Two Important Secrets On Attracting Women

Today, I want to share two BIG points
regarding attracting women.

1. LET HER KNOW LESS

The first point is that it has been PROVEN
that a woman’s attraction grows STRONGER
when she knows LESS about a man.

The reason for this is because what she does
not know is fuel for her imagination to create
her fantasy version of  you.

Now, that being said, most guys end up
doing things that indirectly convey LOTS
of BAD information about themselves
even if it is not actually true!

Doing things like qualifying themselves
in order to “prove” they have worth to
the women, or overcompensating in any
other way, from trying to act too cold to
trying to kiss up.  All these things end
up making a woman think that she knows
who the guy is, it makes the woman think
she knows he is not a good catch.

But the FLIP side to all this is that it also
means that you as a stranger have a
TREMENDOUS opportunity when it comes
to approaching and attracting women who
are total strangers! 

So, while most guys are actually NOT approaching
women who are total strangers because they think
it is ‘too weird’ since they do not know the women,
and since the women do know them, this is all
actually a GREAT thing that HELPS YOU.

So rather than trying to FILL IN EVERY DETAIL
to help ‘convince’ a woman that she should like
you because of reasons a, b, c, and d, etc., etc,
you should instead NOT try to do that at all
and rather make the conversation FUN, and show
some LEADERSHIP and dominance and conviction
in your words.

THAT will tell her the RIGHT kinds of things about
you without telling her any SPECIFICS, which allows
her mind to FANTASIZE and fill in the gaps with her
own ideas about you.

The great thing about this, is that once a woman
really WANTS you from doing all this, she will
then CONVINCE herself later on how awesome
you are, and TRULY FEEL THIS WAY, even if you are
NOT exactly what she originally imagined. 

Have you ever REALLY WANTED something as a kid
really badly?  Maybe it was a certain toy or something?
And maybe you kept on dreaming about it, or thinking
about what it would be like if you got it, etc, etc.

The ANTICIPATION is so powerful, that by the time
you GET the toy, your excitement is so strong that the
toy would have to REALLLLLLLLLLLLY SUCK
in order for you to not be thrilled with getting it.

And the truth is, that the ANTICIPATION ITSELF is
actually more than HALF THE FUN!  Dreaming about
it, thinking about it, looking forward to it, is all a HUGE
part of the fun.

And women are AMAZING at knowing how to increase
their pleasure.  As a guy, I’ll just wolf down a chocolate
bar, but women will take their time as if it’s the last one
on earth.

So women APPRECIATE when you allow a little room
for imagination, for mystery, for anticipation. Do NOT
feel the need to answer her every question, and do not
do this with anger, instead do it with a smile or change
the subject.

I’m talking about the initial approach here, obviously if you
and her start going out you will tell her about yourself.

The SECOND major concept I want to share with you
today is a lot more SUBTLE, yet even more important
when it comes to attracting a woman who you just
approached as a total stranger, especially if this
is in a QUIET place like a bookstore.

A lot of women have had guys approach them before.
Even though most guys don’t approach, it only takes
for example one in a hundred men for a woman to
STILL be approached quite frequently in one way
or another.   

What this means is that women are actually very good
at sizing up a guy’s ‘inner game’ very quickly, and
sizing up his attitude, his emotions, his confidence,
his familiarity with women, etc, etc.

So, when a man approaches an attractive woman, her
mind subconsciously goes into SUPER-SENSITIVE
DETECTION MODE.  She may be QUIET, but there
is a whole friggen MULTITUDE of senses
being activated.

In fact, the BEST analogy I can think of is to compare
her senses in this SPECIFIC way, to those of a DOG.

I mean this ONLY from the perspective that dogs
have incredible senses of DETECTION. They can
tell if you are nervous, scared, happy, confident, etc.
 
And here is where the analogy becomes REALLY
IMPORTANT:

I recently heard the man known as the ‘Dog Whisperer’
share a valuable insight into how to properly raise
a dog, and how to ensure a dog is behaving properly.

