The Biggest Secret To Understanding And Succeeding With Women Today

If you are a man who has ever wondered
WHY things are the way they are when
it comes to dating and attracting women
today, then I believe this newsletter may
be the most important thing you have
ever read on the topic.

Knowing this “WHY” element is a HUGE
part of being able to do the “WHAT” element
in order to GET the kind of woman you want.

So here we go:

One of the BIGGEST shocks I had when I
started out approaching women for the purpose
of dating them is that almost EVERY SINGLE
WOMAN I would meet, would do at least
SOMETHING very early on that I found
downright DISRESPECTFUL.

I didn’t even know at the time that this is
something that just about EVERY MAN
goes through with women.

So let me give you some examples of things
I am talking about, because I want it to be
really clear. Also, all these women that
I am mentioning were not some kinds of
EXTREME CASES, these were typical
attractive women, with normal jobs
ranging from teachers to lawyers to
secretaries to entrepreneurs to computer
programmers to waitresses etc, etc, etc.

And  in GENERAL, these women were
NOT malicious, not mean-spirited, and
in fact in GENERAL were very warm,
sensitive, and giving people.

On one first date, a particular woman would
start talking about some male celebrity from
TV and ESPECIALLY TRY TO KEEP HINTING
TO ME that she found him very attractive.

This might sound like nothing, but this was
coming from a woman who was EXTREMELY
insecure and actually thought I was possibly
more interested (I wasn’t at all) in other women
crossing the street when we were in the car
stopped at a light at the intersection.

So I say this to make it clear that anyone who
was so insecure about those things would clearly
understand NOT to “press someone’s buttons”
by trying to stir a little jealousy.

Again, I want to make it CLEAR that OTHERWISE,
this woman actually was a VERY SENSITIVE
woman who was thoughtful and caring and
nurturing.

Another woman, early on the very first conversation,
tried to imply she was only interested in men with
certain Titanic-sized anatomical proportions. 

As crazy as this sounds, this woman also turned
out to be a very NON-SUPERFICIAL person
who was extremely WARM and GIVING.

Another two women, who kept on telling me how
IMPOSSIBLE it was to find a loyal guy, shared
a particular thing in common: Right after being
physically intimate (I try to speak with class here)
they started talking about how HOT certain
celebrities were, both MALE and FEMALE.

And both of these women would have been
SEVERELY HURT had I started speaking
about how hot I thought Megan Fox was
or something like that, especially RIGHT
AFTER DOING THE DEED WITH THEM!

I could go on and on with the REAL REPORTS
from OTHER guys who have told me their own
stories. One guy told me how a woman he was
out with, on a first date, everything was going
GREAT, and then she suddenly called him a
NEANDERTHAL, and not in a “cute” or “nice”
way, because he was TALL.

To me, that is really insane, because if
anything, being TALL is supposed to give
a guy an ADVANTAGE, not a DISADVANTAGE,
with women, right?

And no matter HOW PERFECT a guy was,
in terms of his job, his income, his looks,
his age, his background, NO MATTER
WHAT, I would hear from guys how women
would FIND SOMETHING TO TRY TO GET
UNDER THESE GUYS’ SKINS.

So what the F is going on, right?

We all know that as MEN, we do NOT
act this way toward WOMEN we WANT!

This is the kind of stuff that really makes
a lot of men REALLLLLY ANGRY.

So let me explain to you what is going on,
because it is ONE FREAKY, MASSIVE,
SOUL-SEARING REVELATION.

It’s because women want to PRESERVE
their sense of DIGNITY AND POWER
when they FEEL they are going to actually
be getting VERY VULNERABLE and
VERY NAKED and VERY PHYSICAL
with you VERY SOON.

You see, because we are living in an age
of INSANITY (more on this later below)
where LOVE, DEDICATION, FIDELITY,
LOYALTY, COMMITMENT, TEMPERANCE
IN SEXUALITY, and FAMILY VALUES are
often considered UNCOOL (for men and for women)
and a form of IMPRISONMENT, most women
FEEL they can’t be COOL and immediately also
show a high value for LOVE, LOYALTY, AND
OLD-SCHOOL TRADITIONAL VALUES.

