In a sea of dating advice out there, I'd like to
make it clear what makes "Get A Great Girl"
different.
1. AN ORIGINAL
I've been doing this since 2003 officially, and
had been practicing for myself years before.
There are tons of media reports that can prove
all this. For example, the Globe and Mail feature
story on my teachings, way back in October 2003,
by journalist Claire Gagne.
Then, there are also my actual posts on popular
"pick up artist" forums back then, where I tried
to explain how many of the pick up artist tactics
were destructive for meeting and keeping a
quality woman.
This was YEARS before the book "The Game"
came out, a book that made being a pick up
artist a popular "fad" for a while.
At the time NO ONE else was around who was
actually PROVING IN PERSON in bootcamps
for men how they could meet and attract quality
women, all WITHOUT using destructive tactics.
Instead, things like arrogant behavior, insults
to women, memorized pick up lines, jealousy
tactics, and other sleazy strategies were
all the rage, even though of course these
destructive ideas would never work to get
a quality woman for a relationship.
Today, however, because of my work, it's
becoming VERY CLEAR that what I teach
is a NECESSITY if a man wants to get
a woman for a great relationship.
Get A Great Girl is the original source for how to
actually get a quality woman for a great relationship,
that INCLUDES the actual live training on how to
actually GET the woman in the FIRST place.
Get A Great Girl is not just "repackaged" pick
up artist advice. Rather, it is a fundamental shift
away from all destructive tactics.
A lot of folks are trying to imitate me and my programs.
However, one immediate DIFFERENCE from me
is that they are obsessed with sex more
than they are with trust. Without trust,
(and trust must be earned) there is NOTHING.
A quality woman looking for a great relationship
will stay FAR away from a man she feels she
cannot TRUST.
A man who is obsessed with sex is in itself a
"red flag" warning to any woman who is
looking for a real connection.
Tactics such as backhanded compliments
to lower a woman's self-esteem, as well as
the use of jealousy to try to get a woman to
do what you want, and many other negative
tactics, DESTROY trust, and you can never
get a great girlfriend and a great relationship
without being able to have mutual trust.
2: I FOCUS ON TRUTH, NOT HYPE.
Most of the dating advice out there
is willing to sacrifice truth in the
name of getting your attention.
So they will say ANYTHING.
It's very similar to those fad diets, where
you will hear "AVOID ALL CARBS AND EAT
ALL THE FAT YOU WANT!" or my favorite
of them all: "JUST EAST GRAPEFRUITS!"
The REAL truth of course, is never in the fads.
Sure, what they say may have 1% truth, but
it's also 99% a lie, just like it's true that only
eating grapefruits will help a person lose weight,
UNTIL they get so hungry that they end up eating
TONS OF THE WRONG FOODS.
And when it comes to the "attracting women"
field, the fads are even MORE extreme!
But here's the good news for you:
The information you learn from my programs will
give you the full detailed insights on attracting
a quality woman, and it will ALSO ensure that
you have ZERO "competition" from other men!
This is because VERY FEW MEN WILL EVER
LEARN WHAT YOU LEARN HERE!
Most men WANT gimmicks because gimmicks seem
so EASY.
Most men simply will never find their way
here, they will instead be lured into the
false promise of "ease" given by the "fads".
3: YOU WILL LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT WOMEN
WHILE BUILDING TRUST INSTEAD OF
DESTROYING TRUST.
I'm not satisfied with giving you "the best"
strategies on the topic of meeting and
attracting quality women.
I insist on RAISING THE BAR.
It's what has made Get A Great Girl the LEADER
in the field of dating advice for men who are
serious about getting a great girlfriend.
In fact, I've revolutionized the ENTIRE field
of attraction advice.
What you will learn in my programs is the
“real thing”.
It’s not about how to "knock a woman down a
few notches off her confidence".
It’s not about how to act "hard to get".
In particular, the "damage her confidence and
self-esteem" tactics spread by many "experts"
are counter-productive when trying to attract
a quality woman for a real relationship.
Those tactics will DESTROY a good woman's trust
in you, and certainly if continued will destroy the
possibility of a smooth relationship.
So, this is another area where Get A Great Girl
is very different.
