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Michael Marks

What Almost EVERY Guy Gets Wrong With Women, And What YOU Should Do

I want to give you a MASSIVE and IMMEDIATE BOOST with women. So fasten your seat-belts.

Ever see the film The Matrix? The story is about a world where almost everyone on EARTH is PERMANENTLY asleep, but their minds are controlled by a computer to make them think they are awake and living a perfectly normal reality.

Only a precious few are actually AWAKE to this reality, and only they can change that reality- by confronting the computer program. 

The challenge is that the threats created by the program are only as powerful as the recipient BELIEVES them to be, but the "Matrix" is damn good at making those threats feel REAL.

To overcome the program, one must constantly have a stronger frame of INTERNAL reality versus the fake reality projected by the Matrix.

A lot of dating coaches like to give the analogy of The Matrix to let guys know that their possibilities with women are greater than they realize- in fact, I was probably the FIRST guy to use this analogy.

But the IRONY is that most of the pick up artists and dating coaches have actually CONTRIBUTED to the "MATRIX", so to speak, by making guys truly BELIEVE in things that aren't REAL, things that actually hinder their success when it comes to getting a great girlfriend.

What I am talking about is the obsession with the SPEED of getting physical with women. 

The fact of the matter is that women who are going to be faithful girlfriends who don't treat sleeping with a guy as a joke, are simply going to be a lot SLOWER on jumping into the physical aspect of a relationship.

Now, there are MANY, MANY, MANY other things of course as well that make a great girlfriend a great girlfriend- honesty, kindness, positivity, understanding, etc.

But the reason I bring up the physical aspect is because it is the current MATRIX STRATEGY to throw men off the real picture of reality.

A lot of pick up artist types like to take advantage of the ignorance of men on this issue, and since most men think all women are the same, most men think they are witnessing a miracle when they see a guy for example make out with a random woman very quickly, or get physical with her in even more ways.

Most men don't realize that this is truly no big deal, because of the great many women out there for whom making out with a stranger means nothing at all, and for some women out there, sleeping with a total stranger also means nothing at all.

There is no more strategy to this than it is a strategy to learn how to ride the bus. You go to the bus stop, wait for the bus, the doors open, and you get on.

So, men are asleep to the REALITY that to find the kind of woman who would make for a great girlfriend, you actually have to combine a particular set of social skills with also being the kind of man that shows he can handle life and handle a real relationship.

But, that is too complicated for a MARKETING VIDEO. And the vast majority of everything you see around you is SATURATED in marketing as opposed to TRUTH.

The real "Matrix" we live in today is MARKETING. Almost everything you see around you has had its truth TAINTED by MARKETING.

A TON of the marketing out there wants to EXPLOIT your emotions, your desire for SIMPLICITY, and it wants to exploit your EMOTIONAL WEAKNESSES.

It doesn't give a rat's ass about what is good for you- it's like a drug dealer that just wants to get you HOOKED, and of course once you are hooked, you are a slave to the dealer.

And the irony is that people go on and on about drug dealers, but the truth is the DESTRUCTION to society from all the other people who EXPLOIT people's weaknesses is actually just as harmful and possibly even more destructive to society.

If you want a great girlfriend, who will treat you right, who won't run off into another guy's bed when the smallest thing goes wrong, you need to get a woman who is STRONGER than the type of person who is so easily EXPLOITED emotionally.

And to get THAT kind of woman, you better be THAT kind of man as well.

And by the way, there is a very good REASON why a lot of men and women choose not to be promiscuous- and it has nothing to do with religion.

The real truth is, that, like anything else, over-exposure to something actually DESENSITIZES you to that thing.

When the physical becomes a complete joke, it loses the same IMPACT it once had.

But when it is used WISELY, the slightest TOUCH can deliver A UNIVERSE of EROTICISM, and it can do this FOREVER with the same partner.

Not a bad thing to have between two people who love each other, huh?

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Michael Marks

Moral Intelligence And Finding A Quality Woman

There’s been a great deal written in recent years
about intelligence, and the different categories
of intelligence, including emotional intelligence
and social intelligence.

And no doubt, these ARE super-important
areas of intelligence.

However, it speaks volumes about our current
era that the importance of morals in EVERY
aspect of our lives has gone pretty much
COMPLETELY IGNORED in the discussion.

And yet, without moral compatibility, can
ANY man and woman get along for long?

I believe the reason there has been no discussion
about this topic is because people have thought,
for so long, that morals have nothing to do with
INTELLIGENCE, and that morals don’t benefit
one’s self. 

And yet, was there not a similar under-appreciation
society had regarding social and emotional IQ? It used to
be thought that the only thing that really mattered
to one’s success in life was traditional IQ, until studies
started to show that overall success required even more
social intelligence and emotional intelligence.

Moral intelligence actually includes social intelligence
and emotional intelligence, and much more.  Just
look at the definition of moral:

“Of or concerned with the judgment of right or wrong
of human action and character.”

Now, I realize that DEFINING what is right or wrong
is not always an easy task, however I also believe that
there is far more LOGIC to the morals that most of
humanity has shared world-wide for THOUSANDS
of years, than most people realize.

In fact, I think that one of the greatest TRAGEDIES
that has befallen modern society is that in the effort
to be “FREE” from anyone or anything telling us what
to do and what is right or wrong, we have abandoned
ALL THE VALUES that we used to cherish, when
in fact MANY of those traditional values actually had
INFINITE WISDOM AND VALUE FOR US.

It started in the 1960s. People started to rebel and
question authority, morals, politicians, etc.

So it’s one thing to use one’s THINKING SKILLS
to question things, to logically assess things, etc,
to arrive at TRUTH.

But it’s something ELSE to find some faults with
some things and then to COMPLETELY REJECT
AND ABANDON THE ENTIRE THING without
preserving what may be GOOD about that thing.

It IS important to use one’s MIND.
It IS important to question things and not just be a zombie.

Human history IS filled with corruption.

But human beings also developed morals that
contained great WISDOM as well.

Specifically, many of the MORALS regarding
conservative values contain INFINITE WISDOM.

The value is MASSIVE.
You don’t have to be 90 years old to appreciate and
benefit from the WISDOM in those morals.

I will get to those in just a moment, but I think
it’s important to recognize that one of the consequences
of the “rebellion” of the 1960’s was feminism.

In the 1960’s, in the US and in other parts of the
world, many folks were rebelling against traditional
values, and against many of the accepted institutions
in society. Also, hallucinogenic drugs were something
that became popular with many young people.

It was all about “free love”, and “make love
not war” and about promiscuity, and about
equality for everyone.

Hey, SOME of that message SOUNDS great,
and other parts absolutely not.

But regarding the positive parts, who can argue
against them? Who can argue AGAINST the
idea of treating people fairly?

And I’m not saying that there wasn’t a need
for CHANGE.  There WERE serious issues
that required attention.

