How The Assertive Man Attracts Women

One of the key traits that defines a MAN
as opposed to a player or to a “nice guy”
is that a MAN is assertive, a player is
manipulative, and a nice guy is submissive.

The nice guy tends to only get the
few women who happen to feel sorry
for him in a poor puppy kind of way.

The manipulative player type ends up
showing some form of confidence compared
to the nice guy but ultimately his true
colors show and he loses a quality woman.

The MAN however, he’s an expert at driving
through life in the ASSERTIVE lane.

Here’s where people get confused though:
They think that the only way to be assertive
is to be “in your face” or “nasty”, and this
makes it really hard to consistently be
assertive for them.

And yet, being assertive is a MASSIVE factor
in what turns on women, and it’s not only
your being assertive with women, but when
women seeing you being ASSERTIVE with
everyone in your life- including at the workplace,
with your friends, family, associates, etc.

What tends to happen with a lot of good guys
is that at some point in our lives a long time
ago, we learned that it’s better to NOT be
assertive, this way we wouldn’t be considered
a “threat” to the bullies, we wouldn’t get
any undue attention, and we would be more
“submissive” just to get along.

Unfortunately, we often eventually EXPLODE
after years and years of bottling up our own
self-esteem and repressing our own dignity
and even repressing our own desires.

Which ends up causing us to go to the OPPOSITE
extreme and blowing up on the people we feel
are being unfair to us. And when we explode,
our behavior is not seen as assertive, it’s seen
as imbalanced and irrational and nasty.

The real answer is to more ASSERTIVE in general,
which solves so many problems and prevents the
build up that can explode later otherwise.

Let me give you an example of a technique
of being more assertive:

THE BROKEN RECORD

In “the broken record” technique, you simply
make sure you know what you want, and you
keep on repeating that every time you hear
the other person saying they want you to do
something else.

This also involves another strategy called
using the “I” statement, because you are
saying it’s YOU who wants or feels something,
thereby taking on full responsibility for how
you feel, and this actually is empowering
because it means you have the right to
express yourself and not have to blame
anyone else for it, and that others should
respect the way you feel.

So here’s how the broken record and the
I statement could work together in a situation:

Let’s say you approach a woman and you chat
and you want to see her again.

Now, you know what you want- you want to
see her again.

Watch how being assertive is actually attractive
here:

You say:
“I enjoyed meeting you. We should meet up.
How’s Tuesday night for some Starbucks and
wonderful conversation with yours truly?”

She says: “Oh, Tuesday night I tutor piano lessons.”

The non assertive guy already feels REJECTED
and then, maybe but not likely, says something,
but it’s very UNSPECIFIC at best, like, “Maybe we can
meet up sometime”.

Being more assertive, he would say:
“I want to see you again. How about before your lesson”

Or even:

“I want to meet up. How about after?
Tuesday is a great day for me, but if it doesn’t
work by you, then let me know what day does.”

If she says a day that does NOT work for you,
like for example Monday, a non assertive man
might AGREE to it just because he doesn’t want
to displease the woman or lose her, and of course
the fear shows up in subtle ways, so even when
he says “yes” he has actually LOST the woman
because she can tell in his body language that
something has just been given up in terms of
his own dignity.

This PERSISTENCE with a relaxed demeanor
shows CONFIDENCE, it shows that you believe
you have value, it shows also on a subtle level
that you get what you want in life, which is
another sign of a winner. And none of this
is being a jerk.

Similarly, when a woman sees how you deal
with pressure from OTHER people in your
life, it can be a turn on for her to see that you
are assertive with them as well.

So let’s say at work everyone is used to taking
advantage of you helping them with their work,
and asking you to do an unfair amount of work.

One of the things you can do here is again
the broken record

Example:
“Ted, I need you to help me this weekend again
with completing the project”

You: “I can’t do that, as I have a major family
engagement this weekend”.

“But this is really important, I don’t know what’s
going on”

“I understand, and I really have a major engagement
this weekend that is going to take all my time.”

