LIFE.

This program is INSANELY PACKED WITH
PURE GOLD on absolutely ENSURING your
success with women that most men can only
DREAM about. 

You are going to use what you learn in this
program in just about EVERY situation where
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Advanced-Level Insights On Attracting Quality Women

Sometimes, you can learn more from the
guys who are USING my programs than from
me myself, so today I am going to share
some important emails that have come in
from men around the world who are using
the "Get A Great Girl materials to attract
quality women.

And by the way, when I talk about attracting
quality women, one of the BIG things I am
referring to is a woman who will be FAITHFUL,
in addition to being gorgeous on the outside
as well.

Here we go:    

***LETTER FROM A READER*** 

Hey Michael,

They say that when the student is ready, the
teacher will come. And man, this has been so
true in my case. I'm writing this to you right
after actually using your materials!

Let me start by saying I was sick to death of
playing games with women, of trying to get them
at any cost, including my own dignity. I even tried
learning pick up lines by supposed masters of
attraction, and I spent thousands of dollars in
other trainings from them.

I just felt out of place in drunken clubs, and
It must have been obvious, because I didn't do
well at all with women there. And my luck didn't
improve in coffee shops, because the pick-up
lines I was trained to use just felt ridiculous
to me. And I guess it showed to women.

They could see right through it and I guess
it wasn't cool to them. They may have worked
for others, but they certainly didn't work for me.
I just couldn't, or wouldn't change my value
system, for any one.

Anyway, very late on Wednesday night,
a friend of mine told me about your site-
Now, I never even heard of you before, but
my friend is a pretty smart dude, so I checked
your site on the net. It seemed to good to be
true. But I saw the guarantee. And it was
only 39 bucks and change. So I figured
I have zero risk here, and went ahead with
the order and download.

Then I started reading....and it was like
the dam of pain and confusion was finally
busted, all those years of wondering what
the hell was going on....

And it was like for every time I felt like
things were hopeless, for every painful
rejection I ever faced, for every ridiculous
line I ever learned, for every time my gut
instinct told me that there was a better
way but I just didn't know it- you were
talking to me!!

You gave me a way to go about approaching
and interacting with women in a way that no
other guru (and believe me, I've tried them all)
person on earth has ever explained.

I now had learned what my real issue
was, and it wasn't about being a nice guy,
and it wasn't that I needed to be more
arrogant as all the other gurus tried
to convince me.

You taught me how to be myself in a way
that was truly attractive.

Tonight, (Thursday) I went out myself
to a Starbucks, and while waiting
to get my latte, there was an attractive
woman in front of me getting some frothy
looking drink. She was not that overly-made
up type, instead just the type I like-
natural- wearing regular jeans and
comfortable shoes, but her natural
beauty was shining right through.

In the past, I would have tried all kinds of
fancy lines, or routines, and this time,
armed with the knowledge from your
book, I said F-it to myself, and learned
to let go of all my thoughts, taking
control through the power of proper
breathing.

Internally, following your advice, I was
actually visualizing the picture of getting
massively rejected!!

That was my biggest fear, and like you
taught, rather than trying to tell myself
I am so great, and that I am the ultimate
Ladies man (like the gurus keep on saying,
to have this arrogant attitude) I did the
opposite, just as you described:

I tried relaxing with the image of her
rejecting me, till it started to actually
not seem like a big deal.

Now, I didn't have too long to do this,
or she would be gone, so after about
20 seconds of this, I finally blurted
out, using your method of harnessing
my natural dominance and playfulness
through the voice technique you explain,
I just said "That latte looks realllllllllly
good"-

She immediately turned around, and
her expression seemed very receptive,
as if she was responding to some type
of secret code.

To any guys reading this, the key is to
deliver the right mix of those 3 emotions
in your voice, dominance, upbeatness,
and sensuality. You have to be feeling
it for real. I had practiced this voice
exercise at home and I was ready.

I said it exactly as you described it- mixing
dominance, upbeatness, and sensuality in
my voice.

This stuff is so powerful, and so easy,
It's a crime that it was held back from
us for so long!!

The great part about this is that by controlling
my voice this way, I actually changed the way
I really was feeling! I wasn't acting!

Then, I had no idea what to say next, but
keeping your lesson in mind of "it doesn't
matter as long as you retain the three states
of mind" I actually gave her a genuine
compliment that I truly meant- I told her
that I thought it was cool that she was
dressed in comfortable shoes and jeans
in middle of a trendy part of town
(I work in a trendy area of the city and
on Thursday night there are also a lot
of club-goers in the area) and that she
seemed down to earth and not pretentious.

She started to laugh, but warm, not like
a b**(%ch! I then followed it up with
an equally genuine comment- that of
course, "I might be wrong!", I said it
with a confident playful smile- and she
started to tell me, with a smile, (I can
tell she understood the compliment
properly) that she is not into the whole
"bling-bling" look, and that she likes
walking around comfortable.

I'm thinking to myself at this point-
"I'm having a genuine conversation with
this attractive woman, who is totally not
being bitchy with me and who is so
comfortable and down to earth."

