How To Approach Women SUCCESSFULLY

Today, I'm going to share with you
some of the most powerful steps you
can take to attract a woman the moment
you see her, how to successfully get
into the conversation, and how to
detect the right women as well as
how to avoid the wrong women!

And, of course, how to avoid the
biggest mistakes that men tend
to make.

1. IT’S NOT ABOUT BEING A CLOWN

Rather, it’s about YOU enjoying a good
laugh, and bringing HER into this world
of fun. A world of fun that is YOUR
world.

When you go in trying to MAKE her laugh,
it always ends up with you showing inferior
status, as if you’re the court jester trying
to entertain the king.

And that is a total attraction-destroyer.

On the other hand, when YOU are having a blast,
then you not only are actually funnier anyway,
but the vibes being given off by you all say
that you are the kind of guy that has everything
in life under control, and that life will be FUN
with you.

You also convey that you are clearly so comfortable
in your own skin that you can be in this mode even
with a woman who is a knockout.

So if I’m in line at the store, and a hottie is in
front of me with a bottle of water and celery,
and I pick up a candy bar and wave it in her
face and PRETEND as if the chocolate bar
is hypnotically saying “You want MEEEE,
I know you dooo- give into meeeeeeeeee”
the key is that it’s coming from a place where
I think it’s funny, not because I need to get her
to laugh.

And that makes it FUNNIER, because it
makes the DELIVERY of the words far
more CONFIDENT.

And that makes the delivery far more
BELIEVABLE.

If you are going to say something, you
have to go TOTALLY INTO IT, you
have to be consistent, congruent to
whatever it is you’re saying.

If you sound like you don’t really MEAN
what you are saying, it never works well.

This is why you can give the greatest
joke to someone to say and it will be
useless because he doesn't seem to
believe in the words he's saying.

2. RISK ASSESSMENT OF HUMOR

All humor requires RISK.
Without SOME risk, humor is IMPOSSIBLE.

So by risk, I mean the risk that SOMEONE
will get offended.

The KEY however, is to have the emotional
and other forms of intelligence to see if the
risk is worth the PAYOFF.

So the key is to keep the risk SMALL, and
the payoff HIGH.

If you are going to tease a woman, only tease
her on things you know she has a high chance
of being CONFIDENT about.

So if she’s tall, you can tease her about being short.
If she’s a knockout, you can tease her about being
undesirable, etc.

If she’s witty, you can tease her about being dumb.

3. THE FACEBOOK INVERSE RELATIONSHIP

What this means, is that if you’re looking for a
QUALITY type of woman, a girlfriend that is
not all focused on only HERSELF, a woman
who is NOT a narcissist, then you want to
ABSOLUTELY AVOID the women who
have TONS of “FRIENDS” ON FACEBOOK.

The reason for this, is that in general, there is
an inverse relationship between the amount
of friends a woman has on Facebook and the
degree of her genuine friendliness.

It’s ironic, isn’t it? After all, the whole point
of Facebook is to get official “friends”, right?

And that’s EXACTLY the reason narcissists
gravitate toward it, because if they can get
lots of FRIENDS on FACEBOOK, they
can then APPEAR as POPULAR.

These types of women will go through
MASSIVE WORK just to engineer their
entire Facebook image, from the amount
of "friends" they have (whom will be
promptly dropped as soon as they have
been used by the narcissist woman),
to the particular quotes they use,
to the photos put on display, etc,
etc.) ALL so that they SEEM highly
"wanted".

Facebook allows people to create an artificial
FRONT, a MASK if you will. It’s kind of
similar having memorized pick up lines or
memorized routines that aren’t a real reflection
of one’s identity, but that are SUPPOSED to
show how “cool” or “funny” one is, etc, etc.

And we all know how pick up lines don’t
work on the best women.

4. SEEK WOMEN WHO DON'T SEEK INFINITE ATTENTION

As illustrated above, narcissists FEED
off of infinite attention and worship,
while QUALITY women tend to be less
obsessed about make-up, dressing to
the nines, and wearing clothing that
might be EXTREMELY uncomfortable but
they feel is worth it to get the
attention.

The irony is that real beauty is hard
to hide anyway, to the trained eye.

So if you're looking for the right
kind of woman, start screening OUT
the attention grabbers, and start
focusing more on the women who are
just as gorgeous but don't need to
ADVERTISE it as if it's going out
of style.

This behavior that is the OPPOSITE
OF SEEKING ATTENTION, is why, by the way,
a woman who is the kind of woman that
is looking for a GOOD MAN, for something
REAL, gets turned off IMMEDIATELY when she
senses the FAKE vibe, the cheesy lines,
etc.

Which leads me to the next point:

5. WHEN ABOUT TO APPROACH A WOMAN
AND SAY SOMETHING TO HER, MAKE
SURE YOU OBLITERATE EVERYTHING
IN YOUR MIND BESIDES THE IDEA OF
“HI”.

Yes, the VIBE when you START the conversation
or chat should be EXTREMELY LOW KEY.

It’s different in 30 seconds from that point, where
you can raise the energy level, you can do all
sorts of fun stuff.

But in general, in that FIRST MOMENT, if
you are about to talk to a woman in any
place besides a high energy location like
a music dance club, etc, you should keep
it LOW KEY, and UNASSUMING.

So you are putting ZERO pressure on her.

She should feel that she has the TOTAL
CHOICE AND EASE TO LEAVE THE
SITUATION IF SHE WANTS TO.

The TONE of your voice should be LOW KEY.

I didn’t say QUIET, but LOW KEY, NOT INTENSE.

Most guys when they approach a woman,
they go in feeling that there is this HUGE
thing at stake, and it SHOWS in their
facial expression and tonality.

But if you REALLY go in there to begin
with by GENUINELY not EXPECTING
OR FEELING THAT SHE MUST DO
ANYTHING, but at the SAME TIME
showing that you are RELAXED and
showing WARMTH in your voice,
THAT is the way to show that you
are comfortable in your own skin,
and it also TAKES AWAY THE
PRESSURE on her.

And the BEST way to PREVENT
RESISTANCE is to REMOVE
PRESSURE!

So the HIGHEST chances of her NOT
resisting your approach come from
REMOVING all pressure to begin with!

Once she is not RESISTANT to your
approach, now SHE can go into the mode
of focusing on how to get CLOSER to you
instead of how to get away.

Remember, all this happens within a few
seconds, and AFTER these few seconds,
you can THEN turn up the energy and
the vibe and the fun, because she now
is RECEPTIVE to it.

TIMING is critical here, just like it is in
so many other aspects of life.

6. THE IRONY OF ATTRACTION
Attraction is a bit of a paradox.
On one hand, when you do it right,
it sounds so simple.

But that's because so many things
have been internalized, that it's
kind of like learning to walk.

It really takes a lot of little
steps put together, but when done
right, it looks very easy.

Recently, I received a letter from a
man who has put a lot of the steps for
one particular "attraction situation"
together, and I've commented on his
letter to make the steps even clearer.

LETTER FROM A READER:

Dear Michael,

The past six months has been the most torturous
experience of my life. Last November, my
girlfriend broke up with me, and although we
were not getting along, I always expected that
we would work things out and never give up-
that’s the attitude that I thought we both had.

Michael, I felt like my world was ending-
there were moments that I could not physically
breathe, moments where I felt I was going to die
from sheer weakness. It’s like I was drained
of all zest, energy and desire for life.

Throughout this time, I had a sense of disbelief,
that “How on earth could she do this to me, how
could she give up on us”?

Then, about six weeks ago, late on another sleepless
night, I found your site on the internet, and read
every single article you have. It was painful
to read a lot of it, to be honest, as it was so
clear that I was doing everything wrong,
and if you were right, it meant I had to
start over again- the very way I understood
my reality and how to go about getting
and attracting the kind of woman I wanted.

I suppose that’s the only good thing about
hitting rock bottom, you’re more willing
to try anything.

So I went all out and decided to get your
Warrior Within DVDs. I went through half
the entire series in one night. For the
first time, so many painful memories
started to become beautiful to me, because
your breakdown of how attraction is created
and destroyed showed me what was really
happening all along, and the reasons why
as well.

More on that later, but I want to get to
the most important part of this letter,
which is how I applied your strategies for
breaking through my inner barriers on taking
action with women, and taking the kind of
action you suggest as well.

I currently work as a dishwasher in a restaurant,
that’s right a dishwasher, as I lost my previous
job that required my engineering degree as
well as years of experience, from not showing
up to work. Like I said before, the breakup
really destroyed me. So until I find another
job that uses my skills, I need to pay my
bills with whatever helps.

Anyway, there is a smoking hot waitress
who works at the restaurant, and until
I got your Warrior program, all I could
do was wish about her. Her name is
****, and she’s a mixed breed of
Mediterranean, French, and some other
stuff I can’t remember, except that she
is certainly one of the most exquisite
exotic creatures I have ever seen.

Guys are ogling her all the time, and
I see customers trying to flirt with her,
but now that I have your program, I
can see all the mistakes they’re making,
from trying to take advantage of the
fact they are “customers” and knowing
she won’t tell them off, to copying the
silly teases you hear about all the time
designed to lower her confidence.

Well, after another lonely night of having
nobody knocking at the door, nobody
calling on the phone, and getting pissed
off at looking at the same four walls,
I went through the section on your
DVDs called “Naming The Voices”.

That did it for me, it got me so angry
at those parts of my self, that I made
that brutal disconnection between my
better self and those internal voices,
and I just knew that no matter what,
the next day I would follow your advice.

Before I left the house in the morning,
I practiced the voice tonality as you
show until I got into 'state' as you
would call it.

I walked in for work as usual, and as I
entered, I saw **** serving a table, and
I sauntered over to her, and in my head
pops your voice reminding me not to be
nasty but to be childlike fun, and to
fully go along with whatever I decide to
do, to have full conviction in it and
not take off if she doesn't 'bite' right
away like you say most guys do.

So, I pointed alarmingly, to a button on the
top of her blouse, and made this gross face,
saying “Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!
What Isssssss That???”

She laughs and says to me “This is a joke, right?”

I remember your words again: To treat the
joke with full conviction.

So I don’t stop.

I go: “Ewwwwwwwwwwww!
What Issss That?”

