Crucial Insights On Sexual Attraction That Women NEVER Reveal

There are two major areas about success
with women I want to reveal to you today:
One has to do with your "inner game", and
the other has to do with a key secret to
know about women in terms of getting
'physically intimate' with them.

When it comes to mastering "inner game"
in the area of attraction and women,
there is no greater ENEMY than FEAR.

Let’s start with the most obvious fear:
Fear of approaching women.

This fear prevents ALL good results, since the
chance for even creating attraction is “aborted”
before it can even be born.

But that is only the beginning of how fear
can destroy attraction.

For example, let’s say a guy HAS got a woman
interested in him, let’s say he DID make the
approach.

And now he is fearing NOT SEEMING COOL
ENOUGH.

So what does he do?

He OVERCOMPENSATES, trying EXTRA HARD
to be cool – doing things like ‘name-dropping’ –
mentioning names of people he thinks the girl
thinks are cool, and trying to show he is somehow
connected to them.

Or he does things like naming a bunch
of popular or trendy nightclubs that
he heard were "hard to get into", and
that he thinks the girl considers a
"hot spot" to go.

Or he does things like trying EXTRA HARD to
show he is NOT interested.

Or he figures that he is so for sure not cool that
his only choice is to compensate by being way
nicer than he really thinks anyone ought to be,
but is doing it anyway because he figures it’s
his only chance.

All this F-ING crap is a result of FEAR.
Women can TELL exactly what is going on,
and it's UNATTRACTIVE BEHAVIOR.

And still, this is just the BEGINNING.

Let’s say a guy has managed to AVOID
those fears, let’s say he has managed to
actually GET a woman really ATTRACTED,
and now he even has her as his GIRLFRIEND.

But now, he is AFRAID OF LOSING HER.

Or, he is afraid that some other guys out there
who might be richer, better looking, funnier,
wittier, or “more cool” in some way.

What will be his response to this FEAR that
he feels inside?

Very often, it will be the feeling of a NEED
to try to CONTROL her, to SUFFOCATE
HER INDEPENDENCE.

After all, if he can just somehow manage to
STOP her from being exposed to anyone
who might be “COOLER” he can then be
MORE ASSURED that she will STILL
WANT TO BE WITH HIM, RIGHT?

And yet, the OPPOSITE happens, because when
people feel CONTROLLED they suddenly DESIRE
all those things that are being “forbidden” way,
WAY more.

Trying to CONTROL a woman in any way, will
just make her MUCH WORSE, but she will probably
just make sure to be very careful to do it OUT OF SIGHT.

Now, the OPPOSITE of all this is ALSO true.

If you FIGHT THE FEAR, if you DON’T GIVE IN
TO IT, and for example, you DO approach the women,
and you DON’T overcompensate with acting “extra-cool”,
and you even go so far as to ENCOURAGE A WOMAN
to be “independent”, you tend to create the OPPOSITE
EFFECT- you tend to actually make the woman
WANT YOU WAY, WAY MORE.

Not only that, but you prevent DECEPTION, so that
she can be HONEST with you.

You also TAKE THE FUN OUT OF “CHEATING”
because the natural forces of temptation FEED OFF
OF RESTRICTION, but by ALLOWING her to be
free, there is none of that “CHEATING FUEL” CALLED
“RESTRICTION AND CONTROL”.

And guess what else?

By NOT giving into your fears, by NOT trying
to sound so cool, by NOT trying to control a
woman, by in fact ENCOURAGING her to
be independent, you end up SUBSCONSCIOUSLY
SHOWING THAT YOU ARE INDEED THE
PRIZE, BECAUSE 99% OF ALL OTHER MEN
WOULD GIVE INTO THE FEARS, SHOWING
THAT THEY ARE INFERIOR.

You show SUPERIOR VALUE by behaving
this way – and it’s all being registered in her
mind subconsciously, the only thing she IS
conscious of, is that she is ATTRACTED
to you.

In fact, one of the craziest things ever is that
if a woman you are in a relationship with ever
says something about leaving, you should
not try to hold her back (unless it’s obvious
you were being a JERK and this is her way
of asking you to change).

When you REMOVE CONTROL, there is
NOTHING left her to RESIST, so you take
a lot of the ENERGY AND DESIRE out of it.

Now, you know how to prevent a major
MISTAKE that most men make with women,
by trying to CONTROL women rather than
encouraging them to do whatever they want.

Now, let me reveal to you another MAJOR
secret, one that is DIRECTLY related to
getting 'physical' with women, that less
than 1% of men know about:

One of the greatest MISTAKES that
guys make when it comes to chatting
to a new woman is how to interpret
and respond to her comments about
female and male sexuality.

So, for example, a woman might say something
like "all men are dogs".

Or, even more powerful, a woman might say to
you, "men are more sexual than women", and
she may say this with a totally honest and
serious face.

You'd think for SURE she must MEAN it.

And yet, I can tell you, with 100% ACCURACY,
that she does NOT mean this at ALL.

So, it's no wonder that so many guys are facing
such huge obstacles in getting success with
women.

I'm going to "decode" to you what a woman
REALLY means in a statement such as
"men are more sexual than women".

What she REALLY means by this statement is
she is actually TESTING to see what your
response will be. She is TESTING to see
if you know what she REALLY means.

