The KEYS To Attracting Women

Today, there’s an extremely important
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attracting women. It covers details for
the actual approach, for igniting attraction,
for overcoming insecurity and jealousy,
and for learning how to never run out of
things to say when you start a conversation
with a woman!

This video ALSO covers fantastic strategies
for improving your sense of confident
humor as well as for learning how to
give off the right “vibe” to a woman.

PLUS, it even includes great new tips on
developing a powerful CONNECTION with a
woman, in a totally authentic way.

This video is pure GOLD, and you can check
it out right now!



To learn MORE about the attraction strategies
from this video, check out these links below,
which provide the FULL picture behind the
specifics discussed in the above video:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/obliterating.html

http://getagreatgirl.com/attraction-accelerators.html

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/confident-humor.html

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/boomerang.html

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Crucial Insights On Sexual Attraction That Women NEVER Reveal

There are two major areas about success
with women I want to reveal to you today:
One has to do with your "inner game", and
the other has to do with a key secret to
know about women in terms of getting
'physically intimate' with them.

When it comes to mastering "inner game"
in the area of attraction and women,
there is no greater ENEMY than FEAR.

Let’s start with the most obvious fear:
Fear of approaching women.

This fear prevents ALL good results, since the
chance for even creating attraction is “aborted”
before it can even be born.

But that is only the beginning of how fear
can destroy attraction.

For example, let’s say a guy HAS got a woman
interested in him, let’s say he DID make the
approach.

And now he is fearing NOT SEEMING COOL
ENOUGH.

So what does he do?

He OVERCOMPENSATES, trying EXTRA HARD
to be cool – doing things like ‘name-dropping’ –
mentioning names of people he thinks the girl
thinks are cool, and trying to show he is somehow
connected to them.

Or he does things like naming a bunch
of popular or trendy nightclubs that
he heard were "hard to get into", and
that he thinks the girl considers a
"hot spot" to go.

Or he does things like trying EXTRA HARD to
show he is NOT interested.

Or he figures that he is so for sure not cool that
his only choice is to compensate by being way
nicer than he really thinks anyone ought to be,
but is doing it anyway because he figures it’s
his only chance.

All this F-ING crap is a result of FEAR.
Women can TELL exactly what is going on,
and it's UNATTRACTIVE BEHAVIOR.

And still, this is just the BEGINNING.

Let’s say a guy has managed to AVOID
those fears, let’s say he has managed to
actually GET a woman really ATTRACTED,
and now he even has her as his GIRLFRIEND.

But now, he is AFRAID OF LOSING HER.

Or, he is afraid that some other guys out there
who might be richer, better looking, funnier,
wittier, or “more cool” in some way.

What will be his response to this FEAR that
he feels inside?

Very often, it will be the feeling of a NEED
to try to CONTROL her, to SUFFOCATE
HER INDEPENDENCE.

After all, if he can just somehow manage to
STOP her from being exposed to anyone
who might be “COOLER” he can then be
MORE ASSURED that she will STILL
WANT TO BE WITH HIM, RIGHT?

And yet, the OPPOSITE happens, because when
people feel CONTROLLED they suddenly DESIRE
all those things that are being “forbidden” way,
WAY more.

Trying to CONTROL a woman in any way, will
just make her MUCH WORSE, but she will probably
just make sure to be very careful to do it OUT OF SIGHT.

Now, the OPPOSITE of all this is ALSO true.

If you FIGHT THE FEAR, if you DON’T GIVE IN
TO IT, and for example, you DO approach the women,
and you DON’T overcompensate with acting “extra-cool”,
and you even go so far as to ENCOURAGE A WOMAN
to be “independent”, you tend to create the OPPOSITE
EFFECT- you tend to actually make the woman
WANT YOU WAY, WAY MORE.

Not only that, but you prevent DECEPTION, so that
she can be HONEST with you.

You also TAKE THE FUN OUT OF “CHEATING”
because the natural forces of temptation FEED OFF
OF RESTRICTION, but by ALLOWING her to be
free, there is none of that “CHEATING FUEL” CALLED
“RESTRICTION AND CONTROL”.

And guess what else?

By NOT giving into your fears, by NOT trying
to sound so cool, by NOT trying to control a
woman, by in fact ENCOURAGING her to
be independent, you end up SUBSCONSCIOUSLY
SHOWING THAT YOU ARE INDEED THE
PRIZE, BECAUSE 99% OF ALL OTHER MEN
WOULD GIVE INTO THE FEARS, SHOWING
THAT THEY ARE INFERIOR.

You show SUPERIOR VALUE by behaving
this way – and it’s all being registered in her
mind subconsciously, the only thing she IS
conscious of, is that she is ATTRACTED
to you.

In fact, one of the craziest things ever is that
if a woman you are in a relationship with ever
says something about leaving, you should
not try to hold her back (unless it’s obvious
you were being a JERK and this is her way
of asking you to change).

When you REMOVE CONTROL, there is
NOTHING left her to RESIST, so you take
a lot of the ENERGY AND DESIRE out of it.

Now, you know how to prevent a major
MISTAKE that most men make with women,
by trying to CONTROL women rather than
encouraging them to do whatever they want.

Now, let me reveal to you another MAJOR
secret, one that is DIRECTLY related to
getting 'physical' with women, that less
than 1% of men know about:

One of the greatest MISTAKES that
guys make when it comes to chatting
to a new woman is how to interpret
and respond to her comments about
female and male sexuality.

So, for example, a woman might say something
like "all men are dogs".

Or, even more powerful, a woman might say to
you, "men are more sexual than women", and
she may say this with a totally honest and
serious face.

You'd think for SURE she must MEAN it.

And yet, I can tell you, with 100% ACCURACY,
that she does NOT mean this at ALL.