But the problem is that what was changed
was not always replaced with something
BETTER, (some of it did lead to improvement) 
and in fact some of those changes resulted in
making certain things WORSE. 

It took DECADES for the full effect of this
to show, it took an entire GENERATION
raised in this world, and who had kids,
and whose kids are now growing up today
experiencing ONLY this new society, a
society that is MASSIVELY different than
society was for ALL OF HUMAN HISTORY
until just a few decades ago.

So let me get right to the morals that I am
referring to – morals that today are UNFORTUNATELY
considered by so many people to be appropriate
ONLY FOR "OLD FARTS" AND FOR DUMB
STUPID PEOPLE "LIVING IN THE PAST",
when in TRUTH these are the morals that make
ALL THE DIFFERENCE IN THE WORLD
to the very CONNECTION between man
and woman since time immemorial.

ONE: COMMITMENT FOR LIFE
 
It’s a great irony that women today are the
ones far less likely to be interested in committing
to a man at any stage in these women’s lives
where the women posses their most attractive
value.

Women are far more interested in pursuing their
own careers, their own education, and in pursuing
multiple lovers who they call boyfriends, (and
sometimes this includes female lovers as well) than
in committing to any man at a point in their lives
where having children is medically wisest and
when men are most interested in them.

I don’t know why the stereotype still exists of
women who "just want to find a good man", when
if anything it’s the complete opposite.

Young men tend to be far more idealistic about
women, and far more willing to sacrifice for them,
than vice-versa. 

It used to be considered morally virtuous
to put an EMPHASIS on COMMITMENT
when it came to the relationships between
men and women.

That COMMITMENT became associated with
virtue for a very LOGICAL REASON:

If a man and woman COMMIT to each other,
they can BOND through SEX, and they can
SUPPORT EACH OTHER- helping each
OTHER emotionally and financially, so they
can ultimately PROSPER and RAISE their
own children together in HARMONY.

From this COMMITMENT FOR LIFE,
come OFFSHOOTS that support this moral,
such as:

TWO: BEING VIGILANT AROUND MEMBERS
OF THE OPPOSITE SEX, ESPECIALLY WHEN
ONE IS IN A RELATIONSHIP
 
Anyone who denies the power of sexual attraction
between men and women is denying REALITY.

So, over the course of MILLENNIA, it became
a MORAL to behave in a way that kept some
DISTANCE between the sexes to prevent
PROBLEMS such as infidelity, promiscuity,
etc., all of which could DESTROY a relationship,
destroy a family, etc.

Today, however, due to the EROSION of
conservative values, and due to the increasing
influence of things like feminism, we
have a society where women think that not
only is it not a BAD thing for women in
relationships to be hanging out in private with
men, but that it’s actually a GOOD THING,
it’s some kind of sign of how mature and evolved
we all are- when in reality, our PHYSICAL
DRIVES are the EXACT SAME they were
thousands of years ago!

Thanks to feminists who claim men and women
are the same, most women actually THINK men are
far more like WOMEN, in the sense that WOMEN
don’t JUMP INTO SEX DRIVE mode at the mere
SIGHT or HINT of what is attractive to them.

A lot of women really DO believe that a man
WOULD enjoy just chatting for hours on end
with some woman he is completely not interested
in physically, in his FREE TIME.

And a lot of women think it is perfectly realistic to
expect that a man just happens to find a woman so
able to perfectly relate to him - better than any
GUY ever could as a fellow man.

But men are NOT this way, for the most part.

Men tend to have more in common with other men
than they have in common with women, but men are
interested sexually in women. Men will also have a
special kind of bond with their wives, girlfriends, etc.

Men hang around women they are INTERESTED IN.

If men were NOT truly this way, corporations would
not spend HUNDREDS OF BILLIONS OF DOLLARS
on using SEX to sell things to men.  For example, did
you know that McDonald’s was going to get rid of their
golden arches logo until an industry specialist showed them
how the arches actually resemble a woman’s mammaries?

Every SECOND of our lives, we are bombarded by
marketing designed to take advantage of the fact
men are INSTANTLY turned on by women they
deem attractive. I’m not saying that men can’t
CONTROL themselves, I’m just saying that men
are MASSIVELY affected by this.

And trust me, corporations don’t spend one PENNY
unless they know they are getting back their money
a hundred times over.

But if you ask a typical woman today, they will
say, SUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUURE
a man and woman can be platonic friends, of course
a man hanging out with a woman for drinks in private
in NO WAY means AT ALL that the man is INTERESTED
IN HER.

And I’m not saying that a man and woman CAN’T
be friends, I’m just saying that USUALLY when
a man is hanging around a woman in his FREE TIME,
it’s not just to enjoy the beverage of coffee or the drink
in her wonderful platonic presence.

And since women don’t understand this, they
don’t understand how this sets up a toxic environment
for the future, for at some point in the relationship
she has with her boyfriend or husband, there will
be some difficult times, and she will then be vulnerable
to the ploys of her “long trusted platonic guy friend”.

As you can see, these MORALS don’t require any
connection with religion. 

From ALL perspectives, religious or otherwise,
these morals are SMART.

Hence, why I call this area MORAL INTELLIGENCE.

Just these two morals alone, the emphasis on
COMMITMENT, and on VIGILANT behavior
in the presence of the opposite sex, have so many
corollaries, including:

A HEALTHIER PERSPECTIVE ON LOVE

Yes, love is great. And I do think one should
love their partner, but the problem is that this
love business is IMPOSSIBLE to define.

Is lust the same thing as love?

What if you lust someone today, get married,
have children, and don’t lust them tomorrow?

Love IS important, but it’s also important to
think about the difference between SHORT
TERM LOVE and LONG TERM LOVE.

And here’s where things like commitment
and a society where people RESPECT that
commitment by not fostering situations that
lead to relationship-toxic environments (such
as endless platonic friendships) would actually
SUPPORT that LONG TERM perspective on
love, as opposed to DESTROYING that perspective
with the OPPOSITE emphasis on lust and on the
IMMEDIATE MOMENT OF INSTANT SELF-
GRATIFICATION instead.

To quote from the Thornton Wilder play,
By the Skin of Our Teeth:

I didn't marry you because you were 
perfect. I didn't even marry you because
I loved you. I married you because you
gave me a promise.

That promise made up for your faults.
And the promise I gave you made up
for mine. Two imperfect people got
married and it was the promise that
made the marriage. And when our
children were growing up, it wasn't a
house that protected them; and it
wasn't our love that protected them--
it was that promise.

We are currently living in a society where
THEORETICALLY no one is pressuring you
to do anything- religion doesn't play a large
role in telling people what to do, government
doesn't tell people much about morals, and
parental figures are big on giving kids freedom,
to the extent that kids can basically boss their
parents and all other authority figures around
these days. 

