Showing posts with label how to have a conversation with a woman. Show all posts
Showing posts with label how to have a conversation with a woman. Show all posts

Sunday, April 19, 2009

Love And Trust Vs. Dog Eat Dog

There are a lot of people out there
who think the way to get a great
woman is to be "Mr. Cool" and that
you should try to act like a "player",
etc, and that you should play all kinds
of manipulative games to get a
woman to respect them, etc.

The irony is that this whole
perspective of manipulation is
actually what creates problems
in the first place.

And the even greater irony is
that they try to justify all this
in the name of 'evolution' that
somehow evolution backs up all
this selfish behavior.

Well, a cool guy on the Get A Great Girl
forum just put forth a fantastic comment.
It came up in a discussion of Slumdog
Millionaire the movie.

Here is his comment, and you
might want to check the forum
for all the other awesome
content that's there - it's
like a cool brotherhood
we've got going on, all
the men there have one
thing in common- great
values and integrity, and
the desire to improve
from deep within.

Here are his words:

"Actually, it was the poverty
of it all that kind of made me
wonder something.....

Materialism and social influence
really only started after civilization
started (eg, Mesopotamia onwards)
b/c you needed to be able to pass
on information for social trends
and influence to exist and be
passed on.

We tend to think that the "higher"
emotions such as love, and trust
and romance were likely more
developed in the context of
civilization and weren't so
paramount in the wild.

Mesopotamia started about 6000
years ago, but our hominid
lineage existed for about 2.5
million years. so over 99.9%
of human evolution took place
before any civilization started.

since the most accurate simulation
of life in the wild on modern earth
are places of poverty (where people
are forced to live as much like
animals more than anywhere else
just to survive), it's nice to
think that in such a basic state
of human living (by modern
western standards) ideals such
as love and trust can still
be predominant.

that's what this movie made me
ask...

so, my point........ since 99%
of the history of our species was
spent in the wild, like animals,
you wonder how much of our
interpersonal interactions even
back then were ruled by emotions
such as LOVE and TRUST, and not
simply by the DOG EAT DOG
mentality that the pickup artists
promote as the cornerstone of
evolution (because all they do is
preach evolution as the rationale
for their "principles").

that would mean that for our
species, even as basic animals
clinging to life, love and trust
may actually have been just as
important and as powerful as EAT,
SLEEP, BE SELFISH, and SCREW 20
WOMEN AT ONCE LIKE a RABBIT."


***MY COMMENTS***

Awesomely beautiful.
If all the people who were using
evolution as their basis for
justifying manipulative
or superficial or lowly
behavior, if they suddenly
saw the TRUTH about our
evolutionary heritage,
they would suddenly have
to be a lot more virtous
to be in tune with 'nature'!

And it's true.
The reality is that our human
nature can actually be FANTASTIC
and in fact in it's natural state
it's pretty damn good.

It's just the bad programming we
get from so many places that distorts
our thinking and our emotions.

That's why it's only in modern
times that we've become so
good at things like genocide
and feeling like life is terrible
because the pizza wasn't delivered
on time while at the same time we
totally dismiss the fact that
other people are starving
or going hungry or homeless
even in our own cities, never
mind only in lands far away.

Finding a great woman has a lot
to do with finding a woman who
is not a slave to the modern mess,
and with helping her to see this
fact as well by WE AS WELL as men
not being slaves to the modern
mess.

To learn more, visit the forum at:

http://forum.getagreatgirl.com

And to learn all the details on how
to get a great woman, go to:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Book.html

Till next time,

Michael

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

THE "WARRIOR WITHIN" LIVE SEMINAR

Getting a great woman attracted
to you has nothing to do with pick-up
lines or methods of attacking a woman's
self-esteem, and it has nothing to do
with becoming a performer,
entertainer, or clown who tries
to make women laugh

When all is said and done, and
the smoke clears and the TRUTH
is revealed, the best kind of
women don't want a "player" or
pick up artist.

The best kind of women want a MAN.
And by a MAN, I mean the kind of
man that flourishes when the going
gets rough.

The kind of man that sees the truth
when everyone else falls for the lie.

The kind of man that is calm when
others are freaking out.

The kind of man that knows how to
add LIFE to any situation.

Women want the man who has the
WARRIOR heart.

Life throws just about everything
your way when you least expect it,
and there's nothing better to a
woman than knowing she has a
real man in her life that is
strong enough, wise enough,
secure enough, and mature
enough to handle whatever
is going on around him.

Women FANTASIZE about
finding such a man.

And now, for the first time EVER,
you can MASTER this part of your
life in my "Warrior Within" LIVE
Seminar.

In the same way that even the most
powerful computer becomes frozen,
sluggish, and ineffective if a virus is
planted into the central processing
unit, so too your infinite, natural
charisma which can charm any woman
will become sluggish, frozen-up, and
ineffective if "bad programming" has
been allowed to seep in over the years.

This "bad programming" is toxic to your
masculinity, to your natural charisma, and
to your emotions and thoughts. And yet,
just as fast as your computer suddenly
starts working at light-speed efficiency
and power the moment the virus is
removed, so too your full "warrior"
state kicks RIGHT BACK IN the
moment this toxic internal
programming is removed.

The "Warrior Within" Live Seminar will be
held in Toronto, April 25th-26th.

This event will change your life, and I suggest
you check out the full details now at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

Best,

Michael

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

"Canada AM" Interview

Quick news! The crew at "Canada AM"
did a great job with this interview,
which gets into the power of your
"vibe", as well as the importance
of learning powerful listening skills
so that you can have a great conversation
with a woman, all without faking your
personality or memorizing "routines"!

It's at: http://tinyurl.com/cf2ab2

Best,

Michael