In an EFFECTIVE interaction where you are chatting
with a woman, you are actually creating attraction
at the SAME time you are creating trust, from the
entire DEMEANOR you are using from the very get-go.
This is the superior way to attract quality women.
If you're just looking for a "one night stand" with a
woman who is looking for the same thing, then
deep levels of trust are not that important- but
if you ARE looking for a real girlfriend and a
fantastic relationship, then deep levels of trust
are MASSIVELY important.
And this brings me to the next point:
4. THE STRATEGIES YOU LEARN AT
GET A GREAT GIRL ARE DESIGNED
FOR GETTING A GREAT GIRLFRIEND!
If you want a woman who is the "total package"-
a woman that would make for a fun, TRUSTWORTHY,
and FAITHFUL girlfriend, then the material that
you will learn in my programs is of EXTREME
importance.
A woman who is looking for a real relationship is
putting a lot more on the line than just one evening
("one night stand") of her life.
She's putting her emotions, her time, and her TRUST
on the line, so she will not jump into bed so fast with
ANY guy, no matter who he is.
At Get A Great Girl, you're learning to master the
full picture of interaction with women, including
but also much more than just the initial words you
are going say to her.
5. EVIDENCE COUNTS, NOT OPINIONS.
My programs are a product of rigorous TESTING
in the real world.
Before any program gets made, I spend months
and often YEARS of real world testing and
research, to make sure the strategies you
learn are VERIFIED and proven to work.
These programs are verified not only by my own
experiences, and not only by the experiences of
thousands of men who have gone through my
programs, (including live bootcamps where these
men prove it on real women) but these programs
are ALSO verified by internationally respected
reports in the field of psychology.
Meanwhile, EVIDENCE and proof count for just
about NOTHING with most of the dating advice
you see out there, the same way "Grapefruit Diets"
don't have any evidence to them either, but the
various wacky diets still keep on coming.
6. GET A GREAT GIRL PROGRAMS ARE LOADED
WITH TONS OF THE MOST EFFECTIVE NEW
CONCEPTS AND INSIGHTS.
Another cool thing here at Get A Great Girl,
is that clients who order all my programs are
astonished at how each program is jam-packed
with NEW CONCEPTS AND NEW MATERIAL
rather than rehashing the same things over and
over again.
You will keep on INCREASING in your success
with each of my programs. That's because a
MASSIVE amount of time goes into making
sure each program is crammed with EFFECTIVE,
POWERFUL, NEW MATERIAL that you can
immediately use.
And, I haven't even mentioned ALL the ways
Get A Great Girl is different yet!
There's a lot MORE as well:
7. I MADE SURE NOT TO "THROW OUT
THE BABY WITH THE BATHWATER".
And at the same time, I haven't thrown out the
baby with the bathwater, as they say.
I ALSO believe that there are SOME principles
that are popular in the dating community that
ARE effective, if used properly, so what I've
done is TAKEN OUT the harmful strategies, and
KEPT the PRODUCTIVE ones, and even
IMPROVED them.
8. ADDING NEW MATERIAL AND CONCEPTS
COMPLETELY OUTSIDE THE "DATING GURU/
PICK UP ARTIST" WORLD - NEW MATERIAL
THAT IS ACTUALLY BACKED UP BY DIRECTLY
APPLICABLE RESEARCH INTO PSYCHOLOGY.
So, to make these programs as effective as
possible, I've gone BEYOND the typical
"attraction advice" feeding grounds that just
recycle the same material over and over again.
I have BROUGHT IN the very best psychological
research on how to create attraction, as backed
up by the most respected REAL WORLD research
in this area.
9. I VALUE MATURITY AND INTEGRITY
What this means, is that I don't go around filming
women without their permission. To me, there are
more important things than inflating my ego and
getting a "thumbs up" on YouTube.
I also know that mature men realize that if
"reality tv" is not real, then, perhaps many
YouTube videos don’t indicate reality either.
Here's another element of the maturity and
integrity: I don't think any of this is FUNNY.
I think that if a man is coming to me for help, it's
something that I should take damn SERIOUSLY,
as serious as I took this issue for my OWN self
when I first needed to learn these skills.
I was never interested in being promiscuous.
I knew great women were rare, and I wanted
one great woman, that's it.