And yet, since there was NO GUIDANCE when
it came to morals for so long, it left a VACUUM
that got FILLED by two major forces that absolutely
DO INFLUENCE and DO TEACH morals, just
not the kinds of morals that HELP society, but
rather that lead to its DESTRUCTION.

One of those forces includes the CORPORATE
forces, whose motivations are to sell things by banking
on people being UNAWARE of what is best for their
own lives.  And, since sex sells, we are living in a time
where men and women are taught by the marketing of
these corporations to only value a woman by her
APPEARANCE and NOT by her MORALS.

So men get brainwashed by a woman's looks
to an even GREATER degree than they naturally
would!  The halo effect of beauty is given even
MORE power, since there is no competing CULTURAL
force that also values a woman's morals- although of
course there is that BIOLOGICAL drive in men
that still wants a decent woman, it's just that this
society makes it damn hard for men to not get
CONFUSED. 

And women get brainwashed too, UNDER-ESTIMATING
how important these morals are to men.

Even the most inexperienced man who thinks a
woman is going to be as virtuous as she LOOKS
on account of her physical beauty will soon realize
how important morals actually ARE when he finds
out how she is cheating on him.

The fact that women's looks are given such
value and that their morals are given NO value
by these powerful influences in our culture is
absolutely HORRIFYING to me.

In fact, the whole EXISTENCE of morals
is ignored, since appreciating morals takes
too much THINKING to be a good sales
tactic for corporations - selling works best when
the sales pitch strikes a PRIMAL PRIMITIVE
CHORD, i.e. the sex drive.

Now, of course, if society DID value positive morals
to a higher degree, corporations would then bank on
THOSE emotions, and to a degree, some companies DO
in fact do this. For example, they create commercials
showing people behaving in inspiring humane ways.

Second, another other force that is occupying this
vacuum is feminism. These women don’t represent
the majority of women, but they are nonetheless
BRAINWASHING women into thinking that
it’s good to NOT commit to a man, that it’s
good to NOT treat a relationship as sacred,
that it’s good to pursue career ABOVE family,
above relationships, above all else, etc.

Let me wrap this up by saying that there ARE
some AMAZING women STILL out there,
who UNDERSTAND every last word that
I have written here, but these women are
RARE.

Not so rare as to be impossible to find, but rare
enough that they are not growing on trees.

You will most likely NOT meet these kind
of women overnight- you will have to PERSIST
for a while- but you can make that search
EASIER by screening them for the exact things
I have explained in this newsletter, as opposed
to just randomly choosing women and then
going out with them for weeks or months and
then only LATER finding out what a horrible
mistake it was.

You screen women by observing them, by
listening to the things they say, by being
ALERT for the things I have mentioned
in this newsletter and in my materials and
programs.

I personally feel that it IS worth every bit
of effort to find the right woman. The combination
of the sexual, the moral, and the emotional connection
such a woman adds to your life results in an effect
that is MASSIVE. 

One key to doing this EFFICIENTLY is to work
“finding women” into your regular routine.

So, for example, there may be parts of town
where there are more women than others,
so do your shopping in that part of town,
allowing you to shop and meet women at the
same time.

Similarly, there may be a gym with far more
women than other gyms- go to THAT one.

You may be a book lover- go to a bookstore
where there are MORE women than others. 

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Crucial Message On Attracting Truly Great Women

Whatever method you use to attract women will
have its own matrix. In other words, by its own design,
it will attract some women (those who match what you
are and what you project) and repel others (those who
don’t match what you are and what you project). 

Now, if you are looking for a woman of massively
high quality, for something of substance, long term,
what do you think is one of the most important factors
to her, and should be to you as well?

It’s trust.

Let’s face it, if someone is looking for a one night
stand, does a deep sense of trust really matter all that
much?  Why would it?  Aside from STD concerns, it
really is not an important factor at all.

A lot of advice out there typically pressures men to
push the envelope as far as they can when it comes to
being cocky, and using sexual humor, often in a vulgar
sense.

While I agree it’s important to feel good about sex
and your body and that a sense of humor is crucial, there
is a very fine line between being flirty and being crass,
vulgar, and lacking class. 

This is where it all boils down to what kind of woman
you are trying to attract and what type of relationship you
are trying to create. 

If you are in a nightclub or some other environment that
amounts to the same basic atmosphere, and if you truly are the
kind of guy that is looking for a one night stand, it
makes sense to be ultra physical in your approach.

It makes sense  to be touchy feely tasty, to make dirty
jokes that float between vulgar and rancid, etc., because
you are then establishing what you are looking for, and
there is a decent chance in such a place that she might
be a woman looking for the same thing.

However, this is an insane strategy if you are trying
to attract a woman who is looking for something more
meaningful. 

Whether you want to say that love is something you
value or not, the fact is, that nothing can compete with
the emotion of love, once you feel it for someone.

It’s liberating from all the negative emotions.  It
inspires you both to treat other in an amazing way.
It may have physical aspects to it like sex, but it also
transcends the physical.

When a woman loves you, she will go to the ENDS
OF THE EARTH for you, not just today, not just
tomorrow, but for her whole life.

The thing about love is that it’s different from
pure lust in the sense that it is a combination
of sex, love, romance, and wisdom as well.

That is why so few people get to experience it.

It takes using your full powers as a human being
instead of being lazy and just being a primate. 

There are great rewards for those who are willing
to put in the intelligence, the wisdom, and of
course, the heart.   

I wish that it was as obvious as it needs to be,
but it’s not, so I need to say here explicitly
and clearly that love is not based on vulgarity
or anything like that, and in fact such moves
are destructive to creating the foundation for
love. 

Love is about many things, but one of the biggest
foundations for love is one’s feeling that another person
can be trusted with one’s heart, fully.

Now, how willing would you be to share the deepest
recesses of your soul with a woman whose primary
mode of expression seemed to be crude, in your face,
and vulgar, even if it was somewhat funny?

Not much, right?

Well, it’s the same with a woman when it comes to
these things.  How much trust can she feel she can put
in you if you push too hard too fast for the physical?

What’s even worse is when men fake genuine interest. 
This kind of thing is damaging to the women who are
innocent and who are looking for something meaningful.   

The reality that most wannabe experts don’t want
you to know is that if you truly want to avoid
being cheated on, you better be damn careful about
what woman you allow into your life, (contrary to
what the "experts" say, the truth is that the
best women usually DON'T hang out at bars, dance
clubs, or lounges, so don't go looking there)
and you better make sure to become the kind of
fantastic man who is trustworthy as well.

Please, heed the following words, as these words
would have saved me years of agony: 

Immersing yourself in the wrong teachings will only
make you paranoid, insecure, and suspicious
without good reason, and will cause a great woman
to leave you. 

If you genuinely want to learn how to attract a
quality woman who will treat you right, then you
must become the kind of man who has mastered
the FULL SPECTRUM- it’s not just about attraction,
but rather also includes the ability to create a
truly deep CONNECTION as well. 

