The Truth And Nothing But The Truth When It Comes To Success With Women

For over 12 years now, I've been motivated by learning the truth about women and attraction. The truth may not be what sells, but in the end, it's the only thing that's important and the only way to actually get where you want to go.

So, for example, when the best-selling book called The Game came out, millions of men believed it all and they all thought that the best way and only way to really meet and attract women was by using pick-up lines.  

Even before the book had come out, I was telling the author on a Forum website devoted to the topic of dating and attraction that actually pick-up lines were not necessary- and I was already proving how to do the entire "pick up" in a more natural and effective way. 

Well, it only took the seduction/pick up artist community about 6 YEARS to finally realize that what I was saying was true. And not just in night clubs, but in meeting women ANYWHERE.

In fact, that was the NEXT thing that I was light-years ahead of- the whole idea that you can't usually meet the best kinds of women in night-clubs, because an attractive woman who also has her act together in terms of her morals, behaviors, and attitudes is not likely to want to go to a nightclub very often.  

The reason is because she ALREADY gets too much attention from the wrong guys, and the last place she wants to go is a place where she is going to be BOMBARDED by a bunch of drunk or tipsy guys who just want to get physical- if she just wanted that, she could meet a guy like that ANY second of ANY day. 

But again, it took MANY YEARS for those brainwashed by the effects of "group think" in the pick-up artist world, to SEE and BELIEVE what I had been teaching for many YEARS.

And by the way, of course, none of these guys would dare to give me one DROP of credit for all this, of course, because that would mean possibly encouraging guys to actually THINK rather than just listen to whatever they (the gurus) said.

And so I was explaining that the best way to meet a great woman is when these women are simply out and about doing their thing- getting groceries, going to the coffee shop, at the library, etc. 

Now, you still have to SCREEN women because ALL women are out there doing their thing, so you have to find the right ones through screening, but if you focus on nightclubs, you have to realize that the women in nightclubs are AWARE of the fact that it's a place where people go to drink and where for the most part, men are paying to meet women and not the other way around. 

So you have to ask yourself what kind of attractive woman needs to go there regularly, unless she is either looking for attention or promiscuous.  

But just because a woman is out and about during the day or evening in a place that is not a club, does not mean she is great girlfriend material.

This is another FACT that the pick up artist community wants to HIDE from you, or maybe doesn't even KNOW- but it's DAMN IMPORTANT THAT YOU DO KNOW- and that you know how to screen.

Here's ANOTHER thing they don't tell you:
WOMEN AND MEN ARE NOT THE SAME SEXUALLY


There is a TON of evidence that female nature is different from male nature.

So, for example, there was the famous experiment where 100 MEN were approached by a woman on a university campus, who were offered by the woman a chance to sleep with her, and almost EVERY man said yes.

Then, when the same experiment was set up on campus where 100 WOMEN were approached by a man for sex, EVERY WOMAN said no.

Source for this, by the way is: http://www.elainehatfield.com/79.pdf

And recently in the whole "Ashley Madison" news story, it turned out that almost NO MEN were actually MEETING ANY WOMEN-because in reality there were BARELY ANY WOMEN ON THE SITE---something the site tried to keep a secret!

The whole site was driven by MEN who WANTED to meet women, and who THOUGHT there were tons of women on these sites, but in reality, there were almost NO women on these sites, and the website had to actually FABRICATE the IDEA that there WERE tons of women on the site, in order to keep sucking in the men who were, unfortunately, looking for an affair.

But the point here is a LARGER point- that FEMALE NATURE is not as IMMEDIATELY driven by the same kind of sexual desire as MALE nature.

And YET, pick up artist after pick up artist KEEPS ON TELLING MEN that SECRETLY allllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll the women out there really want to SLEEP with a PLAYER, and are just BURSTING AT THE SEEMS to have sex with some guy who knows the MAGIC SECRET.

The TRUTH is, it's only a certain PERCENTAGE of women that are like this, and although their are, in ABSOLUTE terms, quite a few of these women, in terms of their actual percentage of the population of women, they are SUPER LOW and DO NOT REPRESENT THE NATURE OF MOST WOMEN.

But the majority of the pick up artist community wants you to think ALL women secretly just want to be promiscuous or in general that they have the same nature as men- so that you will think that since all women are really promiscuous anyway, you might as well join them since there is no point looking for a GREAT GIRLFRIEND that is not going to cheat on you or disrespect you, etc.

And again, most men, who just want to meet a great woman, will actually SCREW THEMSELVES BADLY by having the wrong picture of women and of reality.

And it's a bit sad, what is going on. You see, at one time, the promiscuous men and women knew to hang out at night clubs to meet their own types.

But now, thanks to GREED and the commercialization of human needs like love, sex, and affection, pick up artists are branching out into what used to be normal places- like EVERYWHERE else, and so now the normal women out there have to learn the hard way that a lot of these guys approaching them are not normal guys just trying to meet women as girlfriends, but rather playing a game to just try to gather as many women as possible, and trying to manufacture a connection with them that is actually NOT authentic. 