So this time, she looks down to her button,
and I do the silliest thing since I was 6
years old, just as you say about being
a kid with women, to allow them to
regress to that childhood playfulness-
and what I do is, I take my finger that
was right beside her top button and
flick her nose!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You have to understand Michael, that
this girl is so intensely gorgeous, that
I see men come in everyday and easily
tip her way more than they would anyone
else, just in the hopes that this might
seriously get them some attention.

I see other guys just ogling her for
an entire hour as they eat, and not
say a word to her.

I hear other customers try to get all serious
with her about their serious accomplishments
and careers, from politicians to doctors.

And here I go, flicking this seriously hot babe’s
cute perfect nose in my Grade 2 style juvenile
behavior!

My heartbeat was racing, as I figured I was
either about to get the biggest slap in the
face, berated, or fired (again!).

Her eyes widened and she looked like she
was going to kill me, and then said to me:

“Thank you for brightening up my day”-
and I wasn’t sure if she was being sarcastic
or not.

She then grabbed my shirt by the collar
and said to me, “You think you can mess
with me?”

I’m telling you Michael, I still wasn’t
sure if the police were gonna be beating
my ass shortly. But I decided to follow
your words to the letter, and stayed in
full conviction of this joke.

So I continued with: “No way, I want to
keep it clean! I hardly even know you!
You’d have to wine and dine me before
even thinking of getting there with me!”

And that’s when she cracked, man, that’s
when she totally cracked.

She starts laughing in disbelief, shaking
her head in disapproval, but it’s the kind
where you know she is enjoying every
bit of it.

So I told her that I had to get to work in
the back, and I also warned her to keep
a clean mind and clean thoughts and
not to think about getting dirty with me!
(This was brilliant of you by the way,
your work on obsessive thoughts and
how the worst way to get a thought
out of your mind is to tell the mind
to not think about it- and how this
creates the opposite effect! So by
telling her to make sure not to think
about it, she probably thought about
it the whole shift!)

Well what do you know, she ends up
in the back fifteen minutes later, telling
me that she’s never had a guy tell her
to be clean with him before, so I just
told her “There’s a first time for everything,
it looks like I’m going to be your first,
I hope it won’t hurt!”

She then starts asking me when my shift
is over, and at that point, thanks to your
materials, I realized the time for joking
was over, because she was clearly into
me, and you warned how guys lose women
by taking the jokes into the “clown zone”
where the guy seems to be a clown and
not serious about taking the interaction
to a real man-woman connection level.

So before I could even finish saying “at close –
“11 o-clock” she tells me that she is here till
then also and that she’d appreciate a nice
clean guy to walk her home.

Man, Michael, this girl knew when I finished,
she was just asking to as you say, set it up
as if she didn’t to make it look more like
“well since we both finish the same time
anyway he might as well walk me home”

What really makes me love this girl is that
she has no idea that in fact I have two degrees-
she sees me as the dishwasher dude who has
no qualms about it!

All I can tell you man, as a gentleman, is
that we had the greatest connection that
night and I’m still seeing her today.
I have no idea if this woman is “the one”
but she certainly is making my life better
and not giving me any headaches.

Maybe it’s because of her experiences
with men that she already knows that
not all that glitters is gold, or maybe
she just digs a guy who makes life
fun, even the small things.

And I owe it all to you, right down even
to the choice of humor, and of not being
nasty in my humor but instead just childlike
and playful, with a touch of naughty, allowing
her to regress to being a fun girl, which ironically
allows her to be a woman instead of a robot.

There’s one more thing I need to tell you
before ending this letter, which I wasn’t
planning on being so long!

I finally remembered something about
my ex, and it clicked in my head after
I was watching your Warrior Within
program yet again:

To make a long story short, this woman
unintentionally gave me plenty of clues
about her nature, as far back as the very first
date I ever had with her. But I decided
to disregard them, because verbally, she
assured me that she was “good old
fashioned faithful”.

I made the terrible error of believing words
as opposed to actions and subtle but ever
so meaningful body language cues, and on
top of that I believed “all women are messed
up so I might as well accept this one who
seems better than the others.”

If I had your Warrior Within program back
then, I would have never, ever gone on a
second date with that woman, and would
have spared myself the monstrous pain that
I created for myself by growing attached to
her.

Your Warrior Within program did more than
just help me get this new woman, who knows
exactly who I really am and loves me for it,
and who, by the way, gives me no drama or
headaches, and treats me like I’m a king.

Your Warrior Within program has made
me grow as a man, because I am not
angry anymore toward my ex, as I can
now see the whole picture, including
the fact that in the future, I can take
responsibility for things because I
now know what to look for in a woman’s
behavior and how to see the signals
up front and fast.

I can’t blame my situation on women anymore.
It’s up to me to keep a woman, break up with
a woman, or go meet and attract a woman-
Warrior Within put the power back in my
hands, I am no longer a victim and never
will be again.

So all I can say is thanks, man, and I hope
other men in my situation realize that no
matter how much pain they may be in
over a woman, there is light at the end
of the tunnel if they are willing to learn
and take the responsibility of that learning
on themselves.

Jack H.
San Diego, CA

P.S. I just got a phone call for an interview
for something that uses my background a little
more! Maybe this woman sensed all this lol!

MY COMMENTS:

Thank you first of all for the kind words
and for sharing some of the ways you
are applying the material in Warrior Within.
Normally I don’t print such long letters,
but in your case I made an exception because
you gave us meaningful specific details of
your situation and what you did to attract
the new woman, all the way from changing
your ‘inner game’ and learning how all this
works and why it works, to the actual
‘external game’ of the words you said!

A few comments I’d like to make:

TURNING YOUR WEAKNESS INTO A STRENGTH

1. You probably aren’t even aware of this,
but the dishwasher job was not only NOT
holding you back, but because of the
attitude you displayed while SIMULTANEOUSLY
being the “dishwasher dude”, you came
across as, to be a bit blunt, a guy with
MONSTROUS SIZED B*LLS.

It’s no big deal to have some confidence
when you already ARE a supermodel and
a guy with lot of money who is famous and
socially proofed by a big crowd of girls
around him, and who is not feeling the
pain of a breakup.

And I have a feeling the 'emotional state'
exercises you did with tonality helped you
here as well, so that you came across with
full congruency on all levels, from body
language  to voice to all other mannerisms.

In particular, the section of the DVDs on
“NAME THE VOICE” that you mentioned
is especially important in OBLITERATING
the internal obstacles holding you back from
taking the right ACTIONS.  By actually
giving the EXCUSES in your head a NAME
and externalizing them from yourself, you
can become objective and realize how these
things are NOT you, these excuses are NOT
your friends, and these excuses are NOT
helping you.

Until we do this exercise, we can often believe
that our excuses for not taking action are good
excuses, since, after all, WE are the ones creating
the excuses and WE are the ones feeling the
emotional pull of those excuses—which is why
it’s so utterly important to realize that just because
our BRAIN is creating the excuse, doesn’t mean
it’s really in our best interest to give IN to those
excuses. So we have to externalize those excuses,
those voices, and realize that our excuses are NOT
who we REALLY are, even if it’s us who came up
with those excuses.  Those excuses are the WEAKEST
element of ourselves, not the BEST elements, and
we want to get RID of those excuses.

Learning how to get rid of those excuses as demonstrated
in the DVDs is CRUCIAL.

2. YOU USED THE RIGHT STYLE OF HUMOR

The STYLE of humor you used- it was NOT
arrogant, it was NOT a “clever put-down”
to "lower her confidence", it was innocent,
CHILD-LIKE and therefore LEADING THE WAY
TO REGRESSIVE BEHAVIOR!

And regressing to CHILDHOOD is a
GREAT thing to do in a world that is
WAYYYYYYYYYYYYY too serious and
especially regarding the whole sexual
connection between men and women,
where you have to consult a lawyer
before you are assured of sounding
politically correct to a woman!

The childhood regression allows her to
have FUN with you.

Another little subtlety by the way,
to the childlike behavior was the
INNOCENT form of PHYSICAL CONTACT
that this achieved for you, and
thus "broke the ice" for both of
you this way, allowing her to
feel free to now playfully
get "angry" and get a little
physical with you as well.

3. You ADDED THE NAUGHTY DIMENSION

You did this to just the RIGHT degree,
with the whole “messy but you want to
keep it CLEAN” comment which raised
the whole dynamic to a fun spicy
interaction between a man and a woman.

Notice how FIRST comes the playful,
the child-like behavior, and THEN
comes the splash of adult NAUGHTY.

4. You WENT FULL CONVICTION

Yes, man, this is SO important.
Especially for a woman who gets hit on
a lot, it just makes sense that she is
experienced enough and confident
enough to not just ‘bite the bait’
at first glance.

Most guys, upon FIRST BEING CHALLENGED,
in any way, will MELT.

You FELT the temptation, the desire, to MELT.

Because of that state of mind, you start
to get distorted thoughts, like of the
POLICE coming to whup your butt
just because you liked a girl enough
to take some action!

But I know what you mean, I’ve been there!

Here’s something else about going ‘full conviction’
on your joke or playful approach:

It gives the woman, retroactively, something
cool to reflect on about you: So when you
left to get back to work, and she was there
by herself or with the customers, she was
probably reflecting in her mind “That
smart-alec knew ALL ALONG there
was nothing on my shirt, but he KEPT
ON GOING!! What a- what a-what a
damn bastardly and SEXY GUY!”

This is the kind of playful sexy 'bastard'
that is totally what women eat up and what
actually feels most LIBERATING for us
as men anyway!!!!

5. YOU KNEW WHEN TO STOP

Yes, once she started to ask when you
finished work, and you knew she already
knew the answer anyway, it was super
clear what was going down, and you
not only RECOGNIZED THAT but
you appreciated how it was important
to NOT CONTINUE THE PLAYFUL
STUFF at that point, at least not for
that moment.

She was basically putting HERSELF out
there, and speaking in “woman code”
to you that she is up for taking this to
a higher level.

A lot of guys think that because they
are getting somewhere with the childlike
stuff and the naughty stuff, that they should
keep on doing it!

But that’s wrong, as it makes the woman
think that this guy doesn’t REALLY
“get it”, and that he is socially clueless
AND worst of all, that he might be a
some strange dude who actually JUST
ENJOYS DOING THIS ‘STUFF’ TO
WOMEN BUT HAS NO REAL
INTEREST IN WOMEN!

