The Most POWERFUL Thing You Can Do To Attract Women

There are a ton of things I want to share with
you today, but due to a lack of time I’m going
to focus on one SUPER important thing today
regarding attracting women.

Without exaggerating, I honestly think this
is the absolute most important newsletter 
on this topic that I have ever written, even
though it’s going to be pretty quick.

Here it is:

If you want to get super-hot women to be
CRAZY attracted to you, if you want to have
that feeling of knowing that your super-hot
girlfriend can’t WAIT to get naked with you,
and if you want to be able to have TONS of
choices with attractive women, or if you want
to KNOW that these women are DESPERATELY
IN LOVE with you, then you must actually BLOW
APART YOUR NEED FOR LOVE, APPROVAL,
ASSURANCE, AND SECURITY.

And you must do this NOT from a place of ANGER,
or SADNESS, or BITTERNESS, but rather from
a place of DETERMINATION and WISDOM and
UNDERSTANDING.

You see, the problem is that a lot of men mistake
the word 'love' for 'unselfish love'.

The truth is that pretty much ALL love is selfish,
and that is not a bad thing, it just is what it is.

When a mother CARES for her child, and tries
to make the child feel good, on a subconscious
level, she knows this is GOOD for the child,
and will improve that child’s chance at survival.

The child will carry her DNA and hopefully
REPRODUCE to carry ON her DNA.

But when a woman is looking at the MAN
she will REPRODUCE WITH, she is hoping
that all that work this man’s mother did has
paid off into making him at THIS point in
his life a MAN who NO LONGER needs
“mothering”.

But a lot of men kind of are hoping that the
WOMAN in their romantic life will give them
the SAME TYPE of warmth, dedication, and
CARING that their mom did.

Now, here’s the crazy part: IF a woman senses
that you INDEED really ARE “THE MAN”
then this STRIKES the very CORE of her
sexuality, it truly makes her WEAK with
ATTRACTION for you.

And now that she is ATTRACTED, guess what?
NOW she wants to MOTHER you, she wants
to do ANYTHING to make sure you are
absolutely, totally, completely HAPPY with
her, satisfied with her, and THINKING about
her.

She’ll now do things that are almost IRRATIONAL
in terms of LOVE, of GIVING, of SACRIFICING
herself in order to make you HAPPY.

She might even make a lot of MOTHERS look like
NOTHING compared to the intensity of sacrifice
and effort she will make to MAKE SURE YOU
ARE HAPPY.       

However, unlike a typical mother, if you SCREW UP
on being a MAN, you are TOTALLY SCREWED
in the sense she will pull a 180, she will totally
LOSE attraction and do almost ANYTHING to
get AWAY.  All those words of LOVE and
commitment she may have said will be
VAPORIZED in a NANO-SECOND and she
will likely DENY she ever even SAID those
words, and it’s even POSSIBLE that she may
very well BELIEVE that there is no WAY
she could have EVER really fallen for you,
that somehow this just was a big mistake
where she got fooled or something.

So REMEMBER- if you WANT the love,
if you WANT the attraction, if you WANT
that hot woman to be CRAZY for you, then
you must beat the SH*! out of the part of yourself
that thinks it NEEDS this kind of ‘love’ from
a female that you plan on mating with.

ONLY then, ironically, will the love flow,
her sexy legs spread, and her devotion show.

I say this NOT to be crass, but to be HONEST
about a topic that is so important and yet so
ignored.

It is so vital to also realize that none of this
makes women crazy. It ACTUALLY makes
women very NORMAL because THIS way
they can feel a lot more secure that the
CHILDREN they produce with you are
likely to be SURVIVORS and WINNERS
in the sense of making it in the evolutionary
chain of generations, and of making it in
a form of “dna” genetic immortality that
can carry on and on.

So, what this means, is that women a woman
who is HOT is not giving you love, this is
the PERFECT TIME to show that you are
THE MAN even MORE.

But what do most men do?
They either crumble with their head between
their legs, or they try beg the woman to be
“nicer” as if their emotions depended on
the approval of these women.

And yet, doing this only FURTHER cements
women’s feeling that CLEARLY this guy  
is NOT the guy who they should be mating
with.

And again, this is not something that women
CONSCIOUSLY do.  I’m just telling you that
this is the EVOLUTIONARY HARD WIRING
for the REASON they feel this way, i.e. feeling
REPULSED even if the women don’t know
exactly WHY they feel repulsed by it.
And also, women don’t KNOW they are even
being repulsed by the specific BEHAVIOR,
they just feel an AVERSION to the MAN
that behaves this way. 

This all makes sense once you understand that
EMOTIONS were DESIGNED to ensure humans
(or animals) take the right ACTIONS immediately.