You’ll notice that after you keep on STICKING
to your “broken record that keeps repeating”
they will eventually BREAK and give in.

They may say something like:
“Okay, but can you at least sign these forms
That allow me to use the resource centre this
Weekend?”

You: “Yes, I can do that.”

Then they will say thank you, and you’ll say
“you’re welcome.”.

Notice how in the above statements, you
Were using *I* statements and repeating
like a broken record, sticking to your point.

Here’s another thing:
Once you’ve stated your assertive position,
don’t EXPLAIN it for a half hour.

Instead, seal your lips.

By going on and on explaining yourself, you
are actually WEAKENING the entire assertive
core to your message.

This INCLUDES of course in your interactions
with women when you are in a RELATIONSHIP
as well!

Being assertive never ends, from the moment
you meet her, to long after you are having
wild nights together and beyond.

But the thing is, it’s important to realize
that this is a TRANSFORMATION that must come
from having an intelligent ROAD-MAP for how
to go about all this, so that you truly
become The Assertive Man.

Now unlike all the hype out there for everything
from bodybuilding magazines that feature steroid
injected men who claim they got their results
from some workout routine, or the hype out
there from folks who sell pick up artist tactics
and claim they got supermodels from using
pick up artist tactics instead of the real truth
which is that they got nothing of the sort,
what I am teaching you here, as you can see,
actually makes SENSE.

It’s not HYPE.
It’s based on REAL RESEARCH in the real world.

And this is just the tip of the iceberg.
I have MOUNTAINS-FULL of even MORE powerful
effective strategies and insights on this
topic and TONS of others that are CRUCIAL
for your success with women, that you can
find in my Actions For Attraction CD Set
by going here:

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of special skills that you will use immediately
when approaching women, and you owe it
to yourself to use them to get the woman
of your dreams.

Not getting this program is just plain silly, as it's
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IMMEDIATELY on women, from the first
moment you SEE a woman you want to approach,
till long after you are both together.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

P.S. To check out all my programs for getting
and keeping a fantastic woman, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

For now, tomorrow, and for always, BE THE MAN.

Michael Marks

Listen To This LIVE Demonstration Of EXACTLY How To Approach A Woman!

Today, I have a really special set-up
arranged to take you RIGHT UP CLOSE
so you can see EXACTLY how to approach
a woman, and you can see EXACTLY what
you would say.

I will also even show you the EASY-TO-USE
STRATEGIES that went INTO everything that
was said, so that YOU could duplicate these
results with women ANYWHERE.

In fact, you'll even get to hear EXACTLY
how a woman would respond to all this!

In order to do this, you're going to
need sound, so you're invited to this
special page on my site that will show
you EVERYTHING.

It's right HERE:

http://getagreatgirl.com/approach.html

And remember, this isn't just "general
principles of attraction" - it's the
EXACT, WORD-FOR-WORD DETAILS of what
to do, and HOW to do it, so that you
get the woman or women you want
MELTING for you IMMEDIATELY.

Once again, the link is:

http://getagreatgirl.com/approach.html

I'll see you there :)

Cheers,

Michael Marks

The "Magic Button" To Ultra-Hotties

If there was ONE "magic button" to success
with women who are the ULTRA-HOTTIES, it would
be the ability to EMOTIONALLY EXPERIENCE what
these women experience in ONE area:

How WANTED they feel by the opposite gender.

In ONE SECOND of EXPERIENCING that, it would
be like SEEING a MASSIVE STAR EXPLODE RIGHT
IN FRONT OF YOU, and having it somehow
BOOM with GODLIKE THUNDER.

The power of that lesson, the truth in it,
the ramifications of it, would be that powerful

More powerful than all the "TOP SECRET"
documents on women being downloaded into
your brain.

Experiencing this changes EVERYTHING,
similar to how one domino that falls
triggers endless other dominos both
internally in terms of how you feel,
but also in terms of the kinds of
things you feel like SAYING, and in
terms of the BEHAVIORS that you show.