He was saying that so often dog owners get overly
EXCITED around their dog.  i.e. “NICE dog,
look at YOU, look at what you did, WHOOO
HOOOO!!!!!”  The owners get all excited, loud,
and jumpy.

This does not usually help the dog, but rather
over-excites him.

Now, remember, a dog’s senses are super powerful.
The dog’s hearing is way more powerful than human
hearing.  The dog’s sense of smell is way more powerful.

And when you approach a woman, HER senses are
going into OVERDRIVE.  This comes from massive
EXPERIENCE with guys approaching her.  She has
probably clocked in  10,000 hours of experience
in guys approaching her since she was 15, even if she is
only 25!

It's like she has a 360 degree MONITOR "heads-up"
display, like a fighter pilot who has all this information
being pumped on graphs, monitors, etc., which tell her
EVERYTHING she needs to know about what this
guy is like in terms of ATTRACTING HER or not.  

Meanwhile, most guys experience in doing the same
with women probably clocks in at not even a FRACTION
of the same amount of hours.

And what makes it really tragic is that most guys are NOT
even approaching women as their AVERAGE SELVES.

Instead, most men come across as LESS cool than
they really are, because most men when they do the
approach end up doing all sorts of OVERCOMPENSATION
type behaviors in an effort to prevent feeling the pain
of rejection.

And women subconsciously detect that all these 
behaviors are forms of giving into fear.

So most men are actually coming across in
a way that does NOT accurately represent
themselves in the big picture, but it might
represent that moment, and women can only
react to the behavior that men present to
them in the moments they are there. 

From acting intentionally goofy so that they can have
an excuse for why they failed (i.e. “I know she rejected
me, I wasn’t taking it seriously, I was acting goofy,
so she didn’t reject the real me, because I was
INTENTIONALLY acting goofy, so I don’t have to
take the rejection personally") to acting intentionally
mean, to acting extra-nice in the hopes it will win
some points.

And all this ends up not only being DETECTED by
women, but it is DETECTED so strongly, it is like
a dog hearing a POLICE SIREN!

It really, REALLY strikes the WRONG emotions in women.

On the OTHER hand, if you work on yourself to
become super CALM, super DOMINANT, and cavalier
about the whole approach, then guess what?

Not only is it attractive, but SHE starts to calm down as well.

And this is true with so many dog owners and dogs.
I’m not saying all the time, but it is a pattern you
will notice. Calm, confident owner, calm confident
dog.  (Obviously there are exceptions and special
situations that defy this rule of thumb.)

So the analogy has two levels- on one hand, women
have MORE SENSITIVE “antennae” in detecting
men’s inner game compared to most men’s “antennae”
in detecting women’s levels of ‘inner game’.

Then, on top of this, women are ALSO going to be
more influenced by YOUR sense of confidence
and calm than MEN are going to be influenced by
WOMEN’S senses of confidence and calm.

Men are mostly going to be mentally and emotionally
influenced and affected by how women LOOK, at
least in the immediate short-term when dealing
with a woman .

A woman that you meet as a total stranger is on
FULL SENSORY ALERT.  If you come in too
LOUD, TOO MUCH ENERGY, TOO MUCH
'TRYING TOO HARD', she is going to emotionally
BURST the same way a dog feels like bursting when
a SIREN is going off because dogs' ears are so
sensitive they can hear things no human ever could.

You don’t want to amplify her HIGH ALERT,
you want to CALM HER DOWN, especially
since she knows she needs to watch out around
men or she will end up getting physical with
every single guy she meets. 

So the SECOND point is:

DIAL IT ALL DOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWN

The next time you are about to chat up a
woman who is a total stranger, turn the
DIAL DOWN.  Do NOT try to be Mr.
Entertainment.   Be CHILL, and then
GRADUALLY build up the energy as
SHE builds up ALONG with you.

Finally, remember that a woman wants to feel
that YOU are in control, that she is safe being
in YOUR hands, that you are leading the show,
and she cannot feel that if she sees that you cannot
handle HER attractive energy that she is radiating.

And if you would like the most powerful program
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Women are sizing up your inner game the moment
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long after you have met as well, because getting into
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to the ULTIMATE test as you face issues such as
handling ‘competition’ from other guys, handling
jealousy, handling her tests, and dealing with every
other challenge that may arise.