So then, she starts to ask me what I'm
doing in the area besides surveying
what women are wearing, and I can
tell she has a sense of humor, so
I tell her that I finishing work and
looking forward to the weekend,
so she tells me that this weekend
she has to go to a wedding and
that she enjoys it but she would
rather chill out since she has had
2 weddings in the past month.

She asks me what I like to do on weekends-
now, in the past, I would have totally
followed the dating guru and pick up
artist advice and make sure to mention
the names of several clubs and lounges
to sound "cool", but using your advice,
I told her the damn truth (meanwhile,
I was preparing for the worst!):
I told her that I like to build model
rockets and launch them, which is
the truth.

She laughed at first, and said
"Are you serious?"

So I totally felt even more nervous
now, thinking that I must sound like
a nerd, but again, I stuck to my decision
to give your method a try.

So I said, "yup" and I said it with
a dead serious look, not being
apologetic at all for who I am.

And the crazy thing, Michael, I swear to you,
is that her eyes were searching mine in that
one moment, that seemed like forever to me.

And her expression changed, to that look
that told me, in my gut, that it was all
going to be really really smooth from here.

It was like suddenly she saw that she was
talking not to a boy, but to a man not
afraid to be who he really is, not afraid
to talk to her, not afraid to compliment
her, not afraid of anything.

I then remembered one more thing you said,
which was to show a woman what you do value,
to help guide her to do the right thing.

I said to her:
"Yeah, I enjoy doing a hobbies that are a
little different, it helps me realize how many
cool things are out there and helps me
understand other people's perspectives
As well- nothing teaches you as much about
a person as understanding their passions and
their hobbies"

Man!! Michael, after this point, she was
carrying the conversation, and she starts
telling me that "it's refreshing to meet
someone who is not jaded about
other people!!!!

When I think about how I would have
totally sabotaged this conversation
trying to be an arrogant guy, or trying to
Be "nice" and trying to fit in whatever she
Liked and trying to sound like a supposedly
"cool" guy who's at the clubs, all that would
have achieved is giving her the wrong idea
about me, and I would have had to keep
up the fake image, and also, she would
never have seen that I am actually strong
enough to not apologize for the things
and hobbies of who I am.

She even starts telling me how so few
people have weekend hobbies other than
drinking!

Anyway, Michael let me end this letter
Because I can see it's already massive,
Getting her number was the easiest thing
In the world, it was natural, because
There was a real connection.

In reality it takes more guts to create
genuine rapport!!! The whole thing
would have failed miserably without it.
This is part of attraction, just like you
say so incredibly clearly!

I'm looking forward to meeting her man,
and I'm totally not needy about getting
her into bed, as I want to know more about
a woman before I sleep with her, and that
makes me feel even more empowered.

I also have a funny feeling that this is
going to make her even more "into"
me, because she will see that I am
not needy for it, because to me sleeping
with a woman is not a joke. So she
knows that if she is that woman, she
will be respected and that it will be
meaningful.

Sincerely,

Chuck W.,
Boston

>>>MY COMMENTS<<<

Reading this, I'm smiling to myself,
thinking that now a million guys are
going to take up MODEL ROCKETRY
as a way to attract women.

Seriously, though, this is what it's all
about to me- getting good guys the kind
of women they deserve, in a way that
WORKS FAST, and in a way that allows
you to PRESERVE WHO YOU REALLY ARE
at your CORE.

No absurd schemes or foolish "pick up lines"
that insult the intelligence of any man or woman.

It's obvious you are putting the principles
into play- I love the way you put MANY
things into action all in one interaction-
the power of breath, the declaration of
your real identity without apology,
the desensitization to fear with embracing
the WORST image over and over again
till it bores you (by the way, that last
idea is courtesy of a FANTASTIC
friend of mine who introduced the
concept to me) and the GIVING
HER A GENUINE good vibe
as well, AND the idea of you
LEADING the way in terms of
HOW TO BE A GREAT PERSON.

We are living in very morally uncertain
times, so that a lot of good women don't
want to appear to be UNCOOL, so they
often ACT in certain ways that are not
the real them, but if YOU show the way,
and that YOU are not afraid of integrity
and not being ashamed of your hobbies,
etc.

It makes THE WOMAN not only FEEL
THAT YOU ARE AN AWESOME confident
guy, but it also makes her feel
that now SHE too can be HERself and
that she doesn't have to abandon her
dreams of being with a great guy as well-
she can let DOWN her armor, because
you have SHOWED your cards first,
and you have done it with CONVICTION,
without FEAR.

The reality is that the "nice guy" is insecure,
So he kisses up and doesn't reveal his true
Identity for fear of being rejected, but the
jerk is even MORE insecure because he
feels the need to be mean to prevent
being hurt himself.

And women, especially the better a woman
is, will ALWAYS detect this insecurity.
And she is repelled by it because she
knows insecurity breeds hurt, pain, and
ultimately disrespect and disgrace.

***LETTER FROM A READER***

Hey Michael! How have you been? I am just
wondering... how should I deal with a hard
to get girl. I know there's interest.

BUT I'm going to play hard to get myself
to turn the tables so I can get her to invest.
What are your thoughts on hard to get girls?
I think this would be a good newsletter topic
because every guy will meet at least one girl
like this.