Sign up for a bootcamp with me TODAY,
and you will learn how to REALLY succeed
with approaching and attracting quality women.

And of course, if you haven’t already got my DVD
set that is all about mastering the most important
part of success with women, which is transforming
your INNER SELF to become the strongest it can
be, then definitely do that now. 

Women who are looking for a man they can truly
give themselves to need to feel that this man is
ROCK SOLID internally, in terms of his confidence,
his conviction in his good values, his ability to
resist temptation, his ability to stay calm, and much
more.

This program, called WARRIOR WITHIN, is
going to SKYROCKET your INNER SELF so
that quality women can’t help but gravitate toward
you in a way where they can’t get enough of you.

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Relationship RESCUE

I have a secret to tell you. There’s a
reason I started “Get A Great Girl”
besides the fact that I absolutely do
believe that a great woman in your life
makes EVERYTHING in your life better.

When it comes to "Get A Great Girl", for
me, it’s personal. Many years ago, I was
in an absolutely horrible relationship, with
a woman that I actually thought I was lucky
to be with. Yeah, I know, it’s crazy but
there was a time I really didn’t know
ANYTHING that was actually correct
about dating, women, and attraction.

I don’t want to play the victim card here,
so I’m not going to go on in detail about
that whole relationship, suffice to say that
when I found the courage to finally leave
it, even though I thought I might never
find someone better, I was pretty BITTER
about women.

I had grown up to believe that women DEEPLY
wanted just one man who would never take
them for granted, one man who would not
cheat on them, one man who would make
THEM a priority.

But after being an emotional punching bag
for a woman for several years, I finally came
to the conclusion that what I had grown up
to believe wasn’t necessarily true.

What really made it hard to NOT be bitter
was the fact that on the surface, this woman
seemed to be perfect. Didn’t drink, didn’t
smoke, super-studious, super-intelligent,
super-disciplined. Plus, she was on track
to an extremely well-paid profession, but
money was never something I really sought
out in a woman anyway.

So, the way I looked at it, was that if THIS
woman couldn’t behave in a way that showed
kindness, decency, loyalty in spirit and in action,
and appreciation, then NO WOMAN could.

It was wrong thinking, of course, but at the time
that’s what I thought.

So, I DESTROYED the part inside of me that
believed the stuff that I had been taught about
women just wanting one man who would
appreciate them.

It was pretty hard, since I really was passionate
about my ideals, but I figured there was no point
keeping FANTASIES alive that had just put me
into nothing but an infinite void of depression,
anger, and loneliness.

Well, the IRONY was that I felt that no matter
WHICH woman I spoke to, there was really
very little to GAIN OR TO LOSE, and in fact
I really had no interest investing my emotions
again.

Now, I still had that natural DESIRE for women,
I just didn’t feel ROMANTIC about them.

I actually really DID feel that “Han Solo” attitude
toward women, where a woman could be a total
stunning beauty, and she could tell me whatever
she thought was her claim to fame, and internally
I felt like, “Yeah, whatever you say, Princess”
SARCASTICALLY.

So OF COURSE, I was not going to kiss up.
Of COURSE I had zero INTEREST in proving
myself. The thought of “proving myself” repulsed
me, because I was not going to do a song and a dance
to impress any woman for the rest of my life no
matter what.

Well what do you know?
This attitude, which was not fake, was making
women very attracted. Approaching women and
not being interested, and not kissing up,and
showing zero romantic feeling, was resulting
in women, gorgeous women, suddenly not only
agreeing to go out with me, but when I would
want to politely end things because I didn't feel
we were compatible, every single one of these  
women INSISTED that I continue to give them
a chance.

Suddenly, my attitude, which was not “fake”
was resulting in me having to WORK HARD
to CONVINCE women to NOT CALL ME.

I went from being a guy who was trying so
hard to CONVINCE a woman to have a few
MINUTES for me, to suddenly having gorgeous
women trying to convince ME why they were
the right ones for me, and why I should give
them a chance, etc.

I had to WORK HARD to get women to
STOP contacting me.

Well, all this REALLY upset me, because
it REINFORCED what the grouchy old men
at the gym used to tell me and the other dudes
about women, and I ALWAYS figured those
guys were just bitter old men who never had
any luck with any women.

But then, it all seemed TRUE.
It seemed like the old advice of “never treat
them well or they will abuse you” and “if
you want to get respect make sure you show
them you’re not interested” was right on.

So there I was, with lots of women, but not
feeling CLOSE in an emotional sense, with
any of them, since, after all, it seemed to me
that ANY TYPE OF ACTUAL CARING
shown by ME would result in LOSING all
this, although to be honest, I didn’t really
care about it that much anyway since without
really feeling any true emotion besides lust,
there really is nothing special going on.

Well, well, well, then something happened.
I met this woman. And this woman, although
human and not a saint and not perfect, was
REALLY, REALLY, REALLY amazing to me.

But I figured she was being that way BECAUSE
of the fact that I didn’t seem to care too much.

But unlike the other women, she seemed to know
what had happened to me, without me saying a
word. And she would keep asking me to stop
being so damn cold, to actually let her know
that I cared about her.

I figured this was all a test to see if I was strong
or if I was going to melt. It actually got me upset
that she was trying to, from my perspective, turn
me into the kind of guy that women, including
her, DON’T want.

Anyway, to make a long story short, this woman
KEPT on trying to give me a chance, but I figured
that this was ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL
a big TEST to see if I was a “cool pick up artist
kind of dude” or if I was a “pathetic regular guy
who experiences romantic feelings for a woman”.

This woman, for the most part, was a GIVER.
She was not STINGY with her emotions.

She was a true "family values" person as well.
She had a career, but it was not like she felt
that life was all about, or only about, being a
"career woman".  In other words, she had
not been brainwashed by all the insanity in
our culture.  She knew there were other
things in life more sacred.

At the time though, I figured this was just
an act.

Ultimately, this woman just felt she was not
getting the emotional stuff she needed and
the whole thing crashed.

I was sure I had done the right thing by not
“giving in”, but as more and more time came
to pass, I realized that this woman was in fact
a DIFFERENT PERSONALITY WITH DIFFERENT
VALUES AND PRIORITIES than the other
woman I had been with.

My lack of knowledge DESTROYED something
that was not only GOOD, but was also a very
FITTING match. However, because of my previous
experiences, it negatively impacted my perception
of her.

Great women, women who are not interested in
your money, who are not afraid to give you
unbridled passion and love, women who are
honest and who make you the ultimate priority,
are RARE.

These kinds of women are making a MASSIVE
emotional investment in a man, so it makes sense
that they want to be CAREFUL about which
kind of man they get to know.

They are NOT looking for a player.
They are not looking for a jaded man or
a boring dweeb, either, but they are
certainly not looking for a player.

Since that day many years ago, I have devoted
my life to helping men get the kind of quality
woman that really makes all the difference.

