Without alcohol and dishonesty, 99% of "pick up artist" videos out
there could not exist.
Also, to a degree, unfortunately, many women kind of suspect that
the guy IS being dishonest, but WANT to indulge in the experience
for the short term but not be held accountable in their own minds for
the long term consequences to their lives because they are too busy
just thinking about the moment, so they indulge in alcohol on
purpose as a way to rationalize later and rationalize in the
moment that it wasn't their fault.
This "it's not my fault" (not taking responsibility) is the number one issue with many women today, and it is a direct result of feminism because it encourages blaming men, and it is also the number one way that a lot of dishonest men, i.e. many of the pick up artists out there, exploit these women, and these women then go on to say that all men they meet are jerks.
These women say that men are jerks, so they can enjoy the experience but later on not be held accountable for the long term destructive effects of promiscuity. These long term effects include the fact that no good man wants to commit to such women. And the truth always comes out eventually, and even if a woman were to try to hide the truth about her, then this itself is a life where she is constantly living a lie, and that is a terrible life as well.
All thanks to feminism which preaches "be like men in the worst
possible interpretation of men", i.e. be promiscuous, be selfish, and
which also preaches blaming men instead of taking responsibility.
And so, getting women to get physical with you is the easiest thing on the planet when you are surrounded with women who want to believe your lies and who are promiscuous and who feel they are in the right to not take responsibility for their behavior.
And this is the reason I created get a GREAT girl, because if a man wants to meet the kind of woman he can actually build a future with, a woman who takes responsibility for her behaviors, a woman who is not promiscuous and who does not need to get drunk to make decisions, it is a completely different thing than getting the kind of women that most pick up artists show in their videos.
Also, I don't film the pick-ups of my clients, because it is WRONG to go around showing films of anyone to millions of people when you never got the permission of those people to film them.
Being with the right woman is the most important thing.
The wrong woman can cost a man his emotions, his energy,
and even MILLIONS of dollars. If you have children with this
woman, she can also cause you MISERY by being a horrible
person to help you raise your children.
The RIGHT woman, however, will PUT THE WIND IN YOUR SAILS,
will motivate you to new heights, and just simply make life more
fun. And she will be a true PARTNER for life.
Don't get caught up in the distractions bombarding you
everywhere with the wrong kinds of women.
Get a GREAT girlfriend.
Go HERE immediately: https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/
To learn the skill of screening women for QUALITY character, and of how to approach and attract in REAL TIME, live, from me directly, in an exclusive and private one-on-one BOOTCAMP, go here:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html
For a phone consultation or any other form of coaching
from me, go here:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/consultations.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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Saturday, September 5, 2015
The Truth And Nothing But The Truth When It Comes To Success With Women
For over 12 years now, I've been motivated by learning the truth about women and attraction. The truth may not be what sells, but in the end, it's the only thing that's important and the only way to actually get where you want to go.
So, for example, when the best-selling book called The Game came out, millions of men believed it all and they all thought that the best way and only way to really meet and attract women was by using pick-up lines.
Even before the book had come out, I was telling the author on a Forum website devoted to the topic of dating and attraction that actually pick-up lines were not necessary- and I was already proving how to do the entire "pick up" in a more natural and effective way.
Well, it only took the seduction/pick up artist community about 6 YEARS to finally realize that what I was saying was true. And not just in night clubs, but in meeting women ANYWHERE.
In fact, that was the NEXT thing that I was light-years ahead of- the whole idea that you can't usually meet the best kinds of women in night-clubs, because an attractive woman who also has her act together in terms of her morals, behaviors, and attitudes is not likely to want to go to a nightclub very often.
The reason is because she ALREADY gets too much attention from the wrong guys, and the last place she wants to go is a place where she is going to be BOMBARDED by a bunch of drunk or tipsy guys who just want to get physical- if she just wanted that, she could meet a guy like that ANY second of ANY day.
But again, it took MANY YEARS for those brainwashed by the effects of "group think" in the pick-up artist world, to SEE and BELIEVE what I had been teaching for many YEARS.
And by the way, of course, none of these guys would dare to give me one DROP of credit for all this, of course, because that would mean possibly encouraging guys to actually THINK rather than just listen to whatever they (the gurus) said.
And so I was explaining that the best way to meet a great woman is when these women are simply out and about doing their thing- getting groceries, going to the coffee shop, at the library, etc.
