ATTRACTION, FIDELITY, AND FACEBOOK

Fasten your seatbelts, because today you’re
in for something MAJOR. I suggest you read
the entire article.

There’s a ton of DEEP insights today that
have massive implications for improving
the way you go about meeting women,
attracting them, even the very way you
THINK about attraction itself.

As you know, Get A Great Girl is all about
getting the RARE kind of woman who is
not only beautiful, but also warm, and
genuinely FAITHFUL in mind and body.

If you’ve ever been with a woman that you
were REALLY attracted to, and then later
found out that she was being unfaithful,
you already know just how DEEP these
wounds penetrate, and how DISASTROUS
this is to your entire reality for
quite a long time, sometimes YEARS.

It’s even worse when it happens AGAIN,
and AGAIN.

This FAITHFUL thing is exceptionally rare
in the full sense of the word “faithful”
and it is the reason you never hear
about this from the “pick up artist” and
most of the “dating guru” community.

The reason they don’t talk about this is
because it’s EASIER to just focus on
getting “quick short term action” and
getting physical with a certain TYPE
of woman.

Now, I’m not even saying anything BAD
about promiscuous women, it’s totally
fine in my books as long as they are
HONEST about it, that’s all cool.

But the thing is, most guys out
there really DO want a girlfriend
who is also attractive and a fun
person to be around.

Even guys who want to “fool around”
STILL want to ALSO have their cake
and eat it too by having a girlfriend
that they usually lie to regarding
being faithful to her and fooling
around on the side with others.

Even guys who CHEAT would still hate
to find out that their GIRLFRIEND
was cheating on them.

So pretty much EVERY GUY wants a
girlfriend that is faithful and
that is attractive.

Now, the thing to REALIZE here is that
the very SAME thing that makes it
EASY to get “physical” with a lot of
women is the SAME reason it’s
RARE to get a woman who is SLOWER
to get physical and who is actually
FAITHFUL.

The REASON is because, more than ever,
IT’S “in style” to NOT BE THINKING LONG-TERM,
and rather to JUST THINK IN THE MOMENT.

The reason for this is because YOUTH
drive the marketing efforts of most
companies, because most companies
know that if you can get people when
they are YOUNG, they will be customers
for LIFE.

However, the one thing that YOUTH
don’t BEST understand compared to
older people is LONG TERM THINKING
and being more RATIONAL compared
to the two things that drive YOUTH:

1: Raging hormones.
2: Peer pressure.

In fact, these two things, raging hormones
and peer pressure, make up for the vast
majority of ALL advertising of ANYTHING.

Soap, beer, cars, clothing, magazines,
pretty much EVERYTHING.

The hormone component of these ads
are obvious, but the PEER pressure
stuff might seem less obvious.

However, the PEER pressure element is
EVERYWHERE.

Let me give you a prime example:
FACEBOOK.

Facebook really provides you with nothing
special at all.

If Facebook evaporated today, NOTHING
would really change. It’s not like telephones
or cars or email, etc.

But Facebook has the most IMPORTANT
psychological element going for it:
It’s the “Social Network”, i.e.
THE “SOCIAL PROOF” NETWORK.

As in “Oh my god, what if I am not shown
to be COOL on Facebook????”

It’s not a coincidence the guy who started
Facebook was in university at the time,
BOMBARDED by the whole “COLLEGE
PARTY SCENE” and who is the coolest,
etc, etc.

It’s all about people wanting to show they
are cool to other people, and superficially
pretending to befriend others who are “cool”
to show that they themselves are also cool
as a byproduct.

Yes, it has other purposes too, but this is
really how it all started and is what the
underlying driving force behind it is.

And guess what?
The HORMONE component of this IS ALSO
at play, because so many people unfortunately
just want to know “the gossip” who is sleeping
with who, who is in a relationship, who is single,
etc, etc. And of course all this is on Facebook
in one way or another as well.

Never mind the billions of guys who all want
to be “friends” with whatever attractive female
it might happen to be on Facebook, as if they
wanted to be friends and not really just
want to sleep with her.

If nothing else, if they can get to be her
”friend”, it might help provide SOCIAL
PROOF for them to get OTHER women.

In other words, this is all part of SOCIAL
PROOF. Social proof means that if enough
other people are doing something, then
everyone else believes it is the right thing
to do. If enough other people say you
are cool, then most people will now think
you are cool as well, etc.

In fact, because so MANY youth are all
brainwashed, the sheer NUMBER of
them all have ALSO influenced EVERYONE
ELSE, from people in their 30s to people
in their 40s, 50s, etc.

So our entire SOCIETY has become more
wrapped up in the “GET PHYSICAL NOW”
and “DON’T THINK” MENTALITY.

This means sexually transmitted infections
and diseases have SKYROCKETED to the
point it’s almost NORMAL to have gotten
an sti these days!

And it also means that relationships breaking
up is practically EXPECTED amongst most
people.


Let me tell you something even BIGGER:
It also means that because EMOTIONS
rule today with such MAJOR force, it
has resulted in a world where all the
INFORMATION TECHNOLOGY advances
we have made have almost become
USELESS, because the MINDSET is
so ruled by EMOTION that most
people can not tell FACT from FICTION.

Which means LIES can be spread ever
faster than ever before.

So, for example, GOOGLE is a great idea.
However, it’s also almost USELESS in
reality.

If you were to type in almost ANY subject
into Google, you would get about the
SAME amount of TRUTH and the SAME
amount of LIES as your RESULTS.

This is because, of course, there are
people out there making money from
the fact that most people would rather
PAY for LIES that fit into their raging
hormones perspective as well as their
PEER-PRESSURE/SOCIAL PROOF
picture of the world.

Scientific social studies have proven
that people mostly do NOT listen
even when they TRY to listen, because
their perspectives are so ingrained, they
FILTER out anything that does not fit
in with the perspective they already
HAVE.

Now, imagine how much WORSE this
is in a world where emotion is actually
PRIZED over TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The exact same thing of course has
happened in the world of dating advice.

It doesn’t even matter that the various
pick up artists have been proven to
be full of it, because PROOF only
matters to LOGICAL people.

In the old days, people were brainwashed
by hardcore religion.

These days, people are allowed to indulge
in their OWN emotional illusions and no
one will make you seem uncool for being
stupid.

Stupid is in style.

Now that you know that, I can explain
to you the MAIN thing about how to
get “physical quick” with a lot of women,
which is NOT the main point of this
newsletter, as you will see.

It’s just so you know what all the
“hoopla” REALLY boils down to:

1. MEET WOMAN.

This is pretty easy, just go out to a
nightclub and you’re guaranteed
LOTS of women hanging around.

Even better, they’re THEIR to meet
guys in the first place!

2. ALCOHOL

This makes it even EASIER, since
after all, most of the women there
WANT to get physical, and the
alcohol SHUTS down the nasty
THINKING part of the brain.

3. MAKE FUN AND GAMES

She’s there to get physical and have
a good time, so make everything
about laughter and fun.

4. A SLIGHT CONNECTION

Even in the superficial world, it STILL
feels good to ALSO have SOME kind
of connection with a girl, so try to
find something in common that you
both share or even do something
together that bonds you, like
playing a silly game together.

5. LEAD THE SHOW MASSIVELY

The last thing she needs is a guy
who doesn’t “GET IT”, who doesn’t
understand that women are even more
physically aroused than men, that she
is their to get physical, and that she
still expects YOU to lead the show.

This means that you must escalate
towards getting physical and take
responsibility for it and make it
all as smooth as possible.

This is because for some weird reason in
our society, even promiscuous women
are expected to act a bit less promiscuous
than the men she sleeps with. (Which
is REALLY stupid and just causes more
repression making these women even
MORE likely to be promiscuous!)

Now, the thing is, there’s nothing
EVIL about any of those things!

In fact, some of those things are good!

It’s just that it’s not ENOUGH for
attracting a woman who is much
MORE than just another woman
that is attractive.

And THIS is the reason I have written
ALL the above, it’s not a rant, it’s to
let you know just how RARE and how
DIFFERENT a genuine QUALITY woman
Is, AND HOW MUCH INNER STRENGTH
SHE MUST HAVE TO SPLIT APART FROM
THE MASSES OF SOCIETY.

If you want to attract a woman who is
far stronger to social pressure than most,
if you want a woman who is faithful,
a woman who is intelligent, who is not
into drugs or promiscuity, she needs
to see that YOU are THE MAN that
is stronger internally than most men.