If you know what she REALLY means, and
you indicate that by your response, you are
now one MASSIVE step closer to being
with her.

If you DON'T know what she really means,
and you indicate you don't know by your
response, you are now one massive step
FURTHER AWAY from her.

When a woman says a statement such as
"men are more sexual than women" what
she is REALLY doing is repeating the
BULLSHIT of society's teachings to you,
to see if you KNOW that this is bullshit.

If you AGREE with her statement that "men
are more sexual than women", then you
have shown her that you are part of the
PATHETIC MASSES OF IGNORANT
MEN on this subject.

I know this is strong language, but it's the
truth, about how she will feel about you.

And, on the other hand, if you DISAGREE
with her statement, and you actually let
her know that women are just as sexual if
not more, then you have actually now
PROGRESSED to a higher level with
her and are actually way closer to getting
physical as well of course.

The reason for all this is that women have actually
been MISTREATED and MISUNDERSTOOD
for a long, LONG time.

Now, don't get me wrong, I also believe that
THESE DAYS especially, it's GOOD MEN
who are often being MISTREATED. And
it's GOOD MEN that are suffering from
not being "in the know" as to what's going
on as well. This is a big part of why I
do what I do, to help the good guys of
this world.

But all that does not take away from the
FACT that women have been MASSIVELY
misunderstood for a LOOOOOONG TIME,
and massively MISTREATED for a long
time.

One of the MAJOR ways, among MANY,
that women were mistreated and misunderstood
has to do with the way men perceived female
sexuality. For a long time, it was believed
that women only had sex with men for
MEN'S pleasure!!!!

That's CRAZY, but it's the TRUTH.
They didn't even know that women had orgasms!

Women who WERE "overly" sexual were seen
as evil, as "sluts", as somehow being "SICK"
or deviant or threatening in some way.

And the worst rung on the totem pole of society,
the lowest of status, was to be perceived as a "slut",
whereas in some cultures men were often hailed as
"studs" for being the exact same way.

Our knowledge of female sexuality was pathetic
until just very recently.

On top of that, you have the fact that women
weren't allowed to vote until recently, were
considered unable to do a lot of specific
mental tasks, and all of that has been shown
to be hogwash.

So, now, put yourself in the position of a woman
who KNOWS the TRUTH about all women, and
yet is living in a society where there are still a
lot of men who are not only ignorant about
women, but who also view her sexuality as
threatening or evil or who view women as
being somehow less than men in terms of
rights, etc.

So, if you were a woman, you would WANT
TO KNOW VERY BADLY the TRUTH about
the guy you were chatting to. You would want
to know if he IS or IS NOT the kind of guy that is
CONTROLLING, that is IGNORANT about
female sexuality, that would make her feel
good and accepted, a guy that already is
comfortable with her as she really is or not,etc.

So the way to do that is not to ASK HIM
directly, because first of all that might
frighten him and scare him off, or
second of all it might CLUE HIM IN
and allow him to FAKE the correct answer.

The best way for a woman to know what the
guy REALLY believes, what the guy REALLY
feels, is for her to PRETEND to be the version
of women that most MEN believe women are,
the version of women that men have been
brainwashed to believe by an ignorant
history and culture.

That way, if the guy DOES believe in all that
ignorance, and she is pretending to be all that
stuff, then he will not be threatened, and he
will accept her. But most of all, this tells
the woman that this guy is NOT cool.

Now, if the guy DISAGREES with her, then
she knows that FOR SURE this guy REALLY
BELIEVES it, he is clearly not arguing with
her to GAIN points, right????????? He
can only be arguing with her because he
REALLY BELIEVES in what he is saying.

So she NOW will know that this guy does
NOT believe in the hogwash lies about women
that have pervaded male society throughout
the years.

Pretty smart of women, huh?

But I'm not finished there, either.

It's not enough that he disagrees with her.
He can STILL be agreeing, and be better
than MOST guys, but he's still not in the
that special 1% zone, that is part of the
"INNER CIRCLE" that I will describe
more below.

He should actually be LAUGHING and be
TOTALLY relaxed even as he disagrees.

You want to know why?
It's because, if you are REALLY the guy
who knows all this stuff, this is GRADE
ONE LEVEL STUFF, super easy stuff
that you should know if you have had
any real experience with women.

Making a big deal about it means you
aren't yet really COMFORTABLE
with it all, it means you still feel
threatened by it. It means you don't
realize she is just giving you a quick
"routine" security check to make
sure you're not one of the many
ignorant men out there.

It should be something you understand,
and EXPECT and sympathize with.

She EXPECTS that you SHOULD know
this stuff if you have been successful
with women, since it's the only way
TO actually be successful with women.

All she is doing is screening you very quickly
by this, it's a COMMON thing for her to do to
screen guys, she HAS to do this, and the more
RELAXED you are when disagreeing with her
on this, the more she can tell that YOU are
ALREADY on the "INSIDE", part of the
"INNER CIRCLE".

So for example, you chuckle lightly, and say
"riiight, that's funny" and then you give her the
"wink" and you playfully say, "Sounds like
you've met the wrong guys then- such a shame!".

Get the picture here?

So, you want to know who's on the "inside"?
Who does this "inner circle" include?
It includes ALL WOMEN, and 1% of MEN.

