The ONE Thing She's Looking For In You

The most important thing in attracting
a woman who is truly the “total package”
of being not only beautiful, but also a
great person inside as well, is conveying
to her the following VIBE:

That with you, no matter how crazy life
gets, she can depend on you to be her
ROCK. That you will be calm, strong,
and steadfast in the storms of life.

The goal is SIMPLE.

ACHIEVING this goal, and being able
to convey this in SECONDS to a woman
you just met, takes some insight into 
psychology, culture, and evolution.

And not the “dime store psychology” or
“pseudo-science” or other gimmicks that
unfortunately are so prevalent in our society.

Please allow me to make one thing clear:
I never started out with the goal of TEACHING
any of the things I learned about getting a
quality woman who would be a fantastic
girlfriend.

I honestly did it all because I needed to
learn all this for MYSELF.

One of the most DISASTROUS steps I took
on my path to learning how to attract a truly
quality woman was that I tried to learn from
the “pick up artist” community.

I had to spend YEARS actually UNLEARNING
all the things they taught me, because those
things actually REPELLED the very BEST
kinds of women.

In case you don’t know about the pick up
artist community, there is a book called
“The Game” that really sums up the entire
“seduction community”, in fact, its author
was practically worshipped by the majority
of pick up artists and their followers.

In the book, it’s clear that the main strategies
for getting a woman involved just about
anything BESIDES being honest and up-front.

For example, “negging” a woman is a
strategy where the main goal is to LOWER
a woman’s self-esteem so that she feels
LESS about herself and now supposedly
she will feel the guy has more value than
her. These ‘experts’ vow that the solution
to attracting a ‘hard to get’ woman is to
‘slam’ her self-esteem.

So this involves the use of thinly veiled
insults, the “nice” name for this is
“backhanded compliments” but really
it’s just an insult. i.e. Telling a woman
she looks just like some celebrity named
x.y, or z, but the thing is that the named
celebrity is clearly NOT the most attractive.

Now, as you may know from my programs,
since day ONE I have been against these
kinds of things for about a MILLION
reasons, including the fact that this kind
of strategy not only is not NECESSARY
but in fact will BACKFIRE because it
makes a man think lower of himself,
because it reinforces in a man the feeling
that he does NOT have the value to get the
woman so he must resort to these kinds of
sleazy tactics.

And when your “INNER GAME” i.e.
the way you feel about yourself, is this
weak, it always ends up showing in tiny
little subtleties through your tonality,
expression, body language, etc. So a
woman ends up detecting a weak inner
game, and the more a guy uses these
“negging” strategies, the more a guy
will weaken his inner game.

It ALSO backfires because a woman who
is truly the total package is both emotionally
strong enough, plus intelligent enough to
not only sense that this guy has a weak
inner game but she will ALSO detect that
this guy is DOING THIS nasty stuff to
her INTENTIONALLY, that he is knowingly
trying to lower her self-esteem!!!!

So she will reject the guy faster than he
can say “negging”.

Now, I believe in EVIDENCE before
coming to conclusions.

So let’s look at the EVIDENCE for
what I’m saying.

Since I’ve been teaching my programs,
the entire FIELD of “dating strategies”
and “pick up artists” has been MASSIVELY
IMPACTED by what I teach.

These days, the “neg” is hardly ever HEARD
of anymore even amongst the “die hard” pick
up artists.

These days, there is suddenly a lot more talk
about getting a “quality girlfriend”.

There’s a lot more talk about “Becoming
Mr. Right for Getting A Great Girl.”

In fact, the vast majority of the things that
supposedly were "GOD'S TRUTH" about
attracting a woman as written by the
“popular” dating coaches and pick up
artists is actually now considered
IMMATURE and SILLY.

And not just by some people, but by
the actual pick up artists themselves!!!

After it became painfully obvious, they
mostly AGREE now that those things
don't work!!! (What they do now is
try to create NEW gimmicks, that will
take a little while till everyone finds out
that TOO is just a gimmick.)

Now, I am going to venture forth here
and say it, because obviously none of
these guys will, that it was ME who
brought dating strategies for getting
a great girl into the MODERN AGE
and out of the STONE AGE of pick
up artist advice that they themselves
agree was just about ALL WRONG
before!

So what I’m saying is, I have ALWAYS
been about getting a QUALITY woman.

I have NEVER been about gimmicks.

In fact, when you finish my programs,
you actually can be very UPFRONT
AND HONEST with women, because
you have become such a strong person
that you convey to her all the right things
from your tonality, expression, warmth,
and inner strength so that EVERYTHING
you do with her becomes attractive.

There are no gimmicks to use, because it's
YOU who has now become attractive,
not some "gimmick" to use on her.
I have ALWAYS been against GIMMICKS
and immature trends that come and go.

I could have easily jumped on the bandwagon
of trends if all I cared about was money.

I could have easily been a part of the
book “The Game” as I was actually
contacted about it, but I wanted nothing
to do with it then, even when the pick
up artist industry was at it’s ZENITH of
popularity.