So, it's no wonder that so many guys are facing
such huge obstacles in getting success with
women.

I'm going to "decode" to you what a woman
REALLY means in a statement such as
"men are more sexual than women".

What she REALLY means by this statement is
she is actually TESTING to see what your
response will be. She is TESTING to see
if you know what she REALLY means.

If you know what she REALLY means, and
you indicate that by your response, you are
now one MASSIVE step closer to being
with her.

If you DON'T know what she really means,
and you indicate you don't know by your
response, you are now one massive step
FURTHER AWAY from her.

When a woman says a statement such as
"men are more sexual than women" what
she is REALLY doing is repeating the
BULLSHIT of society's teachings to you,
to see if you KNOW that this is bullshit.

If you AGREE with her statement that "men
are more sexual than women", then you
have shown her that you are part of the
PATHETIC MASSES OF IGNORANT
MEN on this subject.

I know this is strong language, but it's the
truth, about how she will feel about you.

And, on the other hand, if you DISAGREE
with her statement, and you actually let
her know that women are just as sexual if
not more, then you have actually now
PROGRESSED to a higher level with
her and are actually way closer to getting
physical as well of course.

The reason for all this is that women have actually
been MISTREATED and MISUNDERSTOOD
for a long, LONG time.

Now, don't get me wrong, I also believe that
THESE DAYS especially, it's GOOD MEN
who are often being MISTREATED. And
it's GOOD MEN that are suffering from
not being "in the know" as to what's going
on as well. This is a big part of why I
do what I do, to help the good guys of
this world.

But all that does not take away from the
FACT that women have been MASSIVELY
misunderstood for a LOOOOOONG TIME,
and massively MISTREATED for a long
time.

One of the MAJOR ways, among MANY,
that women were mistreated and misunderstood
has to do with the way men perceived female
sexuality. For a long time, it was believed
that women only had sex with men for
MEN'S pleasure!!!!

That's CRAZY, but it's the TRUTH.
They didn't even know that women had orgasms!

Women who WERE "overly" sexual were seen
as evil, as "sluts", as somehow being "SICK"
or deviant or threatening in some way.

And the worst rung on the totem pole of society,
the lowest of status, was to be perceived as a "slut",
whereas in some cultures men were often hailed as
"studs" for being the exact same way.

Our knowledge of female sexuality was pathetic
until just very recently.

On top of that, you have the fact that women
weren't allowed to vote until recently, were
considered unable to do a lot of specific
mental tasks, and all of that has been shown
to be hogwash.

So, now, put yourself in the position of a woman
who KNOWS the TRUTH about all women, and
yet is living in a society where there are still a
lot of men who are not only ignorant about
women, but who also view her sexuality as
threatening or evil or who view women as
being somehow less than men in terms of
rights, etc.

So, if you were a woman, you would WANT
TO KNOW VERY BADLY the TRUTH about
the guy you were chatting to. You would want
to know if he IS or IS NOT the kind of guy that is
CONTROLLING, that is IGNORANT about
female sexuality, that would make her feel
good and accepted, a guy that already is
comfortable with her as she really is or not,etc.

So the way to do that is not to ASK HIM
directly, because first of all that might
frighten him and scare him off, or
second of all it might CLUE HIM IN
and allow him to FAKE the correct answer.

The best way for a woman to know what the
guy REALLY believes, what the guy REALLY
feels, is for her to PRETEND to be the version
of women that most MEN believe women are,
the version of women that men have been
brainwashed to believe by an ignorant
history and culture.

That way, if the guy DOES believe in all that
ignorance, and she is pretending to be all that
stuff, then he will not be threatened, and he
will accept her. But most of all, this tells
the woman that this guy is NOT cool.

Now, if the guy DISAGREES with her, then
she knows that FOR SURE this guy REALLY
BELIEVES it, he is clearly not arguing with
her to GAIN points, right????????? He
can only be arguing with her because he
REALLY BELIEVES in what he is saying.

So she NOW will know that this guy does
NOT believe in the hogwash lies about women
that have pervaded male society throughout
the years.

Pretty smart of women, huh?

But I'm not finished there, either.

It's not enough that he disagrees with her.
He can STILL be agreeing, and be better
than MOST guys, but he's still not in the
that special 1% zone, that is part of the
"INNER CIRCLE" that I will describe
more below.

He should actually be LAUGHING and be
TOTALLY relaxed even as he disagrees.

You want to know why?
It's because, if you are REALLY the guy
who knows all this stuff, this is GRADE
ONE LEVEL STUFF, super easy stuff
that you should know if you have had
any real experience with women.

Making a big deal about it means you
aren't yet really COMFORTABLE
with it all, it means you still feel
threatened by it. It means you don't
realize she is just giving you a quick
"routine" security check to make
sure you're not one of the many
ignorant men out there.

It should be something you understand,
and EXPECT and sympathize with.

She EXPECTS that you SHOULD know
this stuff if you have been successful
with women, since it's the only way
TO actually be successful with women.

All she is doing is screening you very quickly
by this, it's a COMMON thing for her to do to
screen guys, she HAS to do this, and the more
RELAXED you are when disagreeing with her
on this, the more she can tell that YOU are
ALREADY on the "INSIDE", part of the
"INNER CIRCLE".

So for example, you chuckle lightly, and say
"riiight, that's funny" and then you give her the
"wink" and you playfully say, "Sounds like
you've met the wrong guys then- such a shame!".

Get the picture here?

So, you want to know who's on the "inside"?
Who does this "inner circle" include?
It includes ALL WOMEN, and 1% of MEN.

If you make a big deal about the whole thing,
then even if you argue with her, it shows you
are still very NEW to the "inner circle".

It's much cooler if you've been here for a while.

So, the coolest thing to do is to view such a
"test" by a woman as actually her simply
sending you one half the code, and seeing
if you have the matching numbers on your
side. If you do, then you are in. If you
don't, then you're out.