Which means that any GOOD women out there should actually have their guard up even MORE- but most women won't because it hasn't reached the tipping point yet. 

Of course, most women, even ones not informed in the slightest, will still put two and two together and it won't take too long for them to see when a guy is behaving in a way that doesn't add up.

By the way, this is yet another reason I can't associate with the pick up artist movement, even though there IS a GOOD purpose for learning these skills, and is what I teach men. 

I've always taught these skills ALONG with a sense of RESPONSIBILITY. 

To quote the first issue ever of Spider-Man, which was actually called "Amazing Fantasy"- "with great power comes great responsibility"- an idea that actually came from Voltaire.

 So remember, getting a woman into bed quick isn't a sign of how cool you are, it's a sign that a woman was unusual and is the type who wants to get physical fast with guys.

The IRONY of this all is that I was the guy who wrote, way back in 2003 in my first book, how MASCULINITY and FEMININITY are crucial parts of BIOLOGY, they are not just some invention- and how important it is for men to BE masculine and for women to be feminine in order to attract the opposite gender. 

But the pick up artist community only wants to embrace the part of the message that they like- the fact that it's GOOD for you to BE masculine and embrace your masculinity---but they DON'T WANT TO ACCEPT THE COROLLARY(the consequence) OF THIS- which means ALSO accepting that they want FEMININE women.

And although there ARE definitely promiscuous women, it goes AGAINST most women's nature to be as promiscuous as men naturally want to be (which is why over thousands of years, there has been that trade off- a man will be willing to be faithful to a woman who is truly worthy of it)- and deep down, men don't even WANT women to be promiscuous, they aren't even as attracted to promiscuous women.

So, if you REALLLLLLY want to embrace my message of the importance of masculinity in men, you ALSO must embrace the truth of the importance and the nature of FEMININITY in women.

That means seeing the GLARING TRUTH that can be seen with ANYONE with OPEN EYES OR EARS that MOST women are simply NOT as promiscuous as men---

--And if the pick up artists keep showing you videos of guys getting physical or sleeping with women- those are women that don't represent the kinds of women most guys want- just like how commercials on TV SHOW YOU things that don't represent THE TRUTH, but at least there there is the FINE PRINT at the bottom of the screen with all the disclaimers about how everything you are seeing is actually NOT TRUE.   

And so THIS explains the SLOW TREND these days in the pick up artist community AWAY from the night clubs and toward what they call DAYGAME. 

Again, trying to copy me, but STILL bastardizing the ACTUAL PART THAT MATTERS---because it's NOT about whether you meet a woman during the DAY or NIGHT- that whole distinction is REALLY referring to nightclubs versus "normal" places like the coffee shop, but you can meet a GREAT woman at night just about anywhere- it has NOTHING AT ALL TO DO WITH DAYGAME VERSUS NIGHTGAME--this is just yet MORE MARKETING LEADING TO DESTRUCTION OF ACTUAL TRUTH.

So if you are reading this now, ask yourself: "How many more YEARS of my life am I going to WASTE following the DISTORTIONS OF TRUTH promoted by most dating advice experts?"  

The DISTINCTIONS between TRUTH and DISTORTION of TRUTH are sometimes HARD to see when you are in the "middle of the forest"--you can't see the forest because of all the trees. 
 
And SUBTLETIES matter- as you have seen from all the above. It's not enough to get dating advice that SORT OF tells you PART of what you need to know- MISSING JUST ONE DROP OF IMPORTANT TRUTH is like launching a SPACECRAFT with just a few parts missing, the fuel just slightly wrong, the trajectory just a bit off---it will result in a DISASTER.

And getting the RIGHT woman in your life is the single most important other human being that you will ever interact with IN your life- it MATTERS A WHOLE HECK OF A LOT.
 
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Till next time, 

Michael Marks

P.S. Because having a sense of humor is so useful, including when it comes to interacting with women and being in the right state of mind, I thought I would include this following image on the idea of having great power and great responsibility:

 

Is Attracting Women About The Real You Or Is It A Game?

Is attracting women about the real you, or is
it just 'the game' to play to 'get a great girl'?

You know how I've often stated that this whole
"game" is about giving women AWESOME EMOTIONS?

And how you have to be combining a specific combo
of the right emotions in yourSELF as well?

Yeah, well guess what?
IT'S TRUE!!

The reason I say this is because some guys out there
STILL think that maybe this is all about being some
kind of "manipulator".

It ain't about that at ALL.

There are some guys that do the manipulation
thing, like telling a woman they will be
faithful to her, just in order to get her
into bed. Now THAT is just pure sleaze,
(or ignorance on the part of guys who
actually think women are ATTRACTED to
this kind of behavior) and most women
are smart enough to either catch on
beforehand, and certainly pretty quick to
get out of that situation once they see it.