Now, you still have to SCREEN women because ALL women are out there doing their thing, so you have to find the right ones through screening, but if you focus on nightclubs, you have to realize that the women in nightclubs are AWARE of the fact that it's a place where people go to drink and where for the most part, men are paying to meet women and not the other way around.
So you have to ask yourself what kind of attractive woman needs to go there regularly, unless she is either looking for attention or promiscuous.
But just because a woman is out and about during the day or evening in a place that is not a club, does not mean she is great girlfriend material.
This is another FACT that the pick up artist community wants to HIDE from you, or maybe doesn't even KNOW- but it's DAMN IMPORTANT THAT YOU DO KNOW- and that you know how to screen.
Here's ANOTHER thing they don't tell you:
WOMEN AND MEN ARE NOT THE SAME SEXUALLY
There is a TON of evidence that female nature is different from male nature.
So, for example, there was the famous experiment where 100 MEN were approached by a woman on a university campus, who were offered by the woman a chance to sleep with her, and almost EVERY man said yes.
Then, when the same experiment was set up on campus where 100 WOMEN were approached by a man for sex, EVERY WOMAN said no.
Source for this, by the way is: http://www.elainehatfield.com/79.pdf
And recently in the whole "Ashley Madison" news story, it turned out that almost NO MEN were actually MEETING ANY WOMEN-because in reality there were BARELY ANY WOMEN ON THE SITE---something the site tried to keep a secret!
The whole site was driven by MEN who WANTED to meet women, and who THOUGHT there were tons of women on these sites, but in reality, there were almost NO women on these sites, and the website had to actually FABRICATE the IDEA that there WERE tons of women on the site, in order to keep sucking in the men who were, unfortunately, looking for an affair.
But the point here is a LARGER point- that FEMALE NATURE is not as IMMEDIATELY driven by the same kind of sexual desire as MALE nature.
And YET, pick up artist after pick up artist KEEPS ON TELLING MEN that SECRETLY allllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll the women out there really want to SLEEP with a PLAYER, and are just BURSTING AT THE SEEMS to have sex with some guy who knows the MAGIC SECRET.
The TRUTH is, it's only a certain PERCENTAGE of women that are like this, and although their are, in ABSOLUTE terms, quite a few of these women, in terms of their actual percentage of the population of women, they are SUPER LOW and DO NOT REPRESENT THE NATURE OF MOST WOMEN.
But the majority of the pick up artist community wants you to think ALL women secretly just want to be promiscuous or in general that they have the same nature as men- so that you will think that since all women are really promiscuous anyway, you might as well join them since there is no point looking for a GREAT GIRLFRIEND that is not going to cheat on you or disrespect you, etc.
And again, most men, who just want to meet a great woman, will actually SCREW THEMSELVES BADLY by having the wrong picture of women and of reality.
And it's a bit sad, what is going on. You see, at one time, the promiscuous men and women knew to hang out at night clubs to meet their own types.
But now, thanks to GREED and the commercialization of human needs like love, sex, and affection, pick up artists are branching out into what used to be normal places- like EVERYWHERE else, and so now the normal women out there have to learn the hard way that a lot of these guys approaching them are not normal guys just trying to meet women as girlfriends, but rather playing a game to just try to gather as many women as possible, and trying to manufacture a connection with them that is actually NOT authentic.
Which means that any GOOD women out there should actually have their guard up even MORE- but most women won't because it hasn't reached the tipping point yet.
Of course, most women, even ones not informed in the slightest, will still put two and two together and it won't take too long for them to see when a guy is behaving in a way that doesn't add up.
By the way, this is yet another reason I can't associate with the pick up artist movement, even though there IS a GOOD purpose for learning these skills, and is what I teach men.
I've always taught these skills ALONG with a sense of RESPONSIBILITY.
To quote the first issue ever of Spider-Man, which was actually called "Amazing Fantasy"- "with great power comes great responsibility"- an idea that actually came from Voltaire.
So remember, getting a woman into bed quick isn't a sign of how cool you are, it's a sign that a woman was unusual and is the type who wants to get physical fast with guys.
The IRONY of this all is that I was the guy who wrote, way back in 2003 in my first book, how MASCULINITY and FEMININITY are crucial parts of BIOLOGY, they are not just some invention- and how important it is for men to BE masculine and for women to be feminine in order to attract the opposite gender.