Keeping up the childlike stuff or the playful
naughty stuff past the point of her showing
interest ends up making a guy look like
the Pee Wee Herman character, who is
funny but not a man.

This is also why I offer many avenues to spark
the dynamic besides using humor, such as using
the emotion of INTRIGUE, just to give a guy
more options to make things even easier.

6. THE USE OF ECHOING THOUGHT IN HER MIND

I also loved the way you used the strategy of
keeping her thinking about you by telling her
to NOT think dirty thoughts of you!

It’s an awesome tool, because you’re in effect
acting “according to politically correct culture”
but actually achieving a very “politically incorrect”
goal, the kind that is reserved for an adult man
and woman who want to jump each other’s bones!

The more you say NOT to do it, the more
you are getting what you want, and also
allowing her to enjoy it without having to
appear as “politically incorrect.”

So by doing this you take the pressure off of her
and just allow her to enjoy thoughts of you.

7. TAKING RESPONSIBILITY

By taking responsibility for your future
relationships and even partially for your
past, you actually EMPOWER yourself
because you are not a prisoner to someone
ELSE, to no woman, to no ex, to no one.

This is yet another trait that you probably
are CONVEYING in subtle ways to the
new woman you met from your attitudes
toward your future, your job, and your
relationships. It shows maturity and
these days, maturity is harder than ever
to find because of the fact that a lot of
people don’t end up taking on responsibilities
till later in life.

So by showing RESPONSIBILITY, you
are showing maturity.

My last comment to you, is that as awesome
as things are, I want them to STAY AWESOME
for you.

And to KEEP IT THAT WAY, you must REMAIN
the way you are, because the BIGGEST MISTAKE
that the guys who get results make, is they end up
thinking that they got the results because this
woman really just loves them.

And that’s ego screwing us up.
We forget that it’s our BEHAVIORS that got us there.

And what makes it REALLY easy to fall into the trap,
is that time makes us GROW ATTACHED to a woman,
and that BONDING can sometimes become so powerful,
that you get scared of losing it.

For example, she might say she is going out with
her friends, and you might get a slight tinge of
insecurity, i.e.“ Who are these friends?”

You must never give into that FEAR
as that fear will not get weaker with
each time you give into your fear,
it will only get stronger.

So for example, if you feel jealousy
and you try to control her, she will
not only become less loving and
less interested in you, but your
jealousy will only grow stronger
to the point it distorts everything.

I remember a great comic book story
with the character Daredevil, a super
hero who is blind but whose other
senses are all super-heightened.
One day, this being from another
world gives him back his site, as
a gift.

Daredevil grows SO ATTACHED to his
new found sight, to the point he knows
he may fall more in love with it than
with his dedicated mission to protect people.

So he makes the being from another
world take the “gift” back.

I know this sounds a bit extreme, but
you must CHERISH these BEHAVIORS
that keep you STRONG more than you
even cherish the affection and physical
rewards that any woman can give you.

The irony is that THIS is what women
fantasize about you, it’s what makes them
say “I miss hearing your voice, I can’t
stop thinking of you”.

And if you’re reading this right now, and
would like to get the kind of success with
women where women don’t just “agree”
to go out with you, but actually give
everything they’ve got and will FIGHT
against plenty of OTHER female competition
in order to be with you, then I suggest you
get my WARRIOR WITHIN program on DVD.

Warrior Within represents a quantum leap
forward in the field of attracting women.

You will learn more powerful and effective
strategies than you have ever experienced before
for sparking the deepest level of attraction in women.

You’ll discover how to ignite an entire ARRAY of
intoxicating emotions in women that will addict them
to you. Plus, inside this program I’ll show you how
to build the most powerful connection with women
so that women never “flake out” after first dates and
instead are contacting YOU wanting to meet up
again fast!

And you’ll also find the best ways to DETECT
quality women who won’t give you ‘drama’
or ‘headaches’. In addition, you will learn
fantastic new strategies that actually WORK
for obliterating all internal obstacles that are
preventing you from taking action with women,
and much, MUCH MORE.

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Approaching Women Done RIGHT

Today, I'm going to share with you
some of the most powerful steps you
can take to attract a woman the moment
you see her, how to successfully get
into the conversation, and how to
detect the right women as well as
how to avoid the wrong women!

And, of course, how to avoid the
biggest mistakes that men tend
to make.

1. IT’S NOT ABOUT BEING A CLOWN

Rather, it’s about YOU enjoying a good
laugh, and bringing HER into this world
of fun. A world of fun that is YOUR
world.

When you go in trying to MAKE her laugh,
it always ends up with you showing inferior
status, as if you’re the court jester trying
to entertain the king.

And that is a total attraction-destroyer.

On the other hand, when YOU are having a blast,
then you not only are actually funnier anyway,
but the vibes being given off by you all say
that you are the kind of guy that has everything
in life under control, and that life will be FUN
with you.

You also convey that you are clearly so comfortable
in your own skin that you can be in this mode even
with a woman who is a knockout.

So if I’m in line at the store, and a hottie is in
front of me with a bottle of water and celery,
and I pick up a candy bar and wave it in her
face and PRETEND as if the chocolate bar
is hypnotically saying “You want MEEEE,
I know you dooo- give into meeeeeeeeee”
the key is that it’s coming from a place where
I think it’s funny, not because I need to get her
to laugh.

And that makes it FUNNIER, because it
makes the DELIVERY of the words far
more CONFIDENT.

And that makes the delivery far more
BELIEVABLE.

If you are going to say something, you
have to go TOTALLY INTO IT, you
have to be consistent, congruent to
whatever it is you’re saying.

If you sound like you don’t really MEAN
what you are saying, it never works well.

This is why you can give the greatest
joke to someone to say and it will be
useless because he doesn't seem to
believe in the words he's saying.

2. RISK ASSESSMENT OF HUMOR

All humor requires RISK.
Without SOME risk, humor is IMPOSSIBLE.

So by risk, I mean the risk that SOMEONE
will get offended.

The KEY however, is to have the emotional
and other forms of intelligence to see if the
risk is worth the PAYOFF.

So the key is to keep the risk SMALL, and
the payoff HIGH.

If you are going to tease a woman, only tease
her on things you know she has a high chance
of being CONFIDENT about.

So if she’s tall, you can tease her about being short.
If she’s a knockout, you can tease her about being
undesirable, etc.

If she’s witty, you can tease her about being dumb.

3. THE FACEBOOK INVERSE RELATIONSHIP

What this means, is that if you’re looking for a
QUALITY type of woman, a girlfriend that is
not all focused on only HERSELF, a woman
who is NOT a narcissist, then you want to
ABSOLUTELY AVOID the women who
have TONS of “FRIENDS” ON FACEBOOK.

The reason for this, is that in general, there is
an inverse relationship between the amount
of friends a woman has on Facebook and the
degree of her genuine friendliness.

It’s ironic, isn’t it? After all, the whole point
of Facebook is to get official “friends”, right?

And that’s EXACTLY the reason narcissists
gravitate toward it, because if they can get
lots of FRIENDS on FACEBOOK, they
can then APPEAR as POPULAR.

These types of women will go through
MASSIVE WORK just to engineer their
entire Facebook image, from the amount
of "friends" they have (whom will be
promptly dropped as soon as they have
been used by the narcissist woman),
to the particular quotes they use,
to the photos put on display, etc,
etc.) ALL so that they SEEM highly
"wanted".

Facebook allows people to create an artificial
FRONT, a MASK if you will. It’s kind of
similar having memorized pick up lines or
memorized routines that aren’t a real reflection
of one’s identity, but that are SUPPOSED to
show how “cool” or “funny” one is, etc, etc.

And we all know how pick up lines don’t
work on the best women.

4. SEEK WOMEN WHO DON'T SEEK INFINITE ATTENTION

As illustrated above, narcissists FEED
off of infinite attention and worship,
while QUALITY women tend to be less
obsessed about make-up, dressing to
the nines, and wearing clothing that
might be EXTREMELY uncomfortable but
they feel is worth it to get the
attention.

The irony is that real beauty is hard
to hide anyway, to the trained eye.

So if you're looking for the right
kind of woman, start screening OUT
the attention grabbers, and start
focusing more on the women who are
just as gorgeous but don't need to
ADVERTISE it as if it's going out
of style.

This behavior that is the OPPOSITE
OF SEEKING ATTENTION, is why, by the way,
a woman who is the kind of woman that
is looking for a GOOD MAN, for something
REAL, gets turned off IMMEDIATELY when she
senses the FAKE vibe, the cheesy lines,
etc.

Which leads me to the next point:

5. WHEN ABOUT TO APPROACH A WOMAN
AND SAY SOMETHING TO HER, MAKE
SURE YOU OBLITERATE EVERYTHING
IN YOUR MIND BESIDES THE IDEA OF
“HI”.

Yes, the VIBE when you START the conversation
or chat should be EXTREMELY LOW KEY.

It’s different in 30 seconds from that point, where
you can raise the energy level, you can do all
sorts of fun stuff.

But in general, in that FIRST MOMENT, if
you are about to talk to a woman in any
place besides a high energy location like
a music dance club, etc, you should keep
it LOW KEY, and UNASSUMING.

So you are putting ZERO pressure on her.

She should feel that she has the TOTAL
CHOICE AND EASE TO LEAVE THE
SITUATION IF SHE WANTS TO.

The TONE of your voice should be LOW KEY.

I didn’t say QUIET, but LOW KEY, NOT INTENSE.

Most guys when they approach a woman,
they go in feeling that there is this HUGE
thing at stake, and it SHOWS in their
facial expression and tonality.

But if you REALLY go in there to begin
with by GENUINELY not EXPECTING
OR FEELING THAT SHE MUST DO
ANYTHING, but at the SAME TIME
showing that you are RELAXED and
showing WARMTH in your voice,
THAT is the way to show that you
are comfortable in your own skin,
and it also TAKES AWAY THE
PRESSURE on her.

And the BEST way to PREVENT
RESISTANCE is to REMOVE
PRESSURE!

So the HIGHEST chances of her NOT
resisting your approach come from
REMOVING all pressure to begin with!

Once she is not RESISTANT to your
approach, now SHE can go into the mode
of focusing on how to get CLOSER to you
instead of how to get away.