J.B., Toronto, Canada

>>>MY COMMENTS<<<

Only play the hard to get game with a woman
if you want a hard to get woman in your life.

If you want to get headaches, endless drama,
lose lifespan, get insomnia, and you believe
there are no other women who are greater out
there, who will not waste your time and energy,
then DEFINITELY go after a "hard to get"
woman.

Now, if you STILL want a hard to get woman,
realize that ANY action you do will be
INTERPRETED as you being ALL FOR HER
anyway, regardless of the "clever pick up artist"
tactic.

The NUMBER ONE way for her to see that
you value a TRUE CHANGE TO HER
PERSONALITY is for her to see that you
are HAPPY with some OTHER GIRL.

And guess what happens when you meet a
BETTER woman who doesn't play those
games? You DON'T WANT to waste
your precious life on women who play
games.

This, by the way, will also prove to be the
kind of CHARACTER that A GREAT
woman is attracted to. A great woman
who does not play games will BE
ATTRACTED to the fact that you
were and are not the kind of guy who
is AFFECTED by women's games,
such as playing hard to get.

It lets her know that YOU will not play
this immature game on her, so she will
now have the required degree of trust in
you to not play these games with you,
and you can then BOTH enjoy LIFE.

The very ACT of pursuing a woman who
plays GAMES is MASSIVELY DESTRUCTIVE
on your own emotional confidence and
resourceful powerful state, and it performs
a trick known as cognitive dissonance
that makes you think it is worth it
when it's so clearly NOT.

***NEXT LETTER***

Hey, what's up? I'm a big fan of your e-mails
and they have really boosted my self-confidence
and self-esteem, but can you answer this one
question for me?

What is a good and effective strategy for
approaching two women that are walking down
the street in the middle of deep conversation?

Thanks.

Terence R.
Washington, D.C.

>>>MY REPLY<<<

This is both a simple and complex question
all at once.

The best way to approach two women walking
down the street is to NOT play immature games,
but rather to open them up with ANY neutral
conversation topic- if they are single and open
to talking to guys that approach them on the
street, then they WILL chat to you IF you
are giving off the right SIGNALS.

For the right SIGNALS, see the first letter
and of course get the FULL SCOOP from my
materials so that you can not only approach
them, but KEEP the interaction going beyond
getting the number, so that you can turn that
interaction into an actual girlfriend.

>>>NEXT LETTER<<<

Hey Michael. I like the approach you're
taking. ...somewhere you alluded to the fact
that your goal is more than picking up women,
and actually is to TEACH us. US being the
diverse population of male personalities....

ie, the challenge isn't getting the client who
feels naturally charismatic or confident or
self-esteem, (maybe b/c he has had relatively
minimal brainwashing in the past, or has naturally
attractive "qualities") to overcome a few
shortcomings in his dealings with women to
become great at picking up women.

I know a few guys who have just read a FEW
of your articles and their games have skyrocketed....
and I think that's b/c their internal mechanisms
were already in place before picking up your
material.

Your real challenge is this: the guys out there
like me, who (regardless of what they are
physically and intellectually endowed with)

have such extensive negative brainwashing
and conditioning to overcome, that we are
only making small steps so slowly despite
reading your materials.

I'm telling you, if you can get US to be
successful, you will have accomplished
quite a lot. The thing is you are doing a great
job. Especially writing an article that deals
so specifically with thought patterns and their
emotional consequences.

Please keep attacking this from all possible
angles in your materials, and yes you will
have this goal of yours achieved beyond
your wildest dreams.

I've written you a few times, and at first I
wrote you under an anonymous name years
ago describing how I was so bad in this
whole arena (anonymous b/c I was so
ashamed of my situation).

My self esteem for some reason was rock
bottom, like core of the earth rock bottom....
mostly to do with women, but in most other
things as well. of course, I never approached
or even thought of approaching women for
my whole life.

There were women that did come on to me
over my life HEAVILY to the point of taking
responsibility for the whole interaction (some
of whom were quite hot and sought after by
most guys).

When THEY had actually taken things to
the point of where we were actually dating, I
couldn't actually emotionally believe that
someone could have been at all interested in
me and I would live in complete denial and
pretend as if we weren't dating at all.

I would actually think something was terribly
wrong with her for being interested in me as
well. just to give you an idea what the
inside of my head was all about. THAT is
what my perceived reality was. Even when I
explain this to friends at this point in my life,
they just can't comprehend such a psychological
standpoint. anyway, lots and lots of problems.

so, I basically lived like this until age 28
(I'm 30 now), at which time I stumbled upon
your articles. they hit home, but only intellectually
at first. same with your ebook. and same with your
CDs. ie, at first, they only started to MAKE SENSE
on an intellectual level, b/c I'm not dumb.

The EMOTIONAL points have only truly
been driven home after applying concept after
concept in the real world. and really, that's
where I felt the emotional growth kick in,
almost involuntarily.

For example, reading about shit tests in
one thing. watching yourself FAIL a test
MISERABLY drives the point home for life.

actually, I just recently had a hot hot girl
into me... was kind of into me for a few weeks...
I asked her out, kept up the playfulness really
well on the first date, but failed the shit test,
and BOOM, it was over.