But the pick up artist community only wants to embrace the part of the message that they like- the fact that it's GOOD for you to BE masculine and embrace your masculinity---but they DON'T WANT TO ACCEPT THE COROLLARY(the consequence) OF THIS- which means ALSO accepting that they want FEMININE women.
And although there ARE definitely promiscuous women, it goes AGAINST most women's nature to be as promiscuous as men naturally want to be (which is why over thousands of years, there has been that trade off- a man will be willing to be faithful to a woman who is truly worthy of it)- and deep down, men don't even WANT women to be promiscuous, they aren't even as attracted to promiscuous women.
So, if you REALLLLLLY want to embrace my message of the importance of masculinity in men, you ALSO must embrace the truth of the importance and the nature of FEMININITY in women.
That means seeing the GLARING TRUTH that can be seen with ANYONE with OPEN EYES OR EARS that MOST women are simply NOT as promiscuous as men---
--And if the pick up artists keep showing you videos of guys getting physical or sleeping with women- those are women that don't represent the kinds of women most guys want- just like how commercials on TV SHOW YOU things that don't represent THE TRUTH, but at least there there is the FINE PRINT at the bottom of the screen with all the disclaimers about how everything you are seeing is actually NOT TRUE.
And so THIS explains the SLOW TREND these days in the pick up artist community AWAY from the night clubs and toward what they call DAYGAME.
Again, trying to copy me, but STILL bastardizing the ACTUAL PART THAT MATTERS---because it's NOT about whether you meet a woman during the DAY or NIGHT- that whole distinction is REALLY referring to nightclubs versus "normal" places like the coffee shop, but you can meet a GREAT woman at night just about anywhere- it has NOTHING AT ALL TO DO WITH DAYGAME VERSUS NIGHTGAME--this is just yet MORE MARKETING LEADING TO DESTRUCTION OF ACTUAL TRUTH.
So if you are reading this now, ask yourself: "How many more YEARS of my life am I going to WASTE following the DISTORTIONS OF TRUTH promoted by most dating advice experts?"
The DISTINCTIONS between TRUTH and DISTORTION of TRUTH are sometimes HARD to see when you are in the "middle of the forest"--you can't see the forest because of all the trees.
And SUBTLETIES matter- as you have seen from all the above. It's not enough to get dating advice that SORT OF tells you PART of what you need to know- MISSING JUST ONE DROP OF IMPORTANT TRUTH is like launching a SPACECRAFT with just a few parts missing, the fuel just slightly wrong, the trajectory just a bit off---it will result in a DISASTER.
And getting the RIGHT woman in your life is the single most important other human being that you will ever interact with IN your life- it MATTERS A WHOLE HECK OF A LOT.
If you want to get the RIGHT advice, there's ONE place to go - www.getagreatgirl.com
For the FASTEST way to learn everything, sign up for BOOTCAMP:
http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html
For my most powerful HOME STUDY programs, including many audio programs that you can listen to while traveling or driving so you make the most use of your time, go here:
http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
P.S. Because having a sense of humor is so useful, including when it comes to interacting with women and being in the right state of mind, I thought I would include this following image on the idea of having great power and great responsibility:
So, for example, when the best-selling book called The Game came out, millions of men believed it all and they all thought that the best way and only way to really meet and attract women was by using pick-up lines.
Even before the book had come out, I was telling the author on a Forum website devoted to the topic of dating and attraction that actually pick-up lines were not necessary- and I was already proving how to do the entire "pick up" in a more natural and effective way.
Well, it only took the seduction/pick up artist community about 6 YEARS to finally realize that what I was saying was true. And not just in night clubs, but in meeting women ANYWHERE.
In fact, that was the NEXT thing that I was light-years ahead of- the whole idea that you can't usually meet the best kinds of women in night-clubs, because an attractive woman who also has her act together in terms of her morals, behaviors, and attitudes is not likely to want to go to a nightclub very often.
The reason is because she ALREADY gets too much attention from the wrong guys, and the last place she wants to go is a place where she is going to be BOMBARDED by a bunch of drunk or tipsy guys who just want to get physical- if she just wanted that, she could meet a guy like that ANY second of ANY day.
But again, it took MANY YEARS for those brainwashed by the effects of "group think" in the pick-up artist world, to SEE and BELIEVE what I had been teaching for many YEARS.