When a woman feels the EMOTIONS of being
REPULSED, she is sure to NOT waste any time
even THINKING about whether she should or
should not be with that guy. 

Her emotions just TOTALLY DRIVE HER TO
GET AWAY FROM THAT GUY IMMEDIATELY.

And, the opposite is ALSO true:
Show the RIGHT behaviors, and her EMOTIONS
kick in to WANT that man no matter what ELSE
is going on.

So the next time you see a hot, leggy, gorgeous-faced
woman in clothes that reveal just the right amount of
sexy, remember what ATTRACTS HER and what turns her
OFF. 

This isn’t about what you would LIKE.
You might LIKE for her to be really soft and nice
and treat you with kid-gloves and assure you that
everything is going to be great, and that she likes
you, etc, etc, etc.

But that is not the way it works.
And deep down, that is not really the
MAIN thing you want.

It’s about what you really WANT:
You really want her because she is a WOMAN,
and an attractive one at that.  In other words, this
is a PHYSICAL thing, it really is all about the
MATING, whether you are conscious of it at
that second or not.

And if you WANT that sexiness to be all YOURS,
then you better MAN UP instead of hoping to be
treated like a nice little boy is treated by his mom.

That means if you approach a woman, let's say
at a bookstore, and you open up a conversation
with her, and she's NOT showing lots of excitement
or doing cartwheels right off the bat, you should
NOT run away.

In fact, her brain may very well be GOING INTO
HIGH GEAR knowing that this might be a situation
leading to the most wild and satisfying and
wonderful experience of her life.

OR it might be another time she is meeting just
another scared little BOY.

You have to understand that this is what is going
on in her mind, but she is not going to tell you
all this.

Remember, as a woman, all she has to say is YES
and most men would LOVE to jump in the sack with
her IMMEDIATELY.

She is not an idiot. She knows what is going on.
She needs to see if you are THE MAN for her.

If you run for the hills before she has even
had a chance to see if you are up for the task,
then she thinks you are NOT the MAN.   

And if she does something like TEASE you for
CHATTING TO HER, this is FANTASTIC news,
because it means she is interested enough
to TEST your response to her, and your response
counts 'A PLENTY', as they say.

The way you respond to her SHOWS HER what kind
of man you are.  It almost does not even matter
what she says, what matters is what YOU say in
response to convey the STRENGTH of your CHARACTER.
   
So if she says 'You know, this has happened twice
to me today', most guys will get freaked out, thinking
'Oh damn, this woman gets hit on so much and now she
is thinking I am just another one of those guys, there
is no WAY I am going to get her number and end up in
bed with her'.

And yet THIS FEAR AND THIS ATTITUDE is exactly what
SELF-DEFEATS MOST MEN!

So most men will reply with something like
'Really? Oh man, well I'm sorry, I just was
making conversation' if they even say anything
besides sorry.

Meanwhile, the MAN would say something like
'Really? Man, those guys must have been feeling
sorry for you'.  And the MAN would say this with
a SMIRK.

And if she said something back like:
'Excuse me, sorry for me?'

The MAN would respond with, 'You're excused, but
do not do it again'.

With every passing SECOND, the MAN is now
making this woman get WETTER AND WETTER,
and all she is hoping for is that this
guy is for REAL and not going to suddenly
turn out to be a little scared boy later
on.

When you behave this way, and show that you
are POWERFUL and FUN and NOT NEEDY, and
emotionally independent, she starts to
get overwhelmed in that way that only
be called the most glorious seduced
feeling in the world.

She can feel herself falling, she WANTS
this feeling, it is SO RARE for her to
MEET the man that GETS ALL OF THIS.

You are THE MAN, and it is ONLY the MAN
who will attract the SEXUAL element in a
WOMAN.

Do anything else, and it’s ‘JUST FRIENDS’ at best.
In fact, getting a woman attracted has almost
nothing to do with her being your FRIEND.

When a woman is ATTRACTED to you, she does good
things for you not because she wants your friendship,
it's because she wants to POSSESS YOU. 

And I say that in a GOOD way.  She wants you so bad,
that she can't WAIT to surrender her body to you
again and again and again.  She wants to rock your
world in the bedroom, she can't stop thinking
about you. And she wants YOU to be thinking about
HER.

She will go to the ends of the Earth to try to
get you to think about HER, to spend time with
HER.

That is not friendship, that is PRIMAL ATTRACTION.      
She couldn't really care less about Facebooking
your or sharing coffee or tea. She wants you
in a far more compelling way.

This is one of the reasons my first book,
The Dating Wizard, hammers home the
point on BEING THE MAN.

You must BE the man even when she insists she
doesn't WANT you to be the man, because it is
THE MAN that she wants!  As long as you are
the MAN, she is having wild fantasies that
keep her wet all the time, even if she is
arguing with you sometimes about wanting you
to be LESS of the man.

