The "Magic Button" To Ultra-Hotties

If there was ONE "magic button" to success
with women who are the ULTRA-HOTTIES, it would
be the ability to EMOTIONALLY EXPERIENCE what
these women experience in ONE area:

How WANTED they feel by the opposite gender.

In ONE SECOND of EXPERIENCING that, it would
be like SEEING a MASSIVE STAR EXPLODE RIGHT
IN FRONT OF YOU, and having it somehow
BOOM with GODLIKE THUNDER.

The power of that lesson, the truth in it,
the ramifications of it, would be that powerful

More powerful than all the "TOP SECRET"
documents on women being downloaded into
your brain.

Experiencing this changes EVERYTHING,
similar to how one domino that falls
triggers endless other dominos both
internally in terms of how you feel,
but also in terms of the kinds of
things you feel like SAYING, and in
terms of the BEHAVIORS that you show.

And before I go one step further,
let me clearly state it's not just
the FEELING that is important, but
all the ACTIONS that FLOW from that
feeling.

So let me give a clear, detailed example
of what I mean:

If you KNEW right now, that TONS of women
would be OGLING you the moment you STEPPED
out the door, how would you feel?

Well, at first, you might wonder what's going
on, then, it would be AWESOME, and then,
after finding out how many women act so
WIERD around you, it would start to be
a bit ANNOYING.

So, you would very QUICKLY stop thinking
about "where do I meet a woman" and you
would instead start thinking "Where do
I meet the RIGHT woman?"

If women approached you, you would not
be so flattered since it happened a lot,
and since most of these women ended up
quickly wanting to get a date with you
and go home with you and call you ten
times a day and get jealous when another
woman even LOOKED your way.

You would lose all neediness.

You really WOULD go out on Saturday nights
JUST TO HAVE A GOOD TIME, and if you went
to the club with your friends, meeting
CHICKS really would just be ONE small
part of the evening, you really WOULD
be going for the music because you
really WOULD be getting way too much
females bothering you all the time
anyway in everyday life!!!!!!!!!

And I use the word "bother" because most
of these women would be NO FUN for you,
since they all seem so SERIOUS around
you, and they all seem to want to LOCK
YOU DOWN INTO A "NO OPTIONS CONTRACT"
or something.

If a woman came along and seemed to just
be HAVING FUN and NOT pressuring you at
all, but who really WAS sexual but not
pressuring YOU into it, and if she could
CHALLENGE you a bit and be more HONEST
instead of all the women who just told
you ANYTHING EVEN IF THEY DIDN'T BELIEVE
THE WORDS THEY SAID BUT THEY ALL SAID
WHATEVER THEY THOUGHT WOULD GET A
"RESULT" FROM YOU---well MAN of course
you would REALLY GO FOR THAT RARE WOMAN
THAT didn't pressure you, that was way
more fun, that was not always so serious,
and that even CHALLENGED YOU to be the
BEST MAN you could be rather than just
kiss up to you.

And all along the way, imagine that this
was the only woman out of HUNDREDS and
HUNDREDS that also RESPECTED you at all
times, even if she occasionally you got
UPSET at her but later realized it was
because she was GENUINELY trying to help
YOU be your BEST and she wasn't afraid
to lose your temporary approval because
she REALLY cared about you even if it
meant risking LOSING your approval!

Now imagine, you got into a little argument
with her. Nothing disastrous, just a little
HUMAN argument. And for a moment,
you thought to yourself, “I don’t need her,
I can get TONS of women!”

So, you walk out the door, thinking,
“I’m the big boss man, nobody can tell
me NOTHIN!”

And you IMMEDIATELY notice even more
now how there’s ALL THESE OTHER WOMEN
and you even smile a bit at one, KNOWING this
will VALIDATE you real fast and it will feel real
good.

This other woman is ECSTATIC that you smiled
at her, she IMMEDIATELY starts flubbing over
words, stammering, she starts telling you how
GORGEOUS you are, you can TELL this is
going to be EASY, you can get her in bed
in SECONDS.