And by the way, of course, none of these guys would dare to give me one DROP of credit for all this, of course, because that would mean possibly encouraging guys to actually THINK rather than just listen to whatever they (the gurus) said.
And so I was explaining that the best way to meet a great woman is when these women are simply out and about doing their thing- getting groceries, going to the coffee shop, at the library, etc.
Now, you still have to SCREEN women because ALL women are out there doing their thing, so you have to find the right ones through screening, but if you focus on nightclubs, you have to realize that the women in nightclubs are AWARE of the fact that it's a place where people go to drink and where for the most part, men are paying to meet women and not the other way around.
So you have to ask yourself what kind of attractive woman needs to go there regularly, unless she is either looking for attention or promiscuous.
But just because a woman is out and about during the day or evening in a place that is not a club, does not mean she is great girlfriend material.
This is another FACT that the pick up artist community wants to HIDE from you, or maybe doesn't even KNOW- but it's DAMN IMPORTANT THAT YOU DO KNOW- and that you know how to screen.
Here's ANOTHER thing they don't tell you:
WOMEN AND MEN ARE NOT THE SAME SEXUALLY
There is a TON of evidence that female nature is different from male nature.
So, for example, there was the famous experiment where 100 MEN were approached by a woman on a university campus, who were offered by the woman a chance to sleep with her, and almost EVERY man said yes.
Then, when the same experiment was set up on campus where 100 WOMEN were approached by a man for sex, EVERY WOMAN said no.
Source for this, by the way is: http://www.elainehatfield.com/79.pdf
And recently in the whole "Ashley Madison" news story, it turned out that almost NO MEN were actually MEETING ANY WOMEN-because in reality there were BARELY ANY WOMEN ON THE SITE---something the site tried to keep a secret!
The whole site was driven by MEN who WANTED to meet women, and who THOUGHT there were tons of women on these sites, but in reality, there were almost NO women on these sites, and the website had to actually FABRICATE the IDEA that there WERE tons of women on the site, in order to keep sucking in the men who were, unfortunately, looking for an affair.
But the point here is a LARGER point- that FEMALE NATURE is not as IMMEDIATELY driven by the same kind of sexual desire as MALE nature.
And YET, pick up artist after pick up artist KEEPS ON TELLING MEN that SECRETLY allllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll the women out there really want to SLEEP with a PLAYER, and are just BURSTING AT THE SEEMS to have sex with some guy who knows the MAGIC SECRET.
The TRUTH is, it's only a certain PERCENTAGE of women that are like this, and although their are, in ABSOLUTE terms, quite a few of these women, in terms of their actual percentage of the population of women, they are SUPER LOW and DO NOT REPRESENT THE NATURE OF MOST WOMEN.
But the majority of the pick up artist community wants you to think ALL women secretly just want to be promiscuous or in general that they have the same nature as men- so that you will think that since all women are really promiscuous anyway, you might as well join them since there is no point looking for a GREAT GIRLFRIEND that is not going to cheat on you or disrespect you, etc.
And again, most men, who just want to meet a great woman, will actually SCREW THEMSELVES BADLY by having the wrong picture of women and of reality.
And it's a bit sad, what is going on. You see, at one time, the promiscuous men and women knew to hang out at night clubs to meet their own types.
But now, thanks to GREED and the commercialization of human needs like love, sex, and affection, pick up artists are branching out into what used to be normal places- like EVERYWHERE else, and so now the normal women out there have to learn the hard way that a lot of these guys approaching them are not normal guys just trying to meet women as girlfriends, but rather playing a game to just try to gather as many women as possible, and trying to manufacture a connection with them that is actually NOT authentic.
Which means that any GOOD women out there should actually have their guard up even MORE- but most women won't because it hasn't reached the tipping point yet.
Of course, most women, even ones not informed in the slightest, will still put two and two together and it won't take too long for them to see when a guy is behaving in a way that doesn't add up.
By the way, this is yet another reason I can't associate with the pick up artist movement, even though there IS a GOOD purpose for learning these skills, and is what I teach men.
I've always taught these skills ALONG with a sense of RESPONSIBILITY.
To quote the first issue ever of Spider-Man, which was actually called "Amazing Fantasy"- "with great power comes great responsibility"- an idea that actually came from Voltaire.
So remember, getting a woman into bed quick isn't a sign of how cool you are, it's a sign that a woman was unusual and is the type who wants to get physical fast with guys.