If you make a big deal about the whole thing,
then even if you argue with her, it shows you
are still very NEW to the "inner circle".

It's much cooler if you've been here for a while.

So, the coolest thing to do is to view such a
"test" by a woman as actually her simply
sending you one half the code, and seeing
if you have the matching numbers on your
side. If you do, then you are in. If you
don't, then you're out.

It's as simple and easy as that, if you are
on the INSIDE.

If you're on the OUTSIDE, you'll never
know and can beat your head against the
wall forever trying to figure it out and
it still won't help.

And I promise you, as powerful as this
newsletter is, it's the TIP OF THE ICEBERG
of what you will find in my latest program
on attracting women. It's called "Warrior
Within" and it contains the attraction
insights that you MUST know if you want to
actually GET THE GIRL instead of just hoping
for it.

It's at:

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This is a very IN-DEPTH program on attracting
women of the highest quality, and I suggest
you get your hands on it IMMEDIATELY.

It's at:

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And if you haven't yet downloaded my eBook-
The Dating Wizard, then do that now at:

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This book is the place to start.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

P.S.
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The 7 Secrets To Approaching Women

Approaching women seems tough, but
it doesn't have to be. What I'm going to
do here is share the most important
7 SECRETS with you for approaching
women. Screwing these up are the 7
most common causes for not attracting
a woman upon approaching her.

So, here are the 7 most common devastating
mistakes, as well as the RIGHT things to
do instead.

1. NOT GETTING INTO "JUICY"
CONVERSATION EARLY ENOUGH

So, let's say you are already approaching
women and starting conversations, you
might notice that women will just be
polite.

You aren't seeing their eyes light up.

Keep in mind that this woman has no idea
who you are, she has no idea that you have
gone through a lot in this life, that you are
not only a good person, but a pretty cool
person as well. She knows NOTHING
about you.

And you can't start listing your resume there.
So the ONLY thing SHE can judge you on here
is the conversation she's having with you and
how it FEELS to her.

So, you have to get her into "FEELING" state
pretty darn fast.

Now, you do NOT want to overcompensate
with becoming a CLOWN or PERFORMER.
You should start the conversation with something
low-key, like if you were at a card store and you
were commenting on the choice of card she is
holding, i.e. a father's day card, and telling her
she must have a close relationship with her dad
to buy such a card, etc.

THEN however you want to UP the ante pretty
fast, to BUILD from there. You want to get
her FEELING damn good. So you might go
from there into something that is either very
INTERESTING, or something is very funny,
or something that truly raises her self-esteem
and makes her feel better about herself, you
can CHOOSE whatever fits best for your
personality.

So, for example, giving the example of the
woman at the card store, you can go humorous
by telling her that she's just trying to butter
up her dad so he can buy her a Jaguar, or
you can go into the "intriguing" and genuinely
meaningful compliment that raises her self-esteem
by speaking about how girls who get along well
with their dads tend to be the girls who have less
drama issues- and this would PROMPT a
response from her that was a lot more involved
on her part- it wouldn't just be her trying to
get rid of you, since now she is actually engaged
in something meaningful to her.

Also, you could COMBINE the above, and go
from humorous/funny, to the more serious and
intriguing and raising self-esteem style conversation.
COMBINING emotions is actually a VERY
powerful thing, - imagine if you get a woman
laughing, then feeling intrigued, and then feeling
better about herself, all within a span of just
a few MINUTES. You are going to be
MEMORABLE. You are going to be the
guy she wants to CALL, and all the other
guys that just ogled her or said trivial stuff
to her will not even be REMEMBERED.

If you aren't getting the conversation into
the right EMOTIONAL ZONE very
QUICKLY, it's no surprise that your
interactions aren't amounting to any
results.

2. TOO MUCH PICK UP ARTIST
"PLAY HARD TO GET" BEHAVIOR

This is a huge one. Most guys are trying
so hard to show they are not interested,
because they are told by the "dating gurus"
and pick up artists that this will make the
woman more interested- so the guys end
up standing way too far from the women,
and talking from too much of a distance,
and the guys try to also avoid ANY type
of comment that might sound like they
are interested.

The truth is that although you shouldn't
give compliments for the sake of compliments,
you SHOULD reward a woman for the things
that she really EARNED.

The KEYWORD here though is EARNED.
If you give compliments or if you seek
rapport for things she didn't EARN,
you are behaving as an underling,
a needy desperate guy.

HOWEVER, once she has EARNED it,
it's an entirely different matter.

So if she is telling you things that you really
find worthy of respect or interest, well then
you actually MUST show and tell her this,
because it is actually a way of letting her know
that she stands OUT from the rest, that she is
NOT just another woman, that you are NOT
just looking at her from a superficial point
of view.

3. INSENSITIVITY TO THE EMOTIONAL
VIBE OF THE SITUATION

This is something that is a MAJOR factor
in screwing up attraction.

This often stems from not being present
in the moment, and being too caught up
in trying to achieve a certain outcome.
This pressure to achieve a certain outcome
is like a constant ALARM blaring in your
ear that prevents you from actually listening
properly and from FEELING what a woman
is actually feeling and trying to convey to you.