But when you are NOT being the man, and
becoming all soft and needy and insecure
and weak, suddenly she 'needs more space'
and more 'time to discover herself', etc,
etc, etc. 

Now, here’s the thing thing though:
It’s not as SIMPLE as ONLY being the MAN.

Being the man IS SUPER IMPORTANT.
It is the FOUNDATION.

But when picking up women, if you don’t ALSO
understand that female culture has evolved in
a way where women feel the need to show they
are NOT easy, you will also make no progress. 

Women have evolved this way because men
tend to NOT want promiscuous women to be
the mothers of their children.

So, one ON hand, being a MAN is the key
to attracting women.

On the other hand, if you are too overtly sexual
in your pick-up, if you are too aggressive, you
TRIGGER her ANTI-SLUT DEFENSE SHIELD.

This invisible shield is something she uses to
metaphorically BLOCK you from making
any progress with her in order for her to
PROVE to you that she is not a slut.

She wants to show that being AGGRESSIVE
is not very IMPRESSIVE to her, because LOTS
of guys suddenly get aggressive when they want
something, i.e. wanting HER. 

If she were to give sex to every guy who showed
a little bit of DESIRE to her, even if it is MANLY
desire expressed without apology, she would spend
her entire life on her back.

And THIS is just one area where having the right
COACH, having the right TRAINING, becomes
ESSENTIAL.

Picking up women, and KEEPING women attracted
long term, requires UNDERSTANDING and SKILL.

Let’s face it, if there’s ONE area that men have
competed against other men in since the beginning
of human history, it’s in the area of attracting
WOMEN.

There is no FINER or more WORTHY area of
getting the UTMOST skill and MASTERY in,
than the area of how to attract women.

It is for this reason, that I SERIOUSLY suggest
you get my ATTRACTION MASTERY PROGRAM.

This program contains approximately 12 HOURS
of my most POWERFUL strategies and concepts
for attracting women no matter WHERE you find
them, and no matter WHAT situation you are in.

This program has been designed to get men to
become GREAT  at attracting women.  When
you become GREAT at attracting women, this
serves as a powerful foundation for all your
other success with women, including relationships
and marriage. 

This way, if you decide to enter into a relationship,
or marriage, or if you decide to spend more time
on a particular woman, it will ONLY be because
you actually KNOW she is THE BEST CHOICE,
and NOT because you felt insecure that you
couldn’t get anyone else.

Insecure relationships are usually DOOMED
because the insecurities ultimately SUFFOCATE
the other person and stir resentments as well
as a lack of appreciation in the other person.

My ATTRACTION MASTERY PROGRAM is an absolute
MUST have, and it is ESSENTIAL material that
you won’t find in any of my other programs.

You can download it and be using it to attract
the women of your choice in just MINUTES
from now by going here:

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And if you haven’t yet downloaded my book,
“The Dating Wizard: Secrets to Success with Women”
then do that immediately.    

It’s at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Wizard.html

BOOTCAMPS are currently sold out for February
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Let me sum up bootcamp in one sentence:
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ON WOMAN AFTER WOMAN AFTER WOMAN AFTER WOMAN
UNTIL YOU GET THESE SKILLS DOWN SOLID.   
 
BOOTCAMP is at:

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Dealing With "Flaky" Women And Approaching "Moving Targets"

Sometimes the answers to guys' questions
about "pick up" and attracting women can be
VERY useful to many OTHER guys.

That's the case today, so here we go:  
    
***LETTER FROM A READER***

"Hi Michael,

On Sunday I met this gorgeous girl from
south Africa. I managed to get her email
by being THE MAN. Unfortunately we have
a very limited time frame because she's
leaving on wednesday. So, it's most
likely sex or nothing.

I'm from Berlin and she only speaks a
little German. So, we communicate in
English using email. This is cumbersome
because she's only online in pubs and
internet cafes.

However, I think she's playing games
(gorgeous and probably used to lots
of ass kissing). On sunday she mentioned
that she would like to go to a museum
today (Monday). So I proposed to visit
a museum together via email.

First she agreed and then canceled the
date in a second email ten minutes later
claiming she just met a friend.

She said she would get back later today
to fix a date for tomorrow (tuesday).
She didn't. So currently I'm thinking
about waiting till Tuesday noon until
I send her the following mail:

-------------8<---------snip------------->
Hi xxxx,

This is the second time you kind of stood
me up. So, I think your playing games.
However, I don't like being played with.

Please think about it. If you agree that
this is inappropriate behavior I'll accept
an apology and we should go out tonight.
Otherwise, enjoy your trip and good luck
with your internship.

x
-------------8><---------snip------------->

Is this appropriate or should I just ignore
her and see if she gets back? Is the
language OK? Am I too rude?

