The Deepest Levels Of Attraction

Attraction is not a static thing. That's the truth.
A woman is either feeling more and more of it
for you, or she is feeling less and less.

It NEVER stays the same.

So you have to ask yourself a question:
Which do you prefer, a woman feeling she is
"settling" for you for "practical" reasons and
her attraction thus eroding for you day by day,
or a woman feeling that she MUST HAVE you?

In the real world, attraction doesn't care about
the politically correct b.s. definition of it.
Ultimately, REAL attraction feels like a NEED,
it's not some kind of thing that is "nice" to
have. It feels as if you NEED it.

THAT'S what attraction is.

1. Attraction Is Primal, It's Not "Nice"

When you feel MASSIVE ATTRACTION for
a woman, it's not some kind of, "oh that is
nice" feeling. It's A HECK OF A LOT
more than that. And THAT'S what you want
women to feel for you.

So, if you are going to actually make a woman
FEEL this level of attraction, you have to first
understand just where the BAR is in terms of
what IS a confident secure fun intriguing guy.

Because of the ocean of guys who still kiss
up to women, her mind's default setting is set
to politely and quickly vaporize all guys who
approach her. The only way you are going
to overpower that setting is if your behaviour
and style clearly and immediately indicate that
there is something very different about you,
in a cool way.

I want to put an END to any notion that you
can get the kind of results you want with only
a half-assed attitude about this stuff.

2. The Reality Of How An Attractive Woman Thinks

The REALITY of having infinite guys WORSHIP
her and willing to SERVE her and TAKE abuse
from her. And the EFFECT that has on a woman
in terms of what is attractive to her. You have to
be in the same reality to understand it, which is
what actually ultimately happens when you get
good at this stuff.

3. What Women Want Vs. What Guys Want

Guys keep giving WOMEN what GUYS would want,
in the typical guys' frame of scarcity and
desperation.

Bu this is like giving SALTY PRETZELS
instead of water to a man dying of THIRST,
and then wondering why he doesn't seem
to appreciate it.

Women are EMOTIONALY DYING OF THIRST
for some masculine confidence, wit, humor, and
leadership, as well as for some sexual tension,
unpredictability, intrigue, fun, and excitement.

Instead, guys are giving women the opposite,
because as guys they want assurance, permanence,
and reliability, since they have been dunked in
the matrix illusion of "scarcity of women" and
the matrix illusion that as men they don't have
the same intrinsic worth in society as women.

And even when guys DO hear solid advice,
such as "be like women" in the sense of being
hard to get, guys do it wrong, because they are
doing it with the wrong INTENT.

They are doing it almost with a sense of
ANGER. As if they are "getting back"
at women, as if it's tit for tat.

IT'S NOT ABOUT THAT AT ALL.
When you do it like that, you are totally
INCONGRUENT with what attraction IS.

4. The Vibes Of Attraction

Attraction is about giving off the awesome
emotional vibes of having MASSIVE AWESOME
COOL SEXY VALUE. How the heck can someone
have VALUE and yet be the kind of person
who gets UPSET? You can only get upset
if you are LOSING.

Does the GENERAL worry about the
remarks of some guy ranked as just
a private?

That's why although attraction ultimately
IS about perceived superiority, the irony is
that to ACHIEVE this EFFECTIVELY, you have to
not even FEEL there is a power gap between
you and a woman to begin with.

Otherwise, your emotions will give you away
in infinite micro expressions and forms
of body language, and your emotions will
betray you by the way you live your life.

She will see that you are actually bitter, etc.

5. Putting It All Together

Remember, the REAL power of attraction
rests in its SUBTLETIES, from the way you
dress, to the comfort you have with being
sexual, to the sense of humor you have,
to the way your voice projects, to the very
way you MOVE.

Think about it: When you are totally under
control and relaxed and confident, you
speak and move with less hurried rush
and you never run out of "things to say" .
In fact, it seems bizarre to even worry of
"having things to say". You start to realize
that your secure, inspired, or fun mood is
what is fueling your ability to have a great
conversation, enabling you to access all
the parts of your mind that give you infinite
"material".

You also start to realize that this vibe you
are giving off results in "energy-return"
from the woman, as you and her ping-pong
the energy/vibes/conversation back and
forth, each of you enjoying this interaction.

So if you saw a woman you were interested
in, you wouldn't feel it's some kind of
RACE or some kind of CONTEST.

You would roll up casual and laid back, and
your conversation wouldn't be about trying
to MAKE anything happen, but rather about
reflecting your inner vibes, mood, state, etc.

6. Developing Your Identity

One of the most important elements of high level
"game" is simply a byproduct of who you ARE.
Once you are ARE in the right state, quality "game"
is the uninterrupted flow of your own mood and
energy outwards.

7. Women's Psychology, Culture And Human Emotion

Quality "game" however is ALSO about
understanding some important things about
women and female culture so that you
understand the real critical issues they need
to know that you are aware of, and quality
"game" is ALSO about understanding
HUMAN EMOTION in general, including
YOUR OWN emotions.

The result of quality "game" is that you
wouldn't be afraid to say something
NICE to a woman when you FELT it, but
you would also not be NEEDY for a woman
who was hot, so complimenting her on her
LOOKS would instinctively not be the first
thing that you did. This idea of not kissing
up to a woman based on her looks would
be instinctive to you, you would not even
feel the emotional desire or impulse to
focus too much on her looks. It's the
neediness and scarcity and lack of
perspective that creates these wrong
behaviours in the first place.

And if you saw she was really into you, which
she most likely would be as a result of all this,
you wouldn't feel the need to ROB HER
of the pleasure of WONDERING about you,
(which is what needy guys do out of their fear
of losing her) of the pleasure of not knowing
everything about you, and of the pleasure
of wondering if she "had" you or not.

You would UNDERSTAND that once you are
secure in your own value, it's actually FUN
to not know right away that you "have" someone,
and yet you would also know how far to push
this and not to push this into the realm of the
absurd, cruel, or just plain dorkyish.

8. Becoming A True Natural

In fact, ALL of attraction FLOWS from the
way you THINK, which is based on the way
you see yourself and the world.

Let me give you a real life example, of
how REAL CONFIDENCE in your
value is reflected POWERFULLY
and instinctively.

This example actually took YEARS for me
to fully realize the full effect of.

I remember a girl from many years ago,
before I got into this stuff. A girl who
I felt I was "lucky" to be with at the time.
Even though I was getting mistreated,
I thought I was "lucky" because I had fallen
under the brainwashing spell of society
to believe that a woman who was attractive
was scarce, (which isn't even true at all) and
that men had to "work" to "prove themselves"
to women, because women were "innocent"
while men were just sex-hungry animals.

Anyway, not to get into a whole life-story
here, I remember once waking up a BIT
to the reality of what was going on,
but still not GETTING it enough to
rise from the ashes of that life. But I
had managed to come to the conclusion
that her behaviour wasn't very good,
even though I thought I was still "lucky"
to have her because most guys I knew
couldn't get an equally hot woman
EVER.

9. The Rise Of Self-Esteem

Anyway, I basically confronted her with
the fact her behaviour was pretty
atrocious, and politely told her that
after I stripped away the attraction
I felt for her, I honestly couldn't think
of one reason I was with her. I
WANTED to have a reason, and I
even said something like "what are
the good things about you?"
(And of course, by this time, she
had already taken the power for
granted, so this was interpreted
by her not as challenging her, but
as me HOPING for goodness.)

Well, her response was a calm:
"Not much."

This had a profound effect on me,
causing reverberations of learning
that lasted with me for years.

I remember at the time, feeling all this
ANGER, and yet, there was NOTHING
I could do, for, after all, she was not
trying to resist my argument that she
was no good.

In fact, by DOING THIS, she was actually
INDIRECTLY saying "I don't NEED to
prove myself, and I don't CARE to
either. And, in fact, I AM good for nothing
EXCEPT the ONE THING THAT COUNTS-
i.e. ATTRACTION."

And it was very spontaneous.
When was the last time a woman asked
YOU something about yourself and your
reply was that you weren't good for much?

10. Untangling The Matrix

You see, on the SURFACE it sounds like
self-deprecation. And I don't recommend
it for beginners, because beginners are usually
SO congruent with INFERIOR beliefs, that
when they say a self-deprecating comment,
it will be taken SERIOUSLY to mean
inferiority.

But once you GET IT, internally, and your
body language, tonality, lifestyle, and
BEHAVIORS show that you know that
indeed you are VERY desirable, well
if you THEN were to say you were worth
"nothing much" in RESPONSE to
a woman TRYING to get you to
prove your worth to her, the results
would be powerful as hell.

Because you are saying all the right things
about yourself. Now, this doesn't mean
to be abusive, i.e. if a woman is REALLY
feeling HURT by you, and she asks you what
is the good side of you, etc.

Don't be a bastard at a time like that.

But you have to understand the UNDERLYING
message here, which is your BELIEFS about
yourself create your BEHAVIOURS.

The answer of "nothing much" was an
EMOTIONAL communication.

The kind that is EFFECTIVE.

Not the useless kind that is LOGICAL.

At the time, I honestly felt that she really
couldn't help it, i.e. that this was her REAL
personality, but that she still had value.

And I couldn't figure this out at the time.
I figured this was just her personality.

Until one day I couldn't take it anymore.
I finally came to the conclusion that
NO WOMAN on earth was worth being with
if I couldn't get some basic level respect.

Even if "wasn't her fault".