A lot of communication, in fact most of it,
is not in the words themselves, so if you are
ONLY listening to a woman's words, then
you are often missing the point.

Here's a helpful hint- most of the time,
a woman is just trying to feel good, like
all humans do. So rather than focusing
on how you can show off how smart
you are, instead think about how you
can be CREATING A GOOD VIBE.

If she is talking about something a bit sad,
i.e. some tragedy or war, then don't show
off how much you know about that issue,
rather you should create RAPPORT to make
her feel understood, and then gently LEAD
the conversation to somewhere more
POSITIVE.

Look for the bright side of things, and
the reality is that if not for negative things,
there would BE no positive side, so if the
conversation is not going down the right
track, it's just another OPPORTUNITY
for you to create AWESOME emotions
where they didn't exist before, and that
makes you even cooler than every
other guy who couldn't do that.

A woman will not remember the details of
the conversation, she will only remember
how she FELT during it. So make it feel
GOOD.

Listen when she is speaking, listen for what
is the EMOTIONAL crux of what she is
saying, don't just be thinking of how you
can be the most cool guy to show how
you can give the most clever response.
The most clever response is the response
that simply FEELS good. You'll get
farther by NOT showing off then you
would by showing how clever and
"cool" you are. Don't put yourself
down of course, just don't make it
all about YOU. And that's how
she will remember YOU.

4. NOT PROGRESSING THE INTERACTION

An interaction has natural stages,
you start off low key, you build
up steam and connect to each other,
and then you have to get her contact
info.

Out of fear, most guys will just stay
in whatever stage they are in, because
it feels good to not be rejected- however,
if you don't PROGRESS the interaction
to getting her number, and from getting
her number, to getting the date, to
getting physical, to relationship, etc,
etc, then what is the point?

So often, guys will open up a conversation
with something low key, and the women
will be receptive, but then the guys
STAY in that zone the entire time
because it feels good to get that
validation and they don't want to risk
LOSING that sense of validation.

Which brings me to the motto:
"He who dares, wins."

So MOVE THE INTERACTION
FORWARD.

5. NOT BEING FLIRTATIOUS

If you are trying to meet a woman, then it's
CRUCIAL that she understands that there is
a sexual tension to the interaction.

So, the key to being more flirty and sexual
is being more PLAYFUL in your interaction,
combined with having a bit of a mischievous
glint in your eye.

6. OVERCOMPENSATING INSECURITIES

This is a HUGE one. We all fear not being
accepted, because of whatever it is we are
insecure about. So what do we do? We
OVERCOMPENSATE for that insecurity,
and we don't even realize it. It usually
comes across as either being insecure
or what is worse, as being a JERK.

If you start a conversation by trying to
protect yourself against your fear, usually
it will work AGAINST you.

So, for example, let's say you are insecure
about how much money you earn. Well,
if you very early in a conversation said
something like "superficial things are so
over-rated, I would never be caught working
for a big corporation". If you're bald, if
you're short, if you're ANYTHING you
are insecure about- the reality is that it's
NOT an issue but if you START with
"hi, my name is Mac, would you date
a short guy?" then you clearly are showing
that this is a major obsession or fear.

Same with "Hi, I work for minimum wage,
but I LOVE my job" that also shows that
you are obsessed with the money issue since
it's the first thing you brought up.

Just be comfortable in your own skin, and
don't bring up the issue at all. There's
a lot more to you than you think, a lot
more to you than the things you are
insecure about.

This rule also applies for not trying to
explain anything about yourself or situation
that you think is not cool- so if you are renting
a car because your regular better car is at the
shop, don't say "this is just a rental- I have
a better car" just DON'T BRING IT UP,
otherwise it comes across as you feeling
inferior worth compared to what you
feel her worth is.

And when YOU feel your worth is low,
that is the ultimate litmus test to a woman
of your worth. YOU are the one who
has to know what you're worth. If you
don't feel it, how can she?

7. REVEALING TOO MUCH ABOUT
YOURSELF TOO EARLY

Now, the problem with this is that it is
the behavior of someone who feels that
he is going to get rejected.

So, if you just approached a woman, don't
start telling her within 30 seconds "man,
I'm so tired, I just got in from LA" or
"I'm so tired, I was up all night with
my agent on the phone closing a deal"
etc, etc.

It's OBVIOUS to her that you are throwing
around the words "LA" "AGENT" "closing
the deal", etc.

Well, those are 7 SUPER IMPORTANT
tips that you can now go out and apply
IMMEDIATELY, and you will notice
a MASSIVE difference, TODAY.

And yet, this cool info you just learned
is the proverbial TIP of the ICEBERG
of the REST of what I would love to
show you!

If you want to be KING when it comes to
attracting the most fantastic quality women,
consider learning LIVE in person, at my
Real World Bootcamp at:

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Right now is a FANTASTIC time to sign up,
as summer has even MORE women out there
in the good weather! Of course, you can
meet women all year round, but summer
is even more fun!

To find out about ALL my programs
to help you meet and attract the
woman of your dreams, go here:

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Learn To Attract Women By SEEING It LIVE

If you've been following my materials
and programs, you already know that
I only teach you the BEST strategies
for attracting the kind of women
that make most men MELT.

