Hitting the 'THE SWEET SPOT' To Attract Women

Today I need to explain something called THE SWEET SPOT.

It is MASSIVELY IMPORTANT for attracting women.

I wrote about this in the past, but it's been a long time so I have a feeling most guys have forgotten how ABSOLUTELY IMPORTANT this is for success in attracting women.

The only thing I CARE about when it comes to this thing called “how to attract women” is getting guys RESULTS.  No mumbo-jumbo, no hocus-pocus, no superstition.

It all must actually WORK.

So today, I’m going to share with you some of the GREATEST points of all time regarding how to attract women.

Obviously, these are going to be the BROAD strokes here, as it would be impossible to put every detail in one newsletter and that is the reason I have my actual programs.

So let’s begin.

ONE: HIT “THE SWEET SPOT”

By the “sweet spot” I mean the right BLEND of confidence mixed with kindness.

I often call this mixture the right "balance",
but a client referred to this mixture, or this right
balance I was describing, as "the sweet spot",
and I like the words "the sweet spot" as a term.  

And yes, KINDNESS is absolutely attractive to
women, WHEN it is blended with POWER.

If you just show kindness, you are kissing up.
If you just show power/dominance/confidence,
you are coming across as an insecure JERK.

When you BLEND kindness with power, you
become attractive and charismatic.

So, for example, telling a woman she has impeccable
taste in men is a playful way of giving her a compliment
and saying something cool about yourself.

Helping a woman who is looking for directions and then
playfully telling her you will bill her for the help, is
kind and confident.

 







If a woman gives YOU a compliment, i.e. she says, “You are pretty cool”, and you say, “I know”- THAT shows confidence.

If you then pull her into you and kiss her, that shows affection on top of the confidence.

It’s this MIXING of confidence and kindness that is VERY cool.

Most guys MISS the target.  They come in too
arrogant in their effort to show confidence, or
they come in too “nice” in their effort to show
kindness, caring, or affection.

Miss the mark, and get NOTHING.
Hit the mark, and you start a CHAIN REACTION
inside her mind that  results in a BURSTING FIRE
OF HEATED ATTRACTION for you.

Here’s an analogy that came up from the same client
during a bootcamp when it “clicked” in his mind,
he said the following, and I paraphrase:

“It’s like that scene at the end of the original
Star Wars, when they blow up the "Death Star".
Luke had to fire into a super NARROW area
and ONLY a direct hit in that super tight
area would work.”





Miss the target, however, and the "Death Star" is left
TOTALLY UNAFFECTED.

HIT the target, and the entire thing IGNITES
into a fireball of a billion glowing splinters.

It’s the same with women but in a positive
way:

MISS the mark, and it’s pretty much NOTHING.   
      
But if you hit the “sweet spot” in their mind
with that combo of CONFIDENCE/POWER
mixed with KINDNESS, and it is quite
literally INSTANT attraction heat they
feel in the most primal sense for you.

TWO:  THE THRILL OF THE GAME

What I mean by this is that APPROACHING
WOMEN for the goal of romance, sex, etc,
is ABSOLUTELY THRILLING and so
there is not even a QUESTION of whether it
is “worth it” or not to approach women!

Seriously, aside from having your HEALTH and FOOD or SHELTER, I can’t think of anything MORE rewarding.

And I don’t just mean the end product, I mean that even the PROCESS itself is awesome.

Approaching women is a BLAST.

Let’s say you love football.
Would you ONLY play football if you knew you were going to WIN every single game????

Or does a guy who LOVES football love ALL his games, even if he doesn’t WIN them all?

That’s because to him football is EXCITING.

When you approach women, especially women
who are TOTAL STRANGERS, it is the most
exciting thing in the world, at least to the guys
I know and for myself as well.

I’ll tell you why:
Each time you approach a woman who is a total
stranger, you are INTERFERING with the
entire fabric of your UNIVERSE.

That woman may very well be the woman who
turns out to be your LOVER, and/or the mother 
of your children, or the woman who inspires you
to be all you can be.

But if you are not BOLD, you will just sit back
and let it all be, and NOTHING will happen,
an entire DIFFERENT future (possibly boring)
instead of the possibly AMAZING one you could
have had, IF you had taken action to approach her.

And it’s YOU who is changing your own destiny.
YOU are the one TAKING ACTION.

Part of being a MAN in just about every culture
on EARTH is being the one who takes the lead
when it comes to the human “mating”. 

Women ARE DEEPLY AFFECTED by a man’s
DARING, his BOLDNESS, his BRAVERY,
his INITIATIVE.  And they know full well
how INTIMIDATING it is for most men
to approach women who are total strangers.

So DOING THE APPROACH not only is the only way to MEET her as a stranger,  but it ALSO sends the right message
because of the very fact it DOES take guts to do it!

If you want to be successful at approaching women, it is important to realize that the approaches themselves are PART of the excitement.

Also, when you have the skill that comes from doing a lot of approaches, women can SENSE that you have options, because you actually SUBCONSCIOUSLY behave differently, and they pick up on those signals.

Women can often TELL that you have options by sizing up your confidence which shows up in all kinds of subtle subconscious ways when you interact with women.

And  when a woman knows you have OPTIONS, she gets even MORE attracted.

And all this is because you DO the approaches.
So it’s NEVER a “waste” of time to approach
women, because the SKILL SET in itself
becomes something women RESPECT
and are ATTRACTED to in you.

Instead of being a man who HOPES that
he will get women, you are the man who
TAKES ACTION.

THREE: ALWAYS BEHAVE AS IF YOU
ALREADY KNEW YOU HAD HER, AND
AS IF A BILLION OTHER SUPER-HOT WOMEN
WERE AT YOUR FINGERTIPS.

What is such a tragedy is that there is so little
TIME to make the right impression on a woman
who is a total stranger.

The GOOD PART of this however, is that if you
do it RIGHT, and you make the right impression,
that impression will STICK LIKE CRAZY GLUE!

In her mind, she knows NOTHING about you.
So you have a PERFECTLY CLEAN SLATE
to create the PERFECT image.
 
She has NOTHING to contradict any positive
message you create about yourself. 

Soooooooooooo, what this means is if you
BEHAVE as if you already HAD her in your
palm, if you behave as if you have a billion
other options but you still are interested in her,
then SHE WILL FEEL THIS IS THE TRUTH
ABOUT YOU.

It’s also a great way to PREVENT coming across
as insecure or a jerk.

Plenty of guys THINK they are acting “confident”
by telling a woman OFF the first second the woman
does something they don’t like.

But if a guy is REALLY confident and secure, he
feels NO NEED to have to PROVE himself or
to insult her.  Instead, when a guy is super-secure
he often can see the REAL reasons a woman is
behaving a certain way.

What I mean by this is that it’s NORMAL for
a woman to be a bit CAUTIOUS when meeting
a man who is a total stranger.

A guy who is INSECURE will feel THREATENED
and possibly INSULTED by anything she does that
isn’t a clear sign of her INTEREST.

But a guy who is secure will NOT feel threatened
and is far more likely to respond to anything she
does in the most ATTRACTIVE way.

So for example, if a woman is asking a guy a lot
of questions about “does he pick up lots of women
in stores” or something like that, a SECURE guy
knows she is actually INTERESTED and she just
is trying to find out if HE is serious at all about
her or is she just “woman number one thousand”
to him.

So a secure guy will give a warm smile and possibly
joke to her that indeed she is number one thousand,
(just to get that out of the way since he knows she
is thinking it) and then in a CALM voice tone, say:

“Actually, meeting the RIGHT person is what it’s all about, right? We all meet people, but it’s about meeting the right one.”


TRUST ME, the way you BEHAVE is worth a
TRILLION TIMES more than how much MONEY
you have, what you LOOK like, or how FAMOUS
you are, or whether you are a rockstar or not.

In fact, a client recently emailed me about a guy who was a real rock star who really WAS great with attracting women, and who then traded lives with a dude who was a “regular guy” who was NOT good at all at attracting women.

Somehow they managed to fool most strangers.
In other words, people thought the regular dude
WAS the rock star guy and they thought the rock star
guy was the regular dude.

Well, guess what happened? The guy who really
WAS the authentic rock star dude STILL did
awesome with women, even though he had NONE
of the “rock star” status.

And the guy who could NOT attract women beforehand
STILL couldn’t do well even WITH the “rock star”
status.

That’s because the CHARISMA is what REALLY COUNTS. 

You can’t just BUY the right behaviors, attitudes, feelings, etc.
You can’t just “adopt” them from someone else.

And if you DO convey the right behaviors, actions,
attitudes, feelings, etc, then NO ONE can somehow
make you UNDESIRABLE, no matter what they do.

You can see this all the time in real life. Take a look
at any ten random women who are gorgeous, and you will
find out that MOST of these women are with guys
that SEEM ordinary until you actually INTERACT
with them.

As you can tell, EVERYTHING you read here comes from REAL WORLD experience.

And I can ACCELERATE your learning curve in the real world of approaching women.  You can save YEARS from learning it all the hard way, because I can show you the DIRECT path instead of you taking the trial-and-error path.

The trial-and-error path of trying to succeed with women not only is INEFFICIENT, but it also can DRAIN your motivation from going through infinite FRUSTRATION.   

I seriously suggest you take my Real World Bootcamp because I will PERSONALLY show you EVERYTHING you need to know, and it will all be done for REAL.

The Real World Bootcamp is non-stop IMMERSION in the world of approaching women who are totalstrangers, with a very special twist: You're getting expert coaching, the result of over ten years experience from someone who has been getting men RESULTS with women for all that time, every step of the way. 

In the Real World Bootcamp, you learn how to
master the skills for successfully approaching
women right out of the blue, anywhere, who are
total strangers- and then ATTRACTING them.

The Bootcamp makes you self-sufficient because
it teaches you exactly what you need to do to
optimize your approaches to women who are complete
strangers, anywhere, so that you can maximize
the chances of getting them attracted, connected,
and wanting to know you more.

Think of a personal trainer at the gym: He shows 
you proper form, strategy, and technique.