That should give you an idea of just how
important the TRUTH is to me, and how
important it is to me to give you TRUTH
on how to get a quality woman.

My concepts have literally changed the
entire FIELD of dating.

To me, getting a great girl who is the total
package isn’t just a “nice thing” to do. It’s
the ONLY thing I do, it’s what I have
DEVOTED myself to teaching since day
ONE. And I do this because I know just
how IMPORTANT it is to have a quality
woman at your side, and how this improves
your entire LIFE.

A great woman isn’t looking to see if
you are a look-a-like of George Clooney,
Brad Pitt, or any of the guys from
“Twilight”. And she isn’t looking for
GOLD or money from you either.

She’s looking to see if you have the
INNER strength.

The bottom line is this:

If you're interested in getting dates with
typical women, that's fine. It's not my
preference, but I don't judge others.

But if you're looking for the kind of
woman that ADDS to your life, doesn't
give you "drama", and makes life a
DREAM, then you need an EDGE over
other guys, you need the kind of
training from someone who SPECIALIZES
in getting the kinds of women who would
truly make for GREAT girlfriends.

One of the crazy things about attracting a woman
is that you probably already KNOW in your gut
what IS attractive- for examples, things like
CONFIDENCE, things like being more SEXUAL,
and things like being INTERESTING in general.

The REAL question is, how do you SHOW these
things to a woman? Sometimes a guy CAN be
confident in many OTHER areas of his life, but
not feel confident in approaching a woman who
is a total stranger. Sometimes a guy can be an
interesting person, but when he’s talking to
a woman, he doesn’t know how to show it.

And, how do you show more SEXUALITY to a
woman who is a total stranger???

So let me get into answering ALL this right
here, right now. Please keep in mind that I
swear to it that everything I write here is
based on REAL INTERACTIONS WITH
WOMEN FROM YEARS OF BOOTCAMPS
WITH CLIENTS AND MY OWN
EXPERIENCES AS WELL.

In other words, this is not just made up or
something I came up with off the top of
my head, it’s all based in REALITY, and
you can apply it all IMMEDIATELY and
see for yourself how quickly it works.

First off, I totally understand that most
guys are NOT Bill Gates, not models, and
not necessarily living an “Indiana Jones”
lifestyle.

And guess what? THAT’S NOT A PROBLEM.
Because the TRUTH is that, WHEREVER you
are in life, whatever your situation is, you can
STILL apply everything I’m talking about to
demonstrate all the cool things about yourself.

Let me give you an example: Let’s say you
have a really CRAPPY job, okay?

And you’re at that part of the conversation
where she’s talking about her stressful job or
whatever, and you know that if you don’t mention
what you do, it’s going to sound like you’re hiding
something.

The reality is, you’re FAR BETTER OFF
literally telling a woman “my job is crap”
than trying to DISGUISE it in any way.

I mean LITERALLY telling her those words.

The key though, is to say those words without
trying to be CUTE when you say it.

If you say it trying to be “cute” or smiling,
it almost seems as if you’re smiling out of
HOPE that she will “forgive” it.

But if you are totally OWNING it, and not
seeking to try to get her FORGIVENESS
for it, it makes a FREAKING HUMONGOUS
DIFFERENCE.

You can even be a bit PISSED OFF in your
tonality about the crappy job.

The reasons for all this are subconscious:

By NOT hiding it, you show the following
things, and I’ll explain why:

1. INTEGRITY

Most guys will sacrifice truth and anything else
if they think it will get them ahead, but here you
are clearly showing you are not affected by what
other people think, including HER.

You show that you stick to your principles.

2. CONFIDENCE

You are also demonstrating confidence because
you clearly think that you STILL have a chance
with this girl ANYWAY otherwise why would
you be talking to her, especially in this non-apologetic
and non-deceptive way?????

The other thing is that by OWNING up to your
reality, and not DENYING it, you are far more
likely to be the kind of guy who is going to
MAKE THE CHANGES IN HIS LIFE TO
IMPROVE HIS SITUATION.

So in a way you’re also showing AMBITION.
If you’re not SATISFIED with where you
are, and you want to move UP in the world.

And when a man of confidence puts his mind
to work and his body into action, he can achieve
a HECK of a lot, and he won’t be down in the
gutter for long.

Now, if you have INTEGRITY and you also
have CONFIDENCE, she realizes that you
probably ALSO have integrity in your other
connections with people, including relationships.

This translates into SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE
AND POWER WITH PEOPLE.

She also subconsciously realizes that if you
can handle THIS kind of awkward uncomfortable
situation, you can probably also handle the part
about you LEADING the interaction smoothly
to the SEXUAL with her.

After all, you don’t seem to be bogged down
by the OTHER things that most guys would be
bogged down by psychologically.

So that’s just ONE example of how you can
convey confidence as well as many other
attractive traits, even if your situation isn’t
that GREAT, and you might have previously
THOUGHT you don’t have anything to be
confident ABOUT.

