How To Show CONFIDENCE To Women

I have some MAJOR points on how to IMMEDIATELY skyrocket your success with women that I want to share with you today, especially regarding how to show CONFIDENCE to women, which is of PARAMOUNT importance.

First of all, by the way, if you haven’t yet downloaded my brand-spanking new “mini-book” on how to be successful with women today, then DO THAT NOW- DO IT IMMEDIATELY. 

This book CUTS PAST ALL THE BULLSHIT, and gets straight to what you actually need to DO and KNOW to start getting IMMEDIATE SUCCESS with women.

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Next, I want to REMIND you of something that is EARTH-SHATTERINGLY important when it comes to women, and that is the following:

YOU MUST MAKE THE MOST POWERFUL FIRST IMPRESSION POSSIBLE IMMEDIATELY THROUGH YOUR BODY LANGUAGE AND TONALITY.

When it comes to feeling attraction for you, WOMEN INTERPRET EVERYTHING YOU DO THROUGH A FILTER THAT IS VERY DIFFERENT THAN WHAT YOU THINK IT IS.

Their interpretation of your behaviors will either IGNITE their attraction or EXTINGUISH it.

And, this is of even more SUPREME importance in making a FIRST IMPRESSION.

So let me be SPECIFIC.

When you are talking to a woman, or meeting her for the first time, or on the first date, she is actually being MASSIVELY INFLUENCED by the things you are DOING, often subconsciously, such as:

• Making fidgety movements. 
• Touching your face.
• Squinting.
• Speaking too fast.
• Not speaking clearly.
• Speaking in too quiet a voice tone, almost being inaudible.
• Eyes darting around rather than looking at her straight in the eyes.
• And so on and so forth.

Notice how all this so far has NOTHING to do with even the actual WORDS you are SAYING. 

And what REALLY used to drive me NUTS, to the point of my blood boiling, is how the GOOD GUYS, who so often CARE ABOUT WOMEN, who are NOT the rapists, who are NOT the abusers, who are the ones who actually LOVE women, and would not harm a FLY---

---Well, it’s THOSE GOOD GUYS who get SHAFTED, because since they CARE SO MUCH, they tend to EXHIBIT the signs of being nervous through behaviors like the ones I listed ABOVE.

And there is NO MERCY in this world when it comes to this stuff.

Most of the time, you only get ONE chance with a new woman who is a stranger, and FIRST impressions are the MOST powerful anyway.

The good guys get EATEN ALIVE and THROWN TO THE DOGS, while the most ABUSIVE MEN who are SUPER SELFISH and couldn’t give a RAT’S ASS ABOUT ANYONE, well they end up coming across as SUPER CONFIDENT, and of course this ATTRACTS women- initially. (In the end, no relationship can last when someone doesn't care about the other.)

It all works on a very PRIMAL level. 

THIS is why I get so pissed off at things like third wave feminism that have spent generations trying to BRAINWASH men into becoming MORE AND MORE SENSITIVE, LESS POWERFUL EMOTIONALLY, LESS POWERFUL FINANCIALLY, LESS POWERFUL ACADEMICALLY, LESS POWERFUL IN EVERY WAY....

...While at the SAME time INCREASING WOMEN’S POWER to the point of having a society where women are dominating the men, and then the women COMPLAINING that there are no men around who are interesting to them except the jerks. 

Do you feel me here?

I am SWEARING to you that this is no joke, and that women ARE attracted, and ONLY attracted, on that primal level, to men who behave like PRIMAL MEN. 

So, the FIRST THING you can do this SECOND is to start PAYING ATTENTION to your body language and STOP any of the behaviors mentioned above. 

You WILL ABSOLUTELY notice an IMMEDIATE and MASSIVE improvement in your interactions with women, and THIS is the reason why. 

And please, don’t BOTHER ASKING women about this, because if they have to tell you, then they won’t feel attracted to you. They want a man who already KNOWS all this.

Now, here’s something to REMEMBER.

As SIMPLE as this sounds, as SIMPLE as the above advice is, to, for example, NOT make fidgety movements, to NOT touch your face or dart your eyes, or any of the other examples of wrong behavior, the fact is, MOST GUYS will ABSOLUTELY STILL engage in some of those wrong behaviors. 

This is because it is UNCONSCIOUS. 

And it all stems from one thing- PLACING TOO MUCH WEIGHT ON THE WOMAN’S IMPORTANCE RATHER THAN YOUR OWN. 