And before I go one step further,
let me clearly state it's not just
the FEELING that is important, but
all the ACTIONS that FLOW from that
feeling.

So let me give a clear, detailed example
of what I mean:

If you KNEW right now, that TONS of women
would be OGLING you the moment you STEPPED
out the door, how would you feel?

Well, at first, you might wonder what's going
on, then, it would be AWESOME, and then,
after finding out how many women act so
WIERD around you, it would start to be
a bit ANNOYING.

So, you would very QUICKLY stop thinking
about "where do I meet a woman" and you
would instead start thinking "Where do
I meet the RIGHT woman?"

If women approached you, you would not
be so flattered since it happened a lot,
and since most of these women ended up
quickly wanting to get a date with you
and go home with you and call you ten
times a day and get jealous when another
woman even LOOKED your way.

You would lose all neediness.

You really WOULD go out on Saturday nights
JUST TO HAVE A GOOD TIME, and if you went
to the club with your friends, meeting
CHICKS really would just be ONE small
part of the evening, you really WOULD
be going for the music because you
really WOULD be getting way too much
females bothering you all the time
anyway in everyday life!!!!!!!!!

And I use the word "bother" because most
of these women would be NO FUN for you,
since they all seem so SERIOUS around
you, and they all seem to want to LOCK
YOU DOWN INTO A "NO OPTIONS CONTRACT"
or something.

If a woman came along and seemed to just
be HAVING FUN and NOT pressuring you at
all, but who really WAS sexual but not
pressuring YOU into it, and if she could
CHALLENGE you a bit and be more HONEST
instead of all the women who just told
you ANYTHING EVEN IF THEY DIDN'T BELIEVE
THE WORDS THEY SAID BUT THEY ALL SAID
WHATEVER THEY THOUGHT WOULD GET A
"RESULT" FROM YOU---well MAN of course
you would REALLY GO FOR THAT RARE WOMAN
THAT didn't pressure you, that was way
more fun, that was not always so serious,
and that even CHALLENGED YOU to be the
BEST MAN you could be rather than just
kiss up to you.

And all along the way, imagine that this
was the only woman out of HUNDREDS and
HUNDREDS that also RESPECTED you at all
times, even if she occasionally you got
UPSET at her but later realized it was
because she was GENUINELY trying to help
YOU be your BEST and she wasn't afraid
to lose your temporary approval because
she REALLY cared about you even if it
meant risking LOSING your approval!

Now imagine, you got into a little argument
with her. Nothing disastrous, just a little
HUMAN argument. And for a moment,
you thought to yourself, “I don’t need her,
I can get TONS of women!”

So, you walk out the door, thinking,
“I’m the big boss man, nobody can tell
me NOTHIN!”

And you IMMEDIATELY notice even more
now how there’s ALL THESE OTHER WOMEN
and you even smile a bit at one, KNOWING this
will VALIDATE you real fast and it will feel real
good.

This other woman is ECSTATIC that you smiled
at her, she IMMEDIATELY starts flubbing over
words, stammering, she starts telling you how
GORGEOUS you are, you can TELL this is
going to be EASY, you can get her in bed
in SECONDS.

And then….you immediately feel DISAPPOINTED.
You GOT the validation hit, SO FAST, faster
than getting a search result on GOOGLE lol.

You realize this woman that’s kissing up to you
does not even REALIZE a thing about you,
she just MUST have you NOW.

It feels WEIRD to you.
You think, “Why is she being this way, she doesn’t
even KNOW me?”

You feel BAD for her.
You feel SORRY for her.
In fact, you almost feel like sleeping with her just
to make HER feel good, but then you remember
that the LAST time you did that when you were
single, you could NOT get rid of the woman!

She was OBSESSED with you and kept on
PRESSURING YOU into a relationship.

You couldn’t even THINK about whether
you wanted a relationship or not, all you
could think about was how do you get back
your FREEDOM TO THINK AND JUST
BE YOURSELF AGAIN WITHOUT
HAVING TO PRETEND THAT YOU
ARE REALLY INTO THIS TOTAL
STRANGER!