It's also possible that she's just hung over
from Sunday night. But then she should say so.
What do you think?

Thanks for any advice and your excellent programs.

Ronnie"

***MY REPLY***

Hi xxxxx,

Thanks for contacting me and for the kind words.

Regarding your question, I think the best
thing to do is NOT to IN ANY WAY let her
know she is pissing you off until you have
LEVERAGE in the situation.

And since she has just met you, there isn't
much leverage in your situation right now.

Showing frustration at this point to her,
or telling her that you think she is standing
you up, etc, will just come across as her
being the prize.

Also, as you mention, it's possible that
there are reasons, i.e. hung over, etc.

I would just PERSIST, but in the way that
a man who HAS OPTIONS and is ALREADY in
a great mood would persist.

And I would keep it ALL playful. 

Tell her to get her ass to the museum or
anywhere else, in a PLAYFUL confident way
that shows NONE OF THIS is bothering you
because you are the kind of man who
UNDERSTANDS the reality of a hot woman
and that until she knows you better
it's simply hard for her to know who
you really are and how awesome it is
to be with you. 

And think how you would behave as the
MAN WHO IS IN A GREAT MOOD with tons
of options who just happens to also
find her attractive.

One of the great ironies is that until
you EXPERIENCE the amount of choice that
a hottie gets, it often seems almost
IMPOSSIBLE to understand things from
that perspective, and yet it is THAT
perspective that is SOOOOOOOOOOOOO
important for success.

Think and behave like a HOT woman who
is on CLOUD NINE when it comes this
part of her life (dating)!

Then, when you behave THAT way, you automatically
become a BILLION times more attractive in your
BEHAVIOR and your mannerisms reflect the right
level of confidence, fun, and sensuality.

Also, when you understand her perspective, you
understand that nothing is meant by her maliciously,
and that in fact she probably DID enjoy meeting you,
it's just not an EMERGENCY to have to meet up again
in so little time, especially when she really does
not know you and how awesome you are.

The irony is that as you adopt this attitude,
you start to get so many women in your life
who are actually the ones chasing you, and
you find yourself behaving just like this
chick and without being malicious at all,
in fact you would think that if a chick
who was almost a stranger got upset at you
for not being able to meet up, you might
start to wonder why on earth is she
getting upset.   

By the way, I want to say that I learned
all this the hard way, but it made a
MASSIVE difference once it sunk in
and will make a massive difference
for you too, I am sure.

And now, let's move to our next reader's questions:

***ANOTHER LETTER FROM A READER***

"Good day Michael,

I want to ask your help regarding cold approaches.

In your Dating Wizard ebook, you mention that
the very first step in making approach is to
"Establish eye contact and walk right up
to her".

But from my decent experience, I noticed most
of the time, she would rather talk to her
friends (if she’s in a group) or tend to be
busy/pre-occupied to noticed a stranger like
me if they are alone ie. Phone-calling,
shopping, reading books etc.

Sometimes, they are walking way too fast before
I even have time to make my move.

So, my question is, does the approach always
have to start with eye contact?
What are the exceptions?

And how do I get started if she just keeps
busy doing her things?

Ever since I started out, I do get polite
responses from women, (sometimes their number)
but hardly get a date.

But that’s okay. I am still trying to get
the hang of it.

Now I am currently living near  my capital city.

And on the weekend, I do go out to public places
which are normally crowded with people (shopping
mall, train stations etc) and have a high chance
to meet some hotties.

But the problem is, I have several difficulties
in approaching women in such places.

I noticed at first that whenever I screen for her
looks (face, body, dress, or anything particular
that fills my taste), most of the time, I take
way too long to figure out whether she’s my
taste or not.

By the time I decide to do something, the women are
probably halfway down the escalators or far enough
that requires me to chase just for the sake of the
approach, which later on, I decided to stop halfway
since…

1. It burns a lot of my energy to chase her
around like that.

2.It looks creepy especially if she noticed me,
which tend to make her walk even faster.

3.It changes my positive state from being playful
or intrigue to just a tired exhausted guy.

It happens A LOT  that sometimes I feel that
this style of approach is just too much for me.

Where did I messed up?

How do I approach a moving target without affecting
my inner state, and make that SPLIT-SECOND decision
to check her out and approach before she was long gone?

How can I improve and develop the right skills to
approach women in such a tough environment?

Michael, I need your help right now, because deep
down inside I know you are the BEST advice that
I can get.

Feel free to share this if you want to. Maybe
the good guys out there can benefit from this
information too

Thanks for your time.

Sincerely,

A., Malaysia"

***MY REPLY***

First of all, congratulations on taking ACTION
and not just being an observer of attractive women.

Also, I think it's cool how the art and skill
of approaching and meeting women and attracting
them is often so similar even halfway across
the world. In other words, getting these skills
will get guys women ANYWHERE they go.

ABOUT EYE-CONTACT:

Onto your first question regarding eye-contact
and how it seems so many women have their
attention on a book, phone call, or talking
to their friends, shopping, etc.

If you can't make eye-contact right away,
DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT, and GO RIGHT AHEAD
with the approach anyway.

The real point behind the eye-contact is that
eye-contact is VERY important.

The Dating Wizard book is an important
FOUNDATION for any man's success with
women, so that is why I stress the
CORE FOUNDATION concepts in that book.

Giving eye contact right away shows that you
aren't a creepy guy, that you aren't afraid
of revealing your interest in her.

Giving eye contact also says you are
interested in learning more about HER,
as the expression goes, "the eyes are
the window to the soul".

And giving eye contact and maintaining it
instead of looking away when she looks
back shows you are CONFIDENT because you
are implying that you feel you have
the value and that you are ready to
PROCEED with her rather than EJECT. 

So eye contact is IMPORTANT.

You should be making steady eye-contact and
not darting your glance all around the place
instead of focusing it on her.

Being able to look right into the eyes of
a woman who is super hot, and MAINTAIN
eye contact is sometimes a challenge if
a guy is new at this thing, because she
is so hot that it almost feels like
you're being COOKED in her hotness, but
this is GOOD, as the longer you force
yourself to stay in there, the easier
it gets in the future, and the more
your mind calibrates itself and
perceives yourself as being the
kind of guy that has these women
in his everyday reality.

So again, if you can't make eye contact
BEFORE speaking, then just go right ahead
and START speaking and she will then
TURN toward you and THEN you will easily
make eye contact, which you should maintain.

This is where using the RIGHT voice tonality
for opening is even MORE important, so that
whatever she was doing PRIOR to your approach
becomes VAPORIZED in her mind and all her
attention immediately goes toward YOU.

Remember, the right tonality is often a
combination of SEVERAL states of mind,
being upbeat, being in touch with your
sensual side (imagine the slow delivery
of the way a person might say that
"the chocolate cake was sinnnnnnnnfully good,
it was friggen awwwwwwwwwwwwwwsome"),
and being dominant. 

These EMOTIONAL STATES can be CONVEYED in
your TONALITY, and they help like crazy
to open your conversations with women
successfully.

So from now on, you no longer will be held
back from taking action just because you
can't immediately make eye contact, right?

Now, regarding your other point:

WOMEN WHO ARE MOVING TARGETS

You mentioned that by the time you finish
screening the women they are usually out
of reach, i.e. "halfway down the escalators"
or that the situation would then require
you to chase after them, which would
burn your energy, get you out of the
right state of mind, and that it looks
CREEPY.

EXACTLY, I agree TOTALLY.
This is why, as you notice in the beginning
of the book, I mention how the skill of
attracting women is a skill that you spend
time practicing so that when the skill is
required you can go into action IMMEDIATELY.

This INCLUDES the ability to quickly make
a decision on whether to make the approach
or not.

In fact, this is a HUGE, HUGE, HUUUUUUUUUGE
thing that will make a MASSIVE difference
for you in the future.

And, if you CAN'T make the decision fast enough,
then I ALWAYS believe you SHOULD make the approach.

There is NOTHING to lose, because at WORST
if the woman is not exactly your interest,
you can always decide that LATER, i.e.
during your chat with her.

If you notice while chatting to her that she
is NOT what you are interested in, you can
just treat the chat as a social interaction
and let her go without leading her on.

AND, the practice will just make you better
anyway for the NEXT approach.  

There's no DOWN side to making the approach.

I do agree that CHASING after women in terms
of PHYSICALLY trying to catch up with them
is bad strategy for all those reasons, it
gets you out of the right frame of mind
and puts you into a more desperate one
by the very nature of the act of running
after these women, plus it can be exhausting
if you do this all day, plus it can look
creepy.

Save yourself from ALL that by taking action
IMMEDIATELY.  Get yourself into the habit
of taking immediate action, and this will
ALSO help you speed up your ability to know
whether you are physically attracted or not
to where it only takes a split-second.

When you get good at this skill, it only
takes a SPLIT-SECOND to know if you are
interested or not in a woman.

I also want to add one little comment here:
To any guy that thinks this all seems like
a lot of WORK to get a chick, let me PLEASE
make one thing SUPER DUPER-FRIGGEN DUPER
CLEAR:

Until you are actually IN THE ACTUAL MOMENT
of doing this stuff, I can't possibly describe
to you with enough justice just how much
EXCITEMENT is sparked by the knowledge that
WOMEN WHO ARE TOTAL STRANGERS RIGHT IN FRONT
OF YOU CAN SOON BE YOUR GIRLFRIENDS OR LOVERS
OR WHATEVER YOU WANT WITH THEM by simply
TAKING THE RIGHT ACTIONS.