And guys try ALL KINDS OF THINGS to escape this problem, but usually what happens is OVERCOMPENSATION, so they will act MEAN or act COLD, and that is NOT effective either, and actually shows the SAME problem, because it STILL stems from placing too much importance on the woman on an instinctive level inside you.

So you have to be RUTHLESS with yourself. 

WATCH your voice tonality.

MONITOR yourself for how your voice pitch is rising out of nervousness.

STOP yourself from making the fidgety movements. 

And the greatest thing about all this is that it will end up CHANGING THE WAY YOU FEEL as well.

The body and mind are INTER-CONNECTED, so changing the way you use your body and voice tone actually CHANGES the way you FEEL, to the point that you STOP placing more importance on HER value and you actually genuinely DO feel more important, more valuable, more worthy, than HER.

And lest this sound “mean” against women, allow me to remind you it is NOT, because actually, the IRONY is that women DESIRE men who are confident and FUN so much that MANY, MANY, MANY WOMEN would rather, and I am not exaggerating here, they would RATHER have a man who is TRULY CONFIDENT and who MIGHT cheat on them than have a man who is SO CAREFUL AND NICE and would absolutely NEVER cheat on them.

You MUST remember this, because in our FEMINIST culture that BOMBARDS you with bullshit advice and bullshit propaganda about how all they want is a NICE MAN who gives THEM the power, it then becomes IMPOSSIBLE for most men to EVER exude the confidence and power that women actually FIND ATTRACTIVE IN MEN.

Now, what you have just read here, as IMPORTANT AND POWERFUL as it is, is just SCRATCHING THE SURFACE of an entire UNIVERSE of important truth that you must know if you want to be successful with women. 

If you want MAXIMUM success with women, including how to find and attract the kind of woman that won’t BULLSHIT you with feminist nonsense, then you MUST get my LATEST book NOW. 

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/no-bullshit-book-on-women.html

And to learn how to approach and attract women IN PERSON from me, as I coach you in real life on women in all sorts of venues from cafes to supermarkets and everywhere else, go HERE:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Sexual Tension And The TRUTH About Things Like Valentine's Day, Romance, And Giving Women What They Really Want

Today is Valentine’s Day and everywhere you
look now, you hear the word “romance” and
romantic, etc, etc.

But what REALLY is “romance”?

What makes women really FEEL that they are
experiencing an earth-shaking ROMANCE?

One of the MAJOR keys to this is something
known as SEXUAL TENSION.

Sexual tension is the FOUNDATION for every

effective romantic story from the beginning of

time right up till today.

The best way to understand sexual tension is
to see it as the OBSTACLE between FEELING
sexual desire and being able to FULFILL that
feeling.

The OBSTACLE is what actually makes the
desire even STRONGER.

In the classic story of Romeo and Juliet, the
OBSTACLE between them is that they come
from enemy families.

In the movie Titanic, Jack and Rose are
separated by CLASS.

The element of sexual tension is so powerful
that TONS of stories incorporate it into their
MAIN story. 

Of course, this is the case as well in the
story and film 50 Shades of Grey - in fact
the whole ESSENCE of the male lead in the
story is that he's  is not "a hearts and flowers
kind of guy".

He is the proverbial guy referred to by the quote:
"I'm the guy your mother warned you about."

Since he's NOT a "hearts and flowers guy",
he is NOT easy to get.  Thus, there is
TENSION.  

Plus, of course, rather than be politically correct,
he actually is assertive in bed and not into things
like typical feminism, to say the least.

And women vote with their wallets, since this book
has been a best-seller for women and has been
translated into over 50 languages.

Of course, the press and most media and of course
feminist groups will say how horrible it all is, but
in the end, actions speak, and they the truth speaks
volumes. 

Ironically, it is the feminist brainwashing of men
to KISS UP and to do the OPPOSITE of sexual
tension that actually ROBS women of the chance
to feel DESIRE for most men!

Now don't get me wrong, it's not about being
ABUSIVE, just about making things INTERESTING
enough to get a woman LONGING for you,
CRAVING for you.

In the film Top Gun, the chemistry between Maverick
and the sexy older female flight instructor (Charlie)
is HEATED UP by the fact they should NOT
be engaging in a non-professional relationship.

This obstacle makes it HARDER for them to
get together, so that when they finally DO,
they are EVEN MORE nuts about each
other and the passion then explodes in
full force!

Sexual tension always works because we always 

APPRECIATE something MORE when we 

DON’T get it easily.

