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Sunday, November 15, 2015

The No-Bullshit Book On How To Succeed With Women Today

If you want success with women, that goal has now become a MILLION times easier for you than it ever was before. 

A Brand-New Book That Cuts Past All The B.S.

I’ve just completed a new "mini-book" that cuts past all the total BULLSHIT out there and gets right to the part about what you need to do to SUCCEED at approaching women and ATTRACTING women.

It even gives you the "NITTY-GRITTY" on how and where to find truly GOOD women who appreciate good men.

When it comes to meeting and attracting women, things have CHANGED over the last few years. Not only in terms of attracting women, but also in terms of finding a quality woman for a fantastic relationship.

For most men, it has become harder than ever to find and to attract a fantastic woman who would make a great long-term girlfriend.


The Most EFFICIENT Way To Attract Women

This book SOLVES all of that for you, and it takes you all the way from first seeing a woman anywhere, all the way to mastering relationships as well.

As you probably know by now, the world is FLOODED with bullshit in just about EVERY area, from fitness advice to financial advice to dating advice. The reason for this is because BULLSHIT is what sells, since it caters to stupidity, ignorance, and laziness.

So this new book that I’ve completed is NOT for any guy who enjoys BULLSHIT.

It is for men who value TRUTH, men who can APPRECIATE rock-solid advice that takes into account the most COMPLETE picture of reality and the long-term situation with women. 


It's The No-Bullshit Book on Success with Women Today.
                                                       
       

You will also learn the most advanced insights into understanding exactly why most men fail when it comes to relationships, and more importantly, you will learn the SOLUTIONS for these issues.

Plus, you will learn the TRUTH about what is happening today that is affecting all of mankind in a way that DRASTICALLY influences your interactions with all women, and how to protect yourself from its destructive impact.

And, you will learn MUCH more as well.
It’s $19.97.

This book is ONLY full of GOLD. It is BRIEF, and in a world with "information overload" and too little time, this is yet another powerful benefit of this book- it gives you the PRECIOUS insights fast! You don't need to spend hours and hours trying to get through it.

You can read it and literally be using it to attract women in MINUTES from now.

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It’s 29 pages of pure GOLD. It does not contain filler bullshit.

This book is IMPORTANT, no matter which program or programs you may already have from me. It represents the absolute cutting-edge in strategies and insights for your success in attracting and keeping a great woman who is beautiful both inside and out.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Saturday, September 5, 2015

The Truth And Nothing But The Truth When It Comes To Success With Women

For over 12 years now, I've been motivated by learning the truth about women and attraction. The truth may not be what sells, but in the end, it's the only thing that's important and the only way to actually get where you want to go.

So, for example, when the best-selling book called The Game came out, millions of men believed it all and they all thought that the best way and only way to really meet and attract women was by using pick-up lines.  

Even before the book had come out, I was telling the author on a Forum website devoted to the topic of dating and attraction that actually pick-up lines were not necessary- and I was already proving how to do the entire "pick up" in a more natural and effective way. 

Well, it only took the seduction/pick up artist community about 6 YEARS to finally realize that what I was saying was true. And not just in night clubs, but in meeting women ANYWHERE.

In fact, that was the NEXT thing that I was light-years ahead of- the whole idea that you can't usually meet the best kinds of women in night-clubs, because an attractive woman who also has her act together in terms of her morals, behaviors, and attitudes is not likely to want to go to a nightclub very often.  

The reason is because she ALREADY gets too much attention from the wrong guys, and the last place she wants to go is a place where she is going to be BOMBARDED by a bunch of drunk or tipsy guys who just want to get physical- if she just wanted that, she could meet a guy like that ANY second of ANY day. 

But again, it took MANY YEARS for those brainwashed by the effects of "group think" in the pick-up artist world, to SEE and BELIEVE what I had been teaching for many YEARS.

And by the way, of course, none of these guys would dare to give me one DROP of credit for all this, of course, because that would mean possibly encouraging guys to actually THINK rather than just listen to whatever they (the gurus) said.

And so I was explaining that the best way to meet a great woman is when these women are simply out and about doing their thing- getting groceries, going to the coffee shop, at the library, etc. 

Now, you still have to SCREEN women because ALL women are out there doing their thing, so you have to find the right ones through screening, but if you focus on nightclubs, you have to realize that the women in nightclubs are AWARE of the fact that it's a place where people go to drink and where for the most part, men are paying to meet women and not the other way around. 

So you have to ask yourself what kind of attractive woman needs to go there regularly, unless she is either looking for attention or promiscuous.  

But just because a woman is out and about during the day or evening in a place that is not a club, does not mean she is great girlfriend material.

This is another FACT that the pick up artist community wants to HIDE from you, or maybe doesn't even KNOW- but it's DAMN IMPORTANT THAT YOU DO KNOW- and that you know how to screen.

Here's ANOTHER thing they don't tell you:
WOMEN AND MEN ARE NOT THE SAME SEXUALLY


There is a TON of evidence that female nature is different from male nature.

So, for example, there was the famous experiment where 100 MEN were approached by a woman on a university campus, who were offered by the woman a chance to sleep with her, and almost EVERY man said yes.

Then, when the same experiment was set up on campus where 100 WOMEN were approached by a man for sex, EVERY WOMAN said no.

Source for this, by the way is: http://www.elainehatfield.com/79.pdf

And recently in the whole "Ashley Madison" news story, it turned out that almost NO MEN were actually MEETING ANY WOMEN-because in reality there were BARELY ANY WOMEN ON THE SITE---something the site tried to keep a secret!

The whole site was driven by MEN who WANTED to meet women, and who THOUGHT there were tons of women on these sites, but in reality, there were almost NO women on these sites, and the website had to actually FABRICATE the IDEA that there WERE tons of women on the site, in order to keep sucking in the men who were, unfortunately, looking for an affair.

But the point here is a LARGER point- that FEMALE NATURE is not as IMMEDIATELY driven by the same kind of sexual desire as MALE nature.

And YET, pick up artist after pick up artist KEEPS ON TELLING MEN that SECRETLY allllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll the women out there really want to SLEEP with a PLAYER, and are just BURSTING AT THE SEEMS to have sex with some guy who knows the MAGIC SECRET.

The TRUTH is, it's only a certain PERCENTAGE of women that are like this, and although their are, in ABSOLUTE terms, quite a few of these women, in terms of their actual percentage of the population of women, they are SUPER LOW and DO NOT REPRESENT THE NATURE OF MOST WOMEN.

But the majority of the pick up artist community wants you to think ALL women secretly just want to be promiscuous or in general that they have the same nature as men- so that you will think that since all women are really promiscuous anyway, you might as well join them since there is no point looking for a GREAT GIRLFRIEND that is not going to cheat on you or disrespect you, etc.

And again, most men, who just want to meet a great woman, will actually SCREW THEMSELVES BADLY by having the wrong picture of women and of reality.

And it's a bit sad, what is going on. You see, at one time, the promiscuous men and women knew to hang out at night clubs to meet their own types.

But now, thanks to GREED and the commercialization of human needs like love, sex, and affection, pick up artists are branching out into what used to be normal places- like EVERYWHERE else, and so now the normal women out there have to learn the hard way that a lot of these guys approaching them are not normal guys just trying to meet women as girlfriends, but rather playing a game to just try to gather as many women as possible, and trying to manufacture a connection with them that is actually NOT authentic. 

Which means that any GOOD women out there should actually have their guard up even MORE- but most women won't because it hasn't reached the tipping point yet. 

Of course, most women, even ones not informed in the slightest, will still put two and two together and it won't take too long for them to see when a guy is behaving in a way that doesn't add up.

By the way, this is yet another reason I can't associate with the pick up artist movement, even though there IS a GOOD purpose for learning these skills, and is what I teach men. 

I've always taught these skills ALONG with a sense of RESPONSIBILITY. 

To quote the first issue ever of Spider-Man, which was actually called "Amazing Fantasy"- "with great power comes great responsibility"- an idea that actually came from Voltaire.

 So remember, getting a woman into bed quick isn't a sign of how cool you are, it's a sign that a woman was unusual and is the type who wants to get physical fast with guys.