So I didn't get angry, I actually
REALLY thought that this girl
was useless to me, because her
attractiveness was no longer
worth it, and even though she
"couldn't help it" I figured that
it wasn't my job to be her therapist,
and that I had already tried for years
to "rehabilitate" her cold ways.

Well, the interesting thing is that,
because I TOTALLY BELIEVED
that this woman was of NO USE
to me, and because I TOTALLY
BELIEVED it was not her fault, I was
TOTALLY CONGRUENT when
I told her "This is over, and I don't
hate you either."

The thing is, this is actually ATTRACTIVE.

Because it implies that she has no worth
to you, and it robs her of her sense of
superior value. How can she have value
if she is worthless to you? Your relative
value to hers becomes superior.

Boom.
Attraction is born.

11. Beliefs Create Reality

I didn't realize it at the time, but I had
GROWN internally, my beliefs about
my own value and hers had changed.

My beliefs had become more ATTRACTIVE.
It wasn't a "technique" I learned, it was how
I really felt.

Within DAYS, suddenly YEARS
of supposedly INGRAINED behaviours
in her TOTALLY REVERSED themselves.

To say the least, she started behaving the way
a person who respects another person behaves.

I won't go into the details, but suffice to
say, apparently she COULD "help it" a lot
all those years.

She proved she could be the warmest, most
giving woman on the planet, most dedicated,
most COMMITTED woman to making
it WORK.

In fact, I couldn't find a place to HIDE
from her, she found me wherever I was.

This actually didn't make me happy.

What it did do was prove to me that I had
wasted YEARS of my life ACCEPTING
substandard behaviour and heartache and
indignity because I thought that was
"just the way it is", when in reality a woman
could be TOTALLY capable of being every
bit as perfect as a SAINT.

12. The Power Of Learning

The only thing that made it NOT a waste
was the super powerful learning experience
that it was for me.

For the next several YEARS, I totally
started doing WHATEVER I wanted
to with women. My new my beliefs
were cemented, and consequently, my
new behaviours were repeated with
tons of different women, with the same
powerful results, ad infinitum.

Most women were great RIGHT OFF THE BAT,
since my frame was solid before they could possibly
have a chance to doubt it.

But even the few who started off
as trying to be "challenging" in return
to me, eventually melted pretty fast,
if I had repeated chances to interact
with them. My frame took over,
because I REALLY believed
in it, it was not some type of act.

This is NOT ego here.
This is just a FACT.
Go and try it in the real world
and you can confirm this.

I picked up women however *I* wanted to,
never giving them ANY privileges, never
for a SECOND thinking any of them were
"special". I made ALL the decisions,
teased them, didn't take them overly
seriously.

I didn't smile like an approval-seeking
geek around women, because I honestly
didn't think they had superior opinions,
I thought of them as primarily being very
smart and feisty when it came to feigning
superiority, mystique, innocence and value,
and in getting men to chase them because
of this.

13. Letting Go Of The Bitterness

But I slowly let go of the bitterness as I
realized that this was just the way women
learned to work their way through the world
since time immemorial, and that it was men
who had given the extra power to women
without adjusting to this change themselves.

Instead of thinking of what gift to buy
a woman, I focused on my own goals,
my own things, FIRST, and I also
dumped women at the slightest thing,
which ALWAYS resulted in them only
chasing me HARDER.

I ENTERED the same level of reality that
I thought was exclusively reserved for women,
But the power of that reality had become
MY REALITY.

I learned some pretty crazy stuff too, such
as if you REALLY want to stop a woman from
being with you, the best way is to kiss
UP to her.

14. Being Formal Ruins The Vibe

I also started to see how most guys really
act around women, and I could SENSE
the vibe that they were creating, because
I could finally see how RIDICULOUS and
REPULSIVE their behaviour was to
a woman who NEEDED a challenge,
who needed something COMPELLING,
something more emotionally powerful,
something more FUN, as opposed to
all these guys who were so serious!

The only thing that all that serious stuff
ends up doing for a guy, if done in the
early stages at least, is making a woman
think the guy is inferior.

15. The Biggest Things To Learn From Women

The reality is that, if you think about
it, women have in a way given men a
GIFT in terms of the erotic joy that comes
about from actually GETTING a woman
who behaves sexy, hard to get, who is
playful, fun, confident, etc.

It's just gotten a little out of hand these days,
but the reality is that how sexy would it
be if it were the opposite, i.e. if women just
ripped off their clothes for you within minutes
of meeting them, if they acted like typical
desperate GUYS????

The fact of the matter is that women are
damn smart, and throughout history they
trumped the men who thought they could
control women. Men figured they were
in power, but women learned to use sexuality
as the ULTIMATE power. They were
slow to give it away, they knew how to
cloud the secrets to female sexuality in
mystery, making it more appealing and
desirable and adding all kinds of illusions
about it to make it seem more special.

And men FELL for it ALL, they fell for
it GOOD, they fell for it BIG TIME.

And women are not so stupid as to give
all that power away in a world of
"equality". It's more like "yeah,
thanks for making us equals now
but we'll keep the sexual power
superiority thank you very much".

16. Women Want Men Who Know All This

If a woman has to TEACH you this,
then she doesn't want you.

And it's not even CONSCIOUS totally.
It's been INTERNALIZED.
So they are totally CONGRUENT.

The idea of being called a "slut" in public
(it's different in private sometimes!) is
such a negative thing because it strips
away their entire power, i.e. that they
have a "special" sexuality that is only
given to a "rare" guy who "earns" it.

And AGAIN, I repeat, these ideas are
INTERNALIZED to most women, so
they BELIEVE it, so they are
CONGRUENT with it. It's not like
women feel they are using a "technique".

And THIS is what you must pick up
from women, the fact that the beliefs
are INTERNAL. AND you must learn
from women how to present your
entire reality in the most attractive
light, otherwise the reality is that
you are portraying yourself as
INFERIOR, and perception is
reality when it comes to these
things.

17. Internalizing Your "Game"

Now here's the thing, you have to
put in your dues, you can't just
ACT and say the 'right lines'-
women can tell the difference.

If you don't put in your dues, and you don't
work on INTERNALIZING your game,
and if you don't work on your ability
to create COOL EMOTIONS in women,
well then YOUR uncool emotions will
ruin your game no matter how cool your
"lines" are or your memorized "tactics".

Incongruity is always evident to people,
even if they are not consciously aware
of it. So the incongruity in a guy who
is SAYING cool things but hasn't paid
his dues developing the internal stuff,
will never fool most women.

You have to get to the point that your
EMOTIONS really ARE feeling the
same stuff ABOUT YOURSELF that
a hot woman feels regarding HER
intrinsic value.

18. Take Yourself To The Next Level

Now, believe it or not, all this stuff
should be considered part of FOUNDATION
LEVEL understanding. You NEED to have
this understanding to create SOLID and
CONSISTENT attraction with the kind of
women that make most guys' hearts pound.

Beyond this level, rests an even DEEPER
level of understanding and skill. This
level is part of what I like to call the
INFINITE BEYOND. It includes an
understanding of the deepest recesses
of a woman's desire and in fact ALL
her emotions. This is the level where
you are able to understand the nuances
and subtleties of a woman's behaviour
in a way that will give you such power
that you genuinely feel EMPATHY
for the woman in front of you, no
matter who she is.

And you will be congruent with it,
because it will come from your
knowledge that you can give her
the GREATEST gift she has ever
experienced- which is EMOTIONAL
fulfillment. When you KNOW you
have something AWESOME to GIVE,
you are bathed in an infinite sense of
calm and security.

This is MORE than just losing any neediness,
it's about also being able to GIVE a woman
what she EMOTIONALLY NEEDS, for REAL.

This will enable you to not only create attraction,
but also a DEEP sense of connection that most
QUALITY women are looking for. Most guys
don't realize how important it is for a woman
to have both, because they don't understand that
the raw "physical stuff" is easy for a woman to get.

Therefore, ultimate sexual desire in a woman
can only be unleashed when you ALSO know how
to satisfy her other emotions, because they
are ALL connected. One unlocks the door
to the other.

Emotions are the ONLY truth that matters
in this arena.

And you are going to be the biggest GIVER
she ever had, because you are going to be
GIVING her EXACTLY what she NEEDS
to feel INSANELY GREAT.

And believe me, when you can do
THAT to a woman, she won't just
be attracted to you.

She will be OBSESSED with you.

So this is responsibility that you must
take with great sincerity.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Why Women Are NOT Attracted To "Equals"- And What To DO About It!

Women don't want a man who is their EQUAL.

You want to know the reason for this?

Not only is it because women want a man
who is more dominant than them, but also
because it's human nature to only get
EXCITED when we are getting MORE
than what is "FAIR".

No woman, and no man, feels EXCITED about
attracting what they expect they already SHOULD
BE GETTING.

Sad?
Maybe.
True?
Absolutely.

When was the last time you got EXCITED
about a girl you felt was EASY for you
to get, because you could get LOTS of
girls like her?

See what I mean?

This is why, she must be feeling that
you are BETTER than she DESERVES.

Now, keep in mind, that most men, when
they approach women, don't even come
across as EQUALS, (never mind SUPERIOR value)
as they kiss up and HOPE to God that the
woman will LIKE them.

More on superior value in a moment.

Now, for being 'THE MAN': 'The Man' is a
term I use to refer to a combination of
virtue, superiority and masculinity,
and it relates to every single aspect
of your interactions with a woman, from
the moment you meet her till your last
moment on earth with her.