In fact, today I saw an interview with a couple that
has been happily married for over 40 years. They
are still in love and still hold hands.

When asked what he thinks is the reason so many
people can’t make relationships work today, his
answer was simple: “They have it too good”.

He and his wife met after having both their families
entirely wiped out during WWII. They were so
happy to both have a chance to live a life, that they
both APPRECIATED the opportunity enough to
never take it for granted.

By the way, of course, this is NOT to say that you should
STICK with someone who is not treating you right or
where there's genuinely no compatibility. 

And, I’m not saying that everyone has to put
themselves through SUFFERING in order to
really PUMP UP the maximum amount of
DESIRE, however it IS crucial to understand
that the more POWER someone has, the LESS
likely he or she is to think something is so great.

So, if you take a typical attractive woman who grew up
in a feminist society, the fact is, when it comes to
CHOICE of men, she feels NO TENSION AT ALL
because men are KISSING UP ALL THE TIME to her. 

Most men make it SO easy for women, that it’s 
not FUN for these women.

There’s no DYNAMIC in place to help these hotties
experience the CHALLENGE so that they can then
ENJOY the REWARD of getting that man!

So THAT is why it’s so important that IF you want
to get a super-hottie, you have to step OUT of your
mind set and into HER mind-set, just to EXPERIENCE
what that really FEELS like and MEANS.

Listen, I really LOVE the idea of being in a
great relationship. I LOVE romance.

The problem is most men think of ROMANCE in terms
of how good it would be to GET the woman, not in terms
of how much fun it would be make the PROCESS exciting.

That’s because the typical guy’s mindset is that
just GETTING her would be ENOUGH!

There is such a SCARCITY mindset, that indeed,
he WOULD appreciate her and be happy!

He's flying on a different mental ALTITUDE

than the woman is!  They are on two different

dimensions, different plains of existence, they 

can't VIBE with each other.

However, if he really KNEW he could get
LOTS of women, then he would make the
PROCESS of getting a woman a lot more
FUN for both her AND him.

This would be because he would not feel
the need to try to ACCELERATE the process
of “winning her over”, and IRONICALLY
this in itself IS the accelerator of getting her
won over!

So what are some examples of OBSTACLES
that you can create that BLOCK a woman from
“getting you” even as you also simultaneously
chase her?

One example includes PLAYFUL TEASING.

Now, it’s important to calibrate this properly:

If you meet a woman who is not very confident,
you will HURT her feelings and make her feel
INSECURE.

If you meet a woman who is SUPER CONFIDENT,
she will EAT IT UP and love you for it because
she finally feels that element of challenge.

So for example, I remember being on the bus once
and this super hottie got on, and she was taking
forever to find her change for the fare.

So while their was this awkward silence, I just
had fun with it, and told her that I bet she does
this on every route, stalling till it’s time to get
off the bus, and that she hasn’t paid the fare in
years!

She went from having this uncomfortable look on
her face, to at first having her jaw drop, then look
at me, then protest that it’s not true, and then she
MELTED into a smile and I told her that I’d
be willing to sit with her to keep her company
since no one else really wanted to talk to her
type.

This was a MIXED type of message, since on
one hand OBVIOUSLY I am not being mean
because it’s not TRUE, but on the other hand
it’s the kind of thing that is NOT what most
guys’ INSTINCT tells them to do.

Their INSTINCT tells them to try to HELP her,
i.e. possibly pay her fare for her, or to try to
console her and help her NOT get embarrassed.

But they forget that this woman is in many ways

a POWERHOUSE.

Yes, she has feelings.
Yes, she should not be mistreated.

However, when you are dealing with a POWERHOUSE,
YOU DON’T HAVE TO TREAT HER WITH THE
KID-GLOVES!

It’s not FUN for her.

Imagine if you were Superman and the only sports
teams you could play against were HUMAN.

It wouldn’t be FUN.
You wouldn’t enjoy WINNING.
You’d want to play against some SUPER BAD-ASSES.

That way, WINNING would MEAN something.

Here’s another point about sexual tension:

It’s not just in your WORDS.

Rather, it is applied to EVERYTHING you do.

So, for example, if you are on a date with a woman,
there can be SUBTLE sexual tension simply by
sitting together on the edge of your bed, and talking
about ANYTHING.

The mere fact you and her are on the BED together
while you DON’T try to jump her bones is actually
a lot HOTTER than if you immediately tried to
get all naked with her.

It’s a subtle look on your expression, in your tonality,
that implies you KNOW things are sexual, but that
you are not going to tell her exactly when it’s going
to happen.