It's as simple and easy as that, if you are
on the INSIDE.

If you're on the OUTSIDE, you'll never
know and can beat your head against the
wall forever trying to figure it out and
it still won't help.

And I promise you, as powerful as this
newsletter is, it's the TIP OF THE ICEBERG
of what you will find in my latest program
on attracting women. It's called "Warrior
Within" and it contains the attraction
insights that you MUST know if you want to
actually GET THE GIRL instead of just hoping
for it.

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

This is a very IN-DEPTH program on attracting
women of the highest quality, and I suggest
you get your hands on it IMMEDIATELY.

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

And if you haven't yet downloaded my eBook-
The Dating Wizard, then do that now at:

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This book is the place to start.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

P.S.
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Changing Your BRAIN & Attracting Women

As you probably know by now, I am not
a big believer in pick-up lines, because
pick up lines tend to MASK the real issue,
which is actually BEING a cool guy on
a deeper level in the first place, instead
of trying to put on an ACT.

And to become a cool guy on the most
important level, the level that actually
attracts a woman, it’s crucial to take the
HARD-CORE internal steps to make
you a much stronger man.

And one of the biggest WEAKNESSES that
must be obliterated if you want to attract
women is INSECURITY.

Now here’s the thing- the word “insecurity”
sounds really bad, it almost sounds as if
being insecure is some kind of CHOICE
and therefore if you behave or feel insecure,
you are somehow inferior or have less
will-power, etc, etc.

The truth is, it has NOTHING to do with
that at all. Rather, feeling insecure around
women has to do with the CHEMICALS
in your brain, PLUS it has to do with
NOT KNOWING HOW TO BEST DEAL
WITH THOSE CHEMICALS.

That’s it.
So if you feel insecure around women, as I did
for many years, it has NOTHING to do with
your WILL POWER and it has NOTHING to
do with how HARD you have tried.

It has to do with your chemical composition, and
it has to do with learning how to MASTER and
CONTROL it.

What is SO AWESOME is that you CAN learn
to control and to BEAT insecurity, to the point
that in fact your brain PHYSICALLY CHANGES.

THIS is the ultimate level of success, where
it has NOTHING to do with ACTING, it
has nothing to do with MANIPULATING
women, it ONLY has to do with YOU
improving yourself through applied
KNOWLEDGE.

If you want to feel more EMPOWERED
with women, with dating, with getting
physical and intimate with women, with
approaching women, and any other related
element of success with women, then
the first ACTION step you must take
is to ACCEPT THE CONSEQUENCES
OF YOUR ACTIONS.

So, for example, one reason a lot of guys
will NOT approach a woman is because
although on one hand it would be great
to ATTRACT her, on the other hand
there is the fear of REJECTION.

So, by NOT ACCEPTING THE POSSIBILITY
OF REJECTION, a guy will NEVER approach.

And here is the worst part of it all:

By NOT approaching a lot, or ever, he will never
get to the point that his brain CHANGES and
STOPS WORRYING ABOUT REJECTION!

You see, if you CONFRONT your fear, again
and again and again, your brain, by it’s evolutionary
design, decides it has to SPARE ENERGY for
OTHER ISSUES.

However, if you DON’T ACTUALLY approach
women, the issue remains SPECIAL in your
brain, and so it feeds you FULL FORCE FEAR
AND FULL FORCE INSECURITY.

As long as that fear remains “untouched” and
unconfronted, your brain gives it SPECIAL
status, and therefore FULL INSECURITY.

If you KEEP ON CONFRONTING THE ACTUAL
FEAR BY ACTUALLY APPROACHING, your brain’s
internal mechanisms have no choice but to
start DOWNGRADING the PRIORITY of this fear,
as it becomes a kind of pain in the neck
who is constantly seeking attention and
starts to BORE the hell out of your brain.

Kind of like watching a scary movie again
and again, it becomes kind of dull after
a while.

This is not just me joking around, it’s
the PHYSIOLOGICAL TRUTH about the way your
brain works and it alters the chemical
releases in your brain that control these
states of mind:

YOU ACTUALLY CHANGE YOUR BRAIN BY DOING THIS.

You already know you can change your
MUSCLES, well now you know that you
can change your BRAIN, in a way that
will make you far, far more successful
with women.

It involves EMBRACING the fears rather
than running from them.

And part of this EMBRACING the consequences
of your actions, including your worst fears,
ALSO includes the embracing of being able
to WALK AWAY from a woman who is
NOT treating you well.

Most men, if they are with attractive
women, if the women are not treating
the men right, most of the men will
still stay with these women, and the
women KNOW it.

It’s interesting, how so many times, when
a woman who is really attractive meets a
man who is NOT ACTING but is genuinely
WILLING TO WALK AWAY from her,
no matter how gorgeous she is, if he senses
she is not treating him right, her feelings of
attraction suddenly SKYROCKET for him.

But the thing is, in order to GET to this point,
you have to also be willing to APPROACH
her in the FIRST PLACE. You can’t say
to yourself “Oh I’m willing to walk away”
before you even APPROACH her.

It’s by having the strength on BOTH sides-
to APPROACH her even if it means accepting
the POSSIBILITY of it not going like you wanted,
and to ALSO be able to walk away once you
HAVE her interested, if you sense she is
interested but not truly respecting you, etc.

It’s not about PRETENDING to be hard to get,
it’s not about ACTING tough or ACTING like
a player, it’s about TRULY BEING ABLE TO
ACCEPT ALL POSSIBLE CONSEQUENCES
of your actions, whether it means that she
does NOT go for your approach, or whether it
means she DOES decide to NOT pursue you
if you walk away from her once you are in
a relationship, if she is not treating you well.