WithOUT the expert  instruction, one will never
optimize their results, and will also likely get injured
and then not be able to work out at all, possibly for years.

Just going out to the gym with no clue what
you are doing can result in not only very little
to no progress, but it can actually result in
making a guy WORSE OFF than had he never gone
to the gym at all.

Similarly, going out to approach women without
expert training can result in a lot of negative
habits that actually push women AWAY.


It can also create negative emotional associations 
in your OWN mind with approaching, to the point
that a guy never does it again, and misses out
on the entire world of possibilities with all
the women that are out there, all the women
that he does not get to meet through rare
"luck" situations.

This bootcamp teaches you how to USE all those opportunities that are available everyday when you see women ANYWHERE, including at the mall, cafe, park, library, post office or grocery store, or just walking on the sidewalk or while riding the bus or train - it could absolutely ANYWHERE.

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

And if you haven't yet downloaded my CRUCIAL
book for any man looking for a QUALITY woman,
called The No-Bullshit Book on Success with Women Today,
then do that IMMEDIATELY by going HERE:

http://getagreatgirl.com/no-bullshit-book-on-women.html

Now, there are MANY important elements to being successful with women.

To find out about ALL my programs for skyrocketing your success with women, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Attracting Women: Hitting "The Sweet Spot"

The only thing I CARE about when it comes
to this thing called “how to attract women” is
getting guys RESULTS.  No mumbo-jumbo,
no hocus-pocus, no superstition.

It all must actually WORK.

So today, I’m going to share with you some
of the GREATEST points of all time regarding
how to attract women. Obviously, these are
going to be the BROAD strokes here, as it
would be impossible to put every detail in
one newsletter and that is the reason I have
my actual programs.

So let’s begin:

ONE: HIT “THE SWEET SPOT”

By the “sweet spot” I mean the right BLEND
of confidence mixed with kindness.

I often call this mixture the right "balance",
but a client referred to this mixture, or this right
balance I was describing, as "the sweet spot",
and I like the words "the sweet spot" as a term.  

And yes, KINDNESS is absolutely attractive to
women, WHEN it is blended with POWER.

If you just show kindness, you are kissing up.
If you just show power/dominance/confidence,
you are coming across as an insecure JERK.

When you BLEND kindness with power, you
become attractive and charismatic.

So, for example, telling a woman she has impeccable
taste in men is a playful way of giving her a compliment
and saying something cool about yourself.

Helping a woman who is looking for directions and then
playfully telling her you will bill her for the help, is
kind and confident.

If a woman gives YOU a compliment, i.e. she says
“You are pretty cool”, and you say, “I know” that
shows confidence.  If you then pull her into you
and kiss her, that shows affection on top of the
confidence.

It’s this MIXING of confidence and kindness that
is VERY cool.

Most guys MISS the target.  They come in too
arrogant in their effort to show confidence, or
they come in too “nice” in their effort to show
kindness, caring, or affection.

Miss the mark, and get NOTHING.
Hit the mark, and you start a CHAIN REACTION
inside her mind that  results in a BURSTING FIRE
OF HEATED ATTRACTION for you.

Here’s an analogy that came up from the same client
during a bootcamp when it “clicked” in his mind,
he said the following, and I paraphrase:

“It’s like that scene at the end of the original
Star Wars, when they blow up the death star.
Luke had to fire into a super NARROW area
and ONLY a direct hit in that super tight
area would work.”

Miss the target, and the Death Star is left
TOTALLY UNAFFECTED.

HIT the target, and the entire thing IGNITES
into a fireball of a billion glowing splinters.

It’s the same with women but in a positive
way:

MISS the mark, and it’s pretty much NOTHING.   
      
But if you hit the “sweet spot” in their mind
with that combo of CONFIDENCE/POWER
mixed with KINDNESS, and it is quite
literally INSTANT attraction heat they
feel in the most primal sense for you.

TWO:  THE THRILL OF THE GAME

What I mean by this is that APPROACHING
WOMEN for the goal of romance, sex, etc,
is ABSOLUTELY THRILLING and so
there is not even a QUESTION of whether it
is “worth it” or not to approach women!

Seriously, aside from having your HEALTH
and FOOD/SHELTER, I can’t think of anything
MORE rewarding than WOMEN.

And I don’t just mean the end product, I mean
that even the PROCESS itself is awesome.

Approaching women is a BLAST.
Let’s say you love football.
Would you ONLY play football if you knew
you were going to WIN every single game????

Or does a guy who LOVES football love ALL
his games, even if he doesn’t WIN them all?

That’s because to him football is EXCITING.

When you approach women, especially women
who are TOTAL STRANGERS, it is the most
exciting thing in the world, at least to the guys
I know and for myself as well.

I’ll tell you why:
Each time you approach a woman who is a total
stranger, you are INTERFERING with the
entire fabric of your UNIVERSE.

That woman may very well be the woman who
turns out to be your LOVER, and/or the mother 
of your children, or the woman who inspires you
to be all you can be.

But if you are not BOLD, you will just sit back
and let it all be, and NOTHING will happen,
an entire DIFFERENT future (possibly boring)
instead of the possibly AMAZING one you could
have had, IF you had taken action to approach her.

And it’s YOU who is changing your own destiny.
YOU are the one TAKING ACTION.

Part of being a MAN in just about every culture
on EARTH is being the one who takes the lead
when it comes to the human “mating”. 

Women ARE DEEPLY AFFECTED by a man’s
DARING, his BOLDNESS, his BRAVERY,
his INITIATIVE.  And they know full well
how INTIMIDATING it is for most men
to approach women who are total strangers.

So DOING THE APPROACH not only is
the only way to MEET her as a stranger,  
but it ALSO sends the right message
because of the very fact it DOES take
guts to do it!

If you want to be successful at approaching
women, it is important to realize that the
approaches themselves are PART of the
excitement.

Also, I’ve personally noticed that when I do
a lot of approaches, women can SENSE that
I have options.  And my clients report this
as well.  Women can often TELL that you
have options by sizing up your confidence
which shows up in all kinds of subtle
subconscious ways when you interact
with women.

And  when a woman knows you have
OPTIONS, she gets even MORE attracted.

And all this is because you DO the approaches.
So it’s NEVER a “waste” of time to approach
women, because the SKILL SET in itself
becomes something women RESPECT
and are ATTRACTED to in you.

Instead of being a man who HOPES that
he will get women, you are the man who
TAKES ACTION.

THREE: ALWAYS BEHAVE AS IF YOU
ALREADY KNEW YOU HAD HER, AND
AS IF A BILLION OTHER SUPER-HOT WOMEN
WERE AT YOUR FINGERTIPS.

What is such a tragedy is that there is so little
TIME to make the right impression on a woman
who is a total stranger.

The GOOD PART of this however, is that if you
do it RIGHT, and you make the right impression,
that impression will STICK LIKE CRAZY GLUE!

In her mind, she knows NOTHING about you.
So you have a PERFECTLY CLEAN SLATE
to create the PERFECT image.
 
She has NOTHING to contradict any positive
message you create about yourself. 

Soooooooooooo, what this means is if you
BEHAVE as if you already HAD her in your
palm, if you behave as if you have a billion
other options but you still are interested in her,
then SHE WILL FEEL THIS IS THE TRUTH
ABOUT YOU.

It’s also a great way to PREVENT coming across
as insecure or a jerk.

Plenty of guys THINK they are acting “confident”
by telling a woman OFF the first second the woman
does something they don’t like.

But if a guy is REALLY confident and secure, he
feels NO NEED to have to PROVE himself or
to insult her.  Instead, when a guy is super-secure
he often can see the REAL reasons a woman is
behaving a certain way.

What I mean by this is that it’s NORMAL for
a woman to be a bit CAUTIOUS when meeting
a man who is a total stranger.

A guy who is INSECURE will feel THREATENED
and possibly INSULTED by anything she does that
isn’t a clear sign of her INTEREST.

But a guy who is secure will NOT feel threatened
and is far more likely to respond to anything she
does in the most ATTRACTIVE way.

So for example, if a woman is asking a guy a lot
of questions about “does he pick up lots of women
in stores” or something like that, a SECURE guy
knows she is actually INTERESTED and she just
is trying to find out if HE is serious at all about
her or is she just “woman number one thousand”
to him.

So a secure guy will give a warm smile and possibly
joke to her that indeed she is number one thousand,
(just to get that out of the way since he knows she
is thinking it) and then in a CALM voice tone, say
“Actually, meeting the RIGHT person is what it’s
all about, right? We all meet people, but it’s about
meeting the right one.”

TRUST ME, the way you BEHAVE is worth a
TRILLION TIMES more than how much MONEY
you have, what you LOOK like, or how FAMOUS
you are, or whether you are a rockstar or not.

In fact, a client recently emailed me about a guy
who was a real rock star who really WAS great
with attracting chicks, he traded lives with
a dude who was a “regular guy” who was NOT
good at all at attracting chicks.

Somehow they managed to fool most strangers.
In other words, people thought the regular dude
WAS the rock star guy and they thought the rock star
guy was the regular dude.

Well, guess what happened? The guy who really
WAS the authentic rock star dude STILL did
awesome with chicks, even though he had NONE
of the “rock star” status.

And the guy who could NOT pull chicks beforehand
STILL couldn’t do well even WITH the “rock star”
status.

That’s because the CHARISMA is what REALLY COUNTS.
You can’t just BUY the right behaviors, attitudes, feelings, etc.
You can’t just “adopt” them from someone else.

And if you DO convey the right behaviors, actions,
attitudes, feelings, etc, then NO ONE can somehow
make you UNDESIRABLE, no matter what they do.

You can see this all the time in real life. Take a look
at any ten random women who are hot, and you will
find out that MOST of these women are with guys
that SEEM ordinary until you actually INTERACT
with them.  
  
As you can tell, EVERYTHING you read here
comes from REAL WORLD experience.

And I can ACCELERATE your learning curve in
the real world of approaching women.  You can save
YEARS from learning it all the hard way, because
I can show you the DIRECT path instead of you
taking the trial-and-error path.