You aren’t making yourself that EASY.
It's 'so close, yet so far'.

The fact that physical intimacy is so CLOSE
but that you are NOT jumping on the opportunity
makes it all the more DESIRABLE.

Of course, this only works if it's ALSO clear that
you are not lacking the CONFIDENCE to make
a move.

It must be clear from your overall behavior
with her that it is your DECISION to hold
back, and it's not the fear of rejection.

It's you being in control of your desire
and not a slave to it.

By the way, I learned some of this from women
a long time ago.

I remember one girl who would be in middle of
making out, and then PURPOSELY talk about
something completely different, and playfully
say, “Want to play CHESS? Chess is a good game!”

She KNEW that by STOPPING the physical,
it only made the desire STRONGER and
made me even MORE NUTS about her.

It's a "sweet torture", and most women really
DO love to GET this.

I doubt that she knew that there is actually a term
for this proven psychological principle at play here,
and it is called FRACTIONATION.

Fractionation is when you split up the sexual actions
over TIME rather than going for it all at ONCE.

By STOPPING, and then RE-ENGAGING a few
minutes LATER, or even a few MOMENTS later,
especially when you make it so that she can’t fully
KNOW when you are going to start again, you
INTENSIFY the sexual experience for her.

Of course, once she is GRINDING against you
hard-core, you should probably dive into sex
with her with wild abandon!

You can incorporate this into your initial
approach with her as well. For example,
giving her a HUG when she tells you
something that you approve of, i.e. that
she has the entire ROCKY collection at
home! Then, in middle of the hug, you
can STOP it before she can expect, and
say, “WAIT! I don’t KNOW you yet!
Slow down!”

The key here is to be operating from a standpoint
of GOODWILL, CONFIDENCE, ADVENTURE,
and FUN.

This is NOT about how to HURT a woman.
Remember, in order to make this all work, you
must be careful to GAUGE her reactions and
ADJUST to what actually makes it FUN for her.

Here’s the other thing:
The more that YOU YOURSELF can enter the
same kind of POWERHOUSE mentality that
SHE has, the BETTER you will do, and the
MORE YOU WILL ACTUALLY ENJOY
life too!

And if you’d like to learn MORE about this
and TONS of crucial RELATED concepts
to SKYROCKETING women’s attraction
to you, you can now check out a free audio
sample of my Attraction Mastery Program at:

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It WILL change EVERYTHING when it comes
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The Attraction Mastery Program is a workhorse,
it keeps giving you PURE GOLD strategies and
insights on attraction, and then keeps giving you
even MORE.

It’s TEN HOURS of cream of the crop attraction
technology for getting the most incredible women
on the planet.

Once again, it’s at:

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And if you haven't yet downloaded my program
"Attraction Accelerators" then definitely
do that now, as it goes together PERFECTLY
with the Attraction Mastery Program.

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/attraction-accelerators.html

And of course, for my BOOTCAMP PROGRAM where I will
teach you IN THE FIELD, go HERE:

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Attracting Women: "Seeing Is Not Believing" Part II

If you remember, I have mentioned before
that “seeing is not believing”.

What I mean by this, is that although to a
degree yes it is true that seeing is believing,
on a deeper level what often happens is
that we only see what we already believe.

So, for example, if a guy does not believe
that a woman really wants him to talk to
her, or that a woman really is attracted to
him, he will REINTERPRET all her
positive actions and behaviors toward
him as actually something NEGATIVE
or at best neutral.

And of course, this kind of lack of belief
results in a man showing behaviors that
indicate this lack of belief, such as weaker
eye contact, wishy-washy voice tonality
and actions that don’t seem to resonate
with full confidence and conviction, etc.

So all that means that a woman ultimately
will not feel attraction or will lose attraction
for the guy, and now the man confirms his
own negative beliefs.

This is NOT a joke, and it is not a simple thing.
And it affects HUNDREDS OF MILLIONS of
men around the world, especially in a world where
that like to make men think they are somehow
doing something wrong by even CHATTING
to a woman and showing INTEREST in her.

This is where I come in.  When you take my
bootcamp, I am going to do TWO things. 
Yes, you will SEE results with women,
I’m going to make sure of it.  On TOP
of this, though, my bootcamp will involve
a serious INNER GAME component as well,
to make sure that you don’t just SEE, but
that you also BELIEVE on deep level your
full power to attract women.

I don’t care how advanced a guy is in this
area, the day he stops BELIEVING  is the
day he loses his skill.

