Attracting Women Through Ethics, Sexual Polarity, Sexual Tension, And Maturity

There are some VITAL strategies and insights
regarding attracting women that I want to share
with you immediately.

ETHICS

The first one is regarding ethics and
attracting women. 

Someone who is immature will say that
ethics do not matter, and that the
only thing that matters is getting
the woman, but the fact is, one who
has experience and emotional maturity
knows that they are part of the same
thing.

The bottom line is that if you want
a woman who is going to treat you right,
long term, she better be a woman who
APPRECIATES the fact that you are
a man who has great ethics himself.

And she better be the kind of woman who
demonstrates awesome ethics in her every
SUBTLETY of her behavior as well.

So you have to be RUTHLESS in this area,
and simply not let women into your life
who demonstrate poor ethics.
 
HOWEVER, the challenge with this is that
when you meet a woman who is a total stranger
you really can’t say for sure what her motivations
are for the things she is doing. 

So, although HONESTY is one of the biggies
when it comes to ethics, it is possible that
a woman might not be TOTALLY HONEST with
you as a total stranger, due to her own
insecurities or due to her misunderstanding
you, etc, etc.

So, you have to allow some room for a woman
to get to KNOW YOU and for you to get to
KNOW HER before totally slamming down
the hammer and the judgement call on her,
and you have to instead make decisions based
on the BIG PICTURE she is giving you.

I would say that one of the most important
skills in life is to be SENSITIVE to other
people’s insecurities and to tread carefully
around those things, and in fact when it
comes to approaching and attracting women,
if you can actually make a woman feel
GREAT about the very thing she is insecure
about, you’ve gone a long way toward having
her MELT for you.

HOWEVER, and this is where attracting women
is not so simple, this does not mean trying to be
a THERAPIST to a woman.  It does not mean
trying to be her GIRLFRIEND.  It does not mean
that you are trying to MANIPULATE her through
ONLY being sensitive to her because you want
to get her in bed but you really don’t care about
her otherwise.

ETHICS really have to permeate through ALL
your actions- because ultimately everything is
built on the foundation you set initially. Set
up a morally screwed up foundation, and
ultimately she will sense it on some level,
and she will feel betrayed, and besides it’s
just creepy anyway and a good guy won’t
want to do that.

So, the idea is that as a MAN, you are ESPECIALLY
showing sensitivity to the things she may be insecure
about in terms of her APPEAL to you as a WOMAN.

In a similar way, a wise woman knows EXACTLY
how to serve her MAN this way, by helping him
FEEL as manly as possible.

This is why a great man and great woman truly
bring out the MASCULINITY AND THE
FEMININITY in each other, and bring out
the best in each other regarding many other
dimensions of their beings as well.

So, for example, if a woman feel she isn’t
attractive enough, or young enough,  or
feminine enough, or WHATEVER it is,
and THIS is what is causing her to hold
back, you as a MAN have the power to
help her UNLEASH herself from the
CHAINS of that fear.

But of course, you can only do so much,
do NOT try to be a therapist.

Again, ETHICS including honesty, kindness,
sensitivity, all of these things are absolutely
VITAL to every step of attracting a fantastic
woman.

Remember, this is not about how to just get
PHYSICAL with some drunk woman at a
nightclub.  I’m talking about how to attract
a fantastic woman for something substantial
long term. 

SEXUAL POLARITY

Now, at the same time, all this “gooey” good
ethics stuff, and all the CEREBRAL logic of
how to behave, as important as it is, is not
ENOUGH to make the FIRE OF ATTRACTION.

The KEY is to mix all of that moral goodness
and all that CEREBRAL LOGIC with a SOLID
UNDERSTANDING of the SEXUAL.

And one of the biggest ways to help a woman
UNLEASH her sexual side is for YOU to
show that you yourself feel that the sexual
is absolutely vital to any relationship as well,
but do this in a very casual manner.

The reason I say “casual” is because if you
start to get all CLINICAL when you talk about
sex, if you start to get all ANALYTICAL and
robotic about it, you DRAIN all the ENERGY
and APPEAL of it.

Instead, when the opportunity to bring up the
topic comes up, don’t shy away from it.  If
she is talking about working out, you might
mention how she wants to look sexy for you,
and you might say this in a flirty way but
with FULL ON confidence and zero apology,
so that you DO NOT SAY “Just Kidding”.

Don’t say “Just Kidding”, because the truth
is you WANT HER TO TAKE YOU SERIOUSLY,
you may be behaving casual about it, but you aren’t
“just kidding”.

Another thing is the SEXUAL POLARITY
that you must help define in the interaction
between you and her.

Human beings need to know what role they
are supposed to play.

If you act feminine, she will act masculine.
You don’t want this, and neither does she.

So, act MASCULINE.
Don’t be whiny asking her if she likes you.
Don’t fish for approval.

Don’t try to be her girlfriend and try to
talk about girly things like shopping-
believe it or not, a lot of guys will do
this in order to try to get rapport with
a woman.

(Instead, get rapport through sincere
conversation, not through pretending
to be a woman! ) 

Take the initiative in terms of setting up
the next date, the next meeting, etc.
(Don’t worry, eventually she will start
contacting you to set things up, but in
the beginning, it is the man’s job.)

One of the great things about sexual polarity
is that you reap the rewards of it not only
in general because a woman is more attracted
to you, so she will treat you better, but also
what happens is when you ultimately do
get physical, it will be so much more
gratifying for both you and her.

This leads me to my next point:

SEXUAL TENSION
When a man and woman WANT to jump
each other’s bones, but can’t, THAT is sexual
tension.  You WANT to have a lot of sexual
tension in your relationship, followed of
course by sexual RELEASES with each
other.

The key to doing this is not to make up
problems that separate you apart, but rather
to do two other things:

SEXUAL TENSION METHOD ONE: 
PLAYFULLY CREATE TENSION

So in this method, you actually playfully
tease a woman by slowing things down
in the bedroom by using a lot of awesome
foreplay, and even BEFORE you get to
the foreplay in the bedroom, you can
create this kind of tension verbally
by making sure a woman never feels
she has totally got you.

So if a woman tells you that she knows
you want her, rather than arguing and
turning something fun into an argument,
you might instead say “And you WANT
me to want you”, or if she says “You
want to rip my clothes off”, you might
say “You WANT me to rip your clothes
off”. 

It’s important, for HER joy, that she
DOES NOT FEEL SHE CAN GET
YOU SO EASILY. 

This is not about some sick psycho game
of mental abuse, it’s about realizing that
without the right degree of tension, there
isn’t the maximum FUN in BREAKING
that sexual tension with the release later.

There is another way to create sexual
tension as well:

SEXUAL TENSION METHOD TWO:
POSITIVE CONFLICT RESOLUTION

All human beings have conflict, but the
LUCKY ones RESOLVE that conflict.

No matter how perfect you and the woma
you meet are, you are not going to see
eye to eye on everything.

You can’t just give in to everything to
please a woman, or you will lose your
own self-respect plus she will lose respect
for you. 

You can’t argue about everything either.

The key is to choose your battles wisely,
but ALWAYS battle from a place of
LOVE and NOT NASTINESS OR
NAME-CALLING OR ABUSE.

I promise you this: When you both emerge
from a conflict that you RESOLVED without
abusing each other, you are THEN going to
have some INSANELY WILD TIMES
TOGETHER PHYSICALLY.

Conflict is a part of life, and when you
handle it properly, it creates the natural
tension between the both of you, since
you are by nature of the conflict setting
up BARRIERS between the two of you,
so when it is RESOLVED, you REALLY
want to dive into each other. 

At this point, I want to share a very
important letter I received from a man
using the Get A Great Girl materials,
including my latest program, called
Instant Attraction:


LETTER:

I  thought I'd give you some success
stories, just to make you feel good as
you care about how guys are doing in
this field:

One thing I came to realized how powerful
it is after reading your materials is Brutal
Honesty.

When you say something very genuine,
women respond to that immensely, and
they follow you through the conversation.

(If you remembered that when I told you
that I want to weed out all the pick up words
and lines for good), this was a good way
to start clearing out myself.

Along with the comment of, "You're beautiful"
without any intention of taking from her, and
stopping the conversation right there - I found
that very helpful too, and the tonality of women
changes and becomes very warm, appreciative,
and thankful who receive such comments, as you
say, "from a giving place".  Simply amazing.

Here is the moment of truth, out of all the
women I approached, and applied the knowledge
I stated above, not one of them was not receptive,
not one of them was not smiley, and not one
of them was not willing to further continue the
conversation, perhaps elsewhere.

As a matter of fact, I realized that I can meet
great women almost everywhere I go, I also realized
that there are many good women, whom I began to
feel that they are just waiting for a man to sweep
them off their feet and be with him forever.

More proof just to prove that your programs
"grow in power", is that right now, and I swear
 to you, every single time, every where I go,
I began to realize that women - the beautiful ones –
try to get my attention with everything they got,
either by having "their excuses" of accidentally
showing up in front of my face (supermarket,
work, etc) or treating me really nicely, or (this
is a funny one) trying to find a place to sit
right next to me if I'm on a computer in the
library, and all the other desks around are empty.

And what amazes me the most, is that all this
happens without even me saying a word man.
That's how powerful your stuff is. 

I’ve also worked on having more balance 
in my life, including sleep, good diet, working out, 
and especially weeding out stress - because I 
noticed that it is the ultimate killer of testosterone.”
                                                 
-Lawrence T.

MY REPLY:

Fantastic work, man.  Now I know that
a lot of guys will read your letter and
think, “Oh, so all I need to do is just
be honest with women?” and the answer
is YES, but that this honesty needs to be
coming from a very ENRICHED and
EMPOWERED place inside of you.

