Passion, Action, And Attraction

Just a very short newsletter today,
but an important one for you to get
this year off to the right start.

Everybody talks about making resolutions
this time of year, and there are probably
more books and more experts on how to
cause change in your life than ever
before in human history, yet one
thing BOGGLES MY MIND:

WHY DO THEY MAKE IT ALL SO COMPLICATED?????????

You need two ingredients for effective
change: PASSION and ACTION.

If you think you are going to create
change in your life by dragging your
feet, you're wrong.  Yes, it's better
than nothing, but it's not the way
to EXCELLENCE.

And if you think you're going to
get the change you want just because
you WANT something badly enough, but
you aren't taking ACTION, ain't nothing
gonna happen then either.

But put the two TOGETHER-
PASSION and ACTION, and then
EVERYTHING happens as a result,
including all the other steps.

Let me give you an example- I recently had
a bootcamp client that I was not even HALF-WAY
through training, I'd done several demonstrations,
and it was time for him to put more of what
he had been taught and what he had observed
into action.

So what followed showed a TON of passion,
AND he took action- and this was highlighted
when we were walking in the cold outside,
past a trendy restaurant and through the
the window a stunning sight could be seen.

A beautiful woman was having dinner with
a group of friends, and it ignited the
fire of his PASSION.

He took ACTION.
Even though this was the kind of restaurant
where you need to have reservations, where
you must wait for someone to come to you
to help you find a table, and  even though he
had no connection to her or her friends, NONE
of this stopped him.

He went STRAIGHT in, and when the staff
asked if they could help him find a
table, he just said he had to speak
with someone at a table- his passion
and conviction made it clear he was
genuine, and they just let him
straight on in.

He went directly up to her, no games,
no faking, no trying to look like
it was a matter of coincidence.

By the way, this is far more attractive
than trying to cover it all up - the key
though is to also have the conversation
skills to spontaneously start and
continue a conversation with a woman
who is a total stranger- which comes
from a combination of learning through
instruction and through practice as well.

Now, not only did the woman not react
negatively, she was warm to his approach,
the only problem is that he was so new,
that he actually ejected due to a
combination of not knowing what else
to say after his initial genuine opening,
but also the pressure was a lot for a
beginner, and so he ejected, which is
perfectly fine- this was one of his
FIRST approaches during bootcamp, so
it's impossible to get all the conversation
skills down that fast.

But SHE was ready for him to CONTINUE.
See, women aren't trained to do pick
up themselves, so you have to kind of
get the ball rolling a bit before they can
even be able to close the gap and help
you along- it's not like they don't want
to, but it IS a skill.

But my point is, with THAT level of
PASSION and ACTION- I can take a student
VERY VERY VERRRRRRRRRRRY FAR.

Yes, there ARE many different skills involved
in the actual approaches/pick ups- and they are
vital, absolutely crucial - but if you have the
PASSION, and you are a person who takes ACTION,
then you can truly BENEFIT from my teaching
you all the skills.

You are the kind of person who I will be able
to teach those SKILLS- the skills of calibrating
your approach perfectly, the skill of knowing
how to approach in terms of every nuance,
from the angle you approach her to the level
of connection you make to the things you
say to start off the conversation, to making
her feel comfortable, to conveying the best elements
of your personality, to the kind of humor
to use, to keeping the conversation going,
to making her want to feed the conversation
herself, etc., etc., etc.

And when it comes to THIS field itself, it
is a PASSION of mine, and I have put over
a DECADE of passionate ACTION into it,
CONSTANTLY refining.

One of the things that I have always been
passionate about in this field, is how to
attract women without using lies, and
without engaging in any malfeasance.

No one, absolutely no one else on the planet,
has been teaching men this no-nonsense way,
for as long as I have. No one.

There have been some people who have tried
to imitate me, but that is all they have done.

Tried to imitate.
Because their passion is not this field,
their passion is trying to make an easy
income from doing nothing original.

In fact, one company thought it would be
cool to film men approaching women,
but forgot to mention that the women
were paid to act happy to meet the men.

They then of course, when caught, mentioned
it later. I'm sure they're reading this newsletter
right now, hoping to get something from
me, but they don't understand the thing to
copy from me is having good ethics- believe
it or not, without ethics, there IS NO connection
between human beings, and that includes
between men and women.

Another thing to copy from me is my emphasis on
the fact that this is a SKILL that takes PRACTICE.

There are TONS of important elements to learn,
and ABSOLUTELY having an experienced professional
as your instructor will make your learning infinitely
faster than having to learn it all through trial and error
completely on your own, but you will STILL NEED
TO PRACTICE.

Other companies like to focus on drunk women.
To me, that's not a real connection, but I understand
that some men don't care.  At least those guys
are honest.

I like to keep it real.
I could make a hundred time more profit
by screwing guys over with endless marketing
nonsense, from pretending they've seen spirits,
to enlightenment, to all sorts of stuff that no one
can ever prove.

I want to simply help you attract women without
using anything sketchy.  

Some men lie about their age, their accomplishments,
their finances, their social status, their job, etc. and
so to me that would feel SUCKY even if it DID result
in getting the woman, because you'd always feel
like it wasn't real, or like you were in jeopardy of
losing her if you were honest.

But what is so crazy is that if you are
actually ATTRACTING a woman, that's all she
CARES about- SO nothing else matters, including
the things you THOUGHT you needed to lie about-
and what is IRONIC is that the giving into
the INSECURITY AROUND whatever issue you
think you need to lie about -- well that
INSECURITY is the REALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL
ANTI-ATTRACTOR!

Is it every attractive woman on the planet?
No, but it's more women though than you could
ever have the time for in a dozen lifetimes.

I've seen it happen SO often, it's RIDICULOUSLY
obvious to me at this point. I'm talking about
women FIGHTING to convince YOU to call them,
just MINUTES after approaching them- women
that most men would think they had 'no chance'
with.

And this is one of the reasons I'm not a fan
of online dating- it doesn't give you the best
way to SHOW YOUR FULL PERSONALITY and to show
what you can do with that personality.

In person, you not only have your voice and
body language, but you also get to REACT
and INTERACT with women, so they get the
FULL EXPERIENCE of what it means to be
in your aura.

So, if you are PASSIONATE about having the
power to attract the women of your choice,
and if you are prepared to take ACTION,
then I already know you are going to
learn EVERYTHING and I already know it's
going to be a THRILL to teach you.

Take ACTION now- contact me TODAY for your
BOOTCAMP program.

BOOTCAMP is where I take your passion, your
commitment to ACTION, and then EQUIP you with
all the SKILLS covering EVERY SITUATION you
can find yourself in with ANY woman you want
to attract, no matter WHERE you happen to
see her.

BOOTCAMP is at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks    

How To Attract Women INSTANTLY

When you see a woman  you would like
to approach, the moment of opportunity
is often just a few seconds, so it is
CRUCIAL to learn how to attract a
woman INSTANTLY.

What you're about to read is
pure GOLD, so make sure you're
ready to fully digest this one.

The one thing everyone wants more of
is this thing known as “feeling good”.
The other thing that is pretty
INFINITE is the human want for
sexual things.

No one gets enough of those two things,
and anyone that can GIVE IT rules the world.

They really both fall under the
basic category of "feeling good",
they both boil down to the release
of endorphins into the bloodstream.

It’s the reason the ENTERTAINMENT
industry is a billion dollar industry.

And obviously, things like COCAINE.
It's all about FEELING AWESOME.

People will do anything to feel
awesome, unfortunately some people
even resort to drugs that will
DESTROY them.

Ask someone if they remember five
things they learned in college and
they’ll usually STRUGGLE and FAIL
to give you an INSTANT answer, but
ask them the last name of a singer
name Britney, and you’ll get INSTANT
answers.

Same thing if you ask the name of
the band called The Rolling ______ .

Now, when it comes to attracting a woman,
most guys tend to approach women and
they try to IMPRESS her by listing cool
things about themselves, or by sounding
important, etc.

None of this really fires off the FEELING
GOOD chemicals in her system, none of this
fires off ENDORPHINS. 

And this is especially true when a woman
is particularly attractive and has seen it
all before.

The worst sin is feeling needy, that actual
FEELING of insecurity and neediness is
a huge problem in itself, because it
makes it impossible for you to give
off the right vibes.

Neediness and insecurity are the
ANTI-ENDORPHINS. They SUCK OUT
the fun vibes from surrounding
human beings.  They REPEL women.

So if you are feeling needy, the first thing
I must tell you is to SMACK YOURSELF
SILLY and not BEHAVE that way at least
when you are approaching and chatting up
a woman.

If you are feeling needy, at least don’t
ACT upon that neediness. 

This is the difference between a compliment
you give to a woman that comes from your
confidence and the kind of compliment
you give to a woman that comes from
feeling like “oh my god I better give her
a compliment and let her know my entire
emotions are at risk on whether she likes
me or not”.

So, for example, a compliment given
from CONFIDENCE might take the
following form:

Let’s say you’re at a supermarket, and
there’s a striking woman checking out
the cookies section.  So you roll up
to her, and you give her this serious
look, instead of this big toothy smile
that would look  like you’re a puddle
of wuss, that is totally needy for her.

So you give her this look, fake serious,
(which will make the humor have more
impact coming up, and this is important
because you don’t want to let on that
a joke is coming or you ruin the whole
thing) and you say:

“What do you think you’re doing?” 

Say it almost accusingly, as if she’s in
TROUBLE for something.

Don’t go psycho, just say it with a bit
of a “you’re in trouble” kind of vibe
to your voice. 

Then, she’ll say something like
“What do you mean?” and she’ll be
all serious.