The IRONY of this all is that I was the guy who wrote, way back in 2003 in my first book, how MASCULINITY and FEMININITY are crucial parts of BIOLOGY, they are not just some invention- and how important it is for men to BE masculine and for women to be feminine in order to attract the opposite gender.
But the pick up artist community only wants to embrace the part of the message that they like- the fact that it's GOOD for you to BE masculine and embrace your masculinity---but they DON'T WANT TO ACCEPT THE COROLLARY(the consequence) OF THIS- which means ALSO accepting that they want FEMININE women.
And although there ARE definitely promiscuous women, it goes AGAINST most women's nature to be as promiscuous as men naturally want to be (which is why over thousands of years, there has been that trade off- a man will be willing to be faithful to a woman who is truly worthy of it)- and deep down, men don't even WANT women to be promiscuous, they aren't even as attracted to promiscuous women.
So, if you REALLLLLLY want to embrace my message of the importance of masculinity in men, you ALSO must embrace the truth of the importance and the nature of FEMININITY in women.
That means seeing the GLARING TRUTH that can be seen with ANYONE with OPEN EYES OR EARS that MOST women are simply NOT as promiscuous as men---
--And if the pick up artists keep showing you videos of guys getting physical or sleeping with women- those are women that don't represent the kinds of women most guys want- just like how commercials on TV SHOW YOU things that don't represent THE TRUTH, but at least there there is the FINE PRINT at the bottom of the screen with all the disclaimers about how everything you are seeing is actually NOT TRUE.
And so THIS explains the SLOW TREND these days in the pick up artist community AWAY from the night clubs and toward what they call DAYGAME.
Again, trying to copy me, but STILL bastardizing the ACTUAL PART THAT MATTERS---because it's NOT about whether you meet a woman during the DAY or NIGHT- that whole distinction is REALLY referring to nightclubs versus "normal" places like the coffee shop, but you can meet a GREAT woman at night just about anywhere- it has NOTHING AT ALL TO DO WITH DAYGAME VERSUS NIGHTGAME--this is just yet MORE MARKETING LEADING TO DESTRUCTION OF ACTUAL TRUTH.
So if you are reading this now, ask yourself: "How many more YEARS of my life am I going to WASTE following the DISTORTIONS OF TRUTH promoted by most dating advice experts?"
The DISTINCTIONS between TRUTH and DISTORTION of TRUTH are sometimes HARD to see when you are in the "middle of the forest"--you can't see the forest because of all the trees.
And SUBTLETIES matter- as you have seen from all the above. It's not enough to get dating advice that SORT OF tells you PART of what you need to know- MISSING JUST ONE DROP OF IMPORTANT TRUTH is like launching a SPACECRAFT with just a few parts missing, the fuel just slightly wrong, the trajectory just a bit off---it will result in a DISASTER.
And getting the RIGHT woman in your life is the single most important other human being that you will ever interact with IN your life- it MATTERS A WHOLE HECK OF A LOT.
If you want to get the RIGHT advice, there's ONE place to go - www.getagreatgirl.com
For the FASTEST way to learn everything, sign up for BOOTCAMP:
http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html
For my most powerful HOME STUDY programs, including many audio programs that you can listen to while traveling or driving so you make the most use of your time, go here:
http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
P.S. Because having a sense of humor is so useful, including when it comes to interacting with women and being in the right state of mind, I thought I would include this following image on the idea of having great power and great responsibility:
Thursday, September 3, 2015
Creating A Powerful CONNECTION With A Woman, Detecting TRUTH, And MUCH More
TONS of absolutely MASSIVE gifts for you today to help you GET yourself an AMAZING high-quality woman.
First of all, let me just mention that the Get A Great Girl FORUM is now OPEN for all men who want to join, and there will be NO CHARGE as long as you show the right attitude.
The Forum UNITES the international Get A Great Girl community, and allows you to learn from others and to share your insights and experiences as well.
It's at: http://forum.getagreatgirl.com/
PLUS- there are TWO super-important new videos today.
What I'm going to do here is just PRESENT the videos first, and then you can read the commentary below.
These videos cover absolutely VITAL aspects of how to attract and DEEPLY CONNECT to a HIGH QUALITY WOMAN, even if you just met her as a TOTAL STRANGER, ANYWHERE.