The IRONY of this all is that I was the guy who wrote, way back in 2003 in my first book, how MASCULINITY and FEMININITY are crucial parts of BIOLOGY, they are not just some invention- and how important it is for men to BE masculine and for women to be feminine in order to attract the opposite gender. 

But the pick up artist community only wants to embrace the part of the message that they like- the fact that it's GOOD for you to BE masculine and embrace your masculinity---but they DON'T WANT TO ACCEPT THE COROLLARY(the consequence) OF THIS- which means ALSO accepting that they want FEMININE women.

And although there ARE definitely promiscuous women, it goes AGAINST most women's nature to be as promiscuous as men naturally want to be (which is why over thousands of years, there has been that trade off- a man will be willing to be faithful to a woman who is truly worthy of it)- and deep down, men don't even WANT women to be promiscuous, they aren't even as attracted to promiscuous women.

So, if you REALLLLLLY want to embrace my message of the importance of masculinity in men, you ALSO must embrace the truth of the importance and the nature of FEMININITY in women.

That means seeing the GLARING TRUTH that can be seen with ANYONE with OPEN EYES OR EARS that MOST women are simply NOT as promiscuous as men---

--And if the pick up artists keep showing you videos of guys getting physical or sleeping with women- those are women that don't represent the kinds of women most guys want- just like how commercials on TV SHOW YOU things that don't represent THE TRUTH, but at least there there is the FINE PRINT at the bottom of the screen with all the disclaimers about how everything you are seeing is actually NOT TRUE.   

And so THIS explains the SLOW TREND these days in the pick up artist community AWAY from the night clubs and toward what they call DAYGAME. 

Again, trying to copy me, but STILL bastardizing the ACTUAL PART THAT MATTERS---because it's NOT about whether you meet a woman during the DAY or NIGHT- that whole distinction is REALLY referring to nightclubs versus "normal" places like the coffee shop, but you can meet a GREAT woman at night just about anywhere- it has NOTHING AT ALL TO DO WITH DAYGAME VERSUS NIGHTGAME--this is just yet MORE MARKETING LEADING TO DESTRUCTION OF ACTUAL TRUTH.

So if you are reading this now, ask yourself: "How many more YEARS of my life am I going to WASTE following the DISTORTIONS OF TRUTH promoted by most dating advice experts?"  

The DISTINCTIONS between TRUTH and DISTORTION of TRUTH are sometimes HARD to see when you are in the "middle of the forest"--you can't see the forest because of all the trees. 
 
And SUBTLETIES matter- as you have seen from all the above. It's not enough to get dating advice that SORT OF tells you PART of what you need to know- MISSING JUST ONE DROP OF IMPORTANT TRUTH is like launching a SPACECRAFT with just a few parts missing, the fuel just slightly wrong, the trajectory just a bit off---it will result in a DISASTER.

And getting the RIGHT woman in your life is the single most important other human being that you will ever interact with IN your life- it MATTERS A WHOLE HECK OF A LOT.
 
If you want to get the RIGHT advice, there's ONE place to go - www.getagreatgirl.com 

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Till next time, 

Michael Marks

P.S. Because having a sense of humor is so useful, including when it comes to interacting with women and being in the right state of mind, I thought I would include this following image on the idea of having great power and great responsibility:

 

Sunday, December 7, 2014

Why Women Can't Tell You They Want You To Be A Man

Today's newsletter comes to you as
a result of something very important
that a truly cool guy let me know about.

It's a powerful article on the reality
that good men face today when it
comes to women, and you can read
the full article at:

http://tinyurl.com/mpe35t4

It's called The 'Sexodus' and refers
to huge sectors of an entire generation of
men giving up on women when it comes
to anything serious.

You know there is a problem in society
when men, who have such a massive
sex drive, would still rather opt OUT
than put up with the incessant abuse
and neglect and trickery that they
face when trying to get a serious
relationship where they will be
respected as men.

These groups go by all kinds of names,
including MGTOW, which stands for
Men Go Their Own Way.

To quote from the article:

"Women have given up on monogamy,
which makes them uninteresting to us
for any serious relationship or raising a family."

So you see, all that is left for most men
is either to become players and have
casual sex with women, or, if the men
aren't sure how to do that, then to
opt out COMPLETELY and just play
video games and watch porn.

It is for these reasons that I started
Get A Great Girl.  I used to think that
women truly just wanted a guy who
was not a jerk, since ALL the women
I met through high school and university
kept on telling me  how men are just
interested in using women for the
physical, and how men lie, etc.

Plus, in university, I was bombarded
by messages from the institution
telling me how there is something
called male patriarchy and how
everything in society is really all
about men controlling women,
including even the act of sex itself.

So I became SUPER SENSITIVE to
these issues, I treated women like
they were these super fragile
creatures, and when I wanted to
date women I would make sure
to show them how I did not view
them sexually at all, that I would
never try to escalate anything
sexually since I didn't want to
be accused of something horrifying.

Meanwhile, little did I know that within
walking distance, in the college dorms,
were activities that would've made Hugh
Hefner look like a nun, and that this was
widespread, consistent, and consensual.

And the men who were with these
women did not buy into the propaganda.

If you want to attract a woman, I suggest
two things:

Number one, don't listen to the typical
feminist advice. They will tell you they
want a delicate sensitive guy who will
view women as anything but sexual
beings, and then these same women
will end up only dating men who
do the opposite of what these women
claimed they were looking for.

Number two, if you are looking for
an actual girlfriend, you have to be
DAMN CAREFUL.

It is important that the woman you
meet is CONSCIOUSLY dead-set AGAINST
the perverted teachings of many feminists.

See if you can find a woman who actually
UNDERSTANDS the reasons for why
the current teachings of feminism are
harming ALL of society.

For example, many feminists want to
force GENDER NEUTRAL toys for children,
claiming that gender roles are taught,
not born.

But the truth is that scientific observation
and studies show that even as INFANTS,
boys and girls differ.  A study was done
where INFANTS were given different
types of stereotypically boy and stereotypically
girl type toys- and the BOYS went for the
BOY type toys, and the girls went for the
GIRL type toys.

Then, just in case some people would like
to criticize the study by saying that maybe
even at that young age somehow the infants
had still been previously "taught" by culture
to prefer one type of toy to another, the study
was done on a group of male and female MONKEYS!!!!

And even among these MONKEYS, the MALE
monkeys wanted to play with the toys designed
for MALES, and the FEMALE monkeys wanted to
play with the toys for FEMALES!!!!!!!!

Can you fathom the HORROR FUTURE of a
world where feminists DENY both boys and
girls the OPPORTUNITY to DEVELOP as boys
and girls by PURPOSELY DESTROYING any
opportunity for boys to be boys and for girls
to be girls???????????????????????????

How are those boys supposed to grow up and
know how to be a man, and know how to
attract a woman by simply being a man
if they were never allowed to even experience
the things that men naturally want to experience
and be?

Similarly, how are girls supposed to grow up
properly if they are being denied the chance
to be GUIDED in their own natural way?

A lot of this insanity comes from the fact that
many leading feminists are HYPER MASCULINE
right down to having higher testosterone, so
since THEY are not typically female, they want
to BLUR THE LINES between masculine and
feminine by FORCING EVERYONE ELSE TO
ACCEPT THEIR FALSE VIEWS ON THE REST
OF HUMANITY.

So you see, this is about more than just dating.
It's about the future of humankind.

And if you want to skyrocket your success
with women by being a man, the first
thing you should do is get my book,
THE DATING WIZARD, at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Wizard.html

My IN-DEPTH advanced program that is the FOLLOW UP
to this book is my ATTRACTION MASTERY at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

For a PERSONAL CONSULTATION, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Fast Food, Fast Women, And Bruce Lee

We're living in a time where everyone wants things FAST and when people tend to want instant pleasure and instant entertainment.

Hence, we get things like FAST FOOD and a lot of movies without stories but tons of SPECIAL EFFECTS.

These kinds of things tend to not really give you a LASTING feeling of contentment or enrichment.