And you can use this same principle to show
confidence in ANY situation where you think
you are LACKING or not doing so great compared
to other people.

In fact, that “lack” is your opportunity to show
that you WILL NOT BE CRUSHED by it,
that you will not lose integrity by it, and that
you will not lose confidence by it.

Remember, MOST of the guys she is going
to meet are going to do the OPPOSITE of
this, including even guys who you might think
on the surface HAVE SO MUCH GOING
FOR THEM!!

Yup, the vast majority of guys ALL end up
QUALIFYING themselves to a woman they
are attracted to. The guys, out of a desire to
impress the woman, quickly end up telling
her about their fancy job, their car, their
fancy trip, etc, etc, etc.

And the irony of all this is that this “impressive”
stuff, by being used as a crutch, shows INSECURITY
to a woman and is REPULSIVE.

So, now it’s almost as if the guy would be
better off NOT having the fancy stuff, since
he ends up just using it to convey insecurity.

A woman figures that such a guy actually
thinks that he should be with her because
of his CAR or JOB, and that’s not only
uncool, it’s the trademark of a real a-hole,
and trust me, THAT’S NOT the cool kind
of “jerk” at all.

So you can ALWAYS be showing confidence,
NO MATTER WHAT YOUR SITUATION IS.

SEXUALITY

How about something like sexuality?

Well, here too, you can ALWAYS be more
sexual with a woman, it doesn’t have to JUST
be at a nightclub, where it’s easy to do this
because the women are there to meet guys.

I prefer to meet women in places OTHER than
nightclubs, simply because the most attractive
women at nightclubs definitely DON’T need
to go there to meet guys, so if they are there,
chances are they are just party girls.

Of course, there ARE great girl at nightclubs,
but FINDING them is like finding a needle
in a haystack, and the noise makes it hard
to truly dig deeper into conversation to
determine character.

However, all women need to do the everyday
things like shopping, grocery shopping, going
to the bank, etc, and so these “regular” places
are far better for actually meeting women with
more “long term girlfriend” potential.

How can you show more sexuality with a
woman you happen to see at the coffee
shop or supermarket?

Simple: Through using TOUCH AND TONALITY.

Words have been around for only a smidgeon
of human evolution, while TOUCH has been
around since the very first days that
man and woman have walked the Earth.

Human communication has been using
TOUCH since day one.

And it’s STILL AROUND, we just tend to
REPRESS this primal force. (Another primal
chord is triggered through MUSIC, which
is another element you can incorporate later,
when lovemaking is in the air :) )........

So, stop worrying about being called a pervert and
look for PLAYFUL ways to make HUMAN CONTACT.

And I’m talking FAST.

The reality is that women are FAR more
comfortable with this than you think.

When I was in university the first time, I
got BRAINWASHED by all these political
science courses including on feminism, where
I was taught how just about EVERYTHING
was a form of male harassment against women.

So I did everything I could when interacting
with women to NOT touch them, and to
NOT show dominance, and to just wait
for THEM to take all the action and to
get sexual.

Of course, that all led to ZERO results with women.

Then, I finally found out the TRUTH of
what was going on, on campus, and how
RAMPANT the sexuality was, and how
there were TWO realities, the one that
existed in the lecture hall, to which of
course NO ONE WOULD ARGUE lest
they be labeled EVIL CAVE-MEN, and
then there was the reality of what ACTUALLY
HAPPENED on a regular basis within just
METERS of these lectures halls, things that
would make Sodom and Gomorah BLUSH.

That made me FAR MORE COMFORTABLE
not only getting more “physical” with women,
but also being more PLAYFUL in general
with women, because I realized that women
were MOSTLY NOT like the stereotype
portrayed in my political science course
descriptions, in reality women LOVED TO
BE PLAYFUL AND ENJOYED GETTING
PHYSICAL, probably even MORE SO than men.

Have FUN with women, from the moment
you first see a woman you’d like to talk to.

Forget being serious, instead LIVE IT UP
and take “chances” with your sense of humor,
it’s BETTER than being too serious, FOR SURE.

It’s GOOD for a woman to think you
really want to get PHYSICAL with her
and that you have NO SHAME about it,
and that you LOVE the idea of physical
and you love having fun with women-
it’s just that socially, you can’t literally
SAY THIS as you’re first words to her,
but you CAN and SHOULD CONVEY
it through your MANNERISMS!

If you’re not having a good time doing this
with women, you’re doing it wrong.

I used to do it all WRONG, I was so pissed
off inside, that it was all coming from a
place of ANGER.  An anger that stemmed
from feeling that somehow, things should
not be this way.

I was pissed off that my preconceived notions
of how things ARE was totally OFF! I was
upset that things were NOT the way I had
previously thought they were my whole
life, as this meant I had to change my
very PICTURE of reality!

My old beliefs were that women wanted and
appreciated a really SERIOUS approach to
dating, sexuality, and relationships.