THERE IS NO FAKING.
A WOMAN CAN SENSE WHEN YOU
REALLY MEAN IT.

Also, this is not about attracting and
changing a woman who is disrespectful
and making her so attracted that she
now starts to treat the guy right.

Even though this DOES often work, I
don't like the idea of being with
a woman who NEEDS to be manipulated.

INSTEAD, what is MUCH cooler, is to
be this kind of SUPER COOL STRONG MAN
who is with a woman who is ALREADY
a great woman, who finds herself
MASSIVELY attracted to this man who
is so strong internally.

And really, there is NO LOSS to taking this
path of embracing the risk of her indeed
NOT going for you or for your approach.

The reason there is no loss, no downside,
is because THIS is the pathway of the
MAN, THE MAN WHO OVERALL IS
THE MOST ATTRACTIVE KIND OF
MAN TO WOMEN.

If you take the other route, the route of
trying to find perfection with zero risk,
if you try to FAKE that you are willing
to walk away, or if you try to take a
different strategy altogether, i.e. of
tolerating disrespect or of kissing up,
you will ULTIMATELY ALWAYS
END UP LOSING.

Whereas if you take the path I have suggested,
you will ALWAYS ULTIMATELLY END UP
WINNING, because any “success” you get
from FAKING or from avoiding all rejection
will NEVER last, because that type of
“avoiding all pain” behavior only makes
you WEAKER and MORE insecure, which
are going to ensure failure with women
in the big picture.

As you can tell from these newsletters,
I am only interested in CONCRETE
strategies that actually WORK to get you
attraction from women, in ways that
actually LAST long term.

For the ULTIMATE “internal training”
I suggest you get my DVD program
called WARRIOR WITHIN. I think it’s aptly named,
because it’s about making your “inner game” with
women as POWERFUL as possible.

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

For any specific dating questions you have,
there is coaching over the phone or via email:

http://getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

And to learn directly from me in BOOTCAMP,
on tons of actual women in real life places, how
to MASTER the skills of approaching and attracting
women ANYWHERE, go here:

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To find out about ALL my programs and materials,
go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks

BEING THE MAN, MYTH-BUSTING ON APPROACH ANXIETY

Being a REAL MAN is not always easy,
but's it's always sexy.

Being a REAL MAN means there aren't
always "easy way outs" or gimmicks to
solve issues.

So for example, all the way back in 2003,
in my first book, "The Dating Wizard",
I use a principle I coined being "THE MAN"
several thousands of times throughout the
book and in my newsletters.

I use this term as an approach to doing things,
the masculine way of going about things when
it comes to women and life in general, and how
this naturally is attractive to women.

In order for a woman to feel feminine,
it's crucial that you behave in a way that
is masculine, as this polarity brings out
her femininity.

This concept of being THE MAN sometimes
get distorted by supposed "experts" who are
always cooking up some gimmicky "Get the
babes with my EASY strategy" type thing.

If only that worked, I would be the first one
to tell you.

There's another thing I need to make clear:

Some people think it's important to know the
CAUSE of your approach anxiety if you want
to destroy it.

This is, put simply, wrong.

You can spend ten thousand years in the
psychologist's chair trying to figure out
WHY you are a certain way, but when
it comes to beating approach anxiety,
figuring out the WHY is NOT really
relevant or required for SOLVING
the anxiety.

(In fact, a good psychologist already
knows this and would not waste time
on that.)

For example, let's say a guy started smoking
cigarrettes as a young adult due to PEER
PRESSURE.  Or due to wanting to experiment
with cigarettes.

Now, the guy is ADDICTED to cigarettes.

He needs to get over the CHEMICAL ADDICTION
TO NICOTINE now.

It doesn't matter anymore HOW he got into this mess,
talking about things like peer pressure and not giving
into peer pressure, or whatever, is actually NOT
the main thing here for getting over NICOTINE
ADDICTION.

Similarly, the things that caused or are causing the
approach anxiety (the anxiety of approaching
a woman who is a stranger to get to know her)
are NOT that important to figure out.

Let's say the issue that caused him to get
into smoking and get addicted was originally
peer pressure and lack of self-esteem--well,
even if we now help his self-esteem and boost
it into the STRATOSPHERE, it doesn't change
the fact he is still ADDICTED TO NICOTINE!!!

What is important to do now is end the chemical
dependence.

And similarly, in a way, what is causing the approach
anxiety is a DIFFERENT kind of chemical "storm"
going on in the mind that is actually causing the
anxiety.  Remember, ALL emotions are nothing but
chemicals in the mind, whether released naturally
or otherwise.

And to change the chemical state of the anxiety, it is
CRUCIAL to, in your mind, slowly EMBRACE THE FEARS,
even the worst case scenarios, playing them in your mind
over and over again, till they become dull and boring. 

This changes the CHEMICAL STORM in your mind
to a different chemical reaction, one that feels a
hell of a lot better and allows you to see the
situation in a far more empowering perspective.

THIS IS BEING THE MAN, AND IT TAKES
MASSIVE GUTS AND COURAGE TO DO.

Rather than the illusion of the "easy way out" gimmicks,
this is the REAL way.

And this is just the beginning of the process,
it's explained in full depth in my program called
"Obliterating Approach Anxiety", which I SERIOUSLY
suggest you get IMMEDIATELY by going here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/obliterating.html

I have made this program is available to you via
INSTANT MP3 download, so you can be

listening to it in MINUTES from now, and be
using it to approach women TODAY.

So don't waste precious time on the wrong
strategies for solving approach anxiety. 

Get the REAL goods and start enjoying all
the world of opportunity right NOW.

It's summer and there are TONS of women
out and about!

