I have something VERY important to tell you
about approaching women. It is something
most men get WRONG, and understanding this
will make a MASSIVE difference in your
approaches on women!
If you see a woman you would like to approach,
for example, at a food court somewhere, do any
of the options below provide the best solution?
Answer A:
You take a few minutes to decide the best thing
to say, and then you walk over to her and say it.
Answer B:
You take a few minutes to decide what to say,
and then you carefully walk over but you make
sure she does NOT see you coming, so it can
look like you just happened to be walking
in that direction toward her for something else
and not as if SHE was the main reason you
were walking that way.
Answer C:
You go over right away, directly toward her,
even though this means she can see you coming.
However, you then try to make sure it does NOT
seem as if you are actually interested in her in a
way that has to do with sex. You chat to her
for an hour about something intelligent so that
it seems this is not about sex.
Answer D:
You go over right away, and you decide to
make it CLEAR you are interested in her
in a way that does have to do with attraction
and with her as a woman, and you decide
to do this by TELLING her that you think she
is very sexy and that you would like to go
out with her.
And the BEST ANSWER is:
NONE of the above.
The REAL answer is to approach her DIRECTLY
even if she sees you walking toward her, and
then when you approach her to chat, you
should NOT verbally start with telling her
that you are attracted to her, and you ALSO
should not try to make it seem as if you
are NOT interested in her either.
Just keep it upbeat.
So, for example, you could go right into
something like this:
"That looks REALLLLLLLLY GOOD! That is what
I like in a woman, someone who enjoys life
and does not deprive herself!"
In this example, you are delivering the
message with flair, with fun, and you
are giving her a playful compliment
without kissing up AT ALL.
Also, the comment is totally spontaneous,
it is not a memorized pick-up line, it
is something born of, and in, the MOMENT,
which makes it feel more REAL instead of
REHEARSED.
It is also the kind of topic that can easily
lead into a fun chat about guilty pleasures
like chocolate or television watching, plus
it can give you a lead-in to enjoying food
more with some company and you sitting there
with her for your lunch.
She might comment that actually the food
she is eating is healthy, it is not a
guilty thing, and you can playfully
respond with something like "Let me guess,
you're a lawyer, right?" with a smirk
as you say it.
Then she might tell you whatever it is
she really is, or she might ask you
about yourself, all this is good
CONVERSATION.
Then, after just a few moments of this,
you can chill out more and slowly get
to a DEEPER CONNECTION based on shared
VALUES, which also only takes a few
minutes.
And THEN, if you connect, you let her
know that you want to see her again.
So, to recap what happened here is:
First, you DIRECTLY approach her.
You walk right up to her, even if she
sees you from far away. It is a good
thing anyway if she sees this, as I
will explain below.
Then, when you reach her, you chat about anything
that is fun, upbeat, intriguing, or playful,
as long as you ARE ACTUALLY being either fun,
upbeat, intriguing, or playful. (This gets
back to being congruent, which is an important
topic in itself.)
Allow me to explain WHY this is the best way to
approach a woman, especially if this is NOT a
nightclub or a party environment.
It all stems from the fact that women FEEL a
tremendous pressure to not even ACCIDENTALLY
appear promiscuous.
This newsletter could go on for several YEARS
giving you the entire history of the perceptions
of men about female sexuality, so I will just
give a few serious examples:
For MANY years, even into the modern era or psychology
and psychiatry, most men thought that women did not
even HAVE orgasms! In other words, most men thought
that women were not even really sexual beings!
Then, on TOP of that, any woman who WAS perceived
as promiscuous was viewed as the absolute LOWEST,
the very BOTTOM of the totem pole of status in society.
Of course, the men who get lots of women are often
viewed as COOL, i.e. Hugh Hefner, or at least viewed
as POWERFUL, i.e. many kings who had tons of women.
And even today, the fact is, most men would like
to have sex with lots of women, but they do not
want a girlfriend who is promiscuous or who even
WAS promiscuous.
Meanwhile, the TRUTH is, that women indeed DO
have urges and desires just as INTENSE as men,
if not even MORE intense than men.
So women are not looking to screw up their lives
and their reputations. If a guy approaches a woman
and seems OVERLY into the superficial, especially
if he does this RIGHT OFF THE BAT with the following
kind of comment:
****You are so beautiful.****
The BIGGEST REASON that FAILS (unless delivered
in a SUPER CONFIDENT way) is NOT just because
it seems like a form of kissing up.
Rather, the WRECKAGE left by such a comment
is also because it makes a woman feel that if she
REWARDS this kind of approach by even TALKING
to him, she feels she will be viewed by him as a SLUT.
She also figures that anyone who FINDS OUT she
talked to him will ALSO feel she is a slut.
This is why women will IMMEDIATELY shut down
ANY guy who shows he is IGNORANT of this issue.
Women are RUTHLESS in this regard, and if you
understand the massive repercussions women pay
if they are not careful about this, it makes
TOTAL SENSE.
Ahhhh, but some guys have GROWN WISE to this,
or so they think.
And PRESTO, such is born the OVERLY NICE GUY
APPROACH.
So you have these guys that do EVERYTHING in
their power to NOT come across as interested in
sex. The guy approaches the woman indirectly,
he pretends to be walking the same way as her,
he pretends to be interested in her choice of
stationary, books, purse, movies, etc, etc.
Now, a TINY bit of the NICE GUY stuff is not
the end of the world.
But the TRUTH is, if you ever used the Overly
Nice Guy approach and ended up attracting a
woman who was a stranger, and you ended up
sleeping with her, and she became your girlfriend
or whatever, it was not because you approached
her with the NICE GUY stuff.
It was because you managed to chat with her WITHOUT
triggering her WORRY of being labelled a SLUT.
Then you got her number or something like that,
and then you met up, and ALL ALONG she WANTED
to have sex with you, and you managed to NOT
trigger fears in this regard.
She was THINKING about how WILD it would be
to go NUTS with you in bed from pretty much the
FIRST MOMENT you approached her.
And the problem is that a lot of guys FORGET THIS,
they pour on so much NICE GUY APPROACH that the
woman figures maybe this guy is NOT into women,
maybe this guy is going to take FOREVER to get
physical with, maybe this guy does not REALIZE
how women have mind-blowing fantasies that
would make most men BLUSH.
So just because women do not want to be labelled sluts,
does NOT mean to in ANY way pretend you are NOT
a sexual person.
And the WAY to demonstrate that you are a MAN,
while SIMULTANEOUSLY showing you understand
women have these sensitivities and concerns,
is to simply APPROACH WOMEN DIRECTLY, yet at
the same time keep the INITIAL CONVERSATION
simply a POSITIVE experience that is NOT
too overtly sexual.
(In a club, though, the sexual can happen
a lot faster since the whole POINT of
a club is really about PARTY TIME.)
She KNOWS the reason you approached her!
She is GLAD you approached her.
She is MORE happy that you approached her
DIRECTLY rather than conveying that you
think you need to be SNEAKY about it by
going in some kind of strange circle or
zig-zag pattern or somehow coming up
behind her.
The most BRILLIANT path toward her is
DIRECTLY toward her in terms of your
actual physical WALK UP to her.
But in terms of the conversation, you convey
masculinity, you convey interest, you convey
your insight into women, by actually NOT
talking about the physical stuff too much
if at ALL, not until you FIRST establish
more of a FLOW of a conversation and
more of a CONNECTION.
So you APPROACH directly.
However, your CHAT should convey your
interest INDIRECTLY, because your APPROACH
already makes it pretty darn clear why
you are chatting to her, and any more
runs the risk of overdoing it and
triggering her fears of being labelled
a slut and SHUTTING you down..