To paraphrase Wayne Dyer, you can only
squeeze out of an orange what is IN that
orange.   

So the key is to enrich your understanding
of women and sexuality, and to improve your inner
confidence, and to enrich your understanding of
humanity in general, and THEN the honesty
that comes out of you is ALL VERY POWERFUL
AND ATTRACTIVE.

Because you’ve worked on yourself and
learned so much, so now at this point   
WHATEVER COMES OUT OF YOU
is all ATTRACTIVE.

And I’m so proud, man, because this is
EXACTLY what I MOST desire for the
men who study my materials.  I don’t
want any man to feel the need to FAKE
SOMETHING in order to attract women.

I want men to be able to attract women
simply by BEING.  No gimmicks, no
games, no nonsense.

And throughout the years, I have stayed
true to this approach.

In fact, because I care about the entire field,
I made sure to have the highest standards of
integrity.  So, when I took men out in public
to approach women anywhere, it was all
DOCUMENTED by TONS of witnesses
by one of the biggest newspapers on the
PLANET.

Why did I do this?
Because I knew that there were many folks
in this field who did NOT have integrity
and who were just trying to make a quick
buck.

So, if I DIDN’T have the highest standards
of documentation, proof, and witnesses,
ANYBODY could just FAKE the same
results by getting friends or actors to
POSE as women who are receptive to
the guys’ advances.

Right now, there are probably HUNDREDS
if not THOUSANDS of videos out there
showing guys approaching women, but
how many of them have been VERIFIED
as untouched video by THIRD PARTIES
without a vested interest in doctoring the footage?

Keep in mind, as well, that the men who I
coached were totally free to say the truth
because I had no control over the report,
plus I was chosen as the coach for these
men not ONLY because I could help them
with the APPROACH, but also because I
could help teach them about the important
elements necessary for getting and keeping
the kind of  woman who would also make
for a great RELATIONSHIP.

The coaching was all part of a contest called
The “Get A Relationship Challenge”.

Integrity matters to me.

Always remember that the best is not
the same as the MOST.  So McDonald’s
might sell the MOST burgers, but probably
the CEO of McDonald’s gets his own
dinner somewhere else, right?

If you really want the BEST coaching
for getting the kind of woman you really
want in your life, then it’s time to take
it really SERIOUSLY, and there is no
dating coach more SERIOUS about helping
men learn how to meet, attract, and keep
a truly GREAT woman than myself.

If you haven’t downloaded my latest
program, called Instant Attraction, then
definitely do that now. It really DOES
have my latest powerful insights on
attracting women, and it really WILL
make a BIG difference IMMEDIATELY
in helping you attract the kind of women
you want.

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/instant-attraction.html

After you’ve done that, and proven to yourself
just how much you’ve GAINED from that
program, check out all my OTHER programs-
EACH ONE is designed to give you MORE
AND MORE POWER to attract the women
you WANT.

Those programs are at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

And when you are ready for the BIGGEST
STEP, it’s time to take my BOOTCAMP.

Find out FULL DETAILS about this at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

And finally, sometimes there is a particular
challenge or urgent dating or relationship situation
that you are facing that may require an immediate
live consultation with me.  This means I stop
everything I am doing and immediately put all
my focus on YOU. 

To arrange a personal consultation, email me
directly and write the words CONSULTATION
REQUEST in capitals in the subject line. 

Till next time,

Michael Marks    

Sexual Tension And The TRUTH About Things Like Valentine's Day, Romance, And Giving Women What They Really Want

Today is Valentine’s Day and everywhere you
look now, you hear the word “romance” and
romantic, etc, etc.

But what REALLY is “romance”?

What makes women really FEEL that they are
experiencing an earth-shaking ROMANCE?

One of the MAJOR keys to this is something
known as SEXUAL TENSION.

Sexual tension is the FOUNDATION for every

effective romantic story from the beginning of

time right up till today.

The best way to understand sexual tension is
to see it as the OBSTACLE between FEELING
sexual desire and being able to FULFILL that
feeling.

The OBSTACLE is what actually makes the
desire even STRONGER.

In the classic story of Romeo and Juliet, the
OBSTACLE between them is that they come
from enemy families.

In the movie Titanic, Jack and Rose are
separated by CLASS.

The element of sexual tension is so powerful
that TONS of stories incorporate it into their
MAIN story. 

Of course, this is the case as well in the
story and film 50 Shades of Grey - in fact
the whole ESSENCE of the male lead in the
story is that he's  is not "a hearts and flowers
kind of guy".

He is the proverbial guy referred to by the quote:
"I'm the guy your mother warned you about."

Since he's NOT a "hearts and flowers guy",
he is NOT easy to get.  Thus, there is
TENSION.  

Plus, of course, rather than be politically correct,
he actually is assertive in bed and not into things
like typical feminism, to say the least.

And women vote with their wallets, since this book
has been a best-seller for women and has been
translated into over 50 languages.

Of course, the press and most media and of course
feminist groups will say how horrible it all is, but
in the end, actions speak, and they the truth speaks
volumes. 

Ironically, it is the feminist brainwashing of men
to KISS UP and to do the OPPOSITE of sexual
tension that actually ROBS women of the chance
to feel DESIRE for most men!

Now don't get me wrong, it's not about being
ABUSIVE, just about making things INTERESTING
enough to get a woman LONGING for you,
CRAVING for you.

In the film Top Gun, the chemistry between Maverick
and the sexy older female flight instructor (Charlie)
is HEATED UP by the fact they should NOT
be engaging in a non-professional relationship.

This obstacle makes it HARDER for them to
get together, so that when they finally DO,
they are EVEN MORE nuts about each
other and the passion then explodes in
full force!

Sexual tension always works because we always 

APPRECIATE something MORE when we 

DON’T get it easily.

In fact, today I saw an interview with a couple that
has been happily married for over 40 years. They
are still in love and still hold hands.

When asked what he thinks is the reason so many
people can’t make relationships work today, his
answer was simple: “They have it too good”.

He and his wife met after having both their families
entirely wiped out during WWII. They were so
happy to both have a chance to live a life, that they
both APPRECIATED the opportunity enough to
never take it for granted.

By the way, of course, this is NOT to say that you should
STICK with someone who is not treating you right or
where there's genuinely no compatibility. 

And, I’m not saying that everyone has to put
themselves through SUFFERING in order to
really PUMP UP the maximum amount of
DESIRE, however it IS crucial to understand
that the more POWER someone has, the LESS
likely he or she is to think something is so great.

So, if you take a typical attractive woman who grew up
in a feminist society, the fact is, when it comes to
CHOICE of men, she feels NO TENSION AT ALL
because men are KISSING UP ALL THE TIME to her. 

Most men make it SO easy for women, that it’s 
not FUN for these women.

There’s no DYNAMIC in place to help these hotties
experience the CHALLENGE so that they can then
ENJOY the REWARD of getting that man!

So THAT is why it’s so important that IF you want
to get a super-hottie, you have to step OUT of your
mind set and into HER mind-set, just to EXPERIENCE
what that really FEELS like and MEANS.

Listen, I really LOVE the idea of being in a
great relationship. I LOVE romance.

The problem is most men think of ROMANCE in terms
of how good it would be to GET the woman, not in terms
of how much fun it would be make the PROCESS exciting.

That’s because the typical guy’s mindset is that
just GETTING her would be ENOUGH!

There is such a SCARCITY mindset, that indeed,
he WOULD appreciate her and be happy!

He's flying on a different mental ALTITUDE

than the woman is!  They are on two different

dimensions, different plains of existence, they 

can't VIBE with each other.

However, if he really KNEW he could get
LOTS of women, then he would make the
PROCESS of getting a woman a lot more
FUN for both her AND him.

This would be because he would not feel
the need to try to ACCELERATE the process
of “winning her over”, and IRONICALLY
this in itself IS the accelerator of getting her
won over!

So what are some examples of OBSTACLES
that you can create that BLOCK a woman from
“getting you” even as you also simultaneously
chase her?

One example includes PLAYFUL TEASING.

Now, it’s important to calibrate this properly:

If you meet a woman who is not very confident,
you will HURT her feelings and make her feel
INSECURE.

If you meet a woman who is SUPER CONFIDENT,
she will EAT IT UP and love you for it because
she finally feels that element of challenge.

So for example, I remember being on the bus once
and this super hottie got on, and she was taking
forever to find her change for the fare.

So while their was this awkward silence, I just
had fun with it, and told her that I bet she does
this on every route, stalling till it’s time to get
off the bus, and that she hasn’t paid the fare in
years!

She went from having this uncomfortable look on
her face, to at first having her jaw drop, then look
at me, then protest that it’s not true, and then she
MELTED into a smile and I told her that I’d
be willing to sit with her to keep her company
since no one else really wanted to talk to her
type.

This was a MIXED type of message, since on
one hand OBVIOUSLY I am not being mean
because it’s not TRUE, but on the other hand
it’s the kind of thing that is NOT what most
guys’ INSTINCT tells them to do.

Their INSTINCT tells them to try to HELP her,
i.e. possibly pay her fare for her, or to try to
console her and help her NOT get embarrassed.

But they forget that this woman is in many ways

a POWERHOUSE.

Yes, she has feelings.
Yes, she should not be mistreated.

However, when you are dealing with a POWERHOUSE,
YOU DON’T HAVE TO TREAT HER WITH THE
KID-GLOVES!

It’s not FUN for her.

Imagine if you were Superman and the only sports
teams you could play against were HUMAN.

It wouldn’t be FUN.
You wouldn’t enjoy WINNING.
You’d want to play against some SUPER BAD-ASSES.

That way, WINNING would MEAN something.

Here’s another point about sexual tension:

It’s not just in your WORDS.

Rather, it is applied to EVERYTHING you do.