This does NOT mean that women think relationships
are a JOKE, it just means that you can't START out
with a woman if you are operating on a very serious
level, as that overly serious vibe DESTROYS the
sexual, flirty VIBES that are so important for
sparking SEXUAL ATTRACTION.

In fact, being playful actually delivers the message
that you are MORE of A MAN who is "the rock",
than a man who seems all serious right away when
talking to her, because that "SERIOUSNESS" is
interpreted by her as NEEDINESS or some other
negative issue, which is understandable once you
adopt the frame of ABUNDANCE and the perspective
of having many CHOICES of who to date---just like
these attractive women do! :)

Playfulness shows STRENGTH, that you find all
this stuff so easy, that it's FUN.

So, once I finally ACCEPTED the way things
really ARE, I came to peace with it, and
THAT'S when I could stop PRETENDING
to be playful and actually BE playful.

And the reality is, that this is healthier way
to go about the whole dating process anyway!!!

It allows you to enjoy the process, and to NOT
fall into the needy and insecure zone, which
is where all the problems start, both in terms
of destroying attraction and also in terms of
destroying your own confidence. 

You are as you think and do, so if you switch
the way you think, and if you take the ACTIONS
of a secure, playful, flirty person, you BECOME
that incredible man who really IS her "rock".

And when I say a “good time” I don’t mean
to act “cutesy” with women – a lot of times
“cutesy” is this kind of toothy smile that
is really a form of seeking rapport.

Instead, your “having a good time” while
interacting and approaching women should
be coming from a place of STRENGTH
internally, the best example I can think of
that resembles the REAL LIFE way of
doing it, is “Captain Kirk”, it’s a pretty
accurate of what I mean by playful
but strong and not needing a woman’s
approval, while still liking her nonetheless.

So let me tell you, you should go for playful
hugs, high-fives, taps on the shoulder, etc,
and if a woman has a problem with this, you
are NOT harming your chances, you are only
finding out that she is a waste of your time.

Now, you should ALSO be conveying
sexuality, by speaking to a woman in
the same kind of tonality that you would
have right after making passionate love
to a woman. Your voice would be calm,
comfortable, no more pretenses of
sounding like CLARK KENT instead
of the real SUPERMAN inside of you.

There’s also nothing wrong with a dirty
joke or two if they are actually FUNNY
and not GROSS. This helps establish
the right mentality that this is a male
female interaction and not just some
cerebral conversation between two men.

Here’s ANOTHER important strategy:

GET HER TALKING ABOUT HERSELF

Most guys are so caught up in trying to
impress a woman, that this very act of
trying to impress ends up causing the
OPPOSITE and repels her.

Instead, what I do and have clients do is
to focus on learning more about HER.

After a playful comment or two to get the
conversation started, I get into wanting to
know what HER STORY IS.

In fact, I might even say these actual words:

“What’s YOUR Story?”

This has TONS of benefits for you:

It shows her that you aren’t all arrogant
and don’t need to talk all about YOURSELF.

It allows her a chance to actually BOND with
you by talking to you about herself.

It teaches you more about her, so that you can
have the right things to say to her that are
actually RELEVANT.

It’s easier anyway, because instead of having
to be this big talker, you can chill out and
listen.

The less you talk, the more cool you seem,
as you might remember from my discussions on
“Minimum Game” and how less is more, the sign
of a true master. A true master uses only what
is required for each situation, and never more.

PLUS, after she has spoken to you about herself,
SHE HERSELF will ask you about yourself, so
NOW when you talk to her, even about yourself,
you will NOT seem like you are qualifying
yourself!!!! You really WILL impress her.

As you can see, without me being arrogant,
the reality is I know what the heck I’m
talking about.

And what you’ve just read is the TIP of the
ICEBERG of TONS of EASY-TO-APPLY
strategies for ATTRACTING A WOMAN
the moment you see her, all without being
hurtful or manipulative.

In my 'WARRIOR WITHIN' program, I show you
EXACT word-for-word examples of how to go
from the MOMENT you SEE a woman anywhere,
including “normal” places like a supermarket or mall,
all the way to getting her back to your place, with her
eagerly anticipating getting physical with you.

And this is not just about how to get
some kind of promiscuous woman- NOPE,
I’m talking about the kind of woman
that is the full package, which means
that I also show you how to make a
powerful CONNECTION with her
as WELL as igniting sexual attraction
in her.

Here are just SOME of what you’ll learn
in this incredible program:

*The BEST ways of approaching women in
“regular” places like supermarkets.

*The FULL PICTURE on how to “OWN” any
“undesirable” part of your reality and transform
it into an ATTRACTIVE part of your identity.

*TEN powerful ways to SIMULTANEOUSLY
create both ATTRACTION and RAPPORT!

This will ACCELERATE your results, which
is crucial especially in those situations where
you don’t have much TIME to speak to a woman!

*Powerful ways to increase the EROTIC nature
of your interaction with a woman so that you
can SMOOTHLY escalate to getting PHYSICAL later.