Remember, SHE has SPLIT APART from
the MAJORITY of brainwashed society,
and that takes GUTS plus INTELLIGENCE.

So imagine a woman of that fortitude,
what kind of MAN she must be with,
he will have to be EVEN STRONGER
in his INDEPENDENCE from social
proof brainwashing than she is,
if she is to feel FEMININE in his
presence.

She needs to see REAL confidence,
not just LUST-DRIVEN ENERGY.

And there needs to be a real connection
on a deep level, which means, if she
is a total stranger, you have to have
the SKILL to convey a LOT about yourself
in a BRIEF amount of time, doing very
LITTLE yet communicating a LOT.

And she needs to see your PERSPECTIVE
on life and whether it’s a COMPELLING
one or not. A weak sense of this perspective
will DEFINITELY chase away a fantastic
quality woman.

If you have all THAT, well THEN it’s
AWESOME to be able to meet her
and get all into the “FUN AND GAMES”
mentality, because now she feels SAFE
to go INTO that sexual mode with you
and just totally ENJOY it with you.

If a guy asks me if it’s worth it, the
answer I give is simple:

Do you enjoy being betrayed?

Because if you hang out with the typical
young woman who is attractive, she
will most likely just try to use you or
at best it will be a short term thing.

So it’s not even a question of if it’s
worth it or not, there’s no other
choice – it’s learn how to get a
GREAT girl, or nothing at all.

The wrong woman will cost you
a fortune, your emotions, and
your health.

She will DESTROY you.

The RIGHT woman will make EVERYTHING
feel a trillion times more FUN.

What I’ve done over the past several
YEARS is focused only on the things
that actually WORK for attracting a
RARE type of woman.

HOW TO DETECT A QUALITY WOMAN:

One of the first things is DETECTING
a quality woman in the first place!

And guess what?

The truth is that a woman reveals her
ENTIRE personality to you quite quickly,
without her even realizing it.

You can find out VERY QUICKLY if you
are dealing with a quality woman or not.

The trick to this is that you have to be
LISTENING with SKILL.

Yes, with SKILL.
This means your mind is not just passively
listening, but your mind is actually looking
for certain things or the absence of certain
things in what she is saying and doing.

Most people are not only lacking at this skill,
but when you ALSO account for the fact that
most men are so mesmerized by a woman’s
beauty, you realize most men can’t eve HEAR
what she is REALLY saying because men’s
emotions keep putting a HALO FILTER
over everything she says, interpreting
it all to make her a better person
than she really is.

So for example, let’s say you meet
a woman, and she works in media/tv/
film/music/entertainment (and a ton
of women who are attractive DO work
in these fields) and she is talking
to you about her work, and she is PROUD
to tell you how she gets clients to do what
SHE wants and how she makes them think
it is THEIR idea when it is really hers, so
that they will do what she wants, etc, etc.

Now, just about every guy would
think nothing of this. In fact, a lot
of guys might even be IMPRESSED!

Meanwhile, this is a time-bomb
waiting to happen.

This woman is telling you that she
enjoys MANIPULATING people.

She is telling you that HONESTY
is not IMPORTANT to her.

Now, this is actually a REAL example
that a man brought up during the live
taping of Warrior Within, about a horrific
woman who he initially thought was GREAT,
before she tore his heart to pieces with her
infidelity.

However, after making the insights from
this program, he was able to “trace back
the steps” to when he met her, and he
thought back to the things she originally
SAID and DID when he met her.

He then remembered the SPECIFICS of the
things she said, including the details above
about how she, in essence, enjoyed
manipulating people.

He realized how with these skills, he could have
FORESEEN all of this, and would have realized
right away that this woman was a TIMEBOMB
and the last thing on earth that any man
should get into a relationship with.

Most men would never detect the messages
a woman is unintentionally really saying
about herself- whether those messages
are positive or negative.

You can detect a woman’s personality,
through these SKILLS of sifting out
the IMPORTANT things from what
she is saying.

Again, this is a skill that is usually glossed
over as not important, meanwhile it’s
almost EVERYTHING.

Not only does it tell you about the
woman, but if she is a great woman,
you can then use this knowledge of
her character to help understand
her and build a powerful CONNECTION.

She’s giving you all the INFORMATION
about herself so that you can actually
have a MEANINGFUL conversation to
her, that is not manipulative but based
on your real thoughts about her actual
identity- and if it’s an identity you
LIKE, you will be able to validate her
with a genuine compliment about her
actual core identity that you respect.

This forms a FAR DEEPER connection
than just “fluff talk” because it is about
you connecting to her CORE.

The ability to detect what kind of
woman you are dealing with is
ESSENTIAL.

In fact, the reason most people gloss
over this skill is for the very reason
they NEED this skill- they REFUSE
to believe they have anything they
really NEED to listen to or learn,
because they are SO CONVINCED
they already KNOW what they
need to know.

So this belief that they have, blocks out
ANY info that comes in regarding the
need to IMPROVE their listening skills!

And yet, what they know is REALLY
just the EMOTIONS they are feeling,
but they think it’s MORE than an
emotion, so if they feel ATTRACTION
to a girl, they also feel that this girl
must be “GOOD”.

In my Warrior Within program, we go
DEEP on this, and to be honest, just
this ALONE is worth the entire cost
of the program, as learning to detect
exactly WHAT kind of woman you are
dealing with RIGHT AWAY can save
you INFINITE PAIN!

Notice, by the way, that this woman
had NO CLUE she was revealing something
that is actually UNATTRACTIVE.

In fact, to HER, this IS an attractive thing,
that’s why she was showing off about it!

And most men would think the SAME.

This is why you want to learn these
skills that most men do NOT know.

Similarly, if a woman shows you that
she IS honest through the things she
is saying without even trying hard,
you can spot the RIGHT woman.

Remember, people reveal themselves
because they have no idea that their
negative behaviors ARE negative.

If they realized it, they would CHANGE.

And NO ONE can force them to realize
it unless THEY THEMSELVES are open
to changing and learning.

This is why I find it ludicrous that the
pick up artist crowd likes to pretend
that their advice ALSO works to get
ANY woman to become a girlfriend!

Complete and total b.s. unless by
“girlfriend” they mean cheating
girlfriend.

Getting a GREAT girl, especially these days,
is truly an entirely different CATEGORY of skill,
and it does NOT mix with the mainstream
concept of “success with women”.

And as powerful as this newsletter is,
it’s barely scratched the surface of
the FULL SPECTRUM on how to get a
quality woman. This newsletter just
touched the surface on DETECTING
a quality woman, and there is so
much more on this, plus all the
information on actually ATTRACTING
her as well.

Remember, a rare quality woman that is
APART from the majority of the masses
is very DIFFERENT in what attracts her
than all the other typical women.

If you’re ready to meet 'the one' and get
a fantastic woman who would be a great
girlfriend, I seriously suggest you get
my 'Warrior Within' program on DVD.

You will learn not only how to “see” what
kind of woman you are dealing with,
which will save you immense time and
energy, but you will also learn the truth
on how to UNLEASH all the deepest levels
to your INNER GAME to attract her and
KEEP her as well.

This isn’t “lust-driven” confidence.

It’s about being the kind of man that
stands APART from the vast majority
of men, because his power comes
from WITHIN, not from “social proof”
or any other gimmick.

THIS is the kind of man such a woman
CRAVES, and this program will show you
all the REAL-LIFE ways of developing
these skills.

This program has zero gimmicks.
It's ALL SOLID CONTENT.

She’s out there right now, looking for
the man who understands what’s in
this program. Let that man be YOU.

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

And if you still haven't downloaded my program,
"Being The Selector" then do that now. 

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/selector.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Difference At Get A Great Girl

In a sea of dating advice out there, I'd like to
make it clear what makes Get A Great Girl
different.

1: TRUTH OVER HYPE

Most of the dating advice out there
is willing to sacrifice truth in the
name of making money. So they will
say ANYTHING to get your attention.

"GET PLAYBOY PLAYMATES BY SAYING
THESE SPECIAL MAGIC WORDS TO THEM!
GUARANTEED RESULTS OVERNIGHT!"

It's very similar to those fad diets,
where you will hear "AVOID ALL CARBS
AND EAT ALL THE FAT YOU WANT!" or my
favourite of them all: "JUST EAST
GRAPEFRUITS!" Etc, etc.

The REAL truth of course, is never in the fads.

Sure, what they say  may have 1% truth, but
it's also 99% a lie, just like it's true that only
eating grapefruits will help a person lose weight,
UNTIL they get so hungry that they end up eating
TONS OF THE WRONG FOODS and being even heavier
than before.