Again, this important program is at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/obliterating.html

Till next time,
 
Michael Marks

Five Secret Keys To Success With Women

If you want the TRUTH on how to get over
approach anxiety, how to attract a woman
once you've approached her, and how to
KEEP her, here it is: 

NUMBER 1: EMBRACE THE FEAR

The best way to get rid of any obsessive
FEAR is NOT to try to convince yourself
that there is nothing to fear.

If you are afraid of approaching a woman
because of concerns about any of the
following things:

-She might laugh at you
-Others might see you "fail"
-You might get arrested
-You are worried what you yourself might
feel in terms of the anxiety
-Any OTHER fear regarding approaching
women or advancing towards getting physical

Well, the reality is that you should actually
NOT try to do the typical “think positive
and don't even think about the negative”
advice.

All that does is constantly make you
worry about “WHAT IF THE REALITY
IS SHE WILL REJECT ME EVEN THOUGH
I’M TRYING TO THINK POSITIVE?”.

And that kind of anxiety will freeze you up
and prevent you from doing anything.

So, instead, allow the ENTIRE NEGATIVE
EMOTION TO BE FULLY EXPERIENCED
THROUGH YOUR BODY AND IN YOUR MIND.

That’s right, in your imagination, see
THE FULL HORROR of whatever the
image is of what can happen, see it in
your mind, feel it in your body, feel your
muscles clenching up, your body sweating,
your heart racing, head feeling dizzy,
EVERYTHING.

This takes a tremendous amount of courage,
but the cool thing is that it works.

Allow ALLL the negative thoughts to come
in, experience it ALL. Don’t repress ANY
of it.

This is NOT easy.

But it’s the ONLY way to BEAT the fear,
and it’s a hell of a lot EASIER than a life
of giving into this fear.

To quote that KICK-ASS song from
Rocky IV, “There’s No Easy Way Out”.



The thing to remember, this is
the ONLY way out. The other
'La-La Land' advice just doesn't
work in the real world.

TAKE THE "PUNCH" OF THE FEAR,
ALLOW YOURSELF TO GET "HIT"
BY THE FEAR, OVER AND OVER.

You may have to do this for an hour a day,
for several weeks, and in the first few minutes
you will feel WORSE than before, but then it
starts to get BETTER and BETTER .

The pain is worth it, compared to a life-time
of getting NOWHERE and suffering at the
same time.

Remember, when it comes to this issue,
the “THINK POSITIVE” gurus have
unfortunately been misguided. They’re
nice guys though, some of them anyway.

Instead, this “thinking positive” stuff can
actually be a form of FEAR itself, FEAR
to even FACE the possibility of accepting
the “DangerZone” thought--This takes
more guts than trying to convince yourself
that everything MUST be fine no matter what.

If you can just ALLOW YOUR MIND
TO RESERVE A LITTLE SPACE
FOR THE NIGHTMARE OF THE
“DANGER ZONE”, you can then learn
to LIVE quite WELL with that possible
'nightmare situation possibility',
and actually THIS will allow
you to RELAX and stop thinking
about it, and NOW to truly
BE POSITIVE for real rather
than just wishing you can
be positive, and now you will
be far more empowered to actually
GO FOR HER!

All because you now TRULY don’t care
that much about the nightmare situation
or doomsday scenario you had regarding
approaching this woman or any other woman.

Don't avoid mentally and emotionally flying
into the scary thoughts that you repressed,
don't avoid the danger zone. 

Instead, EMBRACE THE EMOTIONAL DANGER ZONE!



2: PREDICT THE FEAR

It does no good to suddenly be STRUCK
with fear when you see a woman you want
to approach, but if you PREDICT IT
AHEAD OF TIME, it won’t take you by
SURPRISE.

The 'SURPRISE ATTACK' part of the fear
is a big part of what screws everything up.

Instead, before leaving your home in the
morning, PREDICT that you will see
a woman and you will get a MASSIVE
SURGE OF THAT FEAR/ANXIETY!

THIS way, when it happens, it will NOT
be a surprise, and it will probably
be a lot LESS than you expected.

Since you will be ready for it, you
can actually KNOW CONSCIOUSLY that
all these fear emotions are DISTORTING
your perception, and making you think
something horrible is going on.

Most people are not aware of their
own emotions, they just follow
them blindly.

They are not even aware that it IS
an emotion, they think what they
FEEL must a GOOD indicator of
whether the situation is good or not.

But you will be AWARE this is just
an EMOTION that is distorting your
perspective.

KNOWING that this is all a distortion is
a SIGNAL FOR YOU TO TAKE ACTION
AND NOT LISTEN TO YOUR EMOTION!

You knew in ADVANCE that you would feel
these negative emotions, and you planned in
ADVANCE that you would take action ANYWAY.

Like everything else in life, being PREPARED
is a huge part of what results in success.

3. HAVE A CHARISMATIC PLAN OF ACTION

If you have NO plan, you will do NOTHING.

So make sure that you PLAN to take action
even while feeling fear, so that you don’t
follow INSTINCT, because the instinct
when feeling fear is to NOT do anything.

Here's a plan for taking charismatic action:

One of my favorite concepts is my
“Disarm and Charm” strategy, where
you bring her back into positive
childhood memories together with YOU.

By bringing her back to positive childhood
feelings, you disarm her, and by then
allowing her to escape serious adult
limitations on fun, and getting her to
have fun together with you, you also
charm her.

The key is to do it all in a playful
and mischievous way:

For example, if you see her in the
cereal aisle in the supermarket, you
can go up to her and have this “devious”
look on your face and tell her, “Hey,
ever think about all the PRIZES that
are right inside these cereal boxes
right in front of us now?”

When she responds with whatever she says, you
can tell her “You know, if you provide me the
cover, I might share some of them with you”.

Chances are she will GET it, and laugh and
not only will she provide you with a response,
but because she is in a good mood now, she
is RECEPTIVE TO YOUR FURTHER ADVANCES.