So, for example, if you are on a date with a woman,
there can be SUBTLE sexual tension simply by
sitting together on the edge of your bed, and talking
about ANYTHING.

The mere fact you and her are on the BED together
while you DON’T try to jump her bones is actually
a lot HOTTER than if you immediately tried to
get all naked with her.

It’s a subtle look on your expression, in your tonality,
that implies you KNOW things are sexual, but that
you are not going to tell her exactly when it’s going
to happen.

You aren’t making yourself that EASY.
It's 'so close, yet so far'.

The fact that physical intimacy is so CLOSE
but that you are NOT jumping on the opportunity
makes it all the more DESIRABLE.

Of course, this only works if it's ALSO clear that
you are not lacking the CONFIDENCE to make
a move.

It must be clear from your overall behavior
with her that it is your DECISION to hold
back, and it's not the fear of rejection.

It's you being in control of your desire
and not a slave to it.

By the way, I learned some of this from women
a long time ago.

I remember one girl who would be in middle of
making out, and then PURPOSELY talk about
something completely different, and playfully
say, “Want to play CHESS? Chess is a good game!”

She KNEW that by STOPPING the physical,
it only made the desire STRONGER and
made me even MORE NUTS about her.

It's a "sweet torture", and most women really
DO love to GET this.

I doubt that she knew that there is actually a term
for this proven psychological principle at play here,
and it is called FRACTIONATION.

Fractionation is when you split up the sexual actions
over TIME rather than going for it all at ONCE.

By STOPPING, and then RE-ENGAGING a few
minutes LATER, or even a few MOMENTS later,
especially when you make it so that she can’t fully
KNOW when you are going to start again, you
INTENSIFY the sexual experience for her.

Of course, once she is GRINDING against you
hard-core, you should probably dive into sex
with her with wild abandon!

You can incorporate this into your initial
approach with her as well. For example,
giving her a HUG when she tells you
something that you approve of, i.e. that
she has the entire ROCKY collection at
home! Then, in middle of the hug, you
can STOP it before she can expect, and
say, “WAIT! I don’t KNOW you yet!
Slow down!”

The key here is to be operating from a standpoint
of GOODWILL, CONFIDENCE, ADVENTURE,
and FUN.

This is NOT about how to HURT a woman.
Remember, in order to make this all work, you
must be careful to GAUGE her reactions and
ADJUST to what actually makes it FUN for her.

Here’s the other thing:
The more that YOU YOURSELF can enter the
same kind of POWERHOUSE mentality that
SHE has, the BETTER you will do, and the
MORE YOU WILL ACTUALLY ENJOY
life too!

And if you’d like to learn MORE about this
and TONS of crucial RELATED concepts
to SKYROCKETING women’s attraction
to you, you can now check out a free audio
sample of my Attraction Mastery Program at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

This program is SERIOUS attraction technology.
It WILL change EVERYTHING when it comes
to women and it will work FAST.

The Attraction Mastery Program is a workhorse,
it keeps giving you PURE GOLD strategies and
insights on attraction, and then keeps giving you
even MORE.

It’s TEN HOURS of cream of the crop attraction
technology for getting the most incredible women
on the planet.

Once again, it’s at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

And if you haven't yet downloaded my program
"Attraction Accelerators" then definitely
do that now, as it goes together PERFECTLY
with the Attraction Mastery Program.

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/attraction-accelerators.html

And of course, for my BOOTCAMP PROGRAM where I will
teach you IN THE FIELD, go HERE:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Attracting Women Through Ethics, Sexual Polarity, Sexual Tension, And Maturity

There are some VITAL strategies and insights
regarding attracting women that I want to share
with you immediately.

ETHICS

The first one is regarding ethics and
attracting women. 

Someone who is immature will say that
ethics do not matter, and that the
only thing that matters is getting
the woman, but the fact is, one who
has experience and emotional maturity
knows that they are part of the same
thing.

The bottom line is that if you want
a woman who is going to treat you right,
long term, she better be a woman who
APPRECIATES the fact that you are
a man who has great ethics himself.

And she better be the kind of woman who
demonstrates awesome ethics in her every
SUBTLETY of her behavior as well.

So you have to be RUTHLESS in this area,
and simply not let women into your life
who demonstrate poor ethics.
 
HOWEVER, the challenge with this is that
when you meet a woman who is a total stranger
you really can’t say for sure what her motivations
are for the things she is doing. 

So, although HONESTY is one of the biggies
when it comes to ethics, it is possible that
a woman might not be TOTALLY HONEST with
you as a total stranger, due to her own
insecurities or due to her misunderstanding
you, etc, etc.

So, you have to allow some room for a woman
to get to KNOW YOU and for you to get to
KNOW HER before totally slamming down
the hammer and the judgement call on her,
and you have to instead make decisions based
on the BIG PICTURE she is giving you.

I would say that one of the most important
skills in life is to be SENSITIVE to other
people’s insecurities and to tread carefully
around those things, and in fact when it
comes to approaching and attracting women,
if you can actually make a woman feel
GREAT about the very thing she is insecure
about, you’ve gone a long way toward having
her MELT for you.

HOWEVER, and this is where attracting women
is not so simple, this does not mean trying to be
a THERAPIST to a woman.  It does not mean
trying to be her GIRLFRIEND.  It does not mean
that you are trying to MANIPULATE her through
ONLY being sensitive to her because you want
to get her in bed but you really don’t care about
her otherwise.

ETHICS really have to permeate through ALL
your actions- because ultimately everything is
built on the foundation you set initially. Set
up a morally screwed up foundation, and
ultimately she will sense it on some level,
and she will feel betrayed, and besides it’s
just creepy anyway and a good guy won’t
want to do that.

So, the idea is that as a MAN, you are ESPECIALLY
showing sensitivity to the things she may be insecure
about in terms of her APPEAL to you as a WOMAN.

In a similar way, a wise woman knows EXACTLY
how to serve her MAN this way, by helping him
FEEL as manly as possible.

This is why a great man and great woman truly
bring out the MASCULINITY AND THE
FEMININITY in each other, and bring out
the best in each other regarding many other
dimensions of their beings as well.

So, for example, if a woman feel she isn’t
attractive enough, or young enough,  or
feminine enough, or WHATEVER it is,
and THIS is what is causing her to hold
back, you as a MAN have the power to
help her UNLEASH herself from the
CHAINS of that fear.

But of course, you can only do so much,
do NOT try to be a therapist.

Again, ETHICS including honesty, kindness,
sensitivity, all of these things are absolutely
VITAL to every step of attracting a fantastic
woman.

Remember, this is not about how to just get
PHYSICAL with some drunk woman at a
nightclub.  I’m talking about how to attract
a fantastic woman for something substantial
long term. 

SEXUAL POLARITY

Now, at the same time, all this “gooey” good
ethics stuff, and all the CEREBRAL logic of
how to behave, as important as it is, is not
ENOUGH to make the FIRE OF ATTRACTION.

The KEY is to mix all of that moral goodness
and all that CEREBRAL LOGIC with a SOLID
UNDERSTANDING of the SEXUAL.

And one of the biggest ways to help a woman
UNLEASH her sexual side is for YOU to
show that you yourself feel that the sexual
is absolutely vital to any relationship as well,
but do this in a very casual manner.

The reason I say “casual” is because if you
start to get all CLINICAL when you talk about
sex, if you start to get all ANALYTICAL and
robotic about it, you DRAIN all the ENERGY
and APPEAL of it.

Instead, when the opportunity to bring up the
topic comes up, don’t shy away from it.  If
she is talking about working out, you might
mention how she wants to look sexy for you,
and you might say this in a flirty way but
with FULL ON confidence and zero apology,
so that you DO NOT SAY “Just Kidding”.

Don’t say “Just Kidding”, because the truth
is you WANT HER TO TAKE YOU SERIOUSLY,
you may be behaving casual about it, but you aren’t
“just kidding”.

Another thing is the SEXUAL POLARITY
that you must help define in the interaction
between you and her.

Human beings need to know what role they
are supposed to play.

If you act feminine, she will act masculine.
You don’t want this, and neither does she.

So, act MASCULINE.
Don’t be whiny asking her if she likes you.
Don’t fish for approval.

Don’t try to be her girlfriend and try to
talk about girly things like shopping-
believe it or not, a lot of guys will do
this in order to try to get rapport with
a woman.

(Instead, get rapport through sincere
conversation, not through pretending
to be a woman! ) 

Take the initiative in terms of setting up
the next date, the next meeting, etc.
(Don’t worry, eventually she will start
contacting you to set things up, but in
the beginning, it is the man’s job.)

One of the great things about sexual polarity
is that you reap the rewards of it not only
in general because a woman is more attracted
to you, so she will treat you better, but also
what happens is when you ultimately do
get physical, it will be so much more
gratifying for both you and her.

This leads me to my next point:

SEXUAL TENSION
When a man and woman WANT to jump
each other’s bones, but can’t, THAT is sexual
tension.  You WANT to have a lot of sexual
tension in your relationship, followed of
course by sexual RELEASES with each
other.

The key to doing this is not to make up
problems that separate you apart, but rather
to do two other things:

SEXUAL TENSION METHOD ONE: 
PLAYFULLY CREATE TENSION

So in this method, you actually playfully
tease a woman by slowing things down
in the bedroom by using a lot of awesome
foreplay, and even BEFORE you get to
the foreplay in the bedroom, you can
create this kind of tension verbally
by making sure a woman never feels
she has totally got you.

So if a woman tells you that she knows
you want her, rather than arguing and
turning something fun into an argument,
you might instead say “And you WANT
me to want you”, or if she says “You
want to rip my clothes off”, you might
say “You WANT me to rip your clothes
off”. 