Well, there's only one thing even
better than learning from my materials
and programs- and that's learning
IN PERSON, seeing it all happen
FOR REAL in front of you, as
you actually LEARN TO APPROACH
AND ATTRACT WOMEN IN REAL TIME
with me, in my "Real World BOOTCAMP"
program.

Learning through EXPERIENCING it all
FIRST-HAND helps you learn at the
FASTEST speed.

This is because I am right there with you,
and can instantly correct any errors you
are making in the approaches to the women
you want.

Much like a driving instructor, I am right
by your side so that you are NEVER "guessing"
or "left to figure it out on your own".

You are in the hands of someone who has
over EIGHT YEARS EXPERIENCE teaching men
how to approach women, ignite attraction,
and form a deep connection.

I've been doing this on my OWN for well
over ten years, but I've been TEACHING
men in BOOTCAMPS for over EIGHT YEARS.

That's eight years of making sure that
men get the ULTIMATE EDGE in attracting
the women they want.

My bootcamp work has been documented by
the media, and so have the results that
the men achieve from my live training.

I want to make one thing perfectly clear:
The field of human self-improvement is
truly about getting the EDGE.

When a great sprinter shaves off a
MILLISECOND from his race, that's
often the difference between
GOLD and NOTHING.

When a weightlifter adds 1 kilogram to his
lift, THAT is often the difference between
GOLD and NOTHING.

In science, sometimes DECADES go by, until
ONE last piece of research comes in, and
CHANGES everything. The light bulb was
USELESS, even though 99% of it was already
invented, until someone came up with the
LAST STEP.

My point is this: BOOTCAMP is not someplace
where I'm going to tell you the obvious
things that you already know.

BOOTCAMP is the place where you are going
to gain the EDGE.

And just like a great athlete TRAINS like
crazy to get that BIT of an edge, which
makes ALL the difference in the world
in his RESULTS, so too, the DIFFERENCE
between YOU and every OTHER guy only
needs to be SLIGHT, for you to WIN
with the women you want and for
the other guys to come in LAST.

BUT!

And this is the BIG BUT!

It WILL take INTENSE training.
You will have a lot of FUN, but it will
also be INTENSE.

This is not for guys who just want
to be passive.

Come to bootcamp, and I will make sure
you graduate with that EDGE on attracting
women, that most other men NEVER develop.

To find out more, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/realworld.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

P.S. To find out about all my programs
for getting a fantastic woman, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Best,

Michael Marks

"Tiramisu" Secrets To Pick-Up Women

I have a secret to picking up women
successfully, and it's called TIRAMISU.

Yeah, I know what you're thinking-
"Tiramisu? Isn't that a delicious PASTRY???"

You'll see what I mean as we go along.

Today I want to give you a whole new PARADIGM
on the whole topic of PICKING UP WOMEN!

You see, the term 'pick-up' isn't my favorite
term because it has been so misused and warped,
and it also reduces the experience to something
as trivial as picking up a bar of soap.

I instead prefer to think of the term 'pick-up'
in a very DIFFERENT way:

Pick UP, or rather RAISE UP, ELEVATE the
EMOTIONS, the VIBE!

Turn the interaction into a mutual 'pick me up',
kind of like a great TIRAMISU!



In fact, that's what TIRAMISU means- 'pick me up'!
It's recipe is designed to make you FEEL elevated.

A lot of guys think that nice guys finish last.

The problem is that YES, if a guy is "nice" from a
place of NEEDINESS, he will finish last.

This is because at the end of the day, if the
'nice' behaviors are coming from NEEDINESS,
they really aren't nice at all, they're
actually DRAINING, they are "DRAG ME DOWN",
not a "PICK ME UP".

And "Drag Me Down" isn't NICE!
It's MEAN in fact!

Yes, women can ABSOLUTELY tell the difference
IMMEDIATELY in whether your "nice" behavior
to her is from NEEDINESS or from your sense
of ABUNDANCE!

The needy kind of niceness makes a woman
feel PRESSURE, makes a woman feel that
there is something probably "wrong" with
this "deal" of niceness, etc.

Now of course, this doesn't mean to be
a jerk, either.

Instead, I want you to go TIRAMISU on women!
Be a REAL 'pick me UP'!

Make the experience of the interaction
with you even more of a "pick me up"
than this delicious commodity!



Behave with her as if you already have
EVERYTHING you could DREAM of and you
simply ENJOY sharing that FEELING of
abundance with her, you don't want
to HOARD that feeling, you want to
GIVE IT!

What's really wacky is that a lot of the
PICK UP ARTIST games involve ways of
SUBTLY putting a woman DOWN, to LOWER
her self-esteem!

THIS IS THE OPPOSITE of what you want to do,
and this "putting her down" is the reason
that pick up artist style interactions
do NOT lead to getting fantastic interactions
with women that result in real girlfriends!

A lot of the pick up artist style behavior
is more like picking **ON** women, not picking
UP women!

YUCK!
It's just another form of BULLYING.
And hey, I get it, I was hurt by the
wrong women too.

But this bully stuff is just a waste of
energy, instead it's SOOO much better to
move on from the wrong woman and just get
SUCCESS with other women!

Women of course DO want to be treated well,
but it has to be by someone who is a STRONG man.
I don't mean with huge muscles, although working
out is always nice, I mean that he is STRONG in
the sense of not NEEDING her, BUT WHO STILL
ENJOYS HIMSELF AND ENJOYS HER COMPANY AND
IS PASSIONATE ABOUT LOTS OF THINGS!