THE EMOTIONAL POINT IS THIS (which proves your
theories are bang on): I'm stating these facts
only to relay this point. I'm an MD, I play in
a really good rock band, I'm considered to be
a hot and sexy LOOKING guy by women in general,
money is not an issue, I ALREADY HAD THIS GIRL
CHASING ME FOR WEEKS, but I fail ONE little
shit test and it all goes down the tubes.....

Most guys would say "whatever". all those
qualities I have and the circumstances would lead
any girl to be instantly in love with me for life.
how could it have gone wrong? in the old days I
would not understand b/c of all the stupid ass
brainwashing.

But the LEARNED EMOTIONAL LESSONS of your
teachings dictate otherwise: the nuances are
the only REAL windows a girl cares about (consciously
or subconsciously) that looks into your manliness.

In other words, no external attributes can make up
for lack of what you call "Superior Intrinsic Value".
Lack of SIV pops it's head up like a gopher when
it's put to the "TEST". Even if I passed the first
test because I saw it coming, the next one would
have leveled me b/c the 'Superior Intrinsic
Value", as you describe, wasn't there.

It made sense when I read it but I never GOT it.
Only truly made sense in an emotional way when
it happened to me.

I bring all this up b/c I want to encourage you
that your stuff has enormous potential, especially
for guys who have a long way to go. For me even
to have made it to the point where I am able to
interact with women and attract hot women
(despite still screwing things up) is ludicrous
given my psychological starting point.

I would have laughed if you could have promised
the old me that I would one day achieve the
current me. The credit goes only to you and
me: you for teaching me out of my hell, and
to me for putting in the emotional work to
get out of it.

But of more importance to you, is that there
are many more guys out there like me. it takes
one to know one. and I'm able to recognize them
better and better. here's hoping that they can
benefit as well. Even with me, I'm not even
close to half way there despite having come so far.

Ya, I can attract hot women and my emotional
health has been cleaned up a lot but I definitely
need work beyond that. I want to achieve that
state of self-validation that even the best pick up
artists don't have. not to BE a pick up artist actually,
but just because I've become obsessed with
achieving self-validation.

So keep these articles and materials coming
and keep getting creative with them because they
ARE working and at the very least they all seem
to motivate.

peace,

Jim T.
New Jersey
 
>>>MY REPLY<<<
 
Thank you man for that genuine letter and for
the kind words. I hope that every guy reading this
realizes that he is not alone, and that success is
not limited to any category of guy- even a guy
who has every category- the prestige and income
of being an MD, and being good-looking doesn't
mean that a guy has it made when it comes to
this area of our lives. So thank you so much
for sharing that with other men- it lets them
know that they CAN improve too.

And the next thing I need to say is that this
the new book REALLY focuses on this stuff,
it focuses on ACTUAL things you can do to
GET RID OF THE EMOTIONAL "toxic waste"
that makes us THINK and FEEL in totally
SELF-SABOTAGING ways with women,
and makes us believe the WORST things
that are NOT true but which make us
do the things that push great women away.

This is the reason I've made WARRIOR WITHIN,
it truly is the NEXT LEVEL, the most advanced
program when it comes to attracting the very
best quality women.

I look forward to hearing from you again,
please keep in touch!

NEXT LETTER:

Just wanted to let you know that you've
got a damn good book there.

For the longest time, I simply could not
get past the internal barrier of feeling
like a potential fool by going up to
a woman that I wanted to chat to.

There are ton of strategies that I am using from
your book to help me, but the one I want to
comment on for your readers is the part
about translating emotions into their
bare physical sensations.

AMAZING.

I have done this for 3 days so far, and today
it finally got to the point that I made my first
"cold approach" ever.

Here's what I did:
I was walking to work, after grabbing a
sandwich for breakfast, I saw a truly stunning
woman approaching me walking toward me
on the sidewalk, and my heart sank.

But this time, instead of going through
my conditioned responses that have come
from a life of bad thought patterns, I
isolated the emotions!

The first thing I did was take notice of
my heart pumping fast, I felt the rush
of blood in my chest. I felt the heat in my
arms and shoulders and the lump in my
stomache. And then I became conscious
of the fact that the "voice" was playing
in my mind, telling me "no way, never".

And I followed your instruction, realizing
that all these thing are sensations. I focused
on the physical things, realizing that none
of these things actually meant anything, they
simply were physical sensations. I didn't
have to give in to them- they were just
bodily things happening, there weren't
actual forces that were making me do
anything other than what I really wanted.

And this helped me regain control
over myself. I went ahead and walked
right up to her, thinking to myself over
and over again that I was willing to
embrace whatever happened, over
and over again, till it became less
of a big deal.

The first words out of my mouth
were, "You have no right to be walking
out in public- you are a hazard!"

In my head, the whole thing seemed
surreal. And then, she smiled and said
"that's mean!"

I had no idea what to say next- so I
just followed your advice and didn't try
to act like a player, but I kept control
over my state by controlling the voice,
and I said to her "you're right I'm mean,
I mean it, you can cause accidents here,
and it's plain wrong! There's way
too much traffic and the drivers are going
to crash seeing you!"