And when it comes to how to get a great woman, again, most people just want to know about SPEED, not quality.

So, we get bombarded with YouTube videos of guys showing how they can be making out with women very quickly, without any mention of some of the rather important details.

Here are the important details that tend to get left out of most of the so called "demonstration videos":

1. THE WOMAN IS OFTEN DRUNK OR TIPSY 

If a woman is drunk or tipsy, it really is pretty ridiculous to equate her actions with being attracted, as she is behaving in a way that is in no way indicative of what she will think or do when she is sober.

2. THE WOMAN'S FACE IS HIDDEN FROM VIEW

This may be due to laws regarding invasion of privacy, but it also means we have no clue what the woman actually looks like.

3. JUST TALKING TO A WOMAN MEANS NOTHING

Almost anyone can just talk to a woman. The real key is to see how the woman reacts after 24 hours and she has had a chance to reflect on the situation.  Does she still want to hang out with the guy? We will never know, will we?

4. PUSHING TOO HARD TOO FAST FOR THE PHYSICAL IS COUNTER-PRODUCTIVE

A woman may, in the moment, be it from drunkenness, disorientation, or unfamiliarity (for example, if she is fresh off the boat or fresh off the plane as a new immigrant and unsure of the local customs) with the situation, perhaps she may go along with the initial phase of the conversation with a man, whether it includes a kiss, a coffee, etc.

But most women who are aware of the situation, and who are not drunk or promiscuous, simply will PULL AWAY from a guy that pushes for making out, getting physical, so fast.

This is because she is not desperate for getting physical, and is actually interested in making sure that she KNOWS about the guy she is going to get physical with.

What most pick up artists aren't telling you is that they themselves are simply the equivalent of a promiscuous woman, that's all there is to it. It's about promiscuous women meeting promiscuous men.

This does not help the guy who is actually looking to get a girlfriend, not a woman for whom he will be number 1 billion served a la McDonald's.

Also, what is so ironic is that some of the dating coaches out there have tried to use my emphasis on "qualifying a woman" before moving onto the next stage with her, but the truth is that this was not an artificial fake tactic that I invented, it was a GENUINE ACTION because I genuinely DO think it is important to make sure that a woman IS the right person for you before you jump into getting physical with her. especially if you are looking for a girlfriend.

Never mind the PLETHORA of viruses out there you can get from a woman by getting physical, as just that reason alone is enough to want to SLOW THINGS DOWN to get to know who you are dealing with.

Well, the irony is that pushing for the physical too fast is actually the OPPOSITE of qualifying a woman.  How much can a woman really think you care about STANDARDS if you were willing to slobber all over her within a few minutes of meeting her?

Of course, for promiscuous people, none of this matters.  There is hardly a need for qualification.

But in general, a woman really WANTS to know that indeed you DO have standards and that you DON'T just jump into bed with a woman just because you can.

5. FLASHY IS NOT EFFECTIVE

Bruce Lee used to say that the moves he would show in his films were not the same kinds of actions at all that he would use in real life.  The moves he used in the films were there to be flashy and get attention and look all impressive.

The REAL actions that would actually be most effective in real life are DIFFERENT, and they aren't as flashy. They aren't designed to be flashy, they are designed to be EFFECTIVE.

Well, when it comes to dating advice for men, MARKETING works better when it is FLASHY. So showing a guy making out with ten women at a time is going to be flashier than showing a guy having a really solid conversation with a woman, and then showing the next date, and then showing them three weeks later in a relationship, as that all takes time and it all doesn't seem so WEIRD AND WACKY, BUT IT IS THE THING THAT MOST MEN REALLY WANT.  

Larry Bird, one of the greatest basketball players ever, was not known for being flashy in his moves.  He just went up to the basket, did the layup, and got the ball in.  Over and over and over and over again. Flashy? No. Effective? Yes.

I know all the marketing tricks and plenty of ways to screw around with the truth. I could easily go that route, but I don't.

Learn the truth about success with women.

For starters, get my OBLITERATING APPROACH ANXIETY audio program.  This program has been painstakingly designed to RID YOU OF ALL FEARS REGARDING MAKING THE APPROACH.

There are absolutely NO GIMMICKS in this program, and make no mistake about it, this is definitely a PROGRAM with STEP BY STEP INSTRUCTIONS on what to do to RID YOURSELF OF ALL THE BARRIERS HOLDING YOU BACK FROM APPROACHING WOMEN.

It is based on the most meticulous research and it WILL work if you use it as directed.

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/approach-anxiety.html

It's also time to consider BOOTCAMP with me.  Bootcamp with me is about learning what is EFFECTIVE for you, and it is tailored especially for your needs, your personality, your situation. And it all happens in real life on real women.

Bootcamp is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Saturday, March 1, 2014

The ONE Thing A Woman Is Looking For In You

The most important thing in attracting
a woman who is truly the “total package”
of being not only beautiful, but also a
great person inside as well, is conveying
to her the following VIBE:

That with you, no matter how crazy life
gets, she can depend on you to be her
ROCK. That you will be calm, strong,
and steadfast in the storms of life.

In fact, if there was just ONE word you
could remember, when approaching women,
seeing women, trying to attract women,
etc., it would be this:

CALM.

It’s a universally powerful step toward
attracting women, for many reasons.

First of all, staying calm allows YOU yourself
to think straight, it allows you easier access
to your subconscious mind that has a ton of
humorous/intriguing/ interesting things to
say in whatever particular moment you find
yourself in with a woman.

So if she’s in the snacks aisle in the grocery
store with you, and you see her grabbing a
party-size bag of chips, and you are feeling
calm, you are more likely to instinctively
come up with something like, “I hope those
aren’t all for you!” or “That’s what I like,
a girl who isn’t afraid to enjoy life”, etc.

Plus, of course, the TONE of your voice when
calm will CONVEY that you are calm more
effectively than just about anything else, as
voice tonality says a BILLION things about
what you are feeling internally, and a woman
subconsciously registers all that in her mind
and will, in response to YOUR CALM, she
will ALSO feel calm, which is a great thing
when you want a woman talking to you.

You don’t want her to be getting more nervous,
when you as a stranger approach her, you want
her to be getting more calm. 

So that’s the second thing, not only does it
help YOU say and do the right things, it also
helps CALM DOWN A WOMAN in what might
be a slightly awkward moment, but is of course
WELL WORTH IT if you do it right.

Here’s another reason being calm is so
important: The more a woman is the kind
of woman who is looking for STABILITY
and a LONG TERM HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP,
the more she is the kind of person who values
CALM WATERS, PEACE, SERENITY, rather than
CHAOS AND INSTABILITY.

A lot of the “pick up artist” approaches a few
years ago when being a “pick up artist” was
trendy in many circles, the emphasis was on
getting women from night-clubs and trying to
get one night stands.  A lot of the women in
these places, and a lot of the women who are
more into promiscuity, tend to be ATTRACTED
to the CHAOS rather than the SERENITY.

This is why I said even years ago, when I created "Get A Great Girl", that if you want to attract a quality woman for a great relationship, you can't use typical pick up artist strategies, and that in fact those strategies will PUSH HER AWAY.

Like attracts like.  Chaos attracts Chaos. Calm attracts Calm. Personally, my passion was for the kind of woman who would make for a great long-term relationship.  

There are also, to be honest, SOME women who
are not good for long-term relationships who
ALSO seem to be attracted to men who are CALM
and who give off vibes of stability, because
these women are sometimes looking for SOMETHING
CALM to help balance off the chaotic feelings
in their mind.

But these women will quickly do EVERYTHING
in their power to destroy yours sense of calm.

Sometimes, they do this because they believe
that EVERYTHING is chaos, and they will
believe that you cannot be trusted to be the
good guy you say you are, so they TRY to
bring out the worst in you, so they can DEAL
with it now, at a time of THEIR choosing, rather
than WAIT for you to be mean to them later.
(This is what they FEEEEEL, it may have NOTHING
to do with reality.)   

Also, don’t try to be a THERAPIST to a woman
who you are pursuing romantically, because
you will be setting yourself up for disappointment.

