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How To Prepare For Ultimate Success When Approaching Women

Today I want to share with you a super EASY and
yet super EFFECTIVE strategy for improving your
success when it comes to approaching women
ANYWHERE.

The key is to do what I am about to say LONG BEFORE
the moment of opportunity arises, so that you don’t have
to start THINKING and the strategy can then go into
effect almost instinctively since you put the work in
long before.  In other words, you will be prepared for
when that gorgeous beauty appears.

You can do this at night so that you are ready for
approaching women the next day.

What you should do is VISUALIZE in your mind a
situation where you may realistically find a woman
you’d like to chat to.  Choose one specific location
that has a high chance of you finding a woman there,
and that has some opportunity for conversation.

So it could be some kind of local market, it could be
a bookstore, it could be a coffee shop, it could be
some fun event, etc, etc. Choose one and make it
as specific as possible. 

Making it as specific as possible helps take 
out the UNKNOWN factors, so that you are 
as truly prepared psychologically as possible
for when the real event occurs, since none of 
it will be shocking because you already  
pictured it all.

Then, think about EVERYTHING you might say
to her as an opening to the conversation, whether
it’s a comment on something she is doing or on
the situation she is in, or even a comment that
is intriguing or playful about something UPBEAT
or fun that is in the news.

DECIDE on what it will be, make it SPECIFIC.

Now, visualize her REACTION, think about all
the different things she MIGHT say.  Remember
that most women are in fact VERY social and
are NOT mean-spirited, even if she does feel
the need to test whether you are serious or not.

And think about all the DETAILS now, including
how you are FEELING. Often, just PICTURING
all this is enough to get your heart racing, and
that’s OKAY.  The idea is to experience it all
BEFORE it happens, so that you will NOT be
overwhelmed when indeed the REAL approach happens.

Picture how you might react to what SHE says
back to you, and what you might say in return.

It doesn’t MATTER if what you PICTURE ends
up being DIFFERENT from what actually happens,
whether what you pictured is different from what
she says or from what you say. 

The more work you do beforehand, the less
work it will be later.  Again, this is
not just about "what to say" but rather
it also about going through all the
EMOTIONS you may experience.

The more vivid the picture you create in
your mind beforehand, the more you will
GENUINELY experience the emotions.

So remember to also picture what she might
LOOK like, what she might be WEARING,
and remember what the details of the
environment around you might be, and
what it might sound like.  For example,
there might be the sound of a crowded
bus or train or cafe humming with activity
and people chatting in the background.

Be READY for all this. 

The real key here is to both prepare yourself
psychologically  as well as technically in
terms of having SOMETHING in mind that you
can work with as the theme for your conversation
with her.

Also, THINK about how you might incorporate
some of the powerful things you learn from my
material.  For example, SLOWING down your
pace of delivering the words. Focusing on
LISTENING to the real meaning behind her
words, so you can give a powerful response.
Starting casually, and building to a deeper
connection. 

Remembering also that humor requires a bit
of risk-taking, but it should be INTELLIGENT
risk-taking.  LEADING the interaction and not
expecting the woman to be the one to ask for
your number, and not expecting the woman to
be the one to suggest you continue the conversation
over a coffee, remember it has to be YOU leading
the INITIAL "courtship" between you and a woman.

These are just SOME of the important things
that you might keep in MIND as you mentally
PREPARE long before the actual moment
of opportunity arises.

It’s also important, that if you are anxious that
things might somehow go "WRONG" (I put
wrong in quotes, because there is no wrong,
in the same way a sports athlete is not "wrong"
if he doesn’t score a goal, he is only "wrong" if
he doesn’t play his best) you should actually
EXPERIENCE the anxiety BEFOREHAND.

Picture it ALL. If you fear that you might panic,
get that panicky feeling NOW rather than later.
Soak in that feeling again and again and again,
picturing it all, till you burn up all the panic
energy you got inside of you and you start
to feel calm again.

The key to success with women is not to leave
it all up to LUCK.  Instead, you must be prepared
from long BEFOREHAND. 

What you have just read is POWERFUL advice,
and yet it barely scratches the SURFACE of
all the incredible strategies you will find in my
programs.

As you can see from this newsletter, the MIND
is the most POWERFUL resource you have for
skyrocketing your success with women.  Most
men NEVER learn how to best USE their mind,
so instead of using their mind, their mind instead
controls THEM and takes over, and often
SABOTAGES their results with women.

Become the master of your MIND in all the
ways that apply to attracting women, or your
mind will control YOU.

Unless a man understands that, he is destined
to suffer infinitely. If he does NOT understand
this, it doesn't even matter if he HAS a harem
of women, eventually he will LOSE them all, and
not only this, he will drop to the depths of the
abyss when it comes to loneliness, neediness, and
desperation.     

If you can fully appreciate the GRAVITY of
these words, I seriously suggest you get my
most powerful program on this topic of how
to ensure your MIND is programmed
for success with women.

The program is called WARRIOR WITHIN because
it's about developing your self WITHIN for
success with women.

This program is especially important for attracting
a woman long-term, because there is no way to
FAKE the right behaviors with a woman long-term.
Instead, you have to really BE "THE MAN" on
this deepest level. A quality woman is searching
out your personality for this from the first
instant she meets you. She’s going to be looking
for the things you will learn in this program.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Inner Game And Beating "Approach Anxiety"

Every single bit of data that comes
in regarding this field has been
proving one thing: That INNER GAME
is by far the most important element
of success.

Now, as you may know, I have always
believed this. I focused on this even
in my very first book, where I make
it clear to avoid all gimmicks and
to instead become as strong internally
as possible.

One of the reasons inner game is
so important is because the way
our minds play tricks on us is
so subtle that we don't even
REALIZE how our minds are
sabotaging our success and
preventing us from doing the
RIGHT things.

For example, how many times have
you been told that MONEY is the
root of all evil, or that feelings
of ATTRACTION for a woman are somehow
wrong or sinful?  

How many times have you seen people
who are successful be HATED by others?

How many times have you seen how
just being MEDIOCRE can get you
ACCEPTED since it doesn't get
anyone jealous? 

So, we grow up often thinking that
it's better to SUCK or be MEDIOCRE
because then people won't HATE us.

Of course, being MEDIOCRE not only
often is unsatisfying, it also often means
that one gets no respect, either, so the
whole goal of being mediocre fails to
achieve the desire for social approval
anyway.

And yet, having more power, if used
wisely, means having more time, more
money to help others.  And having
the woman you truly desire allows
you to better focus in everything
in  your life, including helping
OTHERS as well.

It all depends on how you use
your success.   

And when it comes to APPROACHING
A WOMAN, this REALLY brings out
the negative conditioning and
negative emotions, including
the fear of being labelled
a psycho, the fear of rejection,
the fear of coming across
as foolish or socially clueless,
etc, etc.

Plus of course, all the other
anxieties, i.e. "Is this morally
okay to just go up to women?", etc.

Now, are there some elements of outer
game that are important, in terms of some
of the specifics, for example in the
actual approach? Yes, and these
can be learned quickly, and I show
all these things as well; I show
different things in different programs.

But without the deeper inner work,
everything unravels and falls apart
or even worse, never gets off the
ground to begin with.

Now, when it comes to developing inner
game, I take it VERY seriously. It's
not just a bunch of "quick fixes",
but rather some SERIOUS work that
takes COURAGE.

And one of the BEST places to start
is with getting over APPROACH ANXIETY.

After all, if a man feels too much
anxiety about making the approach,
then no matter what strategy he
has, he just won't take action.

I have developed the absolute most
methodical, proven, and well-researched
STEP BY STEP method for beating
approach anxiety, and I have also
made this program something that
you can get without breaking the
bank.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks
         
(c) 2014 Get A Great Girl

VITAL Tips for Approaching and Attracting Women

I've been coaching several guys over

the past few days, from really advanced

guys to guys who are beginners, and

it's brought a few things to my attention

that I really want to make clear.

So here we go:

If you are starting out, and trying to

approach women, you ABSOLUTELY MUST

get REGULAR ONGOING PRACTICE.

It does not need to be for a long

amount of TIME per day, but it must

be something that happens at LEAST

several times a week, for a few MINUTES

each time.

So what I mean is, all you have to do

is approach women for about FIVE TO TEN

MINUTES per day, for at least about

THREE or FOUR DAYS a week.

It's the REGULAR, CONSISTENT PRACTICE,

even for just a FEW MINUTES, that is

FARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

more important than doing it once

for several hours, and then not

doing it again for a few weeks.

Please trust me on this, I have been

in this for over a DECADE and I know

how these skills are learned.

Now, regarding the "what do I say to her"

part, here is what you can do:

You have two choices.

One, is you simply APPROACH and say "hi",

and in the beginning, YES YOU MIGHT FEEL

VERY UNCOMFORTABLE, and it is THAT

discomfort which makes you freeze up

and not know what to say.

So your first few conversations might suck,

yeah, totally.

THAT IS JUST PART OF THE PROCESS, like

going to the gym the first time and

not being able to lift a lot of weight.

But, as you make the approaches, each time

you will be working your way to getting

DESENSITIZED AND GETTING CALMER, thus

allowing your brain to now operate the

executive level functions and allowing

you to tap into your subconscious creativity

so you will NEVER need pick up lines.

In fact, let's say you approach a

woman and you even say "Hi, I saw you

from far away, and as a man, I had to

come over and say hello".

So that's FINE, if you say it with confidence

and not apologizing for being a man.

Then, she might say thank you, she might blush,

she might not say much.

In the beginning, you might not know what to

say next.  Your mind might be racing.  But

as you practice, you will calm down and then

you can apply all the strategies, such as

OBSERVING THINGS ABOUT HER OR THE SITUATION.

If she is reading a book about history, or

psychology, or a magazine about entertainment,

or if she is doing her college schoolwork,

you might make a COMMENT on it that will

spark HER feedback, and once SHE is talking,

you are home-free, because you can keep on

getting her to talk more about HERSELF,

which is always better than going on and

on about yourself, unless she ASKS YOU

about yourself, which is what will happen

after she talks to you for a while anyway.

Keep in mind, women are not expecting you to

be some MAGICIAN or ENTERTAINER, all they

are expecting is that you can convey that

you are a cool dude with some social skills,

a sense of humor, and goals and a life of his

own.

Now, if you are not prepared to have to go

through the process of getting desensitized

and having a few original conversations in

the beginning that suck, there is the

alternative strategy, but please keep in

mind that one of the reasons I PROMOTE

the DON'T USE ANY TRICKS AND JUST GO IN

THERE WITHOUT ANYTHING MEMORIZED is that

it FORCES you to realize, after doing

a bunch of approaches and you start to

calm down, that women DON'T NEED ANY

B.S. TRICKS FROM YOU.  They don't

need to be manipulated. They ARE

going to talk to you if you are

CALM ENOUGH and if your INNER GAME

is strong enough. 

Maybe not EVERY woman.  Just like guys,

some women are nasty, but most women

are not.  Hey, some of them might be

spoiled, but the vast majority of them

actually have very good social skills

and if they are single will be quite

open to chatting.

And I think it's important for your INNER

GAME to be trained WITHOUT using too many

crutches.  I prefer that men focus on

learning how to IMPROVE THEMSELVES,

their communications skills, their sense

of humor, their insights into women,

rather than learning "pick up tricks"

because when you think it is your

pick up tricks that gets you women

and not YOU that is getting you women,

you become very insecure, which ultimately

spells disaster for relationships because

you can't fake it forever.

However, if you use a MINIMUM of external

tactics, and you try to keep it as non

"gamey" as possible, that can be okay too.

So, another strategy is to keep abreast

of the MASS CULTURE ENTERTAINMENT NEWS,

since it's a light and fluffy topic and

not depressing. 

So, for example, you can always start a

light conversation with a woman by

mentioning something in the popular

culture.  For example, right now there

is a LEGO MOVIE.  I hear it's actually

a great movie, but I might joke with

a woman about it, because I do find it

genuinely funny, by asking her what

she thinks of all these movies based

on things that are already products. 

It might go like this:

"Hey there, I've been thinking about

something and curious what you might

think. Everything is so commercialized

now, that even movies are commercials,

so we start the movie with commercials

for other things and other movies, and

then the movie itself is a commercial

for something, like the new LEGO movie,

or a movie based on a kid's toy, pretty

soon there will be MCDONALD'S THE MOVIE,

or COCA COLA THE MOVIE!!!! You know

what I mean?"

Now, something like this will probably

at least get a chuckle and some response,

so now you are in a CONVERSATION, and

whatever she says you can now RESPOND

TO.

Remember, this whole dynamic ultimately

is about sex, and men and women, and

she is NOT expecting you to be a

some interstellar world-famous comedian,

she is expecting you to be a MAN with

the social skills to meet her.

This gets me to the next thing, which is

regarding the physical stuff. 

It's  SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO important to understand

that even good girls have the same drives

physically in the bedroom as any other woman,

and in fact in general what goes on in the

bedroom and what turns people on tends to

NOT be politically correct. 

So, if you come across as too anti-septic,

as too CONCERNED ABOUT ACTING SO NICE,

you actually are telling her SUBSONSCIOUS

mind that YOU are "too nice" for the bedroom,

which would make HER feel UNCOMFORTABLE

being NAUGHTY in the bedroom.

THIS IS PART OF THE REASON SO CALLED

BADBOYS GET RESULTS WITH WOMEN.

You don't need to be a BADBOY to just

UNDERSTAND THAT WHAT WOMEN ARE THINKING

IN A BEDROOM SENSE IS NOT POLITICALLY

CORRECT.

So women DON'T WANT JERKS, but they DO

want men who can make them feel

COMFORTABLE being NAUGHTY.

If you come across as too much of a PREACHER

or PERFECT, or TOO SELFLESS, she figures you

are probably going to want things to be all

NICEY NICEY IN THE BEDROOM, or that you might

think SHE IS A NICEY NICEY GIRL IN THE

BEDROOM. 

This is the great irony, where the good girls

are good people, but they can't find good guys

who GET THIS STUFF.

So that's why you MUST behave with assertiveness,

with confidence, with women, so they can

get the subconscious message that just like

YOU ARE COMFORTABLE WITH GETTING WHAT YOU

WANT, YOU EXPECT THEM TO BE COMFORTABLE

BEING ASSERTIVE WITH YOU AS WELL, AND THAT

IS A GREAT THING FOR A WOMAN TO KNOW.

Let the great quality women know they

are not going to be entering a world

of MR. ROGERS with you.

Finally, I want to mention one last thing

regarding quality LOYAL women.

LOYALTY is a trait that spills over into

EVERYTHING.

If a woman is giving you signs that she is

not loyal to her FRIENDS, to her WORKPLACE,

etc, then she is NOT GOING TO BE LOYAL TO

YOU EITHER.

I thought that was an important tip to

share with you, and it's just ONE of

TONS of PURE GOLD TIPS in my program

"Attracting the Ultra-Hotties," at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/ultra-hotties.html

Now, I've mentioned in this  newsletter the IMPORTANCE OF INNER GAME when it comes to attracting women. For my ULTIMATE PROGRAM on INNER GAME, you absolutely owe it to yourself to get my WARRIOR WITHIN program, and it's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To Attract Women Without Playing Games

Weekends are pretty hectic so this is
going to be a very brief newsletter,
but very important as well.

The most effective "pickups", or
what I prefer to call situations of
"approaching and attracting women"
are done when you convey all the
right things about yourself in the
LEAST amount of time, using the
LEAST amount of energy, and using
zero cheesy or corny tactics.

Now, I fully understand that sometimes
as a beginner, it can feel good to
have some pick up lines memorized,
to feel confident through knowing
you have some story memorized to
tell her that is supposed to convey
that you are cool, or is supposed
to be funny, etc., etc.

But you really want to wean yourself
off of those things as soon as possible,
or if at all possible to avoid using
them altogether.

(Again, though, I do understand how
it can sometimes be useful for a guy
who simply feels too overwhelmed
without them at first. I just suggest
a guy gets OFF them as soon as he can.)

The problem with all these things
is that they prevent you from being
your best, because they end up becoming
crutches that you can become addicted
to using.

The problem with all these things
is that they prevent you from being
your best, because they end up becoming
crutches that you can become addicted
to using.

And the use of those crutches actually
WEAKENS your inner game, (your inner
game, of course, is NOT a game at all, it is
your REAL inner strength) because you
are sending the message DIRECTLY to
your mind through ACTION that you
do NOT believe you can pull off
attracting the woman you want
UNLESS you use those superficial
tactics.

Now, on the other hand, when you
force yourself to use ZERO GAMES,
you then have to MASSIVELY rely
on your OWN ABILITY to attract
women.

And when I say your own ability, this
is referring to the MULTITUDE of skills
that are already in your DNA, but are
currently ASLEEP, lying dormant, waiting
to be AWOKEN.

What I am all about is helping men to
bring these elements of themselves that
are ALREADY THERE, but are sleeping,
to LIFE.

And trust me, what you have got already
in your system, from a billion years of
evolution, is A TRILLION TIMES MORE POWERFUL
than any pick up line or memorized material.

The human mind is powerful not only this
way, but also in the sense that women can
TELL if you are using SUPERFICIAL TACTICS.

That does not mean they always MIND, but
it definitely means that you will come
across as FAR MORE ATTRACTIVE if the
woman senses that you generated every
single element of the pickup on your
own, based on the actual real life
spontaneous moment that you saw her.

In one of my bootcamps, a client had mentioned
to me that he was interested in learning
how to master the pick up without using
anything external to himself. 

That meant no pick up lines at all.
No subtle but funny insults to 
make her feel insecure.
No fake compliments to kiss up.

So the entire bootcamp ran without so
much as even one tiny single SUPERFICIAL
tactic.

Instead, his inner game was taken to
new heights, his spontaneous conversation
skills soared, and he learned to convey
sexuality without saying a single dirty
joke or making any innuendos.

And he turned his entire "game" around
in just a few approaches, and the most
amazing thing about it is that he was
suddenly getting women laughing and
melting and opening up for him
without saying MUCH.

In fact, once he got them going, he
leaned back and they pretty much did
the rest of the work!

By the way, one of the coolest things
to me is when the woman is giving off
MASSIVE signals of interest, but a guy
is learning so fast that he doesn't
think it is for real.

So for example, this cool guy, he got
this woman melting for him, and I am
watching this from a bit away so she
cannot see, and he then walks away
from her, he tells me that he did
not take her number because he
was not sure if she was really into
him or not.

I knew with a trillion percent certainty
that she was into him MASSIVELY or she
would not have been asking him questions
such as "So what are your plans for
Saturday night?", which he told me that
she asked him.

So I told him to go BACK and find her
and take her number, which is kind of
interesting since the pick up was in a
way over, but I knew she was INTO him.

Not only that, but since I knew she
was into him, I knew that she would
be even MORE attracted this time,
since the human mind tends to get
DEEPER INTO an emotional experience
when you stimulate the emotion,
then pause the stimulation, and
then later continue the stimulation.

This is known as FRACTIONATION, and
is also a great idea to use when
making out with a woman when in
foreplay as well. 

(Kissing her, then stopping,
then kissing again later. Petting,
then stopping, then some more,
stopping, then some more, till
she is heating up and starting to
rub on you like crazy.)  

But, I do NOT recommend that guys
break up the initial approach this
way, because you can end up really
losing her if she happens to leave
the area.

So he finds her in another aisle of the store,
and calls her name out with TOTAL CONFIDENCE.

I am changing her name for the sake of
privacy, but he does not say to her
"Uhm, Jennifer?"

Instead, he sees her from a bit away,
and says:
"JENNNNNNNNNNNNNNN! What are you DOING??????"

He TOTALLY commits to the delivery,
with a trillion percent conviction.

No namby-pamby weak style.
Instead, he puts it ALL out there.

This is cool, because a woman senses this
man MEANS BUSINESS.

Her body language opened up to him
so wide, and she smiled so warmly,
it was as if in a movie a woman had
thought she had lost the love of her
life and then FOUND him again.

So of course, he got the number, and
they chatted more, and if it weren't for
the bootcamp itself, he could have left
with her right then and there, but he
had further training since the bootcamp
was still on.

And I honestly do not like to obsess
about women who are hot and young,
but it just so happens she was an
attractive younger woman.

PICK UP IS NOT SUPPOSED TO TAKE FOREVER.
I don't even like the term "pick-up"
but I use it since it seems to be
the most common way to refer to it.

One of the reasons I don't love the
term "pick-up" is because it sends
a message to your own mind that this
is some kind of ACT, some kind of
fake thing where you have to pull
the wool over women's eyes, when
in reality it is ACTUALLY about
unleashing the MAN in you in all
the right ways and at the moment
when it COUNTS when you see the
woman you want to meet.

And it is about doing all this while
STILL having tons of warmth in your soul
and STILL being a sensitive person who
cares about others.

It's not about being a jerk or being fake
or being manipulative.

And when it is done right, it all happens
VERY QUICKLY, and with very LITTLE
talking, and with very little effort.

If a stranger were to walk by within
a MINUTE of the conversation starting,
he would think FOR SURE this guy and
girl MUST already be boyfriend and
girlfriend or have already known
each other a LONG TIME.

It is when a guy is NOT doing it
properly, that it takes forever,
and that you will notice the guy
is making all kinds of exaggerated
actions, over the top jokes,
and other forms of overcompensation.

When you have the conversation skills,
and when you understand the right things
about women, and when you also are in the
RIGHT STATE OF MIND, you actually end up
doing MILLIONS of subtle things with your
expression, your tonality, your timing,
your body language, that ALL COMMUNICATE
THE RIGHT THINGS about yourself to a woman.

And THAT is what I teach you to DO.
I do not waste your time trying to teach
you a TRILLION pick up tactics so that you
can IMITATE what the right thing is supposed
to look like.

Instead, I focus on BRINGING TO LIFE that
part of you that is deep within that will
AUTOMATICALLY DO ALL THE RIGHT THINGS
when you interact with women!

It is not about my special pick up tactics,
I do not HAVE any special cheesy tactics,
instead what I have is TEN YEARS EXPERIENCE
in teaching you how to REVIVE that billion-years-in
the-making part of your mind that ALREADY
know how to attract women INSTINCTIVELY.
(It just has been BURIED DEEP under endless
misguided social conditioning.)

The honest truth is that I was teaching this
advanced method even way back when pick up
lines were all the rage. And the other truth
is that since then, I've taken the training
to an even DEEPER level where you will not
only be able to initially attract women but
you will understand what to do at every stage
including the long-term attraction as well.

Now here's the thing: I know some of you
might think that since Michael just said
that the best way to attract women is
to just not use any tactics at all, then
what the heck does he teach?

What I teach is all about the SUBTLETIES.

It is like saying, everyone knows that
to get big muscles, you need to lift
weights and eat right.

But at one point, it is ESSENTIAL to
learn HOW to do this, and even though
working out is a real thing, the body
was meant to exercise, that does not
mean we all know how to do it PROPERLY,
especially since we tend to live in
societies where we do not get a lot
of exercise.

It is the same thing with my programs.
I teach you the best way to use your
REAL SELF to get you RESULTS with
women.

For my most powerful home-study program on
learning how to unleash your inner game,
and on how to attract and keep a quality
woman, I seriously suggest you get my
program called "Warrior Within".

You can check it out here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

To find out about ALL my different programs for
skyrocketing your success with women, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

If you have ANY important question or issue
you are facing regarding dating or relationships,
and you would like a personal consultation with me,
you can now do that by going here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To Prepare For Ultimate Success When Approaching Women

Today I want to share with you a super EASY and
yet super EFFECTIVE strategy for improving your
success when it comes to approaching women
ANYWHERE.

The key is to do what I am about to say LONG BEFORE
the moment of opportunity arises, so that you don’t have
to start THINKING and the strategy can then go into
effect almost instinctively since you put the work in
long before.  In other words, you will be prepared for
when that gorgeous beauty appears.

You can do this at night so that you are ready for
approaching women the next day.

What you should do is VISUALIZE in your mind a
situation where you may realistically find a woman
you’d like to chat to.  Choose one specific location
that has a high chance of you finding a woman there,
and that has some opportunity for conversation.

So it could be some kind of local market, it could be
a bookstore, it could be a coffee shop, it could be
some fun event, etc, etc. Choose one and make it
as specific as possible. 

Making it as specific as possible helps take 
out the UNKNOWN factors, so that you are 
as truly prepared psychologically as possible
for when the real event occurs, since none of 
it will be shocking because you already  
pictured it all.

Then, think about EVERYTHING you might say
to her as an opening to the conversation, whether
it’s a comment on something she is doing or on
the situation she is in, or even a comment that
is intriguing or playful about something UPBEAT
or fun that is in the news.

DECIDE on what it will be, make it SPECIFIC.

Now, visualize her REACTION, think about all
the different things she MIGHT say.  Remember
that most women are in fact VERY social and
are NOT mean-spirited, even if she does feel
the need to test whether you are serious or not.

And think about all the DETAILS now, including
how you are FEELING. Often, just PICTURING
all this is enough to get your heart racing, and
that’s OKAY.  The idea is to experience it all
BEFORE it happens, so that you will NOT be
overwhelmed when indeed the REAL approach happens.

Picture how you might react to what SHE says
back to you, and what you might say in return.

It doesn’t MATTER if what you PICTURE ends
up being DIFFERENT from what actually happens,
whether what you pictured is different from what
she says or from what you say. 

The more work you do beforehand, the less
work it will be later.  Again, this is
not just about "what to say" but rather
it also about going through all the
EMOTIONS you may experience.

The more vivid the picture you create in
your mind beforehand, the more you will
GENUINELY experience the emotions.

So remember to also picture what she might
LOOK like, what she might be WEARING,
and remember what the details of the
environment around you might be, and
what it might sound like.  For example,
there might be the sound of a crowded
bus or train or cafe humming with activity
and people chatting in the background.

Be READY for all this. 

The real key here is to both prepare yourself
psychologically  as well as technically in
terms of having SOMETHING in mind that you
can work with as the theme for your conversation
with her.

Also, THINK about how you might incorporate
some of the powerful things you learn from my
material.  For example, SLOWING down your
pace of delivering the words. Focusing on
LISTENING to the real meaning behind her
words, so you can give a powerful response.
Starting casually, and building to a deeper
connection. 

Remembering also that humor requires a bit
of risk-taking, but it should be INTELLIGENT
risk-taking.  LEADING the interaction and not
expecting the woman to be the one to ask for
your number, and not expecting the woman to
be the one to suggest you continue the conversation
over a coffee, remember it has to be YOU leading
the INITIAL "courtship" between you and a woman.

These are just SOME of the important things
that you might keep in MIND as you mentally
PREPARE long before the actual moment
of opportunity arises.

It’s also important, that if you are anxious that
things might somehow go "WRONG" (I put
wrong in quotes, because there is no wrong,
in the same way a sports athlete is not "wrong"
if he doesn’t score a goal, he is only "wrong" if
he doesn’t play his best) you should actually
EXPERIENCE the anxiety BEFOREHAND.

Picture it ALL. If you fear that you might panic,
get that panicky feeling NOW rather than later.
Soak in that feeling again and again and again,
picturing it all, till you burn up all the panic
energy you got inside of you and you start
to feel calm again.

The key to success with women is not to leave
it all up to LUCK.  Instead, you must be prepared
from long BEFOREHAND. 

What you have just read is POWERFUL advice,
and yet it barely scratches the SURFACE of
all the incredible strategies you will find in my
programs.

As you can see from this newsletter, the MIND
is the most POWERFUL resource you have for
skyrocketing your success with women.  Most
men NEVER learn how to best USE their mind,
so instead of using their mind, their mind instead
controls THEM and takes over, and often
SABOTAGES their results with women.

Become the master of your MIND in all the
ways that apply to attracting women, or your
mind will control YOU.

Unless a man understands that, he is destined
to suffer infinitely. If he does NOT understand
this, it doesn't even matter if he HAS a harem
of women, eventually he will LOSE them all, and
not only this, he will drop to the depths of the
abyss when it comes to loneliness, neediness, and
desperation.     

If you can fully appreciate the GRAVITY of
these words, I seriously suggest you get my
most powerful program on this topic of how
to ensure your MIND is programmed
for success with women.

The program is called WARRIOR WITHIN because
it's about developing your self WITHIN for
success with women.

This program is especially important for attracting
a woman long-term, because there is no way to
FAKE the right behaviors with a woman long-term.
Instead, you have to really BE "THE MAN" on
this deepest level. A quality woman is searching
out your personality for this from the first
instant she meets you. She’s going to be looking
for the things you will learn in this program.

It’s at:

The Warrior Within Program By Michael Marks

If you would like to order this important
program IMMEDIATELY, just go here:

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Mastering "Zero Game" In Attracting Women

The most effective "pickups", or
what I prefer to call situations of
"approaching and attracting women"
are done when you convey all the
right things about yourself in the
LEAST amount of time, using the
LEAST amount of energy, and using
zero cheesy or corny tactics.

Now, I fully understand that sometimes
as a beginner, it can feel good to
have some pick up lines memorized,
to feel confident through knowing
you have some story memorized to
tell her that is supposed to convey
that you are cool, or is supposed
to be funny, etc., etc.

But you really want to wean yourself
off of those things as soon as possible,
or if at all possible to avoid using
them altogether.

(Again, though, I do understand how
it can sometimes be useful for a guy
who simply feels too overwhelmed
without them at first. I just suggest
a guy gets OFF them as soon as he can.)

The problem with all these things
is that they prevent you from being
your best, because they end up becoming
crutches that you can become addicted
to using.

And the use of those crutches actually
WEAKENS your inner game, because you
are sending the message DIRECTLY to
your mind through ACTION that you
do NOT believe you can pull off
attracting the woman you want
UNLESS you use those superficial
tactics.

Now, on the other hand, when you
force yourself to use ZERO GAMES,
you then have to MASSIVELY rely
on your OWN ABILITY to attract
women.

And when I say your own ability, this
is referring to the MULTITUDE of skills
that are already in your DNA, but are
currently ASLEEP, lying dormant, waiting
to be AWOKEN.

What I am all about is helping men to
bring these elements of themselves that
are ALREADY THERE, but are sleeping,
to LIFE.

And trust me, what you have got already
in your system, from a billion years of
evolution, is A TRILLION TIMES MORE POWERFUL
than any pick up line or memorized material.

The human mind is powerful not only this
way, but also in the sense that women can
TELL if you are using SUPERFICIAL TACTICS.

That does not mean they always MIND, but
it definitely means that you will come
across as FAR MORE ATTRACTIVE if the
woman senses that you generated every
single element of the pickup on your
own, based on the actual real life
spontaneous moment that you saw her.

In a recent bootcamp, a client had mentioned
to me that he was interested in learning
how to master the pick up without using
anything external to himself. 

That meant no pick up lines at all.
No subtle but funny insults to 
make her feel insecure.
No fake compliments to kiss up.

So the entire bootcamp ran without so
much as even one tiny single SUPERFICIAL
tactic.

Instead, his inner game was taken to
new heights, his spontaneous conversation
skills soared, and he learned to convey
sexuality without saying a single dirty
joke or making any innuendos.

And he turned his entire "game" around
in just a few approaches, and the most
amazing thing about it is that he was
suddenly getting women laughing and
melting and opening up for him
without saying MUCH.

In fact, once he got them going, he
leaned back and they pretty much did
the rest of the work!

By the way, one of the coolest things
to me is when the woman is giving off
MASSIVE signals of interest, but a guy
is learning so fast that he doesn't
think it is for real.

So for example, this cool guy, he got
this woman melting for him, and I am
watching this from a bit away so she
cannot see, and he then walks away
from her, he tells me that he did
not take her number because he
was not sure if she was really into
him or not.

I knew with a trillion percent certainty
that she was into him MASSIVELY or she
would not have been asking him questions
such as, "So what are your plans for
Saturday night?", which he told me that
she asked him.

So I told him to go BACK and find her
and take her number, which is kind of
interesting since the pick up was in a
way over, but I knew she was INTO him.

Not only that, but since I knew she
was into him, I knew that she would
be even MORE attracted this time,
since the human mind tends to get
DEEPER INTO an emotional experience
when you stimulate the emotion,
then pause the stimulation, and
then later continue the stimulation.

This is known as FRACTIONATION, and
is also a great idea to use when
making out with a woman when in
foreplay as well. 

(Kissing her, then stopping,
then kissing again later. Petting,
then stopping, then some more,
stopping, then some more, till
she is heating up and starting to
rub on you like crazy.)  

But, I do NOT recommend that guys
break up the initial approach this
way, because you can end up really
losing her if she happens to leave
the area.

So he finds her in another aisle of the store,
and calls her name out with TOTAL CONFIDENCE.

I am changing her name for the sake of
privacy, but he does not say to her
"Uhm, Jeniffer?"

Instead, he sees her from a bit away,
and says:
"JENNNNNNNNNNNNNNN! What are you DOING??????"

He TOTALLY commits to the delivery,
with a trillion percent conviction.

No namby-pamby weak style.
Instead, he puts it ALL out there.

This is cool, because a woman senses this
man MEANS BUSINESS.

Her body language opened up to him
so wide, and she smiled so warmly,
it was as if in a movie a woman had
thought she had lost the love of her
life and then FOUND him again.

So of course, he got the number, and
they chatted more, and if it weren't for
the bootcamp itself, he could have left
with her right then and there, but he
had further training since the bootcamp
was still on.

And I honestly do not like to obsess
about women who are hot and young,
but it just so happens she was an
attractive younger woman.

PICK UP IS NOT SUPPOSED TO TAKE FOREVER.
I don't even like the term "pick-up"
but I use it since it seems to be
the most common way to refer to it.

One of the reasons I don't love the
term "pick-up" is because it sends
a message to your own mind that this
is some kind of ACT, some kind of
fake thing where you have to pull
the wool over women's eyes, when
in reality it is ACTUALLY about
unleashing the MAN in you in all
the right ways and at the moment
when it COUNTS when you see the
woman you want to meet.

And it is about doing all this while
STILL having tons of warmth in your soul
and STILL being a sensitive person who
cares about others.

It's not about being a jerk or being fake
or being manipulative.

And when it is done right, it all happens
VERY QUICKLY, and with very LITTLE
talking, and with very little effort.

If a stranger were to walk by within
a MINUTE of the conversation starting,
he would think FOR SURE this guy and
girl MUST already be boyfriend and
girlfriend or have already known
each other a LONG TIME.

It is when a guy is NOT doing it
properly, that it takes forever,
and that you will notice the guy
is making all kinds of exaggerated
actions, over the top jokes,
and other forms of overcompensation.

When you have the conversation skills,
and when you understand the right things
about women, and when you also are in the
RIGHT STATE OF MIND, you actually end up
doing MILLIONS of subtle things with your
expression, your tonality, your timing,
your body language, that ALL COMMUNICATE
THE RIGHT THINGS about yourself to a woman.

And THAT is what I teach you to DO.
I do not waste your time trying to teach
you a TRILLION pick up tactics so that you
can IMITATE what the right thing is supposed
to look like.

Instead, I focus on BRINGING TO LIFE that
part of you that is deep within that will
AUTOMATICALLY DO ALL THE RIGHT THINGS
when you interact with women!

It is not about my special pick up tactics,
I do not HAVE any special cheesy tactics,
instead what I have is TEN YEARS EXPERIENCE
in teaching you how to REVIVE that billion-years-in
the-making part of your mind that ALREADY
knows how to attract women INSTINCTIVELY.
(It just has been BURIED DEEP under endless
misguided social conditioning.)

The honest truth is that I was teaching this
advanced method even way back when pick up
lines were all the rage. And the other truth
is that since then, I've taken the training
to an even DEEPER level where you will not
only be able to initially attract women but
you will understand what to do at every stage
including the long-term attraction as well.

The most powerful way to learn is THE REAL WORLD BOOTCAMP, and it's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

Now here's the thing: I know some of you
might think that since Michael just said
that the best way to attract women is
to just not use any tactics at all, then
what the heck does he teach?

What I teach is all about the SUBTLETIES.

It is like saying, everyone knows that
to get big muscles, you need to lift
weights and eat right.

But at one point, it is ESSENTIAL to
learn HOW to do this, and even though
working out is a real thing, the body
was meant to exercise, that does not
mean we all know how to do it PROPERLY,
especially since we tend to live in
societies where we do not get a lot
of exercise.

It is the same thing with my programs.
I teach you the best way to use your
REAL SELF to get you RESULTS with
women.

For my most powerful home-study program on
learning how to unleash your inner game,
and on how to attract and keep a quality
woman, I seriously suggest you get my
program called "Warrior Within".

You can check it out here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

To find out about ALL my different programs for
skyrocketing your success with women, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

If you have ANY question about dating
or relationships, you can arrange personal
phone consultations with me by going here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Two Important Secrets On Attracting Women

Today, I want to share two BIG points
regarding attracting women.

1. LET HER KNOW LESS

The first point is that it has been PROVEN
that a woman’s attraction grows STRONGER
when she knows LESS about a man.

The reason for this is because what she does
not know is fuel for her imagination to create
her fantasy version of  you.

Now, that being said, most guys end up
doing things that indirectly convey LOTS
of BAD information about themselves
even if it is not actually true!

Doing things like qualifying themselves
in order to “prove” they have worth to
the women, or overcompensating in any
other way, from trying to act too cold to
trying to kiss up.  All these things end
up making a woman think that she knows
who the guy is, it makes the woman think
she knows he is not a good catch.

But the FLIP side to all this is that it also
means that you as a stranger have a
TREMENDOUS opportunity when it comes
to approaching and attracting women who
are total strangers! 

So, while most guys are actually NOT approaching
women who are total strangers because they think
it is ‘too weird’ since they do not know the women,
and since the women do know them, this is all
actually a GREAT thing that HELPS YOU.

So rather than trying to FILL IN EVERY DETAIL
to help ‘convince’ a woman that she should like
you because of reasons a, b, c, and d, etc., etc,
you should instead NOT try to do that at all
and rather make the conversation FUN, and show
some LEADERSHIP and dominance and conviction
in your words.

THAT will tell her the RIGHT kinds of things about
you without telling her any SPECIFICS, which allows
her mind to FANTASIZE and fill in the gaps with her
own ideas about you.

The great thing about this, is that once a woman
really WANTS you from doing all this, she will
then CONVINCE herself later on how awesome
you are, and TRULY FEEL THIS WAY, even if you are
NOT exactly what she originally imagined. 

Have you ever REALLY WANTED something as a kid
really badly?  Maybe it was a certain toy or something?
And maybe you kept on dreaming about it, or thinking
about what it would be like if you got it, etc, etc.

The ANTICIPATION is so powerful, that by the time
you GET the toy, your excitement is so strong that the
toy would have to REALLLLLLLLLLLLY SUCK
in order for you to not be thrilled with getting it.

And the truth is, that the ANTICIPATION ITSELF is
actually more than HALF THE FUN!  Dreaming about
it, thinking about it, looking forward to it, is all a HUGE
part of the fun.

And women are AMAZING at knowing how to increase
their pleasure.  As a guy, I’ll just wolf down a chocolate
bar, but women will take their time as if it’s the last one
on earth.

So women APPRECIATE when you allow a little room
for imagination, for mystery, for anticipation. Do NOT
feel the need to answer her every question, and do not
do this with anger, instead do it with a smile or change
the subject.

I’m talking about the initial approach here, obviously if you
and her start going out you will tell her about yourself.

The SECOND major concept I want to share with you
today is a lot more SUBTLE, yet even more important
when it comes to attracting a woman who you just
approached as a total stranger, especially if this
is in a QUIET place like a bookstore.

A lot of women have had guys approach them before.
Even though most guys don’t approach, it only takes
for example one in a hundred men for a woman to
STILL be approached quite frequently in one way
or another.   

What this means is that women are actually very good
at sizing up a guy’s ‘inner game’ very quickly, and
sizing up his attitude, his emotions, his confidence,
his familiarity with women, etc, etc.

So, when a man approaches an attractive woman, her
mind subconsciously goes into SUPER-SENSITIVE
DETECTION MODE.  She may be QUIET, but there
is a whole friggen MULTITUDE of senses
being activated.

In fact, the BEST analogy I can think of is to compare
her senses in this SPECIFIC way, to those of a DOG.

I mean this ONLY from the perspective that dogs
have incredible senses of DETECTION. They can
tell if you are nervous, scared, happy, confident, etc.
 
And here is where the analogy becomes REALLY
IMPORTANT:

I recently heard the man known as the ‘Dog Whisperer’
share a valuable insight into how to properly raise
a dog, and how to ensure a dog is behaving properly.

He was saying that so often dog owners get overly
EXCITED around their dog.  i.e. “NICE dog,
look at YOU, look at what you did, WHOOO
HOOOO!!!!!”  The owners get all excited, loud,
and jumpy.

This does not usually help the dog, but rather
over-excites him.

Now, remember, a dog’s senses are super powerful.
The dog’s hearing is way more powerful than human
hearing.  The dog’s sense of smell is way more powerful.

And when you approach a woman, HER senses are
going into OVERDRIVE.  This comes from massive
EXPERIENCE with guys approaching her.  She has
probably clocked in  10,000 hours of experience
in guys approaching her since she was 15, even if she is
only 25!

It's like she has a 360 degree MONITOR "heads-up"
display, like a fighter pilot who has all this information
being pumped on graphs, monitors, etc., which tell her
EVERYTHING she needs to know about what this
guy is like in terms of ATTRACTING HER or not.  

Meanwhile, most guys experience in doing the same
with women probably clocks in at not even a FRACTION
of the same amount of hours.

And what makes it really tragic is that most guys are NOT
even approaching women as their AVERAGE SELVES.

Instead, most men come across as LESS cool than
they really are, because most men when they do the
approach end up doing all sorts of OVERCOMPENSATION
type behaviors in an effort to prevent feeling the pain
of rejection.

And women subconsciously detect that all these 
behaviors are forms of giving into fear.

So most men are actually coming across in
a way that does NOT accurately represent
themselves in the big picture, but it might
represent that moment, and women can only
react to the behavior that men present to
them in the moments they are there. 

From acting intentionally goofy so that they can have
an excuse for why they failed (i.e. “I know she rejected
me, I wasn’t taking it seriously, I was acting goofy,
so she didn’t reject the real me, because I was
INTENTIONALLY acting goofy, so I don’t have to
take the rejection personally") to acting intentionally
mean, to acting extra-nice in the hopes it will win
some points.

And all this ends up not only being DETECTED by
women, but it is DETECTED so strongly, it is like
a dog hearing a POLICE SIREN!

It really, REALLY strikes the WRONG emotions in women.

On the OTHER hand, if you work on yourself to
become super CALM, super DOMINANT, and cavalier
about the whole approach, then guess what?

Not only is it attractive, but SHE starts to calm down as well.

And this is true with so many dog owners and dogs.
I’m not saying all the time, but it is a pattern you
will notice. Calm, confident owner, calm confident
dog.  (Obviously there are exceptions and special
situations that defy this rule of thumb.)

So the analogy has two levels- on one hand, women
have MORE SENSITIVE “antennae” in detecting
men’s inner game compared to most men’s “antennae”
in detecting women’s levels of ‘inner game’.

Then, on top of this, women are ALSO going to be
more influenced by YOUR sense of confidence
and calm than MEN are going to be influenced by
WOMEN’S senses of confidence and calm.

Men are mostly going to be mentally and emotionally
influenced and affected by how women LOOK, at
least in the immediate short-term when dealing
with a woman .

A woman that you meet as a total stranger is on
FULL SENSORY ALERT.  If you come in too
LOUD, TOO MUCH ENERGY, TOO MUCH
'TRYING TOO HARD', she is going to emotionally
BURST the same way a dog feels like bursting when
a SIREN is going off because dogs' ears are so
sensitive they can hear things no human ever could.

You don’t want to amplify her HIGH ALERT,
you want to CALM HER DOWN, especially
since she knows she needs to watch out around
men or she will end up getting physical with
every single guy she meets. 

So the SECOND point is:

DIAL IT ALL DOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWN

The next time you are about to chat up a
woman who is a total stranger, turn the
DIAL DOWN.  Do NOT try to be Mr.
Entertainment.   Be CHILL, and then
GRADUALLY build up the energy as
SHE builds up ALONG with you.

Finally, remember that a woman wants to feel
that YOU are in control, that she is safe being
in YOUR hands, that you are leading the show,
and she cannot feel that if she sees that you cannot
handle HER attractive energy that she is radiating.

And if you would like the most powerful program
out there on INNER GAME, I seriously suggest
you get my WARRIOR WITHIN program.

Women are sizing up your inner game the moment
they meet you, and also inner game is JUST as important
long after you have met as well, because getting into
a relationship with a woman will put your inner game
to the ULTIMATE test as you face issues such as
handling ‘competition’ from other guys, handling
jealousy, handling her tests, and dealing with every
other challenge that may arise.

This program is absolutely VITAL if you are serious
about attracting women and keeping them attracted.

It’s at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

When you’ve done that, take your skill to the NEXT
level with the REAL WORLD BOOTCAMP, where
you will be in the ultimate learning environment by
approaching and attracting women in the real world
in the most efficient and effective way through live,
exclusive, one-on-one, private coaching with me.

I will make this experience one that changes the
path of your life forever.  Getting this part of
your life handled changes the way you view
EVERYTHING else. 

This is because as men, we really are motivated
mostly by our desire to get women, even when we
are with one woman and truly happy and content
with one woman, there is something powerful
about knowing you can get women, and it even
turns on the woman you are WITH.

Bootcamp is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

To find out about ALL my different programs
for SKYROCKETING your success with women,
go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

One final comment here- I would love to answer
all your questions PERSONALLY in FULL DETAIL. 

In order to make this something that I can actually
do, I have set up a CONSULTATION service.

It is the only way, otherwise I could spend
all week on emails and not even scratch
the surface.

CONSULTATIONS are at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To Prevent Women From Testing You

I'm sure you've heard of the idea that women
"test" men.  Maybe you've seen it or experienced
it yourself. 

Have you ever felt the frustration of knowing
that you just "failed" a woman's "test"? Where
you tolerated bad behavior, or where you
over-reacted to something, and thus somehow
showed "weakness" and it only made her
behavior WORSE. 

Or maybe it was during a first encounter
where you saw a woman you wanted to talk
to and you struck up a conversation with
her, and then she tested you, i.e. she
said, "Do you do talk to all women in the
mall?" and you melted and started acting
apologetic, etc., and it just made her
LESS interested, whereas if you had just
not reacted it would have been far better
for you.

Well, I have great news for you.
There is a way to PREVENT a LOT of
these tests.

The way to prevent women from testing you is
to make it absolutely clear what you are all
about from the GET-GO.

The only reason women test men is because they
want to KNOW things about you.  A woman will
test a man when she is not clear about him,
when she doesn't know him well, etc.

But the more CLEAR you are about who you are,
the LESS a woman will need or even want to
test you.

Most guys give women very UNCLEAR messages.
For example, in an approach, a guy will try to
MASK the fact he is interested, so for example
he will sit at the table next to a woman for a
long time, and then try to find a "subtle" way
to get near her, as if it was just coincidence
and had nothing to do with his interest in her.

In these situations, a woman already KNOWS
the guy is interested, so now she is wondering
why is he hiding his interest? Is it because
he's shy?  Is it because he has something to
hide?  Is he married and trying to cheat?
Is he some player who thinks this is a cool
"tactic"?

So now she is losing TRUST for him. And
it's no surprise that she now starts to test  
him with all kinds of things to see if he is
trustworthy and emotionally stable.

She may try to see if he is a player by
accusing him of being one and seeing his
reaction.

If he gets all defensive, then for sure he
has something to hide (at least this is what
she thinks.)  If he treats that question too
lightly if she is asking it with a genuine
serious expression on her face, then again
she may feel lack of trust.

If she thinks he is doing it because he is shy,
she may then test him to see if he has any
GUTS, or if he has GUTS plus the ability
to smoothly DEAL with CONFLICT.  

And yet, had he just approached her calmly
and began a conversation about something
that was interesting to HIM that she could
also UNDERSTAND, she now ALREADY 
sees that this is a guy who is not shy, and
who is not hiding things.  And if what he is
talking about is COMPELLING and reveals
things about his own character, she now knows
something about his PERSONALITY.

So, for example, in a card store, if a woman
is buying a card for a friend's birthday (which
is obvious by the section called "Birthdays - Friend")
and is looking at every single card and really trying
to find the right one, and a guy sees this and
approaches her straight up and tells her it looks
like she is really trying to find the right one,
and then she tells him how she is really
trying to decide between two or three great
choices, the guy might then say:

"It seems like you care a lot, and that's
a great sign, as a gift is really not about
the MONEY that is spent but about the THOUGHT
behind the gift, and a great card is a powerful
way of expressing the right thoughts.

Girls who are able to have a connection
with others based on genuine friendship
rather than on status are great girls".

This would be an EXCELLENT way to give her
a compliment that is MEANINGFUL.

You can even playfully take a look at some
of the cards and read them out loud and
give your comments on what it says inside,
sparking her comments and feedback to
them as well.

And it's also a chance to find out if it's true
whether she has a strong connection with this
friend or not, and if it is true that she has
a genuinely strong connection with this friend,
your compliment has now shown something about
YOURSELF as well, as you clearly VALUE these
types of friendships, you are showing you are
not just another CHEESY style "pick up artist".

I usually try to AVOID mentioning any
actual specifics, because I know that some
cheesy guys will just end up using this
as some way to fake a real personality,
but I make the occasional exception so
that the point can be illustrated clearly.

By being direct, you show you have nothing
to hide and that you believe in yourself.

Then, by not only being direct but also having
your OWN VALUES WORKED OUT CLEARLY 
IN YOUR OWN MIND, you have a lot to offer
terms of comments, for all kinds of situations,
whether you see a woman at the book store,
the club, the fair, the amusement park, the
bank, the bus, or anywhere else.

Yes, women test men, but men test women
as well, and the point is that if a woman
is testing you ALL THE TIME, then either
you are with a woman who has serious
issues OR you are giving her MANY
REASONS TO TEST YOU, and it's time
to TAKE CARE of those reasons so that
she does NOT have reasons to test you,
on issues of trust, moral strength,
masculinity, and great attitude,
including a sense of humor.

Here's a list of some IMPORTANT things
that you want to AVOID doing, as they
will trigger a woman's need for TESTING:

-Acting fidgety while talking 

-Not looking her in the eyes

-Not going RIGHT up to her
(spending time LOOKING at her, then
pacing around, then looking again,
rather than just going right UP to her)
  
-Talking about SHOCK topics that
are vulgar, crude, too sexual, just
because you know they will get
attention (this looks like you don't have
anything ELSE to your personality so
you had to resort to shock topics to
get her attention)

-Talking too fast (this looks as if you
are afraid she's going to leave any
second, so you are trying to get
all your words in NOW, and this
obviously looks as if you have
no real value)         

-Touching her too much (This applies
especially when you are not in a club.
If you are trying to do a pick-up in a
coffee shop, there's no need to turn
it into a touchy-feely tasty thing. Keep
any contact EXTREMELY light and
playful and don't worry about
going heavy "kino" kinesthetic there-
it will totally ruin your interaction.)   

-Staying LOCKED on your initial conversation
opener forever, as if you have nothing else
to talk about.  A lot of times, a guy will
start a conversation about something,
and if it goes well, he sticks to it for
dear life because he doesn't want to
"mess up" with something else, when
in reality it would be good to talk about
a few things, if time permits, as it shows
you have lots to your personality.
  
-Showing off (this shows insecurity or
just plain old jerkiness, so of course
a woman will test a guy to see how
secure he is then, and then as guys
we wonder why women seem to
be trying to "press our buttons"
when in reality we INVITED it!)

And there are tons of other things as well,
but those are some of the BIG ones.

Two more major areas are the fundamental
points of:

Would YOU trust YOURSELF to be faithful
if you were faced with "temptation"?  Do
you even think in terms of "temptation" or
do you think in terms of INTEGRITY that
VAPORIZES the whole IDEA of "temptation"?

Are you a good guy because you are AFRAID
of being a "bad guy" or are you a good guy
because it's what you TRULY BELIEVE
IN YOUR BONES? 

Sometimes, guys think that THEY are unworthy.
So they feel a need to create masks in the form
of lies about themselves, yet women always
end up seeing through these thing and it just
turns them off.  So it's important to work on
these issues if you are facing them yourself.

It's important to truly BE a man of integrity,
not just be a man who can FAKE it, a la
cheesy style pick up artists who quality
women see RIGHT through. 

So the point is, women don't HAVE to
be testing us, but we tend to MAKE     
women test us.  And the great news
is that you can DO SOMETHING
about it so that women have very little
NEED to test you in the FIRST place!
Just DON'T DO the things that CLEARLY
give women a REASON to test you!   

The list above will HELP you accomplish this.

Now, do you notice how a lot of the things
in the list above, that trigger a woman
to go into "testing" mode, are actually
a RESULT of INTERNAL GAME issues?

In other words, the actions that need to be
changed are SYMPTOMS of an "inner game"
issue. 

One solution is to just try to fix the
SYMPTOMS, i.e. force yourself NOT to
speak too fast, not to get fidgety,
not to use shock topics, etc, etc, but
the DEEPER solution, the more POWERFUL
solution is to RAISE THE LEVEL OF YOUR
INNER GAME so that these and ALL OTHER
types of problematic behaviors are stopped
at the ROOT LEVEL.

Plus, simultaneously, by making this ROOT
LEVEL transformation, you will not only
stop doing the wrong things, you will also
do all the RIGHT things with women without
having to even THINK about it, as it will all
feel so natural for you to the point that it
will feel like an INSTINCT.
 
For my most POWERFUL program that deals
with skyrocketing your success with women by
taking your INNER game to the highest level,
I seriously suggest you get my program called
"WARRIOR WITHIN".

This program is ABSOLUTELY essential if
you are looking to not only meet and
attract women, but also if you want to
KEEP a woman attracted long term, since
there is no way to FAKE long term, and
this program is all about transformation
on a DEEP level, it's not about doing
any kind of phony ACT at all.

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html 

Now, I also want to let you know that you
have to take this knowledge out into the
REAL WORLD for it to have an EFFECT.

These aren't just words in a newsletter.
Every word here is the result of real
world testing. I'm hoping you will take
what you learn from me and use it in
the real world to get the women you want.

If you're still unsure of whether you are
going to take MASSIVE ACTION or not, I
can assure you that taking my BOOTCAMP
is one way to make absolutely certain
that you take these skills into the
REAL WORLD and get this part of your
life handled once and for all.

BOOTCAMP will FORCE you to have BOTH
the KNOWLEDGE plus the REAL WORLD
APPLICATION of that knowledge, since
I will be teaching you "hands-on" on
tons of real women in just about every
place where women can be found, from
bookstores to coffee shops to libraries
to trains and buses and much, much more.

BOOTCAMP is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/realworld.html

The reality is that nobody is going to
force you to learn these skills. You can
go a whole life and no one else will give
a hoot whether you learn these skills
or not.

It's up to YOU.

WARRIOR WITHIN is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

THE REAL WORLD BOOTCAMP is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/realworld.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

P.S. To check out ALL my programs for
skyrocketing your success with women,
go here:

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Approaching Women: A Supremely Powerful Tip

Today I want to share with you a super EASY and
yet super EFFECTIVE strategy for improving your
success when it comes to approaching women
ANYWHERE.

The key is to do what I am about to say LONG BEFORE
the moment of opportunity arises, so that you don’t have
to start THINKING and the strategy can then go into
effect almost instinctively since you put the work in
long before.  In other words, you will be prepared for
when that gorgeous beauty appears.

You can do this at night so that you are ready for
approaching women the next day.

What you should do is VISUALIZE in your mind a
situation where you may realistically find a woman
you’d like to chat to.  Choose one specific location
that has a high chance of you finding a woman there,
and that has some opportunity for conversation.

So it could be some kind of local market, it could be
a bookstore, it could be a coffee shop, it could be
some fun event, etc, etc. Choose one and make it
as specific as possible. 

Making it as specific as possible helps take 
out the UNKNOWN factors, so that you are 
as truly prepared psychologically as possible
for when the real event occurs, since none of 
it will be shocking because you already  
pictured it all.

Then, think about EVERYTHING you might say
to her as an opening to the conversation, whether
it’s a comment on something she is doing or on
the situation she is in, or even a comment that
is intriguing or playful about something UPBEAT
or fun that is in the news.

DECIDE on what it will be, make it SPECIFIC.

Now, visualize her REACTION, think about all
the different things she MIGHT say.  Remember
that most women are in fact VERY social and
are NOT mean-spirited, even if she does feel
the need to test whether you are serious or not.

And think about all the DETAILS now, including
how you are FEELING. Often, just PICTURING
all this is enough to get your heart racing, and
that’s OKAY.  The idea is to experience it all
BEFORE it happens, so that you will NOT be
overwhelmed when indeed the REAL approach happens.

Picture how you might react to what SHE says
back to you, and what you might say in return.

It doesn’t MATTER if what you PICTURE ends
up being DIFFERENT from what actually happens,
whether what you pictured is different from what
she says or from what you say. 

The more work you do beforehand, the less
work it will be later.  Again, this is
not just about "what to say" but rather
it also about going through all the
EMOTIONS you may experience.

The more vivid the picture you create in
your mind beforehand, the more you will
GENUINELY experience the emotions.

So remember to also picture what she might
LOOK like, what she might be WEARING,
and remember what the details of the
environment around you might be, and
what it might sound like.  For example,
there might be the sound of a crowded
bus or train or cafe humming with activity
and people chatting in the background.

Be READY for all this. 

The real key here is to both prepare yourself
psychologically  as well as technically in
terms of having SOMETHING in mind that you
can work with as the theme for your conversation
with her.

Also, THINK about how you might incorporate
some of the powerful things you learn from my
material.  For example, SLOWING down your
pace of delivering the words. Focusing on
LISTENING to the real meaning behind her
words, so you can give a powerful response.
Starting casually, and building to a deeper
connection. 

Remembering also that humor requires a bit
of risk-taking, but it should be INTELLIGENT
risk-taking.  LEADING the interaction and not
expecting the woman to be the one to ask for
your number, and not expecting the woman to
be the one to suggest you continue the conversation
over a coffee, remember it has to be YOU leading
the INITIAL "courtship" between you and a woman.

These are just SOME of the important things
that you might keep in MIND as you mentally
PREPARE long before the actual moment
of opportunity arises.

It’s also important, that if you are anxious that
things might somehow go "WRONG" (I put
wrong in quotes, because there is no wrong,
in the same way a sports athlete is not "wrong"
if he doesn’t score a goal, he is only "wrong" if
he doesn’t play his best) you should actually
EXPERIENCE the anxiety BEFOREHAND.

Picture it ALL. If you fear that you might panic,
get that panicky feeling NOW rather than later.
Soak in that feeling again and again and again,
picturing it all, till you burn up all the panic
energy you got inside of you and you start
to feel calm again.

The key to success with women is not to leave
it all up to LUCK.  Instead, you must be prepared
from long BEFOREHAND. 

What you have just read is POWERFUL advice,
and yet it barely scratches the SURFACE of
all the incredible strategies you will find in my
programs.

As you can see from this newsletter, the MIND
is the most POWERFUL resource you have for
skyrocketing your success with women.  Most
men NEVER learn how to best USE their mind,
so instead of using their mind, their mind instead
controls THEM and takes over, and often
SABOTAGES their results with women.

Become the master of your MIND in all the
ways that apply to attracting women, or your
mind will control YOU.

Unless a man understands that, he is destined
to suffer infinitely. If he does NOT understand
this, it doesn't even matter if he HAS a harem
of women, eventually he will LOSE them all, and
not only this, he will drop to the depths of the
abyss when it comes to loneliness, neediness, and
desperation.     

If you can fully appreciate the GRAVITY of
these words, I seriously suggest you get my
my most powerful program on this topic
of how to ensure your MIND is programmed
for success with women.

The program is called WARRIOR WITHIN because
it's about developing your self WITHIN for
success with women.

This program is especially important for attracting
a woman long-term, because there is no way to
FAKE the right behaviors with a woman long-term.
Instead, you have to really BE "THE MAN" on
this deepest level. A quality woman is searching
out your personality for this from the first
instant she meets you. She’s going to be looking
for the things you will learn in this program.

It’s at:

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Till next time,

Michael Marks