And then….you immediately feel DISAPPOINTED.
You GOT the validation hit, SO FAST, faster
than getting a search result on GOOGLE lol.

You realize this woman that’s kissing up to you
does not even REALIZE a thing about you,
she just MUST have you NOW.

It feels WEIRD to you.
You think, “Why is she being this way, she doesn’t
even KNOW me?”

You feel BAD for her.
You feel SORRY for her.
In fact, you almost feel like sleeping with her just
to make HER feel good, but then you remember
that the LAST time you did that when you were
single, you could NOT get rid of the woman!

She was OBSESSED with you and kept on
PRESSURING YOU into a relationship.

You couldn’t even THINK about whether
you wanted a relationship or not, all you
could think about was how do you get back
your FREEDOM TO THINK AND JUST
BE YOURSELF AGAIN WITHOUT
HAVING TO PRETEND THAT YOU
ARE REALLY INTO THIS TOTAL
STRANGER!

In fact, just this SMILE that you gave this
woman is already bringing out the needy
side of her, so you learn for the future to
NOT be so smiley around men, because
it just ends up hurting everyone.

AND I PROMISE YOU, THIS IS JUST
THE TIP OF THE ICEBERG.

We haven’t even spoken how this would
all affect what you would find SEXY
behavior in a woman, both outside
the bedroom and IN the bedroom.

We haven’t spoken about how this would
affect your sense of humor.

Just to touch on this for a second, you would
FOR SURE be a lot more lighthearted about
sex, and a lot more lighthearted about women.

You would DEFINITELY not hate women,
you would DEFINITELY not feel NEEDY
for women, but you would also feel a certain
kind of “predictable feeling” about most
women, since most women all seemed to
turn into the same unattractive personality
around you.

But let’s get back to our little make-believe
argument that you had with the RARE woman.

Well, even though now you COULD easily
“dump her” and get ANOTHER woman,
the problem is, there just AIN’T any other
women around that you really WANT!

Not only that, but the more these other women
keep TRYING to get you without even caring
what YOU think of their approach to you, the
more you keep thinking of that woman you
just had the argument with.

And the more you really WANT her BACK.

But the problem is, she’s so awesome, and
she KNOWS it, and in fact, she never
PRESSURED you to come back.

So NOW, you realize FULL POWER that
the ONLY reason you want her, is because
you actually really DESIRE her, in many
ways, and NONE of it has anything to do
with HER pressure.

So you end up calling her and getting over
the argument REAL FAST, and if anything,
you might be just a tiny bit worried that
maybe this AWESOME WOMAN might
have been thinking about some OTHER guy
because you were too silly to be mature
enough to see her point or something like
that.

So you could have ALL THE WOMEN IN
THE WORLD, but you want THIS one.

All this is EXACTLY what it’s like for most
FEMALE HOTTIES.

It’s the reason that even though they have so
much CHOICE, they really don’t FEEL that,
what they feel is that they have a huge choice
of guys that they DON’T WANT.

But there’s one thing DIFFERENT about
the situation when it comes to women.

It’s one thing if a woman gets all flustered
or emotional in her first impression with
a man. This doesn’t ruin her femininity.

But as a MAN, it’s even MORE important to
be experiencing that emotion of EMPOWERMENT
with women.

The real problem is not that you must always
withhold compliments, validation, niceness,
etc, from women, it’s that 99% of the time,
when guys do those things with hotties,
it’s coming from SUPPLICATION, from a
feeling of NOT HAVING CHOICES.

You can buy a woman a drink if the action
of buying that drink has NOTHING TO
DO with you thinking that the drink is
what’s going to help you get her.

In fact, if a guy is withholding validation, but
also coming across as emotionally COLD, then
all he will end up doing is seeming STINGY
with his emotions and his pocketbook.

And this will all reflect INSECURITY.

Not only is insecurity the opposite of masculinity,
but it also RUINS all the FUN sexual vibes that
are so important for ramping things up in the
bedroom (or wherever you two get physical!)

Now here’s the thing: EVEN IF YOU DON’T
FEEL SECURE, the best way to start feeling
is to ADOPT THE ACTIONS that you would
take if you WERE.

Listen, it’s fine if in your HEAD, when you
see that woman, you think, “MAN, THAT CHICK
IS SOOOOOOOOOOOO HOT, SHE IS WAY
OUT OF MY LEAGUE”.

The best way to get OUT of that mode of thinking
is to ACCEPT that indeed you might FEEL this
way, but you must not GIVE INTO THOSE
FEELINGS!

Feel the yucky feeling, but don’t LISTEN
to it!

Don’t ARGUE with your yucky feeling, as
it will give you a BILLION reasons why
it’s right for every argument you give
against it.

DON’T LISTEN TO THE YUCKY FEELING,
BUT DON’T ARGUE WITH IT EITHER.

Instead, TAKE THE ACTION THAT YOU
WOULD TAKE IF YOU KNEW SHE WAS
NUTS ABOUT YOU, AND THAT ALL
WOMEN WERE NUTS ABOUT YOU.

Something incredible happens when you do this:
YOU GET FREAKIN' AWESOME RESULTS!

Something ELSE happens when you do this:
YOU START TO ACTUALLY EXPERIENCE
THAT FEELING OF WHAT THESE WOMEN
FEEL ALLLLLLLLLL THE TIME ABOUT
THEIR SEXUAL POWER.

And you then start to suddenly SEE a billion
things about attraction CLEARLY that before
seemed like a cloudy, hazy mist of confusion.

The trick is not to be COLD to women.
The trick is not to “negate” their self-esteem.
The trick is not to kiss up.

The REAL key is UNLEASH the FIRE of your
LOVE, of your EMPOWERMENT, of your SEXUALITY,
of your DOMINANCE, and of your sense of
INTRIGUE, FUN, and ADVENTURE!

When you do this, you want to PLAY with
women, you don’t want to CONTROL them!

Now, the thing is, UNLEASHING these
forces is like having A ROCKET ENGINE.

It will give you CRAZY POWER with women.

Then, on top of this power, for MAXIMUM
results with women, you need to know the
SPECIFICS of how to CHANNEL that power,
so that you know exactly how to APPLY it with
women from the moment you see them till long
after you’ve been in bed together.

And in my program Actions For Attraction, I’ve
done BOTH for you.

This program takes the crucial skills you learn
in my other programs to an even HIGHER LEVEL.

You’ll get to hear me go through entire
UNSCRIPTED “cold approaches on women” and
you’ll hear exactly what I did as well as
the woman’s RESPONSES – you’ll get to see WHAT
is working and WHY- and exactly HOW to do it.

And after each approach, you’ll ALSO get a
DETAILED feedback from the woman on what she
THOUGHT of the entire approach, plus you’ll
get MY feedback on the entire interaction
and what to FOCUS on so that you can apply
EVERYTHING you learn in these demonstrations
to skyrocket YOUR successes in approaching women!

Plus, you’ll get my IN-DEPTH and REVOLUTIONARY
program on overcoming APPROACH ANXIETY.

Plus, you’ll get a GOLDEN interview I conducted
with a man whose story with women has been
featured in a best selling book. This man is not
only a comedy genius, with fans all around the
globe, but he also struggled so much with
women at one point in his life, that his old
nickname used to be ‘26’ because he was a
virgin until that age, and it wasn't by choice.

He turned his life around with women, and
ended up getting so good with women that
he even came to one of my bootcamps as a
guest instructor, and I personally witnessed
him prove his skills with women. As you
know, I don't just go around promoting
anyone, I only endorse the BEST.

In this interview, he shares secrets on
unleashing a powerful style of comedy
that is also a form of self-expression
and allows you to be yourself while
showing confidence and being sexual
with women.

You’ll also get a TON MORE that will make
a MASSIVE improvement in your interactions
with women, and I suggest you get this program
now and put it to you use immediately.