The trial-and-error path of trying to succeed with
women not only is INEFFICIENT, but it also can
DRAIN your motivation from going through
infinite FRUSTRATION.   

I seriously suggest you take my Real World Bootcamp
because I will PERSONALLY show you EVERYTHING
you need to know, and it will all be done for REAL.

That means the women you are approaching and
attracting have NO CLUE you are about to
approach them.  These are all real women who
are going about their day in their actual lives,
who are about to have their day ROCK because
of YOU.

The Real World Bootcamp is non-stop IMMERSION
in the world of approaching women who are total
strangers, with a very special twist:
You're getting expert coaching, the result of
over ten years experience from someone who has
been getting men RESULTS with women for all that
time, every step of the way. 

In the Real World Bootcamp, you learn how to
master the skills for successfully approaching
women right out of the blue, anywhere, who are
total strangers- and then ATTRACTING them.

The Bootcamp makes you self-sufficient because
it teaches you exactly what you need to do to
optimize your approaches to women who are complete
strangers, anywhere, so that you can maximize
the chances of getting them attracted, connected,
and wanting to know you more.

Think of a personal trainer at the gym: He shows 
you proper form, strategy, and technique.

WithOUT the expert  instruction, one will never
optimize their results, and will also likely get injured
and then not be able to work out at all, possibly for years.

Just going out to the gym with no clue what
you are doing can result in not only very little
to no progress, but it can actually result in
making a guy WORSE OFF than had he never gone
to the gym at all.

Similarly, going out to approach women without
expert training can result in a lot of negative
habits that actually push women AWAY, plus it
can create negative emotional associations in
your OWN mind with approaching, to the point
that a guy never does it again, and misses out
on the entire world of possibilities with all
the women that are out there, all the women
that he does not get to meet through rare
"luck" situations.

This bootcamp teaches you how to USE all those
opportunities that are available everyday when you
see women ANYWHERE, including the mall, the bus,
the cafe, the train, the park, the sidewalk, the library,
the post office, the grocery store, and absolutely
ANYWHERE else.

It's at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/realworld.html

For my most powerful HOME study program
on how to approach and attract women who
are total strangers, ANYWHERE, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

Now, there are MANY important elements to being successful
with women. The program above covers all of them.

However, of all the elements for success with women,
mastering your INNER GAME is the SINGLE MOST
important element.

To FOCUS on this single greatest element to success
with women, on the most ADVANCED level, I created
a program specializing on INNER GAME, and it is called
"WARRIOR WITHIN".

INNER GAME is also absolutely vital for attracting
quality women for a LONG TERM relationship
as well, and for DETECTING a woman's character
IMMEDIATELY.

WARRIOR WITHIN is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

To find out about ALL my programs for skyrocketing
your success with women, including my "specialization"
series, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Bathe Her In A Sea Of Intoxicating Emotions

The WINNER in this game called ATTRACTION is the
guy who can QUENCH a woman’s thirsty emotional
receptors with a SEA of INTOXICATING EMOTIONS.

And though these emotions come in an endless variety
of shades and mixtures and tones, the ONE THING THAT’S
CRITICAL to understand is that all these emotions resonate
back to POWER and a sense of WONDER, where she can
get LOST in the rush of sensory overload.

In order to pull this off, which is a huge skill in itself, the
PREREQUISITE skill is the ability to get into the right
state of mind. Think of being in the right state as
KINDERGARTEN. It’s required before you can get
into grade ONE.

It makes a huge difference if you are in the right state.
This is why it makes no sense to go after women you
are not even interested in. I mean, if you are doing
something you don’t care about, what kind of state
can you possibly be in? At best, you are indifferent.
Which might seem like a kind of poor man’s confidence,
but it really is pathetic and sucky once you know what
it feels like to be on the other side of the universe.

I have almost NEVER gone after women that I was not
seriously excited by, whether it was their looks or their
personality, and usually it was the combo, which I could
size up pretty damn fast.

Let me talk a bit about getting INTO state.

This has a lot to do with how you are living your entire
LIFE, because, as I’ve said before:

YOU ARE WHAT YOU THINK AND DO.

So if you are constantly behaving in ways that are namby
pamby, boring, or pathetic, or if you are whiny and not
challenging yourself, and not focused on the right thoughts,
you will feel pretty crummy most of the time.

But let’s say you are just starting out and the IDEA OF
totally changing your WHOLE EMOTIONAL LIFE at
once seems too much to begin with.

It really is not such a big deal, but let’s say for
whatever reason it seems like too big of a deal.

So guess what? Here’s a great solution: Start with
ONE HOUR, and totally UNLEASH YOUR STRONGEST HEALTHY
EMOTIONS and exercise those emotions in that one hour.

For that one hour, turn off the crappy whiny songs
on the radio or cd or mp3, turn off the bullshit
negative or angry music, turn on the stuff that
is empowering and is sung by someone in an excellent state.

The world might seem screwed up, but the truth is there are
good people and good women out there, and you will be
SHIELDED out by them if they sense you are in the wrong
state. And thank goodness for that, or they would be ruined
by all the screwed up people out there.

One hour, that’s it. Start that this second.

I just gave you one powerful example in the form of
the music you listen to. You could apply this principle
in a million other ways, from the way you conduct yourself
and your thoughts at work, at the gym, in your free time,
the books you read, the people you hang out with, the
activities you do, the goals you have, the way you
stand up for what you believe in, the way you make
sure not to judge people too quickly and make sure
to really get the full truth, comparing both sides
of the story to discover who’s telling the truth, etc.

To learn even more ways, go to:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

Okay, before I move on to talk a bit about the “big boy’s”
game, which goes way beyond being in the right emotional
state, let me say that being in state is not a separate part
of “the game”, but rather it directly flows into ALL other
parts of the game.

So many guys make the mistake of thinking of parts of
the game in isolation. It doesn’t work that way, it all
comes TOGETHER.

It’s like a guy trying to pack on mass naturally without
steroids who says, “I ate peanut butter and had a glass
of milk today”, thinking that is a lot of protein, not
realizing that it takes about 7 times that
quantity of protein to build muscle, spaced out evenly
over 16 hours. And it takes proper rest, and it takes the
right amount of carbs and fats. And of course the right
kind of training.

So when a guy thinks he’s the master and has nothing
to learn because he “teased that girl”, while in fact
his state is messed up, his clothing is horrifyingly
boring, and his beliefs are all wrong, and he
doesn’t even try to progress the interaction anywhere or
build a meaningful connection or escalate any physical
contact, and he doesn’t make an effort to strike her
emotional chords in any unique and powerful way, he
obviously doesn’t understand that this skill is about a
whole bunch of things happening at once.

It’s important not to feel overwhelmed by the fact there
is more than one thing to learn. The trick is not to
feel like you have to be PERFECT at this moment,
and instead to see PROGRESS and see yourself as
an ever developing human being.

And by the way, even a little progress is enough to make some serious
impact, because it’s all relative since it’s rare for
any guy to actually seriously work on this area of
himself at all. But hey, I like to think that you want
to be more than just good, and would rather be great.

Personally, I consider myself only at about 70% of my
full capacity to understand and exercise my skill in this
area, there are so many more things I want to try and
experiment with and learn. This makes things EXCITING.
Truly, getting there is half the fun, and your own
development will be exciting for you as well.

The way to learn is to throw out your ego. I don’t believe
in “moves” or “methods” or “gurus”. To me, there is only
UNDERSTANDING THE VAST OCEANS OF HUMAN
EMOTION, and applying that IN REAL LIFE to see what
works and what doesn’t. I do take pride, though, in being
THE one who has taken this APPROACH to the entire field.

EMOTIONS are so powerful because women (and
all humans) are ADDICTED to the feelings they get
from emotions, even bad ones unfortunately, which
is why it’s so important to FORCE yourself out of
negative emotions again and again and avoid the
triggers of those emotions.

You must force yourself into a different state, for example by doing exercise
and letting the endorphins flow naturally. Once you get
into a new pattern, you then become addicted to feeling
the awesome emotions and you won’t want to go back.

When you make a woman feel emotions, she will
wake up, no matter what the hell she is doing at
the moment. It doesn’t MATTER how bored or serious
or angry she seems, it’s YOUR JOB to change that
emotion if you want to get her to go from stranger to
attracted to you.

And of course, if you want to keep up any relationship,
you have to keep on doing this, and if she’s smart
she’ll do the same for you. that’s what appreciation
is, and also if you are both high self esteem, you
both won’t be in bad moods too often in the first place).

Let’s take the example of the emotion of feeling INTRIGUE,
from something like the SUPERNATURAL.

WOMEN LOVE THIS STUFF.

If you meet a woman in any situation, and you could
throw a really cool supernatural angle on it, you’ve got
yourself a distinction from almost all other guys.

So for example, let’s say you are both at a light,
crossing the street, and let’s say the light is taking
a long time, you could make a cocky comment with
a splice of intrigue by having this James Bond look
on your face and saying, “you know, I think this light
is an omen”, and she’ll say “why”, and then you can
tease her that it’s forcing you to stand near HER of all
people for so long.

She’ll most likely chuckle, and see your confidence,
but the thing is that this opens up a gateway to talking
about supernatural things, and you can go into a story
about how your aunt or uncle or yourself were in
whatever freaky story:

i.e. how you missed a plane, and thanks to missing
that plane, you or someone you know had to stay home
and that was the last weekend he or she or you had
to see your great grandma, or thanks to staying behind,
he or she or someone ended up meeting the love of
their life, etc.

Whatever it is, I’m sure something true and intriguing
has really happened to you or someone you know.

Now, compare that with some dude who thinks he’s
so cool because he said “this damn light takes so long”.
And you know what? Even THAT might work, but
it obviously reveals way less cool things about you
and obviously touches way less emotional receptors
on her brain.

She has to be FEELING it.
Do NOT underestimate the power of this stuff
when done WELL. And the critical thing to realize
is that this stuff should NOT BE DONE to impress
a woman, but it must become integrated into your
life as person who is bathing in cool sensory impact
himself.