So the "lies and deception" route is really
a poor strategy and is usually the choice
of the insecure.

In fact, it's kind of hilarious now
that I think about it, because I ALSO
used to think that's what it was about,
i.e. that women were somehow attracted
to the JERK behavior, instead of the
things that some jerks do RIGHT that
have nothing to do with being a jerk.

Take a look around, and you'll notice
that the "jerks" who do well with women
tend to demonstrate all the same things
I speak about in my materials.

And guess what?
So do all the DECENT guys who do well
with women!

It's not the JERKY part that is attractive,
it's the oozing of power behavior, the
understanding of female psychology,
the playfulness, the daring, the
social intelligence, the risk-taking,
and much more.

It's not about being a jerk.

It's about the PARTY, man!
It's about feeling GOOD.
It's about WILD TIMES.
Excitement. Passion.
And some laughs too.

And THEN, it's about building
the DEEPER awesome emotions,
that connect SUPREME INTIMACY
to all the above as well, and
THAT is what takes you through
the STRATOSPHERE with women.

In this world of attraction, there are no
negative emotions.
They simply DON'T EXIST.

Jealousies?
Insecurities?
Angers?
Bitterness?
Lack of zest?
Issues about sex?
(this doesn't mean to be foolhardy, you
should ALWAYS practice safer sex)
Chip on your shoulder?
Trivial pettiness?
The MUNDANE???

You think that stuff will attract women?
FORGET IT, IT WON'T WORK.
Especially on the fun ones, the quality ones.

All those crappy emotional states will DESTROY
the state of mind that makes the magical combo of
sexual state plus playful state plus "masculine" state
and the overall sense of calm SUPERIORITY work
so damn well.

But the ROUTE to BECOMING the kind of man
that GETS the women he wants has very little
to do with "thinking positive"---OTHERWISE
EVERY GUY WOULD BE THERE ALREADY!!

A while ago somebody referred to me as having
"frat boy demeanor". I thought he was giving
me a compliment, until I heard other comments
about how maybe all this stuff is "manipulative".

NO, SORRY, THIS STUFF AIN'T ABOUT THAT.
Sorry to ruin any conspiracy theorist's day.

Does anyone out there really think that women are STUPID?
Do you think that somehow I, or my clients, learn
to DECEIVE women into bed?

Or that we somehow DECIEVE women into laughter,
giggles, excitement, passion, horniness, and feeling
intense "chemistry"?

Or that we would ENJOY the experience if women
DID NOT ENJOY the experience as well???????

Women are not these little puppets and fools!!!

Listen, the good times are MUTUAL!
In fact, it's the mutual part that makes it feel good!
That's why we do this (*&t!
It wouldn't be fun if we were "tricking" women into
anything.

And part of the REASON we are ABLE to do this
stuff is because we focus on both our OWN emotional
states as well as on women's. We don't waste time or
energy on logic or logical hogwash that is useless.

We focus on GOOD TIMES. We're funny as hell.
We're playful. We understand the psychological
FRAME of this stuff so that we can do it anywhere.
It's part of us in fact. You can learn this stuff too!

We're sexual and not ashamed of it.
We know women are sexual and we make women
feel good about it instead of making them feel cheap.
We don't try to own women or tell them what to do.
By behaving in this cool way, we indirectly imply that
we have no need to control them, which implies that
we know we have enough value to keep women without
controlling them.

This kind of stuff is ATTRACTIVE, it's
the superior way to attract women.

And then the icing on the cake is that,
unlike the 'frat boys', we know how to
make a woman want to STICK AROUND,
because we understand the DEEPER
levels of attraction and intimacy,
and the truth is that we really
DO respect women, and in fact
we respect all human beings and
all LIFE.

It's this respect that allows us
to actually understand and connect
to women. The skill alone is great,
but skill without character is like
a race car without a driver.

At the same time we would NEVER let ANY woman
tell us what to do, especially not something
that we don't believe in, and ESPECIALLY NOT
because we were ever trying to gain her approval.

And in fact, we really are NOT worrying about women's
approval. It's the truth. We're not trying to piss women
off of course either. We're just being the REAL
"natural".

Now, NO ONE would call this manipulation.
The ONLY time people call this manipulation
is when they see someone else getting RESULTS
with it and they can't understand what the heck
is going on.

You see, the ONLY reason people think it's
manipulation or not being genuine, is because
they are living on a different plane of existence,
where things look very different from what they
really are.

When one is INSECURE, then he or she needs to be
BABIED. You need to have everyone be nervous
and rigid and formal and watching every last word
they say. But when you are among FRIENDS that
you TRUST and who make you feel GOOD, you're
okay to tease around in a friendly way. It's FUN
this way. You don't need to kiss up and you don't
need to be mean. And you don't NEED others to kiss
up to you either. In fact, you don't even WANT that.

THIS IS WHAT IT MEANS TO BE YOURSELF,
your real self without all that b.s. fear and insecurity.