In the last few decades, there has been a gradual
EROSION of masculinity from men’s behaviour,
which all started because men were made to feel
GUILTY about being men and even having
sexual desire.

On TOP of that, women were SIMULTANEOUSLY
told to “use girl power” etc., etc., and to have “fun”,
etc., etc., but GUYS were DEAF to this, because of
the GUILT they were fed. It was as if men IGNORED
this and only listened to the “boo hoo women are
being treated so badly” stories.

Now there is no one person or movement to blame,

it’s far more complex than that, because a lot of
these things (feminism) STARTED with good intentions
but then went COMPLETELY WRONG. Kind of like
Frankenstein.

The thing is, at least a long time ago,
men were getting BALANCE in RETURN
for treating a woman "like a lady".

A man gave to a woman, and a woman
gave back to a man.

It's only human nature, though, to
become spoiled if there is no reason
NOT to become spoiled.

So if a woman gets plenty from NOT
giving back to a guy, why would she
start to give back to him?

It seems as if guys have forgotten
that these days, guys get NOTHING in
return for GIVING away their affection
or anything else so freely, especially
to women who are stunning.

Because no one has TOLD guys to change
their strategy, guys still believe that the
old strategy makes sense even though
REALITY IS CRASHING DOWN ON THEM,
guys still refuse to change their deep rooted belief
that the way to succeed with women is to kiss up.

When you BELIEVE in something, then
ALL EVIDENCE to the contrary won’t mean
jack sh*&, because your mind will just find a
way to interpret it according to your perspective
of the world.

So guys basically DIDN’T BELIEVE all the
REALITIES that were REALLY happening
with women, whether it was women having
bachelorette parties that would put Hugh
Hefner to shame, whether it was women
cheating, etc.

Guys just kept on treating women not only
as EQUALS, but as SUPERIORS. Yes,
SUPERIORS, because given the fact
that women were now (post 1950’s) doing
LESS AND LESS and finally NOTHING
for men, and yet men were STILL kissing
up to women MORE AND MORE, well,
THAT in fact is a definite SUPERIORITY
for women.

And like I always say, superiority is the
essence of attraction.

This is a FACT.
We don't just want "equal" to what we
give, human nature is to want MORE.

THAT'S when we feel great, when we
get MORE than we expect.

And the INSANITY of all this, is that it’s
all based on nothing TANGIBLE. It’s
just based on ASSUMPTIONS which
came to hold the power of BELIEFS.

And in fact, it’s based on WRONG
assumption and wrong beliefs. Like the
idea that men are somehow animals, and women
saints. Or that women are morally superior
to men. Or that women don’t like sex. Or
that somehow a man “should” show a woman
that HE is a good man, before SHE shows
him she is a good woman.

All that stuff came from a time when women
HAD NO POWER. It’s RIDICULOUS
today, and turns men into SITTING DUCKS
just waiting to be taken advantage of and
abused.

I seriously can’t understand how this isn’t
ABSOLUTE COMMON KNOWLEDGE by today.

My guess is that the only reason there isn’t some
MEN’S liberation movement is because men
are concerned it will sound pathetic.  This
is DEFINITELY the reason most men
tend to stay silent even when they are
being abused by women.

MEN are SUPPOSED to already be dominant,
so as men, as a gender, we feel this pressure
to not SHARE our pain or REPORT it because
there's this perception that men don't get
these problems, when in fact as a gender
we DO.

Hey, here's one strategy for taking ACTION
if you are currently not approaching women
and you WANT to be able to approach:

NAME THE VOICE

Do this right now.

Yes, NAME the voice within you that is
always telling you NOT TO APPROACH.

Whatever that voice is saying, give it a NAME.

So if the voice inside you is saying "Don't
do it, she will NOT want to be approached,
and she will get UPSET, and so therefore
I am trying to protect you from her getting
UPSET at you"...then call this voice the
"TRYING TO SAVE ME VOICE".

The key here, is by giving this voice a name,
you start to realize this is not YOU, it's
something ELSE, it's not Jim, Bob, or
Harry, or Mark, or whatever your name
is, it's "TRYING TO SAVE ME VOICE".

Now, the next step, is, for you to
SPEAK to this voice, and tell it
something like:
"Thanks for sharing your thoughts with me,
but I'm going to TAKE ACTION ANYWAY".

You can even get PISSED OFF at the voice,
and tell it "LISTEN, I HEARD YOU, AND
I'M GOING TO TALK TO HER ANYWAY,
YOU IDIOT!! YOU'RE NOT HELPING ME
EVEN THOUGH YOU THINK YOU ARE!!!!"

The key here is that all this helps you REALIZE
it's not YOU, it's just one tiny PART of who
you are, that is actually in CONFLICT with
the GREATER PART of who you are
that knows you SHOULD approach because
the truth is that most women will NOT
get upset, and that you will only GET
BETTER at this from taking action,
and that in fact REBELLING AGAINST
THE VOICE ....MAKES YOU BECOME
SO MUCH MORE EMPOWERED AND
ATTRACTIVE!!

By the way, this is just a super-condensed
version of this exercise that you will learn
in FULL DETAIL in my Warrior Within
program.

Here's another crucial tip:
Power and Value are not conveyed by acting like
a jerk, or by acting cold or hard-to-get.

All those things arevery ARTIFICIAL and inneffective
way of TRYING HARD to appear to be "in demand".

Trying hard itself is UNCOOL and unattractive, and
to be honest, is plain hard work and not fun!

The REAL ANSWER is to UNLEASH the inner
INFINITE POWER vibes that are already
IN you, that make you EMPOWERED, FUN,
SENSUAL, AND PLAYFUL ALL AT ONCE!

In fact, if a guy comes across as ANGRY
at women, or angry about things, he is
not only showing that obviously he is not
GETTING results with women, (which is
in a way showing lack of value on a
subconscious level) he he is also
DESTROYING the FUN VIBES that are
so attractive to women and that are
so important to escalating the interaction
to a more sensual level.

The bottom line is that women are KICKING GUYS’S
asses today like never before!!!!!!!

And like I said, it’s all the result of men THINKING
it has to be this way and continuing their behaviors.

By the way, a quick tip:

The FASTEST way for CHANGING the way women
percieve you upon the first approach, and for changing
the way you FEEL internally, is to start taking small
social risks and get pumped from the ADRENALINE
of that risk!

You must take a certain amount of RISK in your VERBAL
and NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION.

This applies to everything, including your humor:
If it is TOTALLY "SAFE" WILL
BE BORING AND NOT FUN!

You can't be FUNNY or PLAYFUL or witty
if you are SO FOCUSED ON AVOIDING
ANY POTENTIAL NEGATIVE REACTION.

ALL great humor ALWAYS involves some
RISK, that it might not be taken the
right way, but that is why you learn
how to use humor WISELY:

For example, always have something REDEEMING
built into your humor, even as it might also be a bit
TEASING in a non-malicious way.

So, for example, if you meet a knockout,
and you wave a chocolate bar in front
of her face, and tell her:

"I bet you haven't eaten one of these in a loooong
time"

Then, you PAUSE...and say:

"I mean that you haven't eaten one without
throwing it up!!"

Now, that's FUNNY but it also takes
a RISK, however MOST women will GET
it that this is ALL a comment that really
is based on the fact she is in GREAT SHAPE
and slim.

Which, in our society, is a compliment,
for better or for worse. So you haven't
REALLY lowered her status, in a way
you've confirmed that she indeed IS
high status, but you've also poked fun
at her at the same time.

THAT is effective humor.

So the idea here is that clearly you
are joking, and it's still still a
compliment, because it could not
be said to a woman who seemed out
of shape.

You have to adjust your humor depending
on the degree of confidence you feel the
woman would have about the thing you
are joking about with her.

If a guy said this to a woman who was
NOT in shape, it would be plain MEAN
and show that he has zero social intelligence,
and social intelligence is MASSIVELY
important in getting ANY woman.

This is humor must be adjusted depending on
who is the recipient.

And yet most men are all so obsessed
with making sure they are "NOT OFFENDING"
THAT THEY BASICALLY CASTRATE THEMSELVES
IN FRONT OF ATTRACTIVE WOMEN.

If you play it totally SAFE, you can't even
be INTRIGUING, because you might
worry that she will find what you are
talking about to NOT be intriguing!

In the same way that jet-skiing, white water
rafting, and even riding a BICYCLE the
first time was taking A RISK but was
FUN and WORTH IT!

Yes, YOU must be having a great time
AS you do the approaches to women, AS
you escalate the interaction, as you
get physical, etc, etc.

So here's a strategy to try out
next time you are about to approach
a woman:

ACT AS IF SHE JUST MADE LOVE TO YOU
AND IS BEGGING FOR A SECOND AND THIRD
TIME WITH YOU AND SHE JUST KEEPS ON
GIGGLING AND SMILING WITH THAT "GIRL
IN LOVE" LOOK AT YOU!

And imagine she keeps on shaking her
booty at you, trying so hard to get
your attention because she is afraid
to lose it!!!

How would you feel INTERNALLY if THIS
was the situation?

Would you not be LAUGHING???
Would you not be SMILING???
Would you not be feeling a lot BETTER
about the idea of being playful?

Imagine how YOU would be feeling IF
that was what just happened.

THIS "vibe" is what must be inside of you.
THIS is what we develop as well in my
program "Warrior Within".

It's crucial that you don't take the
facts of the situation to become
ANGRY with women, but rather to become
FUN and empowered and sensual and
intriguing, which is MUCH EASIER
to do when you ARE feeling those
vibes of empowerment.