That’s one more benefit by the way of this program,
it’s been designed so that you can IMMEDIATELY
apply what you’ve learned on women. So if you
learn for example the content of one of the CDs
in one hour, you can then GO OUT RIGHT THEN,
SEE A WOMAN, AND APPLY WHAT YOU LEARNED AND
GET THE RESULTS, WHETHER IT'S GETTING HER NUMBER,
AN INSTANT DATE, ARRANGING A MEET-UP FOR THE
FUTURE, ISOLATING HER FROM HER FRIENDS, AND
MUCH, MUCH MORE.

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/ActionsForAttraction.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

P.S. To find out about all my programs for
meeting and keeping the best quality women,
go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Five Secret Keys To Success With Women

If you want the TRUTH on how to get over
approach anxiety, how to attract a woman
once you've approached her, and how to
KEEP her, here it is: 

NUMBER 1: EMBRACE THE FEAR

The best way to get rid of any obsessive
FEAR is NOT to try to convince yourself
that there is nothing to fear.

If you are afraid of approaching a woman
because of concerns about any of the
following things:

-She might laugh at you
-Others might see you "fail"
-You might get arrested
-You are worried what you yourself might
feel in terms of the anxiety
-Any OTHER fear regarding approaching
women or advancing towards getting physical

Well, the reality is that you should actually
NOT try to do the typical “think positive
and don't even think about the negative”
advice.

All that does is constantly make you
worry about “WHAT IF THE REALITY
IS SHE WILL REJECT ME EVEN THOUGH
I’M TRYING TO THINK POSITIVE?”.

And that kind of anxiety will freeze you up
and prevent you from doing anything.

So, instead, allow the ENTIRE NEGATIVE
EMOTION TO BE FULLY EXPERIENCED
THROUGH YOUR BODY AND IN YOUR MIND.

That’s right, in your imagination, see
THE FULL HORROR of whatever the
image is of what can happen, see it in
your mind, feel it in your body, feel your
muscles clenching up, your body sweating,
your heart racing, head feeling dizzy,
EVERYTHING.

This takes a tremendous amount of courage,
but the cool thing is that it works.

Allow ALLL the negative thoughts to come
in, experience it ALL. Don’t repress ANY
of it.

This is NOT easy.

But it’s the ONLY way to BEAT the fear,
and it’s a hell of a lot EASIER than a life
of giving into this fear.

To quote that KICK-ASS song from
Rocky IV, “There’s No Easy Way Out”.



The thing to remember, this is
the ONLY way out. The other
'La-La Land' advice just doesn't
work in the real world.

TAKE THE "PUNCH" OF THE FEAR,
ALLOW YOURSELF TO GET "HIT"
BY THE FEAR, OVER AND OVER.

You may have to do this for an hour a day,
for several weeks, and in the first few minutes
you will feel WORSE than before, but then it
starts to get BETTER and BETTER .

The pain is worth it, compared to a life-time
of getting NOWHERE and suffering at the
same time.

Remember, when it comes to this issue,
the “THINK POSITIVE” gurus have
unfortunately been misguided. They’re
nice guys though, some of them anyway.

Instead, this “thinking positive” stuff can
actually be a form of FEAR itself, FEAR
to even FACE the possibility of accepting
the “DangerZone” thought--This takes
more guts than trying to convince yourself
that everything MUST be fine no matter what.

If you can just ALLOW YOUR MIND
TO RESERVE A LITTLE SPACE
FOR THE NIGHTMARE OF THE
“DANGER ZONE”, you can then learn
to LIVE quite WELL with that possible
'nightmare situation possibility',
and actually THIS will allow
you to RELAX and stop thinking
about it, and NOW to truly
BE POSITIVE for real rather
than just wishing you can
be positive, and now you will
be far more empowered to actually
GO FOR HER!

All because you now TRULY don’t care
that much about the nightmare situation
or doomsday scenario you had regarding
approaching this woman or any other woman.

Don't avoid mentally and emotionally flying
into the scary thoughts that you repressed,
don't avoid the danger zone. 

Instead, EMBRACE THE EMOTIONAL DANGER ZONE!



2: PREDICT THE FEAR

It does no good to suddenly be STRUCK
with fear when you see a woman you want
to approach, but if you PREDICT IT
AHEAD OF TIME, it won’t take you by
SURPRISE.

The 'SURPRISE ATTACK' part of the fear
is a big part of what screws everything up.

Instead, before leaving your home in the
morning, PREDICT that you will see
a woman and you will get a MASSIVE
SURGE OF THAT FEAR/ANXIETY!

THIS way, when it happens, it will NOT
be a surprise, and it will probably
be a lot LESS than you expected.

Since you will be ready for it, you
can actually KNOW CONSCIOUSLY that
all these fear emotions are DISTORTING
your perception, and making you think
something horrible is going on.

Most people are not aware of their
own emotions, they just follow
them blindly.

They are not even aware that it IS
an emotion, they think what they
FEEL must a GOOD indicator of
whether the situation is good or not.

But you will be AWARE this is just
an EMOTION that is distorting your
perspective.

KNOWING that this is all a distortion is
a SIGNAL FOR YOU TO TAKE ACTION
AND NOT LISTEN TO YOUR EMOTION!

You knew in ADVANCE that you would feel
these negative emotions, and you planned in
ADVANCE that you would take action ANYWAY.

Like everything else in life, being PREPARED
is a huge part of what results in success.

3. HAVE A CHARISMATIC PLAN OF ACTION

If you have NO plan, you will do NOTHING.

So make sure that you PLAN to take action
even while feeling fear, so that you don’t
follow INSTINCT, because the instinct
when feeling fear is to NOT do anything.

Here's a plan for taking charismatic action:

One of my favorite concepts is my
“Disarm and Charm” strategy, where
you bring her back into positive
childhood memories together with YOU.

By bringing her back to positive childhood
feelings, you disarm her, and by then
allowing her to escape serious adult
limitations on fun, and getting her to
have fun together with you, you also
charm her.

The key is to do it all in a playful
and mischievous way:

For example, if you see her in the
cereal aisle in the supermarket, you
can go up to her and have this “devious”
look on your face and tell her, “Hey,
ever think about all the PRIZES that
are right inside these cereal boxes
right in front of us now?”

When she responds with whatever she says, you
can tell her “You know, if you provide me the
cover, I might share some of them with you”.

Chances are she will GET it, and laugh and
not only will she provide you with a response,
but because she is in a good mood now, she
is RECEPTIVE TO YOUR FURTHER ADVANCES.

You could also link back to childhood
cartoons, for example, you could go up
to her and say, “You know I just heard
the wackiest thing (pause)- They’re
actually making a LIVE ACTION movies of
the SMURFS!! Do you remember that show?”

She will probably say something like,
“No way! When does it come out??
I used to watch that as a kid and
had the dolls! Is this for real?"

And you can always joke back and say,
‘It's for real, I’m not smurfing!”

You could also playfully accuse her of still
living in the Smurf world and that she still
goes home to play with them or watch it on
DVD, etc.

And as the chat progresses, you can always say,
“We should smurf sometime” and then accuse
her of having a dirty mind and tell her you meant,
“We should talk”!

So now you actually have a CHARISMATIC
plan of action.

NUMBER 4: INDIRECT COMMUNICATION

Emotional impact is stronger when it’s
NOT direct.

Notice how humor is stronger, (“We
should smurf sometime”) and drama
is stronger, and in fact all emotions
are stronger when the listener must
be involved in having to make part
of the connection himself or herself.

So, for example, if you were a principal
speaking to a group of 13-14 year old kids
graduating from school, and you wanted
them to NOT become delinquents and rather
to become outstanding members of society,
you wouldn’t SAY those actual words.

You might say the following story a
a principal once described:

                        ***
“I once met this boy who went to boarding
school for high school, where many students
liked to come to his room to talk.

He put a sign on his door that said:

“If you have nothing to do...don’t do it here.”
                       ***

When you hear this, you have to make
the connection yourself, which makes
you take an INTERACTIVE PART in the
message now. This makes it STRONGER.

The message of “Time is precious,
don’t waste it”, is stronger when
told indirectly.

Similarly, if you’re talking to a woman,
you want to create emotions in her,
not boredom. And you will create
emotions by making her have to
make connections. The key is
to make the connections WORTH
her effort.

You can use this not only to enhance
the SERIOUSNESS of a point, but
also to enhance HUMOR:

So for example, let’s say you’re in
line at the bank, and she’s in front
of you, but she turns around to see
the clock, or to see something else,
you can playfully MISINTERPRET
this on purpose, and tell her,
“Pleased to meet you” as IF she was
trying to flirt with you.

She’ll make the connection in her mind
of the point you are making.

Or you could say:

“You can just say hi,  it’s cool.”

She might ask what you meant, and it’s cooler
if you DON'T totally give it away, so you might
then say “It’s fine for a woman to turn around
and check a guy out, but if you keep it up
I’m going to feel like piece of meat!”.

This is much better than just telling
a woman that you like her or any
of the other things that she’s heard
a million times to which she has been
desensitized to as a result.

Powerful messages are indirect.

NUMBER 5:
IT’S ALL A COMPLIMENT/GO WITH FLOW

Be your own best friend.
It’s really crazy how we often are
our own worst enemies.

If you catch yourself criticizing yourself,
realize you are probably having a standard
for yourself that is WAY higher than you
even put on others.

Self-esteem IS attractive.

There is a famous true story told by a
woman who was one of the lovers of
Ian Fleming, the man who wrote the
James Bond novels, and who in many
ways was a James Bond type figure
himself:

Before ever sleeping with him, she was
upset at him for being with too many
women. She said to him “You, sir,
are a cad.” His reply to her was
(I’m paraphrasing) “You’re right,
let’s have a drink on it.”

Of course, she ended up falling hard for
him, and sleeping with him.

The point of this is not to suggest
you should sleep with many women,
the point is that massive self-esteem
and self-belief is universally attractive
to all women.

So, from now on, anything any woman
says to you, just interpret it ALL as a
compliment, you can never lose this way.

Interpret it as a compliment not only
in your OWN mind, but actually
VERBALIZE it to her as well.

So for example, if she says:

“You’re trying to pick me up, aren’t you?”

The best thing to reply would be:

“Yes, what makes you so lucky?”

This is actually TWO attractive things
you are doing here at once.  Not only are
you interpreting it as a compliment that she
is lucky to have a guy like you chatting to her,
but it’s ALSO you “going with the flow” and
not arguing with her.

When you interpret things as compliments,
you automatically go with the flow AND
show value at the same time.

Arguing never works, it breaks down the momentum,
it ruins the vibe, it shows insecurity.

But interpreting it all as a compliment
and going with the flow works like magic.

And if you’re reading this right now, I
assure you that as informative as this
article is, this is just the BEGINNING.

If you would like to get the FULL scoop
on how to attract a fantastic woman, I
suggest you take the following steps:

STEP ONE:

My last CD, “Obliterating Approach Anxiety”
is CRUCIAL for getting the issue of
“Approach Anxiety” taken care of PERMANENTLY.

Normally back issues are not available,
but this CD is simply a MUST have
for any man who wants to be able to
approach women, so I suggest you
IMMEDIATELY get it by going here:

http://tinyurl.com/34vq36b

STEP TWO:

If you haven’t yet downloaded my book,
‘Get A Great Girl’, then definitely do
that now. It’s the foundation for how
to attract a woman who is attractive,
faithful, and intelligent.

This kind of woman is the ultimate ‘catch’-
and inside this book, I’ll show you how to
attract her, how to build a connection with
her, how to escalate to physical intimacy,
and how to KEEP her.

It’s at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Book.html

STEP THREE:

Learn in PERSON in my Real World Bootcamp,
where I will show you everything on REAL women
in REAL time.

It's at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/realworld.html

Be cool,

Michael Marks