You can also read up in the news reports section
of the site, what men who have taken my programs
have to say about them. These reports are not
written by me on my site, but rather were directly
reported by these men to the newspaper journalists.
So unless I have some magical way of controlling
every single journalist and every single report
and every single person who has ever taken any
of my programs, this simply is too strong a form
of evidence to be a lie.
Here's something else that is a sign of maturity
and integrity: When you really know what you
are doing, it stops being a big deal.
I'm passionate about helping YOU.
That feels rewarding for me.
But I do NOT get all giggly and babyish about anyone's
"victory" in getting a woman's phone number or anything
else from her.
The whole "victory" attitude of that just smacks
of immaturity. It's like the pathetic characters in
that movie "American Pie".
Acting like that is just not the way of a real MAN.
There's another thing that we all need to realize here:
We also owe a great deal of our success to the actual
women themselves.
It's wise to be humble and give good women some
credit for being cool enough to appreciate us.
I think if we all strive to stay humble, we'll all
appreciate the humanity of each other.
I also don't think women are the only thing in life.
I just think that a great woman is an important part
of having that balance in life, and that a great woman
adds a lot of passion in your life.
10. GETTING MEN QUALITY WOMEN IS ALL I DO.
I don't give advice on how to get the
female "players" by becoming a male
"player".
I just do one thing- help men get great women
who would also make for great girlfriends and
fantastic relationships.
So, at Get A Great Girl, you are going to get the
very BEST programs on the PLANET for meeting
and attracting a fantastic woman who would make
for a great girlfriend and an awesome relationship.
Plus, you'll also learn how to KEEP a fantastic
woman attracted to you LONG-TERM.
If you want to meet and attract a fantastic
woman who is "the total package", I suggest
you go here immediately:
http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php
I also offer personal consultations, and live bootcamps.
For a personal consultation with me, go here:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html
For bootcamp with me, go here:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
Friday, August 1, 2014
Monday, July 28, 2014
Getting A Woman Of VALOR
If you’ve been following my work
for any amount of time, you know
that I am obsessed with truth and
accuracy. I describe the specifics
of what you need to know with
almost surgical-like precision.
Now, if a guy just wants to “get physical”
with some kind of woman, and does not
care about whether this woman is going
to be a faithful woman who is going to
cheat on him or not, then obviously it’s
not that important that a guy be as careful
to do things RIGHT.
In fact, the WRONG kind of women will
be ATTRACTED to behavior that echoes
“SODOM AND GOMORRAH” type values
wrapped in a veneer of ethics.
What I mean by this is, appealing to the
base desires, but wrapping it up by also
paying lip service to things like showing
that you respect her, that it’s important
that she respects you, etc.
LIP SERVICE instead of the real thing.
You see, even men and women who
don’t have ethics, they still want to feel
good about themselves, so this is why
they like to pay lip service in their conversations
to things like “I don’t do one night stands”
or “I’m looking for something meaningful”
or “I’m looking for an authentic connection”
but then at the same time there are inconsistencies
in their conversation/behavior, etc.
Everyone wants to feel good about themselves,
including the people who are fooling themselves.
But, when a man wants to get a truly
rare catch, the kind of woman that is
going to be faithful and respect him,
the kind of woman that is BRAVE
enough to defy the screwed-up morals
of society, the kind of woman that is
truly a WOMAN OF VALOR, then
ALL THE THINGS I TEACH become
SUPER IMPORTANT.
For example, being able to DETECT
immediately whether a woman is a
potential candidate for being a faithful
woman is IMPORTANT.
And, if she IS such a woman, then it becomes
of PARAMOUNT significance that you
set up the initial interaction on a SOLID
FOUNDATION that includes “proof of
ethics”.
Now, it can’t be limited to ONLY this
“good stuff”, because there have to also
be components of ATTRACTION and
sexuality, but there must ALSO be an
exchange of “proof of ethics” between
each other.
“Proof of ethics” is not a simple thing to
see or convey. It has to do with a lot more
than what you or she says. It has to do with
the CONGRUENCY in which you both show
RESPECT, and even the SLIGHTEST shift
OFF of that congruency, the slightest
INCONSISTENCY can tell you a LOT about
someone.
So, for example, if a woman tells you how hard
it is to find a good guy, and how hard she has
been trying to find a good man, but you notice
that she displays signs of promiscuity, then you
have to ask yourself just how careful she is
with screening the men she is with.
If a woman tells you how important respect is,
but she doesn’t actually SHOW it to you, or to
anyone else around her who is innocent, you
already know she is OUT of the running.
In this world, there is a LOT of FAKING
going on. There is a lot of CHEATING
going on. And, by the way, the cheating
and other blights of character are not limited
to any economic class, any religion, race, or
gender. It is a HUMAN flaw, and so the ONLY
solution is to inspect the INDIVIDUAL.
Finding and attracting the RIGHT kind of
woman is a BIG DEAL. It is a very big
deal.
The right woman becomes not only a great
source of PASSION in your life, but also
becomes a PARTNER in your life.
But the wrong woman will cost you your
energy, your finances, your emotions, and
your HEALTH.
And if you have children, it can be really
messy as well if you have to split up.
Now, on the OTHER HAND, let’s say you
meet a truly fantastic woman that you are
crazy about, and she treats you with total
respect, well then it becomes super important
that YOU don’t screw things up as a result
of MISREADING her or the situation.
It becomes ESSENTIAL that you are able
to SEPARATE distortion from fact. This is
easier said than done, because the more we
get EMOTIONAL about something and the
more we value something, the harder it is
to see things as they REALLY ARE.
So this does not just mean when you really
don’t like a woman, it also means when you
really do like a woman as well.
If you don’t want to LOSE a great woman,
you MUST be able to see the full truth of
any situation you are in with her.
This is another area why my expertise comes in.
I can assess a situation for you so that you know
the TRUTH about her and whatever situation it
is regarding her that you are trying to figure out.
Sometimes this also includes seeing where you
may have made an error as well.
Quality women, just like quality men, are RARE.
A woman that knows better than to hang around
other men under the guise that they are all “friends”
is RARE.
A woman that knows that a man cares more about
being RESPECTED than just about anything else
in a relationship, is RARE.
A woman that has not been brainwashed by
horrifying female role models in the media
is RARE.
A woman that understands a man’s sexuality is RARE.
A woman that works hard together WITH you
for a shared future WITH you, is RARE.
A woman that respects truth, (just as a man that respects
truth) is RARE.
So, when you DO meet such a woman, you
REALLY do NOT want to screw it up.
This is where I come in. You can consult with me
directly in a private phone consultation or a private
in-person consultation.
I have made it my life’s work to help good men
and women meet each other, and to keep them
attracted and THRIVING together.
This is not “pick up artist” information.
This is about ensuring your success with the kind
of woman that will have an ENORMOUS positive
impact on your LIFE, and this is also about preventing
you from making a mistake and getting with the
wrong kind of woman who will DESTROY your life.
There is no single area of greater impact on
a man’s life than the type of woman he is with.
Let me help you SUCCEED in this area.
For full details on a consultation with me, go here:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html
If you’re not with a woman right now, and you want
to get my LATEST proven strategies for meeting and
attracting women in the first place, then DEFINITELY
go here:
http://getagreatgirl.com/instant-attraction.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
for any amount of time, you know
that I am obsessed with truth and
accuracy. I describe the specifics
of what you need to know with
almost surgical-like precision.
Now, if a guy just wants to “get physical”
with some kind of woman, and does not
care about whether this woman is going
to be a faithful woman who is going to
cheat on him or not, then obviously it’s
not that important that a guy be as careful
to do things RIGHT.
In fact, the WRONG kind of women will
be ATTRACTED to behavior that echoes
“SODOM AND GOMORRAH” type values
wrapped in a veneer of ethics.
What I mean by this is, appealing to the
base desires, but wrapping it up by also
paying lip service to things like showing
that you respect her, that it’s important
that she respects you, etc.
LIP SERVICE instead of the real thing.
You see, even men and women who
don’t have ethics, they still want to feel
good about themselves, so this is why
they like to pay lip service in their conversations
to things like “I don’t do one night stands”
or “I’m looking for something meaningful”
or “I’m looking for an authentic connection”
but then at the same time there are inconsistencies
in their conversation/behavior, etc.
Everyone wants to feel good about themselves,
including the people who are fooling themselves.
But, when a man wants to get a truly
rare catch, the kind of woman that is
going to be faithful and respect him,
the kind of woman that is BRAVE
enough to defy the screwed-up morals
of society, the kind of woman that is
truly a WOMAN OF VALOR, then
ALL THE THINGS I TEACH become
SUPER IMPORTANT.
For example, being able to DETECT
immediately whether a woman is a
potential candidate for being a faithful
woman is IMPORTANT.
And, if she IS such a woman, then it becomes
of PARAMOUNT significance that you
set up the initial interaction on a SOLID
FOUNDATION that includes “proof of
ethics”.
Now, it can’t be limited to ONLY this
“good stuff”, because there have to also
be components of ATTRACTION and
sexuality, but there must ALSO be an
exchange of “proof of ethics” between
each other.
“Proof of ethics” is not a simple thing to
see or convey. It has to do with a lot more
than what you or she says. It has to do with
the CONGRUENCY in which you both show
RESPECT, and even the SLIGHTEST shift
OFF of that congruency, the slightest
INCONSISTENCY can tell you a LOT about
someone.
So, for example, if a woman tells you how hard
it is to find a good guy, and how hard she has
been trying to find a good man, but you notice
that she displays signs of promiscuity, then you
have to ask yourself just how careful she is
with screening the men she is with.
If a woman tells you how important respect is,
but she doesn’t actually SHOW it to you, or to
anyone else around her who is innocent, you
already know she is OUT of the running.
In this world, there is a LOT of FAKING
going on. There is a lot of CHEATING
going on. And, by the way, the cheating
and other blights of character are not limited
to any economic class, any religion, race, or
gender. It is a HUMAN flaw, and so the ONLY
solution is to inspect the INDIVIDUAL.
Finding and attracting the RIGHT kind of
woman is a BIG DEAL. It is a very big
deal.
The right woman becomes not only a great
source of PASSION in your life, but also
becomes a PARTNER in your life.
But the wrong woman will cost you your
energy, your finances, your emotions, and
your HEALTH.
And if you have children, it can be really
messy as well if you have to split up.
Now, on the OTHER HAND, let’s say you
meet a truly fantastic woman that you are
crazy about, and she treats you with total
respect, well then it becomes super important
that YOU don’t screw things up as a result
of MISREADING her or the situation.
It becomes ESSENTIAL that you are able
to SEPARATE distortion from fact. This is
easier said than done, because the more we
get EMOTIONAL about something and the
more we value something, the harder it is
to see things as they REALLY ARE.
So this does not just mean when you really
don’t like a woman, it also means when you
really do like a woman as well.
If you don’t want to LOSE a great woman,
you MUST be able to see the full truth of
any situation you are in with her.
This is another area why my expertise comes in.
I can assess a situation for you so that you know
the TRUTH about her and whatever situation it
is regarding her that you are trying to figure out.
Sometimes this also includes seeing where you
may have made an error as well.
Quality women, just like quality men, are RARE.
A woman that knows better than to hang around
other men under the guise that they are all “friends”
is RARE.
A woman that knows that a man cares more about
being RESPECTED than just about anything else
in a relationship, is RARE.
A woman that has not been brainwashed by
horrifying female role models in the media
is RARE.
A woman that understands a man’s sexuality is RARE.
A woman that works hard together WITH you
for a shared future WITH you, is RARE.
A woman that respects truth, (just as a man that respects
truth) is RARE.
So, when you DO meet such a woman, you
REALLY do NOT want to screw it up.
This is where I come in. You can consult with me
directly in a private phone consultation or a private
in-person consultation.
I have made it my life’s work to help good men
and women meet each other, and to keep them
attracted and THRIVING together.
This is not “pick up artist” information.
This is about ensuring your success with the kind
of woman that will have an ENORMOUS positive
impact on your LIFE, and this is also about preventing
you from making a mistake and getting with the
wrong kind of woman who will DESTROY your life.
There is no single area of greater impact on
a man’s life than the type of woman he is with.
Let me help you SUCCEED in this area.
For full details on a consultation with me, go here:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html
If you’re not with a woman right now, and you want
to get my LATEST proven strategies for meeting and
attracting women in the first place, then DEFINITELY
go here:
http://getagreatgirl.com/instant-attraction.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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