She starts telling me that she's on her
way to a class at university and she has
to get a coffee. So I tell her that because
she is so dangerous, she should have
someone watching over her to prevent
any problems.

Now I know Michael that you say to
focus more on the internal traits, but for
me this was my first time, and I couldn't
believe I was finally taking control of
my life again, and I think it worked
because she could see I was not doing
it in a submissive way, and she could
see that I was being warm in a confident
way.

Over that quick coffee, we had a great
chat about politics (she's a poli-sci
major) and about some recent movies
(I'm a film buff!) and she not only
gave me her number, she told me to
call her!!

This would never have happened
before, and I can only imagine how
good things are going to get as I take
this all the way and apply everything
in your book to my future meetings
with her and any other women I meet!

Sincerely,
Jack K., L.A.

MY COMMENTS:

Thank you for the awesome letter,
and for showing how far you can
get with the right approach to
controlling not WOMEN but controlling
your own MIND and learning how to
harness the power of the right
emotions as well.

And if YOU are reading this right now,
and you want to get MASSIVE RESULTS
with QUALITY WOMEN, all without
turning yourself into some FAKE version
of yourself, then I suggest you get my
WARRIOR WITHIN program which includes
some of my most advanced insights on
how to attract women and approach women
in all sorts of situations, and how
to skyrocket your 'inner game', as
well as how to create compelling emotions
in her so she is ADDICTED to you, and
much MUCH more.

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

It's going to change your life, guaranteed.
If you are looking for a QUALITY woman,
this program is an absolute MUST.

Here's what other men are saying about
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And if you haven't yet downloaded my
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http://getagreatgirl.com/Wizard.html

This book serves as an important foundation
before graduating to my advanced programs.

And I can't wait to hear YOUR success story
too!

Sincerely,

Michael Marks

The RIGHT Way To Approach Quality Women

Let's get straight to the heart of the
matter regarding what is the RIGHT way
to approach a quality woman:

Email From A Reader:

"Hey Michael,

I know you're not a big fan of the nightclubs
for meeting a quality woman, but I think you'll
agree that what I have to say only proves your
point even more. All I can say is that I wish
I had your materials before this disaster went
down:

So this past weekend my buddies and I went
down to the club and near closing time, up
beside me comes this pretty little number that
I was chatting up inside with her friends and
just being playful in that innocent way you
describe. Let me backtrack on what happened
inside the club a bit-

I started the convo with some stuff that I took
directly from your book- telling her that the only
reason I was talking to her was because she
reminded me of Barney Rubble's wife-Betty,
from the Flintstones! And that she was so much
cooler than Wilma because Barney never had a
real job and that it was cool by her! She was
eating it all up, and then on top of that I
told her that if she was a good girl, I might
take her out for a Brontosaurus burger one
day because I know the only reason she
puts up with Barney is because she can't
cook! I had her playfully punching me in
the arm and grazing against me the whole
evening.

Everything was going great, I was following
the principles in your book and never trying
to prove how great I was or trying to get the
"upper hand", and keeping the vibe warm,
confident and playful, knowing that she could
never get insulted from a comment that the
cartoon version of herself could not cook.

And I also remembered your point in the book
about "the teasing cycle" and how important it
is to not just joke around but to naturally progress
into a real conversation to see where you share
important values in common- she's the kind of
person who appreciates life's little treasures
that most people overlook, and that's really
important to me because it means that you never
take life for granted.

But here's the thing, I refused to believe that
this was actually working because of what
you had taught, I kept thinking that it was actually
happening in SPITE of what you taught. After all,
this girl was gorgeous, and I mean head to toe,
and I started to let the fear creep in, that I needed
to show her that I wasn't kissing up to her. I started
to think that the reason for my success so far was
that I had the "player vibe" about me.

So let me fast forward - I decided to talk to
some other girls just to make sure that she
knew I wasn't desperate for her, and that this
would get her to chase me even harder.

Well, when I did that, she had this confused,
disappointed look on her face when I told her
I had to talk to some other friends, but she said
okay and then I never heard from her for the rest
of the night!

But I felt like since she wasn't chasing me, that
it would be even worse now if I came running
back to her. And I wasn't interested in any of
the other girls as much.

Anyway, the thing was that on my way out
of the club around closing time with my buddies,
I see her roll up beside me, her girlfriends not
far away, and she remembers our convo, saying
to me "How about that Brontosauraus burger?"

Michael, my heart was pounding, I wasn't sure
if she was joking or serious that she wanted to
join me, so I said, "sure Betty, but remember
I expect you to clean the house!" And then
I find myself with this knockout walking
beside me and my friends suddenly in luck
as her girlfriends are now talking to my
buddies.

We reach the burger joint, and I'm feeling
so much pressure and conflicting thoughts.
I'm thinking "Is this girl trying to use me
to buy her food? I'm not going to be abused
by those tricks just because she's got the
looks" and my mind just keeps thinking
worse and worse and worse thoughts about
her, that this is all just another way for her
to use men for a free meal or something.