And when it comes to the "attracting women"
field, the fads are even MORE extreme!

But here's the good news for you:

The information you learn from my programs will
give you the full detailed insights on attracting  a
quality woman, and it will ALSO ensure that
you have ZERO "competition" from other men!

This is because VERY FEW MEN WILL EVER
LEARN WHAT YOU LEARN HERE!

Most men simply will never find their way here,
they will instead be lured into the "fads"
out there. So you are right now in a very
elite circle of men who actually are
getting information that WORKS.

Meanwhile, the popular "fad" tactics are
so well known, that women are actually weary
of them, and so these fad tactics tend to be
very counter-productive.

Even if the fad tactics ever had 1% use,
there's no longer even that 1% advantage,
since virtually every woman is now familiar
with those fad tactics.

2: ATTRACTION WHILE BUILDING TRUST
AS OPPOSED TO RUINING TRUST

Another area where I'm different, is that I focus
on creating attraction while ALSO creating trust,
whereas a lot of the popular strategies tend to
focus too much on how to "knock a woman down
a few notches off her confidence" and how to
"act hard to get".

These strategies can easily DESTROY the
trust in an interaction with a woman, and
certainly if continued will destroy the
possibility of a smooth relationship.

So, this is another area where Get A Great Girl
is very different.

In an EFFECTIVE interaction where you are chatting
to a woman, you actually are creating  attraction at the
SAME time you are creating trust, through the entire
DEMEANOR that you are using from the very get-go.

This is the superior way to attract quality women.

If you're just looking for a "one night stand" with a
woman who is looking for the same thing, then
deep levels of trust are not that important- but
if you ARE looking for a real girlfriend and a
fantastic relationship, then deep levels of trust
are MASSIVELY important.

And this brings me to the next point:

3. THE STRATEGIES YOU LEARN AT
GET A GREAT GIRL ARE DESIGNED
FOR GETTING A GREAT GIRLFRIEND!

So you are learning a lot more than just how
to get the party girls, or the promiscuous
girls who may be fine in many ways, but
who themselves will be the first to say that
they aren't relationship material.

If you want a woman who is the "total package"-
who is attractive and also has the personality
that would make for a fun and TRUSTWORTHY
and FAITHFUL girlfriend, then the material that
you will learn in my programs is of EXTREME
importance.

A woman who is looking for a real relationship is
putting a lot more on the line than just one evening
("one night stand") of her life. 

She's putting her emotions, her time, her TRUST,
in you, and she isn't going to do all that for just any
guy who comes up to her with some pick up artist
or "dating guru" tactic.

At Get A Great Girl, you're learning to master
the full picture of interaction with women, including
but also much more than just the initial words you
are going say to her.

4. EVIDENCE COUNTS, NOT OPINIONS

My programs are a product of rigorous TESTING
in the real world.

Before any program gets made, I spend months
and often YEARS of real world testing and
research, to make sure the strategies you
learn are VERIFIED and proven to work.
 
These programs are verified not only by my own
experiences, and not only by the experiences of
thousands of men who have gone through my
programs, (including live bootcamps where they
prove it on real women) but ALSO verified by
internationally respected reports in the field
of psychology.

So, as one great and powerful example, the
method you will learn in my materials for
overcoming "approach anxiety" (the anxiety
of approaching a woman who is a total
stranger) goes AGAINST the "THINK
POSITIVE!" advice.

The reason for this is simple:
The "THINK POSITIVE AND JUST GO
FOR IT" advice is NOT EFFECTIVE for
getting over approach anxiety!!!

If we could all "JUST GO FOR IT AND THINK
ALL POSITIVE" we wouldn't be ASKING for
a SOLUTION to approach anxiety!!

There's a big difference between genuine
approach anxiety and just feeling a bit
of the jitters.

The REAL SOLUTION to obliterating approach
anxiety rests in IMMERSION OF THE GREATEST
NEGATIVE till you start to BURN OUT all the
anxious energy and emotion- and what you're
reading here in these few sentences of course is
just a BARE-BOLTS description of how this all
works.

I really do suggest men get my "Get A Great Girl"
materials to get the FULL PICTURE on this and
on how to do it RIGHT. 

Again, getting the foundation from my Get A Great Girl
E-Book is a fantastic way to start and to prove to yourself
that this is all EFFECTIVE.

By the way, the methods I outline for overcoming
approach anxiety were NOT invented by me at ALL.

I owe this discovery to a fantastic and brilliant friend,
and all men everywhere can now benefit from this!

In fact, I use these strategies MYSELF as well.

You can find out more about this particular strategy
as well as HUNDREDS of other insights that will
make a crucial difference in meeting and attracting
quality women, in my Get A Great Girl programs
and materials.

Meanwhile, EVIDENCE and proof count for
just about NOTHING with most of the dating
advice you see out there, the same way "Grapefruit
Diets" don't have any evidence to them either,
but the various wacky diets still keep on coming.

And just wait till you put into action my strategies
for igniting ATTRACTION in women.

5. TONS OF NEW MATERIAL
     IN ALL MY PROGRAMS

Another cool thing here at Get A Great Girl,
is that clients who order all my programs are
astonished at how each program is jam-packed
with NEW CONCEPTS AND NEW MATERIAL
rather than rehashing the same things over and
over again.

You will keep on GROWING in skill with women
with each of my programs.  That's because a
MASSIVE amount of time goes into making
sure each program is crammed with EFFECTIVE,
POWERFUL, NEW MATERIAL that you can
immediately use to attract the best quality
women.

So, all in all, there are a TON of things that
make the programs at Get A Great Girl
extremely different from what is out there.

And, I haven't even mentioned ALL the ways
Get A Great Girl is different yet!

There's a lot MORE as well:

6. I MADE SURE NOT TO "THROW OUT
THE BABY WITH THE BATHWATER"

And at the same time, I haven't thrown out the
baby with the bathwater, as they say.

I ALSO believe that there are SOME principles
that are popular in the dating community that
ARE effective, if used properly, so what I've
done is TAKEN OUT the harmful strategies, and
KEPT the PRODUCTIVE ones, and even
IMPROVED them.

7. ADDING NEW MATERIAL AND CONCEPTS
COMPLETELY OUTSIDE THE "DATING GURU/
PICK UP ARTIST" WORLD - NEW MATERIAL
THAT IS ACTUALLY BACKED UP BY DIRECTLY
APPLICABLE RESEARCH INTO PSYCHOLOGY.

So, to make these programs as effective as
possible, I've gone BEYOND the "pick up
artist" and "dating guru" feeding grounds
that just recycle the same material over
and over again, and BROUGHT IN
the very best psychological research on
how to create attraction, as backed up by
the most respected REAL WORLD
research in this area.

8. GETTING MEN QUALITY WOMEN IS ALL I DO 

It's hard to be a "jack of all trades" and really be good at
ANY of those things.

For that reason, I focus one only one thing- how to get
a QUALITY woman.

I don't give advice for women on how to get men.
I don't give advice on how to become a "player"
and get the promiscuous women.

I just do one thing- help men get the kinds of women
that would make for quality girlfriends and fantastic
relationships.        

So, at Get A Great Girl, you are going to
get the very BEST programs on the
PLANET to get you a fantastic woman
who would make for a great girlfriend
and an awesome relationship!

If you want to get the CREAM OF THE CROP
when it comes to women, if you want a quality
girlfriend, you owe it to yourself to get my
advanced program right now at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

And if you haven't got my Get A Great Girl E-Book,
then download it now at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Book.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

ATTRACTION, FIDELITY, AND FACEBOOK

Fasten your seatbelts, because today you’re
in for something MAJOR.

There’s a ton of DEEP insights today that
have massive implications for improving
the way you go about meeting women,
attracting them, even the very way you
THINK about attraction itself.

As you know, Get A Great Girl is all about
getting the RARE kind of woman who is
not only beautiful, but also warm, and
genuinely FAITHFUL in mind and body.

If you’ve ever been with a woman that you
were REALLY attracted to, and then later
found out that she was being unfaithful,
you already know just how DEEP these
wounds penetrate, and how DISASTROUS
this is to your entire reality for
quite a long time, sometimes YEARS.

It’s even worse when it happens AGAIN,
and AGAIN.

This FAITHFUL thing is exceptionally rare
in the full sense of the world “faithful”
and it is the reason you never hear
about this from the “pick up artist” and
most of the “dating guru” community.