If you genuinely just want to HELP a woman,
and you truly are not pursuing her romantically,
then fine, help her all you want, if you think you
can.

By the way, I am not judging anyone here, and
I myself have had to learn how to calm down,
but in different ways, and for very different reasons,
than most of the chaotic party chicks out there.

But even with the chaotic party chicks, I’m not
blaming them for being who they are, as human
beings are so complicated and most people never
understand themselves, never mind others.  This
is why I focus on SELF-DEVELOPMENT,
rather than trying to change anyone ELSE.

The REAL BUTTONS we must push are on
OURSELVES, not on WOMEN, because the
SMARTER and MORE empowered we are ourselves,
the greater positive effect we can have
on EVERYONE, including of course women,
and of course the more you can attract women,
but also the more you can quickly DETERMINE
about a woman to see if she is truly COMPATIBLE
with you on the most important levels.

Yes, physical attraction IS key, but so is
personality, and the more wise you become,
and the more you develop yourself in the ways
I teach, the more you can spot the RIGHT women,
and the more easily you can avoid the WRONG
women.

Anyway, my point is that if you are looking for
a quality woman for a great relationship without
HEAD-GAMES and endless conflict and endless
negative drama and chaos,  then giving off vibes
of CALM, and actually BEING CALM become
SUPER IMPORTANT. 

In general, this calm vibe tends to push AWAY the
women who will bring MISERY and DRAMA
into your life and will ATTRACT the kind of
women who will increase the genuine joy and
PEACE in your life.

A woman who is great for a long-term
relationship is investing a MASSIVE
amount of emotion and time if she
decides to pursue a life with you,
so there is a LOT at stake not
just for you, but for her as well.

She needs to know that with you,
no matter how crazy life gets, that
she can depend on you to be her
ROCK. That you will be calm, strong,
and steadfast in the storms of life.

CALM.

ACHIEVING this goal, and being able
to convey this in SECONDS to a woman
you just met, takes some insight into
psychology, culture, and evolution.

And not the “dime store psychology” or
“pseudo-science” or other gimmicks that
unfortunately are so prevalent in our society.

Please allow me to make one thing clear:
I never started out with the goal of TEACHING
any of the things I learned about getting a
quality woman who would be a fantastic
girlfriend.

I honestly did it all because I needed to
learn all this for MYSELF.

One of the most DISASTROUS steps I took
on my path to learning how to attract a truly
quality woman was that I tried to learn from
the “pick up artist” community.

I had to spend YEARS actually UNLEARNING
all the things they taught me, because those
things actually REPELLED the very BEST
kinds of women.

Those things ATTRACTED the women of CHAOS, and
REPELLED the women of SERENITY, ORDER, AND PEACE. 

In case you don’t know about the pick up
artist community, there is a book called
“The Game” that really captures the overall
spirit of the “seduction community” as it was
and in many circles still is.

In the book, it’s clear that the main strategies
for getting a woman involved just about
anything BESIDES being ethical, honest and
up-front, and it's also clear that it largely
revolves around getting women into bed as QUICKLY
as possible.  Women that aren't willing to
get into bed quickly are labelled as  having
"psychological issues".     

Regarding unethical strategies, is the
strategy of attacking a woman's self-esteem
in subtle ways so that she feels LESS about
herself and now supposedly she will feel the
guy has more value than her. These ‘experts’
vow that the solution to attracting a ‘hard to get’
woman is to ‘slam’ her self-esteem.

So this involves the use of thinly veiled
insults, the “nice” name for this is
“backhanded compliments” but really
it’s just an insult. i.e. Telling a woman
she looks just like some celebrity named
x.y, or z, but the thing is that the named
celebrity is clearly NOT the most attractive.

Now, as you may know from my programs,
since day ONE I have been against these
kinds of things for about a MILLION
reasons, including the fact that this kind
of strategy not only is not NECESSARY
but in fact will BACKFIRE because it
makes a man think lower of himself,
because it reinforces in a man the feeling
that he does NOT have the value to get the
woman so he must resort to these kinds of
sleazy tactics.

And when your “INNER GAME” i.e.
the way you feel about yourself, is this
weak, it always ends up showing in tiny
little subtleties through your tonality,
expression, body language, etc. So a
woman ends up detecting a weak inner
game, and the more a guy uses these
self-esteem destroying strategies, the more a guy
will weaken his inner game.

It ALSO backfires because a woman who
is truly the total package is both emotionally
strong enough, plus intelligent enough to
not only sense that this guy has a weak
inner game, but she will ALSO detect that
this guy is DOING THIS nasty stuff to
her INTENTIONALLY, that he is knowingly
trying to lower her self-esteem!!!!

So she will REJECT the guy before he can
even finish his attack on her self-esteem.

But, a woman who is unfortunately plagued
by the CHAOS mind-set may very well BE
attracted to such a guy, because she
IS SO INSECURE that this tactic DOES
work on her.

And THAT is truly sad, and it is truly the wrong thing to do, especially to a woman who already is so plagued with issues. 

But, I can see how many men are confused.
It's HARD to know, if you haven't spent
years learning this stuff, that NOT ALL
WOMEN ARE THE SAME, especially if you have
been hanging out in the SAME WRONG PLACES
all the time to meet women, so you keep
on meeting the same types of women from the
same pools of women.

It's easy to start to think that all women are the same, that all women are nasty, that all women are liars, etc.  And the truth is, we are living in a crazy society that confuses a lot of women, because women are told contradictory messages by our insane society:

Women are told that they should be kissing other women and how fun and hilarious that is thanks to Katy Perry, Madonna, and Miley Cyrus, (who have talent in varying degrees but sometimes abuse their power and talent ).

Then, on the other hand, women are told they should be loyal to one man.

Then are also told to be good mothers, but then they are told they should be career women.  They are told they should be "liberated" and promiscuous, but then they are told they should view sex as sacred, and to be faithful and loving, etc.

Tons of contradictory messages. 

So trust me, I realize how hard it is to
be a MAN in a world where men these days
are given a very hard time by a lot of
politically correct B.S. when they just
want to meet women!

At the same time, it is ABSOLUTELY VITAL to realize there are DIFFERENT TYPES OF WOMEN, there are still women out there who are NOT ATTRACTED TO THE CHAOS, women who DO want PEACE, women who are loyal and faithful.

Since I’ve been teaching my programs,
the entire FIELD of “dating strategies”
and “pick up artists” has been MASSIVELY
IMPACTED by what I teach.

These days, the pick up artists are using a lot less of the strategy of attacking a woman's self-esteem as a method of attracting her. 

These days, there is suddenly a lot more talk
about getting a “quality girlfriend”.

Now, I am going to venture forth here
and say it, because obviously none of
these guys will, that it was ME who
brought dating strategies for getting
a great girl into the MODERN AGE
and out of the STONE AGE of pick
up artist advice that they themselves
agree was just about ALL WRONG
before!

So what I’m saying is, I have ALWAYS
been about getting a QUALITY woman.

I have NEVER been about gimmicks.

In fact, when you finish my programs,
you actually can be very UPFRONT
AND HONEST with women, because
you have become such a strong person
that you convey to her all the right things
from your tonality, expression, warmth,
and inner strength so that EVERYTHING
you do with her becomes attractive.

There are no gimmicks to use, because it's
YOU who has now become attractive,
not some "gimmick" to use on her.
I have ALWAYS been against GIMMICKS
and immature trends that come and go.

I could have easily jumped on the bandwagon
of trends if all I cared about was money.

I could have easily been a part of the
book “The Game” as I was actually
contacted about it, but I wanted nothing
to do with it then, even when the pick
up artist industry was at its ZENITH of
popularity.

That should give you an idea of just how
important the TRUTH is to me, and how
important it is to me to give you TRUTH
on how to get a quality woman.

My concepts have literally changed the
entire FIELD of dating.

To me, getting a great girl who is the total
package isn’t just “nice”.

It’s the ULTIMATE.

It’s what I have DEVOTED myself to teaching since day ONE. And I do this because I know just how IMPORTANT it is to have a quality woman at your side, and how this improves your entire LIFE.

