To Attract A Woman, Create MEANING In Her Life

Today's newsletter goes DEEP, this is not
KOOL-AID drink here, this is ADVANCED
FUEL FOR SUCCESS WITH WOMEN.

One of the coolest things to me is the fact
that a man CAN attract virtually any woman 
by the power of his PERSONALITY.

This personality is really a combination of
PSYCHOLOGICAL SKILLS at a supremely
high level, and these skills have nothing to
do with controlling HER, they have to do
with accessing parts of your mind you
mat not even realize you HAVE.

Three fundamental components of
these skills involve:

1. Creating MEANING in her life.

2. Creating HUMOR through emotional
RISK, VULNERABILITY, and TRUTH.     

3. Social INTELLIGENCE.
 NUMBER 1:
CREATE MEANING IN HER LIFE

Help give a woman MEANING in her life,
and she will be yours forever.  Especially
if this meaning is linked to improving her
self-esteem on a very deep level.

Of course, step one in this is practicing
what you preach.

We are currently living in a time where there
is almost ZERO pressure on anyone to have
ANY values whatsoever.

I don’t think it’s a coincidence that more
people are depressed and find their lives
meaningless, ESPECIALLY attractive
women, than ever before, during a time
when there is very very VERY little
moral code being enforced socially.

So, because there is no moral code to live BY,
there is very little for people to life FOR.

Let me be specific:
In previous generations, there was a value
on various different things, for example,
things like FAMILY, things like LOYALTY,
things like FIDELITY, things like EXPERIENCE,
things like INTELLIGENCE.

These were actually promoted.
Today, however the OBSESSION is with YOUTH.

Companies/marketers know that if they can get the
KIDS, they can have them for LIFE, and milk them
financially for LIFE.

I remember being a teenager myself and how
just about any movie with hotties and/or
violence was totally captivating.

This is because as teens, we are totally
experiencing a massive INFLUX of hormonal
chemicals, and feeling it for the FIRST TIME
as well, which means that our emotions at that
time can be TRIGGERED at full BLAST very
easily by things that appeal to RAGE and LUST.

It takes EXPERIENCE and time to gain perspective
and balance and to NOT be so easily manipulated
by EMOTIONS, especially emotions linked to violence
and to the most basic sexual things.

So for example, the vast majority of the movies
that come out are focused on youth, to get the
youth audience, they are also focused on
violence and sex in the most non-creative,
non-artistic, and primitive ways, because
to a bunch of teenagers whose hormones
just kicked in, this appeals to them, it’s
all a new thing to them.

And I'm not "judging" teens here, as I know what
this is like from personal experience.

But while in the past this was just one part
of what was available in our culture, now it’s
virtually EVERYTHING.

In the 1950’s, Superman was played by
an actor in his 40’s.  Today, Superman
is played by an actor in his 20s.

In the 1950’s, sure, a woman’s beauty was
attractive, but today it’s her YOUTH that is
the main thing.  In fact, I would say that if
you took a sample of the women who were
in billboards, movies, tv shows in the 50’s
and 60’s, and 70’s, they were on average
MORE beautiful than the women being
celebrated today, but they weren’t as
young in general.

In even the recent past, Cindy Crawford and Madonna
were hitting their prime only PAST the age of 25, while
today it’s gone nuts with child celebrities being EVERYWHERE.  

And the obsession with the sexual,
as soon as most female celebrities
get any fame whatsoever, it’s BOOM
straight to the maximum graphic
display immediately.

It’s not just movies, it’s almost everything that is
being advertised- and that totals BILLIONS of
dollars a year, billions worth of MESSAGES
being bombarded everywhere telling us it’s
only about youth.

So of course women are uptight and nervous,
especially the ones who think they have a chance,
i.e. the attractive ones, because other ones have
to let go of this illusion fantasy and are probably
happier for it, learning the lesson early that
self-esteem is not about being under 20 years old.

This obsession with youth stems from
marketing efforts by companies,  and on a
smaller level, there is nothing that is
considered TABOO now- so there are
companies that sell dating sites on cheating
on your spouse with other cheating people,
companies will do whatever they need to
do to SELL, period, regardless of the
moral questions involved, in fact they
will turn things around and try to make
it seem like a morally good thing.

It’s not a coincidence that more women than
ever are on PROZAC.  It’s not a coincidence
that relationships are disintegrating while the
obsession with material and youth is on the
rise.  People are chasing after what they
hope will bring them MEANING, but
they ain’t getting it no matter how high
they climb.

If you want to attract a woman on the deepest level,
then you need to have a STRONGER SENSE OF 
MEANING than most people have.  And this means
a stronger  sense of VALUES than most of our
society has. 

This requires taking  a RISK, it means that
you have to NOT be afraid of going
AGAINST social convention in this
respect and in fact you should be
PROUD of it.

This is part of what I mean by the difference
between a GREAT MAN and a “nice guy”:
“Nice guy” seems to have a weak connotation
to it, while a great man does everything in
his life out of genuine CONVICTION, he doesn’t
do things out of PRESSURE to “fit in”.

Next time, you’re chatting to a woman,
see if you can make a comment or lend
a perspective that ILLUSTRATES that
in fact you HAVE MEANING in your
life and that it shows through the things
you say.

If you’re in a bookstore and a woman
is reading VOGUE in the magazine
section or whatever, maybe TELL
her, with a sense of HUMOR,  “I hope
you don’t take those articles seriously.
They’re just trying to make women
insecure, in fact there’s a big conspiracy
where the men’s and women’s magazines
just share the same articles but change
the titles so they can sell them to each
audience!”

And when you say this, COMMIT to it
with your voice tonality, don’t say it
with a namby-pamby attitude.

Make it REAL. 

This is TRUTH mixed with HUMOR
mixed with a sense of VALUES,
particularly the value of SELF-ESTEEM!

NUMBER 2:
HUMOR IS RISK, VULNERABILITY, TRUTH

The reality is that humor makes a woman
FEEL good, and women are often MORE
affected by FEELINGS when it comes to
most things than men are.  Men DO
get emotional about CERTAIN things,
but not as MANY things as women
do, in general.  So humor is VERY
POWERFUL with women.