Women can't HELP but feel attraction
to these vibes.

Society is NOT going to change overnight.
But YOU can make things change for YOURSELF,
by USURPING almost every single thing that women's
"empowering movements" are doing AND using it
for YOURSELF.

Women act standoffish to your approach?
The only reason they are doing that is because
you are approaching them in a way that makes
them feel as if YOU are worthless and as if
THEY are superior, OR it's happening because
humans feel what others are feeling, and if
you are really nervous, you are making her
nervous as well.

ALL this changes when you start RECLAIMING
YOUR OWN POWER AND STOP FOCUSING ON HOW
TO KISS UP!

Attraction is about PERCEPTION.
Women tend to THINK they are the ones with the power.
So they act that way, and most guys get SWALLOWED
up into that frame, thereby REINFORCING women’s
self-concepts and DESTROYING their (men’s) OWN
self concepts as men get SHOT DOWN over and over
again.

This whole PERCEPTION has to change in your mind.

Your whole "GUT FEELING" about who really has the power,
has to CHANGE in your mind. Otherwise, this feeling will
keep on showing through your body language, and women
will DETECT it and feel that THEY are superior to you, and
that you are just not worth their time.

You have to get the SKILLS to EFFECTIVELY
send the message that you are worth MORE
than them.

EQUAL DOESN’T CUT IT!!

Human nature is to want more.

This is why you need to have the SKILLS
to convey SUPERIOR INTRINSIC VALUE.

This doesn’t mean acting like a jerk.

In fact, it means acting INSANELY COMFORTABLE
and INSANELY CONFIDENT, and in certain
environments like clubs, it means that you also have
to start off very PLAYFUL, otherwise you obviously
are desperate, because if you are not in a good mood
in a club, where you are supposed to be happy, you
are obviously only there to meet women, and apparently
not being successful since you are not happy and playful,
which means LOSER).

Remember, if you REALLY knew you were desired,
if you REALLY knew you had the worth, THAT’S
how you would feel.

If you want to CHANGE your life, this INSANITY of
even THINKING that women have all the power must
stop. Your THOUGHTS are given CONCRETE FORM
in your behaviours, and women WILL detect them
the same way anyone can detect desperation or
someone who is not comfortable.

Now, there’s more to it than just this, for example,
understanding how to not make a woman feel
slutty, but even THAT becomes less of a problem
when you come across as being DESIRABLE
because if you are DESIRABLE, then a woman
feels she is with a “worthy” guy and that she
is not “cheap” for being with you.

See what I mean?
Superior Intrinsic Value RULES.

And when it comes to attraction, behaving in
a MASCULINE way, i.e. leading the interaction,
not getting overly emotional, being cool and
laid back, and showing DOMINANCE, is
BIG TIME VALUE in her sexual desire
department of her brain.

I was at the bookstore yesterday and I couldn’t
BELIEVE how they are STILL selling books
in the relationships section telling men how to
KISS UP even MORE than they are already doing.

Do you know who needs to read those kinds of
books about how to treat women better?
The complete PSYCHOS, the TOTAL jerk-offs,
the real scum of society.

Aside from them, really, I don’t think any
guy is going to get anything but ANGUISH
from applying the advice in those “how to
kiss up even more to women” books.

Women don’t even WANT that type of guy
as it makes them feel like they are with some
kind of emasculated man. Most women
deep down want to feel sexually that they
are with a guy with a dominant personality
otherwise it makes THEM, the women,
in charge of leading things to sex and
that’s going to really ruin the chemistry.

Of course, women can’t come out and say
this on national tv or it will sound like they
are against equal rights, which they aren’t
against.

Being a dominant man is the ONLY choice.
It was always the only choice, but nowadays,
due to women, especially attractive ones, having
MORE power than ever, it’s become even
MORE important that men start RECLAIMING
their own personal worth and SHOWING IT
through everything they do.

YOU ARE WHAT YOU DO.

You will be PERCEIVED by how you behave,
the same way MEN have perceived WOMEN
to be superior SIMPLY by the way women
BEHAVED.

You don’t be silly about thinking about any OTHER
option. There is NO other option but to be
masculine, to lead the show, to be THE MAN.

And guess what?

It’s not ENOUGH just that YOU know that you
are not kissing up. SHE must know it too.

She must know that FAILURE on her part to
treat you right will lead to a very quick
goodbye from you.

And you have to be PREPARED for all
the BRILLIANT DISGUISES. For example:
if a woman knows that you only like “good”
girls, a girl who is not a good girl will do her
BEST to ACT like a good girl to GET YOU.

Even though she might really be the kind of
girl who would make even Satan cringe.

So you must learn how to detect a TRUE

quality woman apart from the fakers.

On one hand, because you had STANDARDS,
she saw that you don’t just go for anything.

Your high standards show you are obviously
DESIRABLE. So she IMMEDIATELY felt a
certain DESIRE for you. And she was prepared
to do what is necessary to get you.

But once she “gets” you, if you make her feel
that she HAS you for sure no matter what, she
will start to SLIDE in her treatment of you,
and you might start to rationalize it, you might
try to defend her actions since she is a “good”
girl.

But if you FALL for that BRILLIANT
DISGUSE, well, then, that’s exactly what
she wants. (of course, if a woman really
is wack job, don't even try to use these
skills to attract her, just say goodbye
as soon as you find out she is an abusive
person.)

You must learn to avoid women who are
NARCISSISTS and who love to get
artificial "friends" on facebook to make
them look like they are so in demand,
but who in reality once they knew her
in person well enough would run like
hell from her.

YOU MUST BE THE MAN, AT ALL TIMES.
THERE IS NO OTHER CHOICE, in a society
where most women have been brainwashed to
believe they are superior.

Any OTHER type of strategy, other type of option,
just about ALWAYS leads to break-ups, women
who can’t commit, getting taken advantage of
emotionally and financially, heartbreak, no sex,
plummeting self-esteem, and tons of other
fun stuff.

The crazy thing is, when you LEARN these
skills, you are suddenly INFUSED with so
much power that you can EASILY reverse
ALL THIS STUFF, to the point that if you
wanted to, you could easily do all that nasty stuff
to women, but you really WON’T WANT TO
because you’ll be TOO BUSY WITH THE
WOMAN OF YOUR CHOICE.

You’ll FEEL SORRY for the women that
did that creepy stuff, because the truth is
that the most SEXY women who are
CONFIDENT NEVER do that nasty stuff,
because when you are REALLY secure,
you might not be ATTRACTED to someone
but you have no need to be ABUSIVE.

Only INSECURE people are abusive,
because their insecurity and pain makes
them want YOU to also be in pain.

Most women are not like that.
Most women are simply in the category of
being SPOILED by society.

Human behavior works on INCENTIVES.
When a woman who is attractive thinks she
can get away with doing less, she will.

On the other hand, when a woman knows
the only way to get the man of her dreams
is to treat him RIGHT, she will do exactly
that. And when you attract her, you become
the man of her dreams.

Does this mean that all those other women are bad?
Not really, not anymore than a child who is spoiled.
The child is not “bad” or “evil”, just spoiled.
The child needs to learn.

Women need to learn that you are not like all
the other guys who will KEEP ON KISSING UP
to women even though women have moved
WAY WAY WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY
BEYOND “working in the kitchen barefoot
and pregnant”. Hey, in those days, a man
had some room to err because he had
a certain amount of AUTOMATIC respect
from women, just from being born a
male in that society and era.

And in fact, there WERE some screwed
up things against women in those days that
were just not right. Like women not even
being allowed to vote.

But women have come a long long way, and
men have GONE BACKWARDS a long long
way, and that is just as evil. Especially since
it’s always the good but ignorant guys that
don’t want to cause “problems”, and the jerks
who couldn’t give a rat’s ass, thereby giving the
jerks an advantage since the jerk doesn’t care
about women’s rights or issues and therefore
will take as much as he can, and this often
is misinterpreted by women as a sign of his
superior VALUE.

So, you don’t have to be a jerk, but you sure
as heck have to know how to still come across
as having superior VALUE.

Sometimes I think the BIGGEST INTERNAL
obstacle to learning how to behave in the
right way comes because we have this
“inner conflict” that says that being “The Man”
is “not nice”, as if maybe it’s something
your mother wouldn’t approve of, as you
respect your mom, who is a woman, and
you want to treat her well.

But you have to remember that “women” in general
are NOT your MOM. You are not trying to
ATTRACT your mom!

That might SOUND a bit funny, obvious, or strange,
but it’s actually PREGNANT WITH INFORMATION.

You see, as a child, for most of us, our MOTHER
gave us a lot of crucial things we needed for LIFE.
Love, support, nurturing, making us feel good, etc.
God bless mothers.

And we kind of take this image of women
from our mom.

But when you are trying to attract a woman,
you have to remember this is not your MOM.

It’s a whole new sexual dynamic going on.

When it comes to attracting a woman, a woman
doesn’t NATURALLY give a DAMN about you
any more than she might about the next guy.

That might sound harsh, but it’s true.
For some reason we keep thinking that women
are “nice” and that we should treat them “nice”.

Look, I’m totally against any kind of ABUSE.
But it’s not ABUSE to communicate with women on
the ONLY terms that women can understand in
a society where MOST women who are attractive
have been very spoiled. (it’s a little different
if you happen to live in a VERY male-dominated
society, of course.)

The only way a woman will give a damn about
you (beyond the feeling sorry kind of caring)
is if she is ATTRACTED to you.