Since day ONE, I have been the absolute
most committed, dedicated professional in
this area, absolutely REPULSED by gimmicks
and by manipulative techniques, and I have
instead focused on DEEP INNER GAME
and developing men’s deep sense of confidence,
comfort, security, and empowerment with women.

This is why, I have never been about the pick-up
lines, routines, or abusive manipulative tactics,
EVER.

My bootcamps are EXCLUSIVE and PRIVATE.
That means TOTAL focus on YOU, allowing
you a MASSIVELY ACCELERATED CURVE
of learning compared to bootcamps where an
instructor’s time is split over several students.

Most importantly, though, my bootcamps are taught
by me, which means you are getting the absolute
gold standard in dedication, experience, and quality
instruction.

You will SEE results with women, and you will
also develop the BELIEF, so that you can take
your skills with you long after bootcamp.

Bootcamp will change your LIFE.
Right now, there are women out there, attractive
women, whose futures are still OPEN, open to
being with YOU.  It’s just up to you now to
get the training to make it HAPPEN.

This is the absolute best time to do bootcamp.
For full details, email me or check out my site
at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

I suggest that you don’t wait forever to make
your decision.  Time has a horrifying way of
slipping by too quickly, and so often in life, by
the time you decide you must take action, the
opportunity has gone. For example, my prices
may go up in September, and the waiting list
and wait times for my bootcamps are getting
longer.

Contact me and reserve a bootcamp TODAY,
while you still can. It will change your LIFE.
   
Till next time,

Michael Marks  

How To Be The Calm Man Women Want

In the last newsletter, I discussed a LOT

on the importance of CALM and the deep

attraction power it has in drawing women

into you.

I received some questions asking if I could

get more into the HOW to become this kind

of person, how to get into that state, how to

stay in that state of mind, and also how to

not crack, especially under pressure from

a woman.

So there are a few things I need to say about all

this. Obviously, I get into the DETAILS in my

program, called ‘Warrior Within’, at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

At the same time, I can introduce some of the

important “HOW TO’s’ here, but keep in mind

this is low-level detail here, and my actual

programs go into true depth.

Also, my programs go into depth on how to

DETECT the right and wrong kind of women

in the first place, as well.

If a woman is constantly making you feel like

you are about to crack and lose your sense of

calm, then either one of two things is happening:

Either she is the wrong woman, or you need to do

more work on yourself to stay in the calm state of

mind so that you are not distorting things she

is doing or saying to mean something bad when she

is actually not doing or saying anything bad.

So, for example, and by the way I am not judging

anyone as I used to make the same mistakes, for

example, if one is in the insecure state of mind,

then it will INTERPRET everything a woman does

in a negative and distorted way.

If, for example, a woman says something like.

“You’re crazy” to you, depending on how she says it,

it COULD mean a compliment in the sense of you are

so above average, or work so much harder than

others, or are so GOOD, that you are CRAZY GOOD,

CRAZY AWESOME, CRAZY AMAZING.  However, it COULD mean

an insult, but only when you are CALM and SECURE

can you see the TRUTH. 

When feeling INSECURE, all actions and statements

will be interpreted in a way that seems HARMFUL,

NASTY, MEAN, OR THREATENING.  

On the other hand, when feeling SECURE, you will

see the GOOD STUFF when a woman means good,

and even if some woman is sick in the head and

saying something mean, you will see through it

and often INTERPRET IT as a compliment, which

is such a powerful sign of security and strength

and calm on your part, it will actually ATTRACT

that woman even more, although I suggest staying

away from women that are not treating you with

respect, no matter how attracted those women are.

The whole idea of CALM is actually more vital so

that you don’t screw things up with a GOOD WOMAN,

a woman that is feeling attraction to you and that

wants to be with you long-term, etc.

So here are some ways to GET CALM, and STAY CALM.

ONE: BREATHING

Yup, let’s start with something vital and basic.

Take long, slow, deep breaths.

Hold the breath for a few seconds.

Then, let the breath out sloooowly for a few

more seconds, till you have expelled all the air.

Regarding the breathing, breathe in deeply and
slowly through your nose.
Hold that breath for a few moments.

Then, exhale slowly through your mouth.

Repeat this for about a minute or two.

If you actually TRY this, you will see how

powerful this is.

The tragic truth is that most people will NOT do this,

this simple, basic, and effective strategy, because

the problem is that when people are not feeling

calm, they tend to NOT WANT TO FEEL CALM, they

are so brainwashed by their own emotions, that

they think they actually SHOULD NOT BEEEEEE CALM!