And then it happens- we reach the cash
register, and I blurt out "I don't believe
in prostitution" to which she seems
really confused (of course, I totally get
it and understand why now). So I then
make it even worse by explaining
it all to her, telling her that women use
men all the time, and she starts to feel
defensive, telling me that I have some
issues against women, which makes me
even angrier, and now the whole vibe
is going to hell. And in my gut, I knew
I was destroying the whole thing, but
somehow I felt that otherwise, if I didn't
"show her that I was tough" she would
eventually take advantage of me.

The crazy thing Michael, is that I don't
even know she wasn't going to pay! It's
possible she would have. The whole
argument though made me seem petty
and before I knew it she was hailing a
cab and high-tailing out of there, gone
forever. And the other thing that drove
me nuts is that I realize looking back
that I actually showed weakness, not
toughness at all, but being so petty.

I was so pissed off about the whole thing,
I couldn't sleep all night. All I could think
about was how I let this fantastic creature slip
through my fingers, and how I had committed
an error so clearly explained in your book-
I had allowed black and white thinking to
let me turn a little question about this woman
into an indictment on her, and sentencing
her to the verdict of being guilty, all
because I could not take the uncertainty
of the pressure in that situation.

I took a perfectly good woman and turned her
into some type of threat that didn't exist."

Daniel T.,
Houston, Texas

My Comments:

First of all, thank you for the huge props
for my book and for your honesty. A lot
of the lessons in my book come from years
of misery and mistakes and from listening
to the advice of some really, really wise
people that I had the good fortune of
meeting.

Regarding the emotions you were feeling
when things were going well, I understand
them, as I used to make the same mistakes.

What happens is that we want to protect
ourselves, and we start to focus on how to
protect ourselves from the bad stuff, from
the pain, rather than focus on how to get to
the good stuff. So we become obsessed
with preventing pain- we focus on pain
avoidance.

That type of attitude feeds images in our mind 
of all types of horrible things, we start to think of
all the times we had bad experiences with
women, we start to think of all the horrible
possibilities, so we then revert to INSECURE
behavior.

So for example, how much does a burger
cost? Five bucks? It's trivial, unless the
woman gives you reason to believe she
is not respecting you in general. And
it's very possible she would have paid
it anyway, like you said.

The whole thing reminds me of something
that Wayner Dyer once articulated:
"All of us are like oranges. And just like
the only thing that comes out of oranges
under pressure is orange juice, the only
thing that pressure can bring out in you
is what's already there- you can't blame
some external source for what's bringing
it out in you".

So in other words, it's not that girl that was
making you feel all those horrible emotions,
those fears and insecurities were already there
inside, most likely made much WORSE by the
horrific advice out there, and SHE simply
created the moment of what you felt was the
"squeeze", even though this squeeze or pressure
was actually the product of something GOOD-
i.e. SHE LIKED YOU.

So the key is to realize that as soon as you
catch yourself wanting to give in to insecurities
you can always follow the principle of the
24 hour rule- don't react to the negative feelings
inside of you at the moment, you can always
do it 24 hours later- and guess what? 24 hours
later you almost ALWAYS realize there was
nothing to react to in the first place, and it
would have just made you seem insecure,
needy, and uncool.

The best part of this 24 hour training rule,
is that it actually MAKES YOU MORE SECURE
in the first place, it trains your mind and emotions
to not give in to fears.

The more you follow this 24 hour rule, the
FASTER you will see the truth about the
situation, the faster you will see that it
was actually a toxic negative emotion-
you'll start to get over these things
INSTANTLY. It won't take 24 hours
anymore.

Another good rule of thumb to remember
is that if you are feeling any type of EXTREME
reactionary feeling when a woman does
something, it's probably not an accurate
emotion, and certainly it's a mistake to
base your behavior on that extreme emotion.

The great thing though about this situation
is that you LEARNED from it.

It sounds like all you have to do is just
get back out there meeting women, and stick
to what you learn in my programs.

I look forward to hearing from you again.

Next Letter:

"Master Mike!!!

Do you realize what power you are giving guys?
I got your book almost two weeks ago, and couldn't
put it down once I started. And then my damn work
schedule kicked in- I've been really busy with work
lately, even working weekends, (I work in IT and
often have to be on call) but I made sure to read
your book during every break I had. And then this
past Friday I got the chance to leave work early
and that's when I had the opportunity to put your
stuff to the test:

I decided to relax and visit the bookstore on my way
home- as soon as I entered, I almost lost my breath
as I saw this gorgeous curly brunette, athletic looking,
in the section of the store selling gift-wrap.

Now, normally in the past, I would just stand there
and watch, tormenting myself on what to do. But
after reading your book, I realized what my pattern
always was - I would picture the absolute worse scenario
which to me was the idea of everyone looking at
me thinking I was a fool, or the idea of her thinking
to herself "why is this guy bothering me, I hate
it!"

It's amazing, that I never even realized I had this
pattern, and so I could never stop it, and I could never
stop the automatic feelings of indignity that followed.

And your book made me realize not only my pattern,
but also how I unconsciously was allowing this pattern
to create a guaranteed "failure to take action" response
every time, because I would let the pattern of thoughts
keep going and growing, and my conditioned response
to that was to prevent a disaster by not talking to her.