The reason they don’t talk about this is
because it’s EASIER to just focus on
getting “quick short term action” and
getting physical with a certain TYPE
of woman.

Now, I’m not even saying anything BAD
about promiscuous women, it’s totally
fine in my books as long as they are
HONEST about it, that’s all cool.

But the thing is, most guys out
there really DO want a girlfriend
who is also attractive and a fun
person to be around.

Even guys who want to “fool around”
STILL want to ALSO have their cake
and eat it too by having a girlfriend
that they usually lie to regarding
being faithful to her and fooling
around on the side with others.

Even guys who CHEAT would still hate
to find out that their GIRLFRIEND
was cheating on them.

So pretty much EVERY GUY wants a
girlfriend that is faithful and
that is attractive.

Now, the thing to REALIZE here is that
the very SAME thing that makes it
EASY to get “physical” with a lot of
women is the SAME reason it’s
RARE to get a woman who is SLOWER
to get physical and who is actually
FAITHFUL.

The REASON is because, more than ever,
IT’S “in style” to NOT BE THINKING LONG-TERM,
and rather to JUST THINK IN THE MOMENT.

The reason for this is because YOUTH
drive the marketing efforts of most
companies, because most companies
know that if you can get people when
they are YOUNG, they will be customers
for LIFE.

However, the one thing that MOST YOUTH
(obviously there are exceptions, and you're
probably one of the exceptions if you're
here reading this!) do NOT understand
compared to older people is LONG TERM
THINKING and being more RATIONAL
compared to the two things that drive YOUTH:

1: Raging hormones.
2: Peer pressure.

In fact, these two things, raging hormones
and peer pressure, make up for the vast
majority of ALL advertising of ANYTHING.

Soap, beer, cars, clothing, magazines,
pretty much EVERYTHING.

The hormone component of these ads
are obvious, but the PEER pressure
stuff might seem less obvious.

However, the PEER pressure element is
EVERYWHERE.

Let me give you a prime example:
FACEBOOK.

Facebook really provides you with nothing
special at all.

If Facebook evaporated today, NOTHING
would really change. It’s not like telephones
or cars or email, etc.

But Facebook has the most IMPORTANT
psychological element going for it:

It’s the “Social Network”, i.e.
THE “SOCIAL PROOF” NETWORK.

As in “Oh my god, what if I am not shown
to be COOL on Facebook????”

It’s not a coincidence the guy who started
Facebook was in university at the time,
BOMBARDED by the whole “COLLEGE
PARTY SCENE” and who is the coolest,
etc, etc.

It’s all about people wanting to show they
are cool to other people, and superficially
pretending to befriend others who are “cool”
to show that they themselves are also cool
as a byproduct.

Yes, it has other purposes too, but this is
really how it all started and is what the
underlying driving force behind it is.

And guess what?

The HORMONE component of this IS ALSO
at play, because so many people unfortunately
just want to know “the gossip” who is sleeping
with who, who is in a relationship, who is single,
etc, etc. And of course all this is on Facebook
in one way or another as well.

Never mind the billions of guys who all want
to be “friends” with whatever attractive female
it might happen to be on Facebook, as if they
wanted to be friends and not really just
want to sleep with her.

If nothing else, if they can get to be her
”friend”, it might help provide SOCIAL
PROOF for them to get OTHER women.

Or so they HOPE.
In other words, this is all part of SOCIAL
PROOF. Social proof means that if enough
other people are doing something, then
everyone else believes it is the right thing
to do. If enough other people say you
are cool, then most people will now think
you are cool as well, etc.

In fact, because so MANY youth are all
brainwashed, the sheer NUMBER of
them all have ALSO influenced EVERYONE
ELSE, from people in their 30s to people
in their 40s, 50s, 60's, etc.

So our entire SOCIETY has become more
wrapped up in the “GET PHYSICAL NOW”
and “DON’T THINK” MENTALITY.

This means sexually transmitted infections
and diseases have SKYROCKETED to the
point it’s almost NORMAL to have gotten
an STI these days!

And it also means that relationships breaking
up is practically EXPECTED amongst most
people.

Let me tell you something even BIGGER:
It also means that because EMOTIONS
rule today with such MAJOR force, it
has resulted in a world where all the
INFORMATION TECHNOLOGY advances
we have made have almost become
USELESS, because the MINDSET is
so ruled by EMOTION that most
people can not tell FACT from FICTION.

Which means LIES can be spread ever
faster than ever before.

So, for example, GOOGLE is a great idea.
However, it’s also almost USELESS in
reality.

If you were to type in almost ANY subject
into Google, you would get about the
SAME amount of TRUTH and the SAME
amount of LIES as your RESULTS.

This is because, of course, there are
people out there making money from
the fact that most people would rather
PAY for LIES that fit into their raging
hormones perspective as well as their
PEER-PRESSURE/SOCIAL PROOF
distorted picture of the world.

Scientific social studies have proven
that people mostly do NOT listen
even when they TRY to listen, because
their perspectives are so ingrained, they
FILTER out anything that does not fit
in with the perspective they already
HAVE.

Now, imagine how much WORSE this
is in a world where emotion is actually
PRIZED over TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The exact same thing of course has
happened in the world of dating advice.

It doesn’t even matter that the various
pick up artists have been proven to
be full of it, because PROOF only
matters to LOGICAL people.

In the old days, people were brainwashed
by hardcore religion.

These days, people are allowed to indulge
in their OWN emotional illusions and no
one will make you seem uncool for being
stupid.

Stupid is in style.

Now that you know that, I can explain
to you the MAIN thing about how to
get “physical quick” with a lot of women,
which is NOT the main point of this
newsletter, as you will see.

It’s just so you know what all the
“hoopla” REALLY boils down to:

1. MEET WOMAN.

This is pretty easy, just go out to a
nightclub and you’re guaranteed
LOTS of women hanging around.

Even better, they’re THERE to meet
guys in the first place!

2. ALCOHOL

This makes it even EASIER, since
after all, most of the women there
WANT to get physical, and the
alcohol SHUTS down the nasty
THINKING part of the brain.

3. MAKE FUN AND GAMES

She’s there to get physical and have
a good time, so make everything
about laughter and fun.

4. A SLIGHT CONNECTION

Even in the superficial world, it STILL
feels good to ALSO have SOME kind
of connection with a girl, so try to
find something in common that you
both share or even do something
together that bonds you, like
playing a silly game together.

5. LEAD THE SHOW MASSIVELY

The last thing she needs is a guy
who doesn’t “GET IT”, who doesn’t
understand that women are even more
physically aroused than men, that she
is their to get physical, and that she
still expects YOU to lead the show.

This means that you must escalate
towards getting physical and take
responsibility for it and make it
all as smooth as possible.

This is because for some weird reason in
our society, even promiscuous women
are expected to act a bit less promiscuous
than the men they sleep with. (Which
is REALLY stupid and just causes more
repression making these women even
MORE likely to be promiscuous!)

Now, the thing is, there’s nothing
EVIL about any of those things!

In fact, some of those things are good!

It’s just that it’s not ENOUGH for
attracting a woman who is much
MORE than just another woman
that is attractive.

In fact, if you DO happen to meet
a quality woman in a nightclub,
you have to be even MORE skilled
to show that you are NOT the typical
guy there.

And THIS is the reason I have written
ALL the above, it’s not a rant, it’s to
let you know just how RARE and how
DIFFERENT a genuine QUALITY woman
Is, AND HOW MUCH INNER STRENGTH
SHE MUST HAVE TO SPLIT APART FROM
THE MASSES OF SOCIETY.

She is the kind of woman who is RESISTANT
to peer pressure, to "social proof", she is IMPERVIOUS
to these "Jedi Mind Tricks" - she is one strong
woman that is looking for a man even STRONGER.

If you want to attract a woman who is
far stronger to social pressure than most,
if you want a woman who is faithful,
a woman who is intelligent, who is not
into drugs or promiscuity, she needs
to see that YOU are THE MAN that
is stronger internally than most men.

Remember, SHE has SPLIT APART from
the MAJORITY of brainwashed society,
and that takes GUTS plus INTELLIGENCE.

So imagine a woman of that fortitude,
what kind of MAN she must be with,
he will have to be EVEN STRONGER
in his INDEPENDENCE from social
proof brainwashing than she is,
if she is to feel FEMININE in his
presence.

She needs to see REAL confidence,
not just LUST-DRIVEN ENERGY.

And there needs to be a real connection
on a deep level, which means, if she
is a total stranger, you have to have
the SKILL to convey a LOT about yourself
in a BRIEF amount of time, doing very
LITTLE yet communicating a LOT.