But the truth is, that being calm is essential for

success in attracting women, because it says so  

much about who you are, and it also helps the

woman feel calm around you, and it also helps

you take the right actions, because your actions

and thoughts tend to flow from how you FEEL,

so that is why it is so important that you focus

on feeling calm.

So that’s a super-effective EASY strategy, that

is more for IMMEDIATE use.

There are other, longer-term strategies that go

DEEPER into changing and improving your

HARD-WIRING, and take more practice, and

are a little more advanced.

TWO: MINDFULNESS

Mindfulness is a practice that has been in

existence for thousands of years,  and only

in recent years has science actually caught

up and proven as well as documented the

effectiveness of it in achieving superior states

of mind, especially the calm state.

The key to mindfulness is to learn to zero in

on the present experience in a non-judgmental

and open  way that allows for acceptance.

What this means is that rather than having

emotional reactions to things, you instead

go DEEP INTO THE ACTUAL SENSATION

of whatever it is that you are experiencing and

you actually simply EXPERIENCE IT AS A

SENSATION, rather than INTERPRETING

IT AS NEGATIVE. (or even positive, because

the whole point of mindfulness is to focus

on the sensation and accept it without judgement,

experience it for what it IS, which is simply

a sensation, it does not have to MEAN

anything else, it is JUST a sensation, no

matter how powerful it might FEEL.)

This is DEEP stuff, it goes DEEP within,

and is something I delve into in my program

(along with other deep strategies) called

‘Warrior Within’, at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

THREE: REFRAMING/CHANGING THE

WAY YOU THINK ABOUT IT

The third strategy I want to mention is

REFRAMING and changing your PERCEPTION

of a moment or experience.

This is also extremely powerful, and it’s also

not like the various strategies can’t work together

in some ways as well.

One KEY aspect of changing the way you think

about things involves  FINDING the DISTORTIONS

in your INTERPRETATION of things.

So, for example, if you approach a woman and she

responds, but doesn’t respond with a huge smile, 

you MIGHT be thinking “Oh, she for sure doesn’t

want to talk to me, she’s probably thinking I’m

psycho, or weird, and she probably wants me to leave”.

So, you have to realize that this type of thinking is

probably a distortion of truth, and the result of

something called “all or nothing” thinking, also

known as “black and white” thinking, (which is in

itself another important area to understand) where

the ONLY good response to you is if a woman goes

ECSTATIC for you, and anything other than ECSTATIC

in the first moment is interpreted as DISASTROUS.

In reality, a woman may VERY WELL BE INTERESTED

in you, or getting to know you, but she might

simply be trying to show she is not promiscuous,

that she is not easy, that she is not open to

just talking to every single guy.

She may want you to continue, but also want

you to realize that she needs you to take it

slowly with her, before she can open up more.

What you have just read here is the TIP of

the ICEBERG of what you will find in my

DVD program, called WARRIOR WITHIN.

You will find TONS MORE on the most POWERFUL

strategies for getting over internal obstacles

that stop you from being your BEST with women,

your most CONFIDENT, your most SECURE, your

most POWERFUL version of yourself, and you

will find super-effective strategies for

getting yourself to TAKE ACTION with women

as well.

You will also find the most effective ways to

DETECT a woman’s personality and values so

that you only put your energy into the RIGHT

women who will ENHANCE your life.  

Don’t wait for the YEARS to go by without

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How To Become FEARLESS With Women

Today is just a really simple, brief, yet
SUPER IMPORTANT point that you need to know
if you are going to be successful when you
approach women, especially women who are
total strangers.

I'm talking about going up to a woman and getting
a "BAD" result.

Now, the truth is, even though a so-called "bad"
result where a woman does not reply, or somehow
replies with a rude response, is really NOTHING
to worry about, the fact is that EMOTIONALLY
it can seem like a LOT.

I USED to get all hung up on these kinds of things,
so I would be insanely careful about ONLY approaching
when I felt things were perfect and all the stars
had lined up, etc., so that I could be pretty sure
I would get a good response.

I was SO WORRIED about "failing" that it was
to be avoided at all costs.

And then, one day, after having some successes
spaced out over a great deal of time from being
SUPER CAREFUL, I went up to a woman on the
subway, and started to chat with her, but she was
acting as if I had just propositioned her for
something out of a porno, and as if I had expected
that we should do it right then and there.