In fact, just this SMILE that you gave this
woman is already bringing out the needy
side of her, so you learn for the future to
NOT be so smiley around men, because
it just ends up hurting everyone.

AND I PROMISE YOU, THIS IS JUST
THE TIP OF THE ICEBERG.

We haven’t even spoken how this would
all affect what you would find SEXY
behavior in a woman, both outside
the bedroom and IN the bedroom.

We haven’t spoken about how this would
affect your sense of humor.

Just to touch on this for a second, you would
FOR SURE be a lot more lighthearted about
sex, and a lot more lighthearted about women.

You would DEFINITELY not hate women,
you would DEFINITELY not feel NEEDY
for women, but you would also feel a certain
kind of “predictable feeling” about most
women, since most women all seemed to
turn into the same unattractive personality
around you.

But let’s get back to our little make-believe
argument that you had with the RARE woman.

Well, even though now you COULD easily
“dump her” and get ANOTHER woman,
the problem is, there just AIN’T any other
women around that you really WANT!

Not only that, but the more these other women
keep TRYING to get you without even caring
what YOU think of their approach to you, the
more you keep thinking of that woman you
just had the argument with.

And the more you really WANT her BACK.

But the problem is, she’s so awesome, and
she KNOWS it, and in fact, she never
PRESSURED you to come back.

So NOW, you realize FULL POWER that
the ONLY reason you want her, is because
you actually really DESIRE her, in many
ways, and NONE of it has anything to do
with HER pressure.

So you end up calling her and getting over
the argument REAL FAST, and if anything,
you might be just a tiny bit worried that
maybe this AWESOME WOMAN might
have been thinking about some OTHER guy
because you were too silly to be mature
enough to see her point or something like
that.

So you could have ALL THE WOMEN IN
THE WORLD, but you want THIS one.

All this is EXACTLY what it’s like for most
FEMALE HOTTIES.

It’s the reason that even though they have so
much CHOICE, they really don’t FEEL that,
what they feel is that they have a huge choice
of guys that they DON’T WANT.

But there’s one thing DIFFERENT about
the situation when it comes to women.

It’s one thing if a woman gets all flustered
or emotional in her first impression with
a man. This doesn’t ruin her femininity.

But as a MAN, it’s even MORE important to
be experiencing that emotion of EMPOWERMENT
with women.

The real problem is not that you must always
withhold compliments, validation, niceness,
etc, from women, it’s that 99% of the time,
when guys do those things with hotties,
it’s coming from SUPPLICATION, from a
feeling of NOT HAVING CHOICES.

You can buy a woman a drink if the action
of buying that drink has NOTHING TO
DO with you thinking that the drink is
what’s going to help you get her.

In fact, if a guy is withholding validation, but
also coming across as emotionally COLD, then
all he will end up doing is seeming STINGY
with his emotions and his pocketbook.

And this will all reflect INSECURITY.

Not only is insecurity the opposite of masculinity,
but it also RUINS all the FUN sexual vibes that
are so important for ramping things up in the
bedroom (or wherever you two get physical!)

Now here’s the thing: EVEN IF YOU DON’T
FEEL SECURE, the best way to start feeling
is to ADOPT THE ACTIONS that you would
take if you WERE.

Listen, it’s fine if in your HEAD, when you
see that woman, you think, “MAN, THAT CHICK
IS SOOOOOOOOOOOO HOT, SHE IS WAY
OUT OF MY LEAGUE”.

The best way to get OUT of that mode of thinking
is to ACCEPT that indeed you might FEEL this
way, but you must not GIVE INTO THOSE
FEELINGS!

Feel the yucky feeling, but don’t LISTEN
to it!

Don’t ARGUE with your yucky feeling, as
it will give you a BILLION reasons why
it’s right for every argument you give
against it.

DON’T LISTEN TO THE YUCKY FEELING,
BUT DON’T ARGUE WITH IT EITHER.