It’s important, for HER joy, that she
DOES NOT FEEL SHE CAN GET
YOU SO EASILY. 

This is not about some sick psycho game
of mental abuse, it’s about realizing that
without the right degree of tension, there
isn’t the maximum FUN in BREAKING
that sexual tension with the release later.

There is another way to create sexual
tension as well:

SEXUAL TENSION METHOD TWO:
POSITIVE CONFLICT RESOLUTION

All human beings have conflict, but the
LUCKY ones RESOLVE that conflict.

No matter how perfect you and the woma
you meet are, you are not going to see
eye to eye on everything.

You can’t just give in to everything to
please a woman, or you will lose your
own self-respect plus she will lose respect
for you. 

You can’t argue about everything either.

The key is to choose your battles wisely,
but ALWAYS battle from a place of
LOVE and NOT NASTINESS OR
NAME-CALLING OR ABUSE.

I promise you this: When you both emerge
from a conflict that you RESOLVED without
abusing each other, you are THEN going to
have some INSANELY WILD TIMES
TOGETHER PHYSICALLY.

Conflict is a part of life, and when you
handle it properly, it creates the natural
tension between the both of you, since
you are by nature of the conflict setting
up BARRIERS between the two of you,
so when it is RESOLVED, you REALLY
want to dive into each other. 

At this point, I want to share a fresh
letter I received from a man using
the Get A Great Girl materials,
including my latest program,
Instant Attraction:

LETTER:

I  thought I'd give you some success
stories, just to make you feel good as
you care about how guys are doing in
this field:

One thing I came to realized how powerful
it is after reading your materials is Brutal
Honesty.

When you say something very genuine,
women respond to that immensely, and
they follow you through the conversation.

(If you remembered that when I told you
that I want to weed out all the pick up words
and lines for good), this was a good way
to start clearing out myself.

Along with the comment of, "You're beautiful"
without any intention of taking from her, and
stopping the conversation right there - I found
that very helpful too, and the tonality of women
changes and becomes very warm, appreciative,
and thankful who receive such comments, as you
say, "from a giving place".  Simply amazing.

Here is the moment of truth, out of all the
women I approached, and applied the knowledge
I stated above, not one of them was not receptive,
not one of them was not smiley, and not one
of them was not willing to further continue the
conversation, perhaps elsewhere.

As a matter of fact, I realized that I can meet
great women almost everywhere I go, I also realized
that there are many good women, whom I began to
feel that they are just waiting for a man to sweep
them off their feet and be with him forever.

More proof just to prove that your programs
"grow in power", is that right now, and I swear
 to you, every single time, every where I go,
I began to realize that women - the beautiful ones –
try to get my attention with everything they got,
either by having "their excuses" of accidentally
showing up in front of my face (supermarket,
work, etc) or treating me really nicely, or (this
is a funny one) trying to find a place to sit
right next to me if I'm on a computer in the
library, and all the other desks around are empty.

And what amazes me the most, is that all this
happens without even me saying a word man.
That's how powerful your stuff is. 

I’ve also worked on having more balance 
in my life, including sleep, good diet, working out, 
and especially weeding out stress - because I 
noticed that it is the ultimate killer of testosterone.”
                                                 
-Lawrence T.

MY REPLY:

Fantastic work, man.  Now I know that
a lot of guys will read your letter and
think, “Oh, so all I need to do is just
be honest with women?” and the answer
is YES, but that this honesty needs to be
coming from a very ENRICHED and
EMPOWERED place inside of you.

To paraphrase Wayne Dyer, you can only
squeeze out of an orange what is IN that
orange.   

So the key is to enrich your understanding
of women and sexuality, and to improve your inner
confidence, and to enrich your understanding of
humanity in general, and THEN the honesty
that comes out of you is ALL VERY POWERFUL
AND ATTRACTIVE.

Because you’ve worked on yourself and
learned so much, so now at this point   
WHATEVER COMES OUT OF YOU
is all ATTRACTIVE.

And I’m so proud, man, because this is
EXACTLY what I MOST desire for the
men who study my materials.  I don’t
want any man to feel the need to FAKE
SOMETHING in order to attract women.

I want men to be able to attract women
simply by BEING.  No gimmicks, no
games, no nonsense.

And throughout the years, I have stayed
true to this approach.

In fact, because I care about the entire field,
I made sure to have the highest standards of
integrity.  So, when I took men out in public
to approach women anywhere, it was all
DOCUMENTED by TONS of witnesses
by one of the biggest newspapers on the
PLANET.

Why did I do this?
Because I knew that there were many folks
in this field who did NOT have integrity
and who were just trying to make a quick
buck.

So, if I DIDN’T have the highest standards
of documentation, proof, and witnesses,
ANYBODY could just FAKE the same
results by getting friends or actors to
POSE as women who are receptive to
the guys’ advances.

Right now, there are probably HUNDREDS
if not THOUSANDS of videos out there
showing guys approaching women, but
how many of them have been VERIFIED
as untouched video by THIRD PARTIES
without a vested interest in doctoring the footage?

Keep in mind, as well, that the men who I
coached were totally free to say the truth
because I had no control over the report,
plus I was chosen as the coach for these
men not ONLY because I could help them
with the APPROACH, but also because I
could help teach them about the important
elements necessary for getting and keeping
the kind of  woman who would also make
for a great RELATIONSHIP.

The coaching was all part of a contest called
The “Get A Relationship Challenge”.

Integrity matters to me.

Always remember that the best is not
the same as the MOST.  So McDonald’s
might sell the MOST burgers, but probably
the CEO of McDonald’s gets his own
dinner somewhere else, right?

If you really want the BEST coaching
for getting the kind of woman you really
want in your life, then it’s time to take
it really SERIOUSLY, and there is no
dating coach more SERIOUS about helping
men learn how to meet, attract, and keep
a truly GREAT woman than myself.

If you haven’t downloaded my latest
program, called Instant Attraction, then
definitely do that now. It really DOES
have my latest powerful insights on
attracting women, and it really WILL
make a BIG difference IMMEDIATELY
in helping you attract the kind of women
you want.

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/instant-attraction.html

After you’ve done that, and proven to yourself
just how much you’ve GAINED from that
program, check out all my OTHER programs-
EACH ONE is designed to give you MORE
AND MORE POWER to attract the women
you WANT.

Those programs are at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

And when you are ready for the BIGGEST
STEP, it’s time to take my BOOTCAMP.

Find out FULL DETAILS about this at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

And finally, sometimes there is a particular
challenge or urgent dating or relationship situation
that you are facing that may require an immediate
live consultation with me.  This means I stop
everything I am doing and immediately put all
my focus on YOU. 

To arrange a personal consultation, email me
directly and write the words CONSULTATION
REQUEST in capitals in the subject line. 

Till next time,

Michael Marks    

Secrets to Attracting Women On A Physical Level: The Foreplay Before Foreplay

One of the biggest things you can do to

SKYROCKET your success with women

is to understand something known as

SEXUAL TENSION and how to CREATE

sexual tension.

So let me first define what this IS:

The best way I can describe it is to call
it the FOREPLAY  that happens long
BEFORE the foreplay!

In life, NINETY NINE percent of the

pleasure of almost ANYTHING is NOT

just in the arrival of the pleasurable

DESTINATION itself.

So, for example, when you get a great

slice of pizza, or a great chocolate, you

usually don’t want to just FINISH it as

quickly as possible.

You want to SAVOR it, you want that

great feeling to LAST.

In fact, if you REALLY love something,

sometimes you enjoy THINKING about it

for long before you actually GET it, and

that IS ACTUALLY PART OF THE JOY.

Think of how a little kid sees something
AWESOME, say it’s a TOY he finds in
a CATALOG.  And he gets promised by
his mom that if he is GOOD, he will get
it for his birthday or for a holiday or for
some other time in the future.

That KID then DREAMS about all the fun

he is GOING to have in the FUTURE with

that toy.  He thinks about it, he fantasizes

about it, he ANTICIPATES it.  What it

will be like to UNWRAP that toy, to

play with it, the adventures he might have

with those toys/action figures, etc,etc.

When you go to a great MOVIE, you don’t
just want to get right to the ENDING! 
It’s way more EXCITING to have the
ANTICIPATION building up inside of you,
as you FEEL the excitement the danger,
the possibility of the VICTORY for the
hero, etc, etc. 

It would be the most boring thing on EARTH

if Luke Skywalker told Darth Vader to give

up, and Darth Vader just said “okay”, and that

was IT.

It’s the SAME THING with women and the 

feelings of CHEMISTRY they want to
experience with you.

You want to make a woman feel the massive

ANTICIPATION of pleasure with you from

the MOMENT you meet her.

You want her to be THINKING about how

awesome it would be to get NAKED with you

long before it actually GETS to that point, and

of course, this IS the way TO actually get to that

point!

This way, the pleasure, in her mind, is not just
something that happens once you two are in bed,
but she is ALREADY feeling it from the moment
you MET her the FIRST time.

You accomplish this by NOT racing to the "finish line". 

What I mean by this, is that you DON’T want

to make it DIRECTLY OBVIOUS that she is

going to get to have sex with you just because

you are speaking to her, or just because you

approached her to chat with her.

What you want to do, is just give her ENOUGH

of a HINT so that her MIND is stimulated to

have to actually become ENGAGED in actually

PAINTING THE REST OF THE PICTURE
FOR HERSELF.

Trust me, when a woman paints her OWN picture

of you and her together in the near future, it’s

the PERFECT attractor because SHE is the one
DESIGNING the fantasy, so it’s going to be

PERFECT to her.

If you just make it so obvious, and so easy,

then what you are doing is in essence "ruining

the movie" by giving her the ending right away.