Remember, all this happens within a few
seconds, and AFTER these few seconds,
you can THEN turn up the energy and
the vibe and the fun, because she now
is RECEPTIVE to it.

TIMING is critical here, just like it is in
so many other aspects of life.

6. THE IRONY OF ATTRACTION
Attraction is a bit of a paradox.
On one hand, when you do it right,
it sounds so simple.

But that's because so many things
have been internalized, that it's
kind of like learning to walk.

It really takes a lot of little
steps put together, but when done
right, it looks very easy.

Recently, I received a letter from a
man who has put a lot of the steps for
one particular "attraction situation"
together, and I've commented on his
letter to make the steps even clearer.

LETTER FROM A READER:

Dear Michael,

The past six months has been the most torturous
experience of my life. Last November, my
girlfriend broke up with me, and although we
were not getting along, I always expected that
we would work things out and never give up-
that’s the attitude that I thought we both had.

Michael, I felt like my world was ending-
there were moments that I could not physically
breathe, moments where I felt I was going to die
from sheer weakness. It’s like I was drained
of all zest, energy and desire for life.

Throughout this time, I had a sense of disbelief,
that “How on earth could she do this to me, how
could she give up on us”?

Then, about six weeks ago, late on another sleepless
night, I found your site on the internet, and read
every single article you have. It was painful
to read a lot of it, to be honest, as it was so
clear that I was doing everything wrong,
and if you were right, it meant I had to
start over again- the very way I understood
my reality and how to go about getting
and attracting the kind of woman I wanted.

I suppose that’s the only good thing about
hitting rock bottom, you’re more willing
to try anything.

So I went all out and decided to get your
Warrior Within DVDs. I went through half
the entire series in one night. For the
first time, so many painful memories
started to become beautiful to me, because
your breakdown of how attraction is created
and destroyed showed me what was really
happening all along, and the reasons why
as well.

More on that later, but I want to get to
the most important part of this letter,
which is how I applied your strategies for
breaking through my inner barriers on taking
action with women, and taking the kind of
action you suggest as well.

I currently work as a dishwasher in a restaurant,
that’s right a dishwasher, as I lost my previous
job that required my engineering degree as
well as years of experience, from not showing
up to work. Like I said before, the breakup
really destroyed me. So until I find another
job that uses my skills, I need to pay my
bills with whatever helps.

Anyway, there is a smoking hot waitress
who works at the restaurant, and until
I got your Warrior program, all I could
do was wish about her. Her name is
****, and she’s a mixed breed of
Mediterranean, French, and some other
stuff I can’t remember, except that she
is certainly one of the most exquisite
exotic creatures I have ever seen.

Guys are ogling her all the time, and
I see customers trying to flirt with her,
but now that I have your program, I
can see all the mistakes they’re making,
from trying to take advantage of the
fact they are “customers” and knowing
she won’t tell them off, to copying the
silly teases you hear about all the time
designed to lower her confidence.

Well, after another lonely night of having
nobody knocking at the door, nobody
calling on the phone, and getting pissed
off at looking at the same four walls,
I went through the section on your
DVDs called “Naming The Voices”.

That did it for me, it got me so angry
at those parts of my self, that I made
that brutal disconnection between my
better self and those internal voices,
and I just knew that no matter what,
the next day I would follow your advice.

Before I left the house in the morning,
I practiced the voice tonality as you
show until I got into 'state' as you
would call it.

I walked in for work as usual, and as I
entered, I saw **** serving a table, and
I sauntered over to her, and in my head
pops your voice reminding me not to be
nasty but to be childlike fun, and to
fully go along with whatever I decide to
do, to have full conviction in it and
not take off if she doesn't 'bite' right
away like you say most guys do.

So, I pointed alarmingly, to a button on the
top of her blouse, and made this gross face,
saying “Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!
What Isssssss That???”

She laughs and says to me “This is a joke, right?”

I remember your words again: To treat the
joke with full conviction.

So I don’t stop.

I go: “Ewwwwwwwwwwww!
What Issss That?”

So this time, she looks down to her button,
and I do the silliest thing since I was 6
years old, just as you say about being
a kid with women, to allow them to
regress to that childhood playfulness-
and what I do is, I take my finger that
was right beside her top button and
flick her nose!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You have to understand Michael, that
this girl is so intensely gorgeous, that
I see men come in everyday and easily
tip her way more than they would anyone
else, just in the hopes that this might
seriously get them some attention.

I see other guys just ogling her for
an entire hour as they eat, and not
say a word to her.

I hear other customers try to get all serious
with her about their serious accomplishments
and careers, from politicians to doctors.

And here I go, flicking this seriously hot babe’s
cute perfect nose in my Grade 2 style juvenile
behavior!

My heartbeat was racing, as I figured I was
either about to get the biggest slap in the
face, berated, or fired (again!).

Her eyes widened and she looked like she
was going to kill me, and then said to me:

“Thank you for brightening up my day”-
and I wasn’t sure if she was being sarcastic
or not.

She then grabbed my shirt by the collar
and said to me, “You think you can mess
with me?”

I’m telling you Michael, I still wasn’t
sure if the police were gonna be beating
my ass shortly. But I decided to follow
your words to the letter, and stayed in
full conviction of this joke.

So I continued with: “No way, I want to
keep it clean! I hardly even know you!
You’d have to wine and dine me before
even thinking of getting there with me!”

And that’s when she cracked, man, that’s
when she totally cracked.

She starts laughing in disbelief, shaking
her head in disapproval, but it’s the kind
where you know she is enjoying every
bit of it.

So I told her that I had to get to work in
the back, and I also warned her to keep
a clean mind and clean thoughts and
not to think about getting dirty with me!
(This was brilliant of you by the way,
your work on obsessive thoughts and
how the worst way to get a thought
out of your mind is to tell the mind
to not think about it- and how this
creates the opposite effect! So by
telling her to make sure not to think
about it, she probably thought about
it the whole shift!)

Well what do you know, she ends up
in the back fifteen minutes later, telling
me that she’s never had a guy tell her
to be clean with him before, so I just
told her “There’s a first time for everything,
it looks like I’m going to be your first,
I hope it won’t hurt!”

She then starts asking me when my shift
is over, and at that point, thanks to your
materials, I realized the time for joking
was over, because she was clearly into
me, and you warned how guys lose women
by taking the jokes into the “clown zone”
where the guy seems to be a clown and
not serious about taking the interaction
to a real man-woman connection level.

So before I could even finish saying “at close –
“11 o-clock” she tells me that she is here till
then also and that she’d appreciate a nice
clean guy to walk her home.

Man, Michael, this girl knew when I finished,
she was just asking to as you say, set it up
as if she didn’t to make it look more like
“well since we both finish the same time
anyway he might as well walk me home”

What really makes me love this girl is that
she has no idea that in fact I have two degrees-
she sees me as the dishwasher dude who has
no qualms about it!

All I can tell you man, as a gentleman, is
that we had the greatest connection that
night and I’m still seeing her today.
I have no idea if this woman is “the one”
but she certainly is making my life better
and not giving me any headaches.

Maybe it’s because of her experiences
with men that she already knows that
not all that glitters is gold, or maybe
she just digs a guy who makes life
fun, even the small things.

And I owe it all to you, right down even
to the choice of humor, and of not being
nasty in my humor but instead just childlike
and playful, with a touch of naughty, allowing
her to regress to being a fun girl, which ironically
allows her to be a woman instead of a robot.

There’s one more thing I need to tell you
before ending this letter, which I wasn’t
planning on being so long!

I finally remembered something about
my ex, and it clicked in my head after
I was watching your Warrior Within
program yet again:

To make a long story short, this woman
unintentionally gave me plenty of clues
about her nature, as far back as the very first
date I ever had with her. But I decided
to disregard them, because verbally, she
assured me that she was “good old
fashioned faithful”.

I made the terrible error of believing words
as opposed to actions and subtle but ever
so meaningful body language cues, and on
top of that I believed “all women are messed
up so I might as well accept this one who
seems better than the others.”

If I had your Warrior Within program back
then, I would have never, ever gone on a
second date with that woman, and would
have spared myself the monstrous pain that
I created for myself by growing attached to
her.

Your Warrior Within program did more than
just help me get this new woman, who knows
exactly who I really am and loves me for it,
and who, by the way, gives me no drama or
headaches, and treats me like I’m a king.

Your Warrior Within program has made
me grow as a man, because I am not
angry anymore toward my ex, as I can
now see the whole picture, including
the fact that in the future, I can take
responsibility for things because I
now know what to look for in a woman’s
behavior and how to see the signals
up front and fast.

I can’t blame my situation on women anymore.
It’s up to me to keep a woman, break up with
a woman, or go meet and attract a woman-
Warrior Within put the power back in my
hands, I am no longer a victim and never
will be again.

So all I can say is thanks, man, and I hope
other men in my situation realize that no
matter how much pain they may be in
over a woman, there is light at the end
of the tunnel if they are willing to learn
and take the responsibility of that learning
on themselves.

Jack H.
San Diego, CA

P.S. I just got a phone call for an interview
for something that uses my background a little
more! Maybe this woman sensed all this lol!

MY COMMENTS:

Thank you first of all for the kind words
and for sharing some of the ways you
are applying the material in Warrior Within.
Normally I don’t print such long letters,
but in your case I made an exception because
you gave us meaningful specific details of
your situation and what you did to attract
the new woman, all the way from changing
your ‘inner game’ and learning how all this
works and why it works, to the actual
‘external game’ of the words you said!

A few comments I’d like to make:

TURNING YOUR WEAKNESS INTO A STRENGTH

1. You probably aren’t even aware of this,
but the dishwasher job was not only NOT
holding you back, but because of the
attitude you displayed while SIMULTANEOUSLY
being the “dishwasher dude”, you came
across as, to be a bit blunt, a guy with
MONSTROUS SIZED B*LLS.

It’s no big deal to have some confidence
when you already ARE a supermodel and
a guy with lot of money who is famous and
socially proofed by a big crowd of girls
around him, and who is not feeling the
pain of a breakup.

And I have a feeling the 'emotional state'
exercises you did with tonality helped you
here as well, so that you came across with
full congruency on all levels, from body
language  to voice to all other mannerisms.

In particular, the section of the DVDs on
“NAME THE VOICE” that you mentioned
is especially important in OBLITERATING
the internal obstacles holding you back from
taking the right ACTIONS.  By actually
giving the EXCUSES in your head a NAME
and externalizing them from yourself, you
can become objective and realize how these
things are NOT you, these excuses are NOT
your friends, and these excuses are NOT
helping you.

Until we do this exercise, we can often believe
that our excuses for not taking action are good
excuses, since, after all, WE are the ones creating
the excuses and WE are the ones feeling the
emotional pull of those excuses—which is why
it’s so utterly important to realize that just because
our BRAIN is creating the excuse, doesn’t mean
it’s really in our best interest to give IN to those
excuses. So we have to externalize those excuses,
those voices, and realize that our excuses are NOT
who we REALLY are, even if it’s us who came up
with those excuses.  Those excuses are the WEAKEST
element of ourselves, not the BEST elements, and
we want to get RID of those excuses.

Learning how to get rid of those excuses as demonstrated
in the DVDs is CRUCIAL.

2. YOU USED THE RIGHT STYLE OF HUMOR

The STYLE of humor you used- it was NOT
arrogant, it was NOT a “clever put-down”
to "lower her confidence", it was innocent,
CHILD-LIKE and therefore LEADING THE WAY
TO REGRESSIVE BEHAVIOR!

And regressing to CHILDHOOD is a
GREAT thing to do in a world that is
WAYYYYYYYYYYYYY too serious and
especially regarding the whole sexual
connection between men and women,
where you have to consult a lawyer
before you are assured of sounding
politically correct to a woman!

The childhood regression allows her to
have FUN with you.

Another little subtlety by the way,
to the childlike behavior was the
INNOCENT form of PHYSICAL CONTACT
that this achieved for you, and
thus "broke the ice" for both of
you this way, allowing her to
feel free to now playfully
get "angry" and get a little
physical with you as well.

3. You ADDED THE NAUGHTY DIMENSION

You did this to just the RIGHT degree,
with the whole “messy but you want to
keep it CLEAN” comment which raised
the whole dynamic to a fun spicy
interaction between a man and a woman.

Notice how FIRST comes the playful,
the child-like behavior, and THEN
comes the splash of adult NAUGHTY.

4. You WENT FULL CONVICTION

Yes, man, this is SO important.
Especially for a woman who gets hit on
a lot, it just makes sense that she is
experienced enough and confident
enough to not just ‘bite the bait’
at first glance.

Most guys, upon FIRST BEING CHALLENGED,
in any way, will MELT.

You FELT the temptation, the desire, to MELT.

Because of that state of mind, you start
to get distorted thoughts, like of the
POLICE coming to whup your butt
just because you liked a girl enough
to take some action!

But I know what you mean, I’ve been there!

Here’s something else about going ‘full conviction’
on your joke or playful approach:

It gives the woman, retroactively, something
cool to reflect on about you: So when you
left to get back to work, and she was there
by herself or with the customers, she was
probably reflecting in her mind “That
smart-alec knew ALL ALONG there
was nothing on my shirt, but he KEPT
ON GOING!! What a- what a-what a
damn bastardly and SEXY GUY!”

This is the kind of playful sexy 'bastard'
that is totally what women eat up and what
actually feels most LIBERATING for us
as men anyway!!!!

5. YOU KNEW WHEN TO STOP

Yes, once she started to ask when you
finished work, and you knew she already
knew the answer anyway, it was super
clear what was going down, and you
not only RECOGNIZED THAT but
you appreciated how it was important
to NOT CONTINUE THE PLAYFUL
STUFF at that point, at least not for
that moment.

She was basically putting HERSELF out
there, and speaking in “woman code”
to you that she is up for taking this to
a higher level.

A lot of guys think that because they
are getting somewhere with the childlike
stuff and the naughty stuff, that they should
keep on doing it!

But that’s wrong, as it makes the woman
think that this guy doesn’t REALLY
“get it”, and that he is socially clueless
AND worst of all, that he might be a
some strange dude who actually JUST
ENJOYS DOING THIS ‘STUFF’ TO
WOMEN BUT HAS NO REAL
INTEREST IN WOMEN!

Keeping up the childlike stuff or the playful
naughty stuff past the point of her showing
interest ends up making a guy look like
the Pee Wee Herman character, who is
funny but not a man.

This is also why I offer many avenues to spark
the dynamic besides using humor, such as using
the emotion of INTRIGUE, just to give a guy
more options to make things even easier.

6. THE USE OF ECHOING THOUGHT IN HER MIND

I also loved the way you used the strategy of
keeping her thinking about you by telling her
to NOT think dirty thoughts of you!

It’s an awesome tool, because you’re in effect
acting “according to politically correct culture”
but actually achieving a very “politically incorrect”
goal, the kind that is reserved for an adult man
and woman who want to jump each other’s bones!

The more you say NOT to do it, the more
you are getting what you want, and also
allowing her to enjoy it without having to
appear as “politically incorrect.”

So by doing this you take the pressure off of her
and just allow her to enjoy thoughts of you.

7. TAKING RESPONSIBILITY

By taking responsibility for your future
relationships and even partially for your
past, you actually EMPOWER yourself
because you are not a prisoner to someone
ELSE, to no woman, to no ex, to no one.

This is yet another trait that you probably
are CONVEYING in subtle ways to the
new woman you met from your attitudes
toward your future, your job, and your
relationships. It shows maturity and
these days, maturity is harder than ever
to find because of the fact that a lot of
people don’t end up taking on responsibilities
till later in life.

So by showing RESPONSIBILITY, you
are showing maturity.

My last comment to you, is that as awesome
as things are, I want them to STAY AWESOME
for you.

And to KEEP IT THAT WAY, you must REMAIN
the way you are, because the BIGGEST MISTAKE
that the guys who get results make, is they end up
thinking that they got the results because this
woman really just loves them.

And that’s ego screwing us up.
We forget that it’s our BEHAVIORS that got us there.

And what makes it REALLY easy to fall into the trap,
is that time makes us GROW ATTACHED to a woman,
and that BONDING can sometimes become so powerful,
that you get scared of losing it.

For example, she might say she is going out with
her friends, and you might get a slight tinge of
insecurity, i.e.“ Who are these friends?”

You must never give into that FEAR
as that fear will not get weaker with
each time you give into your fear,
it will only get stronger.

So for example, if you feel jealousy
and you try to control her, she will
not only become less loving and
less interested in you, but your
jealousy will only grow stronger
to the point it distorts everything.

I remember a great comic book story
with the character Daredevil, a super
hero who is blind but whose other
senses are all super-heightened.
One day, this being from another
world gives him back his site, as
a gift.

Daredevil grows SO ATTACHED to his
new found sight, to the point he knows
he may fall more in love with it than
with his dedicated mission to protect people.

So he makes the being from another
world take the “gift” back.

I know this sounds a bit extreme, but
you must CHERISH these BEHAVIORS
that keep you STRONG more than you
even cherish the affection and physical
rewards that any woman can give you.

The irony is that THIS is what women
fantasize about you, it’s what makes them
say “I miss hearing your voice, I can’t
stop thinking of you”.

And if you’re reading this right now, and
would like to get the kind of success with
women where women don’t just “agree”
to go out with you, but actually give
everything they’ve got and will FIGHT
against plenty of OTHER female competition
in order to be with you, then I suggest you
get my WARRIOR WITHIN program on DVD.

Warrior Within represents a quantum leap
forward in the field of attracting women.

You will learn more powerful and effective
strategies than you have ever experienced before
for sparking the deepest level of attraction in women.

You’ll discover how to ignite an entire ARRAY of
intoxicating emotions in women that will addict them
to you. Plus, inside this program I’ll show you how
to build the most powerful connection with women
so that women never “flake out” after first dates and
instead are contacting YOU wanting to meet up
again fast!

And you’ll also find the best ways to DETECT
quality women who won’t give you ‘drama’
or ‘headaches’. In addition, you will learn
fantastic new strategies that actually WORK
for obliterating all internal obstacles that are
preventing you from taking action with women,
and much, MUCH MORE.

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

To get a great introduction to my materials,
download my book, “The Dating Wizard”
IMMEDIATELY, at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Wizard.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

ATTRACTION, FIDELITY, AND FACEBOOK

Fasten your seatbelts, because today you’re
in for something MAJOR. I suggest you read
the entire article.

There’s a ton of DEEP insights today that
have massive implications for improving
the way you go about meeting women,
attracting them, even the very way you
THINK about attraction itself.

As you know, Get A Great Girl is all about
getting the RARE kind of woman who is
not only beautiful, but also warm, and
genuinely FAITHFUL in mind and body.

If you’ve ever been with a woman that you
were REALLY attracted to, and then later
found out that she was being unfaithful,
you already know just how DEEP these
wounds penetrate, and how DISASTROUS
this is to your entire reality for
quite a long time, sometimes YEARS.

It’s even worse when it happens AGAIN,
and AGAIN.

This FAITHFUL thing is exceptionally rare
in the full sense of the word “faithful”
and it is the reason you never hear
about this from the “pick up artist” and
most of the “dating guru” community.

The reason they don’t talk about this is
because it’s EASIER to just focus on
getting “quick short term action” and
getting physical with a certain TYPE
of woman.

Now, I’m not even saying anything BAD
about promiscuous women, it’s totally
fine in my books as long as they are
HONEST about it, that’s all cool.

But the thing is, most guys out
there really DO want a girlfriend
who is also attractive and a fun
person to be around.

Even guys who want to “fool around”
STILL want to ALSO have their cake
and eat it too by having a girlfriend
that they usually lie to regarding
being faithful to her and fooling
around on the side with others.

Even guys who CHEAT would still hate
to find out that their GIRLFRIEND
was cheating on them.

So pretty much EVERY GUY wants a
girlfriend that is faithful and
that is attractive.

Now, the thing to REALIZE here is that
the very SAME thing that makes it
EASY to get “physical” with a lot of
women is the SAME reason it’s
RARE to get a woman who is SLOWER
to get physical and who is actually
FAITHFUL.

The REASON is because, more than ever,
IT’S “in style” to NOT BE THINKING LONG-TERM,
and rather to JUST THINK IN THE MOMENT.

The reason for this is because YOUTH
drive the marketing efforts of most
companies, because most companies
know that if you can get people when
they are YOUNG, they will be customers
for LIFE.

However, the one thing that YOUTH
don’t BEST understand compared to
older people is LONG TERM THINKING
and being more RATIONAL compared
to the two things that drive YOUTH:

1: Raging hormones.
2: Peer pressure.

In fact, these two things, raging hormones
and peer pressure, make up for the vast
majority of ALL advertising of ANYTHING.

Soap, beer, cars, clothing, magazines,
pretty much EVERYTHING.

The hormone component of these ads
are obvious, but the PEER pressure
stuff might seem less obvious.

However, the PEER pressure element is
EVERYWHERE.

Let me give you a prime example:
FACEBOOK.

Facebook really provides you with nothing
special at all.

If Facebook evaporated today, NOTHING
would really change. It’s not like telephones
or cars or email, etc.

But Facebook has the most IMPORTANT
psychological element going for it:
It’s the “Social Network”, i.e.
THE “SOCIAL PROOF” NETWORK.

As in “Oh my god, what if I am not shown
to be COOL on Facebook????”

It’s not a coincidence the guy who started
Facebook was in university at the time,
BOMBARDED by the whole “COLLEGE
PARTY SCENE” and who is the coolest,
etc, etc.

It’s all about people wanting to show they
are cool to other people, and superficially
pretending to befriend others who are “cool”
to show that they themselves are also cool
as a byproduct.

Yes, it has other purposes too, but this is
really how it all started and is what the
underlying driving force behind it is.

And guess what?
The HORMONE component of this IS ALSO
at play, because so many people unfortunately
just want to know “the gossip” who is sleeping
with who, who is in a relationship, who is single,
etc, etc. And of course all this is on Facebook
in one way or another as well.

Never mind the billions of guys who all want
to be “friends” with whatever attractive female
it might happen to be on Facebook, as if they
wanted to be friends and not really just
want to sleep with her.

If nothing else, if they can get to be her
”friend”, it might help provide SOCIAL
PROOF for them to get OTHER women.

In other words, this is all part of SOCIAL
PROOF. Social proof means that if enough
other people are doing something, then
everyone else believes it is the right thing
to do. If enough other people say you
are cool, then most people will now think
you are cool as well, etc.

In fact, because so MANY youth are all
brainwashed, the sheer NUMBER of
them all have ALSO influenced EVERYONE
ELSE, from people in their 30s to people
in their 40s, 50s, etc.

So our entire SOCIETY has become more
wrapped up in the “GET PHYSICAL NOW”
and “DON’T THINK” MENTALITY.

This means sexually transmitted infections
and diseases have SKYROCKETED to the
point it’s almost NORMAL to have gotten
an sti these days!

And it also means that relationships breaking
up is practically EXPECTED amongst most
people.


Let me tell you something even BIGGER:
It also means that because EMOTIONS
rule today with such MAJOR force, it
has resulted in a world where all the
INFORMATION TECHNOLOGY advances
we have made have almost become
USELESS, because the MINDSET is
so ruled by EMOTION that most
people can not tell FACT from FICTION.

Which means LIES can be spread ever
faster than ever before.

So, for example, GOOGLE is a great idea.
However, it’s also almost USELESS in
reality.

If you were to type in almost ANY subject
into Google, you would get about the
SAME amount of TRUTH and the SAME
amount of LIES as your RESULTS.

This is because, of course, there are
people out there making money from
the fact that most people would rather
PAY for LIES that fit into their raging
hormones perspective as well as their
PEER-PRESSURE/SOCIAL PROOF
picture of the world.

Scientific social studies have proven
that people mostly do NOT listen
even when they TRY to listen, because
their perspectives are so ingrained, they
FILTER out anything that does not fit
in with the perspective they already
HAVE.

Now, imagine how much WORSE this
is in a world where emotion is actually
PRIZED over TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The exact same thing of course has
happened in the world of dating advice.

It doesn’t even matter that the various
pick up artists have been proven to
be full of it, because PROOF only
matters to LOGICAL people.

In the old days, people were brainwashed
by hardcore religion.

These days, people are allowed to indulge
in their OWN emotional illusions and no
one will make you seem uncool for being
stupid.

Stupid is in style.

Now that you know that, I can explain
to you the MAIN thing about how to
get “physical quick” with a lot of women,
which is NOT the main point of this
newsletter, as you will see.

It’s just so you know what all the
“hoopla” REALLY boils down to:

1. MEET WOMAN.

This is pretty easy, just go out to a
nightclub and you’re guaranteed
LOTS of women hanging around.

Even better, they’re THEIR to meet
guys in the first place!

2. ALCOHOL

This makes it even EASIER, since
after all, most of the women there
WANT to get physical, and the
alcohol SHUTS down the nasty
THINKING part of the brain.

3. MAKE FUN AND GAMES

She’s there to get physical and have
a good time, so make everything
about laughter and fun.

4. A SLIGHT CONNECTION

Even in the superficial world, it STILL
feels good to ALSO have SOME kind
of connection with a girl, so try to
find something in common that you
both share or even do something
together that bonds you, like
playing a silly game together.

5. LEAD THE SHOW MASSIVELY

The last thing she needs is a guy
who doesn’t “GET IT”, who doesn’t
understand that women are even more
physically aroused than men, that she
is their to get physical, and that she
still expects YOU to lead the show.

This means that you must escalate
towards getting physical and take
responsibility for it and make it
all as smooth as possible.

This is because for some weird reason in
our society, even promiscuous women
are expected to act a bit less promiscuous
than the men she sleeps with. (Which
is REALLY stupid and just causes more
repression making these women even
MORE likely to be promiscuous!)

Now, the thing is, there’s nothing
EVIL about any of those things!

In fact, some of those things are good!

It’s just that it’s not ENOUGH for
attracting a woman who is much
MORE than just another woman
that is attractive.

And THIS is the reason I have written
ALL the above, it’s not a rant, it’s to
let you know just how RARE and how
DIFFERENT a genuine QUALITY woman
Is, AND HOW MUCH INNER STRENGTH
SHE MUST HAVE TO SPLIT APART FROM
THE MASSES OF SOCIETY.

If you want to attract a woman who is
far stronger to social pressure than most,
if you want a woman who is faithful,
a woman who is intelligent, who is not
into drugs or promiscuity, she needs
to see that YOU are THE MAN that
is stronger internally than most men.

Remember, SHE has SPLIT APART from
the MAJORITY of brainwashed society,
and that takes GUTS plus INTELLIGENCE.

So imagine a woman of that fortitude,
what kind of MAN she must be with,
he will have to be EVEN STRONGER
in his INDEPENDENCE from social
proof brainwashing than she is,
if she is to feel FEMININE in his
presence.

She needs to see REAL confidence,
not just LUST-DRIVEN ENERGY.

And there needs to be a real connection
on a deep level, which means, if she
is a total stranger, you have to have
the SKILL to convey a LOT about yourself
in a BRIEF amount of time, doing very
LITTLE yet communicating a LOT.

And she needs to see your PERSPECTIVE
on life and whether it’s a COMPELLING
one or not. A weak sense of this perspective
will DEFINITELY chase away a fantastic
quality woman.

If you have all THAT, well THEN it’s
AWESOME to be able to meet her
and get all into the “FUN AND GAMES”
mentality, because now she feels SAFE
to go INTO that sexual mode with you
and just totally ENJOY it with you.

If a guy asks me if it’s worth it, the
answer I give is simple:

Do you enjoy being betrayed?

Because if you hang out with the typical
young woman who is attractive, she
will most likely just try to use you or
at best it will be a short term thing.

So it’s not even a question of if it’s
worth it or not, there’s no other
choice – it’s learn how to get a
GREAT girl, or nothing at all.

The wrong woman will cost you
a fortune, your emotions, and
your health.

She will DESTROY you.

The RIGHT woman will make EVERYTHING
feel a trillion times more FUN.

What I’ve done over the past several
YEARS is focused only on the things
that actually WORK for attracting a
RARE type of woman.

HOW TO DETECT A QUALITY WOMAN:

One of the first things is DETECTING
a quality woman in the first place!

And guess what?

The truth is that a woman reveals her
ENTIRE personality to you quite quickly,
without her even realizing it.

You can find out VERY QUICKLY if you
are dealing with a quality woman or not.

The trick to this is that you have to be
LISTENING with SKILL.

Yes, with SKILL.
This means your mind is not just passively
listening, but your mind is actually looking
for certain things or the absence of certain
things in what she is saying and doing.

Most people are not only lacking at this skill,
but when you ALSO account for the fact that
most men are so mesmerized by a woman’s
beauty, you realize most men can’t eve HEAR
what she is REALLY saying because men’s
emotions keep putting a HALO FILTER
over everything she says, interpreting
it all to make her a better person
than she really is.

So for example, let’s say you meet
a woman, and she works in media/tv/
film/music/entertainment (and a ton
of women who are attractive DO work
in these fields) and she is talking
to you about her work, and she is PROUD
to tell you how she gets clients to do what
SHE wants and how she makes them think
it is THEIR idea when it is really hers, so
that they will do what she wants, etc, etc.

Now, just about every guy would
think nothing of this. In fact, a lot
of guys might even be IMPRESSED!

Meanwhile, this is a time-bomb
waiting to happen.

This woman is telling you that she
enjoys MANIPULATING people.

She is telling you that HONESTY
is not IMPORTANT to her.

Now, this is actually a REAL example
that a man brought up during the live
taping of Warrior Within, about a horrific
woman who he initially thought was GREAT,
before she tore his heart to pieces with her
infidelity.

However, after making the insights from
this program, he was able to “trace back
the steps” to when he met her, and he
thought back to the things she originally
SAID and DID when he met her.

He then remembered the SPECIFICS of the
things she said, including the details above
about how she, in essence, enjoyed
manipulating people.

He realized how with these skills, he could have
FORESEEN all of this, and would have realized
right away that this woman was a TIMEBOMB
and the last thing on earth that any man
should get into a relationship with.

Most men would never detect the messages
a woman is unintentionally really saying
about herself- whether those messages
are positive or negative.

You can detect a woman’s personality,
through these SKILLS of sifting out
the IMPORTANT things from what
she is saying.

Again, this is a skill that is usually glossed
over as not important, meanwhile it’s
almost EVERYTHING.