And what ATTRACTS a woman is about more
than what made you a good son, and about
more than what your mother likes about you.

This is not as easy as it might sound, because
it requires you to behave in ways that you might
think your MOM does not approve of. (the truth
is, your mom probably WANTS you to succeed
with women, so she probably deep down DOES
approve, but it would be really weird if your mom
had to tell you what turns HER on, if she was
even aware of it!)

Now, there is one more factor to keep in mind:
Just because all women who are attractive tend
to get worshipped by men, does not mean that
all women who are attractive are messed up.

There are great women out there, who would
be totally honest and loyal to any man that
they date, the key with these women though
is that you must still be BURSTING with
empowerment. You must still be oozing
all the right things from within.

The difference with a great woman, though,
is that she is not turned on by the "player"
facade. She wants THE MAN, not the PLAYER.

She is ALSO massively different in that
she requires more than just ATTRACTION,
she also wants a level of CONNECTION
and INTIMACY that most men simply
have never learned how to create.

So if you would like to get the FULL PICTURE,
to learn EXACTLY how to go about approaching
women to take things from that very first moment
of walking up to her, all the way to making
the ultimate connection and intimacy, all the
way to the bedroom and beyond, and even
where to find the RIGHT women, and how to
keep things running smoothly to prevent
“drama”, then I seriously suggest you get my
Warrior Within Program on DVD IMMEDIATELY.

What you read in these newsletters is just the
tip of the iceberg of what you will find in this
life-changing program.

This program goes DEEP and it WILL SKYROCKET
your results with women. You’ll learn how to take
the right actions with women, from A to Z, in the way
that women deep down WISH you would, but simply
can’t admit.

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.htm

Don't let another woman that you spot
anywhere, EVER slip away again.

Get this program NOW, at:

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For today and forever, BE THE MAN.

Michael Marks

Attraction Skill Vs. Attraction Gimmicks

If you're SERIOUS about mastering the skill of
attracting a woman, then you have to know the
difference between the "gimmicks" approach to
this whole topic, or the approach that actually
WORKS.

One of the biggest things to me is being REAL.
That means real in many different ways.

For one thing, I hate gimmicks.

So that’s why I was never into learning memorized
routines for approaching women, memorized lines,
or using “props” such as magic tricks, cards, or
anything at all like that in order to “impress” a woman.

In my gut instinct, I always knew that somehow,
the REALLY cool guys did NOT use gimmicks
to attract women.

The reason why gimmicks are popular, however,
is because they cater to the desire for an EASY
WAY OUT.

But in real life, in order to master something,
so that in fact you CAN excel at that thing
and make it look “easy”, requires some
REAL learning, some REAL input, before
you can get the beneficial OUTPUT.

Again, this does not just apply to attracting women.

So, for example, speak to any TRUE bodybuilder
who does not use steroids or growth hormone,
and he will tell you just how much EFFORT
goes into achieving results. Proper nutrition,
proper rest, gut-busting workouts. Heck, even
the STEROID champs will also tell you how
much real work goes into it, and how there
just AINT NO GIMMICKS to substitute for
all the work that goes into it.

If you want to become a doctor, you have to
STUDY LONG AND HARD.

I have never resorted to the gimmicks approach,
even though it really DOES sell.

When I think of GIMMICKS, I think of
the old campy TV show of Batman, where
he always was able to save his hide or
save the day thanks to something in his
BAT UTLITY BELT.

I used to think to myself, “If that dude
ever didn’t have this utility belt on, he’d
be FINISHED”.

I know the show was meant to be campy,
but even as a kid, it really pissed me off.

On the other hand, let’s take a character
like James Bond and the ease with which he
chats up women using a combination of
humor, sexuality, intrigue.

The truth is, there are REAL people
out there like this, and you don't
have to actually even BE "James Bond"
to master this.

The key is the ability to be compelling
through SKILL, not through gimmicks.

The truth is that it is MUCH MUCH MUCH
cooler, a trillion times cooler, to be able to
actually have the SKILLS deep inside of
you so that you can attract women and
be able to say the right things and do the
right things because you UNDERSTAND what
to do, not because you have just MEMORIZED
like a robot some lines or routines on what
to do.

Women can EASILY tell the difference.

Without actually developing the SKILLS, a guy will
be conveying the WRONG message about himself,
no matter HOW "cool" his memorized words or magic
tricks or routines or 'stage props' are.

He will be off in his timing, in his
delivery, in his body language, in
his choice of WHEN to do WHAT.

And yet, when you actually MASTER
these skills, it actually IS
easy and instinctive- that's the
difference between real skill and
looking for easy way out gimmicks-
the gimmicks NEVER really work,
but "seem easy", whereas the real
skills take some work, but then
the results DO come easy.

To me, attracting a woman you seriously want
is not something to be joked about or toyed
around with. I want you to get RESULTS,
not just scraps of attention from women.

So, for example, when it comes to the art
of actually getting a woman laughing,
I didn’t just say “tell jokes”, I actually
interviewed one of the only men alive
that actually is BOTH a comedian AND
for many years went out into the FIELD
with guys to approach women and show
them how to create attraction.

I actually could be a real witness to the
truth about what he was saying, as I
myself hung out with him and he even
served as a guest instructor together
with myself at one of my own bootcamps.

And guess what? In my interview with him,
(that is part of the Actions For Attraction Set
http://getagreatgirl.com/ActionsForAttraction.html )
you will NOT get any GIMMICKS.

Rather, you get an actual FEEL for the
BIG PICTURE of comedy and the skills
involved as well as instructions on what
you can do to enhance your SKILL at this
art. He actually GETS YOU LAUGHING
AS YOU LISTEN, and then after he is finished,
I actually BREAK DOWN, step by step, exactly
what is going on psychologically and HOW he is
making all this happen.

It’s a lot more to take in than just “here do this
1, 2, 3, and she is yours!”.

I don’t pretend that my subscribers are less
intelligent than myself, if anything, I always
aim HIGHER, because personally, that’s what
is interesting to ME. Honestly, I get a personal
satisfaction from knowing that guys that get
my material are getting the very BEST.

Similarly, for conquering “Approach Anxiety”,
I absolutely do NOT give you some “motivational
speech”. Nope, in fact, that can sometimes have
the OPPOSITE effect, by the way, as a guy
will get all PUMPED about this thing called
approaching women and make it a far bigger
deal than it needs to be, which will be uncool
to the woman, and also will create even more
stress for the guy.

Instead, I actually give you a DETAILED
step by step COMPREHENSIVE plan to
OBLITERATE APPROACH ANXIETY.

Now, when it comes to “inner game”,
which really IS important to your success
with women, some guys like to oversimplify
this by saying “just be confident” and others
try to make it overly complicated by making
it seem almost impossible.

I just care about solving the issue as efficiently
as possible, so that your inner game actually
is strong, without adding any kind of hocus
pocus gimmicks to make me sound smart.

So, this is the difference between me and
what’s out there.

Similarly, I’ve decided to focus on how to
get the kind of girl that most guys really
want- the kind of girl that is attractive
and would be a great girlfriend.

So, that’s a bit different than just trying
to get a girl into bed.

Now, just because you are looking for a
“great girl” doesn’t mean that she isn’t
attracted to a man that has the ANIMAL
WILD SIDE to him.

I’ve noticed that there is some advice
floating out there that tries to make it
seem like if you are trying to attract
a quality woman, that it’s all ONLY
about being a man of integrity, etc.

OF COURSE, these thing are CRUCIAL,
including developing the skill to truly understand
her point of view and to develop a super strong
connection, and I go DEEP into these things in
my programs, but the trick is to COMBINE
all this with ALSO conveying sexuality, fun,
dominance, and even a bit of the unpredictable.

Getting a great girl is not about finding a girl
who is going to be CHARITABLE to you
or have SYMPATHY on you and be with you
because you are a nice guy.

It’s about ATTRACTING a super high
quality woman that you are making
WILD WITH ATTRACTION FOR YOU!

So she’s got all the great physical and deeper
personality traits, including loyalty and
honesty and being a fun person, and she
is CRAZY ABOUT YOU.

Let me give you an example:

A guy who thinks that since she is a great girl,
so now he doesn’t have to know anything or
be anything, since, after all, she is so nice,
might make the tragic mistake of thinking
that he doesn’t have to DO anything or
KNOW anything, since she is so kind,
she will just treat him great, right?

WRONG.

Because even if she IS a great person,
you want her to be with you because
she is ATTRACTED, not because she
feels she is doing “the right thing”.

Otherwise, there will be problems eventually.

So, let’s say you’re dating a woman, a woman
who is attractive, a great personality, and is
obviously a woman “in demand”.

And after a few weeks, let’s just say, she tells
you about the fact that her ex-boyfriend called
her, or she tells you that she’s concerned that
maybe you and her are moving a little “too fast”,
etc, etc and that maybe you should both slow
down.

Now, most guys, they would feel insecure
about all this.

And that’s not so bad, really, it’s not the
worst thing in the world. We’re all human.

What’s bad is ACTING UPON THIS INSECURITY.

See, at this point, the woman really did nothing
WRONG. You were only dating her a few weeks,
and she didn’t do anything morally wrong here.

Now, in this situation, there are two roads
available to take:

One road is to try to STOP her from calling
the ex-boyfriend by telling her how much you
dislike it.

The same road might also suggest that you
say to her “Honey, what do you mean moving
too fast?? You want to slow things down????”

Now, let’s ask ourselves what this accomplishes:

It sends the message to her brain that you
want her to be with you as a FAVOR for YOU.