I don't remember exactly what I said, but I do remember
it was pretty innocent, and I do remember in particular
that her response was something like, "Sir, this is very
inappropriate!"

And the STRANGEST thing happened inside of me.

At first, I was about to get a panic attack.
I was thinking OH MY GOSH, EVERYONE CAN
SEE AND HEAR THIS GOING DOWN!!!

But then, the next moment, I became overwhelmed
with this sense of being LIBERATED from fear.

THIS was the thing that everyone had said
was to be DREADED!

So there I was, going through this supposedly
terrible thing, and yet I was still existing!

The universe did NOT cease to exist!

So, instead of getting all nervous, or apologetic,
I just felt so FREE, because it was the WORRY
that had been bogging me down.

You don't need to even start with having CONFIDENCE with women.  Instead, it's enough to simply NOT BE WORRIED about gaining HER approval.

Now, without the worry, realizing that this
supposedly terrible situation is really NOTHING,
I actually became really UPBEAT, realizing in
my mind how much I could REALLY do with women
now that this "worry" thing about women's reactions
was no longer an issue.

Even in THAT particular moment, I went playful
and actually gave her a sly smile, and to the
couple of people watching (I realized that in
fact only one or two people were actually
watching since in real life no one CARES
one way or the other about this stuff) I
just playfully said "She doesn't really have
social skills!".

I walked off that subway and realized there
were MILLIONS more women that I could try
this stuff on, and that it didn't even have
to feel like anything except LOADS OF FUN!

And very quickly after, my results actually
IMPROVED, and it took LESS EFFORT since I
no longer WORRIED about the response, I was
just focusing on doing the best I could in
a way that was ENJOYABLE for me as well.

So I stopped SELF-CENSORING every thought I had,
and I actually was able to unleash ten times the
HUMOR I did previously.  I never was mean-spirited,
but prior to that time I was super-worried that
maybe a woman might not GET my humor. 

All that worry and trying to please women too much
just STIFLED my humor, it STIFLED my personality,
it SHUT DOWN the mojo!!!!

But NOT WORRYING ABOUT THAT STUFF actually LIBERATED
all the humor, the mojo, the personality!

I wasn't afraid to push the envelope farther,
and I was able to see PRIME opportunities for
escalating things physically and to capitalize
on them BEFORE the moment of opportunity was
gone.

Do you know what I mean? When you think
so much about doing the perfect thing to
not screw up, that the MOMENT OF OPPORTUNITY
is actually GONE by the time you figure it
all out?

When you're not worried about rejection, because it does not make you anxious, you actually end up not only taking MORE actions with women, but you ALSO end up taking much BETTER actions with women.

So it is not just that you take ACTION, which is important as well or you are not even "in the game" so to speak. And it's not just that you take FASTER action so you act before  the moment is gone.

It's that you ALSO end up taking the BEST actions when you are not bogged down with fear.  FEAR is to your MIND like a VIRUS is on a computer; it ends up using up your mental and emotional resources and it results in POOR performance. 

So my message to you is this: Sometimes the most
LIBERATING thing that can happen to you is going
through an INTENSE and WILD so-called "rejection".

Once you've been through an INTENSE "rejection", you
realize that NO future interaction could be as "bad", and
you thus become FEARLESS in your interactions with
women, allowing the cool elements of your personality
to truly SHINE without fear of judgement.

What you've just read, as important as it is, is just the
TIP of the ICEBERG, and if you want to learn MORE
about successfully approaching and attracting women
ANYWHERE, I seriously suggest you get my program
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Till next time,

Michael Marks 

How To Get Over "Approach Anxiety" And Meet As Many Women As You Want

If you are able to take advantage of all the
opportunities to approach women that are
out and about EVERYWHERE, you really
have access to an almost INFINITE supply
of women, more women than you could
ever have time for in a thousand lifetimes. 

But the key is, actually APPROACHING
these women.

That's why I want to focus on ONE thing today,
a thing called APPROACH ANXIETY.

There are many things that I teach regarding
STRATEGIES and CONCEPTS that are all about
ATTRACTING a woman.

However, even if a man KNOWS all these
strategies, he may STILL feel the ANXIETY
that STOPS him from actually APPROACHING
a woman he really wants to approach.

Let me ask you a question:
How many times a WEEK do you see women
you'd love to approach, and you HESITATE?

How many times do you let them slip away
without approaching them?

Personally, from my own experience, I
found that when I did NOT approach
the women I wanted to approach, I
always felt WAY WORSE than even if
I HAD approached and it had NOT
gone so well, because at least I
KNEW I didn't just let an opportunity
pass me by.