I saw the difference that it made in my own
life, to be able to see the difference in
types of women, and to be able to also
become more SELF-AWARE as to all the ways
we can subconsciously DISTORT reality and
thus SABOTAGE what could be awesome relationships
with fantastic women.

One of the areas I have poured years of work
into is learning how to know when the problem
is with the WOMAN you’ve met, i.e. she is
abusive, versus when the problem is actually
your own perception of the situation or the
actions you are doing.

This was really hard work, because for me,
it started with being truly objective and being
able to see where my own insecurities were
WARPING things, and being able to see
EXACTLY how they were doing these
distortions, and being able to see the TRUTH
about a woman and about myself.

After spending so many years learning about
relationships and gaining the ability to see
various perspectives, I became REALLY
good at knowing when a woman really WAS an
amazing person, and when a woman really
was a taker, abuser, etc.

These things are not that easy to detect because
abusive people tend to be very good at masking
their abuse and making the abused person feel
like it is his/her fault.

What I want to say here, is that if you are in
a relationship experiencing problems, I may be
able to help you RESCUE YOUR RELATIONSHIP.

I will tell you the TRUTH about the situation.
I will let you know if there is something YOU
need to do to change about yourself, or the way
you are doing things, or if this situation really
is all about the woman you are with, and if she
really is someone you should move on from.

I am very, VERY good at detecting the truth
about relationship situations, and it would bring
me massive pleasure to know I have saved a
relationship that truly DESERVED saving.

And if you are in a truly toxic relationship,
where you really need to just get out of there,
will let you know as well.

By the way, having these skills, and the ability
to understand what is really happening in a
relationship, is in ITSELF massively attractive
to a woman, because it will allow you to be
able to CONNECT with her VERY FAST.

The ability to see things as they really are
in terms of what a woman is saying and meaning
is MASSIVELY important to a woman. She feels
this means not only will you understand her
now and in the future, but also that you will
not fall prey to insecurities that will make
you distort the reality of any future situation
between you and her.

CONNECTION is one of the most
UNDER-RATED yet SUPER SIGNIFICANT
elements of a successful approach, especially
with a really fantastic quality woman.

If you would like a consultation with me about
ANY dating or relationship issue, contact me
by email with a time you would like to speak.

Time is precious, both yours and mine, and
consultations are charged by the hour.

Till next time,

Michael Marks 
http://www/getagreatgirl.com

Why Having PRIDE In Your Good Values Is ATTRACTIVE To Women

One of the great TRAGEDIES of modern
times is that actually BEING A GOOD MAN
is not as celebrated as it used to be,
and this in itself has caused a lot of
good guys to actually be good QUIETLY
AND SECRETLY so as not to get labelled
UNCOOL, or simply because they think
it is wrong to have this pride.

Well, if you are one of those good
guys with good values, and you seek
a woman with good values as well,
you REALLY need to be PROUD AS
HELL ABOUT THEM!

I sure hope you are feeling the
PRIDE that you should be experiencing,
because not only of course is it just a
cool thing on its own, but science has
shown that women find PRIDE in men
to be attractive.

What is insane is that the SLEAZY
guys seem to have no problem high-fiving
each other for being sleaze bags and
screwing around and promoting things
like infidelity and cheating, while
the GOOD GUYS are so good, they think
they need to be good quietly.

Not only does having more pride in being
who you are end up inspiring OTHER people,
but it actually helps you with WOMEN
big-time.

A while ago, I sent out an important
newsletter regarding how women find
men with PRIDE to be more attractive,
as well as how, in a study on these
matters, men smiling seemed to
be less attractive to women than
men who were not smiling.

Also, in that newsletter, I mentioned
how for women, it was actually reversed,
that in fact smiling INCREASED a woman's
attractiveness, and PRIDE actually
DIMINISHED her attractiveness.

I thought it was important to not only
resend out that newsletter, but to make
it clear that none of this means that
the solution is to go around with a
FROWN on your face or being all upset
or negative.

If you remember, in another recent newsletter,
I mentioned how HAPPINESS is actually
an attractive quality and makes you
more likely to succeed with women.

Yet the key to remember, is that happiness
can take many forms.  It does not have
to only take the form of a big smile
on one's face. 

So, for example, a runner who has just
completed a marathon, or a leader who
works exhausting hours but is impacting
many people in a positive way, may not
have smiles on their faces, but they may
very well be experiencing a deep sense of
inner joy/peace/meaning/contentment/inspiration.

In the book, The How Of Happiness, this
definition of happiness is explained, and if
you study my actual programs and materials,
you will see how these ideas are integrated,
for example in my book "Get A Great Girl" I
discuss how having CONVICTION in your
values, your beliefs, is attractive, as opposed
to just doing them to make SOMEONE
ELSE happy.

Being a quality man is not about just
having good values because it attracts
women, it is because they are what
give you a sense of meaning no matter
WHAT.  INCLUDING a sense of PRIDE.

And of course, the irony, is that THIS
is super attractive, when a woman knows
this is your CORE.

And by the way, these are all GENUINE
studies conducted by a respected university.

So here we go:

Since day one, the biggest thing to me has
been to stay AWAY from all gimmicks.

I ONLY CARE ABOUT EVIDENCE.
BOATLOADS of solid EVIDENCE.

And MAN, do I have a BIG one for you today.

In fact, if you read my very first book,
The Dating Wizard, which was published
in 2003, you can see that I was against the
use of all sorts of gimmicks back then, and
that this book teaches how you can truly
BECOME the man that women want instead
of how to put on an "act".

One of the biggest things I have been teaching
throughout the years are things that fly in the
face of "accepted practice", and that’s because
"accepted practices" such as smiling at women
and showing them how NICE I could be got me
NOWHERE with women.

On the other hand, as I started to become far
LESS NICE, and did a LOT LESS SMILING, I
noticed way, way, WAYYYYYYYYYYYYY
better results.

This used to drive me nuts, and I couldn’t figure
it out, as I used to think women loved MEAN men.

Then, I finally realized that it was all about a
tiny SUBTLETY – it was about the SUBTLE
messages being given off by all that smiling
and niceness.

The message was:
"I HAVE LOW  VALUE AND STATUS AND WILL
KISS YOUR BUTT JUST FOR THE CHANCE
TO BE WITH YOU."

And women, across ALL cultures and geographic
regions of the PLANET, are not attracted to men
who behave with LOW confidence, men who
behave as if they have no POWER.

In other words, men with no PRIDE.
So, you COULD smile at a woman, but the fact
is, the way MOST men smile at women who
are hot is a SUBMISSIVE smile.

It is not the kind of smile that says YOU want ME.
It’s a smile that says the following:

"I want YOU but I don't have the value to be
WORTHY of you. Therefore, I am going to SHOW
you through this smile how much I will SERVE
you, be submissive to you, and do whatever
you want, because I feel that is a fair deal
since YOU have the value and I don't'."