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about attracting women and keeping them attracted.

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your life handled changes the way you view
EVERYTHING else. 

This is because as men, we really are motivated
mostly by our desire to get women, even when we
are with one woman and truly happy and content
with one woman, there is something powerful
about knowing you can get women, and it even
turns on the woman you are WITH.

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One final comment here- I would love to answer
all your questions PERSONALLY in FULL DETAIL. 

In order to make this something that I can actually
do, I have set up a CONSULTATION service.

It is the only way, otherwise I could spend
all week on emails and not even scratch
the surface.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Most POWERFUL Thing You Can Do To Attract Women

There are a ton of things I want to share with
you today, but due to a lack of time I’m going
to focus on one SUPER important thing today
regarding attracting women.

Without exaggerating, I honestly think this
is the absolute most important newsletter 
on this topic that I have ever written, even
though it’s going to be pretty quick.

Here it is:

If you want to get super-hot women to be
CRAZY attracted to you, if you want to have
that feeling of knowing that your super-hot
girlfriend can’t WAIT to get naked with you,
and if you want to be able to have TONS of
choices with attractive women, or if you want
to KNOW that these women are DESPERATELY
IN LOVE with you, then you must actually BLOW
APART YOUR NEED FOR LOVE, APPROVAL,
ASSURANCE, AND SECURITY.

And you must do this NOT from a place of ANGER,
or SADNESS, or BITTERNESS, but rather from
a place of DETERMINATION and WISDOM and
UNDERSTANDING.

You see, the problem is that a lot of men mistake
the word 'love' for 'unselfish love'.

The truth is that pretty much ALL love is selfish,
and that is not a bad thing, it just is what it is.

When a mother CARES for her child, and tries
to make the child feel good, on a subconscious
level, she knows this is GOOD for the child,
and will improve that child’s chance at survival.

The child will carry her DNA and hopefully
REPRODUCE to carry ON her DNA.

But when a woman is looking at the MAN
she will REPRODUCE WITH, she is hoping
that all that work this man’s mother did has
paid off into making him at THIS point in
his life a MAN who NO LONGER needs
“mothering”.

But a lot of men kind of are hoping that the
WOMAN in their romantic life will give them
the SAME TYPE of warmth, dedication, and
CARING that their mom did.

Now, here’s the crazy part: IF a woman senses
that you INDEED really ARE “THE MAN”
then this STRIKES the very CORE of her
sexuality, it truly makes her WEAK with
ATTRACTION for you.

And now that she is ATTRACTED, guess what?
NOW she wants to MOTHER you, she wants
to do ANYTHING to make sure you are
absolutely, totally, completely HAPPY with
her, satisfied with her, and THINKING about
her.

She’ll now do things that are almost IRRATIONAL
in terms of LOVE, of GIVING, of SACRIFICING
herself in order to make you HAPPY.

She might even make a lot of MOTHERS look like
NOTHING compared to the intensity of sacrifice
and effort she will make to MAKE SURE YOU
ARE HAPPY.       

However, unlike a typical mother, if you SCREW UP
on being a MAN, you are TOTALLY SCREWED
in the sense she will pull a 180, she will totally
LOSE attraction and do almost ANYTHING to
get AWAY.  All those words of LOVE and
commitment she may have said will be
VAPORIZED in a NANO-SECOND and she
will likely DENY she ever even SAID those
words, and it’s even POSSIBLE that she may
very well BELIEVE that there is no WAY
she could have EVER really fallen for you,
that somehow this just was a big mistake
where she got fooled or something.

So REMEMBER- if you WANT the love,
if you WANT the attraction, if you WANT
that hot woman to be CRAZY for you, then
you must beat the SH*! out of the part of yourself
that thinks it NEEDS this kind of ‘love’ from
a female that you plan on mating with.

ONLY then, ironically, will the love flow,
her sexy legs spread, and her devotion show.

I say this NOT to be crass, but to be HONEST
about a topic that is so important and yet so
ignored.