Of course, as you explain in your book, that never
really worked for long to make me feel any more secure,
it just gave me that momentary escape and relief from
having to take action, and the next time I would see
a woman the fear would be even worse, since I had
never had to actually stare it down.

This time, though, I was ready. I was ready with your
strategy- for the first time, I knew that any excuse I
would give myself would not only not bring me any
closer to this woman, but I also knew from your book
that in fact if I did not take action, I was actually
making it even harder for my emotions and brain
to take action in the future.

I made the decision that all the pain in the world
from her potential reaction was still better than a
life of fearing her reaction and never approaching
women.

So I went over to her and followed your advice
of not trying to be "mr. gangsta". Instead, I
focused on injecting some dominance, upbeatness,
and sensuality in my voice and gave her the
chance to "come into my world" as you say.
And I observed the situation so that what I
could say would be connected to the situation.

So instead of the put downs and arrogance,
I decided to genuinely give her some of the
infinite abundance of "good vibes" that I
have - and told her that someone who's thinking
that hard of the right wrapping paper must have
a really good friend! And I really said it with
a confident feeling, because I knew I was not
kissing up, I was genuinely complimenting
her on something that I thought was a sign
of her own goodness.

She seemed a bit surprised, I guess she didn't
realize I was right there, but she turned around
and gave me a warm smile and told me that she
was going to a friend's birthday and then I
couldn't even make out what she was saying
because my heart was pounding so hard and
all I could do was see her lips, her gorgeous
face.

I wanted to just say thanks and leave so badly,
because it felt so good to not have this thing
crash, but I knew that would be the wrong thing.
I managed to make out a few words that she
was saying, something about "she's a good friend"
and "helped her so much with rides to work"
so I just kept on sharing the vibe and actually
making a connection because I also really
value great and deep friendship, and I started
telling her that we are lucky if we have even
one great friend, and how what is the whole
point of life if we are just to enjoy it alone.

And that's when even though my heart was
still beating like crazy, I felt myself knowing
that this woman was enjoying being with me,
and it felt like a ton of bricks was being lifted
off my shoulder. Feeling that good, I started
to unleash the playful stuff, I knew it would
be interpreted right because it was coming
from a place inside of me that was real,
and because I knew she would know that
I meant it with love and not anger.

So I told her, "you know, we're having
a pretty good conversation here, and it's
all without being mean, nasty, or vulgar.
It's kinda nice, isn't it?" And she laughed
and said yes it was, and then she wanted
to know if I did this to "all the women in
the bookstore".

In the past, this would have been a major
catastrophe, as if I was "found out" and had
to cover my moves.

But now, after reading your book, I just
realized that women, especially a great woman
looking for quality connection with a man,
wants to know what type of guy she is dealing
with. This is a good thing in reality, otherwise
it would mean that no women had any standards.

So I was honest and secure, I told her calmly
that I didn't, but that we'd both be lucky if we
were to have these kinds of convos every day,
to which she of course agreed.

Man, Michael, this whole interaction was
beautiful, man. You really mean it when you
say that it's up to us to bring out the best
in a woman.

I got her number and when I called her on
Saturday afternoon, she didn't avoid the call
or play games, we spent 15 minutes on the
phone, and we're supposed to meet for coffee
this week.

Thank you man!!! This really is the stronger
way, the way of the truly confident, classy,
Man, and not the games of a boy who thinks
in terms of insecure, immature notions and
thinks of making love as "scoring" and whose
concept of interacting on a deep level with a
woman is either putting her down, acting
arrogant, or on the other extreme, kissing up
to her with superficial compliments.

You'll be hearing from me this week for a
consultation, because I want to ace this!"

Matthew S., New York.

My Comments:

There's nothing like seeing guys who have
taken the words I have written down and truly
GET IT and are putting it into action. When
you really get it, you start to see results
IMMEDIATELY.

One key point I want to emphasize is the idea
that I teach that you applied brilliantly- and that
is the idea of bringing out the BEST in a woman.

This is the RIGHT way to approach a quality woman.

By leading the interaction from the very
beginning in a morally strong way, you led
the pathway to only lead to good places.
You started by talking about friendships,
and valuing them, and not about how men
and women cheat and who cheats more
or other negative stuff that some people
like to pretend are "cool".

In reality, no one thinks those things are
cool, but many men and women don't want to
appear uncool by being the one to stand up
against it. And yet, the very fact that you
STAND OUT as DIFFERENT from the
outset actually shows that you have more
courage.

This stuff is massively important, as the
reality is that the pain of other people is
never a joke, and when try to be cool by
appealing to that type of conversation
and gossip, you are destroying the fabric
of the interaction in terms of having
a foundation of trust. So even if the
woman does talk to you, she is in the
back of her mind feeling uneasy, and
sooner or later the whole thing falls
to pieces.

Without trust, what happens a few days or
weeks or months down the line, the woman
kicks the guy to the curb because she
resents his attitude.

If a woman senses she is being manipulated,
how much trust can that lead to? Without trust,
the whole thing is a fragile house of cards
that is certain to fall apart.