All the entertainment in the world, and believe
me I absolutely LOVE movies, and I used to be
addicted to video games, all these things are
still NOTHING compared to the EXCITEMENT of
not only MEETING women, but MEETING THEM
AS TOTAL STRANGERS out in the REAL WORLD.

On a very basic primal level, this is really
what we are all HARDWIRED to do, even more
than enjoying video games or watching movies,
the idea of GETTING WOMEN is in fact a huge
part of a lot of movies and video games!

And the action and skills and strategies
of meeting women out there for real
actually forces your mind to use just
about ALL it's resources, it uses your
sense of timing, your social skills, your
wit, your humor, your passion, your empathy,
your courage, it uses ALL OF YOUR EMOTIONS.

To be honest with you, for a while I was
ADDICTED to this as well, it was an escape
I used for some personal issues which I have
since worked on for years. I still believe that
meeting women is a great POSITIVE motivator
for making progress in many OTHER important
areas of life as well.

When the right woman or women are in your life, you are ON.
When the right woman or women aren't in your life, it almost feels like being ASLEEP.

The key of course is balance, and meeting
the kind of women who give you great
emotions and not negative ones.

So again, if anyone thinks that meeting women
this way is some kind of challenge, the answer
is that it is the most exciting, fun, rewarding
and PRIMAL challenge there is, it's what we
were all BORN to do.

And if you're reading this right now,and would
like to get these skills for attracting women
out there who are total strangers and turning
them into the women who are crazy about you,
crazy about getting naked with you, crazy
about driving you wild in bed, and who can't
wait to be with you again, I would LOVE to be
the guy who serves you as your most dedicated
coach all in REAL TIME on tons of real women.

I will teach you in an EXCLUSIVE private bootcamp,
one-on-one, for two entire days as you learn the
skills for approaching and attracting women
ANYWHERE.

To sign up for the Real World Bootcamp go here:

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I'd also like to mention a very important program
of mine, called the Attraction Mastery Program.

For many men, before they are ready to meet
that special girl who is THE ONE, they need
to DATE a lot of women.  That makes sense,
you get experience with women before you
know exactly what you want.

In my Attraction Mastery Program, I focus on
ONE THING, and that thing is ATTRACTION.

And by attraction, I also mean the attraction
that makes a woman want to get "down and dirty"
with you, if you know what I mean.

This program ANSWERS all the "nitty gritty"
questions guys have, it EVEN shows you exactly
how to walk right into a club, get a woman
seated privately with you in seconds, and
be hard-core making out with her in just
moments from then, even if she is NOT drunk
or tipsy at all.

This program also shows you how to do "pick up"
ANYWHERE you meet a woman.
  
This program is so powerful, that I personally
think that you are going to have to be CAREFUL
about which women you decide you WANT in your
life and which ones you don't, because this
program is not particularly designed for
any ONE kind of woman, it is going to get
you TONS of women, and it's up to YOU to
decide what kind of woman you want after that.
    
This program was professionally recorded in
the studio and contains TWELVE HOURS of pure
GOLD on how to attract women no matter WHERE
you find them.

You can take what you learn from this program and
be using it on women IMMEDIATELY.

Download it NOW, at:
     
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Till next time,

Michael Marks 

What Superior Means When Attracting Women

Just wanted to share an important email that came in
that I think has a lot of relevance for your dating success
both IMMEDIATELY as well as LONG-TERM.

LETTER:

Hi Michael,

First I would like to thank you for sharing your knowledge
about dating, relationships and that stuff with the rest of
the world. After I broke up with my ex girlfriend, my
friend who read your book advised me to buy it and
read it. So I did so.

It was great! I just could not believe how "stupid" of a
nice guy I was. Being THE MAN is the most powerful
thing that could have happened to me.

And it is only because of you. I broke up with my ex
girlfriend with whom I was almost two years because
I was a nice guy.

I used to buy her things, dinners... everything that nice
guys do. How stupid :)

7 days after we broke up I found a new girl. During those 7
days I read your book, of course.

First I decided to act as THE MAN, as you said, and then it
sank in finally, I actually become THE MAN.

I just can't explain how she is crazy about me. How much I
am desirable to her... sexy... and so on.

And not just that about her... there is so much good about me.
I became stronger! And it is so wonderful.

However... during this time, almost 3 months in this new
relationship, I talked to my new girlfriend about her
relationships, but discreetly. And she told me everything
about that. I also asked her if she ever had a f*&k friend...
and her answer was NO. At least she said so.

But I clearly let her now that if she ever lied to me, it is over.
She is just nothing to me.