There’s nothing worse than having a series
of dates with a woman where NOTHING
physical happened, as this makes it even
MORE awkward and less likely for anything
physical to occur. You’ll never have this
problem, by using THESE strategies revealed
in this program.

*I’ll show you the best ways to get a woman
talking about herself so that you can learn the
best way to connect with her!

*How to come across as far more INTERESTING,
without the use of ANY lies- in fact, you
will hardly have to even SPEAK at all!

*You’ll even discover a great way to use
any environment you meet a woman in,
to make her feel as if you two have known
each other a long time.

*And of course, as the name of the program
implies, you will also get all my most powerful
strategies and tools for SKYROCKETING your
"Inner Game", so that your NATURAL confidence
with women rises to INFINITELY high levels.

Women, especially the quality women who are
careful about who they date, can ALWAYS tell
if a guy is just FAKING confidence, or if he is
THE REAL DEAL- and this program will show
you how to BECOME the kind of man who can
be her "rock" for REAL.
 
*And much, MUCH more!

I can promise you one thing: These strategies
WORK to attract the women you WANT.

I wish I knew the things that I now teach,
long ago. I could have been enjoying life
rather than being in misery and being
jealous of the guys that HAD the girl.

You can get that EDGE RIGHT NOW with my
"Warrior Within" DVD Set Training Program.

This program is so powerful it will also help you
CHANGE YOURSELF to become the kind of
man who achieves ALL his goals in life.

I know that this program is going to change
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This program is GUARANTEED to get you
a fantastic quality woman.

The only problem you'll ever have
with this program is that this
woman will be so crazy about you
that a lot of her friends are
going to want you as well!!!

Again, the way to ensure you GET and KEEP
this fantastic woman is with THIS program:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

I look forward to hearing your success story.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

P.S. Warrior Within is designed especially for
men who are serious about meeting "the one"
for a serious relationship.

If you’ve just recently got back into the
“dating game”, then you need to make sure
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This program is LOADED with TONS of precious
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It covers all those dating situations that
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answers for, like:

*How to deal with other guys that may try
to interrupt your interaction with a woman.

Ever have this happen to you? Often, in
real life, the same guys that had no guts
to approach a woman will now try to
talk to a woman when they see that you
have already “opened her up”, and they
will try to swoop in.

I’ll show you how to STOP THESE TURKEYS,
and make these guys LOSE all status INSTANTLY.

*I’ll even show you the best way to follow
up that first conversation with a woman and
how to transition it into a date where things
ESCALATE very quickly. I’ll show you the best
ways to email, text, and speak to her after
that first chat so that she can’t WAIT to
meet you in person!

*How to quickly find out if a woman is single
or if she’s with somebody, if she’s interesting
in meeting other guys, and even how to quickly
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Make Yourself Her Addiction

The truth is that if you want to attract
a woman, you have to be generating
an EMOTIONAL response from her.

You have to MAKE YOURSELF
an emotional stimulus, like an
addictive sound to music:



Emotions are addictive, that's a fact.
The human brain is hardwired to only
RESPOND to things that get it into
FEELING mode.

A lot of guys and supposed “experts”
oversimplify the real answer, they say
“be a jerk” or “kiss up” or “be normal”,
and all these things don’t work, especially
not with a woman who has many choices.

In fact, she’s probably met a LOT of that
already, so she’s DESENSITIZED to it.
She’s already seen a lot of jerks, she’s
already seen a lot of nice guys, and a lot
of normal guys. All no big deal to her.

This is similar to how rare it is to actually
go to a MOVIE that is truly COOL.

It has to be ORIGINAL.
It has to INTRIGUING.
It has to make you THINK.
It has to have moments of FUNNY.

And it has to all feel REAL, it can’t
seem FAKE or CONTRIVED.

So let me give you some tips on how to
ACCOMPLISH all this with a woman
you spot ANYWHERE out of the blue. 

1. AUTHORITY/STATUS
                                                                                            
When you first approach a woman, who
is a total stranger, and it’s not a club or
a party, the reality is that if she senses
you’re about to try to “pick her up”,
she may AUTOMATICALLY engage
her DEFENSES, since there are so
many creepy guys out there, and she
has no idea that you are different.

So, if you begin with anything less than
the demeanor of TOTAL AUTHORITY,
you will be VAPORIZED before you even
start.

So, you must take on an air of authority, in 
your thoughts, mental headspace, body 
language, tonality, and even the words that
you use.

Your TONALITY is even more important
than the words, so for example if you DO
start with the words “Excuse me”, which I
don’t recommend, but if you DO, at least
make sure that your VOCAL TONALITY
is not suggesting an “excuse me” MENTALITY.

Remember, if you come across as giving her
a REASON to doubt you, in this kind of situation,
she WILL, because she’s been programmed by
social conditioning to be weary of guys, especially
if she is very attractive and has had a lot of this
happen to her before.

2. CHOOSE A TOPIC MUTUALLY COMPELLING

What I mean by this, is that you must decide to
chat with her about something that is likely SHE
will be interested in, and that YOU are interested
in as well.