Instead, TAKE THE ACTION THAT YOU
WOULD TAKE IF YOU KNEW SHE WAS
NUTS ABOUT YOU, AND THAT ALL
WOMEN WERE NUTS ABOUT YOU.

Something incredible happens when you do this:
YOU GET FREAKIN' AWESOME RESULTS!

Something ELSE happens when you do this:
YOU START TO ACTUALLY EXPERIENCE
THAT FEELING OF WHAT THESE WOMEN
FEEL ALLLLLLLLLL THE TIME ABOUT
THEIR SEXUAL POWER.

And you then start to suddenly SEE a billion
things about attraction CLEARLY that before
seemed like a cloudy, hazy mist of confusion.

The trick is not to be COLD to women.
The trick is not to “negate” their self-esteem.
The trick is not to kiss up.

The REAL key is UNLEASH the FIRE of your
LOVE, of your EMPOWERMENT, of your SEXUALITY,
of your DOMINANCE, and of your sense of
INTRIGUE, FUN, and ADVENTURE!

When you do this, you want to PLAY with
women, you don’t want to CONTROL them!

Now, the thing is, UNLEASHING these
forces is like having A ROCKET ENGINE.

It will give you CRAZY POWER with women.

Then, on top of this power, for MAXIMUM
results with women, you need to know the
SPECIFICS of how to CHANNEL that power,
so that you know exactly how to APPLY it with
women from the moment you see them till long
after you’ve been in bed together.

And in my program Actions For Attraction, I’ve
done BOTH for you.

This program takes the crucial skills you learn
in my other programs to an even HIGHER LEVEL.

You’ll get to hear me go through entire
UNSCRIPTED “cold approaches on women” and
you’ll hear exactly what I did as well as
the woman’s RESPONSES – you’ll get to see WHAT
is working and WHY- and exactly HOW to do it.

And after each approach, you’ll ALSO get a
DETAILED feedback from the woman on what she
THOUGHT of the entire approach, plus you’ll
get MY feedback on the entire interaction
and what to FOCUS on so that you can apply
EVERYTHING you learn in these demonstrations
to skyrocket YOUR successes in approaching women!

Plus, you’ll get my IN-DEPTH and REVOLUTIONARY
program on overcoming APPROACH ANXIETY.

Plus, you’ll get a GOLDEN interview I conducted
with a man whose story with women has been
featured in a best selling book. This man is not
only a comedy genius, with fans all around the
globe, but he also struggled so much with
women at one point in his life, that his old
nickname used to be ‘26’ because he was a
virgin until that age, and it wasn't by choice.

He turned his life around with women, and
ended up getting so good with women that
he even came to one of my bootcamps as a
guest instructor, and I personally witnessed
him prove his skills with women. As you
know, I don't just go around promoting
anyone, I only endorse the BEST.

In this interview, he shares secrets on
unleashing a powerful style of comedy
that is also a form of self-expression
and allows you to be yourself while
showing confidence and being sexual
with women.

You’ll also get a TON MORE that will make
a MASSIVE improvement in your interactions
with women, and I suggest you get this program
now and put it to you use immediately.

That’s one more benefit by the way of this program,
it’s been designed so that you can IMMEDIATELY
apply what you’ve learned on women. So if you
learn for example the content of one of the CDs
in one hour, you can then GO OUT RIGHT THEN,
SEE A WOMAN, AND APPLY WHAT YOU LEARNED AND
GET THE RESULTS, WHETHER IT'S GETTING HER NUMBER,
AN INSTANT DATE, ARRANGING A MEET-UP FOR THE
FUTURE, ISOLATING HER FROM HER FRIENDS, AND
MUCH, MUCH MORE.

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/ActionsForAttraction.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

P.S. To find out about all my programs for
meeting and keeping the best quality women,
go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

The Assertive Man

One of the key traits that defines a
MAN as opposed to a player or a
“nice guy” is that a MAN is assertive,
a player is manipulative, and a nice
guy is submissive.

The nice guy tends to only get the
few women who happen to feel sorry
for him in a poor puppy kind of way.