He has built a SECURE identity, has a secure
sense of humor, and he can LEAD the show
in the interaction with a woman.

And since so many guys are NOT this way, the
JERKS often win by DEFAULT simply because
jerks have no apology, they lead the show, go
for what they want, and don't seem needy at all,
and have a life of their own. Yet none of these
things are jerky--it's only the ABUSE that's
wrong, it's not the JERKY stuff they do that's
attractive, it's the MANLY stuff they do that's
attractive, and you can do that AND be a good
guy and do better with women than any jerk.

So let's say you are taking a walk and reach
a stoplight and the light is red and there is
a woman you'd like to talk to standing there
near you. The longer you WAIT to say something
the WEAKER you seem because it becomes
obvious after 30 seconds of silence that you
were THINKING of the perfect opener, and
that means you were making a BIG DEAL
about the fact she is there. Why is she
such a big deal relative to who YOU ARE?

Making a big deal about a woman might SEEM
to be nice, but it's not, what it really is doing
is making YOU seem to be LESS than her,
so what is so nice about telling a woman she
should be with a guy who is LESS worthy
than SHE is???

Wouldn't it be NICER to be the guy who is
JUST as desirable if not MORE, who is
STILL interested in her? Wouldn't that make
her feel BETTER, THAT SHE IS GETTING
SOMETHING out of this too?

So, by starting the conversation RIGHT AWAY,
you are showing MORE VALUE about yourself,
more confidence in yourself, and this makes HER
feel better, as everyone wants MORE value in their
life, not less. You don't want a woman to be
NICE to you, you want her to WANT you.

You don't want her to have SYMPATHY, you
want her to feel ATTRACTION. So by relying
on being "nice" and submissive and coming across
as unworthy, you are relying on her SYMPATHY.
When you are coming across as VALUABLE,
you are triggering ATTRACTION.

So let's go through some common ways of
showing MORE value:

THE WAY TO BE PLAYFUL

So let's go back to the example of the woman
at the traffic light standing beside you.

You already know that you have to say something
right away, right?

And you know that kissing up is not cool either.

And you know that showing an awesome state
of mind is very cool.

So whatever the situation is, there is a way to
respond that is very cool.

Let's say it's raining LIGHTLY, and you have
an umbrella and she doesn't. You could in a
PLAYFUL way say to her "poor you, I feel so
bad for you, but not THAT bad to give you my
umbrella!".

THE RIGHT INTENT IN YOUR VOICE

If this is said with the right INTENT in your
voice, she will LAUGH because it's funny,
but she will also see that you are a cool guy
that is not NEEDING her so badly like
every OTHER guy. This is a sign of
STRENGTH, it's simply ATTRACTIVE.

This doesn't mean that later on when dating
her that you should not show her that you like
her- that's where a lot of guys make mistakes,
they don't realize that getting to know a
woman and the way you interact with her
is an evolving thing, it's not always the
same thing. And rewarding good behavior
is not the same as kissing up.

Let's say it's not raining, but you are both
waiting for the light. You can tease her
that she is JINXING the light to stay red
and not turn and that it must be her fault
because you are always at that light
and it never takes this long.

CONTINUE THE CONVERSATION
BY USING HER OWN RESPONSE
AS YOUR FUEL FOR YOUR RESPONSE!

And no matter what she says back to you,
you USE what she says as FUEL for
responding BACK to her, like a ping-pong
game. So if she says "How could I be
jinxing the light?? Why would I do that?"

You can then playfully respond with:
"Oh of course, the cover-up, you're an
EXPERT at this, with an alibi and totally
looking innocent and everything!"

INCORPORATE PLAYFUL ROLE PLAYING

She might then say something like
"haha" and then you use THAT by
saying "Don't think that laughing will
get you off the hook! You're like
a super villain here, using your
psychic powers or whatever to
control the traffic lights!"

SHIFT INTO A "REAL" CONVERSATION

Another thing is that you have to know when
to SHIFT GEARS. Too often, if a guy GETS
to the point that the girl is laughing and having
a good time, he doesn't want to STOP doing
the playful stuff, but it's important to MOVE
the interaction AHEAD into the zone of
actually having a conversation where you
both share real opinions, perspectives, etc.

Otherwise, she will feel she never got to know
you at all, and that you are ONLY playful,
and perhaps don't have a "deeper" side to you.

So, again using this example, as the light changes,
and you are both crossing the street, you can
shift gears into more rapport and you can
playfully transition by asking her if she
works in the area and makes a ton of money
so she can take you out to fancy places, etc.

She can then tell you a bit about what she does,
whether she is in school and what she's studying,
or whether she works and what she does or
wants to do in the future as her job.

And this is where you must be 'picking up'
ON what she is saying!

Next time you think of the word pick up,
think of picking UP the vibes and mood,
and think of picking up ON what she is
saying- all this will lead to a successful
PICK UP!

If you are listening well, you can then tell what
she is passionate about, i.e. teaching children,
and if you share any of her passions, or anything
related, i.e. let's say you work with children,
or let's say you respect great teachers,
you can then have a meaningful conversation,
plus you can chat about your passions, etc.