The calmness of your demeanor, the
COMFORT you feel and display while
chatting with her, all THAT is what shows
the right stuff about you and your
intentions in the beginning.
It is even okay to say something this:
***I just wanted to chat with you and
see what you are about.***
Then, you actually see if for REAL
you two can have FUN chatting together,
being playful together.
This is why you should NOT go on for
an hour about something too deep or
intelligent, because the first part
of the chat is about PLAYFULNESS
or at least about some kind of
chemistry.
Before you can play in the bedroom,
you have to be able to play outside
the bedroom.
If you go on for an hour about something
serious, you VAPORIZE the sexual and fun
vibes and you instead create the boring
vibe of an old, empty, dusty, lecture hall.
And THEN, you ALSO test to see if you
both have something ELSE important in
common BESIDES just wanting to go wild
on each other.
And THAT provides the ULTIMATE solution
on how to ensure you do not trigger her
fears of being labelled a slut, because
if there is a REAL connection between
you two, then she cannot BE a slut.
And THEN, you can ALSO tell her once that
she is cute, attractive, or whatever.
Remember, though, that she KNEW that is what
you thought all along when you approached her,
but you can tell her once, (after you two have
connected) just to make it absolutely clear
to her that you intend to pursue this all
the way to the end, for REAL, as a man.
What you have just read is so important, that
it will play a MAJOR role in EVERY SINGLE
interaction you ever have with any woman you
approach that you want to attract.
And yet, as POWERFUL as it is, it is also the
TIP of the iceberg of TONS of other VITAL
insights and strategies on attracting the women
of your choice that you will find in my special
program, known as: Attraction Accelerators.
I did not sit at HOME coming up with this program.
Instead, I learned it all on the FIELD, through
years of experience, and then only AFTER that,
and after SEEING it WORK for OTHER guys
as well, did I finally record this program.
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You can download this program in MINUTES from
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Thursday, February 20, 2014
Friday, January 24, 2014
The Untold Truth: How To Approach Women
Today, I’m going to share with you the UNTOLD
TRUTH on how to approach women.
It’s all based on real-world research and testing, and I’ve been using this for YEARS, including in my live workshops with guys as we approach women just about everywhere.
In order to fully understand how to use the
strategy I am about to show you, it is crucial
to understand one thing:
Being a powerful, dominant man is the strongest
force when it comes to attracting women, and in
fact to women, the form of power known as
DOMINANCE is particularly important when
they instinctively and subconsciously size
up a man.
Let me go even further to make this even more clear:
Superficial types of attraction, such as a guy having
“good looks” simply doesn’t mean the same thing
to women as a woman being “good looking” means
to men. Sure, great looks do indeed appeal to
women, but the good looks really means FAR LESS
to women than it means to men.
The proof of this is all around us. How many male
models can women name? How many female
models can men name? How many strip clubs
are there for women where men take their clothes
off? How many strip clubs are there for men
where women take their clothes off?
The massive imbalance here tells you something
right away: Women simply aren’t as COMPELLED
to chase a man because he is “good looking” as
MEN are compelled to chase a woman because
she is good looking.
Ahh, but now, let’s flip this around to POWER.
See, good ol Brad Pitt, before he became a
movie star and a famous celebrity and thus
“a power broker”, actually had a HARD TIME
with women, according to his own words in
countless interviews.
In other words, he actually didn’t have it much
different than other guys when he was doing
regular guy things like being a waiter, etc.
And let’s take this even further:
How many men chase women who are powerful?
How man WOMEN chase MEN who are powerful?
This is why women care more about the fact that a
man has POWER, STATUS, and DOMINANCE
than the fact he is super good looking, etc.
And here’s the thing: Just like men can’t help it
but go crazy for women who give off the signs
of beauty, women can’t help it but go crazy for
men who give off the signs of DOMINANCE.
In fact, it’s a bit more complicated than that,
because it’s not exactly like women get immediately
attracted by power and status OR by great looks,
it’s more like women immediately feel the primal
need to GET CLOSER with this man and learn
more about him.
Female sexuality takes a little more “warming up”
than male sexuality. Male sexuality is “ready to go”
at any moment. Women become OPEN to the
idea of escalating physically with such a man.
This actually all makes a lot of sense on an
evolutionary level. Women are the ones that
have to carry a baby for nine months, women
are the ones that can only have a limited
amount of children, women have a LOT
invested in making the RIGHT CHOICE
for their reproductive partner.
So that man has to display the traits of power,
status, and dominance in society to show that
his DNA will produce another child that will
ALSO be a survivor and who will thrive in
the crazy jungle of life. Also, this man’s
power and status and dominance probably
also mean he has access to the resources
like food and shelter for survival of the
family unit.
Meanwhile, male sexuality is a little different.
Men, in evolutionary perspectives, didn’t have
as much invested in any ONE woman, and
also could never know for sure if their woman
was faithful, so to ensure that they DID have
their own offspring, they evolved to impregnate
many women, thus increasing the chances for
actually having a child of their own.
By the way, none of this should be taken as
a MORAL imperative for today. I’m simply
speaking about the way attraction works.
So, now that it’s totally clear how important
DOMINANCE and POWER and STATUS is, let me show
you how to convey all these things in the very
FIRST MOMENTS you approach and meet a woman.
DO NOT ALLOW YOUR VOCAL TONALITY TO FLUCTUATE!
Think about how your voice sounds when you
are feeling an EMOTIONAL RESPONSE to
something.
Whether it’s HAPPY, SAD, ANGRY, FEARFUL,
HOPEFUL, or any OTHER emotion!
What happens is your TONALITY changes!
For example, when you are feeling FEARFUL,
your pitch tends to RISE, right? When feeling
depressed, it tends to lower and get faded.
When feeling happy, it gets more energy.
Now, imagine a monitor was TRACKING the
way one’s voice changed if that voice kept on
showing a TON of emotional reactions.
Imagine it looked like a line on a graph, and
the line kept jumping up and down, like an
erratic heartbeat on a monitor.
Well, what you want to do with your tonality
is actually stay on a STRAIGHT LINE.
Unlike the heartbeat monitor, where a straight
line means the worst thing, a straight FLAT
LINE when it comes to your VOCAL TONALITY
when approaching a woman is actually the
BEST thing.
This is because the LACK of fluctuation, the lack
of CHANGING tonalities, the lack of movement
from the STRAIGHT baseline, shows that you
are NOT having ANY emotional reactions to
the conversation.
On a subconscious level, this shows that you
believe that YOU have massive value and
as such, the CONVERSATION WITH THIS
WOMAN is not a big deal to you.
You can ONLY have an emotional reaction
to something if you believe that thing is
IMPORTANT.
Happy, sad, ecstatic, angry, or depressed, you
simply can’t have these emotions and NOT
feel that indeed things are important enough
to either get depressed about, happy about,
angry about, etc.
Now, most guys, when they approach a
woman they like, they tend to have their
voices going all over the place – the voices
FLUCTUATE a lot.
So, for example, they may be really HAPPY
the woman is talking to them. Then, they
may be FEARFUL that the woman doesn’t
like them. Or, they may be DISAPPOINTED
if the woman isn’t immediately showing
signs of massive interest.
All these emotions show in the VOICE.
The flip side of all of this is that if you DON’T
HAVE EMOTIONS in your voice, then clearly
NOTHING too important is going on OUTSIDE
of you.
In other words, you don’t feel OUTBALANCED
by the IMPORTANCE of this woman.
Now, from a woman’s standpoint, this makes
you a GIVER, and the holder of HIGHER
value.
Most guys she meets, she can’t help but feel
SHE is the superior value, and that the guy
is an INFERIOR value. After all, this is
the message the guys are giving off in
their TONALITY.