The manipulative player type ends up
showing some form of confidence compared
to the nice guy but ultimately his true
colors show and he loses a quality woman.

The MAN however, he’s an expert at driving
through life in the ASSERTIVE lane.

Here’s where people get confused though:
They think that the only way to be assertive
is to be “in your face” or “nasty”, and this
makes it really hard to consistently be
assertive for them.

And yet, being assertive is a MASSIVE factor
in what turns on women, and it’s not only
your being assertive with women, but when
women seeing you being ASSERTIVE with
everyone in your life- including at the workplace,
with your friends, family, associates, etc.

What tends to happen with a lot of good guys
is that at some point in our lives a long time
ago, we learned that it’s better to NOT be
assertive, this way we wouldn’t be considered
a “threat” to the bullies, we wouldn’t get
any undue attention, and we would be more
“submissive” just to get along.

Unfortunately, we often eventually EXPLODE
after years and years of bottling up our own
self-esteem and repressing our own dignity
and even repressing our own desires.

Which ends up causing us to go to the OPPOSITE
extreme and blowing up on the people we feel
are being unfair to us. And when we explode,
our behavior is not seen as assertive, it’s seen
as imbalanced and irrational and nasty.

The real answer is to be more ASSERTIVE in general,
which solves so many problems and prevents the
build-up that can explode later otherwise.

Let me give you an example of a technique
of being more assertive:

THE BROKEN RECORD

In “the broken record” technique, you simply
make sure you know what you want, and you
keep on repeating that every time you hear
the other person saying they want you to do
something else.

This also involves another strategy called
using the “I” statement, because you are
saying it’s YOU who wants or feels something,
thereby taking on full responsibility for how
you feel, and this actually is empowering
because it means you have the right to
express yourself and not have to blame
anyone else for it, and that others should
respect the way you feel.

So here’s how the broken record and the
I statement could work together in a situation:

Let’s say you approach a woman and you chat
and you want to see her again.

Now, you know what you want- you want to
see her again.

Watch how being assertive is actually attractive
here:

You say:
“I enjoyed meeting you. We should meet up.
How’s Tuesday night for some Starbucks and
wonderful conversation with yours truly?”

She says: “Oh, Tuesday night I tutor piano lessons.”

The non assertive guy already feels REJECTED
and then, maybe but not likely, says something,
but it’s very UNSPECIFIC at best, like, “Maybe we can
meet up sometime”.

Being more assertive, he would say:
“I want to see you again. How about before your lesson.”

(Notice the absence of a question mark, it's almost
a STATEMENT rather than a question.)

Or even:

“I want to meet up. How about after?
Tuesday is a great day for me, but if it doesn’t
work by you, then let me know what day does.”

If she says a day that does NOT work for you,
like for example Monday, a non assertive man
might AGREE to it just because he doesn’t want
to displease the woman or lose her, and of course
the fear shows up in subtle ways, so even when
he says “yes” he has actually LOST the woman
because she can tell in his body language that
something has just been given up in terms of
his own dignity.

This PERSISTENCE with a relaxed demeanor
shows CONFIDENCE, it shows that you believe
you have value, it shows also on a subtle level
that you get what you want in life, which is
another sign of a winner. And none of this
is being a jerk.

Similarly, when a woman sees how you deal
with pressure from OTHER people in your
life, it can be a turn on for her to see that you
are assertive with them as well.

So let’s say at work everyone is used to taking
advantage of you helping them with their work,
and asking you to do an unfair amount of work.

One of the things you can do here is again
the broken record:

Example:

“Ted, I need you to help me this weekend again
with completing the project.”


You: “I can’t do that, as I have a major family
engagement this weekend”.

“But this is really important, I don’t know what’s
going on.”

"I understand, and I really have a major engagement
this weekend that is going to take all my time.”

You’ll notice that after you keep on STICKING
to your “broken record that keeps repeating.”
they will eventually BREAK and give in.

They may say something like:
“Okay, but can you at least sign these forms
that allow me to use the resource centre this
weekend?”

You: “Yes, I can do that.”

Then they will say thank you, and you’ll say
“you’re welcome.”

Notice how in the above statements, you
were using *I* statements and repeating
like a broken record, sticking to your point.

Here’s another thing:

Once you’ve stated your assertive position,
don’t EXPLAIN it for a half hour.

Instead, seal your lips.

By going on and on explaining yourself, you
are actually WEAKENING the entire assertive
core to your message.

This INCLUDES of course in your interactions
with women when you are in a RELATIONSHIP
as well!

Being assertive never ends, from the moment
you meet her, to long after you are having
wild nights together and beyond.

But the thing is, it’s important to realize that
this is a TRANSFORMATION that must come
GRADUALLY and consistently, with an intelligent
ROAD-MAP for how to go about all this so that
you STICK to the path of becoming The Assertive
Man.

Now unlike all the hype out there for everything
from bodybuilding magazines that feature steroid
injected men who claim they got their results
from some workout routine, or the hype out
there from folks who sell pick up artist tactics
and claim they got supermodels from using
pick up artist tactics instead of the real truth
which is that they got nothing of the sort,
what I am teaching you here, as you can see,
actually makes SENSE.


It’s not HYPE.

It’s based on REAL RESEARCH in the real world.

And this is just the tip of the iceberg.
I have MOUNTAINS-FULL of effective strategies
and insights on this topic, including explicit
clear examples of how to apply ALL the
different strategies for skyrocketing your
assertiveness with women all without
coming across as a jerk or arrogant,
and all in a way that feels it’s consistent
with your personality.

To get this, as well as TONS more pure gold on
skyrocketing your success with quality women, I
suggest you get my Actions For Attraction CD Set
by going here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/ActionsForAttraction.html

This package contains a mighty combination
of special skills that you will use immediately
when approaching women, and you owe it
to yourself to use them to get the woman
of your dreams.

To check out all my programs for getting
and keeping a fantastic woman, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.html

For now, tomorrow, and for always, BE THE MAN.

Michael Marks

The Boomerang Effect

If you want to attract a woman who is
a lot more than your average woman,
then you have to approach her in a way
that is far superior to the way “average”
guys do it.

The “average” approach guys tend to
use, if they even do anything at all,
(99% of the time, guys do not do anything)
is to find some reason to have something
to say to her.

And this isn’t a terrible thing, IF they
can raise the level of the conversation
to something more powerful relatively
quickly, and IF their state of mind is
feeling that combination of sexuality,
dominance, being upbeat, and warm.

Of course, it then is no longer an average
conversation.

What usually happens is the conversation
dies out, because there was no real
SUBSTANCE there to fuel it in a way
that gave off the right VIBES of
flirtyness/sexuality/masculinity/connection.

And it’s important to realize that even
if you are not some comedian, that’s
FINE, as humor is just ONE great way
to go about the approach.

You can ALSO use INTRIGUE with women
instead of comedy.

Here's one example:

If she works in the cologne or perfume department,
or if she’s a woman shopping there, you can speak
to her about how interesting it must be to capture
the essence of things through only an aroma or scent.

And you can talk to her and ask her, if there was
a perfume or cologne called MONEY, would it
smell EVIL? POWERFUL? GOOD?

And you could take it in a MILLION directions that
are awesome from there…for example, you could
ask her…what does she feel are the scents that
should represent WHO she is in terms of her
IDENTITY.

You could speak about which scents best represent
you, and you could actually combine humor with
intrigue here as well.

One of the KEYS to realize is that whatever
VIBES you send out to a woman, THAT
is what you will BRING OUT IN HER
and that is what she will GIVE BACK
TO YOU.

In the example above, by appealing
to the use of SCENT, you are actually
engaging her SENSUAL mode, and
you are SIMULTANEOUSLY also engaging
her CREATIVITY by getting her to also
imagine not some BORING thing but
rather the ESSENCE of POWER and
the ESSENCE of GOODNESS.