Then you can say, “Well, you shouldn’t
be here.  There are no attractive women
in this area.  Not for at least 40 miles,
you shouldn’t be here, it’s not allowed.”

Now, remember, you say this all with
a mock serious face, which has way
more impact, because it takes her a
sec for her to get it, she won’t see
it coming. 

Now, when she smiles, don’t start
smiling and laughing, that will ruin it.
KEEP ON ACTING TOTALLY
STRAIGHT FORWARD.

“Yeah, it’s dangerous in fact, you
shouldn’t even be here. Seriously.”

Now, at this point, and it’s just a
beginning, you’re at least showing:

A SENSE OF FUN

GUTS

AND YOU’RE NOT ALL SMILY
TOOTHY KISSING UP IN TERMS
OF YOUR EXPRESSION ON YOUR
FACE AND TONALITY OF VOICE

This is a huge thing, by the way,
because by having the serious
expression and tonality, you
can get away with giving a
HUGE compliment that basically
is saying she is very attractive,
without at all seeming like you’re
week in the knees for her and
all needy.

But it’s not over yet, there’s more.
This is just an OPENING here.

You must COOK this INTERACTION till it’s
really heated UP.

So for example, at this point, you
could say “Hi, I’m Joe (or whatever your name is)
and extend your hand, and she will likely
do the same and tell you her name.

Give a firm handshake and solid
eye contact as you do this.

Then, time for some more fun:

For example, now that you’re both
in front of the cookies, you can say:

“You can tell a lot about a person
from what kind of junk food they
like. In your case, you love chocolate
cookies, and chocolate is sinful,
so you’re the kind of person that
really is going to enjoy life and
the kind of people that are definitely
going to party in hell, that’s my
type for sure.”

There are subtle undertones to all this.
The idea of being naughty and having
fun and being sinful, is giving her
permission to relax, and yet it’s
all being done in such an INNOCENT
way here, after all, we’re talking
COOKIES here!

Something like this is guaranteed to
get her responding, and agreeing, and
you want to be building a YES ladder
as soon as possible, the more things
she is truly saying YES to the better.

Now, I give this example on purpose
because you don’t have to be a party
animal to do this, you don’t have to
hang out at nightclubs, you don’t
have to even go outside your normal
environment, EVERYONE needs
to go basic shopping.

You can turn up the ante even more,
so for example, as you and her are
chatting, and reaching the checkout
aisle, you can tell the clerk that
this woman has been STALKING you
the entire time, and thank God that
now finally someone is here to see it,
to save you from the harassment
of this woman.

She’s going to smile at this, plus she’s
going to love the fact you are so not
needy for her, so confident, that you
are FOR SURE not going to be like
all the other guys she has met that
were so needy for her, that had no
MASCULINITY left, they gave
all their ‘mojo’ away to her, 
while YOU have it in SPADES.

Now, remember, this is all coming from
a place of CONFIDENCE, not maliciousness,
and not insecurity, there is a fine yet supremely
important difference between these things.

There are endless things you can
playfully tease her on as well, even
at the checkout counter.  For example,
let’s say you need bags and she has
her own environmentally friendly bag.

So you can pretend you are the evil
corporate guy and she is the hippie
saving the world, and that you’re
far too evil for a girl like her, (which
is again the opposite of most guys
trying to convince her of why they
are the right guy for her, out of neediness).

Then, let’s say she ends up needing one
extra bag so she needs an actual plastic
bag and has to buy one, (which is pretty
common because often we don’t perfectly
estimate how much stuff we’re going
to have), so then you can playfully
comment that you are already having
an evil influence on her, turning her
to your evil ways.

So, during this interaction she has had with
you, she has seen that you are gutsy, you
are funny, you are not afraid to give a
compliment, you are spontaneous, you
are social, and that you understand
the magical thing called “sexual tension”
and how to create it.

Most men have no clue what this even
is, and why women want it so badly.

And you will have done this all in
a very BRIEF amount of time, which
is all the more cool.

At THIS point, you can do whatever
you want, you can chat with her some
more, you can take her number, the
point is that you have TRIGGERED
HER EMOTIONS and shown that
you are a man in the right way.

And this is just the tip of the iceberg.
This material runs DEEP. It's about
the most PRIMAL elements of how women
respond to men that GIVE OFF THE
"SURVIVAL" VIBES. 

The things I described above are
MANIFESTATIONS of the traits of
MEN WHO SURVIVE, and therefore
ignite ATTRACTION in her on
a primal, sexual, level.

If you’d like to get my most
ADVANCED training on igniting a
woman's attraction for you, I
seriously suggest you get my
ATTRACTION MASTERY program at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

This program is a WORKHORSE.
It just keeps on giving you MORE
and MORE and MORE of the most
absolutely EFFECTIVE strategies
for attracting the women of your
choice.

Every man who is serious about
actually GETTING the woman he
wants should have this program.

I have also been ADDING to this program
over the years with important programs
to keep you constantly updated on the
most effective strategies for attraction
success.

One of these programs is called Attraction Accelerators,
and if you haven't yet downloaded it, then do that
IMMEDIATELY, at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/attraction-accelerators.html

Get the Attraction Mastery Program.  Get Accelerators.
And get the woman of your dreams.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To Attract A Woman INSTANTLY

When you see a woman  you would like
to approach, the moment of opportunity
is often just a few seconds, so it is
CRUCIAL to learn how to attract a
woman INSTANTLY.

What you're about to read is
pure GOLD, so make sure you're
ready to fully digest this one.

The one thing everyone wants more of
is this thing known as “feeling good”.
The other thing that is pretty
INFINITE is the human want for
sexual things.

No one gets enough of those two things,
and anyone that can GIVE IT rules the world.

They really both fall under the
basic category of "feeling good",
they both boil down to the release
of endorphins into the bloodstream.

It’s the reason the ENTERTAINMENT
industry is a billion dollar industry.

And obviously, things like COCAINE.
It's all about FEELING AWESOME.

People will do anything to feel
awesome, unfortunately some people
even resort to drugs that will
DESTROY them.

Ask someone if they remember five
things they learned in college and
they’ll usually STRUGGLE and FAIL
to give you an INSTANT answer, but
ask them the last name of a singer
name Britney, and you’ll get INSTANT
answers.

Same thing if you ask the name of
the band called The Rolling ______ .

Now, when it comes to attracting a woman,
most guys tend to approach women and
they try to IMPRESS her by listing cool
things about themselves, or by sounding
important, etc.

None of this really fires off the FEELING
GOOD chemicals in her system, none of this
fires off ENDORPHINS. 

And this is especially true when a woman
is particularly attractive and has seen it
all before.

The worst sin is feeling needy, that actual
FEELING of insecurity and neediness is
a huge problem in itself, because it
makes it impossible for you to give
off the right vibes.

Neediness and insecurity are the
ANTI-ENDORPHINS. They SUCK OUT
the fun vibes from surrounding
human beings.  They REPEL women.

So if you are feeling needy, the first thing
I must tell you is to SMACK YOURSELF
SILLY and not BEHAVE that way at least
when you are approaching and chatting up
a woman.

If you are feeling needy, at least don’t
ACT upon that neediness. 

This is the difference between a compliment
you give to a woman that comes from your
confidence and the kind of compliment
you give to a woman that comes from
feeling like “oh my god I better give her
a compliment and let her know my entire
emotions are at risk on whether she likes
me or not”.

So, for example, a compliment given
from CONFIDENCE might take the
following form:

Let’s say you’re at a supermarket, and
there’s a striking woman checking out
the cookies section.  So you roll up
to her, and you give her this serious
look, instead of this big toothy smile
that would look  like you’re a puddle
of wuss, that is totally needy for her.

So you give her this look, fake serious,
(which will make the humor have more
impact coming up, and this is important
because you don’t want to let on that
a joke is coming or you ruin the whole
thing) and you say:

“What do you think you’re doing?” 

Say it almost accusingly, as if she’s in
TROUBLE for something.

Don’t go psycho, just say it with a bit
of a “you’re in trouble” kind of vibe
to your voice. 

Then, she’ll say something like
“What do you mean?” and she’ll be
all serious.

Then you can say, “Well, you shouldn’t
be here.  There are no attractive women
in this area.  Not for at least 40 miles,
you shouldn’t be here, it’s not allowed.”

Now, remember, you say this all with
a mock serious face, which has way
more impact, because it takes her a
sec for her to get it, she won’t see
it coming. 

Now, when she smiles, don’t start
smiling and laughing, that will ruin it.
KEEP ON ACTING TOTALLY
STRAIGHT FORWARD.

“Yeah, it’s dangerous in fact, you
shouldn’t even be here. Seriously.”

Now, at this point, and it’s just a
beginning, you’re at least showing:

A SENSE OF FUN

GUTS

AND YOU’RE NOT ALL SMILY
TOOTHY KISSING UP IN TERMS
OF YOUR EXPRESSION ON YOUR
FACE AND TONALITY OF VOICE

This is a huge thing, by the way,
because by having the serious
expression and tonality, you
can get away with giving a
HUGE compliment that basically
is saying she is very attractive,
without at all seeming like you’re
week in the knees for her and
all needy.

But it’s not over yet, there’s more.
This is just an OPENING here.

You must COOK this INTERACTION till it’s
really heated UP.

So for example, at this point, you
could say “Hi, I’m Joe (or whatever your name is)
and extend your hand, and she will likely
do the same and tell you her name.

Give a firm handshake and solid
eye contact as you do this.

Then, time for some more fun:

For example, now that you’re both
in front of the cookies, you can say:

“You can tell a lot about a person
from what kind of junk food they
like. In your case, you love chocolate
cookies, and chocolate is sinful,
so you’re the kind of person that
really is going to enjoy life and
the kind of people that are definitely
going to party in hell, that’s my
type for sure.”