Also, indirectly I explained to her that she should be happy
because I am with her....

And what happened now...
Last night some of my friends told me that before
me she had a f**k friend. WTF?
Of course, I didn't believe him because I KNOW her and
we talked about everything, and especially because I know
the girl who told that to my friend and that girl is a b*(ch.

But anyway a small seed of doubt is right now in me.
So I need your advice! Of course even if there was a
f(*k friend, it is just a part of her history. But what is
s(*t about that is that potential f*&k friend is my friend
who didn't tell me anything about that. It even doesn't
look like as my girlfriend and he were ever together...

I am just thinking to ask her to tell me the truth while
I am just totally cool and calm...

Suggest my what to do, please.

Thank you for your time!

Sincerely,
Len K.

MY ANSWER:

Thanks for the props on my book and my materials.
I'm going to get right to the point here:

First of all, you have to watch out what other people say,
because they could just be jealous and trying to ruin what
you have.

Second, you yourself mention that the girl who said this
stuff is a b**ch.

The MOST important thing to understand though is that
even if she DID, it is just a part of her history, exactly as
you said.

You have to understand that for girls, it's REALLY hard in

our society for them to be honest because society judges

them for this stuff like "f**k friend". 

ALSO, it may very well have been that she considered 

it MORE than a f**k friend but it ended up BECOMING 

a "ff" situation.

This is what often happens in real life. Most girls
are not exactly into ffs, because sex is far too
easy for them and therefore it becomes all about
find a guy who is really cool, and THEN they want
him for a relationship. So if you're a cool guy,
you can get a relationship no problem, and the
irony is that the cooler you are, the less needy
you are for one.

But anyway, my point is that what happens is if
the girl feels that her relationship is sinking,
she feels mixed emotions, i.e. bonding emotions
are still there, chemistry might be there but it's
way lower due to things such as lack of trust or
other issues, i.e. the guy NOT being the MAN.

The part of what you say about the potential
"f**k friend" being your friend who didn't tell
you anything about it might be because he feels
weird about talking about it, and like you say it
might not even be true.

I suggest you don't worry about it as long as
your chick is treating you right, and you will find
out ALL the truth anyway in time, ESPECIALLY if
you DO NOT MAKE HER EVER FEEL JUDGED IN
ANY WAY. That way, she can feel that even if
she DID have the guy as a FF, it's cool to tell you
about it. Then, with a smile one day, you can ask
about it in a way that shows you will not get
upset if it is true.

Because in fact, if you are the man, then you
REALLY DON'T CARE, because you KNOW that
YOU are all that she cares about anyway!!!

Remember, what counts is that she is into YOU.
And THIS is the way to KEEP her into YOU.

GETTING a great girl is PART of the challenge,
but then KEEPING her is ALSO part of the skill
as well, and you must not LET anything or
ANYONE screw with your MIND to make you WEAK
or INSECURE.

I'm not saying that you should walk around
with rose-colored glasses, but you should
definitely not walk around with INSECURITY
glasses that end up ruining your LIFE with
women.

And by the way, it's not like people are
always INTENTIONALLY trying to hurt you
or to screw with your mind.

Sometimes, they are just projecting their own
thoughts, and sometimes may GENUINELY
be TRYING to HELP you.

But in the end, YOU have to be the judge,
and it's important to be coming from a place
of STRONG belief in your value and in the
fact that OTHERS see this value, rather than
the REVERSE.

The more you feel your own value, the more you
see how a woman actually feels your value as well.

The more you experience this, the more cool
and more fun you are around women. The more
attracted they get, the better they treat you,
and then you get even MORE secure, and this
starts a never-ending cycle that makes you
infinitely powerful with women.

But alas, if you take the OTHER path,
you start an infinitely NEGATIVE cycle.

So you have to be careful about which
emotional path you want to take.

She got attracted to you because you are
THE MAN, you don't give into insecurities.

VERY few men are like this, ESPECIALLY when
it comes to women, that it really makes
a woman feel LUCKY to be with such a man.

It makes her feel you are super attractive,
because that can be the only explanation
for why you are so secure.

And this is what I mean by being the SUPERIOR one.

The cold hard truth is that we all want someone
BETTER than we feel we 'deserve', and we certainly
don't want LESS than we feel we deserve.

A woman wants the man who is a SUPERIOR 'deal'
than she feels that SHE is worth.

So if a woman feels she is worthy of "x" type
of guy, she wants MORE than she feels she is
worthy of. And she CERTAINLY doesn't want
a guy who is INFERIOR to her.

If you want a woman to be NUTS about you,
you must ensure she feels you are SUPERIOR
to her.

All this is GOOD, not bad or mean and it doesn't
have ANYTHING to do with acting abusive.

In fact, the best couples on earth are the ones
where BOTH the man and the woman are super high
self-esteem and they STILL feel that they somehow
got LUCKY. 