It’s like you are giving her a candy that instantly

dissolves and melts in a NANOSECOND and

the pleasure is over.

Here’s ONE example of building up sexual tension:

When you are chatting to a woman you have just

approached for the first time, at some point in

the conversation, give her the “look up”.

The “look up” is when you calmly look up
and down her entire body ONCE, and then
you CONTINUE to chat with her TOTALLY
calmly and you DON’T do it again, at least
not for a long time.

This way, she thinks to herself:

“Hey, did he just check me OUT while I

was TALKING to him? Did he just check

out my entire BODY???? Or was I just
imagining that?? What was he THINKING
right then? Does he LIKE me that much?
Is he that direct? He’s not doing it anymore,
does he NOT find me that hot, or is he just

trying to hold back?  What is this guy

ABOUT??????”

Do you see what I mean about how this

creates SEXUAL TENSION?

She is now STARTING to THINK about you,

and about what you have in MIND for her.

And because you haven’t done too MUCH,

she is now free to PICTURE the ultimate

torrid fantasy of you and her having the most

wild, intense. steamy hot lovemaking that

she has ever DREAMED about in her life.

A little goes a LONG way.

By doing a little, you prevent coming across

as a brute with no class or taste.  By doing

NOTHING, though you come across as

NOT sexual at all. 

Another way to think of the “look up” is to

call it a “the once over”, you look her over

once over. But I like the term “the look up”

because your eyes actually go UP her body

and then DOWN.

Now, this is just ONE super effective,

and super EASY strategy that you can

apply IMMEDIATELY on ANY woman you are

attracted to. And it’s FIELD TESTED,

that means it’s been PROVEN in REAL LIFE

on tons of women.

I have an OCEAN MORE of pure GOLD for you

on strategies for successfully approaching
and attracting the women you WANT.  

All you have to do to get these fantastic and

easy-to-use strategies for SKYROCKETING

women’s attraction to you on a PHYSICAL

level is download my program DEVOTED

to this topic- it is called:

THE ATTRACTION MASTERY PROGRAM.

This program is an absolute must, and it’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

7 Secrets To "Picking Up" Women

Approaching women seems tough, but
it doesn't have to be.  What I'm going to
do here is share the most important
7 SECRETS with you for approaching
women.  Screwing these up are the 7
most common causes for not attracting
a woman upon approaching her.

So, here are the 7 most common devastating
mistakes, as well as the RIGHT things to
do instead.

1. NOT GETTING INTO "JUICY"
CONVERSATION EARLY ENOUGH

So, let's say you are already approaching
women and starting conversations, you
might notice that women will just be
polite.

You aren't seeing their eyes light up.

Keep in mind that this woman has no idea
who you are, she has no idea that you have
gone through a lot in this life, that you are
not only a good person, but a pretty cool
person as well.  She knows NOTHING
about you.

And you can't start listing your resume there.
So the ONLY thing SHE can judge you on here
is the conversation she's having with you and
how it FEELS to her. 

So, you have to get her into "FEELING" state
pretty darn fast.

Now, you do NOT want to overcompensate
with becoming a CLOWN or PERFORMER.

You should start the conversation with something
low-key, like if you were at a card store and you
were commenting on the choice of card she is
holding, i.e. a father's day card, and telling her
she must have a close relationship with her dad
to buy such a card, etc. 

THEN however you want to UP the ante pretty
fast, to BUILD from there.  You want to get
her FEELING damn good.  So you might go
from there into something that is either very
INTERESTING, or something is very funny,
or something that truly raises her self-esteem
and makes her feel better about herself, you
can CHOOSE whatever fits best for your
personality.

So, for example, giving the example of the
woman at the card store, you can go humorous
by telling her that she's just trying to butter
up her dad so he can buy her a Jaguar, or
you can go into the "intriguing" and genuinely
meaningful compliment that raises her self-esteem
by speaking about how girls who get along well
with their dads tend to be the girls who have less
drama issues- and this would PROMPT a
response from her that was a lot more involved
on her part- it wouldn't just be her trying to
get rid of you, since now she is actually engaged
in something meaningful to her.

Also, you could COMBINE the above, and go
from humorous/funny, to the more serious and
intriguing and raising self-esteem style conversation.
COMBINING emotions is actually a VERY
powerful thing, - imagine if you get a woman
laughing, then feeling intrigued, and then feeling
better about herself, all within a span of just
a few MINUTES.

If you do that, you are going to be MEMORABLE. 

You are going to be the guy she wants to CALL,
and all the other guys that just ogled her or said
trivial stuff to her will not even be REMEMBERED.

If you aren't getting the conversation into
the right EMOTIONAL ZONE very
QUICKLY, it's no surprise that your
interactions aren't amounting to any
results.

2. TOO MUCH PICK UP ARTIST
"PLAY HARD TO GET" BEHAVIOR

This is a huge one.  Most guys are trying
so hard to show they are not interested,
because they are told by the "dating gurus"
and pick up artists that this will make the
woman more interested- so the guys end
up standing way too far from the women,
and talking from too much of a distance,
and the guys try to also avoid ANY type
of comment that might sound like they
are interested. 

The truth is that although you shouldn't
give compliments for the sake of compliments,
you SHOULD reward a woman for the things
that she really EARNED.

The KEYWORD here though is EARNED.

If you give compliments or if you seek
rapport for things she didn't EARN,
you are behaving as an underling,
a needy desperate guy. 

HOWEVER, once she has EARNED it,
it's an entirely different matter.

So if she is telling you things that you really
find worthy of respect or interest, well then
you actually MUST show and tell her this,
because it is actually a way of letting her know
that she stands OUT from the rest, that she is
NOT just another woman, that you are NOT
just looking at her from a superficial point
of view.

3. INSENSITIVITY TO THE EMOTIONAL
VIBE OF THE SITUATION 
 
This is something that is a MAJOR factor
in screwing up attraction. 

This often stems from not being present
in the moment, and being too caught up
in trying to achieve a certain outcome.
This pressure to achieve a certain outcome
is like a constant  ALARM blaring in your
ear that prevents you from actually listening
properly and from FEELING what a woman
is actually feeling and trying to convey to you.

A lot of communication, in fact most of it,
is not in the words themselves, so if you are
ONLY listening to a woman's words, then
you are often missing the point. 

Here's a helpful hint- most of the time,
a woman is just trying to feel good, like
all humans do.  So rather than focusing
on how you can show off how smart
you are,  instead think about how you
can be CREATING A GOOD VIBE.

If she is talking about something a bit sad,
i.e. some tragedy or war, then don't show
off how much you know about that issue,
rather you should create RAPPORT to make
her feel understood, and then gently LEAD
the conversation to somewhere more
POSITIVE. 

Look for the bright side of  things, and
the reality is that if not for negative things,
there would BE no positive side, so if the
conversation is not going down the right
track, it's just another OPPORTUNITY
for you to create AWESOME emotions
where they didn't exist before, and that
makes you even cooler than every
other guy who couldn't do that.  

A woman will not remember the details of
the conversation, she will only remember       
how she FELT during it.  So make it feel
GOOD. 

Listen when she is speaking, listen for what
is the EMOTIONAL crux of what she is
saying, don't just be thinking of how you
can be the most cool guy to show how
you can give the most clever response.
The most clever response is the response
that simply FEELS good.  You'll get
farther by NOT showing off then you
would by showing how clever and
"cool" you are.  Don't put yourself
down of course, just don't make it    
all about YOU. And that's how
she will remember YOU.

4. NOT PROGRESSING THE INTERACTION

An interaction has natural stages,
you start off low key, you build
up steam and connect to each other,
and then you have to get her contact
info.

Out of fear, most guys will just stay
in whatever stage they are in, because
it feels good to not be rejected- however,
if you don't PROGRESS the interaction
to getting her number, and from getting
her number, to getting the date, to
getting physical, to relationship, etc,
etc, then what is the point? 

So often, guys will open up a conversation
with something low key, and the women
will be receptive, but then the guys
STAY in that zone the entire time
because it feels good to get that
validation and they don't want to risk
LOSING that sense of validation.

Which brings me to the motto:
"He who dares, wins."

So MOVE THE INTERACTION FORWARD.

5. NOT BEING FLIRTATIOUS

If you are trying to meet a woman, then it's
CRUCIAL that she understands that there is
a sexual tension to the interaction. 

So, the key to being more flirty and sexual
is being more PLAYFUL in  your interaction,
combined with having a bit of a mischievous
glint in your eye. 

6. OVERCOMPENSATING INSECURITIES

This is a HUGE one.  We all fear not being
accepted, because of whatever it is we are
insecure about.  So what do we do? We
OVERCOMPENSATE for that insecurity,
and we don't even realize it.  It usually
comes across as either being insecure
or what is worse, as being a JERK.

If you start a conversation by trying to
protect yourself against your fear, usually
it will work AGAINST you.

So, for example, let's say you are insecure
about how much money you earn.  Well,
if you very early in a conversation said
something like "superficial things are so
over-rated, I would never be caught working
for a big corporation".  If you're bald, if
you're short, if you're ANYTHING you
are insecure about- the reality is that it's
NOT an issue but if you START with,
"Hi, my name is Mac, would you date
a short guy?" then you clearly are showing
that this is a major obsession or fear.

Same with, "Hi, I work for minimum wage,
but I LOVE my job", that also shows that
you are obsessed with the money issue since
it's the first thing you brought up.

Just be comfortable in your own skin, and
don't bring up the issue at all.  There's
a lot more to you than you think, a lot
more to you than the things you are
insecure about.

This rule also applies for not trying to
explain anything about yourself or situation
that you think is not cool- so if your are renting
a car because your regular better car is at the
shop, don't say, "This is just a rental- I have
a better car", just DON'T BRING IT UP,
otherwise it comes across as you feeling
inferior worth compared to what you
feel her worth is.