And keep in mind, make sure this is a topic you are
an AUTHORITY on, or at least something you have
spent a lot of time researching or thinking about.

This way, you avoid coming across as sounding
FAKE or CONTRIVED. (Remember the problem
with movies that feel fake? It makes it impossible
to enjoy the film, because you can’t get yourself
to suspend your disbelief.)

Also, by being an AUTHORITY on something
that is INTERESTING or IMPORTANT to her,
you also INCREASE your STATUS.

This is a bit how if you might remember being
a kid, you automatically had a certain SENSE
that the MATH TEACHER was important,
because “math COUNTS”.

There’s a transfer of EMOTION from the
SUBJECT being discussed to the actual
PERSON.

Now, when it comes to meeting women,
you want to do the same thing, and that
is transfer as much emotional “STATUS”
leverage as possible to YOURSELF
from your authority on the topic of
importance.

So, for example, let’s say you see a woman
at a bookstore, or library, or almost anywhere,
and you are interested in human relationships,
romantic relationships, psychology, etc.

So you decide to go up to her and offer her
a genuine compliment, i.e. you see her reading
and you say:

“Hi, I was wondering about something, and
you seem like someone who is informed, who
reads, maybe articulate and intelligent?”

3. THE PAUSE

And you give a bit of a confident smirk, allowing
her a chance to RESPOND as you PAUSE.

This is IMPORTANT, allow her a chance
to actually RESPOND, so that you do NOT
come across as some rehearsed pick-up artist
who just has a memorized routine to say.

That’s again, part of the reason I say to choose
a topic that is mutually interesting and relevant.

Also, by PAUSING, and allowing her to respond,
you ensure that her brain is actually involved in
participating and engaging you.

So she might say “Thanks, yes, I like to think that I am…”

And you might continue with something like:

“Yes, I was wondering what you think the
most important thing IS in relationships???”

Now, do NOT pause at THIS point, because
the whole point here is to actually say something
INTERESTING rather than to be TAKING
from her before you GIVE.

And to really expect her to WANT to give
you any form of giving, including her opinion,
it makes WAY more sense to FIRST BE THE
ONE TO GIVE.

So continue with:

“Everyone SEEMS to say the same thing when
it comes to relationships. You know, like everyone
seems to say HONESTY, TRUST, all that stuff.

But still, everyone seems to be screwing up.

So it can’t be because no one KNOWS what’s
important, right? It seems everyone says all
the right things, which proves they do know.

So what do you think the real issue is?”

So NOW, she might actually be ENGAGED in
this, because it’s actually interesting.

She might say something like this:

“Yeah, I would say, trust, attraction,
communication-”

And then you would say something back like:

“Yeah, see that’s what I mean, that makes sense,
and people seem to all understand that, but still,
it seems most people keep screwing up, what
do you think it is?”

Now, at THIS point, you’re TRULY IN A
CONVERSATION, not just a polite “Hello
and goodbye.”

She might say back to you something like:

“Hmmm, maybe it’s because we tend to blame
the other person, rather than see what’s inside
ourselves.”

Now, if she said something like THIS to you,
by the way, that would be really COOL, as it
would be showing you some of the signs of a true
QUALITY woman, which is humility and kindness.

And as you know, I'm THE guy who has been
concerned with helping guys find and DETECT
a quality woman ever since I first started
out, so this happens to be a particularly
effective way for also finding out if
a woman has the character you are seeking
as well.

In other words, if she has nothing to offer
on a topic like this, you can WEED HER OUT
this way as well!

4. GIVE HER THE COMPLIMENT
     IF SHE EARNED IT

And NOW, if she had a meaningful reply,
you can give her a more powerful and also
more genuine COMPLIMENT now, as she has
truly earned it, telling her that she really
seems to have the insight and the emotional
intelligence that’s extremely rare in our society.

What’s awesome here is that in this example
you have also demonstrated that YOU are
an authority on this as well, and that you
care about these things, and if you ALSO
are using the right tonality, and you dress
with some style, you are packing a pretty
powerful attractive punch.

And remember, this is all in the span of just
a few MOMENTS, so that’s pretty damn
awesome of a total stranger and you’re
looking pretty good now in her books.

At this point, it would be a pretty smooth
transition to getting her number, possibly
getting the instant date right then and there
if there is a coffee shop nearby, and if this
was at a party, you could easily now hang
out with her and vibe and chill out with
her and easily that could turn into some
wonderful intimacy on every level very
- emotionally, physically, and spiritually.

Now, I gave this as an EXAMPLE because
I know that it’s sometimes hard to see concepts
only in abstract terms, but if this example is
not your personality, then definitely do not
use it. I have given tons of other examples
in the past, from commenting on the choice
of birthday card a woman is getting for her dad
in the card store, to seeing a woman filling
up her car at the gas station.

There’s a MILLION OPTIONS that you can
create especially for yourself once you have
these SKILLS and INSIGHTS that I teach
down solid.