An Important Message About Detecting TRUTH When It Comes To ANY Kind Of Advice
It’s a feeling that LASTS far beyond just the moments of physical intimacy.
You feel more energy, more motivation, and sense of connection. And knowing that you can actually TRUST her is truly one of the greatest feelings on earth.
Getting this kind of woman is NOT the same thing as just picking up women, and is definitely not the same thing as getting a woman into bed within hours of meeting her.
Much of the pick-up artist community likes to ridicule any man who actually prefers to be in a relationship as opposed to going on an endless circle of pick-ups with promiscuous women, which truly speaks volumes about the lack of understanding of what it takes to TRULY connect with a woman.
You see, when it comes to a woman who is looking for a REAL relationship, one where she invests her emotions and trust in a man, one where she is looking for a responsible partner because she is going to be trustworthy and responsible herself, you can sure as heck bet that a connection is not only important to her, but is of PARAMOUNT importance.
This connection has to be DEEP, and it can’t just be a gimmick or an act. It’s almost like expecting to get a position with the world’s top football or baseball or basketball team by FAKING your qualifications and your commitment to being a professional.
A world class team simply will BOOT OUT those candidates that aren’t qualified, and that aren’t truly committed. They will SCREEN THEM OUT, and they will do it FAST.
This should be obvious, but in a world where almost everything is commercialized, this is not so easy to see anymore. Whether this is in the field of dating advice, exercise, nutrition, medicine, or just about ANY OTHER TOPIC, there is a GLUT of information out there- but it’s information that is usually BIASED and ENGINEERED to serve the purpose of some company rather than the actual individual receiving the advice.
Remember a little while ago, there was some “official study” that chocolate was super-healthy, and that people really SHOULD eat chocolate if they wanted to be healthy?
Suddenly, if you were NOT eating chocolate, you were living a very DANGEROUS lifestyle.
And how about that “official study” that said that it was PROVEN that people who DRINK alcohol have LONGER life-spans and HEALTHIER lives????
And it wasn’t even just one drink a day, it was MORE than that that was supposedly OFFICIAL medical advice based on some study!!!
Turns out, much like CIGARETTE companies used to actually suggest that SMOKING was HEALTHY and GOOD for people who had COUGHS, so too other companies provide the funding for studies that will be designed to come up with the pre-desired outcome- to somehow end up suggesting that people should be buying more of their stuff, alcohol, cigarettes, chocolate, etc.
You have to decide what things really are the PRIORITIES for yourself.
An Important Message About Detecting TRUTH When It Comes To ANY Kind Of Advice
There are many cool experiences in this world, whether it’s
riding a roller-coaster, achieving a goal that was really challenging, seeing a
great movie, etc.
But of all the different experiences, being with a woman you love and who you are attracted to, who loves you back, and who is massively attracted to you, is one of the greatest feelings, if not THE greatest feeling, in the WORLD.
It enhances your experience of all the other parts of your life as well.
But of all the different experiences, being with a woman you love and who you are attracted to, who loves you back, and who is massively attracted to you, is one of the greatest feelings, if not THE greatest feeling, in the WORLD.
It enhances your experience of all the other parts of your life as well.
It’s a feeling that LASTS far beyond just the moments of physical intimacy.
You feel more energy, more motivation, and sense of connection. And knowing that you can actually TRUST her is truly one of the greatest feelings on earth.
Getting this kind of woman is NOT the same thing as just picking up women, and is definitely not the same thing as getting a woman into bed within hours of meeting her.
Much of the pick-up artist community likes to ridicule any man who actually prefers to be in a relationship as opposed to going on an endless circle of pick-ups with promiscuous women, which truly speaks volumes about the lack of understanding of what it takes to TRULY connect with a woman.
You see, when it comes to a woman who is looking for a REAL relationship, one where she invests her emotions and trust in a man, one where she is looking for a responsible partner because she is going to be trustworthy and responsible herself, you can sure as heck bet that a connection is not only important to her, but is of PARAMOUNT importance.
This connection has to be DEEP, and it can’t just be a gimmick or an act. It’s almost like expecting to get a position with the world’s top football or baseball or basketball team by FAKING your qualifications and your commitment to being a professional.
A world class team simply will BOOT OUT those candidates that aren’t qualified, and that aren’t truly committed. They will SCREEN THEM OUT, and they will do it FAST.