DON'T SHOW OFF

So many guys though make the mistake of talking
about themselves in a way that shows they are
VERY insecure. For example, as soon as the
woman asks what the guy does, the guy goes
on a whole serious long answer about his
job in a way where he thinks he is being
subtle about how cool or rich or prestigious
or smart he is, and it's obvious what he's
doing, and it looks insecure.

Instead, it's better to talk about the REASONS
you love what you do. And if you don't
love what you do, then focus your convo
on something else. Also, it's always a
fun and playful and cool thing to first
answer the question to what do you do
with something outrageous, simply
because it shows you are not a slave
to that question and that you don't
take yourself so seriously.

So your first answer to what you do could be
something like "I jump out of cakes
at birthday parties" or "you work at
Disneyland as the big bad wolf" etc.

Once you are having a real conversation
and you are in rapport with her, from THERE,
you can take her number or email or sometimes
even go straight for the INSTANT date right then
and there if there is a coffee shop, just tell her
this is a good convo and that you should
both continue it over a coffee! It's all up
to YOU, it's YOUR JOB as the MAN
and she EXPECTS you to do your job,
and the worst is that she declines, perhaps
because she is really busy and late for
work, and in that case you can still take her
number or email and contact her later.

THE RIGHT INTENT

The key is for you to be having the right
INTENT, and that is that you are not being
a jerk, you are simply being a MAN who
is in FULL control of his emotions around
a woman who is attractive and you are not
about to hand over your dignity and life and
emotional stability over to a woman just
because she is there.

FOCUS ON THE MOMENT RATHER
THAN THE OUTCOME

Rather, you ENJOY the fact she is there, and
you ENJOY the moment with her, but you are
not WORRYING about her response-
that's NOT up to you, and you have
learned not to fear WOMEN'S reactions.

You must not be outcome dependent- rather
you must focus on how to enjoy that MOMENT.

It's not about showing her "who's boss" and
it's not about kissing up to her, it's about
you CONVEYING to her that you are in
a great state. And since most guys are in
a terrible state since she is so beautiful
that it makes them uncomfortable, it's
PARTICULARLY cool if you show
her that not only are you in a great state,
but also that you aren't NEEDY for her,
and yet you still may LIKE her all at
the same time.

CONTROLLING THE FRAME

Sometimes a woman will try to SHUT DOWN
your pick-up. This doesn't mean she hates you
or is mean or anything. Some women simply
feel it's their job to be a "good girl" by trying
to make it hard for you to get with her.

Embrace this fact, don't get pissed off about it,
but don't ACCEPT her frame either.

So on one hand, don't get pissed since
getting pissed off about it is EXACTLY
the reaction she has been told is the kind
of guy that just wants to take advantage of her.
So she will feel that you are fitting the stereotype
of a jerk, and feel that she did the right thing.

She expects you to UNDERSTAND that she
needs to act hard to get to be considered a
good girl, good woman, etc.

But at the same time, you can't accept what she
says either or you won't get anywhere, so if she
says something to you during the chat like "I'm really
busy with work, school, etc, I don't have time
to meet guys" don't say "ok".

Instead, PLAYFULLY REFRAME her statement
as a reason for why she SHOULD be chatting with
you.

Tell her "Well then since you're so busy, clearly
you need a HEALTHY BREAK to be even
MORE productive. And what can be better than
chatting to a super cool guy like myself?"

Not only are you controlling the frame of the situation,
but you are also getting her laughing by this, changing
her internal state to make her even more receptive
to you.

If she says "My friends would kill me if they
found out I gave number to a guy on the
bus/streetcar/intersection (or whatever else)!"
You can then say "Well, then, all the more
reason to do it! You get to be the NAUGHTY
one who does whatever she wants, and it will
be our seeeecret shhhhhhhhhhhhhh!"

This is TIRAMISU PICK UP!

And so by starting the conversation RIGHT
AWAY, by looking for the playful angle,
by not kissing up, by not being outcome
dependent, and following all the OTHER
tips above, you are massively increasing
the odds that you are going to GET the
girl.

If you notice, NOTHING mentioned above
has ANYTHING to do with being A JERK.

It has to do with CONVEYING WHO
YOU ARE, and what you are conveying
with these tips is that you are secure,
you are strong, you are fun to be with,
you are witty, you are not needy, and
that you are masculine.

NONE of these things are jerky or "fake".

However, we don't always FEEL all those
cool things, and we don't always know the
best way to CONVEY those things about
ourselves.

But what if there was a way to understand ourselves,
to understand the STRUCTURE of all emotions,
and to understand WOMEN and the PHASES
of the pick-up, so that you could CONSISTENTLY
be READY to take advantage of all the opportunities
to meet women all around you?

What if there was also a way to know what to do
BEYOND the pick-up, to KEEP a woman attracted?

Well now there is a way, and you can get the most
advanced level in my WARRIOR WITHIN program, that
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the world.

This program is the most ADVANCED program on
becoming the kind of man that doesn't only
pick up women, but picks women UP in the
GREATER sense of the word as well, tiramisu
style, so that they want to KEEP ON being
with you.

It's at:

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And if you haven't yet downloaded my book,
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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Listen To This LIVE Demonstration Of EXACTLY How To Approach A Woman!