They are afraid if they do that, then that is
the same as saying all they want is to be
barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen and
to never have the vote again.

So, because women feel like they are going
to be SURRENDERING everything they have
physically to you, this is their way to RECLAIM
some balance, some power, some dignity.

If a woman REALLY is not interested in you,
she would just GO AWAY, or ignore you,
she would not put in the EFFORT to
ENGAGE you on any level whatsoever.

When you really want to make someone go
away, you IGNORE them, right?

But it's precisely because a woman feels
she is going to get VERY INVOLVED with you
that she DOES this stuff!!!!!

Of course, there should be NO NEED to have to
do this between two people who GENUINELY
love and respect each other, right?

BUT THAT IS THE WHOLE PROBLEM.
LOVE AND RESPECT and BALANCE
AND TEMPERENCE are NOT COOL
ANYMORE.

Everything is on HIGH GEAR, ULTRA
MODE, ALL THE TIME.

It’s part of our culture.
FAST food.
FAST SERVICE.

LOTS OF SUGAR IN EVERYTHING.
LOTS OF FAT.
LOTS OF SALT.
LOTS OF NUDITY.

LOTS OF PROMISES FOR HOW TO
GET RICH QUICK.

LOTS OF NIGHTCLUBS AND ONLINE
DATING SITES WHERE WOMEN AND
MEN CAN FIND AN INSTANT ONE-NIGHT
STAND.

LOTS OF ADS IN YOUR FACE,
AND IN YOUR EARS, EVERYWHERE.

People have become lazy since they are
bombarded in our culture with messages
GLORIFYING PERSONAL INDULGENCE
WITHOUT ANY LIMITS WHATSOEVER.

Of course, in the same way that too much salt,
sugar, and fat are DESTROYERS, so too is
having an imbalance when it comes to sex,
love, and romance. It has to be a BALANCE
between them, it can’t be too much of one.

So, there are two things to TAKE from all this.

One thing is that, if a woman you’ve just met
or approached or recently started dating suddenly
starts to try to get on your nerves and under your SKIN,
to “push your buttons” so to speak, you should realize
that VERY OFTEN this means she actually is VERY
INTERESTED IN GETTING PHYSICAL WITH YOU.

Therefore, you should not be pissed off, or
angry, or upset in any way.  In fact, you
might even want to calmly look at her
lovingly and tell her the truth with
these words:

"You love me."  

At that point, when you say those words
in a calm, loving, confident way, she is
extremely likely to MELT before you.

The second thing to take from all this is that
JUST BECAUSE SHE IS ATTRACTED TO YOU,
DOES NOT MEAN YOU SHOULD GO FOR IT!!!

And THIS is where I take a VERY DIFFERENT
APPROACH than the pick up artist community.

You see, I am not interested in teaching guys
just how to get physical with women, as
that is like teaching people how to find
food in a BUFFET.  Our current society is
a BUFFET when it comes to that stuff.

There is no PROBLEM finding the physical.

The real goal is how to find a QUALITY
woman that is the TOTAL PACKAGE,
a woman that you are attracted to, a woman
that is kind, intelligent, and that will
ENRICH YOUR LIFE, and that will be a
great partner and possibly a great mother
as well.

And even though all these women who
DEEP DOWN don’t really mean to be
nasty when they try to get under your
skin before they get naked with you,
the fact is these kinds of women STILL
DON’T GET IT. 

The fact is, a woman should be STRONG
ENOUGH to RESIST the crazy culture
that we live in, and to VOICE her REAL
THOUGHTS and TO LIVE THE WAY
SHE REALLY BELIEVES.

So if a woman feels she WANTS genuine
love, if a woman WANTS deep respect,
if a woman wants a man who REALLY
cares for her, she should not be afraid to
VOICE THAT, to CHAT ABOUT THAT,
and to put in the work to SEE what you are
like, and BE CAREFUL about who she
dates.

If a woman is TOO WEAK to do the right
things, that the ONLY WAY she can live her
life is by jumping into bed with you before
she really knows you well, but also making
sure to INSULT you first, she is going to be
a woman who has a very big ISSUE in her life
with you whenever it comes to this particular
issue of TREATING YOU AS A MAN WITH
RESPECT.

She may treat you very WELL in just about
EVERY SINGLE AREA, but when it comes
to a very subtle but important area of you
being her MAN, in the greatest sense of
that word, she will falter.

This is why you must TRULY be "THE MAN"
and INSIST on 100% total and absolute RESPECT.
(I'm not saying to be a tyrant or ask for perfection,
but in the general sense of TOTAL RESPECT
for you as HER MAN, yes, you must NOT
compromise on this issue.)    

Because deep down, she has ISSUES
regarding being PROUD to LOVE and
RESPECT AND BE TOTALLY LOYAL
to her man, and what will then happen is
a NEVER-ENDING SERIES OF PROBLEMS
whenever this issue rears its head.

So, for example, because she is not
COMFORTABLE with TRADITIONAL VALUES,
she may very well feel it’s “okay” to flirt with
some other guy at work. She may feel it’s “okay”
to go for “drinks” with some guy who claims
he is just a friend, since, after all, as a “modern
INDEPENDENT WOMAN who is not barefoot
and pregnant” she can “DO WHATEVER SHE
LIKES, she can INDULGE TO NO LIMITS
on whatever she wants to do, since she is
the one in control”, right?

For the pick up artist community that just
wants to get physical, they don’t care about
these things.

But for the men who actually want women
as life-long partners, for the men who have
real love for women, for the men who want
to raise families, such women are going to be
DISASTERS.

The fact that these women may still be
sensitive, caring people in all the OTHER
respects does not help you when she is
off CHEATING with another guy.

But again, to the pick up artist community,
there is no such thing as cheating, there 
is only sex or no sex, that’s it.

This is why I created get a GREAT girl.
It’s about getting the RIGHT woman.

This is why, for example, in my program
WARRIOR WITHIN, I discuss, amongst
MANY, MANY, MANY VITAL THINGS,
I discuss how to DETECT a woman’s values
and her character IMMEDIATELY, so that
you can SCREEN OUT the wrong women
right away and so that you can detect the
RIGHT WOMEN as well.

By the way, it’s an interesting irony that
even the most DIE-HARD pick up artists
seem to “see the light” and eventually end
up not only giving up the whole pick up
artist thing but actually going in the opposite
direction to an EXTREME and talking about
TRUE LOVE and then having children, etc.

I don’t do that.
I don’t believe in TRUE LOVE in the
stereotypical sense.

I believe in a shared PROMISE and a shared
PASSION.

A man and woman who have PASSION
physically for each other, and who SHARE
DEEP CORE VALUES, including of course
the FAMILY VALUES, as nature really
brought men and women together to mate,
and to feel strongly enough about each other
to stick around together to raise the kids,
at least for a little while, and after that,
as human beings we can use our creativity
to maintain the passion. (I get into that
as well as many other important topics in
my book “Get A Great Girl” on my site.)

Now here is the thing:
Life is not perfect.
Human beings are not perfect.
There is no ABSOLUTE perfection.

So you have to use a bit of DISCRETION
in how much of a PURIST you want to be
when applying these principles.

This is also something I incorporate into
my programs and materials, which is
the reason I have so many different
materials, to cover ALL the possibilities
and ALL the strategies.  

So, for example, a woman might be
scoring a 90 percent with you and
just be engaging in a TOUCH of the
problems discussed, and she might
be a woman who can be REDEEMED
with a bit of an education from you.

But I can tell you that if you are finding
yourself having to TEACH A WOMAN all the
time how to behave, she is the WRONG WOMAN,
and also to be honest with you, if you ARE
going to try to show a woman how to behave,
that TOO is an art, because you can’t just
criticize someone, as it comes across as
mean and it also comes across as insecure,
which are both very counter-productive, so
you have to be very gentle, very humble,
very loving, and yet at the same time
you have to be CLEAR.

Now, get ready for THIS:

There ARE a FEW women around who DO
understand alllllllllllllllllllllllll
this stuff that I have written here.

They are RARE, damnnnnnnnnn rare, but
they are not so rare that you will not still
find them no matter where you are, IF
you look hard enough.

And the good news is this: Since there are
so FEW men who UNDERSTAND all this,
you will have NO COMPETITION AT ALL.

In fact, the MORE that the pick up artist
and sex-obsessed culture GROWS, the
MORE PRECIOUS you become to those
super-quality women that are around.

The REAL “underground society” today
is not that society comprised of the
sex-obsessed zombies, but rather is
comprised of those wise men and women
who see our culture for the insanity that
it has morphed into over the past few decades.

(The reasons for this are something I would
gladly discuss another time, but it has
a lot to do with the human tendency
to need more and more stimulation to
get the same emotional effect, so the
solution is to actually get LESS
of the “over-saturation” style stimulation,
which ultimately forces the emotions to
get more sensitive, stronger, and 
require LESS of a “hit” to get stimulated.)  

And if you are reading this right now and
you are serious about getting a QUALITY
woman, then I suggest you get my most
advanced program geared ESPECIALLY
for this goal. 

It’s called WARRIOR WITHIN, because
it’s all about what is INSIDE of you as
opposed to you putting on some ACT.

It contains 8 DVDs and is the LIVE FOOTAGE
of my SEMINAR on this topic where men came
from several different COUNTRIES to attend.
      
It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

If you would like a private consultation
with me, it would be my pleasure to serve
you and give you the very best of all my
experience in this field.

For a consultation, please email me directly at
michaelmarks@getagreatgirl.com

Similarly, if you would like me to
speak with your organization, just
let me know. 

If you are new here, welcome aboard, and
you can find out about ALL my programs
by going here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks

How The Assertive Man Attracts Women

One of the key traits that defines a MAN
as opposed to a player or to a “nice guy”
is that a MAN is assertive, a player is
manipulative, and a nice guy is submissive.

The nice guy tends to only get the
few women who happen to feel sorry
for him in a poor puppy kind of way.

The manipulative player type ends up
showing some form of confidence compared
to the nice guy but ultimately his true
colors show and he loses a quality woman.

The MAN however, he’s an expert at driving
through life in the ASSERTIVE lane.

Here’s where people get confused though:
They think that the only way to be assertive
is to be “in your face” or “nasty”, and this
makes it really hard to consistently be
assertive for them.

And yet, being assertive is a MASSIVE factor
in what turns on women, and it’s not only
your being assertive with women, but when
women seeing you being ASSERTIVE with
everyone in your life- including at the workplace,
with your friends, family, associates, etc.

What tends to happen with a lot of good guys
is that at some point in our lives a long time
ago, we learned that it’s better to NOT be
assertive, this way we wouldn’t be considered
a “threat” to the bullies, we wouldn’t get
any undue attention, and we would be more
“submissive” just to get along.

Unfortunately, we often eventually EXPLODE
after years and years of bottling up our own
self-esteem and repressing our own dignity
and even repressing our own desires.

Which ends up causing us to go to the OPPOSITE
extreme and blowing up on the people we feel
are being unfair to us. And when we explode,
our behavior is not seen as assertive, it’s seen
as imbalanced and irrational and nasty.

The real answer is to more ASSERTIVE in general,
which solves so many problems and prevents the
build up that can explode later otherwise.

Let me give you an example of a technique
of being more assertive:

THE BROKEN RECORD

In “the broken record” technique, you simply
make sure you know what you want, and you
keep on repeating that every time you hear
the other person saying they want you to do
something else.

This also involves another strategy called
using the “I” statement, because you are
saying it’s YOU who wants or feels something,
thereby taking on full responsibility for how
you feel, and this actually is empowering
because it means you have the right to
express yourself and not have to blame
anyone else for it, and that others should
respect the way you feel.

So here’s how the broken record and the
I statement could work together in a situation:

Let’s say you approach a woman and you chat
and you want to see her again.

Now, you know what you want- you want to
see her again.

Watch how being assertive is actually attractive
here:

You say:
“I enjoyed meeting you. We should meet up.
How’s Tuesday night for some Starbucks and
wonderful conversation with yours truly?”

She says: “Oh, Tuesday night I tutor piano lessons.”

The non assertive guy already feels REJECTED
and then, maybe but not likely, says something,
but it’s very UNSPECIFIC at best, like, “Maybe we can
meet up sometime”.