And when YOU feel your worth is low,
that is the ultimate litmus test to a woman
of your worth.  YOU are the one who
has to know what you're worth.  If you
don't feel it, how can she?

7. REVEALING TOO MUCH ABOUT YOURSELF TOO EARLY

Now, the problem with this is that it is
the behavior of someone who feels that
he is going to get rejected.

So, if you just approached a woman, don't
start telling her within 30 seconds, "Man,
I'm so tired, I just got in from LA" or,
"I'm so tired,  I was up all night with
my agent on the phone closing a deal"
etc, etc.

It's OBVIOUS to her that you are throwing
around the words "LA" "AGENT" "closing
the deal", etc. 

Those are 7 SUPER IMPORTANT
tips that you can now go out and apply
IMMEDIATELY, and you will notice
a MASSIVE difference, TODAY.

And yet, that is just the TIP of the ICEBERG.
If you want to be KING when it comes to
attracting the most fantastic quality women,
I suggest you get my program called
WARRIOR WITHIN immediately, at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

When a woman sees a man approach her, she
subconsciously is applying TONS of SCREENING
mechanisms to PREVENT the wrong guy from
wasting her time.

She has instinctively learned to do this from
EXPERIENCE.

She can DETECT IMMEDIATELY and instinctively
if a guy "gets it" when it comes to women.

This program will ensure you IMMEDIATELY
give off the right "signals" to women that show
you ARE the kind of man that TOTALLY "gets it"
when it comes to women.       

The men who show that they "get it", get the
GREEN LIGHT from women, and they get it
INSTANTLY.   

Get this program NOW and start enjoying the
life you DESERVE with women.

It's at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

To check out ALL my programs for approaching
and attracting fantastic women, go here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Sexual Tension: The Crucial Foreplay To Foreplay

One of the biggest things you can do to
SKYROCKET your success with women
is to understand something known as
SEXUAL TENSION and how to CREATE
sexual tension.

So let me first define what this IS:
The best way I can describe it is to call
it the FOREPLAY  that happens long
BEFORE the foreplay!

In life, NINETY NINE percent of the
pleasure of almost ANYTHING is NOT
just in the arrival of the pleasurable
DESTINATION itself.

So, for example, when you get a great
slice of pizza, or a great chocolate, you
usually don’t want to just FINISH it as
quickly as possible.

You want to SAVOR it, you want that
great feeling to LAST.

In fact, if you REALLY love something,
sometimes you enjoy THINKING about it
for long before you actually GET it, and
that IS ACTUALLY PART OF THE JOY.

Think of how a little kid sees something
AWESOME, say it’s a TOY he finds in
a CATALOG.  And he gets promised by
his mom that if he is GOOD, he will get
it for his birthday or for a holiday or for
some other time in the future.

That KID then DREAMS about all the fun
he is GOING to have in the FUTURE with
that toy.  He thinks about it, he fantasizes
about it, he ANTICIPATES it.  What it
will be like to UNWRAP that toy, to
play with it, the adventures he might have
with those toys/action figures, etc,etc.

When you go to a great MOVIE, you don’t
just want to get right to the ENDING! 
It’s way more EXCITING to have the
ANTICIPATION building up inside of you,
as you FEEL the excitement the danger,
the possibility of the VICTORY for the
hero, etc, etc. 

It would be the most boring thing on EARTH
if Luke Skywalker told Darth Vader to give
up, and Darth Vader just said “okay”, and that
was IT.

It’s the SAME THING with women and the 
feelings of CHEMISTRY they want to
experience with you.

You want to make a woman feel the massive
ANTICIPATION of pleasure with you from
the MOMENT you meet her.

You want her to be THINKING about how
awesome it would be to get NAKED with you
long before it actually GETS to that point, and
of course, this IS the way TO actually get to that
point!

This way, the pleasure, in her mind, is not just
something that happens once you two are in bed,
but she is ALREADY feeling it from the moment
you MET her the FIRST time.

You accomplish this by NOT racing to the "finish line". 

What I mean by this, is that you DON’T want
to make it DIRECTLY OBVIOUS that she is
going to get to have sex with you just because
you are speaking to her, or just because you
approached her to chat with her.

What you want to do, is just give her ENOUGH
of a HINT so that her MIND is stimulated to
have to actually become ENGAGED in actually
PAINTING THE REST OF THE PICTURE
FOR HERSELF.

Trust me, when a woman paints her OWN picture
of you and her together in the near future, it’s
the PERFECT attractor because SHE is the one
DESIGNING the fantasy, so it’s going to be
PERFECT to her.

If you just make it so obvious, and so easy,
then what you are doing is in essence "ruining
the movie" by giving her the ending right away.
It’s like you are giving her a candy that instantly
dissolves and melts in a NANOSECOND and
the pleasure is over.

Here’s ONE example of building up sexual tension:
When you are chatting to a woman you have just
approached for the first time, at some point in
the conversation, give her the “look up”.

The “look up” is when you calmly look up
and down her entire body ONCE, and then
you CONTINUE to chat with her TOTALLY
calmly and you DON’T do it again, at least
not for a long time.

This way, she thinks to herself:
“Hey, did he just check me OUT while I
was TALKING to him? Did he just check
out my butt and my boobs and my entire
BODY???? Or was I just imagining that???
What was he THINKING right then?
Does he LIKE me that much? Is he that
direct? He’s not doing it anymore, does
he NOT find me that hot, or is he just
trying to hold back?  What is this guy
ABOUT??????”

Do you see what I mean about how this
creates SEXUAL TENSION?

She is now STARTING to THINK about you,
and about what you have in MIND for her.
And because you haven’t done too MUCH,
she is now free to PICTURE the ultimate
torrid fantasy of you and her having the most
wild, intense. steamy hot lovemaking that
she has ever DREAMED about in her life.

A little goes a LONG way.

By doing a little, you prevent coming across
as a brute with no class or taste.  By doing
NOTHING, though you come across as
NOT sexual at all. 

Another way to think of the “look up” is to
call it a “the once over”, you look her over
once over. But I like the term “the look up”
because your eyes actually go UP her body
and then DOWN.

Now, this is just ONE super effective,
and super EASY strategy that you can
apply IMMEDIATELY on ANY woman you are
attracted to. And it’s FIELD TESTED,
that means it’s been PROVEN in REAL LIFE
on tons of women.

I have an OCEAN MORE of pure GOLD for you
on strategies for successfully approaching
and attracting the women you WANT.  

If you’d like to learn the ENTIRE art and skill
of picking up and attracting women ANYWHERE
you can now take advantage of my GROUP
bootcamps, at the most INSANE price for a
TEST offer of only $600 per BOOTCAMP.

To learn more about the Group Bootcamp, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/group-bootcamp.html

This offer might not be around long, so I
would get in on it NOW while it lasts.

And if you haven’t yet downloaded my program
called "Acing The Approach" then do that NOW. 

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/acing-the-approach.html

To check out ALL my important programs on
skyrocketing your success with women, go here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks

How Do Guys Who Are "Naturals" With Women Do It?

Some of the best learning lessons come from
observing guys who are naturals with women.

So, right now, you are going to see EXACTLY
how a natural applies the science and art of
attraction successfully.

I'm going to use an email a guy sent me, and
you'll see the beauty in all this stuff. You'll
see how a guy pulled off an awesome job attracting
a woman, and then we'll take a look at it in slow-mo,
blow-by-blow, so you can really get a good look
at what's going on.

Of course, this is not only going to be fun as heck,
it's also going to be one awesome learning experience
about how to be even more successful with creating
attraction and also understanding the dynamics
of female culture and psychology.

So hold on tight and get ready for some fun:

EMAIL FROM A CLIENT:

Michael,

Hey we had a phone consultation last Sunday.
I appreciate the knowledge that you shared
with me and your personal story as well. I gotta
couple things to say and a few questions as well,
you can put 'em in the newsletter if you like.

Your recent newsletter was about the guy who
got divorced, took out a new woman and had her
eating out of his hand, how he kissed her hand
like Don Juan instead of on the lips and left
rather than going home with her. Of course
you remember, you wrote it.

Also, if you remember in our phone conversation,
you mentioned how, internally, your negative
experiences with women that were the result
of you behaving according to the brainwashed
culture, eventually made you reach boiling point,
and put you over the top, and you decided from
there to not give a *&@%!, to start giving women
"a hard time" and you said BAM the results just
happened. Even though you later improved upon
this and found a way to get even better results
without being abusive.

I have to admit that after seeing these things and
being logical, I like to play devil's advocate and
do things that are counter to what others tell me
are true...

So...since our talk I checked on a couple of other
dating sites, just to see what people say compared
to you, I wanted to see if it was all the same, or if
everyone thinks they have their own great idea that
only works for them, but doesn't work for anyone
else, etc.  

I found that a lot of the others, while not advocating 

being "Nice" or a wuss, were advocating being a 

charmer through compliments and romantic things 

and looking deep into her eyes and flirting on and 
on, just introducing yourself and saying hi with a 
big smile on your face... 

I've always thought this would be a better fit for my 
personality, but am/was/ willing to give your stuff 
a go if it is what gets results...

Since I read your stuff first, I've filtered the other
stuff through it and compared everything I see/read to
what you've said. So, I've found that usually your info
is different than the rest and I didn't know if that was
good or not:

Well, the CLINCHER happened the other night as I
was working on the computer. I was doing some stuff
and I always leave the TV on just for background noise.
(One Of The Famous Dating TV Shows) was on. It's a
show where they put two people on a blind date, give
'em a car and let 'em go to a park, a restaurant, and bar
or something along those lines.