A great woman isn’t looking to see if
you are a look-a-like of George Clooney,
Brad Pitt, or any of the guys from
“Twilight”. And she isn’t looking for
GOLD or money from you either.

She’s looking to see if you have the
INNER strength.

The bottom line is this:

If you're interested in getting dates with
typical women, that's fine. It's not my
preference, but I don't judge others.

But if you're looking for the kind of
woman that ADDS to your life, doesn't
give you "drama", and makes life a
DREAM, then you need an EDGE over
other guys, you need the kind of
training from someone who SPECIALIZES
in getting the kinds of women who would
truly make for GREAT girlfriends.

One of the crazy things about attracting a woman
is that you probably already KNOW in your gut
what IS attractive- for examples, things like
CONFIDENCE, things like being more SEXUAL,
and things like being INTERESTING in general.

The REAL question is, how do you SHOW these
things to a woman? Sometimes a guy CAN be
confident in many OTHER areas of his life, but
not feel confident in approaching a woman who
is a total stranger. Sometimes a guy can be an
interesting person, but when he’s talking to
a woman, he doesn’t know how to show it.

And, how do you show more SEXUALITY to a
woman who is a total stranger???

So let me get into answering ALL this right
here, right now. Please keep in mind that I
swear to it that everything I write here is
based on REAL INTERACTIONS WITH
WOMEN FROM YEARS OF BOOTCAMPS
WITH CLIENTS AND MY OWN
EXPERIENCES AS WELL.

In other words, this is not just made up or
something I came up with off the top of
my head, it’s all based in REALITY, and
you can apply it all IMMEDIATELY and
see for yourself how quickly it works.

First off, I totally understand that most
guys are NOT Bill Gates, not models, and
not necessarily living an “Indiana Jones”
lifestyle.

And guess what? THAT’S NOT A PROBLEM.
Because the TRUTH is that, WHEREVER you
are in life, whatever your situation is, you can
STILL apply everything I’m talking about to
demonstrate all the cool things about yourself.

Let me give you an example: Let’s say you
have a really CRAPPY job, okay?

And you’re at that part of the conversation
where she’s talking about her stressful job or
whatever, and you know that if you don’t mention
what you do, it’s going to sound like you’re hiding
something.

The reality is, you’re FAR BETTER OFF
literally telling a woman “my job is crap”
than trying to DISGUISE it in any way.

I mean LITERALLY telling her those words.

The key though, is to say those words without
trying to be CUTE when you say it.

If you say it trying to be “cute” or smiling,
it almost seems as if you’re smiling out of
HOPE that she will “forgive” it.

But if you are totally OWNING it, and not
seeking to try to get her FORGIVENESS
for it, it makes a FREAKING HUMONGOUS
DIFFERENCE.

You can even be a bit PISSED OFF in your
tonality about the crappy job.

The reasons for all this are subconscious:

By NOT hiding it, you show the following
things, and I’ll explain why:

1. INTEGRITY

Most guys will sacrifice truth and anything else
if they think it will get them ahead, but here you
are clearly showing you are not affected by what
other people think, including HER.

You show that you stick to your principles.

2. CONFIDENCE

You are also demonstrating confidence because
you clearly think that you STILL have a chance
with this girl ANYWAY otherwise why would
you be talking to her, especially in this non-apologetic
and non-deceptive way?????

The other thing is that by OWNING up to your
reality, and not DENYING it, you are far more
likely to be the kind of guy who is going to
MAKE THE CHANGES IN HIS LIFE TO
IMPROVE HIS SITUATION.

So in a way you’re also showing AMBITION.
If you’re not SATISFIED with where you
are, and you want to move UP in the world.

And when a man of confidence puts his mind
to work and his body into action, he can achieve
a HECK of a lot, and he won’t be down in the
gutter for long.

Now, if you have INTEGRITY and you also
have CONFIDENCE, she realizes that you
probably ALSO have integrity in your other
connections with people, including relationships.

This translates into SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE
AND POWER WITH PEOPLE.

She also subconsciously realizes that if you
can handle THIS kind of awkward uncomfortable
situation, you can probably also handle the part
about you LEADING the interaction smoothly
to the SEXUAL with her.

After all, you don’t seem to be bogged down
by the OTHER things that most guys would be
bogged down by psychologically.

So that’s just ONE example of how you can
convey confidence as well as many other
attractive traits, even if your situation isn’t
that GREAT, and you might have previously
THOUGHT you don’t have anything to be
confident ABOUT.

And you can use this same principle to show
confidence in ANY situation where you think
you are LACKING or not doing so great compared
to other people.

In fact, that “lack” is your opportunity to show
that you WILL NOT BE CRUSHED by it,
that you will not lose integrity by it, and that
you will not lose confidence by it.

Remember, MOST of the guys she is going
to meet are going to do the OPPOSITE of
this, including even guys who you might think
on the surface HAVE SO MUCH GOING
FOR THEM!!

Yup, the vast majority of guys ALL end up
QUALIFYING themselves to a woman they
are attracted to. The guys, out of a desire to
impress the woman, quickly end up telling
her about their fancy job, their car, their
fancy trip, etc, etc, etc.

And the irony of all this is that this “impressive”
stuff, by being used as a crutch, shows INSECURITY
to a woman and is REPULSIVE.

So, now it’s almost as if the guy would be
better off NOT having the fancy stuff, since
he ends up just using it to convey insecurity.

A woman figures that such a guy actually
thinks that he should be with her because
of his CAR or JOB, and that’s not only
uncool, it’s the trademark of a real a-hole,
and trust me, THAT’S NOT the cool kind
of “jerk” at all.

So you can ALWAYS be showing confidence,
NO MATTER WHAT YOUR SITUATION IS.

CONVEYING SEXUALITY

How about something like sexuality?

Well, here too, you can ALWAYS be more
sexual with a woman, it doesn’t have to JUST
be at a nightclub, where it’s easy to do this
because the women are there to meet guys.

I prefer to meet women in places OTHER than nightclubs, simply because the most attractive women at nightclubs definitely DON’T need to go there to meet guys, so if they are there, chances are they feed off of the attention are not the kinds of women who would make for great long-term girlfriend.

Of course, there ARE great girls at nightclubs, but FINDING them is like finding a needle in a haystack, and the noise makes it hard to truly dig deeper into conversation to determine character. 

However, all women need to do the everyday
things like shopping, grocery shopping, going
to the bank, etc, and so these “regular” places
are far better for actually meeting women with
more “long term girlfriend” potential.

How can you show more sexuality with a woman you happen to see at the coffee shop or supermarket?

Simple: Through using TOUCH AND TONALITY.

Words have been around for only a smidgeon
of human evolution, while TOUCH has been
around since the very first days that
man and woman have walked the Earth.

Human communication has been using
TOUCH since day one.

And it’s STILL AROUND, we just tend to
REPRESS this primal force. (Another primal
chord is triggered through MUSIC, which
is another element you can incorporate later,
when lovemaking is in the air :) )........

So, stop worrying about being called a pervert and
look for PLAYFUL ways to make HUMAN CONTACT.

And I’m talking FAST.

The reality is that women are FAR more
comfortable with this than you think.

When I was in university the first time, I
got BRAINWASHED by all these political
science courses including on feminism, where
I was taught how just about EVERYTHING
was a form of male harassment against women.

So I did everything I could when interacting
with women to NOT touch them, and to
NOT show dominance, and to just wait
for THEM to take all the action and to
get sexual.

Of course, that all led to ZERO results with women.

Then, I finally found out the TRUTH of
what was going on, on campus, and how
RAMPANT the sexuality was, and how
there were TWO realities, the one that
existed in the lecture hall, to which of
course NO ONE WOULD ARGUE lest
they be labeled EVIL CAVE-MEN, and
then there was the reality of what ACTUALLY
HAPPENED on a regular basis within just
METERS of these lectures halls, things that
would make Sodom and Gomorrah BLUSH.

That made me FAR MORE COMFORTABLE
not only getting more “physical” with women,
but also being more PLAYFUL in general
with women, because I realized that women
were MOSTLY NOT like the stereotype
portrayed in my political science course
descriptions, in reality women LOVED TO
BE PLAYFUL AND ENJOYED GETTING
PHYSICAL, probably even MORE SO than men.