But most guys are actually being MANIPULATIVE
in THEIR interactions with women, by trying to do
everything that they think will GAIN A CERTAIN
result with women. So they kiss up, they seek approval,
they are obsessed about losing her and they LOSE their
own identity. Their only identity is, "What do I do to
keep this woman happy?!".

And that reeks of INFERIORITY.
When you are doing this, you are NOT yourself.
You are a SLAVE to your own insecurities.
This is NOT natural, contrary to most popular
romantic bulls*&t.

And it's NOT FUN for women when a guy acts
that way. It's REPULSIVE, actually.
If a guy is going to focus on being "manipulative",
then at least he should focus on what WORKS lol.

And what works is making women feel BOOSTED
SELF ESTEEM BECAUSE YOU YOURSELF
FEEL THAT WAY ABOUT YOURSELF, thereby
enabling her to feel the transfer of this emotion to
herself.

What works is also making women feel SEXUAL because
you are relaxed and comfortable with your own sexuality.

What works is making women feel GIDDY because
you yourself have a playful way about you and you
yourself can see the humorous angle on things.

What works is having an interest in emotionally
compelling, intriguing, and fascinating topics because
women DON'T go out and get dressed up and sexy
in order to be BORED OUT OF THEIR MINDS!

And what WORKS is leading the show in a masculine
way all the way to the bedroom, because women want
THE MAN, otherwise they would not BE women!

The irony is that THESE THINGS are the REAL you.
If you are not this way right now, THAT is the fake you.
The real you was deconstructed by social brainwashing,
which buried the "real" you deep in the recesses of your
subconscious.

And in fact, this stuff goes way beyond women.
It's really not about being a jerk at all.
I see these guys sometimes who are such jerks to
each other, and then they wonder why they can't
get results with women. Look, if even every GUY
can't stand him, then you can be sure that women
won't like him either.

The guys who are good with women are actually
fun and cool people to be around in general as well.
Of course, there are SPECIFIC SKILLS and understandings
in ADDITION to this that are required for being awesome
with WOMEN, but the understanding of human beings
in general is definitely a part of the PREREQUISITE
SKILLS for being awesome with women as well.

This is why I feel like SLAPPING dudes who go round
telling guys that they don't need to LEARN anything,
that they "just need to be themselves" and they will
magically meet the women they want.

Unless someone shows us the WAY, it's impossible
to even SEE ourselves, because we've been doing
the wrong things for so long THAT THE WRONG
WAY STARTS TO SEEM LIKE THE ONLY REALITY!!!!

We start to actually FEEL that this is
who we ARE!

And it feels DAMN IMPOSSIBLE to change!!!

This is how deep the effect is of years
and years of repeating the wrong behaviors.

At first, you may feel that all these new
behaviours, perceptions, and skills that
I teach are like TRYING ON STRANGE NEW CLOTHES
that you have to WEAR for a while to get
comfortable in them, until you MAKE THEM
your own.

You may even feel a bit like you are "acting",
but I assure you, you are NOT. You are "acting"
like your REAL SELF.

Eventually you will be able to DROP the
intentional modeling that I show you, as
the modeling serves as a temporary device,
it is a LEARNING tool.

On that note, let me share with you an awesome letter
I received this week from a man who's turned his life
around by taking what he has learned through my
materials and services VERY SERIOUSLY:

***LETTER FROM A READER***

"From Potential Death and Despair to... Debonair"

Dear Michael,

The following is a VERY POWERFUL and TRULY
INSPIRATIONAL story of such significance, it
will inspire, and it makes what you do even
MORE IMPORTANT... read on...

I first came across your material BY PURE CHANCE
in 2004, when I was in a very low, and desperate situation.
So desperate and low in fact, that you will find out a little
later in this letter what happened. However, back to May
2004 - I typed into Google a question which ultimately led
me to your site and reading every single newsletter I
received.

I signed up to your FREE newsletter in May 2004.
After a year or so of your news letters, I got
your eBook. I was shocked when I saw that what
I read actually WORKED when it was put into
action - but I didn't realize WHY for a long time.

You will soon see what happened...

Prior to this, I became REALLY hung up on a
truly (so I thought) "beautiful" woman - who
"SUPPOSEDLY" was the "ONLY" woman who
was beautiful on earth. IT TOOK ME TWO
YEARS TO GET OVER HER - I only new her for
10 months, and in that whole period, I only met her
4 times, and in this WHOLE time all I got was a
KISS (on the cheek). I am actually laughing out
LOUD at how PATHETICALLY STUPID I
"USED" to be.

In REALITY there are 6 billion humans on earth,
about 3 billion females, of which at least close to
1 billion are close to my age (late 20s). In my whole
life so far - if I potentially saw 100 "DROP DEAD"
gorgeous women a day walking past X 356 X (late
20s!!!) - that makes about close to 1 million BABES
I have "SEEN" in my life to date. That is 0.1
PERCENT of the POTENTIAL WOMEN my age -
WHAT THE HECK WAS I THINKING before???