Not only does it tell you about the
woman, but if she is a great woman,
you can then use this knowledge of
her character to help understand
her and build a powerful CONNECTION.

She’s giving you all the INFORMATION
about herself so that you can actually
have a MEANINGFUL conversation to
her, that is not manipulative but based
on your real thoughts about her actual
identity- and if it’s an identity you
LIKE, you will be able to validate her
with a genuine compliment about her
actual core identity that you respect.

This forms a FAR DEEPER connection
than just “fluff talk” because it is about
you connecting to her CORE.

The ability to detect what kind of
woman you are dealing with is
ESSENTIAL.

In fact, the reason most people gloss
over this skill is for the very reason
they NEED this skill- they REFUSE
to believe they have anything they
really NEED to listen to or learn,
because they are SO CONVINCED
they already KNOW what they
need to know.

So this belief that they have, blocks out
ANY info that comes in regarding the
need to IMPROVE their listening skills!

And yet, what they know is REALLY
just the EMOTIONS they are feeling,
but they think it’s MORE than an
emotion, so if they feel ATTRACTION
to a girl, they also feel that this girl
must be “GOOD”.

In my Warrior Within program, we go
DEEP on this, and to be honest, just
this ALONE is worth the entire cost
of the program, as learning to detect
exactly WHAT kind of woman you are
dealing with RIGHT AWAY can save
you INFINITE PAIN!

Notice, by the way, that this woman
had NO CLUE she was revealing something
that is actually UNATTRACTIVE.

In fact, to HER, this IS an attractive thing,
that’s why she was showing off about it!

And most men would think the SAME.

This is why you want to learn these
skills that most men do NOT know.

Similarly, if a woman shows you that
she IS honest through the things she
is saying without even trying hard,
you can spot the RIGHT woman.

Remember, people reveal themselves
because they have no idea that their
negative behaviors ARE negative.

If they realized it, they would CHANGE.

And NO ONE can force them to realize
it unless THEY THEMSELVES are open
to changing and learning.

This is why I find it ludicrous that the
pick up artist crowd likes to pretend
that their advice ALSO works to get
ANY woman to become a girlfriend!

Complete and total b.s. unless by
“girlfriend” they mean cheating
girlfriend.

Getting a GREAT girl, especially these days,
is truly an entirely different CATEGORY of skill,
and it does NOT mix with the mainstream
concept of “success with women”.

And as powerful as this newsletter is,
it’s barely scratched the surface of
the FULL SPECTRUM on how to get a
quality woman. This newsletter just
touched the surface on DETECTING
a quality woman, and there is so
much more on this, plus all the
information on actually ATTRACTING
her as well.

Remember, a rare quality woman that is
APART from the majority of the masses
is very DIFFERENT in what attracts her
than all the other typical women.

If you’re ready to meet 'the one' and get
a fantastic woman who would be a great
girlfriend, I seriously suggest you get
my 'Warrior Within' program on DVD.

You will learn not only how to “see” what
kind of woman you are dealing with,
which will save you immense time and
energy, but you will also learn the truth
on how to UNLEASH all the deepest levels
to your INNER GAME to attract her and
KEEP her as well.

This isn’t “lust-driven” confidence.

It’s about being the kind of man that
stands APART from the vast majority
of men, because his power comes
from WITHIN, not from “social proof”
or any other gimmick.

THIS is the kind of man such a woman
CRAVES, and this program will show you
all the REAL-LIFE ways of developing
these skills.

This program has zero gimmicks.
It's ALL SOLID CONTENT.

She’s out there right now, looking for
the man who understands what’s in
this program. Let that man be YOU.

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

And if you still haven't downloaded my program,
"Being The Selector" then do that now. 

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/selector.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

ATTRACTION, FIDELITY, AND FACEBOOK

Fasten your seatbelts, because today you’re
in for something MAJOR.

There’s a ton of DEEP insights today that
have massive implications for improving
the way you go about meeting women,
attracting them, even the very way you
THINK about attraction itself.

As you know, Get A Great Girl is all about
getting the RARE kind of woman who is
not only beautiful, but also warm, and
genuinely FAITHFUL in mind and body.

If you’ve ever been with a woman that you
were REALLY attracted to, and then later
found out that she was being unfaithful,
you already know just how DEEP these
wounds penetrate, and how DISASTROUS
this is to your entire reality for
quite a long time, sometimes YEARS.

It’s even worse when it happens AGAIN,
and AGAIN.

This FAITHFUL thing is exceptionally rare
in the full sense of the world “faithful”
and it is the reason you never hear
about this from the “pick up artist” and
most of the “dating guru” community.

The reason they don’t talk about this is
because it’s EASIER to just focus on
getting “quick short term action” and
getting physical with a certain TYPE
of woman.

Now, I’m not even saying anything BAD
about promiscuous women, it’s totally
fine in my books as long as they are
HONEST about it, that’s all cool.

But the thing is, most guys out
there really DO want a girlfriend
who is also attractive and a fun
person to be around.

Even guys who want to “fool around”
STILL want to ALSO have their cake
and eat it too by having a girlfriend
that they usually lie to regarding
being faithful to her and fooling
around on the side with others.

Even guys who CHEAT would still hate
to find out that their GIRLFRIEND
was cheating on them.

So pretty much EVERY GUY wants a
girlfriend that is faithful and
that is attractive.

Now, the thing to REALIZE here is that
the very SAME thing that makes it
EASY to get “physical” with a lot of
women is the SAME reason it’s
RARE to get a woman who is SLOWER
to get physical and who is actually
FAITHFUL.

The REASON is because, more than ever,
IT’S “in style” to NOT BE THINKING LONG-TERM,
and rather to JUST THINK IN THE MOMENT.

The reason for this is because YOUTH
drive the marketing efforts of most
companies, because most companies
know that if you can get people when
they are YOUNG, they will be customers
for LIFE.

However, the one thing that MOST YOUTH
(obviously there are exceptions, and you're
probably one of the exceptions if you're
here reading this!) do NOT understand
compared to older people is LONG TERM
THINKING and being more RATIONAL
compared to the two things that drive YOUTH:

1: Raging hormones.
2: Peer pressure.

In fact, these two things, raging hormones
and peer pressure, make up for the vast
majority of ALL advertising of ANYTHING.

Soap, beer, cars, clothing, magazines,
pretty much EVERYTHING.

The hormone component of these ads
are obvious, but the PEER pressure
stuff might seem less obvious.

However, the PEER pressure element is
EVERYWHERE.

Let me give you a prime example:
FACEBOOK.

Facebook really provides you with nothing
special at all.

If Facebook evaporated today, NOTHING
would really change. It’s not like telephones
or cars or email, etc.

But Facebook has the most IMPORTANT
psychological element going for it:

It’s the “Social Network”, i.e.
THE “SOCIAL PROOF” NETWORK.

As in “Oh my god, what if I am not shown
to be COOL on Facebook????”

It’s not a coincidence the guy who started
Facebook was in university at the time,
BOMBARDED by the whole “COLLEGE
PARTY SCENE” and who is the coolest,
etc, etc.

It’s all about people wanting to show they
are cool to other people, and superficially
pretending to befriend others who are “cool”
to show that they themselves are also cool
as a byproduct.

Yes, it has other purposes too, but this is
really how it all started and is what the
underlying driving force behind it is.

And guess what?

The HORMONE component of this IS ALSO
at play, because so many people unfortunately
just want to know “the gossip” who is sleeping
with who, who is in a relationship, who is single,
etc, etc. And of course all this is on Facebook
in one way or another as well.

Never mind the billions of guys who all want
to be “friends” with whatever attractive female
it might happen to be on Facebook, as if they
wanted to be friends and not really just
want to sleep with her.

If nothing else, if they can get to be her
”friend”, it might help provide SOCIAL
PROOF for them to get OTHER women.

Or so they HOPE.
In other words, this is all part of SOCIAL
PROOF. Social proof means that if enough
other people are doing something, then
everyone else believes it is the right thing
to do. If enough other people say you
are cool, then most people will now think
you are cool as well, etc.

In fact, because so MANY youth are all
brainwashed, the sheer NUMBER of
them all have ALSO influenced EVERYONE
ELSE, from people in their 30s to people
in their 40s, 50s, 60's, etc.

So our entire SOCIETY has become more
wrapped up in the “GET PHYSICAL NOW”
and “DON’T THINK” MENTALITY.

This means sexually transmitted infections
and diseases have SKYROCKETED to the
point it’s almost NORMAL to have gotten
an STI these days!

And it also means that relationships breaking
up is practically EXPECTED amongst most
people.

Let me tell you something even BIGGER:
It also means that because EMOTIONS
rule today with such MAJOR force, it
has resulted in a world where all the
INFORMATION TECHNOLOGY advances
we have made have almost become
USELESS, because the MINDSET is
so ruled by EMOTION that most
people can not tell FACT from FICTION.

Which means LIES can be spread ever
faster than ever before.

So, for example, GOOGLE is a great idea.
However, it’s also almost USELESS in
reality.

If you were to type in almost ANY subject
into Google, you would get about the
SAME amount of TRUTH and the SAME
amount of LIES as your RESULTS.

This is because, of course, there are
people out there making money from
the fact that most people would rather
PAY for LIES that fit into their raging
hormones perspective as well as their
PEER-PRESSURE/SOCIAL PROOF
distorted picture of the world.

Scientific social studies have proven
that people mostly do NOT listen
even when they TRY to listen, because
their perspectives are so ingrained, they
FILTER out anything that does not fit
in with the perspective they already
HAVE.

Now, imagine how much WORSE this
is in a world where emotion is actually
PRIZED over TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The exact same thing of course has
happened in the world of dating advice.

It doesn’t even matter that the various
pick up artists have been proven to
be full of it, because PROOF only
matters to LOGICAL people.

In the old days, people were brainwashed
by hardcore religion.

These days, people are allowed to indulge
in their OWN emotional illusions and no
one will make you seem uncool for being
stupid.

Stupid is in style.

Now that you know that, I can explain
to you the MAIN thing about how to
get “physical quick” with a lot of women,
which is NOT the main point of this
newsletter, as you will see.

It’s just so you know what all the
“hoopla” REALLY boils down to:

1. MEET WOMAN.

This is pretty easy, just go out to a
nightclub and you’re guaranteed
LOTS of women hanging around.