I would drive myself up the WALL wondering
"What if it HAD worked, what if I had tried???"
"What if she was the ONE????"  

I could TOLERATE it if some chick said NO
to me, but I couldn't tolerate it when I
MYSELF didn't take the action to approach,
because then I constantly WONDERED what would
have happened, and I would blame myself.

So it's very important to understand approach
anxiety can very much be it's OWN thing,
regardless of all the other strategies one
may have mastered for attracting women.

Allow me to share with you a MAJOR insight:

How many times have you been told that to
get over the fear of approaching a woman,
you must "confront" the fear and just approach
her? How many times have you been told to
"just do it"?

But of course, what happens when one tries
to confront this fear?

Yes, you already know the answer:
What happens is the fear actually INCREASES!

It's not like men have never TRIED to confront
this fear!

So telling a guy "you have to confront this fear,
you have to just go up and do it" is NOT going
to help!

As bad as AVOIDING approaching women is, if one
is experiencing the fear, the avoidance strategy
STILL feels a lot better than actually APPROACHING
a woman, where the fear INCREASES!

So you probably already TRIED confronting this,
and the confronting only made you feel MORE
stress, right?

So it's only NORMAL to feel that the best
thing is to just AVOID it altogether. After
all, the mind is rational, it wants to prevent
pain.

But HERE'S what you need to know:
The reality is that when you first confront
this fear, it's PERFECTLY NORMAL to
at first feel WORSE, to feel GREATER
stress, greater pressure, more anxiety,
etc.

But if you KEEP DOING IT, it WILL FADE AWAY.

So what you have to do is actually
KEEP ON DOING IT SEVERAL
MORE TIMES, maybe MANY
MORE TIMES, and then you
WILL GET RID OF THIS THING
CALLED "APPROACH ANXIETY".

So don't make the mistake that most guys
make, which is to think that because the
fear goes UP and gets WORSE at first,
that therefore it's going to STAY that
way.

No way at all, it will actually GO DOWN.

But it's GOOD for you to KNOW beforehand
that it's NORMAL for it to at first feel
WORSE.

That way, you can actually relax to a certain
degree, because you can PREDICT it.

You can now KNOW that THIS is part of
the process to actually getting it to be
LESS, in fact to be so little that it's no
longer stressful at ALL.

Isn't that cool?
It's a bit like an Indiana Jones adventure,
where he is trying to get to the special
object, and there are all these traps in
front, designed to scare people away,
and so therefore most people will never
get to it. Same thing with this fear,
it keeps most people away, and so
they never even get a CHANCE
with women, but if you keep at
it, you suddenly find that ALL
THE FEARS go away, and now
you have this massive choice
with women, and very few guys
in competition with you, because
so few guys even KNEW that
this fear could be solved, they
were given ILLUSIONS that
this fear could never be solved-
since they TRIED to confront
it and it only felt WORSE so
they QUIT!

Now the thing is, that as massively
important as all this is to realize,
it is ALSO essential to have a
METHODICAL PLAN for how you are
going to GO ABOUT getting over this
approach anxiety.

REALIZING that it is going to first
feel MORE intense before it gets
easier is important, but there are
a TON of other absolutely CRITICAL
insights that you must have if you
want to TOTALLY ENSURE THAT YOU WILL
OBLITERATE THIS THING CALLED APPROACH
ANXIETY, FOREVER.

I have created a program called OBLITERATING APPROACH ANXIETY that is the absolute CREAM OF THE CROP of all the programs in this area for getting over approach anxiety.

I personally USE the information in this program myself!!

This program will provide you with a
STEP-BY-STEP CLEAR PLAN for EXACTLY
what to do to equip yourself to
DEFEAT approach anxiety.
This program is NOT some "feel good" talk.
It's NOT some "pump you up with feeling
positive" talk.

It's going to provide you with the
EXACT steps, the exact METHOD, from
A to Z, to help ensure you obliterate
that approach anxiety so that the next
time you see women anywhere that you
want to approach, you WILL approach them.
And by the way, the program is a steal
at only $19.97. 

Seriously, I mean that.  If you find a
better program on obliterating approach
anxiety, just let me know, and I will
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I already know this program is the
absolute best of its kind ANYWHERE.

This important program can be downloaded
immediately to you, and you can use it in
MINUTES from now to take action approaching
the women you want, ANYWHERE you see them.  

It's at:

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Till next time,

Michael Marks