DUH! See - helps if you think PROSPERITY,
WEALTH, ABUNDANCE, and NOT LACK,
VICTIM PATHETIC NONSENSE! More of this
in a moment, but first, let's continue...

My life has been very painful, very lonely, and utter hell.
When most kids were out playing, having fun, I was
isolated, alone, and grew up rotting like a dead rat in a
place so isolated it was like hell. As a teenager, while
most people were out meeting the opposite sex, I rotted
in a room, painting, reading, trying to be creative and
take my mind off the isolation of the area I lived. I was
so low I slept all day and became slightly fat.

This continued through high school, into university and
in my first job. I used to put myself down, think I was
thick, walk with my head down, and I had NEVER had
ANY FRIENDS my whole life, up until the age of 23, let
alone a girl friend EVER. Most people would have
probably - well you know...not been here anymore.

After being isolated for about 10 years solid, and only
having a kiss on the cheek (from the woman mentioned
above), it got so painful that I used to PRAY to GOD
to give me cancer. (I would NEVER EVER harm myself
as I believe it is sinful and GOD would punish me). But I
wanted GOD to give me cancer and kill me off.

I then moved away at 23 to a large capital city. Through
my sheer guts and determination, after 6 months I made it
into a Fortune 500 Co. But after 3 years there I left, and
ended up in isolation for two more years (started May 2004).
I was truly inspired by JAMES BOND 007, and bought
the whole collection. I watched a film EVERY NIGHT,
night after night.

I read over and over and over again the Michael
material, and kept "VISUALISING" in my mind me
actually walking the walk! The subconscious mind is
not "INTELLIGENT" it is primeval - it accepts as reality
ANYTHING you tell it. So if you keep telling it you are
SMOOTH, SUAVE, SOPHISTICATED, it "BELIEVES"
it and forces your conscious mind to MAKE you what
you think about!!!

This is a FACT and has been PROVEN. Read about
COGNITIVE PSYCHOLOGY and the PYGMALION
EFFECT. So instead of listening to SISSY MUSIC like
"THE BOYS OF SUMMER" by Don Henley (great tune
but shame about the lyrics they are not the way of
"THE MAN") - instead listen to stuff like "THE BAD
TOUCH (Do it like they do on the discovery channel)"
By The Bloodhound Gang" LOL!!! - I Love that song -
I think I will serenade a woman with that!!! LOL.

I literally started to emulate Pierce Brosnan, and I mean
LITERALLY - the walk, the smirk, the swagger, the
smart-alec pithy lines, the hair, accent, tone of voice,
facial expressions, I mean EVERYTHING. And I did
this in total isolation. No friends, no text messages,
no emails, no phone calls, no nothing - I was a ghost
who no one knew even existed. NOW HERE'S THE
GOOD BIT MY FRIENDS... (it gets AWESOME)
- read on...

It has taken TWO years to UNDO the LACK and
VICTIM POISON mentality, and the POISONED
MEDIA MEDICATION that the media pump out -
where they tell you you must be a PC "GIRLY-MAN"
not "THE MAN". And also the stuff that comes out
the mouths of women LOL!!!

I have watched Pierce Brosnan in "The Thomas Crown
Affair", "Tailor of Panama" (Watch the lunch scene where
he propositions the "hot" woman - it is AWESOME),
I have watched "After the Sunset" (my favourite film to
date). I noted every detail from the way he raises his
eyebrows, the smirk, the walk the dress-sense,
sophistication and style of the guy. (YES I am 100%
STRAIGHT, HETRO and LOVE WOMEN - I watched
this to LEARN!!! Don't jump to wrong conclusions LOL)!
In a brief moment I will let you in on a huge secret,
read on...

But first, one thing that truly helped was what Michael
once wrote in a news letter: "Imagine how James Bond
would do something as trivial as order a pizza. He would
be confident, his voice would be authoritative, calm, slower,
deeper, and commanding" etc. After reading that, before
I ever opened my mouth, I used to think "HOW WOULD
007 DO THIS"??? - That really helped - thanks MW!
OK now for the moment you have been waiting for.
In advertising they show you the BEFORE and AFTER -
well I used to be Mr. BEAN Before. After this TWO YEAR
INTENSIVE program of feeding my mind with POSITIVE,
ABUNDANCE, PROSPERITY, WEALTH, and SUCCESS
programming, I have gone from VICTIM, PATHETIC,
LOSER-MINDED Mr.BEAN FOOL to...

Suave, debonair, sophisticated, WINNER -
Mr. Bond COOL! I am now on the last leg
of an MBA - Master of Business Administration,
I'm back in a Fortune 500 Co., I have a ripped
6-pack physique, and women showing more than
an interest. The trouble now is CHOOSING!!!

They LITERALLY CAN sense when you are like
James Bond - I took it one step further by copying
everything - the suits, walk, talk - EVERYTHING.
It also PROVES LOOKS don't mean ANYTHING -
I am NOT 6'2, I am 5'6. I have the same face I did
when I was LONELY - the only difference is I am
now well groomed, suave, and sophisticated.