We all have this stuff inside of us, it’s just a
matter of exercising it and using it just like when
a muscle is used on a regular basis and grows stronger.

Why does something like the supernatural have such
emotional power? Because our emotional mind registers
it as POWER, a way to go BEYOND any limitations.

We feel as if we are connected to something OMNIPOTENT.
What can feel greater than that?

People feel MORE THAN HUMAN by TRANSCENDING their
emotions to a state where they no longer feel
limited but feel INFINITELY POWERFUL.

Ever feel empowered by a SONG?
Well, it’s the same thing happening.

This is probably also why so many great musicians and
artists can get so lost themselves in their own creations
that they lose touch with logic and do a lot of harm
to their own bodies because logic is powerless in the
face of the massive overwhelming emotions they
have created.

Which is why these emotions can achieve both so
much good and also so much bad, depending on
what direction they take.

And which is why SPARKING THESE EMOTIONS
makes you COMPELLING to women.

Attraction is about FEELING superiority, power, excellence.
So this intrigue, supernatural stuff feels intoxicating,
and if you can make it feel REAL to her, especially if
you can make it a part of you, you will have a hold on
a woman and probably any person in fact.

This is why performers UNIVERSALLY use this to
enhance their appeal. They are LARGER than life.

A magician seems to defy the laws of physical
science. An actor seems larger than life because
of his or her roles in INCREDIBLE STORIES of
persons overcoming great obstacles, stories
that have been rendered with such brilliant
creativity that they FEEEEEL REAL. 

And a singer, well clearly a great singer musician
takes people on an emotional journey to places
people have never been, or places emotionally
that they have long sought to return to. 

It’s a shame there are so few good new musicians
now that can really take people on these journeys.

And even romantic songs can be insanely powerful, if they
are done from a point of view of KNOWING THAT THEY
THEMSELVES HAVE VALUE AND FROM A STANDPOINT
OF POWERFUL CONFIDENCE. A standpoint of BELIEF
in their own value that implicitly says they are GIVING
VALUE to the other person by being with them.

So even in THESE cases, it STILL boils down to POWER
and excellence and superiority. Brilliantly conveyed by
the use of the insanely powerful human MIND.

It’s a shame that there are so few of those songs done
right today with artistic finesse and original melodies.
But let’s say for example Def Leppard’s “Put Some Sugar
On Me” or even Anne Murray’s “Now and Forever”.

Remember, emotions are TRUER in our minds than the
most clearly proven logical facts.

How about the emotion of LAUGHTER?

In its own way, it also feels insanely good and powerful.
Because when you are REALLY LAUGHING, you are feeling
as if EVERYTHING is OKAY.

Survival is intact.

In fact, even if you are laughing only out NERVOUS laughter,
you are doing this to make someone ELSE feel that all is okay.
And you are doing this because it’s important to YOU to
make sure the other person is feeling good. So that’s why
folks laugh at the boss’s bad jokes. ‘Cuz even though the
jokes are bad, the people are so happy that the boss is in
a good mood, so everyone is happy and thus laughter is not
far away.

The boss, because of his good mood, is making everyone else
happy, and thus suddenly his jokes at the moment seem funny.
It’s the state of mind of SECURITY TO SURVIVAL that makes
everyone feel good and THAT makes them laugh.

Of course, that is a very weak form of laughter, but still, it’s
DNA is still about a person feeling survival is being bolstered.

Now, on that note, a guy that does NOT laugh at the boss’
bad joke may be signaling that he is SUPERIOR to the boss
and doesn’t NEED the boss, so now suddenly the boss is no
longer a source of survival, so the employee’s brain doesn’t
feel good about the bad joke since there is no gain for him
in terms of survival anyway since he doesn’t need the boss.
This sometimes leads to getting respect and sometimes to
getting fired because now the boss feels that HIS survival
is threatened.

The MAIN POINT is that laughter also occurs from a feeling
of enhanced survival. So for example, when a great comedian
makes light of things that everyone is scared shitless of, he
helps people DEAL with these issues. Or when YOU are
able to EFFECTIVELY poke fun at reality when with a woman,
she feels SECURE with you. After all, the way you have
reframed reality is that it’s all a joke and it’s all in your hand,
it’s nothing, no big deal, so she LAUGHS.

And also when you are able to make her laugh by teasing
HER properly, you are showing that SHE is not a source of
fear for you, like she is for most men. A lot of guys screw
this up by going too far and just being mean, or just being
dorky. Being mean doesn’t make her feel you are not afraid
of her, or that you are superior, it makes her feel you are a
creep with issues. Being just dorky doesn’t make her feel
you are superior, it makes her feel you are a dork.

On this note, by the way, I should mention that this
FINE LINE between being in a playful good mood while
STILL BEING A MAN, and being interesting while still
NOT being the guy trying to entertain her is probably
one of the tougher challenges for most guys. Smoothing
this stuff out comes from practice.

What happens to a lot of guys is that as they start to
get results, they get so encouraged that they want to
KEEP ON MAKING HER LAUGH and KEEP ON TELLING
MORE COOL STORIES, etc., etc., because as guys who
have been through hell with women, (I haven’t forgotten
what that’s like) all we can think is SHE LIKES IT!!!! So
the first instinct when you’re still starting out is to
POUR IT ON THICK, trying as hard as possible to
NOT LET HER DOWN.

The problem with this is that you LOSE the edge that
made you cool in the first place! You end up
GIVING THE FRAME over to HER, it becomes
all about getting her to react in the way you want,
you care TOO MUCH about her staying happy,
and you start to lose your OWN identity and you
stop being natural without even realizing it. It’s
the first step toward becoming submissive and
the end of the line. You have to STOP yourself
if you catch this happening.

You have to know when to slow down, which is, in a
very tight nutshell, AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.

Tight game is LEAN game, because the less you do
and the more SHE does, the cooler you will seem.

Of course though, in the first part of the interaction
especially, you must BLAST OPEN the gates and not
hold back.

And of course I would be missing a huge emotion
if I skipped out the emotion of INSANE SEXUAL DESIRE.

The thing to remember is that what unlocks the greatest
sexual pleasure is when both people enjoy GIVING each
other pleasure as well as getting it. This creates an awesome
endless cycle of super hot times for both of you.

And it sure helps to feel connected to the other person if you
are going to enjoy and want to give as much as you get.

So even this “raw sex” thing is actually not as “raw” as one
might think.

For a woman to truly let go with you, she needs to feel
absolute trust in you, and she has to be attracted of
course as well. But the connecting thing and having
some “real convo” where you truly discover things you are
interested in about each other is overlooked by so
many guys who are only focused on the “bottom line”
so to speak, and they cut themselves short by doing this.

This connecting is soooooooo important. It’s the
OTHER side to attraction. It’s about making her
feel that YOU seriously are into HER, about making
HER feel special. This is where truly good guys have
an edge, since they naturally see the good in others
and see what others may not notice or appreciate.
The thing though is that in order to be able to do this
properly, you have to not be fazed by her beauty,
otherwise you will think everything she does is awesome,
which is kind of pathetic.

However, once you have THIS established, THEN
when you get really hot and sweaty with a woman
you are crazy about, THEN it’s time to really let
loose and be the wild beast you know you can be,
because THEN she will want it exactly that way,
and she will want it BAD.

Those are truly the sweetest times of all.

A woman should be so lucky to meet such an awesome
guy who knows all this stuff and understands it deeply.

It’s important to be able to SENSE your own sexual
state of mind, to an extent, throughout the entire
interaction because it keeps you on track that this
IS after all a sexual interaction, even if it first takes
place in the form of words and gestures and teasing
and various other forms of physical contact aside from
sex. So you don’t end up doing stupid things that look
dorky, feminine, submissive, or “friend” like. And by
you behaving this way, she will feel the sexual dimension
to the interaction.

And since human beings are very “state catchy” she will
start to enter this mood and be receptive to your pick up
if you do the rest of the pick up right.

You have to NOT LET UP your state of mind
(both sexual and also your beliefs about yourself
and your worth) at any time, even if she tests you
on it, in fact ESPECIALLY if she tests you on it,
because human beings are all about ACCEPTING
whichever state of mind is EASIEST to accept.

And if you HOLD your own frame of the interaction
as being the ONLY one, the correct one, the
DOMINANT one, she will feel that it makes SENSE.
If you SLIDE and let your frame crumble, HER FRAME
will take over and suddenly you will be the creepy guy
trying to pick her up. But if you KEEP the frame, you
are suddenly the sexy guy she’s been dreaming about.

That means you LEAD the way, at all times, and not
WAIT for her to show you the way, or for her to
give you approval. At the same time, you have to
have a proper sense of timing and take action at
the right moment when it’s best, or you CREATE
the right moment to make it the best.

Finally, I want to say that all this stuff you learn here
is for your PERSONAL goals. Don’t feel that you
have to impress anybody but yourself.

I used to be all pissed at the world and wanted to
stack up numbers, because I figured there were no
good women left on earth so quantity was the only
possible alternative.

Well, turns out I was wrong, there are good women,
not many mind you, but a few, who have incredible
values, including the value of appreciating what
they have.

I share this info with you only because I want
to make it clear that not every woman is some
materialistic, juvenile, status-seeking basket
case. If you want to meet a quality woman, it’s
important that you don’t let negative beliefs
shield her out.

In this newsletter, I’ve touched on some incredibly
crucial points to both your IMMEDIATE and also
your LONG TERM success with women. And as powerful
as this stuff is, it really is just the start of
an awesome journey, just a glimpse if you will, into
a whole other universe. I would like to be the one
who takes you there, personally.

If you would like to TRULY take your success to a
level that most people don’t even know EXISTS,
I have two recommendations:

First, if you haven’t already done so, then you
owe it to yourself to IMMEDIATELY download my
ATTRACTION MASTERY PROGRAM.