And she needs to see your PERSPECTIVE
on life and whether it’s a COMPELLING
one or not. A weak sense of this perspective
will DEFINITELY chase away a fantastic
quality woman.

If you have all THAT, well THEN it’s
AWESOME to be able to meet her
and get all into the “FUN AND GAMES”
mentality, because now she feels SAFE
to go INTO that sexual mode with you
and just totally ENJOY it with you.

If a guy asks me if it’s worth it, to learn
how to detect and how to attract a rare
quality woman, the answer I give is simple:

Do you enjoy being betrayed?

Because if you hang out with the typical
woman who is attractive, and you try to
turn it into a long-term relationship, she will
most likely just try to use you or at best it
will be a short term thing.

So it’s not even a question of "if it’s
worth it or not" -  THERE'S NO
OTHER CHOICE:

It’s learn how to get a GREAT girl, and
be the man she has been DREAMING of
all her life, or get no woman at all.

The wrong woman will cost you
a fortune, your emotions, your time,
and your health.

The wrong woman will DESTROY you.

On the other hand, the RIGHT woman
will make EVERYTHING feel a trillion
times more FUN.

What I’ve done over the past several
YEARS is focused only the things
that actually WORK for attracting a
RARE type of woman:

A woman that is not only attractive and
faithful, but a woman who also brings out
the BEST in you because she herself is
such a great person.

HOW TO DETECT A QUALITY WOMAN:

One of the first things is DETECTING
a quality woman in the first place!

And guess what?

The truth is that a woman reveals her
ENTIRE personality to you quite quickly,
without her even realizing it.

You can find out VERY QUICKLY if you
are dealing with a quality woman or not.

The trick to this is that you have to be
LISTENING with SKILL.

Yes, with SKILL.

This means your mind is not just passively
listening, but your mind is actually looking
for certain things or the absence of certain
things in what she is saying and doing.

Most people are not only lacking at this skill,
but when you ALSO account for the fact that
most men are so mesmerized by a woman’s
beauty, you realize most men can’t even HEAR
what she is REALLY saying because men’s
emotions keep putting a HALO FILTER
over everything she says, interpreting
it all to make her a better person
than she really is.

So for example, let’s say you meet
a woman, and she works in media/tv/
film/music/entertainment and she is talking
to you about her work and she is PROUD
to tell you how she gets clients to do what
SHE wants and how she makes them think
it is THEIR idea when it is really hers, so
that they will do what she wants, etc, etc.

Now, just about every guy would
think nothing of this. In fact, a lot
of guys might even be IMPRESSED!

Meanwhile, this is a time-bomb
waiting to happen.

This woman is telling you that she
enjoys MANIPULATING people.

She is telling you that HONESTY
is not IMPORTANT to her.

Now, this is actually a REAL example
that a man brought up during the live
taping of Warrior Within, about a horrific
woman who he initially thought was GREAT,
before she tore his heart to pieces with her
infidelity.

However, after making the insights from
this program, he was able to “trace back
the steps” to when he met her, and he
thought back to the things she originally
SAID and DID when he met her.

He then remembered the SPECIFICS of the
things she said, including the details above
about how she, in essence, enjoyed
manipulating people.

He realized how with these skills, he could have
FORESEEN all of this, and would have realized
right away that this woman was a TIMEBOMB
and the last thing on earth that any man
should get into a relationship with.

Most men would never detect the messages
a woman is unintentionally really saying
about herself- whether those messages
are positive or negative.

You can detect a woman’s personality,
through these SKILLS of sifting out
the IMPORTANT things from what
she is saying.

Again, this is a skill that is usually glossed
over as not important, meanwhile it’s
almost EVERYTHING.

Not only does it tell you about the
woman, but if she is a great woman,
you can then use this knowledge of
her character to help understand
her and build a powerful CONNECTION.

She’s giving you all the INFORMATION
about herself so that you can actually
have a MEANINGFUL conversation to
her, that is not manipulative but based
on your real thoughts about her actual
identity- and if it’s an identity you
LIKE, you will be able to validate her
with a genuine compliment about her
actual core identity that you respect.

This forms a FAR DEEPER connection
than just “fluff talk” because it is about
you connecting to her CORE.

The ability to detect what kind of
woman you are dealing with is
ESSENTIAL.

In fact, the reason most people gloss
over this skill is for the very reason
they NEED this skill- they REFUSE
to believe they have anything they
really NEED to listen to or learn,
because they are SO CONVINCED
they already KNOW what they
need to know.

So this belief that they have, blocks out
ANY info that comes in regarding the
need to IMPROVE their listening skills!

And yet, what they know is REALLY
just the EMOTIONS they are feeling,
but they think it’s MORE than an
emotion, so if they feel ATTRACTION
to a girl, they also feel that this girl
must be “GOOD”.

In my Warrior Within program, we go
DEEP on this, and to be honest, just
this ALONE is worth the entire cost
of the program, as learning to detect
exactly WHAT kind of woman you are
dealing with RIGHT AWAY can save
you INFINITE PAIN!

Notice, by the way, that this woman
had NO CLUE she was revealing something
that is actually UNATTRACTIVE.

In fact, to HER, this IS an attractive thing,
that’s why she was showing off about it!

And most men would think the SAME.

This is why you want to learn these
skills that most men do NOT know.

Similarly, if a woman shows you that
she IS honest through the things she
is saying without even trying hard,
you can spot the RIGHT woman.

Remember, people reveal themselves
because they have no idea that their
negative behaviors ARE negative.

If they realized it, they would CHANGE.

And NO ONE can force them to realize
it unless THEY THEMSELVES are open
to changing and learning.

This is why I find it ludicrous that the
pick up artist crowd likes to pretend
that their advice ALSO works to get
ANY woman to become a girlfriend!

Complete and total b.s. unless by
“girlfriend” they mean cheating
girlfriend.

Getting a GREAT girl, especially these days,
is truly an entirely different CATEGORY of skill,
and it does NOT mix with the TYPICAL 
concept of “success with women”.

And as powerful as this newsletter is,
it’s barely scratched the surface of
the FULL SPECTRUM on how to get a
quality woman. This newsletter just
touched the surface on DETECTING
a quality woman, and there is so
much more on this, plus all the
information on actually ATTRACTING
her as well.

Remember, a rare quality woman that is
APART from the majority of the masses
is very DIFFERENT in what attracts her
than all the other typical women.

If you’d like to get a fantastic woman
who would be a great girlfriend, the best
thing on earth you can do is get my
“Warrior Within” program on DVD.

You will learn not only how to “see” what
kind of woman you are dealing with,
which will save you immense time and
energy, but you will also learn the truth
on how to UNLEASH all the deepest levels
to your INNER GAME to attract her and
KEEP her as well.

This isn’t “lust-driven” confidence.

It’s about being the kind of man that
stands APART from the vast majority
of men, because his power comes
from WITHIN, not from “social proof”
or any other gimmick.

THIS is the kind of man such a woman
CRAVES, and this program will show
you all the REAL-LIFE ways of developing
these skills. This program is zero gimmicks,
ALL SOLID CONTENT.

She’s out there right now, looking for
the man who understands what’s in
this program. Let that man be YOU.

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

And if you haven’t yet downloaded my
book, “Get A Great Girl”, do that now.
This book serves as a fantastic foundation
for you to get a great girlfriend.

Download it immediately at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Book.html

For now, for tomorrow, for ALWAYS,
be THE MAN.

Michael Marks

P.S. You can check out all my programs at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Advice On Attracting Women: Time Will Tell

The FUTURE is often the ONLY place
to determine if something is true or not,
and this includes pick up artist style
advice on how to attract women
and especially when it comes to
how to get a quality girlfriend.

The great thing is that what was once
the FUTURE is now the PRESENT,
and we can see whether the pick up artist
 stuff works to get a quality girlfriend or not.

The "future" that was talked about years ago
is now HERE.



One of the ways people sometimes
get fooled into believing things is
with a concept known as “social proof”.

Social proof is a concept, that states if a person
knows that OTHER people like something, then
he too will more likely feel that this thing is desirable,
based simply on the fact that others like it.

Maybe you've already heard of the phrase:
"Fifty million French men can't be wrong."

The same concept takes various forms, so for
example it could just be ONE person exuding
social proof on something, if that person is
deemed desirable or important.

This is why you see a lot of celebrity endorsements
for everything from soft drinks to where to go for college.