Have FUN with women, from the moment
you first see a woman you’d like to talk to.

Forget being serious, instead LIVE IT UP
and take “chances” with your sense of humor,
it’s BETTER than being too serious, FOR SURE.

It’s GOOD for a woman to think you
really want to get PHYSICAL with her
and that you have NO SHAME about it,
and that you LOVE the idea of physical
and you love having fun with women-
it’s just that socially, you can’t literally
SAY THIS as you’re first words to her,
but you CAN and SHOULD CONVEY
it through your MANNERISMS!

If you’re not having a good time doing this
with women, you’re doing it wrong.

I used to do it all WRONG, I was so pissed
off inside, that it was all coming from a
place of ANGER.  An anger that stemmed
from feeling that somehow, things should
not be this way.

I was pissed off that my preconceived notions
of how things ARE was totally OFF! I was
upset that things were NOT the way I had
previously thought they were my whole
life, as this meant I had to change my
very PICTURE of reality!

My old beliefs were that women wanted and
appreciated a really SERIOUS approach to
dating, sexuality, and relationships.

This does NOT mean that women think relationships
are a JOKE, it just means that you can't START out
with a woman if you are operating on a very serious
level, as that overly serious vibe DESTROYS the
sexual, flirty VIBES that are so important for
sparking SEXUAL ATTRACTION.

In fact, being playful actually delivers the message
that you are MORE of A MAN who is "the rock",
than a man who seems all serious right away when
talking to her, because that "SERIOUSNESS" is
interpreted by her as NEEDINESS or some other
negative issue, which is understandable once you
adopt the frame of ABUNDANCE and the perspective
of having many CHOICES of who to date---just like
these attractive women do! :)

Playfulness shows STRENGTH, that you find all
this stuff so easy, that it's FUN.

So, once I finally ACCEPTED the way things
really ARE, I came to peace with it, and
THAT'S when I could stop PRETENDING
to be playful and actually BE playful.

And the reality is, that this is healthier way
to go about the whole dating process anyway!!!

It allows you to enjoy the process, and to NOT
fall into the needy and insecure zone, which
is where all the problems start, both in terms
of destroying attraction and also in terms of
destroying your own confidence.

You are as you think and do, so if you switch
the way you think, and if you take the ACTIONS
of a secure, playful, flirty person, you BECOME
that incredible man who really IS her "rock".

And when I say a “good time” I don’t mean
to act “cutesy” with women – a lot of times
“cutesy” is this kind of toothy smile that
is really a form of seeking rapport.

Instead, your “having a good time” while
interacting and approaching women should
be coming from a place of STRENGTH
internally, the best example I can think of
that resembles the REAL LIFE way of
doing it, is “Captain Kirk”, it’s a pretty
accurate of what I mean by playful
but strong and not needing a woman’s
approval, while still liking her nonetheless.

So let me tell you, you should go for playful
hugs, high-fives, taps on the shoulder, etc,
and if a woman has a problem with this, you
are NOT harming your chances, you are only
finding out that she is a waste of your time.

Now, you should ALSO be conveying
sexuality, by speaking to a woman in
the same kind of tonality that you would
have right after making passionate love
to a woman. Your voice would be calm,
comfortable, no more pretenses of
sounding like CLARK KENT instead
of the real SUPERMAN inside of you.

There’s also nothing wrong with a dirty
joke or two if they are actually FUNNY
and not GROSS. This helps establish
the right mentality that this is a male
female interaction and not just some
cerebral conversation between two men.

Here’s ANOTHER important strategy:

GET HER TALKING ABOUT HERSELF

Most guys are so caught up in trying to
impress a woman, that this very act of
trying to impress ends up causing the
OPPOSITE and repels her.

Instead, what I do and have clients do is
to focus on learning more about HER.

After a playful comment or two to get the
conversation started, I get into wanting to
know what HER STORY IS.

In fact, I might even say these actual words:

“What’s YOUR Story?”

This has TONS of benefits for you:

It shows her that you aren’t all arrogant
and don’t need to talk all about YOURSELF.

It allows her a chance to actually BOND with
you by talking to you about herself.

It teaches you more about her, so that you can
have the right things to say to her that are
actually RELEVANT.

It’s easier anyway, because instead of having
to be this big talker, you can chill out and
listen.

The less you talk, the more cool you seem, as you might remember from my discussions on how less is more, and on how using less is the sign of a true master. A true master uses only what is required for each situation, and never more.

PLUS, after she has spoken to you about herself,
SHE HERSELF will ask you about yourself, so
NOW when you talk to her, even about yourself,
you will NOT seem like you are qualifying
yourself!!!! You really WILL impress her.

As you can see, without me being arrogant,
the reality is I know what the heck I’m
talking about.

And what you’ve just read is the TIP of the
ICEBERG of TONS of EASY-TO-APPLY
strategies for ATTRACTING A WOMAN
the moment you see her, all without being
hurtful or manipulative.

In my 'WARRIOR WITHIN' program, I show you
EXACT word-for-word examples of how to go
from the MOMENT you SEE a woman anywhere,
including “normal” places like a supermarket or mall,
all the way to getting her back to your place, with her
eagerly anticipating getting physical with you.

And this is not just about how to get
some kind of promiscuous woman- NOPE,
I’m talking about the kind of woman
that is the full package, which means
that I also show you how to make a
powerful CONNECTION with her
as WELL as igniting sexual attraction
in her.

Here is just SOME of what you’ll learn
in this incredible program:

*The BEST ways of approaching women in
“regular” places like supermarkets.

*The FULL PICTURE on how to “OWN” any
“undesirable” part of your reality and transform
it into an ATTRACTIVE part of your identity.

*TEN powerful ways to SIMULTANEOUSLY
create both ATTRACTION and RAPPORT!

This will ACCELERATE your results, which
is crucial especially in those situations where
you don’t have much TIME to speak to a woman!

*Powerful ways to increase the EROTIC nature
of your interaction with a woman so that you
can SMOOTHLY escalate to getting PHYSICAL later.

There’s nothing worse than having a series
of dates with a woman where NOTHING
physical happened, as this makes it even
MORE awkward and less likely for anything
physical to occur. You’ll never have this
problem, by using THESE strategies revealed
in this program.

*I’ll show you the best ways to get a woman
talking about herself so that you can learn the
best way to connect with her!

*How to come across as far more INTERESTING,
without the use of ANY lies- in fact, you
will hardly have to even SPEAK at all!

*You’ll even discover a great way to use
any environment you meet a woman in,
to make her feel as if you two have known
each other a long time.

*And of course, as the name of the program
implies, you will also get all my most powerful
strategies and tools for SKYROCKETING your
"Inner Game", so that your NATURAL confidence
with women rises to INFINITELY high levels.

Women, especially the quality women who are
careful about who they date, can ALWAYS tell
if a guy is just FAKING confidence, or if he is
THE REAL DEAL- and this program will show
you how to BECOME the kind of man who can
be her "rock" for REAL.

*And much, MUCH more!

I can promise you one thing: These strategies
WORK to attract the women you WANT.

I wish I knew the things that I now teach,
long ago. I could have been enjoying life
rather than being in misery and being
jealous of the guys that HAD the girl.

You can get that EDGE RIGHT NOW with my
"Warrior Within" DVD Set Training Program.

This program is so powerful it will also help you
CHANGE YOURSELF to become the kind of
man who achieves ALL his goals in life.

I know that this program is going to change
your LIFE, and you can check it out HERE:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

The only problem you'll ever have
with this program is that this
woman will be so crazy about you
that a lot of her friends are
going to want you as well!!!

Again, the way to ensure you GET and KEEP
this fantastic woman is with THIS program:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

I look forward to hearing your success story.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Saturday, January 25, 2014

Getting The RIGHT Woman In A Crazy World

If you are looking for a great long-term
girlfriend or possibly wife, you NEED
to read this newsletter.

Ever since feminism started, there has
been a gradual EROSION of morality
amongst the masses of women. 