On a subconscious level, colognes are
already DESIGNED to appeal to deep
rooted FEELINGS about attractive
things, and you are TAPPING into
this with this example and going
STRAIGHT for these emotions
rather than some boring conversation
about the weather.

You are appealing to her SENSORY MODE,
and you are ALSO building CONNECTION
by getting her to define herself to you
in a way that touches the EMOTIONS,
as opposed to her just running off a list
of nice traits about herself that might
in reality have no meaning to her or
might not even be true.

By engaging her emotionally, she is
not only more INTERESTED, but she
is also revealing more TRUTH to you
about herself, and she will also see
you as far more SOPHISTICATED AND
COOL AND POWERFUL, FAR MORE LIKE
A REAL LIFE JAMES BOND than some
guy who at most can just ask her to
go out with him sometime.

A woman can be MANY different things,
and it’s important not to jump to conclusions
too fast about a woman- because if you are
feeling nervous or edgy or uncomfortable,
THAT will often bring out the exact same
emotions in HER.

You can make a woman sexual with
you, you can make a woman flirty
with you, you can make her lighthearted
and playful, you can make her YOURS
if YOU send out the right degree of vibes.

The BETTER a woman is, the MORE
dimensions she has to herself, the
more interesting she is, and so she
will WELCOME the kind of man that
has a LOT of cool emotions he can
make her experience.

The specific vibes YOU give off will
be the same vibes that you then turn
on in HER.

In the same way an expert with a boomerang
will have it return to him because of the
specific way he threw it, you will have
a woman giving back to you the exact
vibes you threw to her.

She can't HELP it, because vibes work
on a very primal level, and once
activated, these primal switches in her
make her feel a very powerful need to
respond back to you in the exact same way.

In my ACTIONS FOR ATTRACTION CD SET,
I will show you how to do ALL of this, and I get
into how to give off different kinds of awesome
vibes, including the sexual without being
vulgar, as well as bringing out the best
kinds of behaviors in her.

I even include a DETAILED example of
how to do this ONLINE, as well as in
person of course. And I also get into
DOZENS of other golden insights for
creating the kind of vibes that
make a woman MELT for you.

And that is just the TIP OF THE ICEBERG
of what you will learn from this fantastic
program!!!

It’s all at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/ActionsForAttraction.html

For mastering your INNER GAME, I suggest
you also get my WARRIOR WITHIN program,
which is on DVD.

The kind of incredible, rare woman who is
truly beautiful inside and out is also searching
out your inner game, to see if you have what it
takes inside of you to be the man she is looking
for to have a fantastic relationship with long-term.

Most men have no idea just how RARE
a great woman is until they LOSE her.

Don’t be one of those men who finally GETS
the chance with such a woman and then
blows his chances, watching her slip away
through his fingers forever, all because he
didn’t KNOW the things that are IN this program.

This program will not only get you a great
woman, and give you the power to CHOOSE
from among all the women out there, but it
will also SAVE you the endless heartache of
losing the greatest woman you could ever have.

This program is VITAL, and it’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

For now, and for always – BE THE MAN.

Michael Marks

Attracting A Great Girl: Most Powerful Advice Per SECOND

Since my “Actions For Attraction” monthly CD
series began over a year ago, I’ve been releasing
absolute GOLD every month on the topic of
approaching, attracting, and keeping a woman,
offering the very best real-world advice and
staying away from hocus-pocus mumbo jumbo.

It’s often been said that the free information in
my newsletters is worth more than what others
charge hundreds and sometimes THOUSANDS
for in their products.

So you can imagine what you get in my actual
premium programs.

Today, I’m releasing a very special package:
A particular selection of Actions For Attraction
CDs that together make a DEVASTATINGLY
powerful program for the most efficient actions
you can take “in field”- in the real world of
approaching and attracting the best quality
women.

You won’t even have to do any imagining to
appreciate the full value of these CDs as you
can actually get DETAILS about each CD
as well as audio SAMPLES from several
CDs in this fantastic set!

It’s all at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/ActionsForAttraction.html

Be cool,

Michael Marks