This program is LOADED with ABSOLUTE PURE GOLD on skyrocketing
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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Five ESSENTIAL Insights For Attracting Women

There are some really important insights
I want to share with you today on attracting
women, and rather than give you a whole
long introduction, I am going to get right
to the CORE of the matter immediately:

The FIRST insight is this:

The ATTITUDE In Your VOICE Is A KEY Factor
In Your Success When Approaching Women
To Attract Them
 
In that first INSTANT that you approach
a woman, she has no IDEA who you are,
but she can tell a LOT from the ATTITUDE
in your TONALITY.

So, right now, imagine what you would SOUND
like if your attitude was a combination of the following:

1.  I was doing well even before I met you.

2.  I prefer to make things FUN, rather
than being NEEDY.  

3.  I know you love me, even if you are not
supposed to. 

4.  Even though I am having fun, and not taking
this too seriously, I am also confident enough
to not have to be a CLOWN to get your attention. 

5.  I am pretty chilled out even as I have some
fun here.

So take those five attitudes, and imagine how you
would SOUND no matter WHAT you said.

In fact, just THINKING about these ATTITUDES
will often SPARK the right KINDS of things to be
saying to a woman.

So let us say she is pouring sugar into her coffee at
Starbucks.

You might say something like, "You know, they say
that three cents from every coffee goes to help kids
in other countries, so you ought to get back there and
buy about a hundred coffees right now."

She might laugh, or smile and turn to you and say,
"Yeah, you're right, but how about you?"

And you might say back something like:
"Hey, with you on all that caffeine, SOMEBODY is
gonna have to be calm around here!"

And if she laughs, you can continue with this:

"Don't laugh! With all the caffeine in  your system, you'll probably build the school, dig the wells, and teach them English! See, now I am admiring you already for all the hard work you did!"

And when she responds to that, you can play a bit  more, by saying:

"Hey, you know, you really ought to thank me, it was my idea in the first place!" 

At THIS point, the energy is HIGH, and you have
DEFINITELY conveyed the right attitude, and
at that point, you can lean back and take things
to a more "getting to know you" level and
start building the CONNECTION.

The KEY here is the combination of
ATTITUDES that are behind the words
that are being delivered.

As long as your tonality is CONSISTENT with
those attitudes, the words you say will be in the
right zone, and she will INTERPRET your
attitudes first and foremost.

This is just ONE of the key principles for
NOT needing to memorize pick-up lines
and for being able to be spontaneous to the
EXACT SITUATION in front of you. 

And now, onto the next point, which is regarding
something totally different, but JUST AS IMPORTANT
when it comes to making the right decisions with
women.

Insight Number Two:

You Cannot Tell If A Woman Is Truly Special
Unless You Have Other Super Attractive Women
Right Up In Your Face.

And allow me to add to the above, these
other women must want you badly, and only
THEN if you STILL think that one woman
is special, is she actually special.   

Until you actually have SEVERAL fantastic
women pursuing you at ONCE, you usually
cannot accurately judge how SPECIAL a
woman is.

So I get quite a few emails a day from men
all across the planet, and one of the most
popular questions revolves around the
following situation:

There is this ONE woman who they really like.
And this ONE woman is REALLY special.

So I read these emails and I read them with
a truly sincere desire to help.

So I then re-read the emails, and I look for
some sign of EVIDENCE for why these
particular women are so special.

And usually I see zero actual solid reasons.
In fact, usually I see nothing.

Now, do not get me wrong, I UNDERSTAND
that one may FEEL a particular woman is
SPECIAL, but FEELING does not mean it
actually IS the truth.

I know this because I went through it, so I am not judging anyone here. I made the worst form of this mistake and spent years in the wrong relationships. It's a big part of why I ended up in this field, it is because I needed and wanted to learn these skills so badly after realizing how TOTALLY brainwashed I was by the forces of attraction.

We are DESIGNED to be MIGHTY ATTRACTED
to women, especially women that visually
trigger all the right HARD-WIRED impulses
in the male brain.

And FEELING is much stronger than LOGIC.

So once you FEEL attraction to a woman, your
mind will RATIONALIZE all kinds of stuff,
to make you feel that your FEELING is
JUSTIFIED. 

After all, none of us wants to feel we are being
CONTROLLED by our hormones; in fact the
very thought of it, if one is unaware of how
this works, can feel depressing.

But it is NOT depressing once you realize the
TRUTH, and the TRUTH is that we do not
HAVE to be slaves to our emotions, we can
make our emotions work FOR us. 

But the FIRST thing to do in order to gain
control over our emotions and turn our emotions
into our allies, is to accept the TRUTH:

And the TRUTH is that, most of the time that
a man is focused on trying to get ONE particular
woman who is not giving him back the same attention
that he is giving her, the truth is that if this same
woman was UNATTRACTIVE he would not feel
that she is so special.

Because, if she REALLY is SO SPECIAL,
then why the heck does she NOT appreciate
the guy right NOW???????????????????

I mean, if she is REALLY just SO SPECIAL, right?

So this brings me round to the next point:
IT IS ABSOLUTELY CRUCIAL TO LEARN HOW
TO GET OPTIONS WITH WOMEN.

And it is essential to actually GO OUT with these
women, and not just tell yourself that you could if
you WANTED to.

Actually GETTING many options with women that
are truly options in the real sense, and not just in
some theoretical sense, is the only way to get your
mind to STOP playing tricks on you.

I have had guys that have spent years of their lives
obsessing and truly BELIEVING that certain women
were truly special, women who were not giving them
the time of day, and THEN after taking my bootcamp,
in just 48 HOURS they had their entire FRAME
OF REALITY turned upside down.

They realized not only how NOT SPECIAL these
previous women were compared to the NEW women
they met, but also realizing how LUCKY they were
to NOT have been tied up with some woman who
actually was NOT that special at ALL.

There is a reason why I teach what I teach, and it
is because I believe it is HUGELY important in
LIBERATING men from the chains of fear, of
loneliness, and of BRAINWASHING.

When you learn how to get women, you are
FREED from the brainwashing effect that any
one woman can have on you.

Now, onto the THIRD insight:

IF SHE IS YOUR FIRST LOVE, YOU
ARE ALMOST GUARANTEED TO THINK
SHE IS MORE SPECIAL THAN SHE REALLY IS,
EVEN MORE THAN WHAT YOU READ ABOUT
ABOVE IN THE FIRST POINT. 

Everything you just read in the second insight applies even MORE so, if you are dealing with a woman
who is a first love.

Any woman who is the FIRST woman that
you are truly CRAZY about, head over heels
in love with, is going to have a MASSIVE
power over your emotions.

This has NOTHING to do with her character.
She MIGHT be the nicest, most noble, most
virtuous woman on Earth, but it would be
DAMN HARD FOR YOU TO KNOW because
you are being hit HARD, for the FIRST time,
with INFATUATION.

There is a saying and a song and it goes like this:
"The first cut is the deepest."

It is famous because it is TRUE.

It is based on a PSYCHOLOGICAL FACT
that FIRST impressions, when it comes to
emotional things, COUNT.

In fact, they count MASSIVELY.

Now, allow me to make it clear that you CAN feel love for another woman, even MORE love than for the first.

HOWEVER, you have to know HOW to get over the first, and getting OTHER women is a very powerful force, and will eventually free you from the anguish of thinking that some woman is special when in reality she is not giving you what you want.

But first, I want to make it clear just how POWERFUL a first experience actually is, REGARDLESS of who she REALLY is.

The real key is that she was the FIRST.
Not the first woman you got physical with,
but the first woman you really LOVED.

Listen, for all the BILLION Pepsi commercials,
COKE IS IT.

Now, although we all know we should avoid
sugary drinks (and Coca-Cola sells plenty of
healthier alternatives including filtered water),
my point is simple:

COKE IS IT, not because of the superior ad
campaign, (which they may very well have),
but COKE IS IT because they were FIRST.

All else being equal, NO cola can create
a FEELING through an advertisement that
is going to be MORE POWERFUL in people's minds
than the feeling of SUBCONSCIOUSLY knowing
that Coke is the original real thing.  

And no matter what Pepsi does, everyone
knows Coke is IT, Coke is CLASSIC, Coke is
THE REAL THING, the original, etc.

The fact that Pepsi manages to get as much
sales as IT does, boils down to other things,
such as innovative marketing, ads, etc.

But Coke is the FIRST LOVE.
All Coke needs to be is consistent to
what it IS: It is THE FIRST.

And feeling LOVE and LUST for a woman
who is your FIRST, will carve an IMPRINT on
your MIND and your EMOTIONS that is going
to play wicked games on your mind, even if
this woman IS an actual SAINT and is TOTALLY
INNOCENT.

But if this woman happens to be NOT SO NICE,
or happens to be a selfish, twisted, warped, she-devil,
that is when the REAL NIGHTMARE happens:

What happens is that your STRONG EMOTIONS
for this woman will end up making you RATIONALIZE
every single terrible thing she does.

You will come up with excuses for why she is not
treating you well, you will allow yourself to get
abused and meanwhile you will think that this
is somehow NORMAL.

And even if this woman is a GOOD woman,
the fact is, because she is the one who is the
FIRST, what will happen is that you will
PERCEIVE her as being a lot MORE than she
actually IS.    

So you will likely feel NEEDY.
You will likely SPOIL her.
You will likely STOP being a challenge at all,
if you even ever were a challenge for her at all.

You will want so much time with her, that she
will start to feel she needs more space, and that
she wants less time together. 

And of course, all this will only make you
want her even MORE because it will make
you more NEEDY and more insecure.  

Your NEEDINESS will become a bottomless PIT
that sucks the life-force, the fun, the
challenge, the ATTRACTION completely OUT
of the equation, and it will likely destroy
the relationship.

How do I know all this? Because I learned
it all the HARD WAY.

I am trying to SPARE YOU the anguish.

So, if even a GREAT woman is going to be
a problem if you do not have LOTS of women
to go out with first, you can imagine how
horrifying an experience it will be if you
happen to fall hard for the first time and
it turns out to be a wicked woman, and
I do not mean wicked in a positive sense.