After all, it’s YOU who you are concerned
about here, right?

So, now, we have that already established.

On top of this, we have also established that
you feel that YOU are not CLEARLY the
superior value.

If you DID, you would LAUGH at this whole
thing, right?

Now, again, I’m not saying that it’s always
EASY to feel this confident, especially if
you have not been doing your inner game
work.

But at the very least, you can control your
ACTIONS.

So, let’s go a bit deeper here:

What’s REALLY going on here?

What’s going on, for whatever reason, is
either this woman is testing you, which means
she is no good, or she is honestly not feeling
enough attraction.

And if she's not feeling enough attractin, this MIGHT
mean that you were giving off needy vibes or controlling
vibes etc, etc, or simply not being fun, that caused this.

I'm not saying FOR SURE, because there are
infinite possibilities, but assuming that she WAS
originally interested, and things WERE going
great, usually there is some explanation for
why things went off course.

If she WAS feeling enough attraction, she would
have told you about the ex-boyfriend in such a way
where it was CLEAR that she was NOT
interested, and regarding the “moving
too fast” thing she would have NOT
said that.

So, your goal is always simple:

INCREASE HER ATTRACTION

And you ALWAYS have choices available.
Some choices LOWER attraction, some
choices INCREASE attraction.

When you’re dealing with interactions
with women, it’s like you’re driving
a RACE car, where the gears are all
STICK SHIFT, it’s not AUTOMATIC
TRANSMISSION.

You have to know where to put the gear.

So, if she is showing signs of LACK of
attraction, you must do what INCREASES
attraction.

Which means take the OTHER road:

So, for example, telling her “You should call
him back, he sounds lonely, it’s probably
been a long time since he’s talked to a girl,
and I guess you still qualify as a girl”

And say it with a WARM SMILE!!!!!!!!

This sends ALL the RIGHT messages and
WHAMMO SKYROCKETS the attraction.

Now, she’s thinking to herself, on a SUBCONSCIOUS
LEVEL, “there’s no FUN in that now”.

You DRANIED the “FUN” potential in her
mind of calling the ex-boyfriend because
you’ve SIMULTANEOUSLY demonstrated
SUPERIOR value in your obvious sense of
security, and you’ve subtly LOWERED his
status by explaining how lonely he is and
you’ve EVEN shown in a playful way that
she “might do” as a girl!!!!!

How many guys do you think would respond
this CORRECT way????

That’s right, about ZERO percent.

And THAT makes your response even MORE
powerful if you’ve chosen the right response-
because not only is it the right response, but
since so few guys do it right, it makes you
stand out even MORE.

Now, she’s suddenly telling you things like
“No way, I wasn’t going to call him, I was
just telling you what a weirdo he is”.

And regarding the “slow down we’re moving
too fast” if you would respond with something
like “I WAS FEELING THE SAME WAY TOO
BUT I DIDN’T WANT TO HURT YOUR FEELINGS!”
if you say it with a calm smile, she will KNOW
that you are kidding around with her, but at the
SAME TIME, she will also know the most important
thing: THAT YOU ARE NOT NEEDY FOR HER
AND WILL NOT TRY TO MAKE HER DO
SOMETHING SHE DOESN’T WANT TO DO.

Again, WHAMMO, 99 percent of the time, this
results in an INSTANT reframing on her part,
she suddenly views the situation as something
other than her original perception: Now, she’s
thinking of the issues involved in LOSING you.

Before, she was thinking of the issues involved
in having MORE CHOICES.

The brain really can’t be in two places at once.

Now, I do not believe in having to constantly
be doing these kinds of things, however, in
the RARE times when these things DO come
up, (as we are all human and they will come up),
you QUASH these issues damn well, and that
way, they will NOT arise again.

If they DO, well THEN you should definitely
NOT be with such a woman.

However, the occasional time these things happen
is YOUR OPPORTUNITY to really AMPLIFY
A WOMAN’S ATTRACTION TO YOU and
PREVENT these kinds of things from happening
much in the future, if at all.

This is ESPECIALLY true the FIRST times these
things happen, because FIRST impressions hit
the HARDEST.

First impressions hit so hard, in fact, that this is
the reason why it's SO HARD to get over the
FIRST woman that you ever were crazy about.

Since she was the FIRST, your brain actually
puts her into a very powerful category that
gets a MASSIVE  "publicity in your own mind"
campaign.  Your brain RAISES her level of
value and importance and all other women
seem like poor imitations.

Eventually, we get over it, and we can appreciate
other women again.  But it takes time.

In a similar way, if you meet a woman and deliver
the right impression the FIRST time, it will be very
HARD for ANYONE to LESSEN her attraction
to you!!

But if you screw up on the first impression, it
will be very hard to FIX this damage.

Whether it's fair or not fair, the reality is the
brain really gets impacted on an emotional
level by the FIRST impression.

So, if a woman sees the RIGHT reactions and
the right behaviors in you the FIRST time, she
will REALLY “get the message” and I don’t
mean this in a nasty way- when I say “get the
message” I mean she will feel ATTRACTED.

Let’s be honest, this ENTIRE life is pretty
much about people trying to have more
FUN and LESS PROBLEMS.

As guys, we are interested in attractive women
because they turn us ON.

It feels AWESOME.

So, do you not want to GIVE that same feeling
to the woman you’re attracted to?

These kinds of right responses, reactions, behaviors,
GIVE a woman MORE of that attracted feeling to you.

And when you approach a woman who is
a stranger, if she is walking along the
sidewalk and it’s night time, for example,
she might be a bit more cautious than if
it were daytime and there were lots of
people around.

So by keeping that in mind, it makes sense
to get her LAUGHING as soon as possible.

In fact, this is not just attractive, it’s REQUIRED
to help her relax and not be worried, because
if she’s laughing, it’s hard for her to feel
fear or worry.

So getting a woman and attracting her and
keeping her is about mastering far deeper
things than GIMMICKS or memorized lines.

And THAT’S what my programs are all
about.

My latest programs include the Actions
For Attraction CD Set, at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/ActionsForAttraction.html

As well as my Warrior Within DVD Program,
at: http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

P.S. To find out about all my programs,
go to: http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.html

Skyrocketing The Sexual

One of the crazy things about attracting a woman
is that you probably already KNOW in your gut
what IS attractive- for examples, things like
CONFIDENCE, things like being more SEXUAL,
and things like being INTERESTING in general.

The REAL question is, how do you SHOW these
things to a woman? Sometimes a guy CAN be
confident in many OTHER areas of his life, but
not feel confident in approaching a woman who
is a total stranger. Sometimes a guy can be an
interesting person, but when he’s talking to
a woman, he doesn’t know how to show it.

And, how do you show more SEXUALITY to a
woman who is a total stranger???

So let me get into answering ALL this right
here, right now. Please keep in mind that
you can apply it all IMMEDIATELY and
see for yourself how quickly it works.

First off, I totally understand that most guys
are NOT Bill Gates, not wealthy, not models,
and not necessarily living an “Indiana Jones”
lifestyle.

And guess what? THAT’S NOT A PROBLEM.

Because the TRUTH is that, WHEREVER you
are in life, whatever your situation is, you can
STILL apply everything I’m talking about to
demonstrate all the cool things about yourself.

Let me give you an example: Let’s say you
have a really CRAPPY job, okay?

And you’re at that part of the conversation
where she’s talking about her stressful job or
whatever, and you know that if you don’t mention
what you do, it’s going to sound like you’re hiding
something.

The reality is, you’re FAR BETTER OFF
literally telling a woman “my job is crap”
than trying to DISGUISE it in any way.

I mean LITERALLY telling her those words.

The key though, is to say those words without
trying to be CUTE when you say it.

If you say it trying to be “cute” or smiling,
it almost seems as if you’re smiling out of
HOPE that she will “forgive” it.

But if you are totally OWNING it, and not
seeking to try to get her FORGIVENESS
for it, it makes a FREAKING HUMONGOUS
DIFFERENCE.

You can even be a bit PISSED OFF in your
tonality about the crappy job.

The reasons for all this are subconscious:

By NOT hiding it, you show the following
things, and I’ll explain why:

1. INTEGRITY

Most guys will sacrifice truth and anything else
if they think it will get them ahead, but here you
are clearly showing you are not affected by what
other people think, including HER.

You show that you stick to your principles.

You also show that you aren't ARROGANT, which
is what a lot of guys end up coming across as in their
efforts to try to sound cool. 

Arrogant is actually the opposite of cool and often
shows an inability to be intimate.

2. CONFIDENCE

You are also demonstrating confidence because
you clearly think that you STILL have a chance
with this girl ANYWAY otherwise why would
you be talking to her, especially in this non-apologetic
and non-deceptive way?????

The other thing is that by OWNING up to your
reality, and not DENYING it, you are far more
likely to be the kind of guy who is going to
MAKE THE CHANGES IN HIS LIFE TO
IMPROVE HIS SITUATION.

So in a way you’re also showing AMBITION.
If you’re not SATISFIED with where you
are, and you want to move UP in the world.

And when a man of confidence puts his mind
to work and his body into action, he can achieve
a HECK of a lot, and he won’t be down in the
gutter for long.

Now, if you have INTEGRITY and you also
have CONFIDENCE, she realizes that you
probably ALSO have integrity in your other
connections with people, including relationships.

This translates into SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE
AND POWER WITH PEOPLE.

She also subconsciously realizes that if you
can handle THIS kind of awkward uncomfortable
situation, you can probably also handle the part
about you LEADING the interaction smoothly
to the SEXUAL with her.

After all, you don’t seem to be bogged down
by the OTHER things that most guys would be
bogged down by psychologically.

So that’s just ONE example of how you can
convey confidence as well as many other
attractive traits, even if your situation isn’t
that GREAT, and you might have previously
THOUGHT you don’t have anything to be
confident ABOUT.

And you can use this same principle to show
confidence in ANY situation where you think
you are LACKING or not doing so great compared
to other people.

In fact, that “lack” is your opportunity to show
that you WILL NOT BE CRUSHED by it,
that you will not lose integrity by it, and that
you will not lose confidence by it.

Remember, MOST of the guys she is going
to meet are going to do the OPPOSITE of
this, including even guys who you might think
on the surface HAVE SO MUCH GOING
FOR THEM!!

Yup, the vast majority of guys ALL end up
QUALIFYING themselves to a woman they
are attracted to. The guys, out of a desire to
impress the woman, quickly end up telling
her about their fancy job, their car, their
fancy trip, etc, etc, etc.

And the irony of all this is that this “impressive”
stuff, by being used as a crutch, shows INSECURITY
to a woman and is REPULSIVE.

So, now it’s almost as if the guy would be
better off NOT having the fancy stuff, since
he ends up just using it to convey insecurity.

A woman figures that such a guy actually
thinks that he should be with her because
of his CAR or JOB, and that’s not only
uncool, it’s the trademark of a real a-hole,
and trust me, THAT’S NOT the cool kind
of “jerk” at all.

So you can ALWAYS be showing confidence,
NO MATTER WHAT YOUR SITUATION IS.

***SEXUALITY***

How about something like sexuality?

Well, here too, you can ALWAYS be more
sexual with a woman, it doesn’t have to JUST
be at a nightclub, where it’s easy to do this
because the women are there to meet guys.

I prefer to meet women in places OTHER than
nightclubs, simply because the most attractive
women at nightclubs definitely DON’T need
to go there to meet guys, so if they are there,
chances are they are just party girls.

Of course, there ARE great girl at nightclubs,
but FINDING them is like finding a needle
in a haystack, and the noise makes it hard
to truly dig deeper into conversation to
determine character.

However, all women need to do the everyday
things like shopping, grocery shopping, going
to the bank, etc, and so these “regular” places
are far better for actually meeting women with
more “long term girlfriend” potential.

How can you show more sexuality with a
woman you happen to see at the coffee
shop or supermarket?

Simple: Through using TOUCH AND TONALITY.

Words have been around for only a smidgeon
of human evolution, while TOUCH has been
around since the very beginning.

Human communication has been using
TOUCH since day one.

And it’s STILL AROUND, we just tend to
REPRESS this primal force.

So, stop worrying about being called a pervert
and look for PLAYFUL ways to make HUMAN
CONTACT.

And I’m talking FAST.

The reality is that women are FAR more
comfortable with this than you think.

When I was in university the first time, I
got BRAINWASHED by all these political
science courses including on feminism,
where I was taught how just about EVERYTHING
was a form of male harassment against women.

So I did everything I could when interacting
with women to NOT touch them, and to
NOT show dominance, and to just wait
for THEM to take all the action and to
get sexual.

Of course, that all led to ZERO results with women.

Then, I finally found out the TRUTH of
what was going on, on campus, and how
RAMPANT the sexuality was, and how
there were TWO realities, the one that
existed in the lecture hall, to which of
course NO ONE WOULD ARGUE lest
they be labeled EVIL CAVE-MEN, and
then there was the reality of what ACTUALLY
HAPPENED on a regular basis within just
METERS of these lectures halls, things that
would make Sodom and Gomorah BLUSH.

Seeing the TRUTH helped me a lot.

It made me FAR MORE COMFORTABLE
not only getting more “physical” with women,
but also being more PLAYFUL in general
with women, because I realized that women
were MOSTLY NOT like the stereotype
portrayed in my political science course
descriptions, in reality women LOVED
TO BE PLAYFUL AND ENJOYED
GETTING PHYSICAL, probably even
MORE SO than men.

Have FUN with women, from the moment
you first see a woman you’d like to talk to.

HUMAN CONTACT is a normal form of
human communication, it's perverted to think
that it's NOT.

So you aren't a "perv" for making contact,
AND RATHER it's perverted to think that
human contact is evil.
It's important to LIGHTEN UP and have more FUN.

Forget being serious, instead LIVE IT UP
and take “chances” with your sense of humor,
it’s BETTER than being too serious, FOR SURE.

It’s GOOD for a woman to think you
really want to get PHYSICAL with her
and that you have NO SHAME about it,
and that you LOVE the idea of physical
and you love having fun with women-
it’s just that socially, you can’t literally
SAY THIS as your first words to her,
but you CAN and SHOULD CONVEY
it through your MANNERISMS!

If you’re not having a good time doing this
with women, you’re doing it wrong.

And when I say a “good time” I don’t mean
to act “cutesy” with women – a lot of times
“cutesy” is this kind of toothy smile that
is really a form of seeking rapport.

Instead, your “having a good time” while
interacting and approaching women should
be coming from a place of STRENGTH
internally:

One of the best example I can think of that
resembles the REAL LIFE way of doing it, is
“Captain Kirk”, and if you’ve seen the way
he is with women, it’s a pretty accurate of
what I mean by playful but strong and not
needing a woman’s approval, while still
liking her nonetheless.

The more DEEPLY confident you are, the more
you can get away with compliments because she
will KNOW you are not using the compliments
in a needy way, she will know that you are just
a confident, fun, sexual guy.

So I assure you, you should go for playful
hugs, high-fives, taps on the shoulder, etc,
and if a woman has a problem with this,
you are NOT harming your chances, you are
only finding out that she is a waste of
your time.

Now, you should ALSO be conveying
sexuality, by speaking to a woman in
the same kind of tonality that you would
have right after making passionate love
to a woman. Your voice would be calm,
comfortable, no more pretenses of
sounding like CLARK KENT instead
of the real SUPERMAN inside of you.

There’s also nothing wrong with a dirty
joke or two if they are actually FUNNY
and not GROSS. This helps establish
the right mentality that this is a male
female interaction and not just some
cerebral conversation between two men.

Here’s ANOTHER important strategy:

GET HER TALKING ABOUT HERSELF

Most guys are so caught up in trying to
impress a woman, that this very act of
trying to impress ends up causing the
OPPOSITE and repels her.

Instead, what I do and have clients do is
to focus on learning more about HER.

After a playful comment or two to get the
conversation started, I get into wanting to
know what HER STORY IS.

In fact, I might even say those words:

“What’s YOUR Story?”

This has TONS of benefits for you:

It shows her that you aren’t all arrogant
and don’t need to talk all about YOURSELF.

It allows her a chance to actually BOND with
you by talking to you about herself.

It teaches you more about her, so that you can
have the right things to say to her that are actually
RELEVANT.

It’s easier anyway, because instead of having
to be this big talker, you can chill out and
listen.

The less you talk, the more cool you seem, as you
might remember from my discussions on
“Minimum Game” and how less is more, the
sign of a true master. A true master uses only
what is required for each situation, and never
more.

PLUS, after she has spoken to you about herself,
SHE HERSELF will ask you about yourself,
so NOW when you talk to her, even about
yourself, you will NOT seem like you are
qualifying yourself!!!! You really WILL
impress her.

And what you’ve just read is the TIP of the
ICEBERG of TONS of EASY-TO-APPLY
ACTIONS that ATTRACT A WOMAN
the moment you see her.

In my Actions For Attraction CD Set,
I show you exact word-for-word examples
of how to go from the MOMENT you
SEE a woman in a “normal” place like
a supermarket or mall, all the way to getting
her back to your place in anticipation of
getting physical with you.

And this is not just about how to get
some kind of promiscuous woman-
NOPE, I’m talking about the kind of woman
that is the full package, which means
that I also show you how to make a
powerful CONNECTION with her
as WELL as igniting sexual attraction
in her.

Here’s just SOME of what you’ll learn
in this incredible CD Set:

*The BEST ways of approaching women in
“regular” places like supermarkets.

*The FULL PICTURE on how to “OWN” any
“undesirable” part of your reality and transform
it into an ATTRACTIVE part of your identity.

*Three powerful ways to SIMULTANEOUSLY
create both ATTRACTION and RAPPORT!

This will ACCELERATE your results, which
is crucial especially in those situations where
you don’t have much TIME to speak to a woman!

*Four powerful ways to increase the
EROTIC nature of your interaction with
a woman so that you can SMOOTHLY
escalate to getting PHYSICAL later.

There’s nothing worse than having a series
of dates with a woman where NOTHING
physical happened, as this makes it even
MORE awkward and less likely for anything
physical to occur. You’ll never have this
problem, by using THESE strategies revealed
in this CD Set!

*A COMPLETE DETAILED REPORT AND
ANALYSIS of an entire real-world approach
with a total knockout, while she was shopping for
groceries! The level of detail here will be
EXTREMELY useful in your interactions with
women, in fact you can even use it as a model
example to follow for your own interactions with
women!

*How to deal with other guys that may try
to interrupt your interaction with a woman.

Ever have this happen to you? Often, in
real life, the same guys that had no guts
to approach a woman will now try to
talk to a woman when they see that you
have already “opened her up”, and they
will try to swoop in.

I’ll show you how to STOP THESE TURKEYS,
and make these guys LOSE all status INSTANTLY.