The example above, of course, is pretty damn
solid and extremely realistic in the real world.

The keys are to choose a topic that is relevant
to the situation, that are mutually interesting
and compelling, and that you are an authority
on or that you at least have spent time researching
or that you at the VERY LEAST are genuinely
passionate about or interested in.

And to DELIVER this all with AUTHORITY
in your tonality as well, because you have to
realize that if a woman is attractive, she’s
ESPECIALLY conditioned to have her guard
up against most guys. She can’t afford to
screw up, especially not after she’s already
most likely made some mistakes with guys
in the past.

The other thing to remember is to actually
CONTRIBUTE before you TAKE.

So you’re not really wanting her to give
her opinion right away before you have
contributed cool emotions to the situation
with your own thoughts first.

The initial pause is not to get her opinion,
it’s to make sure you are not coming across
like a desperate salesman.

Now, what you have read, as powerful as
it is, is just the BEGINNING.

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more.

The reality is that EMOTIONS ARE ADDICTIVE,
so the MORE awesome emotions you SPARK in her,
the MORE addicted to you she will become.

That’s pure SCIENCE. Emotions ARE addictive.
You must become the most COMPELLING and
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Michael Marks

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Keeping A Woman's Attention Once You've Approached Her

Today, on the "Get A Great Girl" Forum,
(http://forum.getagreatgirl.com/) I noticed
a fantastic discussion about how to approach
a woman, and how to KEEP her attention. 

One of the challenges is keeping the conversation
going and not get stalled after a minute or so.

There is a SOLUTION to this, as you will find
below.

COMMENTS/ QUESTION FROM A MAN
ON THE "GET A GREAT GIRL" FORUM

“I'm almost fearless with approaches & openers,
but man, I get stymied after a minute or so,
except with a captive audience, e.g. sitting near
a hot babe on the subway - since you are both
rooted in one spot for at least a few minutes, it's
easy to escalate the conversation and get
an email address.

The problem is when people are moving or only in
one spot for a moment, such as in a grocery store.
On the one hand, I love grocery stores, and have
gotten a date from one approach. But on the other
hand, the conversation has to move towards
interesting quickly, or she'll just move on after a
couple of pleasantries.

Case in point - I was shopping for laundry detergent
and saw a HB doing the same. My openner wasn't gold,
but at least it got things off the ground:

Me: "All right, which is the liquid detergent that lets
you never use fabric softening sheets again, is it
this Febreeze?"

Her: "I think so, but I'm allergic to Febreeze, so I
never use it. So I use the fabric softening sheets
in the dryer."

Me: "Yeah, but those things destroy your clothes –
the price you pay for no static cling."

Her: "I didn't know that."

And she walks away... (Boo hoo!)

Yeah, I know, boring topic, but in the heat of the
moment, what would you have done to ensure she
doesn't walk away, and then escalate?”

***MY REPLY/SOLUTION***

First, thank you for sharing what you have
been doing in the real world, the details
help everyone see that indeed this stuff
happens in the real world, such as your
date with the woman from the grocery
store.

There is a world of women out there, "ripe
for the picking" so to speak. 

Here are some tips that should help ensure
she doesn't walk away, and to help you
escalate as well:

ADD THE FUN FACTOR QUICKLY:

Your motto should be "Everything she says, can and WILL be
used  in my court of FUN/PLAYFUL/SEXUALITY/DOMINANCE!"

Remember also that women are CRAVING
a man who is both DOMINANT yet also
a GOOD MAN, who will treat her right,
and who also knows what it means to
be playful and naughty in a confident
way, not a truly arrogant way.
(Arrogance actually implies insecurity)

This COMBO is very VERY powerful.
So even if you started really neutral, that’s fine
and prevents getting shut down right away, but
after that, it’s time to JACK UP THE ENERGY
AND EMOTIONAL STIMULATION.

Turn up the dominance, the playfulness, the
naughtyness, and then transition ALL this
into a powerful CONNECTION.
And remember, she has PROVIDED all the
“material” for you, you just have to SEE IT
with new perspectives.

So, for example, with the Febreze, that's fine, and
she says she's allergic to it, IF YOU ARE IN THE PLAYFUL
STATE, and aren't afraid of losing her, you would easily
say any of the following things: (Feel the TONE of what’s
going on here, more than the exact words.)

1. "Man, it's HARD to find good help these days!!!
But at least you're trying, I mean having allergies is
KIND of an excuse, I'm just allergic to boring people,
so I know about allergies, how about you?"

"What’s the coolest thing a person could do in the
supermarket? Walk into the walk in freezer on
a blistering HOT day???? Meet a total stranger?
What do you think?"

This helps motivate her to add some spice
to whatever she says now, investing herself
more into the conversation and also ensuring
that she enjoys this conversation as well.

Then, if her response to you is boring, you can
pretend to sneeze!!! Just say “Ahhhhhhhhchoooo!
Oh man, I can’ t believe it, I think …I might be…
allergic to…."(Give her a mischievous smile!)