There are subtle undertones to all this.
The idea of being naughty and having
fun and being sinful, is giving her
permission to relax, and yet it’s
all being done in such an INNOCENT
way here, after all, we’re talking
COOKIES here!

Something like this is guaranteed to
get her responding, and agreeing, and
you want to be building a YES ladder
as soon as possible, the more things
she is truly saying YES to the better.

Now, I give this example on purpose
because you don’t have to be a party
animal to do this, you don’t have to
hang out at nightclubs, you don’t
have to even go outside your normal
environment, EVERYONE needs
to go basic shopping.

You can turn up the ante even more,
so for example, as you and her are
chatting, and reaching the checkout
aisle, you can tell the clerk that
this woman has been STALKING you
the entire time, and thank God that
now finally someone is here to see it,
to save you from the harassment
of this woman.

She’s going to smile at this, plus she’s
going to love the fact you are so not
needy for her, so confident, that you
are FOR SURE not going to be like
all the other guys she has met that
were so needy for her, that had no
MASCULINITY left, they gave
all their ‘mojo’ away to her, 
while YOU have it in SPADES.

Now, remember, this is all coming from
a place of CONFIDENCE, not maliciousness,
and not insecurity, there is a fine yet supremely
important difference between these things.

There are endless things you can
playfully tease her on as well, even
at the checkout counter.  For example,
let’s say you need bags and she has
her own environmentally friendly bag.

So you can pretend you are the evil
corporate guy and she is the hippie
saving the world, and that you’re
far too evil for a girl like her, (which
is again the opposite of most guys
trying to convince her of why they
are the right guy for her, out of neediness).

Then, let’s say she ends up needing one
extra bag so she needs an actual plastic
bag and has to buy one, (which is pretty
common because often we don’t perfectly
estimate how much stuff we’re going
to have), so then you can playfully
comment that you are already having
an evil influence on her, turning her
to your evil ways.

So, during this interaction she has had with
you, she has seen that you are gutsy, you
are funny, you are not afraid to give a
compliment, you are spontaneous, you
are social, and that you understand
the magical thing called “sexual tension”
and how to create it.

Most men have no clue what this even
is, and why women want it so badly.

And you will have done this all in
a very BRIEF amount of time, which
is all the more cool.

At THIS point, you can do whatever
you want, you can chat with her some
more, you can take her number, the
point is that you have TRIGGERED
HER EMOTIONS and shown that
you are a man in the right way.

And this is just the tip of the iceberg.
This material runs DEEP. It's about
the most PRIMAL elements of how women
respond to men that GIVE OFF THE
"SURVIVAL" VIBES. 

The things I described above are
MANIFESTATIONS of the traits of
MEN WHO SURVIVE, and therefore
ignite ATTRACTION in her on
a primal, sexual, level.

If you’d like to get my most
ADVANCED training on igniting a
woman's attraction for you, I
seriously suggest you get my
WARRIOR WITHIN program at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

This program is about DEEP INTERNAL
TRANSFORMATION, so that you learn to
attract quality women in a way that LASTS.

And if haven’t yet downloaded my "Attraction Accelerators"
program, then do that IMMEDIATELY, at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/attraction-accelerators.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

What Most Men Don't Know About Attracting Women

There are a TON of super-important ALERTS
that I need to let you know about when it comes
to attracting women and also when it comes to
making the most of your life as a man.

It’s been a while, because I’ve been really busy,
and rather than giving advice, I’ve been busy
following my own advice and practicing what
I preach. 

So here we go.  The following points are ALL
equally vital, and are in no particular order:

ONE: THE TRUTH ABOUT INSECURITY

One of the greatest misunderstandings that men
have when it comes to attracting women is regarding
their ideas of confidence, and why confident men
attract women.

So let me focus on one of the big reasons that tends to
NEVER get publicity, but is in reality probably the
BIGGEST reason why confidence is important.

Insecurity is destructive because it actually makes a
guy come across as THREATENING.

In the same way a dog sniffs fear and starts BARKING,
so too human beings can sense (not with their noses,
but with all the other human senses, including the
ability to observe body language including tonality)
fear in others.

When someone around us is feeling NEGATIVE, it
makes the people around that person feel UNEASY,
and feel THREATENED.

Now, considering that a woman ALREADY is somewhat
cautious before allowing a man who is a TOTAL STRANGER
into her life, it sure doesn’t help when this total stranger is
DOING THINGS that make the woman actually FEEL MORE
UNEASY AND FEEL THREATENED.

So many guys think that they come across as a “nice guy”
and come across as “weak” if they don’t show confidence,
but the irony is that they may not EVEN being coming
across as “weak” or “nice” but rather as DOWNRIGHT
CREEPY.

And what hurts me most is that I know how some of the
NICEST and BEST guys end up doing this, giving off
the very OPPOSITE message of who they are, and thereby
letting the JERKS win with women, the jerks who don’t
SEEM like jerks initially to the untrained eye!!!!!!!!

Remember, my specialty is meeting women in completely
NORMAL places that are not associated with “pick-up”.
I like these kinds of places because the attractive women in
night clubs and other pick-up joints tend to not make for
good long-term girlfriends, as they are usually just seeking
adventure and partying and novelty, and not the long term
building of a relationship.

So, in these NORMAL places, such as bookstores, coffee shops,
supermarkets, and just about anywhere else that is not specially
designed for “picking up”, it REALLY COMES ACROSS AS
DESTRUCTIVE if you are not exuding confidence.

You don’t have to be a millionaire. You don’t have to be
male model. But when you approach a woman who is
in a regular place that is not a nightclub or some other
pick-up joint, it becomes VERY IMPORTANT that you
give off the right VIBE that says you are VERY CALM
and VERY RELAXED and NOT NEEDY FOR IMMEDIATE
SEX AT ALL.

It is of PARAMOUNT importance to understand a woman’s
perspective about all this “pick up” stuff.

There was a study done on a university campus where one
average looking young  woman (not super attractive, not ugly,
not dressed with revealing clothing, just dressed normal)
approached about 100 men, propositioning them for instant
sex right then and there in a room not far away on campus.

The VAST MAJORITY of the men ALL SAID YES.
In fact, the one man who said no, APOLOGIZED, saying
he was married, and one other man wanted to do it, but
he wanted to request it for later.

That’s the basic sum total of the study.

They then reversed the study, where a man on campus
went up to about 100 women, propositioning them for
sex on campus right then, right on campus in a room
not far away. 

And guess what?
NOT ONE WOMAN GAVE HIM A YES.

From alllllllll those women, he got ONE phone number.
That’s it.

This should go to PROVE to you that women and men
do NOT react the same to a proposition that CLEARLY
entails an immediate physical intimate element as part
of it.

In fact, to go even FURTHER, they REPEATED the study
with the man propositioning the women.  They thought
that maybe the man was “not good looking enough”, so
they went and got some “good looking guy” to do the
SAME experiment, and even THEN, STILL, the vast
majority of the women STILL rejected the guy!!!!!!

So, I am NOT saying that having GOOD LOOKS DOESN'T HELP.
GOOD LOOKS DO HELP, but they are FAR from the whole
picture when it comes to attracting women.

And, as indicated above, even a guy with MODEL
level looks STILL can't get a woman to sleep
with him if he point blank proposes such a
thing to a woman!

IT'S JUST NOT THE SAME THING FOR MEN AND WOMEN.

So let me save you from having to spend ten years
reading all the studies.  When a man sees a woman who
is HOT, that is ALL HE NEEDS TO KNOW to already
go into SUPER-PURSUIT mode on a genetic level.

I’m not saying he wants to MARRY her, but he is already
going FULL BLAST in terms of desire.

On the other hand, when it comes to what a WOMAN
thinks when a man approaches her, it actually is FAR
more complicated.  What a man who wants to succeed
with her should convey are the following things:

ONE. Convey SAFETY. 

This is one of the reasons I suggest that you do NOT
start the conversation with too much flirtation at all.

I prefer giving a voice that is DEAD SERIOUS.

Remember, a woman has been told since the day she
was born that men are not to be trusted, that men
only want to get physical, that men are the evil
of this earth.

Soooo, rather than playing it up all happy and fun,
in a place that is NOT A PARTY ZONE, (e.g.
that is NOT  a club or disco or popular social
hangout) you actually show that you are NOT
pushing for something that is not being offered.

You therefore ALLOW for her to NOT be perceived
as “cheap” or “low morals” or “low class” if she
talks to you, since OBVIOUSLY from your tonality
you are NOT flirting.

Getting too fast into the flirting actually triggers
her alarms.

This DEAD SERIOUS tonality for the first opening
part of the conversation also does something ELSE
very positive:

TWO: IT SHOWS STATUS

Now, it IS true that SOME women are far, FARRR
LESS into status than other women are.

Often,  the women who are LESS into a man's "status" are
MORE into having raw carnal pleasure with him, but
this is not always the case.  So, yes, it is true, there
are some women who don't care that much about
a man's STATUS.

But all women care about it to at least a SMALL degree.
And when you are starting with a woman who is a total
stranger, you want every honest advantage you can get.

Whether it’s being captain of the football team or
head of the music club, or even just manager
of the store, women LIKE men with status.

Women don’t want to be with a guy who seems to
be on the BOTTOM of the totem pole.  It reeks
of laziness, lack of work ethic, lack of ambition,
lack of zest for life, etc.

In HER mind, if a guy is getting flirty too fast, it
SEEMS to be the actions of a guy who CAN’T GET
WOMEN EASILY so he must RESORT to desperately
hitting on women he finds ANYWHERE.

And THAT reeks of LOW STATUS.