They are REACTING to something very
IMPORTANT, to something that’s a
BIG DEAL—THE WOMAN.
A woman would rather meet a guy who
is a “big deal” to HER! She’s sick and
tired of meeting guys who she ISN’T
interested in but who are all so interested
in HER.
So make no mistake about it, this is not about
making the woman UNIMPORTANT, it’s
about making sure that YOU don’t come
across as YOU being unimportant.
And the way most men behave when they
approach and interact with a woman who is
attractive simply makes the men come
across as UNIMPORTANT because they
are having EMOTIONAL REACTIONS
that are so evident in their TONALITY.
So, the way to ensure this is not happening
is to make sure that your voice tone does
not fluctuate. Each fluctuation is a sign
of an emotional reaction, and each emotional
reaction is a sign that you feel she is so
important compared to you.
This does not mean that you should come across
as a lifeless, boring robot, as your voice tone can
still show resonance, sensuality, and confidence,
all without fluctuating much from the baseline.
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TRUTH on how to approach women.
It’s all based on real-world research and testing, and I’ve been using this for YEARS, including in my live workshops with guys as we approach women just about everywhere.
In order to fully understand how to use the
strategy I am about to show you, it is crucial
to understand one thing:
Being a powerful, dominant man is the strongest
force when it comes to attracting women, and in
fact to women, the form of power known as
DOMINANCE is particularly important when
they instinctively and subconsciously size
up a man.
Let me go even further to make this even more clear:
Superficial types of attraction, such as a guy having
“good looks” simply doesn’t mean the same thing
to women as a woman being “good looking” means
to men. Sure, great looks do indeed appeal to
women, but the good looks really means FAR LESS
to women than it means to men.
The proof of this is all around us. How many male
models can women name? How many female
models can men name? How many strip clubs
are there for women where men take their clothes
off? How many strip clubs are there for men
where women take their clothes off?
The massive imbalance here tells you something
right away: Women simply aren’t as COMPELLED
to chase a man because he is “good looking” as
MEN are compelled to chase a woman because
she is good looking.
Ahh, but now, let’s flip this around to POWER.
See, good ol Brad Pitt, before he became a
movie star and a famous celebrity and thus
“a power broker”, actually had a HARD TIME
with women, according to his own words in
countless interviews.
In other words, he actually didn’t have it much
different than other guys when he was doing
regular guy things like being a waiter, etc.
And let’s take this even further:
How many men chase women who are powerful?
How man WOMEN chase MEN who are powerful?
This is why women care more about the fact that a
man has POWER, STATUS, and DOMINANCE
than the fact he is super good looking, etc.
And here’s the thing: Just like men can’t help it
but go crazy for women who give off the signs
of beauty, women can’t help it but go crazy for
men who give off the signs of DOMINANCE.
In fact, it’s a bit more complicated than that,
because it’s not exactly like women get immediately
attracted by power and status OR by great looks,
it’s more like women immediately feel the primal
need to GET CLOSER with this man and learn
more about him.
Female sexuality takes a little more “warming up”
than male sexuality. Male sexuality is “ready to go”
at any moment. Women become OPEN to the
idea of escalating physically with such a man.
This actually all makes a lot of sense on an
evolutionary level. Women are the ones that
have to carry a baby for nine months, women
are the ones that can only have a limited
amount of children, women have a LOT
invested in making the RIGHT CHOICE
for their reproductive partner.
So that man has to display the traits of power,
status, and dominance in society to show that
his DNA will produce another child that will
ALSO be a survivor and who will thrive in
the crazy jungle of life. Also, this man’s
power and status and dominance probably
also mean he has access to the resources
like food and shelter for survival of the
family unit.
Meanwhile, male sexuality is a little different.
Men, in evolutionary perspectives, didn’t have
as much invested in any ONE woman, and
also could never know for sure if their woman
was faithful, so to ensure that they DID have
their own offspring, they evolved to impregnate
many women, thus increasing the chances for
actually having a child of their own.
By the way, none of this should be taken as
a MORAL imperative for today. I’m simply
speaking about the way attraction works.
So, now that it’s totally clear how important
DOMINANCE and POWER and STATUS is, let me show
you how to convey all these things in the very
FIRST MOMENTS you approach and meet a woman.
DO NOT ALLOW YOUR VOCAL TONALITY TO FLUCTUATE!
Think about how your voice sounds when you
are feeling an EMOTIONAL RESPONSE to
something.
Whether it’s HAPPY, SAD, ANGRY, FEARFUL,
HOPEFUL, or any OTHER emotion!
What happens is your TONALITY changes!
For example, when you are feeling FEARFUL,
your pitch tends to RISE, right? When feeling
depressed, it tends to lower and get faded.
When feeling happy, it gets more energy.
Now, imagine a monitor was TRACKING the
way one’s voice changed if that voice kept on
showing a TON of emotional reactions.
Imagine it looked like a line on a graph, and
the line kept jumping up and down, like an
erratic heartbeat on a monitor.
Well, what you want to do with your tonality
is actually stay on a STRAIGHT LINE.
Unlike the heartbeat monitor, where a straight
line means the worst thing, a straight FLAT
LINE when it comes to your VOCAL TONALITY
when approaching a woman is actually the
BEST thing.
This is because the LACK of fluctuation, the lack
of CHANGING tonalities, the lack of movement
from the STRAIGHT baseline, shows that you
are NOT having ANY emotional reactions to
the conversation.
On a subconscious level, this shows that you
believe that YOU have massive value and
as such, the CONVERSATION WITH THIS
WOMAN is not a big deal to you.
You can ONLY have an emotional reaction
to something if you believe that thing is
IMPORTANT.
Happy, sad, ecstatic, angry, or depressed, you
simply can’t have these emotions and NOT
feel that indeed things are important enough
to either get depressed about, happy about,
angry about, etc.
Now, most guys, when they approach a
woman they like, they tend to have their
voices going all over the place – the voices
FLUCTUATE a lot.
So, for example, they may be really HAPPY
the woman is talking to them. Then, they
may be FEARFUL that the woman doesn’t
like them. Or, they may be DISAPPOINTED
if the woman isn’t immediately showing
signs of massive interest.
All these emotions show in the VOICE.
The flip side of all of this is that if you DON’T
HAVE EMOTIONS in your voice, then clearly
NOTHING too important is going on OUTSIDE
of you.
In other words, you don’t feel OUTBALANCED
by the IMPORTANCE of this woman.
Now, from a woman’s standpoint, this makes
you a GIVER, and the holder of HIGHER
value.
Most guys she meets, she can’t help but feel
SHE is the superior value, and that the guy
is an INFERIOR value. After all, this is
the message the guys are giving off in
their TONALITY.
They are REACTING to something very
IMPORTANT, to something that’s a
BIG DEAL—THE WOMAN.
A woman would rather meet a guy who
is a “big deal” to HER! She’s sick and
tired of meeting guys who she ISN’T
interested in but who are all so interested
in HER.
So make no mistake about it, this is not about
making the woman UNIMPORTANT, it’s
about making sure that YOU don’t come
across as YOU being unimportant.
And the way most men behave when they
approach and interact with a woman who is
attractive simply makes the men come
across as UNIMPORTANT because they
are having EMOTIONAL REACTIONS
that are so evident in their TONALITY.
So, the way to ensure this is not happening
is to make sure that your voice tone does
not fluctuate. Each fluctuation is a sign
of an emotional reaction, and each emotional
reaction is a sign that you feel she is so
important compared to you.
This does not mean that you should come across
as a lifeless, boring robot, as your voice tone can
still show resonance, sensuality, and confidence,
all without fluctuating much from the baseline.
And if you want to master the skills of attracting
women, and of detecting a woman's CHARACTER
immediately as well, I seriously suggest you
IMMEDIATELY get my DVD set, called
WARRIOR WITHIN.
This program is the result of YEARS of
experience from 'picking up women' in every
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Friday, October 14, 2011
Crucial Insights On Sexual Attraction That Women NEVER Reveal
There are two major areas about success
with women I want to reveal to you today:
One has to do with your "inner game", and
the other has to do with a key secret to
know about women in terms of getting
'physically intimate' with them.
When it comes to mastering "inner game"
in the area of attraction and women,
there is no greater ENEMY than FEAR.
Let’s start with the most obvious fear:
Fear of approaching women.
This fear prevents ALL good results, since the
chance for even creating attraction is “aborted”
before it can even be born.
But that is only the beginning of how fear
can destroy attraction.
For example, let’s say a guy HAS got a woman
interested in him, let’s say he DID make the
approach.
And now he is fearing NOT SEEMING COOL
ENOUGH.
So what does he do?
He OVERCOMPENSATES, trying EXTRA HARD
to be cool – doing things like ‘name-dropping’ –
mentioning names of people he thinks the girl
thinks are cool, and trying to show he is somehow
connected to them.
Or he does things like naming a bunch
of popular or trendy nightclubs that
he heard were "hard to get into", and
that he thinks the girl considers a
"hot spot" to go.
Or he does things like trying EXTRA HARD to
show he is NOT interested.
Or he figures that he is so for sure not cool that
his only choice is to compensate by being way
nicer than he really thinks anyone ought to be,
but is doing it anyway because he figures it’s
his only chance.
All this F-ING crap is a result of FEAR.
Women can TELL exactly what is going on,
and it's UNATTRACTIVE BEHAVIOR.
And still, this is just the BEGINNING.
Let’s say a guy has managed to AVOID
those fears, let’s say he has managed to
actually GET a woman really ATTRACTED,
and now he even has her as his GIRLFRIEND.
But now, he is AFRAID OF LOSING HER.
Or, he is afraid that some other guys out there
who might be richer, better looking, funnier,
wittier, or “more cool” in some way.
What will be his response to this FEAR that
he feels inside?
Very often, it will be the feeling of a NEED
to try to CONTROL her, to SUFFOCATE
HER INDEPENDENCE.
After all, if he can just somehow manage to
STOP her from being exposed to anyone
who might be “COOLER” he can then be
MORE ASSURED that she will STILL
WANT TO BE WITH HIM, RIGHT?
And yet, the OPPOSITE happens, because when
people feel CONTROLLED they suddenly DESIRE
all those things that are being “forbidden” way,
WAY more.
Trying to CONTROL a woman in any way, will
just make her MUCH WORSE, but she will probably
just make sure to be very careful to do it OUT OF SIGHT.
Now, the OPPOSITE of all this is ALSO true.
If you FIGHT THE FEAR, if you DON’T GIVE IN
TO IT, and for example, you DO approach the women,
and you DON’T overcompensate with acting “extra-cool”,
and you even go so far as to ENCOURAGE A WOMAN
to be “independent”, you tend to create the OPPOSITE
EFFECT- you tend to actually make the woman
WANT YOU WAY, WAY MORE.
Not only that, but you prevent DECEPTION, so that
she can be HONEST with you.
You also TAKE THE FUN OUT OF “CHEATING”
because the natural forces of temptation FEED OFF
OF RESTRICTION, but by ALLOWING her to be
free, there is none of that “CHEATING FUEL” CALLED
“RESTRICTION AND CONTROL”.
And guess what else?
By NOT giving into your fears, by NOT trying
to sound so cool, by NOT trying to control a
woman, by in fact ENCOURAGING her to
be independent, you end up SUBSCONSCIOUSLY
SHOWING THAT YOU ARE INDEED THE
PRIZE, BECAUSE 99% OF ALL OTHER MEN
WOULD GIVE INTO THE FEARS, SHOWING
THAT THEY ARE INFERIOR.
You show SUPERIOR VALUE by behaving
this way – and it’s all being registered in her
mind subconsciously, the only thing she IS
conscious of, is that she is ATTRACTED
to you.
In fact, one of the craziest things ever is that
if a woman you are in a relationship with ever
says something about leaving, you should
not try to hold her back (unless it’s obvious
you were being a JERK and this is her way
of asking you to change).
When you REMOVE CONTROL, there is
NOTHING left her to RESIST, so you take
a lot of the ENERGY AND DESIRE out of it.
Now, you know how to prevent a major
MISTAKE that most men make with women,
by trying to CONTROL women rather than
encouraging them to do whatever they want.
Now, let me reveal to you another MAJOR
secret, one that is DIRECTLY related to
getting 'physical' with women, that less
than 1% of men know about:
One of the greatest MISTAKES that
guys make when it comes to chatting
to a new woman is how to interpret
and respond to her comments about
female and male sexuality.
So, for example, a woman might say something
like "all men are dogs".
Or, even more powerful, a woman might say to
you, "men are more sexual than women", and
she may say this with a totally honest and
serious face.
You'd think for SURE she must MEAN it.
And yet, I can tell you, with 100% ACCURACY,
that she does NOT mean this at ALL.
So, it's no wonder that so many guys are facing
such huge obstacles in getting success with
women.
I'm going to "decode" to you what a woman
REALLY means in a statement such as
"men are more sexual than women".
What she REALLY means by this statement is
she is actually TESTING to see what your
response will be. She is TESTING to see
if you know what she REALLY means.
If you know what she REALLY means, and
you indicate that by your response, you are
now one MASSIVE step closer to being
with her.
If you DON'T know what she really means,
and you indicate you don't know by your
response, you are now one massive step
FURTHER AWAY from her.
When a woman says a statement such as
"men are more sexual than women" what
she is REALLY doing is repeating the
BULLSHIT of society's teachings to you,
to see if you KNOW that this is bullshit.
If you AGREE with her statement that "men
are more sexual than women", then you
have shown her that you are part of the
PATHETIC MASSES OF IGNORANT
MEN on this subject.
I know this is strong language, but it's the
truth, about how she will feel about you.
And, on the other hand, if you DISAGREE
with her statement, and you actually let
her know that women are just as sexual if
not more, then you have actually now
PROGRESSED to a higher level with
her and are actually way closer to getting
physical as well of course.
The reason for all this is that women have actually
been MISTREATED and MISUNDERSTOOD
for a long, LONG time.
Now, don't get me wrong, I also believe that
THESE DAYS especially, it's GOOD MEN
who are often being MISTREATED. And
it's GOOD MEN that are suffering from
not being "in the know" as to what's going
on as well. This is a big part of why I
do what I do, to help the good guys of
this world.
But all that does not take away from the
FACT that women have been MASSIVELY
misunderstood for a LOOOOOONG TIME,
and massively MISTREATED for a long
time.
One of the MAJOR ways, among MANY,
that women were mistreated and misunderstood
has to do with the way men perceived female
sexuality. For a long time, it was believed
that women only had sex with men for
MEN'S pleasure!!!!
That's CRAZY, but it's the TRUTH.
They didn't even know that women had orgasms!
Women who WERE "overly" sexual were seen
as evil, as "sluts", as somehow being "SICK"
or deviant or threatening in some way.
And the worst rung on the totem pole of society,
the lowest of status, was to be perceived as a "slut",
whereas in some cultures men were often hailed as
"studs" for being the exact same way.
Our knowledge of female sexuality was pathetic
until just very recently.
On top of that, you have the fact that women
weren't allowed to vote until recently, were
considered unable to do a lot of specific
mental tasks, and all of that has been shown
to be hogwash.
So, now, put yourself in the position of a woman
who KNOWS the TRUTH about all women, and
yet is living in a society where there are still a
lot of men who are not only ignorant about
women, but who also view her sexuality as
threatening or evil or who view women as
being somehow less than men in terms of
rights, etc.
So, if you were a woman, you would WANT
TO KNOW VERY BADLY the TRUTH about
the guy you were chatting to. You would want
to know if he IS or IS NOT the kind of guy that is
CONTROLLING, that is IGNORANT about
female sexuality, that would make her feel
good and accepted, a guy that already is
comfortable with her as she really is or not,etc.
So the way to do that is not to ASK HIM
directly, because first of all that might
frighten him and scare him off, or
second of all it might CLUE HIM IN
and allow him to FAKE the correct answer.
The best way for a woman to know what the
guy REALLY believes, what the guy REALLY
feels, is for her to PRETEND to be the version
of women that most MEN believe women are,
the version of women that men have been
brainwashed to believe by an ignorant
history and culture.
That way, if the guy DOES believe in all that
ignorance, and she is pretending to be all that
stuff, then he will not be threatened, and he
will accept her. But most of all, this tells
the woman that this guy is NOT cool.
Now, if the guy DISAGREES with her, then
she knows that FOR SURE this guy REALLY
BELIEVES it, he is clearly not arguing with
her to GAIN points, right????????? He
can only be arguing with her because he
REALLY BELIEVES in what he is saying.
So she NOW will know that this guy does
NOT believe in the hogwash lies about women
that have pervaded male society throughout
the years.
Pretty smart of women, huh?
But I'm not finished there, either.
It's not enough that he disagrees with her.
He can STILL be agreeing, and be better
than MOST guys, but he's still not in the
that special 1% zone, that is part of the
"INNER CIRCLE" that I will describe
more below.
He should actually be LAUGHING and be
TOTALLY relaxed even as he disagrees.
You want to know why?
It's because, if you are REALLY the guy
who knows all this stuff, this is GRADE
ONE LEVEL STUFF, super easy stuff
that you should know if you have had
any real experience with women.
Making a big deal about it means you
aren't yet really COMFORTABLE
with it all, it means you still feel
threatened by it. It means you don't
realize she is just giving you a quick
"routine" security check to make
sure you're not one of the many
ignorant men out there.
It should be something you understand,
and EXPECT and sympathize with.
She EXPECTS that you SHOULD know
this stuff if you have been successful
with women, since it's the only way
TO actually be successful with women.
All she is doing is screening you very quickly
by this, it's a COMMON thing for her to do to
screen guys, she HAS to do this, and the more
RELAXED you are when disagreeing with her
on this, the more she can tell that YOU are
ALREADY on the "INSIDE", part of the
"INNER CIRCLE".
So for example, you chuckle lightly, and say
"riiight, that's funny" and then you give her the
"wink" and you playfully say, "Sounds like
you've met the wrong guys then- such a shame!".
Get the picture here?
So, you want to know who's on the "inside"?
Who does this "inner circle" include?
It includes ALL WOMEN, and 1% of MEN.
If you make a big deal about the whole thing,
then even if you argue with her, it shows you
are still very NEW to the "inner circle".
It's much cooler if you've been here for a while.
So, the coolest thing to do is to view such a
"test" by a woman as actually her simply
sending you one half the code, and seeing
if you have the matching numbers on your
side. If you do, then you are in. If you
don't, then you're out.
It's as simple and easy as that, if you are
on the INSIDE.
If you're on the OUTSIDE, you'll never
know and can beat your head against the
wall forever trying to figure it out and
it still won't help.
And I promise you, as powerful as this
newsletter is, it's the TIP OF THE ICEBERG
of what you will find in my latest program
on attracting women. It's called "Warrior
Within" and it contains the attraction
insights that you MUST know if you want to
actually GET THE GIRL instead of just hoping
for it.
It's at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html
This is a very IN-DEPTH program on attracting
women of the highest quality, and I suggest
you get your hands on it IMMEDIATELY.
It's at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html
And if you haven't yet downloaded my eBook-
The Dating Wizard, then do that now at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/Wizard.html
This book is the place to start.
Till next time,
Michael Marks
P.S.
Tomorrow, October 15, my special offer
to get my ENTIRE LINE of programs ENDS.
This offer is at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/bundle.html
P.P.S. To learn 'HANDS-ON', go here:
http://getagreatgirl.com/realworld.html
with women I want to reveal to you today:
One has to do with your "inner game", and
the other has to do with a key secret to
know about women in terms of getting
'physically intimate' with them.
When it comes to mastering "inner game"
in the area of attraction and women,
there is no greater ENEMY than FEAR.
Let’s start with the most obvious fear:
Fear of approaching women.
This fear prevents ALL good results, since the
chance for even creating attraction is “aborted”
before it can even be born.
But that is only the beginning of how fear
can destroy attraction.
For example, let’s say a guy HAS got a woman
interested in him, let’s say he DID make the
approach.
And now he is fearing NOT SEEMING COOL
ENOUGH.
So what does he do?
He OVERCOMPENSATES, trying EXTRA HARD
to be cool – doing things like ‘name-dropping’ –
mentioning names of people he thinks the girl
thinks are cool, and trying to show he is somehow
connected to them.
Or he does things like naming a bunch
of popular or trendy nightclubs that
he heard were "hard to get into", and
that he thinks the girl considers a
"hot spot" to go.
Or he does things like trying EXTRA HARD to
show he is NOT interested.
Or he figures that he is so for sure not cool that
his only choice is to compensate by being way
nicer than he really thinks anyone ought to be,
but is doing it anyway because he figures it’s
his only chance.
All this F-ING crap is a result of FEAR.
Women can TELL exactly what is going on,
and it's UNATTRACTIVE BEHAVIOR.
And still, this is just the BEGINNING.
Let’s say a guy has managed to AVOID
those fears, let’s say he has managed to
actually GET a woman really ATTRACTED,
and now he even has her as his GIRLFRIEND.
But now, he is AFRAID OF LOSING HER.
Or, he is afraid that some other guys out there
who might be richer, better looking, funnier,
wittier, or “more cool” in some way.
What will be his response to this FEAR that
he feels inside?
Very often, it will be the feeling of a NEED
to try to CONTROL her, to SUFFOCATE
HER INDEPENDENCE.
After all, if he can just somehow manage to
STOP her from being exposed to anyone
who might be “COOLER” he can then be
MORE ASSURED that she will STILL
WANT TO BE WITH HIM, RIGHT?
And yet, the OPPOSITE happens, because when
people feel CONTROLLED they suddenly DESIRE
all those things that are being “forbidden” way,
WAY more.
Trying to CONTROL a woman in any way, will
just make her MUCH WORSE, but she will probably
just make sure to be very careful to do it OUT OF SIGHT.
Now, the OPPOSITE of all this is ALSO true.
If you FIGHT THE FEAR, if you DON’T GIVE IN
TO IT, and for example, you DO approach the women,
and you DON’T overcompensate with acting “extra-cool”,
and you even go so far as to ENCOURAGE A WOMAN
to be “independent”, you tend to create the OPPOSITE
EFFECT- you tend to actually make the woman
WANT YOU WAY, WAY MORE.
Not only that, but you prevent DECEPTION, so that
she can be HONEST with you.
You also TAKE THE FUN OUT OF “CHEATING”
because the natural forces of temptation FEED OFF
OF RESTRICTION, but by ALLOWING her to be
free, there is none of that “CHEATING FUEL” CALLED
“RESTRICTION AND CONTROL”.
And guess what else?
By NOT giving into your fears, by NOT trying
to sound so cool, by NOT trying to control a
woman, by in fact ENCOURAGING her to
be independent, you end up SUBSCONSCIOUSLY
SHOWING THAT YOU ARE INDEED THE
PRIZE, BECAUSE 99% OF ALL OTHER MEN
WOULD GIVE INTO THE FEARS, SHOWING
THAT THEY ARE INFERIOR.
You show SUPERIOR VALUE by behaving
this way – and it’s all being registered in her
mind subconsciously, the only thing she IS
conscious of, is that she is ATTRACTED
to you.
In fact, one of the craziest things ever is that
if a woman you are in a relationship with ever
says something about leaving, you should
not try to hold her back (unless it’s obvious
you were being a JERK and this is her way
of asking you to change).
When you REMOVE CONTROL, there is
NOTHING left her to RESIST, so you take
a lot of the ENERGY AND DESIRE out of it.
Now, you know how to prevent a major
MISTAKE that most men make with women,
by trying to CONTROL women rather than
encouraging them to do whatever they want.
Now, let me reveal to you another MAJOR
secret, one that is DIRECTLY related to
getting 'physical' with women, that less
than 1% of men know about:
One of the greatest MISTAKES that
guys make when it comes to chatting
to a new woman is how to interpret
and respond to her comments about
female and male sexuality.
So, for example, a woman might say something
like "all men are dogs".
Or, even more powerful, a woman might say to
you, "men are more sexual than women", and
she may say this with a totally honest and
serious face.
You'd think for SURE she must MEAN it.
And yet, I can tell you, with 100% ACCURACY,
that she does NOT mean this at ALL.
So, it's no wonder that so many guys are facing
such huge obstacles in getting success with
women.
I'm going to "decode" to you what a woman
REALLY means in a statement such as
"men are more sexual than women".
What she REALLY means by this statement is
she is actually TESTING to see what your
response will be. She is TESTING to see
if you know what she REALLY means.
If you know what she REALLY means, and
you indicate that by your response, you are
now one MASSIVE step closer to being
with her.
If you DON'T know what she really means,
and you indicate you don't know by your
response, you are now one massive step
FURTHER AWAY from her.
When a woman says a statement such as
"men are more sexual than women" what
she is REALLY doing is repeating the
BULLSHIT of society's teachings to you,
to see if you KNOW that this is bullshit.
If you AGREE with her statement that "men
are more sexual than women", then you
have shown her that you are part of the
PATHETIC MASSES OF IGNORANT
MEN on this subject.
I know this is strong language, but it's the
truth, about how she will feel about you.
And, on the other hand, if you DISAGREE
with her statement, and you actually let
her know that women are just as sexual if
not more, then you have actually now
PROGRESSED to a higher level with
her and are actually way closer to getting
physical as well of course.
The reason for all this is that women have actually
been MISTREATED and MISUNDERSTOOD
for a long, LONG time.
Now, don't get me wrong, I also believe that
THESE DAYS especially, it's GOOD MEN
who are often being MISTREATED. And
it's GOOD MEN that are suffering from
not being "in the know" as to what's going
on as well. This is a big part of why I
do what I do, to help the good guys of
this world.
But all that does not take away from the
FACT that women have been MASSIVELY
misunderstood for a LOOOOOONG TIME,
and massively MISTREATED for a long
time.
One of the MAJOR ways, among MANY,
that women were mistreated and misunderstood
has to do with the way men perceived female
sexuality. For a long time, it was believed
that women only had sex with men for
MEN'S pleasure!!!!
That's CRAZY, but it's the TRUTH.
They didn't even know that women had orgasms!
Women who WERE "overly" sexual were seen
as evil, as "sluts", as somehow being "SICK"
or deviant or threatening in some way.
And the worst rung on the totem pole of society,
the lowest of status, was to be perceived as a "slut",
whereas in some cultures men were often hailed as
"studs" for being the exact same way.
Our knowledge of female sexuality was pathetic
until just very recently.
On top of that, you have the fact that women
weren't allowed to vote until recently, were
considered unable to do a lot of specific
mental tasks, and all of that has been shown
to be hogwash.
So, now, put yourself in the position of a woman
who KNOWS the TRUTH about all women, and
yet is living in a society where there are still a
lot of men who are not only ignorant about
women, but who also view her sexuality as
threatening or evil or who view women as
being somehow less than men in terms of
rights, etc.
So, if you were a woman, you would WANT
TO KNOW VERY BADLY the TRUTH about
the guy you were chatting to. You would want
to know if he IS or IS NOT the kind of guy that is
CONTROLLING, that is IGNORANT about
female sexuality, that would make her feel
good and accepted, a guy that already is
comfortable with her as she really is or not,etc.
So the way to do that is not to ASK HIM
directly, because first of all that might
frighten him and scare him off, or
second of all it might CLUE HIM IN
and allow him to FAKE the correct answer.
The best way for a woman to know what the
guy REALLY believes, what the guy REALLY
feels, is for her to PRETEND to be the version
of women that most MEN believe women are,
the version of women that men have been
brainwashed to believe by an ignorant
history and culture.
That way, if the guy DOES believe in all that
ignorance, and she is pretending to be all that
stuff, then he will not be threatened, and he
will accept her. But most of all, this tells
the woman that this guy is NOT cool.
Now, if the guy DISAGREES with her, then
she knows that FOR SURE this guy REALLY
BELIEVES it, he is clearly not arguing with
her to GAIN points, right????????? He
can only be arguing with her because he
REALLY BELIEVES in what he is saying.
So she NOW will know that this guy does
NOT believe in the hogwash lies about women
that have pervaded male society throughout
the years.
Pretty smart of women, huh?
But I'm not finished there, either.
It's not enough that he disagrees with her.
He can STILL be agreeing, and be better
than MOST guys, but he's still not in the
that special 1% zone, that is part of the
"INNER CIRCLE" that I will describe
more below.
He should actually be LAUGHING and be
TOTALLY relaxed even as he disagrees.
You want to know why?
It's because, if you are REALLY the guy
who knows all this stuff, this is GRADE
ONE LEVEL STUFF, super easy stuff
that you should know if you have had
any real experience with women.
Making a big deal about it means you
aren't yet really COMFORTABLE
with it all, it means you still feel
threatened by it. It means you don't
realize she is just giving you a quick
"routine" security check to make
sure you're not one of the many
ignorant men out there.
It should be something you understand,
and EXPECT and sympathize with.
She EXPECTS that you SHOULD know
this stuff if you have been successful
with women, since it's the only way
TO actually be successful with women.
All she is doing is screening you very quickly
by this, it's a COMMON thing for her to do to
screen guys, she HAS to do this, and the more
RELAXED you are when disagreeing with her
on this, the more she can tell that YOU are
ALREADY on the "INSIDE", part of the
"INNER CIRCLE".
So for example, you chuckle lightly, and say
"riiight, that's funny" and then you give her the
"wink" and you playfully say, "Sounds like
you've met the wrong guys then- such a shame!".
Get the picture here?
So, you want to know who's on the "inside"?
Who does this "inner circle" include?
It includes ALL WOMEN, and 1% of MEN.
If you make a big deal about the whole thing,
then even if you argue with her, it shows you
are still very NEW to the "inner circle".
It's much cooler if you've been here for a while.
So, the coolest thing to do is to view such a
"test" by a woman as actually her simply
sending you one half the code, and seeing
if you have the matching numbers on your
side. If you do, then you are in. If you
don't, then you're out.
It's as simple and easy as that, if you are
on the INSIDE.
If you're on the OUTSIDE, you'll never
know and can beat your head against the
wall forever trying to figure it out and
it still won't help.
And I promise you, as powerful as this
newsletter is, it's the TIP OF THE ICEBERG
of what you will find in my latest program
on attracting women. It's called "Warrior
Within" and it contains the attraction
insights that you MUST know if you want to
actually GET THE GIRL instead of just hoping
for it.
It's at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html
This is a very IN-DEPTH program on attracting
women of the highest quality, and I suggest
you get your hands on it IMMEDIATELY.
It's at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html
And if you haven't yet downloaded my eBook-
The Dating Wizard, then do that now at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/Wizard.html
This book is the place to start.
Till next time,
Michael Marks
P.S.
Tomorrow, October 15, my special offer
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Tuesday, April 26, 2011
Only 1% Of Men Know This About Women
You are about to learn what only
1% of men know about women. So
powerful is what you are about
to learn, that women tend to use
this as a way to IMMEDIATELY
screen out men who DON'T know it,
and let IN the men who DO.
So here we go:
One of the greatest MISTAKES that
guys make when it comes to chatting
to a new woman is how to interpret
and respond to her comments about
female and male sexuality.
So, for example, a woman might say something
like "all men are dogs".
Or, even more powerful, a woman might say to
you, "men are more sexual than women", and
she may say this with a totally honest and
serious face.
You'd think for SURE she must MEAN it.
And yet, I can tell you, with 100% ACCURACY,
that she does NOT mean this at ALL.
So, it's no wonder that so many guys are facing
such huge obstacles in getting success with
women.
I'm going to "decode" to you what a woman
REALLY means in a statement such as
"men are more sexual than women".
What she REALLY means by this statement is
she is actually TESTING to see what your
response will be. She is TESTING to see
if you know what she REALLY means.
If you know what she REALLY means, and
you indicate that by your response, you are
now one MASSIVE step closer to being
with her.
If you DON'T know what she really means,
and you indicate you don't know by your
response, you are now one massive step
FURTHER AWAY from her.
When a woman says a statement such as
"men are more sexual than women" what
she is REALLY doing is repeating the
BULLSHIT of society's teachings to you,
to see if you KNOW that this is bullshit.
If you AGREE with her statement that "men
are more sexual than women", then you
have shown her that you are part of the
PATHETIC MASSES OF IGNORANT
MEN on this subject.
I know this is strong language, but it's the
truth, about how she will feel about you.
And, on the other hand, if you DISAGREE
with her statement, and you actually let
her know that women are just as sexual if
not more, then you have actually now
PROGRESSED to a higher level with
her and are actually way closer to getting
physical as well of course.
The reason for all this is that women have
actually been MISTREATED and MISUNDERSTOOD
for a long, LONG time.
Now, don't get me wrong, I also believe that
THESE DAYS especially, it's GOOD MEN
who are often being MISTREATED. And
it's GOOD MEN that are suffering from
not being "in the know" as to what's going
on as well. This is a big part of why I
do what I do, to help the good guys of
this world.
But all that does not take away from the
FACT that women have been MASSIVELY
misunderstood for a LOOOOOONG TIME,
and massively MISTREATED for a long
time.
One of the MAJOR ways, among MANY,
that women were mistreated and misunderstood
has to do with the way men perceived female
sexuality. For a long time, it was believed
that women only had sex with men for
MEN'S pleasure!!!!
That's CRAZY, but it's the TRUTH.
They didn't even know that women had orgasms!
Women who WERE "overly" sexual were seen
as evil, as "sluts", as somehow being "SICK"
or deviant or threatening in some way.
And the worst rung on the totem pole of society,
the lowest of status, was to be perceived as a "slut",
whereas in some cultures men were often hailed as
"studs" for being the exact same way.
Our knowledge of female sexuality was pathetic
until just very recently.
On top of that, you have the fact that women
weren't allowed to vote until recently, were
considered unable to do a lot of specific
mental tasks, and all of that has been shown
to be hogwash.
So, now, put yourself in the position of a woman
who KNOWS the TRUTH about all women, and
yet is living in a society where there are still a
lot of men who are not only ignorant about
women, but who also view her sexuality as
threatening or evil or who view women as
being somehow less than men in terms of
rights, etc.
So, if you were a woman, you would WANT
TO KNOW VERY BADLY the TRUTH about
the guy you were chatting to. You would want
to know if he IS or IS NOT the kind of guy that is
CONTROLLING, that is IGNORANT about
female sexuality, that would make her feel
good and accepted, a guy that already is
comfortable with her as she really is or not,etc.
So the way to do that is not to ASK HIM
directly, because first of all that might
frighten him and scare him off, or
second of all it might CLUE HIM IN
and allow him to FAKE the correct answer.
The best way for a woman to know what the
guy REALLY believes, what the guy REALLY
feels, is for her to PRETEND to be the version
of women that most MEN believe women are,
the version of women that men have been
brainwashed to believe by an ignorant
history and culture.
That way, if the guy DOES believe in all that
ignorance, and she is pretending to be all that
stuff, then he will not be threatened, and he
will accept her. But most of all, this tells
the woman that this guy is NOT cool.
Now, if the guy DISAGREES with her, then
she knows that FOR SURE this guy REALLY
BELIEVES it, he is clearly not arguing with
her to GAIN points, right????????? He
can only be arguing with her because he
REALLY BELIEVES in what he is saying.
So she NOW will know that this guy does
NOT believe in the hogwash lies about women
that have pervaded male society throughout
the years.
Pretty smart of women, huh?
But I'm not finished there, either.
It's not enough that he disagrees with her.
He can STILL be agreeing, and be better
than MOST guys, but he's still not in the
that special 1% zone, that is part of the
"INNER CIRCLE" that I will describe
more below.
He should actually be LAUGHING and be
TOTALLY relaxed even as he disagrees.
You want to know why?
It's because, if you are REALLY the guy
who knows all this stuff, this is GRADE
ONE LEVEL STUFF, super easy stuff
that you should know if you have had
any real experience with women.
Making a big deal about it means you
aren't yet really COMFORTABLE
with it all, it means you still feel
threatened by it. It means you don't
realize she is just giving you a quick
"routine" security check to make
sure you're not one of the many
ignorant men out there.
It should be something you understand,
and EXPECT and sympathize with.
She EXPECTS that you SHOULD know
this stuff if you have been successful
with women, since it's the only way
TO actually be successful with women.
All she is doing is screening you very quickly
by this, it's a COMMON thing for her to do to
screen guys, she HAS to do this, and the more
RELAXED you are when disagreeing with her
on this, the more she can tell that YOU are
ALREADY on the "INSIDE", part of the
"INNER CIRCLE".
So for example, you chuckle lightly, and say
"riiight, that's funny" and then you give her the
"wink" and you playfully say, "Sounds like
you've met the wrong guys then- such a shame!".
Get the picture here?
So, you want to know who's on the "inside"?
Who does this "inner circle" include?
It includes ALL WOMEN, and 1% of MEN.
If you make a big deal about the whole thing,
then even if you argue with her, it shows you
are still very NEW to the "inner circle".
It's much cooler if you've been here for a while.
So, the coolest thing to do is to view such a
"test" by a woman as actually her simply
sending you one half the code, and seeing
if you have the matching numbers on your
side. If you do, then you are in. If you
don't, then you're out.
It's as simple and easy as that, if you are
on the INSIDE.
If you're on the OUTSIDE, you'll never
know and can beat your head against the
wall forever trying to figure it out and
it still won't help.
And I promise you, this is just ONE massively
important nugget of wisdom that you MUST
know if you want to actually GET THE GIRL
instead of just hoping for it.
There is a whole MOUNTAIN of wisdom that
I'd like to share with you.
The best way to do THAT is to devour what
you will learn in this special program:
http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html
This is a very IN-DEPTH program that
will allow you to get the highest
quality women on the PLANET.
I have been giving the no-nonsense,
full picture to men on the subject of
attracting women of extreme quality
for over 8 years now, and this program
will give you the power of CHOICE with
women.
It will allow you to have the power to
CHOOSE the women you want and ATTRACT
the women you want.
No gimmicks. Just the real thing.
It's at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html
And if you haven't yet downloaded my eBook,
called "Get A Great Girl", then do that
now at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/Book.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
1% of men know about women. So
powerful is what you are about
to learn, that women tend to use
this as a way to IMMEDIATELY
screen out men who DON'T know it,
and let IN the men who DO.
So here we go:
One of the greatest MISTAKES that
guys make when it comes to chatting
to a new woman is how to interpret
and respond to her comments about
female and male sexuality.
So, for example, a woman might say something
like "all men are dogs".
Or, even more powerful, a woman might say to
you, "men are more sexual than women", and
she may say this with a totally honest and
serious face.
You'd think for SURE she must MEAN it.
And yet, I can tell you, with 100% ACCURACY,
that she does NOT mean this at ALL.
So, it's no wonder that so many guys are facing
such huge obstacles in getting success with
women.
I'm going to "decode" to you what a woman
REALLY means in a statement such as
"men are more sexual than women".
What she REALLY means by this statement is
she is actually TESTING to see what your
response will be. She is TESTING to see
if you know what she REALLY means.
If you know what she REALLY means, and
you indicate that by your response, you are
now one MASSIVE step closer to being
with her.
If you DON'T know what she really means,
and you indicate you don't know by your
response, you are now one massive step
FURTHER AWAY from her.
When a woman says a statement such as
"men are more sexual than women" what
she is REALLY doing is repeating the
BULLSHIT of society's teachings to you,
to see if you KNOW that this is bullshit.
If you AGREE with her statement that "men
are more sexual than women", then you
have shown her that you are part of the
PATHETIC MASSES OF IGNORANT
MEN on this subject.
I know this is strong language, but it's the
truth, about how she will feel about you.
And, on the other hand, if you DISAGREE
with her statement, and you actually let
her know that women are just as sexual if
not more, then you have actually now
PROGRESSED to a higher level with
her and are actually way closer to getting
physical as well of course.
The reason for all this is that women have
actually been MISTREATED and MISUNDERSTOOD
for a long, LONG time.
Now, don't get me wrong, I also believe that
THESE DAYS especially, it's GOOD MEN
who are often being MISTREATED. And
it's GOOD MEN that are suffering from
not being "in the know" as to what's going
on as well. This is a big part of why I
do what I do, to help the good guys of
this world.
But all that does not take away from the
FACT that women have been MASSIVELY
misunderstood for a LOOOOOONG TIME,
and massively MISTREATED for a long
time.
One of the MAJOR ways, among MANY,
that women were mistreated and misunderstood
has to do with the way men perceived female
sexuality. For a long time, it was believed
that women only had sex with men for
MEN'S pleasure!!!!
That's CRAZY, but it's the TRUTH.
They didn't even know that women had orgasms!
Women who WERE "overly" sexual were seen
as evil, as "sluts", as somehow being "SICK"
or deviant or threatening in some way.
And the worst rung on the totem pole of society,
the lowest of status, was to be perceived as a "slut",
whereas in some cultures men were often hailed as
"studs" for being the exact same way.
Our knowledge of female sexuality was pathetic
until just very recently.
On top of that, you have the fact that women
weren't allowed to vote until recently, were
considered unable to do a lot of specific
mental tasks, and all of that has been shown
to be hogwash.
So, now, put yourself in the position of a woman
who KNOWS the TRUTH about all women, and
yet is living in a society where there are still a
lot of men who are not only ignorant about
women, but who also view her sexuality as
threatening or evil or who view women as
being somehow less than men in terms of
rights, etc.
So, if you were a woman, you would WANT
TO KNOW VERY BADLY the TRUTH about
the guy you were chatting to. You would want
to know if he IS or IS NOT the kind of guy that is
CONTROLLING, that is IGNORANT about
female sexuality, that would make her feel
good and accepted, a guy that already is
comfortable with her as she really is or not,etc.
So the way to do that is not to ASK HIM
directly, because first of all that might
frighten him and scare him off, or
second of all it might CLUE HIM IN
and allow him to FAKE the correct answer.
The best way for a woman to know what the
guy REALLY believes, what the guy REALLY
feels, is for her to PRETEND to be the version
of women that most MEN believe women are,
the version of women that men have been
brainwashed to believe by an ignorant
history and culture.
That way, if the guy DOES believe in all that
ignorance, and she is pretending to be all that
stuff, then he will not be threatened, and he
will accept her. But most of all, this tells
the woman that this guy is NOT cool.
Now, if the guy DISAGREES with her, then
she knows that FOR SURE this guy REALLY
BELIEVES it, he is clearly not arguing with
her to GAIN points, right????????? He
can only be arguing with her because he
REALLY BELIEVES in what he is saying.
So she NOW will know that this guy does
NOT believe in the hogwash lies about women
that have pervaded male society throughout
the years.
Pretty smart of women, huh?
But I'm not finished there, either.
It's not enough that he disagrees with her.
He can STILL be agreeing, and be better
than MOST guys, but he's still not in the
that special 1% zone, that is part of the
"INNER CIRCLE" that I will describe
more below.
He should actually be LAUGHING and be
TOTALLY relaxed even as he disagrees.
You want to know why?
It's because, if you are REALLY the guy
who knows all this stuff, this is GRADE
ONE LEVEL STUFF, super easy stuff
that you should know if you have had
any real experience with women.
Making a big deal about it means you
aren't yet really COMFORTABLE
with it all, it means you still feel
threatened by it. It means you don't
realize she is just giving you a quick
"routine" security check to make
sure you're not one of the many
ignorant men out there.
It should be something you understand,
and EXPECT and sympathize with.
She EXPECTS that you SHOULD know
this stuff if you have been successful
with women, since it's the only way
TO actually be successful with women.
All she is doing is screening you very quickly
by this, it's a COMMON thing for her to do to
screen guys, she HAS to do this, and the more
RELAXED you are when disagreeing with her
on this, the more she can tell that YOU are
ALREADY on the "INSIDE", part of the
"INNER CIRCLE".
So for example, you chuckle lightly, and say
"riiight, that's funny" and then you give her the
"wink" and you playfully say, "Sounds like
you've met the wrong guys then- such a shame!".
Get the picture here?
So, you want to know who's on the "inside"?
Who does this "inner circle" include?
It includes ALL WOMEN, and 1% of MEN.
If you make a big deal about the whole thing,
then even if you argue with her, it shows you
are still very NEW to the "inner circle".
It's much cooler if you've been here for a while.
So, the coolest thing to do is to view such a
"test" by a woman as actually her simply
sending you one half the code, and seeing
if you have the matching numbers on your
side. If you do, then you are in. If you
don't, then you're out.
It's as simple and easy as that, if you are
on the INSIDE.
If you're on the OUTSIDE, you'll never
know and can beat your head against the
wall forever trying to figure it out and
it still won't help.
And I promise you, this is just ONE massively
important nugget of wisdom that you MUST
know if you want to actually GET THE GIRL
instead of just hoping for it.
There is a whole MOUNTAIN of wisdom that
I'd like to share with you.
The best way to do THAT is to devour what
you will learn in this special program:
http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html
This is a very IN-DEPTH program that
will allow you to get the highest
quality women on the PLANET.
I have been giving the no-nonsense,
full picture to men on the subject of
attracting women of extreme quality
for over 8 years now, and this program
will give you the power of CHOICE with
women.
It will allow you to have the power to
CHOOSE the women you want and ATTRACT
the women you want.
No gimmicks. Just the real thing.
It's at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html
And if you haven't yet downloaded my eBook,
called "Get A Great Girl", then do that
now at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/Book.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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