Also, another option, is when she said,
"I didn't know that," you could put on the
playful dominance and say, "Well, now that
you do, that will be 5 bucks for the free
advice, but since you are such a decent
conversationalist, I'll give you the special
for only 4 bucks!".

Then you can also TRANSITION from all this
into a greater and more serious CONNECTION:

“You know, life is so full of urgent things we
need to get done, that take TIME, but they
aren't really the IMPORTANT things, so laundry
is urgent, but it's not an "IMPORTANT" life goal,
it's IMPORTANT to make time for the things
you feel you MUST get out of life, you know
what I mean? "

At this point, she might fill the rest IN for you
and tell you about the TRULY IMPORTANT
things she wants to get done, which is a great
deeper conversation, and if she doesn't then
YOU can go onto describe the important things
that you feel are the real priorities in life.

And now you can go toward finding real bonding
things you share in common about priorities in life,
so when she gives you her number, she feels
VERY SOLID about doing so and wants you to
call her and continue this journey into discovering
who you are.

(By the way, man, I’m POSITIVE this is just you
needing to shake off the rust since you took the
Bootcamp over a year ago- you were great in
Bootcamp! You picked up a hot professor chick
at a vintage record store (talk about quality women!),
you got an email from a knockout blonde fitness
and health girl, and if I'm correct I think you hit
it off right away with executive type woman you
approached at the mall!



So don’t knock yourself out, you clearly have
gained the skills, you just need to get sharp
again!)

I think what I just wrote here should help shake off
the rust and get you back into your zone when you
get out there to approach again!!!

We’re almost out of time, but I had to share this
cool email that came in just the other day:

***LETTER FROM A READER***

Hi Michael,

I just want to let you know you have a terrific
approach that is far beyond what any of the
pickup artists teach. They teach men to
disrespect women and ruin their potential
for a positive, healthy relationship with the
right woman.

You teach men how to develop a relationship
with that right woman that is a product of two
healthy, mature-thinking adults, instead of
being all about sex, which is so rampant and
in-your-face in our society.

In addition to this, you teach men that it is
possible to actually be "the man" in a healthy way,
without being arrogant and trying to control
women, but asserting a natural male dominance
that real women actually love.

This is in such contrast to all the messages in
our society that try to stifle our natural,
testosterone-driven impulses, and you teach
us to channel those impulses into self improvement,
both inwardly and outwardly, to become the
"right" man for that "right" woman.

This kind of teaching is so helpful in so many areas
of life beyond just dating and relationships.

I have been enjoying and benefiting from your
wisdom, and I know that there are many men
out there who can be and are benefited by it as
well. I sincerely thank you for your much-needed
contributions.

Additionally, in one of your letters you talk about
visualizing your fear in order to become relaxed
about it and conquer it. That is a great concept,
and is confirmed by none other than Donald Trump.

In his classic book on negotiating, "Trump: The Art
of the Deal," he says: "It's been said that I believe
in the power of positive thinking. In fact, I believe
in the power of negative thinking. I happen to be
very conservative in business. I always go into
the deal anticipating the worst. If you plan for the
worst--if you can live with the worst--the good
will always take care of itself."

Keep up the good work,

John Paul

Washington, USA”

MY COMMENTS:

First of all, thank you for the kind words.

I actually did not know that about Trump,
but it's cool to see that he uses the same
psychological approach to success in
his own life. 

If you can mentally DEAL with even the worst
case scenario, you are NO LONGER haunted
by it, and you can NATURALLY become
confident because the negativity has been
mentally CONFRONTED and you've made
peace with that possibility.

Once you've done that, you start to get
BORED with the negativity, so you
start to GENUINELY become positive,
it's not something you are TRYING to do,
it's for REAL because the negativity has
been DRAINED and weakened immensely.

And this gives you massive confidence.
A woman can sense that if she does not treat
you well, you REALLY WILL WALK AWAY.

She can actually SENSE this kind of confidence
in your demeanor long before she ever even
TRIES this kind of thing, so she treats you better
of course as a result.

Remember, you are now TRULY thinking positive,
because you’ve DEALT with the negative, so now
your positive thinking isn’t a game or something
artificial, it’s GENUINLEY flowing from you.

That adds even MORE charisma to you.

And on top of THAT, when you are searching for
a QUALITY woman, that means you are searching
for a woman who has done all the SAME work on
herself, and she KNOWS how rare it is to find
a person, especially a MAN who has been willing
to develop himself so powerfully in this way.

You become the kind of man that she doesn’t
want to EVER let go of.

Again, this works on a hard-wired SURVIVAL
level that is primal and subconscious- she
feels that with SUCH man, things will be
“OK”, SHE WILL BE SAFE AND LIFE WILL
EVEN BE FUN AND SEXUAL AS WELL.

Basically, you are giving off the vibes of being
a MAN who can SURVIVE in the JUNGLE of LIFE.

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For now, tomorrow, and for always, BE THE MAN.

Michael Marks