And it doesn't have to be a THING, it can be
a PERSON that people like, or that someone
important likes, and this now makes that
PERSON seem more desirable.

On one hand, this means for example that
if you walked into a room with two women
who were drop-dead gorgeous, and they
seemed really interested in you, it would
increase your attractiveness to all the
OTHER women in the room.

The two women on your arms are providing
you with “social proof”.

Now, this is not the method that I prefer
to use to get results for guys, because it’s
external to yourself, it’s short-lived, (as
social proof this way is very fragile
and you can't rely on others to provide
it for you, in fact these same girls
can turn and social proof someone
else) AND there are far more
powerful ways of creating attraction
that actually exude from YOU
and not from “social proof”.

This brings us what GENUINE confidence
really is all about.

When you truly exude confidence, it’s
as powerful as an exploding STAR, a
SUPERNOVA, if you will.

It draws in everything in it's path and it
clears everything that is blocking its path.

A woman, especially a woman of quality
who is thinking about the future, but in
truth ANY woman will MELT under a man
exuding this confidence, because it’s
HARDWIRED on a SURVIVAL level.

The reason it’s hardwired as part of survival
psychology in women and the reason it triggers
deep feelings of raw attraction in women is
because CONFIDENCE has very TANGIBLE
consequences that make the difference
between SURVIVAL and DESTRUCTION.

In fact, it also makes the difference between
THRIVING MASSIVE SUCCESS and begging
for scraps.

Now, I get into the deepest levels of this in
my Mastery Program, but for here let me
briefly say a few things about confidence:

I. IT’S THE FOUNDATION OF SOCIAL PROOF

If the whole WORLD thinks someone is great,
but when you meet that person, you see that
this person genuinely believes that he is NOT
great, then it DESTROYS all the social proof
instantly.

II. IT IMPLIES SOCIAL PROOF

The other cool thing is that infinite confidence
also IMPLIES that you are desirable to others
as well, because, “How on earth could you be
so confident otherwise?”

So you get IMPLIED social proof from all this.
Subtlety when it comes to this is far more
powerful than you trying to SAY “Hey I’m
desired by others” or even you trying to
“show” by having others do the work for you
by trying to make you look popular.

III. MOST IMPORTANTLY, IT MEANS POWER

The greatest COMMON trait that the most
successful men in the world, and I’m
talking about in EVERY sphere, in
arts, in science, in commerce, in sports,
in medicine, their greatest COMMON
trait is NOT having the highest intellectual
IQ. Now, they are smart, don’t get me
wrong, but the people who men who get
the farthest have a super strong
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE, and confidence
is right up there at the top of emotions
of emotional intelligence.

Otherwise, without this, the greatest genius
cannot reach even close to his potential,
the greatest athlete can’t be even close to
his best.

THE EMOTIONS of the MIND are where
being a WINNER is truly at.

Now, a quality woman doesn’t just FEEL
this AS MASSIVE DESIRE, she also KNOWS it,
so she has TWO engines driving her toward
such a man- BOTH THE PRIMAL "FEELING"
PART OF HER BRAIN AS WELL AS THE
"THINKING" PART.

But even a woman who is not a quality
woman, a woman with all sorts of issues,
she is ALSO attracted to this confidence
because it’s DEEP ROOTED IN HER PRIMAL
SENSE OF SURVIVAL, it’s not conscious
at ALL.

Now, are you ready for some IRONY?

The reality is that one of the SIGNS of
confidence is the ability to WITHSTAND
social proof.

But it takes TIME for this to be EVIDENT,
that in fact you could withstand it, because
at the time it's happening, the thing that is
being "socially proven" makes most people
brainwashed to even SEE beyond the
illusion.

This is part of where a quality woman is
a quality woman, and trust me, a quality
woman CAN indeed see through the
illusion in a nanosecond.

The book "The Game" and the pick up artists
managed to artificially engineer so much
“social proof” not among GIRLS but from
the SHEER NUMBER OF MEN FOLLOWING
THOSE ROUTINES AND THEIR ADVICE,
that many guys BELIEVED that for SURE
it had to all be great.

In fact, I used to be on a message board
that was all about how to attract women,
and at the TIME, my message was often
MOCKED.

Anything that smacked of "relationship
material" information was viewed as
the ENEMY OF ATTRACTION!

Now, suddenly, these same guys who
kept saying, "A woman won't feel attraction
unless you act arrogant and negate her
self-esteem and PUT HER DOWN
by the use of "cleverly disguised insults that
resemble jokes", are now trying to ALSO SAY
that "Ummm, the SECRET is that a woman
must be able to see you as RELATIONSHIP
MATERIAL!".

The complete incongruency of this is one
sure way to drive away ALL women,
the women who are not serious about
relationships and ALSO the women
who are promiscuous and just out
to get physical and NOT have a
relationship!

From back then when the advice you
read in my materials was once mocked,
to fast forward several years, and today
my most ARDENT readers are none
other than the pick up artists and dating
gurus themselves!

If imitation is the sincerest form of
flattery, I'm blushing.

But make no mistake about it, mixing
pick up artist advice and how to get
a quality girlfriend advice is a formula
for getting NOTHING.

TIME has proven that in fact the once
“popular” advice was actually NOT
very good and in fact will DESTROY
your chances with a quality woman.

Otherwise, the pick up artist craze would
still be on TV, it would still be making
major books, it would be everywhere,
but it's NOT.

On the OTHER hand:

Time has ALSO proven that the things
I teach actually WORK. (And yes, I’ve
proven it, not only have I been followed
by journalists, but the men I’ve worked
with have given their OWN details to these
journalists, and have had their success
stories printed, and these men were NOT
even my clients, it was the NEWSPAPER
that chose these men, so I had nothing to
do with having ANY sort of friendship or
connection with them – these men owed
me NOTHING. Just scroll to the bottom
of this url to see the photo:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Book.html )

Now, I could have easily “sold out” during
the pick up artist craze, as I had all the
connections to those channels, and could
have easily “cashed in” on it.

But when you have FULL CONFIDENCE
in the TRUTH AND POWER of what you
teach, you can withstand all this stuff
because you have true CONVICTION in
what you say.

This kind of conviction is what is crucial
to carry over into all your interactions
with women, including when you decide
to say NO to her if she is going against
your values. 

Or when you say NO to her for other things.

Or when you say NO to things in your OWN
life that will just bring you down, no matter
how tempting it might be in the short term.

Yes is a great word, and I believe in positivity,
but I also believe that NO is a great word as
well, and can be even more positive than yes.
I often speak about having
GENUINE conviction in every
syllable of everything you
say to a woman, and the
importance of being congruent
and consistent, not just in your
words but in your ACTIONS.

Otherwise you set off her alarm bells
that say, "Sketchy guy!"

Time is the living proof for things, and
I knew eventually that fallacy of the
pick up artist and dating guru craze
would make itself massively apparent.

What you will learn from my materials
is not only the TRUTH on what attracts
a woman, but also the best way to GO
ABOUT BECOMING THIS KIND OF MAN
FOR REAL RATHER THAN ACTING.

Now, confidence is a HUGE part of all
this, but it’s definitely not ALL if you’re
looking to also KEEP a woman and if
you’re looking to also SUSTAIN your
own success and power as a man in
ALL aspects of your life, which of course
is all part of the big picture that makes
you attractive.

It’s critical that there is zero ARROGANCE
in your confidence, and it’s critical that
there is total RESPECT for a good woman
all at the same time that your confidence
is exploding through the roof.

It’s also crucial to understand the link
between sex, love, and dedication.

Tiger Woods had reached ZENITH levels
of performance, but unfortunately was
his own worst enemy by losing control
when it came to women. I’m not judging
him, by the way, as his dedication to
his sport is truly an inspiration to all
who pursue excellence.

I’m just saying what HAPPENS, with the
same accuracy of math and science,
when you don’t treat the entities of
sex and love and dedication with
infinite respect.

Sylvester Stallone, born with partially
paralyzed facial muscles and mocked
for his first name as being a cartoon
cat, and put down by his father as
having no real talent, and born in
Hell’s Kitchen, ended up not only
PERSONIFYING the action hero,
and embodying the icon of masculinity,
and REINVENTING the action hero
for an entire generation, but then brought
it back for ANOTHER generation
that had never even been ALIVE
during his first “prime”.

He also proved how WRONG everyone
was not only the first time around when
no studio wanted to put him in his own
film he wrote, called "Rocky" in case
anyone here has been living on another
solar system and never heard of it,
but he also made the COMEBACK
of his life just a couple of years ago.