You could also link back to childhood
cartoons, for example, you could go up
to her and say, “You know I just heard
the wackiest thing (pause)- They’re
actually making a LIVE ACTION movies of
the SMURFS!! Do you remember that show?”

She will probably say something like,
“No way! When does it come out??
I used to watch that as a kid and
had the dolls! Is this for real?"

And you can always joke back and say,
‘It's for real, I’m not smurfing!”

You could also playfully accuse her of still
living in the Smurf world and that she still
goes home to play with them or watch it on
DVD, etc.

And as the chat progresses, you can always say,
“We should smurf sometime” and then accuse
her of having a dirty mind and tell her you meant,
“We should talk”!

So now you actually have a CHARISMATIC
plan of action.

NUMBER 4: INDIRECT COMMUNICATION

Emotional impact is stronger when it’s
NOT direct.

Notice how humor is stronger, (“We
should smurf sometime”) and drama
is stronger, and in fact all emotions
are stronger when the listener must
be involved in having to make part
of the connection himself or herself.

So, for example, if you were a principal
speaking to a group of 13-14 year old kids
graduating from school, and you wanted
them to NOT become delinquents and rather
to become outstanding members of society,
you wouldn’t SAY those actual words.

You might say the following story a
a principal once described:

                        ***
“I once met this boy who went to boarding
school for high school, where many students
liked to come to his room to talk.

He put a sign on his door that said:

“If you have nothing to do...don’t do it here.”
                       ***

When you hear this, you have to make
the connection yourself, which makes
you take an INTERACTIVE PART in the
message now. This makes it STRONGER.

The message of “Time is precious,
don’t waste it”, is stronger when
told indirectly.

Similarly, if you’re talking to a woman,
you want to create emotions in her,
not boredom. And you will create
emotions by making her have to
make connections. The key is
to make the connections WORTH
her effort.

You can use this not only to enhance
the SERIOUSNESS of a point, but
also to enhance HUMOR:

So for example, let’s say you’re in
line at the bank, and she’s in front
of you, but she turns around to see
the clock, or to see something else,
you can playfully MISINTERPRET
this on purpose, and tell her,
“Pleased to meet you” as IF she was
trying to flirt with you.

She’ll make the connection in her mind
of the point you are making.

Or you could say:

“You can just say hi,  it’s cool.”

She might ask what you meant, and it’s cooler
if you DON'T totally give it away, so you might
then say “It’s fine for a woman to turn around
and check a guy out, but if you keep it up
I’m going to feel like piece of meat!”.

This is much better than just telling
a woman that you like her or any
of the other things that she’s heard
a million times to which she has been
desensitized to as a result.

Powerful messages are indirect.

NUMBER 5:
IT’S ALL A COMPLIMENT/GO WITH FLOW

Be your own best friend.
It’s really crazy how we often are
our own worst enemies.

If you catch yourself criticizing yourself,
realize you are probably having a standard
for yourself that is WAY higher than you
even put on others.

Self-esteem IS attractive.

There is a famous true story told by a
woman who was one of the lovers of
Ian Fleming, the man who wrote the
James Bond novels, and who in many
ways was a James Bond type figure
himself:

Before ever sleeping with him, she was
upset at him for being with too many
women. She said to him “You, sir,
are a cad.” His reply to her was
(I’m paraphrasing) “You’re right,
let’s have a drink on it.”

Of course, she ended up falling hard for
him, and sleeping with him.

The point of this is not to suggest
you should sleep with many women,
the point is that massive self-esteem
and self-belief is universally attractive
to all women.

So, from now on, anything any woman
says to you, just interpret it ALL as a
compliment, you can never lose this way.

Interpret it as a compliment not only
in your OWN mind, but actually
VERBALIZE it to her as well.

So for example, if she says:

“You’re trying to pick me up, aren’t you?”

The best thing to reply would be:

“Yes, what makes you so lucky?”

This is actually TWO attractive things
you are doing here at once.  Not only are
you interpreting it as a compliment that she
is lucky to have a guy like you chatting to her,
but it’s ALSO you “going with the flow” and
not arguing with her.

When you interpret things as compliments,
you automatically go with the flow AND
show value at the same time.

Arguing never works, it breaks down the momentum,
it ruins the vibe, it shows insecurity.

But interpreting it all as a compliment
and going with the flow works like magic.

And if you’re reading this right now, I
assure you that as informative as this
article is, this is just the BEGINNING.

If you would like to get the FULL scoop
on how to attract a fantastic woman, I
suggest you take the following steps:

STEP ONE:

My last CD, “Obliterating Approach Anxiety”
is CRUCIAL for getting the issue of
“Approach Anxiety” taken care of PERMANENTLY.

Normally back issues are not available,
but this CD is simply a MUST have
for any man who wants to be able to
approach women, so I suggest you
IMMEDIATELY get it by going here:

http://tinyurl.com/34vq36b

STEP TWO:

If you haven’t yet downloaded my book,
‘Get A Great Girl’, then definitely do
that now. It’s the foundation for how
to attract a woman who is attractive,
faithful, and intelligent.

This kind of woman is the ultimate ‘catch’-
and inside this book, I’ll show you how to
attract her, how to build a connection with
her, how to escalate to physical intimacy,
and how to KEEP her.

It’s at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Book.html

STEP THREE:

Learn in PERSON in my Real World Bootcamp,
where I will show you everything on REAL women
in REAL time.

It's at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/realworld.html

Be cool,

Michael Marks

The Fantasy Woman

Are you, or have you been, in the "fantasy woman" trap?

What I mean by this, is, have you ever been
hung up on an ex-girlfriend, or maybe a woman
that you weren't even together with,
but you just keep thinking about her?

You keep thinking about some woman,
maybe even AFTER you're still dating
other women???