They BOTH feel that somehow even though they are
so awesome, they somehow attracted someone who
really is MORE than they expected.

Both parties to the relationship feel that

THEY are the one getting the superior deal.

THAT'S going to make for a happy relationship.

And the first MAJOR step to making a woman
feel SHE is the lucky one is to be MORE
secure than her, and ESPECIALLY being a
MAN, there is ALSO the bonus element of
being more DOMINANT as well which is a
masculine quality that turns ON a woman.

This dominance is not about pushing her
around, it's about taking initiative, it's
about approaching HER and not waiting for
her to approach YOU, etc, etc.

When a woman meets a man who GETS all this,
and still knows how to treat her RIGHT,
she MELTS in all the right ways.

And if you are reading this right now, and
haven't yet downloaded my very first book,
"The Dating Wizard", then do that now.

That's the book that this man is speaking
about that changed his life.

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Wizard.html

And if you haven't yet downloaded my latest
program, "The Charismatic Man", then you'll
want to do that immediately at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/charismatic-man.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

BEING THE MAN, MYTH-BUSTING ON APPROACH ANXIETY

Being a REAL MAN is not always easy,
but's it's always sexy.

Being a REAL MAN means there aren't
always "easy way outs" or gimmicks to
solve issues.

So for example, all the way back in 2003,
in my first book, "The Dating Wizard",
I use a principle I coined being "THE MAN"
several thousands of times throughout the
book and in my newsletters.

I use this term as an approach to doing things,
the masculine way of going about things when
it comes to women and life in general, and how
this naturally is attractive to women.

In order for a woman to feel feminine,
it's crucial that you behave in a way that
is masculine, as this polarity brings out
her femininity.

This concept of being THE MAN sometimes
get distorted by supposed "experts" who are
always cooking up some gimmicky "Get the
babes with my EASY strategy" type thing.

If only that worked, I would be the first one
to tell you.

There's another thing I need to make clear:

Some people think it's important to know the
CAUSE of your approach anxiety if you want
to destroy it.

This is, put simply, wrong.

You can spend ten thousand years in the
psychologist's chair trying to figure out
WHY you are a certain way, but when
it comes to beating approach anxiety,
figuring out the WHY is NOT really
relevant or required for SOLVING
the anxiety.

(In fact, a good psychologist already
knows this and would not waste time
on that.)

For example, let's say a guy started smoking
cigarrettes as a young adult due to PEER
PRESSURE.  Or due to wanting to experiment
with cigarettes.

Now, the guy is ADDICTED to cigarettes.

He needs to get over the CHEMICAL ADDICTION
TO NICOTINE now.

It doesn't matter anymore HOW he got into this mess,
talking about things like peer pressure and not giving
into peer pressure, or whatever, is actually NOT
the main thing here for getting over NICOTINE
ADDICTION.

Similarly, the things that caused or are causing the
approach anxiety (the anxiety of approaching
a woman who is a stranger to get to know her)
are NOT that important to figure out.

Let's say the issue that caused him to get
into smoking and get addicted was originally
peer pressure and lack of self-esteem--well,
even if we now help his self-esteem and boost
it into the STRATOSPHERE, it doesn't change
the fact he is still ADDICTED TO NICOTINE!!!

What is important to do now is end the chemical
dependence.

And similarly, in a way, what is causing the approach
anxiety is a DIFFERENT kind of chemical "storm"
going on in the mind that is actually causing the
anxiety.  Remember, ALL emotions are nothing but
chemicals in the mind, whether released naturally
or otherwise.

And to change the chemical state of the anxiety, it is
CRUCIAL to, in your mind, slowly EMBRACE THE FEARS,
even the worst case scenarios, playing them in your mind
over and over again, till they become dull and boring. 

This changes the CHEMICAL STORM in your mind
to a different chemical reaction, one that feels a
hell of a lot better and allows you to see the
situation in a far more empowering perspective.

THIS IS BEING THE MAN, AND IT TAKES
MASSIVE GUTS AND COURAGE TO DO.

Rather than the illusion of the "easy way out" gimmicks,
this is the REAL way.

And this is just the beginning of the process,
it's explained in full depth in my program called
"Obliterating Approach Anxiety", which I SERIOUSLY
suggest you get IMMEDIATELY by going here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/obliterating.html

I have made this program is available to you via
INSTANT MP3 download, so you can be

listening to it in MINUTES from now, and be
using it to approach women TODAY.

So don't waste precious time on the wrong
strategies for solving approach anxiety. 

Get the REAL goods and start enjoying all
the world of opportunity right NOW.

It's summer and there are TONS of women
out and about!

Again, this important program is at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/obliterating.html

Till next time,
 
Michael Marks