Now, don’t get me wrong. I DO believe
ABSOLUTELY that women should be
treated with FULL RESPECT, and be
given things like the vote, and all that.

To think otherwise, is immoral, or plain
ludicrous to think that women are not 
deserving of all the respect that men
deserve.

HOWEVER, the problem is that feminism did not really preach EQUALITY only, what ENDED UP HAPPENING is that in addition to honest good things like equality, it ALSO ended up becoming ABUSED- it ended up misguided and it celebrated the idea of women emulating the very WORST characteristics of men, as opposed to the very BEST.

So, for example, promiscuity amongst women
is often CELEBRATED by women as a form
of “empowerment” and “equality”, as if all
MEN were like this and somehow women
were “evening the score”.

Otherwise, how do you explain the CELEBRATION
of people like Kim Kardashian who grew to fame
as the result of a SEX-TAPE?

Of course, many men are to blame for all this
as well, but it takes two to tango.

What REALLY PROVES HOW EVIL AND INSANE all this is, is that even when there are GLOBAL repurcussions, that have nothing to do with the MORAL, but simply to do with LIFE and SAVING life, STILLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL the feminists refuse to budge.  So even with AIDS, and even with things like HPV that is NOT EVEN DETECTABLE, STILLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL you won't find the feminists telling women to possibly be less promiscuous.  The feminists would much rather see men and women DIE than POSSIBLY admit that just MAYBE the feminists f-ed up.     

Here’s where things get REALLY screwed-up:
In nature, without the tempering forces of
culture and morals, man is designed to want
to mate with as many females as possible.

The MALE strategy is actually QUANTITY
over QUALITY, to be honest.

Of course, quality matters too, and men have
evolved to a DEGREE to be turned OFF by
women who exhibit either behavioral traits
that show they would be bad mothers, or
physical traits that imply they would bear
unhealthy children.

But still, the desire for QUANTITY of women is
a HUGE part of the PRIMAL male desire.

Now, science, history, and the study of evolution
has proven that women are not as sugar and spice as
Disney films would have us believe, and the truth
is that women are far from naturally monogamous,
but they are still NOT as primal driven for
QUANTITY as men are. 

For women, the emphasis is STILL greater on
LESS QUANTITY and GREATER QUALITY.

All this makes sense, again, from an evolutionary
point of view.  For millions of years, there was
no way for a man to know if the children born
to the woman he mated with were actually HIS
children or someone ELSE’S, so he was best
off by mating with TONS of women.

All this by the way is all subconscious, men
of course did not actively THINK about any
of these reasons. Evolution does not work
that way, it just eliminates that which does
not work from the gene pool.

But for women, although it's important that a man is faithful, the BIGGER thing to them is that the man does not ABANDON the woman and the child, because for nine months she will CARRY a child, and she will need HELP raising the child that came literally from her body.

These evolutionary differences between men and women have created differences in what is MOST important to each gender regarding their SEXUAL MATE.  So although men and women may be very similar in things that have NOTHING to do with sexual mating  (i.e. for example, enjoying things that taste SWEET), WE ARE DIFFERENT in what is OF PARAMOUNT IMPORTANCE in a partner.

And before feminism, men and women UNDERSTOOD these differences because it was OBVIOUS and there was no politically correct bullshit telling women lies.

So why do I bring all this up?
It is because TODAY, men are being TOLD
that they must be FAITHFUL to a woman,
and stick to the QUALITY strategy rather
than the QUANTITY strategy they are
BORN to want to follow, and meanwhile
there is LESS INCENTIVE than ever to do so!

At least, before feminism, men were getting
a greater REWARD for being loyal and
faithful to one woman, they were getting
a woman who was not sleeping with
the entire planet of men, and they were
getting great RESPECT and FIDELITY
AND LOYALTY from women.

So, a man’s PRIMAL need to ensure his
child was indeed his own was being
ADDRESSED.

Today, however, a woman who is TRULY
not hanging out with men all the time,
a woman who is truly prepared to GIVE
HERSELF OVER TO ONE MAN, is
a RARITY.

Instead, what we get are INFINITE women
who want to have “back ups” of many men
while they are in relationships.  So a typical
young woman (in other words, a woman who
is fertile and can produce children) will
NEVER give herself over FULLY to one man,
instead she keeps a few ‘MALE FRIENDS’
around, which she always claims are just
friends, but usually she knows full well
that if she attractive, these men want much
more than friendship.

And we get women who are hitting the club
circuit well into their 30’s, sometimes 40’s,
even as they are on the last vestiges of fertility,
and they are drinking and getting drunk and
being promiscuous, and they WONDER
why the GOOD MEN don’t want to
get SERIOUS with them.

And the most evil part of it all, is that the
FEW GOOD WOMEN who do exist
have to constantly DEFEND themselves
against the majority of women they know,
who all seem to think that the good woman
is “crazy” or nuts for wanting to truly
give herself over to a real man who won’t
take any b.s.

So I would not tell you all this if I didn’t think
there was any GOOD NEWS that I could offer
you.

The GOOD NEWS is that indeed there ARE
some good women still left on this planet.

But I can tell you one thing: They are the
EXCEPTIONS rather than the RULE.

They often come from backgrounds where
feminism did NOT take off very well.

And it’s just so tragic that good men who
FOUGHT for women to have equal rights,
were ultimately rewarded with a society
where women make MOCKERIES of
good men who are truly loyal.

As the world GLOBALIZES and becomes
a smaller planet, cultures are colliding and
crashing, but what is also happening is that
men are LEARNING from other men, and
the men who grew up with feminism are
seeing that indeed there IS another way
to live, a way where things are compatible
with the way men and women are REALLY
hardwired to think and feel.

One of the insane things about feminism is that
it has told women LIES about what most men
REALLY want besides feeling attracted.

Aside from feeling attracted to a woman,
most men want NOTHING other than
LOYALTY, WISDOM, and GOOD CHARACTER
in a woman.  We don’t care about all
the rest. We aren’t impressed because
a woman has a trillion degrees. There’s a big
difference between wisdom and having
degrees. We aren’t impressed that a woman
travelled all over the world.  And we
don’t think that pseudo-science is the
same thing as science.  

What you MUST do, if you truly want a
GREAT woman for a great relationship,
is search for the women who have not
been brainwashed by extreme feminism.

AND you must be STRONG, and not
APOLOGETIC for your beliefs.

The RIGHT woman will WANT YOU even
MORE for these strong beliefs.

And you must be prepared to LOSE a lot
of the WRONG women who like to preach
that screwing every guy in town, and never
giving loyalty to a good man, and having
tons of “platonic male friends”  is the way to
live and to be “equal” to men.

Most women really don’t even REALIZE
how PRIMAL of a desire/need it is in men
to make sure their woman is not getting
“too close” figuratively speaking, with other
men. So women think that men are like
women, and WOMEN tend to feel a greater
need to know NOT that a man is not screwing
other women, but that he is not feeling
EMOTIONS for other women. 

Women are bigger on wanting the
EMOTIONAL closeness, but MEN
are bigger on wanting to ensure there
is PHYSICAL exclusivity.

And men also KNOW that women are
very emotional,  and that having guys
around them who pretend to just be
friends, is something that can be
exploited by those men to indeed
push the right emotional buttons
and indeed have physical relations
with those women. 

All this was SUPER OBVIOUS to women
before feminism came along. No man in his
right mind would marry any woman who
gave off any indications of being CONFUSED
about these things.

Don’t even argue with the wrong women. Don’t
waste your time on them.

There ARE a few good women left.
THOSE are the ones men must search for,
if they are looking for happiness and
a successful relationship long-term.

If you are serious about getting the RIGHT
woman, go HERE now:
  
http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html 

 Till next time,

Michael Marks

Saturday, July 13, 2013

Want Women To Treat You Well? Read This NOW.

If you are ready for the truth, you are about to get a BOAT LOAD of it regarding women, dating, and relationships.

ONE: A Bit Of FEAR Is Required

What I mean by this, is that in ANY situation where
someone VALUES something, there is a bit of
FEAR regarding losing that thing.

