If You Think She's OUT Of Your League................ Or You Think She Is IN Your League............. You're RIGHT Either Way

Today, I want to remind you of one of the most

important PILLARS of attracting women, and

this becomes even more important when

you're trying to attract a woman who you

find to be extraordinarily beautiful.

When it comes to attraction, as men, we can

BUILD attraction in women.  And yet, rather

than building attraction, we often DO THINGS

ON OUR OWN to HARM our own attractiveness.

There's a film, I've mentioned it before, called

"She's Out of My League", where this dude meets

this knockout, and the one thing he has about

himself is that he doesn't try to impress the

woman by being someone ELSE.  That's what

he has going for him.

Also, he has a bit of a sense of humor and he can
OWN his own lack of perfection, he can talk about
his own flaws in a way that takes out the steam
from them because once he's said it, it takes away
the power from that flaw since it's already been
expressed by him himself.   He can speak about
"the elephant in the room" which gets rid of the
POWER of that "elephant".

This is a strong quality, that if you have any flaws
that are massively evident, rather than trying to hide
them, let them be exposed by yourself, it shows
a lot more social intelligence that way, especially
if you aren't going on a rant about it, and you
seem pretty calm about it.

HOWEVER, the one DISASTROUS thing he does,
is that he CAN'T BELIEVE THAT A WOMAN AS
ATTRACTIVE AS HER CAN REALLY WANT TO
BE WITH HIM.

So, based on this belief, he interprets EVERYTHING
as a reason why this girl will not want to be with him.

Your self-concept is CRUCIAL here. So, if you believe
a woman is out of your league, your behaviors that follow
as a result of that belief will ensure she is repulsed.

On the other hand, if you believe a woman is "IN your league"
so to speak, then you will continue to do the behaviors that
keep on attracting her more and more.

Either way, your beliefs will become reality for those
reasons.  

The story in the film is a great illustration of the point.

While the girl is slowly getting more attracted to him
as the movie goes on, there is a point where his FEARS
start to screw things up with her, and one of the biggest
examples is when he SERIOUSLY HOPES she has
some MAJOR FLAW of her own, so that this way
he can feel she will more likely want to stay with him.

Think about that for a second- why on earth would
a man who is attracted to a woman who is treating
him RIGHT, and who is a KNOCKOUT, why
would he WISH that she actually had to have
some kind of DEFECT to her?

The answer is INSECURITY and NEEDINESS.
The insecurity says, "Well, if she has a flaw, then
maybe she will accept my flaws."

The NEEDINESS says that, "I can't feel good without
her, so I must find some way to KEEP her regardless
of what's good for her or not, in fact let's start WISHING
she had some problems, some DEFECT in fact!!
YEAH, that would be perfect!"

And this is not just a movie thing, it's very common
to REAL LIFE.  When feeling insecure and needy,
it's quite HUMAN to almost wish there was SOME
flaw to the "perfectness" of the other person, the
woman who we think is "OUT OF OUR LEAGUE".

Now, think about it from the woman's point of view:
How can she love a man who SERIOUSLY WISHES SHE
HAS OR WILL GET SOME DEFECT????????????????

Just because HE is afraid that he is not good enough for her.

The point of all this, is that INSECURITY AND NEEDINESS
can turn a guy who is slowly growing on a woman into being
a guy who went from being a 5 or 6 into being an 8, 9, or 10,
and then this INSECURITY AND NEEDINESS constantly
CUTS HIM DOWN BY ANOTHER "POINT".

Self-Esteem
She's Out of My League at MOVIECLIPS.com

Each time you RESIST the urge to give into insecurities,
you GAIN a point on the attraction scale.

But in this movie, he does the opposite, and each time he
allows himself to give IN to his insecurities, he LOSES another
point on the attraction scale to the woman.

And THAT is how he ends up as a "5", when he was
at one point more of a 9 on his way to being a TEN.

That is, until near the end of the movie, when he realizes
how SCREWED UP his own thinking has been and
how he IS indeed a "10"!

And here's the OTHER major news:  EVEN THE GUYS
EVERYONE THINKS HAVE IT "ALL" ACTUALLY
VERY OFTEN HAVE MAJOR INSECURITIES AS WELL!!!!!!!!!!

And the movie actually reflects this reality, as the very
guy he is jealous of, who used to date the knockout
in the past, did JUST AS MANY INSECURE THINGS
as well!!!!  He just puts on a show in front of the rest
of the world that he is really secure, but when it came
to being with the knockout, he screwed things up
just as bad, all because he thought the woman
would ultimately dump him.

This happens in real life all the time!!!

It doesn't matter if you're an "A LIST" ACTOR,
IT DOESN'T MATTER IF YOU'RE A MODEL OR
BILLIONAIRE, the bottom line is that EVERYONE
has insecurities, and if you let those insecurites and
neediness affect your ACTIONS, it will harm the
attraction a woman feels for you.

Yet the crucial thing to remember is that if you
RESIST the urge to give in to those insecurities,
you keep on RISING on the bar of attraction.

Now, speaking of MASTERING ATTRACTION
and beating insecurity and neediness, as well as learning
practical and super effective ways of attracting women,
you're going to LOVE my 'Attraction Accelerators'
instant download program which goes into FULL
EXPLICIT DETAIL on this!

You will learn some of the most effective,
hard-core insights and strategies that I teach
to men in my live Bootcamp programs, where
we approach and attract real women in person
in every venue and situation you can think of.

Here are just  SOME of the powerful and
immediately-applicable REAL WORLD
strategies and insights you will learn. Remember,
ALL of what you are going to learn in this
program is going to be IMMEDIATELY
useful when you see a woman you’d like
to approach and attract anywhere:

*You’ll learn the mistakes men make when
“scoping” out a room to check out the women
there, and you’ll learn the RIGHT way to do this.

Doing this WRONG ends up causing you to lose
the woman BEFORE you even say a word to her.

*How to avoid the number 1 mistake that makes
you PROCRASTINATE from taking action- if you
don’t stop this mistake, chances are you will
keep procrastinating when it comes to approaching
women forever, because of the addictive nature
of this type of procrastination.

*The RIGHT way to go about walking toward a woman
you see in a club or food court, and the WRONG WAY
THAT YOU MUST AVOID. (Most guys take the wrong
“route” and it comes across as very insecure and
REPULSIVE.)

*The proper DISTANCE you should actually be when
chatting to a woman you find attractive. It’s a lot
closer than most guys think!

*I’m going to answer all questions related to:
"I hear that you're supposed to let the woman
speak about herself! If I just listen to her, how
will she know anything cool about me?"

*You’ll also learn how to START the conversation
in a way that is compelling, unique, and a proper "FIT"
for your own personality- this way, you will have
no competition because no one can match your
unique "personality DNA", and you will also
feel comfortable since you will not be
doing an artificial "act".

*You’ll ALSO learn the most effective things to be doing
in any social or party situation you find yourself in where
you can meet women. In a party/lounge/club atmosphere,
there is a certain “sequence of things” that will really help
you get much farther than doing the typical “Hi, let’s
stand and talk for as long as possible and hopefully this
will lead to getting your phone number or something more”.