The irony of making humor work is that
you have to say the very things that most
people would NOT say, and the things
you say have to have TRUTH behind
them, AND the things have to be said
in a way that is not mean-spirited.

Most guys don’t want to take the
emotional RISK that there won’t
be a laugh, they’re too afraid of
their own ego.

But as Robin Williams says, this is
COMEDY, this isn’t about you having
to jump off a building, it’s about TALKING,
the worst thing is that they don’t LAUGH,
so what??????

You can actually learn to get an
adrenaline RUSH from this risk,
and get ADDICTED to it in a
good way, which will make you
VERY FUNNY VERY FAST.

And again, there has to be truth to it.
Like when Robin Williams talks about
how UNREALISTIC beer commercials
are and how people “get sucked into
drinking beer by believing it’s a healthy
thing! All these beer commercials
usually show BIG MEN, MANLY MEN,
doing manly things! ‘You’ve just killed
a small animal, it’s time for light beer!
Why not have a REALISTIC beer commercial
show a REALISTIC thing about beer? –
It’s 5 o’clock in the morning, you’ve just
pissed on a dumpster- IT’S MILLER TIME!’

Or when Dave Chappelle makes the comment,
“Chivalry  is dead. And women killed it!”
This is FUNNY,  because it takes guts
to say, and it is TRUE in many ways
because FEMINISM tried to make
women and men the SAME, thereby
destroying things like chivalry.

So you have to take the comedy RISK,
and you also have to be VULNERABLE,
you can’t be afraid to BRING OUT WHO
YOU REALLY ARE.

Yes, the irony is that being courageous enough
to bring out the perspectives that you see, that
other people won’t say, INCLUDING THE
THINGS THAT MAKE YOU VULNERABLE,
are actually very often the things that everyone
has on their mind but are just afraid to say,
and so now you have her RESPECT as well,
and she sees all this as STRENGTH.

So you are revealing your identity, you are
being strong, you are being vulnerable, you     
are being honest, and you are being FUNNY
all at once.  No wonder humor is such a
powerful drug when used right.
 
NUMBER 3:
SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE

This is a HUGELY important concept you
want to put into action when socializing
or interacting with any woman.

The other day I happened to see something
on television.  Talk show host Jimmy Fallon
had a certain guest on, she was talking about
one of her many luxurious homes, and how
she was enjoying FISHING from the very
backyard of one of her homes, how it connects
right to a POND, etc, etc.

Now, I know everyone knows these people
are wealthy, but really, do people WANT to
know about all of her homes?  Do people
want to hear HER talking about her luxury
life? The answer is NO, it’s not cool to talk
about this and no one is interested really in this-
and Jimmy Fallon KNOWS that this is
not making the audience feel better, so
what does he do?

He says how he just went ICE FISHING
and froze his butt off, and how he didn’t
even  make the hole himself and how
he and his friend just froze out in the
cold trying to catch a fish but ended
up getting NOTHING.

Ahhh, now the audience LAUGHS and
feels GREAT.  It’s winter now and they
are all freezing their butt off too.

And do they think that Jimmy Fallon is a
loser for this? 

If anything, they like him even more from
all this, and it’s obvious from the audience
response. 

When chatting up a woman, don’t kiss up
to her, but definitely think about HER emotions,
and realize that showing off is basically
NEVER the right thing to do, and I’m not
just talking morally, it’s actually NOT cool.

It makes you seem needy and insecure.

By the way, I’m sure the guest didn’t
intend anything negative at all, and that in reality
she IS a cool person who was just nervous at
the moment.  Just like a lot of guys who are
decent guys UNINTENTIONALLY sabotage
their results with women.  And I used to be
the KING of these mistakes, thinking to
myself  “I really want to impress this woman,
so I’ll tell her the most impressive things
about myself possible”.  I cringe to think
about the mistakes I made even if they
were years ago.

And if you’re reading this right now, and
want to learn the RIGHT way to interact
with women, and especially the right way
to get a GREAT quality woman for a
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Till next time,

Michael Marks  

How To Develop The Confident Sense Of Humor That Women Love

You've already seen how the guys who are
great with women always seem to be able
to quickly get women "giggly" in that way
where you can tell things have instantly
transitioned into a more sexual vibe.

This "giggly" and "feminine" reaction from
women is what happens when you know
how to properly FLIRT with women.

The primal mating dance begins with flirting,
and without a confident sense of humor, it is
impossible to successfully flirt with women.

Not only is it ATTRACTIVE to a woman when
you flirt with her in a confident, playful way, but
being able to get a woman "giggly" allows you
to "break the ice" to start a conversation easily,
even with a woman who is a total stranger.

When you display this confident humor, you can
approach an attractive woman who is a total
stranger, and within moments have her HAPPILY
giving her number to you.

In a world of endless guys who leer and
ogle at women, an attractive woman MUST
have her "guard up" against most guys.

This is why getting her LAUGHING gets
her RECEPTIVE to your approach.

Also, a quality woman, the kind that
you really want, is intelligent enough
to know that a life without humor is
not going to be any fun at all, which
is why she values this quality so much
in a man.

So, being able to get a woman laughing
IMMEDIATELY has virtually INFINITE
benefits to you in getting her to
be your woman.

The good news is that this is a SKILL
that can be LEARNED.

But it’s not enough to just be "funny".
When it comes to attracting a woman,
it's important that your humor does not
come across as you being a "clown" to
entertain her as if you were a jester,
and it's ALSO crucial that you are not
being MEAN-SPIRITED in your humor,
either.

Many men, in an effort to be funny,
but not be viewed as a "clown",
end up using MEAN SPIRITED humor,
to show they are "tough". However,
this type of cruel humor turns OFF
the best kinds of women- the women
that believe in integrity, fidelity, and
faithfulness.

So the key is to have a sense of humor
that is confident, charismatic, and yet
genuinely positive.

And that's where a very special event
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The real life-story of this man is something
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In fact, his experiences are featured in a
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This man also truly knows the pain of at
one time not being successful with women
at ALL.