The way I WALK, the CALMNESS, the TONE and
my EYE contact is WHAT makes the WOMEN start
digging deeper - NOT LOOKS, NOT MONEY, I am
NOT a multi millionaire (YET) - But I plan to be -
and WOMEN can SENSE that "PLAN" - I never
OPENLY SAY it but they SENSE the subtleties - that
you aim to be the BEST "YOU" that you can possibly
be.

It IS a primeval deep subconscious thing that "THE MAN"
brings out - MICHAEL is 100% TRUE, FACTUAL
and RIGHT - Listen to this dude he KNOWS what he
is talking about.

Finally, Pierce Brosnan, Connery, Moore, Dalton, but
especially Brosnan helped indirectly, copying them
worked, BUT I never knew WHY, that is until
Michael showed me through his material -
Michael - thanks you helped "SEAL THE DEAL"
and make me "THE MAN"

THANK YOU!!!

Kind regards

(name withheld).

MY COMMENTS:

AWESOME!!! Your letter is EXPLODING with
lessons, meaning, and power. Thank you for sharing
it and showing exactly HOW you applied so many
ideas to change your life with women and in so many
other ways as well.

It's not a co-incidence that all these awesome
changes happened to the same guy, because this
stuff works on a very deep level internally
that makes you better at EVERYTHING.

And you are living proof of how what starts
as modeling and learning, ends in BEING THE
REAL YOU. In fact, returning you to the
man you were MEANT to be.

You CREATE the reality you WANT, and you
take RESPONSIBILITY for that happening.

You REJECTED the social brainwashing hogwash
that some woman might be the only woman for you
even if she ain't treating you with respect.

You STUCK IT OUT with the NEW perspective
of reality even though at first it must have been
tough, but it eventually STRUCK with full force
and you made the REALIZATION that the NEW
perspective is the truth.

You CONFRONTED your past and REFUSED
to let it dictate your FUTURE.

You MODELLED excellence until you BECAME
excellence yourself. You did it CONSISTENTLY,
and you were METICULOUS in applying even
the subtleties, which I emphasize in the book
and in my teachings.

You cut out the crap from your mental and emotional
diet, even though some of it can be tempting as hell.

You proved that YOU can create your OWN reality
regardless of what others say.

As one of my heroes, Sylvester Stallone, has said,
life will hit you harder than anything you can imagine,
but it's not about how hard you can hit, it's about
how hard you can GET hit, and keep on moving
FORWARD.

So, my friend, BRAVO!

And if you are reading this and would like to change
YOUR life with women NOW, I suggest you get the
program that will make you READY the next time
you see a woman you want to attract: It's called
Warrior Within.

No more HESITATION when you see the woman
you want to approach.

No more 'RUNNING OUT OF THINGS TO SAY'.

No more BORING conversations.

No more wasting time on dates that go nowhere.

Instead, you'll be taking the most EFFECTIVE,
POWERFUL ACTION FROM THE FIRST MOMENT YOU
EVEN MAKE EYE CONTACT ALL THE WAY TO GETTING
UNDER THE COVERS AND BEYOND.

And make no mistake about it, this program
is ESPECIALLY geared for attracting the
very BEST types of women, the kind of
women that are the TOTAL PACKAGE.

In fact, this focus on how to get women
who are the 'total package' is what has
separated me since day one from the entire
field of dating advice on approaching and
attracting women.

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

And if you haven't yet downloaded my book,
'The Dating Wizard', do that immediately at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Wizard.html

And if you are ready for the IMMERSION EXPERIENCE,
where you will be pushed to your limits and then
taken WAY BEYOND what you thought was ever possible,
it's time for you to sign up for my REAL WORLD BOOTCAMP.

This is a program where the entire focus is on YOU.
It's the ultimate in private, exclusive, personal,
one-on-one coaching.

Find out all the details at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/realworld.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Power That Attracts A Woman

I want to bring something to your attention:

Maybe, you’ve heard that women are attracted
to POWER.

Maybe you’ve seen a lot of guys who don’t look
like models with women who are stunning.

Well, let me tell you the truth:
YES, POWER IS ATTRACTIVE.


However, most men don’t understand where
power BEGINS, the very FIRST place where
power must be wielded RUTHLESSLY, and
if it doesn’t show there, then you can forget
it with ANY woman.

It begins with power over YOURSELF, over your
own EMOTIONS.

Most men are slaves to many emotions.
Fear is just ONE.

Another emotion that many men are slaves to is
the desire to FOOL themselves that they can be
in two OPPOSITE places at once.

For example, they want to “fool around” and ALSO
have a great woman who is loyal to them.

It’s called wanting to have your cake and eat it too.

Here’s another fear- when a man is being “nice” to
a woman only out of fear of LOSING her.

He doesn’t TRULY believe in these good values.

OR, he is just being good to her because
he feels she is “out of his league”, so
he feels he has to overcompensate to be
“worthy” of her. So in reality, he fears
he is not worthy.

Now, a great woman who has got it all,
inside and out, if she is going to be
LOYAL to a man, she is investing a LOT
of herself into one man, she has to
make sure this man HAS the power inside
of himself, he has the power OVER himself,
to be a MASTER over his own emotions.

She know that if he DOES NOT have this,
then no matter what, it’s just a matter
of time before he fails EVERYWHERE, he
will fail to achieve in life, he will
fail to be loyal, he will be a FAILURE,
period.

All because he does not have the power
over his OWN emotions.

A lot of the time, guys want to know how I manage
to achieve such stellar results with men in my
bootcamps, in such little time, and all without
any of the artificial “tactics” from books like
“The Game”.

The answer is that these men in my bootcamps
succeed not in SPITE of avoiding these tactics,
but BECAUSE they avoid these artificial means.

Instead, my students succeed because I instill in
them the FIRE that CLEANSES through all the
crap weaknesses and all the toxic illusions that
are holding them back.

It’s about INJECTING AS MUCH CONVICTION
AND TRUTH AND REALITY behind every nuance
in your voice in every word you say, no matter what
you are saying.  

It has to all come from a place in your mind that is
absolutely clear and has no doubt about how much
you truly MEAN it.

So when a man tells a woman he LIKES her and that
he wants her number, and when he values loyalty and
will GIVE loyalty, every bit of what he says must come
from a place that is willing to PAY THE PRICE for
what he wants.

He has to be CONSISTENT and CONGRUENT to it.
He can’t want to be “pulling chicks” from “the hottest clubs”
while ALSO wanting to get a woman who is truly LOYAL.

And he can’t want loyalty because he is AFRAID
of a woman cheating on him.

He must want loyalty because he understands the VALUE
of mutual loyalty, trust, friendship, and how that
is the SECRET behind any great success in anything.

This is why when I see supposed “gurus” talking out of
both sides of their mouth, one day talking about being
“MACK DADDIES” and then one day talking about
wanting a great girlfriend, and pretending they are
experts at both, it’s obvious to me that are actually
experts at NIETHER, because you can’t be in two
opposite places at once.

Let me illustrate this in a way that makes it easy to understand:

Let’s say you saw a woman, who was saying
“Oh I wish I could meet a great guy who was loyal to me”
and then  five minutes later she was saying “Oh I can’t
wait to go to that club and see which hot guys are there
that I can go home with”.

Would you believe for one SECOND that this woman would
be the type that could stand the TEST of loyalty over
time, that could stand up to the FIRE of the test?

And the reality is that for a woman, who is of PRIME
“value”, who is willing to truly give of herself to
a man, she knows her value won’t be “prime” forever,
so she must be even MORE ruthless in making sure
she is with the RIGHT man, even more ruthless than
a man must be in making sure he is with the right
woman, because her SHELF LIFE is not as long,
as women age a bit faster than men.

Do you see why following “PICK UP ARTIST” advice
is a SURE FIRE WAY to REPEL any woman who
is attractive and who will also actually be LOYAL
to you?

It’s so ironic how there are actually supposed “experts”
out there who promise to tell you how to be an authentic
man, but who are actually promoting totally opposite
things that will make you incongruent, inconsistent,
and to put it bluntly, to make you appear UGLY
in all the most destructive ways, in the way you
come across to a great woman.  
    
A woman who is a genuine gem is checking you out to
see how CONGRUENT, HOW CONSISTENT you are,
to all the valuable character traits she must have in a man,
including the power over himself, the power to be a
good man for all the right reasons and not just out of
fear or out of desperation.  She can DETECT the
difference.

You must have LASER-BEAM PURITY OF FOCUS.

When you are talking to a woman and you speak
about great values, you must feel that you can
“CASH THAT CHEQUE” behind EVERY WORD
that you say.  How can you truly mean that you want
loyalty and expect it, when you are also wanting to
be a guy who does the very things to women that
you would not want a woman to do to you? If you
want her to be faithful, would you like it if she was
obsessed with how to get ALL the guys rather than
with how to get the RIGHT guy?

Similarly, if she is looking for the RIGHT MAN,
she does NOT want a man who is trying to get
ALL the women rather than THE RIGHT woman.

And again, she subconsciously detect all this,
(she not even conscious of it) from billions of
subtleties in your behaviors, behaviors which
flow from the way you THINK, and those
thoughts flow from the values you have
taken on for yourself. 

And if you are reading this right now, and are
SERIOUS about getting a GREAT woman, then
I suggest you do the following THREE things:

1.ONE: ACTIONS FOR ATTRACTION

Subscribe to my “Actions For Attraction” monthly series:

This month, I interview a man who has spent
THIRTY YEARS helping men learn to handle
ANY PRESSURE and stay super calm no matter
what.  Can you imagine what this will do for your
INNER GAME when you approach and interact
with women???      

He’s worked with ASTRONAUTS.
He’s worked with the military.
He’s even been hired by a billion dollar pharmaceutical
company to create results in humans WITHOUT using
drugs. (They want to make sure they have the market
covered on EVERYTHING.)

And now, you can get access to him through this
special interview and learn:

-How to unleash your creativity so you don’t need
pick-up lines.

- How to ENSURE you are breathing in a special way
that MAKES you enter a super-calm state of mind.
( never even HEARD of this technique before, and the
great thing about it is that it’s SIMPLE and you can’t
go wrong.)

-How to be ready in the moment, so that no matter what
she says or what happens, you are READY to deal with it.

- How to SKYROCKET your CONFIDENCE and SELF-ESTEEM
no matter HOW beautiful you feel she is.

- The best athletes are able to give their PEAK PERFORMANCE
even under pressure, and sometimes  ESPECIALLY under
pressure? That’s because they’ve learned how to “turn on” a
certain physiological response at the right  time, and you are
going to learn how to do this as well, when under the same kind
of pressure in any situation with any woman.

- These changes are not just something that MIGHT
happen, they WILL happen.  In fact, over the next
three months, you will see changes almost every
single day until you don’t even recognize your old
self in three months.

- Have you ever felt NERVOUS while approaching a woman?
Or nervous while talking to her? Well, the problem with this
is not just that your nerves ruin your own success, but that
your emotional state affects HER state as well and makes
HER nervous too, thereby ensuring that your interaction fails.

Well, the great news is that what you will learn from this
interview will not only teach you how to become SUPER
calm during any event like this, but you will ALSO see
how you can make HER feel calm and relaxed as well-
I’m sure you can already see the value of this in a situation
where a woman is feeling UNEASY being approached.

So you’re not only going to learn to master your own
state of mind, but also how to change HER state as well
so that she goes from being uncomfortable to actually
WANTING  you to continue with her.

-What you’re going to learn will also allow you to increase
the sensuality between you and a woman, whether it’s the
first time you’re with her or whether you’ve known her
a long time.

- It will also skyrocket the sense of connection
she feels with you. 

If you haven’t subscribed to this incredible monthly series,
then you definitely want to do that now.
 
For only 20 bucks a month, you will receive a
POWERFUL, hour-long CD every month crammed
with the latest tips on how to improve EVERYTHING
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your skills at HUMOR, to how to escalate PHYSICALLY,
to how to make the initial APPROACH, to how to
develop MASTERY level INNER GAME.

The deadline for signing up to subscribe and receive this
latest CD is Saturday, October 31, at 11:59pm.   

That’s just ONE MORE DAY.
 
Get it now at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/actions.html
   
2. TWO: The 'GET A GREAT GIRL' E-Book

This book is the FOUNDATION, where it all
begins.

Inside, I will show the TRUTH on what you need
to KNOW and what you need to DO to meet,
attract, and KEEP a great woman.

Download it IMMEDIATELY at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Book.html

3. THREE: WARRIOR WITHIN

I’m currently working on a MASSIVE project,
WARRIOR WITHIN, this will be a VERY ADVANCED
LEVEL project.

It’s almost ready, so stay tuned for further announcements
on this…

This is something that every man must have, every man that
is SERIOUS about long-lasting success in this area of his
life with women.

In the meantime, you can check out the preview at:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HouK6GqGsoM

Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Real Thing

"The Real Thing" is always going to have copy-cats

trying to imitate it.  For example, James Cameron, the 
man who made Terminator, True Lies, Aliens, The Abyss, 
and Titanic, pours his heart and soul into everything

he does.

That means it takes time to do it right.

Years. So of course, trying to cash in off of him, are 
pathetic "imitators" who make crap that no one 
remembers or gets inspired by or that cause
any true positive change in the world. So, for 
example, there have been tons of films that were 
trying to rip off Terminator, but that no one remembers.

When Cameron was making The Abyss, of course there

was the copy cats making other ocean movies. After Titanic, 
there were all kinds of movies that suddenly had sinking ships
as part of the main plot. No one remembers these imitations
.

In fact, sometimes, because they know that Cameron's movies

take time to make, the imitators find out what he is making

then try to quickly make a crap movie that will be on the

same general topic, hoping to cash in on the general

anticipation, and release it into theaters before Cameron's

great films.

The same thing happened with Cameron's upcoming AVATAR.

No one even talks about the imitators. Avatar, on the other hand, 
will likely revolutionize the entire film industry.

So why do I bring this all up?
I bring it up to make it clear that if you want
a woman who is the real thing, and you want
to become the kind of man that is the real thing,
it's not about the overnight success, it's about
REAL DEVELOPMENT.

I'm working on something called WARRIOR WITHIN,
it's taken years and it's almost ready....

There will be all types of imitators though...
They'll come and go, and quickly be forgotten.

If imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, then I'm blushing.