This is why even if a guy DOES meet a
great woman who he is ready to MARRY,
I would say that if he has not dated at all,
he SHOULD first date some other great
women, if for no other reason than to PREVENT
himself from becoming a NON-ATTRACTIVE
personality who worships her, who is too
needy for her, who puts her on a pedestal
she does not deserve, etc, etc, etc. 

Alright, now for the FOURTH insight:

IT IS OKAY AND GOOD TO APPROACH
WOMEN EVEN IF YOU ARE SCARED

Obviously, the BEST way to approach is
WITHOUT FEAR.

When you are not feeling fear, women
DETECT it, and also when you are not
feeling fear, you yourself are more likely
to be in that more PLAYFUL and fun
frame of mind which helps you socialize
a trillion times more effectively with
women who are total strangers.

But if you wait for the PERFECT time, or
if you wait till you think you can get
into a perfect state where you do not
feel any fear before you make your
first approach, you may very well NEVER
approach often enough to actually
GET OVER the fear.

So you do not have to have the PERFECT
approach to BENEFIT from approaching
women.

When you approach women regularly, (not
just once or twice) the fear GOES AWAY.

Now, successfully attracting women is about
more than just NOT FEELING FEAR, but even
just getting over the fear by making enough
approaches is IN ITSELF going to help a LOT.

And here is the FIFTH insight:

DO NOT WASTE TIME TRYING TO HYPNOTIZE
YOURSELF THAT EVERYTHING IS PERFECT

What I mean by this, is that too many men
waste energy on trying to make absolutely
certain that they are in the perfect state
of mind, that they are going to say the
perfect pick-up line, that they have somehow
come up with a way to absolutely avoid
all and any chance of rejection, etc.

SCREW THAT KIND OF THINKING!

Now, obviously, my materials will MASSIVELY
improve your results, and in fact one of the
things I teach is how to GET OVER THE ENDLESS
CHATTER IN YOUR MIND THAT PREVENTS
YOU FROM TAKING ACTION!

And one of the BIG THINGS is to do the absolute
OPPOSITE of common so-called wisdom:
Instead of trying to pump yourself UP, just
write down ALL YOUR FEARS about approaching
women, and then next to them you have to be
able to JUST SAY ONE THING:

I GET TURNED ON BY WOMEN, SO IT IS
WORTH IT TO ME ANYWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I really DO mean it like that.
It's time to BITCH SLAP yourself if you are
being a WUSS when it comes to this part of
your life.

GO AND APPROACH WOMEN!

Who CARES how they RESPOND?
Ultimately, it is not even about what women THINK.

There is something SUPER LIBERATING about
being a MAN who not only ENJOYS women, but
who is not afraid to EXPRESS it through ACTION.

Getting a thumbs up or a thumbs down is
BESIDES THE POINT!!!!!!!!

We live in a society that on the SURFACE somehow
PRETENDS that a man approaching a woman who
is a stranger is not normal, when in REALITY
it is this ANIMAL ATTRACTION that is the
DRIVING FORCE of the entire mainstream
culture.

And I do mean that, from movies to music to the
FACTS on how just about every man who has the
POWER to get women actually USES that power.

By the way, this does NOT mean in any way that
I am against monogamy! I truly DO think that
meeting a woman who is GENUINELY special     
can be one of the most REWARDING connections
a man can have with any woman, ever.

What I am saying is that the REALITY points
to the FACT that we all know that approaching
women is the most NORMAL thing in the world,
and is simply a sign of having a healthy interest
in women.

Look, if a woman is not available or not interested,
that is TOTALLY COOL! That is TOTALLY up
to HER, that should NOT be something you are
WORRIED about. 

Your job is to do YOUR job, that is it.
And that job is to make the best approach possible.

What happens after that is really not the main thing.
(But if it does go well, then obviously you have
the great pleasure of being with her.)

And if you like what you have just read, I assure you
it is just the tip of the ICEBERG of what you will find
in my DVD program called "Warrior Within".

This program is PACKED with pure GOLD on
attracting women of the absolute highest quality.

Just the sections on overcoming FEARS with women,
including overcoming the fear of the approach, would
be worth the entire cost of this program.

And yet, this program has so much MUCH more, including the most effective ways of approaching and having conversations with women, the most effective ways of creating a powerful CONNECTION with women, how to create powerful intimacy with a woman so that she feels completely uninhibited with you and is open to going totally wild with you in bed, the most effective way to convey power as a man, plus learning how to DETECT the character of a woman, plus learning how to KEEP a woman attracted LONG term, and much, MUCH more.

This program is an absolute ESSENTIAL if you
are serious about having the power of CHOICES
with women, and if you are serious about learning
how to approach, attract, and keep the highest
quality women.  

It is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

After that, the FINAL step is taking my
Real World Bootcamp. This is where your
skills with women will be taken to the
NEXT LEVEL as I go with you into approach
after approach after approach on real women
in all types of places, from cafes and
lounges to bookstore, public transit,
supermarkets, malls, and just about
everywhere else. 

In this program, I will not only demonstrate for you, but
I will also coach you directly as you approach women,
and I will detect any and all errors you make and immediately
erase these errors from your game- you will notice a
MASSIVE IMPROVEMENT IMMEDIATELY.

After that, I will then tweak, polish, and fine-tune your skills, and I will also work with you directly on a deeper level as well to skyrocket your confidence, help you eradicate anxieties, and super-charge your inner game.

The Real World Bootcamp will transform your life. 
Many of the men who have taken my program have
told me it is the single greatest decision they have
ever made.

Find out more by going here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

Let me close by saying one last thing:
NOT taking action is the EASY way out.

It is so easy to just NOT LEARN how to approach women,
and to instead just DREAM about it, or fantasize about it.

Most men will just try to fantasize about some way
they can get the women they want withOUT having to
actually DO anything to make it happen.

Human beings will always try the path of least resistance.
The easiest path. And I understand that, there is no point
making things HARDER than they have to be.

I have spent the last ten years designing programs
to make this process of getting AMAZING with women
as EASY as possible.

It will not get any EASIER than this.

Take this moment to make SURE you get the women you want, by taking action IMMEDIATELY. Get my  DVD program on attracting the highest quality women immediately.  It's called "Warrior Within", and it's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

And for the final step to mastery with women,
take my My Real World Bootcamp, which is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Mastering "Zero Game" In Attracting Women

The most effective "pickups", or
what I prefer to call situations of
"approaching and attracting women"
are done when you convey all the
right things about yourself in the
LEAST amount of time, using the
LEAST amount of energy, and using
zero cheesy or corny tactics.

Now, I fully understand that sometimes
as a beginner, it can feel good to
have some pick up lines memorized,
to feel confident through knowing
you have some story memorized to
tell her that is supposed to convey
that you are cool, or is supposed
to be funny, etc., etc.

But you really want to wean yourself
off of those things as soon as possible,
or if at all possible to avoid using
them altogether.

(Again, though, I do understand how
it can sometimes be useful for a guy
who simply feels too overwhelmed
without them at first. I just suggest
a guy gets OFF them as soon as he can.)

The problem with all these things
is that they prevent you from being
your best, because they end up becoming
crutches that you can become addicted
to using.

And the use of those crutches actually
WEAKENS your inner game, because you
are sending the message DIRECTLY to
your mind through ACTION that you
do NOT believe you can pull off
attracting the woman you want
UNLESS you use those superficial
tactics.

Now, on the other hand, when you
force yourself to use ZERO GAMES,
you then have to MASSIVELY rely
on your OWN ABILITY to attract
women.

And when I say your own ability, this
is referring to the MULTITUDE of skills
that are already in your DNA, but are
currently ASLEEP, lying dormant, waiting
to be AWOKEN.

What I am all about is helping men to
bring these elements of themselves that
are ALREADY THERE, but are sleeping,
to LIFE.

And trust me, what you have got already
in your system, from a billion years of
evolution, is A TRILLION TIMES MORE POWERFUL
than any pick up line or memorized material.

The human mind is powerful not only this
way, but also in the sense that women can
TELL if you are using SUPERFICIAL TACTICS.

That does not mean they always MIND, but
it definitely means that you will come
across as FAR MORE ATTRACTIVE if the
woman senses that you generated every
single element of the pickup on your
own, based on the actual real life
spontaneous moment that you saw her.

In a recent bootcamp, a client had mentioned
to me that he was interested in learning
how to master the pick up without using
anything external to himself. 

That meant no pick up lines at all.
No subtle but funny insults to 
make her feel insecure.
No fake compliments to kiss up.

So the entire bootcamp ran without so
much as even one tiny single SUPERFICIAL
tactic.

Instead, his inner game was taken to
new heights, his spontaneous conversation
skills soared, and he learned to convey
sexuality without saying a single dirty
joke or making any innuendos.

And he turned his entire "game" around
in just a few approaches, and the most
amazing thing about it is that he was
suddenly getting women laughing and
melting and opening up for him
without saying MUCH.

In fact, once he got them going, he
leaned back and they pretty much did
the rest of the work!

By the way, one of the coolest things
to me is when the woman is giving off
MASSIVE signals of interest, but a guy
is learning so fast that he doesn't
think it is for real.

So for example, this cool guy, he got
this woman melting for him, and I am
watching this from a bit away so she
cannot see, and he then walks away
from her, he tells me that he did
not take her number because he
was not sure if she was really into
him or not.

I knew with a trillion percent certainty
that she was into him MASSIVELY or she
would not have been asking him questions
such as, "So what are your plans for
Saturday night?", which he told me that
she asked him.

So I told him to go BACK and find her
and take her number, which is kind of
interesting since the pick up was in a
way over, but I knew she was INTO him.

Not only that, but since I knew she
was into him, I knew that she would
be even MORE attracted this time,
since the human mind tends to get
DEEPER INTO an emotional experience
when you stimulate the emotion,
then pause the stimulation, and
then later continue the stimulation.

This is known as FRACTIONATION, and
is also a great idea to use when
making out with a woman when in
foreplay as well. 

(Kissing her, then stopping,
then kissing again later. Petting,
then stopping, then some more,
stopping, then some more, till
she is heating up and starting to
rub on you like crazy.)  

But, I do NOT recommend that guys
break up the initial approach this
way, because you can end up really
losing her if she happens to leave
the area.

So he finds her in another aisle of the store,
and calls her name out with TOTAL CONFIDENCE.

I am changing her name for the sake of
privacy, but he does not say to her
"Uhm, Jeniffer?"

Instead, he sees her from a bit away,
and says:
"JENNNNNNNNNNNNNNN! What are you DOING??????"

He TOTALLY commits to the delivery,
with a trillion percent conviction.

No namby-pamby weak style.
Instead, he puts it ALL out there.

This is cool, because a woman senses this
man MEANS BUSINESS.

Her body language opened up to him
so wide, and she smiled so warmly,
it was as if in a movie a woman had
thought she had lost the love of her
life and then FOUND him again.

So of course, he got the number, and
they chatted more, and if it weren't for
the bootcamp itself, he could have left
with her right then and there, but he
had further training since the bootcamp
was still on.

And I honestly do not like to obsess
about women who are hot and young,
but it just so happens she was an
attractive younger woman.

PICK UP IS NOT SUPPOSED TO TAKE FOREVER.
I don't even like the term "pick-up"
but I use it since it seems to be
the most common way to refer to it.

One of the reasons I don't love the
term "pick-up" is because it sends
a message to your own mind that this
is some kind of ACT, some kind of
fake thing where you have to pull
the wool over women's eyes, when
in reality it is ACTUALLY about
unleashing the MAN in you in all
the right ways and at the moment
when it COUNTS when you see the
woman you want to meet.

And it is about doing all this while
STILL having tons of warmth in your soul
and STILL being a sensitive person who
cares about others.

It's not about being a jerk or being fake
or being manipulative.

And when it is done right, it all happens
VERY QUICKLY, and with very LITTLE
talking, and with very little effort.

If a stranger were to walk by within
a MINUTE of the conversation starting,
he would think FOR SURE this guy and
girl MUST already be boyfriend and
girlfriend or have already known
each other a LONG TIME.

It is when a guy is NOT doing it
properly, that it takes forever,
and that you will notice the guy
is making all kinds of exaggerated
actions, over the top jokes,
and other forms of overcompensation.

When you have the conversation skills,
and when you understand the right things
about women, and when you also are in the
RIGHT STATE OF MIND, you actually end up
doing MILLIONS of subtle things with your
expression, your tonality, your timing,
your body language, that ALL COMMUNICATE
THE RIGHT THINGS about yourself to a woman.

And THAT is what I teach you to DO.
I do not waste your time trying to teach
you a TRILLION pick up tactics so that you
can IMITATE what the right thing is supposed
to look like.

Instead, I focus on BRINGING TO LIFE that
part of you that is deep within that will
AUTOMATICALLY DO ALL THE RIGHT THINGS
when you interact with women!

It is not about my special pick up tactics,
I do not HAVE any special cheesy tactics,
instead what I have is TEN YEARS EXPERIENCE
in teaching you how to REVIVE that billion-years-in
the-making part of your mind that ALREADY
knows how to attract women INSTINCTIVELY.
(It just has been BURIED DEEP under endless
misguided social conditioning.)

The honest truth is that I was teaching this
advanced method even way back when pick up
lines were all the rage. And the other truth
is that since then, I've taken the training
to an even DEEPER level where you will not
only be able to initially attract women but
you will understand what to do at every stage
including the long-term attraction as well.

The most powerful way to learn is THE REAL WORLD BOOTCAMP, and it's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

Now here's the thing: I know some of you
might think that since Michael just said
that the best way to attract women is
to just not use any tactics at all, then
what the heck does he teach?

What I teach is all about the SUBTLETIES.

It is like saying, everyone knows that
to get big muscles, you need to lift
weights and eat right.

But at one point, it is ESSENTIAL to
learn HOW to do this, and even though
working out is a real thing, the body
was meant to exercise, that does not
mean we all know how to do it PROPERLY,
especially since we tend to live in
societies where we do not get a lot
of exercise.

It is the same thing with my programs.
I teach you the best way to use your
REAL SELF to get you RESULTS with
women.

For my most powerful home-study program on
learning how to unleash your inner game,
and on how to attract and keep a quality
woman, I seriously suggest you get my
program called "Warrior Within".

You can check it out here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

To find out about ALL my different programs for
skyrocketing your success with women, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

If you have ANY question about dating
or relationships, you can arrange personal
phone consultations with me by going here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Urgent Tips On Attracting Women, Approaching Women, and "Pick-Up"

If you are SERIOUS about attracting women,
then this email is URGENT. 

I have so much freaking AWESOME stuff
to share with you about attracting women
that I myself am going nuts because I cannot
believe how guys are living their lives and
NOT using this stuff simply because they
do not KNOW about it!!!!!!!!!!

What you are about to read is all ABSOLUTELY
AND COMPLETELY taken ALL from real
LIFE.  A LOT of it comes from seeing it
happen in the "pick-ups" that happen during
the BOOTCAMPS which pretty much run
all year long.

You will find that I absolutely STRIP everything
down to the FACTS.  Zero superstition, zero
fluff feel good talk.  JUST THE FACTS.

So here we go:

1. IT REALLY IS ALL ABOUT SEX

Does this mean there is no such thing as LOVE?
Does this mean that women are not interested
in your sense of humor?
Does this mean that women do not care about
things like spirituality?

NO, it does not mean that, what it DOES mean is
that THE MAIN FORCE that WORKS for getting
a woman interested in you, is SEX.

This does not mean that you should EXPLICITLY
talk about sex when you approach a woman.

Talking explicitly about sex at the wrong
time, especially in a non night-club approach,
comes across as implying she is 'cheap' or 'easy.'

What "IT IS ALL ABOUT SEX" really means is
that you should STOP trying to look for some
super-complex EXCUSE to approach a woman,
in some massive effort to hide the fact
that you are interested in her BODY, FACE,
and her FEMININITY. 

So much energy gets WASTED into this effort to
MASK what you are really doing, that what ends
up happening is that you will come across as
awkward, insincere, insecure, and uncool.

Women are not stupid. They have a pretty good
idea that if a guy is talking to them,
that it MIGHT all be about sex intentions.

So if you really ARE interested in a woman in a
physical way,  do NOT waste precious time and
energy on coming up with some super clever
DISGUISE or excuse for approaching her.

Women LOVE sex just as much as MEN.
A lot of women cannot get ENOUGH of it.

The human race would not EXIST without
this mutual DRIVE to replicate.

It is really the most PRIMAL drive of all.
Although food and shelter are required for
SURVIVAL, most people would make
GREAT sacrifices in these areas if it meant
BEING  with the one they were truly ATTRACTED
to more than any other.

This is GOOD news, not bad news.

And in case you are thinking that all the
women who are attractive already HAVE
someone, guess what?

THEY DO NOT ALL HAVE SOMEONE. 

Relationships take a lot of WISDOM and intelligence,
which is why so few men and women are actually
IN long-term relationships.

I do not promote cheating. I am talking about the
women who are single.       

2. Make it FLIRTY.

Flirting usually boils down to playfully expressing
your OWN desirability.  Think of how in the
animal kingdom, a peacock struts its feathers.

In the human world, a lot of guys try to TALK
about how much money they have or how much
value they have, but the problem with that is that
this money stuff is really a recent invention as far
as EVOLUTION is concerned. 

This route does not ATTRACT WOMEN in a
SEXUAL way, it just attracts them in a logical
way.  A man would be better off paying a
seasoned expert prostitute.

Instead, FLIRTING means PLAYFULLY
showing signs of how DESIRED you are,
using words and body language and tonality.

So, for example, if a woman bumps into you,
and you accuse her of trying to feel you up,
THAT is playfully showing that you are
DESIRED.

That is FLIRTING.

Flirting is part of your ARSENAL for turning
a woman ON to YOU.

3. MAKE IT FUN

Related to the above, but not necessarily ONLY
in a sexual way, is the idea of making sure to
keep the interaction something POSITIVE
and FUN. 

By fun, I do not mean she has to be laughing out
loud, although that is a good thing if you do it,
but what I mean is that you are not talking about
DEPRESSING THINGS.

Instead, focus on things that are either fun,
Inspiring, or intriguing, or a COMBO of
ALL of them!

4. MAKE IT CONFIDENT

What I mean by this is that you should take
the opportunity to display confidence.

If you are approaching her and she is at a
table in a food court, and you stop by her
table and open her up with a comment on
the massive amount of ketchup she has put
on her fries, and she LAUGHS and then you SIT
DOWN before she even ASKS you to,  THAT
is showing confidence.

Since she was laughing, you had a pretty good
indication she would not get PISSED if you sat
down, but THERE WAS NOT A PERFECT
ASSURANCE OF THAT. 

A lot of guys would feel the need to ASK
if it would okay to sit down beside her.

You took a TINY risk, but BELIEVED it would
be successful. 

You are thus showing a degree of CONFIDENCE.

I could give you a TRILLION examples, but that
is ONE.    
 
So you take the above steps, and you INCORPORATE
all of them, you make your interaction FLIRTY, FUN,
and CONFIDENT.  

Rather than worrying about how to pretend
you are NOT interested in her physically, just
make your conversation with her FLIRTY, FUN,
and CONFIDENT.

Notice also by the way, how EVERYTHING I have
told you so far all FITS PERFECTLY into each other.

Sex drive, flirtatiousness, fun, confidence, all go
HAND IN HAND, even though they are not the
exact same things. They work TOGETHER.

5. HOW TO KEEP THE CONVERSATION GOING,
also known as: DO NOT EJECT, NO MATTER WHAT.

A lot of times, when guys START conversations with
women, the guys run out of things to say, and what is
the NORMAL reaction?

To EJECT.

I used to do the same thing.  I ran out of things to say,
and felt  so WEIRD just standing there, that I felt
every SECOND I continue standing there would
REVEAL the HORRIFYING TRUTH:

That I was NOT COOL!! 
That I had nothing else to say!
OH NO!