Being more assertive, he would say:
“I want to see you again. How about before your lesson”

Or even:

“I want to meet up. How about after?
Tuesday is a great day for me, but if it doesn’t
work by you, then let me know what day does.”

If she says a day that does NOT work for you,
like for example Monday, a non assertive man
might AGREE to it just because he doesn’t want
to displease the woman or lose her, and of course
the fear shows up in subtle ways, so even when
he says “yes” he has actually LOST the woman
because she can tell in his body language that
something has just been given up in terms of
his own dignity.

This PERSISTENCE with a relaxed demeanor
shows CONFIDENCE, it shows that you believe
you have value, it shows also on a subtle level
that you get what you want in life, which is
another sign of a winner. And none of this
is being a jerk.

Similarly, when a woman sees how you deal
with pressure from OTHER people in your
life, it can be a turn on for her to see that you
are assertive with them as well.

So let’s say at work everyone is used to taking
advantage of you helping them with their work,
and asking you to do an unfair amount of work.

One of the things you can do here is again
the broken record

Example:
“Ted, I need you to help me this weekend again
with completing the project”

You: “I can’t do that, as I have a major family
engagement this weekend”.

“But this is really important, I don’t know what’s
going on”

“I understand, and I really have a major engagement
this weekend that is going to take all my time.”

You’ll notice that after you keep on STICKING
to your “broken record that keeps repeating”
they will eventually BREAK and give in.

They may say something like:
“Okay, but can you at least sign these forms
That allow me to use the resource centre this
Weekend?”

You: “Yes, I can do that.”

Then they will say thank you, and you’ll say
“you’re welcome.”.

Notice how in the above statements, you
Were using *I* statements and repeating
like a broken record, sticking to your point.

Here’s another thing:
Once you’ve stated your assertive position,
don’t EXPLAIN it for a half hour.

Instead, seal your lips.

By going on and on explaining yourself, you
are actually WEAKENING the entire assertive
core to your message.

This INCLUDES of course in your interactions
with women when you are in a RELATIONSHIP
as well!

Being assertive never ends, from the moment
you meet her, to long after you are having
wild nights together and beyond.

But the thing is, it’s important to realize
that this is a TRANSFORMATION that must come
from having an intelligent ROAD-MAP for how
to go about all this, so that you truly
become The Assertive Man.

Now unlike all the hype out there for everything
from bodybuilding magazines that feature steroid
injected men who claim they got their results
from some workout routine, or the hype out
there from folks who sell pick up artist tactics
and claim they got supermodels from using
pick up artist tactics instead of the real truth
which is that they got nothing of the sort,
what I am teaching you here, as you can see,
actually makes SENSE.

It’s not HYPE.
It’s based on REAL RESEARCH in the real world.

And this is just the tip of the iceberg.
I have MOUNTAINS-FULL of even MORE powerful
effective strategies and insights on this
topic and TONS of others that are CRUCIAL
for your success with women, that you can
find in my Actions For Attraction CD Set
by going here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/ActionsForAttraction.html

This package contains a mighty combination
of special skills that you will use immediately
when approaching women, and you owe it
to yourself to use them to get the woman
of your dreams.

Not getting this program is just plain silly, as it's
PACKED with GOLDEN insights you will use
IMMEDIATELY on women, from the first
moment you SEE a woman you want to approach,
till long after you are both together.

Again, it's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/ActionsForAttraction.html

And to learn at the FASTEST SPEED POSSIBLE,
come out to my Real World BOOTCAMP.

The Real World Bootcamp is exactly what it says:
I will train you 'hands-on' in the real world.
It's just you and me, and the entire world
of women, and you get complete 1 on 1 private
instruction in real time at ALL times.

Direct, personal, exclusively private 1-to-1
instruction, allows you to get mind-boggling
results at an incredibly ACCELERATED rate.

That's right, with this exclusive, accelerated
program, you will graduate with the skills to
successfully attract women in just TWO DAYS.

Find out more at:

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

P.S. To check out all my programs for getting
and keeping a fantastic woman, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

For now, tomorrow, and for always, BE THE MAN.

Michael Marks

About Dominance

The reality is that 99% of what you read out there
 from supposed "experts" is warped and misguided.

This includes the whole idea of being dominant
with women.

Being dominant with women does not mean
you don’t show love for a woman.

In fact, if you ask the women who are most
turned on by dominance, it almost always
works with the thought that they know
deep down they are safe and can TRUST
that they are in good hands, and that they
LOVE the man who is being dominant
with them.

Dominance and masculinity go hand in hand,
and they have a lot to do with:

1. Having zero DOUBTS in your mind about
what you are doing, where you are leading
things.

2. Having complete confidence that you will
succeed and get your way.

3. Being absolutely resolute in your values,
and that no woman could influence you or
make you weak in that way that causes you
to stray from your path.

In fact, women are so turned on by dominance,
that SOME women will even go so far as to
START arguments JUST to TRY to bring out
the MAN in you so you can show that you
will stand your ground and not just give in
to her.  And even “put her in her place”.

Now, the more dominant you are to begin with,
the less NEED she will have to do this.

So I just wanted to make it clear that dominance
has nothing to do with being a jerk, when done
properly.

The other thing to keep in mind is that not all
women feel the need for the SAME level of
dominance.

Often, the more insecure a woman is, the LESS
dominance she will want, as it will scare her.

The more CONFIDENT a woman is, the more
important it is that you exude that dominance.

This should be a hint for you, regarding a lot of the
stereotypically attractive of the women out there,
in many ways they are very confident, and so it
becomes even more important that your dominance
shows clearly.

Here’s the thing though- even the most INSECURE
women STILL tend to want a man who is more
dominant than they are.  They don’t want to be
FRIGHTENED, but they still want a man who
is more dominant than THEY are.

There are tons of reasons for all this dominance
attraction, ranging from cultural conditioning to
possibly evolution as well, but again, remember
that NONE of this has to do with:

1. Feeling a need to CONTROL a woman.
(In fact, feeling a need to control a woman is
actually a sign of insecurity, and so this will
betray any dominance you try to show) 

2. It also has nothing to do with taking ADVANTAGE
of women.

I’m not just saying this, to sound “good” or “nice”.

The truth really is, that if a particular woman was
so submissive, you wouldn’t NEED to be dominant,
right? It would be so EASY, that there would be
nothing for you to DO.  She would just be jello
right from the get-go, since she is so submissive.

So don’t take this dominance thing to be a
suggestion that somehow women are inferior
or emotionally “weaker” than men.

What it REALLY is, is that a normal woman who
HAS CONFIDENCE wants to see that you are
“THE MAN” as I have been saying since day one,
and that you have NO PROBLEMS handling HER
or anything ELSE in your life, that you are in
control and will EMBRACE any fears or challenges
you need to.  You will not shy away from anything
out of fear.

The reality is that being a GREAT MAN, with heart,
with values, with kindness, while ALSO being a man
with UNBRIDLED DOMINANCE, is the most
POWERFUL combination for attracting a woman.

If you’d like to learn how to do THAT, then I suggest
you download my book IMMEDIATELY, at:

 http://getagreatgirl.com/Book.html

And I’ll see you again here soon.

Best,

Michael Marks

P.S. To check out ALL my programs for attracting
and keeping a genuine gem of a woman, go to:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.html

How To Attract A Woman Without Playing The Game

Several months ago, something
extremely special happened.

Coming from far and wide, in
fact stretching from across
thousands of miles and kilometers,
a group of brave men decided to
undergo a WARRIORSHIP.

To become true Warriors Within.
To confront their demons, their
internal obstacles, and VANQUISH
them forever.

Ultimately, all mastery with women
is a product of your deepest SELF,
your "inner game", as they say.

Except that it's NOT a game, it's
who you BECOME, it's who you ARE.

It's the way to get results with
women, the very BEST women in fact,
and all withOUT playing games.

Yes, it's all about how to attract a woman
without playing the game.

It's taken a long time to comb
through all the material that
was recorded at this event, and
to edit it all to perfection,
and it's almost ready.

I was going to keep this a secret
till the last second, but then
somehow it's already been on
several NEWS and TV stations,
so I wanted to make sure that
my subscribers got a chance
to check it out as well.

It's all at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/warrior

This is WARRIOR WITHIN.

And it will be ready very soon...

Till next time...

Michael Marks