It is so vital to also realize that none of this
makes women crazy. It ACTUALLY makes
women very NORMAL because THIS way
they can feel a lot more secure that the
CHILDREN they produce with you are
likely to be SURVIVORS and WINNERS
in the sense of making it in the evolutionary
chain of generations, and of making it in
a form of “dna” genetic immortality that
can carry on and on.

So, what this means, is that women a woman
who is HOT is not giving you love, this is
the PERFECT TIME to show that you are
THE MAN even MORE.

But what do most men do?
They either crumble with their head between
their legs, or they try beg the woman to be
“nicer” as if their emotions depended on
the approval of these women.

And yet, doing this only FURTHER cements
women’s feeling that CLEARLY this guy  
is NOT the guy who they should be mating
with.

And again, this is not something that women
CONSCIOUSLY do.  I’m just telling you that
this is the EVOLUTIONARY HARD WIRING
for the REASON they feel this way, i.e. feeling
REPULSED even if the women don’t know
exactly WHY they feel repulsed by it.
And also, women don’t KNOW they are even
being repulsed by the specific BEHAVIOR,
they just feel an AVERSION to the MAN
that behaves this way. 

This all makes sense once you understand that
EMOTIONS were DESIGNED to ensure humans
(or animals) take the right ACTIONS immediately.

When a woman feels the EMOTIONS of being
REPULSED, she is sure to NOT waste any time
even THINKING about whether she should or
should not be with that guy. 

Her emotions just TOTALLY DRIVE HER TO
GET AWAY FROM THAT GUY IMMEDIATELY.

And, the opposite is ALSO true:
Show the RIGHT behaviors, and her EMOTIONS
kick in to WANT that man no matter what ELSE
is going on.

So the next time you see a hot, leggy, gorgeous-faced
woman in clothes that reveal just the right amount of
sexy, remember what ATTRACTS HER and what turns her
OFF. 

This isn’t about what you would LIKE.
You might LIKE for her to be really soft and nice
and treat you with kid-gloves and assure you that
everything is going to be great, and that she likes
you, etc, etc, etc.

But that is not the way it works.
And deep down, that is not really the
MAIN thing you want.

It’s about what you really WANT:
You really want her because she is a WOMAN,
and an attractive one at that.  In other words, this
is a PHYSICAL thing, it really is all about the
MATING, whether you are conscious of it at
that second or not.

And if you WANT that sexiness to be all YOURS,
then you better MAN UP instead of hoping to be
treated like a nice little boy is treated by his mom.

That means if you approach a woman, let's say
at a bookstore, and you open up a conversation
with her, and she's NOT showing lots of excitement
or doing cartwheels right off the bat, you should
NOT run away.

In fact, her brain may very well be GOING INTO
HIGH GEAR knowing that this might be a situation
leading to the most wild and satisfying and
wonderful experience of her life.

OR it might be another time she is meeting just
another scared little BOY.

You have to understand that this is what is going
on in her mind, but she is not going to tell you
all this.

Remember, as a woman, all she has to say is YES
and most men would LOVE to jump in the sack with
her IMMEDIATELY.

She is not an idiot. She knows what is going on.
She needs to see if you are THE MAN for her.

If you run for the hills before she has even
had a chance to see if you are up for the task,
then she thinks you are NOT the MAN.   

And if she does something like TEASE you for
CHATTING TO HER, this is FANTASTIC news,
because it means she is interested enough
to TEST your response to her, and your response
counts 'A PLENTY', as they say.

The way you respond to her SHOWS HER what kind
of man you are.  It almost does not even matter
what she says, what matters is what YOU say in
response to convey the STRENGTH of your CHARACTER.
   
So if she says 'You know, this has happened twice
to me today', most guys will get freaked out, thinking
'Oh damn, this woman gets hit on so much and now she
is thinking I am just another one of those guys, there
is no WAY I am going to get her number and end up in
bed with her'.

And yet THIS FEAR AND THIS ATTITUDE is exactly what
SELF-DEFEATS MOST MEN!

So most men will reply with something like
'Really? Oh man, well I'm sorry, I just was
making conversation' if they even say anything
besides sorry.

Meanwhile, the MAN would say something like
'Really? Man, those guys must have been feeling
sorry for you'.  And the MAN would say this with
a SMIRK.

And if she said something back like:
'Excuse me, sorry for me?'

The MAN would respond with, 'You're excused, but
do not do it again'.

With every passing SECOND, the MAN is now
making this woman get WETTER AND WETTER,
and all she is hoping for is that this
guy is for REAL and not going to suddenly
turn out to be a little scared boy later
on.

When you behave this way, and show that you
are POWERFUL and FUN and NOT NEEDY, and
emotionally independent, she starts to
get overwhelmed in that way that only
be called the most glorious seduced
feeling in the world.

She can feel herself falling, she WANTS
this feeling, it is SO RARE for her to
MEET the man that GETS ALL OF THIS.

You are THE MAN, and it is ONLY the MAN
who will attract the SEXUAL element in a
WOMAN.

Do anything else, and it’s ‘JUST FRIENDS’ at best.
In fact, getting a woman attracted has almost
nothing to do with her being your FRIEND.

When a woman is ATTRACTED to you, she does good
things for you not because she wants your friendship,
it's because she wants to POSSESS YOU. 

And I say that in a GOOD way.  She wants you so bad,
that she can't WAIT to surrender her body to you
again and again and again.  She wants to rock your
world in the bedroom, she can't stop thinking
about you. And she wants YOU to be thinking about
HER.

She will go to the ends of the Earth to try to
get you to think about HER, to spend time with
HER.

That is not friendship, that is PRIMAL ATTRACTION.      
She couldn't really care less about Facebooking
your or sharing coffee or tea. She wants you
in a far more compelling way.

This is one of the reasons my first book,
The Dating Wizard, hammers home the
point on BEING THE MAN.

You must BE the man even when she insists she
doesn't WANT you to be the man, because it is
THE MAN that she wants!  As long as you are
the MAN, she is having wild fantasies that
keep her wet all the time, even if she is
arguing with you sometimes about wanting you
to be LESS of the man.

But when you are NOT being the man, and
becoming all soft and needy and insecure
and weak, suddenly she 'needs more space'
and more 'time to discover herself', etc,
etc, etc. 

Now, here’s the thing thing though:
It’s not as SIMPLE as ONLY being the MAN.

Being the man IS SUPER IMPORTANT.
It is the FOUNDATION.

But when picking up women, if you don’t ALSO
understand that female culture has evolved in
a way where women feel the need to show they
are NOT easy, you will also make no progress. 

Women have evolved this way because men
tend to NOT want promiscuous women to be
the mothers of their children.

So, one ON hand, being a MAN is the key
to attracting women.

On the other hand, if you are too overtly sexual
in your pick-up, if you are too aggressive, you
TRIGGER her ANTI-SLUT DEFENSE SHIELD.

This invisible shield is something she uses to
metaphorically BLOCK you from making
any progress with her in order for her to
PROVE to you that she is not a slut.

She wants to show that being AGGRESSIVE
is not very IMPRESSIVE to her, because LOTS
of guys suddenly get aggressive when they want
something, i.e. wanting HER. 

If she were to give sex to every guy who showed
a little bit of DESIRE to her, even if it is MANLY
desire expressed without apology, she would spend
her entire life on her back.

And THIS is just one area where having the right
COACH, having the right TRAINING, becomes
ESSENTIAL.

Picking up women, and KEEPING women attracted
long term, requires UNDERSTANDING and SKILL.

Let’s face it, if there’s ONE area that men have
competed against other men in since the beginning
of human history, it’s in the area of attracting
WOMEN.

There is no FINER or more WORTHY area of
getting the UTMOST skill and MASTERY in,
than the area of how to attract women.

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This way, if you decide to enter into a relationship,
or marriage, or if you decide to spend more time
on a particular woman, it will ONLY be because
you actually KNOW she is THE BEST CHOICE,
and NOT because you felt insecure that you
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Insecure relationships are usually DOOMED
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the other person and stir resentments as well
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Till next time,

Michael Marks