*I’ll show you the best ways to get a woman
talking about herself so that you can learn the
best way to connect with her!

*How to come across as far more INTERESTING,
without the use of ANY lies- in fact, you
will hardly have to even SPEAK at all!

*I’ll even show you the best way to follow
up that first conversation and how to transition
it into date where things ESCALATE very
quickly. I’ll show you the best way to email,
text, and speak to her after that first chat
so that she can’t WAIT to meet you in person!

*You’ll even discover a great way to use
any environment you meet a woman in,
to make her feel as if you two have known
each other a long time.

*How to quickly find out if a woman is single
or if she’s with somebody, if she’s interested
in meeting a guy, and even how to quickly detect
if a woman will separate from the rest of her group
to be with you.

And much, MUCH more!

This Set of 10 Audio CDs is JAMMED with
strategies you can use IMMEDIATELY
to attract the women of your choice!

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/ActionsForAttraction.html

I can promise you one thing: These strategies
WORK to attract the women you WANT.

I wish I knew the things that I now teach,
long ago. I could have been enjoying life
rather than being in misery and being
jealous of the guys that HAD the girl.

These CDs are LOADED with actions you can
IMMEDIATELY apply with women and see
results from INSTANTLY.

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/ActionsForAttraction.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

A TIME For Everything

There's a song "Turn, Turn, Turn"
that explains there is a time for
everything.



It's the same concept with attracting
a woman:

There's a time for being DOMINANT,
a time for being SENSITIVE, a time
for playfulness, a time for building
trust, a time to break rapport and
a time to deepen it.

Use the right thing at the WRONG
time, and it becomes warped and
destructive.

For the full explanation on this,
check out this article on the
Get A Great Girl forum, at:

http://tinyurl.com/ydvebgr

P.S. Today is the last day to
get the "Inside A Woman's Mind"
CD which is this month's issue
of "Actions For Attraction".

Subscribe now at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/actions.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Creating Attraction From SCRATCH

What you're about to read is
pure GOLD, so make sure you're
ready to fully digest this one.

The one thing everyone wants more of
is this thing known as “feeling good”.

No one gets enough of this thing,
and anyone that can GIVE IT
rules the world.

It boils down to the release of
endorphins into the bloodstream.

It’s the reason the ENTERTAINMENT
industry is a billion dollar industry.

And obviously, things like COCAINE.

It's all about FEELING AWESOME.

People will do anything to feel
awesome, unfortunately some people
even resort to drugs that will
DESTROY them.

Ask someone if they remember five
things they learned in college and
they’ll usually STRUGGLE and FAIL
to give you an INSTANT answer, but
ask them who Homer Simpson or
Bart Simpson is, and you'll get an
INSTANT answer.

Same thing if you ask the last word
to the name of the band called
The Rolling ______ .

Think of your favorite movie or song
or singer, and I bet you can list the lyrics,
or what the story is about down to the details,
etc, etc.  All because it's FUN for you.
It FEELS GOOD.

Now, when it comes to attracting a woman,
most guys tend to approach women and
they try to IMPRESS her by listing cool
things about themselves, or by sounding
important, etc.

None of this really fires off the FEELING
GOOD chemicals in her system, none of this
fires off ENDORPHINS.

And this is especially true when a woman
is particularly attractive and has seen it
all before.

The worst sin is feeling needy, that actual
FEELING of insecurity and neediness is
a huge problem in itself, because it
makes it impossible for you to give
off the right vibes.

Neediness and insecurity are the
ANTI-ENDORPHINS. They SUCK OUT
the fun vibes from surrounding
human beings. They REPEL women.

So if you are feeling needy, the first thing
I must tell you is to SMACK YOURSELF
SILLY and not BEHAVE that way at least
when you are approaching and chatting up
a woman.

If you are feeling needy, at least don’t
ACT upon that neediness.

This is the difference between a compliment
you give to a woman that comes from your
confidence and the kind of compliment
you give to a woman that comes from
feeling like “oh my god I better give her
a compliment and let her know my entire
emotions are at risk on whether she likes
me or not”.

So, for example, a compliment given
from CONFIDENCE might take the
following form:

Let’s say you’re at a supermarket, and
there’s a striking woman checking out
the cookies section. So you roll up
to her, and you give her this serious
look, instead of this big toothy smile
that would look like you’re a puddle
of wuss, that is totally needy for her.

So you give her this look, fake serious,
(which will make the humor have more
impact coming up, and this is important
because you don’t want to let on that
a joke is coming or you ruin the whole
thing) and you say:

“What do you think you’re doing?”

Say it almost accusingly, as if she’s in
TROUBLE for something.

Don’t go psycho, just say it with a bit
of a “you’re in trouble” kind of vibe
to your voice.

Then, she’ll say something like
“What do you mean?” and she’ll be
all serious.

Then you can say, “Well, you shouldn’t
be here. There are no attractive women
in this area. Not for at least 40 miles,
you shouldn’t be here, it’s not allowed.”

Now, remember, you say this all with
a mock serious face, which has way
more impact, because it takes her a
sec for her to get it, she won’t see
it coming.

Now, when she smiles, don’t start
smiling and laughing, that will ruin it.

KEEP ON ACTING TOTALLY
STRAIGHT FORWARD.

"Yeah, it’s dangerous in fact, you
shouldn’t even be here. Seriously.”

Now, at this point, and it’s just a
beginning, you’re at least showing:

A SENSE OF FUN.

GUTS.

AND YOU’RE NOT ALL SMILY
TOOTHY KISSING UP IN TERMS
OF YOUR EXPRESSION ON YOUR
FACE AND TONALITY OF VOICE.

This is a huge thing, by the way,
because by having the serious
expression and tonality, you
can get away with giving a
HUGE compliment that basically
is saying she is very attractive,
without at all seeming like you’re
week in the knees for her and
all needy.

But it’s not over yet, there’s more.
That's just OPENING her up.

You must COOK this INTERACTION till it’s
really heated UP.

So for example, at this point, you
could say “Hi, I’m Joe (or whatever your name is)
and extend your hand, and she will likely
do the same and tell you her name.

Give a firm handshake and solid
eye contact as you do this.

Then, time for some more fun:

For example, now that you’re both
in front of the cookies, you can say:

"You can tell a lot about a person
from what kind of junk food they
like. In your case, you love chocolate
cookies, and chocolate is sinful,
so you’re the kind of person that
really is going to enjoy life and
the kind of people that are definitely
going to party in hell, that’s my
type for sure.”

There are subtle undertones to all this.
The idea of being naughty and having
fun and being sinful, is giving her
permission to relax, and yet it’s
all being done in such an INNOCENT
way here, after all, we’re talking
COOKIES here!

Something like this is guaranteed to
get her responding, and agreeing, and
you want to be building a YES ladder
as soon as possible, the more things
she is truly saying YES to the better.

Now, I give this example on purpose
because you don’t have to be a party
animal to do this, you don’t have to
hang out at nightclubs, you don’t
have to even go outside your normal
environment, EVERYONE needs
to go basic shopping.

You can turn up the dial even more,
so for example, as you and her are
chatting, and reaching the checkout
aisle, you can tell the clerk that
this woman has been STALKING you
the entire time, and thank God that
now finally someone is here to see it,
to save you from the harassment
of this woman.

She’s going to smile at this, plus she’s
going to love the fact you are so not
needy for her, so confident, that you
are FOR SURE not going to be like
all the other guys she has met that
were so needy for her, that had no
MASCULINITY left, they gave
all their ‘mojo’ away to her,
while YOU have it in SPADES.

Now, remember, this is all coming from
a place of CONFIDENCE, not maliciousness,
and not insecurity, there is a fine yet supremely
important difference between these things.

There are endless things you can
playfully tease her on as well, even
at the checkout counter. For example,
let’s say you need bags and she has
her own environmentally friendly bag.

So you can pretend you are the evil
corporate guy and she is the hippie
saving the world, and that you’re
far too evil for a girl like her, (which
is again the opposite of most guys
trying to convince her of why they
are the right guy for her, out of neediness).

Then, let’s say she ends up needing one
extra bag so she needs an actual plastic
bag and has to buy one, (which is pretty
common because often we don’t perfectly
estimate how much stuff we’re going
to have), so then you can playfully
comment that you are already having
an evil influence on her, turning her
to your evil ways.

So, during this interaction she has had with
you, she has seen that you are gutsy, you
are funny, you are not afraid to give a
compliment, you are spontaneous, you
are social, and that you understand
the magical thing called “sexual tension”
and how to create it.

Most men have no clue what this even
is, and why women want it so badly.

And you will have done this all in
a very BRIEF amount of time, which
is all the more cool.

At THIS point, you can do whatever
you want, you can chat with her some
more, you can take her number, the
point is that you have TRIGGERED
HER EMOTIONS and shown that
you are a man in the right way.

And this is just the tip of the iceberg.

This material runs DEEP. It's about
the most PRIMAL elements of how women
respond to men that GIVE OFF THE
"SURVIVAL" VIBES.

The things I described above are
MANIFESTATIONS of the traits of
MEN WHO SURVIVE, and therefore
ignite ATTRACTION in her on
a primal, sexual, level.

If you’d like to get the complete
ADVANCED TRAINING, I suggest you
get my WARRIOR WITHIN program at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

And if haven’t yet downloaded my
original book, “The Dating Wizard”,
then do that immediately at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Wizard.html

This book is the very FIRST
thing every guy needs to get
when it comes to women. It sets
down the foundation on which
all my more advanced programs
build upon.

Till next time,

Michael Marks