You're not alone, in fact this is
one of the biggest things that
happens to guys, and I just got
an email about this, that I
thought would be great to share
here, along with my reply and
solution.

***LETTER FROM A MAN WHO'S
GETTING RESULTS WITH WOMEN
BUT STILL THINKING ABOUT
AN OLD FLAME***

Hey Michael,

I bought your Seduction Mastery CD
program and have listened to the whole
program twice now, and it is absolutely
fantastic, and has definitely improved
my results with women, there was just
one question I had about a woman whom
I was briefly involved with but got away
due to external circumstances.

It's been a few months since I've seen her
but I still think about her a lot even though
I'm dating new women. How can I overcome
these thoughts of this old flame?

Chuck L., WI

>>>MY REPLY<<<

Thank you for the kind words on the
Seduction Mastery program, it's great
to see you're getting results with
women!

Regarding the repeated thoughts of this
old flame, the key for you here is to
become aware of what is actually
happening here:

1. Over time, you forget the hardships with
this old flame, and you instead focus on and
create a THEORETICAL version of the future
with her that you think you are currently
missing out on by not being with her.

2. Of course, of all the theoretical versions of
the future, your mind creates and chooses the
one that is PERFECT AND FANTASY LIKE!

The mind will ALWAYS prefer this custom-made
FANTASY over ANY reality no matter how good
any reality is, FANTASY is always going to be
more instinctive and more seductive to your mind.

The human mind enjoys doing this, it has no joy
or reward from putting in all that energy to
create a realistic picture with all the flaws
that reality has, so instead it keeps going back
to the FANTASY that you CUSTOM-DESIGNED
in your mind.

The mind is not conscious it is doing this, it
just creates the potential picture, and rather
than creating a flawed and realistic picture,
it creates the FANTASY picture.

3. So which one is your mind going to stick with?
The fantasy or the reality?

The FANTASY WOMAN that this real woman has
now BECOME in your mind, of course, since
it's more fun.

So what is happening right now is that you
are picturing this old flame in a way that is
fantasy-based as opposed to reality based.

4. Now, compare this FANTASY to any other
woman you go out with in REALITY.

There is absolutely no woman on earth in
REALITY who can ever, ever, EVER
match a FANTASY.

5. Now that you are aware of this, you can
start to realize where you are going off in
terms of what you are thinking about this
old flame, and slowly you’ll get back a
more real perspective not only logically,
but EMOTIONALLY where you start to
enjoy the REAL women in the real world
rather than the fantasy version of the one
that’s in your head.

And while we’re on the topic of the way
things work in the REAL WORLD, if
you want the REAL solution to conquering
‘Approach Anxiety’ so that you feel
TOTALLY COMFORTABLE and
confident approaching ANY woman,
ANYWHERE, then you owe it to yourself
to get my latest Actions For Attraction
CD, called “Obliterating Approach Anxiety”.

This CD will show you the REAL way
to solve this problem, and the REAL way
has nothing to do with “positive thinking”
at all! If positive thinking worked for this,
every man on earth would already have
solved this!

Rather, what you will learn is the ONLY
way where failure is IMPOSSIBLE.

If you follow the program, you WILL
beat approach anxiety. I warn you
though, one thing: This program is
NOT for boys, it’s for MEN.

In other words, this program is not about
learning cutesy pick up lines or tactics
that allow you to avoid any REAL internal
changes.

This program takes both GUTS as well
as INTELLIGENCE.

Let me be clear of what you have to gain
here:

If you sign up for my Actions For Attraction
monthly CD series before the deadline of
midnight of Thursday June 3rd, you will receive
the “Obliterating Approach Anxiety” CD.

In ADDITION, you will receive THREE
bonus CDs: Inner Game, Online Dating,
and Awesome Openers.

You will ALSO receive a deluxe CD case to
keep your future CDs organized and protected.

The only thing you pay for is the
Obliterating Approach Anxiety CD,
plus the cost of shipping for the bonuses.

AND there is ZERO risk, if you’re not
totally satisfied, you can even KEEP the
bonuses and get every PENNY back.

So there’s ZERO to lose and EVERYTHING
to gain, most importantly getting the
woman of your dreams NOW!

To subscribe and get this special CD as well,
you must go here before the deadline of midnight
of Thursday, June 3rd:

http://getagreatgirl.com/actions

Be cool,

Michael Marks

Massively Important News

When you see a woman you are attracted
to, do you APPROACH her, or do you
HESITATE?

Approach Anxiety is the most pervasive,
common challenge for men all across the
PLANET. All the most sophisticated
“attraction” tactics are USELESS if
you don’t actually make the APPROACH.

And the anxiety itself will ruin your state
of mind even if you think you had the most
brilliant or funny or interesting thing to say
to her. With a ruined state of mind, NOTHING
will work to attract a woman.

All that can finally CHANGE.

In my new CD for Actions For Attraction,
called “Obliterating Approach Anxiety”
I am revealing to you a genuinely
MASSIVE BREAKTHROUGH, to SOLVE this
problem, FOREVER.

Those of you who know me, know that
I don’t exaggerate.

So when I say that NOBODY in the
dating field has EVER come up with
anything CLOSE to this, I MEAN it.

In fact, I am one TRILLION percent
sure that the ENTIRE “seduction”
industry will be changed FOREVER
because of this.

It’s going to make everything else look
like the STONE AGE.

The fact of the matter is, getting over
approach anxiety is taking a QUANTUM
LEAP FORWARD with what I am
revealing on this CD, and it all WORKS,
in fact unlike the other “wishful thinking”
advice that is given out there, what you
will learn on this CD happens to also be
BACKED UP BY SCIENCE.

More importantly, it's backed up by
LITERALLY THOUSANDS AND THOUSANDS
OF SUCCESS STORIES FROM REAL LIFE.