So you DON’T want to go flirty too fast.
And this means not showing such happy vibes in your
voice at the beginning of the conversation, because
chances are, you wouldn’t be that happy talking
about whatever it is, from the produce in the supermarket,
to the magazines at the rack at the bookstore, etc, etc,
if she was NOT a really major knockout to you.

It is HER who is giving you that energy and making
you flirty, and yet you should NOT show it, as it
will come across as desperate and of low status and of
creepiness and possibly danger.

THREE: CREATE A SENSE OF FAMILIARITY

The truth is, we all feel better when there is
something FAMILIAR to the NEW.

Yes, we all like something new if it is good,
but we don’t want it to be so new that it is
something we can’t CONNECT to or relate
to at all.

We like new flavors of ice cream, but
PICKLED ONION ICE CREAM is a little
TOO unfamiliar.

This is where your conversation must create
CONNECTION so you and her can RELATE
to each other on at least some things with which
she is FAMILIAR to.

To achieve this, I prefer to do a bit of   Sherlock
Holmes style detective work on a woman.  I
will notice something she is reading, doing,
or wearing, that may reflect deeply on her
personality, and then I will ask her about that
thing.

If she is reading a book on military history,
I know she is going to be unlike most women,
and I can ask her about that and definitely have
a great conversation. 

If she is in line buying a protein powder, I know
I can talk about working out and how important
nutrition is, and the emotional high you experience 
from a great workout.

There are always TONS of things to speak about
if you train your mind to see them.

THEN, when she speaks and talks about something
that I’ve prompted her to speak about, she then
reveals MORE about herself, allowing me to have
MORE to connect with to her.

And I do not lie, I use things from my own experiences
that in fact DO connect to what she is saying, and so
should you.  If you can’t find ANY connection, then
let her go and try again on another woman.

You MUST connect.  This way, she can establish
you in her mind with something POSITIVE and
FAMILIAR.

I’ve even had fun with women in the cereal section of
the supermarket and pretended what it would be like
to be a kid again and yet have the power to get ANY
CEREAL YOU LIKED.  So this connects familiar
pleasant childhood fantasies with you in real life.

OR, you can take it up a notch to a more adult level
by making an adult innuendo, but do this only after
the conversation has been going smoothly for at
least a few minutes, so that you aren’t starting
out with flirtation.  So for example, if she says
she really craves a certain cereal, you can wink
and say once you get to know me, you may crave
other things…  Use your judgment, it all depends
how well things are going at that point if you are
going to go the adult route.

But once again, if you think for one second that
CONNECTION is not important, you are wrong.

CONNECTION is so important on ALL human
levels. In fact, there was a recent big budget movie
featuring ROBOTS called PACIFIC RIM.

Great effects. But it didn’t do big box office.
Then, for all the haters out there who say they
dislike TRANSFORMERS, which is also about
robots, the fact is TRANSFORMERS has made
BILLIONS of dollars.

The difference between the two stories, is that
the ROBOTS have PERSONALITIES in
Transformers. Whether it’s kids or adults or
whether it’s men trying to get women, if you
DON’T SHOW PERSONALITY, there is
NO FEELING FOR A WOMAN TO LATCH
ONTO.

There has to be an emotional CONNECTION.

It is almost EVERYTHING, especially for getting
the wheels ROLLING in the right direction at the
outset of a conversation with a woman who is a
total stranger.  

FOUR: CONVEYING IT WILL BE PLEASURABLE

This is a strange one, because it doesn’t follow
male logic at all.

For a man, if a woman is attractive, he isn’t worried
about if she is not going to be good in bed.

At least not in the beginning. He is focused on
GETTING to that point, and he’ll worry later
if she was no good in bed.

But women are not the same.  Women are actually
subconsciously THINKING about whether you will
be GOOD in BED completely separate from all the
other things she is subconsciously thinking about
regarding whether or not she is attracted.

What’s also interesting here is that for women,
what makes a man good in bed can depend on many
things, and what may have turned on one woman like
wild may not work at all to turn on another woman,
and in fact if a woman knows you used a certain
move on another woman, that in itself might turn
her off.

So the best things you can do to convey that you
are good in bed is at some point in the conversation
having a PLAYFUL attitude about sex, and also
making it ABSOLUTELY CLEAR that you don’t
judge a woman on her freaky side. 

Don’t be afraid to work in some humor that incorporates
sex into the conversation, just don’t START the conversation
with it.

So, if at one point in the chat, the woman says to you,
“It’s late, I can’t believe I’ve spent so long talking
to you”, you might reply with, “Just imagine how long
things will go for when we aren’t talking”, said with
a mischievous grin.

Or you might say something like, “Yeah, foreplay can
sometimes go on and on, but sometimes you really have
to just get down to business”, again with a mischievous
smile, or you can even say “Yeah, well I was going to
just get your number, but I like to get to know a woman
first, know what I mean?”, which of course she will
appreciate.

Okay, so those are HUGE things on the actual pick-up.

There are a few more things I want to share with you,
about making the most of your life in general, which
of course also makes you a more attractive man to
women as well.

STRATEGIC PLANNING

You can achieve some MASSIVE things if you like. 
And all it requires is STRATEGIC PLANNING.

You don’t have to spend 12 hours a day on it to begin with.
NO ONE is able to start out spending 12 hours a day on the
thing they love.

But you CAN start spending a few MINUTES each day.
And these MINUTES are the DIFFERENCE between
those who stay MEDIOCRE and those who attain
AWESOME goals.

This is because the minutes gain MOMENTUM, in terms
of the quality of the improvements you make, which then
motivates you with the confidence, accomplishments, and
the fuel to spend MORE time each day on those goals.

NEVER underestimate the power of a few MINUTES a day.

This is true, by the way, when it comes to APPROACHING
women as well.

When I started off, it was just a few MINUTES in the morning
and at lunch.  I did this and had A BLAST of FUN approaching
women anywhere I saw them.  My heart felt like it was going
to EXPLODE from the pressure, but I LOOOOOVED doing it.

MEETING WOMEN IS THE MOST AWESOME THING.

And so too, ACHIEVING GREAT GOALS is an AWESOME
THING, AND YOU CAN START WITH JUST MINUTES A DAY.

Then, you can increase the amount of time as you start to
fall in love with your progress, you will suddenly find the
time and energy to spend MORE time on your goals without
sacrificing your job or anything like that.  You may even
IMPROVE at your job because of your sense of self-esteem
and because of what you are learning about your own
potential to perform.

SLEEP

I have to put this in here, because it’s so under-rated.
SLEEP is a big thing.

There’s very little money in sleep aside from selling beds
and sleeping pills, (which could be addictive and dangerous),
so you don’t hear about it a lot.

But the truth is, sleep is crucial for your mind and your body.
You are not getting further ahead by getting less sleep.

Go to bed early, and get up early.

There’s a great movie out there called Rush, a true story
about two race-car drivers, and the guy who keeps on winning
is the guy who is less showy, less flashy.  He talks about
winning the race, going home early to get to sleep and training
to win for the next race. He goes through enormous hell
and punishment in the movie, and his determination keeps
him sharp.

So forget about the late-night partying or late-night anything.

PHYSICAL WORK-OUTS

There is so much INSANITY spread on the internet
about this.

Keep it SIMPLE.

GET TO THE GYM.
Now before starting any new exercise or diet
program, consult with your doctor. So do that
first.

Okay, here we go:

Do 5 sets of 10 reps of the following exercises.
Start with a light weight for your first set, then
work your way up with more weight each set,
until you reach your fifth and heaviest set where
you could barely complete the final rep.

If any of these exercises bother your
back or joints, then you may use another
similar exercise as a replacement.

DAY ONE
Flat Bench Barbell Presses
Incline Dumbbell Presses
Dips (body weight)
Pec-Deck Machine

DAY TWO
Full Squats
Leg Curls

DAY THREE
Military Presses (Dumbbells)
Wide-Grip Chin-Ups
Bent-Over Rows
Shrugs
Lateral raises

DAY FOUR
Barbell Curls
Standing French Presses (Triceps)    
Leg raises and incline sit-ups
(Use body weight for leg raises
and incline sit-ups, 3 sets each
for as many reps as possible)

Every day, do cardiovascular activity as well.
That means, use one of the cardiovascular machines
like treadmills or cycles for at least 20 minutes.

After working out with weights for four days, take
one to two days off, and begin the cycle again.

DIET

You will need to eat at least 5 small meals a day.
Stick to lean protein for your proteins at every meal.
Lean chicken, turkey, egg whites, skim milk, lean cheeses.
Carbs such as whole grains, whole pastas, sweet potatoes,
plenty of salads, moderate on the fruits.

Get plenty of water, at least 8 glasses a day.
If you can afford organic, get organic, but also learn
about the politics of organics, as not all organics are
equal.   

And one last MASSIVE thing:  You hear plenty about how
too much sugar and fat is not a good thing, right?

But you barely EVER hear about how DESTRUCTIVE
too much SALT or sodium is. 

Most packaged foods are INSANELY high in salt.
A lot of places and products that like to
portray themselves as HEALTHY alternatives
because they have choices that are low in
fat are actually ENORMOUSLY HIGH in sodium.

In fact, just ONE SERVING of many processed foods
contains MORE SODIUM than any human being on earth
should consume in an entire DAY.

TOO MUCH SODIUM IS DANGEROUS.

Ask questions, read labels, and be selective.

Okay, so I’ve given you some MASSIVE pointers
in the right direction to get you STARTED on the
path to GREAT SUCCESS with women. 

If you would like to get all the details figured out
regarding ANYTHING mentioned in this newsletter, in
a way that is perfectly CUSTOMIZED for your
situation, then it makes sense that you should get
a PRIVATE CONSULTATION with me, either in person
or via a phone call or via email.

Private coaching allows me to apply all my years
of experience toward helping you in the most
EFFICIENT WAY.  I will find out what your
exact challenge is, and I will give you the
absolute best solution as well as how to go
about carrying out the solution.

To learn more about this service go here:
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By the way, if you would like a really powerful
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I need to mention something else at this point.
The RIGHT WOMAN changes EVERYTHING in your life.

Stephen Hawking has written that he was at a
very low point in his life, when he started
to realize the extent of his physical condition
as a young man.  But meeting the right woman
actually CHANGED his entire outlook, and according
to his own words, GAVE HIM A REASON TO LIVE.

You don't have to even LIKE Stephen Hawking
to realize the effect that one good woman
can have on one man, and by extent, on
all of HUMANITY itself.

Man was MEANT to be with woman, but not with the
WRONG woman.

The wrong woman will DESTROY a man, but the RIGHT
WOMAN will set a man to LIFE, he will be EXPLODING
with energy and creativity and a sense of calm as well.

I have focused my mission to helping men get GREAT
women.  

I do this, in a world where there are so many LIES out
there.  In fact, the BIGGER the lie, sometimes the MORE
likely that lie is going to be BELIEVED.

Whether it’s how to get in shape, or how to get women,
there are going to be some OUTLANDISH theories
out there that sound absolutely ridiculous, but because
of the very RIDICULOUS nature of them, SOME
folks are going to assume that it MUST be true,
because, they think, “How can someone make up
a lie that is THAT outrageous???”

And the answer is because it WORKS to SUCK SOME
PEOPLE IN.

I also am not criticizing the victims of these schemes,
as I myself may have been a target of these schemers
at one time myself.

The world has a lot of sleazebags in it, and that includes
salespeople, it includes people in all professions and jobs,
and include a lot of men and a lot of women.

Most people are okay, but there are still a  LOT of
sleazebags with ZERO remorse for the lies and
pain they cause in giving advice that does not
help.

Some of these people who spread lies can't even be called
"sleazebags" because they do not even KNOW they are
spreading lies.

Some of these people actually BELIEVE in the lies they
are spreading, because they refuse to use a scientific
approach requiring EVIDENCE to assess the value or
lack of value of their advice.  

And while all this is going on, there are also SOME 
people out there who are AMAZINGLY helpful and
ethical as well.

I saw a study where people were told they were involved
in an experiment where everyone volunteered, and where
the people were supposed to hit a button that administered
an electric shock to a person in another room, a person
who was also a volunteer and who supposedly signed up
for this experiment.

The experiment was designed to see if people will stand
up to authority.  In reality, no electric shocks were
administered, but the participants did not know this.

When told by a person in charge, they were to turn a
knob that would give an electric shock to a person
in the other room.  

Most of the participants had no problem giving
ELECTRIC SHOCKS to others, EVEN when the people
in the other room could be heard SCREAMING from
the pain (the ones receiving the “shocks” were
actors pretending, but the people in the experiment
who were administering the “shocks” did NOT
know that in fact there was no electricity. The
people turning the knobs indeed believed that
they WERE giving a faceless stranger in another
room a series of electric shocks).

But there were SOME people who DID resist
AUTHORITY and REFUSED to administer
more “shocks” until they could see that the
person was okay in the other room.

So my point is this:

Just like there are differences amongst men, there
are also differences amongst women; SOME
women are made of better moral fiber than others.
You CAN detect a woman’s personality with the
skills I teach as well, which is something I get into
in my program called “Warrior Within”, which you
can check out by going HERE:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

This special program also goes into a TON of other
absolutely VITAL insights for getting and
keeping a woman of incredible quality.
 
Finally, I want to make it clear that there are
SOME things that women find UNIVERSALLY
attractive among men: These things include being
the kind of man who is a GO GETTER, who gets
things done, who is not afraid to calmly put a woman
in her place if she gets out of hand no matter how
beautiful she is, and it includes a man who knows
how to make things FUN and sensual when it comes
down to that side of things in the bedroom.

Also, women universally are attracted to men who know
how to handle themselves in any social environment,
and with my programs, your social skills will skyrocket
in ALL environments with ALL people, and of course,
you will also learn the best ways to approach and attract
women no matter WHERE you find them.

Many of my programs are less than 20 bucks!!!!
That is INSANE.  If cost is an issue, then definitely
start with those programs; you are going to get
ten times your investment in terms of results
with women from ANY of the programs that you
purchase from me.

Check out ALL my programs now at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

You will notice one thing about my programs,
though.  And that is there is NO "get rich
quick" scheme or "how to get women without
actually putting in any effort."

In REAL LIFE, there are no short cuts.
There is no "great body" in 3 minutes of
workout a day with eating pizza and fries
and drinking lots of beer, NO MATTER WHAT
THE BIG MARKETING LIARS TELL YOU.
 
However, staying in IGNORANCE can lead
to NO RESULTS, EVER.

What I will show you is the KNOW-HOW.
THE ULTIMATE IN REAL-WORLD RESULTS.

When you come to my trainings, you are
NOT coming to some playground to just
pretend you are doing something.
  
You are coming to face reality and put
in the work that needs to be done to
CHANGE your reality.

And for the ultimate in training, I offer you
PERSONAL LIVE COACHING ONE ON ONE,
in person, or via phone or email.

Get the life you want, with the woman you want, NOW.

www.GetAGreatGirl.com

Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Truth About Being Her Man

There’s a ton I’m about to share with you
that is all GOLD. Ready, set, GO:

NUMBER ONE: 
MASCULINITY

This is such a huge factor in your success
with women that I started speaking about
even in even in my very first book years ago.
In order for her to feel like a WOMAN,
you must behave like a MAN.

This has absolutely NOTHING to do
with acting arrogant, or with thinking
that women are less intelligent, less
capable, or with thinking that women
should all be barefoot and pregnant
in the kitchen all the time.

In fact, that kind of thinking comes from
ignorance and insecurity, which are the very
opposite things from being the essence
of a man. 

What I mean by masculinity is a certain
type of ruggedness in essence.

Grooming and hygiene is EXTREMELY
important, obviously, but spending hours
in front of the mirror, primping, is NOT
rugged.

When a man behaves too feminine, it makes
him seem more FEMININE THAN THE WOMAN,
and this robs a woman of her feelings of femininity.   

That means in bed she will not feel PASSIONATE
as a woman.

Being a MAN is a good thing, regardless of
what some feminists say.

This brings us to the next point, on dominance:

TWO: 
DOMINANCE

Dominance is definitely one of the most important
concepts for attraction, but it is misunderstood, and
then gets perverted and distorted, and turned into a 
mockery by most people. 

The reality is that most women although they
expect to be treated with equality in general,
they want to feel WOMANLY around you,
and especially so in bed, and they want you to
be the MAN.

However, in order for a woman to SUBMIT to
a man’s dominance, she must be able to TRUST him
and ALSO feel he is genuinely worthy and masculine.

This means that you must not only exude
CONFIDENCE in general so that she feels
you are THE MAN, but you must also earn
her COMPLETE TRUST, so that she feels
SAFE in and womanly in submitting to you.

And what I mean by trust is not just the trust that
you will not cause her any actual HARM, what
I mean is that she trusts you on a deep level that
you will still totally respect her and in fact
CHERISH her for all this.

She must know that you do NOT think that women
are ANY less than men, that you do not think she is
less than you in any way, not less intelligent, or less capable,
or less worthy.

This is NOT about being a Neanderthal.

It’s about knowing that a woman is a human
being with all the same rights as a man, but
ALSO knowing that she is WOMAN sexually
and that she naturally wants to FEEL that role,
and she cannot feel that role if you do NOT
act dominant and assertive in bed.

Old fashioned society knew the importance of
PRESERVING the polarity between masculinity
and femininity.  They knew how each one brings
out the full intensity of the other.

Unfortunately, old society also had some screwed
up concepts of women.  Modern society has
progressed in some ways, which is good, but
it has also LOST the concept of how important
it is to protect femininity and masculinity and
to cherish and preserve those identities, and losing
that is a great loss as well.

You want to be the BEST of both worlds-
respecting a good woman who has earned
your respect, and ALSO making her feel
like a WOMAN by you being THE MAN.

It’s when you COMBINE this best of both
worlds that you spark the MAGIC in her
known as INSANE ATTRACTION TO YOU!

Show your masculinity through your demeanor,
your tonality, your decisiveness, your conviction
in yourself, and show your respect through being
sensitive to her as a fellow human being as well,
and when it comes to being under the sheets,
be way more assertive than you have been, and
you’ll be surprised to find out that 99% of women
LOVE it when you take control. 

This doesn’t mean that she can never take control or
be assertive,  of course it doesn’t mean that.  And it
doesn’t mean that there shouldn’t be that softer
kind of lovemaking as well.  Of course it doesn’t
mean that.  It means that as a general principle,
being more DOMINANT is key, key, KEY.

I really do believe that this has its roots in our
biological makeup and chemistry, and is not just
a cultural thing, because in fact our culture seems
to imply we should all be identical, and yet that
doesn’t create attraction at all.  So that’s why
I think it’s really in men’s and women’s genes
to be this way, to only feel chemistry this way.

THREE: 
YOU HAVE TO MEET A LOT OF WOMEN

If you’re not MEETING a lot of women, then
unless you have special connections it’s going to
be impossible to ever meet the RIGHT woman.

So whether you are meeting these women in
person by approaching them as strangers, or
you are meeting on the internet,  or through
speed-dating, or whatever other method,
the key is to be meeting MANY women
and checking out their personalities.

Now this has nothing to do with being a
womanizer or with dating several women
at once.  I’m not into either of those things,
as you know I’m all about how to find the
RIGHT woman and I actually believe
that if you are dating several women at
once, you will not be able to focus on
the woman properly, which will not only
suck for her, but will prevent you from
properly being able to sense who she
REALLY is and whether she is really
right for you or not.

However, if you want to meet the RIGHT
woman, that means a woman who is not
only attractive but who also shares and
cherishes the same VALUES as you do.

In order to meet a woman who shares the
same “blueprint” regarding your values
and perception of things, you will HAVE
to meet many women, it’s the only way,
anything else is playing the lottery game
which is just plain ridiculous.

Laziness is the ENEMY here.
You will have to WORK it, my man.
If you are deciding to meet women through
cold approaches to strangers, (which is the
method that I prefer, since you get to
see them in person right away and you
get to use all your body language in
person right in front of them) and you
will have to do it again and again. 

If you decide to work the online personals,
then you will have to WORK it there as well.
Don’t expect that the first woman you message
will be the one.  Don’t expect to get too far with
a half-assed profile, make your profile as damn
good as possible, and get the best photo of yourself
as possible.

But if you WORK it, over and over again,
for WEEKS at a time, you WILL get the
kind of results you are looking for.

Now, whether you are meeting in person,
online, or any other way, here’s another key:

FOUR:
KNOW WHAT YOU WANT AND BE
COMPLETELY CONSISTENT WITH IT

It’s really a turn off to a quality woman who
is looking for the real thing when she sees
MASSIVE INCONSISTENCIES  in the
things you are saying, doing, or writing.

Inconsistencies come from trying to be
someone you are not.

And that comes from FEAR that you will
be rejected for who you ARE.

So I have news for you:
PLEASE ALLOW WOMEN TO REJECT
YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Embrace that because trust me, you WANT
to get RID of the women who do NOT want
who you really ARE!

Seriously, the best thing I ever did was when
I stopped trying to be “Mr. Cool” and instead
realized that I believed in my OWN values
enough to the point that if a woman or even if ALL
women didn’t share those values then I really had
no DESIRE to be with them in the first place,
I would rather be SINGLE.

It’s amazing the crazy things we will do out
of the fear of being alone, as if being alone 
was the worst thing that could happen to
a person.

Being alone is like being in HEAVEN compared
to pretending to be someone you are NOT.

But that’s just the tip of the iceberg, because
guess what?

The kind of woman who really IS the right match
for you, the kind of woman who really DOES share
your values, will ONLY be attracted to you if she
can DETECT that you have those values, and she
will NEVER detect them if you are trying to be
someone else.

Now, seriously think about your values before you go
following them without analysis. Some people have
some very destructive values and cherish them
and they aren't even aware how their values
are harming themselves and others around them.

However, once you have seriously thought about
your values, you should be CONSISTENT with
them, and every few months REFLECT on
them to see if they are truly positive values.

Your VALUES are the most clear indication of
who you truly ARE on the deepest level. This
is where you as a man  have the FREEDOM
to decide to do whatever you feel is truly
RIGHT instead of just following everyone
else without thinking.  This takes COURAGE
and is what separates the MEN from the boys:



Start embracing and cherishing and defending your
values and LIVE them, breathe them, let them
exude from your every action and word, and, if
you are doing the online dating thing, then from
your every WRITTEN word.

For example, let's say you are looking for a
real long term relationship, then it would
be incongruent with your values if you were also
messaging the girls who were looking for one
night stands.

These kind of inconsistencies end up confusing
you on a subconscious level and make you behave
in ways that are incongruent and that end up
telling the RIGHT WOMAN that you are
WRONG for her!

What kind of man will you be if you aren’t
confident enough in your own values to
BELIEVE they are worth it, that they are
worth the sacrifice of losing some of the
women out there- if you are not ready to
say NO to some women out there, then
you will never really be qualified to say
YES to ANY of them.

FIVE:
LISTENING TO QUALIFY HER

If you are serious about meeting the right woman,
then when you do meet a woman anywhere, I
urge you to get her TALKING about herself
and what’s important to her, and I urge you
to start listening better than ever before.

This is not to “show” you are a nice guy-
it’s to ACTUALLY FIND OUT if she
is right for you!

Now, the thing is, if you DO detect from the
things that she is saying that she DOES have
the right things you are looking for, well then
now you have something extremely POWERFUL
for attracting her, which is that you can
GENUINELY QUALIFY HER.

It’s interesting, because in sales, the best salesmen
on the planet are not the sleazy stereotypes of 
a salesman.  Nope, rather they are consultative
sales people.  They are trying to find out if
what they have is what you are looking for,
and if not they will help lead you in the
right direction so you can find it somewhere
else, because at least then they have STILL
provided VALUE and will be remembered
which helps increase the possibility the
customer will come BACK.

Well, it’s not THAT different when it comes
to being great with women.   You should
genuinely be listening to see what it is
she is really about, what she is really looking
for even if she is not conscious of it- and
then if you know you are the MATCH
for her, you now have all the reasons
that she has given you - either she has directly
given them to you through what she has said
or she has indirectly told you, and now you
can qualify her for being the right MATCH
for all the reasons she has actually given to you.

A woman wants to be chosen, not settled for.
and she wants to be with the RIGHT guy,
and she wants to know she is the woman
for that guy.  

SIX:
ENTER THE MINDSET OF THE WINNER

If you are looking to attract a great woman who is
the total deal – inside and out, well chances
are she knows she’s got VALUE, and yet she’s
also not ARROGANT.

Like attracts like, and similar mindsets attract as well.

It’s incredibly, massively RARE to meet people who
have VALUE and who aren’t spoiled.

Those people who have value and who still keep
themselves GROUNDED and not arrogant are
like the PLATINUM of PERSONALITIES.

So, for example, if you exude confidence and
masculinity and yet you don’t reek of player
infidelity and lack of integrity, a great woman
will pick up on this FAST.

So, in order to accelerate the process of becoming
this kind of man, start asking yourself:

“Is this thing that I am doing or saying or writing
flow from CONFIDENCE, or from ARROGANCE?”

“Does this action I am about to do come from
LOVE or from NEEDINESS?”

Become STRICT with yourself to annihilate
NEEDINESS and ARROGANCE from your soul, and
replace them with the kind of quiet confidence
that is like a wolverine- quiet, not seeking
attention, yet devastatingly powerful and
resolved to win in all situations. 

And if you are reading this right now and
are resolved to getting a GREAT woman, then
I seriously suggest you get your hands
on my program called Warrior Within.
 
This program works through transforming yourself
on the most authentic level, from the INSIDE out,
and not from the "outside in". It's not about
pick up lines or any other artificial 'act'.
It's about truly BECOMING the kind of man
women crave for on the deepest level.

It’s at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html
  
And if you haven't yet downloaded my program
'Attraction Accelerators', then do that now,
it's a great way to get started taking action
with women immediately.

It's at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/attraction-accelerators.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Creating Attraction From SCRATCH

What you're about to read is
pure GOLD, so make sure you're
ready to fully digest this one.

The one thing everyone wants more of
is this thing known as “feeling good”.
The other thing that is pretty
INFINITE is the human want for
sexual things.

No one gets enough of those two things,
and anyone that can GIVE IT rules the world.

They really both fall under the
basic category of "feeling good";
they both boil down to the release
of endorphins into the bloodstream.

It’s the reason the ENTERTAINMENT
industry is a billion dollar industry.

And obviously, things like COCAINE.
It's all about FEELING AWESOME.

People will do anything to feel
awesome, unfortunately some people
even resort to drugs that will
DESTROY them.

Ask someone if they remember five
things they learned in college and
they’ll usually STRUGGLE and FAIL
to give you an INSTANT answer, but
ask them the last name of a singer
name Britney, and you’ll get INSTANT
answers.

Same thing if you ask the name of
the band called The Rolling ______ .

Now, when it comes to attracting a woman,
most guys tend to approach women and
they try to IMPRESS her by listing cool
things about themselves, or by sounding
important, etc.

None of this really fires off the FEELING
GOOD chemicals in her system, none of this
fires off ENDORPHINS. 

And this is especially true when a woman
is particularly attractive and has seen it
all before.

The worst sin is feeling needy, that actual
FEELING of insecurity and neediness is
a huge problem in itself, because it
makes it impossible for you to give
off the right vibes.

Neediness and insecurity are the
ANTI-ENDORPHINS. They SUCK OUT
the fun vibes from surrounding
human beings.  They REPEL women.

So if you are feeling needy, the first thing
I must tell you is to SMACK YOURSELF
SILLY and not BEHAVE that way at least
when you are approaching and chatting up
a woman.

If you are feeling needy, at least don’t
ACT upon that neediness. 

This is the difference between a compliment
you give to a woman that comes from your
confidence and the kind of compliment
you give to a woman that comes from
feeling like, “Oh my god I better give her
a compliment and let her know my entire
emotions are at risk on whether she likes
me or not”.

So, for example, a compliment given
from CONFIDENCE might take the
following form:

Let’s say you’re at a supermarket, and
there’s a striking woman checking out
the cookies section.  So you roll up
to her, and you give her this serious
look, instead of this big toothy smile
that would look  like you’re a puddle
of wuss, that is totally needy for her.

So you give her this look, fake serious,
(which will make the humor have more
impact coming up, and this is important
because you don’t want to let on that
a joke is coming or you ruin the whole
thing) and you say:

“What do you think you’re doing?” 

Say it almost accusingly, as if she’s in
TROUBLE for something.

Don’t go psycho, just say it with a bit
of a, “You’re in trouble” kind of vibe
to your voice. 

Then, she’ll say something like
“What do you mean?” and she’ll be
all serious.

Then you can say, “Well, you shouldn’t
be here.  There are no attractive women
in this area.  Not for at least 40 miles,
you shouldn’t be here, it’s not allowed.”

Now, remember, you say this all with
a mock serious face, which has way
more impact, because it takes her a
sec for her to get it, she won’t see
it coming. 

Now, when she smiles, don’t start
smiling and laughing, that will ruin it.
KEEP ON ACTING TOTALLY
STRAIGHT FORWARD.

“Yeah, it’s dangerous in fact, you
shouldn’t even be here. Seriously.”

Now, at this point, and it’s just a
beginning, you’re at least showing:

A SENSE OF FUN.

GUTS.

AND YOU’RE NOT ALL SMILEY,
TOOTHY, KISSING UP, IN TERMS
OF YOUR EXPRESSION ON YOUR
FACE AND TONALITY OF VOICE

This is a huge thing, by the way,
because by having the serious
expression and tonality, you
can get away with giving a
HUGE compliment that basically
is saying she is very attractive,
without at all seeming like you’re
weak in the knees for her and
all needy.

But it’s not over yet, there’s more.
This is just an OPENING here.

You must COOK this interaction till it’s
really heated UP.

So for example, at this point, you
could say, “Hi, I’m Joe" (or whatever your name is)
and extend your hand, and she will likely
do the same and tell you her name.

Give a firm handshake and solid
eye contact as you do this.

Then, time for some more fun:

For example, now that you’re both
in front of the cookies, you can say:

“You can tell a lot about a person
from what kind of junk food they
like. In your case, you love chocolate
cookies, and chocolate is sinful,
so you’re the kind of person that
really is going to enjoy life and
the kind of people that are definitely
going to party in hell, that’s my
type for sure.”

There are subtle undertones to all this.
The idea of being naughty and having
fun and being sinful, is giving her
permission to relax, and yet it’s
all being done in such an INNOCENT
way here, after all, we’re talking
COOKIES here!

Something like this is guaranteed to
get her responding, and agreeing, and
you want to be building a "YES ladder"
as soon as possible, the more things
she is truly saying YES to the better.

Now, I give this example on purpose
because you don’t have to be a party
animal to do this, you don’t have to
hang out at nightclubs, you don’t
have to even go outside your normal
environment, EVERYONE needs
to go basic shopping.

You can turn up the ante even more,
so for example, as you and her are
chatting, and reaching the checkout
aisle, you can tell the clerk that
this woman has been STALKING you
the entire time, and thank God that
now finally someone is here to see it,
to save you from the harassment
of this woman.

She’s going to smile at this, plus she’s
going to love the fact you are so not
needy for her, so confident, that you
are FOR SURE not going to be like
all the other guys she has met that
were so needy for her, that had no
MASCULINITY left, they gave
all their ‘mojo’ away to her, 
while YOU have it in SPADES.

Now, remember, this is all coming from
a place of CONFIDENCE, not maliciousness,
and not insecurity, there is a fine, yet supremely
important difference between these things.

There are endless things you can
playfully tease her on as well, even
at the checkout counter.  For example,
let’s say you need bags and she has
her own environmentally friendly bag.

So you can pretend you are the evil
corporate guy and she is the hippie
saving the world, and that you’re
far too evil for a girl like her, (which
is again the opposite of most guys
trying to convince her of why they
are the right guy for her, out of neediness).

Then, let’s say she ends up needing one
extra bag so she needs an actual plastic
bag and has to buy one, (which is pretty
common because often we don’t perfectly
estimate how much stuff we’re going
to have), so then you can playfully
comment that you are already having
an evil influence on her, turning her
to your evil ways.

So, during this interaction she has had with
you, she has seen that you are gutsy, you
are funny, you are not afraid to give a
compliment, you are spontaneous, you
are social, and that you understand
the magical thing called “sexual tension”
and how to create it.

Most men have no clue what this even
is, and why women want it so badly.

And you will have done this all in
a very BRIEF amount of time, which
is all the more cool.

At THIS point, you can do whatever
you want, you can chat with her some
more, you can take her number, the
point is that you have TRIGGERED
HER EMOTIONS and shown that
you are a man in the right way.

And this is just the tip of the iceberg.
This material runs DEEP. It's about
the most PRIMAL elements of how women
respond to men that GIVE OFF THE
"SURVIVAL" VIBES. 

The things I described above are
MANIFESTATIONS of the traits of
MEN WHO SURVIVE, and therefore
ignite ATTRACTION in her on
a primal, sexual, level.

If you’d like to get the complete
ADVANCED TRAINING on igniting a
woman's raw animal attraction for
you, I seriously suggest you get my
"Attraction Mastery Program"at:
      
http://getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

This program contains 12 HOURS of
cream-of-the-crop advanced insights
into what ANY MAN can do to ignite
a woman's raw physical attraction
for him.

And if haven’t yet downloaded my
original book, “The Dating Wizard”,
then do that immediately at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Wizard.html

This book is the very FIRST
thing every man needs to get
when it comes to women. It sets
down the foundation on which
all my more advanced programs
build upon.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Ten Biggest Mistakes Men Make With Quality Women

Get ready to discover the ten biggest mistakes men make with the real quality women- women who are not only attractive, but also FAITHFUL and  intelligent:

1. TRYING TO KEEP HER INSECURE

So much of the "pick up women" advice out there for men on the internet is all about how to make a woman feel LESS about herself, which stems from the fear that the woman feels she is too good for a guy. 

Those strategies believe that if SHE feels insecure around a guy, then that GUY will then seem to her to be of more value than she feels SHE has, so supposedly she will now want him and be attracted.

Well, the reality is that this "make her feel less than you" concept not only usually fails to work even on the mean-spirited women who may very well DESERVE to be told off, but it is TOTALLY INSANE to use this type of tactic on a QUALITY woman who did nothing bad to you to begin with.

It's counter-productive because she will
usually catch on IMMEDIATELY.

Then, she will wreak vengeance and havoc
with your emotions to teach you a lesson. 

At best, she will just immediately shut you
down and leave.

Even worse, what happens is that you
destroy your inner power this way,
because you are in effect telling
yourself that you don't have the
worth to keep her on your own,
and that you have to resort to
putting her down. 

This actually makes you feel worth LESS
than you did before you ever used any
tactic like that, and the reality is
that your inner game ALWAYS shows
through, and she can detect how you
feel about your own worth.

She can detect it through your body
language that you display without
even thinking about it.

It's a result of how you are feeling
internally, and guess what? How you
feel internally ALWAYS ends up showing
in your mannerisms, in your expressions,
and in your vocal tonality.

I have a much BETTER solution to
all this- instead of putting her
down, you can bring BOTH OF YOU UP!

Just make sure you are NEVER doing this
from a weak, "KISSING UP" perspective,
which leads to my NEXT point:

2. THE MUTUAL COMPLIMENT

Most men NEVER use this, and that's
a HUGE mistake.

The mutual compliment is pure GOLD.

The mutual compliment means that
your message is saying something
cool and genuine about BOTH of you-
the woman AND yourself.

For example, let's say you are chatting with a
woman you just met, and you tell her that you
can see she has great taste in men.  This is
saying something positive to her, but it's
also pretty damn confident of yourself to
say this as well, and it's funny too.

So you've done 3 things at once, all in a span
of just a few seconds and few words.

This is similar to, before kissing a woman, telling
her that  you can tell a lot about a woman from the
way she kisses.  When she asks "what do you mean"
you say, "Well, for example, you can tell if she
is really passionately into you, or if it's just about
the money."   

Then, you proceed to kiss her, and when you pull away, you give her a mischievous grin and say, "Definitely, you're not about the money." 

So again, you've said something cool about her,
and about yourself.

3. DON'T ACCEPT A SHRED OF DISRESPECT 

This is a big one too.  As soon as you play even
a BIT of the "head games" with a woman, or as
soon as you ACCEPT even a bit of this, it's
the beginning of the end of the whole connection.

The single greatest factor behind ALL these
head games is INSECURITY. Giving into it,
whether you decide to give her a taste of her
own medicine, or you accept it from her, it
all just FEEDS more of this insecurity.

There is no way to WIN with someone who
plays these games, the only way to WIN is
to get the heck out.

In my relationships, I NEVER play any games.
There's nothing like the TRUST that is built
upon this foundation.  And any woman who
doesn't APPRECIATE this is going to be
a serious problem that you are best off
AVOIDING to begin with.

I learned these lessons the hard way because
my wrong behaviors and perspectives wreaked
HAVOC with my relationships.

And of course, the flip side to all this, is that
the lack of games is INSTANTLY appreciated
by the RIGHT kinds of women, because they
know how RARE this is.

And it's understood by these women as a sign
of your STRENGTH, because all games are
a sign of insecurity, and the lack of games is
a sign of massive strength and conviction in
yourself. 

4. KEEP INITIAL COMMENTS ONLINE BRIEF BUT PERSONAL

I personally prefer to approach women
in the real world from regular life,
be it women you see at the bookstore,
coffee shop, supermarket, or anywhere
else, because this opens up the entire
UNIVERSE of women to you,
(http://getagreatgirl.com/realworld.html)
but if you are doing online dating,
then make sure to keep your initial
email BRIEF but PERSONAL.

Think about it from her perspective:
If she's an attractive woman, she probably
gets TOO MANY emails from guys, including
a lot of desperate guys.

She DOES want to meet the right guy, but the
first signal that goes off in her head from a
huge long email from some random guy is
that this guy is somehow desperate and can't
meet women in real life, so he's putting all
his eggs in one basket.

The other problem is when the email he sends
is not PERSONALIZED at all. It doesn't
indicate anything unique about his personality and
it doesn't indicate he actually read her profile
at all either.  By the way, don't spend TOO
much time reading her profile unless it
really stands out herself, chances are she
said things like she enjoys traveling, and
other things that every single girl on the
planet says, that don't indicate anything
really important about her individuality.

And when I say to indicate your personality,
that means to create the FEELING of
what you are, don't just say you're a
funny guy, if you are funny, then make
a damn good joke.  If you are a very
creative guy, then make your email
creative, don't just send a generic
email.  From your subject line to
the description of yourself, to
all the rest of the profile, DEFY THE
STANDARD CONVENTIONS OF ONLINE DATING
while STILL getting the point across:

For example, you can write something as
a joke, i.e. writing that you were just
released from jail and not interested in
re-hooking up with your ex-wives and your
30 grand-kids, then say "just kidding",
and then write about who you really are,
etc.
   
5. TAKE ACTION RIGHT AWAY

This is another thing that seems to defy normal
logic. I'm not saying you have to sleep with women
right away, (in fact, I advise AGAINST it) but
rather the key is not to think, "Hmmm, I know
this girl, I'll chat to her for a few weeks, then
ask for her number, then, wait a week, then
call her, then maybe talk some more for a
few months, then maybe get to bed, then
maybe a relationship", etc, etc.

Reality doesn't work like that.
It's based on MOMENTUM.

So if you like a woman, GO FOR IT NOW,
get her number, go out for coffee THIS
WEEK, and if you like her and you share
things in common on a deep level, then
go to the next level.

If you meet a woman at a party, don't think,
"I chatted to her for a few minutes, so let's
not ruin this, I'll come back later for her
and then I'll ask for her number".

If you like her and she likes you, then get
her number NOW.  If you're on a date
with her, and the vibe is great, then don't
wait till LATER to kiss her, you can kiss
her NOW.

Keep in mind, all this is coming NOT from
a needy sense, but from a sense of CONFIDENCE.

If you are truly delaying something because
you KNOW it will be better if you wait, that's
one thing, but 99% of the time, I see guys
HESITATING out of lack of belief, rather
than out of a true sense of making greater
impact by perfect timing.

A quality woman wants a man who TAKES
ACTION.

6. THINGS ARE NOT "ALL OR NOTHING"

To make things EASIER on ourselves, and to
spare ourselves from having to feel like we
need to take action, we LIE to ourselves by
painting things as "all or nothing."

"All or nothing" thinking is often
a sign of insecurity.

For example: "That party is stupid. House
parties are stupid. I'm not going to that
party, you can't meet ANYONE there."

This is also similar to how some people like to paint all women as being the same- i.e. that "ALL WOMEN WILL CHEAT ON YOU unless you do everything you can to control women."

Those kinds of MASSIVE over-generalizations, destructive beliefs, and false statements will prevent you from meeting and attracting quality women who DON'T cheat. 

If you go to the bookstore one day and there
weren't a lot of women there, that doesn't mean
you can't meet women at the bookstore- it might
mean that you went to the WRONG bookstore
in a deserted area of town, or that you went at
the wrong time.  Because you absolutely can
meet women at the bookstore.  But telling
ourselves lies is a great way to rationalize
why we aren't doing anything to actually
take ACTION.

Things are also not always all or nothing
in your interactions with a woman - if she
said something that hurt your feelings, maybe
it's not exactly like you think.  Maybe it is,
but maybe it's not.  So remember, emotions
are dangerous, and when we feel we might
be hurt, we take ACTION to prevent that
pain.

That's what emotions do- they prompt us
to take ACTION. 

Think about it- almost every time you actually
TAKE any action, it's EMOTIONALLY
fueled.  Watching TV, feels good.  Feeling
hungry? You go eat.  Tired? You want to
go sleep. Feeling horny? You want sex.

What happens if you are feeling like
you might get REJECTED?

Then you make sure to take the action
that will SPARE you that rejection,
and the action that will spare you that
rejection is saying things like:
"All women are gold-diggers."
"You can't meet women anywhere."
"It's all a waste of time."

That way, you can make sure to never
take any action and be spared any
emotional pain. 

So beware of how emotions are leading to
ALL OR NOTHING thinking, (also known
as "Black Or White" type thinking) because
it's one of the silent DESTROYERS, since
we don't even realize we are brainwashing
ourselves and telling lies to ourselves.

A quality woman also KNOWS full well
just how much strength it takes to
be the kind of man that does not
jump into black and white thinking.

It's one of those signs of being
a truly strong man in the greatest
sense of the words 'being a man'.

7. IF YOU'RE ONLINE, COME UP WITH A COOL NAME

The first thing besides your picture they'll
see, and if you have no pic then it's DEFINITELY
the first thing they'll see, is your online NAME.

So you need to stand out in a cool way.

One trick is to think of some good music albums
that haven't been OVERPLAYED recently in pop
culture, and then be a bit creative with that.

So for example:
"NO JACKET REQUIRED."

You might take that and go serious with that,
and follow with a profile that is all about
being  yourself and being comfortable with
who you are and how you want a woman who
is the same, or you might take a comedic
route if that is your nature and jokingly
write:

"NO CLASS REQUIRED."

And then proceed to have a quick, but funny profile
saying what a caveman you are, that totally shows
you are NOT trying to qualify yourself, which
will get a lot of women laughing.

Then, after the playful bit, you might have a
few brief but powerful sentences that actually
gets down to business with what you like
and what you don't. i.e. You might say that
the one thing that IS required is HONESTY.
That you learned in cave-man school that
being HONEST is the one thing that counts,
in between sessions of eating mud-pies.

Another cool name would be something like "Spiritual Badboy" that combines two opposite yet attractive qualities that are so rare to find together.  

The idea here is not that she will think
you are some kind of truly BAD person,
but rather she will get the playful
message that you are a man who has
depth AND who is also a fun, exciting
guy who she can picture herself with 
in bed.

Just calling yourself a "bad boy" may very well just make a lot of women nervous, but a "spiritual bad boy" sounds intriguing and attractive at the same time.
 
8. IF YOU'RE INSECURE ABOUT SOMETHING,
DON'T BRING ATTENTION TO IT, AND DON'T
OVERCOMPENSATE.

For example, let's say you feel you are
too "old" for a certain woman.

Well don't try to pretend you're 18, and
don't lie about your age. 

Doing those things would only make
you feel WORSE about yourself, because
you will feel the need to HIDE who you
are.  And that emotion will ruin your
charisma.

Rather, be the coolest version of who you are
and use it to your advantage and don't act like
you have to hide who you are. 

Don't obsess on it either, so for example,
a guy who keeps on saying he is young
at heart, etc, sounds similar to a guy who
has a non-prestigious job who keeps on
saying all the time that that money is
not a big deal.

If he wouldn't have brought it up, the woman
might not have even thought about it, but the    
fact the guy is bringing this topic up shows
that it's clearly on HIS mind, it's clearly
an insecurity in HIS mind.

The first form of "social proof" you provide of how cool you are to a woman, is the social proof you provide from YOURSELF. 

If you don't think you're cool, that's GUARANTEED to make sure the woman doesn't think you're cool either.
  
9. PLAYFUL CHILDHOOD REGRESSION

Natural primal communication is actually quite
CHILD-LIKE.

And the kind of communication that sparks attraction
and emotion often stems from allowing her to
enter this CHILD-LIKE STATE. 

When we are in all ADULT AND FORMAL mode,
we BLOCK ourselves from actually feeling GOOD.

We're in LOGICAL mode.

But when you start to chat about FUN stuff that
links back to CHILDHOOD, it's an INNOCENT
way to actually get her to be more of an ADULT
in a flirty sense.

Devious, huh?
But all in a good way, when done responsibly.

You have to understand that you are trying to
achieve a lot in a little time with a woman who
is a total stranger, and to bypass all the logic
barriers that are normally in place.

So, for example, asking her who she'd rather
marry, Fred Flintstone or Barney Rubble,
and to give you the reasons why, or chatting
with her in the supermarket about how you
two can steal the cereal boxes and get all
the toys inside, will get her imagination
and mind into a more PLAYFUL state
and instead of looking at you as the next
psycho, you are now both playing.

And the reality is that great sexual chemistry is very much linked to playing as well, even when it gets aggressive, it's like aggressive playing.  

It's saying the heck with all the "serious" stuff of the world and let's just enjoy and relax what comes naturally.

Of course, I get into all this on a way
deeper level in my materials.   

In fact, you could playfully say to a woman
that if she doesn't know who Cookie Monster
is, or if she doesn't watch Sesame Street,
that she's too advanced for you. 

This is a heck of a lot cooler than what
most guys do, trying so damn hard to
show how "cool" they are and how much
money they make, and what societies
they belong to, etc.

The great thing about being playful is
that it allows you to say things that are
true and yet not have to be completely
taken seriously.  So it keeps the vibe
fun and honest rather than formal and
pretentious.

10. A WORD ABOUT ACTING "HARD TO GET."

The reality is that you shouldn't ACT.

Instead of trying to think, "Hmm, should
I do this "hard to get" behavior now?", you
should rather think to yourself why the
"hard to get" behavior became linked to
being attractive in the first place.

So for example, rather than thinking,
"Hmm, should I end this conversation with
her first so that she sees I'm not desperate?"
just realize where this behavior of ending
the conversation first came from for REAL.

It comes from KNOWING that you truly have
tons of choices with women.

Well, then, rather than play GAMES with
women, you should actually IMPROVE your
skills so that you DO have more choices.

THAT way, you can actually talk to her
for as long as you GENUINELY have time
for, without playing ANY games, and
then you will ALSO attract her rather
than playing games that sow the seeds
of mistrust.

Think of this as lifting weights- rather than
trying to LOOK like you're lifting weights
by getting FAKE weights that LOOK like
they weigh a lot, it's better to actually
TRAIN in the gym and BECOME stronger.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks