The Power That Attracts A Woman

I want to bring something to your attention:

Maybe, you’ve heard that women are attracted
to POWER.

Maybe you’ve seen a lot of guys who don’t look
like models with women who are stunning.

Well, let me tell you the truth:
YES, POWER IS ATTRACTIVE.


However, most men don’t understand where
power BEGINS, the very FIRST place where
power must be wielded RUTHLESSLY, and
if it doesn’t show there, then you can forget
it with ANY woman.

It begins with power over YOURSELF, over your
own EMOTIONS.

Most men are slaves to many emotions.
Fear is just ONE.

Another emotion that many men are slaves to is
the desire to FOOL themselves that they can be
in two OPPOSITE places at once.

For example, they want to “fool around” and ALSO
have a great woman who is loyal to them.

It’s called wanting to have your cake and eat it too.

Here’s another fear- when a man is being “nice” to
a woman only out of fear of LOSING her.

He doesn’t TRULY believe in these good values.

OR, he is just being good to her because
he feels she is “out of his league”, so
he feels he has to overcompensate to be
“worthy” of her. So in reality, he fears
he is not worthy.

Now, a great woman who has got it all,
inside and out, if she is going to be
LOYAL to a man, she is investing a LOT
of herself into one man, she has to
make sure this man HAS the power inside
of himself, he has the power OVER himself,
to be a MASTER over his own emotions.

She know that if he DOES NOT have this,
then no matter what, it’s just a matter
of time before he fails EVERYWHERE, he
will fail to achieve in life, he will
fail to be loyal, he will be a FAILURE,
period.

All because he does not have the power
over his OWN emotions.

A lot of the time, guys want to know how I manage
to achieve such stellar results with men in my
bootcamps, in such little time, and all without
any of the artificial “tactics” from books like
“The Game”.

The answer is that these men in my bootcamps
succeed not in SPITE of avoiding these tactics,
but BECAUSE they avoid these artificial means.

Instead, my students succeed because I instill in
them the FIRE that CLEANSES through all the
crap weaknesses and all the toxic illusions that
are holding them back.

It’s about INJECTING AS MUCH CONVICTION
AND TRUTH AND REALITY behind every nuance
in your voice in every word you say, no matter what
you are saying.  

It has to all come from a place in your mind that is
absolutely clear and has no doubt about how much
you truly MEAN it.

So when a man tells a woman he LIKES her and that
he wants her number, and when he values loyalty and
will GIVE loyalty, every bit of what he says must come
from a place that is willing to PAY THE PRICE for
what he wants.

He has to be CONSISTENT and CONGRUENT to it.
He can’t want to be “pulling chicks” from “the hottest clubs”
while ALSO wanting to get a woman who is truly LOYAL.

And he can’t want loyalty because he is AFRAID
of a woman cheating on him.

He must want loyalty because he understands the VALUE
of mutual loyalty, trust, friendship, and how that
is the SECRET behind any great success in anything.

This is why when I see supposed “gurus” talking out of
both sides of their mouth, one day talking about being
“MACK DADDIES” and then one day talking about
wanting a great girlfriend, and pretending they are
experts at both, it’s obvious to me that are actually
experts at NIETHER, because you can’t be in two
opposite places at once.

Let me illustrate this in a way that makes it easy to understand:

Let’s say you saw a woman, who was saying
“Oh I wish I could meet a great guy who was loyal to me”
and then  five minutes later she was saying “Oh I can’t
wait to go to that club and see which hot guys are there
that I can go home with”.

Would you believe for one SECOND that this woman would
be the type that could stand the TEST of loyalty over
time, that could stand up to the FIRE of the test?

And the reality is that for a woman, who is of PRIME
“value”, who is willing to truly give of herself to
a man, she knows her value won’t be “prime” forever,
so she must be even MORE ruthless in making sure
she is with the RIGHT man, even more ruthless than
a man must be in making sure he is with the right
woman, because her SHELF LIFE is not as long,
as women age a bit faster than men.

Do you see why following “PICK UP ARTIST” advice
is a SURE FIRE WAY to REPEL any woman who
is attractive and who will also actually be LOYAL
to you?

It’s so ironic how there are actually supposed “experts”
out there who promise to tell you how to be an authentic
man, but who are actually promoting totally opposite
things that will make you incongruent, inconsistent,
and to put it bluntly, to make you appear UGLY
in all the most destructive ways, in the way you
come across to a great woman.  
    
A woman who is a genuine gem is checking you out to
see how CONGRUENT, HOW CONSISTENT you are,
to all the valuable character traits she must have in a man,
including the power over himself, the power to be a
good man for all the right reasons and not just out of
fear or out of desperation.  She can DETECT the
difference.

You must have LASER-BEAM PURITY OF FOCUS.

When you are talking to a woman and you speak
about great values, you must feel that you can
“CASH THAT CHEQUE” behind EVERY WORD
that you say.  How can you truly mean that you want
loyalty and expect it, when you are also wanting to
be a guy who does the very things to women that
you would not want a woman to do to you? If you
want her to be faithful, would you like it if she was
obsessed with how to get ALL the guys rather than
with how to get the RIGHT guy?

Similarly, if she is looking for the RIGHT MAN,
she does NOT want a man who is trying to get
ALL the women rather than THE RIGHT woman.

And again, she subconsciously detect all this,
(she not even conscious of it) from billions of
subtleties in your behaviors, behaviors which
flow from the way you THINK, and those
thoughts flow from the values you have
taken on for yourself. 

And if you are reading this right now, and are
SERIOUS about getting a GREAT woman, then
I suggest you do the following THREE things:

1.ONE: ACTIONS FOR ATTRACTION

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with women???      

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( never even HEARD of this technique before, and the
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-How to be ready in the moment, so that no matter what
she says or what happens, you are READY to deal with it.

- How to SKYROCKET your CONFIDENCE and SELF-ESTEEM
no matter HOW beautiful you feel she is.

- The best athletes are able to give their PEAK PERFORMANCE
even under pressure, and sometimes  ESPECIALLY under
pressure? That’s because they’ve learned how to “turn on” a
certain physiological response at the right  time, and you are
going to learn how to do this as well, when under the same kind
of pressure in any situation with any woman.

- These changes are not just something that MIGHT
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three months, you will see changes almost every
single day until you don’t even recognize your old
self in three months.

- Have you ever felt NERVOUS while approaching a woman?
Or nervous while talking to her? Well, the problem with this
is not just that your nerves ruin your own success, but that
your emotional state affects HER state as well and makes
HER nervous too, thereby ensuring that your interaction fails.

Well, the great news is that what you will learn from this
interview will not only teach you how to become SUPER
calm during any event like this, but you will ALSO see
how you can make HER feel calm and relaxed as well-
I’m sure you can already see the value of this in a situation
where a woman is feeling UNEASY being approached.

So you’re not only going to learn to master your own
state of mind, but also how to change HER state as well
so that she goes from being uncomfortable to actually
WANTING  you to continue with her.

-What you’re going to learn will also allow you to increase
the sensuality between you and a woman, whether it’s the
first time you’re with her or whether you’ve known her
a long time.

- It will also skyrocket the sense of connection
she feels with you. 

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I’m currently working on a MASSIVE project,
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LEVEL project.

It’s almost ready, so stay tuned for further announcements
on this…

This is something that every man must have, every man that
is SERIOUS about long-lasting success in this area of his
life with women.

In the meantime, you can check out the preview at:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HouK6GqGsoM

Till next time,

Michael Marks

What I Mean By "Being The Man"

Today, it's almost as if a lot of men
and women are afraid to even STAND UP
for integrity, honor and loyalty.

It's almost not "cool" to be this way.

They mistake these immortal attributes
for stupidity.

They don't understand at all.

The truth, though, is that a wise woman
will appreciate the strength of a MAN'S
loyalty. And of course, a wise man will
do the same for a woman.

This same focus on INTEGRITY rather than
on trivialities, helps you detect whether
a woman is quality or not, on the inside.

In the movie "Unforgiven", Eastwood's
character is an example of a guy who
is THE MAN. He understand there
are things more important than
getting "free ones" with women.

His love for his wife, even though
she has passed away, is something
that sustains him, long after she
has passed away.

It's as if he knows the real deal, and
no one could fool him on anything.

Somehow, you just know that his character
wouldn't be the type learning pick up
lines and trying to get women to like
him by being someone other than himself.

Our society today can learn a lot
from this, and no, I don't mean
to go around with guns a blazing,
I mean to have this level of
TOTAL INTEGRITY WITHOUT APOLOGY
FOR BEING A GREAT MAN.

Notice in the clip below, how
his character actually VALIDATES
this woman and how powerful an
effect it has on her, because
his words are not coming from
a place of weakness or neediness
but from inner strength.

This is what I mean by how you
CAN be good to a woman, when
it comes from a place of internal
strength.

The relevant content is the first
two minutes and 13 seconds, then
after that, go straight to 10:16:

Morality and Fun

Ever since I can remember, a lot of things
just made sense to me very early on when
it came to the whole man and woman thing.

The problems started when I got brainwashed
by all sorts of influences.

Anyway, to get right to the point, there is
clearly a lack of common sense going on today
when it comes to dating and relationships,
especially people who say they want a real
relationship.

For example, there are still tons of men
and women who don't get tested for STDs,
which is hard to understand considering
that even if you're really serious and
not promiscuous, how do you know what
your previous partners have been?

And even if you know your partners are
not promiscuous, how do you and they know
that all THEIR partners were not promiscuous
and always used condoms, etc, etc, etc.

And still today, there are many women
out there who you will find that will
not put pressure on you to wear a condom,
and it must be YOU who puts on the pressure
to make sure to wear a condom.

Okay, so that's one example.
Probably because in the movies and media
and culture, everyone just magically melts
into wonderful perfect sex without ever
so much as even mentioning the word condom.

#2 Light Headed Attitude Toward Fidelity

There's also a light headed attitude toward
fidelity amongst so many people.

So for example, a lot of people think they
are "innocent" when in a relationship and
flirting around and fooling around, as
long as no actual sex occurs.

Then these same people wonder why the only
people who are "fine" with this attitude,
end up being the same people who cheat on
them or hang out at strip clubs, etc.

Again, common sense- if you want a partner
that takes you and fidelity to you seriously,
you better have a serious attitude toward
that as well.

#3 Not Realizing The Preciousness Of Time

I could never understand how people have
the time to twitter every ten minutes,
do they have nothing else to do?

Is it a constant need for attention?

Is it an ego-boost to see lots of "friends"
on their list?

Or is it the innocent mistake of thinking
that this is actually a good way to stir
up business?????


4. Hanging Out With The Wrong Crowd

You are your environment, pure and simple.

As soon as you join a gym, and see everyone
working out around you, you start to take
working out more seriously.

Is it a coincidence that so many people who
are NOT on drugs suddenly end up on drugs
once they reach Hollywood? Yes, I know
there are people in Hollywood who are
not on drugs, and those people tend to
AVOID the entire "scene" as much as
possible.

If you have friends that are immature, that
do not cherish things like fidelity, honor,
integrity, honesty, and love, then they will
rub off on you.

And the moment you CHANGE your environment
for the BETTER, is the INSTANT you change
your LIFE as well.

You have to make decisions in life, and
decide who will be your close friends
and who will not.

You often CAN judge a person by the
company they keep. Sooner or later,
if a person is different enough from
his friends or her friends, they will
not be a part of that group.

So the bottom line, is that good morals,
they're not something for "heaven",
they're for right here, on this Earth,
at this time, right now.

You can do anything for love, but
you can't sacrifice your principles,
otherwise the only thing you
have got for yourself is an
illusion, or in the words of
Bruce Springsteen, a
"Brilliant Disguise":