I’ll show you a way of handling these kinds of environments
in a way that is AT LEAST TEN TIMES MORE EFFECTIVE
at creating attraction and also at making her see you as
someone she would like to know beyond just this party
or club, etc.

*You’ll also learn how to make the environment of
a party, lounge, or social situation work in your favor.
So the fact there are lots of people there walking around,
the fact that she may be going for a drink and walking
away, the fact she may be looking for her friends,
ALL THESE THINGS can actually be turned around
and work in your FAVOR- I’LL SHOW YOU HOW!!!

*When it’s CRITICAL that you tell a woman that you LIKE
her, really FAST! This has absolutely nothing to do with
“kissing up”, and in fact not telling her you like her will
be seen by her as you being massively insecure or even
worse, clueless about sexuality.

*How to say what’s on your mind (rather than
Just talking about “safe” topics that are boring)
in a way that gets women filling in the rest of
the conversation for you!

This way, you not only lead the conversation,
which gets the woman to become more feminine
in your presence and follow you, but it also
sets up the best sexual dynamic between the
two of you.

It ALSO allows you to do less work, because
since you started the conversation, that in
itself shows you have plenty to say, but it
also allows you to chill out and lean back
and now just listen to what she has to say—
Which of course gives you tons more things
to talk about and gives you the ability to
also give her a genuine compliment which
she will value!

I’ll show you exactly how this all works!

*You’ll learn the RIGHT amount of body contact
to have with a woman you just met, and how
to do it.

*Ever wonder if a woman is into you or not?
Do you let this stop you from taking action?
Here’s what to do in all those situations!

*How to build ACTION MOMENTUM in your
overall PLAN for getting the woman of your
dreams, so that you are taking ACTION
every day on this and not getting swept
up in all the obstacles to you achieving this
goal.

*How to use a proven principle from psychology
that will TAKE OVER YOUR MIND AND MAKE
SURE YOU BECOME FAR MORE SELF-CONFIDENT
no matter what you do otherwise!

This principle is PROVEN, again and again, to WORK.
A top university in the United States has proven
this principle to be very effective, and I’m going
to show you how to apply it on yourself with women.

*You’ll also learn to bring yourself to a higher level
of “skill” when it comes to everything you do with
women, from first seeing her, to chatting, to getting
her laughing, to getting under the sheets, to even
getting into a relationship and keeping things going-
by adopting a subtle yet crucial distinction for yourself:

Most people say they will “try” to succeed.
That’s not good enough.

However, we also know that lying to ourselves
isn’t good either.

There is something else, a different mindset, that
is based on TRUTH, that is more empowering,
and I’ll share that with you as well.

*If a woman contacts you with voice mail, email,
or text, I’ll show the best way to RESPOND to these
particular modes of communication in a way that
puts you in the driver’s seat, so to speak.

*I’ll show you one of the most powerful things
you can do to a woman to get her to say to
herself ‘THIS GUY IS THE FULL PACKAGE’.

I’ll show you the GENUINE way to truly “qualify”
a woman in a way that is a HUNDRED times
more effective than the trivial, “Oh you like
chewing gum? So do I! That’s awesome! ”

Qualifying a woman in a MEANINGFUL way is the
final stage before getting physical with her, and
99% of men out there are STILL doing this wrong.

This is why most of the guys who follow pick up
artist advice end up confused, because they got
the woman’s attention, but then she flaked out
later on. There’s a reason she flaked out, and
it’s called lack of meaningful qualifying.

*You’ll also learn how to get the very women
that seem “difficult” at first, and you’ll realize
how most guys are LOSING out on these
supposedly difficult women by abandoning ship
for easier pastures….but the thing is, these
women who seem “difficult” initially are often
the BEST KINDS OF WOMEN because they know
they have high worth and self esteem, and they
don’t sleep around much.

Now, there is a fine line between difficult and
being a spoiled b****. I’ll show you how to
get those “difficult” women.

*I’ll also show you how to PROPERLY give women
the DOMINANCE polarity they crave so badly.

Attractive women especially crave this, as every
man they meet kisses up to them so badly, these
women have never felt what it’s like to be with
a man who can truly be DOMINANT at the right
times.

*You’ll also learn the art of “VIBING” with a woman,
which is probably the single most important overall
skill with women, and can be the easiest, yet our
brainwashing makes us FORGET this again and
again. I’ll show you the things that help for
making “vibing” with women come easily to you.

If you’d like to get this special program
that is jam packed with GOLDEN insights,
strategies, and tips to get you the kind of women
you want, then you need to go here NOW:

http://getagreatgirl.com/attraction-accelerators.html

And the NEXT step is to take my BOOTCAMP and

learn it all IN PERSON on women in real time.

BOOTCAMP is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Truth About Attracting A Woman Who Is A "Ten"

When it comes to attraction, as men, we can
BUILD attraction in women.  And yet, rather
than building attraction, we often DO THINGS
ON OUR OWN to HARM our own attractiveness.

There's a film called "She's Out of My League",
where this guy meets this knockout, and the
one thing he has about himself is that he
doesn't try to impress the woman by being
someone ELSE.  That's what he has going
for him.

Also, he has a bit of a sense of humor and he can
OWN his own lack of perfection, he can talk about
his own flaws in a way that takes out the steam
from them because once he's said it, it takes away
the power from that flaw since it's already been
expressed by him himself.   He can speak about
"the elephant in the room" which gets rid of the
POWER of that "elephant".

This is a strong quality, that if you have any flaws
that are massively evident, rather than trying to hide
them, let them be exposed by yourself, it shows
a lot more social intelligence that way, especially
if you aren't going on a rant about it, and you
seem pretty calm about it.

HOWEVER, the one DISASTROUS thing he does,
is that he CAN'T BELIEVE THAT A WOMAN AS
ATTRACTIVE AS HER CAN REALLY WANT TO
BE WITH HIM.

So, based on this belief, he interprets EVERYTHING
as a reason why this girl will not want to be with him.

So, while the girl is slowly getting more attracted to him
as the movie goes on, there is a point where his FEARS
start to screw things up with her, and one of the biggest
examples is when he SERIOUSLY HOPES she has
some MAJOR FLAW of her own, so that this way
he can feel she will more likely want to stay with him.

Think about that for a second- why on earth would
a man who is attracted to a woman who is treating
him RIGHT, and who is a KNOCKOUT, why
would he WISH that she actually had to have
some kind of DEFECT to her?

The answer is INSECURITY and NEEDINESS.
The insecurity says, "Well, if she has a flaw, then
maybe she will accept my flaws."

The NEEDINESS says that, "I can't feel good without
her, so I must find some way to KEEP her regardless
of what's good for her or not, in fact let's start WISHING
she had some problems, some DEFECT in fact!!
YEAH, that would be perfect!"

And this is not just a movie thing, it's very common
to REAL LIFE.  When feeling insecure and needy,
it's quite HUMAN to almost wish there was SOME
flaw to the "perfectness" of the other person, the
woman who we think is "OUT OF OUR LEAGUE".

Now, think about it from the woman's point of view:
How can she love a man who SERIOUSLY WISHES SHE
HAS OR WILL GET SOME DEFECT????????????????

Just because HE is afraid that he is not good enough for her.

The point of all this, is that INSECURITY AND NEEDINESS
can turn a guy who is slowly growing on a woman into being
a guy who went from being a 5 or 6 into being an 8, 9, or 10,
and then this INSECURITY AND NEEDINESS constantly
CUTS HIM DOWN BY ANOTHER "POINT".

Self-Esteem
She's Out of My League at MOVIECLIPS.com

Each time you RESIST the urge to give into insecurities,
you GAIN a point on the attraction scale.

But in this movie, he does the opposite, and each time he
allows himself to give IN to his insecurities, he LOSES another
point on the attraction scale to the woman.

And THAT is how he ends up as a "5", when he was
at one point more of a 9 on his way to being a TEN.

That is, until near the end of the movie, when he realizes
how SCREWED UP his own thinking has been and
how he IS indeed a "10"!

And here's the OTHER major news:  EVEN THE GUYS
EVERYONE THINKS HAVE IT "ALL" ACTUALLY
VERY OFTEN HAVE MAJOR INSECURITIES AS WELL!!!!!!!!!!

And the movie actually reflects this reality, as the very
guy he is jealous of, who used to date the knockout
in the past, did JUST AS MANY INSECURE THINGS
as well!!!!  He just puts on a show in front of the rest
of the world that he is really secure, but when it came
to being with the knockout, he screwed things up
just as bad, all because he thought the woman
would ultimately dump him.

This happens in real life all the time!!!

It doesn't matter if you're an "A LIST" ACTOR,
IT DOESN'T MATTER IF YOU'RE A MODEL OR
BILLIONAIRE, the bottom line is that EVERYONE
has insecurities, and if you let those insecurites and
neediness affect your ACTIONS, it will harm the
attraction a woman feels for you.

Yet the crucial thing to remember is that if you
RESIST the urge to give in to those insecurities,
you keep on RISING on the bar of attraction.

Now, speaking of MASTERING ATTRACTION
and beating insecurity and neediness, as well as learning
practical and super effective ways of attracting women,
you're going to LOVE my 'Attraction Accelerators'
instant download program which goes into FULL
EXPLICIT DETAIL on this!

You will learn some of the most effective,
hard-core insights and strategies that I teach
to men in my live Bootcamp programs, where
we approach and attract real women in person
in every venue and situation you can think of.

Here are just  SOME of the powerful and
immediately-applicable REAL WORLD
strategies and insights you will learn. Remember,
ALL of what you are going to learn in this
program is going to be IMMEDIATELY
useful when you see a woman you’d like
to approach and attract anywhere:

*You’ll learn the mistakes men make when
“scoping” out a room to check out the women
there, and you’ll learn the RIGHT way to do this.

Doing this WRONG ends up causing you to lose
the woman BEFORE you even say a word to her.

*How to avoid the number 1 mistake that makes
you PROCRASTINATE from taking action- if you
don’t stop this mistake, chances are you will
keep procrastinating when it comes to approaching
women forever, because of the addictive nature
of this type of procrastination.

*The RIGHT way to go about walking toward a woman
you see in a club or food court, and the WRONG WAY
THAT YOU MUST AVOID. (Most guys take the wrong
“route” and it comes across as very insecure and
REPULSIVE.)

*The proper DISTANCE you should actually be when
chatting to a woman you find attractive. It’s a lot
closer than most guys think!

*I’m going to answer all questions related to:
"I hear that you're supposed to let the woman
speak about herself! If I just listen to her, how
will she know anything cool about me?"

*You’ll also learn how to START the conversation
in a way that is compelling, unique, and a proper "FIT"
for your own personality- this way, you will have
no competition because no one can match your
unique "personality DNA", and you will also
feel comfortable since you will not be
doing an artificial "act".

*You’ll ALSO learn the most effective things to be doing
in any social or party situation you find yourself in where
you can meet women. In a party/lounge/club atmosphere,
there is a certain “sequence of things” that will really help
you get much farther than doing the typical “Hi, let’s
stand and talk for as long as possible and hopefully this
will lead to getting your phone number or something more”.

I’ll show you a way of handling these kinds of environments
in a way that is AT LEAST TEN TIMES MORE EFFECTIVE
at creating attraction and also at making her see you as
someone she would like to know beyond just this party
or club, etc.

*You’ll also learn how to make the environment of
a party, lounge, or social situation work in your favor.
So the fact there are lots of people there walking around,
the fact that she may be going for a drink and walking
away, the fact she may be looking for her friends,
ALL THESE THINGS can actually be turned around
and work in your FAVOR- I’LL SHOW YOU HOW!!!

*When it’s CRITICAL that you tell a woman that you LIKE
her, really FAST! This has absolutely nothing to do with
“kissing up”, and in fact not telling her you like her will
be seen by her as you being massively insecure or even
worse, clueless about sexuality.

*How to say what’s on your mind (rather than
Just talking about “safe” topics that are boring)
in a way that gets women filling in the rest of
the conversation for you!

This way, you not only lead the conversation,
which gets the woman to become more feminine
in your presence and follow you, but it also
sets up the best sexual dynamic between the
two of you.

It ALSO allows you to do less work, because
since you started the conversation, that in
itself shows you have plenty to say, but it
also allows you to chill out and lean back
and now just listen to what she has to say—
Which of course gives you tons more things
to talk about and gives you the ability to
also give her a genuine compliment which
she will value!

I’ll show you exactly how this all works!

*You’ll learn the RIGHT amount of body contact
to have with a woman you just met, and how
to do it.

*Ever wonder if a woman is into you or not?
Do you let this stop you from taking action?
Here’s what to do in all those situations!

*How to build ACTION MOMENTUM in your
overall PLAN for getting the woman of your
dreams, so that you are taking ACTION
every day on this and not getting swept
up in all the obstacles to you achieving this
goal.

*How to use a proven principle from psychology
that will TAKE OVER YOUR MIND AND MAKE
SURE YOU BECOME FAR MORE SELF-CONFIDENT
no matter what you do otherwise!

This principle is PROVEN, again and again, to WORK.
A top university in the United States has proven
this principle to be very effective, and I’m going
to show you how to apply it on yourself with women.

*You’ll also learn to bring yourself to a higher level
of “skill” when it comes to everything you do with
women, from first seeing her, to chatting, to getting
her laughing, to getting under the sheets, to even
getting into a relationship and keeping things going-
by adopting a subtle yet crucial distinction for yourself:

Most people say they will “try” to succeed.
That’s not good enough.

However, we also know that lying to ourselves
isn’t good either.

There is something else, a different mindset, that
is based on TRUTH, that is more empowering,
and I’ll share that with you as well.

*If a woman contacts you with voice mail, email,
or text, I’ll show the best way to RESPOND to these
particular modes of communication in a way that
puts you in the driver’s seat, so to speak.

*I’ll show you one of the most powerful things
you can do to a woman to get her to say to
herself ‘THIS GUY IS THE FULL PACKAGE’.

I’ll show you the GENUINE way to truly “qualify”
a woman in a way that is a HUNDRED times
more effective than the trivial, “Oh you like
chewing gum? So do I! That’s awesome! ”

Qualifying a woman in a MEANINGFUL way is the
final stage before getting physical with her, and
99% of men out there are STILL doing this wrong.

This is why most of the guys who follow pick up
artist advice end up confused, because they got
the woman’s attention, but then she flaked out
later on. There’s a reason she flaked out, and
it’s called lack of meaningful qualifying.

*You’ll also learn how to get the very women
that seem “difficult” at first, and you’ll realize
how most guys are LOSING out on these
supposedly difficult women by abandoning ship
for easier pastures….but the thing is, these
women who seem “difficult” initially are often
the BEST KINDS OF WOMEN because they know
they have high worth and self esteem, and they
don’t sleep around much.

Now, there is a fine line between difficult and
being a spoiled b****. I’ll show you how to
get those “difficult” women.

*I’ll also show you how to PROPERLY give women
the DOMINANCE polarity they crave so badly.

Attractive women especially crave this, as every
man they meet kisses up to them so badly, these
women have never felt what it’s like to be with
a man who can truly be DOMINANT at the right
times.

*You’ll also learn the art of “VIBING” with a woman,
which is probably the single most important overall
skill with women, and can be the easiest, yet our
brainwashing makes us FORGET this again and
again. I’ll show you the things that help for
making “vibing” with women come easily to you.

If you’d like to get this special program
that is jam packed with GOLDEN insights,
strategies, and tips to get you the kind of women
you want, then you need to go here NOW:

http://getagreatgirl.com/attraction-accelerators.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Keeping A Woman's Attention Once You've Approached Her

Today, on the "Get A Great Girl" Forum,
(http://forum.getagreatgirl.com/) I noticed
a fantastic discussion about how to approach
a woman, and how to KEEP her attention. 

One of the challenges is keeping the conversation
going and not get stalled after a minute or so.

There is a SOLUTION to this, as you will find
below.

COMMENTS/ QUESTION FROM A MAN
ON THE "GET A GREAT GIRL" FORUM

“I'm almost fearless with approaches & openers,
but man, I get stymied after a minute or so,
except with a captive audience, e.g. sitting near
a hot babe on the subway - since you are both
rooted in one spot for at least a few minutes, it's
easy to escalate the conversation and get
an email address.

The problem is when people are moving or only in
one spot for a moment, such as in a grocery store.
On the one hand, I love grocery stores, and have
gotten a date from one approach. But on the other
hand, the conversation has to move towards
interesting quickly, or she'll just move on after a
couple of pleasantries.

Case in point - I was shopping for laundry detergent
and saw a HB doing the same. My openner wasn't gold,
but at least it got things off the ground:

Me: "All right, which is the liquid detergent that lets
you never use fabric softening sheets again, is it
this Febreeze?"

Her: "I think so, but I'm allergic to Febreeze, so I
never use it. So I use the fabric softening sheets
in the dryer."

Me: "Yeah, but those things destroy your clothes –
the price you pay for no static cling."

Her: "I didn't know that."

And she walks away... (Boo hoo!)

Yeah, I know, boring topic, but in the heat of the
moment, what would you have done to ensure she
doesn't walk away, and then escalate?”

***MY REPLY/SOLUTION***

First, thank you for sharing what you have
been doing in the real world, the details
help everyone see that indeed this stuff
happens in the real world, such as your
date with the woman from the grocery
store.

There is a world of women out there, "ripe
for the picking" so to speak. 

Here are some tips that should help ensure
she doesn't walk away, and to help you
escalate as well:

ADD THE FUN FACTOR QUICKLY:

Your motto should be "Everything she says, can and WILL be
used  in my court of FUN/PLAYFUL/SEXUALITY/DOMINANCE!"

Remember also that women are CRAVING
a man who is both DOMINANT yet also
a GOOD MAN, who will treat her right,
and who also knows what it means to
be playful and naughty in a confident
way, not a truly arrogant way.
(Arrogance actually implies insecurity)

This COMBO is very VERY powerful.
So even if you started really neutral, that’s fine
and prevents getting shut down right away, but
after that, it’s time to JACK UP THE ENERGY
AND EMOTIONAL STIMULATION.

Turn up the dominance, the playfulness, the
naughtyness, and then transition ALL this
into a powerful CONNECTION.
And remember, she has PROVIDED all the
“material” for you, you just have to SEE IT
with new perspectives.

So, for example, with the Febreze, that's fine, and
she says she's allergic to it, IF YOU ARE IN THE PLAYFUL
STATE, and aren't afraid of losing her, you would easily
say any of the following things: (Feel the TONE of what’s
going on here, more than the exact words.)

1. "Man, it's HARD to find good help these days!!!
But at least you're trying, I mean having allergies is
KIND of an excuse, I'm just allergic to boring people,
so I know about allergies, how about you?"

"What’s the coolest thing a person could do in the
supermarket? Walk into the walk in freezer on
a blistering HOT day???? Meet a total stranger?
What do you think?"

This helps motivate her to add some spice
to whatever she says now, investing herself
more into the conversation and also ensuring
that she enjoys this conversation as well.

Then, if her response to you is boring, you can
pretend to sneeze!!! Just say “Ahhhhhhhhchoooo!
Oh man, I can’ t believe it, I think …I might be…
allergic to…."(Give her a mischievous smile!)

Also, another option, is when she said,
"I didn't know that," you could put on the
playful dominance and say, "Well, now that
you do, that will be 5 bucks for the free
advice, but since you are such a decent
conversationalist, I'll give you the special
for only 4 bucks!".

Then you can also TRANSITION from all this
into a greater and more serious CONNECTION:

“You know, life is so full of urgent things we
need to get done, that take TIME, but they
aren't really the IMPORTANT things, so laundry
is urgent, but it's not an "IMPORTANT" life goal,
it's IMPORTANT to make time for the things
you feel you MUST get out of life, you know
what I mean? "

At this point, she might fill the rest IN for you
and tell you about the TRULY IMPORTANT
things she wants to get done, which is a great
deeper conversation, and if she doesn't then
YOU can go onto describe the important things
that you feel are the real priorities in life.

And now you can go toward finding real bonding
things you share in common about priorities in life,
so when she gives you her number, she feels
VERY SOLID about doing so and wants you to
call her and continue this journey into discovering
who you are.

(By the way, man, I’m POSITIVE this is just you
needing to shake off the rust since you took the
Bootcamp over a year ago- you were great in
Bootcamp! You picked up a hot professor chick
at a vintage record store (talk about quality women!),
you got an email from a knockout blonde fitness
and health girl, and if I'm correct I think you hit
it off right away with executive type woman you
approached at the mall!



So don’t knock yourself out, you clearly have
gained the skills, you just need to get sharp
again!)

I think what I just wrote here should help shake off
the rust and get you back into your zone when you
get out there to approach again!!!

We’re almost out of time, but I had to share this
cool email that came in just the other day:

***LETTER FROM A READER***

Hi Michael,

I just want to let you know you have a terrific
approach that is far beyond what any of the
pickup artists teach. They teach men to
disrespect women and ruin their potential
for a positive, healthy relationship with the
right woman.

You teach men how to develop a relationship
with that right woman that is a product of two
healthy, mature-thinking adults, instead of
being all about sex, which is so rampant and
in-your-face in our society.

In addition to this, you teach men that it is
possible to actually be "the man" in a healthy way,
without being arrogant and trying to control
women, but asserting a natural male dominance
that real women actually love.

This is in such contrast to all the messages in
our society that try to stifle our natural,
testosterone-driven impulses, and you teach
us to channel those impulses into self improvement,
both inwardly and outwardly, to become the
"right" man for that "right" woman.

This kind of teaching is so helpful in so many areas
of life beyond just dating and relationships.

I have been enjoying and benefiting from your
wisdom, and I know that there are many men
out there who can be and are benefited by it as
well. I sincerely thank you for your much-needed
contributions.

Additionally, in one of your letters you talk about
visualizing your fear in order to become relaxed
about it and conquer it. That is a great concept,
and is confirmed by none other than Donald Trump.

In his classic book on negotiating, "Trump: The Art
of the Deal," he says: "It's been said that I believe
in the power of positive thinking. In fact, I believe
in the power of negative thinking. I happen to be
very conservative in business. I always go into
the deal anticipating the worst. If you plan for the
worst--if you can live with the worst--the good
will always take care of itself."

Keep up the good work,

John Paul

Washington, USA”

MY COMMENTS:

First of all, thank you for the kind words.

I actually did not know that about Trump,
but it's cool to see that he uses the same
psychological approach to success in
his own life. 

If you can mentally DEAL with even the worst
case scenario, you are NO LONGER haunted
by it, and you can NATURALLY become
confident because the negativity has been
mentally CONFRONTED and you've made
peace with that possibility.

Once you've done that, you start to get
BORED with the negativity, so you
start to GENUINELY become positive,
it's not something you are TRYING to do,
it's for REAL because the negativity has
been DRAINED and weakened immensely.

And this gives you massive confidence.
A woman can sense that if she does not treat
you well, you REALLY WILL WALK AWAY.

She can actually SENSE this kind of confidence
in your demeanor long before she ever even
TRIES this kind of thing, so she treats you better
of course as a result.

Remember, you are now TRULY thinking positive,
because you’ve DEALT with the negative, so now
your positive thinking isn’t a game or something
artificial, it’s GENUINLEY flowing from you.

That adds even MORE charisma to you.

And on top of THAT, when you are searching for
a QUALITY woman, that means you are searching
for a woman who has done all the SAME work on
herself, and she KNOWS how rare it is to find
a person, especially a MAN who has been willing
to develop himself so powerfully in this way.

You become the kind of man that she doesn’t
want to EVER let go of.

Again, this works on a hard-wired SURVIVAL
level that is primal and subconscious- she
feels that with SUCH man, things will be
“OK”, SHE WILL BE SAFE AND LIFE WILL
EVEN BE FUN AND SEXUAL AS WELL.

Basically, you are giving off the vibes of being
a MAN who can SURVIVE in the JUNGLE of LIFE.

If you want the FULL PICTURE on how to attract
women ANYWHERE, I suggest you get my
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For now, tomorrow, and for always, BE THE MAN.

Michael Marks

How You Attract A Woman Who Is A Ten (Updated, February 22, 2012)

Attracting A Woman Who Is A 'Ten' Means That
Your "Inner Concept" Is A Ten Out Of Ten!

A quick point before we start- regarding the idea of
"unexpected and perfect" and how it applies for
intensifying any emotion, including HUMOR!

I recently heard Jay Leno make a joke about
how strippers in LA are getting affected by the
economy, so they are charging half-price (or something
like that) for lap dances.....and...."You know what
that means?"   It means you get a HALF-ASSED job!!!!

The audience exploded into laughter, because this
is a CLASSIC example of UNEXPECTED, yet PERFECT.

When he says/asks,  "You know what this means?"
people are thinking "hmmmm maybe more people
coming, maybe less enthusiastic strippers, maybe
more enthusiastic because they appreciate the money,
etc, etc, etc."

But then, they get the answer: A HALF-ASSED JOB!

The answer is PERFECT, in many ways it makes TOTAL sense,
almost LITERALLY, and yet it's TOTALLY UNEXPECTED.

This is a great example of getting women laughing
by using this combo of UNEXPECTED and PERFECT.

The SECOND point I wanted to make is that when it comes to
attraction, as men, we BUILD attraction, unless we are already
a supermodel with billions in the bank.  And yet, rather than
building attraction, we often DO THINGS ON OUR OWN
to HARM our own attractiveness.

In the film "She's Out of My League", this guy meets this
knockout, and the one thing he has about himself is that
he doesn't try to impress the woman by being someone
ELSE.  That's what he has going for him.

Also, he has a bit of a sense of humor and he can
OWN his own lack of perfection, he can talk about
his own flaws in a way that takes out the steam
from them because once he's said it, it takes away
the power from that flaw since it's already been
expressed by him himself.   He can speak about
"the elephant in the room" which gets rid of the
POWER of that "elephant".

This is a strong quality, that if you have any flaws
that are massively evident, rather than trying to hide
them, let them be exposed by yourself, it shows
a lot more social intelligence that way, especially
if you aren't going on a rant about it, and you
seem pretty calm about it.

HOWEVER, the one DISASTROUS thing he does,
is that he CAN'T BELIEVE THAT A WOMAN AS
ATTRACTIVE AS HER CAN REALLY WANT TO
BE WITH HIM.

So, based on this belief, he interprets EVERYTHING
as a reason why this girl will not want to be with him.

So, while the girl is slowly getting more attracted to him
as the movie goes on, there is a point where his FEARS
start to screw things up with her, and one of the biggest
examples is when he SERIOUSLY HOPES she has
some MAJOR FLAW of her own, so that this way
he can feel she will more likely want to stay with him.

Think about that for a second- why on earth would
a man who is attracted to a woman who is treating
him RIGHT, and who is a KNOCKOUT, why
would he WISH that she actually had to have
some kind of DEFECT to her?

The answer is INSECURITY and NEEDINESS.
The insecurity says, "Well, if she has a flaw, then
maybe she will accept my flaws."

The NEEDINESS says that, "I can't feel good without
her, so I must find some way to KEEP her regardless
of what's good for her or not, in fact let's start WISHING
she had some problems, some DEFECT in fact!!
YEAH, that would be perfect!"

And this is not just a movie thing, it's very common
to REAL LIFE.  When feeling insecure and needy,
it's quite HUMAN to almost wish there was SOME
flaw to the "perfectness" of the other person, the
woman who we think is "OUT OF OUR LEAGUE".

Now, think about it from the woman's point of view:
How can she love a man who SERIOUSLY WISHES SHE
HAS OR WILL GET SOME DEFECT????????????????

Just because HE is afraid that he is not good enough for her.

The point of all this, is that INSECURITY AND NEEDINESS
can turn a guy who is slowly growing on a woman into being
a guy who went from being a 5 or 6 into being an 8, 9, or 10,
and then this INSECURITY AND NEEDINESS constantly
CUTS HIM DOWN BY ANOTHER "POINT".

Self-Esteem
She's Out of My League at MOVIECLIPS.com

Each time you RESIST the urge to give into insecurities,
your GAIN a point on the attraction scale.

But in this movie, he does the opposite, and each time he
allows himself to give IN to his insecurities, he LOSES another
point on the attraction scale to the woman.

And THAT is how he ends up as a "5", when he was
at one point more of a 9 on his way to being a TEN.

That is, until near the end of the movie, when he realizes
how SCREWED UP his own thinking has been and
how he IS indeed a "10"!

And here's the OTHER major news:  EVEN THE GUYS
EVERYONE THINKS HAVE IT "ALL" ACTUALLY
VERY OFTEN HAVE MAJOR INSECURITIES AS WELL!!!!!!!!!!

And the movie actually reflects this reality, as the very
guy he is jealous of, who used to date the knockout
in the past, did JUST AS MANY INSECURE THINGS
as well!!!!  He just puts on a show in front of the rest
of the world that he is really secure, but when it came
to being with the knockout, he screwed things up
just as bad, all because he thought the woman
would ultimately dump him.

This happens in real life all the time!!!

It doesn't matter if you're an "A LIST" ACTOR,
IT DOESN'T MATTER IF YOU'RE A MODEL OR
BILLIONAIRE, the bottom line is that EVERYONE
has insecurities, and if you let those insecurites and
neediness affect your ACTIONS, it will harm the
attraction a woman feels for you.

Yet the crucial thing to remember is that if you
RESIST the urge to give in to those insecurities,
you keep on RISING on the bar of attraction.

Now, speaking of MASTERING ATTRACTION
and beating insecurity and neediness, as well as learning
practical and super effective ways of attracting women,
you're going to LOVE my 'Attraction Accelerators'
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You will learn some of the most effective,
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Here are just  SOME of the powerful and
immediately-applicable REAL WORLD
strategies and insights you will learn. Remember,
ALL of what you are going to learn in this
program is going to be IMMEDIATELY
useful when you see a woman you’d like
to approach and attract anywhere:

*You’ll learn the mistakes men make when
“scoping” out a room to check out the women
there, and you’ll learn the RIGHT way to do this.

Doing this WRONG ends up causing you to lose
the woman BEFORE you even say a word to her.

*How to avoid the number 1 mistake that makes
you PROCRASTINATE from taking action- if you
don’t stop this mistake, chances are you will
keep procrastinating when it comes to approaching
women forever, because of the addictive nature
of this type of procrastination.

*The RIGHT way to go about walking toward a woman
you see in a club or food court, and the WRONG WAY
THAT YOU MUST AVOID. (Most guys take the wrong
“route” and it comes across as very insecure and
REPULSIVE.)

*The proper DISTANCE you should actually be when
chatting to a woman you find attractive. It’s a lot
closer than most guys think!

*I’m going to answer all questions related to:
"I hear that you're supposed to let the woman
speak about herself! If I just listen to her, how
will she know anything cool about me?"

*You’ll also learn how to START the conversation
in a way that is compelling, unique, and a proper "FIT"
for your own personality- this way, you will have
no competition because no one can match your
unique "personality DNA", and you will also
feel comfortable since you will not be
doing an artificial "act".

*You’ll ALSO learn the most effective things to be doing
in any social or party situation you find yourself in where
you can meet women. In a party/lounge/club atmosphere,
there is a certain “sequence of things” that will really help
you get much farther than doing the typical “Hi, let’s
stand and talk for as long as possible and hopefully this
will lead to getting your phone number or something more”.

I’ll show you a way of handling these kinds of environments
in a way that is AT LEAST TEN TIMES MORE EFFECTIVE
at creating attraction and also at making her see you as
someone she would like to know beyond just this party
or club, etc.

*You’ll also learn how to make the environment of
a party, lounge, or social situation work in your favor.
So the fact there are lots of people there walking around,
the fact that she may be going for a drink and walking
away, the fact she may be looking for her friends,
ALL THESE THINGS can actually be turned around
and work in your FAVOR- I’LL SHOW YOU HOW!!!

*When it’s CRITICAL that you tell a woman that you LIKE
her, really FAST! This has absolutely nothing to do with
“kissing up”, and in fact not telling her you like her will
be seen by her as you being massively insecure or even
worse, clueless about sexuality.

*How to say what’s on your mind (rather than
Just talking about “safe” topics that are boring)
in a way that gets women filling in the rest of
the conversation for you!

This way, you not only lead the conversation,
which gets the woman to become more feminine
in your presence and follow you, but it also
sets up the best sexual dynamic between the
two of you.

It ALSO allows you to do less work, because
since you started the conversation, that in
itself shows you have plenty to say, but it
also allows you to chill out and lean back
and now just listen to what she has to say—
Which of course gives you tons more things
to talk about and gives you the ability to
also give her a genuine compliment which
she will value!

I’ll show you exactly how this all works!

*You’ll learn the RIGHT amount of body contact
to have with a woman you just met, and how
to do it.

*Ever wonder if a woman is into you or not?
Do you let this stop you from taking action?
Here’s what to do in all those situations!

*How to build ACTION MOMENTUM in your
overall PLAN for getting the woman of your
dreams, so that you are taking ACTION
every day on this and not getting swept
up in all the obstacles to you achieving this
goal.

*How to use a proven principle from psychology
that will TAKE OVER YOUR MIND AND MAKE
SURE YOU BECOME FAR MORE SELF-CONFIDENT
no matter what you do otherwise!

This principle is PROVEN, again and again, to WORK.
A top university in the United States has proven
this principle to be very effective, and I’m going
to show you how to apply it on yourself with women.

*You’ll also learn to bring yourself to a higher level
of “skill” when it comes to everything you do with
women, from first seeing her, to chatting, to getting
her laughing, to getting under the sheets, to even
getting into a relationship and keeping things going-
by adopting a subtle yet crucial distinction for yourself:

Most people say they will “try” to succeed.
That’s not good enough.

However, we also know that lying to ourselves
isn’t good either.

There is something else, a different mindset, that
is based on TRUTH, that is more empowering,
and I’ll share that with you as well.

*If a woman contacts you with voice mail, email,
or text, I’ll show the best way to RESPOND to these
particular modes of communication in a way that
puts you in the driver’s seat, so to speak.

*As the very ORIGINAL guy who knew that the
pick up artist vibes end up creeping out quality
women, I’ll show you one of the most powerful
things you can do to a woman to get her to say
to herself ‘THIS GUY IS THE FULL PACKAGE’.

I’ll show you the GENUINE way to truly “qualify”
a woman in a way that is a HUNDRED times
more effective than the trivial, “Oh you like
chewing gum? So do I! That’s awesome! ”

Qualifying a woman in a MEANINGFUL way is the
final stage before getting physical with her, and
99% of men out there are STILL doing this wrong.

This is why most of the guys who follow pick up
artist advice end up confused, because they got
the woman’s attention, but then she flaked out
later on. There’s a reason she flaked out, and
it’s called lack of meaningful qualifying.

*You’ll also learn how to get the very women
that seem “difficult” at first, and you’ll realize
how most guys are LOSING out on these
supposedly difficult women by abandoning ship
for easier pastures….but the thing is, these
women who seem “difficult” initially are often
the BEST KINDS OF WOMEN because they know
they have high worth and self esteem, and they
don’t sleep around much.

Now, there is a fine line between difficult and
being a spoiled b****. I’ll show you how to
get those “difficult” women.

*I’ll also show you how to PROPERLY give women
the DOMINANCE polarity they crave so badly.

Attractive women especially crave this, as every
man they meet kisses up to them so badly, these
women have never felt what it’s like to be with
a man who can truly be DOMINANT at the right
times.

*You’ll also learn the art of “VIBING” with a woman,
which is probably the single most important overall
skill with women, and can be the easiest, yet our
brainwashing makes us FORGET this again and
again. I’ll show you the things that help for
making “vibing” with women come easily to you.

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For now, for tomorrow, and for always, be THE MAN.

Michael Marks

P.S.
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QUALITY type of women who will ADD to your life
and not bring you down with drama or games.

The Power That Attracts A Woman

I want to bring something to your attention:

Maybe, you’ve heard that women are attracted
to POWER.

Maybe you’ve seen a lot of guys who don’t look
like models with women who are stunning.

Well, let me tell you the truth:
YES, POWER IS ATTRACTIVE.


However, most men don’t understand where
power BEGINS, the very FIRST place where
power must be wielded RUTHLESSLY, and
if it doesn’t show there, then you can forget
it with ANY woman.

It begins with power over YOURSELF, over your
own EMOTIONS.

Most men are slaves to many emotions.
Fear is just ONE.

Another emotion that many men are slaves to is
the desire to FOOL themselves that they can be
in two OPPOSITE places at once.

For example, they want to “fool around” and ALSO
have a great woman who is loyal to them.

It’s called wanting to have your cake and eat it too.

Here’s another fear- when a man is being “nice” to
a woman only out of fear of LOSING her.

He doesn’t TRULY believe in these good values.

OR, he is just being good to her because
he feels she is “out of his league”, so
he feels he has to overcompensate to be
“worthy” of her. So in reality, he fears
he is not worthy.

Now, a great woman who has got it all,
inside and out, if she is going to be
LOYAL to a man, she is investing a LOT
of herself into one man, she has to
make sure this man HAS the power inside
of himself, he has the power OVER himself,
to be a MASTER over his own emotions.

She know that if he DOES NOT have this,
then no matter what, it’s just a matter
of time before he fails EVERYWHERE, he
will fail to achieve in life, he will
fail to be loyal, he will be a FAILURE,
period.

All because he does not have the power
over his OWN emotions.

A lot of the time, guys want to know how I manage
to achieve such stellar results with men in my
bootcamps, in such little time, and all without
any of the artificial “tactics” from books like
“The Game”.

The answer is that these men in my bootcamps
succeed not in SPITE of avoiding these tactics,
but BECAUSE they avoid these artificial means.

Instead, my students succeed because I instill in
them the FIRE that CLEANSES through all the
crap weaknesses and all the toxic illusions that
are holding them back.

It’s about INJECTING AS MUCH CONVICTION
AND TRUTH AND REALITY behind every nuance
in your voice in every word you say, no matter what
you are saying.  

It has to all come from a place in your mind that is
absolutely clear and has no doubt about how much
you truly MEAN it.

So when a man tells a woman he LIKES her and that
he wants her number, and when he values loyalty and
will GIVE loyalty, every bit of what he says must come
from a place that is willing to PAY THE PRICE for
what he wants.

He has to be CONSISTENT and CONGRUENT to it.
He can’t want to be “pulling chicks” from “the hottest clubs”
while ALSO wanting to get a woman who is truly LOYAL.

And he can’t want loyalty because he is AFRAID
of a woman cheating on him.

He must want loyalty because he understands the VALUE
of mutual loyalty, trust, friendship, and how that
is the SECRET behind any great success in anything.

This is why when I see supposed “gurus” talking out of
both sides of their mouth, one day talking about being
“MACK DADDIES” and then one day talking about
wanting a great girlfriend, and pretending they are
experts at both, it’s obvious to me that are actually
experts at NIETHER, because you can’t be in two
opposite places at once.

Let me illustrate this in a way that makes it easy to understand:

Let’s say you saw a woman, who was saying
“Oh I wish I could meet a great guy who was loyal to me”
and then  five minutes later she was saying “Oh I can’t
wait to go to that club and see which hot guys are there
that I can go home with”.

Would you believe for one SECOND that this woman would
be the type that could stand the TEST of loyalty over
time, that could stand up to the FIRE of the test?

And the reality is that for a woman, who is of PRIME
“value”, who is willing to truly give of herself to
a man, she knows her value won’t be “prime” forever,
so she must be even MORE ruthless in making sure
she is with the RIGHT man, even more ruthless than
a man must be in making sure he is with the right
woman, because her SHELF LIFE is not as long,
as women age a bit faster than men.

Do you see why following “PICK UP ARTIST” advice
is a SURE FIRE WAY to REPEL any woman who
is attractive and who will also actually be LOYAL
to you?

It’s so ironic how there are actually supposed “experts”
out there who promise to tell you how to be an authentic
man, but who are actually promoting totally opposite
things that will make you incongruent, inconsistent,
and to put it bluntly, to make you appear UGLY
in all the most destructive ways, in the way you
come across to a great woman.  
    
A woman who is a genuine gem is checking you out to
see how CONGRUENT, HOW CONSISTENT you are,
to all the valuable character traits she must have in a man,
including the power over himself, the power to be a
good man for all the right reasons and not just out of
fear or out of desperation.  She can DETECT the
difference.

You must have LASER-BEAM PURITY OF FOCUS.

When you are talking to a woman and you speak
about great values, you must feel that you can
“CASH THAT CHEQUE” behind EVERY WORD
that you say.  How can you truly mean that you want
loyalty and expect it, when you are also wanting to
be a guy who does the very things to women that
you would not want a woman to do to you? If you
want her to be faithful, would you like it if she was
obsessed with how to get ALL the guys rather than
with how to get the RIGHT guy?

Similarly, if she is looking for the RIGHT MAN,
she does NOT want a man who is trying to get
ALL the women rather than THE RIGHT woman.

And again, she subconsciously detect all this,
(she not even conscious of it) from billions of
subtleties in your behaviors, behaviors which
flow from the way you THINK, and those
thoughts flow from the values you have
taken on for yourself. 

And if you are reading this right now, and are
SERIOUS about getting a GREAT woman, then
I suggest you do the following THREE things:

1.ONE: ACTIONS FOR ATTRACTION

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INNER GAME when you approach and interact
with women???      

He’s worked with ASTRONAUTS.
He’s worked with the military.
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Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Real Thing

"The Real Thing" is always going to have copy-cats

trying to imitate it.  For example, James Cameron, the 
man who made Terminator, True Lies, Aliens, The Abyss, 
and Titanic, pours his heart and soul into everything

he does.

That means it takes time to do it right.

Years. So of course, trying to cash in off of him, are 
pathetic "imitators" who make crap that no one 
remembers or gets inspired by or that cause
any true positive change in the world. So, for 
example, there have been tons of films that were 
trying to rip off Terminator, but that no one remembers.

When Cameron was making The Abyss, of course there

was the copy cats making other ocean movies. After Titanic, 
there were all kinds of movies that suddenly had sinking ships
as part of the main plot. No one remembers these imitations
.

In fact, sometimes, because they know that Cameron's movies

take time to make, the imitators find out what he is making

then try to quickly make a crap movie that will be on the

same general topic, hoping to cash in on the general

anticipation, and release it into theaters before Cameron's

great films.

The same thing happened with Cameron's upcoming AVATAR.

No one even talks about the imitators. Avatar, on the other hand, 
will likely revolutionize the entire film industry.

So why do I bring this all up?
I bring it up to make it clear that if you want
a woman who is the real thing, and you want
to become the kind of man that is the real thing,
it's not about the overnight success, it's about
REAL DEVELOPMENT.

I'm working on something called WARRIOR WITHIN,
it's taken years and it's almost ready....

There will be all types of imitators though...
They'll come and go, and quickly be forgotten.

If imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, then I'm blushing.

The Three Pillars Of Attraction: Charisma, Inner Strength, And Heart

Ever since I started in this, my driving passion

has been, "What is the TRUTH about women?"

This is the question that I asked all the 'experts'

who professed to know it all.

This is the question that I stayed up at night

for years struggling to know the answer.

This is the question that I needed to have

answered every time I went out trying

every tactic imaginable when approaching
women, whether it was at a store, the library, 
a club, school, or anywhere else.

Well, the answer that none of these wannabe
"experts" knew, but is the REAL truth, is that 
not all women are the same.  And also, they
forgot to mention, that just because you can
attract a woman, doesn't mean you SHOULD.

In fact, the wrong woman will ruin you
with greater destruction than any other
force on the planet.

You wouldn't want to get "ALL" the women
even if you could.  

You want to get the RIGHT woman.
(There is an irony to this as well,
in that when you decide what it is
that you DON'T want, suddenly it 
becomes available EVERYWHERE,
because you are not needy for it.) 

Most of the dating experts would say things like: 
"All women are untrustworthy, so you
better make sure to "game" them".

Then, there was the opposite extreme,
the guys who lived in LA-LA-LAND
with hogwash advice like "All women are
all dainty creatures who all are just special
souls of virtue" and other nonsense. 

The reality is that there are certain universal 
attractive qualities, yes, I agree, but how these
attractive factors interplay with an individual's
VALUES is a CRUCIAL key to understand
as well- and the way this plays out from woman 
to woman differs GREATLY.    

You will attract that which you truly ARE,

which is different from attracting that which

you WANT.

So it becomes really important to decide 

who you truly want to BECOME, because

it is THAT which you will attract as well.

Most people, men and women included, 

create fantasies and illusions for themselves,

and the one thing these illusions all have

in common is the desire to AVOID 

having to change or to do any work.

So the human instinct is to create all

sorts of FALSE beliefs, such as 

"I will meet a woman because it's all

destiny anyway", and this kind of 

thinking can make you depend on
miracles and take no action, and
just WAIT a lifetime, with no results.

Also, rather than see our own faults,

we tend to make the other person a 

villain, so we resort to black and white

thinking where we are perfect and

the woman must have been some

terrible person, etc, etc. 

And of course, many women do this to

men as well.

I've actually found that when it comes down
to it, most men and women are not trying
to hurt each other, but once they are in
pain, they often then oversimplify things
to make the other the villain, and this
doesn't help men or women, it just
fuels MISTRUST, which is probably
the greatest single destroyer of chemistry
and of relationships between men and
women.

So, this is why it's so important to get
rid of jaded thoughts when interacting
with women. Don't let yourself be a
punching bag or make yourself open
to abuse, but don't be so closed off
and self-protective that you are seeing
threats where they don't even exist.

And when people stay with in abusive
relationships, they often rationalize 
that things can't get any better anyway.

The bottom line is that whatever behavior
seems EASIER IN THE SHORT TERM
is what people gravitate toward, whether
it seems easier to LEAVE someone or
whether it seems easier to STAY with
someone, it's whatever is EASIER 
that allures people to making the
wrong decision.

They forget that the pain of taking this
short-term route will be much GREATER
than the pain of just doing the "harder"
thing right NOW.

This basic TRUTH is what you should
embrace, and you should be looking for
a woman who embraces this truth as
well- the truth that if you want to 
improve at anything, relationships,
business, anything, you have to
embrace that taking SHORT CUTS
is NOT the answer. 

If you truly care about meeting a woman of

FANTASTIC integrity, of high self-esteem, 

a woman who will champion TRUTH rather

than ego, a woman who will not give in

to temptation, then it's crucial to become

such a fantastic person yourself.

This way, you will be so in touch and intimately

familiar with what these fantastic traits look like,

that you will notice them from a million miles

away in the RIGHT woman, and you will ALSO

notice the LACK of these traits right away

in the WRONG woman.

Most of the dating guru advice is SOAKED in

the superficial, because they know that most

men will in fact prefer to believe in that illusion,

but I know that there are some more intelligent

men out there that of course want an attractive

woman, but ALSO will not settle on a woman

JUST because she's attractive.

If you want the kind of woman you can not

only LUST, but also LOVE and RESPECT, 
then you have to be the kind of man that 
SHE will feel these emotions for as well.

And to do that, you must have an IRON-STRONG

grip on what are the important things and what are

the trivial, and you must exude that in your every

action, decision, and the way you spend your

"free" time. (The truth is, your time is anything

BUT free, it is the most precious thing you have.)

You must be able to CAPTURE her emotions

and imagination by making  your life about 
something that INSPIRES you to make every 
moment MEANINGFUL.

How do you do this? 

By combining the following traits:

CHARISMA + INNER STRENGTH + HEART

The dating gurus and their "pick up women" tactics

lack GENUINE heart, they lack GENUINE 

sensitivity, it's all ENGINEERED and artificial.

The "nice guys" lack CHARISMA.

The jerks are just overcompensating from insecurity.

They lack the magic combo of: 
CHARISMA + INNER STRENGTH + HEART

Now actually HAVING any ONE of these things is 
cool, but it's the COMBINATION that works magic.

If you want a great woman, forget the lies, illusions,

and marketing schemes. 

Instead, get back to: 
CHARISMA + INNER STRENGTH + HEART 

In my materials, it is THIS combination 
that I focus on.

If you haven't yet downloaded my program
"Attraction Accelerators", then definitely 
do that IMMEDIATELY. 

This program will show you the most powerful and 
effective strategies you can apply IMMEDIATELY
when seeing women ANYWHERE, to attract them
QUICKLY.

You can download this program NOW and be using
it TODAY to get the woman you want.

It's at:

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Till next time...

Michael Marks