This should be obvious, but in a world where almost everything is commercialized, this is not so easy to see anymore. Whether this is in the field of dating advice, exercise, nutrition, medicine, or just about ANY OTHER TOPIC, there is a GLUT of information out there- but it’s information that is usually BIASED and ENGINEERED to serve the purpose of some company rather than the actual individual receiving the advice.
Remember a little while ago, there was some “official study” that chocolate was super-healthy, and that people really SHOULD eat chocolate if they wanted to be healthy?
Suddenly, if you were NOT eating chocolate, you were living a very DANGEROUS lifestyle.
And how about that “official study” that said that it was PROVEN that people who DRINK alcohol have LONGER life-spans and HEALTHIER lives????
And it wasn’t even just one drink a day, it was MORE than that that was supposedly OFFICIAL medical advice based on some study!!!
Turns out, much like CIGARETTE companies used to actually suggest that SMOKING was HEALTHY and GOOD for people who had COUGHS, so too other companies provide the funding for studies that will be designed to come up with the pre-desired outcome- to somehow end up suggesting that people should be buying more of their stuff, alcohol, cigarettes, chocolate, etc.
And never mind that stuff- just turn on the TV and you are
BOMBARDED with ads for pharmaceuticals, telling you that you should GO ASK YOUR
DOCTOR to PRESCRIBE you stuff, even if you never were told a WORD about it from
anyone, including your doctor!!!!
So, we are living in an age where there is INFINITELY more
information than anyone else in history has EVER had access to- the only
problem is that the information is 99% BULLSHIT- and finding the 1% that is NOT
bullshit is realllly tough.
Because, why would many companies, especially unregulated companies, sell the most HELPFUL THINGS, when
OTHER things sell SO MUCH MORE?
We are living in a time when people REFUSE to THINK much
when it comes to anything other than those things they are forced to think
about.
This is also why we get political correctness instead of
truth. It’s EASIER to just plug in to what EVERYONE ELSE IS DOING instead of
actually THINKING for one’s self.
So, for example, if all around you, you are being bombarded
with a feminist message that tells you women LOVE it when you kiss up to them, then you will keep on kissing up to women.
Even if with your own eyes you see that it doesn’t work,
your mind would rather NOT think, and just accept the popular message.
By the way, there are also a lot of people who spew
politically incorrect things, who are ALSO full of it, but because there is a
certain BACKLASH to political correctness, there are actually SOME people who
are too asleep to question this either, and who just believe ANYTHING as long
as it is politically INCORRECT!
All because there actually IS some degree of popularity to
the new “politically incorrect” trend as well.
Again, REFUSING TO THINK.
Reverting to whatever is socially POPULAR rather than
think.
Also, people don’t want the truth- they WANT to hear a
message that tells them how to get EVERYTHING without having to DO much at
all!!!! They want this so badly, that
they WILL skip over any guy who TELLS the truth because they would RATHER
BELIEVE the seductive LIE that tells them they can do nothing and get everything.
The truth is you CAN’T have EVERYTHING.
You have to make CHOICES.
You can’t be in TWO different places at the same time.
You have to decide what things really are the PRIORITIES for yourself.
And let me tell you another TRUTH:
Getting a GREAT girlfriend is NOT the same thing as getting
a woman quickly into bed.
Also, getting a woman at a club, where there is loud music
and alcohol, and a huge amount of promiscuous women, doesn’t mean the same
thing as getting a great girlfriend.
Plus, at a club, you can actually have HORRIBLE social
skills, and be almost obnoxious, and a woman may not be able to notice because
a club is not a place where a person can really size up someone’s social skills
too well, and certainly not a place where can create the kind of connection
necessary for attracting a high-quality woman.
Here’s some more truth- there is this huge commercial game
going on now in this field, that all likes to pretend that the real big deal is
the difference between meeting women during the day versus meeting them at
night- when the REAL difference is simply meeting the kind of woman who is
looking for a genuine serious relationship, and meeting the kind of woman who
is just looking to “have fun”.
And allllll this is something I’ve known for many, many
years, and is the reason I created “Get A GREAT Girl”- because getting a great
girlfriend is a very different thing than just getting some short-lived
attention from a woman who is not investing any substantial effort, emotion, or
thought in you.
Does this mean that there is NO overlap at ALL between some
of the typical skills in pick-up and in getting a great girlfriend?
No- there is the obvious need to have some confidence and
comfort in approaching a woman who is a total stranger- something which
third-wave feminism has made a lot of men feel is IMPOSSIBLE, and there is a
need to exude some personality to give the woman some idea of who you are, but
that’s about it, after that the two goals begin to DIVERGE massively.
For example, how much physical contact to initiate early on
in the interaction- for a woman looking to get physical right away, if you don’t
do this, she will figure you are not looking for the same thing, but for a
woman who is looking for something more substantial, this touchy feely tasty
stuff too early is REPULSIVE because ANYONE can do that, the challenge is for
her to find a guy she connects with on BOTH levels- the physical AND the
emotional in other senses as well.
This is why, for attracting a high quality woman, it is so
important to develop a powerful CONNECTION with her, and in the new video today
I explain HOW TO DO THIS, even with a woman who you just met who is a total
stranger, and I explain how to KEEP the conversation going naturally as well.
In fact, connection is so important that most of the problems
that you hear about, in terms of questions from guys like, “How do improve my
PHONE game?” or “How do I improve my TEXT game” or “What should I do on the
FIRST date?”--- ALL these questions actually reflect one MAJOR problem---a POOR
connection was made to begin with.
The REAL answer to all these questions is CREATE A SUPER-STRONG CONNECTION in the FIRST place, and then you won’t need to have any kind
of gimmicks later on to fix the lack of connection!
If a woman met you as a stranger, but you were able to
connect powerfully with her, she WANTS to meet up with you, even long AFTER the
initial approach is over—because she keeps on FEELING and REMEMBERING that
connection!
Connection is what really allows her to REMEMBER you, because
no matter how FUNNY or COOL a guy acts, those momentary emotions FADE within
minutes of the approach being over (the HUMOR is a good tool for getting rid of
what would otherwise seem and feel a like an awkward thing as a stranger
approaching a woman- but the humor itself is not what creates the lasting connection
that allows her to remember and think about you).
Being with a great woman IS a truly life-changing and
life-enhancing GIFT for any man, and I
have spent many, many YEARS devoted to helping men GET great women.
The fastest way for you to GET yourself a great woman and
to get the SKILL to be able to meet, attract, and keep a great woman, is for
you to take my BOOTCAMP program, where I will teach you EVERYTHING you need to
know, in real time, on real women in all kinds of venues- from walking down the
sidewalk, to the café, the bookstore, the coffee shop, transit, and EVERYWHERE
else- and we will do this in BOTH the NIGHT and the DAY!!!
Bootcamp is at:
With me, there are NO GIMMICKS. No NONSENSE.
I could easily go mainstream commercial and SELL out-I know
full well how to make videos and how to tell men only what they want to hear.
But I refuse.
I know there are some men out there who ALSO REFUSE to
listen to nonsense, and who can SEE the nonsense.
My company won’t ever be the BIGGEST, because the masses WANT bullshit, but I do promise to
always give you the BEST.
And only SOME men can appreciate the difference between bullshit and the best.
And only SOME men can appreciate the difference between bullshit and the best.
The men who take my programs and courses are some of the
highest achievers in their respective fields, and in general they are men who
hate bullshit.
This is why men from ALL OVER THE WORLD come to take my Bootcamp
program in person.
And I get messages from men who have TRULY met and attracted fantastic
women- great girlfriends, and sometimes even girlfriends that turned into great
wives with whom they have started families.
In a society where the family unit is under attack and
being destroyed, that’s something I’m pretty proud of.
(And
of course, I'm sure the other companies will tell you how their
programs on getting women into bed in the blink of an eye ALSO result in
great girlfriends, relationships, and wives--- they know that people
want to believe they can be in two different places at the same time and
that logic means nothing for 99% of people.
It's the same way the cigarette companies told people that cigarettes are great for people who have coughs, and even managed to get a couple of doctors to say this as well!)
If you can’t sign up for bootcamp immediately, then
DEFINITELY take advantage of my OTHER programs- like my PHONE CONSULTATION
service where I SOLVE any issues you are facing when it comes to meeting or
attracting women.
Also, you MUST take advantage of my HOME STUDY programs,
including instantly downloadable books and audio programs that will help you
SOLVE problems like how to get over approach anxiety, how to start the
conversation, how to get the woman attracted, how to develop a deep connection,
how to get yourself to unleash your sense of confident humor, and much, much
MORE.
Take advantage of these programs and get the woman of your
DREAMS by going HERE NOW:
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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