Everyone thought he couldn't do it,
no studio wanted to invest in him,
he had almost ZERO SOCIAL PROOF
going at the time, but he had HIS
INTERNAL CONVICTION ON
AT FULL BLAST, which got the
attention of the QUALITY people
who are the decision makers.

Although his road from the begining was never
easy, along the way, even after success, he
AGAIN went through a massive challenge,
as he almost lost it all and lost his career,
and it seems hard to deny that losing control
with women and losing the RIGHT WOMAN
and then going for the WRONG woman played
a massive role in this part of his life where his
incredible career hit a low point.

Again, I am NOT judging and I truly
ADMIRE this man as one of the greatest
movie makers of all time, and it’s for this
reason that I have been so passionate
about understanding what is it that
causes failure and success, and it’s
mind-blowing that the very thing that
SKYROCKETS men’s success can also
be the thing that RUINS them- I’m talking
about women. The right one, you skyrocket,
the wrong one, you crash in an inferno
of destruction.

In my materials, I’m not interested
in FLUFF.

Only the very BEST information that’s critical
for your success in getting the right woman.

I’m also not interested in gross over-generalizations.

The truth is that success with women is about
the SUBTLETIES you display, a mixture of
burning confidence, dominance, and yet it’s
also about warmth, humor, and inspiration.

You will find what separates my material from
others is the painstaking attention to subtlety
and detail.

Anyone can just go through the GENERAL
idea of something, for example, anyone
can get the basics of a golf swing, but all
the tiny differences in angles, all the
SUBTLETIES are what make ALL the
difference between success and failure.

So I’m going to give you a quick rundown
of all my materials right here, and how they
fit in to your success with women:

1. The Dating Wizard E-Book

This is the very first book I wrote,
and it’s for every single guy out
there who is too “NICE” – and
trust me, I PERSONIFIED this,
which is why I understand how
HARD IT CAN BE to turn on the
“MAN” part of you when interacting
with women.

We are brainwashed from birth to believe
that all women are immaculate saints
who just want a “nice guy” and then we
get PUMMELED when we show this “nice”
stuff to women.

So this book is for solving that once and
for all. It’s at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Wizard.html

2. The Mastery Program

This takes you into the FULL DEPTH level
beyond the Dating Wizard book, it will
show you in absolute detail how to unleash
the sexual, masculine, dominant part of
your personality, and will even give you
an exact play-by-play A-Z roadmap you can
follow as a blueprint for what to do from
meeting a woman to getting her isolated
and getting physical with her.

You can check it out here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

3. The Get A Great Girl E-Book

This book is an absolute MUST for getting
a quality girlfriend, it will show you the
secrets that will make ALL the difference
between a woman feeling you’re just
another guy who’s “okay”, and you being
the kind of man that she wants to be with
for life.

This book is absolutely required reading
in a world full of TOXIC brainwashing
regarding attraction, dating, and love.

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Book.html

4. Actions For Attraction CD Set

This CD Set will arm you with the most
advanced APPLICATIONS of my concepts.

So for example, you’ve probably heard
a million times that you need to have
CONFIDENCE when approaching women,
or even that you MUST approach women
to get good at it, but the question on
your lips is probably “YEAH, BUT I
JUST DON’T APPROACH BECAUSE
IT’S NERVE WRACKING!”

Well, just on this topic alone, you will
learn REVOLUTIONARY breakthrough
strategies that will OBLITERATE this
‘approach anxiety’ forever. I go into
full detail on HOW to do this, for over
an HOUR of detailed strategies and
how to apply them.

You’ll also learn how to break the ice
with women by getting them laughing
without you having to become a clown,
you’ll learn insights I got from a master
comedian who at one time was a 26
year old VIRGIN who had never even
KISSED a girl, and then became one
of the most successful men in the world
with women and even served as a guest
instructor at one of my real world bootcamps
where men approach women and attract
them in real life in real time.

You’ll hear the interview I conducted with him!
And you'll how to have the most effective chats
with women, making instant impact on women,
how to master all the crucial moments, and
much, MUCH more.
Having this information gives you an almost
UNFAIR advantage over other men when it comes
to meeting and attracting a quality girlfriend.

It’s at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/ActionsForAttraction.html

Get the dating life you want by getting your
hands on my programs NOW.

Be cool,

Michael Marks

The Truth On How To Get A Quality Girlfriend

Today, we're going to get into crucial insights
on how to get a quality girlfriend, starting from the
very first step, before you even know whether
or not she is a great girl because she is a total
stranger. 

So this could be anywhere, the bus, the post
office, the bank, the pizza shop, or the gym.



STEP ONE: STOCK UP ON THE BACK-UP!

There's nothing more frustrating than seeing
a woman you'd like to approach and not
knowing what to say, right? Even if you've
done it successfully before, but then you've
been out of it for a few days, it can seem
tough if you aren't experienced.

The key to solving this is to COMBINE the
following two things:

Not only must you start approaching women
every day, but you must also build up a
repertoire of things to say that are NOT
cheeseball pick up lines that make her
feel cheap.

So, to make this process EASY, the first
step doesn't even require you to actually
HAVE TO VERBALIZE ANYTHING!

Yes, I want you to walk up close to her,
just to acclimate yourself to the IDEA
and get calm about it, but you don't
HAVE TO SAY ANYTHING NOW.

For one entire week, don't even worry about
actually SAYING ANYTHING to her, instead,
every time you see a woman, try walking
past her, and then WRITE DOWN on paper
something you could say to her. Even if
takes you ten minutes to figure out what
to say, or what you could have said,
WRITE IT DOWN!



And then take it a step UP by writing down
ALL THE DIFFERENT THINGS you could
say to her THAT HAVE SOME EMOTIONAL
RELEVANCE (read, are not BORING)
BUT ALSO DO NOT TRY TO PUT HER
DOWN EVEN A TINY NOTCH.

So if you're going to use humor, it
should be PLAYFUL, not mean-spirited
or trying to negate her self-esteem
even one tiny drop. (Yes, I'll give
you examples below!)

This might happen while going grocery shopping,
it may happen while you're at school, it may
happen while in line at the bank, while at the
post-office, it can happen ANYWHERE.

And EACH TIME you see a woman in a
different situation, you should write down
what you COULD have said to her.

So, for example, if she is filling up her car
with gas, and you're just walking by, you
can playfully tease her for polluting the
environment instead of being a good green
citizen like you who walks to save the earth.
(women tend to be MORE into saving the
environment than men, so she will NOT
get pissed, she will KNOW you are joking,
this will NOT hurt her feelings one drop.)

WRITE IT DOWN, so next time you know
what to say in that kind of situation.

In fact, WRITE DOWN EVERYTHING,
all the different things you could have
said to her.

Keep the things interesting, playful, and upbeat.

If she's at the pizza shop, you can playfully
congratulate her for taking the message of
the movie "Eat Pray Love" to heart!  Tell
her you love a woman who isn't afraid of
carbs!

You'll be READY for these situations the next
time they happen!

You'll see that it's much EASIER to do this

when there's no PRESSURE to actually have to
SAY anything. In fact, you'll start to WANT
these situations to happen again so you can
TAKE ACTION because now you are
mentally PREPARED and have been
WANTING it to happen!

By doing this, you are also training your mind
to start becoming RESOURCEFUL and
FAST so that you in fact WON'T need
any "lines", you will become a TRUE
"James Bond" type, in the sense your
mind will have the ability to GENUINELY
use the actual situation and environment
with this woman to have an interesting,
meaningful, and charismatic conversation.

All skills involve STEPS, and this is a
first important step.

If you're at the post office, waiting in line
and you want to chat to the woman in front
of you or behind you, etc, then you can
say something like, "With the line up this
long, by the time we get to the clerk, the
cost of postage is going to go up."

Or you can say something like:
"Not sure if the person I'm sending
this letter to will have moved by the
time I get to the clerk handling my
letter here". Then you can ask her if
she can hold your place in line for a
sec as you get a drink from the store.

The key is to write all this stuff down, and
to make it CONSISTENT with your personality.

In a week, you will have DOZENS of perfect
things to get a conversation started, all that
make sense for the situation and that are
consistent with your personality- and guess
what?

You probably WON'T NEED TO USE THEM!

At the very LEAST, you'll need them LESS
AND LESS, TILL AFTER A FEW WEEKS YOU
DON'T NEED THEM AT ALL.

Your mind will be trained from doing this
so much that you will find you keep
getting faster and NOT needing anything
you had actually stocked up on!