I could have released this earlier,
but I wanted to make sure it was
TESTED extensively and PROVEN
to work in every SINGLE case.

It’s impossible for this advice to NOT work!
IT WILL ABSOLUTELY WORK FOR YOU.

How much does this CD cost?
About 19 bucks, that’s IT.

It's really insane of me to do this,
I should be charging THOUSANDS.
So why the hell am I doing this for
this insane price?

It's so that EVERY MAN will use this.

Even the most SKEPTICAL of guys
will HAVE to try it, and when they do,
PRESTO, they get results and there's
ANOTHER LIFE CHANGED for the better!

And that makes for some pretty damn
good word of mouth.

And on top of it all, there is ZERO risk to you.

If you don’t like it, you get back EVERY PENNY.
But I know you're going to love this so much,
you're going to guard it with your life.

As you can see, I clearly BELIEVE
in this product, and I KNOW you
will too when you see women
everywhere and find yourself
EASILY APPROACHING THEM!!!

And of course, this comfort and
confidence you'll be displaying by
approaching women so easily is also
MASSIVELY SEXY TO WOMEN!

The only way to get this CD is by being
a subscriber to my Actions For Attraction
monthly CD series.

I’ve extended the deadline till this
THURSDAY, JUNE 3, because I feel I didn’t
make it clear enough just how MASSIVE of
a difference this CD will make to your life.

It's the difference between having
INFINITE CHOICE with women, and
having to beg for SCRAPS.

This information is PRICELESS,
(most guys spend YEARS trying
to get over the issue of approach
anxiety, with NO success, BUT with
the info from THIS CD, you can end
it FOREVER) and on top of all that,
there is ZERO risk to you.

The weather is getting beautiful
ALL OVER, and there are more
women than EVER out in public,
looking gorgeous and 'READY
for the taking' so to speak, if you
JUST got this issue taken care
of, ONCE AND FOR ALL.

It comes with your subscription this
month, and to get it, sign up now at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/actions

Be cool,

Michael Marks

Obliterating Approach Anxiety

You know how every dating guru on
EARTH tells you to think POSITIVE
when it comes to approaching women?

Like “You can get her!!!! Go up to
her and approach her!!! She’s yours!”

Or: “Don’t worry about rejection!
Think positive! She WON’T reject you!”

Or: “You look like a stud!! Don’t
worry about your insecurity about
your height, your money, your
prestige, your age, your build,
your reputation, your experience,
your voice,” ad INFINITUM.

Well, the truth is, a LOT of this “THINK
POSITIVE” advice is GREAT if you are
ALREADY pretty confident!!!!

If you are ALREADY "pimpin" as they say.

But if you are trying to get your
foot in the door so to speak with
women, and especially for the very
FIRST step of getting over the fear
of APPROACHING women,("Approach Anxiety")
then just "thinking positive" is the
absolute WORST thing you can do
for yourself!!!!

Trying to think "positive" can actually
make you far MORE ANXIOUS about yourself
and about your chances of success.

There are some situations that are
RIGHT for “thinking positive”, but
APPROACH ANXIETY ain't one of them!

I should know, I used to spend
years trying to get PUMPED UP
to get over approach anxiety.

And yet, approach anxiety is something
that MUST be solved in order to get
ANYWHERE with women.

The number one BLOCK between guys
getting the girls of their dreams and not
getting the girl, starts EARLY- it starts
with FAILING to approach women CONSISTENTLY!

Right now, at the very moment you
are reading this, there are TONS of
women around you who are single,
in fact there have never been more
single women in history than there
are today.

Before you can apply the more advanced
concepts I teach for creating ATTRACTION
and for getting a woman to treat you with
FULL RESPECT, you have to MEET THESE
WOMEN IN THE FIRST PLACE.

And although you can meet women
online, the REALITY is that the
CONFIDENCE that comes from
being able to approach women
ANYWHERE in the REAL world
SPILLS OVER into ALL of your
interactions with women, and
it spills over no matter where
you meet them.

Women can tell right away that
they are dealing with a man who
has OPTIONS.

You will be radiating this confidence
without even thinking about it, it will come
through in your thoughts, body language,
tonality, everything.

When a woman senses you have OPTIONS with
other women, you ALWAYS become more attractive
to her, it’s far more VALIDATING to her
self-esteem because she knows you could
have chosen a billion other women INSTEAD OF HER,
but you decided to approach and chat with HER.

She can detect this confidence in a MICROSECOND,
I promise you that.

She can also detect a LACK of this confidence
just as instantaneously.

So, OBLITERATING APPROACH ANXIETY
should be your very FIRST PRIORITY when it
comes to which skills to MASTER with women.

If you are only relying on the women that
fall into your lap through introductions
or through “luck” you are going to be
waiting FOREVER to meet the right
woman, and you’re also going to be
so starved for female attention, that
chances are you will KISS UP to
the women that DO come your
way since you don’t have as many
OPTIONS at your disposal.

You can CHANGE all this with
getting over approach anxiety
once and for ALL.

Thanks to some very cool people that
have taught me how to do this, I can now
share with you the strategy as well so that
YOU WILL DEFINITELY, ABSOLUTELY
CONQUER APPROACH ANXIETY.

Now, let me ASSURE you, this is not
“think positive!” advice- I PROMISE YOU
THIS IS NOTHING TO DO WITH THAT AT ALL.

Learning these secrets is something that
I personally value MORE than anything
else I’ve ever learned, and the truth is,
I owe it all to a man who I can’t even
do justice to by calling him “a friend”
or “best friend”. He’s been MUCH
MORE than that, and one day you’ll
get to meet him at a future seminar when
we finally team up to ROCK this planet.

Go HERE immediately to learn how you
can overcome approach anxiety NOW:

http://getagreatgirl.com/approach-anxiety.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks