Solid Advice On Approaching And Attracting Women

Here are EIGHT valuable insights that are
INSTANTLY-APPLICABLE for approaching
and attracting women.

#1:
INTELLIGENT RISK IS GOOD FOR YOU

Most guys are looking for a way to avoid any
risk when it comes to women, but the reality
is that women will only be MORE attracted
to you by the very FACT you DID take the
risk to meet her.

So for example, if you see a woman working
in a lingerie store, and you can't find one
good excuse for being in the store, and so
it's obvious that you are going to speak to
her because you are attracted to her, then
the very act of going up to her and doing
your approach is MORE attractive than
if there WAS some excuse to COVER-UP
the fact that really you just wanted to meet
her. It shows MORE GUTS, it shows
MORE INTENT, it shows you are the
kind of guy who doesn't let FEAR stop
him from going for what he wants in
life.

This is attractive on so many levels, both
conscious and subconscious that it's not
even funny. It tells her that you are a
WINNER and that you ENJOY LIFE.
It shows you have the courage to be a
protector, it shows you have the charisma
to enjoy life, it shows TONS of things.

So you can go RIGHT UP to her in the
craziest of environments and she will
be MORE ATTRACTED by it, even
if you were to say something as simple as:

"I just saw you and I thought you were
insanely beautiful as heck, and I wanted
to know if there was even more to you as
well."

The key is to SAY THIS with TOTAL
INTENT, you can't be half-way on this,
you have to MEAN both the fact you
think she is beautiful and you have to
be comfortable letting her know that
and you have to ALSO mean that you
TRULY DO WANT TO KNOW if
there is more to her than the surface.

The subtle distinctions that happen when
you have the intent here are actually massive
in terms of the difference you will get in
results.

As soon as she replies with anything, you
can then use that to comment back on,
and you can begin an "energy-ping-pong"
where you both flirt back and forth with
fun confident statements about yourselves.
i.e. She might say "I certainly hope I do
have more than the surface, but thank you"
And you can reply with something like this:

"That makes two of us, I know I have
more than just the surface when it
comes to me"

(And you can say this with a confident playful smirk.)

Remember, a woman who is attractive already
KNOWS you are probably interested, so the
REAL difference is not whether you can hide
it or not, the difference is what you DO with
the fact you are interested. She is IMPRESSED
with the fact you are not allowing fear to
control you.

Do you go home and curse yourself for not
taking action? Do you get ANGRY at women
for the frustration you feel? Or do you take
POSITIVE ACTION?

This is the one thing that good guys need to
learn from "JERKS". "Jerks" don't have
any issue with feeling sexual about women,
they don't feel bad whether a woman approves
of them or not. And there is nothing JERKY
about having these same thoughts and emotions,
so you should ALSO realize that women are
actually LOOKING for a guy who is comfortable
with being sexual.

The truth is that women are very comfortable
with sexuality and don't think lowly of the
fact that men are interested in them, and
most women are NOT evil and will NOT
abuse that fact. So, the only REAL RISK
is NOT TAKING ACTION, because
that risks you having a life with NO
WOMAN, ever.

#2:
HUMOR IS ABOUT WINNING

A quick and SUPER STRONG idea you
can use for being funny is to always remember
that the reason humans LAUGH hard is because
on some level they feel they are WINNING.

My ATTRACTION MASTERY PROGRAM goes
into a super in-depth level on this,
( http://getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html )
but for now just realize that one way to
APPLY this concept is to COMBINE the
following two things:

First, make an extreme comment about your
EXCELLENCE/SUPERIORITY. (By making
it extreme, you make it clear that you are
not being totally serious and that you are
being playful.)

Then, ALSO make sure to follow up this with
a GENUINE compliment to her.

So, for example, let's say a woman says to
you "I like Southern boys" or, "I like Northern
boys" you can always reply, "I'm in a whole
new category baby, I'm the MAN. You can
keep the boys."

Now, this is a comment that says you are
SUPERIOR/EXCELLENT. But it is also
extreme and so it's clearly not meant to be
taken totally seriously, so it shows that you
are not only confident (you saying you are
the MAN) but also secure and not
overly serious. (Which actually FURTHER
shows you are indeed the MAN FOR REAL!)

Then, if you were to follow this up with a
compliment to her, i.e. let's say she doesn't
smoke, or you find out she has an appreciation
for your favorite type of movie, i.e. comedy
or action, you can compliment her on it, and
now the fact that you THE GUY WHO
IS "EXCELLENT" actually also likes HER,
is going to make her like you MORE. AND,
it also will set things up so that any OTHER
"superior" or "extreme excellence" comment
you make about yourself will seem just the
right balance of things, because she knows
you ALSO like her, so to her it feels GOOD
that you are this SUPERIOR guy, because
she ALSO knows that this superior guy
LIKES HER, so anything about YOU
being a winner makes HER feel like
a winner as well, since YOU approve
of HER.

This means she will be LAUGHING at
anything you do that suggests YOUR
excellence. It's all because she feels
that SHE is winning as well, since
she is kind of an extension of you now.

This is why you see hotties laughing at any
little joke from guys who seem "arrogant",
it's because from the woman's point of view
the guy is NOT arrogant, since he has already
ALSO made it clear he DOES like her too.
The very fact he is TALKING to her shows
some interest anyway, so remember that
you are NOT seeming like a jerk by
saying "cocky" things about yourself
if you are saying it playfully and she
ALSO knows that you like her.

Again, this idea can be used in millions
of situations, and it all depends on the
environment, so if you are with a woman
on a second or third date, and she knows
you a bit, and she sees you are not drinking
alcohol, and she asks you if this is because
you are driving, and you answer with
"baby, when I'm driving, you won't
want me to EVER stop." The reason
this is not arrogant is because she
knows you LIKE HER and by the
second or third date it's clear you
have already established some mutual
respect.

#3:
HOW TO NEVER NEED MEMORIZED
ROUTINES OR SCRIPTS

There are INFINITE things you can do
that don't involve memorizing lines,
routines, or scripts.

You can simply USE THE ENVIRONMENT
and the SITUATION to start a conversation.
Plus you can also do things like playfully
IMITATE what she is saying, you can
also do things like TICKLE her if you
are in a bar, and in almost ANY
environment you can do things like
TAKE whatever she says and PLAYFULLY
MISINTERPRET it as her being extremely
FORWARD and as it meaning she is
chasing you. (i.e. if she says to you
in the restaurant or club or wherever,
"Do you know where the bathroom is?"
You can say back to her, "But we hardly
know each other, this is kind of fast!!
Slow down!")

You can also simply tell her about something
funny or intriguing that happened to you
that day or recently, which will prompt
a response from her.

#4:
GIVE YOUR WORDS EMOTIONAL JUSTICE

So many times, when guys are approaching
a woman who is a total stranger, they end
up RESTRAINING all the natural joy and
fun in their voice.

For example, if you were telling the same
story or making the same comment to
someone you knew well and were comfortable
with, you'd really tell the story with FULL
JUSTICE. You'd give the funny part of your
story the full emphasis with the inflection
of your voice and the body language and
mannerisms. You wouldn't be afraid to
use the right words even if they were
a bit sexual or a bit dirty.

But suddenly when talking to a new woman,
what we do is HOLD BACK and try to keep
everything SAFE. Yet the reality is that what
makes stories, comments, or humor effective
is that they DO PUSH the envelope of what is
"typical". So by trying to keep everything
"typical" and "safe" you are ROBBING your
conversation of all its EMOTIONAL IMPACT.

#5:
ALL EXCUSES FOR NOT APPROACHING
WOMEN ARE NOT GOOD ENOUGH

There are infinite excuses for not taking
action, but they all will NOT serve to
bring a the woman you want into your
life.

If you want to learn HOW to go about it,
then I can show you it all.

If you want to go to the bar or club but
you don't have a "wingman", then you'll
just have to fly SOLO that night at the
bar. I used to think that going out to a
club by yourself was INSANE but the
truth is that it was one of the biggest
learning experiences of my life, as by
not having a wingman, I was forced to
take ACTION since I had no wingman
to chat to! I learned how to handle
groups of women, one-on-one situations,
and mixed sets of women and men.

In fact, going out with a wingman is
ONLY a good thing if the wingman is
BETTER than you, otherwise your
wingman is only going to RUIN your
interactions. If your wingman is
inexperienced, then it's okay to
go with him to the club but make
sure that you handle most of the
interactions, and let him take a
more passive role as he LEARNS
from you while you do the interactions
together.

#6:
USE ENOUGH VOLUME IN YOUR VOICE

Ever notice that when you're angry you usually
talk LOUD?

Now, anger is usually a destructive emotion, but
my point is that the reason you speak loudly
when angry is because when angry you tend
to feel that you have WORTH. You therefore
also feel that your WORDS have WORTH.

Now, you don't have to be angry to feel your
words have worth.

You can be in a GREAT mood and feel that your
words have worth. And THIS is what you want
to be doing when chatting to women.

All too often however, when guys are chatting
to women, their voice kind of mumbles and
sounds quiet and it's because we are thinking
that our words are NOT WORTHY, so we
almost try to BURY the words SO THAT
THE WOMAN WILL NOT HEAR how
"stupid" they are.

The CRAZY thing is that there are some
real morons out there who simply ACT
and SPEAK as if they DO have worth,
and many people THINK they are in
fact worthy.

How crazy is that? When GOOD GUYS
act like they are unworthy and give no
volume to their voice, which makes
the woman think that the guy IS
creepy, that he IS unworthy.

If you BEHAVE as if you ARE UNWORTHY,
then how can you blame women for feeling
that is what you are? I know this from experience,
so take it from me, you want to CHANGE THIS
immediately if you are making this mistake.

This doesn't mean to go around YELLING,
as that implies insecurity as well. It just
means to be CONSCIOUS of the fact that
your words DO HAVE VALUE, and so
make sure they get spoken with the
volume they DESERVE. Make sure
that your every word gets HEARD,
because you are WORTH being heard.

#7:
GET "TALKATIVE" BEFORE STARTING!

One of the mistakes that guys make is they
go into a situation where there are women
around, but they are totally unprepared,
they are totally NOT in the right state
of mind.

One of the states of mind you want to be in
when approaching women is the TALKATIVE
state of mind, combined with the PLAYFUL
state of mind.

So the key is to start having talkative fun BEFORE
going out to meet women. My buddy and I used
to go see a comedy movie on Friday evenings,
and we'd be laughing and chatting about the
movie right after so that by the time we got
to the club or bar, we were ALREADY in
an extremely talkative and playful state
so we were already WARMED UP and
READY to take action to approach any
woman as soon as the situation presented
itself to us.

You don't have to do the exact same thing,
but you can apply the principle by for
example calling up a friend on the phone
and talking to him before going out to
meet women.

You can chat with the taxi driver, the
clerk, whoever you meet. The key is
to keep the conversation FUN and
to get TALKATIVE.

However, I also must warn you that you
shouldn't let the fact that you might be
in a less than great state serve as an excuse
for not approaching a woman. Often, that
first approach of the day feels the most
painful to get done, because you are not
sure of what is going to happen. Then after
getting it done, you feel better and more
relaxed and you do even better with the
next woman.

#8:
DON'T RELY ON YOUR EMOTIONS
WHEN THEY ARE NEGATIVE

Our emotions cloud our thinking. They
actually can DISTORT your filter of reality
and make you perceive almost everything
in a way that will destroy your results with
women.

If you are feeling insecure, then ANYTHING
a woman says or does will be interpreted as
a reason for why she is not interested in you,
and even worse, as a reason for why you
are NOT WORTHY, or for why you are
somehow "bad".

Emotions can make you think that a
conversation with a woman is going
HORRIBLY wrong when in fact it
may be going FINE.

This is why it's important to also
approach many women, because
one woman is not indicative of
what the entire female gender
says/thinks/feels.

It's crazy and tragic how going through
ONE BAD relationship, or TWO bad
ones, or going through a couple of
bad experiences with women, can make
us feel that ALL WOMEN ARE OUT
TO HURT US, and it's just not true.

What's even crazier is when we learn
that we ourselves may have been doing
things that in our ignorance we didn't
know were actually FUELING some
of the problem we were experiencing
with women.

So on that note, it's of PARAMOUNT
significance to find out the TRUTH
about women, about how attraction
works, about how to control our
own state of mind, and about the
best way to actually approach a woman
and take things from that initial walk-up
to her to getting physical to having a
fantastic relationship that gets STRONGER
with time.

And if you would like the most powerful
home-study program on Earth for mastering
the BIG PICTURE on attracting the women
you want, then you owe it to yourself to
get my Attraction Mastery Program.

It's at:

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And if you haven't yet downloaded my program
'Acing The Approach' then DEFINITELY do that
IMMEDIATELY.

It's at:

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To "Pick Up" Women With Effective Conversation Skills

Here's a new video on picking up women anywhere,
using the most powerful conversation skills especially
applied to the art of approaching and attracting women.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To Talk To Women - Anytime, Anywhere!

Have you ever approached a woman,
managed to work up the guts to SAY
something, and then the conversation
didn't LAST?

Maybe you said some comment about
the book she was holding, or the drink
she was having, or maybe it was a
compliment.

She smiles, and then you have nothing
really POWERFUL to get her hooked
into wanting to talk to you more.

If this has happened to you, you are not
alone, it's one of the most common issues
when trying to approach a woman and get
her number, email, etc.

So let me show you how to solve this
problem.

Step One.
1. The first thing you want to do is to realize
that about 99% of the conversation material
can often come not from YOU but from HER!

Step Two.
2. Yes, and the way this works is by truly
LISTENING to what she says in REPLY to you.

Listening not only with open ears, but
also with an open heart, meaning that
you GENUINELY are listening to hear her.

Step Three.
3.Now, the thing is, in order to prompt
a meaningful reply from her to your
original statement, you want to make an
opening statement that actually has some
MEAT in it, something that is worthy of
actually getting a reply.

The key for this to work BEST is to NOT
be FAKE about the topic you choose to open.

Choose something that YOU are genuinely
interested in, that is also upbeat, inspiring,
or meaningful.

You can go in with MANY different angles,
and there is absolutely an angle that is
consistent with your personality so that
you are not acting like someone else.

So, for example, if you were the kind of guy
who is very interested in living an inspired
life, in feeling that your life has meaning,
in making the MOST of everyday, etc,
then you might say something like this
to a woman in a bookstore:

Hi there, can you answer this question:
What do you think of the phrase,
'Don't die with the song still in you'???

By the way, I don't tend to believe in pick-up
lines, I am giving you an EXAMPLE here,
from the real world, an example that has
been tested and that works particularly
well on the most fantastic women.

NOW, if she asks you what you mean,
this is FANTASTIC, because it gives
you another chance to talk MORE but
more importantly it is you giving value
to HER, which is the name of the game.

So, you can continue with something like
this: "What if we all spent our lives doing
things that we didn't really love but we
thought we had to do, and then right
at the end we found out that all those
things were just LIE and we never let
our "song" out, the thing we were meant
to do?"

Now, THIS is meaty stuff, it's got tons
of potential. She can not only reply to
this in detail, but you can LISTEN to
what she is saying and really pay
attention and then be able to give
BACK meaningful conversation as well.

The genius behind this is that now
you are LISTENING to HER, which
makes HER feel awesome, and yet
she is talking to you about something
that you care about, so none of this is
fake. You can can go on an on about
this for hours.

And this leads to DEEP connection, which
means mo more FLAKY number or emails- girls
only flake because they don't feel a sense
of connection.

That's why they don't answer emails
or phone calls or don't give out
numbers.

ANOTHER EXAMPLE WITH A 
DIFFERENT PERSONALITY:

Now, let's say you are more of just
a happy go lucky guy that isn't really
that "deep" at least not in that way.

That's fine, it's all good. You can
THEN go in with a more humorous angle,
i.e. if you are in the supermarket
and you notice the same woman twice,
i.e. let's say you saw her in the fish
dept., then you see her in the cereal
aisle, you can give her this mischievous
look and say:

"Hey, are you following me? I'm getting
nervous!"

And if she says something like:

"Noooo, what makes you say that??"

You can reply with:

"Well, for all I know you want to raid
my grocery cart here, I got all the
low-fat yogurt on special today and you
just want to take one out of my cart!"

Even here, in this situation though, the
key is to open with something that is
MEATY in the sense that you must light
the switches in her mind called
"INTERESTING and FEELS GOOD."

You can tell her that you bet she is one
of those healthy type women who is
all about good fitness and nutrition,
etc, which will either prompt her to
say that she IS or she ISN'T.

If she says she IS, then you can
now give her a sincere compliment for
that and tell her that with work or
school taking up so much time, it
takes a lot of discipline to do that.

And if she says she DOESN'T work
out or eat healthy, you can tease
her for not being honest, or you can
say she is being modest, and that she
can just open up with you, you are
just the official supermarket public
relations guy

And if she takes you SERIOUSLY on that,
that's even MORE reason for you to have
fun and then you can pretend you are
asking her a serious survey question,
and then let her know you are totally
joking.

And THEN you can both get into
a "normal" conversation about things
like "what's your name" what do
you do, etc, because NOW she is
interested and you are interested
in knowing more about her.

What you have read is just the TIP
of the ICEBERG. This stuff works,
and I want you to see the FULL power
of ALL the tools that can be at your
fingertips, from learning how to
fully tap into the power of your
INNER GAME so you can rise to the
next level of success with women,
to learning how to DETECT a quality
woman, to learning how to KEEP a
woman attracted to you long term,
and much, MUCH more.

To do that, I seriously suggest you get my
most advanced program on these skills,
and you can even check out some great
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And if you’re new here, remember you can
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Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Secret To Chats That Attract Women

Are you ready for something BIG?

Hold on tight, because here it comes:

The REAL TRUTH that no one talks about, because
it doesn’t sound “commercial”, is that approaching a
woman who is a knockout, and who is a total stranger,
involves a MAJOR secret.

This is not an exaggeration, it’s probably the single
greatest secret to successfully approaching a stunning
woman who is a total stranger, and NO GURU has ever
talked about this.

So this is definitely a MASSIVE secret.

And I’m about to GIVE this secret to you.
No games, no gimmicks.

In fact, I’m going to GIVE IT TO YOU RIGHT HERE.

The secret to getting a woman fascinated with you
and wanting to give you her number and go out with
you, has to do with doing the ABSOLUTE MINIMUM
amount of talking possible.

So when we get BOMBARDED by supposed “gurus”
and experts telling us about their ENDLESS tactics
and what usually amounts to over-simplifications
(i.e. “knock her off her pedestal with this special
back-handed compliment/insult” or the other extreme
of “buy her roses and show her how nice you are”,
or “try my new special latest tactic” gimmick), we
can be sure that the woman KNOWS what we are
doing, and therefore that this is going to make
us look “try-hard”.

“Try-Hard” simply means that to the woman we’re
talking to and doing all these “song and dance” moves
for, she sees it as us trying desperately hard to be
someone we’re NOT, and it actually PUSHES HER
AWAY.

You might be wondering, then, if doing a LOT is bad,
and doing the LEAST required is good, then HOW
exactly do we do this “least”, or what I like to call
“EFFICIENCY” style approach?

THIS is the whole skill and art of approaching women
and attracting them.

Don’t mistake “minimum” and “efficiency” for being
LESS of a skill, or LESS powerful.

Think about it, the GREATEST masters of most skills
and arts, actually make it look simple.

A great martial artist doesn’t do a flashy show,
he gets the job done efficiently and in a way that
almost looks like NOTHING happened. That’s
because there is absolute efficiency of movement
and effective strategy, so that nothing is wasted
or extra. So it all gets done swiftly and effectively.

It’s the same with masters of almost any skill-
they do only what works, nothing that doesn’t.

Well, when it comes to attracting a woman, it’s
the same thing- and let me give you just a FEW
of the benefits of mastering the “MINIMUM GAME”
style approach:

*By doing the LEAST amount required to attract
her and get the job done, you’ve left a ton of room
for her to feel INTRIGUED about you, to make you
mysterious.

*By doing the MINIMIUM, you also don’t seem
like a guy who needs to talk a lot and therefore
you don’t seem arrogant.

*You ALSO seem more “cool” because you’re
not trying hard, so not only are you seeming humble
and not arrogant, but you also strike the perfect
balance of showing self-confidence.

Imagine coming across as a man who is a true hero-
cool, yet not arrogant. This is like her having a
Harlequin romance novel come to life- with YOU
as her hero!

*This approach also forces HER to do more of the
work in CHASING you, since you are doing only
the minimum required for getting her “activated”
and turned on toward you- and I promise you, the
more attractive a woman is, the MORE she wants
to be the one who is chasing you and not the other
way around.

These are just a FEW of the massive benefits of this
“minimum game” style approach.

Now, if ONLY there was a way to LEARN this style
of approaching and attracting a woman who is a total
stranger!

Well, now there IS.

I've devoted an entire jam-packed 1-hour audio program to
showing you HOW to use this method for skyrocketing your
success with women, and you can use it IMMEDIATELY
because I've made it INSTANTLY-DOWNLOADABLE!

In this program, I demonstrate for you on a woman who is
a GENUINE 10 in both her looks (drop dead gorgeous) and
her CHARACTER, and you'll learn EXACTLY how to approach
a woman who is a total stranger using this style approach that
I have described above.

To make this even MORE effective, together we
demonstrated the conversation WORD FOR WORD,
from beginning at ZERO all the way to ATTRACTION
where you could do whatever you want- including taking
her number, going out with her for a coffee, tea, or drink,
or hanging out with her wherever you both just met.

I’m talking from TOTAL SCRATCH all the way to ATTRACTION.

And, for even MORE benefit to you, we showed what
the conversation would be in DIFFERENT TYPES OF
ENVIRONMENTS- because for example the way you
approach a woman at a bookstore, is very different from
the energy and style you would use at an upscale classy
club where there is music and an atmosphere of good times
and partying.

We even demonstrated MORE situations, including some
REALLY CHALLENGING ones like approaching and
attracting a woman who works inside a LINGERIE shop,
where most guys would not enter to do an approach
because it seems “too obvious” as to the reason he is there,
and because it would seem too out of place for a man to be.

This program is absolutely PACKED WITH POWER TO
MAKE MEETING WOMEN EASY, NO MATTER WHERE
YOU FIND THEM!!!!

I actually had to risk quite a lot to make this program, because
in order to keep it REALISTIC and not scripted or rehearsed,
I had NOTHING in front of me, and you will be able to tell
this is not rehearsed because all the little tiny things you’ll
hear, that happen in real conversations that you just can’t
plan in advance.

The only thing I had to go on was my teachings and I had
to practice what I preach, being spontaneous, and using
every principle that you will hear me explain before the
chats begin in this program.

The OTHER thing I did to make this have MAXIMUM
EFFECT for you is that I made sure to find a woman I did
NOT KNOW PREVIOUSLY AT ALL.

In fact when you hear her on the recorders it’s just a
few moments after I first ever MET her. This way,
everything was unknown, fresh, and spontaneous,
it was me discovering her as well, including a couple
of tough situations where she came back at me with
some challenging comments that only a woman who
is not only attractive but also intelligent could make:

And these comments actually show that a woman is
serious about you - rather than just politely “going
through the motions”.

The reality is that women WANT men to approach them,
but only in the right way- and the crazy thing is, that women
only know that this “right” way involves not talking too much,
and being intriguing and fun, but they're not CONSCIOUS
of how the heck you are supposed to DO this!!

That’s because women, especially attractive ones,
are not used to having to be the ones to START the
conversation, or to “make it work” because it’s men
who always do the approaching.

So if a man actually approaches a woman, but doesn’t
know how to make the conversation work, then even
if she LIKES the man, she will feel awkward and not
know how to MAKE THE conversation keep going
smoothly- so she will feel pressure to say, “Have
a nice day, thanks, bye-bye” rather than continue
the chat.

So it’s hard to learn this skill JUST from a woman
or from asking a woman, but by actually HEARING
the conversation from SCRATCH, from A to Z,
with a total knockout, now THAT is where you
will learn EVERYTHING about the chat:

This is the kind of thing that makes the difference
between being alone and going home with the girl
of your DREAMS.

The truth is that most men will never learn how to
do this properly- at most they will maybe summon
up the will-power to approach a woman, but then
they won’t know how to actually do the chat
properly, from scratch. They will either run out
of things to say, or they will KEEP ON TALKING
TOO MUCH, which is actually even WORSE!!!

A lot of guys think that because they know compliments
don’t work, the answer is to just act more “hard to get”
and to even give her mild insults or teases to get her
“off her pedestal” but all this is a gross oversimplification
and misses the POINT in fact.

In this incredible program, this knockout explains how yes,
absolutely, just coming up to her with compliments does
NOT work, and in fact can irritate her because everyone
does it, but you’ll ALSO learn how the answer is not to act
like some player or to act hard to get- the REAL answer is
far more SUBTLE and yet also far more REAL to who you
actually ARE, AND it’s far EASIER to do than any of the
gimmicks or tactics you may have read from the supposed
“gurus” out there.

And you’ll get to hear it all DEMONSTRATED for you, from
scratch, starting at zero.

Success with this kind of “10” is all about the fine distinctions
and striking the right balance of things, just the right amount,
the bare MINIMUM for effectiveness is the key.

In this important program, you’ll also get not only her
IMMEDIATE reactions to my approaches, so you can
see for yourself just what you can expect will happen
when you apply what you learn in this course, but after
each conversation, you’ll also get BOTH our feedbacks
on the actual approach and how it went down, and what
are the key things to remember for you to apply from the
approach and the conversation.

This is a RARE, AND PRECIOUS OPPORTUNITY to
see how it’s all done…

The name of this program is "Chats From Scratch".

This program has been edited to perfection, so you are
getting massive learning for every moment of listening,
you’ll want to listen to this again and again.

And you’ll also find that what you learn in this program
is EXACTLY what you need to get a woman to the
point where SHE will then do most of the talking
and you can lean back and chill out and do whatever
you want: You can go for her number at this point,
or you can take her for an “instant date” and go for
coffee or tea right there, or you can continue to hang
out with her….It’s all up to YOU at this point,
because she is now ATTRACTED.

It’s all about GETTING to this attraction point, where
she goes from not knowing who you are, to wanting you
to NEVER LEAVE!

And once again, I've gone clinically INSANE by making
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Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To Keep The Conversation Going With A Woman

The challenge when it comes to approaching
women is KEEPING the conversation going and
not stalled after a minute or so.

The SOLUTION to this is a combination of
highly honed skills dipped in a deep
understanding of female psychology.

Let's demonstrate this with a recent letter:

***LETTER FROM A READER***

“I'm almost fearless with approaches & openers,
but man, I get stymied after a minute or so,
except with a captive audience, e.g. sitting near
a hot babe on the subway - since you are both
rooted in one spot for at least a few minutes, it's
easy to escalate the conversation and get
an email address.

The problem is when people are moving or only in
one spot for a moment, such as in a grocery store.

On the one hand, I love grocery stores, and have
gotten a date from one approach. But on the other
hand, the conversation has to move towards
interesting quickly, or she'll just move on after a
couple of pleasantries.

Case in point - I was shopping for laundry detergent
and saw a HB doing the same. My openner wasn't gold,
but at least it got things off the ground:

Me: "All right, which is the liquid detergent that lets
you never use fabric softening sheets again, is it
this Febreeze?"

Her: "I think so, but I'm allergic to Febreeze, so I
never use it. So I use the fabric softening sheets
in the dryer."

Me: "Yeah, but those things destroy your clothes –
the price you pay for no static cling."

Her: "I didn't know that."

And she walks away... (Boo hoo!)

Yeah, I know, boring topic, but in the heat of the
moment, what would you have done to ensure she
doesn't walk away, and then escalate?”
                              --Codename: TorontoListener

***MY COMMENTS***

Congrats on TAKING ACTION, this is all
great stuff. Here's some tips for this
kind of situation:

ADD THE FUN FACTOR QUICKLY - remember
everything she SAYS can and WILL be used
in YOUR court of FUN/PLAYFUL/SEXUALITY/DOMINANCE!

So even if you started really neutral, that’s fine
and prevents getting shut down right away, but
after that, it’s time to JACK UP THE ENERGY
AND EMOTIONAL STIMULATION.

And remember, she has PROVIDED all the
“material” for you, you just have to SEE IT
with new perspectives.

So, for example, with the Febreze, that's
fine, and she says she's allergic to it,
IF YOU ARE IN THE PLAYFUL STATE, and
aren't afraid of losing her, you would
easily say any of the following things:
(feel the TONE of what’s going on here,
more than the exact words)

1. Man, it's HARD to find good help these days!!!
But at least you're trying, I mean having allergies is
KIND of an excuse, I'm just allergic to boring people,
so I know about allergies, how about you?

What’s the coolest thing a person could do in the
supermarket? Walk into the walk in freezer on
a blistering HOT day???? Meet a total stranger?
What do you think?

(This does help motivate her to add some spice
to whatever she says now, thus increasing the
chances of this conversation having some life.)

Then, if her response to you is boring, you can
pretend to sneeze!!! Just say “ahhhhhhhhchoooo!
Oh man, I can’ t believe it, I think …I might be…
allergic to….(give her a mischievous smile)

She will get it and laugh.

Also, another option, is when she said
"I didn't know that" you could put on the
playful dominance and say "Well, now that
you do, that will be 5 bucks for the free
advice, but since you are such a decent
conversationalist, I'll give you the special
for only 4 bucks". (Rewarding her subtly
for playing along.)

Then you can also TRANSITION from all this
into a greater CONNECTION:

“You know, life is so full of urgent things we
need to get done, that take TIME, but they
aren't really the IMPORTANT things, so laundry
is urgent, but it's not an "IMPORTANT" life goal,
it's IMPORTANT to make time for the things
you feel you MUST get out of life, you know
what I mean? "

At this point, she might fill the rest IN for you
and tell you about the TRULY IMPORTANT
things she wants to get done, which is a great
deeper conversation, and if she doesn't then
YOU can go onto describe the important things
that you feel are the real priorities in life.

And now you can go toward finding real bonding
things you share in common about priorities in life,
so when she gives you her number, she feels
VERY SOLID about doing so and wants you to
call her and continue this journey into discovering
who you are.

(By the way, man, I’m POSITIVE this is just you
needing to shake off the rust since you took the
Bootcamp over a year ago- you were great in
Bootcamp! You picked up a hot professor chick
at a vintage record store, got an email from a
knockout blonde, and if I'm correct I think you hit
it off right away with the first woman you approached
at the mall! So don’t knock yourself out, you clearly
have gained the skills, you just need to get sharp
again!)

I think what I just wrote here should help shake off
the rust and get you back into your zone when you
get out there to approach again!!!

We’re almost out of time, but I had to share this
cool email that came in just the other day:

***LETTER FROM A READER***

Hi Michael,

I just want to let you know you have a terrific
approach that is far beyond what any of the
pickup artists teach. They teach men to
disrespect women and ruin their potential
for a positive, healthy relationship with the
right woman.

You teach men how to develop a relationship
with that right woman that is a product of two
healthy, mature-thinking adults, instead of
being all about sex, which is so rampant and
in-your-face in our society.

In addition to this, you teach men that it is
possible to actually be "the man" in a healthy way,
without being arrogant and trying to control
women, but asserting a natural male dominance
that real women actually love.

This is in such contrast to all the messages in
our society that try to stifle our natural,
testosterone-driven impulses, and you teach
us to channel those impulses into self improvement,
both inwardly and outwardly, to become the
"right" man for that "right" woman.

This kind of teaching is so helpful in so many areas
of life beyond just dating and relationships.

I have been enjoying and benefiting from your
wisdom, and I know that there are many men
out there who can be and are benefited by it as
well. I sincerely thank you for your much-needed
contributions.

Additionally, in one of your letters you talk about
visualizing your fear in order to become relaxed
about it and conquer it. That is a great concept,
and is confirmed by none other than Donald Trump.

In his classic book on negotiating, "Trump: The Art
of the Deal," he says: "It's been said that I believe
in the power of positive thinking. In fact, I believe
in the power of negative thinking. I happen to be
very conservative in business. I always go into
the deal anticipating the worst. If you plan for the
worst--if you can live with the worst--the good
will always take care of itself."

Keep up the good work,

John Paul,

Washington, USA”

>>>MY COMMENTS<<<

First of all, thank you for the kind words.

It's cool to see that these skills actually
help men not only with women, but with so
much in life as well.

The skills in being charming without being a
“nice guy”, with being a man and not a player,
with being powerful without being abrasive,
are all very REFINED skills that are, quite
simply, MAGNETIC to others.

It draws them INTO you.

Learning the skills for how to mentally accept
and even plan for the WORST situation with women
makes you NO LONGER AFRAID OF IT EVEN ONE DROP.

And this gives you giant CACHONES, as they say.
so if a woman is not treating you well, you REALLY
CAN walk away, and she can actually SENSE this
kind of confidence in your demeanor long before
she ever even TRIES this kind of thing, so she treats
you better of course as a result.

Now, on top of this, you are now TRULY thinking
positive, because you’ve DEALT with the negative,
so now your positive thinking isn’t a game or something
artificial, it’s GENUINLEY flowing from you.

That adds even MORE charisma to you.
Then, on top of that, when you add the
SKILLS you learn from how to really
inject charisma into every bit of the
conversation, so that it's oozing out
of your pores, you have women
melting in front of you.

And on top of THAT, when you are searching for
a QUALITY woman, that means you are searching
for a woman who has done all the SAME work on
herself, and she KNOWS how rare it is to find
a person, especially a MAN who has been willing
to develop himself so powerfully in this way.

You become the kind of man that she doesn’t
want to EVER let go of.

Again, this works on a hard-wired SURVIVAL
level that is primal and subconscious- she
feels that with SUCH man, things will be
“OK”, SHE WILL BE SAFE AND LIFE WILL
EVEN BE FUN AND SEXUAL AS WELL.

Basically, you are giving off the vibes of being
a MAN who can SURVIVE in the JUNGLE of LIFE.

And if you're reading this now and would like to meet
and attract the cream-of-the-crop women TODAY,
then I suggest you get my WARRIOR WITHIN
program NOW.

What you’ve just read is just the tip of the iceberg of
what you will find in this incredible program on how
to meet and attract women of exceptional quality.

Only a rare few men know these skills, and it’s
THOSE MEN who get the best women, and
who get the woman of their dreams.

Get this program NOW at:

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You can even check out video and audio
samples of this program there as well.

Again, that's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

For now, tomorrow, and for always, BE THE MAN.

Michael Marks