They show that the dude, I will call him Mitch (for
privacy's sake) an average looking dude with dark hair
and an athletic build who works as a bouncer is going
to be going on a date with a smokin' woman who looked
a little like ****** *******. For privacy's sake, I'll
call her Anita. She's a model who was featured in a
VERY famous televised lingerie show with kazillions
of viewers.

Anyway, the dude was a &*&^<$# pr*ck the whole
night. He shows up an hour late, makes a comment
like, "Damn, that's a short a%# skirt."

They get in the car, right away he says, "I've never been
on a blind date...", she starts to say "Yeah, me neither...",
but before she can FINISH the statement, HE says,
"and I don't know if I will again." She looks at him, and
goes "oh my gawd," but she is SMIRKING and totally
turned on. She gives a playful roll of the eyes right.

Anyway, he busts her all night, she at one point says,
"I think you're a di*&." He laughs, gets close to her,
and says, "What you think...? You think...?" She says,
"Okay, fine, you ARE a di**." He just laughs.

Later he says, among many similar type things, "I thought
they would hook me up with someone who was pretty,"
- YES HE SAID THIS.

Later, when the date is almost over, she gets serious,
and says, "You know I think you may have a little
insecurity, you kind of take it too far sometimes, the
teasing, and I don't like it." He smirks, looks away,
and comes back with, "You know, I don't like sheep,
women that just do what others do, so I had to see if
you would stand up for yourself, be different and not
be a pushover, and you have (stood up)."

She gives him a sultry look, bites her lower lip, and
says, "So you do it on purpose?" (i.e. to see if a
woman is up to your standard) and he says, "Well
yeah, but also because I know women like it." She
rolls her eyes again and smiles and licks her lips
and says, "yeah whatever" in a total I WANT YOU
voice.

So they cut to the car ride home, in a taxi, and
they're makin' out. Later they cut to the outside
of the house as he is saying goodbye (he didn't go
in, he is standing at her door) and he's like, "Hey,
it was fun, maybe we can do it again." And she
says, "You have my number, use it."

In the post date interview he says, "Once I saw
that the girl was bangin', I knew, I knew, I
couldn't be nice if I was going to get in with her,
and yeah it worked." She says, "Yeah, he was
a little rude, but I kinda like it when guys don't
flatter me, I'll definitely go on a second date if
he calls, but he needs to know the games will
continue."

All I could say was, "Sh**... Sh**!!! ...
Michael is right, oh man, dude is so friggin right."
I said it out loud, only one in the room, it hit me
that deeply. I realized how well it worked.

You said that even the "***** ******" types try
to act better than others but they have some
insecurity issues of their own. And this guy
played it perfect, he made her question whether
she was all that cool or skinny or beautiful and it
put the pressure on her to impress him.

She was the one trying to get his approval as
the night went on, she didn't feel like she was
a princess the way she would have around 99%
of other guys. And right when she couldn't take
it, or maybe she was just playing, it doesn't matter,
he gave her a little self-esteem boost to let her
know that she has passed some of his tests and
is showing potential in meeting his standards.

So, in parting, much props to you man, you know
what you're talkin' bout. And some curiosities
were sparked from our phone conversation as it
relates to being a "smart aleck":

You told me that the key is to determine if a girl
is (culturally) "beautiful" (like a 9 or a 10) or not,
because the gorgeous ones need to see you are
superior in order for them to feel the boost, but
the cute ones who are like 6, 7 and 8s on the 10
scale you can actually compliment them some
(not their body) and smile a little and be more
charming because they will appreciate the attention
of a sincere guy.

So onto the questions:
1)Does the jerk approach only work with girls that
are in the upper range, like the 9s and 10s? I mean,
what if a girl is real conservative, or a small-town
country girl, you know good values and stuff, maybe
never had sex or like only with one guy that she dated
for 6 years, maybe never dated anyone seriously, but
she's also real hot, won't she have more respect for
herself and be offended by the jerk approach?

2)Likewise, say a girl has been cheated on a bunch
and dated about 10 jerks in her life. When she
decides to "settle down," because she hears her
biological clock ticking, won't she have learned
that the jerks don't change and end up going for
maybe a little bit older, overweight, financially
secure guy that she will refer to as "her sweetie,
who is so good to her," or something to that effect?

3)My opinion is that a two-pronged approach
works best. Be the more intense busting
type with women who know they're "commodities",
and be a teasing charmer (like you were in the
bookstore with the two women) with the girls who
are a little more level-headed, what do you say?

I appreciate you making it through this long email.

MY REPLY:

First of all, thanks for the awesome props on my material
and on the coaching you received over the phone
( http://www.getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html )
And my congrats to you, for putting in the mental work
and using the coaching to MAKE THE MENTAL JUMP TO
A COMPLETELY DIFFERENT UNIVERSE OF THINKING.

This is a MASSIVE step.
Suddenly you see the whole world of women
completely differently. It's going to hit you again
and again in many more situations with women,
each time it will be like a psychological tidal wave,
and each time it will hit a DEEPER realization.

(In fact, for my program on the ultra-powerful and
super-advanced "INNER MIND" components to success with
women, go HERE:http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html)

Your letter is especially worth noting because the
girl was a genuine "hot one" and that he was an
average looking dude with an athletic build; in
other words, his SKILL is what brought him out
on top.

And how did he ATTRACT this girl?
Did he try to bring her CLOSER to him?
No, as you clearly observed, he:

1."Was a  ******* pr*ck the whole night."!

2. He shows up an hour late.

3. He is SEXUAL.

He ESTABLISHES A SEXUAL FRAME in a playful but naughty way that is not TOO over the board:
"Damn, that's a short a%# skirt."

4. He TEASES her NON-MALICIOUSLY

And he is GOOD at it so that she sees his superiority but also LAUGHS and feels GOOD.

He says, "I've never been on a blind date.." She
starts to say, "Yeah, me neither..." but before
she can finish the statement, he teases her with
"And I don't know if I will again."
She looks at him and goes, "Oh my gawd," but she is
smirking and totally turned ON.

5. When she TESTS his CONGRUENCY, he is
CONSISTENT WITH HIS IMAGE AND DOES
NOT MELT.

She tests him by saying, "I think you're a d**k".

He LAUGHS in response.

He gets close to her and says:
"What you think...? you think...?"

This then forces her to say:
"Okay, fine you ARE a d(*&."

He just responds with a LAUGH.
CLEARLY he implies he does not need her,
yet since the way he did it is funny, it's not
coming across as a TOTAL JERK either.

This also prevents an argument, since he
AGREES with her statement by reframing
her "insult" as an actual COMPLIMENT.

Doing this is a sign of superiority which is
attractive, and yet he did it in a way that is
also funny to boot, which gets her in a more
receptive mood to ALL his actions.

6. HE INTELLIGENTLY TEASES HER SOME MORE

He later says, "I thought they would hook me
up with someone who was pretty."

Keep in mind she is CLEARLY attractive, and
thus would not be "ZAPPED" too hard by this,
since she KNOWS she is PRETTY, she just now
isn't so sure anymore that she is Heaven's
gift to mankind. (By the way, I hate using
numbers like 1 or 10 to indicate attraction
levels, but in this medium of cyberspace
these numbers often help us get to the point.)

7. HE KNOWS WHEN TO SHIFT GEARS

When it's clear that he indeed has her
attracted to him for quite a while, and
she is obviously no longer testing him
but being genuine when she tells him that
his teasing is getting out of hand, he 
GETS IT (the truth is, it would have
been better had he picked up on this a
little sooner and eased up on the teasing,
but at least he gets it when she POINTS
IT OUT TO HIM) and he realizes it's time
to "go a little more genuine and give her
that validation", BECAUSE NOW SHE IS
ACTUALLY ATTRACTED TO HIM, AND 
SO THEREFORE SHE ACTUALLY CRAVES 
HIS VALIDATION.

BEFORE SHE WAS ATTRACTED, SHE COULD NOT
CARE less about his validation.

So, now that he knows she VALUES his interest
in her, he first off smirks in a SUPERIOR
confident way, so that his next words will
not sound as if he is justifying his behavior,
will not sound "wussish", and he REFRAMES all
the prior teasing as HIM doing it all to
QUALIFY HER, when he says, "You know, I don't
like sheep, women that just do what others do,
so I had to see if you would stand up for
yourself, be different and not be a pushover
and you have.(stood up for yourself)".

This was almost GENIUS, if perhaps accidental
genius.

You see, he ALREADY made her attracted and
made her feel those emotions toward him by
the actions he did before, including the
teasing, but he later RELABELS the same
actions to serve a NEW purpose now:

You see, she is ALREADY attracted; it doesn't
matter if he now retroactively uses that
previous stuff he did to accomplish a NEW goal:
That goal is to now make her feel that she
has been SELECTED, that she has passed his
tests, which of course makes her fears of
being labeled "easy" go away, for this is no
"ordinary situation", it is now SPECIAL because
she has EARNED his validation and she has
passed HIS tests!!! He has made it seem like
he will not just sleep with any woman,
regardless of how attractive she is on
the outside.

Ahhh, so now she can feel more TRUST and
connection, as WELL as all the attraction.

As you described:
"She gives him a sultry look, bites her lower lip,
and says "So you do it on purpose?" And he says,
"Well yeah, but also because I know women like it."

I think he fumbled the ball a bit when he said,
"Also because I know women like it", it sounds
a bit wussish, but the truth is that even this
"fumble" might have been advantageous, because
he may have been SO AWESOMELY COOL in her mind
AT THIS POINT, that it might have made HER feel
that SHE was outclassed, so by lowering HIMSELF
a bit, and seeming a BIT like he was seeking her
validation and and women's validation in general,
it made him seem more REALISTIC, a bit vulnerable.
A bit more IDENTIFIABLE, like any compelling
character in a great movie.