In fact, he was a virgin until 26 years old,
never kissed a girl before that, and also
had to deal with some other remarkable
challenges as well- and yet he eventually
became known as one of the most skilled
men on the PLANET with women.

I can attest to this as I have not only seen
him “work his magic” on women while I
was just casually hanging out with him as
a friend, but he also served as a guest
instructor at one of my live workshops
where men learn in person how to approach
and attract women in real time.

This interview is GOLD.

Not only did he share his brilliant insights
into these particular comedy skills, but
because the interview ITSELF is often
side-splittingly funny, your LEARNING
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these comedy skills as you learn them.

A mastery of humor is ESSENTIAL for getting
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a GREAT conversation that has all the right fun
vibes instead of the boring vibes that most men
give off when they try to approach a woman to
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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Revealing The Deeper Aspects Of Attraction

Today I'd like to give you some crucial
tips for attraction that actually DEFY
what is commonly "accepted knowledge".

And I'll prove it, too.

The first thing is that attraction is NOT
an "absolute" thing that exists in a vacuum,
but rather is affected by TONS of factors.

What humans DESIRE, in ALL things, depends
on MANY things that are TOTALLY made-up.

Cults, for example, have transformed highly
educated people into believing that their
souls are about to be taken to a comet to a
higher plane of existence and as such the
followers all committed suicide with a sense
of peace and pleasure.

In the 1960's oral sex was in many circles considered
a bigger deal than intercourse, and more taboo. A
couple of years ago, Britney kissing Madonna made
headlines, it was something that one wouldn't DREAM
would happen on mainstream tv.

Now those things are a joke, it would
never make the news.

In Africa, there are places where women put plates
in their lips and are considered more attractive
because of it.

In other places, if a woman does NOT have a
mustache, she must PAINT one on to look
more attractive.

Do you see what I'm saying?

This attraction stuff is massively influenced by
culture, and yet BIOLOGY is also a massive factor.

So for example, the woman with the big plate in
her lip if she acts desperate, will seem less
attractive even to those who normally would be
attracted to it.

Her behavior will affect her perceived level of worth.

Once you start to realize just how FLEXIBLE
this idea of attraction is, you actually have
made the FIRST step toward something
massive: Since attraction is NOT carved
in stone, YOU can USE this to your
advantage, by taking advantage of all
the VARIABLES that are actually
WITHIN your control.

And there are a LOT of variables that are
under your control, if you are willing to
LEARN the skills that you need to control
those variables.

And of course, it helps if you learn these
skills from someone who knows what they
are talking about.

So, for example, studies have shown it's hard
to dislike someone who has made you laugh.
So if you approach a woman who is a total
stranger, but get her laughing, she is now
MORE OPEN to being "picked up' by you.

And if you convey the attractive qualities
about yourself SIMULTANEOUSLY in your
humor, you are getting her not only RECEPTIVE
but also ATTRACTED.

But it's important to realize what effective
humor actually IS.

A lot of people think that humor is related mostly
to two things that don't seem to belong together,
but somehow do belong, or vice versa. In other
words, the incongruence, the theory goes, creates
a discomfort which is then relieved through laughter.

WRONG.

This is NOT what triggers laughter.
What triggers laughter is the SAME thing that
triggers ALL emotions on one level or another,
and that is SELFISHNESS.

The more we GAIN, the better we FEEL.

This is why the guy who suddenly finds out he won
the lottery starts laughing his head off.

Is this "funny"?
To HIM, it is!
It's better than funny, it's ECSTATIC, it's
ecstatic laughter.

There's a famous joke that people like to
use as an example of the "pacing" theory
of humor, where you have three examples,
or three individuals, and each one has their
own perspective, action, and the final one
is the "funny" one.

So for example, three guys land on an island.

They are captured by cannibals.
The cannibals tell each guy privately that he must
go his own separate way and find ten of some fruit
and return with it.

So the first guy comes back with ten apples.
The cannibals tell him he must put all ten in his
arse without making a face. After the first one,
the guy grimaces and they tell him they will kill
him.

The second guy then returns with ten cherries.
He is told to do the same with all ten. He begins
and is on the ninth one when he starts laughing.

In heaven, the first guy asks the second guy,
"Why did you start laughing, you were almost
free!"

The second guy says "I saw the third dude returning
with Pineapples."

What makes this funny is not so much the pacing,
the fact he is the third one, or that it's
incongruent, but MOST OF ALL it's the fact
that from the SECOND GUY'S perspective, he
is SOOO LUCKY and SOO MUCH AHEAD of the
POOR BASTARD who is with the pineapples!!!

He is in the SUPERIOR position.
And since we see the visual from his perspective
as he says it, WE experience his emotion of
superiority, and we laugh.

And I'm here to tell you that it's ALL about
SUPERIORITY, EVERY emotion, every
shade of every emotion. This is why the
greatest acts of kindness come from you
when you feel MASSIVELY BLESSED
and you feel VERY "RICH" IN THE MOST
IMPORTANT SENSE AND VERY
HIGH UP ALREADY.

And it's also why the worst nasty behavior
comes from people who feel very LOW
and INFERIOR.

So, the key with effective humor, especially
since attraction is about feeling excellent
and conveying excellence and abundance
and superiority, (not "you're a loser, I'm
superior but rather "I have abundance,
excellence, in SPADES, and have a lot
to GIVE and am not needy or desperate")
is to highlight how YOU are this person.

AND, you must then, for attraction, ALSO
confirm HER worth to you.

This is known as CONFIRMING FEEDBACK.

So, when a guy with massive value, confirms
HER value, it makes HER FEEL SUPERIOR
AND EXCELLENT AND BLESSED as well.

In the entire field of "seduction" nobody has
talked about this. I know, because I was
inside of it, for years. All I heard was endless
talk about NEGATIVELY slamming women's egos,
memorized routines, or just "being confident",
OR slogans of "be manly" without explaining the
real HOW and WHY.

What it IS about is EFFECTIVELY giving a
woman confirming feedback about her own
value, but in order to do this, you must first
come across as someone who is desirable.

The problem is that most guys will say
"I want her to like me for who I am" but
if you believe you really have the value,
then it makes sense to learn the skills
and the insights to COMMUNICATE that value.

So for example, how strongly do think you show
your belief in your value if a woman doesn't
JUMP to do cartwheels for you right away,
and you act HURT or DISAPPOINTED or you get
angry?

It's amazing, I know that right now Arnold
Schwarzenegger is going through a hard time,
and people can come to all kinds of conclusions.

But let's for a second just examine the facts.
The facts are, this guy wasn't only looking
and acting like a winner when things were
GOOD for him.

In fact, if you ever check out his early days,
and you see his facial reaction to when he
LOST his first bodybuilding contest, you
will see ZERO look of disappointment in his
face even in the HEAT OF THE IMMEDIATE MOMENT
of seeing that some other guy won the contest,
a contest that takes gruelling months if not
years of training and dieting.

By the way, he never lost again, after that.

The test is not how one reacts when all is
great, but how one reacts when all is NOT
so great.

This is the same guy that took a name nobody
could pronounce and made it a household name.

The same guy that took a sport that was considered
"freaky" and helped make it a part of popular culture.

Oh yeah, and his behavior with women, from
day one, was FUN and DIRECT and not worrying
about their reactions to him.

What's also interesting is that not a single
woman complained about him until he ran
for governor. In other words, women loved
him, and it was all politics that tried to
defeat him.

And his reaction to all that stuff at the time?
He reacted PERFECTLY.
He said "Yeah, I did some stuff with women
that I regret".

BOOM, over.
He didn't act defensive.
He didn't act worried.
He just acknowledged it, and moved right on
to winning two more elections.

So I'm not saying the guy is a saint or perfect.
And nobody is perfect.
But I AM saying that this behavior WORKS.

If a woman doesn't jump up and down
to your approach, that's the PERFECT
chance to SHOW just how awesome you are,
by the way you REACT.

How strongly do you think you show your
belief in your value if you take the
words she said and spin them around in a way
that interprets her words as a compliment to you
and you are totally congruent with it?

So if a woman says something to you like
"I almost never date guys who live uptown"
and you say, "You know, I never date girls
who live downtown, this way I avoid the
psychos" it's a lot different than saying
"ohhh but it's only a short distance".

Saying "it's only a short distance implies that
your value is beneath hers, and so therefore
you are trying to EASE THE DISCOMFORT
FOR A PERSON WHO IS ACCEPTING
A LESSER VALUE.

But if you are the superior value, then there IS
no discomfort for her, in fact, she would even
be willing to EMBRACE with PLEASURE
some discomfort to get the HIGHER value,
which is you.

And, as you get better at this skill, you'll
instinctively say things like like "Oh, you
never date guys who live uptown because
they're so sexy that you end up staying
the whole night and then in the morning
it's a pain getting back home."

And of course, on TOP of the words, is the
tonality in which it's all being said. Your
voice is like the DNA to your thoughts
about yourself, your value, etc, and women
can read this DNA with billion per cent
accuracy.

With total honesty, I can tell you that all this
is the TIP of the ICEBERG of what I want to
show you. I know a lot of people may SAY
things like that, but I have a feeling you can
tell that in this case, it's actually the TRUTH.

You can MASSIVELY IMPROVE your life with
women, if you are willing to LEARN and are
willing to PRACTICE. It doesn't have to take
forever, but it does take commitment. 99% of
men will NOT do this, they will NOT undertake
this challenge.

I'd like to SHOW you how it all works in your
interactions with women - from walking right up
to her to getting her home to keeping her wild
for you long term.

And the best way I can do that is through
my WARRIOR WITHIN program. For around a
decade now, I've been obsessed with pushing
the envelope regarding what actually works
to successfully approach a woman, to then
attract this woman, and to then smoothly
progress the interaction to an intimate,
physical level that is mutually rewarding,
and then retain that passion as well.

Warrior Within is my ADVANCED program
that builds upon the material in my
book "Get A Great Girl".

Warrior Within is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

And if you haven't yet downloaded my book,
'Get A Great Girl', then do that now at:

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Have a great weekend!

Cheers,

Michael Marks

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How To Approach Women In A Sexual Way That WORKS

Approaching women in a sexual way is actually
the most important FIRST thing you should be
doing with women, but the problem is that
most guys end up doing this WRONG in a way
that gets them the proverbial "slap in the face".

Getting things rolling in a sexual direction
from the very OUTSET is crucial because it
keeps you in the SEXUAL zone in her mind,
and keeps you out of the "let's just be
FRIENDS" zone.

The first thing to get to IMMEDIATELY because
it's so important for success in this area
of getting sexual with women right away is
to master the CORRECT use of HUMOR, and to
understand the whole POINT of humor- especially
when it comes to approaching women.

POINT NUMBER 1: THE LAST BASTION OF FREEDOM

What I mean by this, is that humor allows
us to actually EXPRESS OURSELVES with women
without being REPRESSED by the brutal stupidity
and evil of 'political correctness'.

I'm very careful about making GUESSES when
it comes to extrapolating from evolution
or evolutionary psychology, so I stick to
what is FACT- and it's a FACT that human
beings evolved to be able to mate in a way where
a man and woman are FACING each other -
something we don't see happening in the
ANIMAL world.

The REASON for this is that COMMUNICATION
is a BIG DEAL in human relations, human
development, human EVERYTHING- and yup,
in human SEXUALITY.

The fact of the matter is that the
humans who have the greatest power
of EXPRESSION over the greatest number
of people tend to have the MOST choice
in reproductive MATES.

Modes of human expression like MUSIC,
DRAMA, POETRY, HUMOR, and ART,
have dated back throughout the centuries
as tools men have used to woo women-
it's not just today's modern rock stars!

These are all just METHODS OF HUMAN
EXPRESSION AND COMMUNICATION.

On the most PRIMAL and powerful level,
a woman is affected by the way you communicate
with her.

NOW, here’s the thing: In our politically-correct
society, the one thing that counts MOST for being
successful with women- the one thing that should
be like BASIC OXYGEN- is actually FORBIDDEN
or “taboo”.

What is this “verboten” (forbidden) thing?
It is bringing sexuality into REGULAR LIFE.

Sure, no one tells you what to do in PRIVATE,
but society sure tells you what to do in PUBLIC
and in your “public discourse” with women who
are strangers.

And when you meet women out in the world
as total strangers, which is what really gives
you the most choice and is the most fun and
exhilarating way to do it anyway if you ask me,
SUDDENLY YOU’RE NOT ALLOWED TO
BE SEXUAL IN YOUR COMMUNICATION
IF YOU SUBSCRIBE TO POLITICAL
CORRECTNESS!

By the way, this is why so many guys try
to meet women in clubs, because a club
gives you SOME permission---but just
wait till you read on, and find out how
you can approach women ANYWHERE
and do it SUCCESSFULLY!

Also by the way - when I say political correctness
is evil, I mean EVIL. My best friend and I were
discussing this, and he made a fantastic point
about how political correctness actually is the
OPPOSITE OF GOOD INTENTIONS, it’s all
motivated by APPEARANCES to “look nice”
while actually accomplishing the OPPOSITE GOAL
of BEING “correct/nice/good/noble”.

Ever notice how the people who are telling
everyone else to NOT be sexual, to NOT
look at girls, to NOT QUESTION things,
and basically to REPRESS all the
NORMAL HUMAN FUNCTIONS, are
almost ALWAYS later found out to be
the very WORST PERPETRATORS OF
WHATEVER IT IS THEY TELL EVERYONE
NOT TO DO???????????????????????

The crazy thing is also, the REVERSE is
often true! The people who are the most
RELAXED about being sexual, about
making jokes, about allowing freedom
of expression, about ALLOWING you
to question things, are almost ALWAYS
the most CHILLED OUT PEOPLE who
almost NEVER abuse ANY of these
freedoms!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Guess what else?
WOMEN KNOW THIS!

Particularly the ones who are KNOCKOUTS.

They know this because they HAVE the
sexual goods, so to speak, and they want
to ENJOY life with them, not be REPRESSED
as a result of them! So these women have
learned early on WHICH MEN ‘get it’ and
which men are still CLUELESS as how to
DEFEAT the repressive society.

The CHALLENGE is getting SEXUAL in your
communication with a woman who is a TOTAL
STRANGER- because of all the above that I
described, and the SOLUTION to the challenge is:

SOLUTION: HUMOR, USED IN THE RIIIIIGHT WAY

Again, it’s not that you should be a CLOWN
to attract a woman, it’s that to approach a woman
who is a total stranger, in our society, you need to
SMASH DOWN THE ‘POLITICALLY CORRECT’
BARRIERS, and HUMOR is a brilliant tool for
THIS goal!

You see, once you’re in the world of HUMOR,
you suddenly SUSPEND THE RULES OF
OUR POLITICALLY CORRECT INSANE
UNIVERSE, and now you have a ‘LICENCE’
to do all kinds of things – because, after all,
“YOU’RE JUST BEING PLAYFUL!!!!”

P.S. On the topic of humor, and how powerful
it is in BATTLING just about any force of society,
notice how if you ever look at the Bible, the one
attribute that is never given to God, is a sense
of HUMOR.

For some reason, it’s okay to describe this
OMNIPOTENT BEING as having “ANGER
that GLOWS”, or having “JEALOUSY”, etc, etc:
Anger is a human emotion.
Jealousy is a human emotion.

We of course also hear how the Biblical God
LOVES people.
Love is also a human emotion.

In fact, just about EVERY human emotion is
used to describe the Biblical God.

Why is a sense of HUMOR NEVER MENTIONED???

Everyone’s free to take a guess, but something
tells me that if You or I were making RULES
you wouldn’t want people JOKING AROUND
about them. You’d want to punish them for
disobedience or reward them for obeying.

By the way, don’t get me wrong, there is
a ton of GOOD about religion, like promoting
ideas of charity and equality, I’m just
saying the power of HUMOR is so great
at OVERTHROWING CULTURAL FORCES
that it’s OUTLAWED regarding many things
in MANY societies till this DAY.

But, in our politically correct culture, they
still have NOT OUTLAWED or made criminal
the POSESSION or the USE of a sense of humor!

POINT NUMBER TWO:
SEXUAL COMMUNICATION WITH WOMEN

So USE it!
Use it so that you can get away with APPROACHING
WOMEN ANYWHERE!

And not just APPROACHING THEM, but also
to get sexual in your communication and in your
vibes, and women will LOVE you for it –
because you allow women to then feel GOOD
about feeling sexual, and about being approached
by you, since you have done it all in a way that is
still “okay” since it’s all “playful” – which allows
them to NOT have to worry about being labeled
a “slut” or anything like that.

Not only can you APPROACH women who are
total strangers by using humor, you can even get
into sexual communication!

This way, you also avoid getting trapped into
the “let’s just be FRIENDS zone”.

Instead of going on and on about this point
right here, you’ll see exact examples of this
in some of the letters below!

POINT NUMBER 3: HUMAN-DYNAMICS INTELLIGENCE

Now, here’s where it gets even BETTER:

Not only does humor allow you “license” to be
sexual with women in our politically correct
society, and not only do women appreciate it
because it gives them permission to enjoy
being sexual as well, but HUMOR is one
of the most POWERFUL WAYS OF
SHOWING THE MOST IMPORTANT
KIND OF INTELLIGENCE OF ALL:

THE MASTERY OF HOW HUMANS INTERACT!

Think I’m kidding? The reality is that this
intelligence, which is linked with emotional
intelligence, is actually the NUMBER ONE
WAY THAT HUMAN BEINGS BECOME POWERFUL.

Do you think that women have NOT evolved
to be attracted to men who DISPLAY this trait????

Women have ABSOLUTELY EVOLVED
TO BE ATTRACTED TO THIS TRAIT.

It’s wacky in fact, the kind of ABUSE that
men can do to themselves in terms of
destroying all the OTHER attractive elements
of themselves, and STILL get MASSIVE
success with women if they convey this
kind of humor that shows this particular
type of intelligence.

It makes sense, as applying this intelligence
allows you to build massive friendships and
teams and loyalty- these come through mastery
of this particular intelligence.

And, back on a very FUNDAMENTAL level,
the fact that men and women evolved to be
able to have intercourse facing each OTHER,
face-to-face, is absolutely not a coincidence,
the HUMAN element is the EXPRESSION and
COMMUNICATION that is increased by this
compared to the animals- which ends up increasing
the BOND, the ATTRACTION, the TRUST, everything
is boosted by this extra ability that humans have
that animals don’t.

Humor allows you to convey this special
kind of INTELLIGENCE!

Mastering this intelligence means you
understand the full depth of how people
are emotionally affected by all the
dynamics in any interaction.

So, now, so far, we see how it FREES you in
our politically correct society, and how it
allows you to be SEXUAL with women and make
women feel sexual as well, and how it also
conveys a special form of intelligence
that is highly attractive to women.

Let’s get to some letters that show guys
USING all this stuff the RIGHT way!

***LETTER FROM A READER***

Dear Michael,

I've undergone such a massive transformation
in the past few months, I'm not sure where
to start. First, I was in a hellish relationship
that fits your description to a "T" in your
program of what happens to a guy once he falls
into the "abyss" as you say. This woman had
absolute power over me, and I now realize after
your program that it was me who basically handed
every last bit of my value over to her and it
was me who basically chopped my own perceived
value down to zero.

At the time, I felt that I had no choice, that
giving it all over was the only chance I had.
I worked harder and harder to try to prove
to her how "good" I was, and she became
more and more distant, less passionate, less
appreciative of anything. Which just made
me work harder and as you describe in your
program, the cognitive dissonance worked
against me, making me feel that she must be
worth it if after all I was busting my ass so
hard for her.

It's crazy, but true, because the harder I
worked for her, the more I let myself get
abused, the more it made me feel that
she must be worth it, since after all
why else would I be trying so hard,
so I tried even harder, and of course this
cognitive dissonance, as you explain, had
the opposite effect on her, for the very
same reason! i.e. "If he is trying so hard
for me, then he can't be worth that
much."

And I realize that all this is so subconscious.
And I realize as you say that in a healthy
relationship, people appreciate and give a
lot, but this relationship was clearly not
healthy and I had fallen in deep.

Your material saved me. It made me realize
what was actually going on in my head
and that in fact I was not in love with
this woman, but that I myself had allowed
my brain to be tricked into it, and that
I could just as easily wash the illusion
away. I cannot believe that your program
is not on doctor's shelves.

Your program showed me how to get back
my self-esteem. And to any guys
reading this, that is no easy feat for a
guy being smashed to pieces by a woman
he loves. And more than that, your program
showed me how to leave that reality
and change my life around and meet
and attract more women than I could
ever have time for.

I totally changed my approach to women,
taking on a far more challenging and
playful (the playful is very important
otherwise you just seem like an insecure
dolt) attitude and also not jumping
into a "how can I please you" mentality
just because a woman is showing interest
in me. I now ***expect*** women
to show interest, and this makes
the moment when I do show some
affection that she has actually
earned from me, well it makes
it that much more sweet for her.

Right now, I'm dating a striking
woman I met while parking my
car! It would never have happened
if not for you. As I was pulling in
to my spot, I noticed this tall
redhead in a business suit
(damn I love it when leggy
women wear those "business"
style skirts that really are too
short for anything but sexy
business) slamming her trunk
door down again and again,
only to have it pop back up.

My heart was racing, but I knew
this was a golden opportunity.
I gave her a look and gesture
with my head - a playful "no no no,
not like that", my hands on my hips.

She looks at me, (giving me an
even better view of her beautiful
angles on her face) her expression
first a bit pissed, then she smiles
with a "I can't believe you just did
that" look and says "thanks a lot"
sarcastically, but I could feel that
vibe that you talk about--
she was liking it, which I would
never have guessed could
EVER happen before.

So after she said "thanks" sarcastically,
I replied "anytime", and told her
that I was enjoying the show! Again,
this was done playfully, not in
a mean way. I came over and
figured out what the problem was,
even though I wasn't sure I could
solve it, but I figured at worst
I could always tease her some
more that her car was cursed.

I figured it out and got the trunk
shut, to which I then blew on
my fingers as if they were magic
and said "that'll be 100 bucks".
She told me she wished she had
the money, and I told her that
I bet she did wish that! After
a brief chat about where we
both worked, I teased her that
she didn't really have a real
job or she would have the
100 bucks!

Once I knew she was loving it,
I told her that I had to go and
took her number and email.
I kept up the energy on the
first couple of dates but
didn't let it get out of hand
to "dorky" level, and let's
just say she's now passionately
making it up to me in more
ways than one.

Far be it from me to not help a
damsel in distress...

And before I forget, let me just
say this woman is just as attractive
if not more than the woman who totally
took advantage of me, and she's
treating me about a million times
better, including taking ME out
to dinner next week!

To any guy reading this right now who is
in a slump:
There are millions of women right outside
your door, and you can meet them right
now, but you need to learn to incorporate
far more dominance, leadership, fun,
and sexuality, and you need to learn to
obliterate the neediness in you to pull
this all off.

Blair T.
Ohio

***MY COMMENTS***

It's always cool to hear from the
"good guys" who have been given
BACK the power to live their lives with
DIGNITY. Every guy deserves to have
this area of his life under CONTROL.

Thanks for the props, and yes, one of
the biggest things for guys in bad relationships
is to realize the massive impact of
cognitive dissonance playing on their
emotions, and how this can be STOPPED
and in fact REVERSED to work in their
favor. And it all starts with first being
AWARE of what's going on in the first
place, which is something I go into
detail in my Warrior Within DVD program.

And I'm glad you also raised the point
of how this is not about manipulating
women but rather incorporating important
characteristics into our personalities that
every man already has but has repressed
because of our crazy culture that labels
all good men as evil for living and breathing
and wanting a decent life with a woman
where he has DIGNITY. Even though
the reality is that women actually WANT
you to be a real man! No wonder so many
guys get so messed up.

***LETTER FROM A READER***

Michael!!!!! It almost hurts to write this
letter, as I'm giving away so much, but
I remember you saying how abundance
thinking is critical and also how teaching
this stuff is a great way of proving your
own mastery, so after getting your DVD
Set last October, and putting it to use
and getting insanely powerful results,
I'm now to going to share what I think are
crucial factors that I've learned from your
DVD program:

Your E-Books took me out of the gutter and
into a different reality, but your DVD program
has actually changed the way I feel, I am simply
no longer that sad quiet guy I once knew.

You've got me addicted to this whole approaching
women thing, it's too much fun!

One of the important distinctions I got from
your DVD Set is that the entire process from
A to Z with a woman can either be drudgery
for both you and the woman or it can be a
fantastic emotional experience at every
moment, with emotions ranging from
massive adrenaline to laughter to peaceful
calm to raw sexuality to a million other
emotions in infinite blending combinations.

For example, when you teach about role-playing
with a woman and allowing a woman to play
the role of you being the ultra cool guy, and
yet the way you taught me to also keep her
self-esteem high, it's genius. What you are
doing is allowing her to live her fantasy,
through role-play, because when you are
playing, you are still experiencing the same
emotion as if it's real.

So for example, I have role played with
women that I meet, and I am talking about
within seconds of first meeting them, that
I am Bond and that she is a Bond girl, usually
the evil Bond girl!!!!

They looooooooooooove it!
The girl I am now dating is a wonderful
person who I really dig in every way and
I met her using your principles.

I met her at the library, she was working there,
helping me find a book, and she just seemed
like a really well behaved girl, and so after
she helped me find some stuff, I playfully
teased her on being the opposite, specifically,
"an evil Bond girl with a library fetish" lol.
And I told her that she only helped me
so she can "have new prey".

With a smile, she asks what I mean, so I tell
her I know she really just lives for torturing
guys with overdue books, and that I know
where she takes them.

She totally eats it up, a glint in her eye as
she goes along with it and points to a little
room in the back to me, telling me that is
where she takes them to for the torturing.

Because of your DVDs, I now realize why
it makes total sense for a nice girl to eat
this stuff up, because she is such a "nice"
girl for real, that she doesn't get to be "naughty",
and I'm allowing her to be bad now in a way
where it's totally fun. As you explain,
this is all about emotions, giving women
awesome emotions, and as you explain
you have to give a woman what she
does not have, and this nice girl needed
some more playful naughty in her life lol.

I tell her that the room doesn't scare me
like it does other guys.

She goes back to me with a mischievous smile:
"And you'd like to see this room, wouldn't
you?"

To which I responded, in total Bond calm
and Bond tonality:
"That depends on the view."

At about the same time, she was being called
to take care of something by some woman
who worked there, so I told her in a playfully
suspicious tone that I had to get going as well
but that I would be "investigating this further"
and that she must leave her contact info, which
she immediately did with a smile and she
even told me when she's in so that I would
for sure reach her! Following the other
concepts you explain, the rest went equally
smoothly. She didn't even give me any
"cruel" tests, just the stuff that I now realize
from your materials that any girl does to
show she is not easy - I respected that actually,
makes me like her more.

As you say, this truly is not about being
some creepy guy, it's about allowing her
to live out the most amazing experience
possible, that's full of sexuality and anticipation-
it’s not about “not handing over all the power"
to her, it’s about being so much more of an
exciting man. And you are allowing her to be
who she really wants to be.

And of course, if she was more of "naughty girl"
to begin with, I would calibrate for this and allow
her to be more of a good girl!

Thanks to you, I give them not only what they
don't have, I give them what no man has ever
given them- an entire range of emotional
“climaxes” that she really can’t help but
be happily addicted to! I really am a giver,
it's awesome, and I feel great about it.

For any guys reading this, this is not only
about me being "Bond", but also about her
being the evil Bond girl, which is just as
important to the experience, so that she
can totally release herself sexually and
go wild with me.

And I could easily play with this in
a million other ways, for example me
being any type of cool role, for example,
I could be Clyde and she could be Bonnie
from the infamous "Bonnie and Clyde"
bank robbers! (Which I've done too,
and it's fantastic stuff!)

This vibe enables you to both have so
much more fun and to bypass boring
and restricting social conventions so
that you can both be far more sexual
and adventurous and still have total
respect for each other.

And that's just one part of one thing that
I got the far bigger picture on from your
DVDs. Here's another big thing I got from
your DVDs:

Everything I do is up to me and only me.
It's my decision. I think most guys don't
take an active part in their own decision
making process. For example, if I want
to allow a woman to be a certain way
in terms of more sexual and more fun,
then my clothing should be more fun
and more sexual and alive. I am
kind of saying "this is my perspective
on life and therefore I accept others
with it" so a woman doesn't have to
worry about being judged negatively
by being more forward with me.

She immediately knows she is with
the kind of man she will probably
never meet again anywhere, she knows
it from the way she feels when she is
around me- a way I make sure she
indeed does feel!

The way I move, the way I dress,
the tonalities I apply, the type of
conversation and interaction I
am having with her. She knows.

Your DVDs really go into detail on
how to take advantage of everything
in your power to give off the right
messages and vibes about yourself,
and even how to find the unique
parts of your personality and
highlight those as well.

Before this letter turns into a scroll,
lol, I'll say one last thing:
Your DVDs really hit home on
how to create just the right amount
of sexual tension so that she is
enjoying the maximum anticipation
without pushing it over the edge and
making her feel bad either.

This is something that has made a total
night-and-day difference in my interactions
with women - I really look at the entire
process, from the first second I see a woman
all the way to the hot and heavy stuff and
of course the deeper bonding (which is the
entire reason I came to your material in the
first place), I see it all as a rollercoaster now:

This is a roller coaster that I can enjoy because
it’s mine, I even steer it, and I bring her on board
my coaster! It has some intense moments of pure
adrenaline and drops, (this is where I am being
playful or doing some intense role-playing or
being really intriguing as you explain) but also
has some "valleys" that are calmer, (this is
where I will be giving her a sincere compliment
or just holding her hands in a warm but not intense
way, or where I will seriously be learning about
her and her background or her day, etc).

Achieving the right amount of sexual
tension is so important, I think most
guys tend to go to one extreme or
the other. Your DVDs helped clarify
this a lot.

Hope this helps your readers,

Craig S.
NYC

***MY COMMENTS***

Thanks for that awesome letter, it really
helps others when guys explain what's
working for them rather than just saying
"it's great".

It's obvious you are really getting this
now, you are employing so many of
the principles at once it's fantastic.
One of the great things about these
concepts are that they work well
independently and also work even
BETTER together. And using one
of the concepts will often help
you better understand another
concept, so the learning goes
in a never ending cycle of
improvement.

The role-playing situation you gave
is an excellent example of proper
role-playing, where not only are
YOU being Bond like, which of course
is always cool and gives her the DESIRE
to be naughty with you, but you are
ALSO, through this role-play, giving
her the LICENSE to be naughty,
since in HER new role it would
be totally EXPECTED. So this is
a great way of her getting over any
internal "obstacles" she may have
had with it. After all, it's just a
role, right? ;) A role that ends
up in your bed.

In this vein, I love how you hit home
how the point of all this is ultimately about
giving women an awesome emotional
experience from the FIRST moment
you meet her till the rest of your life
with her. And this is actually FUN
for YOU too.

Thanks again for your letter, great stuff.

***LETTER FROM A READER***

Hey Mike,

Just wanted to give you a shout on my
progress since I completed your Real
World Bootcamp a couple of months
back.

Ever since your Bootcamp, I've been
focusing on your “efficiency principle”
which reminds me of the “economy of
movement” principle- where you get
maximum results from doing the most
efficient actions, so no energy or time
is wasted.

And I've been pulling off some crazy
**** lately with it. I'm now able to
be "direct" with girls and yet it's as if
they often open up immediately
upon me starting to interact.

I think the analogy that's best for this
is that when you are a race car driving
at 200 miles per hour, you don't make
huge turns with the steering wheel,
rather you make fine adjustments-
and the better you get at this game,
the more "speed" and power you have
from the get-go, from anything you
do, including your body language,
your sense of humor, your dominance,
etc, all this stuff become super-charged.

And so therefore the focus is
more on fine calibration rather
than anything extreme. But this
doesn't mean it takes less skill,
rather it takes more.

Every word you said about the way
human beings behave in these dynamics,
the power of the tiniest of subtleties
in timing, in body language and tonality
and thoughts, it's true.

Seeing is also believing, as you showed
me when you went direct for that girl
in middle of her friends at that trendy
lounge. You really converted the friends
from being women defending their friend
from some 'stranger' to insisting that
you call her and not to disappoint her
by losing her number!

You really broke apart the "maze" for
me and showed me exactly how to see
the entire interaction for what was
really going on, and how each woman
there simply had a goal and a need,
and a fear, and you simply went about
handling these specific things efficiently-
till they had only one choice- to help
you get their friend!

What's really a learning experience for
me is also seeing how the girl herself
increased her attraction upon seeing
the way you handled her own friends!
She went from being all formal to
getting giggly and girly, just like
you predicted always happens when
things go right!

The funniest thing though is that your
efficiency principle is more than efficient,
the way I see it, because doing any more
than that seems like the guy is trying too
hard, it would be the equivalent of a girl who
is a knock out stripping for you all day, you'd
start to think something is wrong with this person,
she's so sexy but never stops, never chills out.

The less you need to do, the more cool you
must be, even on a subconscious level in
her mind, she will think this since she is
feeling attraction to you based on the least
you did, - so she just becomes hungrier and
hungrier for more of you, since she is
getting a lot of ‘bang for her buck’ – and
I promise that pun was not intentional!

This is definitely where your bootcamp has helped
me, because it's allowed me to experience and witness
the frame of "not trying to be the entertainer" while
still being the most dynamic guy she has ever met.

It's a very subtle difference that makes all the
difference between being the clown and being
successful with women- but it's the most important
difference in the world.

Also, simply by becoming so damn
comfortable with physically escalating,
women are disarmed as well, it's as if
because it's so natural to me now, it's
natural to them too, it's similar to how
a dog can sense comfort or fear in the
owner, and like another reader wrote
to you, I mean this not in a disrespectful
sense, but a basic sense of human
nature. The comfort level you
feel yourself is a massive turn on
for women in this area. All I can say
is, for any guy who doubts how
physical and sexual women are,
they are more sexual than I could
have ever imagined, and this in
itself makes me more calm about
escalating without making a
"big deal" about it.

I think guys really need to realize
that the way to get sexual is to
start off sexual from the get-go,
the sexuality should be there in
your voice, your humor, your
proximity to her, without
being needy- and by playfully
pushing her away now and then,
you show that you are not needy.
Whenever I do this, I find that
women flip around from being in
"hard to get" mode to being in
"chase this guy" mode.

They begin to get touchy feely with
me, they start asking me what my
name is, they start smiling and just
getting all girly. It becomes clear
that I'm making her day and that
she wants more. It's awesome and
of course it puts your confidence
into high gear.

Also, regarding the efficiency principle,
I can definitely see how being the
opposite at first, for beginners, - being
in fact even a little over the top - as you
first had me going at the beginning of
bootcamp was important for my development,
because at first I was too concerned with what
other people thought, I was too introspective,
too quiet, too afraid to even begin to "unleash"
my dominant and my fun side!!!

After getting me over this hump, it was only
then that I could appreciate the refinements
to "efficiency principle".

Peace,

David S.
Calgary, Canada

***MY COMMENTS***

Thanks for the props, man. The bootcamp
is a very personal experience, as each guy
is different and the program is tailored
specifically for his needs and goals.

That's one of the reasons the bootcamp
is One-On-One, this way my entire time
is spent with you and only you, so that
you can get the benefit of complete
personal attention for every second
of the bootcamp.

And I love your comments and analogies
on using the "efficiency principle" - they're
BANG-ON!

And if you are reading this right now
and would like to bring YOUR ‘game’
up to par so that women are CHASING
you rather than playing hard to get,
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Till next time,

Michael Marks