Even better, they’re THERE to meet
guys in the first place!

2. ALCOHOL

This makes it even EASIER, since
after all, most of the women there
WANT to get physical, and the
alcohol SHUTS down the nasty
THINKING part of the brain.

3. MAKE FUN AND GAMES

She’s there to get physical and have
a good time, so make everything
about laughter and fun.

4. A SLIGHT CONNECTION

Even in the superficial world, it STILL
feels good to ALSO have SOME kind
of connection with a girl, so try to
find something in common that you
both share or even do something
together that bonds you, like
playing a silly game together.

5. LEAD THE SHOW MASSIVELY

The last thing she needs is a guy
who doesn’t “GET IT”, who doesn’t
understand that women are even more
physically aroused than men, that she
is their to get physical, and that she
still expects YOU to lead the show.

This means that you must escalate
towards getting physical and take
responsibility for it and make it
all as smooth as possible.

This is because for some weird reason in
our society, even promiscuous women
are expected to act a bit less promiscuous
than the men they sleep with. (Which
is REALLY stupid and just causes more
repression making these women even
MORE likely to be promiscuous!)

Now, the thing is, there’s nothing
EVIL about any of those things!

In fact, some of those things are good!

It’s just that it’s not ENOUGH for
attracting a woman who is much
MORE than just another woman
that is attractive.

In fact, if you DO happen to meet
a quality woman in a nightclub,
you have to be even MORE skilled
to show that you are NOT the typical
guy there.

And THIS is the reason I have written
ALL the above, it’s not a rant, it’s to
let you know just how RARE and how
DIFFERENT a genuine QUALITY woman
Is, AND HOW MUCH INNER STRENGTH
SHE MUST HAVE TO SPLIT APART FROM
THE MASSES OF SOCIETY.

She is the kind of woman who is RESISTANT
to peer pressure, to "social proof", she is IMPERVIOUS
to these "Jedi Mind Tricks" - she is one strong
woman that is looking for a man even STRONGER.

If you want to attract a woman who is
far stronger to social pressure than most,
if you want a woman who is faithful,
a woman who is intelligent, who is not
into drugs or promiscuity, she needs
to see that YOU are THE MAN that
is stronger internally than most men.

Remember, SHE has SPLIT APART from
the MAJORITY of brainwashed society,
and that takes GUTS plus INTELLIGENCE.

So imagine a woman of that fortitude,
what kind of MAN she must be with,
he will have to be EVEN STRONGER
in his INDEPENDENCE from social
proof brainwashing than she is,
if she is to feel FEMININE in his
presence.

She needs to see REAL confidence,
not just LUST-DRIVEN ENERGY.

And there needs to be a real connection
on a deep level, which means, if she
is a total stranger, you have to have
the SKILL to convey a LOT about yourself
in a BRIEF amount of time, doing very
LITTLE yet communicating a LOT.

And she needs to see your PERSPECTIVE
on life and whether it’s a COMPELLING
one or not. A weak sense of this perspective
will DEFINITELY chase away a fantastic
quality woman.

If you have all THAT, well THEN it’s
AWESOME to be able to meet her
and get all into the “FUN AND GAMES”
mentality, because now she feels SAFE
to go INTO that sexual mode with you
and just totally ENJOY it with you.

If a guy asks me if it’s worth it, to learn
how to detect and how to attract a rare
quality woman, the answer I give is simple:

Do you enjoy being betrayed?

Because if you hang out with the typical
woman who is attractive, and you try to
turn it into a long-term relationship, she will
most likely just try to use you or at best it
will be a short term thing.

So it’s not even a question of "if it’s
worth it or not" -  THERE'S NO
OTHER CHOICE:

It’s learn how to get a GREAT girl, and
be the man she has been DREAMING of
all her life, or get no woman at all.

The wrong woman will cost you
a fortune, your emotions, your time,
and your health.

The wrong woman will DESTROY you.

On the other hand, the RIGHT woman
will make EVERYTHING feel a trillion
times more FUN.

What I’ve done over the past several
YEARS is focused only the things
that actually WORK for attracting a
RARE type of woman:

A woman that is not only attractive and
faithful, but a woman who also brings out
the BEST in you because she herself is
such a great person.

HOW TO DETECT A QUALITY WOMAN:

One of the first things is DETECTING
a quality woman in the first place!

And guess what?

The truth is that a woman reveals her
ENTIRE personality to you quite quickly,
without her even realizing it.

You can find out VERY QUICKLY if you
are dealing with a quality woman or not.

The trick to this is that you have to be
LISTENING with SKILL.

Yes, with SKILL.

This means your mind is not just passively
listening, but your mind is actually looking
for certain things or the absence of certain
things in what she is saying and doing.

Most people are not only lacking at this skill,
but when you ALSO account for the fact that
most men are so mesmerized by a woman’s
beauty, you realize most men can’t even HEAR
what she is REALLY saying because men’s
emotions keep putting a HALO FILTER
over everything she says, interpreting
it all to make her a better person
than she really is.

So for example, let’s say you meet
a woman, and she works in media/tv/
film/music/entertainment and she is talking
to you about her work and she is PROUD
to tell you how she gets clients to do what
SHE wants and how she makes them think
it is THEIR idea when it is really hers, so
that they will do what she wants, etc, etc.

Now, just about every guy would
think nothing of this. In fact, a lot
of guys might even be IMPRESSED!

Meanwhile, this is a time-bomb
waiting to happen.

This woman is telling you that she
enjoys MANIPULATING people.

She is telling you that HONESTY
is not IMPORTANT to her.

Now, this is actually a REAL example
that a man brought up during the live
taping of Warrior Within, about a horrific
woman who he initially thought was GREAT,
before she tore his heart to pieces with her
infidelity.

However, after making the insights from
this program, he was able to “trace back
the steps” to when he met her, and he
thought back to the things she originally
SAID and DID when he met her.

He then remembered the SPECIFICS of the
things she said, including the details above
about how she, in essence, enjoyed
manipulating people.

He realized how with these skills, he could have
FORESEEN all of this, and would have realized
right away that this woman was a TIMEBOMB
and the last thing on earth that any man
should get into a relationship with.

Most men would never detect the messages
a woman is unintentionally really saying
about herself- whether those messages
are positive or negative.

You can detect a woman’s personality,
through these SKILLS of sifting out
the IMPORTANT things from what
she is saying.

Again, this is a skill that is usually glossed
over as not important, meanwhile it’s
almost EVERYTHING.

Not only does it tell you about the
woman, but if she is a great woman,
you can then use this knowledge of
her character to help understand
her and build a powerful CONNECTION.

She’s giving you all the INFORMATION
about herself so that you can actually
have a MEANINGFUL conversation to
her, that is not manipulative but based
on your real thoughts about her actual
identity- and if it’s an identity you
LIKE, you will be able to validate her
with a genuine compliment about her
actual core identity that you respect.

This forms a FAR DEEPER connection
than just “fluff talk” because it is about
you connecting to her CORE.

The ability to detect what kind of
woman you are dealing with is
ESSENTIAL.

In fact, the reason most people gloss
over this skill is for the very reason
they NEED this skill- they REFUSE
to believe they have anything they
really NEED to listen to or learn,
because they are SO CONVINCED
they already KNOW what they
need to know.

So this belief that they have, blocks out
ANY info that comes in regarding the
need to IMPROVE their listening skills!

And yet, what they know is REALLY
just the EMOTIONS they are feeling,
but they think it’s MORE than an
emotion, so if they feel ATTRACTION
to a girl, they also feel that this girl
must be “GOOD”.

In my Warrior Within program, we go
DEEP on this, and to be honest, just
this ALONE is worth the entire cost
of the program, as learning to detect
exactly WHAT kind of woman you are
dealing with RIGHT AWAY can save
you INFINITE PAIN!

Notice, by the way, that this woman
had NO CLUE she was revealing something
that is actually UNATTRACTIVE.

In fact, to HER, this IS an attractive thing,
that’s why she was showing off about it!

And most men would think the SAME.

This is why you want to learn these
skills that most men do NOT know.

Similarly, if a woman shows you that
she IS honest through the things she
is saying without even trying hard,
you can spot the RIGHT woman.

Remember, people reveal themselves
because they have no idea that their
negative behaviors ARE negative.

If they realized it, they would CHANGE.

And NO ONE can force them to realize
it unless THEY THEMSELVES are open
to changing and learning.

This is why I find it ludicrous that the
pick up artist crowd likes to pretend
that their advice ALSO works to get
ANY woman to become a girlfriend!

Complete and total b.s. unless by
“girlfriend” they mean cheating
girlfriend.

Getting a GREAT girl, especially these days,
is truly an entirely different CATEGORY of skill,
and it does NOT mix with the TYPICAL 
concept of “success with women”.

And as powerful as this newsletter is,
it’s barely scratched the surface of
the FULL SPECTRUM on how to get a
quality woman. This newsletter just
touched the surface on DETECTING
a quality woman, and there is so
much more on this, plus all the
information on actually ATTRACTING
her as well.

Remember, a rare quality woman that is
APART from the majority of the masses
is very DIFFERENT in what attracts her
than all the other typical women.

If you’d like to get a fantastic woman
who would be a great girlfriend, the best
thing on earth you can do is get my
“Warrior Within” program on DVD.

You will learn not only how to “see” what
kind of woman you are dealing with,
which will save you immense time and
energy, but you will also learn the truth
on how to UNLEASH all the deepest levels
to your INNER GAME to attract her and
KEEP her as well.

This isn’t “lust-driven” confidence.

It’s about being the kind of man that
stands APART from the vast majority
of men, because his power comes
from WITHIN, not from “social proof”
or any other gimmick.

THIS is the kind of man such a woman
CRAVES, and this program will show
you all the REAL-LIFE ways of developing
these skills. This program is zero gimmicks,
ALL SOLID CONTENT.

She’s out there right now, looking for
the man who understands what’s in
this program. Let that man be YOU.

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

And if you haven’t yet downloaded my
book, “Get A Great Girl”, do that now.
This book serves as a fantastic foundation
for you to get a great girlfriend.

Download it immediately at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Book.html

For now, for tomorrow, for ALWAYS,
be THE MAN.

Michael Marks

P.S. You can check out all my programs at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php