But what you did, was you LED the way,
you showed a totally different attitude.
This is what she REALLY WANTS and
can't find. She can either only find
pushover "nice guys" or guys who
overcompensate their insecurities
with extreme arrogance, when all she
really wants is a MAN. A man with
class and who is emotionally mature,
whose sense of what is cool does not
depend on what OTHERS think, no
matter HOW much the TV might try
to change his attitude.

Next Email:

"Hey Michael,

There's this girl that I met and I'm wondering
what to do. We went out once so far.

The first time we went out for coffee, and
I tried to keep the conversation light and relaxed,
but her cell phone rang three different times, and
she also noticed some guy inside at the coffee
shop she recognized and she went right over
to him and gave him a hug and I just felt the
whole thing was too much for me so I just
told her that I had to meet some friends and
cut the date short.

Now, here's my question, I read a lot of
dating guru advice and they all seem to say that
I should not have made a big deal to show
that it bothered me, and others say that I
should have ignored it and kept on escalating
the interaction and tried to take her home if
I could, and that once I slept with her, it
would make her treat me very differently.

The thing is though that even in the
conversation, it was a bit strange, I was
telling her that I could tell a lot about a
person from the way they talk about
things, and she said to me that she
can tell a lot about a guy's personality
from the way he is having sex with
her.

This whole thing seemed bizarre to
me. Was this woman testing me? Was
the way she went over to the guy to hug
him some kind of test?

Can you clear any of this up????"

Kevin R., Miami

My Reply:

Trust me, this woman has SERIOUS issues
and is the kind of person who will MESS
with your head big-time.

If you want to make your life miserable
from the hell this woman will unleash
on your life, then go right ahead and
"keep escalating" toward the physical.

Let me tell you the REALITY:
You should run like hell away from this woman,
and most likely this woman has had her own
heart torn to shreds and is now out taking
vengeance out on all kinds of innocent men
like you. She is hurting and needs guidance,
but it is not YOUR job to be HER therapist.

Trying to make her a decent person can take
you FOREVER, when meanwhile a FANTASTIC
woman is probably within a few MINUTES of
where you are RIGHT now, and you could
be enjoying life with THAT quality woman
instead.

The first red flag was when her cell phone went
off repeatedly while she was out on the date with
you. The fact it happened repeatedly is already
not good. The fact that she clearly did not make
a serious effort to APOLOGIZE for it just shows
how not serious she is, and shows how she is
simply playing around and seeing how far
she can push.

But don't think of this as a "test", she is not
testing anything any more than a bully tests a
victim. i.e. Yeah, it might be a test, but the only
way to WIN this test is to ERADICATE her from
your life, before you allow her to poison your
image of all women, including all the women
with fantastic morals, high self-esteem, and
integrity who are out there.

Think of this test as actually a woman showing
you her TRUE COLORS and so she is actually
FAILING a test- she is failing YOUR test of
a quality woman!!!!

And the answer to the question that I'm sure
is burning in your mind regarding "Would
she treat me differently if I just got
past the "sex" stage with her?" is NO.
She would NOT be different with you.

She would STILL be the same person
with the SAME attitude.

The NEXT red flag was this hug business that
she actually LEFT you to go and make sure to
do the big warm fuzzies to some dude while
out on a date to you, and again, apparently
she made NO EXPLANATION of this at all
to you.

The crazy thing, is that this would be super
obvious to you if you study my programs.

By allowing yourself to be with an abusive woman,
you actually DEGRADE your own self-esteem and you
eventually start to think that maybe you SHOULD
put up with this vile filth of messed up behavior.

Finally, you need to ALSO realize that
it's important that you DO NOT WASTE
energy on these kinds of women IF you
want a quality woman for a long term
healthy relationship: The reason is because
the only way you will have the strength
to BE the kind of man with great integrity
and with feeling secure is if you spend your
time in the company of good people.

Staying with or pursuing those with spoiled
values will only mess up your internal compass
of what is normal and what is not, and then when
you meet a GREAT woman, you will be doing
all the WRONG things. Things that might
be normal for those with inferior values, but
that are ABNORMAL for those with superior
values.

And one more thing- a great woman will want
to KNOW that you are totally clear on what YOU
want in life. She is not looking for a namby-pamby
insecure guy who is willing to buckle his own values
just for some approval from any woman with the
looks who comes his way.

It's very hard to truly mask your identity, it comes
out in tiny subtleties in your behavior and intonation
of voice and mannerisms, so if you ARE the kind
of guy that doesn't have his own values and self-esteem
together and WILL buckle under pressure and will
pursue the wrong type of woman, well then I
can assure you that a great woman will DETECT
this in you, and you will not stand a chance with
her.

On the other hand, if you are absolutely clear on
what you want, and you BECOME the kind of guy
that would never even THINK of putting up with
any woman that chips away at his self-esteem
no matter how beautiful she is, no matter how
slight that self-esteem damage is, then a great
woman will detect THIS and be far MORE 
attracted to you.

If you want to get a great woman, you need
to focus on that, and not on the WRONG women
that will drain you of everything precious -
your energy, your time, and your emotions.

And I can think of no better path for you to
take than by getting my most advanced program
on how to GET and KEEP a GREAT woman.

It's called WARRIOR WITHIN, and it's at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

And if you haven't yet got my ATTRACTION MASTERY
program, then do that FIRST, at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks