An Important Tip For Beating "Approach Anxiety", And An Important Insight For Success In LIFE

Today, I want to share an important tip for getting

over the fear of approaching women, and this will

also lead to an important insight for success in life.

The real truth is that most men actually AREN’T that

afraid of a so called “rejection”, but rather are afraid of

being ridiculed or judged or criticized by others who

may SEE the approach happening, or possibly even

by the woman herself.

But the actual “not getting the woman” part is NOT

the real concern or fear or worry of most guys.

To quote a line from Star Wars, “search your feelings”,

and you will know that this is true. Think about it.

By the way, I call it a “so called rejection” because

there can be a MILLION reasons  for an approach

not working- it can be they are not single, it can

be they just broke up with someone and are not

in the mood for meeting anyone new, etc.

But back to my original point- most men are not

feeling anxiety about the woman not saying yes,

they are feeling anxiety due to the fear of being

negatively judged for MAKING the approach!

I bring this to your attention for two reasons:

The first is, by becoming AWARE of it, you are

far more likely to TAKE ACTION, because you

become more aware of how irrational it is-

since, after all, WHO CARES what anyone thinks

when it comes to YOUR decision to approach

women? That is YOUR decision, YOUR life,

no one else has the right to tell you what to

do if you are not hurting anyone.

The second reason I bring this to your attention

is because this same basic issue is the NUMBER

ONE BARRIER to most people’s success in

EVERYTHING they do- FEAR OF BEING MOCKED,

RIDICULED, LABELLED, NEGATIVELY JUDGED,

ETC.

This fear, the fear of being negatively judged, is the

FAR, FAR, FARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

greater fear than “losing” a game, losing money,

losing just about anything other than your life

or health.

Human beings tend to REALLY FEAR what other

people THINK. 

So the reason people often don’t take action on

their DREAMS or even their SMALL LITTLE GOALS

is not because they fear FAILURE so much as they

fear being MOCKED for failure!!!!!!!

We don’t, as humans, really fear losing money or

losing a game or losing at just about anything,

it’s the RIDICULE by others!!!

FEAR of CRITICISM is the REAL enemy of success.

To me, when I first became aware of this, it was

as if I was CATAPULTED into a new UNIVERSE,

because it made me realize that human beings

don’t really fear things like poverty or low

social status, they only fear what OTHERS

THINK of them.

So, for example, if you lived in a tiny hut, but

everyone around you lived in SMALLER huts

or the same-sized huts, you would feel FINE,

but if you lived in a NICE HOUSE and everyone

around you lived in HUGE HOUSES and they

made FUN of you for living in only a NICE HOUSE,

you would probably be HAPPIER to be the guy

in the LITTLE hut,surrounded by people who

had the same or smaller-sized huts and who

couldn’t judge you.

Now, this newsletter is really about success with

WOMEN, however success with women often

overlaps into success in ALL areas of life, and

VICE-VERSA as well.

So, my point is, if a woman sees that you are

MAN ENOUGH to NOT BE DISCOURAGED BY

THE FEAR OF BEING JUDGED BY OTHERS

for approaching her, she also sees how you

have a MASSIVE AMOUNT of courage and

that if you have the SAME courage in the

OTHER AREAS of your life, you are one HECK

of a man.

Now, don’t get me wrong.

I’m not saying not to CARE about what others think EVER, because it’s GOOD to have EMPATHY

for others, but it’s not good to be RULED by FEAR OF BEING JUDGED, especially when you

are not doing anything bad at all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And when a woman sees you have that kind of courage, it’s very attractive.

More importantly, it’s very helpful for ALL of your life for ALL KINDS OF THINGS, from starting a business to pursuing your dreams,

to learning a new skill.

How many times have you NOT taken actionin these areas because you thought you were afraid of failure?

Well the truth is, it’s not failure humans are really afraid of that much, it’s being JUDGED negatively by others that people fear the most.

The ramifications for this are so huge, they go

way beyond what I could write in only one

newsletter, but this newsletter should give you

a MASSIVE head-start on changing your life with

women and on changing your life in any area

you wish.

This leads me to one final point- which is that

your focus should be on LEARNING, not on

avoiding being judged by others.

If you get caught up in trying to avoid being judged

by others, you will never do anything where you

might possibly fail, and there is NO WAY TO LEARN

WITHOUT FAILING IN THE PROCESS.

Success requires failure.
Does this sound like an alien concept?

 




















Well, it is simply TRUTH.

Michael Jordan, Wayne Gretzky, Bill Gates,

Steve Jobs, Steven Spielberg, James Cameron,

Arnold Schwarzenegger, Sylvester Stallone,

and every other success story has FAILED many

times before they succeeded, and failure is part

of the process ALL THE TIME in fact.

This is why I have been SOOOOOOOOOOOOO

careful NOT to go around saying that I am the

best pick-up artist on Earth.  If I go around saying

that, that is a TERRIBLE thing for my ability to

CONTINUE LEARNING, since it puts me under

TREMENDOUS PRESSURE to NEVER make any

mistakes, and THAT means not PUSHING THE

ENVELOPE to REACH NEW LEVELS.

I understand that FAILURE is the only way to

break through to the NEXT level.

Now the truth is, I’m pretty damn good.

And more importantly, my students are getting

some INSANELY POWERFUL results lately.  

I’m talking about walking right up to MELTINGLY

beautiful women and having interactions where

the women are not only giving their phone numbers,

but are TEXTING the guys DEMANDING to see the

guys as soon as possible!

And these are SOBER women, not women who are

drunk at clubs!

This is because I teach them to UNLEASH THEIR

FULL INNER GAME, THEIR FULL POWER OF MENTAL

STATE by NOT fearing failure. AND of course I also

teach all the REST as well- all the conversation

skills, the rapport skills, the attraction skills, etc.

You see, you can either focus on LEARNING

or you can focus on trying to preserve some

IMAGE of being the best, but if you focus on

PRESERVING some image of being the best, 
you ironically end up STAGNATING your learning,
and you don’t take on any possible challenge where 
you might fail---and without those challenges you

can’t GROW AND BECOME EVEN BETTER.

So I never focus on BEING THE BEST, I focus on

LEARNING, LEARNING, LEARNING, and of course

THAT IS THE ONLY WAY TO TRULY BE YOUR BEST.

What you have just read, as awesome as it is,

is just the TIP of the iceberg.  Over the past

12 YEARS, I have learned THOUSANDS

of important insights and strategies for

helping men succeed with women at every

stage of the process, from the first thing you

say to her all the way to keeping a relationship

thriving if you so desire.

And from that experience, I have learned what

works best for different guys, because not all guys

need the exact same thing- and that means I can

truly CUSTOMIZE your learning in this area to make

it EFFICIENT and FAST. 

When you learn from me, you are getting the most

STREAMLINED instruction, tailor-made for your

personality, your goals, and your needs.

And when you learn from me, you are getting

PRIVATE, EXCLUSIVE, and CONFIDENTIAL coaching.

I will show you the BEST ways for YOU to skyrocket

your inner game, the BEST ways for YOU to approach

women, the BEST ways for YOU to get results.

Every man is different, which is why my bootcamps are limited to ONE client only per bootcamp, so that you can get MAXIMUM ATTENTION AND THE FASTEST RESULTS.

If you want success with women, I urge you to book a bootcamp or a private consultation with me NOW.

The reason why I say NOW is because I may easily become too busy to do bootcamps in the future.

I don’t just TEACH these things, I practice these principles myself.

I don’t need to teach bootcamps, or teach anything.

I do it because I love it.

The thing is, because I practice what I preach, other

passionate projects of mine have grown to the point

they demand more of my time, so it may become

difficult for you to book a bootcamp with me in the

future.   

The value of taking a bootcamp or a personal private

consultation with me is likely the best investment you

will ever make in your life.  

Do it now.

Bootcamp is at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

Private Consultations are at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

If you can’t book a bootcamp or consultation right now,

then DEFINITELY get my comprehensive home-study

program on attraction, called the ATTRACTION

MASTERY PROGRAM, at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To Prepare For Ultimate Success When Approaching Women

Today I want to share with you a super EASY and
yet super EFFECTIVE strategy for improving your
success when it comes to approaching women
ANYWHERE.

The key is to do what I am about to say LONG BEFORE
the moment of opportunity arises, so that you don’t have
to start THINKING and the strategy can then go into
effect almost instinctively since you put the work in
long before.  In other words, you will be prepared for
when that gorgeous beauty appears.

You can do this at night so that you are ready for
approaching women the next day.

What you should do is VISUALIZE in your mind a
situation where you may realistically find a woman
you’d like to chat to.  Choose one specific location
that has a high chance of you finding a woman there,
and that has some opportunity for conversation.

So it could be some kind of local market, it could be
a bookstore, it could be a coffee shop, it could be
some fun event, etc, etc. Choose one and make it
as specific as possible. 

Making it as specific as possible helps take 
out the UNKNOWN factors, so that you are 
as truly prepared psychologically as possible
for when the real event occurs, since none of 
it will be shocking because you already  
pictured it all.

Then, think about EVERYTHING you might say
to her as an opening to the conversation, whether
it’s a comment on something she is doing or on
the situation she is in, or even a comment that
is intriguing or playful about something UPBEAT
or fun that is in the news.

DECIDE on what it will be, make it SPECIFIC.

Now, visualize her REACTION, think about all
the different things she MIGHT say.  Remember
that most women are in fact VERY social and
are NOT mean-spirited, even if she does feel
the need to test whether you are serious or not.

And think about all the DETAILS now, including
how you are FEELING. Often, just PICTURING
all this is enough to get your heart racing, and
that’s OKAY.  The idea is to experience it all
BEFORE it happens, so that you will NOT be
overwhelmed when indeed the REAL approach happens.

Picture how you might react to what SHE says
back to you, and what you might say in return.

It doesn’t MATTER if what you PICTURE ends
up being DIFFERENT from what actually happens,
whether what you pictured is different from what
she says or from what you say. 

The more work you do beforehand, the less
work it will be later.  Again, this is
not just about "what to say" but rather
it also about going through all the
EMOTIONS you may experience.

The more vivid the picture you create in
your mind beforehand, the more you will
GENUINELY experience the emotions.

So remember to also picture what she might
LOOK like, what she might be WEARING,
and remember what the details of the
environment around you might be, and
what it might sound like.  For example,
there might be the sound of a crowded
bus or train or cafe humming with activity
and people chatting in the background.

Be READY for all this. 

The real key here is to both prepare yourself
psychologically  as well as technically in
terms of having SOMETHING in mind that you
can work with as the theme for your conversation
with her.

Also, THINK about how you might incorporate
some of the powerful things you learn from my
material.  For example, SLOWING down your
pace of delivering the words. Focusing on
LISTENING to the real meaning behind her
words, so you can give a powerful response.
Starting casually, and building to a deeper
connection. 

Remembering also that humor requires a bit
of risk-taking, but it should be INTELLIGENT
risk-taking.  LEADING the interaction and not
expecting the woman to be the one to ask for
your number, and not expecting the woman to
be the one to suggest you continue the conversation
over a coffee, remember it has to be YOU leading
the INITIAL "courtship" between you and a woman.

These are just SOME of the important things
that you might keep in MIND as you mentally
PREPARE long before the actual moment
of opportunity arises.

It’s also important, that if you are anxious that
things might somehow go "WRONG" (I put
wrong in quotes, because there is no wrong,
in the same way a sports athlete is not "wrong"
if he doesn’t score a goal, he is only "wrong" if
he doesn’t play his best) you should actually
EXPERIENCE the anxiety BEFOREHAND.

Picture it ALL. If you fear that you might panic,
get that panicky feeling NOW rather than later.
Soak in that feeling again and again and again,
picturing it all, till you burn up all the panic
energy you got inside of you and you start
to feel calm again.

The key to success with women is not to leave
it all up to LUCK.  Instead, you must be prepared
from long BEFOREHAND. 

What you have just read is POWERFUL advice,
and yet it barely scratches the SURFACE of
all the incredible strategies you will find in my
programs.

As you can see from this newsletter, the MIND
is the most POWERFUL resource you have for
skyrocketing your success with women.  Most
men NEVER learn how to best USE their mind,
so instead of using their mind, their mind instead
controls THEM and takes over, and often
SABOTAGES their results with women.

Become the master of your MIND in all the
ways that apply to attracting women, or your
mind will control YOU.

Unless a man understands that, he is destined
to suffer infinitely. If he does NOT understand
this, it doesn't even matter if he HAS a harem
of women, eventually he will LOSE them all, and
not only this, he will drop to the depths of the
abyss when it comes to loneliness, neediness, and
desperation.     

If you can fully appreciate the GRAVITY of
these words, I seriously suggest you get my
most powerful program on this topic of how
to ensure your MIND is programmed
for success with women.

The program is called WARRIOR WITHIN because
it's about developing your self WITHIN for
success with women.

This program is especially important for attracting
a woman long-term, because there is no way to
FAKE the right behaviors with a woman long-term.
Instead, you have to really BE "THE MAN" on
this deepest level. A quality woman is searching
out your personality for this from the first
instant she meets you. She’s going to be looking
for the things you will learn in this program.

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

And if you haven't downloaded my latest program,
called Instant Attraction, containing my latest
updates and advances to skyrocket your success
with women, go here now:

http://getagreatgirl.com/instant-attraction.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Inner Game And Beating "Approach Anxiety"

Every single bit of data that comes
in regarding this field has been
proving one thing: That INNER GAME
is by far the most important element
of success.

Now, as you may know, I have always
believed this. I focused on this even
in my very first book, where I make
it clear to avoid all gimmicks and
to instead become as strong internally
as possible.

One of the reasons inner game is
so important is because the way
our minds play tricks on us is
so subtle that we don't even
REALIZE how our minds are
sabotaging our success and
preventing us from doing the
RIGHT things.

For example, how many times have
you been told that MONEY is the
root of all evil, or that feelings
of ATTRACTION for a woman are somehow
wrong or sinful?  

How many times have you seen people
who are successful be HATED by others?

How many times have you seen how
just being MEDIOCRE can get you
ACCEPTED since it doesn't get
anyone jealous? 

So, we grow up often thinking that
it's better to SUCK or be MEDIOCRE
because then people won't HATE us.

Of course, being MEDIOCRE not only
often is unsatisfying, it also often means
that one gets no respect, either, so the
whole goal of being mediocre fails to
achieve the desire for social approval
anyway.

And yet, having more power, if used
wisely, means having more time, more
money to help others.  And having
the woman you truly desire allows
you to better focus in everything
in  your life, including helping
OTHERS as well.

It all depends on how you use
your success.   

And when it comes to APPROACHING
A WOMAN, this REALLY brings out
the negative conditioning and
negative emotions, including
the fear of being labelled
a psycho, the fear of rejection,
the fear of coming across
as foolish or socially clueless,
etc, etc.

Plus of course, all the other
anxieties, i.e. "Is this morally
okay to just go up to women?", etc.

Now, are there some elements of outer
game that are important, in terms of some
of the specifics, for example in the
actual approach? Yes, and these
can be learned quickly, and I show
all these things as well; I show
different things in different programs.

But without the deeper inner work,
everything unravels and falls apart
or even worse, never gets off the
ground to begin with.

Now, when it comes to developing inner
game, I take it VERY seriously. It's
not just a bunch of "quick fixes",
but rather some SERIOUS work that
takes COURAGE.

And one of the BEST places to start
is with getting over APPROACH ANXIETY.

After all, if a man feels too much
anxiety about making the approach,
then no matter what strategy he
has, he just won't take action.

I have developed the absolute most
methodical, proven, and well-researched
STEP BY STEP method for beating
approach anxiety, and I have also
made this program something that
you can get without breaking the
bank.

Get this program NOW by going HERE:

http://getagreatgirl.com/approach-anxiety.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks
         
(c) 2014 Get A Great Girl

How To Prepare For Ultimate Success When Approaching Women

Today I want to share with you a super EASY and
yet super EFFECTIVE strategy for improving your
success when it comes to approaching women
ANYWHERE.

The key is to do what I am about to say LONG BEFORE
the moment of opportunity arises, so that you don’t have
to start THINKING and the strategy can then go into
effect almost instinctively since you put the work in
long before.  In other words, you will be prepared for
when that gorgeous beauty appears.

You can do this at night so that you are ready for
approaching women the next day.

What you should do is VISUALIZE in your mind a
situation where you may realistically find a woman
you’d like to chat to.  Choose one specific location
that has a high chance of you finding a woman there,
and that has some opportunity for conversation.

So it could be some kind of local market, it could be
a bookstore, it could be a coffee shop, it could be
some fun event, etc, etc. Choose one and make it
as specific as possible. 

Making it as specific as possible helps take 
out the UNKNOWN factors, so that you are 
as truly prepared psychologically as possible
for when the real event occurs, since none of 
it will be shocking because you already  
pictured it all.

Then, think about EVERYTHING you might say
to her as an opening to the conversation, whether
it’s a comment on something she is doing or on
the situation she is in, or even a comment that
is intriguing or playful about something UPBEAT
or fun that is in the news.

DECIDE on what it will be, make it SPECIFIC.

Now, visualize her REACTION, think about all
the different things she MIGHT say.  Remember
that most women are in fact VERY social and
are NOT mean-spirited, even if she does feel
the need to test whether you are serious or not.

And think about all the DETAILS now, including
how you are FEELING. Often, just PICTURING
all this is enough to get your heart racing, and
that’s OKAY.  The idea is to experience it all
BEFORE it happens, so that you will NOT be
overwhelmed when indeed the REAL approach happens.

Picture how you might react to what SHE says
back to you, and what you might say in return.

It doesn’t MATTER if what you PICTURE ends
up being DIFFERENT from what actually happens,
whether what you pictured is different from what
she says or from what you say. 

The more work you do beforehand, the less
work it will be later.  Again, this is
not just about "what to say" but rather
it also about going through all the
EMOTIONS you may experience.

The more vivid the picture you create in
your mind beforehand, the more you will
GENUINELY experience the emotions.

So remember to also picture what she might
LOOK like, what she might be WEARING,
and remember what the details of the
environment around you might be, and
what it might sound like.  For example,
there might be the sound of a crowded
bus or train or cafe humming with activity
and people chatting in the background.

Be READY for all this. 

The real key here is to both prepare yourself
psychologically  as well as technically in
terms of having SOMETHING in mind that you
can work with as the theme for your conversation
with her.

Also, THINK about how you might incorporate
some of the powerful things you learn from my
material.  For example, SLOWING down your
pace of delivering the words. Focusing on
LISTENING to the real meaning behind her
words, so you can give a powerful response.
Starting casually, and building to a deeper
connection. 

Remembering also that humor requires a bit
of risk-taking, but it should be INTELLIGENT
risk-taking.  LEADING the interaction and not
expecting the woman to be the one to ask for
your number, and not expecting the woman to
be the one to suggest you continue the conversation
over a coffee, remember it has to be YOU leading
the INITIAL "courtship" between you and a woman.

These are just SOME of the important things
that you might keep in MIND as you mentally
PREPARE long before the actual moment
of opportunity arises.

It’s also important, that if you are anxious that
things might somehow go "WRONG" (I put
wrong in quotes, because there is no wrong,
in the same way a sports athlete is not "wrong"
if he doesn’t score a goal, he is only "wrong" if
he doesn’t play his best) you should actually
EXPERIENCE the anxiety BEFOREHAND.

Picture it ALL. If you fear that you might panic,
get that panicky feeling NOW rather than later.
Soak in that feeling again and again and again,
picturing it all, till you burn up all the panic
energy you got inside of you and you start
to feel calm again.

The key to success with women is not to leave
it all up to LUCK.  Instead, you must be prepared
from long BEFOREHAND. 

What you have just read is POWERFUL advice,
and yet it barely scratches the SURFACE of
all the incredible strategies you will find in my
programs.

As you can see from this newsletter, the MIND
is the most POWERFUL resource you have for
skyrocketing your success with women.  Most
men NEVER learn how to best USE their mind,
so instead of using their mind, their mind instead
controls THEM and takes over, and often
SABOTAGES their results with women.

Become the master of your MIND in all the
ways that apply to attracting women, or your
mind will control YOU.

Unless a man understands that, he is destined
to suffer infinitely. If he does NOT understand
this, it doesn't even matter if he HAS a harem
of women, eventually he will LOSE them all, and
not only this, he will drop to the depths of the
abyss when it comes to loneliness, neediness, and
desperation.     

If you can fully appreciate the GRAVITY of
these words, I seriously suggest you get my
most powerful program on this topic of how
to ensure your MIND is programmed
for success with women.

The program is called WARRIOR WITHIN because
it's about developing your self WITHIN for
success with women.

This program is especially important for attracting
a woman long-term, because there is no way to
FAKE the right behaviors with a woman long-term.
Instead, you have to really BE "THE MAN" on
this deepest level. A quality woman is searching
out your personality for this from the first
instant she meets you. She’s going to be looking
for the things you will learn in this program.

It’s at:

The Warrior Within Program By Michael Marks

If you would like to order this important
program IMMEDIATELY, just go here:

The Warrior Within Program - Immediate Order

Till next time,

Michael Marks