Then I finally realized something which I have been
teaching to my clients for YEARS:

Usually, women are NOT thinking you are
a loser or not cool for not being able to
CONTINUE the conversation!

In fact, very often the WOMEN THEMSELVES wish
that THEY knew how to continue the conversation!

It is important to remember that women have not
STUDIED the skills of how to approach like we have!

They do not particularly KNOW how to go about
the process since they are not the ones to
do the approaching. This is not something
to blame women for; it is not their fault. 

This is part of our culture that says women
are allowed to give SIGNALS off to men, but
that women are not supposed to be nearly as
aggressive and proactive about the actual
approach.

For a woman this means she has to be in the
right places where she can be giving off
signals to the right guys, but as a guy
you can go anywhere and just go right
up to women.

So because of all this, women typically are
on the RECEIVING end of the approaches, and
they have not perfected their own skills
at how to keep the conversation going.

So most guys LEAVE BEFORE the women can even
get a CHANCE to figure out what to say, even
when the women really DO want to continue
to chat!

So it is not just MEN who are having a problem,
it is the women too, but most guys do not realize this,
and they end up EJECTING themselves out of the
interaction in order to save face, when in reality so
often the women were the ones who were EQUALLY
frustrated in not knowing what to say! 

They are so often NOT JUDGING you at all, they are
just TRYING to figure out what to do, just like the guys
are!

So the POINT of all this is that you must give
YOURSELF the following COMMAND:

DO NOT EJECT, AT ALL COSTS, NO MATTER WHAT.

I just cannot emphasize ENOUGH how
PASSIONATELY I feel about this one.

DO NOT EJECT!

There is ANOTHER reason for not ejecting:

Not only does STAYING in the interaction allow
you more TIME to figure out what to say, and not
only does it also allow HER more time to figure
out what to say, and not only are women so often
NOT judging the guys in a negative way just
because it is taking a while to figure out what
to say, but ALSO there is another reason,
a HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGELY important
reason, which is:

FORCING YOURSELF TO STAY IN THE
INTERACTION ACTUALLY FORCES YOU
TO GROW MORE CONFIDENT ABOUT THESE
SITUATIONS IN THE FUTURE!

This means that the NEXT time you approach a
woman, you will be MORE confident, MORE
relaxed, MORE cool.

And when you are in these positive states, guess
what HAPPENS?

You are better able to ACCESS all the creative
parts of your MIND so you can indeed say
things that are interesting, confident, flirty,
etc.

PLUS, by staying in the interaction, you start to
become FASTER at seeing how you can CONNECT
something that is said in the conversation to something
ELSE that is also fun, interesting, flirty, confident,
or intriguing.

Your RESPONSE time gets better and better, as
your mind comes up with more things to say that
actually help the conversation FLOW SMOOTHLY. 

And remember, by having this conversation, the point
is not to demonstrate that you are a GENIUS who
knows everything, but rather to simply create a
GOOD ATMOSPHERE for her to feel good about
getting to know you and to get over the "hump"
of you being a stranger.

So you can go from being a stranger to someone
she feels she wants to get to know more, and
especially someone she wants to get "physical with"
in an intimate way.

PLUS, when you are in a more CONFIDENT
state of mind, it is easier to get into a more
HORNY state of mind, which will allow you
to exude the right degree of masculinity without
doing anything TOO OVERT, or too explicit.

It will show in subtleties in your VOICE tonality,
in your facial expressions, in your pace of movement,
etc, etc.

But you will not get ANY of these benefits if you
EJECT!

So, the next time you chat up a woman:
DO NOT EJECT, AT ALL COSTS, NO MATTER WHAT.

6. SEX, INTERNAL GAME, AND NO SHAME

This is SUPER important.  Internal Game
refers to the way you feel and think, and even
to the inner dialogue you may have with yourself.

One of those elements of internal game revolves
around your thoughts about sex.

Women can detect your internal game very quickly
from all kinds of subtleties in your communication.

So, if you want to have a strong internal game, one
of the BIG THINGS to do is to have NO SHAME
about being a sexual person.

I used to try like CRAZY to treat women in the
most NON-SEXUAL way. I tried to show how
NICE I could be.  I was super-passive and tried
to show that I would NEVER do anything unless
a woman made it TOTALLY CLEAR TO ME THAT
SHE WANTED SEX.  It was all up to them, I would
make sure to not "make them feel uncomfortable"
by even going anywhere NEAR the possibility
of sex. 

Meanwhile, the TRUTH is that women tend to give
HINTS, they almost NEVER, EVER, EVER tell
a guy the following:

***Hey, you know, I like you, would you please
&*^% me tonight?*** 

The VERY thought of it is ABSURD and COMICAL!

This does not mean that women want to ONLY be
treated as sexual beings, but they sure DO WANT
to be viewed as sexual beings in ADDITION to
other things.  If women did not get turned on by
being viewed as sexual beings, there would be
no procreation, humans would never have made
it till today, and humans would not EXIST.    

So I am here to tell you something:

The NEXT TIME you see a woman you want to
approach, and you start to fear that maybe your
desires are somehow WRONG, I want you to
realize that women LOVE all kinds of sex.

I am not saying that EVERY woman LOVES
every kind of sex, but that in general
the fantasies and lustful desires of women
are every bit as nuanced and intense and
wild as are those of men. 

The fantasies of men and women are not ALWAYS
on the same page, but the basic NAUGHTY
and TABOO factor is EQUALLY as intense
for women as it is for men.

That nice girl who likes to read poetry may very
well have the most steaming sexual fantasies.

This is SOOOOOOOO important to not only read,
but to EMBRACE INTO THE VERY CORE OF
YOUR SOUL.

7. TAKING ACTION 

I used to think that if a situation SEEMED tough to change, 
that this was a SIGN that it was part of FATE.

So I used to think that attracting women is so hard, that
it must be something that we as men should just become
passive about, especially since I had been taught by
so many people that "your soul-mate is destined to
meet you" etc., etc.

For this reason, I believe, a LOT of men end up becoming
very PASSIVE regarding meeting and attracting women,
and the result is they NEVER meet the woman or women
they wanted to meet and attract.

When it comes to FOOD, no one ever says the following:

***You know what? I believe in FATE, so therefore, I will
prove my belief in FATE by sitting here knowing that
FOOD will fall into my LAP.***

For some reason, when it is something people NEED,
we all stop talking about FATE.

So there may very well be such a thing as fate, but even
if there is, CERTAINLY as humans we are supposed to
do OUR PART to do our best to make the things happen
that we want to happen.

In the same way that earning a living is something
people must ACTIVELY do rather than just sitting
around passively hoping for it to happen, I believe 
that a man should do EVERYTHING in his power, 
without hurting anyone else,  to get the woman or 
women that he wants.

In fact, not doing enough to take action to
get the woman you want is a CRIME against
yourself, because you are hurting yourself,
you are depriving yourself, and if you believe
humans have any dignity or any rights at all,
then certainly you yourself have these rights.

I also know that things only changed for me
once I learned that in fact not only COULD I
take more effective actions for meeting and
attracting women, but that unless I did so,
I would most likely NEVER meet and
attract the women I wanted.  I would just
go for the rest of my life in misery.

And if you are reading this right now, I suggest
that YOU take my Real World Bootcamp
program which will give you the SKILLS to attract
women so that you can choose the type of woman
you WANT.

You will LEARN how to trigger the urge in
women, to learn how to make women WILD
for you. In the Real World Bootcamp,
I will teach you these skills and provide live
demos on real women in just about ANY
place you want, and you will also PROVE
to yourself that it all WORKS for you
as well, as you actually approach women
who are total strangers and you attract
them ON THE SPOT, right in front of your
very eyes.

The Real World Bootcamp IS the REAL THING.
I have been doing this for over ten YEARS,
and I have taught just about every kind of guy
that you can imagine.

In fact, I have been teaching bootcamps since 2003, 
which is long before this stuff became trendy to do.

That means that I am one of the few guys who is really HARD-CORE  about these skills. I did not come to this field because I thought it was trendy, I came to this field because I have a BURNING PASSION for it. 

My success in helping men has also been documented
in the press, including a major report in the Toronto Star,
where I helped not just one or two guys, but an entire
GROUP of men to attract the women they wanted.

This was not just some interview with me, this
was an IN-DEPTH event that spanned over several
weeks, where the progress the men made was independently
reported by them not to me, but to the newspaper itself. 

Bootcamp provides you with the skills to attract almost LIMITLESS women immediately, with zero effort, because there are tons of women all around you already.  All you have to do is spot them and
attract them.   

You can find out more about the Real World Bootcamp at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

I truly do believe with every fiber of my soul that bootcamp is a LIFE-CHANGING experience that willgive you SUPREME CHOICE when it comes to attracting women, and I believe my bootcamp is worth at least TEN TIMES the cost of your investment. 

The reason is because it's damn hard to find
a good instructor out there, and the right
instructor can teach you in ONE bootcamp what
would take another instructor TEN BOOTCAMPS
to teach you.

These newsletters are just the TIP of the ICEBERG of what you learn in my programs, and what you learn in my LIVE Bootcamp program goes BEYOND what you can even IMAGINE.

Now, if you can't make it to bootcamp immediately, then you really need to download my
Attraction Mastery Program.  This is a professionally recorded program (all done in the studio) that is PACKED with super-effective strategies and insights on attracting women and is FOCUSED on
attracting women in a physical way. 

It stands on its own as an ESSENTIAL program for
attracting women, and it is also a GREAT program
to take before bootcamp.

The more you learn before bootcamp, the FARTHER I can take you when you come to bootcamp.

I would not promote the Attraction Mastery Program unless I KNEW it was of MASSIVE VALUE and massive EFFECTIVENESS when it comes to attracting women.

It is jam-packed with 12 hours of absolutely GOLDEN STRATEGIES on attracting women that you will not find in any of my other programs.     

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

P.S. To find out about all my programs for helping
you get the kind of woman or women you want, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php
             
Michael Marks