Today, I have a really special set-up
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I will also even show you the EASY-TO-USE
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In fact, you'll even get to hear EXACTLY
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In order to do this, you're going to
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I'll see you there :)

Cheers,

Michael Marks

The Magic Of Making Women Laugh

There is a very good reason why so many attractive
women want a man who has a great sense of humor-
it's because humor is probably the closest thing to
healthy "drugs".

The reality is that laughter IS a drug, in many ways.
It releases DOPAMINE, and this chemical simply
feels GREAT. It gives you a natural high.

So it's a great power to be able to make a woman feel this.

The first thing you want to be doing to skyrocket
your power in this area is to stop CENSORING
your thoughts.  Most of the time, we CENSOR
our own thoughts because we think they might
NOT be funny, and we don't want to get rejected.

It's counter-intuitive, but this actually ends up
getting us LESS results, and taking the RISK
gets you MORE results.  Trying to play it
totally safe in your interactions suggests that
you are lacking confidence, self-worth, and
in fact kissing up. Screwing up in the name
of comedy actually is much cooler than
playing it boring, as it at least breaks the
tension!

If you're in line and when it finally gets your
turn, and the female clerk says "Hello, how
are you today?" , for example, you can playfully
say "Awwwwww that sounds so rehearsed,
let's do that again, with feeling!"  This is
even funnier if she DID say it properly the
first time!

In my latest CD, I interviewed a fantastic comedian,
Arie Kizel, known as "the thinking man's comic", and
we have an HOUR'S worth of great advice for
gaining the power of triggering laughter in women.

A cool analogy of looking at life in an alternative
way, instead of looking at yourself or at things in
a regular mirror, think of how those crazy mirrors
at theme parks are still reflecting an image back,
but it's totally different, it's giving you a different
perspective on the same things.

Here's one important tip for creating laughter:
Realize that it's almost always about a massive
indication of superiority ------ HOWEVER,
it doesn't have to be mean-spirited to anyone
either, when done brilliantly.

For example, in the fantastic "Threw It To The Ground"
clip above, the guy is trying to show how TOUGH and
how COOL he is, but the problem is that he thinks
EVERYONE is out to get him, in fact he seems to think
ONLY the most INNOCENT things and people are
out to get him, THIS is what makes the whole thing funny.

The fact he seems really CONGRUENT is
what makes it work as well. He looks ANGRY.
He uses the same LANGUAGE as "tough guys",
but yet he is TOTALLY OFF BASE with the
things that TRIGGER his "tough guy" reaction.

And it's THIS, that makes the viewer/listener feel
SUPERIOR to such a degree, that we NATURALLY
express this great emotion through LAUGHTER.

The best kind of laughter is not nervous laughter,
it's the "FEELING GOOD" kind of laughter.

So, in the clip above, we are actually feeling a bit
SORRY for this guy, and we also are realizing
that acting so tough is not cool, is not smart, and
that in fact we may be far cooler than we realize,
it makes us feel GOOD.

And remember, it's about the CHARACTER,
i.e. the perspective within the given comedy.

If you were to actually meet Andy Samberg,
the guy playing the character, you wouldn't
think he is REALLY like this in real life,
you would just think this guy has a great
sense of humor.

A second quick tip for comedy is that you must
deliver your message CONGRUENTLY, you
must be CONSISTENT with what you are saying.

It wouldn't work, for example, if in the clip above,
if the "tough guy" started to laugh at himself, he has
to actually PLAY the character convincingly within
the reality of the comedy.

He gets upset and he "stands up for himself" in his
own mind, even when he thinks his "so called girlfriend"
is trying to fool himself that the cell phone is his dad,
or even when the little KID offers him birthday cake,
he thinks everyone is out to get him, and he ALSO
thinks he has "outsmarted" them all, that he is ON
to their "tricks"!   

Too many guys try to pretend they are so perfect,
that they are afraid to take a risk being funny, they
are afraid of what will happen if the woman doesn't
find what they said to be funny.

And of course, this attitude of trying to be perfect
shuts down your creativity.

Don't be afraid to make mistakes, get it said
rather than get it said perfectly.

Fear of not saying something perfectly is giving
in to INSECURITY.  And that will only feed
MORE insecurity, and that will prevent you
from saying ANYTHING funny.

Take a "comedy risk", go for it. You have
to look at things from new angles, exaggerate
things, question things - and you MUST
make sure it's something you YOURSELF
find funny, or it won't work.  You have to be
CONGRUENT to what you are saying.

Notice, how in the following clip, Robin Williams
looks at "Viagra" from a creative and exaggerated
perspective, yet it's all CONGRUENT, it doesn't
seem like a "joke" to his character.

Within the reality of his character's comedy perspective,
he's totally consistent with it.  This is an important
element of comedy, not to laugh at your own humor,
but to take it very seriously.  That's part of what
MAKES it funny:



So, life is serious enough, let's add to both our own lives
and to women's lives, by seeing the "funny mirror" perspective
rather than always looking at things from the exact same
perspective that everyone else always does.  Start to
QUESTION things in a way that actually makes
people laugh, rather than questioning everything in
a negative way.

And if you want to stay in touch with ALL the latest ways of
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Till next time,

Michael Marks