I'd have to be there to observe how he said it,
because the idea of saying he said it, "because
women like it" can actually work in a different
way as well, almost in the opposite way but an
attractive way nonetheless, it can make him seem
to be real "bastard that women love" type, i.e.
he is not emotionally hung up on the whole thing,
he just does what works, ("women like it") which
can be kind of attractive as well, since he clearly
does not PERSONALLY feel that his self-esteem
depends on her approval, he simply does what works.

The bottom line is that he took a problem and solved
it by UNDERSTANDING intuitively what the situation
needed. In other words:

8. HE CREATED THE RIGHT AMOUNT OF SEXUAL TENSION

Not too much not too little, which gets us to her,
"Yeah whatever" in a total "I WANT YOU" type voice."

9. HE PHYSICALLY ESCALATED WHEN SHE WAS READY

"So they cut to the car ride home, in a taxi, and
they're makin' out."
He didn't act like he was not a sexual being, he
made it CLEAR and he ESCALATED physically,and he
didn't do it too early, but he certainly didn't
wait for the date to be over before taking action.

10. HE ENDS OFF BY SHOWING HER HE LIKES HER

This is important since after all she now clearly
WANTS him. So he is leaving her with HOPE.

He says, "Hey, it was fun, maybe we can do it again."
She of course responds, "You have my number, use it."

11. SHE VERIFIES THAT HE IS RIGHT ON TARGET

She tells the interviewer, "I kinda like it when
guys don't flatter me, I'll definitely go on a
second date if he calls, but he needs to know the
games will continue."

I repeat:
"I kinda like it when guys don't flatter me."

And:
SHE LIKES THE GAMES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So, your reading of the situation is right on.

She is SO CONFIDENT of her VALUE, that it's far
MORE flattering to her to get a guy who DOES NOT
flatter her so quickly...that way, much LATER
when she BEGS for the validation, it will mean
so much MORE to her, and then it really WILL
flatter her.

When she says she likes it when guys don't flatter
her, what she subconsciously means is that the guys
who TRY so hard to flatter her are NOT succeeding
in actually MAKING her feel flattered.

This is because, in her subconscious mind, the
very fact they are FLATTERING her so much is a
sign of THEM not being cool or desirable, or
they wouldn't FEEL the need to try so hard.

It would be DIFFERENT if the guy FIRST focused
on coming across as being DESIRABLE and got
HER attracted, and then LATER tried to flatter
her, since then the flattery would be MEANINGFUL
to her.
 
As I said, even the ultra hotties have some insecurity
issues of their own. In fact, I personally am attracted
to girls who are MORE secure because they tend to
be more emotionally stable and play less games, but
these emotionally secure girls are EXTREMELY rare.

Anyway, as you clearly understood, this dude "played
it perfect, he made her question whether she was all
that cool or skinny or hot and it put the pressure on
her to impress him. She was the one trying to get
his approval as the night went on, she didn't feel like
she was a princess the way she would have around
99% of other guys.

And right when she couldn't take it, or maybe she
was just playing, it doesn't matter, he gave her a
little self-esteem boost by validating her, to let
her know that she has passed some of HIS tests
and is showing potential in meeting his standards."

Bravo.

And remember, all the while he is still keeping her
laughing so he is never seeming bitter or inferior
and plus the laughing keeps the mood and the
atmosphere FUN.

And finally, to answer your questions:

"Does the jerk approach only work with girls
that are in the upper range, like the 9s and 10s?
I mean, what if a girl is real conservative, or a
small-town country girl, you know good values
and stuff, maybe never had sex or like 1 time
with a guy that she dated for 6 years, maybe
never dated anyone seriously, but she's also
real hot, won't she have more respect for herself
and be offended by the jerk approach?"

MY ANSWER:

The answer is that definitely for the 9's 10's, in
general you have to shake up their reality and
make them feel the challenge to their "identity
of superiority", make them work to try to get
YOU to validate THEM. And of course, the very
fact they are TRYING to get you to validate them
is proof of attraction. It IS attraction.

If she is really conservative, small town, etc, it's
POSSIBLE she MIGHT be a candidate for a slightly
softer approach, but still, not as "soft" as you
might think. These women know the score, and
they get "spoiled" fast. So you have to CALIBRATE,
(measure the degree to how hard/easy you have to go)
by testing her reactions to things, reading her reactions
to things such as what you say and do. You get better
at this with experience.

Your second question:

"Likewise, say a girl has been cheated on a bunch
and dated about 10 jerks in her life. When she
decides to "settle down," because she hears her
biological clock ticking, won't she have learned
that the jerks don't change and end up going for
maybe a llittle bit older, overweight, financially
secure guy that she will refer to as "her sweetie,
who is so good to her," or something to that effect?"
MY ANSWER:

Ahhhh yes, very very often, AFTER SHE HAS
been with ten thousand guys and run the party
circuit to the ground and she is no longer a
prime commodity.

(okay I'm exaggerating a bit for comedy
effect here, but I want to make a point)
and she has been SUPPOSEDLY "hurt
and dumped" and the jerks would never
have her, she "gets smart" (she was
"smart" ALL ALONG, in fact that's why
she only "got smart" when her looks
were fading and her biological clock
started ticking), and she goes for the
"nicer guy" that you described because
that is what she NEEDS to settle down,
because the other jerky fun guys would
NEVER settle down with her, especially
because these guys sense the FULL
EXTENT OF THE TRUTH about her since
THEY WERE THE TYPES OF GUYS she
was with.

So of course these guys can't be fooled
and aren't about to give SECURITY and
RESPECT and COMMITMENT to a girl
like that.

So these women have to find a "nice" naive guy to
take advantage of, and who will act SO HAPPY
to be with her. Almost makes you puke, huh?
Yeah, me too. Or it used to, to be accurate.

This is why it's SO IMPORTANT TO HAVE
THE SKILLS of attraction.
It's like being in shape, you don't have
to be in shape because you are planning
on some emergency. Being in shape
just helps you do everything better.

Similarly, having the skills with women
will also help you avoid the wrong women,
for many reasons, not only because of the
skills of DETECTING character which you
will learn, but ALSO because when you
have tons of CHOICES of women you aren't
vulnerable to feeling NEEDY. 

So often, men end up going for the worst
abusive women simply because they feel
so needy that ANY woman is a big deal
in their minds, even a woman who lacks
integrity of character.
Having the skills of attraction helps you
SENSE what's really going on so you can
know the difference between a great girl
and a girl who is PRETENDING to be one.

Your skills enable you to DETECT this kind of
stuff a lot better than your average joe. And of
course, since the skills make you far more
attractive, you will not be so easily used by
any woman, because the skills help you make a
woman WANT to treat you well.

Your final question:

"My opinion is that a two-pronged approach
works best. Be the more intense busting
type with women who know they're "commodities",
and be a teasing charmer (like you were in the
bookstore with the two women) with the girls who
are a little more level-headed, what do you say?"

MY ANSWER:

It's all about how DESIRABLE the girl thinks
YOU are and also how she feels about HERSELF.

So to a girl who doesn't think she is so great,
then this lower self-esteem girl will feel that
a guy who IS more of a "nice guy" to be more
valuable than a guy who is a massive smartaleck
because she feels the smartaleck IS IMPOSSIBLE
FOR HER TO GET, therefore she CUTS OFF IN HER
MIND THE POSSIBILITY OF BEING WITH HIM, so
she doesn't feel ANYthing for him.

A woman with lower self esteem doesn't feel
"challenged" by a guy who is cool, she feels
STOMPED ON.

It's like a woman who is a 10 being MEAN
to a a guy who feels he is a 1.

This doesn't feel "challenging" to him, it
just feels horrible.

But if she was NICE to him, he feels maybe
it's possible.

So it's all about calibrating the woman in front
of you and knowing WHEN to use WHAT.

And if are reading this right now, let me
assure you that the strategies used by the
man in this newsletter, to successfully
make a genuine ULTRA-HOTTIE go from calling
him "a d**k" to then wanting him so bad that
she tells me "You have my number, use it."
are all REAL-WORLD attraction strategies that
men who are successful with women use ALL
the time.

These aren't random strategies, they have
been heavily researched and proven to WORK
to attract the kind of women that make
most men MELT.

And in my ATTRACTION MASTERY program, you
will learn ALL of these strategies and
insights plus HUNDREDS more, and you will
learn them in FULL DEPTH.  What you read
in these newsletters is just a GLIMPSE
of the FULL CONTENT you will find in this
program.  The newsletter is just a PINHOLE
view of the ENTIRE UNIVERSE of PROVEN
attraction strategies that you will get
in my Attraction Mastery Program.

There are TONS of women out there, right now.
You probably passed by some hot ones today.

Those were all opportunities to attract them.

Let me ask you a question:
What if this program only ended up helping
you to land ONE incredible HOTTIE?

Just ONE truly ASTONISHINGLY beautiful creature.

Wouldn't it be worth it?

And I'm telling you that this program has
TONS of super-effective strategies that
you can use to attract INFINITE beautiful
women.

Plus, this program can be downloaded to
you INSTANTLY.

You can start using it IMMEDIATELY.

It contains approximately 12 HOURS of pure
GOLD on the most effective strategies for
attracting the women you want.

Download it immediately by going here now: 

http://getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

This special program was developed from YEARS
of conducting live attraction bootcamps in the
REAL WORLD, in tons of venues from bookstores
to clubs to the street.

The program is also the result of YEARS of
helping guys get their desired results with
women LONG-TERM as well, working with 
THOUSANDS of satisfied clients in all types of
different situations.

You can check out some of my work proving
the power of these strategies in REAL LIFE
by clicking here:

Real Life Proof As Reported In Major Newspapers

Till next time,

Michael Marks