And there's MORE.
The "MORE" is the fact that CHANGING YOUR
PHYSIOLOGY, i.e. TAKING ON THE FACIAL
EXPRESSIONS OF CONVICTION, PRIDE,
CONFIDENCE, ETC, ACTUALLY END UP
MAKING YOU FEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEL
THOSE EMOTIONS AS WELL!!!!!!

And when you FEEL something, you end up
showing it even MORE CONVINCINGLY
SINCE IT IS NOT AN ACT.  

And, ultimately, a woman feels far more DESIRABLE
when the desire is coming from a man who KNOWS
he is wanted and who ALSO wants HER.

After all, if a man feels he has no value, then his
desire for her is NOT as flattering as it would be
if he KNEW and FELT and BEHAVED like he
was the ULTIMATE man.

Yes, women DO want to be lusted after, but it has
to be by a man who isn't behaving as if HE has
no worth.

So, for example, you could even TELL a woman
a compliment IF that compliment is delivered
in a way that shows you BELIEVE she will be
FLATTERED by it, rather than if you believe
you NEED to do those kinds of things to
get her to "agree" to be with you.

And I have received an important email from a cool guy
with yet even MORE RESEARCH that PROVES
every thing I have been saying.

In fact, not only is MALE PRIDE something that is
viewed by women as making men MORE attractive,
but FEMALE PRIDE is viewed by men as making
women seem LESS attractive, and also men SMILING
seems to HURT men's "attractiveness" while WOMEN
SMILING seems to IMPROVE women's attractiveness.

So much for the B.S. advice that boys have been brainwashed
to believe by politically correct forces of how women just
want a "SMILING NICE guy".    

This doesn't mean that you should never smile.
That would be insane advice for me to give.
What it means is that men should stop TRYING SO HARD
TO SMILE SO MUCH TO MAKE WOMEN HAPPY,
SINCE WOMEN DON'T EVEN LIKE IT ANYWAY!

There is a REASON that in all of CLINT EASTWOOD'S
MOVIES, he almost NEVER smiles, and it is not a
COINCIDENCE that he was (and probably still is by
many women) considered so absolutely DESIRABLE.

His characters were NOT the SMILEY types
His characters DID have TONS of pride.

He DID have a sense of conviction, meaning,
contentment, and of course pride, to his
demeanor.

Same thing with the BOND character.
He doesn't smile much, but he sure has LOADS of PRIDE.

Not smiling does not mean not happy
or not feeling good about one's self.

If you think of the character of ROCKY,
in all those matches, his face is bloodied,
but UNBOWED, and his expression oozes pride. 

And also, when you think of the WOMEN that men have
been CRAZY ATTRACTED TO, the most COMMON
stereotype is a woman who SMILES GENUINELY
and who does NOT come across as having too much
pride or arrogance.

Think of, for example, MARILYN MONROE.

This is UNIVERSAL across cultures.

It is HOGWASH when SOME feminists say that
"it’s just a matter of "culture" and environment that
makes men prefer women who DO smile, who DO
behave friendly."

Men do NOT get turned on by the same behaviors
in women as women get turned on by in MEN.

It makes SENSE, that men, who have more TESTOSTERONE,
won't be SMILING as much as women.  It makes sense, that
a man with PRIDE in fact WOULD be more attractive to
a woman, because it would mean he is a man who is an
ACHIEVER/PROTECTOR/PROVIDER or all THREE.

It makes SENSE that a man would find a woman who seemed
GENUINELY FRIENDLY to be ATTRACTIVE, because
she would be WARM to him, she would be TRUSTWORTHY
to be the MOTHER of his children and to be a CARING
MOTHER and more than just a sexual companion but
rather a sexual companion that would be loyal.  

Men should exhibit PROUD expressions and
women should exhibit FRIENDLY expressions
IF they want to be at their "sexiest".

Here are some quotes from the study by
Jessica L. Tracy and Alec T. Beall from the
University of British Columbia concerning
"The Impact of Emotion Expressions on Sexual
Attraction."

"Across two studies using different images
and samples ranging broadly in age (total N _ 1041),
a large gender difference emerged in the sexual
attractiveness of happy displays: happiness was
the most attractive female emotion expression,
and one of the least attractive in males.

In contrast, pride showed the reverse pattern;
it was the most attractive male expression, and
one of the least attractive in women."

The study also goes on to say that while smiling
may be SOCIALLY the right thing to do for
both men and women, it HARMS men’s initial
attractiveness to women, but it INCREASES
women’s attractiveness.

This is why for MEN, not exactly trying to "fit in"
is often PART of what makes a man attractive, even
though it costs him some social points with the
rest of society.

So now you can understand why so many women
LOVE "bad boys" but why most men don't find
"bad girls" to be sexy.

But you don’t HAVE to be a "bad boy", you just
have to behave with DOMINANCE.

Going too far with being a "bad boy" will
DESTROY your relationships. Ultimately,
if your behavior makes her feel WORSE
rather than better, then you're going
too far.

And if you haven't yet got my E-Book called
"Get A Great Girl" then do that NOW.
A lot of guys out there take the "don't
be a nice guy" advice OUT OF CONTEXT
and end up destroying their chances with
women.

If you plan on actually getting a quality
girlfriend, and KEEPING her, you NEED to
get this book IMMEDIATELY.

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Book.html

I also suggest you subscribe to my important
new monthly program on attracting quality
women, it's called 'The Quality Man', and
it's at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/thequalityman.html

If you would like to book a private
consultation with me regarding any
dating or relationship issue, simply
email me with the best time that works
for you, and I will get back to you
asap.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Being The Quality Man To Attract A Quality Woman

If you’ve been reading this newsletter or
have taken or studied any of my programs,
you already know that QUALITY is
far more important to me than QUANTITY.

This is true in many ways.
First of all, regarding women themselves.
So “Get A Great Girl” is not about how to
get tons of women, it’s about how to get
a truly fantastic woman inside and out.

Secondly, regarding my programs and videos,
I’ve preferred to keep the CONTENT QUALITY    
at the maximum rather than just churn out
a trillion products, videos, and articles.

Since day one, I've stayed away from gimmicks,

novelties, and other fads.

I could easily have pursued the quantity
approach instead of the quality approach,
but not only did I refuse to lower the quality
of the content, I also RESPECT YOUR TIME.

So I think it is abusive when dealing with
such a serious subject as how to get the woman
of your dreams that you will share the greatest
intimacy with, by telling men that they should
be spending all their precious time on yet
MORE programs or articles or videos, unless
it is just something a guy wants to do for
personal entertainment.

To me, though, personally, I think time is
SUPER FREAKING PRECIOUS, and that
there is no such thing as FREE time.

So what I’ve done over the years is released
only the absolute best programs, without
REHASHING the same exact things over
and over again.

I understand how for many people in this field,
this is just a business. For me, though, this is
a PASSION, it call came from my own struggle
with these issues. And to me, it was never about
just “getting physical” with women, it was about
actually getting the kind of woman I was genuinely
interested in for the long-term on ALL levels,
including, absolutely, the physical as well, but
not limited ONLY to that.

So what I have done over the years is created
the most powerful programs that are also the
most EFFICIENT for you as well, so that you
SAVE TIME.

At the same time, however, one can ALWAYS
further improve themselves in ANY area with
further learning.

So for a long time, I racked my brain on how to
CONTINUE to help you improve, and continue
to give you NEW content of the HIGHEST QUALITY,
in a way that is also SUPER EFFICIENT for you
in terms of TIME, and also even in terms
of MONEY.  I actually think that TIME is
far more precious than money.

Then I figured it out:  If you can spare one hour
a month, I can give you the most CUTTING
EDGE, new strategies and insights for SKYROCKETING
your results with women in every way.

From learning the best methods to approach women,
to start conversations, to capture her interest, to
building intimacy, to screening women for the
right characteristics, to giving you unstoppable
confidence, to building a deep sense of connection,
to developing a powerful and quick sense of humor,
and much, much more.

How Will You Get These Important Strategies
and Insights for Skyrocketing Your Success?

Through a special brand-spanking new audio program
every month, featuring my absolute LATEST and most
effective strategies for skyrocketing your results with
women.

Each new issue of this audio magazine is at least one HOUR.

These programs will be a special instant download,
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And get this: I’ve set the subscription price for
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Think about it: Every month, you get to STAY on the
cutting edge of success with women, ahead of the rest
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In that one hour, you are going to get a MASSIVE
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For a ridiculously awesome and easy price.

                       How Does It Work?

Simple, on the first of every month, you will receive
an email with a special private link for downloading
the newest issue of this "audio magazine". 

Plus, there’s nothing to wait for in the mail, as
it is available for you as an INSTANT DOWNLOAD
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So you are getting the fastest delivery, and the
greatest in privacy as well.

A Little Edge with Women Makes All the Difference

In life, the winner is often the person who just had
a LITTLE TINY ADVANTAGE compared to
everyone else, because all things being equal,
that advantage is what made all the difference.

In a sprint, the winner usually only wins by a
SPLIT second, but HE is the WINNER.  That
TINY BIT makes a HUGE difference.

And again, I can’t emphasize enough how important
QUALITY is.  Quality is everything.  QUANTITY does
not work for those who want supreme results.

Only QUALITY works for those who are serious
about WINNING.

The name of this monthly program is The Quality Man.
I’ve given it this name because in life, like attracts like.
Getting a great woman is all about being the greatest
man you can be.

This monthly program is all about becoming even
BETTER than you already are. It’s about never-ending
improvement.

The first issue will be released on May 1.
To get this first issue, you must subscribe by
April 20, 2014.

Subscribe NOW by clicking HERE immediately.

Sincerely,

Michael Marks  

 

Actions For Getting The RIGHT Woman

This is going to be one of the most important

articles I have ever written on getting the

RIGHT woman. The article is comprised of 

two very DIFFERENT yet VITAL aspects to 

getting a quality woman. 

The first part deals with how to properly

SCREEN a woman for the right values for

a great long-term relationship.  The second

part deals with how to actually best approach

a woman who is a total stranger no matter

WHERE you see her or find her.

So, let’s get to the SCREENING part first,

because it is the only way to prevent wasting

years of your life on the wrong women who

will bring you misery, heartache, and who

may even drain you financially.

Now, remember, this is all about getting a

GREAT woman, a woman who is the kind

of woman who you can TRUST, who will

be there through hell and high water, who

will truly last the test of time, a woman who

is strong in her noble convictions and who

is a positive person and who is also wise and

not naïve.

And to find THIS kind of woman, you need to realize one thing: THE MAJORITY OF WOMEN ARE NOT GOING TO BE THE RIGHT ONES!

If you don’t believe me, just check out the

dating profiles of ANY random sampling

of 10, 20, 100, or even a THOUSAND

profiles of women on any internet dating

site.

I don’t even emphasize internet dating, I prefer

to approach women in real life, but still to just

get an idea of what is going on in the minds

of most women (and trust me, many men are

misguided as well) all you have to do is

see what women say about THEMSELVES

in their dating profiles.

They say things like “I like travelling and going out to

great restaurants. I LOVE funny movies and I have a

great sense of humor.  I am a wonderful/nice/great

person.”

And of course, if you look at what women are LOOKING

for in a guy, you will see SIMILAR things, such as
“I’m looking for a guy who likes to travel, who enjoys

going out to restaurants, and who has a great sense of

humor.”

These things are so ARBITRARY and not truly VITAL

to relationships, these women may as well say that what

they are really looking for a guy in a relationship is for him

to be able to stand on one foot while reciting the national

anthem backwards and wearing a polka-dot tutu. 

WHAT THE *----* ??????????????????????

Remember, this is what women think is IMPORTANT

to tell men.  Women think THIS is what makes a woman

a great woman to date, to get into a relationship with,

to possibly consider as great girlfriend material, and

possibly WIFE material.

The freaking truth, though, is that if you are in a

RELATIONSHIP with someone, then aside from

physical chemistry,  the BIGGEST thing that matters

is how this person TREATS YOU EVERY SINGLE

TIME YOU INTERACT WITH THEM!!!!!!!!!!!

After all, a relationship is not a one-night stand. It is

a RELATIONSHIP.  That means you RELATE to

each other, you CONNECT on a regular basis.

If you get into a SERIOUS relationship, you might

even be moving in together. And of course, if you

get married you will interact a LOT with each other.

That is, if BOTH PEOPLE in the relationship KNOW

how to do relationships RIGHT.  The truth is, most

relationships are headed toward DISINTEGRATION

because one or both parties are IGNORANT of how

to do relationships right, and most relationships will

end and ironically they will not be relating to each

other for very long.

So, back to the main point, which I need to repeat:

The BIGGEST thing that matters in relationships is how this person TREATS YOU EVERY SINGLE TIME YOU INTERACT WITH THEM!!!!!!!!!!!

Instead of women looking for arbitrary qualities in men, 

and instead of women trying to impress men by listing

the arbitrary qualities the women have, qualities that 

have nothing to do with relationships, women SHOULD 

be describing what DOES matter. (Men, of course, should

also be focusing on what DOES matter.)

A woman should go on to GREAT lengths to describe

the level of DEDICATION that she will give to the right 

MAN in her life.

Women should describe in PAINSTAKING DETAIL

just how LOYAL they will be.

They should pour their heart out and write for DAYS

about their ability to LISTEN and to make you feel

UNDERSTOOD.

They should write POETRY on how intense their

love for you and your future family will be, and on

how that will be their greatest priority.

WHO GIVES A FLYING F--- ABOUT THE FACT THEY LIKE TO EAT IN RESTAURANTS AND TRAVEL?

Doesn’t EVERYBODY like these things?

It all boils down to one thing: Selfishness, which ironically, ROBS them of the joy of having ANY long-lasting love in their lives, thereby keeping their lives empty, thereby reinforcing MORE of the need for temporary distractions.

Don’t get me wrong.  I think a sense of humor is great. Restaurants, and travelling, all cool stuff. You just don’t need a RELATIONSHIP for that stuff.   

What these women are saying, in effect, is that they 

think THEY are the only things that are really important, 

and also they are even saying that the MAIN thing in a guy

is his ability to participate in these NON-PARTICULARLY

RELATIONSHIP TYPE activities, such as traveling,

going out to dinner, and joking around. 

But alas, the story does not end there. All you need to do is check out the dating profiles of women who have BABIES or small KIDS at home and who were also previously married and are now divorced.

What do you know? For some odd reason,

the profiles of THESE women tend to

(not always, but MOST of the time) be

VERY DIFFERENT.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

You will notice that these women seem to understand the importance of things like COMMITMENT, LOYALTY, and suddenly they are not so concerned about whether you are into travelling and restaurants and could really care less if you happen to be particularly funny or not.

You will suddenly see terms like KINDNESS

appearing with greater frequency.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

How INTERESTING.

So, basically, once women have been through the ringer, they find out that choosing a man based on STUPID REASONS  does not work well, and they suddenly start to choose men based on criteria relevant to EVERY SINGLE DAY OF EVERY SINGLE RELATIONSHIP!!!!

So, what I am SAYING here is that you need to STOP following the MASSES.  You need to REALIZE what to look for in a woman.

And once you really KNOW what you are looking

for, it becomes EASIER to know if a woman is

right or not.  She will tell you ALL YOU NEED

TO KNOW ABOUT HER in just a few MINUTES,

because most women think they are actually on the

RIGHT path, so they feel they have nothing to hide!

So just let a woman wax on to you how she is really

into concerts, into restaurants, into traveling, and

if she never gets into how she is going to treat the

MAN in her life, then FORGET HER.

People tend to SPEAK about what is on their MINDS.

So if a woman isn’t REALLY looking for a man for

all the RIGHT reasons, you will KNOW from the

way she is talking and what she is talking about.

If a woman IS in the right head-space for a relationship,

if she DOES know what is important, if she really

CARES about the right things in a relationship,

if she really WANTS  to give and to get the right

dedication, kindness, loyalty, and wisdom, then

she will MAKE IT CLEAR through her words

AND her actions.

If she IS NOT DOING THIS, then DUMP HER,

AND DUMP HER FAST.

Your life is precious, you don’t get ONE second

back of it, EVER.  Don’t WASTE it on the

wrong women. 

And if you happen to be WEALTHY, this is

even MORE important for you, as some women

will try harder to figure out what it is YOU care

about in order to try to make it seem like they

would be a good match for you when they really

are NOT. 

You have to be careful not to FOOL yourself into

thinking this woman is SINCERELY dedicated

if she is NOT.  ACTIONS speak louder than words,

and CONSISTENCY is key. See if she is REALLY

consistent in her words and actions over the span

of TIME.  And try to HIDE THE FACT that you

have wealth.  Don’t act like a beggar, but don’t

try to get women through flaunting your wealth,

or you are REALLY going to make your life

difficult because you are going to invite the

greatest actresses of all time into your life and

I don’t mean that in a good way.

Don’t let wishful thinking fool you.

Remember, this company is called Get A GREAT Girl.

It isn’t called GET ALL THE GIRLS.

You are going to have to SCREEN like crazy.

Now, I want to make it CLEAR that I

am not telling guys to be so negative that

they don’t take POSITIVE action, as you

MUST get out there and in fact you may

have to meet even MORE women than

guys who are just looking for one-night

stands because you are looking for the

RIGHT traits that are harder to find. 

And I’d like to give you a GREAT method for how to approach women without relying on pick-up lines or anything else artificial.

Here’s what you do:

You FOCUS your attention on the woman you

are about to chat up. You OBSERVE her with

SHERLOCK HOLMES level observation skills.

I mean this figuratively, to say that you really

focus on observing her to your best ability,

and then you SAY something about what

you have observed.

The key is to try to find something that is not too easy for EVERYONE to see right away.  So if she is wearing a bright red hat, that’s a little too obvious to comment on, but even THAT is okay for STARTING the conversation.

Then, you wait to see if she RESPONDS with anything as a reply to you.      

The greater your INITIAL observation, the

greater the chance she WILL respond, and

not only will she respond, but she will respond

with a great deal of CONTENT as her reply.

You then OBSERVE AND LISTEN TO HER REPLY super-keenly, and you focus on what you can DEDUCE from what she is saying, ESPECIALLY if you can deduce something about HER, thereby setting things up for her NEXT RICH REPLY to you, setting up a fantastic cycle for you.

Now, if you do this RIGHT, she will actually START TO OBSERVE THINGS ABOUT YOU.

Women are BETTER at this stuff than most

men, so they will APPRECIATE what you

are doing and do the same back for you,

giving HER a chance to also learn about you.

So for example, even if you remarked on her choice of magazine she is reading, and you said, “I can see you enjoy photography”, (or architecture, or poetry, or WHATEVER the magazine is about, i.e. fashion) she might say back to you something like, “Yeah, I’m thinking of getting a new camera”, to which you might reply, “So you already have a camera, but your skill has taken you to a higher level of camera”, etc, etc.

It’s about LISTENING, and it’s about FOCUS.

Women are GREAT at sizing up your 

communication skills, and this will

make a GREAT impression, plus of course

it actually DOES allow you to create a

smooth flowing conversation.

After a few minutes of this, you are already

way past the stranger barrier, and just go

into “normal” conversation, so long as you

keep it chilled out, interesting and positive.

So, as you can see, I care about BOTH ends of the SPECTRUM: I care about making sure you know how to SCREEN for the RIGHT woman, and I also care about making sure you get the SKILL to actually MEET these women and make the best impression in the first place.    

I suggest you take a BOOTCAMP with me where

you will get the skills to meet LOTS of women and

make the best impressions immediately, and where

you will also learn how to SCREEN women quickly.

Bootcamp is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

I also have an entire ARMY of programs at your

disposal, and each and EVERY single one of them

is IMPORTANT.  I’m not here to make you panic,

BUT I can promise you these programs contain

PURE GOLD for getting SUCCESS with women.

If there are any of these programs that you don’t

own yet, this is the time to get them. Every second

you waste is a second that never comes back.

I personally wish I had learned all these things that

I now teach when I was back in HIGH SCHOOL,

but I’m still super thankful that I finally learned

them years later. 

Get these skills and vital insights NOW by getting

these programs IMMEDIATELY. 

They’re at:

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Till next time,

Michael Marks