TWO: LISTEN INTENTLY TO HER

Here's the cool side-effect of doing this-
by writing down all these conversation
starters as back up in case you don't know
what to say, you will NOT ONLY actually be
training your mind to come UP with MORE stuff
on the SPOT, because you are stimulating the
creative flow of your mind in this way,

But you will also notice something ELSE:

As a result of of knowing what to say,
you will be able to RELAX more, so
you will be able to focus on the two
things that REALLY COUNT to successfully
attracting a woman:

1. The DELIVERY of the words you say.
(Even more important than the actual
words themselves.)

2. You will also be able to focus on LISTENING
to HER more than on worrying about what to SAY
to get the ball rolling.

Yes, LISTENING to the woman's
responses to what you are saying is
far more important than most guys
will EVER realize- this is a huge key
in having a great conversation that
actually ATTRACTS a woman rather
than just getting a polite response.

Since you will be relaxed on the "What
do I say?" issue, you will stop worrying
about "picking her up", and instead you
will now instinctively begin to focus
more on picking up *ON* what she's saying.

So now, you can have an effective, meaningful
conversation where you actually understand
her better and can give better feedback to
what she says to you.

THREE: FOCUS ON THE EMOTIONAL CORE
OF THE CONVERSATION

This is the kind of thing that goes
beyond the "quick fix" mentality of
the "dating guru/pick up" scene:

When a woman tells you something, she wants
to feel understood. However, too often, as guys
we think that all we have to do is say, "Yeah,
me too, I did that too" to show we understand
it.

Let me illustrate with an example:

When a woman tells you that she was
born in a really tough country where
poverty was everywhere, the best thing
you can do is probably be quiet and just
let her keep explaining things.

If you just interrupt her before she's finished
and you interject that you had the same experience,
you're almost taking away from the pain of her
experience by making her feel like it's not special.

Now, this doesn't mean that you should not explain
what you went through, if you went through something
similar, it just means that you shouldn't JUMP to
saying something like that right away, because too
often that type of thinking comes from ego and
from self-validation rather than trying to make
the other person feel special. So let the other
person truly express themselves, and ask
questions to try to understand.

And those questions should get to the emotional
core. Let's take a more happy example, let's
say she says she used to be a singer- don't say,
"Oh I used to be a singer too," or, "Oh, I used to
play the drums in a band".

Instead, you should truly seek info to understand,
so for example a good question to ask might be:
"What did it FEEL like to sing?" or "What made you want
to sing?" "What were some of the most powerful
emotional songs that you ever sang- the ones you
really felt ALIVE on???"

This is what leads to her wanting to meet you AGAIN
and take things to the next level.



This type of conversation is infinitely better
than superficial questions such as:
"Where did you perform?"
"What kind of money did you get paid?"
"Did you tour on a bus?"
"Did you get a lot of fan mail?"
Etc, etc.

You want to get to the emotional CRUX of the situation.

FOUR: INTERPRET EVERYTHING AS A COMPLIMENT

Too often, we are our own worst enemies.
Our own insecurities make us see insults and
pain and mean behavior where it doesn't even
exist.

So for example, you might start a conversation
with a woman, the woman might say "I can't
believe they let you in this store with that
shirt you're wearing" and you might feel
the woman is making fun of you, when in
reality she might be saying that your
shirt takes so much guts to wear because
the message or logo or picture or
WHATEVER was too much for
most people.

So you AGREE with whatever she said
and INTERPRET this as a compliment-
by saying, for example:

"Yeah, with this shirt on, no girls will
read any books, they'll just be eyeing
me instead!" And then give her a
mischievous wink and smile.

The wonderful thing about this 'interpret
everything as a compliment' is that you
can NEVER go wrong with it:

If the woman was truly being innocent
and good to you, then you come across
as a guy who with a great sense of humor.

However, even if the woman was being a little
nasty with attitude it will make her get that
"deer in headlights" look that comes from
being shocked that you are so UNTOUCHED and
completely unaffected by her- and THIS IN
ITSELF will often attract her, which will
give you the confidence to know you
'HAVE WHAT IT TAKES' to ATTRACT.

This kind of confidence will allow you to
easily DROP this particular nasty one even
though she wants you, and you can MOVE ON
easily to a BETTER woman.

Knowing you have WORTH like this
helps you NOT go for just any
woman who shows she is attracted
to you, no matter how good looking
she seems.

Staying with a woman who chips away at
your self-esteem is NEVER a good idea,
and in fact it screws with your head
in such a way that you end up radiating
negative beliefs about women that you
end up showing to ALL women.

And that includes those women who
are the rare GEMS that are actually GREAT
quality women, and then from your
behavior, these quality women figure
you'll be nasty to them and so they run
away before you even get a chance to find
out what kind of quality women they
really are.

FIVE: CONGRUENCY AND CONVICTION

The reason most guys fail in their initial
conversations with women is NOT because
they aren't so funny or exciting, as a first
conversation doesn't always have to be
a big spectacle - a woman will sometimes
forgive all that, knowing that it's just
a first conversation, and that maybe she
needs to get to know you better.

HOWEVER, what you MUST do right away,
and do well, is be absolutely CONGRUENT.

This means don't pretend to be something
that you're NOT. If you don't have a healthy
lifestyle, don't pretend that you work out
everyday- she'll notice the cigarette box
in your pocket.

If you are a health nut, don't try to act
like you think drinking is "cool," and
don't pretend you drink at parties a lot
or that you visit the "hottest clubs",
just to show you are cool.

If you are going to say something, then
make sure you MEAN it, because if
you say stuff you don't really feel
in your heart, it will often SHOW up
as false from your body language
and from inconsistencies in your
stories, etc.

The inconsistencies will especially
make a quality woman sense a RED ALERT,
that is screaming out:"THIS GUY IS SKETCHY!"

The reason for this is because a quality

woman who is truly willing to invest herself
emotionally in a man, has a lot more at stake
than a woman who is not serious about a
relationship.

A woman who is not serious about a relationship
is not worried about getting emotionally hurt,
since she is not invested emotionally.

However, a woman who IS serious about a
relationship has so much at stake, so much
at risk, that she is going to pay particular
attention to how CONGRUENT (consistent) a
man's actions and words are, and if they
aren't congruent, she's going to be out
of there at light speed.

Be consistent with who you really are,
(most guys instinctively HIDE this and
it backfires with the best women) and if
you don't like who you are in terms of
the things you are doing, then CHANGE
those things.

You have no idea of the power of delivering
EVERY WORD you say with CONVICTION.

It's MASSIVE.

This is one reason why you should also
speak SLOWER and utter every syllable
of your words, don't swallow them or
rush them.

SIX: STOP ALL FIDGETY MOVEMENTS

When we are nervous, our body movements
are jittery. So take a deep breath and
consciously control your arms from
dangling around, stop tapping your
fingers nervously, stop your foot from
tapping nervously.

We are all created by the same Source,
so realize that you have every right and
every bit of worth to warrant calming down.

SEVEN: GIVE RICH PERSPECTIVES INSTEAD
OF ASKING "LEECHING" QUESTIONS

Too often, when trying to have a conversation
with a woman, it's almost an impulse to ask her
"leeching" questions- questions that just TAKE info,
questions that almost feel like an interrogation:

"What is your name?"

"Do you live around here?"

"What are you doing here?"

"How often do you come here?"

Why should a woman, especially a woman
who knows she has a lot to offer a guy,
want to give this info away when she
has received nothing from him?

Instead, start a conversation that sparks EMOTIONS:

You can comment playfully on what she is
reading. You can tell her a really interesting
thing that just happened to you a few moments
ago and THEN ask her for her opinion on why
these things keep happening to you.

The time to ask questions is once a woman
is already interested in you, because then
your questions are welcomed, and even then
your questions should be as described above,
they should help you understand her emotional
core much better.

I'm sure you can see that these are REAL-LIFE,
crucial strategies and insights for attracting
a quality girlfriend. To SKYROCKET your success
in getting a fantastic woman, you need to get a
copy of my "Actions For Attraction" CD Set.

These CDs are ALL NEW material, and they're
CRAMMED with the most effective insights
and strategies that are IMMEDIATELY relevant
for approaching, meeting, and keeping a quality woman.

Your success in attracting a quality woman as your
girlfriend is going to SKYROCKET with these CDs.

You can SAMPLE this program and check out all
the details at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/ActionsForAttraction.html

Be cool, 

Michael Marks

P.S.
You can check out ALL my programs on meeting,
attracting, and keeping a quality girlfriend at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php