Anyone who tells you otherwise is full of crap.

Even great martial artists have SOME fear in them,
but they learn to HARNESS their fear and use it
to their advantage.

A bit of FEAR regarding being IMMORAL is a
DRIVING force for EXCELLENCE and prevents
CORRUPTION as well. (In ALL areas of life,
not just in dating.)

Similarly, if a woman has ZERO FEAR of losing you,
if she feels SOOOOOOOO at ease around you that she
feels NOTHING could possibly be bad about LOSING
you, she is going to be a HORRIBLE GIRLFRIEND
OR WIFE.

There NEEDS to be a bit of fear to keep the human
traits of WEAKNESS, LAZINESS, and COMPLACENCY
at bay.

Usually, the greatest performers in their respective fields
feel the same way.  I believe Steven Spielberg has mentioned
that he STILL feels a bit of fear every time he gets on set
to direct a movie. He also feels that this is a GOOD sign
that the movie will turn out right.

Great fighters often will tell you that it is not true that they
have NO FEAR, it is just that they have learned to USE
their fears.

Similarly, a QUALITY WOMAN is the kind of woman
who APPRECIATES a GOOD MAN so much, that she
has just a BIT of FEAR inside her regarding wanting to
NOT SCREW THINGS UP WITH THIS GOOD MAN,
which makes her VERY ALERT TO BEHAVING PROPERLY.

Now how many attractive women like this are there out there?    

They do exist, and you ABSOLUTELY CAN find them with
persistence and know-how, but the answer to the question is
that these kinds of women are VERY RARE. 

This is because things like morality, family, long-term thinking,
dedication, and sensitivity are not as popular as promiscuity,
selfishness, and thinking only about the short-term.

There are very few men and women who really CARE
ABOUT THIS STUFF.

So, as SOON as you detect a woman is a little TOO
CONFIDENT around you, I suggest you get the heck
OUT of that situation. (Obviously if you are married
or have kids with this woman or if you have been
together for a long time, I would suggest you try
to fix the situation first.)

I don’t mean to say that a woman should be shivering
around you in fear.

What I DO mean is, that the same way YOU would
not want to screw things up with a great woman,
so too SHE should show some signs of this caution
as well.

Here’s something else I need to tell you:

THE MOMENT YOU START PAYING ATTENTION
TO THIS STUFF, AND TRYING TO PUSH THE
WRONG WOMEN AWAY, THESE SAME WRONG
WOMEN WILL TRY HARD TO WIN YOU BACK
BUT YOU SHOULD IGNORE IT.

The REAL TRUTH is that most people, both men and
women, KNOW when they are mistreating someone,
but CORRUPTION sets in when there is too much
power, and those who are corrupted will try to
PUSH THEIR LUCK AS FAR AS THEY CAN.

So, with women who are spoiled, they will PUSH
THEIR LUCK AS FAR AS THEY CAN, and
when YOU call them on their CRAPPY BEHAVIOR,
especially if you do this with TOTAL CONFIDENCE
and with TOTALLY BEING PREPARED TO WALK
AWAY, they will SUDDENLY FEEL A VACUUM
IN THEIR LIFE-FORCE.

Suddenly, such a woman, for the first time in her LIFE,
is being told in no uncertain terms that she is behaving
in a WRONG WAY, by a man who has NO FEAR in leaving her.

This is FRIGHTENING for a spoiled woman, and
it also TEMPORARILY sets her BACK ON THE
PATH OF DECENCY.

She will then TRY TO APOLOGIZE OR GET
YOU BACK IN SOME OTHER WAY.

To all this, I say SCREW IT, DON’T GO THERE,
AND GET THE HECK AWAY, unless she did something
SUPER MINOR that cannot be considered an insult,
and even then, you should still call her on it.

So many men, they take my materials, they use them
only a DROP, and they see how women IMPROVE,
but they don’t take my FULL ADVICE, which is
to F-ING FORGET THESE WOMEN and move
on IMMEDIATELY to BETTER WOMEN.

When I talk about BEING THE MAN and not
taking B.S. from women, I really MEAN IT,
it is not some TEMPORARY TACTIC just
to get a woman into bed.  If you use it as a
TACTIC and are somehow willing to sleep
with a woman  just because calling her on
her b.s. was enough to get her to have sex
with you, you still haven’t learned the
BIGGER LESSON, which is that this is
not about tricks to get women into bed,
it’s about STAYING AWAY FROM THE
WRONG WOMEN, and MAKING YOUR
MIND STRONG to not get involved with
the WRONG women.

Just because you CAN get a woman who is
attractive into bed does not mean you SHOULD.
You will lose your CONVICTION AND DEEP
SEATED BELIEF in the VALUE of only being
with quality, trustworthy, decent women if you
allow yourself to also be in the circle of corrupt
women.

And then, when you lose your INNER GAME
In this sense, you lose EVERYTHING, including
your ability to even get the selfish and corrupt
women.

So, to get back to the main point, you WANT
a woman who indeed has just a bit of fear
around you in the sense that she does not
want to SCREW THINGS UP.

She does not and should not feel this fear
ALL THE TIME, and it should not be
overwhelming, but she MUST have some
of this fear, or the relationship WILL be
headed for DESTRUCTION.

Now, even a good woman is human, and she might
do something super MINOR, and in those situations,
you should just call her on her behavior, tell
her it was wrong, and she should immediately
improve permanently on that issue.  If she
does not, then she is not a quality woman
and you should leave her.

Next:  

TWO: FAITHFULNESS IS ABOUT MAKING
THE CHOICE

There are endless debates about whether it is
possible or natural for a man and woman to
be faithful to each other for life.

The truth is, on one hand, it is NOT natural.
We will always feel SOME attraction to
gorgeous members of the opposite sex,
no matter how much we love and are
attracted to the person we are with.

On the other hand, it IS natural, in the same
sense that human beings have succeeded in
doing all kinds of challenging things.

So, for example, plumbing and toilets are NOT
natural. Should we, therefore, crap on the floor?

Instead, human beings make the CHOICE to
elevate themselves, through philosophy, through
science, through spirituality, and through discipline,
to IMPROVE THEIR LIVES.

Going to the MOON is not natural, but most
people would argue that human beings exploring
space is something that human civilization
SHOULD do.

And to really focus in on the issue of faithfulness,
there really is one key question, which is HOW
to do it, right?

And the answer to the HOW is simple:

One makes the CHOICE.

If you want to become a DOCTOR, you are
going to have to do a lot of studying.  More
studying than might feel “natural”.

But if one makes the CHOICE to become a
doctor, they ACCEPT all the studying they
will have to do, and suddenly it no longer feels
like a BURDEN, but rather a way of LIFE
that is meaningful.

It is the same thing with FAITHFULNESS
and monogamy.

I’m not telling anyone they shouldn’t date
more than one woman, and I’m not telling
any woman they shouldn’t date more than
one man.

What I AM saying is that if you are already
the kind of man who knows HE can be faithful
to one woman, you need to meet a woman who
already has made the CONSCIOUS CHOICE
to live a life of faithfulness.

If she has never thought about these things,
you should NOT date her.  You CANNOT
make someone faithful or feel that fidelity
is right for them. 

Instead, THEY MUST MAKE THAT CHOICE
LONG BEFORE THEY EVEN MET YOU.

It has to be the way they APPROACH the
whole CONCEPT. 

A woman should make it clear to you
through conversation and through actions
that she has already made that choice.

This concept goes back to the concept of
EXISTENTIALISM, which in a nutshell
means that an individual can DEFINE his
own reality by CHOOSING what meaning
he gives to his own reality or situation.

Faithfulness can be looked at as a burden,
or it can be looked at as a special act of love,
a joyful form of giving, a reflection of  one’s
character, and a constantly growing bond
between a man and a woman.

But you can’t go around trying to TEACH
a woman any of this. She must already BE
that woman.

If you have any questions, I do have a personal
consultation service, and I do have the most
powerful programs on the planet for helping
you meet and attract a quality woman.

Consultations are at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

A catalogue with all my special programs for
meeting and attracting quality women is at: 

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks